Sermon
Our Bodies and Identity
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Transcript
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The scripture reading comes from the book of 1st Samuel chapter 16.
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Please follow along on the bulletin or on your own Bible.
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Starting in verse 1, we read,
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The Lord said to Samuel,
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How long will you grieve over Saul, since I have rejected him from being king over Israel?
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Fill your horn with oil and go.
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I will send you to Jesse, the Bethlehemite, for I have provided for myself a king among his sons.
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And Samuel said, How can I go? If Saul hears it, he will kill me.
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And the Lord said, Take a heifer with you and say, I have come to sacrifice to the Lord.
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And invite Jesse to the sacrifice, and I will show you what you shall do.
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And you shall anoint for me him whom I declare to you.
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Samuel did what the Lord commanded and came to Bethlehem.
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The elders of the city came to meet him, trembling, and said, Do you come peaceably?
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And he said, Peaceably.
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I have come to sacrifice to the Lord.
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Consecrate yourselves and come with me to the sacrifice.
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And he consecrated Jesse and his sons and invited them to the sacrifice.
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When they came, he looked on Eliab and thought, Surely the Lord's anointed is before him.
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But the Lord said to Samuel, Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature,
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because I have rejected him.
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For the Lord sees not as man sees.
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Man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.
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Then Jesse called Abinadab and made him pass before Samuel.
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And he said, Neither has the Lord chosen this one.
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Then Jesse made Shama pass by.
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And he said, Neither has the Lord chosen this one.
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And Jesse made seven of his sons pass before Samuel.
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And Samuel said to Jesse, The Lord has not chosen these.
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Then Samuel said to Jesse, Are all your sons here?
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And he said, There remains yet the youngest, but behold, he is keeping the sheep.
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And Samuel said to Jesse, Send and get him, for we will not sit down till he comes here.
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And he sent and brought him in.
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Now he was ruddy and had beautiful eyes and was handsome.
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And the Lord said, Arise, anoint him, for this is he.
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Then Samuel took the horn of oil and anointed him in the midst of his brothers.
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And the spirit of the Lord rushed upon David from that day forward.
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And Samuel rose up and went to Ramah.
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This is the word of God.
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Thanks, Annabelle.
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Am I on?
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Can you guys hear me?
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Yeah?
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Okay.
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Thanks.
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Thanks, Niels.
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My name is Oscar.
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If you don't know me, it's a privilege to be delivering God's word today together as a church family.
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To our church family.
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Let me pray for us as we dive into God's word.
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Father, we come before you, Lord.
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And we ask that all of us here, God, myself included, Lord, that our hearts would be with awe,
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filled with awe as we look into your word, God, and as we receive your spirit.
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Father, I pray, God, that as we look at body again more closely,
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and as we look at body and identity today, Lord,
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that we would see, Lord, that we are secure in you as children of God.
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That you love us.
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That you delight in us.
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I pray especially, Lord, for those of us today, God, that may struggle a bit with our identity
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or with our appearance, how we look.
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God, that you would fill our hearts with your love and goodness and security
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that can only be found in Jesus.
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I pray particularly for our youth who are with us in service today, God.
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I pray, Lord, that the eyes of their hearts will be opened to receive your word today,
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that they would be impacted by your word, Father.
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So we just commend this time, commit this time to you in Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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So, yeah, we're in week two of a six-week sermon series on body and faith,
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where we're looking at what the Bible says about our physical bodies.
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Last week, Kevin started us off, and he spoke about our bodies and creation,
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showing us that our bodies are not inconsequential.
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Our bodies matter.
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Our bodies are fearfully and wonderfully made by God who knows us intimately and delights in us.
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And today, we're going to look at our bodies and identity.
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Is there a ringing sound?
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Can you guys?
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Closer?
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Okay.
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Is that better?
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Is it better?
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Okay.
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Now, I think that we all know this phrase,
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don't judge a book by its cover.
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Take any book.
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The title may be one word or a phrase, something innocuous,
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or maybe something eye-catching.
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Maybe there's a photograph on the front of the book or a vague picture.
