Sermon
The Heart of Marriage
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Transcript
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All right.
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We're working through Mark's Gospel and today as you saw in Mark 10, it's a passage about
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divorce and marriage.
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Marriage and divorce are controversial subjects, yeah, in our day and they were controversial
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we see in Jesus's day.
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There's a controversy here.
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There's a big claim that Jesus is making, which is really the center of this passage.
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And he's really just simply saying the Bible, God gets to say what marriage is and what
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marriage is for.
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And so some of you today are married.
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Some of you today are not married.
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No matter where you are in life, whether you're married or not married, whether you want to
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be married or you don't, it's very helpful to think about the meaning of marriage because
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the Bible actually makes this enormous claim that the meaning of marriage is also the meaning
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of world history.
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And so it's really important to think about it no matter what your relationship status
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is at the moment in life.
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So let's think about it together.
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We're going to look at the problem with marriage and then the heart of marriage and then lastly
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the power we need for it.
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So the problem with it, the heart of it and the power we need to sustain good marriage.
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So first, the problem with marriage.
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Now let me just say what the problem is up front.
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It's right here in the Pharisees question, but the problem is this for them and for us.
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The problem is that we approach marriage as human beings with a posture of self-interest
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and self-centeredness.
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That's the problem, self-centeredness.
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And that's both instinctive to humanity and it's also something that we're taught by the
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culture all around us.
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Now that's what happens right here in this passage.
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You can see in verse one and two, Jesus is in the region of Judea, beyond the Jordan,
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and he's teaching and it says it was as custom to preach.
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But Mark doesn't give us a single word at all about what Jesus was preaching about.
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Mark takes us straight to the Q and A time.
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So Mark likes the Q and A and he takes us straight to the Q and A and at the beginning
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of the Q and A, the Pharisees come up with the first question and the first question
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they ask is, is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?
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They say that they're in verse two.
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Now there is an implication in this question.
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There's a lot of background to this question.
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There's a reason why they're the first one to lift their hands in the Q and A and ask
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this question.
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And it's because in the first century, there was an oral tradition that had developed and
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that oral tradition would later be written down in a book called the Mishnah.
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The Mishnah is a book that catalogs Jewish oral teaching from the time and the Mishnah
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has a lot of text about divorce.
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And in it, there was a rabbi named Hillel who said the only time you can get a divorce
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is if he said a woman commits adultery.
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And then there was another rabbi, Rabbi Hillel who said, sorry, the first one was Shamiah.
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The second one, Rabbi Hillel says that you can get a divorce if your wife spoils a dish.
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So he says if your wife cooks a bad meal, they read this very seriously, that is grounds
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for divorce.
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All right.
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Thirdly, Rabbi Akiba says you can get a divorce if you find another fairer than she.
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That's what the Mishnah says.
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Okay, so there was a right, a left and even further left on this.
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There was one who said only adultery, one who said, well, a burnt dinner.
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And then there was one who said, just if you just want to get out and pursue somebody else,
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then that's fairer game.
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Now you see the implication and the question.
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We have a parallel passage in Matthew 19 verse three, and they say it like this, is it lawful
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to get a divorce for any reason at all?
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That's what they're asking.
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It's not just, does Moses, does the law allow for divorce?
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They're saying, can we get a divorce for any reason whatsoever, including a burnt dinner?
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That's the actual implication of the question.
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Now you may notice that this is entirely from the perspective of men.
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That's the way they frame it.
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That's the way the rabbis had talked about it.
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It's a culture where women depended on men almost exclusively for their livelihood.
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And the Pharisees, some of the Pharisees at least are asking this because they want to
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guarantee that men can do what they want.
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Men can get out if they want to get out, and they can live the way they want and do what
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they want.
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And they're looking for the Bible and for this rabbi Jesus to justify that picture.
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You see?
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So it's a test.
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It's not only a test, it's also a trap.
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Here's the trap.
