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Unity and Diversity

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  1. The scripture reading comes from Romans chapter 12. Please follow along on the screen, the bulletin, or your own Bible.

    Romans 12 chapter mention

  2. Starting in verse 1, we read,

  3. I appeal to you, therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.

  4. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

  5. For by the grace given to me, I say to everyone among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.

  6. For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another.

  7. Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them.

  8. Thank you, Betty.

  9. Great. Good morning, everybody.

  10. Good morning.

  11. My name is Chris.

  12. This is the day the Lord has made, and we will rejoice in it, because England won last night.

  13. So, miracles happen.

  14. Miracles happen.

  15. So, this is probably the last time you'll see me this happy.

  16. Let me pray for us as we begin.

  17. Father, thank you that we stand in the presence of an awesome God.

  18. And thank you that we come with nothing in our hands, but knowing that you are a good and a gracious king,

  19. who is so full of mercy and so full of kindness that you continually, every morning, lavish new grace upon us.

  20. Lord, I pray for us as a church family.

  21. I pray, Lord, that you would help us to see the grace of each other.

  22. Help us to see the grace that you have given us in abundance.

  23. Lord, I pray that even this morning, as I know different people are struggling in different ways.

  24. I know there are different challenges we're going through.

  25. Father, I pray that your mercy and your kindness would just minister to us.

  26. That you come and speak to us.

  27. Open our ears.

  28. Open our hearts, Lord.

  29. That we would see you and not be the same again.

  30. We love you.

  31. In Jesus' name.

  32. Amen.

  33. Amen.

  34. Great.

  35. So we're going through this series in Romans.

  36. And as I was thinking about this series, I remembered back at a previous church that there was an older lady called, let's call her Jean.

  37. And she thought that men wearing hats in church was of the devil.

  38. Edward.

  39. You'd not be in a good place.

  40. And one Sunday, a teenager came in to the Sunday service wearing a baseball cap.

  41. And do you know what happened?

  42. Jean went straight up to him and said, take it off.

  43. And the teenager refused.

  44. And there was this showdown, this kind of standoff.

  45. And eventually the teenager just kind of stormed out.

  46. This was Sunday morning.

  47. And the lady gathered her friends together and started complaining about the youth these days.

  48. And then the young people gathered together in their tribe

  49. to complain about how legalistic all these old people were.

  50. And it's fascinating, isn't it?

  51. Because I noticed something.

  52. That diversity is really hard.

  53. When you have people from different expectations,

  54. different backgrounds, different traditions

  55. coming together in one place,

  56. it's hard work, right?

  57. And we like to go with people who think like us,

  58. who act like us, who dress like us,

  59. who do the same things as us,

  60. because that feels a little bit safer

  61. and a little bit easier at times.

  62. And when we often hit up against the rub of diversity,

  63. what happens is we often end up looking down

  64. and judging each other.

  65. Don't we? Anyone done that?

  66. Okay, maybe I'm the only one.

  67. And so what we often tend to do that moment,

  68. we then retreat into our little tribe,

  69. whether it's politically, whether it's age,

  70. whether it's life stage,

  71. because it's much easier to be uniform than to be diverse.

  72. Right?

  73. And, you know, as you look out into the world

  74. and you see people love talking about diversity in our world,

  75. but actually the world is as polarized

  76. into our little tribes as ever.

  77. And this is actually one of the key issues

  78. for the church in Rome

  79. as we're looking in the book of Romans.

  80. Because the book of Romans was not primarily just written

  81. to give you some, like a nice theology textbook.

  82. It was written to help a polarized church

  83. split into different tribes

  84. of the minority Jewish Christians

  85. and the majority Gentile non-Jewish Christians.

  86. And it was written to show them

  87. that the gospel and the doctrine of what you believe

  88. can heal and unite even divided people.

  89. And it calls us and everyone

  90. to stop placing our identity in our ethnicity,

  91. even in our religiosity,

  92. in anything else.

  93. Because the only identity that we have now,

  94. if you are a believer in Christ,

  95. is a gospel identity in Jesus.

  96. And he's gone through the book of Romans

  97. showing how God has taken,

  98. if you have trusted in him,

  99. put your faith in Christ's death for you,

  100. he has taken you from being God's enemies

  101. to being his friends,

  102. to being outside the family,

  103. to being adopted into his multinational,

  104. multigenerational family.

  105. And it's all because of Jesus.

  106. And it's all the glory to him.

  107. It's all because of his mercy.

  108. And that's what we've been talking about, isn't it?

  109. By the mercies of God.

  110. And you know, a couple of weeks ago,

  111. we talked about in verse 1 how Paul has said,

  112. as a response to what God has done for us,

  113. therefore lay your lives down on the altar

  114. to live all of life as worship to him.

