Sermon

Our Bodies and Identity

Watermark Community Church Sermons

Open publisher episode ↗

Publisher transcript

Transcript

View source ↗
  1. The scripture reading comes from the book of 1st Samuel chapter 16.

  2. Please follow along on the bulletin or on your own Bible.

  3. Starting in verse 1, we read,

  4. The Lord said to Samuel,

  5. How long will you grieve over Saul, since I have rejected him from being king over Israel?

  6. Fill your horn with oil and go.

  7. I will send you to Jesse, the Bethlehemite, for I have provided for myself a king among his sons.

  8. And Samuel said, How can I go? If Saul hears it, he will kill me.

  9. And the Lord said, Take a heifer with you and say, I have come to sacrifice to the Lord.

  10. And invite Jesse to the sacrifice, and I will show you what you shall do.

  11. And you shall anoint for me him whom I declare to you.

  12. Samuel did what the Lord commanded and came to Bethlehem.

  13. The elders of the city came to meet him, trembling, and said, Do you come peaceably?

  14. And he said, Peaceably.

  15. I have come to sacrifice to the Lord.

  16. Consecrate yourselves and come with me to the sacrifice.

  17. And he consecrated Jesse and his sons and invited them to the sacrifice.

  18. When they came, he looked on Eliab and thought, Surely the Lord's anointed is before him.

  19. But the Lord said to Samuel, Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature,

  20. because I have rejected him.

  21. For the Lord sees not as man sees.

  22. Man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.

  23. Then Jesse called Abinadab and made him pass before Samuel.

  24. And he said, Neither has the Lord chosen this one.

  25. Then Jesse made Shama pass by.

  26. And he said, Neither has the Lord chosen this one.

  27. And Jesse made seven of his sons pass before Samuel.

  28. And Samuel said to Jesse, The Lord has not chosen these.

  29. Then Samuel said to Jesse, Are all your sons here?

  30. And he said, There remains yet the youngest, but behold, he is keeping the sheep.

  31. And Samuel said to Jesse, Send and get him, for we will not sit down till he comes here.

  32. And he sent and brought him in.

  33. Now he was ruddy and had beautiful eyes and was handsome.

  34. And the Lord said, Arise, anoint him, for this is he.

  35. Then Samuel took the horn of oil and anointed him in the midst of his brothers.

  36. And the spirit of the Lord rushed upon David from that day forward.

  37. And Samuel rose up and went to Ramah.

  38. This is the word of God.

  39. Thanks, Annabelle.

  40. Am I on?

  41. Can you guys hear me?

  42. Yeah?

  43. Okay.

  44. Thanks.

  45. Thanks, Niels.

  46. My name is Oscar.

  47. If you don't know me, it's a privilege to be delivering God's word today together as a church family.

  48. To our church family.

  49. Let me pray for us as we dive into God's word.

  50. Father, we come before you, Lord.

  51. And we ask that all of us here, God, myself included, Lord, that our hearts would be with awe,

  52. filled with awe as we look into your word, God, and as we receive your spirit.

  53. Father, I pray, God, that as we look at body again more closely,

  54. and as we look at body and identity today, Lord,

  55. that we would see, Lord, that we are secure in you as children of God.

  56. That you love us.

  57. That you delight in us.

  58. I pray especially, Lord, for those of us today, God, that may struggle a bit with our identity

  59. or with our appearance, how we look.

  60. God, that you would fill our hearts with your love and goodness and security

  61. that can only be found in Jesus.

  62. I pray particularly for our youth who are with us in service today, God.

  63. I pray, Lord, that the eyes of their hearts will be opened to receive your word today,

  64. that they would be impacted by your word, Father.

  65. So we just commend this time, commit this time to you in Jesus' name.

  66. Amen.

  67. Amen.

  68. So, yeah, we're in week two of a six-week sermon series on body and faith,

  69. where we're looking at what the Bible says about our physical bodies.

  70. Last week, Kevin started us off, and he spoke about our bodies and creation,

  71. showing us that our bodies are not inconsequential.

  72. Our bodies matter.

  73. Our bodies are fearfully and wonderfully made by God who knows us intimately and delights in us.

  74. And today, we're going to look at our bodies and identity.

  75. Is there a ringing sound?

  76. Can you guys?

  77. Closer?

  78. Okay.

  79. Is that better?

  80. Is it better?

  81. Okay.

  82. Now, I think that we all know this phrase,

  83. don't judge a book by its cover.

  84. Take any book.

  85. The title may be one word or a phrase, something innocuous,

  86. or maybe something eye-catching.

  87. Maybe there's a photograph on the front of the book or a vague picture.

  88. But until we actually open up the book and read it,

  89. would we appreciate the theme,

  90. would we appreciate the theme, the lesson,

  91. or would we appreciate the writing style, the prose, the poetry?

  92. Until we venture inside the pages,

  93. would we understand the storyline and the characters of the book,

  94. the meat and heart of the book?

  95. And isn't it true that the way we identify people, at least in part,

  96. is like judging a book by its cover?