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This is the region of King Herod.
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And if you were with us last semester, you'll remember that Herod had gotten a divorce and
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he had married his brother's wife Herodius, and it was a big mess.
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And part of that mess was that Herod had had his brother killed to ensure that this divorce
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worked out and had married, and he had divorced his own wife and then married Herodius.
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And now you'll remember that what happened was John the Baptist protested, and he got
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his head cut off for that.
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And so here's the trap.
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They're in the region of Herod.
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And the Pharisees are doing...
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This is a two birds, one stone situation.
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Can we get Jesus to justify divorce no matter what so the men of our city can be free to
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do whatever they want?
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On the one hand.
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On the other hand, maybe if he goes the other way, Herod is going to chop his head off too.
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So it's a trap.
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It's a test and a trap.
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The problem underneath the question is that what Jesus does with us is he shows that this
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is not about divorce at all.
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The real issue is that the Pharisees do not understand the nature of marriage.
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That's what they've missed.
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They've come and they've asked the wrong question.
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They started the wrong way.
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They don't understand the nature of marriage.
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What marriage is for?
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And you can see that because in the first century, the way they think about marriage
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is that marriage exists for benefits, particularly in their mind, benefits for the men.
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So they're thinking of marriage as a relationship in which you can extend your family lineage,
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have sons and daughters, but particularly they desire sons to carry on the name.
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And they want marriage to improve their station in life.
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And once you get those things, or if you don't get those things, you need to ensure that
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you're able to walk.
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And so they have an economic market mindset for how marriage works.
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I come to get, not to give.
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I come to get the benefits from this person.
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And if they don't provide them for me, I'll go.
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Now we look at that especially because it's so male-centric, their perspective, and we
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say, wow, how terrible.
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And let me ask you, modern person, what has changed?
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What has changed?
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The modern world, the city of Edinburgh and the culture all around us says almost, almost
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the exact same thing about marriage.
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There are really two views of marriage in the modern West.
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One is the idealist pessimist view.
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And in the idealist pessimist view, it says, you know, if I'm going to get married, it's
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only because I fell in love.
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I found my soulmate.
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I found the one, the one person.
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And, you know, that's the idealism of it.
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I fell in love.
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You know, I fell in love like I fell in a hole.
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And the pessimist side of it is, but I also know that probably in three to four years,
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I'm going to fall out of love.
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And when that happens, I need to be able to know that both parties, we get until we don't.
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And when we don't get any more, we can move on.
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That's the idealist pessimist view.
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It's the soulmate view.
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The idealist is Disney-fied, and yet at the same time, it's incredibly pessimistic because
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it knows that eventually you're going to fall out of love as well.
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And they're right about that.
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The second view is the less idealist, but more practical benefit approach.
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This is the one that's a tale, the tale is all this time, same as the Pharisees.
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I come to marriage to get benefits, improvements to my life.
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And so it says, you know, here's the extreme view.
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Marry, you know, marry somebody that's 99 years old with millions of pounds.
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That's the extreme version of it.
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But it's just an extreme version of the same view that says, I'm looking for somebody in
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life that benefits me.
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You know, I'm looking for somebody in life that improves my station.
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So this person raises my economic profile.
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They're probably going to make a lot of money.
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This person brings me into a new circle of friendship.
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I can expand my relational capital with this person that I'm pursuing.
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This person provides sexual fulfillment.
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And that's why I want to get married.
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You know, it's a marketplace mentality that says, I'm looking for a spouse because I'm
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looking for these certain benefits.
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And so I go to the marketplace and I treat it like a market.
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And I say, I'm looking for a good person with good prospects, with good looks that can make
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me happy, self-actualization.
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Now that means that the essence of marriage in the Pharisees' mind and the essence of
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marriage in the modern mind is very, very similar.
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And that's that basically marriage is just a contract.
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It's a contract.
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It's the same kind of contract that you have in any marketplace exchange.
