Sermon
Becoming like Jesus, by the Mercy of God
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Transcript
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The scripture reading comes from Romans chapter 12.
Romans 12 chapter mention
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Please follow along on the screen, the bulletin, or your own Bible.
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Starting in verse 1, we read,
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I appeal to you, therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God,
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to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God,
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which is your spiritual worship.
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Do not be conformed to this world.
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But be transformed by the renewal of your mind,
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that by testing you may discern what is the will of God,
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what is good and acceptable and perfect.
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This is the word of God.
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Great. Thank you so much, Janet.
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Well, once again, good morning.
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It is wonderful to be back with you again.
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And if you are new to Watermark, sorry, I didn't introduce myself earlier.
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My name is Kevin, one of the elder pastors here.
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It's great to be with you again today.
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I wonder if you have ever had a big decision to make,
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and you've been grappling with what is God's will in this decision.
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If only God could give me a sign.
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I've got two job offers on the table, A and B.
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Or maybe you've got a job offer to move overseas.
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And I just need a sign from God.
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What is God's will?
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If God will just give me a sign, I'll do it.
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That sound familiar to anyone?
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In the passage we're going to look at today,
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it's going to tell us many things.
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One of the things we're going to find out is why God so often
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doesn't give us the signs that we want
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and doesn't tell us what to do in moments like that.
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First, we're working through one chapter of the Bible at the moment,
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Romans chapter 12.
Romans 12 chapter mention
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Recently we preached through the book of Daniel,
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and each Sunday we looked at these long chapters.
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Well, at the moment we're spending six weeks on this one chapter, Romans 12,
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a couple of verses at a time.
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Today we're just looking at one verse.
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And the reason is because Romans chapter 12 is one of the best chapters in the Bible
Romans 12 chapter mention
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to describe and explain what the gospel-centered life is all about and looks like.
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If you've been at Watermark for a little while,
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you would have heard this phrase, gospel-centered or gospel-shaped life.
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But what does that actually mean?
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Well, what it means is that the incredibly wonderful good news of the gospel,
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that though the world was fallen and cut off from God,
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God in His abundant mercy and grace,
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because of His profound love for the world,
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has made a way to reconcile and to redeem the world
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by sending His Son Jesus to die on the cross for us.
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So that sinners and sufferers like us,
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who put our faith in Christ,
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can be reconciled, can be redeemed, can be restored.
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But the gospel actually has a storyline that has a shape to it.
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Remember Philippians chapter 2 talks about how Jesus laid aside His glory,
Philippians 2 chapter mention
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took on the nature of a servant,
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humbled Himself to the cross before He was exalted to glory.
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And so the gospel, something we're discovering,
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is not just a portion of the story Bible,
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it is the story Bible.
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The gospel is not just a way into the entrance into Christianity,
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it is the Christian life.
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And so the gospel shaped life is the life where every area of our life,
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from our money to our sexuality to marriage to parenting,
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work success and work failure,
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COVID and cancer, political unrest,
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every area of life is shaped and informed by the shape of the gospel.
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And Romans chapter 12 is one of the best chapters in the Bible
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to explain that and to describe that and to show what that looks like.
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And so we're spending six weeks in this chapter.
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And so Romans chapter 12 starts off like this,
Romans 12 chapter mention
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by the mercies of God.
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In view of God's incredible mercies,
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this is how you are to live your life.
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And last week Chris showed us that in view of God's mercy,
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one of the things that God calls us to is,
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the way that we don't waste our lives,
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is by bringing our whole lives,
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all that we are,
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all that we have,
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all that we do.
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And so here it is,
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God,
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you are God and I am not,
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you are glorious.
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I am not,
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you are infinite.
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Here's my life.
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Take it and have your way.
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Now,
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today,
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we're going to look at the second part of that verse two,
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and continue to look at what is this gospel shaped life all about.
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And so Paul continues with Romans chapter 12 verse two.
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What does it look like for us in 21st century Hong Kong,
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with everything that's going on,
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what does it look like for us not to waste our lives,
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but to bring every area of our lives before God and say,
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here it is,
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have your way.
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Well,
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look at what Paul says in verse two.
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Do not be conformed to this world,
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but be transformed into the image and the likeness of Jesus.
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Okay,
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that's what he means when he says be transformed.
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And that's the big idea of this verse.
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That's the big idea of the sermon today.
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There it is.
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It's not very complicated.
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Do not be conformed to the patterns and the thinking and the ethos of this
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world,
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but be transformed into the image and the likeness of Christ Jesus.
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The life that God calls us to,
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for those of us that are Christians,
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is one that is not shaped by the worldview,
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the ethos,
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or the thinking of our culture,
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but one that is shaped and informed by the mercies of God and by the gospel into the likeness of Jesus.