  97. We look at a person's appearance, their face, their body.

  98. Are they tall?

  99. Are they short?

  100. Their skin color?

  101. And we make an assessment, a judgment.

  102. But in today's passage from 1 Samuel 16,

  103. the Bible tells us that God doesn't value us based on our appearance.

  104. God doesn't look at the cover of the book.

  105. God looks at what is inside.

  106. And what is inside is not just our heart,

  107. but also our body and how we use our body.

  108. And so what I hope we see today is that it's faith in Christ,

  109. in our heart, lived out through our body,

  110. that reflects our identity as children of God.

  111. And because this is our identity,

  112. we can be secure in Christ

  113. and honor God with our heart and with our body.

  114. And so today's big idea is that our identity in Christ

  115. is that of a child of God,

  116. through faith in Christ in our hearts,

  117. and lived out in our bodies.

  118. Now, in the world's view,

  119. how we look, our body type,

  120. or how in shape or out of shape we are,

  121. is such a big part of our identity.

  122. For many of us, it shapes how we see ourselves,

  123. how others perceive us,

  124. or how we want to be perceived,

  125. and also how we view others.

  126. Of course, the word identity is such a big and complicated word.

  127. In simple terms,

  128. I think we can define identity as something we look to,

  129. to feel a sense of self-worth and value.

  130. In Hong Kong,

  131. separate from our physical appearance,

  132. our identity is often shaped by,

  133. number one, family background.

  134. Do we come from a well-known prominent family,

  135. or perhaps not?

  136. Education.

  137. Where do we go to school?

  138. How about career?

  139. I think this one is big for us here in Hong Kong.

  140. I think that for many of us,

  141. our career, our title,

  142. really is who we are.

  143. That is our identity.

  144. I'm a lawyer.

  145. I'm a doctor.

  146. I'm a banker.

  147. I'm a PhD student.

  148. I'm a business owner.

  149. I'm a manager.

  150. I'm a partner.

  151. Or how about relationship status?

  152. I admit,

  153. this one is especially difficult to talk about.

  154. But I think that for some of us,

  155. our identity is tied to who we're dating,

  156. or who we're married to,

  157. or if we're dating or married at all.

  158. And that's why I think that when we break up,

  159. we lose our bearings,

  160. and we lose a sense of who we are.

  161. In Western society,

  162. what seems to be elevated in today's culture,

  163. when it comes to identity,

  164. is this idea that we need to be true to who we are.

  165. My body isn't the real me.

  166. My gender isn't the real me.

  167. What I feel inside is the real me,

  168. and therefore,

  169. I can do whatever I want with my body.

  170. We will touch upon this in more detail

  171. when we speak about body and gender in a few weeks.

  172. But on the topic of body and identity,

  173. there's no doubt that culture and the world around us

  174. shape how we view physical appearance,

  175. the body, and identity.

  176. Think about how much money we spend on our face,

  177. just our face alone.

  178. In the U.S.,

  179. one source indicates that

  180. the global spend on cosmetics

  181. is upwards of $100 billion a year.

  182. Or think about the types of cosmetic surgeries

  183. people go through,

  184. some of which are quite expensive

  185. and perhaps even dangerous.

  186. And it isn't just women.

  187. All right?

  188. Us guys, we're also a part of this too.

  189. A survey by Deloitte suggests that in the U.S.,

  190. men actually spend more

  191. on overall beauty products than women.

  192. Surprisingly, yes.

  193. It's true.

  194. Don't be ashamed, guys.

  195. It's okay.

  196. I used lotion this morning on my face.

  197. Now, if you're sitting here,

  198. now if you're sitting here

  199. and you don't care about your looks,

  200. nor do you feel any social pressure

  201. to look a certain way,

  202. don't fall asleep quite yet.

  203. Maybe you're married and you're like,

  204. eh, I don't care about how I look.

  205. I'm already married.

  206. I don't have to impress my spouse.

  207. Maybe I'm peak,

  208. maybe I'm peak maxing.

  209. Maxing, by the way,

  210. means maximizing a physical appearance.

  211. I learned that recently

  212. as I was researching this sermon.

  213. Even if that is your view,

  214. even that could be your view,

  215. the social pressure on how we look

  216. and the world's obsession with our bodies

  217. likely affects someone near and dear to your heart.

  218. Maybe your wife.

  219. Maybe your husband,

  220. as he gets a bit older

  221. and his hair starts thinning.

  222. I think mine is a little bit at the moment.

  223. Thank you for caring for me, honey.

  224. Maybe your brother or sister.

  225. Maybe your parents.

  226. Maybe your teenage,

  227. maybe your child as he or she

  228. is reaching their teenage years.

  229. Maybe someone in your CG.

  230. Maybe someone sitting around you

  231. right here today in church.

  232. And given the rise of social media

  233. and the pressure of always looking good

  234. and having to put our best face

  235. and body forward as our identity,

  236. look at the rise in body dissatisfaction,

  237. especially among teenagers

  238. and young adults.

