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1 Peter 4:12-19 "Trusting God Through Suffering"

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  1. Hi, my name is George Sinclair. I'm the lead pastor of Church of the Messiah. It is wonderful

  2. that you would like to check out some of the sermons done by Church of the Messiah, either

  3. by myself or some of the others. Listen, just a couple of things. First of all, would you pray

  4. for us that we will open God's Word well to His glory and for the good of people like yourself?

  5. The second thing is, if you aren't connected to a church and if you are a Christian, we really,

  6. I would really like to encourage you to find a good local church where they believe the Bible,

  7. they preach the gospel, and if you have some trouble finding that, send us an email. We will

  8. do what we can to help connect you with a good local church wherever you are. And if you're a

  9. non-Christian checking us out, we're really, really, really glad you're doing that. Don't

  10. hesitate to send us questions. It helps me actually to know, as I'm preaching, how to deal with the

  11. types of things that you're really struggling with. So God bless.

  12. For a moment, let's bow our heads in prayer. Father,

  13. Father, you know how there are times when we have a sense that we could maybe say something about

  14. Christianity or the gospel or our hope, but we know that if we say something, or we have a sense

  15. if we say something, it'll hurt our reputation or people might laugh at us or make jokes about us.

  16. And so, Father, you know those times when we have those opportunities and we turn away from doing

  17. it because we don't want to be mocked. We don't want to be thought of as fools. We don't want to

  18. be thought of as bad people. And Father, we're so thankful that you know our heart. You know the

  19. problems that we have and the things that we're tempted to do and the things that we're tempted to

  20. avoid that we should do. So, Father, we praise you. We're grateful for your profound knowledge of

  21. each of us. And we give you thanks and praise that your word speaks to the real us in our real world

  22. and our real situation. And we ask, Father, that you tune our hearts this morning to hear your word

  23. and to receive the healthy music, the healthy food that you desire to give us this morning,

  24. that we might be free, that we might do good, that we might bring you glory. And we ask these things

  25. in the name of Jesus, your Son and our Savior. Amen. Please be seated.

  26. So, a couple of weeks ago in one of the coffee shops which I frequent where I'm a regular,

  27. within a day of each other, I had two very interesting conversations. The first one was

  28. with this fellow. I'll call him Andy. I have to watch. I don't say his name out loud in public

  29. by accident, but we'll call him Andy. There happened to be a bigger lineup to order a coffee. And so,

  30. I was in front of him and we got chatting and I just said, oh, by the way, are you an Ottawa boy?

  31. I was just making conversation. And he said, yeah. And I said, oh, where'd you go to high school?

  32. And he told me where he went to high school and he asked me where I went to high school because I did

  33. grade 10 and up. Here in Ottawa, I did earlier grades in Montreal, actually in Laval, a Jewish

  34. suburb, actually, of Montreal. And then he just asked me a little bit about high school and I asked him

  35. about it. And then he really, his whole face and demeanor changed. He said to me, he didn't like

  36. high school. And then he said, I was terribly bullied. I was terribly bullied all the way through

  37. high school. And it's really, you could, I mean, this is 40 years ago, probably, guessing his age,

  38. but 40 some odd years ago. And when he said it, you could still really see that it had impacted him

  39. and affected him. And all I could say was, that must be so hard. Like, I didn't know what else to say.

  40. And then it was my time to order the coffee and he, and I'll talk to him again because I see him all

  41. the time. Then about a day or two later, I talked to another fellow who was a regular and he just

  42. making some chit chat. And he asked me if I grew up in Ottawa. And I asked him about where he went to

  43. high school, where I went to high school. Turns out we probably overlapped by a couple of years.

  44. And he was in sort of the rival school closest to the high school that I went to. And for some reason,

  45. he wouldn't have known that I just had this conversation a day or two earlier with this

  46. fellow. He wasn't even in the coffee shop at that time. And he doesn't know that fellow, in fact,

  47. to my knowledge. And all of a sudden, he just said, you know what, you know, one of the things about

  48. high school that I look back on now as I'm older, because he's probably about my age.

