Sermon
Exposing Our Hearts
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Transcript
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Father, thank you for your implanted word that gave us birth,
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that is saving our souls, that is making us the people you want us to be.
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Please speak to us today by your spirit.
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Would you work deep in our hearts?
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Pray that the words I speak, you would make them your words in each of our hearts.
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No matter where we're at, no matter what morning we had,
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would we hear you speak to each one of us?
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In Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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Anastasia.
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The scripture reading today comes from the book of James, chapter 3.
James 3 chapter mention
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Starting in verse 1, we read,
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Now many of you should become teachers, my brothers and sisters,
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for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness.
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For we all stumble in many ways,
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And if anyone does not stumble in what he says,
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he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body.
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If we put bits into the mouths of horses so that they obey us,
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we guide their whole bodies as well.
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Look at the ships also.
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Though they are so large and are driven by strong winds,
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They are guided by a very small rudder,
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Wherever the will of the pilot directs.
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So also the tongue is a small member,
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Yet it boasts of great things.
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How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire!
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And the tongue is a fire,
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A world of unrighteousness.
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The tongue is set among our members,
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Staining the whole body,
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Setting on fire the entire course of life,
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And set on fire by hell.
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For every kind of beast and bird,
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Of reptile and sea creature,
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Can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind.
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But no human being can tame the tongue.
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It is a restless evil,
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Full of deadly poison.
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With it, we bless our Lord and Father,
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And with it, we curse people
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Who are made in the likeness of God.
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From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.
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My brothers and sisters,
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These things ought not to be so.
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Does a spring pour forth from the same opening,
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Both fresh and salt water?
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Can a fig tree, my brothers and sisters,
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Bear olives?
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Or a grapevine produce figs?
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Neither can a salt pond yield fresh water.
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Who is wise in understanding among you?
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By his good conduct,
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Let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom.
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But if you have bitter jealousy
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And selfish ambition in your hearts,
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Do not boast and be false to the truth.
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This is not the wisdom that comes down from above,
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But is earthly, unspiritual, demonic.
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For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist,
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There will be disorder and every vile practice.
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But the wisdom from above is first pure,
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Then peaceable, gentle,
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Open to reason,
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Full of mercy and good fruits,
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Impartial and sincere.
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And a harvest of righteousness
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Is sown in peace by those who make peace.
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This is the word of God.
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Great.
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Thank you, Anastasia, for reading.
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I forgot to say,
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If you're new and you don't know me,
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My name is Niels.
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I'm part of the staff team.
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And yeah, it's a privilege to bring you
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God's word today.
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But, uh,
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Now, a few weeks ago,
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We had a typhoon,
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And I don't know what it was like for you.
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Uh, we live in a bit of a remote area.
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And so, of course,
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We had some damage from some trees and stuff.
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And, uh, sadly,
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This is our road.
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And it was, uh,
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Blocked by a tree.
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And, uh,
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We had to go somewhere later.
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And, uh,
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Yeah.
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We didn't think the government would be there soon
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Because we are such a low-priority road.
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And, uh,
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So, yeah.
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I thought,
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I can solve this, right?
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I've got a saw.
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I just go and solve the branches
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And push the tree aside.
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I can do that.
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That's what I thought.
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Except that, uh,
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As I was pushing,
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Suddenly my back just really started to hurt.
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And it,
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It hurt the whole rest of the afternoon and evening
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Until basically the next morning.
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Right?
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I couldn't,
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I could hardly walk.
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Uh,
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Sitting down,
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Standing up,
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Everything just hurt.
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And, uh,
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Yeah,
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I had to go to A&E.
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And, uh,
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That was all fun.
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And now I'm doing some exercises.
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It's probably just bad posture.
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But, uh,
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But the thing is,
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Was this something unexpected?
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To be honest,
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No, not really.
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Right?
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Because, uh,
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In the past few years,
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Regularly,
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You know,
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I would push some heavy furniture.
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And actually,
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I would feel something.
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And sometimes my dear wife would say,
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Well, you need to watch your posture.
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Uh,
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And those kind of things.
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But you know what it's like, right?
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Uh,
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Life is busy.
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Got too many things.
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I'm sure it will get better.
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That kind of stuff.
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Uh,
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Well,
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It didn't get better.
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And then I really hurt myself.
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That's the thing, right?
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Sometimes it's,
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It's good to be warned.
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It's good to be told to watch out.
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But we don't listen.
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Um,
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I don't know how you feel this morning.
