Sermon
Acts 13:13-52 "Total Forgiveness"
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Hi, my name is George Sinclair. I'm the lead pastor of Church of the Messiah. It is wonderful
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that you would like to check out some of the sermons done by Church of the Messiah, either
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by myself or some of the others. Listen, just a couple of things. First of all, would you pray
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for us that we will open God's Word well to His glory and for the good of people like yourself?
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The second thing is, if you aren't connected to a church and if you are a Christian, we really,
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I would really like to encourage you to find a good local church where they believe the Bible,
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they preach the gospel, and if you have some trouble finding that, send us an email. We will
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do what we can to help connect you with a good local church wherever you are. And if you're a
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non-Christian checking us out, we're really, really, really glad you're doing that. Don't
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hesitate to send us questions. It helps me actually to know, as I'm preaching, how to deal with the
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types of things that you're really struggling with. So God bless.
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Let's just bow our heads in prayer. Father, we ask that your Holy Spirit would continue to move
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with might and power and deep conviction upon us as we think about your Word.
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guide us and lead us into all truth. Grant us wisdom and discernment. And we ask these things in the
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name of Jesus, your Son and our Savior. Amen. Please be seated.
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So I did my training in a downtown Anglican church, Anglican Church of Canada Church. And then after I was
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ordained, I spent three years as an assistant curator, as a curate in an Anglican Church of Canada suburban
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church. And then after I'd been there for three years, I went and had my first churches where I was
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the rector, the senior pastor. I looked after four little tiny churches out in the country, a place
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called Eganville, a place called Killaloo. Eganville had about 1,200 people. Killaloo, 700 people.
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Clontarf and Traymore, they're now just bends in the road. And no community around them whatsoever.
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And I'm a city guy. I was raised in Montreal. We moved to Ottawa. I lived in Ottawa. Then we went into the
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country. And after I'd been there a short while, I realized one of the big differences, there's lots of
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differences between country, rural Canada, small town, rural Canada, and cities. And by the way,
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all of those places, they're far enough away from Ottawa that in those days, nobody commuted to
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Ottawa. This was a complete rural-based economy. And in both of the churches that I'd been at before,
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the Anglican Church of Canada churches, probably a significant number of people in the church
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fundamentally didn't believe the Bible. And by that I mean is they probably would have just said,
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well, that's just what the Bible says, but there you go. You know, heard that. Let's just move on.
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That's really no particular authority or high respect for it. Maybe a respect for it as part of
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our tradition, our heritage, but beyond that, not really thinking it has any special claim on truth.
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One of the things I discovered in Eganville and Killaloo is most people had a basic respect for the
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Bible. Didn't mean they lived it. In fact, I think at the time that I was there, Renfrew County, that's
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the county I was in, that had the, of all the counties in Ontario, the highest percentage of,
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they had the highest alcoholism rate in the province of Ontario. And by the way, when men,
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when men told me that, it wasn't as if they were embarrassed about it either. Almost it was a point
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of pride that they had the highest alcoholism rate in Ontario. But they had a basic fundamental
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respect for the Bible. And it can be illustrated even in a very funny, ironic way. My wife and I
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had been in this, in Eganville, I don't know, a year or two. And we went to a wedding reception.
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I'd done the wedding and we went to the reception. It was a big, big, big, big country reception.
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And this, this inebriated fellow comes up to me, you know, moving to some wind that only he felt.
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And he starts talking to me. And in particular, he started talking to me about this guy that did
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something wrong to him. And he told me that he was going to go and punch him out. And then he said,
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but don't worry, Padre. I'm just doing what the Bible says. He probably saw my surprise look. He
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said, says in the Bible, vengeance is fine, saith the Lord. So I'm just doing what the Bible tells you.
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So if you're not familiar with the Bible, it doesn't say vengeance is fine. It says vengeance is mine,
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the exact opposite of what he wanted to do. But it's sort of interesting. He felt he had to reassure
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me he was being biblical, even when he was going to go punch somebody out. So the text that we're
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going to look at today is a summary or an outline of how Paul talked to people who respected the Bible.
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That's how we can understand it. Later on in the book of Acts, you're going to get outlines of how he
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talked to people who had basically no knowledge whatsoever of any of the Old Testament or Jesus.
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We're going to get some ways as to how he spoke to them. But here we're having sort of an outline,
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a prairie, as to how he would speak to people who had a basic respect for the Bible.
