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Hope-filled Love

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  1. Good morning. The scripture reading this morning comes from Romans chapter 12.

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  2. Please follow along on the screen, the bulletin, or your own Bible.

  3. Starting in verse 1 we read,

  4. I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God,

  5. to present your bodies as a living sacrifice,

  6. holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.

  7. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind,

  8. that by testing you may discern what is the will of God,

  9. what is good and acceptable and perfect.

  10. Then in verse 9 we read,

  11. Let love be genuine.

  12. Abhor what is evil.

  13. Hope fast to what is good.

  14. Love one another with brotherly affection.

  15. Outdo one another in showing honor.

  16. Do not be slothful in zeal.

  17. Be fervent in spirit.

  18. Serve the Lord.

  19. Rejoice in hope.

  20. Be patient in tribulation.

  21. Be constant in prayer.

  22. Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.

  23. This is the word of God.

  24. Amen.

  25. Thank you so much, Angeline.

  26. Welcome again.

  27. My name is Chris, if you don't know me.

  28. And if you're here for the baptism as well, you're just super welcome.

  29. Really, really excited that you can join us this morning.

  30. Let me just pray for us as we begin to look into God's word.

  31. Father, thank you that whatever week we've had, wherever we come from, however our circumstances, you are still God.

  32. Lord, I pray that you're the one who loves us.

  33. And you're the one who is with us.

  34. And you're the one who is faithful.

  35. And you're the one who never lets us go.

  36. And Lord, I pray that this morning you would speak to us.

  37. I pray, Lord, even as we celebrate the baptism later, we would just remember your goodness.

  38. And the fact that you are the one who does immeasurably more than we can ask or imagine.

  39. Lord, fill our hearts with a real deep hope in you.

  40. So that we can be a people who don't just say the right things, but live with a real deep confidence in the mercies of God in our lives.

  41. We pray this morning you'd open our ears to hear your word.

  42. I pray that you would just speak through me, but I pray your spirit would take your word and just bury it into our hearts, we pray.

  43. In Jesus' name.

  44. Amen.

  45. Great.

  46. The Washington Post, they had an article a few years ago which headline was,

  47. Too Many Celebrities, Not Enough Heroes.

  48. And as I read the article, Fiona was just talking to me this week, telling me about in Hong Kong there is this new sensational boy band called Mirror.

  49. Does anyone know Mirror?

  50. Okay, there's a few fans out here.

  51. Well, you can find out from them.

  52. And she was telling me that many husbands have started complaining that they've lost their wives to infatuation with members of this boy band.

  53. This is what you might call celebrity love.

  54. It's a kind of love which is based on appearances.

  55. It's based on feelings and attractions.

  56. But it's superficial.

  57. You don't actually know what they're like.

  58. It's a mirage.

  59. It's celebrity love.

  60. But then there is another kind of love which I like to call heroic love.

  61. It's the kind of love where heroes are willing to lay down their lives for others in the hard realities of life.

  62. They're ordinary, not glamorous.

  63. They're sacrificial, not self-focused.

  64. They're purpose-driven, not feeling-driven.

  65. You know, it's the kind of love of parents for their children, not fans for their celebrities.

  66. And the book of Romans, which we've been going through over the last few weeks,

  67. and Paul, the apostle who's been writing it, has been painting this picture of Jesus as the ultimate heroic lover.

  68. However, his sacrificial love for us goes beyond all other heroes that we might have.

  69. While we were not just friends of God, but even enemies of God,

  70. he came and died for us, sacrificing his life for us.

  71. To bring us back, to reconcile us into the relationship we were always made for with the creator God.

  72. And to draw us into his family.

  73. And to bring us to be part of a cosmic redemption story that God is writing, even right now.

  74. And all of this, Paul has been saying, we receive by faith.

  75. It's not by being religious.

  76. It's not by being moral.

  77. It's a gift of grace to us.

  78. It's by the mercies of God.

  79. And Paul has then said, in the light of this, his family, the church,

  80. in the light of his mercies and empowered by his mercies,

  81. are to live and to reflect that same love, to be a community, not of celebrity love,

  82. but of heroic love like Jesus' love.

  83. A love that doesn't just look nice on the outside, but is genuine,

  84. even in, excuse me, genuine in whatever circumstances we go through.

  85. It's a heroic love like Jesus.

  86. And last week, we looked, we began to see how Paul starts in verse 9,

  87. he says, let love be genuine.

  88. And then he goes through and tells us what this love begins to look like.

  89. It's a love that hates evil.

  90. It loves good.

  91. It's a love that is honoring other people before ourselves.

  92. It's a love that is fervent, self-forgetful, serving God in every area of our lives.

  93. But as you think about those things that he's been telling us in verses 9 through to 11,

  94. you can actually do a lot of those things when life's going okay,

  95. when the seas are calm.

