Sermon
The Cost of Salvation
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If you don't know me, my name is Alan. I'm one of the staff here at Watermark.
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It's an incredible joy, an incredible privilege to bring God's Word to us this morning.
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Before Annabelle and Catherine comes and reads the Scripture to us,
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I thought of just recapping a little bit.
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We've been going through, for about four weeks now, we've been going through 2 Samuel.
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And one thing we've been looking at is this David, right?
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David, the glorious king in his glorious kingdom, which because of sin,
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just feels like there's a lot of stuff happening because of the consequences of sin.
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Even though David repents, we see the consequences at working itself throughout the story.
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Now, we see him being very passive. We see him being very quiet, not bringing justice.
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And finally, if you remember last week, we start seeing some changes in David.
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More of he was going back to who he was.
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Now, David, we start seeing him praying a little bit, him surrendering to God last week.
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But what we find in the story last week was that his son, Absalom, was chasing him
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because there's almost like a coup, a rebellion to get rid of David
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so Absalom, his son, can steal David's throne.
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What we're going to see today is God is going to finally rescue David.
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God is finally going to, in many ways, bring salvation to David.
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And what I mean by salvation is he's going to save David.
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Now, it's not going to be a great story. It is a great story.
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But what you're going to find is that salvation, that David's deliverance,
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is going to come at a very deep cost.
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So in many ways, it is a great story. It is a very sweet story.
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But it ends on a very, what we call a very bitter and sweet ending.
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So, hey, let's listen to God's word.
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This is God's word. This is what's going to change our life.
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God's word is God in spell, speaking to us, revealing who he is to us.
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So let us sit under God's word.
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Let us receive as Catherine and Ann go.
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We'll read that in one.
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So, guys.
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The scripture for today comes from 2 Samuel, chapter 18, verses 1 to 5, 9 to 15, 24 to 33,
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and chapter 19, verses 1 to 8a.
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So do follow along on the screen in your bulletin or your own Bibles.
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Then David mustered the men who were with him and set over them commanders of thousands and commanders of hundreds.
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And David sent out the army, one-third under the command of Joab,
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one-third under the command of Abishai, the son of Zeruiah, Joab's brother,
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and one-third under the command of Ittite, the Gittite.
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And the king said to the men,
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I myself will also go out with you.
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But the men said,
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You shall not go out, for if we flee, they will not care about us.
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If half of us die, they will not care about us.
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But you are worth ten thousand of us.
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Therefore, it is better that you send us help from the city.
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The king said to them,
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Whatever seems best to you, I will do.
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So the king stood at the side of the gate,
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while all the army marched out by hundreds and by thousands.
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And the king ordered Joab and Abishai and Ittite,
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Deal gently for my sake with the young man Absalom.
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And all the people heard when the king gave orders to all the commanders about Absalom.
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And Absalom happened to meet the servants of David.
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Absalom was riding on his mule,
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and the mule went under the thick branches of a great oak.
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And his head caught fast in the oak,
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and he was suspended between heaven and earth,
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while the mule that was under him went on.
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And a certain man saw it and told Joab,
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Behold, I saw Absalom hanging in an oak.
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Joab said to the man who told him,
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What? You saw him?
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Why then did you not strike him there to the ground?
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I would have been glad to give you ten pieces of silver and a belt.
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But the man said to Joab,
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Even if I felt in my hand the weight of a thousand pieces of silver,
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I would not reach out my hand against the king's son.
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For in our hearing, the king commanded you and Abishai and Ittite,
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For my sake protect the young man Absalom.
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And on the other hand,
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If I had dealt treacherously against his life,
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and there is nothing hidden from the king,
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then you yourself would have stood aloof.
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Joab said,
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I will not waste time like this with you.
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And he took three javelins in his hand
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and thrust them into the heart of Absalom
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while he was still alive in the oak.
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And the ten young men,
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Joab's armor bearers,
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surrounded Absalom and struck him and killed him.
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At verse 24 we read,
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Now David was sitting between the two gates,
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and the watchman went up to the roof of the gate by the wall.
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And when he lifted up his eyes and looked,
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he saw a man running alone.
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The watchman called out and told the king,
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and the king said,
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If he's alone,
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there is news in his mouth.
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And he drew nearer and nearer.
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The watchman saw another man running,
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and the watchman called to the gate and said,
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See, another man running alone.
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The king said,
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He also brings news.
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The watchman said,
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I think the running of the first one
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is like the running of Ahimeaz,
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the son of Zadok.
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And the king said,
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He's a good man and comes with good news.
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Then Ahimeaz cried out to the king,
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All is well.
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And he bowed before the king with his face to the earth and said,
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Blessed be the Lord your God,
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who has delivered up the man who raised their hand against my lord, the king.
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And the king said,
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Is it well with the young man Absalom?
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Ahimeaz answered,
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When Joab sent the king's servant,
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your servant,
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I saw a great commotion,
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but I do not know what it was.
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And the king said,
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Turn aside and stand here.
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So he turned aside and stood still.
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And behold,
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the Cushite came,
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and the Cushite said,
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Good news for my lord, the king,
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for the lord has delivered you to this day
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from the hand of all who rose up against you.
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The king said to the Cushite,
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Is it well with the young man Absalom?
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And the Cushite answered,
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May the enemies of my lord, the king,
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and all who rise up against you for evil
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be like that young man.
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And the king was steeply moved
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and went up to the chamber over the gate
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and wept.
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And as he went,
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he said,
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Oh, my son Absalom,
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my son,
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my son Absalom,
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would I have died instead of you,
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O Absalom,
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my son,
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my son.
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And in chapter 19,
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it was told that Job,
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Behold,
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the king is weeping
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and mourning for Absalom.
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So the victory that day
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was turned into mourning
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for all the people.
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And for the people heard that day,
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the king is grieving for his son.
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And the people
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stole into the city
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that day
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as people steal in
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who are ashamed
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when they flee in battle.
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The king covered his face
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and the king cried
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with a loud voice,
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Oh,
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my son Absalom,
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Oh,
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Absalom,
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my son,
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my son.
