Sermon
The Way of Love
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Transcript
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I'm going to read from God's Word now the passage that David is shortly going to come and preach to us from.
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1 Corinthians chapter 13, those first 13 verses.
1 Corinthians 13 chapter mention
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The words are going to be on the screen.
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The words are in your bulletin if you've got one at the front door.
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There's also a collection of Bibles at the back.
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If you'd like to have a Bible for the reading or to refer to during the sermon,
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please get up and get one at any time.
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This is 1 Corinthians chapter 13, verses 1.
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To 13.
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If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love,
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I'm a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
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And if I have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries and all knowledge,
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and I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love,
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I am nothing.
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If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned,
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but have not love, I gain nothing.
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Love is patient and kind.
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Love does not envy or boast.
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It's not arrogant or rude.
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It does not insist on its own way.
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It's not irritable or resentful.
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It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
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Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
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Love never ends.
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As for prophecies, they will pass away.
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As for tongues, they will cease.
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As for knowledge, it will pass away.
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For we know in part and we prophesy in part.
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But when the perfect love comes, the partial will pass away.
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When I was a child, I spoke like a child.
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I thought like a child.
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I reasoned like a child.
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When I became a man, I gave up childish ways.
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For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face.
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Now I know in part, then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.
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So now faith, hope, and love abide.
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These three.
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But the greatest of these is love.
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Amen.
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And this is God's own holy word.
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Well, in our morning worship, we've been working our way through the Old Testament book of Daniel.
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And Corey has been leading us through that.
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This morning we're taking a little break from that series.
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And as a standalone sermon this morning, we're looking at this very famous passage from 1 Corinthians 13.
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One of the most famous and perhaps well-known passages in all of Scripture.
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Arguably the most well-known of Paul's writings.
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Some have called it the hymn to love.
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One commentator calls it the greatest, strongest, deepest thing that Paul ever wrote.
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But 1 Corinthians 13 is not sentimental poetry.
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It's the Word of God, sharp as a two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and spirit.
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Here is Paul holding up a mirror to the Corinthian church so that they might examine themselves and change their ways.
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Because, of course, Paul did not write these famous words of 1 Corinthians 13 for a wedding ceremony.
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Or for them to be quoted in a hallmark greeting card.
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The words of the apostle here are not to be wrenched out of the context in which we find them.
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And we discover these verses sandwiched between two chapters in which Paul deals with a contentious issue in the Corinthian church
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over the use or abuse of spiritual gifts.
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One of the problems in the Corinthian church was the way in which so much emphasis was placed on certain gifts of the Holy Spirit.
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We're told in 1 Corinthians 1 verse 7, Paul says that the Corinthians lacked no spiritual gift.
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When it came to gifts.
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When it came to gifts, this was a church that had them all.
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A church ablaze with the charismata.
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They spoke in tongues.
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They prophesied.
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They healed.
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They worked miracles.
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These dramatic, supernatural gifts of the apostolic age were greatly valued and esteemed in Corinth.
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And yet at the same time, the Corinthian church was also a church riddled with division, factions, pride, selfishness, and moral failure.
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Many had started to prize their gifts above all and everything else.
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And these wrong attitudes had in fact left the church in a sad and sorry state.
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And so, what we have here in 1 Corinthians 13 is not a cozy, feel-good passage of Scripture, although often it's presented as such.
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But rather, Paul giving the Corinthian church a searing critique of their behavior and conduct.
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Paul wasn't writing to the Corinthians so that they would say,
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Well, Paul, what a marvelous piece of literature.
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So that they would have lots of warm, fuzzy feelings.
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He was writing so that the Corinthians would recognize just how far they had fallen.
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Just how complacent they had become.
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And just how immature they really were.
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He was writing these verses to burst the bubble of their spiritual pride and superiority.
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Because here was a church guilty of misusing and abusing the good gifts of God.
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And at the close of chapter 12, a chapter that speaks about the spiritual gifts and their use,
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Paul says this, chapter 12, verse 31.
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He says this,
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And the language that Paul uses there is very emphatic.
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He says,
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Here is something far more wonderful.
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Here is something far greater.
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Here is something you really need to take note of.
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Here is something that puts all these gifts,
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wonderful as they are in the shade.
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Here is the more excellent way.