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And in a contract, it's two parties and they come and it's a negotiation.
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And they say, you know, if you can give me what I want at the right price, then I'm in.
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And if there comes a time where I can't get what I need from you and want from you, the
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price isn't right anymore than the contract's ripped apart.
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It's broken.
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Right?
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That's the modern view of marriage and it's actually the ancient view of marriage.
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And that tells us that it's not only our culture that teaches us that, though it's worse than
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ever, but it's just human instinct.
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You see, the great problem of marriage is self-centeredness.
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And it's approaching marriage with a self-centered view that I'm here to get, not to give.
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It's a contract mentality and it's been around forever.
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It's been around as long as sin since Genesis 3.
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Right?
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And it's right here.
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You can take it even a step further.
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People will say, you know, it's not just a pre-nump mentality and economic mentality.
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It's the mentality, why get married at all in the modern world?
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Why do I need a piece of paper to say to somebody, I love you?
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Right?
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That's the mentality.
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In other words, you know, exactly.
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We can have mutual benefits.
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We can share.
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We can be in love.
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And then when we fall out of love, why complicate it and make it even harder with the legal
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piece of paper?
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Right?
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It's a market mentality and economic mentality.
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Now what Jesus is going to do here is say that you Pharisees, you human, you miss the
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beauty of marriage in the question because you miss the difficulty and the pain of marriage.
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In other words, when you look across the Bible at what marriage is, you learn that ever since
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sin entered the world that marriage exists in some sense to break you, to break you.
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Not to fulfill all your greatest dreams, but actually to break you down in a way.
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And what I mean by that is that marriage is so much more glorious than the Pharisees and
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the modern mind wants to admit because of how difficult it really is.
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And the idea in the Bible is that marriage is not meant to primarily lift up your circumstances
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to make you temporarily happy, but to show you self-centeredness in order to make you
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godly, that you could have the possibility in such a deep relationship that you would
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be cut to the heart of your self-centeredness so that you could become holy, so that you
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could become godly.
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See, it's completely flipped on its head.
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That's the actual beauty of marriage.
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Now if you've been married for any amount of time, you know that this has got to be
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the heart of it because three months in after the honeymoon, you're standing in the kitchen
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and you realize that you've argued about the same thing every single week over the first
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three months of your marriage.
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And then in 10 years, you're standing in the kitchen and you realize you've argued about
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the same thing every single month for the last 10 years of your marriage.
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And in the first three months, you've looked at your spouse and you said, you know, you're
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selfish.
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And your spouse looked at you and said, you're selfish.
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And he said, no, you're more selfish than me.
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And they say, no, you're more selfish than me.
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And you realize that you're both selfish, you're both self-centered, and it keeps happening
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over and over and over again.
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And in the midst of those arguments, in the midst of those depths, the beauty of marriage
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is meant to say, don't you see that this exists to expose?
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It exists to change you.
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It exists to make you great in a way you might could have never been.
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You could have never seen who you really were deep down in your heart, your self-centeredness.
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You see, the great enemy of marriage is self-centeredness, but the path to becoming a true, the path
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to putting on the character of true godliness is cutting right through that self-centeredness.
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And marriage can really do that.
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It can really help with that.
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Now Jesus here, and we'll move on, shows this.
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He cuts through the trap by pointing out to them the law.
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He knows that they're thinking about the law.
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And so he takes them straight to Deuteronomy 24.
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In Deuteronomy 24, Moses permits divorce.
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In Deuteronomy 24, he says divorce is permitted on the grounds of adultery.
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Christians have looked across the Bible for centuries and said that the Bible permits
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divorce and sometimes divorce is necessary on the grounds of adultery, abandonment, and
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abuse.
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And each situation has to be really carefully thought about and discerned.
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But he goes to the law and he says, what did Moses say?
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He says, okay, you've read the law.
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Why are you asking me this question?
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In other words, he's trying to get them to see that they've come to him and asked him
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the wrong question exactly.