  96. But today's passage, where we're going to look particularly at verses 12 and 13,

  97. is about how do you love when life gets tough,

  98. when the waves are crashing against the boat of your life.

  99. How do you be in a community of ordinary heroic love at that point?

  100. And so I'm going to go through two points,

  101. which are basically the two verses that we're going to look at.

  102. The first point is hope in turbulence.

  103. And the second is hope that fuels love.

  104. So let's look at hope in turbulence.

  105. And just have your bulletin looking at those two particular verses.

  106. So verse 9 has said,

  107. let love be genuine.

  108. And now in verse 12, he tells you another way that love can be genuine.

  109. He says,

  110. And the middle command of that,

  111. being patient in tribulation,

  112. tells you that the context for this is painful,

  113. it's messy,

  114. and the kind of love that we're to show,

  115. is not just when everything's going well.

  116. Because the word tribulation in scripture

  117. actually has a lot of different meanings of

  118. the way different kinds of suffering can come.

  119. It can mean persecution.

  120. It can mean financial hardship.

  121. It can mean heartache at the decisions of other people.

  122. It can mean even childbirth.

  123. So it can mean all kinds of suffering that we experience in this world.

  124. And when he says be patient,

  125. be patient, that's actually the word for to endure.

  126. It means, you know,

  127. it's kind of like the image of a speaker who's speaking,

  128. and they're just getting heckled,

  129. and people throwing things at them,

  130. and they just keep going in spite of everything being thrown at them.

  131. They continue, and they just keep going,

  132. no matter how many tomatoes are thrown at them.

  133. They endure.

  134. They persevere.

  135. They continue.

  136. It's what, you know,

  137. 1 Corinthians tells us,

  138. love perseveres.

  139. It doesn't back down when the going gets tough.

  140. It keeps to its commitments and its promises.

  141. But how does it do that?

  142. Well, this is where the first and the last of that trio of commands shows us.

  143. So the first one is rejoice in hope,

  144. and I'm going to spend a bit more time on this one.

  145. Because I don't know what you think about the word hope,

  146. but hope is actually vital for life.

  147. Hope is actually a desire for heaven.

  148. I don't know if you realize that,

  149. because hope is a desire for a better world,

  150. for a better life,

  151. for a better future.

  152. That's what hope is.

  153. Hope is what gets you out of bed in the morning,

  154. thinking that you could be different,

  155. your life could be different,

  156. or you can make a difference in the world in some way.

  157. You know,

  158. I hoped that England would win last week,

  159. so I got up at 3 a.m.

  160. I never do that.

  161. I am still hoping that that might happen in the future.

  162. But when people lose hope,

  163. like England supporters often do,

  164. or like actually a lot of young people in Hong Kong have,

  165. right,

  166. what happens is you give up.

  167. You get depressed.

  168. You lose the joy of life when you have no hope.

  169. And so secular hope,

  170. the hope out there,

  171. is actually looking for heaven on earth now.

  172. You're looking for it in promotion,

  173. or in early retirement,

  174. or in a comfortable life,

  175. or in a great body.

  176. That's why you go to the gym all the time.

  177. But Christian hope is actually different from all of that.

  178. So let me explore what Christian hope is.

  179. Romans 5 says,

  180. we rejoice in hope of the glory of God.

  181. That's an amazing statement.

  182. That's a statement that should get Christians out of bed every morning

  183. with a sense of purpose.

  184. Because Christian hope is that you and I were made

  185. for a personal relationship

  186. with the glorious, majestic creator of the universe.

  187. And every believer who puts their trust in him,

  188. you can experience that relationship even right now with him.

  189. But right now, if you're a Christian,

  190. you know that a relationship with God

  191. is still a little bit like being on Zoom.

  192. It's real,

  193. but there's something not quite all there.

  194. Right?

  195. There's something missing.

  196. But the hope of the glory of God

  197. is one day,

  198. that even though we see glimpses of his glory,

  199. though we experience the realness of his relationship right now,

  200. one day,

  201. you won't be on Zoom with him,

  202. you'll see him face to face.

  203. In his majestic beauty and majesty.

  204. I mean, just look at the sunset,

  205. look at the stars,

  206. and those are just a glimpse

  207. of the majesty of who he is.

  208. And scripture says,

  209. when you see the glory of God,

  210. then you and I will be home.

  211. Because he is actually the place

  212. where every desire and every longing

  213. that you have ever had

  214. is ultimately satisfied.

  215. Because he and we were made for him.

  216. We have hope that we will see the glory of God.

  217. But not only that,

  218. Paul also says,

  219. don't we all know deep down

  220. that there's something in us

  221. that's not what we should be?