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We're coming to God's Word.
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And, uh,
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James,
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Yeah,
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He's writing to his old church.
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He's this loving pastor.
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Uh,
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But he sees some people there.
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And, uh,
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They're struggling with life.
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And he wants to say,
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Hey,
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Uh,
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Watch out.
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Hey,
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Uh,
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I'm concerned about you.
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And, uh,
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That is what he,
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Yeah,
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I think God wants to say to us today,
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Right?
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If that's what he said to them.
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It's how he wants to address us.
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He wants to,
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You know,
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You hear James's voice.
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My,
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My dear brothers and sisters,
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I love you guys.
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But I want to tell you something.
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I want to come alongside you.
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And so, uh,
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I hope we will listen.
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I,
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It's a bit like going to the doctor.
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I don't know if you've ever done a health check.
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And the doctor,
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He,
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Uh,
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Well,
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Kind of measures your blood pressure.
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And your heart rate.
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And your cholesterol.
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And he says,
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Hey guys,
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Uh,
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Hey,
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Why don't you,
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Uh,
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Maybe you need to do something about this.
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We may not like it,
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But,
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Uh,
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Yeah.
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I don't like change certainly.
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But it's good for us.
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And then what is,
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Uh,
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Dr.
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James looking at?
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What is he saying?
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Hey guys,
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Uh,
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This is what I see.
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Well,
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First of all,
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He says,
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Listen to your speech.
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Guys,
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Listen to your speech.
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A very famous passage that we read.
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I'm sure you've heard it.
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But it's,
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Uh,
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Of course it's about what we say.
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Uh,
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How does James go into it?
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Uh,
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Well,
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First he says,
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Not many of,
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Well,
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Verse one,
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Right?
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Not many of you,
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My brothers,
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Should become teachers.
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My brothers,
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For you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness.
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Hey,
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Uh,
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I wouldn't encourage many of you to kind of become a pastor or an elder or a church leader.
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That wouldn't be good.
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Because,
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Uh,
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Yeah,
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Well,
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You're going to be judged more strictly.
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Uh,
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What is he actually saying?
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You're going to receive more judgment.
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You're going to receive greater judgment.
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Uh,
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Why is that?
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Well,
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Verse two,
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We all stumble in many ways.
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And if,
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If anyone does not stumble in what he says,
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He's a perfect man,
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Able also to bridle his whole body.
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The problem is,
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Uh,
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We all stumble in all kinds of things,
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But especially in what we say.
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Uh,
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And what is the problem?
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If you have a job like mine,
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You do a lot of speaking.
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And the more you talk,
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The more you sin,
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Basically.
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Right?
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So,
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Maybe,
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Uh,
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That's not a good job for you.
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If you struggle with,
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Uh,
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What you say.
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It's a very scary verse for me.
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Right?
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If you can control what you say,
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Well,
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You're,
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You're perfect.
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But,
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Uh,
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If you're not,
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No,
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Maybe setting up chairs,
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Counting money,
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Maybe that's a better thing to do in church for you.
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But that's just his way in,
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Right?
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He's talking,
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Hey,
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About what you say.
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And then we get this very colorful,
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Wonderful passage about the tongue.
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We all know it.
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It's the,
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One of the most famous passages in James,
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About our tongue.
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Now,
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Of course,
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You know what a tongue is about.
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It's not really about this piece of flesh.
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It is about what we say.
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Um,
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In many languages,
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The word for tongue is the same as the word for language.
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Like speaking in tongues.
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That's not,
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Nothing to do with this.
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It's speaking in other languages.
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Right?
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Uh,
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That's what it means.
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Uh,
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But,
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Yeah,
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You use your tongue to speak.
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And of course,
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It doesn't just,
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I'm going to be mainly talking about speaking.
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But,
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I guess this,
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2023,
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Fixing your thumb.
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That would be another.
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Not just taming your tongue.
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Fixing your thumb.
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That's what he's talking about.
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But,
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What is he saying?
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Well,
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Look at the tongue.
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First of all,
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You know,
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It's so powerful.
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Right?
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Verse 3,
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If we put bits into the mouths of horses,
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So that they obey us.
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We guide their whole bodies as well.
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You know,
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You have this huge horse,
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And you just put a little bit of metal in its mouth.
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And,
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That whole horse moves and does whatever you want just from this little thing in its mouth.
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Right?
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That's,
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It's very powerful.
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What's it just that this little thing can do.
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Or,
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Or ships,
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Right?