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Then Job came into the house
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to the king
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and said,
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You have today covered with shame
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the faces of all your servants
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and have this day saved your life
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and the lives of your sons
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and your daughters
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and the lives of your wives
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and your concubines.
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Because you love those who hate you
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and hate those who love you.
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For you have made it clear today
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that commanders and servants
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are nothing to you.
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For today I know that
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if Absalom were alive
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and all of us were dead today,
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then you would be pleased.
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Now,
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therefore arise,
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go out,
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and speak kindly to your servants.
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For I swear by the Lord,
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if you do not go,
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not a man will stay with you
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this night.
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And this will be worse for you
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than all the evil
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that has come upon you
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from your mouth,
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from your youth until now.
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Then the king arose
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and took his seat in the gate.
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And the people were all told,
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Behold,
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the king is sitting in the gate.
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And all the people
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came before the king.
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This is the word of God.
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Thank you guys.
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Hey church,
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why don't we pray
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before we start.
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Father God,
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we come before you
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this morning.
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You're a God
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who's gracious and kind,
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who's good
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in all of your ways.
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Lord,
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as we sit under your word,
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Father,
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we pray,
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may your spirit
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work in our hearts
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to receive
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what you say this morning.
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Would you
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help us
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not just understand,
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but
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also would you
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change our hearts
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to live a life
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that's
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pleasing to you,
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that brings you glory,
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that brings you honor
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in all ways.
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Father,
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we pray,
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come do your incredible work
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through your word
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in our lives
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and in our church.
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In Jesus' name we pray.
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Amen.
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So,
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as you saw,
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that was quite a
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reading,
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wasn't it?
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Okay,
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this mic,
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I'm just going to move away
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from this mic.
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I wonder if how many of us
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have been in that kind of situation
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where you know
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what is the right thing to do,
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but you find it so difficult
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to do it
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because it comes
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with a very heavy price
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or a heavy cost.
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You know,
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maybe if you're a youth there,
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it's standing up for
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something that you believe
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is right,
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something that is right,
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but the cost is
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you're looked at
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as if you're very arrogant
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or ignorant
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or very weird.
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Or maybe
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if you're working in office,
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maybe if you,
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your boss is being
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very unjust
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to a colleague
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and the right thing to do
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is to stand up
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against your boss,
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but the cost is
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you might have a target
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on your back now.
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Or maybe
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a promotion
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comes your way
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and you know
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the right thing to do
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is reject it
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because that takes
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time away from your family,
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which is already tight,
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but the heavy cost is
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you're going to miss out
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on a higher salary,
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which might be,
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could have been helpful
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for your family.
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You see a situation
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where you know
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what is the right thing to do,
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you know what has to be done,
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but it's very difficult
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because of the heavy cost
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that comes with it.
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In today's story,
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that's what we find
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in David's life.
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David finds himself
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in a very similar situation
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and if I may,
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actually a much more
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difficult situation.
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So why don't we dive
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straight into God's word.
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Let's dive into God's word
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and the first thing
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you're going to see
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is this tension
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that David has.
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David's tension.
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So if you have
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your Bible with you
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or if you have
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the bulletin,
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just follow along
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the scripture.
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So verse 1 and 2
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in chapter 18,
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right?
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What you're going to find
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is this battle
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between Absalom
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and David's people,
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David's servants,
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army,
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that's going to start
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and you can see them
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organizing this army,
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thousands and hundreds
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and it almost feels
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like this,
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like a lot of the rings
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kind of final war
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kind of thing,
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right?
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They're marching outside
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and this huge,
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feels like,
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oh,
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something's going to happen.
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Something's going to go on
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and then you come down
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to verse 2
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and David comes
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and he says,
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hey,
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I'm going to join you guys
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as you go out
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in the battle.
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David says,
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hey,
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I'm going to go out
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and fight this battle
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with you.
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But verse 3,
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if you calm down,
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what do they say?
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Verse 3 says,
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hey,
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you shall not go out.
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David,
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you shall not go out
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for if we flee,
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they will not care about us.
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If half of us die,
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they will not care.
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But you,
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you,
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David,
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you are worth
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10,000 of us.
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In other words,
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David's men
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really value David
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because it's something
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that they understand
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and they understand this,
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that the king
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is important
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for the kingdom.
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There cannot be any kingdom
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without this king.
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So David
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has to be alive.
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So,
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which is why,
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if you think about that,
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which is why
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what David says
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in verse 5
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is pretty ridiculous.
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Right?
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What does he say?
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He calls them,
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he calls the three commanders
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and in front of,
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as the army's marching on,
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he calls them
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and he says,
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hey,
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deal gently
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for my sake
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with the young man
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Absalom.
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I mean,
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it's like,
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it's like telling the doctor
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who's doing
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a cancer operation
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on you,
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telling the doctor like,
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hey,
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can you deal gently
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with the tumor?
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Like,
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don't,
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just don't fully cut it,
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okay?
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Deal gently with it.
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Or imagine you're going
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for a volleyball
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final,
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final match
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and then the coach
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calls you guys
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and says like,
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hey,
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deal gently
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with the other team,
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okay?
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Just don't play too hard.
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We don't want to hurt them
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or something like that.
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And that's exactly
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what's happening here,
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right?
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It's like,
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imagine you're marching
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up in the battle,
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you're marching out
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and the king,
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you hear the king say,
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hey,
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deal gently
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with the enemy.
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Like,
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hey,
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if you see them,
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like,
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yeah,
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you know,
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just let them
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kind of go.
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But the thing is,
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Absalom had to go
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in the same way
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the tumor has to go
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if the person had to,
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if the man had to live.
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Absalom was out
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to kill David.
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Absalom was not around
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playing.
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He was out
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to kill David
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and if you remember
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Absalom's track record
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of murder,
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there's no doubt about it.
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I mean,
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we skipped chapter 17
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but chapter 17
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is a lot about
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receiving counsel
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about how to get rid
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of David.
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How can we get rid
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of David?
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Now,
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Absalom was out
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to kill
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and murder David.
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And you see,
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if the kingdom of God,
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if this kingdom
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was to live on,
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if God's chosen king
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was to live on,
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then he needed
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to be alive.