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The first question they came to ask is, how can I get out of marriage?
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How can I end this thing as fast as possible if I want to?
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And he goes to the law to say first, you already know the conditions of divorce, but that's
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not why you're asking it.
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You see?
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One commentator says, it's a bit like saying, I want to learn to fly a plane.
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And starting out with the instructor and say, okay, first teach me the best way to crash.
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What's the safest possible way to crash this thing?
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That's question number one.
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That's the wrong approach.
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That's the wrong approach.
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That's exactly the opposite.
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And he said, that's what you've done.
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You've come to me and asked, how can I get out of this as fast as possible?
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And instead, you should have come to me and said, what is marriage?
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What is it for?
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And so he takes them point to away from the law.
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He takes them away from the law and he takes them straight back to Genesis chapter one
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and two.
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So you see that verse five, he says, Moses allowed divorce because of your hardness of
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heart.
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Sometimes divorce is necessary, but then he says, but from the beginning of creation.
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So he says, actually, if you want to know what marriage is, you've got to get out of
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the Torah, the law, and step back before the law and look at Genesis chapter one and two.
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And so that's what he does.
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And he gives us three very brief things that marriage is, what it's for.
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And you can see it first in verse six.
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He says here in verse six, first, marriage is from the beginning.
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Just from the beginning, meaning marriage is a pre-sin, pre-fall, pre-evil institution
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that God created, not man, not humanity.
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So in other words, he's trying to say, look, modern person, marriage is not something that
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a bunch of Neanderthals in a cave came up with and said, you know, how can we advance
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society?
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Well, why don't we create this monogamous union?
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No, no.
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Marriage exists because God made it.
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So that's the first thing he says.
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It's from the beginning.
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And that means that God gets to define it.
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It's no mere custom.
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It's no mere culture.
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It's something that's given prior to all sin, meaning God gets the prerogative and getting
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to say what it is.
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That's the first thing he does.
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The second thing he does is he moves from there in Sezem verse six.
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It's from the beginning and, quote, God made them male and female.
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That's the second thing he takes from Genesis two.
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In other words, he's saying marriage is for men and women.
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Now marriage is for a man and a woman.
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Now obviously, that's very important to say in our time that God made marriage for a
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man and a woman.
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But why does Jesus say it in Mark 10?
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Because he was actually responding to a different problem.
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He was responding to the problem of the Pharisees perspective, which was a completely male-dominated
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perspective.
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That's the way they treated it.
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And one scholar says it like this, that when Jesus says, don't you remember marriage is
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for men and women, women and men?
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He's saying as a sovereign creation, woman is not man's subject, but his equal.
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He's saying you're treating marriage as if women are men's subjects.
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But he said that's not what Genesis two said.
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Don't you remember, you need to get out of the law and go back before it and remember
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how it was from the beginning.
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Marriage is meant to be for both equally.
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It's good for man and woman.
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Now here's where he brings the revolution in.
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And it's in verse seven.
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Here's the revolution to first century marriage.
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He says that means that a man and a woman are to leave their parents and hold fast to
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one another, unite into one another.
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Now remember what God said?
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Why did God start marriage in Genesis two?
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It said Adam, Adam, Adam was lonely.
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So one thing at the beginning of history was not good.
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All of creation was good.
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One thing was not good.
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And it was that a man, a dom, Adam should be by himself, should be alone.
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And so immediately we learned that the meaning of marriage at the very beginning was that
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Adam was lonely and so God gave him a wife.
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And that means that the great revolution of marriage, the biblical idea, is that marriage
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is meant for companionship.
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Jesus is in a society where the male dominated perspective says marriage exists to advance
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my station, to give me kids, to carry on my family name.
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And Jesus comes and says, you've forgotten Genesis two, actually marriage exists for
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friendship.
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And that's a revolutionary idea.
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He said, actually the greatest thing you can do is actually be best of friends with your
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wife, Pharisee.
