Sermon
The Way of Love
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Transcript
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Father, thank you that you are the speaking God.
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You're not an idol that can do nothing, but you speak to us with words of power, words of love.
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So please would you speak to each one of our hearts.
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We hear what you want us to hear, no matter how close we are to you, how far we are to you.
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Thank you that you reach out to each one of us.
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So would we hear your voice today as Annabelle reads as I try to speak in Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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Annabelle.
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Good morning, Watermark.
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The scripture for today comes from 1 Corinthians 13, verses 1 to 13.
1 Corinthians 13 chapter mention
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Please follow along on the bulletin, the screen, or your own Bibles.
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If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
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And if I have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
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If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.
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Love is patient and kind.
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Love does not envy or boast.
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It is not arrogant or rude.
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It does not insist on its own way.
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It is not irritable or resentful.
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It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
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Love bears all things.
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Love bears all things.
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Believes all things.
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Hopes all things.
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Endures all things.
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Love never ends.
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As for prophecies, they will pass away.
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As for tongues, they will cease.
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As for knowledge, it will pass away.
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For we know in part, and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away.
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When I was a child, I spoke like a child.
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I thought like a child.
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I reasoned like a child.
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When I became a man, I gave up childish ways.
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For now, we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face.
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Now I know in part.
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Then I shall know fully, even as I have been known fully.
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So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three.
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But the greatest of these is love.
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This is the word of God.
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Thank you, Annabelle.
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Dearly beloved, we are gathered today on this wonderful occasion in the presence of God to witness the marriage of Richard and Susan.
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Thank you all for coming.
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I mean, that's kind of what you expect me to say now, right?
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Because you heard this passage.
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My guess is the previous time you heard it was at a wedding.
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This is the most popular wedding passage in the world.
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It's about love.
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And even if you're here, maybe you're a visitor, your first time in church, you probably think, hey, I've heard that passage before at a wedding, maybe at a funeral.
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Yeah, it's so famous, right?
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And we all know what it means.
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Love is the most important thing.
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And so many people, they say, oh, this is my favorite passage.
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So in a way, I don't want to preach on it, right?
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Because I'm just going to ruin it.
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I'm going to get my dirty hands all over it.
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And you kind of, oh, you've ruined it for me.
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But I think it's a great passage because, of course, it's in the Bible.
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It's also, you know, Hong Kong is at the city of love.
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Do we live in a great city?
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But it's not really known as the city of love, right?
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It's the city of hard work and making money.
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And so I'm not sure if we come from a culture where love is so valued.
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As a church, you know, we know in our heads, yeah, love is the most important thing.
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But do we really believe it and practice it?
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Certainly the Corinthians had problems with that.
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So this actually is poem.
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It's not from a wedding.
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It's from the letter of one Corinthians.
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And, yeah, Paul was addressing this church.
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They were into spiritual gifts, really miraculous abilities that God gives.
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And they were proud about it, envious, those kind of things.
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And Paul wants to address them.
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And so in that, as he addresses this problem, he gives this beautiful poem about love.
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It is a poem, right?
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It's really beautiful.
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It's really, you know, love believes all things, hopes all things.
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It's really beautiful.
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But it's not from a wedding.
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You know, you don't hear anything about marriage, nothing about husband or wife.
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On the other hand, you do hear, well, tongues and prophecy and knowledge, right?
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He's talking about spiritual gifts.
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He's talking about, yeah, speaking in tongues, about a word of knowledge, those kind of things.
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So, yeah, that's what we're going to look at today.
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And, yeah, I pray that it will be really good for us.
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So, what is Paul saying?
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Well, the first point, I think it's pretty clear.
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That gifts without love mean nothing.
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He's telling the Corinthians, gifts without love mean nothing.
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And so, first one, if I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love,
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I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
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Speaking about speaking in tongues, you know, if I can speak by the Holy Spirit
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in the language of angels, right, it's so special.
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Well, actually, if I don't have any love, if I do that without love,
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then I'm just a clanging gong.
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I'm just this really annoying noise that no one wants to hear.