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By the mercies of God,
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present your bodies as living sacrifices,
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holy and acceptable to him.
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This is your spiritual act of worship.
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Therefore,
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do not be conformed to the patterns of this world,
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but be transformed into the likeness and the image of Jesus.
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Now,
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straight away,
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we need to think about this a little bit more.
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Okay.
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There's a couple of things we need to clarify.
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The first one is this.
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It is a Christian historian by the name of Andrew Walls from Liverpool Hope University.
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He wrote a book in the 1990s called The Missionary Spirit,
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I think.
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And in it,
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he describes the difference between what he calls the indigenous principle and the pilgrim principle.
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Okay.
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And this is what he says.
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He says,
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as Christians,
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we are called to both simultaneously be both indigenous in our culture,
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to make our home in our culture and the cities in which we live,
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and at the same time,
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see ourselves as pilgrims passing through the culture.
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So remember Jeremiah 29?
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We spoke about it a few weeks ago.
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Jeremiah writes to the exiles in Babylon.
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He says,
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build houses,
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plant roots,
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make families,
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have children,
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engage in the city in which you live.
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Don't see yourselves as foreigners.
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Engage.
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Make yourself as a home there.
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But at the same time,
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there's something that the Bible calls us to,
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to be distinctive from the cities in which we live.
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To not be so engaged that there's nothing distinctive about us.
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Or in the language of Jesus in John 17,
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Jesus says,
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be in the world,
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but not of the world.
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Be engaged in the culture,
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serving the culture,
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rooted in the culture,
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loving and serving your city,
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and yet something separate or something distinctive about your engagement.
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And Paul says the same thing here.
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He says in 1 Corinthians,
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we are to become all things to all men,
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so that by all means we can win some.
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And at the same time here,
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he says,
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do not conform to the patterns of the world.
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And so there's this paradox at play in the Christian life.
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We are both indigenous in our city,
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making a home here,
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loving and serving our city,
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and yet there's something distinctive,
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something pilgrim about the way that we engage in life here.
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I think the greatest example of this is Daniel, right?
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We just spent eight weeks looking at the life of Daniel.
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He has this man who thoroughly engages in pagan Babylon,
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serving in the palace,
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serving their kings,
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really involved in serving the city of Babylon,
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and yet there's something so distinctive about him,
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that at times it almost costs him his life.
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And so when Paul says,
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do not be conformed to the patterns of this world,
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Paul is not saying,
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let's just retreat from society,
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and go build this Christian commune on Lama Island,
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and we all just live in this nice Christian bubble.
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No, no, engage in the world,
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and yet as you do so,
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be distinctive.
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Here's a second clarification.
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When Paul says,
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don't be conformed to the patterns of this world,
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but be transformed,
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he's not talking about a new moral list of behaviors,
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things to do.
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So Paul isn't saying,
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stop stealing,
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go to church.
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Stop gambling,
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read your Bible.
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Stop swearing,
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talk nicely.
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Okay?
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When Paul talks about this,
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he's not just talking about outward behavior,
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even though it will include that,
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he's talking about an inner transformation of our hearts.
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Listen to how John Piper describes this.
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He says,
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non-conformity to the world
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does not primarily mean
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the avoidance of external behaviors.
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It will include that, of course.
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But you can avoid all kinds of immoral behavior
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and still not be transformed in your hearts.
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Transformation by the mercy of God
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is not switching from the behavior of the world
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to the behavior of religion.
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The Christian alternative to immoral behavior
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is not suddenly a new list of new moral behaviors.
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It is the triumphant power
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and the transformation of the Holy Spirit
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through faith in Christ,
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by God's mercy,
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which transforms our inner being.
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Do you see what he's saying?
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When Paul describes the gospel-shaped,
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mercy-informed life
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and the transformation,
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he's not saying,
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stop that stuff
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and now do a whole lot of these things,
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A, B, C, D.
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He's saying,
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let your inner world,
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your heart,
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be transformed by who God is
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and by the grace and the mercy of God.
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And that's why when Scripture talks about
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the evidence of a transformed life,
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it's not go to church,
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put money in the offering,
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stop swearing.
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It's Jesus is this,
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by this will all men know
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that you are my disciples,
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that you have love for one another.
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Well, think of the fruit of the Spirit
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that Paul describes about.
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Unbelievable patience,
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kindness,
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faithfulness,
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tenderness,
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gentleness.
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This is the mark of the transformed life.
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Now, here's one other clarification.
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Here's a question for us.
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This radical gospel-shaped,
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mercy-empowered,
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transformed life of the heart,
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who do you think this is for?
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Is this for Christians
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or is this for non-Christians?