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You cannot have
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Absalom around
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if you want the king
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and the kingdom
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to be around.
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So it was this tension.
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But,
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but then Absalom
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was not just any enemy,
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was he?
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He was not just
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another one
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of David's enemy.
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You see,
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and this is where
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David's tension
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comes in
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because Absalom
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was his son.
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But Absalom
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had to go
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if David
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was to live.
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But that was his son.
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But,
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but the thing is,
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David and Absalom
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didn't have the greatest
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father and son
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relationship, right?
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I mean,
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they spent like
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almost two years
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not speaking to each other.
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Absalom spent
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most of his,
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about four years
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of planning
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and working
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to kill David.
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Now,
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it's not the best
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father and son
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relationship,
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but nonetheless,
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this was David's son.
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And the tension
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was that of
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having Absalom
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to die,
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but the tension
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was David
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did not want
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that to happen.
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David did not want
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that to be sin.
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And this tension
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is something
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we're going to see
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throughout today's
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scripture,
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throughout today's
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word.
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But I want us to
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just sit on that
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for a while.
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You know,
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a situation
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where you know
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what is the right
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thing to do,
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but it's difficult,
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but it comes
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with a cost.
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That kind of
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situation.
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And if you think
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about it,
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whenever we are
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in those kind
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of situations,
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it tells us
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a lot about
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our own heart,
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doesn't it?
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In the same way,
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it tells us
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about David's
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affection towards
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his son,
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Absalom.
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I mean,
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the last chapter
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of chapter 19,
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it talks,
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I mean,
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Joab scolds
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David about that.
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He says like,
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man,
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you love
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your son,
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Absalom,
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more than you love us.
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We have fought
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and given our lives
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to save you.
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And think about
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our lives.
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Whenever we are
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in those kind
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of situations,
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does it not tell us
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about our heart?
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Think about
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that example
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of standing up
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to your boss,
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but it comes
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with the cost
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of having a target
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on your back.
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Maybe it tells us
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that our heart
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treasures our own
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comfort and security
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more than justice.
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How about
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for the promotion
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that can take away
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time?
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Maybe it tells us
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about our heart
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that we would
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rather love
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our family
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with money
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than actually
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spending time
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with our families.
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You see,
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these examples
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are of course
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very complex,
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right?
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It's more,
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it's not just
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black and white.
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But what I'm trying
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to push us
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to see is that
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whenever we find
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it difficult
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to do something
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that is right
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because it comes
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with a cost,
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it actually tells us
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a lot about our heart.
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Maybe it's something
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as simple as
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getting out of your bed
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to read your Bible.
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Maybe the cost
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is getting out
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of your bed.
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But does that
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not tell us
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about our heart
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that we would
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rather enjoy
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our comfort
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in our bed
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rather than
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sitting in God's
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word?
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So that's something
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to think about.
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But now coming
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back to the story,
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as we see this
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tension
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and all the people
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hear of David's
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request,
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they hear,
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hey,
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deal gently
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with Absalom,
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deal gently
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with this young man
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Absalom.
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Now what we're
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going to find
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in the next act
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of this story
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is the battle
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starts.
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The battle
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begins
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and through
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this battle
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what we're
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going to see
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is that
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David is
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going to be
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delivered
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which leads
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us to the
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second act
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of the story.
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So if you're
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on your bulletin
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look at from
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verse 6 onwards.
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Verse 6
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and 7
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it tells us
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about the battle.
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Now this battle
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is devastating,
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is brutal.
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About 20,000
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people are killed
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and because
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the battle
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is in a forest,
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the forest itself
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takes more
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life.
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I don't know
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how that was,
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maybe it was
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branches and
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swamps,
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but it's a very
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brutal and
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devastating war.
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And what we're
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going to see in
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this battle
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is that
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God's hand
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in delivering
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David
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is fully
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in control.
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God is fully
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in control
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throughout this
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battle.
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Now in the
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midst of the
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battle,
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what do we
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find?
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We find
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Absalom
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riding his
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mule.
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Now we must
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wonder,
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why is
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Absalom
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in the
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middle of
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the battle
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when the
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army of
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his enemy,
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King David
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is not even
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in the
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battlefield?
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Why is he
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there but
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King David
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is not
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there?
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And for
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that we
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got to go
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back to
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chapter 17.
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And if you
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look at
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chapter 17,
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God actually
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had a hand
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in bringing
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Absalom to
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the forest.
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It's not in
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the bulletin
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but if you
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look at
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17 verse
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14 it
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says,
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for the
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Lord had
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ordained to
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defeat the
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good counsel
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of Ahithophel.
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Now basically
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what happened
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was Absalom
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was taking
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counsel on
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how to
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kill or
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how to
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defeat David.
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And Ahithophel
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was this one
-
counselor,
-
one consultant
-
who had the
-
best consultant
-
firm at
-
those days.
-
And he
-
and he
-
his counsel
-
was basically
-
defeated by
-
God.
-
But then
-
Absalom
-
took the
-
counsel of
-
another man
-
which told
-
him to
-
go out
-
into the
-
field.
-
You see
-
the reason
-
Absalom
-
was there
-
in the
-
field in
-
first place
-
was because
-
God
-
had put
-
him there.
-
And what
-
happens if
-
you look at
-
verse 9?
-
And Absalom
-
happened to
-
meet the
-
servants of
-
David.
-
Absalom
-
was riding
-
on his
-
mule and
-
the mule
-
went under
-
thick branches
-
of great
-
oak and
-
his head
-
was caught
-
fast in
-
the oak
-
and he
-
was suspended
-
from heaven
-
and earth
-
while the
-
mule that
-
was under
-
him went
-
on.
-
In many
-
ways that
-
looks very
-
comical.
-
Imagine you're
-
out in the
-
battlefield,
-
you turn
-
around the
-
bush and
-
boom,
-
your enemy
-
is there
-
hanging on
-
a tree.
-
Like that.
-
It's sad
-
but it
-
feels like
-
wow,
-
that's so
-
much easier
-
than I
-
thought,
-
right?