  239. The skincare company Dove

  240. did a study which indicated

  241. that only 2% of women

  242. would describe themselves as beautiful.

  243. Even actors, supermodels,

  244. and pro athletes struggle

  245. with how they look.

  246. And it just goes to show

  247. how much pressure the world places

  248. on how we look

  249. and how much value that we place

  250. on how we look.

  251. And look at some of the consequences.

  252. In the UK,

  253. the NHS reports

  254. that the number of children

  255. that started treatment

  256. for eating disorder,

  257. bulimia, anorexia,

  258. and binge eating,

  259. increased by over 100%

  260. in the six years ending 2023.

  261. Or look at teen bullying.

  262. One report in the US

  263. suggests that one in five students

  264. reported being bullied in school.

  265. And in many cases,

  266. the drivers of bullying

  267. are linked to physical appearance,

  268. race or ethnicity,

  269. or disability.

  270. In other words,

  271. it was about the appearance.

  272. This affects all of us,

  273. whether we think about it a lot

  274. or not at all.

  275. And in today's passage

  276. from 1 Samuel 16,

  277. even the prophet Samuel

  278. gets lured into this way of thinking.

  279. Saul, the first king of Israel,

  280. rejected God,

  281. and therefore God rejected him

  282. as king of Israel.

  283. God then sends Samuel

  284. to visit a man in Bethlehem

  285. named Jesse,

  286. instructing Samuel

  287. that one of Jesse's sons

  288. would be the next king.

  289. Samuel looks at Jesse's son,

  290. Eliab,

  291. and is impressed

  292. with Eliab's physical stature.

  293. And Samuel thinks,

  294. surely this must be

  295. God's anointed one.

  296. God, of course,

  297. has other plans,

  298. and he tells Samuel

  299. in verse 7 of the passage,

  300. Do not look on his appearance

  301. or the height of his stature,

  302. because I have rejected him.

  303. For the Lord sees,

  304. not as man sees.

  305. Man looks on the outward appearance,

  306. but the Lord looks on the heart.

  307. Jesse's six other sons

  308. are presented to Samuel

  309. before Samuel,

  310. but none are chosen by God.

  311. Samuel then asks Jesse,

  312. Are all your sons here?

  313. to which Jesse replies

  314. that his other son,

  315. his youngest son,

  316. David,

  317. is in the shepherd fields.

  318. Jesse was asked to bring

  319. before Samuel

  320. all of his sons,

  321. and he didn't even think

  322. about bringing David,

  323. his youngest son,

  324. who was probably

  325. the least impressive

  326. in terms of physical appearance.

  327. For the Lord sees,

  328. not as man sees,

  329. and man looks on the outward appearance,

  330. but the Lord looks on the heart.

  331. And so as David emerges,

  332. God tells Samuel,

  333. This is the one

  334. who will be my king.

  335. Even Samuel,

  336. the prophet of God,

  337. didn't understand

  338. that God doesn't esteem us

  339. based upon how we look.

  340. Our identity,

  341. according to God,

  342. isn't based on

  343. whether we are tall or short,

  344. or whether we are

  345. physically attractive

  346. or not at all.

  347. God doesn't esteem us

  348. because of our resume,

  349. nor our title,

  350. nor our social influence,

  351. nor our standing.

  352. God esteems us

  353. because of our heart.

  354. And so now the question is,

  355. what did God see

  356. in David's heart?

  357. In 1 Samuel,

  358. and also in the book of Acts,

  359. God says this about David.

  360. I have found in David,

  361. the son of Jesse,

  362. a man after my heart.

  363. What does that mean,

  364. a man after my heart?

  365. A man after God's heart?

  366. Well, the Bible describes David

  367. in many ways.

  368. On his appearance,

  369. he was ruddy

  370. and had beautiful eyes

  371. and was handsome.

  372. On his courage,

  373. a man of valor,

  374. a man of war.

  375. On his musical talents,

  376. he was skillful

  377. in playing the lyre.

  378. David was also described

  379. as prudent in speech,

  380. a man of good presence.

  381. But of all the ways

  382. the scripture describes David,

  383. the most important aspect

  384. of his character,

  385. the foundation of his life,

  386. and the driver

  387. of all his ambition

  388. was that David loved God dearly.

  389. He knew God intimately

  390. and he loved God dearly.

  391. And David's identity

  392. was secure

  393. as a child of God.

  394. David's writings

  395. from the book of Psalms

  396. paint a beautiful picture

  397. of his relationship

  398. with God.

  399. Here are a few examples.

  400. Psalm 139,

  401. we read this last week.

  402. David believed

  403. that God knew everything

  404. about him and loved him.

  405. He knitted me together

  406. in my mother's womb.

  407. I praise you

  408. for I'm fearfully

  409. and wonderfully made.

  410. Psalm 16,

  411. David's life ambition

  412. was to be with God

  413. and to know God.

  414. In your presence

  415. there is fullness of joy

  416. and at your right hand

  417. are pleasures forevermore.

  418. Psalm 100,

  419. he knew God to be faithful.