  222. Right?

  223. We know that we're not all that we want to be.

  224. And we know that this world

  225. is not all that it should be.

  226. And the hope of the glory of God

  227. is like the Japanese art of kintsugi.

  228. Do you know kintsugi?

  229. Well, you know,

  230. where they take this broken pottery

  231. and what they do,

  232. they put it together with gold.

  233. You've got a picture of it.

  234. I think there's a picture here.

  235. And they put it together with gold.

  236. So actually what gets happened is

  237. the brokenness gets transformed

  238. into this glorious masterpiece.

  239. And so what God is saying,

  240. he will not only transform our broken lives

  241. from shame into glory

  242. so that we reflect his loving,

  243. perfect kindness and graciousness,

  244. but this world will also be freed

  245. from all the stuff you see on the news

  246. of the suffering,

  247. of the injustice,

  248. of the exploitation,

  249. of the pain.

  250. And some of you feel that pain today.

  251. And he says,

  252. there will be a time

  253. where there will be no more tears.

  254. There will be no more pain

  255. because we will be home

  256. with the one who created us.

  257. Heaven on earth.

  258. We have a hope in a good God

  259. who regrets glory out of brokenness.

  260. That is what Christian hope is.

  261. And you might say,

  262. well, I hope that's true.

  263. But you know when we say I hope,

  264. generally that's just kind of a wish, right?

  265. It's like, I hope England will win.

  266. Like, good chance.

  267. It's not a certainty.

  268. But when the Bible talks about hope,

  269. it's saying three things.

  270. First thing it's saying,

  271. hope is certain for Christians.

  272. Romans tells us,

  273. hope does not disappoint us

  274. because God's poured his love

  275. into our hearts.

  276. You know,

  277. every hope you have placed in this world

  278. can be taken away from you.

  279. But Christian hope

  280. is a hope outside of this world.

  281. And it's in the safe hands of God.

  282. And do you know what?

  283. God's never let go.

  284. God can never let you down.

  285. It cannot be taken away

  286. by COVID or an economic crisis

  287. because God's bigger than all of that.

  288. And so it's a bit like this.

  289. You know,

  290. secular hope

  291. is like,

  292. did you see those flights to nowhere

  293. during COVID?

  294. Right?

  295. Where basically

  296. there is no destination.

  297. The whole purpose of the flight

  298. is to get on the flight

  299. and just enjoy the ride

  300. and then come back down again.

  301. Okay?

  302. Now imagine

  303. if you've bought business class tickets.

  304. It's been a hard few months.

  305. You want to relax.

  306. You want to watch some movies.

  307. Just get away from it all.

  308. Okay?

  309. Good idea.

  310. So you take off.

  311. Everything's great.

  312. You start watching your favorite movie.

  313. You're just getting

  314. to the really good scene

  315. and then the entertainment system stops.

  316. Freezes.

  317. And you're like,

  318. oh my goodness me.

  319. You're mad.

  320. And you're like,

  321. oh,

  322. it's just that good scene.

  323. But then

  324. as you try and desperately

  325. try and get someone

  326. to fix the issue

  327. and it takes some time

  328. because they're busy

  329. with everybody else

  330. but then

  331. after 30 minutes of frustration

  332. and they just tell you

  333. sorry,

  334. it's not working

  335. you go,

  336. okay.

  337. Let me try and get some sleep.

  338. I need a bit of rest.

  339. So you just start nodding off

  340. and then turbulence hits

  341. and it's really bad turbulence.

  342. Have you seen that turbulence?

  343. You,

  344. where everyone around you,

  345. you know when you've been in turbulence

  346. and it's like this

  347. and it goes on

  348. not just for one minute

  349. but it's two minutes,

  350. five minutes,

  351. ten minutes

  352. and everyone's panicking.

  353. Everyone thinks the plane's

  354. going to go down.

  355. That's what actually

  356. a secular hope is like

  357. because

  358. in a flight to nowhere

  359. all your hopes,

  360. whatever you're putting

  361. your life on

  362. can be taken away

  363. from you

  364. in one instance

  365. of tribulation.

  366. Money,

  367. jobs,

  368. relationships,

  369. it's all uncertain.

  370. But Christian hope

  371. is different.

  372. It's a different flight.

  373. It's a flight

  374. with a destination.

  375. You know,

  376. like the Maldives.

  377. It's actually

  378. a destination

  379. to the glory of God.

  380. And if everything's smooth

  381. in life,

  382. we enjoy the flight.

  383. We enjoy the blessings

  384. God gives us.

  385. But if turbulence hits,

  386. it's unpleasant.

  387. We don't kind of

  388. love the turbulence

  389. but it doesn't crush us

  390. because our hope

  391. isn't on the flight,

  392. it's in the destination.