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But until we actually open up the book and read it,
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would we appreciate the theme,
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would we appreciate the theme, the lesson,
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or would we appreciate the writing style, the prose, the poetry?
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Until we venture inside the pages,
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would we understand the storyline and the characters of the book,
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the meat and heart of the book?
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And isn't it true that the way we identify people, at least in part,
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is like judging a book by its cover?
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We look at a person's appearance, their face, their body.
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Are they tall?
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Are they short?
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Their skin color?
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And we make an assessment, a judgment.
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But in today's passage from 1 Samuel 16,
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the Bible tells us that God doesn't value us based on our appearance.
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God doesn't look at the cover of the book.
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God looks at what is inside.
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And what is inside is not just our heart,
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but also our body and how we use our body.
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And so what I hope we see today is that it's faith in Christ,
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in our heart, lived out through our body,
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that reflects our identity as children of God.
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And because this is our identity,
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we can be secure in Christ
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and honor God with our heart and with our body.
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And so today's big idea is that our identity in Christ
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is that of a child of God,
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through faith in Christ in our hearts,
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and lived out in our bodies.
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Now, in the world's view,
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how we look, our body type,
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or how in shape or out of shape we are,
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is such a big part of our identity.
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For many of us, it shapes how we see ourselves,
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how others perceive us,
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or how we want to be perceived,
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and also how we view others.
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Of course, the word identity is such a big and complicated word.
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In simple terms,
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I think we can define identity as something we look to,
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to feel a sense of self-worth and value.
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In Hong Kong,
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separate from our physical appearance,
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our identity is often shaped by,
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number one, family background.
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Do we come from a well-known prominent family,
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or perhaps not?
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Education.
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Where do we go to school?
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How about career?
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I think this one is big for us here in Hong Kong.
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I think that for many of us,
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our career, our title,
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really is who we are.
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That is our identity.
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I'm a lawyer.
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I'm a doctor.
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I'm a banker.
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I'm a PhD student.
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I'm a business owner.
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I'm a manager.
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I'm a partner.
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Or how about relationship status?
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I admit,
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this one is especially difficult to talk about.
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But I think that for some of us,
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our identity is tied to who we're dating,
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or who we're married to,
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or if we're dating or married at all.
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And that's why I think that when we break up,
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we lose our bearings,
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and we lose a sense of who we are.
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In Western society,
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what seems to be elevated in today's culture,
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when it comes to identity,
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is this idea that we need to be true to who we are.
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My body isn't the real me.
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My gender isn't the real me.
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What I feel inside is the real me,
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and therefore,
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I can do whatever I want with my body.
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We will touch upon this in more detail
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when we speak about body and gender in a few weeks.
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But on the topic of body and identity,
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there's no doubt that culture and the world around us
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shape how we view physical appearance,
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the body, and identity.
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Think about how much money we spend on our face,
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just our face alone.
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In the U.S.,
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one source indicates that
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the global spend on cosmetics
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is upwards of $100 billion a year.
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Or think about the types of cosmetic surgeries
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people go through,
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some of which are quite expensive
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and perhaps even dangerous.
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And it isn't just women.
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All right?
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Us guys, we're also a part of this too.
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A survey by Deloitte suggests that in the U.S.,
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men actually spend more
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on overall beauty products than women.
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Surprisingly, yes.
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It's true.
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Don't be ashamed, guys.
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It's okay.
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I used lotion this morning on my face.
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Now, if you're sitting here,
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now if you're sitting here
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and you don't care about your looks,
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nor do you feel any social pressure
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to look a certain way,
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don't fall asleep quite yet.
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Maybe you're married and you're like,
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eh, I don't care about how I look.
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I'm already married.
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I don't have to impress my spouse.
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Maybe I'm peak,
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maybe I'm peak maxing.
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Maxing, by the way,
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means maximizing a physical appearance.
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I learned that recently
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as I was researching this sermon.
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Even if that is your view,
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even that could be your view,
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the social pressure on how we look
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and the world's obsession with our bodies
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likely affects someone near and dear to your heart.