  420. His steadfast love

  421. endures forever

  422. and his faithfulness

  423. to all generations.

  424. Through reading these psalms,

  425. we see a window

  426. into David's heart.

  427. But importantly,

  428. although our passage today

  429. says that God looks

  430. on the heart,

  431. it isn't saying

  432. that David's body

  433. was irrelevant.

  434. In fact,

  435. David's body mattered

  436. a lot.

  437. He spent years

  438. protecting his father's sheep,

  439. perfecting his hand-to-hand

  440. combat skills

  441. and defending his father's sheep

  442. from wild lions

  443. and wild bears.

  444. And just like God

  445. was preparing David

  446. to be shepherded

  447. over Israel

  448. by first shepherding

  449. his father's flock,

  450. God was training

  451. David's body

  452. in the shepherd fields

  453. in preparation

  454. to fight Goliath

  455. and then subsequently

  456. to lead Israel's armies

  457. against all of God's enemies.

  458. You could say

  459. that David's body

  460. acted out

  461. what was in his heart.

  462. When it was wartime,

  463. he didn't just sit back

  464. and hope for the best.

  465. He went out

  466. and fought

  467. with his body.

  468. His heart and body

  469. worked hand in hand.

  470. Of course,

  471. as a side note,

  472. David,

  473. although David was physically

  474. trained and prepared

  475. to fight,

  476. he knew that

  477. at the end of the day,

  478. if it was just

  479. his own strength,

  480. he would fail every time.

  481. He believed in faith

  482. that it was God

  483. to be the one

  484. to deliver him

  485. from his enemies.

  486. And so,

  487. for David,

  488. in all of his life,

  489. from when he was a boy

  490. in the shepherd fields

  491. to when he was a king

  492. on the battlefield,

  493. his heart and his body

  494. worked together

  495. to worship

  496. and to honor

  497. God.

  498. David's body mattered.

  499. Jesus' body

  500. mattered.

  501. We know from Isaiah

  502. there was nothing

  503. physically attractive

  504. about Jesus.

  505. Isaiah says

  506. that he had no form

  507. or majesty

  508. that we should look at him

  509. and no beauty

  510. that we should desire him.

  511. And yet,

  512. Jesus fully embraced

  513. his humanity

  514. taking on

  515. a human body.

  516. His body

  517. was the means

  518. by which he

  519. communed

  520. with the world

  521. when he walked the earth.

  522. And even now,

  523. we can relate to Jesus

  524. in so many ways

  525. because he had a body

  526. like we have

  527. full of frailty.

  528. And he experienced

  529. pain like we face.

  530. And of course,

  531. it was Jesus' body

  532. that he gave up

  533. that was broken for us

  534. on the cross.

  535. David's body mattered.

  536. Jesus' body mattered.

  537. Our bodies matter.

  538. God doesn't look at

  539. God's body.

  540. God doesn't look at

  541. appearance.

  542. What we look like,

  543. are we attractive or not,

  544. are we tall or short?

  545. And yet,

  546. we use our physical bodies

  547. to act out

  548. our worship

  549. and honor of God.

  550. God doesn't look

  551. at appearance

  552. and yet,

  553. we use our physical bodies

  554. to act out

  555. our honor and worship

  556. of God.

  557. God.

  558. And yet,

  559. for David,

  560. in spite of being

  561. an incredible man

  562. of God,

  563. David was highly imperfect

  564. and sinful.

  565. In that verse

  566. we read in Acts

  567. just now

  568. about David

  569. being a man

  570. after God's heart,

  571. the end of that sentence

  572. actually

  573. is that

  574. God describes David

  575. also as a man

  576. who would do

  577. all my will.

  578. A man after my own heart

  579. who would do

  580. all my will.

  581. Well,

  582. David did not

  583. always do God's will.

  584. David did not always

  585. honor God

  586. with his heart

  587. and his body.

  588. We all know the story,

  589. right?

  590. David slept with

  591. another man's wife

  592. and then he murdered

  593. the husband.

  594. And so,

  595. although God

  596. esteemed David

  597. because of his heart

  598. and God esteemed David

  599. because of

  600. his body

  601. or his action,

  602. what he did,

  603. for us,

  604. we need to remember

  605. that we aren't

  606. saved

  607. because of the

  608. quality of our hearts

  609. nor by anything

  610. we could do

  611. with our bodies.

  612. There is nothing

  613. we can do

  614. to save ourselves.

  615. Our sin isn't

  616. forgiven because of

  617. anything we could

  618. possibly do

  619. for the one

  620. who is perfect,

  621. Jesus Christ,

  622. has done everything

  623. already for us

  624. on the cross.

  625. We are saved

  626. by faith in Christ

  627. alone,

  628. by the grace

  629. of Christ

  630. alone.

  631. And so,

  632. therefore,

  633. we should remember

  634. there's nothing

  635. we could do

  636. to impress God.

  637. Perhaps consciously

  638. or subconsciously,

  639. we try to impress

  640. others by looking

  641. a certain way.