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Like if we put this drum kit in the river class,
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I think that's the kind of noise that you would get, right?
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That's what it's like.
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So, gifts without love mean nothing.
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Some people last week thought that, you know,
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I have something against speaking in tongues.
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That's just the Apostle Paul, right?
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He's talking to this church that is obsessed with speaking in tongues.
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And so, he, you know, really wants to address that.
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So, it's not me.
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It's Paul.
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But it's not the only gift, right?
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So, prophecy, verse 2.
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And if I have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries and all knowledge,
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and if I have all faith so as to remove mountains but have not love,
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I am nothing.
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You know, I have prophetic powers.
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I can give everyone a word directly from God.
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And if I pray, you know, the mountains can move.
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If you were in prayer meeting in CGs this week,
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you heard that famous verse from Jesus, right?
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If you have just faith as small as a mustard seed,
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you can say to this mountain, it will move.
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I've never done that.
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But even if you could do that,
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and Paul says, if you do that for selfish reasons,
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it's nothing.
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It is, yeah, it doesn't mean anything, right?
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It's really not what we expect, right?
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Or charity.
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Verse 3.
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If I give away all I have,
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and if I deliver up my body to be burned,
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but have not love, I gain nothing, right?
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If you give millions and millions of dollars to charity.
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As we walk around here in Hong Kong,
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you see all these buildings named after people who paid for it.
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And that's really wonderful.
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And yet Paul says, if that is without love,
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if you give money just to, you know,
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to feel good about yourself,
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if you just do it to show off,
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it's nothing, right?
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That is what Paul says.
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I don't know what it is for you.
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Certainly for the Corinthians, it's a challenge.
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Their obsession with gifts, well, without love, it's nothing.
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Maybe you can do miracles.
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Maybe you can heal people.
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You can raise people from the dead.
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Or maybe you've planted a church,
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and within two years, it's grown to 6,000.
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Wow.
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Maybe you understand every single book of the Bible,
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even the Song of Songs.
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And yet, if you do that without love,
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Paul says, it is nothing.
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And if you lack love,
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you can go to North Korea as a missionary.
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If it's not out of love,
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Paul says, well, it doesn't mean anything.
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It's really interesting, right?
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We often, you know, we're a pretty results-oriented society,
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and we think, you know, what you do is what matters, right?
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It doesn't really matter why you give.
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As long as you give money to the poor,
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the poor are happy.
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It's a good challenge.
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What makes for a good action?
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Maybe if you're here, you're not a Christian.
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What makes something good?
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What makes something right?
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If you give for selfish,
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if you do something good for selfish reasons,
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is it actually still good?
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And of course, if it's not actually that good,
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if you do it for yourself,
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I think one question is,
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how good are we really, right?
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If motivation matters and not just what we do.
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But that's the challenge.
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Paul says, well, without love,
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all your gifts and all your prophecies
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and tongues and everything,
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it's nothing.
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Again, as Christians, it challenges us.
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We usually think that, you know,
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if someone can do something really spiritual,
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it must be, that must be a man of God, right?
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They must be really close to God.
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I mean, how can you heal people
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and hear from God
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and you're not close to him?
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Well, sometimes, of course,
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the Bible says, yeah, that's true.
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Jesus can say, yeah, look at my miracles.
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Clearly, I'm the Messiah.
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Yeah?
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Sometimes it does work.
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But not always.
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The fact that you can do these things
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doesn't always have to mean anything.
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In the Old Testament,
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you probably know the story of Samson.
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I mean, he was really gifted by God.
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He was so strong and powerful to save people.
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And yet he was immoral and proud and bad-tempered.
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And he was not at all a good role model, right?
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We know that.
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Or even worse,
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there's this scary passage in Matthew.
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The Sermon on the Mount, Jesus says,
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Not everyone who says to me,
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Lord, Lord,
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will enter the kingdom of heaven,
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but the one who does the will of my Father
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who is in heaven.
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On that day,
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many will say to me,
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Lord, Lord,
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did we not prophesy in your name
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and cast out demons in your name
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and do mighty, mighty works in your name?
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And then will I declare to them,
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I never knew you.