  49. And he said, I realized there was a lot of bullying that went on in my high school. Now,

  50. the two guys didn't go to the same high school, just in case you're wondering. But he said there

  51. was a lot of bullying in the high school that I grew up in. And, you know, at the time, I thought,

  52. oh, well, the bullying's not that bad. It's just words. Not much physical, just words. But now that

  53. I'm older, I realized that that was actually probably way worse for people. Like, it's just like a really

  54. random thing for him to say, that it was probably way worse, the words, the insults that we give to

  55. people. And I didn't ask him, but the way he said it made me wonder if he'd been one of the bullies

  56. that, in fact, had been doing those things. I mention all of this because the Bible's going

  57. to talk about the problem of insults this morning. And it's going to talk about the problem of suffering,

  58. suffering, but suffering in particular in the context of insults. And this is actually like a,

  59. this is, I mean, all the texts in the Bible are very important, but this is very important because

  60. so many of us struggle with insults. I would, I wonder sometimes if one of the reasons that people

  61. walk away from the Christian faith is because they'd rather avoid insults. And I wonder sometimes

  62. if one of the reasons why people don't want to actually take the step of becoming a Christian is

  63. because they're worried about how their friends and family and coworkers will see them if they

  64. become a Christian. That there's, because in Canada, we really value trying to figure out a way of life

  65. where you never suffer. Like, in fact, if you were to ask Christian, many Canadians, is one of your goals

  66. in life to never suffer? I think most people would say, yeah, that's, that'd be one of my goals. One of my

  67. goals in life is to never suffer. So let's look. We're going to look and see what the Bible says.

  68. The Bible walks right towards this issue, and I think it has great wisdom. It's, it's, it's, it's

  69. 1 Peter chapter 4, verses 12 to 19. 1 Peter 4, 12 to 19. And actually, one of the things, I'm going

    1 Peter 4:12–19

  70. to begin with the end. So sorry about that, Claire. I'm going to go to verse 19 first, and then go to

  71. 12 to 12 and then, and then come down. This isn't the summary of all of what Peter's talked about.

  72. He's talked about suffering a fair bit. There's going to be an important bit to the last little

  73. bit of a first Peter. But this is a really important summary statement. And I, I actually, I want to

  74. share it with you first, then we'll go back and we'll look at insults and all the things to do with

  75. suffering. But I just think it's such a, such a beautiful verse. If you would put it up on the

  76. screen, it's verse 19. Therefore, let those who suffer according to God's will entrust their souls

  77. to a faithful creator while doing good. And I'll, I'll hopefully mention it again. The word which is

  78. translated there is entrust. Some of your Bibles will use the word commit. But if you look and you,

  79. you try to figure out the last words that Jesus said on the cross, of course, the second to last

  80. word is it is finished. And then the very last thing is he says into your hands, Father, I commend

  81. my spirit. I commit my spirit. And that word commend or commit is the same word as entrust.

  82. So you have to wonder, that would have been something because there were women, and then a lot of other

  83. people who observed the crucifixion would have later become Christians. And you have to wonder if,

  84. if even as Peter was writing this, if there's a bit of a catch in his mouth, a little bit of a catch

  85. in his heart, to see, to recommend this, that this is what Jesus did as he's dying on the cross.

  86. But what's so beautiful? I don't, I don't know how people can go through hard times in life if there

  87. isn't a God that they can pour out their hearts to. I mean, if you get nothing else from my sermon,

  88. I mean, that's just it. Are there challenges to being a Christian? Are there, is there a cost to

  89. being a Christian? Yes, yes, yes. But I don't know how you can go through life without having

  90. a God who really is there, not just imaginary, but really is there, that you can be reconciled to,

  91. and you can pour out your heart to, and that you know that he loves you, that he doesn't crush you.

  92. I, this week, did I write down her name? I hope I wrote down her name, because I can never pronounce

  93. it, and I apologize if I mispronounce it, but there's this organization in England called Unherd,

  94. U-N-H-E-R-D, and it's, it's, it publishes articles for those who don't want to think like the herd.

  95. So it's trying to unherd you, so you don't think like the herd. Anyway, they published,

  96. they put out a debate or a conversation this, a week or two ago in New York City between Christopher

  97. Dawkins, who's a legendary atheist, and, and here's, where's her name? Iann Hersey Ali.

  98. And some of you might have heard of, of her. You might have heard, you know, some of you might

  99. remember about 15 years ago, there was a Dutch filmmaker stabbed to death, I think in the streets

  100. of Amsterdam, and he was stabbed to death because he was making a, a video that was critical of, of,

  101. of Islam, and the, the person who starred in the video was, was Iann Hersey Ali, and she had to,

  102. to, to be in hiding for quite a while because of multiple death threats to her.