  115. And he's then said, we looked at last week,

  116. and he said, so in light of that,

  117. don't conform to the way everyone else is thinking,

  118. but get your minds renewed and transformed

  119. through the word of God,

  120. so that you live as this different kind of people

  121. that I've made you to be.

  122. So stop judging each other.

  123. Start loving each other.

  124. And this is where the rest of Romans 12

  125. is going to flow out in some very practical ways.

  126. Because you see,

  127. the God of the Bible is a Trinitarian God.

  128. He's a God of unity and diversity.

  129. One God, three persons.

  130. And we as his people are supposed to reflect that.

  131. So how, and here's the big question,

  132. how do you get unity without crushing diversity?

  133. Or how do you get diversity

  134. without creating tribal warfare and destroying unity?

  135. Well, Paul is going to go into this passage.

  136. And so if you've got it in front of you,

  137. we're just going to kind of check it out.

  138. Romans 12, starting at verse 3.

  139. He says, and I've got three things.

  140. He says, think straight.

  141. Then he's going to say, think team.

  142. And then think grace.

  143. Okay?

  144. So let's start.

  145. Think straight.

  146. He starts off saying,

  147. by the grace given to me,

  148. I say to everyone among you,

  149. not to think of himself or herself more highly

  150. than he ought to think,

  151. but to think with sober judgment or sober thinking

  152. is actually what it says in Greek,

  153. each according to the measure of faith

  154. that God has assigned.

  155. Do you notice he says to everyone,

  156. not just the minority,

  157. not just the majority,

  158. he says to everyone

  159. that the healing process

  160. is going to start in your community

  161. when you start renewing your thinking.

  162. He's saying you've got way too high

  163. a view of yourselves.

  164. You've got to sober up.

  165. You need sober thinking.

  166. Do you know, when you're drunk,

  167. what happens to you?

  168. You start thinking that a lamppost is your best friend.

  169. You lose touch with reality.

  170. Have you ever seen like X Factor

  171. or one of those programs

  172. where someone really believes

  173. that they are the next Taylor Swift,

  174. but they cannot sing to save their lives?

  175. It's just excruciating, right?

  176. But you know, I've seen so many marriages

  177. falling apart where both sides claim

  178. the other person is the problem.

  179. And Paul Tripp says,

  180. two perfectly righteous people

  181. in a terrible marriage,

  182. how does that happen?

  183. It happens when we make our thinking about us

  184. and our thinking about others

  185. more important than God's thinking about us

  186. and God's thinking about others.

  187. You see, tribalism happens

  188. when you get stinking thinking,

  189. which leads you to elevate yourself

  190. and diminish other people.

  191. That's what Paul's saying.

  192. You know, one translation of this verse

  193. actually says,

  194. take a sane view of yourself.

  195. Think straight.

  196. But how do you do that?

  197. How do you do that?

  198. Well, he says,

  199. according to the measure of faith

  200. that God has assigned.

  201. Well, the word measure

  202. can either mean,

  203. like if you take this and you go,

  204. okay, 1.5 meters,

  205. it can either be your height,

  206. what you measure,

  207. so in this case, your faith,

  208. okay, the amount of faith you've got,

  209. or it can actually be the tape measure itself.

  210. And so what I think Paul is saying is,

  211. he's saying the latter,

  212. he's saying there is a tape measure,

  213. there is a measure that God has assigned to you.

  214. That is, it's the gospel of Jesus Christ.

  215. It's not your own view of your own faith

  216. because you've got stinking thinking,

  217. so how are you going to get a right assessment?

  218. He's saying,

  219. no, you've got to use God's assessment tool,

  220. which is his tape measure,

  221. which is Christ.

  222. And Christ is like,

  223. I can't go any higher.

  224. He's like 25 meters high.

  225. I mean, just take the image.

  226. But what does that do to us

  227. when we come against that measure?

  228. Well, the first thing it does,

  229. it actually humbles our pride.

  230. Because doesn't the world measure us

  231. according to our status,

  232. according to our achievements,

  233. according to how well you've done in your workplace,

  234. according to your appearance?

  235. You know, so if you've got a good job,

  236. say you're a lawyer or a doctor

  237. or something like that,

  238. then people might look at you and go,

  239. oh, you're about five meters.

  240. And when people say that about us,

  241. we can begin to own that for ourselves.

  242. Oh, we can.

  243. Pretty good.

  244. You know, even in church,

  245. you know, if you're the pastor

  246. or you're serving all the time,

  247. people can look at you and go,

  248. oh, five meters.

  249. But when you look at God's measure in the gospel,

  250. it's going to get dangerous.

  251. You see that actually God's measure in the gospel

  252. says that actually connected to that,

  253. if I can get this working.