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Look at the ships also.
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They are so large and are driven by strong winds.
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They are guided by a very small rudder.
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Wherever the will of the pilot directs.
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Directs.
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Yeah?
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This little flappy thing at the back of the boat can steer this whole thing wherever it wants.
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I mean,
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You get what he says,
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Right?
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Here's a very small thing with such a big impact on everything.
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And that's your tongue.
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Your tongue is,
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Is powerful.
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What we say is powerful.
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You know,
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Wars have been started and stopped by means of words.
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Right?
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Whole economies,
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Things in history have been turned around just by what people said.
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Words are powerful.
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Of course,
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The whole universe came through God's words.
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Right?
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In the whole Bible,
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Words are powerful.
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Although,
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Sometimes it's good,
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But usually,
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Actually,
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The tongue is rather destructive.
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Right?
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Because that last example in verse 5,
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The tongue,
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Well,
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How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire.
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A forest fire.
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Right?
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Many of you,
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I mean,
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Sometimes you come from Canada or Australia.
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You know about forest fires.
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I don't know what the worst one was last summer.
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Canada was badly hit,
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I think.
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You know,
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It's the second largest country in the world.
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And every single province had forest fires.
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I think they burned about 160 times the area of Hong Kong.
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But how does a forest fire start?
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How does this huge place start?
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Maybe just a cigarette.
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Right?
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Or a barbecue,
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And one little coal falls off the barbecue.
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And that causes such a huge forest fire.
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And so,
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One little thing can have such a destructive impact.
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And so,
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So,
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James,
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Yeah,
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The tongue is,
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Your tongue is terrible.
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Right?
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It's a fire.
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A world of unrighteousness.
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It's set among our members,
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Staining the whole body,
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Setting on fire the entire course of life.
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It's a restless evil,
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Full of deadly poison.
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The tongue is terrible.
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And I guess we know that,
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Right?
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Maybe there's something that your parents said,
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That you were,
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When you were young,
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That just affected your whole life.
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Maybe that was something good.
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But maybe they,
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They put you down in a way,
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And it's always stayed with you.
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Maybe you had a,
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A relationship.
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There was one thing you said wrong,
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And that,
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That ruined everything.
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Or a friendship,
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Where,
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Yeah,
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Just the things you said,
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And,
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It's,
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It ruined everything.
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It's quite common,
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Right?
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We all know this.
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It's a fire.
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It's a poison.
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And,
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And this is basically how we hurt people,
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Right?
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I,
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I thought,
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When was the last time that I physically hurt someone?
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And,
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And not just stepping on their toes or something.
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I mean,
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I was bullied in primary school.
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And,
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And I remember one time that,
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Yeah,
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I really lashed out.
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And I,
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I actually hit someone in the face.
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But,
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But that's nearly 40 years ago.
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Since then,
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That has not happened.
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Seriously.
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Seriously.
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Um,
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How often do I,
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Hurt people by what I say?
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Do I say,
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Make some comments?
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Well,
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It's every week,
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Right?
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Maybe every day.
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It's so common,
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Right?
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That is basically how we hurt.
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None of us really go around hitting people.
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But so often what we say,
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It hurts,
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Right?
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You know,
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The,
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The,
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The,
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The,
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Could be gossip.
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But,
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Often,
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You know,
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When you put someone down,
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Uh,
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You,
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Uh,
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Say something in a way that,
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Uh,
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Yeah,
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Uh,
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Just,
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This hurts people.
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Hurts their feelings.
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You know,
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Difficult conversations.
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It's,
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It's,
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It's,
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It's hard.
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You know,
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It makes me,
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You know,
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Take three verse one really seriously.
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You know it yourself,
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Right?
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How,
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You know,
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Last week,
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Did you have to apologize to someone for what you said?
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Good chance you did,
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Right?
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Something you regret saying that,
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Uh,
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In a meeting or at home.
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It's so common.
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And,
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And it seems like we just can't help,
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It.
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Uh,
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Verse nine.
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Uh,
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With it we bless our Lord and Father,
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And with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God.
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Uh,
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Blessing and cursing.
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Uh,
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From the same mouth.
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That shouldn't be,
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Right?
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You,
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You come here and we sing Jesus Messiah.
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And,
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And then you go to coffee and then,
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You know,
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You,
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You gossip.
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And you,
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Uh,
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Or you,
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Or you talk to someone and you,
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You,
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You know,
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You hurt them by,
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You hurt their feelings.
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Right?
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It's so easy.