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And so on one hand, on one hand, it doesn't really help us to think about how we would talk to people
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outside the door. Although on another hand, it actually has something very profound to help us
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speak to people outside that door, because it talks about something very, very, very unique about the
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Christian message. And it also has some very profound insights about two great concerns that
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the average Canadian has, namely how to know and make sure that they're a good person and how to
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forgive themselves. And this text actually has something quite profound and I think wise to speak
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and we're beginning at verse 13. It's a big chunk of the Bible today. Hopefully we'll be able to get
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through it. I might have to skip a little bit, but I'm not going to, as you're going to see, I'm not
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going to skip any of the problematic things, but hopefully we'll get through the whole thing. Acts chapter 13,
Acts 13 chapter mention
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beginning at verse 13, and here's how it goes.
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Now Paul and his companions set sail from Paphos. So they're on their first missionary journey,
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the very first missionary journey in the history of the Jesus movement of Christianity. They've been
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to Cyprus. And verse 13, now Paul and his companions set sail from Paphos and came to Perga in Pamphylia,
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and John left them and returned to Jerusalem. I just have to pause here for a second. So first of all,
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they've left Cyprus and they go to what we now call Turkey. And hear this little phrase about John
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leaving them. What Luke is doing here is signaling something, but you don't necessarily, it doesn't
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jump out at you, but it's signaling something very important. The area that they're going to is where,
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those of you who know the Bible, the book of Galatians is written a couple of years after this to the
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church that in Antioch of Pisidia, which is where Paul is going. And so what you know, if you read
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that letter, and if you read some other parts of the book of Acts, two very, very hard things are
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happening to Paul in this simple verse. It's, you know, it's very easy for us to sort of look back
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at the Bible, especially the book of Acts, and think that somehow or another these are superhuman type
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of people and their life has nothing to do with yours, but it's quite the opposite.
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So what we discover from Galatians is that part of the thing that Paul is struggling with is he has
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a very, very, very serious illness. So he's making a hundred mile walk, it's 160 kilometers,
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160 kilometer walk while very, very ill. And by the time he arrives in Antioch, he's very ill.
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The other thing is not only is he dealing with a very serious physical problem, he's also dealing
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with a deep sense of betrayal. Because as you'll discover later on in the book of Acts, John, who
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we now know primarily as Mark, who wrote the gospel of Mark, he leaves Paul and Barnabas.
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And Paul views it as a profound act of betrayal. A profound act of betrayal. And it's really important
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for us just to pause and think about this for a second. You see, the Bible doesn't promise
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God, the triune God doesn't promise his children that they won't have hard times.
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Idols promise you that you won't have a hard time.
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But the Bible doesn't. And so this is a, this is Paul and Barnabas persevering in a very, very hard
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and difficult time. Now it's also, if you know this about Mark and John, one of the wonderful big
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stories is that Mark is the final word about Mark is not betrayal. He will go on to write the gospel
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of Mark and he and Paul will again become companions and partners in ministry. But at this point in time,
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there is an act of betrayal. And we all know what it's like to deal with, some of us don't know what
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it's like to deal with serious illness. Some of us do. And some of us also know what it's like to deal
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with betrayal. And that's what's going on as they walk to where they're going.
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Well, the story continues. Verse 14. By the way, I'm going to, not every verse will take that long
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to get through. Verse 14. But they went from Perga and came to Antioch and Pisidia. And on the Sabbath
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day, and on the, sorry, and in the Sabbath day, they went into the synagogue and sat down. After reading
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from the law and the prophets, another way of referring to what we call the Old Testament or the Tanakh,
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the rulers of the synagogue sent a message to them, that's Paul and Barnabas, saying,
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brothers, if you have any word of encouragement for the people, say it. So Paul stood up and motioned
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with his hand, in other words, for quiet. Men of Israel and you who fear God, listen, you who fear
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God are people who are pagans, who are in the process of stopping living as pagans and living under the
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Jewish law, but they're not circumcised. So that's who they are. So men of Israel and you who fear God,
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listen, the God of this people Israel chose our fathers and made the people great during their
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stay in the land of Egypt. And with uplifted arm, he led them out of it. Now just sort of pause here.