  254. These things weren't made for sermon illustrations.

  255. He says, actually, you're more like that.

  256. You know, you're way smaller,

  257. you're way more fragile,

  258. you're way more sinful than you think you are.

  259. And that humbles us

  260. from looking down on other people.

  261. But then it doesn't just do that.

  262. It does a second thing.

  263. It also lifts up those who are crushed.

  264. Because, you know,

  265. some of us, society tells you,

  266. you're that small.

  267. Or you tell yourself you're that small.

  268. And what the gospel says,

  269. in Christ, because of his death for you,

  270. if you put your faith in him,

  271. you go from that to actually being like this,

  272. because your measure now is not yourself,

  273. it's Christ.

  274. So he says,

  275. your identity is no longer based on your performance

  276. and based on my performance,

  277. and my performance is 25 meters.

  278. You see, you're now no longer a loser,

  279. you're a saint.

  280. You're no longer an outsider and rejected.

  281. You are welcomed into the family of the king of kings.

  282. You belong.

  283. Measure yourself against that.

  284. So that means in Christ,

  285. a faithful pastor of 50 years

  286. has no more personal merit in the kingdom of God

  287. than somebody who's a new believer.

  288. Isn't that extraordinary?

  289. You don't get that out in the world,

  290. but you get that when you measure it

  291. against God's measure.

  292. And that means this.

  293. It means the same for you,

  294. and it means the same for the person

  295. sitting next to you if they're in Christ.

  296. And that means that grace

  297. is what brings unity to the church

  298. because grace levels the playing field of all of us.

  299. It doesn't matter whether you're black,

  300. white, green, yellow, pink.

  301. It doesn't matter whether you're an England fan

  302. or a Ukraine fan.

  303. It even doesn't matter about that.

  304. It doesn't matter whether you're married,

  305. whether you're single,

  306. whether you've got a great job,

  307. whether you're unemployed.

  308. Grace is the only gateway

  309. into the family of the kingdom of God.

  310. It's the only measure of your value

  311. that doesn't crush others or crush you.

  312. Grace brings unity to us.

  313. So what that means is,

  314. if Christ is our measure,

  315. and that grace that we have in him

  316. is the unity which unites us together as one,

  317. Paul is then going to go and say,

  318. since we neither elevate ourselves

  319. nor we just over-diminish ourselves,

  320. don't think too highly of ourselves,

  321. don't think too lowly of ourselves,

  322. then he's going to say,

  323. grace doesn't just bring unity.

  324. Grace also brings diversity too.

  325. And that's my second thing.

  326. So think straight.

  327. Think team or body is the next thing.

  328. For he says in verse four,

  329. he says,

  330. What's he saying here?

  331. It's actually not a difficult point that he's making.

  332. He's actually saying,

  333. instead of looking down on each other

  334. and judging each other,

  335. there's a shift of direction to see yourself

  336. as a team,

  337. as a body,

  338. united together.

  339. And there's three things about this.

  340. One is, yes,

  341. you are unified.

  342. You are unified.

  343. That's what he says.

  344. We're one body.

  345. Okay, let me emphasize that again.

  346. Everyone who trusts in Christ,

  347. you're united to him vertically

  348. and you're united to each other

  349. horizontally in his church family.

  350. So if your hand slaps your face,

  351. who suffers?

  352. You do.

  353. If somebody looks down,

  354. if you look down on a brother or sister

  355. in the body of Christ

  356. and you just either withdraw to your own circle,

  357. social circle and complain,

  358. who suffers?

  359. We do.

  360. You do.

  361. All of us do.

  362. Do you see the image that he's saying?

  363. You are not an independent,

  364. like,

  365. we're not just an individual,

  366. like,

  367. bunch of little toes

  368. that come together on a Sunday.

  369. It's one toes

  370. and then we go and amputate ourselves

  371. for the rest of the week.

  372. That's painful.

  373. That's going to die.

  374. That's actually one of the reasons,

  375. and Kevin mentioned it earlier,

  376. we want to move away from live streaming

  377. to actually in-person gathering.

  378. Because church isn't just sitting on your sofa

  379. and just watching a message.

  380. Church is living,

  381. breathing a body together.

  382. Your absence affects me

  383. just as your presence,

  384. your physical presence affects me.

  385. That's amazing.

  386. You know,

  387. it's like if there's two people in a room,

  388. if there's a hundred people in a room,

  389. it makes a difference to you,

  390. doesn't it?

  391. And actually,

  392. if you think about it,

  393. church is then intrinsic to your identity.

  394. It's intrinsic to who you are.

  395. So live and make decisions

  396. as if your church family

  397. is not an optional extra,

  398. but actually it's intrinsic

  399. to who you are as a human being.

  400. And so,

  401. that means like things like CGs,

  402. family groups,

  403. if you're a family

  404. and you're struggling to get in,

  405. come and see me

  406. so you can actually get connected.