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And that is the way of love.
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And what Paul is saying here to the Corinthians, and indeed to us,
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is that love is the hallmark of Christian maturity.
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It is the most excellent way.
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And without it, we are deluding ourselves about the nature of our relationship with God.
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We may have gifts aplenty.
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We may have great theological knowledge.
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We may have had wonderful spiritual experiences.
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And yet, for all those things,
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we can be missing out on what is the most important thing.
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And the chapter, you'll notice there, as Chris read it for us,
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has three main paragraphs,
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each one telling us something about the nature of love
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and its fundamental importance
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for any Christian community that is seeking to grow up into Christ.
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And the first paragraph that we look at is in verses 1 through 3,
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and we'll entitle this,
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The Priority of Love.
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The thrust of these opening verses of the chapter
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is that there is nothing as crucial or as important
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as the presence of love.
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Love is the vital ingredient
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without which we have and are nothing.
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And Paul really contrasts in these verses
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the gifts on the one hand with love on the other.
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The Corinthians laid great store on these gifts.
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They viewed these gifts as being the real mark
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of maturity and true spirituality.
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And what Paul is telling them
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is that in that they have got it all wrong.
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It's not gifts that are the priority.
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It is love.
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Gifts without love are useless.
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And you'll notice in these verses
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how Paul homes in on the kind of things
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that the Corinthians believed were important.
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And he begins in verse 1 with tongues.
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If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels,
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but have not love,
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I am only a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
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The gift of tongues was greatly valued
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in the Corinthian congregation,
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just as it is by many and some sections
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of the church today.
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It was a gift that Paul himself exercised.
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And the Corinthians saw this gift
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as a great mark of spiritual well-being and maturity.
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Some believed it to be a language
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of angelic or heavenly origin.
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And yet Paul tells them here
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that such a gift is empty
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if love is not present.
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The gong, the cymbal,
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were instruments commonly used
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in pagan worship
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as, you know, to drive away spirits
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or to attract a God's attention.
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And the clanging of bronze at these temples
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would have been a very familiar sound
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in the city of Corinth.
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Despite their great claims
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to spiritual maturity
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and the elevation of these spiritual gifts,
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the absence of love,
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Paul says,
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means that the Corinthians
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were no better than the pagans.
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Without love,
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the church is little more
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than a pagan temple.
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And then he says,
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if I have prophetic powers,
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verse 2,
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understand all mysteries,
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all knowledge,
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if I have all faith,
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so as to remove mountains,
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but have not love,
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I am nothing.
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And here Paul speaks
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of the great gifts of God
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that he himself
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had enjoyed as an apostle,
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gifts that marked him out
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as being someday important
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and special,
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prophecy,
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knowledge,
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miracles,
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wonderful apostolic gifts.
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And yet even so,
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even these are not comparable
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with love.
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No matter the marvelous gifts
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we enjoy,
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without love,
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it's nothing.
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We can have degrees
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after our name,
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we can be academically brilliant,
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we can have a miracle-working faith,
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yet even so,
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the absence of love
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means we're nothing,
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says Paul.
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Supernatural gifts
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may make us a somebody
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in the eyes of the world,
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but the absence of love
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makes us a nobody.
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And Paul says,
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if I give away all I have,
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verse 3,
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deliver my body to be burned,
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but have not love,
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I gain nothing.
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Here Paul speaks of gifts
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that the world admires,
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sacrificial giving
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for the benefit of others,
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and yet even such noble actions
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can be motivated
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by something less than love.
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People can give
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for a whole variety of reasons,
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personal kudos and fame,
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to be thought well of by others,
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to gain something for themselves
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by way of reward.
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But without love being present,
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Paul says there is simply
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no gain or benefit.
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Last Sunday night,
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Corey told a story,
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a famous story,
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first told by Charles Spurgeon
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in one of his sermons.
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I've been guilty of stealing
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Corey's stories
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and illustrations before,
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so I'll continue in that vein
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by telling it again.
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This is the story of the king,
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the farmer,
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and the nobleman.
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And this is how the story goes.
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Once upon a time,
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there was a king
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who ruled over everything
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in the land.
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And one day,
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there was a gardener
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who grew,
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this is a strange story,
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an enormous carrot.