  642. Maybe we go to

  643. the gym to try

  644. to sculpt our

  645. bodies in a more

  646. attractive way.

  647. Maybe we choose

  648. certain clothes

  649. that stand out.

  650. But if our faith

  651. and hope is in

  652. Christ,

  653. and God the Father

  654. considers us,

  655. he already sees

  656. beauty because

  657. in his Son

  658. he sees beauty

  659. and in us

  660. he sees his Son.

  661. Say that again.

  662. If our faith

  663. and hope

  664. is in Christ,

  665. when God the Father

  666. considers us,

  667. he already

  668. sees beauty

  669. because in his Son

  670. he sees beauty

  671. and in us

  672. he sees his Son.

  673. And remember

  674. that God's idea

  675. of beauty

  676. isn't like man's.

  677. Jesus,

  678. when he rose

  679. from the grave,

  680. he still bore

  681. the scars

  682. of the cross

  683. on his body.

  684. If we saw

  685. Jesus walking

  686. down the street

  687. in Hong Kong

  688. and we looked at him,

  689. we may think him

  690. hideous for he would

  691. still have the holes

  692. of the cross

  693. on his wrists.

  694. But his Father

  695. sees him

  696. as beautiful

  697. and perfect.

  698. And that is how

  699. God sees us.

  700. And so even though

  701. our hearts and bodies

  702. work together

  703. to pursue God

  704. and to love God

  705. and to honor God,

  706. this

  707. cannot earn

  708. God's love.

  709. For us,

  710. it's a response.

  711. It's a reflection

  712. of the love

  713. we experience

  714. first from him.

  715. It's an outpouring

  716. of worship

  717. and adoration

  718. because we're grateful

  719. for Jesus.

  720. But it can never

  721. earn God's love.

  722. When God the Father

  723. considers us,

  724. he sees his precious

  725. Son, Jesus,

  726. whom he loves

  727. with an everlasting

  728. undying love.

  729. And so therefore,

  730. we can be secure

  731. in our identity

  732. as children

  733. of God.

  734. And so for us,

  735. what does it mean

  736. to be secure

  737. in our identity

  738. as children

  739. of God?

  740. Well,

  741. the Apostle Paul

  742. in Romans 8

  743. describes identity

  744. in God like this.

  745. For we do not

  746. receive the spirit

  747. of slavery

  748. to fall back

  749. into fear,

  750. but you have received

  751. the spirit of adoption

  752. as sons

  753. by whom we cry,

  754. Abba, Father.

  755. Before we put our faith

  756. and hope in Christ,

  757. we were spiritual orphans

  758. getting tossed around

  759. in the ways of culture

  760. and being slaves

  761. to fear and sin.

  762. But now,

  763. if our hope

  764. and faith

  765. is in Christ,

  766. we have been adopted

  767. into God's family.

  768. We have been given

  769. a new identity

  770. as children of God.

  771. God,

  772. the creator of heaven

  773. and earth,

  774. the eternal God

  775. of the universe,

  776. says,

  777. you are my precious child.

  778. Come to me

  779. and I will give you rest.

  780. I welcome you

  781. into my home

  782. and into my family.

  783. You are my precious child

  784. and I love you.

  785. God knows every hair

  786. on your head.

  787. He made all of our eyes

  788. and all of our fingerprints

  789. unique.

  790. Think about that.

  791. Tens of billions

  792. of different fingerprints

  793. across billions

  794. of individually crafted bodies

  795. because our bodies

  796. are uniquely,

  797. fearfully,

  798. and wonderfully made

  799. by a God

  800. who knows us intimately.

  801. And so,

  802. do you know Him?

  803. Do you trust Him?

  804. Do the ruminations

  805. of your heart

  806. and the actions

  807. of your body

  808. reflect this?

  809. The word Abba

  810. from the verse

  811. in Romans 8

  812. means

  813. Daddy in Aramaic.

  814. It's used,

  815. I think,

  816. 48 times or so

  817. in Psalms.

  818. Every so often,

  819. my two boys,

  820. Axel and Elliot,

  821. their twin boys

  822. are five years old,

  823. they would cry out

  824. either at home

  825. or in the grocery store,

  826. Daddy,

  827. I need you.

  828. Daddy,

  829. I need you to tie my shoes.

  830. Daddy,

  831. I need you to button my shirt.

  832. Daddy,

  833. I need you to fix my toy.

  834. Daddy,

  835. I need you to lift me up.

  836. I can't see.

  837. My boys can say,

  838. Daddy,

  839. I need you

  840. for pretty much anything

  841. that comes to mind

  842. because I guess

  843. after five years of life,

  844. they're pretty secure

  845. in knowing that

  846. they're my children

  847. and they're pretty secure

  848. in knowing that

  849. if I am able to,

  850. I will do whatever I can

  851. to help them.

  852. I'll do whatever I can

  853. to take care of them.

  854. And so,

  855. do we cry out

  856. to our

  857. Abba Father?

  858. Do we know

  859. that we are children

  860. of the Most High God?