-
But if
-
you think
-
about it,
-
this is
-
not a
-
coincidence
-
because in
-
God's word
-
there is
-
no coincidence.
-
God was
-
very much
-
in control
-
because if
-
you remember
-
in Deuteronomy
-
21,
-
it says that
-
anyone that
-
is hanging
-
from a tree
-
is cursed
-
by God.
-
Absalom
-
was cursed
-
by God.
-
In other
-
words,
-
if you look
-
at the
-
verse we
-
looked at
-
chapter 17,
-
it said that
-
God had
-
ordained to
-
bring harm
-
to Absalom.
-
God was
-
out to
-
bring justice
-
against
-
Absalom.
-
So we
-
find Absalom
-
hanging on
-
the tree,
-
unable to
-
do anything
-
and here
-
again we
-
see this
-
little bit
-
of tension,
-
right?
-
A soldier
-
comes in
-
and he's
-
like,
-
oh man,
-
I cannot
-
kill,
-
this is the
-
king,
-
king said
-
don't kill
-
him and
-
Joab is
-
like,
-
why don't
-
you kill
-
him?
-
And there's
-
this whole
-
tension and
-
finally,
-
Joab comes
-
in,
-
the commander,
-
he knows
-
what needs
-
to be done
-
and he goes
-
in and he
-
takes the
-
life of
-
Absalom and
-
it was done.
-
So the
-
question is,
-
what was
-
done?
-
What did
-
Absalom's
-
death mean
-
for David
-
or for the
-
kingdom of
-
God?
-
So I want
-
us to look
-
at verse 19
-
onwards and
-
that's where we
-
find our
-
answer.
-
Verse 19,
-
we do not
-
read in our
-
scripture reading
-
but what
-
happens here
-
is,
-
now the
-
battle's
-
finished,
-
Absalom is
-
dead,
-
now who
-
is going to
-
go and tell
-
David the
-
news?
-
Who is
-
going to
-
go tell
-
David that
-
the battle
-
is won but
-
his son is
-
dead?
-
And there's
-
this whole
-
tension again,
-
right?
-
There's one
-
guy who's,
-
Ahimez says,
-
I want to
-
go and tell
-
the king.
-
And Joab in
-
all his wisdom
-
says,
-
I don't think
-
it's a great
-
idea,
-
it's not the
-
best news and
-
he sends
-
another guy but
-
Ahimez is
-
like,
-
no,
-
no,
-
no,
-
no,
-
I want to
-
go and
-
finally Joab
-
was like,
-
fine,
-
go and
-
Ahimez takes
-
a shortcut,
-
wins this
-
other guy
-
to tell the
-
news.
-
But what I
-
want us to
-
notice here is,
-
I want us to
-
notice the
-
news that
-
they were
-
bringing.
-
See what was
-
the news,
-
what had
-
actually happened
-
from their
-
mouth.
-
Look at
-
verse 19
-
on the bulletin,
-
it says,
-
then Ahimez,
-
the son of
-
Zadok,
-
said,
-
let me run
-
and carry
-
the news
-
to the
-
king.
-
And what
-
was the
-
news?
-
That the
-
Lord has
-
delivered him
-
from the
-
hand of
-
his enemies.
-
Now,
-
this is not
-
just a
-
random message
-
because this
-
is a message
-
that's repeated
-
two more
-
times,
-
in a total
-
of three
-
more times
-
and anything
-
that's repeated
-
in God's
-
word is
-
important.
-
Okay,
-
look at
-
verse 28.
-
28,
-
he says,
-
again,
-
the news
-
is,
-
who has
-
delivered up
-
the man
-
who has
-
raised their
-
hand against
-
my lord,
-
the king.
-
Look at
-
verse 31
-
again.
-
The good
-
news is
-
what?
-
For the
-
Lord has
-
delivered you
-
this day
-
from the
-
hand of
-
all who
-
rose up
-
against you.
-
So,
-
what has
-
God done
-
for David?
-
God has
-
delivered David
-
from the
-
hand of
-
his enemies,
-
those that
-
have raised
-
their hand
-
against him.
-
Those,
-
they are
-
all defeated.
-
David is
-
saved.
-
David is
-
delivered.
-
Man,
-
that's the
-
great news,
-
isn't it?
-
That's the
-
great news
-
for the
-
kingdom.
-
God's
-
kingdom,
-
God's
-
chosen king
-
is saved.
-
I mean,
-
all these
-
people that
-
had to run
-
away because
-
of the
-
rebellion,
-
that had to,
-
as they were
-
running away,
-
being mocked as
-
they ran away,
-
being cursed as
-
they ran away,
-
being stoned as
-
they ran away,
-
being exiled
-
because of their
-
sin away from
-
God's kingdom,
-
all these people,
-
all this situation
-
is finally
-
over.
-
God has
-
delivered David
-
and his people.
-
But then,
-
it doesn't
-
really feel that
-
way,
-
does it?
-
It doesn't
-
feel like it's
-
a great and
-
joyful moment.
-
Look at
-
verse 28.
-
Ahimez comes
-
with the same
-
joyful attitude,
-
right?
-
He comes with
-
this like,
-
woohoo,
-
it's done.
-
Let's go and
-
tell the king.
-
And Ahimez says,
-
yeah,
-
God has
-
delivered you.
-
And David
-
asks him,
-
hey,
-
but what about
-
the young man
-
Absalom?
-
What happened?
-
And Ahimez was
-
like,
-
whoops.
-
And he knows
-
what happened,
-
but he tells a
-
lie,
-
right?
-
He says,
-
I don't know,
-
there was a
-
crowd there,
-
something was
-
happening,
-
not exactly sure,
-
but yeah,
-
I don't know.
-
And David
-
tells him to,
-
why don't you
-
stand at the
-
side?
-
The second
-
messenger comes
-
in,
-
David,
-
God has
-
delivered you
-
from the
-
enemies,
-
the young
-
man Absalom?
-
Ahimez must
-
have been at
-
the side,
-
like,
-
don't tell
-
him.
-
And he
-
says,
-
basically,
-
Absalom was
-
no more.
-
And then in
-
verse 33,
-
David goes
-
back to his
-
room and
-
he grieves
-
and he mourns.