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Depart from me,
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you workers of lawlessness.
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There are people who can do miracles
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and yet they don't know Jesus.
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That's the scary thing that this passage says.
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So yeah,
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someone,
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you know,
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some televangelist
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and they do miracles,
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but they have shady finances.
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It's all for themselves.
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Yeah.
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We shouldn't treat a person as if,
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you know,
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this must be a real man of God
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just because of the miracles.
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That's the challenge here.
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It's ultimately about love.
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It's a challenge for me,
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right?
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The fact that God can do amazing things
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even if that means nothing
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for my spiritual state,
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right?
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So I preach
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and a couple of people say,
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oh,
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that was such a great sermon.
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And then I probably think,
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oh,
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wow,
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I must be,
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well,
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I must be really good,
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right?
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God must be happy with me.
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No.
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God just loves you guys.
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He wants to speak to you,
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even if it is through me,
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right?
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That's what I should think.
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It means nothing.
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Paul says,
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look at your heart,
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right?
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It's not about how gifted you are.
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It's not about how great you are
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and how much you do.
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What is your heart like?
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Is there love?
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And the fruit of the spirit
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is far more important
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than the gifts of the spirit.
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And yeah,
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gifts without love.
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Is that the Corinthians?
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Well,
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let's look at verses four to seven
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because these are these
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really famous verses,
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right?
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Love is patient and kind.
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Love does not envy or boast.
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And that's what we read
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at the weddings,
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right?
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Love does not envy or boast.
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Ah,
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love is patient.
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Ah,
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and it's so,
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right?
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You know the feeling.
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That's what a wedding is like.
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Oh,
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and we always just,
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I've heard so many sermons
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where they say,
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Paul was just dreaming
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about Jesus,
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right?
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He's writing this letter
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and he's thinking about Jesus
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and writing down,
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oh,
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Jesus is,
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but then,
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of course,
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changing Jesus to love
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because Jesus is love incarnate,
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right?
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Someone says,
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Jesus is love covered with flesh,
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so,
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ah,
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love is patient and kind.
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And the Corinthians hear it
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and they are so inspired
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to be loving.
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Well,
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Paul is definitely thinking of someone,
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but I'm not sure it's Jesus.
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The thing is,
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this is chapter 13,
Isaiah 13 chapter mention
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right?
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And what kind of things
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has Paul been saying to them
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in chapters 1 to 12?
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Well,
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let me read a few verses.
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In chapter 11,
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each one goes ahead
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with his own meal
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and so wait for one another.
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Chapter 3,
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while there is jealousy
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and strife among you,
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are you not of the flesh?
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Chapter 4,
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if then you received it,
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why do you boast
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as if you did not receive it?
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Chapter 5,
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and you are arrogant.
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Chapter 10,
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let no one seek his own good,
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but the good of his neighbor.
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But you yourselves
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wrong and defraud
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even your own brothers,
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right?
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The whole letter
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has been one big rebuke.
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And now,
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Paul talks about love
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and so what does he say?
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Well,
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love is patient.
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Love does not envy
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or boast.
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Love is not arrogant.
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Love does not exist
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on its own way,
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right?
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What is Paul saying?
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Well,
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love is not you,
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right?
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Look at yourselves.
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You are not loving,
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right?
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Guys,
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look at yourselves.
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Love is,
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it does not envy.
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Love does not eat
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all the foods
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at the Lord's Supper
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before the poor arrive.
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Love does not boast
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in,
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you know,
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in your pastor.
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Love,
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you know,
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it doesn't envy
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the person who speaks
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in tongues,
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right?
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That's what he's saying.
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This is actually
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a pretty stinging passage
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if you think about it,
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right?
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He's just throwing tomatoes
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at the Corinthians,
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basically.
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I don't know,
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there's a lot of young
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people here.
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Maybe you're dating,
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getting engaged.
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Maybe don't give,
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if you ask me to preach
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at your wedding,
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don't give me this passage,
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right?
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Because you may not like
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what I'm going to say.
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Okay,
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well,
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love is not
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what Richard did like
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last week,
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right?