  103. But she grew up a fundamentalist Muslim. She became, renounced all of that, became an

  104. outspoken atheist, a social commentator, a best-selling author, public intellectual,

  105. close friend of all of the, the leading atheist writers, including Christopher Dawkins.

  106. And about a year ago, she shocked everybody in Unheard of saying she'd become a Christian.

  107. And there's been a lot of talk about whether it was a real conversion or whatever. Anyway,

  108. there was this conversation that she had in New York City just a week or two ago, you can see it

  109. on the YouTube of Christopher Dawkins and her having a conversation. And one of the things that he says

  110. to her is that Christianity is obsessed with sin. And without missing a beat, she said,

  111. that's not how I read the Bible. When I read the Bible, it's obsessed with love.

  112. It's obsessed with love. And they go on and have a bit of a conversation about that. And it's a very

  113. perceptive thing, I think, to, to see. So anyway, we have this, I don't know how you,

  114. how you can endure suffering if there isn't a God who really is there. And it's the God that is revealed

  115. in the person of Jesus. And it's a God who is obsessed with love. So that you can pour out your

  116. heart when you're having really hard times, knowing that he'll hear you and not crush you.

  117. He'll hear you and not diminish you. He'll hear you and not hate you. I don't know how you can live

  118. without that. But let's get to this verse. If you go back to me with verse 12, it begins with something

  119. which is very off-putting to Canadians. Look at verse 12 of chapter 4. Beloved, do not be surprised

  120. at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to

  121. you. But rejoice insofar as you share Christ's sufferings, that you all, that you may also rejoice

  122. and be glad when his glory is revealed. If you were insulted for the name of Christ, you are blessed

  123. because the spirit of glory and of God rests upon you. Now just pause here. Lots of interesting things

  124. here, but here's the part that would be very off-putting to a lot of Canadians. It says this,

  125. Beloved, verse 12, Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you

  126. as though something strange were happening to you. Now that's the part which is off-putting.

  127. What he's saying is, if you are a Christian and if you have committed your life to Christ and you are

  128. trying to follow him, there will inevitably be times when people insult you, when people think less of

  129. you. It might mean you don't get the promotion, you don't get invited to the parties or the dinner

  130. parties. It will cost you. And that's not strange. It's not a bug that has to be fixed.

  131. And this is going to explain in a moment. It's in a sense a design feature of the whole Christian,

  132. what it means to, why Christ came and why he died and why he rose again and what he calls us to.

  133. Now, for a lot of Canadians to hear this, you'd say,

  134. Okay, George, you just gave me one more reason not to be a Christian. Like, George, don't you think

  135. the goal of life should be to suffer as little as possible? And you're saying that if you become

  136. a follower of Jesus, there are going to be times when people insult you and belittle you and scorn you?

  137. Like, George, really? That's what you want to tell me? Like, why would anybody become a Christian?

  138. Like, surely, George, you agree that the goal of life should be to avoid suffering.

  139. And in fact, in this way, Buddhism and much of its Eastern religions and secular thought all agree.

  140. They have different types of techniques, although Canadian secular thought is quite happy to borrow

  141. different techniques from Buddhism and Hinduism and turn them into a type of a therapy

  142. and a self-help type of thing, all of them to avoid suffering because most Canadians agree that

  143. the goal of life is to have as little suffering as possible because suffering is inherently meaningless.

  144. Suffering is inherently meaningless and bad.

  145. Now, there's a problem with this which is not reflected upon very much by the average Canadian

  146. or people throughout the world. Some of you have heard me share how a few years ago there was a

  147. well-known actress who, she was asked if there was one thing she had, like, a godlike power to change

  148. one thing in the world, what would it be? And what she said is if she had godlike power to change one

  149. thing in the world, she would get rid of guilt. Nobody would feel guilt. And as I've shared before,

  150. maybe you're hearing it for the first time, I don't expect you to remember everything I say. I couldn't

  151. tell you how long ago I said it or anything. But the person doing the interview obviously thought this

  152. was a piece of wisdom that would be, oh, okay, she said that, let's write that down. That's a keeper.

  153. That's something I want to remember. But the unintended consequence of her advice is she just wished

  154. that all human beings become sociopaths and psychopaths. Because what characterizes sociopaths

  155. and psychopaths, the definition of the two of them is a bit fluid, might be one or the other,

  156. depends how you work it, is a person who feels no guilt. Now, in fact, when I immediately read it,

  157. when I read it, I immediately thought of that. She just wishes that she was a sociopath or a psychopath.