-
Now,
-
I don't think
-
David was
-
shocked by
-
the news.
-
he knew
-
that this
-
was going
-
to happen.
-
If you
-
remember
-
verse 1
-
to 5,
-
the whole
-
army,
-
you cannot,
-
as the army
-
was going
-
out against
-
Absalom,
-
we know
-
that war
-
isn't over
-
until the
-
enemies are
-
defeated.
-
It's not
-
a shock
-
that Absalom
-
was going
-
to be
-
defeated
-
and that
-
his life
-
was going
-
to be
-
taken.
-
You see,
-
but then
-
still,
-
David,
-
for some
-
hopeful
-
reason,
-
he gives
-
this request
-
of deal
-
gently
-
with this
-
young man
-
Absalom.
-
But if you
-
think about
-
it,
-
this whole
-
ordeal,
-
this whole
-
thing,
-
David kind
-
of knew,
-
he was not
-
shocked by the
-
news,
-
and yet it
-
comes and
-
he's in
-
his grieving
-
and mourning.
-
Yes,
-
he was
-
delivered,
-
but then
-
there was
-
this whole
-
sadness
-
to it,
-
which leads
-
us to
-
our last
-
thought,
-
last act
-
of the
-
story,
-
which is
-
the cost.
-
If you
-
look at
-
from verse
-
33 all
-
the way
-
till chapter
-
19,
-
verse 4,
-
we see
-
David
-
grieving,
-
David
-
mourning.
-
I mean,
-
yes,
-
he was
-
delivered from
-
his enemies,
-
yes,
-
he was
-
allowed to
-
come back
-
into God's
-
kingdom now,
-
but
-
nonetheless,
-
the deliverance
-
of him
-
was very,
-
very costly.
-
You see,
-
we see here
-
David mourning
-
his son,
-
but maybe,
-
not maybe,
-
but perhaps,
-
David was
-
also mourning
-
his role
-
in that.
-
You see,
-
because this
-
whole story
-
is an
-
outworking
-
of the
-
consequences
-
of David's
-
sin.
-
You see,
-
his sin
-
in being
-
very passive
-
when there
-
was abuse,
-
and murder
-
David's
-
sin in
-
being very
-
passive
-
and not
-
bringing
-
justice
-
when this
-
was happening
-
among his
-
son.
-
And more
-
than that,
-
his sin
-
right from
-
the beginning
-
of,
-
with Bathsheba,
-
where he
-
took a
-
woman that
-
was not
-
his wife
-
and murdered
-
her husband.
-
And outworking
-
of his sin,
-
we see it
-
throughout the
-
story.
-
And look
-
at the end
-
of verse 33
-
in chapter 18,
-
he says,
-
would I
-
have died
-
instead of
-
you?
-
And that
-
seems to be
-
a mourning,
-
yeah,
-
both of his
-
son,
-
but also a
-
mourning because
-
of his role
-
in this whole
-
event.
-
Now,
-
this does not
-
mean that
-
Absalom was
-
completely innocent
-
and guiltless.
-
I mean,
-
Absalom had
-
raised his hand
-
against the
-
Lord himself
-
by opposing
-
God's
-
appointed king.
-
Right?
-
If you remember
-
the story of
-
David,
-
when he was
-
running away
-
from King
-
Saul,
-
David never
-
raised his
-
hand against
-
King Saul.
-
Why?
-
Why?
-
Because he
-
was God's
-
appointed,
-
anointed one.
-
He was God's
-
chosen and he
-
would not raise
-
his hand against
-
God's chosen,
-
no matter how
-
much injustice
-
he was facing.
-
And in the same
-
way,
-
but what we see
-
here is Absalom
-
is raising his
-
hand against
-
God's anointed
-
one,
-
which is similar
-
to him raising
-
his hands against
-
the Lord himself.
-
Not only that,
-
he was someone
-
who planned a
-
murder for two
-
years.
-
And after that,
-
he was planning
-
a rebellion for
-
four years,
-
put it to work
-
and done it
-
and out to
-
kill David.
-
You see,
-
he's not like
-
most people.
-
Most people get
-
angry,
-
they do something,
-
they say something
-
and then they
-
regret it.
-
Right?
-
It's very
-
impulsive.
-
But Absalom
-
was a type of
-
man who gets
-
angry,
-
who plans it
-
out for two
-
years,
-
holds on to
-
it,
-
and then commits
-
and executes
-
it.
-
In many ways,
-
he's a very
-
evil man.
-
Very angry
-
and very
-
out to
-
kill man.
-
And justice
-
has come
-
upon him.
-
But going
-
back to
-
David's
-
deliverance,
-
we still see
-
that it came
-
with a cost.
-
We see that
-
what was broken
-
between David
-
and God,
-
his exile,
-
and for him
-
to come back,
-
it came with
-
a cost.
-
But if you
-
think about
-
it,
-
isn't that
-
what life
-
is like?
-
Isn't that
-
reality?
-
I mean,
-
if someone
-
breaks a
-
cup,
-
it's going
-
to cost
-
someone to
-
put it
-
back together.
-
Someone
-
got to
-
spend some
-
time and
-
money and
-
glue and
-
stuff.
-
I mean,
-
even if
-
someone buys
-
you a
-
cup,
-
it's not
-
free.
-
Someone pays
-
the cost
-
for that.
-
It's a
-
reality in
-
human
-
relationship.
-
When a
-
husband cheats
-
on his
-
wife,
-
for there
-
to be
-
reconciliation,
-
there is
-
a cost.
-
The wife
-
pays it
-
by choosing
-
not to
-
think about
-
it,
-
by choosing
-
to forgive,
-
learning to
-
trust again.
-
There's a
-
cost when
-
there's a
-
conflicts,
-
when one
-
person has
-
to forgive
-
in the
-
midst of
-
pain.
-
One
-
person has
-
to pay
-
the cost
-
of saying
-
it's okay,
-
I forgive
-
you.
-
You see,
-
it's a
-
reality in
-
life,
-
it's a
-
reality in
-
human
-
relationships,
-
and it's
-
a reality
-
with God.