  393. You see,

  394. nothing can take away

  395. this hope

  396. because the fact

  397. that Jesus died

  398. and rose again

  399. from the dead

  400. means for Christians

  401. the Christian plane

  402. will not crash.

  403. Then there's one

  404. who's waiting for us

  405. at the airport

  406. who's going to welcome us.

  407. It's our lover

  408. and our saviour,

  409. Jesus Christ.

  410. The one who's sacrificed

  411. his entire life for us.

  412. And whether the flight

  413. is smooth

  414. or whether the flight

  415. is tough,

  416. all of it

  417. is actually still

  418. getting you

  419. towards the destination.

  420. You know,

  421. I know from personal experience

  422. in the face of death,

  423. there's no greater certainty

  424. than a resurrected saviour

  425. who you know

  426. has already gone before you

  427. and is waiting for you.

  428. That's Christian hope.

  429. It's certain.

  430. But Christian hope

  431. is not just certain,

  432. it's also transformational.

  433. Because what does Paul say?

  434. He says,

  435. we rejoice in hope.

  436. Now just think about

  437. how you rejoice in a baby.

  438. We had one four months ago.

  439. And so what happens is

  440. you spend time,

  441. you gaze at your child

  442. in the cot

  443. kind of longingly

  444. going,

  445. wow, isn't she amazing?

  446. You show everybody your baby

  447. and then other people say,

  448. oh, isn't she lovely?

  449. And you do all of that

  450. and you post a gazillion photos

  451. on Instagram and Facebook.

  452. You talk about her

  453. all the time to everyone.

  454. You go, oh,

  455. she farted today.

  456. It was amazing.

  457. You do all of these

  458. kind of things.

  459. You rejoice in your baby.

  460. How do you rejoice in hope?

  461. Well, you rehearse

  462. and you gaze

  463. and you talk about

  464. the hope you have

  465. to yourself

  466. and in community

  467. we remind each other of that.

  468. Because if drawing close to Jesus

  469. and being transformed

  470. to be like him

  471. is our hope,

  472. then we know that actually

  473. the trials

  474. and the turbulence

  475. we go through right now

  476. are actually

  477. the refining fire

  478. which is actually

  479. drawing us

  480. and shaping us

  481. towards that goal

  482. even today.

  483. You know,

  484. I have a stomach condition

  485. which reoccurs

  486. from time to time.

  487. And you know

  488. when you just feel rough,

  489. you don't feel like rejoicing at all,

  490. do you?

  491. And you actually feel like

  492. having a pity party.

  493. Oh, woe is me.

  494. But rejoicing in hope

  495. means right at those moments

  496. what God is trying to teach me

  497. and is what God wants

  498. to teach all of us

  499. who really know

  500. what it is to go through

  501. turbulence in these times

  502. is that we load

  503. our gospel shotgun

  504. with the promises of God.

  505. That right now

  506. I have Christ in me

  507. the hope of glory.

  508. That I can do all things

  509. through Christ

  510. who gives me strength.

  511. That he is renewing me

  512. and transforming me

  513. from one degree of glory

  514. to another right now

  515. in this moment.

  516. And as I rehearse

  517. that scripture

  518. and other people

  519. in the community

  520. remind me of the hope

  521. that we have.

  522. Do you know what happens?

  523. Immediately,

  524. not a lot.

  525. But actually

  526. as I battle

  527. and I wrestle

  528. hope rises

  529. and I discover

  530. God in new ways

  531. that I never thought

  532. were possible.

  533. And he gives me

  534. the strength

  535. to persevere

  536. in the midst of them.

  537. And my soul

  538. actually finds joy

  539. even in those hard moments

  540. because there is a purpose

  541. and I have a certain hope

  542. at that moment

  543. and he is beginning

  544. to transform me

  545. and transform us

  546. right at that place

  547. towards the hope

  548. that he has for us.

  549. You see,

  550. hope is not just certain.

  551. Hope is also

  552. transformational.

  553. But the third thing

  554. that Christian hope is,

  555. it's also personal.

  556. And

  557. because though it's not,

  558. it's a certain destination,

  559. Paul actually says

  560. be constant

  561. in prayer.

  562. You know,

  563. prayer is communicating

  564. with God.

  565. Constant means

  566. stubbornly,

  567. persistently,

  568. in a disciplined way,

  569. carrying on

  570. and doing it.

  571. You know,

  572. the early disciples

  573. met constantly

  574. in the temple

  575. in the book of Acts.

  576. It's a regular,

  577. habitual discipline.

  578. Like talking to your wife,

  579. actually.

  580. For a healthy relationship,

  581. communication

  582. needs to be

  583. constant,

  584. right?