  861. And maybe

  862. if we're really honest

  863. with ourselves,

  864. we don't always believe

  865. that we're children

  866. of God

  867. and the insecurity

  868. of being an orphan

  869. sometimes

  870. or often

  871. weighs on us,

  872. especially when we're

  873. hooked to our phone

  874. two hours a day

  875. and we're looking at

  876. all the beautiful people

  877. on social media

  878. or maybe we

  879. get caught

  880. in our thoughts

  881. and we think that

  882. why doesn't the opposite sex

  883. like me?

  884. What's wrong with me?

  885. Or maybe we think

  886. about life

  887. and we think

  888. we should be

  889. further along in life

  890. with a better title

  891. at work

  892. or maybe we should

  893. marry with kids

  894. by now.

  895. But the anecdote

  896. to any insecurity

  897. we have

  898. about our identity,

  899. it doesn't come

  900. from improving

  901. how we look

  902. or adding accolades

  903. to our resume

  904. and it doesn't come

  905. from being in any

  906. relationship

  907. on earth.

  908. King Saul,

  909. the sort of

  910. anti-David

  911. is a good case study

  912. of someone

  913. who is highly insecure

  914. on the surface

  915. King Saul

  916. had everything

  917. going for him.

  918. He was tall,

  919. he was good looking,

  920. the Bible says

  921. that there was not

  922. a man among

  923. the people of Israel

  924. more handsome

  925. than he

  926. and of course

  927. he held the biggest

  928. title of all,

  929. King,

  930. King of Israel.

  931. But in spite

  932. of all these

  933. impressive external

  934. qualities,

  935. Saul had a problem

  936. in his heart.

  937. He worshipped

  938. and analyzed

  939. his position

  940. and status

  941. and what he valued

  942. most it seems

  943. was honor

  944. and praise

  945. from men.

  946. His identity

  947. you could say

  948. was tied to his

  949. position as king

  950. and the honor

  951. he received

  952. as such

  953. and sadly

  954. this resulted in

  955. Saul making

  956. some very bad

  957. decisions

  958. and God

  959. rejecting him

  960. as king.