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Okay?
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Is this,
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is Paul talking about
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the transformation
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for those who are dead in their sin
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or those who are alive in Christ?
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Because no doubt,
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we have both with us this morning.
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Many of us here
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would be followers of Jesus.
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We've put our faith and trust in Him.
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He's changed us.
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You're born again.
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Some of us may be here this morning
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and no doubt,
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still on a spiritual journey.
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You're not yet a follower of Jesus.
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So who's Paul talking to?
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The answer is both.
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If you're here this morning
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and you're not a follower of Jesus,
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friends, can I tell you,
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the God who made you,
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who knit you together
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in your mother's womb,
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loves you infinitely more
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than you could possibly imagine
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or hope.
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But the God who made you
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and who loves you so much
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is also the God
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to whom you're one day
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going to give an account
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for the way that you've lived your life.
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Have you loved and honored Him
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or have you loved and honored yourself?
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Have you treasured and served Him
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or have you treasured and served yourself?
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Have you lived for His glory
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or have you lived for your own glory?
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This God longs to break into your life
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and to so transform your life
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to cause you to be new from the inside out.
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This God longs to transform you
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to give you a new identity
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and a new security.
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One that's not built on your performance
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or how people think about you,
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but built on the fact
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that you're a son or a daughter
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of the living God.
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And so if you're not a follower
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of Jesus this morning,
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God wants to transform you.
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But at the same time,
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for those of us
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that are followers of Jesus,
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Paul says that even the Christian life
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is not one which has merely
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put my faith in Jesus 30 years ago
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and now I just ride it out to heaven.
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The life of a follower of Jesus
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is one of constant reformation,
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transformation, and renewal.
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500 years ago,
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in the time of the Reformation,
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remember Martin Luther,
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John Calvin, Zwickley, those guys,
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they had a Latin phrase.
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It was this,
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Sempe Reformanda.
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Is that right?
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Something like that, okay?
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Do you appreciate my Latin?
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That's about as far as it goes, right?
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Sempe Reformanda.
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And what it meant is this,
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always being reformed.
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And their concern was that
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the church went through
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this massive reformation
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as it changed from Catholicism
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and honoring the Pope
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to honoring Jesus.
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But their concern was this,
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that people would think,
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oh yeah, we reformed back then
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in 1519 or 1526
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or whenever it was
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and thought that was a done deal.
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And they said,
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no, the life of a Christian
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is always being transformed
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into the newness
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and the likeness of Jesus.
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Friends, if you're a follower
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of Jesus this morning,
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Jesus looks at each one of us
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in the eye and says,
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do not conform to the patterns
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of this world,
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but be transformed
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by the renewing of your mind.
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Just this week,
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on Tuesday evening,
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Oscar and I had a really good
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heart-to-heart conversation.
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I was grappling and struggling
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with a couple of things
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and Oscar came around
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and chatted
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and we protested,
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protested, not protested,
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processed,
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some of the ministry idolatries
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in my heart.
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Some of the things that I'm grappling,
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my own insecurities,
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and my fears.
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Some of the rubbish
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that's in my heart.
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And we got to pray together
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and talk through that.
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Friends, you and I
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need the transformative work
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of the power of the Holy Spirit
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by the mercy of God
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in our hearts
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and in our lives.
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This is what God calls us to
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by His mercy.
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By the mercies of God.
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Don't be conformed
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to the patterns of this world,
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but be transformed
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into the image
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and the likeness of Jesus.
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Maybe a question
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for those of us
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that are followers of Jesus
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this morning
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to stop and think about.
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Is our inner world,
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the motivations of our hearts,
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the deepest longings and fears,
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or maybe our deepest fantasies,
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do these look like
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the inner world of Jesus Christ?
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Or are they more shaped
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by the longings,
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the desires,
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the fears,
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and the ambitions
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of our culture
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and our world around us?
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By the mercies of God,
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do not be conformed
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to the patterns of this world,
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but be transformed
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into the image
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and the likeness of Jesus.
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Okay, so that's the big idea.
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Now the question is this,
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how does that actually happen?
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How do we go about that?
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And there's lots of answers,
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but today I want to look
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at just three of them.
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And they're three things
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that all kind of happen
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simultaneously
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at the same time.
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It happens by the mercy of God,
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by the renewal of our minds,
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and thirdly,
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by seeing and savoring Jesus.
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Okay, so let's dive into that.
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Firstly,
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by the mercies of God.
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I don't know if you noticed this,
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but look at the way
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that Paul writes the sentence.
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Paul doesn't say,
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don't conform to this world,
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but transform yourself
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to look like Jesus.
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Okay, he almost says that,
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but he doesn't quite.