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Desire deep, deep lasting companionship with your spouse.
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And so immediately, no matter what the culture says, no matter what the culture says, men
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were made for women and women were made for men for deep lasting companionship.
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So as soon as it says that Adam was lonely, we don't get a group of dudes, buddies.
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That's not what we get.
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He doesn't need his buddies, although buddies are very good.
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I love buddies.
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No, he gets her.
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He gets a wife.
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She is to be his closest friend, his closest companion.
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And so there's a revolutionary idea here that a spouse is to be your dearest friend, your
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closest companion.
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And so today we can see friendship.
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Friendship.
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Are you a Christian today looking to be married?
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Friendship with a Christian of the opposite sex is the most important condition.
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Your physical relationship, that person's looks will not sustain your marriage.
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Friendship will.
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Companionship.
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That's what marriage was made to be.
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But no matter what the culture says, men were made for women and women were made for men
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and we're not mere individuals.
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We were made for one another.
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And so if you're looking for marriage, look for a dear Christian friend of the opposite
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sex.
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That's one of the most important conditions.
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It's not the only one, but it's one of the most important.
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Are you married today?
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Oh boy, it's hitting us all.
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It's hitting me, it's hitting us all.
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Are you cultivating deep companionship with your spouse?
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Are you pursuing deep friendship?
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Is your spouse your best friend?
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And that's where Jesus takes them all the way back to the beginning.
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The modern person says, should we get married?
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Should I get married?
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And they ask questions like, their friend asked them a question.
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Well, is there chemistry between you and this person you're pursuing?
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Is there chemistry?
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Is there magnetism?
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Is this the person that you think you're falling in love with?
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Is this really the one?
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And the big miss on that is that what's happening there is you're not actually falling in love,
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you're falling into like.
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And one day you're going to say, I fell out of love, but actually just fell out of like.
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You like the person, you don't love the person.
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That's what's actually happening in the beginning of a relationship.
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And what you realize then later is that the biblical idea is that love is not first a feeling.
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Love is not a feeling.
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So feelings of love will not sustain a marriage.
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And you realize very quickly in the marriage that you had fallen into like with this person,
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but you're just now learning to love this person.
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I had a dear friend when I was in seminary who was 10, 15 years older than me that had
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been married for a long time say that 10 years in, he had just started to learn to love his
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spouse truly, deeply.
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And he said, and they both felt that way.
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And that's the truth.
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You see, real love, the feelings of love actually follow the choice of love.
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When you've chosen to love, feelings come after that.
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And Jesus flips everything on its head.
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It's not about how you feel.
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It's about deep lasting friendship and companionship.
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That's more fundamental.
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Now the third thing, the last thing here that he teaches us, he says again, verse seven,
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the two shall become one flesh.
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You shall leave your father and mother and you'll cling to your spouse, leave and cleave.
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That's the old way to say it.
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You've got to leave your parents, cleave, unite to your spouse.
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And so what he's saying there lastly is that marriage is a covenant.
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The essence of marriage is not a contract.
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It's not a negotiation for mutual benefit until it doesn't work anymore, but a covenant.
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And in a covenant, a covenant is just this, a promise.
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A covenant is a promise to pursue your spouse in self-sacrifice.
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That's the nature of the marriage covenant, to pursue your spouse in the nature according
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to self-sacrifice, not self-centeredness.
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It's to say, I'm here for mutual submission in order to give before I get, to give away
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before I get something back.
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And that means simply Christian marriage.
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Anybody can have a great marriage, Christian or not, but a Christian marriage can be truly
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great.
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A Christian marriage can be truly great because in a Christian marriage, you can realize that
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the great purpose of marriage in covenant is to pursue your spouse through self-sacrifice
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until they reach the final perfection of godliness in the glorification of their death.
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Real marriage is to pursue the holiness of your spouse until they leave this world.
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Christianity tells you actually the meaning of marriage all the way to the bottom.