  158. Like, does she realize? Does the newspaper writer thinking this is a real wise thing I want to

  159. write down just realize that if he wishes that he never experiences guilt again, that he's actually

  160. wishing that he becomes a sociopath or a psychopath? We could add that now to a raging narcissist who

  161. don't seem to feel any guilt no matter how bad they treat others. Really? That's your goal in life?

  162. So how does this fit with suffering? Well, there's a very, very simple analogy there,

  163. which is exactly the same, which is that if that is actually the goal of you as a Canadian,

  164. or somebody else, to live a guilt-free life, you've just become the people in the stories that

  165. everybody hates, that nobody wants to be. Now, it depends on whether the types of novels or movies

  166. that you like to watch. I often like police novels or private detective things, you know,

  167. where there's a death or a robbery or some great tragedy and people are trying to be rescued,

  168. et cetera, et cetera. But one of the enduring themes in books and movies like that, you read the John

  169. Sanford Prey novels, you read the Michael Connolly Prey, Michael Connolly Bosch novels, I could go on

  170. and on and on. You read the Joe Pickett novels, great novel series of a game warden in Wyoming,

  171. if you've not read them by C.J. Box. But in all of these things, what characterizes the hero

  172. is that he is obsessed, maybe that's too strong a word, but he is deeply committed to doing what is

  173. right, to making sure there's justice. And not only does he, of course, have to deal with,

  174. and I could also do the Sue Grafton, Kinsey Mulholland novels, to have a woman author in there,

  175. a woman hero. So it's not just that they're all men heroes, it's the same thing with her novels.

  176. And in all of these cases, not only do they have to deal with the people who've done wrong

  177. and try to capture them and try to figure out, like, who the guilty person is and bring them

  178. to justice, but they also have to deal with the time servers, bean counters, who don't give a hoot

  179. about this. They have to fight the bureaucrats and the people who only want the thing to go away

  180. and don't really care if it ends up being, if the right person is captured or the wrong person is

  181. captured. They want to be able to do their day, they want to be able to go home, they want to have no

  182. suffering, they want to have no bother, they don't want the paperwork, they don't want any of that type

  183. of things. And so these heroes are trying to not only pursue that which is right and good and just,

  184. but they're also having to deal with this bureaucracy and often captains and others and politicians

  185. who just want to have a problem-free, suffering-free life. And let me tell you, I can't imagine that

  186. anybody reads those novels and say, dang, I'd like to be that boss. I'd like to be the person who has no

  187. concern for justice. I'd like to be that person. I'd like to be that person who's just, you know, whatever,

  188. don't do it, too much bother, who cares, I just want to go home and, and I don't know, watch Netflix.

  189. Like, nobody wants to be that person who reads those novels or watches those movies.

  190. But if your philosophy and theology of life is one, that it's going to be a life which has as little

  191. suffering as possible, you've just wished that you've become the one in the books that nobody wants

  192. to be. You see, this is what, this is why, like, if you remember verse 19, that, you know, at the end

  193. of the day, we need to entrust or commit ourselves, our very selves, at a very deep level into the hands

  194. of a faithful creator and continue to do good, is that as we've seen over previous weeks, what the

  195. Bible is saying this is, if you desire to live a life which is committed to doing good, is committed

  196. to doing justice, is committed to mercy, is committed to compassion, is committed to generosity, is committed

  197. to forgiveness. If you are committed to do those things, you will be insulted.

  198. And people will not, will look down their nose at you, and you will run into trouble. It is inevitable.

  199. And so the Bible is casting before us, at the end of the day, a far more beautiful vision,

  200. and in our, and if, if the average person is honest, on one hand, they, they wish there was a way of pursuing

  201. that vision, where they're never going to be insulted, they're never going to be looked down upon, or anything

  202. like that, but at the end of the day, that's really, most people would say, do you, do you want to just be a,

  203. is your goal in life to be a Netflix-watching, couch-sitting,

  204. bean counter, or is your goal in life

  205. to be committed to doing that which is good, and true and just.

  206. And at least at a surface level,

  207. we'd know that's what we want to be. That's the second one's

  208. what we want to be.

  209. And that's really what the Bible is just saying.

  210. When it says in verse 12,

  211. do not be surprised at the firing trial

  212. that comes upon you to test you as though

  213. something strange were happening to you.