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But that is basically
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what he's saying.
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But yeah,
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we think it's funny,
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but at the same time,
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you know,
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that's the Corinthians.
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What would Paul say to us?
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Right?
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We were at confession
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just now.
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You know,
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love remembers
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to pray for people
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when you said
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you would pray for them.
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Love does not
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bail out of serving
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at the last moment.
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Love does not have
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difficult conversations
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by text message.
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Love considers
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what others may be
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going through
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before making a joke.
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Love does not change
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CG just over
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a misunderstanding.
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And so on,
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and so on,
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right?
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I don't know
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what it is for you.
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The Holy Spirit
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needs to speak to you,
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but that is basically
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what Paul is saying.
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Look,
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guys,
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love is not you.
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Gifts without love,
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that very much describes
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what you are like,
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right?
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You lack love.
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Of course,
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that raises the question,
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then why is love
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so important,
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right?
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Why,
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hey,
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we have all these
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spiritual gifts.
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Why are they
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less important than love?
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And so we get
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the last section.
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Verses 8 to 13.
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And he is saying,
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well,
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the thing is,
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love lasts
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and gifts don't.
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Right?
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Compared to love,
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spiritual gifts,
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they just don't last.
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They are temporary.
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And Paul,
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you know,
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Christian life is quite easy.
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Just think about
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what matters
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in a thousand years.
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And then you know
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what really matters.
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And that's what Paul thinks.
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Well,
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think of the future.
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Think,
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take the long-term view.
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And then,
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yeah,
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it says,
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verse 8,
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love never ends.
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But as for prophecies,
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they will pass away.
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As for tongues,
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they will cease.
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As for knowledge,
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it will pass away.
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So prophecy,
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words of knowledge,
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all that stuff
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will pass away.
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But when
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and why?
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Well,
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verse 9,
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for we know in part
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and we prophesy
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in part.
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But when the perfect
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comes,
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the partial
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will pass away.
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And he's saying,
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well,
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gifts are partial,
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but the perfect
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will come.
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Now,
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what is the perfect?
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I think,
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you know,
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Christians have wrestled
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with that.
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There are some people
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who would say,
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well,
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look,
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that is the New Testament.
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Back then,
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Christians did not have
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the New Testament yet,
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so we needed things
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like prophecy
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and those kind of things
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just because,
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yeah,
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because we needed
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to know God's will.
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But now we have
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the New Testament,
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so we don't need
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those gifts anymore
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and they've stopped.
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I'm not sure
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if that's right,
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right?
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Because if you look
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at verse 12,
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for now we see
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in a mirror dimly,
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but then face to face.
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Now I know in part,
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then I shall know fully,
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even as I have been fully known.
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Now,
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the New Testament
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is wonderful.
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It is not face to face
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with Jesus,
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right?
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It isn't.
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It's not fully knowing
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Jesus,
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as we will know him
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that one day
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when he comes.
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So I think that is
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what it's talking about.
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It's talking about
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the return of Jesus.
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And now,
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those people are partly right.
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If you were here last week,
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I talked about,
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you know,
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apostles and prophets
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as kind of the foundation
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of the church.
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Those 12 guys
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that Jesus commissioned
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as his authorized witnesses,
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you know,
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yeah,
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they were the foundation
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of the church
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and we don't have them anymore.
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That's true.
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Some gifts,
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yeah,
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they have now been replaced
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by the New Testament.
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But the things mentioned here,
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tongues,
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prophecy,
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words of knowledge,
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they should continue,
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right?
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Because that's what the passage says.
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We should expect them
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today in church.
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Of course,
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the thing is,
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Paul isn't trying to say,
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look,
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those gifts are lasting
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and they should continue now.
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Paul is saying,
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well,
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actually,
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ultimately,
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they do not last,
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right?
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They are only until Jesus comes.
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And why?
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Well,
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because they are partial,
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right?
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It's like reflecting,
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you know,
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it's like dimly in a mirror.
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These days,
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mirrors are really good.
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Back then,
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mirrors were not very good.
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You couldn't really see.