-
God cannot
-
just forgive
-
us.
-
It comes
-
with a
-
cost.
-
There is
-
a cost
-
for our
-
sins to
-
be forgiven,
-
and who
-
is going
-
to pay
-
that cost?
-
And in
-
this story,
-
we see
-
that David
-
were in the
-
wilderness,
-
exiled,
-
very symbolic
-
of being
-
exiled away
-
from God's
-
kingdom because
-
of sin.
-
what is
-
going to
-
bring them
-
back?
-
And we
-
see the
-
cost that
-
David goes
-
through.
-
But the
-
question is,
-
how about
-
for you?
-
How about
-
for us?
-
Who is
-
going to
-
pay the
-
cost of
-
our sins?
-
Who has
-
the capacity
-
to pay
-
that cost?
-
You know,
-
by God's
-
word tells
-
us the
-
wages of
-
sin is
-
death.
-
Who here
-
has the
-
capacity to
-
pay that?
-
Who is
-
pure enough
-
to pay
-
that?
-
Well,
-
if you
-
are in
-
Christ,
-
I want
-
us to
-
think about
-
this.
-
You and
-
I,
-
we can
-
stand
-
before a
-
holy God
-
and ask
-
for forgiveness
-
and have
-
the assurance
-
of being
-
forgiven and
-
be forgiven
-
because that
-
cost has
-
already been
-
paid by
-
Jesus.
-
You see,
-
when a
-
criminal
-
murders
-
or kills
-
a person,
-
we cannot
-
just say,
-
oh,
-
it's okay,
-
that's fine,
-
don't do it
-
again.
-
He has to
-
pay the
-
price.
-
And it's
-
the same
-
for us.
-
Our sin
-
is a sin
-
against God.
-
And the
-
one who
-
is supposed
-
to pay
-
is us,
-
no one
-
else.
-
But when
-
we come
-
to the
-
cross,
-
it was
-
not us
-
who pays,
-
but it
-
was God,
-
the one
-
who we
-
sin against,
-
He is
-
the one
-
who pays
-
the cost
-
of our
-
sin.
-
Isn't
-
that
-
incredible?
-
You see,
-
God was
-
the one
-
who pays
-
it.
-
In fact,
-
2 Corinthians
-
5 tells
-
us,
-
for our
-
sake,
-
God made
-
Him,
-
Jesus,
-
who knew
-
no sin,
-
to become
-
sin,
-
so that in
-
Him,
-
we can have
-
the righteousness
-
of God.
-
In other
-
words,
-
because He
-
took the
-
cost,
-
now we can
-
have the
-
righteousness
-
of God.
-
we can
-
be forgiven,
-
washed,
-
and have
-
the right
-
standing
-
before God.
-
Because
-
Jesus,
-
Christ Jesus
-
paid that
-
price,
-
paid the
-
cost.
-
Isn't
-
that
-
incredible?
-
Isn't
-
that an
-
amazing
-
grace?
-
In a bit,
-
we're going
-
to sing
-
this song,
-
and there's
-
this line
-
in the
-
song that
-
says,
-
because
-
the
-
sinless
-
Savior
-
died,
-
my
-
sinful
-
soul
-
is now
-
set free.
-
For
-
God the
-
just is
-
satisfied,
-
to look
-
on Him
-
and pardon
-
me.
-
That's
-
something to
-
really ponder
-
upon.
-
That God
-
will look
-
at Christ
-
and would
-
pardon us
-
and unworthy,
-
undeserving
-
sinners,
-
because Jesus
-
paid that
-
price.
-
And if
-
you're new
-
here today,
-
or if you
-
have not
-
really given
-
your life
-
to Christ,
-
this is an
-
incredible
-
invitation to
-
come and
-
receive His
-
love,
-
isn't it?
-
You see,
-
because on
-
the cross,
-
the price
-
has been
-
paid,
-
which means
-
that you
-
don't have
-
to perform,
-
you don't
-
have to
-
do a
-
thousand
-
good deeds
-
to be
-
accepted
-
by God.
-
You don't
-
have to
-
sort out
-
yourself
-
and get
-
your life
-
in place,
-
sorted,
-
and come
-
before God,
-
because we
-
can all
-
come before
-
God with
-
our brokenness
-
and sin,
-
because when
-
we give our
-
life to
-
Christ in
-
faith,
-
we can
-
know that
-
the cost
-
has been
-
paid,
-
and that
-
we can be
-
accepted and
-
forgiven.
-
But church,
-
isn't that
-
incredible news?
-
That the cost
-
has been
-
paid.
-
But this is
-
what I really
-
want us to
-
take away
-
today.
-
This is what I
-
really want us to
-
think about,
-
not just take away,
-
but really meditate
-
and think about
-
in this coming
-
week.
-
You see,
-
the cost was not
-
cheap,
-
it was not
-
cheap for David,
-
and it's
-
definitely not
-
cheap and
-
simple for
-
Jesus and
-
God.
-
So I want us
-
to take away
-
these three
-
things.
-
And here's the
-
first thing,
-
don't take sin
-
lightly,
-
or don't
-
take the
-
cost of
-
salvation
-
lightly.
-
You see,
-
it's so easy
-
for us to
-
forget the
-
cross and
-
take our
-
sin very
-
lightly,
-
isn't it?
-
We can have
-
this attitude
-
of,
-
yeah,
-
Jesus has
-
forgiven my
-
sin,
-
I can go
-
on my life
-
and do
-
whatever I
-
want.
-
We might
-
not think
-
that,
-
but how
-
about when
-
we don't
-
deal with
-
our sin?
-
Maybe it's
-
an addiction
-
like porn
-
addiction,
-
when we
-
just get
-
used to
-
it and
-
just make
-
it part of
-
our lives
-
without ever
-
dealing with
-
it.
-
Or maybe
-
it's a
-
conflict that
-
we don't
-
move towards
-
resolution and
-
unity in
-
forgiveness.