  961. You see

  962. if our identity

  963. is tied to the

  964. physical

  965. or to the material

  966. how we look

  967. what we've achieved

  968. we will inevitably

  969. be drawn

  970. to what the world

  971. values and loves

  972. and we'll never be

  973. content nor satisfied

  974. and we'll always

  975. be insecure

  976. and wondering

  977. if we're good

  978. enough

  979. and like Saul

  980. we will possibly

  981. make some very

  982. bad decisions

  983. and so we need

  984. to move our

  985. focus away

  986. from ourselves

  987. and our focus

  988. up towards

  989. God

  990. the one who

  991. created us

  992. the one who

  993. knows everything

  994. about us

  995. the one who

  996. the one who

  997. loves us

  998. and we know

  999. how much he

  1000. loves us

  1001. because of

  1002. Jesus Christ

  1003. the one he gave

  1004. the one that

  1005. gave his body

  1006. and his blood

  1007. for us on the cross

  1008. but the truth

  1009. is that we

  1010. won't feel

  1011. comfort in saying

  1012. I'm a child

  1013. of God

  1014. unless we have

  1015. a sense

  1016. of who God

  1017. is

  1018. we won't feel

  1019. loved by God

  1020. unless we know

  1021. who our lover

  1022. is

  1023. we won't be

  1024. thankful

  1025. that the God

  1026. of the universe

  1027. rescued us

  1028. from sin

  1029. and slavery

  1030. and adopted us

  1031. into his family

  1032. unless we know

  1033. who our adopted

  1034. father is

  1035. and so

  1036. like King David

  1037. we must

  1038. constantly remind

  1039. ourselves

  1040. of our father's

  1041. sovereign majestic

  1042. character

  1043. we must remind

  1044. ourselves of his

  1045. awesome indeed

  1046. terrifying power

  1047. we must remind

  1048. ourselves that the

  1049. sovereign yet merciful

  1050. God loves us

  1051. so much

  1052. he would send

  1053. his son Jesus

  1054. to die for us

  1055. we must remind

  1056. ourselves of the

  1057. gospel

  1058. we are called

  1059. his image bearers

  1060. but if we don't

  1061. have a high view

  1062. of him

  1063. what image

  1064. are we bearing

  1065. last year

  1066. Celeste and I

  1067. we adopted

  1068. the newest member

  1069. of our family

  1070. from the Hong Kong

  1071. dog rescue

  1072. her name is

  1073. Toffee

  1074. when Toffee

  1075. first came

  1076. into our home

  1077. for the first few

  1078. days

  1079. she was a nervous

  1080. wreck

  1081. her tail was down

  1082. she would hide

  1083. in the corner

  1084. she wouldn't eat

  1085. nor drink

  1086. she even threw up

  1087. a few times

  1088. just because

  1089. Toffee was legally

  1090. adopted

  1091. into our family

  1092. it didn't mean

  1093. that she automatically

  1094. experienced

  1095. or felt

  1096. our love

  1097. she didn't yet

  1098. comprehend

  1099. her new identity

  1100. as a member

  1101. of our family

  1102. of course

  1103. over time

  1104. as we

  1105. spent more time

  1106. with Toffee

  1107. as we

  1108. showed her

  1109. our love

  1110. through cuddles

  1111. through feeding her

  1112. through

  1113. bringing her out

  1114. on family outings

  1115. she

  1116. she became secure

  1117. in her new identity

  1118. as the fourth child

  1119. of the child family

  1120. the kids call her

  1121. their baby sister

  1122. and so for us

  1123. as adopted children

  1124. of God

  1125. we must continue

  1126. to be reminded

  1127. of God's nature

  1128. excuse me one second

  1129. of God's nature

  1130. of God's character

  1131. and his father's love

  1132. for us

  1133. maybe we do have a sense

  1134. but we're so busy

  1135. with work

  1136. and life

  1137. and kids

  1138. that we forget

  1139. I don't think

  1140. there's any magic formula

  1141. to know God

  1142. I think

  1143. all of us

  1144. in this room

  1145. are on the same

  1146. journey together

  1147. and I think

  1148. even the

  1149. quote unquote

  1150. most mature Christians

  1151. only get a tiny sense

  1152. the majesty

  1153. of God

  1154. but that tiny glimpse

  1155. that is still

  1156. a truly

  1157. awe inspiring

  1158. and beautiful

  1159. picture

  1160. so all of us

  1161. let's get

  1162. let's get into

  1163. God's word

  1164. let's be in prayer

  1165. get on our knees

  1166. let's pray

  1167. the Holy Spirit

  1168. opens the eyes

  1169. of our hearts

  1170. to see

  1171. the living God

  1172. to understand

  1173. with a deep

  1174. with a deep knowledge

  1175. in our hearts

  1176. how much he loves us

  1177. let's pray

  1178. the Holy Spirit

  1179. opens the eyes

  1180. of our hearts

  1181. to worship

  1182. our great

  1183. king

  1184. let's pray that

  1185. for ourselves

  1186. and let's

  1187. pray that

  1188. for each other

  1189. I just have two

  1190. quick ways

  1191. that we can respond

  1192. to today's message

  1193. the first is

  1194. just to focus

  1195. our minds

  1196. on things above

  1197. John Piper says

  1198. that for God

  1199. to open our eyes

  1200. to his glory

  1201. in the Bible

  1202. he must first

  1203. cut away

  1204. all of his

  1205. competitors

  1206. in our hearts

  1207. and so this week

  1208. when we

  1209. pull out our phones

  1210. to look at

  1211. Instagram

  1212. or other social media apps

  1213. or when we're thinking

  1214. about

  1215. buying another

  1216. article of clothing

  1217. to impress

  1218. or when we're

  1219. at the gym

  1220. pumping iron

  1221. or whatever

  1222. it is that

  1223. we are doing

  1224. that puts our

  1225. attention on

  1226. outward appearance

  1227. first

  1228. let's remind

  1229. ourselves

  1230. to hold fast

  1231. to the truth

  1232. that God

  1233. doesn't look

  1234. at outward appearance

  1235. let's remember

  1236. that we are