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This morning,
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I was practicing my sermon
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in the living room
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and there's this piano
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and it's nice and shiny
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and I can kind of see myself,
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but it's not,
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it's not clear,
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right?
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And that is like
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our view of Jesus now.
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But,
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it's not face to face,
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but gifts,
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yeah,
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he says that they're limited,
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that they're like that piano.
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It's a temporary measure
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while we wait for Jesus.
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Or,
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yeah,
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verse 11,
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when I was a child,
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I spoke like a child,
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I fought like a child,
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I reasoned like a child.
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When I became a man,
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I gave up childish ways.
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It's,
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a child here is a,
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like a toddler,
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a really young child.
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Now,
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young children,
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they can really communicate,
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right?
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They see a car
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and they say,
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vroom,
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vroom,
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vroom,
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vroom,
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right?
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They really talk.
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And yet,
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that's not how adults talk,
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right?
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Children grow up
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and Paul says,
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well,
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that is basically gifts.
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Gifts are,
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they're limited.
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And so,
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you know,
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getting a word from God,
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maybe once a week,
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God gives you a message
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or at least you get some message
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and you need to work out,
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it's this from God.
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But,
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anyway,
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that's amazing,
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right?
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That God speaks to you
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and gives you this message
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to give to someone else.
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But one day,
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you're going to be with God forever,
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right?
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And you can hear from him
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all the time,
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constantly,
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right?
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Directly,
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without any discernment needed.
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That's going to be so much more amazing,
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right?
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Than a word of knowledge now.
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Healing.
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It's amazing if God heals someone,
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right?
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It's a miracle.
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They're going to die again,
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though.
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Getting a whole new resurrection body,
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that will be later
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and that will be so much more amazing,
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right?
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I preached on that a few weeks ago.
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Speaking in tongues.
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That's another thing.
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In a way,
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it's quite limited.
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Now,
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some people don't know this,
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but I can actually speak in tongues.
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I used to go to a Pentecostal church
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in the past,
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but Paul says it's limited
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and,
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you know,
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I agree.
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The Holy Spirit makes you speak
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all these things,
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but I don't know what I'm saying.
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One day,
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I'll be with Jesus
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and I can just speak to him,
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my heart,
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everything I want to say directly,
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isn't that just so much better
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than anything we have here?
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And so Paul says,
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actually,
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these gifts,
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you know,
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they're good,
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they're useful,
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but long-term,
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actually,
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they're not that special
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and they won't last.
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Later,
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you won't need them anymore.
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Maybe this is a good illustration.
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Many of us,
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we have family abroad
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and we want to communicate with them.
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And how do you do that?
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Well,
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in the past,
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you had to write a letter
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and,
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you know,
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then you could make a phone call
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and that was amazing.
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You could hear that voice
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and now,
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you can make a video call
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and you can see them
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and that's so cool,
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right?
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And maybe one day,
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you can put on your Apple Vision Pro
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and it's like you're in the living room
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with them,
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right?
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And that's so cool.
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Well,
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it is cool.
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And yet,
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a few months later,
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you actually see your family.
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You don't need your Apple Vision Pro,
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right?
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You are face-to-face
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and actually,
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this thing doesn't really matter.
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And so,
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the fact that you don't have one,
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well,
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shouldn't be,
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right now,
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shouldn't be a cause of envy
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if you know you're going to see your family soon,
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right?
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You don't need to be proud about it.
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I mean,
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what's the thing that matters?
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It's your relationship,
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right?
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If you have a wonderful relationship with your family,
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it doesn't matter if you can only call them.
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And even if you have an Apple Vision Pro,
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but actually,
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you know,
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there's a lot of conflict and tension,
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that's not the real thing,
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right?
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The real thing that matters is love.
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Love is what lasts.
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The relationship is what lasts,
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not the gifts.
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Heaven is a world of love.
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The love that you have,
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the love that the Holy Spirit has created in your heart,
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that is the love you will have for all eternity.
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And your gifts will cease.
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So yeah,
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love matters.
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Verse 13,
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right?
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These things remain,
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faith,
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hope,
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and love,
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but the greatest of these is love.
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Love is what matters.