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He says,
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don't be conformed,
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rather,
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be transformed
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into the image
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and the likeness of Christ.
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What's Paul saying here?
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He's saying,
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this radical transformation
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that takes place
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as a result of the gospel
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is not something
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that is done by us,
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it's primarily something
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that is done to us.
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Okay,
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do you see the distinction there?
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Do not be conformed,
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but be transformed
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outside of yourself
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by the mercy
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and the grace of God.
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This is one of the key distinctions
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between the gospel
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and formal religion.
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Every religion of the world
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will tell you,
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you need to change,
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you need to transform,
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you need to improve yourself.
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I remember a few years ago,
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someone came to our community group
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and she was in the process
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of becoming a Christian
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and her friends couldn't believe
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that she'd go to a Bible study
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on a Thursday night.
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And so I said,
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what on earth are you doing
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going to a Bible study
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on a Thursday night?
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And she said to them,
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well, you know,
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kind of see it as a self-improvement project.
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She was early on
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in the process
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of understanding the gospel.
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But friends,
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that's not what the gospel is.
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The gospel is not
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a self-improvement project.
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Paul doesn't say,
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don't conform,
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but improve yourself,
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transform yourself.
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Paul says,
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by the mercies of God,
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let your own heart
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be transformed.
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Every religion will tell you,
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seek to improve yourself,
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to transform yourself,
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to fix yourself.
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Moral religion will tell us,
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see Jesus as an example
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and then sort yourself out
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until you can be like him.
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The gospel tells us
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that transformation
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is not something you achieve,
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it's a gift that you receive
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by the mercies of God.
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Transformation of our hearts
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and our minds,
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our identities
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and our joys
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is not something
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that comes from within us,
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it's something that comes
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from outside of us
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and changes us
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on the inside out.
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And so listen to how
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Paul says the same thing
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in 2 Corinthians.
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He says,
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we all,
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those of us
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that are followers of Jesus,
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beholding the glory
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of the Lord Jesus
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are being transformed
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by him
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into the image of Christ
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by one degree of glory
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to the next.
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This comes from the Lord
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who is the Spirit.
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This happens
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as we yield ourselves
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and give ourselves
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to God.
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So here is my life
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and offering of worship.
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Friends,
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every religion of the world
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will give you instructions
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how to save yourself,
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improve yourself,
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fix yourself.
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Jesus says,
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come to me
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and let me change you,
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let me transform you,
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let me fix you.
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Jesus says,
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the problem is far more fundamental
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than self-improvement.
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Jesus says,
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you need to be rescued,
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saved,
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transformed and renewed.
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And that's what
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the gospel does.
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Okay,
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so the first thing is this,
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by the mercies of God.
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Second thing is this,
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by the renewal
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of our minds.
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Now we're going to spend
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the most time on this.
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This is a little theological,
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so you're going to need
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to follow with me,
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okay?
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So,
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look at what Paul says
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in our passage here.
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He says,
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do not be conformed
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to the patterns
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of this world,
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but be transformed
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by the renewal
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of your minds.
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By the renewal
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of your minds.
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Now why does Paul say that?
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What's wrong with our minds
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that our minds
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need to be renewed?
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Well,
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we tend to think
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that the problem
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with our world
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and the problem
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with ourselves
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is generally
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that we don't
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understand enough.
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We don't have enough
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education
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or enough information.
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And that if we can
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just fill our minds
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with the right information
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or the right education,
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we will be able
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to solve the problems
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of the world.
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When we were living
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in South Africa
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before Hong Kong,
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this was the great argument
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to be the problem
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to racism.
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Everyone said,
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listen,
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South Africa,
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we are a racist society.
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The problem is
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we don't have enough education.
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We don't know enough.
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But friends,
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you and I know
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that education
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is not going to solve
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the racism of our hearts,
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right?
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The Bible says,
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the Bible has a far
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deeper analysis
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of the problem
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of our minds.
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Scripture says
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the problem
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with our minds
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is not just
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that they're finite,
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it's that they are fallen.
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Okay?
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It's not just
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that our minds
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are dull,
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it's that they have
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been darkened
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as a consequence
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of sin
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in our heart
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and in our world.
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Our minds
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don't see the world
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as God has designed them.
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We don't think accurately.
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Okay?
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So,
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listen to how Paul
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describes it
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in Ephesians chapter 4.
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Paul says this,
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Now I say to you
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and I testify on the Lord
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that you must no longer walk
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as the Gentiles do.
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So that's another way
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of saying
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don't be conformed
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to the patterns
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of this world.
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In the futility
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of their minds,
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they are darkened
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in their understanding,
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alienated from the life
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of God
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because of the ignorance
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that is in them
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due to the hardness
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of their hearts.