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Maybe your wife.
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Maybe your husband,
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as he gets a bit older
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and his hair starts thinning.
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I think mine is a little bit at the moment.
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Thank you for caring for me, honey.
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Maybe your brother or sister.
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Maybe your parents.
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Maybe your teenage,
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maybe your child as he or she
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is reaching their teenage years.
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Maybe someone in your CG.
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Maybe someone sitting around you
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right here today in church.
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And given the rise of social media
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and the pressure of always looking good
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and having to put our best face
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and body forward as our identity,
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look at the rise in body dissatisfaction,
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especially among teenagers
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and young adults.
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The skincare company Dove
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did a study which indicated
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that only 2% of women
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would describe themselves as beautiful.
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Even actors, supermodels,
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and pro athletes struggle
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with how they look.
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And it just goes to show
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how much pressure the world places
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on how we look
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and how much value that we place
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on how we look.
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And look at some of the consequences.
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In the UK,
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the NHS reports
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that the number of children
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that started treatment
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for eating disorder,
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bulimia, anorexia,
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and binge eating,
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increased by over 100%
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in the six years ending 2023.
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Or look at teen bullying.
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One report in the US
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suggests that one in five students
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reported being bullied in school.
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And in many cases,
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the drivers of bullying
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are linked to physical appearance,
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race or ethnicity,
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or disability.
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In other words,
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it was about the appearance.
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This affects all of us,
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whether we think about it a lot
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or not at all.
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And in today's passage
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from 1 Samuel 16,
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even the prophet Samuel
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gets lured into this way of thinking.
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Saul, the first king of Israel,
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rejected God,
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and therefore God rejected him
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as king of Israel.
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God then sends Samuel
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to visit a man in Bethlehem
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named Jesse,
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instructing Samuel
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that one of Jesse's sons
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would be the next king.
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Samuel looks at Jesse's son,
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Eliab,
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and is impressed
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with Eliab's physical stature.
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And Samuel thinks,
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surely this must be
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God's anointed one.
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God, of course,
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has other plans,
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and he tells Samuel
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in verse 7 of the passage,
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Do not look on his appearance
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or the height of his stature,
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because I have rejected him.
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For the Lord sees,
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not as man sees.
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Man looks on the outward appearance,
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but the Lord looks on the heart.
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Jesse's six other sons
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are presented to Samuel
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before Samuel,
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but none are chosen by God.
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Samuel then asks Jesse,
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Are all your sons here?
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to which Jesse replies
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that his other son,
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his youngest son,
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David,
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is in the shepherd fields.
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Jesse was asked to bring
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before Samuel
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all of his sons,
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and he didn't even think
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about bringing David,
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his youngest son,
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who was probably
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the least impressive
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in terms of physical appearance.
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For the Lord sees,
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not as man sees,
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and man looks on the outward appearance,
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but the Lord looks on the heart.
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And so as David emerges,
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God tells Samuel,
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This is the one
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who will be my king.
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Even Samuel,
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the prophet of God,
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didn't understand
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that God doesn't esteem us
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based upon how we look.
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Our identity,
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according to God,
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isn't based on
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whether we are tall or short,
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or whether we are
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physically attractive
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or not at all.
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God doesn't esteem us
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because of our resume,
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nor our title,
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nor our social influence,
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nor our standing.
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God esteems us
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because of our heart.
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And so now the question is,
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what did God see
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in David's heart?
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In 1 Samuel,
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and also in the book of Acts,
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God says this about David.
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I have found in David,
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the son of Jesse,
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a man after my heart.
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What does that mean,
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a man after my heart?
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A man after God's heart?
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Well, the Bible describes David
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in many ways.
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On his appearance,
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he was ruddy
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and had beautiful eyes
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and was handsome.
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On his courage,
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a man of valor,
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a man of war.
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On his musical talents,
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he was skillful
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in playing the lyre.
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David was also described
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as prudent in speech,
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a man of good presence.
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But of all the ways
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the scripture describes David,
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the most important aspect
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of his character,
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the foundation of his life,
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and the driver
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of all his ambition
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was that David loved God dearly.