  214. It's just saying, listen, if you're committed

  215. to doing that which is good,

  216. and in particular here as Christians, because it's

  217. not just that you're doing good, but that part of

  218. doing good for us as Christians is to tell

  219. the world,

  220. death doesn't win.

  221. There is a God,

  222. and that God

  223. is a God of love.

  224. From all eternity, the Father has loved

  225. the Son, and the Son has loved the Father,

  226. and the Holy Spirit has loved the Father,

  227. and the Son, and from all eternity,

  228. there is a God of love who loves you and loves you

  229. so much that in real

  230. life, not just a

  231. once upon a time story, not a

  232. Santa Claus story, not

  233. a work of fiction, not a work of

  234. mythology, but in real life, this

  235. God who really does exist,

  236. who really is a God of love,

  237. seeing our desperate

  238. need and our inability to fix

  239. ourselves or save ourselves,

  240. sent his Son to live amongst

  241. us, to ultimately die

  242. on the cross for us, to be the

  243. one who can reconcile us to him,

  244. and this is news for

  245. you.

  246. It's news for you.

  247. And our hope and prayer is that you will say

  248. yes.

  249. That's

  250. sounds too good to be true. Well, it's not too

  251. good to be true. It's actually true.

  252. Not too good to be true. It's actually true,

  253. and it can be true for you, and that's,

  254. and if that means that we get insulted, we get

  255. insulted.

  256. Now, one of

  257. the problems that

  258. lurks in our culture

  259. is the problem of meaninglessness,

  260. and most of

  261. Canadian culture deals with

  262. meaninglessness by

  263. distraction.

  264. You don't have to think about

  265. the problems of death and suffering

  266. and meaninglessness if you can just get

  267. lost in TikTok, or just get lost

  268. in Netflix, or get lost in books, or

  269. get lost in alcohol, or drugs, or some

  270. other type of thing.

  271. Other types of more sophisticated

  272. ways to practice

  273. distraction.

  274. But, you know,

  275. when it says here, verse 13,

  276. but rejoice insofar as you share

  277. Christ's sufferings, that you may also

  278. rejoice and be glad when his glory is

  279. revealed. What this is telling us

  280. is this, that,

  281. I mean, in fact, as I've

  282. shared before many, many times,

  283. the Christian life begins when you

  284. either make a conscious decision

  285. around this, or you realize that you

  286. have made a decision around this

  287. at some point in time in your life,

  288. that you, in a sense,

  289. give your life to Christ,

  290. and you want to, you say, Jesus,

  291. I believe that you're my Savior,

  292. I want you to be my Savior,

  293. I come to you, please come to me,

  294. please come into me and be my Savior

  295. and my Lord. And when we have

  296. that, maybe not with those

  297. words, but we realize at some

  298. point in time, either we use those

  299. words or something like it, or we

  300. came to realize that at some

  301. point in time in our journey of

  302. life, that that's happened in us.

  303. And the wonderful thing is that

  304. Christ actually does come in.

  305. And the Bible describes this

  306. wonderful thing that on one hand

  307. you can describe becoming a

  308. Christian as Christ, and in fact,

  309. God the Father and the Holy Spirit

  310. entering into you. And in another

  311. way you can understand it as

  312. entering into Christ. And so that

  313. in some ways then, Christ's story

  314. becomes yours. Not that you died to

  315. save anybody, but that you've

  316. entered him, and so the saving

  317. thing that he did on his life,

  318. sinless life and death upon the

  319. cross, and tasting all there is to

  320. taste of death, and his

  321. resurrection, when you put your

  322. faith and trust in the risen Christ,

  323. that whole history of Christ and what

  324. he did on earth, and in some ways

  325. becomes yours. You identify with him,

  326. and because he rose, it's because

  327. you are in him that he rose, you will

  328. rise, and death is not the final word

  329. about you, and that's the wonder of

  330. the gospel. And what Peter is saying

  331. here is that it's not just this

  332. mystical union that you have with

  333. Christ, which is unbelievably precious,

  334. but the story itself is precious.