  407. We're unified,

  408. but we're also connected with that,

  409. we're interdependent.

  410. And so,

  411. that's kind of the same point

  412. that I was making.

  413. As we're interdependent,

  414. what that means is,

  415. when you come together

  416. and I hear you singing,

  417. that encourages my heart.

  418. When you pray for me,

  419. that encourages me.

  420. Do you know,

  421. you can't give hugs by live stream,

  422. but you can do that with each other.

  423. That is actually,

  424. when you welcome me,

  425. I experience the love of Christ through you.

  426. Do you see how it works?

  427. And I know how hard this is.

  428. I've got two kids,

  429. like young kids,

  430. and I know coming on Sunday,

  431. coming to see,

  432. it's hard work.

  433. But let me tell you,

  434. if you know that this is who you are,

  435. you're going to get here

  436. and we're going to help you get here

  437. whatever way possible.

  438. So we're unified,

  439. we're interdependent,

  440. but we're also diverse.

  441. And by the way,

  442. that also means that actually,

  443. you matter,

  444. right?

  445. You matter when you're here.

  446. So don't just rock up for the sermon

  447. and then just rush out afterwards.

  448. Actually come to be with your family.

  449. But we are diverse as well.

  450. And he says this,

  451. he says,

  452. we're not just unified,

  453. we're not just interdependent,

  454. we're diverse.

  455. He says,

  456. having gifts that differ

  457. according to the grace given to us.

  458. And I just want to unpack this a little bit.

  459. I'm just going to put this under another title,

  460. which is Think Grace.

  461. Okay?

  462. Think Grace.

  463. So think straight,

  464. think team,

  465. think grace.

  466. Okay.

  467. He says,

  468. God has given us different gifts.

  469. And he says,

  470. they're grace.

  471. It's the word charismata,

  472. which comes from the word charis,

  473. which is the word for grace.

  474. It's the same root family.

  475. And grace is not just for salvation.

  476. Grace is here for blessing other people.

  477. You know,

  478. our gifts are grace to us from God

  479. and grace from God to others through us.

  480. They're grace to us and grace through us.

  481. You see,

  482. you won't get the full extent of the mercies of God

  483. by just sitting reading your Bible in your room.

  484. Reading a Bible is really important.

  485. It's crucial.

  486. But it's not enough.

  487. Because God's design that is alongside his word,

  488. we experience grace through each other.

  489. And it's not about us.

  490. It's not so we get exalted.

  491. So Jesus gets the glory

  492. and others experience his goodness through us.

  493. And so he says,

  494. use whatever gifts God has given you

  495. for others.

  496. You see,

  497. it's no longer focused on yourself.

  498. It's for others.

  499. Now,

  500. some people get really hung up on that word gift

  501. because we go,

  502. oh,

  503. I don't know what my gifts are.

  504. I'm not sure I've got any gifts.

  505. Things like that.

  506. And Paul would say,

  507. hey,

  508. that's not the point.

  509. This gift list,

  510. he's basically saying,

  511. use whatever God has given you.

  512. And he's just giving you,

  513. actually,

  514. and this is not an exhaustive list.

  515. It's an example list

  516. of some things that God has given

  517. to the church in Rome.

  518. And the reason we know that

  519. is because there's two other lists

  520. in the New Testament of gifts

  521. and none of them are exactly the same.

  522. These are examples.

  523. And one of the examples of that

  524. is to show that diverse grace

  525. moves us out of tribal thinking,

  526. individualistic thinking,

  527. and moves us to unified

  528. serving and blessing each other

  529. kind of thinking.

  530. You know,

  531. and if you're going,

  532. I don't know what my gifts are,

  533. just try stuff out of serving other people

  534. and you'll find where your sweet spot is

  535. as you learn how to serve.

  536. You know,

  537. and he mentions like practical things.

  538. He calls serving here

  539. and that's a very practical thing

  540. like setting up the sound system,

  541. those kind of things.

  542. He mentions relational stuff,

  543. the exhortation,

  544. like encouraging,

  545. listening,

  546. consoling,

  547. comforting people.

  548. But he's using,

  549. he uses a body analogy.

  550. Okay?

  551. We've talked about that.

  552. But I think many of us

  553. are actually very familiar

  554. with the body analogy.

  555. So I want to change the analogy.

  556. Okay?

  557. It's not a perfect analogy.

  558. But I want to say

  559. that Christian community

  560. is actually making

  561. a beautiful,

  562. delicious chocolate cake.

  563. This one,

  564. if we can have it on the screen,

  565. this one is gluten-free for me.

  566. But it's meant to be

  567. this mouth-watering demonstration

  568. of the goodness and glory of God

  569. so that others can see

  570. and experience it.