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He knew God intimately
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and he loved God dearly.
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And David's identity
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was secure
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as a child of God.
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David's writings
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from the book of Psalms
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paint a beautiful picture
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of his relationship
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with God.
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Here are a few examples.
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Psalm 139,
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we read this last week.
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David believed
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that God knew everything
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about him and loved him.
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He knitted me together
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in my mother's womb.
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I praise you
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for I'm fearfully
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and wonderfully made.
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Psalm 16,
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David's life ambition
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was to be with God
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and to know God.
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In your presence
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there is fullness of joy
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and at your right hand
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are pleasures forevermore.
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Psalm 100,
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he knew God to be faithful.
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His steadfast love
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endures forever
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and his faithfulness
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to all generations.
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Through reading these psalms,
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we see a window
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into David's heart.
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But importantly,
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although our passage today
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says that God looks
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on the heart,
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it isn't saying
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that David's body
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was irrelevant.
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In fact,
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David's body mattered
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a lot.
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He spent years
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protecting his father's sheep,
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perfecting his hand-to-hand
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combat skills
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and defending his father's sheep
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from wild lions
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and wild bears.
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And just like God
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was preparing David
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to be shepherded
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over Israel
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by first shepherding
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his father's flock,
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God was training
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David's body
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in the shepherd fields
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in preparation
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to fight Goliath
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and then subsequently
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to lead Israel's armies
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against all of God's enemies.
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You could say
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that David's body
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acted out
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what was in his heart.
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When it was wartime,
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he didn't just sit back
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and hope for the best.
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He went out
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and fought
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with his body.
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His heart and body
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worked hand in hand.
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Of course,
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as a side note,
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David,
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although David was physically
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trained and prepared
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to fight,
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he knew that
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at the end of the day,
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if it was just
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his own strength,
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he would fail every time.
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He believed in faith
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that it was God
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to be the one
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to deliver him
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from his enemies.
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And so,
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for David,
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in all of his life,
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from when he was a boy
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in the shepherd fields
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to when he was a king
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on the battlefield,
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his heart and his body
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worked together
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to worship
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and to honor
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God.
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David's body mattered.
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Jesus' body
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mattered.
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We know from Isaiah
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there was nothing
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physically attractive
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about Jesus.
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Isaiah says
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that he had no form
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or majesty
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that we should look at him
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and no beauty
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that we should desire him.
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And yet,
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Jesus fully embraced
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his humanity
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taking on
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a human body.
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His body
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was the means
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by which he
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communed
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with the world
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when he walked the earth.
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And even now,
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we can relate to Jesus
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in so many ways
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because he had a body
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like we have
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full of frailty.
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And he experienced
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pain like we face.
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And of course,
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it was Jesus' body
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that he gave up
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that was broken for us
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on the cross.
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David's body mattered.
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Jesus' body mattered.
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Our bodies matter.
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God doesn't look at
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God's body.
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God doesn't look at
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appearance.
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What we look like,
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are we attractive or not,
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are we tall or short?
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And yet,
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we use our physical bodies
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to act out
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our worship
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and honor of God.
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God doesn't look
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at appearance
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and yet,
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we use our physical bodies
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to act out
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our honor and worship
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of God.
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God.
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And yet,
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for David,
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in spite of being
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an incredible man
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of God,
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David was highly imperfect
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and sinful.
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In that verse
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we read in Acts
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just now
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about David
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being a man
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after God's heart,
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the end of that sentence
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actually
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is that
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God describes David
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also as a man
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who would do
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all my will.
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A man after my own heart
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who would do
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all my will.
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Well,
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David did not
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always do God's will.
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David did not always
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honor God
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with his heart
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and his body.
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We all know the story,
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right?
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David slept with
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another man's wife
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and then he murdered
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the husband.
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And so,
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although God
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esteemed David
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because of his heart
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and God esteemed David
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because of
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his body
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or his action,
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what he did,
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for us,
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we need to remember
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that we aren't
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saved
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because of the
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quality of our hearts
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nor by anything
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we could do
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with our bodies.