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So look at what
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Paul says there.
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He describes our thinking
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as becoming futile,
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darkened,
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ignorant,
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not just because
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of lack of education
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but because of the
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fallen world,
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the state of our hearts
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has corrupted our thinking.
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We don't see the world
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as God wants us
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to see it.
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Rather,
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he says,
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verse 21,
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be renewed
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in the spirit
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of your minds.
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Now that's almost
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identical to Romans 12.
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Be transformed
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by the renewal
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of your mind.
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Paul says in Ephesians,
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be renewed
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in the spirit
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of your minds.
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Now what does Paul mean
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by the spirit
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of our minds?
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What he means is this,
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that our minds,
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our thinking,
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has a worldview.
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It has a posture.
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It has a mindset
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or an attitude
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about it
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which conforms
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to the way
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of our hearts.
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Romans 1
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says the same thing,
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that our minds
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as a result
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of our fallen nature
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has become darkened,
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foolish,
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and futile.
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And Romans 1
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says this,
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one of the consequences
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of this
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is that we have
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exchanged
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what is true
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for what is false.
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We honor
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and exalt
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things that are false
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and we diminish
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things that are true.
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We are confused
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about the way
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that the world works.
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And Paul says
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the same things here.
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Our minds
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aren't just computers
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processing information.
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They have a worldview,
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an attitude,
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a posture
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that needs to be renewed
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and redeemed,
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that needs to be transformed
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and come into line
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with what is true.
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Okay,
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are you tracking with me?
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I said this was
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a little complicated.
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Are you following it?
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Okay.
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Do not be conformed,
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be transformed.
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How does this happen?
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One way
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is through the renewal
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of our minds.
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Now,
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we're going to go
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one step deeper,
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okay?
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You're going to have
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to follow here.
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How does that happen?
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Well,
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there's two ways,
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two things
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that happen simultaneously.
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Look at what Paul
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says here.
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Do not be conformed
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to this world,
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be transformed
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by the renewal
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of your mind
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so that
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by testing
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or discovering
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you may discern
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or know for yourself
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what is the will of God
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is good,
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acceptable,
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and perfect will.
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Okay?
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So let's come back
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to the question
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we said in the beginning.
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How many of us here
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have faced a situation
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where you've got
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a decision to make?
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Job A or job B,
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job C?
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God,
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what is your will?
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If only you'll tell me
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your will.
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How do we know
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what God's will is?
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As a pastor,
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that's one of the
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most frequent requests
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I get,
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okay?
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Please come and pray for me.
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I need to know God's will.
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Give me a sign,
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okay?
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Look at what Paul says here.
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Paul says,
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the normal way
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that the Christian
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discovers God's will
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is not normally
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through a supernatural sign,
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writing on the wall,
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a prophecy,
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a dream,
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a vision,
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or a revelation,
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even though
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all those things
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do happen,
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and they do happen,
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and I've had them happen.
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Okay,
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not the writing on the wall.
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That hasn't happened to me.
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But those other things
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have happened.
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Those are good.
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But the way,
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the main way
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that we know God's will
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is not through
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some supernatural revelation,
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but rather,
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the usual way
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we know God's will
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is having our minds
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and our thinking
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and our worldview
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renewed by the gospel,
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and then as we live that out
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and act it out,
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we discover God's will
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in the process.
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Okay?
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So this is actually
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how we discover
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and walk in God's will.
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Not by supernatural revelation
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primarily,
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but through testing
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or discovering God's will
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as we allow our thinking
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and our worldview
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to be renewed
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and shaped by Him
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and the gospel,
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and as we live that out
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and take a step of faith
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trying to live
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the gospel-centered life.
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Okay?
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So,
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hopefully this will make sense
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in a few minutes.
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Now, just by the way,
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I am a charismatic.
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I do pray in tongues.
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I do believe in prophecy
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and visions and dreams
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and all those things.
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Those are good things.
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They're in the Bible
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and we should pursue them.
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But here's the key.
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Many Christians
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want a crystal ball.
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And God often,
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we want a Christian ball
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so that God will tell us
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what to do.
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Take path A,
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not path B.
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But God wants to give us
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a renewed mind
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and a transformed heart,
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not just a crystal ball answer.
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Does that make sense?
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And so we come and say,
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God, I've got a job A, job B.
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You just tell me
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and I'll know your will
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and then I'll walk in it.
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Your good, pleasing,
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and perfect will.
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But God doesn't want to give us
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a crystal ball answer.
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He wants to give us
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a renewed mind
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and a transformed heart.
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And so that's why he says,
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I want you to trust me.
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And here's the reason why.