  585. Regular habit.

  586. But here's the point.

  587. In turbulence,

  588. if your hope

  589. is getting

  590. the entertainment system

  591. of your life

  592. fixed and working,

  593. you'll get stressed

  594. just trying to

  595. get it all to work.

  596. You'll get frustrated.

  597. When all along,

  598. there's someone

  599. who's sitting next to you

  600. on the flight,

  601. but he's not just

  602. an ordinary passenger.

  603. He's God himself.

  604. He's the one

  605. who is

  606. the pilot

  607. of the plane,

  608. but he's also

  609. the one

  610. who's owned

  611. and designed

  612. the aircraft.

  613. And

  614. he's the one

  615. who created

  616. the laws

  617. of thermodynamics.

  618. and he's the one

  619. who's holding up

  620. the plane of your life

  621. right now.

  622. And if he is with you,

  623. if he is with you,

  624. then that means

  625. you don't just have

  626. an abstract,

  627. distant hope

  628. somewhere over there.

  629. You have a present place

  630. where you can run.

  631. You have a place

  632. where you can cry.

  633. You have a place

  634. where you can find

  635. refuge and strength

  636. no matter how hard

  637. it is for you,

  638. even right now.

  639. because he

  640. is not abstract.

  641. He is a person,

  642. Jesus Christ,

  643. with you.

  644. You see,

  645. constant prayer

  646. is an obligation

  647. for Christians

  648. just like breathing

  649. is an obligation

  650. for human beings.

  651. You see,

  652. in the turbulence,

  653. we don't just need

  654. a solution.

  655. We need a person

  656. to cling to.

  657. And in prayer,

  658. what we do

  659. is we turn to Jesus

  660. and we remember,

  661. he says,

  662. I'm with you always.

  663. I'll get you

  664. to the destination.

  665. I've got this.

  666. I don't know

  667. what you're going

  668. through right now,

  669. but some of you

  670. need to hear

  671. him saying,

  672. run to me

  673. because I want you

  674. to experience

  675. the fact that

  676. I have got

  677. your situation

  678. right now.

  679. You can trust me.

  680. because he knows

  681. how the plane works

  682. even when we have

  683. no idea.

  684. He says,

  685. rejoice in hope,

  686. be patient

  687. in tribulation,

  688. be constant

  689. in prayer.

  690. And by the way,

  691. if you are struggling

  692. right now,

  693. don't go it alone.

  694. Come and speak

  695. to one of us,

  696. myself,

  697. a CG member,

  698. because we're

  699. to be a community

  700. who walks

  701. on this road

  702. together.

  703. So what does

  704. that all have

  705. to do with love,

  706. this verse 12?

  707. Well,

  708. I want to move

  709. on to verse 13,

  710. which is the second

  711. point,

  712. which is hope

  713. fuels love.

  714. You see,

  715. when your hope

  716. is in now,

  717. you will become

  718. stressed and

  719. frustrated with

  720. the turbulence

  721. of life.

  722. you'll become

  723. anxious,

  724. because if

  725. everything is

  726. about now,

  727. man,

  728. that's a lot

  729. of pressure on.

  730. But can anyone

  731. tell me,

  732. has anyone

  733. who's been

  734. really stressed

  735. ever been

  736. more loving

  737. when you're

  738. stressed?

  739. Anyone?

  740. I don't think

  741. so.

  742. Because what

  743. happens when

  744. we're stressed,

  745. we tend to

  746. turn inwards,

  747. we tend to

  748. try and preserve

  749. ourselves.

  750. Some of us

  751. do that by

  752. escaping into

  753. alcohol or

  754. binge-watching

  755. Netflix.

  756. We just try

  757. and cope

  758. with the

  759. situation.

  760. Others of us

  761. keep calm

  762. and carry on.

  763. And then you

  764. look around

  765. at everybody

  766. else who's

  767. worrying,

  768. whether it's

  769. about COVID

  770. or other

  771. things,

  772. and you go,

  773. why are they

  774. all worrying?

  775. Why are they

  776. all so weak

  777. and emotional

  778. about these

  779. things?

  780. You should

  781. be like me.

  782. And you

  783. have very

  784. little compassion

  785. on other

  786. people who

  787. are struggling.

  788. doing.

  789. But when

  790. you've got

  791. a hope

  792. beyond the

  793. flight,

  794. when the

  795. turbulence

  796. hits and

  797. the Spirit

  798. reminds you

  799. to turn in

  800. prayer to

  801. your all-powerful

  802. Savior by

  803. your side,

  804. remind yourself

  805. of the

  806. scripture

  807. promises of

  808. hope,

  809. and you

  810. find that

  811. over time

  812. he brings

  813. peace and

  814. a joy into

  815. your heart,

  816. then what

  817. happens is

  818. that hope-filled

  819. joy begins

  820. to take your

  821. eyes off

  822. yourself.