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And we,
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Our tongues just keep doing wrong.
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But,
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But,
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But what is the point that James wants to say?
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I mean,
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The,
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The,
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The,
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The passage here,
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You know,
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You have your Bible.
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It says,
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Taming the tongue.
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Now,
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That's not from the Bible.
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That's what the ESV people put in.
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But is that the right title?
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Taming the tongue?
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I mean,
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Many sermons on this,
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Uh,
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Passage,
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They,
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They are called like,
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Ten tips to tame the tongue.
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And those kind of things.
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Five ways to tame the tongue.
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The thing that surprises me,
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Everyone says James is so practical,
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Is that there is actually,
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Uh,
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It's very little.
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Right?
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I mean,
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So,
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In a way,
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That's what we expect.
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Right?
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Maybe you don't know the Bible very well,
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And you think,
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Oh,
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The Bible is telling you how to be good.
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It's giving you all this advice.
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What to do.
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James can do that.
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In chapter one,
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He says,
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You know,
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Every person should be quick to listen,
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Slow to speak,
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Slow to become angry.
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Yeah?
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Very good tips.
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You know,
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First listen before you speak.
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Be very careful and slow in what you say.
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But here,
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There's nothing.
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There isn't a single piece of advice.
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Nothing.
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The only advice he gives,
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Is,
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Uh,
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Don't do stuff that means you have to speak a lot,
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Because you're going to do more damage.
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Right?
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That's the only thing he says.
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No,
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He actually,
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His point is not,
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Here's how you tame your tongue.
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He's saying,
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Well,
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No human being can tame the tongue.
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Right?
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You can't tame your tongue.
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Rather,
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What your tongue does,
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It exposes you.
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That's those last two verses.
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Right?
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What,
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What does he say?
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Hey,
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Does a spring pour forth from the same opening,
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Both fresh and salt water?
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Now,
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You have a spring.
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Uh,
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Can you get,
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Uh,
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You know,
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We bless and we curse with the same mouth.
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Can you get from the same spring,
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Both salt water and fresh water?
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Well,
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No,
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You can't,
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Right?
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Uh,
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If it's a salt pond,
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You only get out of one kind of thing.
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Uh,
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This can't be the case.
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Uh,
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Can a fig tree,
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My brothers,
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Bear olives?
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Or a grapevine produce figs?
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Neither can a salt pond yields fresh water.
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Basically,
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Things,
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You know,
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What's inside is what comes out.
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Right?
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Uh,
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A certain tree produces fruit.
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And,
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Well,
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An olive tree produces olives.
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And a fig tree produces figs.
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And so,
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If something produces figs,
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Well,
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It's a fig tree.
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If something produces olives,
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It's an olive tree.
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And if something produces salt water,
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It's not a fresh spring.
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It's a salt spring.
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And behind it lies,
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Uh,
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Jesus' famous teaching.
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James is full of Jesus' teaching.
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I think we know these verses,
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But,
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Uh,
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Uh,
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Jesus says it clearly.
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Uh,
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Luke 6,
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43.
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For no good tree bears bad fruit,
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Nor again does a bad tree
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Bear good fruit.
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For each tree is known by its own fruit.
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For figs are not gathered from foreign bushes,
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Nor are grapes picked from a bramble bush.
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The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good.
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And the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil.
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For out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.
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And Jesus again goes to our speech.
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Well,
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What comes out of your mouth?
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Well,
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It's the overflow of your heart.
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It's overflow of what's deep inside you.
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The control center of who you are.
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And as the fruit reveals the tree,
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Well,
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So your speech reveals your heart.
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And if there's something wrong with your speech,
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Well,
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Maybe there's something wrong with your heart.
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To be honest,
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Isn't that exactly why we often hurt people?
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It's not lies.
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It's not things that aren't true.
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It's usually,
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I hurt people when I say what's deep inside.
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Right?
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And this is what I'm thinking.
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And if I'm good,
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And I'm control what I'm,
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I don't say what I'm thinking.
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And I don't hurt people.
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But it's often when I don't pay attention,
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And I just speak my mind.
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And that is when you do the damage.
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Right?
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So it shows the inside is the problem.
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And in a way,
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That means taming the tongue isn't even the issue.
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Taming your tongue.
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Does that change your heart?
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You have a salt spring.
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Well,
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You put a big concrete over it,
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And there's no more salt water coming out.
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There's no more salt water.
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Does it change the spring?
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Is it now a fresh spring?
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No,
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It's not a fresh spring.