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If God gave us
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a crystal ball,
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something that would just
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magically tell us
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His will in each
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and every situation,
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that wouldn't require
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a transformed heart at all.
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In fact,
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so deceitful is the human heart
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that what we would end up doing
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is we would use God
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for our own glory.
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Say, okay, God,
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what is the answer?
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Take path A.
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Great.
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Now I can take this job
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and I'll be more happy,
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more comfortable for my glory.
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We will use God
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rather than serve Him.
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But God wants a transformed heart
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and a renewed mind.
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God wants us to know His will.
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He's not trying to hide it from us,
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but He wants us to discover it
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as our hearts and minds
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are renewed
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according to the gospel
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as we come to Him
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and trust Him.
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So let's look at this verse
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once again.
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Do not be conformed
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to the patterns of this world.
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Be transformed
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in the image
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and the likeness of Jesus
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by the renewal of your mind
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so that by testing
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or discovering
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you may discern for yourself
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what is the will of God,
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His good, acceptable,
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and pleasing will.
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So,
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here's one more question
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and I'm going to give us an example.
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The transformed life,
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does it primarily happen
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through theology
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or pragmatics?
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Some of us,
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and I'm one of these people,
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I just want the theology, right?
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Just tell me what to believe
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and I'll sort out
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the practicalities.
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Some of us
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don't really care
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about the theology,
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just tell me what to do, right?
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Tell me what God's will is
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so I can walk in it.
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The answer is
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it happens through both.
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As our minds are renewed
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according to the gospel
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and as we practically
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live that out,
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we discover God's will,
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our minds get renewed
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and our hearts
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get transformed.
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It's kind of like a bicycle, right?
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You've got these two things
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at the same time.
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Renewed theology,
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renewed mind,
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living according to God's will.
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Renewed mind,
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living according to God's will.
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So let me give you
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a practical example
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of how I think
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this works out.
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Let's say,
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for instance,
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my marriage to Claire
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is characterized
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by defensiveness,
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outbursts of anger,
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and frustration
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on my behalf, okay?
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So I'm a husband
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that Claire's always
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walking on eggshells
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because whenever
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something happens,
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I freak out
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and I'm defensive
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and I'm always angry
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with her
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and I'm always convinced
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it's her fault, right?
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I have a friend like this.
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This week he told me
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I've been married twice,
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both to the same person.
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The first half of our marriage
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was horrible.
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God changed my life.
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The second half of the marriage
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has been glorious, right?
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The first half of my marriage,
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he said,
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well, I was always angry,
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I was always defensive,
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always frustrated,
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and I was convinced
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it was always my wife's fault.
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So let's imagine
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that's our situation.
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Now, hopefully,
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you can ask Claire later.
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Hopefully that's not the case
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in our home.
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If it is,
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Jesus changed me, okay?
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So let's say my home
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characterized by anger,
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outbursts of frustration,
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defensiveness,
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and I'm convinced
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it's her fault.
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And one day I'm reading
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my Bible
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and I read Ephesians chapter 5
Ephesians 5 chapter mention
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and the penny drops.
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Husbands,
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love your wives
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as Christ loved the church.
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And suddenly I realize,
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oh my goodness,
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Christ's love for me
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is so tender
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He's so patient.
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He's so gentle.
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Jesus is so long-suffering
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with all the rubbish
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in my heart.
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Jesus doesn't point
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His finger at me
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and tell me
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I'm a dirty,
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rotten scoundrel.
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He welcomes me
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with arms.
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Jesus floods me
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with unbelievable grace.
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How selfless
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and tender
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is His love for me.
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How great
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is the mercy of Jesus.
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And then I think
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about how selfish
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and self-centered
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I've been
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in my relationship
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to Claire.
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And so my thinking,
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my worldview
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gets renewed
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according to the gospel.
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And I realize
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I've been a rubbish husband.
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And I say,
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I don't want to be
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that kind of husband.
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And so
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some kind of transformation
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takes place
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in my heart
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according to the renewal
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of my mind
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by the mercies of God.
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And so then
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the next time
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I mess up
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and Claire says,
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hey,
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you said you were
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going to do this
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rather than saying,
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well,
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do you know
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what you did wrong?
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Because I've been transformed,
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I catch myself
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and I say,
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Jesus help me.
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And I say,
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you know what,
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love,
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you're right.
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I said I was going
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to do that
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and I didn't.
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I'm sorry.
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Please forgive me.
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And Claire falls off
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her chair
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because she's never
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experienced a husband
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like this.
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And suddenly
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over the next few weeks
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and months
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my heart starts to change
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because actually
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it's nicer living
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in a home like that.
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And Claire starts
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to transform
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because she's not
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so defensive
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wondering about her
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husband that's always
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going to lash out at her.