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So remember I said this is an outline or a sort of a structure about how Paul probably spoke about
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Jesus when he had his first go at people who had a basic respect for the Bible. And what he's going
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to do in this very first section can be illustrated to us in something which is very important for us
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spiritually. And it's captured very wonderfully in one of the collects, which I forgot to look up the
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number. But here's the basic principle. God is more willing to speak to you than you are to listen to
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him. God is more willing to listen to you than you are to speak to him. And God is more willing to act
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than you are to want him to. Now this is very important. It's very counterintuitive to our flesh.
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It's a very common thing for people to wonder, you know, I pray and pray and pray and God doesn't
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seem to listen. You know, why doesn't God speak to me and give me direction? Why doesn't God act?
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That's a very, very common thing for us to think and feel. But the message of the Bible is that,
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you know, in a sense, it's telling us now something that God will tell us face to face when we see him
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in the new heaven and the new earth. That if God was in a sense to replay your life, just rewind it,
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you know, bring you into a theater and you play rewind your life in front of you, he'll just go,
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look, I was willing to listen, listening. I was willing, willing, willing, willing, willing,
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never spoke. I was speaking, speaking, speaking, speaking. You were going around like this.
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I was willing to do those things and I knew in your heart you didn't want me to do those things for
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you. That in fact, the initiative is always on God's part. That God, in fact, the God that really
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does exist, the God that is the triune God that's revealed by Jesus and the scriptures is a God who's
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always more willing to speak to you and me than I am to listen. He's always more willing to listen to
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me than I am to speak and he's always more willing to act than I am willing to let him act.
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And we're going to get that basic idea in a series of statements as Paul is going to describe what
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happens from the time that Israel and Joseph and his brothers enter into the land of Egypt up until
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just a few years ago. Listen to the verbs. I'll read verse 17 again. Listen to the verbs, okay? I'm
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going to emphasize them. The God of this people chose our fathers and made the people great during their
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stay in the land of Egypt. And with uplifted arm, he led them out of it. And for about 40 years, he put up
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with them in the wilderness. And after destroying seven nations in the land of Canaan, he gave them
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their land as an inheritance. Now just pause. God just said here that God destroyed seven nations to
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give the land of Israel as an inheritance. And if this was any other Sunday other than today,
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I would probably take a big part of the sermon to talk about this. I'm not going to say anything
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about it right now. You know why I'm not going to say anything about it? Not because I'm afraid to
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talk about it. Because Paul Copen is going to talk about this very topic on Friday night and Saturday
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morning, and you should go hear him if you have questions about it. He's written books on the subject.
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So if you're curious, go hear Paul Copen Friday night, Saturday morning. Ask him your hardest questions.
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He's written several books on the subject. So I'm not going to say anything about it. And by the way,
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he will be here on Sunday preaching at the 10 o'clock service. And he's going to preach on one
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of those, another difficult text in the Old Testament, Psalm 137, by the waters of Babylon,
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we sat down and wept by the willows there, we played our harps. And that's a very, very beautiful
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psalm. And then it ends with smashing babies' heads against rocks. And it's a very, very hard text.
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And he's going to preach on that. And he'll be available for coffee afterwards, where if you want,
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you can have grilled Paul Copen after the service. Anyway, back to this. Notice the verbs. Back to
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verse 20. All this took place about 450 years ago. Sorry, all this took place about for 450 years. And
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after that, God gave them judges until Samuel the prophet. Then they asked for a king. We finally get
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people actually asking for something. And God gave them Saul, the son of Kish, a man of the tribe of
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Benjamin for 40 years. And when God had removed him, God raised up David to be their king. And then
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God testifies and says, I have found in David the son of Jesse, a man after my heart, who will do all
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my will of this man's offspring. God has brought to Israel a savior, Jesus, as he promised.
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Now just sort of pause here for a second. So you see from the verbs, that's the first thing that Paul's
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going to try to do. He's trying to deal with, in fact, a common human problem, especially for those
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of us who have some sense of what the Bible is, and maybe some respect for Christianity. We have a deep
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prejudice that somehow, really, we know that we're trying our best. We're not sure if God's trying
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his best. We know that we're really trying to do things. We don't know if God's trying to do things.
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And it might surprise people, if you're here and you're outside the Christian faith, you might be
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surprised to know that that's a problem for Christians. And so Paul's going right after it.
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No, no, no. No, no. Look, look, just think about the history. Just think about your history.