  571. Now,

  572. and what he does,

  573. he privileges you and me

  574. and every believer

  575. of being a partner

  576. in him making

  577. and creating this masterpiece.

  578. He doesn't have to.

  579. But he privileges us

  580. with the opportunity to.

  581. And so,

  582. what do you need

  583. when you make a chocolate cake?

  584. I've got a few different ingredients.

  585. Okay.

  586. I've got some,

  587. I'm actually missing some ingredients.

  588. ingredients.

  589. And by the way,

  590. you know when you have

  591. different ingredients

  592. in a cake,

  593. if you miss some out,

  594. what happens?

  595. It's not good, right?

  596. They're kind of interdependent,

  597. right?

  598. To make something unified,

  599. right?

  600. Well,

  601. I'm actually missing

  602. cocoa powder

  603. and I'm missing

  604. vegetable oil,

  605. but let's pretend

  606. that we have them.

  607. Okay,

  608. let me give you,

  609. that's some baking powder

  610. for you.

  611. Can I give you,

  612. there's an egg,

  613. hold it very carefully,

  614. okay?

  615. Donna,

  616. can I give you,

  617. that's some sugar.

  618. More woolly,

  619. there's some flour

  620. for you.

  621. Now,

  622. did you pay for that?

  623. Did you earn it?

  624. What is it?

  625. It's a gift.

  626. It's a gift

  627. of pure grace

  628. to you.

  629. Okay?

  630. And as you got

  631. the gift,

  632. you got to go,

  633. hmm,

  634. why have I got

  635. this gift?

  636. You see,

  637. you can lead

  638. a Bible study,

  639. you can give

  640. people lifts

  641. to help others

  642. and that's grace.

  643. Do you know that?

  644. You can work

  645. at your gifts,

  646. you can develop

  647. your gifts,

  648. but ultimately

  649. it's all a gift.

  650. That's why

  651. it's called a gift.

  652. And it's glory

  653. to him,

  654. it's grace

  655. which is spring-loaded

  656. for the worship

  657. of Jesus.

  658. That's what

  659. your gift is.

  660. But don't we

  661. often then turn

  662. what is meant

  663. to be given

  664. for the worship

  665. of Jesus

  666. into like

  667. a comparison thing?

  668. So like

  669. the eggs,

  670. look over

  671. at the other eggs

  672. and say,

  673. I'm not like

  674. other eggs.

  675. I'm a double yoker.

  676. You know,

  677. I got talent.

  678. I'm not like

  679. those other ones.

  680. You know,

  681. I shouldn't have

  682. to put up

  683. with guys

  684. who are not

  685. quite as good

  686. musicians as me

  687. or quite as

  688. competent at

  689. leading Bible study

  690. as me.

  691. And then the flower,

  692. actually no,

  693. let's not do the flower.

  694. The vegetable oil,

  695. which I forgot to bring,

  696. but hey,

  697. the vegetable oil

  698. looks over at the sugar

  699. and says,

  700. you're so sweet.

  701. You know,

  702. everybody loves you.

  703. Everybody just talks

  704. about you all the time.

  705. But I'm just greasy.

  706. Nobody notices me.

  707. I don't get any

  708. appreciation around here.

  709. Maybe what's the point

  710. in me kind of

  711. coming into this?

  712. Because what have I

  713. got to offer?

  714. No one will miss me.

  715. And then the baking powder

  716. pipes up

  717. and says to the vegetable oil

  718. and says,

  719. it's all right for you.

  720. They get half a cup of you.

  721. But they only get

  722. like a half a teaspoon

  723. kind of girl for me.

  724. And have you tried

  725. tasting me?

  726. I'm not anything special.

  727. And you see what's happening

  728. as we do all of this.

  729. Where does the focus come?

  730. You see,

  731. when we lose,

  732. we start comparing

  733. and wishing our gifts away

  734. and going,

  735. oh,

  736. they've got something

  737. better than me

  738. or I'm better than them.

  739. When we start doing that,

  740. our eyes go off

  741. the worship of Jesus

  742. and they begin to focus on

  743. ourselves.

  744. Right?

  745. Anyone done that?

  746. Man,

  747. I do this all the time.

  748. And what happens is

  749. our thinking

  750. becomes stinking

  751. because we either

  752. elevate or diminish

  753. ourselves in ways

  754. that we need renewal

  755. of the gospel

  756. to transform our minds

  757. against the measure

  758. of God.

  759. And we forget

  760. the incredible grace

  761. that God has entrusted

  762. us with

  763. because it's not about us.

  764. It's about the worship

  765. of Jesus,

  766. Jesus,

  767. right?

  768. And you know,

  769. so before you come

  770. and serve,

  771. before you come

  772. and whatever you do

  773. for somebody else,

  774. I encourage you,

  775. stop.