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And suddenly
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I actually realize
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it's quite nice
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to be a nice husband.
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And actually
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sometimes
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we learn to laugh
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about the mistakes
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that I make
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rather than accusing her.
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What's happened
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there?
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By the mercies
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of God
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my thinking
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has been renewed
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my heart
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has been transformed
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okay it's the bicycle
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as I start
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to live that out
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my thinking
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gets renewed
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I start to live
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that out more
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my thinking
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gets renewed
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and my heart
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gets transformed
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by the gospel.
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Does that make sense?
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So here's what
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Paul's saying
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as our thinking
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is renewed
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by the gospel
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by the mercy
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of God
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we start to believe
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that
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we live it out
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we walk it out
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we test it
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we discern
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for ourselves
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what is God's will
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we discover
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the beauty
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and the pleasure
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of God's will
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which then renews
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and revitalizes
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our mind
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and our thinking
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we walk that out
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we discover
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the beauty
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and the pleasure
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of God's will
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that renews
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our thinking
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we then walk it out
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and our hearts
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get transformed.
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Friends
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God's will
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for our marriages
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and our parenting
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for the way
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we handle money
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and sexuality
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and work
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for our attitude
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to the poor
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and the way
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we handle
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and steward
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the environment
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every aspect
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of our life
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God wants
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our thinking
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renewed
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according to
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his will
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to be shaped
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by the gospel
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by the mercies
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of God
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do not be conformed
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be transformed
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by the renewal
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of your mind.
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Okay
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practically
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let me give us
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two very practical
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applications of this
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okay
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the first one
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is this
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if you're a Christian
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this morning
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even if you're not
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a Christian
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okay
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you must
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get into scripture
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every single day
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don't let a day
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go by
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without getting
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into memorizing
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knowing
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feasting
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on God's word
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and here's why
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because every day
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our minds
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are being renewed
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according to the
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worldview
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of our culture
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you go to the office
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your colleagues
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the news
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Bloomberg
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the boss
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they are all
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conforming
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our thinking
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to our culture
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saying invest
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in this fund
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more money
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you'll be happier
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rah rah rah rah
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and unless
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we are day by day
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being transformed
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by the truth
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of God's word
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we'll be conformed
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by the patterns
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of this world
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friends
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can I say this
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if we think
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that one hour
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a week
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on a Sunday morning
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coming to church
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is going to be enough
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to transform
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our minds
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and to transform
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our hearts
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we've lost
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the battle
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there's no way
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that one hour
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a week
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on a Sunday
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morning
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is going to
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stand up
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to 80 hours
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a week
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in the marketplace
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friends
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every day
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get into
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God's word
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let God's word
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renew your thinking
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according to the
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mercies of God
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and transform
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your heart
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so that we're not
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conformed to the
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patterns of this
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world
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but transformed
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to the likeness
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of Jesus
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I had a whole
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lot of examples
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of that
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but I'm going
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to leave that
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here's the second
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one
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parents
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and especially
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Chris and Sam
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and Nando
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and Emmanuel
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and who else
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am I leaving out
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Peter
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parents
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don't just focus
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on your kids
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education
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education
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is a wonderful
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thing
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it's a great
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gift from God
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I'm busy
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trying to grind
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out
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theology
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degree
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at the moment
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education
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is a good
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thing
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but what Paul
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is telling us
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here
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is education
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is not going
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to be the tool
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to redeem
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our world
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we don't just
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need
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our minds
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aren't just
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computers
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that need
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more information
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our minds
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need to be
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renewed
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according
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to the gospel
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and so parents
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can I plead
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with you
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teach your
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children
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the gospel
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make sure
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that you're
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praying the gospel
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for them
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that you're
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washing them
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with the gospel
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you're flooding
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them with the gospel
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parents
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demonstrate the gospel
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live out the gospel
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let your kids
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see
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and experience
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and taste
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what it lives
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what it feels
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like
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to live in a home
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that is shaped
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by the mercy
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of God
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let them see
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you confessing
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your sin
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and saying sorry
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to your wife
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or your husband
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or to your kids
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and can I just
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say
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while I'm on this
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men
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especially you
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men
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you the head
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of your home
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you the leader
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of your family
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you take the
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initiative
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to shape
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your home
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and your family
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according to the gospel
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and the mercy
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of God
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make sure your kids
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don't just fill their minds
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with a great education
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let their minds
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be renewed
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according
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to the mercies
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of God
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so that our kids
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will want to see
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and know
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and taste
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the will of God
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his good pleasing
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and perfect will
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all the days
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of their lives
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okay
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is that alright
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okay
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so
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how
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our hearts
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transformed
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by the mercies
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of God
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by a renewed
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mind
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thirdly
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by seeing
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and savoring
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Jesus
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and this is
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really quick
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we write at the end
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look again
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at 2 Corinthians
2 Corinthians 3 chapter mention
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chapter 3
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with me
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this is the
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corollary verse
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to Romans chapter 12
Romans 12 chapter mention
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Paul writes this
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and says
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we