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Right?
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It's still a salt spring.
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That's the thing.
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Right?
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Actually,
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We need something much deeper.
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We don't need to learn to tame our tongue.
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That's hard enough.
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Actually,
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We need a change of heart.
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And,
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Yeah.
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Let's think about this week.
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You know,
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Again,
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Have you had to apologize to someone for what you said?
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Anything you regret saying?
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People who got hurt?
-
And again,
-
That's very similar then to the next passage.
-
Because it's not just our speech.
-
James also says,
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Hey,
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Look at your conduct.
-
Verse 13,
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Who is wise and understanding among you?
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Who is wise?
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You think you're wise.
-
I don't know what you think.
-
What is a wise person?
-
Again,
-
We often think of knowledge,
-
Right?
-
And PhDs.
-
Well,
-
In the Bible,
-
Wisdom is when you walk with God.
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And you,
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You know,
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You live his way.
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And it's transformed life.
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It's about character.
-
And that's seen in how you live.
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13,
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Second half of the verse.
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By his good conduct.
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Now,
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If you're wise,
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By your good conduct,
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Let him show his works.
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In the meekness of wisdom.
-
Now,
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Show it by your life.
-
If you're,
-
If you think you're wise,
-
Well,
-
Look at your conduct.
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Because,
-
What does that look like?
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Verse 17,
-
Well,
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The wisdom from above is,
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First pure,
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Then peaceable,
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Gentle,
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Open to reason,
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Full of mercy,
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And good fruit,
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Impartial,
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And sincere.
-
And a harvest of righteousness,
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Is sown in peace,
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By those who make peace.
-
I mean,
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It's beautiful,
-
Right?
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Peaceable,
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Gentle,
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Open to reason,
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Making peace.
-
That is what,
-
Yeah,
-
A wise person's conduct looks like.
-
Again,
-
It's not often what we think.
-
Just to be clear,
-
You know,
-
Maturity is ultimately not about knowledge,
-
Right?
-
It's about a changed life.
-
And so,
-
Who is wise?
-
You know,
-
Who should be a teacher?
-
We often think,
-
Well,
-
Yeah,
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Someone with a PhD,
-
And who knows a lot.
-
But knowing the Bible doesn't make you mature.
-
There's plenty of people,
-
They know the Bible really well.
-
Their life is not necessarily changed much.
-
And there's other people,
-
They're really wonderful,
-
They just don't know very much.
-
That's also,
-
Right?
-
And so,
-
If you read the Bible,
-
Well,
-
What kind of elders should you need?
-
Yeah,
-
They should be able to teach,
-
And,
-
You know,
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Give instruction in sound doctrine.
-
But actually,
-
Most of it is about their character,
-
Right?
-
They should be humble,
-
And sober-minded,
-
And hospitable,
-
And not greedy,
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And all those things.
-
It's about character.
-
But,
-
Does he think his readers are wise?
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I'm not sure,
-
Because he goes on,
-
Well,
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Show it by your wisdom,
-
Show it by your conduct,
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But verse 14,
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But if you have bitter jealousy,
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And selfish ambition in your hearts,
-
Well,
-
Do not boast,
-
And be false to the truth,
-
Right?
-
Don't,
-
Don't claim to be wise,
-
Because this is not from God,
-
This is not the wisdom,
-
That comes from down from above,
-
But it is earthly,
-
Unspiritual,
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Demonic,
-
And again,
-
Your conduct,
-
For where jealousy,
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And selfish ambition exist,
-
There will be disorder,
-
And every vile practice,
-
And it's seen in your conduct,
-
And it's not,
-
They're not murdering anyone,
-
But there's disorder,
-
And all kinds of things,
-
Caused by jealousy,
-
And selfish ambition,
-
And he says,
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That that's from the world,
-
You know,
-
That that's not wisdom from God,
-
That's what you see,
-
Well,
-
Probably in your workplace,
-
In your office,
-
Right?
-
Maybe it's your family,
-
But again,
-
What is James' point?
-
Is he saying,
-
Hey,
-
Let's have good conduct,
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Let's,
-
Let's do this,
-
I remember our children,
-
They go to a Christian school,
-
And in grade two,
-
They learn this as a memory verse,
-
And it's very nice,
-
But what was,
-
Basically,
-
The teacher's point,
-
Well,
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Let's do this,
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Children,
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Let's be merciful,
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Let's be gentle,
-
Let's be peacemakers,
-
And they are all good things,
-
But James doesn't say,
-
Let's do this,
-
Rather,
-
He says,
-
Well,
-
Hey,
-
Show me your conduct,
-
Right?