  823. And you

  824. start looking

  825. around and

  826. you see the

  827. other passengers

  828. around and

  829. you see their

  830. needs and

  831. you see their

  832. anxieties and

  833. their worries,

  834. not just your

  835. own.

  836. And Paul

  837. says this,

  838. with hope,

  839. what you can

  840. start to do

  841. is you can

  842. start to

  843. contribute to

  844. the needs

  845. of the

  846. saints.

  847. You see,

  848. contribute

  849. doesn't just

  850. mean,

  851. okay,

  852. throw in some

  853. money into

  854. the offering

  855. and then go

  856. back to

  857. your own

  858. problems.

  859. The word

  860. contribute,

  861. actually,

  862. it's the

  863. word fellowship,

  864. which means

  865. to share

  866. life with.

  867. He says,

  868. share life

  869. with the

  870. saints.

  871. That means

  872. other believers

  873. in church.

  874. It means

  875. entering into

  876. partnership with

  877. their struggles

  878. so their

  879. burden becomes

  880. your burden.

  881. You feel

  882. their struggles,

  883. not just

  884. your own.

  885. And I've

  886. been so

  887. encouraged,

  888. because in

  889. Watermark,

  890. I know there

  891. are families

  892. who are

  893. struggling with

  894. young kids,

  895. and there are

  896. CG members,

  897. you've just

  898. stepped up,

  899. you're providing

  900. meals,

  901. you're providing

  902. babysitting,

  903. you're providing

  904. toys,

  905. all kinds of

  906. things.

  907. I know

  908. that there

  909. are families

  910. here who

  911. are reaching

  912. out to

  913. singles who

  914. are struggling

  915. with loneliness,

  916. and you're

  917. inviting them

  918. in to spend

  919. meals so that

  920. they can

  921. experience family

  922. life in this

  923. difficult season.

  924. Hope opens

  925. you up to

  926. love other

  927. people,

  928. and I see

  929. that in our

  930. community.

  931. But you

  932. know,

  933. you will only

  934. see the

  935. needs of

  936. others when

  937. you're actually

  938. investing in

  939. relationships with

  940. people.

  941. Do you know,

  942. that's why we

  943. encourage everyone

  944. in Watermark to

  945. get into

  946. CGs,

  947. or if you're

  948. in a stage

  949. of life as a

  950. family,

  951. to get into

  952. family groups

  953. where you can

  954. actually begin to

  955. walk with one

  956. another,

  957. and when you

  958. do that,

  959. you'll begin to

  960. see the needs

  961. of other people.

  962. So my question

  963. is,

  964. do you see the

  965. needs of people

  966. in your CG?

  967. Do you see the

  968. needs of people

  969. in Watermark

  970. around you?

  971. Or,

  972. and here's the

  973. challenge,

  974. are you wrapped

  975. up with all of

  976. your own problems

  977. that you can't

  978. see beyond

  979. them?

  980. Because if

  981. that's the

  982. case,

  983. that may be

  984. an indication

  985. to you that

  986. your hope is

  987. in the flight

  988. rather than

  989. in the

  990. destination.

  991. And God

  992. may be calling

  993. you,

  994. come back to

  995. me and

  996. place your

  997. hope in

  998. me,

  999. and let

  1000. me free

  1001. you to

  1002. see others

  1003. around you.

  1004. But you

  1005. see,

  1006. it's not

  1007. just,

  1008. he says,

  1009. hope opens

  1010. you to see

  1011. the church

  1012. community

  1013. around.

  1014. He then

  1015. says it

  1016. opens you to

  1017. see the

  1018. community

  1019. outside the

  1020. church too.

  1021. Because he

  1022. says next,

  1023. seek to

  1024. show

  1025. hospitality.

  1026. And again,

  1027. the word

  1028. hospitality doesn't

  1029. mean dinner

  1030. parties or

  1031. fine dining.

  1032. The word

  1033. literally means

  1034. in Greek,

  1035. love for

  1036. strangers.

  1037. Love for

  1038. strangers.

  1039. And he

  1040. says,

  1041. pursue,

  1042. seek,

  1043. pursue,

  1044. actively,

  1045. pursue loving

  1046. strangers.

  1047. Not just

  1048. kind of wait

  1049. till some

  1050. show up.

  1051. No,

  1052. actually be

  1053. looking for

  1054. opportunities

  1055. where you

  1056. can open

  1057. up your

  1058. life,

  1059. your home,

  1060. your heart,

  1061. not just

  1062. for the

  1063. people in

  1064. the church

  1065. community,

  1066. but also

  1067. for those

  1068. outside who

  1069. can experience

  1070. the love of

  1071. Christ through

  1072. us.