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Just think about the verbs. Who's doing what? God is more willing to act for his people than we are
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willing to let him. He's more willing to speak than we are to listen. He's more willing to listen
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than we are to speak to him. That's who we're dealing with. Now, I don't know, 70, 80 years ago,
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there was a man by the name of C.S. Lewis, who's famous nowadays primarily for having written the Narnia
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Chronicles. And he wrote a talk at a university. He did a very interesting talk called Myth Became
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Fact. And he talked a little bit about how in Jesus you can see that all these ancient myths
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in imperfect ways were pointing to Jesus and that what you see in Jesus is the best part of these
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myths. They actually become fact. And what Paul is going to do now, he's going to move, in a sense,
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into something similar. He's going to say that the promises of God have now become a fact of history.
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So he goes from, in a sense, our spiritual issue and the heritage, all these things God has done,
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he now, in a sense, brings them up to the present day. And he's going to talk about how
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these promises of God that he has been making for centuries have, in fact, now become a fact of
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history. Look at what he says. It continues on. We'll say verse 23 again. Verse 23.
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Of this man's offspring, that's David, God has brought to Israel a savior, Jesus, as he promised.
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Before Jesus' coming, John, in this case it's John the Baptist, John the Baptist had proclaimed a
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baptism of repentance to all the people of Israel. And as John the Baptist was finishing his course,
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he said, what do you suppose that I am? I am not he. No, but behold, after me one is coming,
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the sandals of whose feet I am not worthy to untie. Now just pause here for a second.
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You might say, well, George, you know, I know the Bible a little bit, and I mean, John the Baptist is
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just an internal Bible character. Well, no, that's actually not, I mean, that is, in fact, true.
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But, you know, the other day at a funeral, I said something which I've said in many places at
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different times, which catches people by surprise. Do you know that there's really, really, really good
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historical evidence to say that Jesus rose from the dead on one of two dates? And I think that the
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evidence points to the fact that on April 5th, 33, Jesus rose from the dead. The other date is in the year
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30. And people can differ over which one of the two dates is the better choice. And you might say,
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what, like, really? What? Like, isn't it just all like religious stuff? No, no, there's really good
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historical reasons to believe that the date of the resurrection is the 5th of April of the year 33.
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And the reason is, is that the New Testament has so many cross-references with secular history.
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So even here, we shouldn't think of John the Baptist as mainly just being a biblical character.
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John the Baptist was famous at the time and was recorded by sources outside of Christianity.
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He's recorded historically. He's a well-known historical figure. Just as when Paul mentions
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casually that he studied under Gamaliel, if you go to an Orthodox Jewish synagogue and say,
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was there in the old days a rabbi named Gamaliel? And they'll say, of course there was.
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We still study his thinking. Like, he's a well-known historical character.
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And so John now, so Paul is now bringing something to the fore of a, well, even probably an Antioch.
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And he's also doing something else, which I've talked about in other weeks, that if people wanted
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to go check out whether or not Paul is just, you know, making up stuff, they can go and they can go
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to Jerusalem and they can ask around, you know, about these different types of things. So anyway,
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and you'll notice there that it's promised, that a savior has been promised. And then he's bringing
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in John the Baptist, who's very famous. And John the Baptist said, listen, I'm not this prophet that's
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been promised. In fact, I'm pointing to you to the guy who's so much greater than me that I can't even
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be, I can't even, I'm not even worthy in and of myself to touch his sandals. And then it continues
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in verse 26. Brothers, sons of the family of Abraham and those among you who fear God,
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to us has been sent the message of this salvation. For those who live in Jerusalem and their rulers,
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because they did not recognize Jesus, nor did they understand the utterances of the prophets,
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which are read every Sabbath, they fulfilled the utterances of the prophets by condemning Jesus.
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And though they found in him no guilt worthy of death, they asked Pilate to have him executed.
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And when they had carried out all that was written of him, they took him down from the tree,
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another reference to an Old Testament way of understanding the cross, and laid him in a tomb.
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But God raised him from the dead. God raised him from the dead. God raised him from the dead.
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And for many days, he appeared to those who had come up with him from Galilee to Jerusalem,
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who are now his witnesses to the people. And we bring you the good news that what God has promised
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to the fathers. This he has fulfilled to us, their children, by raising Jesus.
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And then he's going to give a couple of Bible verses, and we'll just sort of skip them. It's just
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some different Bible verses. You can look them up later. And verse 36, for David, King David,
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after he had served the purpose of God in his own generation, fell asleep, that's another word for
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Jesus. And he said,
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he said,
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And he said,
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In other words, his bones decayed and turned into dust. But he, whom God raised up, did not
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see corruption. Now just pause here for a second.