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When you get that, when we get that, the moments in our marriages where we finally awaken to
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that or come back to that, there's something really beautiful that starts to take place,
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mutual self-sacrifice, mutual giving instead of getting.
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And in that, what you get is your self-centeredness broken and real holiness starting to grow
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up in the midst of it.
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Now, let me move on to the final point, but let me say before that the idea then to say
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in the modern world, I don't need a piece of paper.
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You're considering getting married, modern person, and maybe you've had the thought,
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I don't need a piece of paper, a legal binding piece of paper to say, I love you.
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I can say I love you.
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I can be in love with you.
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We can do this without that.
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Let me say to truly say I love you, you really do need that piece of paper.
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You really do.
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And the reason is because without that piece of paper, what you're really saying is today
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I like you.
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Today I like you.
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But tomorrow I might not.
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Tomorrow you won't.
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And you see what a wedding vow does?
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A wedding vow is not a promise.
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Is not a promise of present love or present like.
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Not at all.
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You know, when a couple is standing up for their wedding and they make those vows to
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one another, everybody in the room knows they love each other right now.
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They like each other right now.
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They're enmeshed with one another today.
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But what do the vows say?
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The vows say in plenty, today is plenty, but in want tomorrow.
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In health, today we're healthy, but when sickness comes.
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Today I don't see your self-centeredness and you don't see mine.
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But it's coming.
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It's coming.
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It's going to get exposed.
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You see, the vow, the marriage vow is not the promise of present love.
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It's the promise.
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It's the covenant of future love.
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And future love says, and I'm here today to say that I will be with you and for you and
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give myself away to you, even in the most trying of times, even in the days we don't
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like each other very much.
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I will love you anyway.
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I'll commit to you.
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That's why that piece of paper, marriage, is so different than mere relationship.
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Now thirdly and finally, how can you get the power for it?
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Oh, oh boy.
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Where, where are we going to get the strength?
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Where do we get the power for this?
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At the very end of this passage, verses 13 to 16, there's this second little story about
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the children coming to Jesus.
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You get married and often children can follow that.
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And here we have a passage about marriage and then a story about children.
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So first marriage, they come to Jesus, talk about marriage, then they come to Jesus with
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the kids, with the children.
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It's very interesting how Mark set that up.
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And that, I think that that means that reading a little bit about children here can help
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you think about the power you need for marriage.
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And so this is very famous.
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We can only spend a couple minutes on it.
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But the children come to Jesus and the disciples shoe them away.
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The Pharisees completely misunderstand the meaning of marriage.
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The disciples completely misunderstand the meaning of children.
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They say, get the children out of here.
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They're not important enough.
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And you see it's the same mindset.
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In the first century, children exist to work the farm.
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Children exist to be tolerated until adulthood.
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Children exist to carry on the family lineage.
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That's the mistake of the ancient mind.
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We have our own mistakes too.
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But that's the mistake of the ancient mind.
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It's the same thing.
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Marriage exists for my benefits.
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Children exist for my benefits.
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That was the mind of the disciples.
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And so they say, they're not important enough yet to come to Jesus.
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And Jesus says, no, no, no, no, let the children come to me.
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And actually you need to take on the posture of these children if you're going to really
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understand the kingdom.
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Now people have come to that and said, well, what does he mean?
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What is this childlike faith?
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Is it just dependence?
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Is it running to dad, mom and dad to ask for anything?
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And actually he uses a word here for babies and toddlers, not for older children.
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The word he uses.
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And that means that he's probably saying something more like, you need the condition
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of helplessness.
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If you're going to truly come and see the power you need to enter the kingdom, the power
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you need for a great marriage.
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And you see what he's saying, something like this.
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If we were to put the passages together, marriage drives you over and over and over again to
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say, I am helpless to do anything about my self-sitterness.
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And if marriage does anything, it does that.