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There is nothing
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we can do
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to save ourselves.
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Our sin isn't
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forgiven because of
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anything we could
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possibly do
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for the one
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who is perfect,
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Jesus Christ,
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has done everything
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already for us
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on the cross.
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We are saved
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by faith in Christ
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alone,
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by the grace
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of Christ
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alone.
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And so,
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therefore,
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we should remember
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there's nothing
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we could do
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to impress God.
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Perhaps consciously
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or subconsciously,
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we try to impress
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others by looking
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a certain way.
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Maybe we go to
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the gym to try
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to sculpt our
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bodies in a more
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attractive way.
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Maybe we choose
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certain clothes
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that stand out.
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But if our faith
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and hope is in
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Christ,
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and God the Father
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considers us,
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he already sees
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beauty because
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in his Son
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he sees beauty
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and in us
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he sees his Son.
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Say that again.
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If our faith
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and hope
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is in Christ,
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when God the Father
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considers us,
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he already
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sees beauty
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because in his Son
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he sees beauty
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and in us
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he sees his Son.
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And remember
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that God's idea
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of beauty
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isn't like man's.
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Jesus,
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when he rose
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from the grave,
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he still bore
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the scars
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of the cross
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on his body.
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If we saw
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Jesus walking
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down the street
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in Hong Kong
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and we looked at him,
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we may think him
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hideous for he would
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still have the holes
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of the cross
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on his wrists.
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But his Father
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sees him
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as beautiful
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and perfect.
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And that is how
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God sees us.
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And so even though
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our hearts and bodies
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work together
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to pursue God
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and to love God
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and to honor God,
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this
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cannot earn
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God's love.
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For us,
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it's a response.
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It's a reflection
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of the love
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we experience
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first from him.
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It's an outpouring
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of worship
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and adoration
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because we're grateful
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for Jesus.
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But it can never
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earn God's love.
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When God the Father
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considers us,
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he sees his precious
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Son, Jesus,
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whom he loves
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with an everlasting
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undying love.
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And so therefore,
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we can be secure
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in our identity
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as children
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of God.
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And so for us,
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what does it mean
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to be secure
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in our identity
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as children
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of God?
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Well,
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the Apostle Paul
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in Romans 8
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describes identity
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in God like this.
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For we do not
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receive the spirit
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of slavery
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to fall back
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into fear,
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but you have received
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the spirit of adoption
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as sons
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by whom we cry,
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Abba, Father.
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Before we put our faith
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and hope in Christ,
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we were spiritual orphans
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getting tossed around
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in the ways of culture
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and being slaves
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to fear and sin.
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But now,
-
if our hope
-
and faith
-
is in Christ,
-
we have been adopted
-
into God's family.
-
We have been given
-
a new identity
-
as children of God.
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God,
-
the creator of heaven
-
and earth,
-
the eternal God
-
of the universe,
-
says,
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you are my precious child.
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Come to me
-
and I will give you rest.
-
I welcome you
-
into my home
-
and into my family.
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You are my precious child
-
and I love you.
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God knows every hair
-
on your head.
-
He made all of our eyes
-
and all of our fingerprints
-
unique.
-
Think about that.
-
Tens of billions
-
of different fingerprints
-
across billions
-
of individually crafted bodies
-
because our bodies
-
are uniquely,
-
fearfully,
-
and wonderfully made
-
by a God
-
who knows us intimately.
-
And so,
-
do you know Him?
-
Do you trust Him?
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Do the ruminations
-
of your heart
-
and the actions
-
of your body
-
reflect this?
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The word Abba
-
from the verse
-
in Romans 8
-
means
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Daddy in Aramaic.
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It's used,
-
I think,
-
48 times or so
-
in Psalms.
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Every so often,
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my two boys,
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Axel and Elliot,
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their twin boys
-
are five years old,
-
they would cry out
-
either at home
-
or in the grocery store,
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Daddy,
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I need you.
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Daddy,
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I need you to tie my shoes.