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Jesus, Paul is now, remember, he's gone from a basic spiritual condition. He also wants to see,
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help people to see, in a sense, a really big picture of the big part of the Bible, basically
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all of the Old Testament. From early on, I can't remember what chapter is, 23 or something like that,
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25 in the book of Genesis, right up until that day. He brings it now into history. He's making very,
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very, very specific claims about God acting to save people. And he did something in history.
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And what he did in history involved God, the Son of God, dying on the cross and rising from the dead.
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Now, just pause here for a second. One of the well-meaning things I hear all of the time
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when I get into conversations, whether it's a coffee shop or some other place,
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is, you know, maybe they'll ask me about a Bible story or I'll say something. So I'll just say,
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well, listen, you know, everybody has holy books and they all tell you different stories.
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Why should we believe anything from your holy book? Like, yeah, okay, so it says that in your
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holy book. But, you know, the Koran says certain things and, you know, the, you have the different
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Hindu scriptures and the Buddhist scriptures. Why should I believe your book over that? And then
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the other thing they might say is, and by the way, you know, they all say the same thing.
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Like, they all say the same thing. So they're all saying the same thing. And, and, and either that's
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done in two ways. That one, it's, it's all said the same, they all say the same thing in a way that
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means that, therefore, they're all sort of equally untrue. Or it means that they're all true in their own,
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you know, there's just a bit of confusion. Why should, why should we believe this?
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Well, the response to it is, is very interesting. Here's how we should respond.
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Okay. Like, where do those other religions say this?
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You're going to tell me that in the Koran, there's a history of prophecies that God is going to save you.
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And then at the end of, and that he's going to do something in history. Like, like, where is that
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in the Koran? Like, just tell, show me where it's there. It's in the Hindu scriptures. Well,
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the Bahava Gita or something. Okay. I've just, out of curiosity, like, where, where, where is it in the
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Bahava Gita? Like, those things are actually said. Like, where is it in the Buddhist scriptures?
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Well, it's not there. In fact, not only is it not there, it can't possibly be there.
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Allah does not save people.
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There is no salvation in Buddhism or Krishna.
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Hinduism.
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They have a completely and utterly different understanding.
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The highest thing we can hope for in Islam is to be God's slave.
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In Judaism, you have to do a whole pile of acts to try to be worthy of the kingdom of God.
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And as we know, if you follow Buddhism or Hinduism, it's all a matter of you attaining some type of
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enlightenment and then having a change some type of, with enlightenment, something that will mean
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that the cycle of birth and rebirth will come to an end. There's no idea of salvation.
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Like, this is completely unique in Christianity.
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Completely unique.
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And not only that, that, that, that, unique that there's a God who loves you, who actually acts to save you,
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but that he did something in history for that to actually happen, is completely and utterly unique.
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Now,
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I think there's very good evidence
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that the death and resurrection of Jesus is something that actually happened.
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And if it happened, it changes everything.
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If Jesus really rose from the dead,
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in the context of centuries of prophecies,
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for the reasons and to accomplish something that's said,
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it changes everything.
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Everything.
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And it's not just that there's this
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particular fact,
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but it's what it is that he's actually accomplished.
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And it touches upon our great needs.
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Look at how the story continues in verse 38.
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Let it be known to you,
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therefore, brothers,
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that through this man,
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forgiveness of sins
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is proclaimed to you.
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And in the original language,
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the implication is
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total forgiveness
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of sins.
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In the original language.
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Complete,
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total forgiveness.
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In a sense,
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that if you were to think of your life as a string
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that has a beginning and has an end,
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and you don't know where you are in that string,
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you don't know if,
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I don't know if I'm going to die on driving home today,
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I don't know if I'm going to die when I'm 100,
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so I don't know where the end of the string is,
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but if you view your life as a string,
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and God sees the entire string,
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all of the sins from that entire string of your life
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have been completely and totally forgiven.
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That's the claim being made here by the Bible.
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Read it again.
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Let it be known to you,
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therefore, brothers,
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that through this man,
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forgiveness of sins
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is proclaimed to you,
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and by him,
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everyone who believes,
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that's believed in him,
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believes this message,
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and believes in him,
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is freed,
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or justified,
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or vindicated,
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or made right
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from everything from which you could not be free,
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or justified,
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or vindicated,
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or made right
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by the law of Moses,
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in other words,
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by your own particular actions.