  1073. That's actually

  1074. what,

  1075. you know,

  1076. some of you

  1077. did.

  1078. Who went

  1079. on loving

  1080. the city?

  1081. Okay,

  1082. a few of you

  1083. did.

  1084. That's why

  1085. we want to

  1086. call people

  1087. to see the

  1088. city,

  1089. the loving

  1090. the city.

  1091. Some of us

  1092. went out to

  1093. pour tea for

  1094. refuse collectors

  1095. and just get to

  1096. know them.

  1097. Some of us

  1098. are with the

  1099. Young Lives,

  1100. teen ministry

  1101. that Oscar

  1102. mentioned,

  1103. you know,

  1104. we're befriending

  1105. vulnerable mothers.

  1106. I know there's a

  1107. couple of CGs here

  1108. who are tutoring

  1109. refugee kids.

  1110. And God is

  1111. calling us as we

  1112. have this hope

  1113. that we don't

  1114. have to cling

  1115. to our life

  1116. right now,

  1117. but we can see

  1118. other people.

  1119. You know,

  1120. one of the

  1121. things I've

  1122. realized being

  1123. in Hong Kong,

  1124. and my wife

  1125. has also shared

  1126. this with me

  1127. about her life,

  1128. that growing up,

  1129. many of us are

  1130. taught to be

  1131. very private.

  1132. We're taught

  1133. to be very

  1134. suspicious of

  1135. strangers and

  1136. people you don't

  1137. know.

  1138. You know,

  1139. they could do

  1140. things.

  1141. You can be

  1142. dangerous.

  1143. And one of the

  1144. things that I've

  1145. seen, both with

  1146. people here in

  1147. Watermark, but also

  1148. with my wife as

  1149. well, is that as

  1150. the gospel has

  1151. grown and shaped

  1152. and worked in

  1153. their life, what

  1154. it's done, it's

  1155. actually opened

  1156. them up to be

  1157. less fearful and

  1158. to open up their

  1159. lives.

  1160. I've seen opening

  1161. up our home for

  1162. refugees, troubled

  1163. kids.

  1164. I've seen people

  1165. just serving the

  1166. homeless who a

  1167. million, like in

  1168. their childhood,

  1169. they would never

  1170. have done it.

  1171. Why?

  1172. Because the hope

  1173. of the gospel

  1174. changes you to go,

  1175. I don't have to

  1176. cling to my

  1177. privacy right now.

  1178. I don't have to

  1179. cling to my

  1180. comfort right now

  1181. because my hope

  1182. is not in right

  1183. now, because I

  1184. can be messy

  1185. right now and

  1186. it's okay.

  1187. I can be a

  1188. little bit risky

  1189. right now because

  1190. actually God's got

  1191. me and he's my

  1192. security and he's

  1193. my protection.

  1194. Here's a challenge

  1195. from Rosaria

  1196. Butterfield.

  1197. She says this,

  1198. Christians who

  1199. have too much are

  1200. the ones prohibited

  1201. from practicing

  1202. hospitality.

  1203. They have so many

  1204. cluttered idols that

  1205. they can give

  1206. nothing at all.

  1207. For this reason,

  1208. it's often the

  1209. well-heeled and

  1210. rich who are

  1211. known for their

  1212. lack of hospitality

  1213. and the meager and

  1214. even poor who are

  1215. known for their

  1216. plentiful hospitality.

  1217. So Christian,

  1218. kill your idols.

  1219. I was really

  1220. challenged by that.

  1221. Really challenged

  1222. by that.

  1223. Because you know,

  1224. as Watermark,

  1225. we're not the

  1226. poorest of the

  1227. poor.

  1228. people who

  1229. want to do in

  1230. our lives and

  1231. in our church is

  1232. that in an anxious

  1233. world, in an anxious

  1234. city, that as

  1235. Christian hope gets

  1236. hold of us into our

  1237. hearts, it begins to

  1238. change us into this

  1239. community which is

  1240. willing to sacrifice

  1241. our in-flight

  1242. comforts and the

  1243. desires that we have

  1244. to spend time with the

  1245. Filipino community on a

  1246. Sunday afternoon.

  1247. For those who can

  1248. afford it, renting

  1249. larger properties so

  1250. that you can host

  1251. people more.

  1252. And I know many of

  1253. you do this.

  1254. People from different

  1255. backgrounds.

  1256. It means sacrificing

  1257. your free time to be

  1258. willing to accompany a

  1259. teen mom to a

  1260. hospital appointment.

  1261. It looks like inviting

  1262. the receptionist or a

  1263. colleague in your

  1264. workplace, even when

  1265. you're busy out for

  1266. lunch, or taking the

  1267. time to pray and talk

  1268. with the security guard

  1269. that you have.