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Daddy,
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I need you to button my shirt.
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Daddy,
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I need you to fix my toy.
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Daddy,
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I need you to lift me up.
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I can't see.
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My boys can say,
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Daddy,
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I need you
-
for pretty much anything
-
that comes to mind
-
because I guess
-
after five years of life,
-
they're pretty secure
-
in knowing that
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they're my children
-
and they're pretty secure
-
in knowing that
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if I am able to,
-
I will do whatever I can
-
to help them.
-
I'll do whatever I can
-
to take care of them.
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And so,
-
do we cry out
-
to our
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Abba Father?
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Do we know
-
that we are children
-
of the Most High God?
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And maybe
-
if we're really honest
-
with ourselves,
-
we don't always believe
-
that we're children
-
of God
-
and the insecurity
-
of being an orphan
-
sometimes
-
or often
-
weighs on us,
-
especially when we're
-
hooked to our phone
-
two hours a day
-
and we're looking at
-
all the beautiful people
-
on social media
-
or maybe we
-
get caught
-
in our thoughts
-
and we think that
-
why doesn't the opposite sex
-
like me?
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What's wrong with me?
-
Or maybe we think
-
about life
-
and we think
-
we should be
-
further along in life
-
with a better title
-
at work
-
or maybe we should
-
marry with kids
-
by now.
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But the anecdote
-
to any insecurity
-
we have
-
about our identity,
-
it doesn't come
-
from improving
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how we look
-
or adding accolades
-
to our resume
-
and it doesn't come
-
from being in any
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relationship
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on earth.
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King Saul,
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the sort of
-
anti-David
-
is a good case study
-
of someone
-
who is highly insecure
-
on the surface
-
King Saul
-
had everything
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going for him.
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He was tall,
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he was good looking,
-
the Bible says
-
that there was not
-
a man among
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the people of Israel
-
more handsome
-
than he
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and of course
-
he held the biggest
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title of all,
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King,
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King of Israel.
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But in spite
-
of all these
-
impressive external
-
qualities,
-
Saul had a problem
-
in his heart.
-
He worshipped
-
and analyzed
-
his position
-
and status
-
and what he valued
-
most it seems
-
was honor
-
and praise
-
from men.
-
His identity
-
you could say
-
was tied to his
-
position as king
-
and the honor
-
he received
-
as such
-
and sadly
-
this resulted in
-
Saul making
-
some very bad
-
decisions
-
and God
-
rejecting him
-
as king.