  335. Because, you see, if you understand that

  336. the story is your story now, and you

  337. remember and understand the ending of

  338. that story, and then you understand as

  339. that story becomes more real to you, and

  340. the ending of the story becomes more

  341. real to you, it changes the story of the

  342. life that you've lived up until now, and

  343. the life you're living right now. Because

  344. the end of the story changes everything

  345. in the story. Like a very, very simple

  346. example would be if you, sorry for those

  347. of you who've never read or watched the

  348. Lord of the Rings, but if you've read or

  349. watched the Lord of the Rings, it's all

  350. about this quest to defeat this profoundly

  351. evil power that's going to overwhelm the

  352. entire world, and there's a connection

  353. that if you were able to destroy this

  354. ring that's sort of like the repository or

  355. the link to his power, if you can destroy

  356. in a particular mountain, it will bring an

  357. end to this unbelievably evil creature and

  358. all the evil and destruction that he's

  359. brought into the world. And the Lord of

  360. the Rings is a story of this quest by

  361. this little hobbit to be the one who's

  362. going to actually have to put the ring in

  363. this particular fire, and he suffers, and

  364. there's death, and he has trial and trial

  365. and trial. But if at the very, very end he

  366. comes to the edge and he isn't able to

  367. throw it in, well in fact there's nobody

  368. would have ever read that story. Like maybe

  369. it would have been read by five university

  370. professors and one PhD student looking for

  371. a dissertation. The whole story, when he

  372. throws the ring into the fire at the end,

  373. spoiler alert, and evil is destroyed, all of

  374. the suffering of his life takes on a very

  375. different meaning. It was still suffering.

  376. He still was parched. He still was beaten.

  377. He still, all those things still happened

  378. to him, but everything in the story is

  379. completely and utterly transformed. So when

  380. Peter is saying here, you think about the

  381. gospel, the thing which is so wonderful

  382. about the gospel is that on one hand the

  383. gospel is true. Jesus really did die on

  384. the cross. It's true because Jesus really

  385. did taste all there is to taste of death. It's

  386. true because he really did rise from the

  387. death. All of these things are completely

  388. and utterly true, but it's also a story

  389. that doesn't crush you, that ennobles you.

  390. For much of the world and for much of time,

  391. there's some variation of the karma story

  392. that you live in. And the thing about

  393. karma is that if you are suffering, you

  394. deserve it. In a sense, if I see you

  395. suffering, all I can say to you is, sucks to

  396. be you. I'm not suffering. My karma is

  397. pretty good. It creates pride and it creates

  398. despair. And it's very interesting that

  399. even the goal of life of most Eastern

  400. religions and secular Canadians is all

  401. death. But if the end of all of our story

  402. is death, how can your life have any type

  403. of meaning? That's what's so wonderful and

  404. beautiful about the gospel. That God, the

  405. Son of God, actually dies and death is not

  406. the final word. There is a real resurrection

  407. that happens. A resurrection that you and I

  408. can share in when we put our faith and

  409. trust in him. And the end of the human

  410. story is not death. It's not nothingness. It

  411. is, in fact, that there will be a new heaven

  412. and the new earth. And that's why in verse

  413. 19, Peter can say, you need to just

  414. remember that you can entrust your hands to

  415. a faithful creator and commit yourself to

  416. doing good. And it's so wonderful. You can't

  417. commit yourself to nothingness and therefore

  418. do good. You can't commit yourself to

  419. meaningless death and therefore do good. Those

  420. things don't follow. There's nowhere to go and

  421. the story doesn't ennoble you. It doesn't

  422. empower you. And Peter is just saying, be

  423. gripped by this story. And we spent a long

  424. time on the first bit. We'll start to wrap

  425. it up. On the way to the end, Peter has a

  426. very, very interesting aside which we need

  427. to pay attention to. Let's look at his verse

  428. 15. But let none of you suffer as a murderer

  429. or a thief or an evildoer or as a meddler. Now,

  430. those are four very odd different types of

  431. problems, aren't they? Like, okay, yeah, yeah.

  432. Obviously, if you're suffering in jail because

  433. you murdered somebody, like, of course, like,

  434. why shouldn't you do that, right? And, okay,

  435. like you were a thief, like you stole things

  436. and now you're sort of suffering. People don't

  437. like you. They want to give you a job. You spent

  438. some time in jail. We can sort of say, understand

  439. that. An evildoer? Well, evildoer sounds

  440. pretty strong and we could see that. And if

  441. somebody said, I'm a Christian, I'm suffering

  442. for being a Christian and, oh, by the way, I

  443. murdered somebody, you say, well, maybe you're

  444. suffering in jail because you murdered somebody.