  1270. You see, as a

  1271. community, God wants

  1272. us to be known as

  1273. people who are lovers

  1274. of strangers.

  1275. Not because we do it

  1276. in our own strength,

  1277. but because we know

  1278. the mercies of God to

  1279. us.

  1280. Because we know that

  1281. Christ was the most

  1282. hospitable person ever.

  1283. You know, didn't he

  1284. eat and drink with the

  1285. despised, with the

  1286. outcast, with the

  1287. shamed, but also with

  1288. the religious hypocrites

  1289. like the Pharisees?

  1290. He eats and drinks with

  1291. those who feel your

  1292. brokenness the most.

  1293. For those of us who

  1294. need a hope beyond

  1295. ourselves.

  1296. And he opens his arms,

  1297. welcoming people like

  1298. you and me to his table

  1299. to eat with him, the

  1300. king of all creation,

  1301. without condemnation,

  1302. without judgment, to

  1303. come home to be with

  1304. him.

  1305. And if you're not a

  1306. Christian today, Jesus

  1307. is pursuing strangers

  1308. like you.

  1309. And he's calling you

  1310. today not just to keep

  1311. the door shut and bolted

  1312. on the inside, but as

  1313. he knocks on the door

  1314. of your heart, he's

  1315. saying, will you open

  1316. up your heart to me?

  1317. Don't be so private,

  1318. don't be so self-reliant

  1319. that the king of kings

  1320. can't enter and show

  1321. you what it really

  1322. means to have hope.

  1323. Will you shut out the

  1324. pilot of your life

  1325. because you want to

  1326. pilot your own life?

  1327. You know, that's the

  1328. way to a plane crash.

  1329. Will you pray today,

  1330. Jesus, if you are who

  1331. you say you are, then I

  1332. want you to come into

  1333. my life.

  1334. I want to find this hope

  1335. in you.

  1336. Pilot my life.

  1337. I want a relationship

  1338. with you.

  1339. That's the offer today.

  1340. Will you take it?

  1341. And if you are a

  1342. Christian, do you know,

  1343. in our city, the most

  1344. persuasive argument for

  1345. the truth of the gospel is

  1346. not a great sermon.

  1347. It's not a great

  1348. intellectual conversation,

  1349. though those things are

  1350. good.

  1351. It's a community of hope-

  1352. fulfilled, heroic love.

  1353. Who, because of the

  1354. mercies of Jesus, we learn

  1355. to kill our idols, whether

  1356. it's of comfort, privacy,

  1357. self-reliance, whatever

  1358. they are.

  1359. And in the midst of

  1360. tribulation, we learn how

  1361. to rejoice in the hope

  1362. that we have.

  1363. We learn how to be

  1364. patient and just keep

  1365. going constantly in

  1366. prayer, contributing and

  1367. sharing our lives with the

  1368. needs of those in our

  1369. church community, opening

  1370. our hopes, opening our

  1371. homes and our hearts and

  1372. our lives to those around

  1373. us, and setting our

  1374. sights on Christ, the hope

  1375. of glory.

  1376. Let me pray.

  1377. I want you just to think

  1378. where you are up to right

  1379. now with Jesus.

  1380. And some of us need to

  1381. actually just rejoice again

  1382. in the hope that we have

  1383. in Christ.

  1384. Some of us, we've

  1385. forgotten.

  1386. We haven't gazed on Christ

  1387. recently.

  1388. We've gazed on our

  1389. problems.

  1390. But some of you just

  1391. need to come and thank

  1392. him for who he is and

  1393. what he's done and where

  1394. he's taking us.

  1395. Some of us need to repent

  1396. that actually we're putting

  1397. our hope in so many other

  1398. things.

  1399. And Jesus calls you to his

  1400. table to find hope in him.

  1401. And some of us, God is

  1402. calling you to actually take

  1403. a step of faith, to reach

  1404. out to someone, to pray for

  1405. someone, to look beyond

  1406. yourself and let Jesus

  1407. work in your heart.

  1408. So as the band comes up

  1409. and we're going to sing our

  1410. next song, just take a few

  1411. seconds to just pray

  1412. wherever you're up to with

  1413. God.

  1414. Some of us need, in the

  1415. struggles that we're going

  1416. through, to just cling to

  1417. Jesus and just to pray to him

  1418. right now.

  1419. He's with you.

  1420. He's with you.

  1421. Father, we just want to thank

  1422. you.

  1423. that with you there's a hope

  1424. that is utterly, utterly

  1425. unshakable.

  1426. Thank you that your

  1427. resurrection means that we

  1428. are never left alone.

  1429. That you walk with us.

  1430. Teach us to love because we

  1431. have a true hope in you.

  1432. In Jesus' name.

  1433. Amen.