-
You think you're wise,
-
Well,
-
Show me your conduct,
-
And if your conduct,
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Doesn't measure up,
-
Well,
-
Don't boast that you're wise,
-
Right?
-
Again,
-
It's the same thing,
-
Right?
-
It's the outside,
-
And the inside,
-
Your words,
-
Reveal your heart,
-
And your conduct,
-
Reveals,
-
Well,
-
What kind of wisdom,
-
Is in your,
-
Right?
-
Well,
-
What's governing you,
-
Is good conduct,
-
Comes from above,
-
And bad conduct,
-
Comes from below,
-
And what is your conduct?
-
Look at your conduct,
-
Because the thing is,
-
James sees,
-
Bad conduct,
-
Right?
-
We talk about,
-
A harvest of righteousness,
-
By those who make peace,
-
Well,
-
If you know chapter 4,
-
That's,
-
It's not really,
-
Their church,
-
Yeah?
-
Last week,
-
Hey,
-
You say you have faith,
-
But I don't see much change,
-
In your life,
-
Now,
-
Hey,
-
I'm listening to your speech,
-
And there's something wrong,
-
And I'm looking at your conduct,
-
And,
-
Hey,
-
There's something going on,
-
And,
-
Yeah,
-
And so on,
-
And James is,
-
Yeah,
-
He's diagnosing,
-
And he is,
-
Well,
-
Last week,
-
Kevin mentioned,
-
Like the doctor taking an x-ray,
-
Although actually,
-
Technically,
-
It's not an x-ray,
-
Right?
-
He doesn't need an x-ray,
-
He just looks at what comes out,
-
Like the doctor,
-
Well,
-
Stick out your tongue,
-
And then the doctor looks at the tongue,
-
And he can see what's wrong,
-
And that's the thing,
-
Right?
-
He is looking at you,
-
And say,
-
Hey,
-
Look at your speech,
-
Listen to your speech,
-
Look at your conduct,
-
James isn't here,
-
Of course,
-
But the Holy Spirit is,
-
And I think what he wants,
-
Is that we,
-
Well,
-
That we listen,
-
And,
-
You know,
-
Examine yourself,
-
You know,
-
Stick out your tongue,
-
How are we doing?
-
Basically,
-
Hey guys,
-
Let's take in the diagnosis,
-
Okay?
-
This is what the doctor says,
-
What is the diagnosis?
-
Now,
-
It depends a little bit,
-
On who you are,
-
Right?
-
Maybe you're here,
-
And you're actually,
-
You wouldn't describe yourself,
-
As a Christian,
-
And some of us here,
-
We're looking into Christianity,
-
I wonder,
-
What do we think of our,
-
Of our tongue?
-
I mean,
-
The Bible is,
-
Is actually maybe,
-
Some people,
-
They think the Bible is very sophisticated,
-
Right?
-
It just says,
-
Don't hit other people,
-
It's actually,
-
Quite sophisticated,
-
Right?
-
It says,
-
You hurt people by what you say,
-
And that is,
-
Actually,
-
From what comes deep inside,
-
You know,
-
Is that something that you recognize?
-
How many of us recognize,
-
Is that we,
-
We tend to hurt people,
-
By what we say,
-
That what we say,
-
Have often,
-
Yeah,
-
Problematic consequences,
-
And James is saying,
-
We're just not the person,
-
We thought we are,
-
We're not the person,
-
On the inside,
-
Who we should be,
-
We're not as good,
-
As we thought,
-
And even if you learn,
-
To control it,
-
Yeah,
-
It doesn't change the inside,
-
And we know this matters,
-
Right?
-
Because each of us,
-
Have been hurt,
-
Yeah,
-
We hurt other people,
-
But people hurt us,
-
And we know,
-
What certain words,
-
Have done for us,
-
And we feel,
-
Yeah,
-
We feel this is wrong,
-
This shouldn't be the case,
-
And even though everyone does it,
-
We know it's wrong,
-
Well,
-
Maybe,
-
Yeah,
-
Dr. James says,
-
Hey,
-
Maybe we should have a look at our heart,
-
Maybe there is something,
-
And maybe,
-
Maybe you need Jesus,
-
I don't know if you remember,
-
A year ago,
-
We baptized Raphael,
-
He had such a great testimony,
-
Because everyone was saying to him,
-
That he was so self-centered,
-
And everything,
-
And he always said,
-
No,
-
I'm not,
-
And then one time,
-
When he lost all his friends,
-
He read through his old text messages,
-
And then he could see,
-
Actually,
-
Wow,
-
I have been such a selfish person,
-
I have been so terrible,
-
He saw his own words,
-
And then he knew,
-
Yeah,
-
I need Jesus,
-
Right?