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And gifts,
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they're good,
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but they're partial,
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they're temporary,
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not as good as love.
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And so Paul says,
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well,
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14 verse 1,
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pursue love,
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right?
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If love is what matters the most,
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pursue love in everything,
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in your spiritual gifts,
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but also,
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well,
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in everything.
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So yeah.
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So here's a few good questions.
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Who is the most spiritual,
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mature Christian you know?
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Is it the person who planted the church,
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that grew to 6,000?
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Is it the person here on the stage,
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who is so bold,
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and charismatic,
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and amazing,
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right?
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Charismatic in the personal sense.
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Or is it maybe the person behind the scenes,
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the person who no one knows,
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who is caring for a spouse,
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with a terminal illness,
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really selflessly.
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Maybe that person is far more spiritual,
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far more loving,
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than anyone here on stage.
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That's a good question.
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Who is,
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yeah,
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who do you want to be?
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What do we want for our church?
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Maybe we want,
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you know,
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more evangelism,
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and more serving,
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and more spiritual gifts.
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Do we pray that we'd be a more loving church?
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That actually,
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our love is the big thing.
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And that we would be watermarked,
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wow,
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that church is really a place of love,
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where people really love Jesus,
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and love each other.
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And that's why people come here.
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Wouldn't that be amazing?
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But of course,
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let's talk more about spiritual gifts.
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Because that is what Paul wants,
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right?
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Doesn't mean gifts are nothing.
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He says,
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you know,
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earnestly,
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verse 14,
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verse 1,
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he continues,
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right?
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Pursue love,
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and earnestly desire spiritual gifts.
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And he doesn't mean helping,
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administrating,
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he means miraculous gifts.
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You know,
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we should pursue them.
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But as we'll hear next week,
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well,
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which gift?
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That is what love determines.
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But let's go back to last week.
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You know,
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last week I told us,
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hey,
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let's think about who we are,
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and what gifts we have,
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and let's use them,
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let's serve.
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But do we do that out of love?
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So why do we want to use our gifts?
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Do we want to do that out of love?
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If you want to be here on stage playing music,
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is it because you want to really serve people,
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really help them worship through our music?
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Or is it maybe because you feel so great being on the stage?
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Yeah,
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sometimes our motivations are wrong.
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I know this guy,
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he wanted to be a pastor,
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and that's great.
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But basically,
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well,
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my dad was a pastor,
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and he had a low self-esteem because he felt,
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you know,
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I'm a disappointment to my parents.
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That's when I become a,
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why I want to be a pastor.
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It had nothing to do with people.
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It's not really a good motivation,
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right?
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It should be love.
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And so,
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why do we want to use our gifts?
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Have you considered the needs in the church?
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Right?
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It's easy to think,
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okay,
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this is what I'm good at.
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This is what I'm like to do.
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You know,
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in a church,
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lots of stuff needs to happen.
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Maybe actually,
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if you're loving,
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you,
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rather than thinking,
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what do I want to do?
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What needs to be done?
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Right?
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Well,
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how can I serve others?
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So,
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here at the coffee,
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we have disposable cups.
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That's easy.
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I was at another church,
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and basically,
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what people,
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we do,
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use real cups,
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and they had to be washed.
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And there was just no one with the spiritual gift of washing dishes.
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No one came forward,
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hey,
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I feel really cold to washing dishes,
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right?
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It was just so hard to get anyone to do that.
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Why?
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Right?
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It needs to be done.
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Why not love and do these things?
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Right?
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Crash,
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looking after babies,
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so that the parents can have a moment,
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or actually to listen to God.
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In other churches,
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yeah?
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No one wants to do that.
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Right?
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Have we considered the needs of the church?
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Or maybe,
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why would you not use your gifts?
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Maybe some people,
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you have gifts,
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but I don't want to use them,
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right?
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I can play music,
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but that means coming in on Saturday to rehearse,
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and Sunday,
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I need to be here at 9 a.m.?
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No,
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thank you.
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Right?
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Some of us,
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of course,
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we don't have the capacity,
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but for others,
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you know,
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are we driven by love,
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or by our own comfort?