  776. I used to do this

  777. when I had to clean

  778. toilets for somebody.

  779. I used to stop

  780. and say,

  781. thank you,

  782. Jesus,

  783. that I get the privilege

  784. of serving you.

  785. I pray this would be

  786. worship to you today.

  787. Every time do that

  788. because your heart

  789. is going to get

  790. tempted

  791. to start comparing.

  792. Remember,

  793. it's gift.

  794. Worship.

  795. Don't compare.

  796. And then third thing,

  797. check your own heart.

  798. You see,

  799. what he says here

  800. with some of these gifts,

  801. he says,

  802. the one who contributes,

  803. do it in generosity,

  804. the one who leads

  805. with zeal,

  806. the one who with acts

  807. of mercy,

  808. with cheerfulness.

  809. Guys,

  810. would you like to

  811. just kind of come up?

  812. But Donna,

  813. I'd like you to come up

  814. really cheerfully.

  815. And Mawali,

  816. I'd like you to just

  817. come up really reluctantly.

  818. Because, you know,

  819. if you can do it

  820. with zeal,

  821. then why is he telling you that?

  822. Because you can do it

  823. reluctantly, right?

  824. Or you can contribute

  825. but stingily, right?

  826. Or you can have compassion

  827. and listen and care for people

  828. but just do it out of

  829. this sense of guilt

  830. and burden

  831. and like, oh.

  832. So,

  833. could you come up,

  834. please?

  835. And can I have the others

  836. come up as well?

  837. It's okay,

  838. it's not too far.

  839. It's, uh...

  840. Yes!

  841. Woo!

  842. Thank you.

  843. Do you want to put it

  844. in the bowl?

  845. You can open it.

  846. You can actually put it in.

  847. Come up, yeah.

  848. Okay.

  849. Now the egg's the one

  850. we're going to have

  851. to be careful with.

  852. Okay.

  853. Ooh!

  854. Too much watching Jamie Oliver.

  855. There you go.

  856. Okay.

  857. Yeah.

  858. I put a little bit in.

  859. Okay.

  860. Mauli.

  861. Come on, Mauli.

  862. You can do it.

  863. You can do it.

  864. Come on.

  865. Put it in.

  866. Great.

  867. Thank you.

  868. You guys can...

  869. Actually, let me take the flower

  870. unless you want it.

  871. Thank you.

  872. You guys, thank you.

  873. Give them a round of applause.

  874. But actually, you know,

  875. we have so many people.

  876. And why do we get people involved?

  877. Because actually,

  878. we have so many people

  879. in Watermark doing amazing serving.

  880. Like, even this morning,

  881. like, a ton of you

  882. have just been serving.

  883. People are serving your kids.

  884. People are serving everywhere.

  885. And we just have such an amazing church

  886. we're serving.

  887. I think we are so blessed by you guys.

  888. So blessed.

  889. It's amazing.

  890. And I hear people, you know,

  891. you're serving in just, you know,

  892. cooking meals for newborns.

  893. You know, you're serving

  894. and grabbing coffee

  895. with people who are struggling.

  896. You serve by setting up early.

  897. But I think we have a danger.

  898. We have a danger

  899. that when we serve a lot,

  900. we can get jaded.

  901. Because sometimes when we serve,

  902. we can actually expect

  903. as you put the gifts in the bowl,

  904. that others are going to appreciate you.

  905. Or others are going to treat you well.

  906. And what happens

  907. when the flour

  908. just kind of messes up your eggshell?

  909. You know, some of you

  910. are, like,

  911. have been stewarding with the parking.

  912. Actually, who's been stewarding,

  913. like, done over the last couple of months,

  914. just doing parking stewarding?

  915. Okay, don't be shy.

  916. Come on, guys.

  917. Let's give them a round of applause.

  918. Let's just...

  919. Thank you.

  920. Thank you for that.

  921. That is just an important job.

  922. It's not a glamorous job.

  923. It's an important job.

  924. But just imagine

  925. that you're showing people

  926. to their spot,

  927. the car parks.

  928. You've got a system

  929. that's all...

  930. You've worked it out.

  931. But then one driver

  932. just ignores you completely

  933. and says,

  934. this is my spot.

  935. And you're, like,

  936. trying to explain to them.

  937. And they say,

  938. no, no, no.

  939. I've got to get out of here first.

  940. And they're rude to you afterwards.

  941. They act a bit more like

  942. an amputated toe

  943. than the body of Christ.

  944. How do you feel

  945. when you do that?

  946. And by the way,

  947. if you are a driver,

  948. this is not a dig at you,

  949. but actually,

  950. just remember to worship God

  951. and treat and encourage

  952. the parking stewards well.

  953. Okay?

  954. But how do you feel?

  955. Aren't we tempted to go,

  956. well, what's the point?