-
I need forgiveness,
-
I need a new hope,
-
I need a new identity,
-
Man,
-
Because of what I say,
-
Although at the same time,
-
You know,
-
James is actually,
-
He's not talking to those outside the church,
-
Right?
-
He's talking to Christians,
-
He's talking to a church,
-
And I think this is a challenging passage,
-
Right?
-
Because it says,
-
Well,
-
You're not as mature,
-
As you think you are,
-
You're not as humble,
-
As perfect as you are,
-
Listen to your speech,
-
Look at your conduct,
-
I think we all have things to repent of,
-
Right?
-
We all stumble in many ways,
-
I mean,
-
You can try to be quick to listen,
-
And slow to speak,
-
And they're very good things,
-
Although when I read this,
-
I also,
-
I just want to say,
-
Very close to Jesus,
-
To his grace,
-
To his forgiveness,
-
Seeking his help,
-
Because my speech shows,
-
That actually,
-
Often there's things in my heart,
-
Right?
-
That come out,
-
I think I should be very quick to apologize,
-
Quick to repent,
-
If I see this passage,
-
I can see that I often hurt people,
-
And it's very easy to be defensive,
-
Well,
-
They've misunderstood me,
-
They're just too sensitive,
-
Actually,
-
Often I'm part of the problem,
-
Right?
-
It's probably my heart,
-
Coming out in my speech,
-
That has hurt people,
-
If you know your heart,
-
And your tongue,
-
And it's a restless evil,
-
You'll be very humble,
-
I don't know,
-
Tuesday you're going back to work,
-
You're going in a meeting,
-
How are you going to go into that meeting?
-
My guess is,
-
You're going to pray,
-
Right?
-
Lord,
-
Keep me from hurting people,
-
By what I say,
-
Help me to say the right thing,
-
Help me to be careful,
-
Help me to listen,
-
Please help me to trust in you,
-
Please work in my heart,
-
Right?
-
That's how you go in,
-
And if you say something wrong,
-
And you see someone,
-
Wins at what you say,
-
Be quick to talk,
-
Be quick to apologize,
-
Right?
-
If we really know this,
-
Although for some of us,
-
Actually James would say,
-
Well for some of you,
-
There's a real problem,
-
Right?
-
For some of things,
-
Well we all have something,
-
But sometimes it's a bit over the limit,
-
Because James,
-
You know,
-
He's writing to a church,
-
And they're facing trials,
-
Right?
-
They were refugees,
-
They had to leave their home,
-
And now they're poor,
-
And they don't have their home,
-
They don't have their job,
-
And they're struggling,
-
And James wants to say,
-
Hey,
-
Yeah,
-
It's difficult,
-
But use it for good,
-
Use it to grow,
-
In patience,
-
And in trust,
-
But instead they are,
-
They're responding rather badly,
-
Yeah?
-
They want to follow Jesus,
-
But they also want to get rich,
-
Again,
-
And they're struggling,
-
And James says,
-
Hey,
-
You're being double-minded,
-
You're trying to do both,
-
And you can't,
-
But that's probably what's happening,
-
Right?
-
He sees the church,
-
And some people are not responding well,
-
Right?
-
He hears their tongue,
-
Salt water coming out of the salt spring,
-
And he sees their conduct,
-
And he wants to say,
-
Hey,
-
Something's wrong,
-
And that might be some of us here,
-
Right?
-
Maybe something stressful at work,
-
Or maybe a lack of work,
-
You don't have a job,
-
And actually,
-
Or something in your family,
-
And it's really affecting you,
-
Now maybe you think,
-
You're coping,
-
Because we often think that we're okay,
-
And we're coping,
-
And I'll go over,
-
Are your,
-
Are our words causing more hurt than normal?
-
Or actually,
-
Do you see,
-
If you're honest,
-
That actually,
-
I'm hurting more people than normal,
-
I'm having more problems than normal,
-
Is there more disorder around you,
-
Than there normally is?
-
Because maybe what you're going through,
-
Is infecting you badly,
-
Right?
-
What would your spouse say?
-
What would your CG say?