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You see
-
if our identity
-
is tied to the
-
physical
-
or to the material
-
how we look
-
what we've achieved
-
we will inevitably
-
be drawn
-
to what the world
-
values and loves
-
and we'll never be
-
content nor satisfied
-
and we'll always
-
be insecure
-
and wondering
-
if we're good
-
enough
-
and like Saul
-
we will possibly
-
make some very
-
bad decisions
-
and so we need
-
to move our
-
focus away
-
from ourselves
-
and our focus
-
up towards
-
God
-
the one who
-
created us
-
the one who
-
knows everything
-
about us
-
the one who
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the one who
-
loves us
-
and we know
-
how much he
-
loves us
-
because of
-
Jesus Christ
-
the one he gave
-
the one that
-
gave his body
-
and his blood
-
for us on the cross
-
but the truth
-
is that we
-
won't feel
-
comfort in saying
-
I'm a child
-
of God
-
unless we have
-
a sense
-
of who God
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is
-
we won't feel
-
loved by God
-
unless we know
-
who our lover
-
is
-
we won't be
-
thankful
-
that the God
-
of the universe
-
rescued us
-
from sin
-
and slavery
-
and adopted us
-
into his family
-
unless we know
-
who our adopted
-
father is
-
and so
-
like King David
-
we must
-
constantly remind
-
ourselves
-
of our father's
-
sovereign majestic
-
character
-
we must remind
-
ourselves of his
-
awesome indeed
-
terrifying power
-
we must remind
-
ourselves that the
-
sovereign yet merciful
-
God loves us
-
so much
-
he would send
-
his son Jesus
-
to die for us
-
we must remind
-
ourselves of the
-
gospel
-
we are called
-
his image bearers
-
but if we don't
-
have a high view
-
of him
-
what image
-
are we bearing
-
last year
-
Celeste and I
-
we adopted
-
the newest member
-
of our family
-
from the Hong Kong
-
dog rescue
-
her name is
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Toffee
-
when Toffee
-
first came
-
into our home
-
for the first few
-
days
-
she was a nervous
-
wreck
-
her tail was down
-
she would hide
-
in the corner
-
she wouldn't eat
-
nor drink
-
she even threw up
-
a few times
-
just because
-
Toffee was legally
-
adopted
-
into our family
-
it didn't mean
-
that she automatically
-
experienced
-
or felt
-
our love
-
she didn't yet
-
comprehend
-
her new identity
-
as a member
-
of our family
-
of course
-
over time
-
as we
-
spent more time
-
with Toffee
-
as we
-
showed her
-
our love
-
through cuddles
-
through feeding her
-
through
-
bringing her out
-
on family outings
-
she
-
she became secure
-
in her new identity
-
as the fourth child
-
of the child family
-
the kids call her
-
their baby sister
-
and so for us
-
as adopted children
-
of God
-
we must continue
-
to be reminded
-
of God's nature
-
excuse me one second
-
of God's nature
-
of God's character
-
and his father's love
-
for us
-
maybe we do have a sense
-
but we're so busy
-
with work
-
and life
-
and kids
-
that we forget
-
I don't think
-
there's any magic formula
-
to know God
-
I think
-
all of us
-
in this room
-
are on the same
-
journey together
-
and I think
-
even the
-
quote unquote
-
most mature Christians
-
only get a tiny sense
-
the majesty
-
of God
-
but that tiny glimpse
-
that is still
-
a truly
-
awe inspiring
-
and beautiful
-
picture
-
so all of us
-
let's get
-
let's get into
-
God's word
-
let's be in prayer
-
get on our knees
-
let's pray
-
the Holy Spirit
-
opens the eyes
-
of our hearts
-
to see
-
the living God
-
to understand
-
with a deep
-
with a deep knowledge
-
in our hearts
-
how much he loves us
-
let's pray
-
the Holy Spirit
-
opens the eyes
-
of our hearts
-
to worship
-
our great
-
king
-
let's pray that
-
for ourselves
-
and let's
-
pray that
-
for each other
-
I just have two
-
quick ways
-
that we can respond
-
to today's message
-
the first is
-
just to focus
-
our minds
-
on things above
-
John Piper says
-
that for God
-
to open our eyes
-
to his glory
-