  957. Aren't we tempted

  958. to just begin to grumble

  959. in our own hearts?

  960. Aren't we tempted

  961. to just maybe put in

  962. only half the flour

  963. the next time

  964. because we are just...

  965. Why do I have to deal with this?

  966. And you know what happens

  967. is if someone

  968. that you're serving with,

  969. that somebody goes

  970. and thanks them,

  971. but you've been doing

  972. exactly the same thing

  973. and they ignore you.

  974. How does that feel?

  975. Can we, at that moment,

  976. rejoice with those who rejoice?

  977. Is their success my success?

  978. Or have we forgotten

  979. that we're one body?

  980. And it's hard, right?

  981. And it can eat away at you.

  982. Or we can end up serving,

  983. but it forgets about worship

  984. and it just becomes

  985. about obligation.

  986. Sometimes we just withdraw,

  987. but the mercies of God

  988. come to us

  989. and reminding us,

  990. serving is grace.

  991. And you know,

  992. I delight in your service to me.

  993. Even if everyone else ignores you,

  994. I do not ignore.

  995. I hear, I see,

  996. and it delights my heart.

  997. So do it for me.

  998. And in the midst of that,

  999. just remember that it is grace

  1000. that you're even part of this family.

  1001. That's what I'm doing for you.

  1002. Don't become tribal and withdraw.

  1003. Receive my love for you.

  1004. And get up again

  1005. and use your gifts to serve.

  1006. So we've said,

  1007. remember it's a gift.

  1008. Worship, don't compare.

  1009. Check your own heart.

  1010. Final thing.

  1011. Find your identity in Christ.

  1012. You see,

  1013. many of us can serve

  1014. because it becomes

  1015. a bit of an identity to serve.

  1016. And some of us,

  1017. you know,

  1018. you've been pouring out

  1019. and pouring out

  1020. and pouring out

  1021. and pouring out

  1022. and pouring out

  1023. and actually you just,

  1024. you feel like you're empty.

  1025. And you feel like

  1026. you're still meant to be pouring out,

  1027. but you feel like

  1028. you've got nothing else.

  1029. You can't even open the bag.

  1030. And the mercies of God

  1031. come to us.

  1032. And sometimes you keep going,

  1033. oh,

  1034. I can't believe

  1035. I've got to keep doing this.

  1036. And the mercies of God

  1037. come to you

  1038. and say,

  1039. humble yourself.

  1040. You're not omnipotent.

  1041. Receive my grace

  1042. through others.

  1043. Some of us don't receive

  1044. the grace of God

  1045. because he's designed grace

  1046. to come through somebody else,

  1047. but we never ask anybody for help.

  1048. Right?

  1049. Some of us go,

  1050. well,

  1051. but I don't want to disturb everyone.

  1052. Everyone's busy.

  1053. But actually,

  1054. sometimes that's because

  1055. our identity is an independence

  1056. rather than actually being willing

  1057. to ask others for help.

  1058. I've just experienced that

  1059. so much in my life.

  1060. When,

  1061. you know,

  1062. he's going,

  1063. I've given grace to Donna

  1064. for you.

  1065. So ask her.

  1066. Ask her.

  1067. Ask her.

  1068. The mercies of God

  1069. give you courage

  1070. to disturb other people.

  1071. But you know what?

  1072. What can sometimes happen

  1073. is maybe the flower

  1074. goes to the egg

  1075. and asks to help,

  1076. but the egg is too busy

  1077. trying to find their identity

  1078. in decorating their own shell

  1079. with their career ambitions,

  1080. with their kids' education,

  1081. with a whole load of other things,

  1082. social calendar,

  1083. packed schedule.

  1084. I've got no time for anyone

  1085. because I've got goals.

  1086. goals.

  1087. And we've forgotten

  1088. that God has invited us

  1089. to be part of the cake

  1090. that he's making.

  1091. So he says,

  1092. in the view of God's mercies,

  1093. offer yourself

  1094. as a living sacrifice

  1095. and be willing

  1096. to be disturbed.

  1097. And put yourself

  1098. in relationships

  1099. in CG

  1100. or in other places

  1101. where you're able

  1102. to see the needs of others

  1103. so you know how

  1104. you can serve them

  1105. and can be disturbed.

  1106. But finally,

  1107. if we're going to find

  1108. our identity in Jesus,

  1109. not actually in what we're doing,

  1110. not in our careers,

  1111. and not in our serving

  1112. because if you can't say no sometimes,

  1113. if you feel guilty

  1114. at saying no all the time,

  1115. and you're somebody

  1116. who's pausing all the time,

  1117. then the mercies of God

  1118. come to you and says,

  1119. take a break.