  445. And then if somebody said, well, I'm Christian

  446. and I'm suffering and the reason I'm suffering,

  447. you know, is because I'm a Christian, but they

  448. said, no, no, actually, aren't you in jail

  449. because you robbed a bank? Like, that's not

  450. because you're a Christian. And then if even

  451. somebody said, oh, no, I'm suffering for a

  452. Christian, but they said, no, don't you go

  453. around doing, like, these really, really terrible

  454. evil things? Maybe you're suffering because you do

  455. terrible, really evil things. It's not because

  456. you're a Christian. But then he adds meddler.

  457. Years ago, I was on a national leadership team

  458. and it was while I was still part of the

  459. Anglican Church of Canada. And we brought a

  460. person onto our team who would have told

  461. everybody, had a reputation that he was

  462. suffering for being a Christian in a very

  463. liberal diocese. And what we discovered was

  464. this about him. This is how one person put it.

  465. He was a knit picker who left no knit unpicked.

  466. So we'd have a meeting and the minutes would

  467. come out. And I literally don't know what he

  468. did with his time. Because within that first

  469. week, we would get three emails a day about

  470. the minutes. And then over the next week, it

  471. would maybe go from down to two a day to down

  472. to one a day. And good grief, over two weeks,

  473. we probably had at least 25 or 30 emails.

  474. Every email was two to three thousand words

  475. long. And then he'd get bothered when we

  476. didn't respond to them, which would create

  477. more emails. And so we got him off our

  478. leadership team. Not because he's a Christian.

  479. I expect to see him in heaven. But because he

  480. was a knit picker who left no knit unpicked, he

  481. was a busybody and a meddler. And it's actually

  482. really good warning to us. You know, listen,

  483. listen. You know, it's like at the last synod

  484. that was in Ottawa. Somebody was just telling

  485. me this. You know, one of the coffee shops that I

  486. go to regularly is right near St. Peter's and St. Paul's.

  487. And somebody was telling me that one of the clergy

  488. went in there with his collar and all dressed up

  489. like a priest. And then he gave the barista a hard

  490. time for having a name tag that said they on it and

  491. them. Okay, listen, you're not suffering for being a

  492. Christian. You're suffering for being a jerk. Okay? Like

  493. you're suffering for being a meddler in this

  494. particular case. Like don't say you're doing anything

  495. heroic. You're just being a busybody. Like just call

  496. them by their name. You know, if their name's Sue, call

  497. them Sue. You don't have to call them they. And you

  498. don't have to make a big show about it and look. You

  499. get the point. So just a good thing for us to take a

  500. step back about in terms of there's going to be enough

  501. things that you, if you actually walk towards

  502. opportunities to share the gospel, or if because of your

  503. love of Jesus and your allegiance to the gospel, you're

  504. going to do that which is right. Even if it means your

  505. whole team is mad at you, you want to do that which is

  506. just, even though your whole team is mad at you. There's

  507. enough things like that that will lead you to being

  508. insulted and put down. You don't need to add being a

  509. meddler. But now let's close. Let's look at the last few

  510. verses, 16 and following. Yet if anyone suffers as a

  511. Christian, let him not be ashamed. Let him glorify God in

  512. that name. Just a little pause. We're just very used to the word

  513. Christian nowadays. But the word Christian was actually coined by

  514. non-Christians to put down Christians. In a sense, when our

  515. LGBTQ plus friends, they a few years ago decided that rather than having

  516. queer as an insult, they'd proudly say they were queer. They're actually just

  517. learning something from the early Christians. You see, we don't think about

  518. it very much, but when Jesus died on the cross, he died a slave's death. He died a

  519. death that was designed to humiliate him and shame him to the maximum degree.

  520. They strip him naked on a public place. They give him a very, very painful death,

  521. which is usually quite slow. And it's a great, like nobody would want to put down,

  522. by the way, I have a really fantastic family tree. My dad, my grandfather, my

  523. great-grandfather were all crucified. No, that wouldn't happen. If you, in fact,

  524. had been a Roman citizen, that was your case. You'd pretend you'd been adopted or

  525. something like that, that you didn't know who your parents or your grandparents

  526. were. And so it's non-Christians who call Christians Christians as a bit of

  527. abuse. And this is the first time in the Bible that a Christian says to other

  528. Christians, embrace the shame.

  529. Embrace it. Look what it says. If anyone suffers as a Christian, let him not be ashamed,

  530. but let him glorify God in that name.