-
You see,
-
all of these
-
things,
-
we can,
-
it's also an
-
example of maybe
-
we can usually
-
go back to
-
our life and
-
have this
-
attitude of,
-
yeah,
-
I've got
-
work,
-
I've got
-
relationships,
-
I'm just
-
going to go
-
back my
-
life and
-
never really
-
think about
-
God throughout
-
the week.
-
Maybe it
-
can go days
-
and months
-
and weeks
-
without actually
-
sitting with
-
God.
-
Or days and
-
weeks without
-
actually getting
-
on our knees
-
and thanking
-
God for what
-
He has done
-
on the cross.
-
How do we
-
take God's
-
costly payment?
-
How do we
-
take God's
-
sacrifice for us
-
in our lives?
-
that does
-
come off
-
very sharp,
-
but it's a
-
call for us
-
to think about
-
our life.
-
How is our
-
time used?
-
How is our
-
hearts and
-
passions used?
-
What are we
-
so passionate
-
about?
-
What is
-
something that
-
makes our
-
heart beat
-
fast?
-
What is
-
it?
-
Or is it
-
very easy for
-
us to
-
compromise
-
with the
-
things of
-
the world?
-
Do we
-
take sin
-
seriously?
-
do we
-
take the
-
cost that
-
Jesus paid
-
seriously with
-
thankfulness?
-
Now here's the
-
second thing for
-
us to take
-
away.
-
Follow the
-
footstep of
-
Christ.
-
When Jesus
-
calls us to
-
follow Him,
-
oh that's a
-
baby.
-
When Jesus
-
calls us to
-
follow Him,
-
He calls us
-
to carry our
-
cross and
-
follow Him.
-
God's words
-
tells us to
-
forgive one
-
another in
-
the same
-
way as
-
Christ has
-
forgiven you.
-
Or what
-
He's saying
-
is in the
-
same way
-
that Jesus
-
has paid
-
the cost in
-
forgiving us,
-
He's calling
-
us to bear
-
the cost of
-
forgiving one
-
another in
-
the same
-
way as
-
He has
-
done.
-
I mean,
-
it's not just
-
in conflicts,
-
right?
-
We're called
-
to consider
-
one another
-
better than
-
ourselves.
-
We're called
-
to disciple
-
one another
-
and to
-
pour out
-
our lives
-
in one
-
another and
-
all of
-
these things
-
cost.
-
But here's
-
the important
-
thing.
-
In all of
-
these things,
-
there is a
-
cost when
-
you do it,
-
but there is
-
also a cost
-
when you
-
don't do it.
-
You see,
-
in conflict,
-
yeah,
-
there's a
-
cost to
-
forgive,
-
but there's
-
also a
-
cost when
-
you don't
-
forgive and
-
walk away.
-
And the
-
cost is paid
-
by broken
-
relationships,
-
disunity in
-
the group.
-
Even for
-
considering others
-
better than
-
yourself,
-
there's a
-
cost in
-
doing it,
-
but there's
-
also a
-
cost in
-
not doing
-
it.
-
It brings
-
disunity,
-
it brings
-
pride,
-
it brings
-
jealousy,
-
it brings
-
a whole lot
-
of stuff.
-
And what
-
it does is
-
it also
-
mars the
-
gospel
-
message to
-
the world
-
because unity
-
is supposed
-
to be a
-
message.
-
The church,
-
unity in the
-
church is
-
supposed to
-
be a gospel
-
message to
-
the world.
-
It brings
-
it destroys
-
that image.
-
A cost is
-
still paid.
-
You see,
-
there's a
-
cost whether
-
we do it
-
or whether
-
we don't
-
do it.
-
And that
-
is true
-
also for
-
evangelism
-
when we
-
share the
-
gospel to
-
other people.
-
You see,
-
in some
-
other countries,
-
there's a
-
real physical
-
cost in
-
sharing the
-
gospel,
-
isn't there?
-
If you
-
share the
-
gospel,
-
there's a
-
high chance
-
that you
-
might lose
-
your life,
-
lose your
-
family,
-
lose your
-
work,
-
lose a
-
whole lot
-
of stuff.
-
In Hong
-
Kong,
-
that might
-
not be
-
fully true,
-
but there's
-
still a cost
-
nonetheless.
-
Maybe the
-
cost is to
-
be looked at
-
as your
-
weird or
-
outdated,
-
arrogant,
-
prideful.
-
the cost
-
might be to
-
come out of
-
your comfort
-
zone,
-
but there's
-
a cost to
-
bringing the
-
gospel to
-
the people.
-
But there's
-
also a cost
-
if we don't
-
do it.
-
But the
-
cost is
-
paid by
-
the person
-
who does
-
not hear
-
the gospel.
-
They will
-
bear the
-
cost,
-
for they
-
will never
-
hear the
-
gospel.
-
They will
-
not hear
-
the gospel,
-
and they
-
might be
-
eternally
-
separated
-
from the
-
Father.
-
You see,
-
there's a
-
cost both
-
ways.
-
But church,
-
I want us
-
to think
-
about this
-
deeply,
-
because if
-
we follow
-
Jesus,
-
if we know
-
his life,
-
if we know
-
the life of
-
Jesus,
-
and we
-
follow him,
-
shouldn't
-
our life
-
in many
-
ways reflect
-
his?
-
Sometimes
-
we are so
-
stuck
-
with getting
-
our own
-
lives right.
-
We are so
-
stuck with
-
getting our
-
devotions right.
-
We are so
-
stuck with
-
getting our
-
relationships
-
right,
-
our career
-
right,
-
our life
-
right,
-
and I'm
-
not saying
-
those things
-
are not
-
important.
-
God cares
-
about them,
-
but there's
-
something more
-
than those.
-
And it's
-
the last
-
thing that
-
Jesus tells
-
us to do
-
before he
-
lives,
-
and that is
-
to go
-
and make
-
disciples of
-
all nations,
-
baptizing
-
them,
-
teaching
-
them,
-
to follow,
-
to obey
-
Jesus.
-
If you
-
look at
-
the life
-
of Jesus,
-
he paid
-
the cost,
-
he surrounded
-
his life
-
with the
-
fact of
-
bringing the
-
gospel to
-
the world.