  1120. Sabbath.

  1121. Enjoy my goodness.

  1122. It's not about you.

  1123. Enjoy worshipping me

  1124. so that you can be refilled,

  1125. that your bag can be replenished

  1126. so that you can pour out again.

  1127. And God,

  1128. in his amazing mercy,

  1129. you know what he does?

  1130. He takes this complete mess.

  1131. I mean,

  1132. I don't know what the recipe was,

  1133. but it wasn't this.

  1134. And you know,

  1135. he has a whisk.

  1136. It's the whisk

  1137. of his spirit of grace,

  1138. forgiveness,

  1139. which is he pours

  1140. and he whisks

  1141. all the messiness together.

  1142. And he brings us

  1143. to remember the gospel again

  1144. and he causes us to repent

  1145. and he reminds us

  1146. of how kind he is.

  1147. It's going to get messier.

  1148. He then puts it in the oven

  1149. of his gracious,

  1150. sovereign plan.

  1151. the circumstances,

  1152. the experiences,

  1153. the things that he just brings

  1154. in life.

  1155. And then,

  1156. miraculously,

  1157. out of just the most incredible,

  1158. incredible mercy and grace,

  1159. you see what appears.

  1160. is this glorious cake.

  1161. And when you look at it

  1162. and you say,

  1163. how did it get from that

  1164. to this?

  1165. And then you look down

  1166. at the baker's hands

  1167. and there are nail prints there.

  1168. There are scars

  1169. and he says,

  1170. this is the fruit

  1171. of what I have done for you.

  1172. And what it means

  1173. is that grace comes to us

  1174. but glory goes to Jesus

  1175. because there is no one else

  1176. who can take that

  1177. and make this.

  1178. And that is what God

  1179. is trying to do with us,

  1180. brothers and sisters.

  1181. Wherever you are,

  1182. some of you,

  1183. he's calling you

  1184. to start serving

  1185. in ways you haven't served before.

  1186. Some of you,

  1187. he's just calling you

  1188. to use your service

  1189. and come back

  1190. to worshiping

  1191. and joy in serving him.

  1192. Some of you,

  1193. he's calling you

  1194. to stop thinking

  1195. it's individualistic

  1196. but actually remember

  1197. you're a body.

  1198. And it's the glory of Jesus

  1199. and it's all fueled by grace.

  1200. It's not this burden on us.

  1201. And he's calling us

  1202. to be a unified

  1203. yet diverse community.

  1204. Let's pray.

  1205. Let's pray.

  1206. Maybe as we pray,

  1207. I just want you to think

  1208. we've been looking

  1209. at the three kind of responses

  1210. that God might be calling you to.

  1211. Some of you,

  1212. God's calling you

  1213. to actually thankfulness

  1214. and praise

  1215. that actually you've

  1216. lost sight

  1217. of the glory

  1218. of the community

  1219. God has given you

  1220. and God just wants to say

  1221. you to worship him

  1222. and thank him

  1223. for the grace

  1224. that he has bestowed

  1225. both upon you

  1226. and his community.

  1227. Some of us,

  1228. we need to repent

  1229. that we've made

  1230. so many things

  1231. about ourselves

  1232. and some of us

  1233. just need to

  1234. step out

  1235. and obey

  1236. what he's calling you

  1237. to do.

  1238. So I want to give you

  1239. just a minute

  1240. to go and work with God

  1241. on what's he calling you

  1242. to right now.

  1243. What's he calling you to?

  1244. Maybe it's the musicians

  1245. just start to play.

  1246. Just respond to God

  1247. to whatever he's calling you

  1248. to right now.

  1249. Amen.

  1250. Amen.

  1251. Amen.

  1252. Amen.

  1253. Amen.

  1254. Amen.

  1255. Amen.

  1256. Amen.

  1257. Amen.

  1258. Amen.

  1259. Amen.

  1260. Amen.

  1261. Amen.

  1262. Amen.

  1263. Amen.

  1264. Amen.

  1265. Amen.

  1266. Amen.

  1267. Amen.

  1268. Amen.

  1269. Amen.

  1270. Amen.

  1271. Amen.

  1272. Amen.

  1273. Amen.

  1274. Amen.

  1275. Amen.

  1276. Father, I just thank you

  1277. for this amazing church, Lord.

  1278. Thank you for your amazing

  1279. mercies to us.

  1280. That we could even be

  1281. a member of your family.

  1282. Lord, what a privilege.

  1283. Amen.

  1284. But Lord, I pray that your mercies would not just be in our heads, but they would thrill our hearts.

  1285. So that as we look around and we see each other, we see ways that we can bring your grace through the gifts that you've given us to serve one another.

  1286. Change us, we pray.

  1287. Fill us with joy, I pray.

  1288. What a wonderful Savior you are.

  1289. In Jesus' name, amen.