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So just sort of pause here for a second.
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There's two particular things here
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which are absolutely huge.
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If afterwards,
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Steve and I,
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you know,
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sometime during the week,
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we're the only ones in the office,
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and I claim that he punches me.
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Which he'd never do.
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He's way nicer than me.
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Maybe I should use the other example.
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He claims I punched him.
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If after it's all over,
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and it just happened in private,
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if on Sunday,
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when Steve mentions that,
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if Andrew says to Steve,
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well,
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I forgive you.
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Steve could go,
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or I could go,
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what?
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Like,
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you're forgiving Steve for punching me?
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Like,
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you weren't even there,
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dude.
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You know,
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if Steve punches me,
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only I can forgive Steve,
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right?
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So this message implies that
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that action is not just something
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he does against me.
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Only,
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if only the person wronged
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can forgive.
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This is implying that God,
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who's involved in all actions
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of wrongdoing,
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he pronounces this complete,
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total forgiveness.
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You see,
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what the text is saying
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is that there's this nexus
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of death and sin,
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and with this nexus of death and sin,
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which connect with guilt and shame,
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that the death and resurrection
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of Jesus deals
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with this nexus
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of guilt and shame,
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and deals with it totally.
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And one way that he deals with it
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is that when you put your faith
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and trust in Jesus,
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that God has completely
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and utterly forgiven you.
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From the earliest moment
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that you were able to make
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what we would call a sin,
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what God would claim a sin,
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to the moment of your death,
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you were completely
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and utterly forgiven.
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And it's not just
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that you have been forgiven.
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This other word about made free
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is saying that there's something else.
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And if we think about it for a second,
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there's something else
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which we need as well
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on top of forgiveness,
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and that is we need to make it right.
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So let's say once again,
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I've punched Steve,
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and then I ask for his forgiveness.
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And then maybe I have to say to him,
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like, is it right now
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between the two of us?
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Like, are we, is it right?
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Has it been, like, fixed?
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And Steve might say,
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well, not quite.
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It's still not right.
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And I don't know what it might be.
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He might say, you know,
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I think you need to get up
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and confess to the congregation
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that you did it.
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And maybe you need to have some therapy.
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And maybe if you've done that,
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then it'll be right with us.
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But it'll take a while
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because you really hurt me.
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Is it made right?
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And use another example,
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which, because even the example
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of that physical thing,
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I mean, in a sense,
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the person who's wrong
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still has to swallow some
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of what's happened to them.
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You know, another example would be
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if somebody loaned you $10,000
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and then you wasted it
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and didn't spend it back,
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give it back,
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and then they ask for forgiveness,
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and you might be able to forgive them
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or say, I'm going to work on forgiving you.
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But at the same time,
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the $10,000 is still gone,
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and they might say,
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is it right between us?
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How can I make it right?
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And maybe you have some compassion
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and freedom with them,
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and so you say,
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well, the way to make it right
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would be, I don't know,
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I think you need to take out
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a bank loan,
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and I, you know,
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maybe take a bank loan out
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for $8,000
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and make those payments,
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and I'll swallow the rest.
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Maybe if it's a lot of money,
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you can't even take anything,
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you know?
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Another example of this
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making right here
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is the example I've used before
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of a single mom
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with three little kids
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goes into a restaurant,
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and she's really struggling
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financially,
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but her mom has said,
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listen, I'd love you
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to take the kids
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to Swiss Shelley,
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and they didn't pay me
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for saying that,
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using that as an example,
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by the way.
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It's on me,
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and give you a gift certificate,
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and she goes,
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and the kids are a bit rambunctious
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and all of that type of stuff,
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but, you know,
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she goes in with the three little kids,
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and the waitresses ignore her,
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and the food is really slow,
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and the, you know,
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the waitress asks
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in an exasperated way,
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and every time something happens,
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you can see that the waitress
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is almost trying to stir up
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support of the different customers
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about how terrible this woman,
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and this woman's just feeling
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completely and utterly humiliated,
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and finally she leaves,
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and she's in tears,
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and as she's going out
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of the restaurant in tears
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with her three little kids,
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this older woman
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comes into the restaurant
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and sees her leaving in tears
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and says,
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Honey,
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what's the problem?
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Well,
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the woman is just so overcome
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with kindness
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that there's been kindness
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towards her.