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You keep coming back to the same problems you struggle with and you say, I am helpless.
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I can't break through my self-sitterness.
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And this relationship with this person is exposing that over and over and over again.
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Where are you going to get the power?
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Where are you going to get the power to cut through that?
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You need to see your helplessness and run to the lap, the arms of Jesus Christ.
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The power to sustain a great marriage is to run back again and again and again to Jesus
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Christ into his arms like a helpless child.
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Now let me close with this final comment.
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Remember the very first marriage, Genesis chapter 2, Adam married Eve.
Genesis 2 chapter mention
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Adam had been told, Adam had been told, don't eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and
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evil.
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And remember in Genesis 3 that his wife Eve reached out and she ate.
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And Genesis 3 says, and he, Adam, was, quote, with her.
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He watched.
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He was next to her.
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He was the one who had received the instruction, do not eat.
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She ate, but the text gives you a subtle notice.
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Adam watched it happen and he let it happen.
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He was the one that heard the instruction, don't eat.
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He was the one that let her eat when she had not heard the instruction.
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That's the subtle message of the text.
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You see this husband, this great groom, the first groom, he let his wife fall.
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And as soon as God entered the Garden of Eden in cosmic justice to say, now you deserve
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death, you deserve to be kicked out of the Garden of Eden and you're about to be, what
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did he do?
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The very next word he speaks, she did it.
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Don't blame me though the text is blaming him.
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He was with her and the very next thing he does is says, the groom says, it's my wife's
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fault.
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Have you done that?
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Have you done that to your spouse?
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That's what happened in the very first marriage at the beginning of history.
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He knew he was wrong and he blamed her.
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Now there is a thread that runs through the whole Bible and it's a question.
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What should a great groom do for his bride?
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You know, what should a great groom, if Adam was really awake and he knew that the greatest
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cost of sin was to be kicked out of the presence of God, was to be separated from the maker,
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was to be inflicted with death.
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And that's what they were experiencing.
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They were hiding behind that rock saying he did it, she did it because they were so afraid
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of the consequences.
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What would a great groom do?
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He would say in the midst of the face of death and cosmic injustice, don't send her away.
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Take me, punish me.
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I was with her, I let it happen.
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I mistreated her in this.
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He would say take my life and let hers be.
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That's what a great groom would do.
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What if?
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That's the question of the whole Bible.
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What would it look like to have a groom that would come and stand in the place of sin and
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death for us?
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And let me tell you, what if there was a second Adam?
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What if there was a better husband?
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A better husband who was cosmically coming for all of history to save his ultimate bride.
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No matter what she had done, men and women, that's you, you're the bride.
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There is, he has.
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Jesus Christ, Ephesians 5, he is the meaning of marriage.
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He came to show you what marriage is for.
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And in Ephesians 5 it says, husband and wife submit to one another as Christ came.
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As Christ came.
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He says the power for your marriage is actually to look and see that you have the groom that
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Adam never was, who gave himself, the groom, the spouse that you can never be.
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And in that you can see you're forgiven for all your self-centeredness and you have the
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power to look at the cross over and over and over again and find the promise of a great
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relationship.
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Jesus Christ, the great groom, he's the real power to sustain true marriage.
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Let's pray.
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Father, we give thanks for the beauty of the gospel built right into the heart of the marriage
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story.
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And so we pray today for anybody who wants to be married and is not, who is looking at
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marriage, who is married or who's struggling in marriage.
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And in all these situations, Lord, we ask that you would come and you would speak, that
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you would teach us what it means ultimately, no matter what our situation is, even after
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marriage perhaps, that no matter what, we have the possibility of the ultimate marriage
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in you.
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So help us today to believe that gospel, that good news, that no matter what happens in
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our marriages, no matter what happens, Jesus, you offer us in the cross the possibility of
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eternal marriage, the church and the great groom.
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So help us to believe that today, Lord, above all things.
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And we pray this in Jesus' name.
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Amen.