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I think it's a really good question.
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I hope you get the point,
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right?
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Love,
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it's seeking the good of others,
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not our own good.
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So,
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you know,
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let's pray about our gifts,
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let's pray how we can serve,
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let's pray how we can do,
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but ask the Holy Spirit to,
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show us our hearts,
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right?
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Why do we want to do this?
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Is this motivated by love?
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Do I want to do this for others,
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or for myself?
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Yeah,
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that's the big challenge we hear,
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and that's something,
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yeah,
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we should reflect on,
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we should pray about.
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But as we do that,
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as we close,
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I hope you hear,
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this is not an inspiring passage,
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it's a rebuke,
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and some of us will feel very convicted,
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right?
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I can see this,
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I can see all the ways that I'm not loving.
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But if you feel convicted of a lack of love,
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do remember the gospel,
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right?
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We were not in church last week because of our gifts,
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and also we're not here in church,
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we're not accepted because we are so loving,
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not because we have sorted out love.
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I know that's kind of our,
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you know,
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our instincts,
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right?
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We hear this and we think,
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oh,
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I need to be more loving.
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Maybe you're here as a visitor,
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you're not,
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you wouldn't call yourself a Christian,
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and you hear this and you think,
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okay,
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I need to be more loving,
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and then God will accept me.
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No,
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we can't do that.
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I can't do that.
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None of us here can do that.
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I mean,
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what is the standard of love?
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It's Jesus on the cross,
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right?
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Jesus coming down from heaven to die for his enemies.
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I mean,
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if that is love,
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real love,
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then none of us have met the standard.
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None of us.
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But the thing is,
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Jesus didn't die for no purpose.
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He knew that we,
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we don't,
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we're not loving enough.
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We don't love God with all our heart.
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We don't love our neighbor as ourselves.
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That's why he came down and died for us.
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Died to pay the penalty for our lack of love.
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So,
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yeah,
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we're not here because we got it all together.
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We are here because we're just a bunch of helpless sinners who need God's grace to receive his grace,
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his forgiveness.
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And if you don't know that,
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if you're here as a visitor,
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please come,
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come and talk to me.
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I'd love to help you know how you can come to Jesus and receive his love when you don't have the love that you need to come to God yourself.
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Come to talk to me later.
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But when we have done that,
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when we have received love,
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then of course,
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let that love change you.
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We do want to be people of love.
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And that will come as we,
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well,
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as we know Jesus' love.
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A famous verse in the Bible,
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we love because he first loved us.
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If you realize what Jesus did for you,
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it will change you.
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It will,
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yeah,
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make you loving.
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So let's pray that God would do that,
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that we would,
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you know,
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trust his love,
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that we would want to be as loving as he is,
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that we would rest in it.
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Right?
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I don't need to get my approval from spiritual gifts.
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I don't need to,
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I have Jesus already.
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I have his love.
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I don't need your love.
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I can just serve.
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And love.
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That's the idea.
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So I'm going to leave us for 30 seconds just to reflect.
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And then I'll pray.
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And then Jeremy is going to lead us in a time of singing.
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Amen.
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Our Father,
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we,
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we haven't loved you with all our hearts.
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and we haven't loved our neighbors,
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each other as ourselves.
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We see the standard of love and we know it's not us.
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Thank you that Jesus paid for that.
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Thank you that we are accepted,
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well,
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because of your love.
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Because of your love and not because of ours.
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Please,
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would we know that?
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If we don't know that yet,
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would we help us receive that and to come to you and receive your love?
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But then to be changed by it.
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Father,
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we do want this church to be a place of love.
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We want this church to be known in the whole city as a place where we love you and where we love each other.
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That is a miracle.
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It's something that you need to do.
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It's something that,
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yeah,
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this will be the new creation.
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It's a world of love.
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And we want Watermark to be a little world of love right now.
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So do that work in us by your spirit.
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Change us.
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Transform us by your grace.
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And,
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yeah,
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and then it will bring you so much glory.
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And everyone will see it.
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That's our dream.
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In Jesus' name.
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Amen.