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And he took it to the king,
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and he said,
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my lord,
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this is the greatest carrot
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I've ever grown,
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or ever will grow.
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And so,
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I want to present it to you
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as a token of my love
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and respect for you.
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Well,
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the king was touched
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by this man's actions.
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He discerned the man's heart.
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And as the man turned to go,
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the king said,
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wait,
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you're clearly a good steward
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of the earth,
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and I want to give you
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a plot of land to you,
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freely as a gift,
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so you can garden it all.
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The gardener was amazed
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and delighted
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at this generous gift,
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and he went home rejoicing.
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But,
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there was a nobleman
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at the king's court
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who overheard all of this.
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And he reasoned,
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he said,
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well,
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my,
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if that's what you get
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for a carrot,
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what if you gave the king
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something better?
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And the next day,
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the nobleman came before the king,
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and he was leading
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a handsome black stallion.
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He bowed low,
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he said,
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my lord,
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I breed horses.
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This is the greatest horse
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I've ever bred,
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or ever will.
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Therefore,
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I want to present it to you
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as a token of my love
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and respect for you.
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The king discerned
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this man's heart,
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and he said to him,
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thank you.
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And he took the horse
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and simply dismissed the man.
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And the nobleman
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was confused and perplexed.
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And so,
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the king said to him,
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let me explain.
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That gardener
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was giving me the carrot
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that you were giving yourself.
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The horse.
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And Paul says here,
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if we give only for ourselves,
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then such an action
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amounts to nothing
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on heaven's balance sheet.
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And it is possible,
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friends,
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for some people
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to be generous
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and kind
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and giving
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and to appear that way,
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and yet in reality,
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they're doing it all
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for themselves.
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actually using people
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rather than loving people.
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They love
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and they give,
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but only if they're getting.
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Admiration,
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obedience,
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affection.
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And if they're crossed
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or don't get what they want,
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your history.
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Friends,
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we know from Paul's writings
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that he understood
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love to be
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a product
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of an authentic
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work of God
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in someone's life.
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It's an evidence
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of the work
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of the Holy Spirit.
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It's a hallmark
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of Christian
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authenticity.
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Peter,
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2 Peter 1
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says this,
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add to your faith
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love.
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It's a mark
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of maturity.
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It's the opposite
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of immature
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egocentricity
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because it's giving
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like God gets.
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And we desperately
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need this kind
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of love
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in our own lives,
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in our own families,
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in our churches,
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and indeed
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in our wider society.
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C.S. Lewis
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in his little book
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The Four Loves
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wrote this,
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if you don't want
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your heart broken,
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give it to nobody.
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Lock it up
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in a little casket
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of selfishness,
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and in that
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casket,
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it will not be broken.
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It will become
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unbreakable,
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impenetrable,
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irredeemable.
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And friends,
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it can happen.
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People who are
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so gifted,
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so knowledgeable,
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so able,
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but so unable
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to really love
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anyone else
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but themselves.
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Paul says
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it's not our gifts,
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our talents,
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our abilities
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that really matter.
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It's love,
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the priority
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of love.
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It brings me
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to the second thing
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here from verses
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four through seven.
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And we'll call this
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the power
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of love.
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If love is more
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important than
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the gifts,
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then secondly,
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love is more powerful
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than the gifts.
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And Paul tells us
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something here,
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I think,
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in these verses
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about the power
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of love.
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love.
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Many different
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words in Greek
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to describe
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different kinds
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of love,
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that between a man
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and a woman,
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a parent and a child,
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between friends
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and so forth.
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But the word
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that Paul uses
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here is the word
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agape.
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It was rarely used
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before the writing
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of the New Testament.
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But it's a word
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that the apostles
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took to describe
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Christian love.
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And it relates
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to love for the
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unlovely,
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love for the
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unworthy,
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love for those
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who are different,
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love for the sinner,
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love for the guilty,
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love for the lost.
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And what Paul
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endeavors to do here,
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I think,
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in these verses
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is to sketch
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for us a portrait
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of love's power.
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He describes
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or depicts love
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not in terms of,
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you'll notice,
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feelings or emotions,
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but rather in terms
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of what it does
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and does not do.
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In the original language,
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there are verbs
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everywhere here,
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doing words,
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words of action.