-
I think that's helpful,
-
Because,
-
You know,
-
James says,
-
Maybe there is something wrong deep inside,
-
Now I don't know,
-
Each one of us,
-
You know,
-
We need the spirit to let,
-
Uh,
-
Him speak to our hearts,
-
But that is what James is saying,
-
Hey guys,
-
For some of you,
-
I'm really worried,
-
I'm really concerned,
-
And,
-
You need something drastic,
-
And that will be next week,
-
I mean,
-
Today's the diagnosis,
-
Next week's the treatment,
-
But,
-
Deep repentance,
-
Deep,
-
Humbling yourself,
-
But if you're not in good shape,
-
You need to do something,
-
If the doctor says,
-
You know,
-
Your cholesterol is really high,
-
Do something,
-
And that is what James,
-
Is maybe saying to some of us today,
-
That's a,
-
Of course you need to know your temperament,
-
You need to know your personality,
-
I mean,
-
When I say this,
-
I know there's some people,
-
They're hypochondriacs,
-
Right?
-
They are a little bit of pain,
-
And they think they're dying,
-
Some people,
-
They see some sin in their life,
-
And,
-
Oh,
-
Maybe I'm not a Christian,
-
Maybe,
-
Right?
-
And actually,
-
I see their life,
-
And I think,
-
Man,
-
I wish the whole church was like you,
-
Maybe,
-
And so,
-
Know your personality,
-
There's other people,
-
On the other hand,
-
And there's no fruit in their lives,
-
And a lot of disorder,
-
And they say,
-
Oh,
-
When I was five,
-
I prayed a prayer,
-
I'm okay,
-
And maybe,
-
We should be worried about you,
-
So take this with your personality,
-
But,
-
You know,
-
Let James do the diagnosis,
-
Hey,
-
How's your speech,
-
How's your conduct,
-
If you produce salt water,
-
Maybe you're a salt spring,
-
If you're not producing fresh water,
-
Maybe you're not a fresh spring,
-
Right?
-
If there's not much fruit of the spirit,
-
Oh,
-
What's the spirit doing at the moment?
-
And that's the question,
-
Because that is where this chapter leaves us,
-
And,
-
Yeah,
-
Let's look at our hearts,
-
And that feels pretty hopeless sometimes,
-
In some way,
-
Although again,
-
You know,
-
When it tries to warn us,
-
It points us to a better way,
-
Right?
-
It's not much here,
-
But,
-
There is,
-
Right?
-
The gospel,
-
Right?
-
We can't tame the tongue,
-
Maybe,
-
We can't change our hearts,
-
But,
-
But who can do it?
-
Well,
-
Verse eight,
-
It says very clearly,
-
Right?
-
No human being can tame the tongue,
-
No human being,
-
How about someone who is not a human being?
-
Maybe they can tame your tongue,
-
Maybe they can change your heart,
-
You know,
-
How do you get good conduct?
-
Well,
-
If we are earthly,
-
And unspiritual,
-
We need wisdom,
-
From above,
-
And so,
-
You know,
-
If we are struggling,
-
With our hearts,
-
Well,
-
One verse five,
-
Right?
-
If anyone lacks wisdom,
-
Let him ask God,
-
Who gives generously to all,
-
Without finding fault,
-
There is wisdom,
-
There is hope,
-
There is change,
-
If we look to God,
-
And,
-
Yeah,
-
Because that's what he's doing,
-
Right?
-
Verses 17 and 18,
-
Also of chapter one,
-
You know,
-
Every good and perfect gift,
-
Comes from above,
-
Down from the father of light,
-
With whom there is no variation,
-
Or shadow due to change,
-
Of his own will,
-
He brought us forth,
-
By the word of truth,
-
That we should be a kind of,
-
First fruits of his creatures,
-
And this is not just trying to make a,
-
An olive tree into a fig tree,
-
This is a new birth,
-
This is a new creation,
-
God is the one who can,
-
You know,
-
Make a new fig tree,
-
Where there was an olive tree,
-
He can do that,
-
He can change us,
-
And we can look to him,
-
Yeah,
-
But that means humbling yourself,
-
That means coming to him,
-
That means depending on him,
-
That means asking him,
-
But let's do that today,
-
All right,
-
Let's listen to this passage,
-
Let's be honest,
-
Let's look at our conduct,
-
Look at our speech,
-
And let the Holy Spirit just tell us,
-
If,
-
You know,
-
Are we within range,
-
Are we over the limit,
-
How are we doing today?