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beholding
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the glory
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of the Lord Jesus
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beholding means
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to see
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and to savor
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to see
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with the eyes
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of our heart
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we
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beholding
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Jesus
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are being
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transformed
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into the same
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image
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from one degree
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of glory
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to the next
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so how does
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transformation
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happen
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by seeing
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and savoring
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Jesus
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friends
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can I ask you
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are you
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beholding
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are you
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beholding
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the wonder
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of Jesus
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friends
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are we
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as a church
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shaped
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are we
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a church
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that is
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seeing
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the
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infinite
-
glory
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of who
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Jesus
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is
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are we
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beholding
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how wonderful
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he is
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are we
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delighting
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and rejoicing
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in the mercy
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of God
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in the work
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of Christ
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are we
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day by day
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morning by
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morning
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in the
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busyness
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of life
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in the rush
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of life
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in the
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pressures
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of life
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are we
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beholding
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and being
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mesmerized
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by the
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wonder
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of Jesus
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Paul says
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that as we
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see Jesus
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and what he
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did on the
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cross
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as we
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understand
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the mercies
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and the grace
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of God
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Christ will
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transform our
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hearts
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more and more
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to become
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more and more
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like Jesus
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friends in view
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of his mercies
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in view of
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Christ's
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unceasing
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grace
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in view
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of his
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never
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ending
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mercy
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to us
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in view
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of his
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unfathomable
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tenderness
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and his
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astounding
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sacrifice
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on the
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cross
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do not
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be conformed
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to the
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patterns
-
of this
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world
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to the
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decaying
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suicidal
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death
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patterns
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of this
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world
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no friends
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be transformed
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into the
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image of
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Jesus
-
by the
-
renewing
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of your
-
minds
-
by the
-
spirit
-
so that
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by testing
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and living
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the gospel
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shaped life
-
you may
-
discover
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for yourself
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what is
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the will
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of God
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his good
-
pleasing
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and perfect
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will
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let's pray
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together
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in fact
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maybe we can
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just take a few
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moments
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just to
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respond
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in our own
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hearts
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in prayer
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what does it
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look like
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for us to
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respond to
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God's word
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this morning
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for some
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of us
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it might be
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praise
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and adoration
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God
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thank you
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for your
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incredible
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mercy
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I can't
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believe it
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a sinner
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like me
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that you
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would die
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for me
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Jesus
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your mercy
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is amazing
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praise you
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God
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for some
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of us
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it's going
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to be
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reflection
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confession
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repentance
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for some
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of us
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we need
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to say
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God
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actually
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my life
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looks more
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like the
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world
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than you
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my thinking
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my world
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view
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is conformed
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to the
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ethos
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of this
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world
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more
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than the
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gospel
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Jesus
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I'm
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sorry
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come and
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change
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me
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come and
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transform
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me
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from the
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inside
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out
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for some
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of us
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friends
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it's
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trust
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and
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obedience
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we just
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need to
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live out
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what he's
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told us
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to do
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we need
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to say
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no to
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that sin
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and yes
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to Christ
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what does
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response
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look like
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for you
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Lord
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Jesus
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Christ
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Lord
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Jesus
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Christ
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heavenly
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father
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holy
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spirit
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three
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in
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one
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God
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we
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are
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astounded
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at who
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you are
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and your
-
incredible
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mercy
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thank you
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for your
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unceasing
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grace
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love
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your
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indescribable
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love
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for us
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God
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thank you
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for the
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gospel
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Jesus
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thank you
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that you
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don't just
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save us
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and then you
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leave us
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to our
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own
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devices
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you
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continually
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work on
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us
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reforming
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us
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shaping
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us
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helping
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us
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renewing
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us
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ransomed
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healed
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restored
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forgiven
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thank you
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Jesus
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come and
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continue
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to transform
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our hearts
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God
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won't you
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shape us
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individually
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and as a
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church
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to be more
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like you
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Jesus
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may we
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be transformed
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more and
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more to the
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image and
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the likeness
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of Christ
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Holy Spirit
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I pray
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come and
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work on
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our hearts
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now
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lead us
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to repentance
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lead us
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to faith
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in you
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help us
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to trust
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you
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to love
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you
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to obey
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you
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to have
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our lives
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shaped by
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you
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and by
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the mercies
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of God
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we pray
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in your
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awesome
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and your
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wonderful
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name
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amen