  1237. children of God

  1238. first

  1239. number one

  1240. focus our minds

  1241. on things above

  1242. and number two

  1243. repentance

  1244. repentance

  1245. repentance

  1246. have we

  1247. added fuel

  1248. to the world's

  1249. fire

  1250. by judging

  1251. other people

  1252. based on how

  1253. they look

  1254. perhaps we

  1255. treat

  1256. some colleagues

  1257. well

  1258. because they

  1259. look a certain

  1260. way

  1261. and some

  1262. colleagues

  1263. not as

  1264. kind

  1265. with less

  1266. kindness

  1267. because they

  1268. look a certain

  1269. way

  1270. maybe it's

  1271. how we

  1272. treat the

  1273. opposite

  1274. sex

  1275. maybe it's

  1276. how we

  1277. treat our

  1278. children

  1279. we make

  1280. comments to

  1281. them about

  1282. their physical

  1283. appearance

  1284. that may

  1285. not be

  1286. the most

  1287. encouraging

  1288. perhaps we

  1289. need to

  1290. repent

  1291. of this

  1292. maybe we

  1293. need to

  1294. repent

  1295. of

  1296. viewing

  1297. appearance

  1298. like the

  1299. world

  1300. does

  1301. and not

  1302. how

  1303. God

  1304. does

  1305. let me

  1306. close

  1307. yes

  1308. the world

  1309. around us

  1310. puts a lot

  1311. of pressure

  1312. on us

  1313. to look

  1314. a certain

  1315. way

  1316. and to

  1317. be

  1318. attractive

  1319. it's

  1320. been that

  1321. way

  1322. since

  1323. ancient

  1324. times

  1325. even

  1326. Samuel

  1327. made that

  1328. mistake

  1329. but God

  1330. doesn't look

  1331. at the

  1332. external

  1333. appearance

  1334. God

  1335. looks at

  1336. our

  1337. hearts

  1338. and God

  1339. looks at

  1340. what we

  1341. do

  1342. with our

  1343. bodies

  1344. and yet

  1345. there is

  1346. nothing we

  1347. could do

  1348. to impress

  1349. God

  1350. nor earn

  1351. God's

  1352. love

  1353. it's only

  1354. by putting

  1355. our faith

  1356. and hope

  1357. in Jesus

  1358. Christ

  1359. that we

  1360. can be

  1361. secure

  1362. in our

  1363. identity

  1364. as children

  1365. of God

  1366. and as we

  1367. grow to

  1368. understand

  1369. how much

  1370. God loves

  1371. us

  1372. we respond

  1373. with love

  1374. coming out

  1375. of our

  1376. hearts

  1377. and we

  1378. respond

  1379. as we

  1380. act that

  1381. out

  1382. in our

  1383. bodies

  1384. for his

  1385. glory

  1386. for his

  1387. honor

  1388. and for

  1389. his

  1390. praise

  1391. let's

  1392. pray

  1393. together

  1394. father

  1395. it's

  1396. it's a

  1397. challenging

  1398. message

  1399. lord

  1400. because

  1401. every

  1402. day

  1403. the

  1404. pressure

  1405. cooker

  1406. of the

  1407. world

  1408. is

  1409. bearing

  1410. down

  1411. on

  1412. us

  1413. and

  1414. saying

  1415. that

  1416. we

  1417. need

  1418. to

  1419. look

  1420. better

  1421. it's

  1422. summertime

  1423. now

  1424. and

  1425. people

  1426. are

  1427. saying

  1428. we need

  1429. to look

  1430. better

  1431. for

  1432. summer

  1433. God

  1434. I

  1435. pray

  1436. lord

  1437. that

  1438. as we

  1439. consider

  1440. your

  1441. word

  1442. lord

  1443. your

  1444. truth

  1445. as we

  1446. consider

  1447. what

  1448. you

  1449. have

  1450. said

  1451. in

  1452. this

  1453. passage

  1454. from

  1455. 1st

  1456. Samuel

  1457. 16

  1458. that

  1459. you

  1460. do

  1461. not

  1462. look

  1463. on

  1464. the

  1465. appearance

  1466. you

  1467. look

  1468. on

  1469. the

  1470. heart

  1471. I

  1472. pray

  1473. that

  1474. we

  1475. will

  1476. be

  1477. secure

  1478. in

  1479. our

  1480. identity

  1481. as

  1482. your

  1483. children

  1484. that

  1485. we

  1486. would

  1487. know

  1488. deeply

  1489. that

  1490. you

  1491. love

  1492. us

  1493. that

  1494. you

  1495. created

  1496. us

  1497. that

  1498. you

  1499. know

  1500. us

  1501. everything

  1502. about

  1503. us

  1504. even

  1505. our

  1506. even

  1507. our

  1508. faults

  1509. even

  1510. our

  1511. darkest

  1512. secrets

  1513. even

  1514. the

  1515. stuff

  1516. that

  1517. we

  1518. are

  1519. ashamed

  1520. about

  1521. and

  1522. you

  1523. love

  1524. us

  1525. with

  1526. an

  1527. undying

  1528. love

  1529. because

  1530. you

  1531. are

  1532. our

  1533. children

  1534. because

  1535. father

  1536. you

  1537. love

  1538. Jesus

  1539. and

  1540. in

  1541. us

  1542. you

  1543. see

  1544. Jesus

  1545. help

  1546. us

  1547. lord

  1548. to

  1549. really

  1550. grasp

  1551. grasp

  1552. that

  1553. deeply

  1554. today

  1555. tomorrow

  1556. and

  1557. always

  1558. may

  1559. it

  1560. not

  1561. just

  1562. be

  1563. an

  1564. interesting

  1565. thought

  1566. or

  1567. something

  1568. that

  1569. we

  1570. will

  1571. say

  1572. to

  1573. our

  1574. friends

  1575. or

  1576. even

  1577. think

  1578. about

  1579. but

  1580. may

  1581. it

  1582. be

  1583. a

  1584. reality

  1585. in

  1586. the

  1587. way

  1588. we

  1589. love

  1590. you

  1591. and

  1592. the

  1593. way

  1594. our

  1595. hearts

  1596. cry

  1597. out

  1598. to

  1599. worship

  1600. you

  1601. and

  1602. the

  1603. way

  1604. that

  1605. thank

  1606. you

  1607. god

  1608. for

  1609. your

  1610. word

  1611. today

  1612. and

  1613. we

  1614. pray

  1615. lord

  1616. that

  1617. your

  1618. holy

  1619. spirit

  1620. would

  1621. be

  1622. with

  1623. us

  1624. for

  1625. the

  1626. rest

  1627. of

  1628. the

  1629. service

  1630. lord

  1631. as

  1632. we

  1633. respond

  1634. to

  1635. you

  1636. in

  1637. Jesus

  1638. name

  1639. amen