in the Bible
-
he must first
-
cut away
-
all of his
-
competitors
-
in our hearts
-
and so this week
-
when we
-
pull out our phones
-
to look at
-
Instagram
-
or other social media apps
-
or when we're thinking
-
about
-
buying another
-
article of clothing
-
to impress
-
or when we're
-
at the gym
-
pumping iron
-
or whatever
-
it is that
-
we are doing
-
that puts our
-
attention on
-
outward appearance
-
first
-
let's remind
-
ourselves
-
to hold fast
-
to the truth
-
that God
-
doesn't look
-
at outward appearance
-
let's remember
-
that we are
-
children of God
-
first
-
number one
-
focus our minds
-
on things above
-
and number two
-
repentance
-
repentance
-
repentance
-
have we
-
added fuel
-
to the world's
-
fire
-
by judging
-
other people
-
based on how
-
they look
-
perhaps we
-
treat
-
some colleagues
-
well
-
because they
-
look a certain
-
way
-
and some
-
colleagues
-
not as
-
kind
-
with less
-
kindness
-
because they
-
look a certain
-
way
-
maybe it's
-
how we
-
treat the
-
opposite
-
sex
-
maybe it's
-
how we
-
treat our
-
children
-
we make
-
comments to
-
them about
-
their physical
-
appearance
-
that may
-
not be
-
the most
-
encouraging
-
perhaps we
-
need to
-
repent
-
of this
-
maybe we
-
need to
-
repent
-
of
-
viewing
-
appearance
-
like the
-
world
-
does
-
and not
-
how
-
God
-
does
-
let me
-
close
-
yes
-
the world
-
around us
-
puts a lot
-
of pressure
-
on us
-
to look
-
a certain
-
way
-
and to
-
be
-
attractive
-
it's
-
been that
-
way
-
since
-
ancient
-
times
-
even
-
Samuel
-
made that
-
mistake
-
but God
-
doesn't look
-
at the
-
external
-
appearance
-
God
-
looks at
-
our
-
hearts
-
and God
-
looks at
-
what we
-
do
-
with our
-
bodies
-
and yet
-
there is
-
nothing we
-
could do
-
to impress
-
God
-
nor earn
-
God's
-
love
-
it's only
-
by putting
-
our faith
-
and hope
-
in Jesus
-
Christ
-
that we
-
can be
-
secure
-
in our
-
identity
-
as children
-
of God
-
and as we
-
grow to
-
understand
-
how much
-
God loves
-
us
-
we respond
-
with love
-
coming out
-
of our
-
hearts
-
and we
-
respond
-
as we
-
act that
-
out
-
in our
-
bodies
-
for his
-
glory
-
for his
-
honor
-
and for
-
his
-
praise
-
let's
-
pray
-
together
-
father
-
it's
-
it's a
-
challenging
-
message
-
lord
-
because
-
every
-
day
-
the
-
pressure
-
cooker
-
of the
-
world
-
is
-
bearing
-
down
-
on
-
us
-
and
-
saying
-
that
-
we
-
need
-
to
-
look
-
better
-
it's
-
summertime
-
now
-
and
-
people
-
are
-
saying
-
we need
-
to look
-
better
-
for
-
summer
-
God
-
I
-
pray
-
lord
-
that
-
as we
-
consider
-
your
-
word
-
lord
-
your
-
truth
-
as we
-
consider
-
what
-
you
-
have
-
said
-
in
-
this
-
passage
-
from
-
1st
-
Samuel
-
16
-
that
-
you
-
do
-
not
-
look
-
on
-
the
-
appearance
-
you
-
look
-
on
-
the
-
heart
-
I
-
pray
-
that
-
we
-
will
-
be
-
secure
-
in
-
our
-
identity
-
as
-
your
-
children
-
that
-
we
-
would
-
know
-
deeply
-
that
-
you
-
love
-
us
-
that
-
you
-
created
-
us
-
that
-
you
-
know
-
us
-
everything
-
about
-
us
-
even
-
our
-
even
-
our
-
faults
-
even
-
our
-
darkest
-
secrets
-
even
-
the
-
stuff
-
that
-
we
-
are
-
ashamed
-
about
-
and
-
you
-
love
-
us
-
with
-
an
-
undying
-
love
-
because
-
you
-
are
-
our
-
children
-
because
-
father
-
you
-
love
-
Jesus
-
and
-
in
-
us
-
you
-
see
-
Jesus
-
help
-
us
-
lord
-
to
-
really
-
grasp
-
grasp
-
that
-
deeply
-
today
-
tomorrow
-
and
-
always
-
may
-
it
-
not
-
just
-
be
-
an
-
interesting
-
thought
-
or
-
something
-
that
-
we
-
will
-
say
-
to
-
our
-
friends
-
or
-
even
-
think
-
about
-
but
-
may
-
it
-
be
-
a
-
reality
-
in
-
the
-
way
-
we
-
love
-
you
-
and
-
the
-
way
-
our
-
hearts
-
cry
-
out
-
to
-
worship
-
you
-
and
-
the
-
way
-
that
-
thank
-
you
-
god
-
for
-
your
-
word
-
today
-
and
-
we
-
pray
-
lord
-
that
-
your
-
holy
-
spirit
-
would
-
be
-
with
-
us
-
for
-
the
-
rest
-
of
-
the
-
service
-
lord
-
as
-
we
-
respond
-
to
-
you
-
in
-
Jesus
-
name
-
amen