  531. In fact, here's another thing which is really important for us.

  532. You know, the difference between guilt and shame, it's a very important difference.

  533. And most insults try to, and especially if there's a gang of insulters, what they want

  534. to do is try to create shame within you, not just guilt. When I feel guilty, it's because

  535. I know I've done something wrong. When I feel shame, it's because I start to believe that

  536. I'm wrong, that there's something actually deeply wrong about me, something not right about me.

  537. And that's partially why I do the things I do. And what Peter's saying here is very important

  538. advice to us. The big advice is, listen, just fill your mind with who Jesus is and what his life was

  539. really like and what his death was really like and the truth of his resurrection and the truth of his

  540. coming again. Fill your mind with that. Have that story become so much part of how you think that it

  541. becomes how you see yourself and you see the world. And one of the best ways to combat shame

  542. or the growth of shame in your life is not just thinking about that story, but to spend time glorifying

  543. God. You know, like in a sense what we just did. I need you. Lord, I need you. Every hour I need you.

  544. And that's just so true. I need Jesus every hour. So do you. Anyway, verse 17, for it is time for

  545. judgment to begin at the household of God. And if it begins with us, what will be the outcome for

  546. those who do not obey the gospel of God? That's just really, I'm not going to spend time on it. It's

  547. really just saying, oh, verse 18, and if the righteous is scarcely safe, what will become of

  548. the ungodly and the sinner? It's just also another thing which we could do if we had more time is that

  549. it's one of the ways for us to understand what insults and other things, it's a way that God is

  550. purifying Christians and purifying the church. But we're going through a process of purification

  551. because the justice, the judgment that we deserve, it's not because we don't deserve God's judgment,

  552. but the judgment that we deserve fell on Christ. But those who've rejected Christ, that judgment

  553. they deserve will one day come upon them. But for us, we're to see things as a type of purifying

  554. that's going on. And then this wonderful verse in closing, once again, therefore, a good verse to

  555. memorize, therefore, let those who suffer according to God's will. What is it according to God's will?

  556. Remember, as I said, that God's will is that if you want to share the gospel, if you want to do good,

  557. if there's an opportunity for you to be generous, if there's an opportunity for you to be merciful or

  558. forgiving or show compassion or to be just. And obviously not every time that you do this will

  559. people think badly of you, but there will be times when you do these things and people will think

  560. you're sort of nuts. They'll look askance at you. They'll think that you're a bit unhinged.

  561. Therefore, let those who suffer according to God's will entrust their souls to a faithful creator

  562. while continuing to do good. People mock you for being a Christian, be a Christian anyway.

  563. People mock you for being generous, be generous anyway. People mock you for turning the other cheek,

  564. turn the other cheek anyway. People mock you for being concerned for the poor, be concerned for the

  565. poor anyway. People mock you for chastity, be chased anyway. People mock you for not watching porn,

  566. Don't watch porn anyway.

  567. Trust yourself to Creator.

  568. Be committed to doing good.

  569. That is the way of wisdom.

  570. I invite you to stand.

  571. Let's bow our heads in prayer.

  572. Father, we thank you for the sound of children outside

  573. and in the lobby.

  574. Father, we ask that your Holy Spirit

  575. move deeply within each of these children.

  576. Help them, Father, not to be consumed

  577. by the idols and fears and mockery

  578. and foolishness of our culture,

  579. but to be grounded and rooted in Christ

  580. and the wisdom that comes from knowing him

  581. and being immersed in your word, his word.

  582. And we ask, Father, the same thing for ourselves.

  583. It is easy, Father, for the foolishness

  584. and the idolatry and the mockery

  585. and the idolatry and the foolishness

  586. and the mockery of this world

  587. to fill our souls so that we don't want to stand for you.

  588. And we ask, Father, that you would just bring

  589. the truth of your word home to us,

  590. that you would make the gospel more and more real

  591. to our hearts, both in terms of our final destiny,

  592. but as the story that just governs

  593. how we should see who we are

  594. and what the world is really like.

  595. And Father, we ask that your Holy Spirit

  596. would do this gentle but deep and powerful work

  597. in us to make the gospel more real,

  598. that we might be wise, that we might be free,

  599. that we might pursue that which is good

  600. and just and merciful and generous

  601. and compassionate.

  602. Father, we ask that you would do this wonderful work

  603. not only in each of our lives,

  604. but in us as a church as a whole

  605. and in all of the gospel-shaped churches

  606. of this community.

  607. And we ask these things in Jesus' name.

  608. Amen.