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After what she's gone through,
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she blurts the whole thing out,
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and the older woman says,
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Honey,
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I'm so sorry.
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I'm the owner of this franchise.
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How can I make it right?
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Maybe it's a couple of free meals.
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Maybe it's firing the waitresses.
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But the owner wants to make it right,
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and she makes it right
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so that that young woman
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with the three kids
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can go to that restaurant again.
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This is what the image is
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of what Jesus has done for us
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on the cross,
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friends,
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brothers,
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and sisters.
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It's not just
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that through his death
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and resurrection,
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this nexus of sin and death
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has been dealt with,
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but it's been dealt with
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in such a way
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that when you put your faith
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and trust in him,
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it is God's provision
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for you to be completely
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and utterly forgiven,
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and it is God's provision
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for you to be made right
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with him.
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He has done
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what had to be done,
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which I cannot do
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and you cannot do,
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to make things right.
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And this is just very important.
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I want to,
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I'm looking at time,
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I need to wrap it up,
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but here's why it's very,
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very good.
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See, one of the things
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that the world says
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time and time and time
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and time and time
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and time again
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is it says you need
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to forgive yourself.
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And I've talked about it before,
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but the fact of the matter is,
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is trying to forgive yourself
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is going down a rabbit hole
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that will only make things worse.
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what human beings need
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is to know that they've been
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completely forgiven by God.
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And for those of us
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who've accepted Christ
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as our Savior,
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we need that to become
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more real to our hearts.
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I need that to become
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more real to my heart,
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that I have been
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completely forgiven.
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And many, many people
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in our culture desire
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to be known as a good person,
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the problem with that
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is that it never works.
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Because even as they insist,
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the only people who insist
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that they're really
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a good person
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are people who are
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dealing with the fact
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often that they've done
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terrible things.
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And so they make
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that self-declaration.
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What they're really longing for
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is to hear that in Christ,
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he has made them right
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with God.
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They need that
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to be real to their heart.
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I need that
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to be real to my heart.
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You need that
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to be real to your heart.
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And it might sound
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as if believing these things
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is a recipe
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for unbridled narcissism.
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But brothers and sisters,
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as Christ enters your heart
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and what he has done
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for you on the cross
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becomes more real to you,
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as you begin to be able
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to live out of the fact
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that you're completely forgiven
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and he has made you right,
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it is only that
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which actually starts
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to make you and me
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whole enough
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that we can actually
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look at the wrong
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we've done
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and seek forgiveness
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and amendment of life.
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only that
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makes us secure
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enough
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to see who we really are.
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Thank you.
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I invite you to stand
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and we'll close in prayer.
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just before I pray
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the text goes on
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and says beware.
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I've just run out of time
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to be able to deal with it.
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If this is true
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it changes everything.
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and if it's true
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and you reject it
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this is not good for you.
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And this is recorded
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in God's word
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because God wants you
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to say yes.
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He wants you
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to receive this
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and learn to live out of it
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and that's partly
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what our church should be.
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Our church should be
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a place of encouragement.
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I was talking to somebody
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the other day about
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you know there was somebody
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I had to deal with
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another organization
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I'm a part with
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and I said
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I'm going to approach
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the conversation
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not as I'm the righteous person
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there the sinner
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but I'm a sinner
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talking to a sinner
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and we both need grace.
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We need to be encouraging
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each other
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to accept the forgiveness
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and the made rightness
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that only comes from Christ.
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Let's bow our heads
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in prayer.
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Father we ask that
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you would bring
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these wonderful truths
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of the gospel
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deeply home to us.
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that these truths
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would begin
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to form our hearts
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they would form
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our minds
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form our imaginations
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that these profound truths
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would be that
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on which we stand
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the solid ground
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on which we stand
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the solid end
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that we long for
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and yearn for
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the way that we can
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start to look at ourselves
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and look at the world
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that it will not create us
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and make us pride
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but it will humble us
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humble us in a good way
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so that as we bow to you
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and bow to these truths
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and receive them
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that they make us
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strong in you
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and so Father we ask
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that you would make
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these truths
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really deeply true
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in each of our lives
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and deeply true
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Father in us
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as a congregation
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and Father if there are
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any who are hearing this
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and they have not yet
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said yes
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to this profound message
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and offer from Christ
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we all pray Father
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that this will be the time
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that they say yes to him
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and we ask all these things
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in the name of Jesus
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your son and our savior
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amen
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amen