-
That was
-
his big
-
one,
-
and he
-
paid that
-
cost,
-
and shouldn't
-
our life
-
reflect that
-
too?
-
But many
-
times there
-
are other
-
things that
-
takes
-
advantage
-
or
-
dominion
-
of our
-
lives.
-
An Irish
-
missionary to
-
India,
-
her name
-
was
-
Amy
-
Carmichael,
-
who died
-
in 1952
-
at the age
-
of 84.
-
She was in
-
India as a
-
missionary for
-
55 years
-
of our
-
life.
-
She was a
-
missionary there
-
bringing gospel
-
and taking
-
care of the
-
orphans there.
-
Her life was
-
not easy.
-
There was
-
fractures,
-
there was
-
pain,
-
there was
-
persecution,
-
and very
-
hard.
-
And she
-
writes this
-
poem,
-
which is a
-
challenge to
-
Christians who
-
wanted to
-
live a
-
comfortable life
-
without sharing
-
the gospel.
-
It's very
-
sharp.
-
And this
-
is the
-
third
-
paragraph
-
of that
-
poem.
-
And she
-
says,
-
No wound,
-
no scar,
-
yet as the
-
master shall
-
the servant
-
be,
-
and pierced
-
are the
-
feet that
-
follow me.
-
But thine
-
are whole,
-
can he have
-
followed far
-
who has no
-
wound nor
-
scar?
-
It's a
-
poem to
-
really
-
reflect.
-
on.
-
Church,
-
I'm not
-
saying this
-
as a
-
person who
-
has really
-
created evangelism.
-
As much as
-
I'm speaking,
-
I feel like I'm
-
speaking to
-
myself.
-
How much
-
is mission
-
and the
-
gospel and
-
the love for
-
the lost
-
part of my
-
heart and
-
my desire?
-
Church,
-
it's so easy
-
to get lost
-
in our own
-
lives,
-
in our
-
work,
-
but there's
-
eternity.
-
eternity,
-
there's
-
Jesus,
-
and there's
-
the lost
-
outside of
-
this,
-
who needs
-
the gospel,
-
who needs
-
to hear that
-
Jesus has
-
paid the
-
cost.
-
So follow in
-
the footstep
-
of Christ,
-
in our daily
-
living,
-
in our
-
relationships
-
with one
-
another,
-
and mostly
-
in bringing
-
the gospel
-
to this
-
city and
-
to the
-
people around
-
us.
-
and here's
-
the final
-
thing to
-
think about,
-
is to go
-
with the
-
assurance of
-
Christ's love
-
for you.
-
Now,
-
this is not
-
a tag on
-
from the
-
second point,
-
which is
-
very harsh.
-
This
-
actually flows
-
out.
-
Go with the
-
assurance of
-
Christ's love
-
for you.
-
You see,
-
Christ paid
-
the cost
-
for our
-
sin,
-
and on
-
the cross,
-
the cost
-
was paid,
-
justice was
-
done,
-
and in
-
the same
-
way,
-
you know,
-
for David,
-
the cost
-
was paid,
-
there was
-
justice,
-
but in
-
many ways,
-
he lost
-
his son,
-
and in
-
many ways,
-
love did
-
not really
-
come together
-
with justice
-
there.
-
You see,
-
there was
-
justice,
-
but he
-
lost his
-
son.
-
But in
-
all history,
-
there is
-
one place
-
where justice
-
and love
-
comes together,
-
and it's
-
the cross.
-
You see,
-
when we come
-
to the cross,
-
our sin
-
is justified.
-
The justice
-
was done,
-
it's paid.
-
By the same
-
time,
-
we are so
-
loved at
-
the cross,
-
because it
-
was not
-
you,
-
it was not
-
me who
-
paid that
-
cost,
-
it was God
-
himself,
-
with his
-
son,
-
Jesus Christ,
-
dying on
-
the cross.
-
When we
-
look at
-
the cross,
-
in the
-
words of
-
late Tim
-
Keller,
-
we see
-
that we
-
are more
-
sinful than
-
we could
-
ever imagine,
-
ever think
-
of right
-
now,
-
and at the
-
same time,
-
when we look
-
at the cross,
-
we see
-
that we
-
are more
-
loved than
-
we can
-
ever dream
-
of.
-
So church,
-
don't take
-
sin lightly.
-
Do not
-
take the
-
cross,
-
the cost
-
that Jesus
-
has paid
-
lightly.
-
and at the
-
same time,
-
follow in the
-
footstep of
-
Christ in
-
paying the
-
cost in
-
our
-
relationships,
-
in our
-
servings,
-
and especially
-
in bringing
-
the gospel to
-
the people
-
around us.
-
And in
-
all of this
-
thing,
-
go with this
-
assurance that
-
you are loved,
-
that you are
-
justified,
-
that nothing can
-
take you away
-
from the love
-
of Christ.
-
And go with
-
this assurance
-
that Christ is
-
with you,
-
because in
-
the Great
-
Commission,
-
there is a
-
promise at
-
the end,
-
that Jesus
-
says,
-
I will be
-
with you
-
until the
-
end of
-
times.
-
He is with
-
you as you
-
bring the
-
gospel,
-
as you live
-
out a life
-
that does
-
not take
-
sin lightly,
-
that lives
-
a life of
-
thankfulness,
-
gratefulness for
-
what Jesus
-
has done on
-
the cross.
-
before we
-
reflect on
-
that,
-
I understand
-
that there is
-
a lot of
-
stuff in
-
this story,
-
and this can
-
be quite a
-
challenging
-
passage with
-
a lot to
-
reflect on.
-
So if you
-
guys have
-
any questions,
-
please feel
-
to reach out
-
to us,
-
the elders,
-
CG leaders,
-
where we can
-
study together
-
and pray
-
together.
-
So church,
-
why don't we
-
spend about
-
a few seconds,
-
20 seconds,
-
a minute or
-
so,
-
just to reflect
-
on that.
-
Where is our
-
heart?
-
How is our
-
heart?
-
How do we
-
take the
-
cross and
-
think about
-
where is
-
evangelism in
-
my life?
-
So let's
-
take a minute
-
or so as
-
the band
-
comes in.