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Love is active.
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Here is the way
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of maturity.
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This is what love
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looks like.
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This is how you know
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it's the real thing.
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Look at what he says.
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Love is patient
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or long-suffering.
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Whatever it faces,
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love does not
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lose its temper.
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Human nature
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means that we are
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often patient
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and understanding
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with ourselves,
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but much less so
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with others.
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Love is kind.
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It cares more
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for others
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than for self.
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It's generous.
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It has an open hand.
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Love does not end
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envy or boast.
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It's not puffed up.
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It's not proud.
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Eugene Peterson,
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in his paraphrase,
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the message says,
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love doesn't want
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what it doesn't have.
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Love doesn't strut.
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Love doesn't have
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a swollen head.
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Actually,
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all through this letter,
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we detect
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that was actually,
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that was a major problem
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for the childish
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Corinthians.
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Corinthians.
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Chapter 4,
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verse 18,
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Paul says,
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some of you become arrogant.
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Later,
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he says in chapter 5,
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verse 2,
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you're proud.
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Chapter 8,
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he tells them,
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knowledge puffs up,
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but love builds up.
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Love is not arrogant
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or rude.
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The Greek word
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literally means
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to ride roughshod
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over someone,
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to take advantage
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of them,
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to bulldoze,
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to steamroller them,
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to take no notice
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of their feelings.
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Love does not insist
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on its own way.
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It's not self-seeking.
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Paul has already
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told the Corinthians
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in chapter 10,
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verse 24,
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nobody should seek
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his own good,
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but the good of others.
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Love is always
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me first.
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And it's easy,
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even in,
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even in God's service,
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to seek position
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and influence
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and status
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for our own glory
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rather than God's.
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The Christian mystics
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in John of the Cross
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once wrote these words,
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all visions,
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revelations,
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heavenly feelings,
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whatever experiences
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greater than these
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are not worth
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the least act
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of humility.
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For acts of humility
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are the fruit
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of that agape love,
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which neither values
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nor seeks itself,
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which thinks well
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not of self,
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but of others.
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love is not irritable
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or resentful.
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It's not easily angered.
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It isn't touchy.
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Love is not easily provoked.
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Love is a long fuse.
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I've been in churches
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where, you know,
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some Christians
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should be wearing a sign
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around their necks,
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danger,
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high explosive.
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Love keeps no record
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of wrongs.
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It wipes the slate clean.
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It forgives.
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It doesn't go around
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casting up people's mistakes.
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It doesn't treasure
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grievances,
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bearing grudges.
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It doesn't think
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the worst of others,
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always impugning
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their motives
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or the motives
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behind their actions.
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Love does not rejoice
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at wrongdoing.
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It rejoices with the truth.
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Love is not anything goes.
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That's sometimes
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what we hear
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in our wider culture.
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Sometimes people
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paint a contrast
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between the right thing
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and the loving thing,
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but friends,
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the right thing
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is the loving thing.
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And the loving thing
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is always the right thing.
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Love is never,
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ever to be an excuse
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for sin
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and evil
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and immorality.
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Then he says,
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love bears all things,
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believes all things,
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hopes all things,
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endures all things.
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It's indestructible.
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It's powerful.
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Many years ago,
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we had a lady
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that we prayed for
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who was served
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overseas
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in China.
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And when she was there,
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the authorities
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sent a woman
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to spy on her,
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to get close to her
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and to report back to them.
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And eventually,
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after a few months,
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this lady
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who'd been sent
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from the government
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spoke to our friend
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and said,
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confessed.
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And she said,
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look,
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I can't report on you
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because
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the love that you've shown me,
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the love that you've displayed,
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I love you too much.
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As Paul's description proceeds,
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surely it's clear to us
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that there is only
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one human model
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he could have used
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for this portrait.
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And that's
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our Lord Jesus Christ.
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He is the,
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alone is the one
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through whom we can come
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to know
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this kind of love.
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Love looks like Jesus.
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He is the image
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of the invisible God,
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the Word made flesh.
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Love is the revelation
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of God's character
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that we discover
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and encounter
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in the Lord Jesus Christ.
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The Corinthians were gifted,
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but they were graceless.
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They thought they were
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so spiritual and mature,
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but they were children.
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They were spoiled brats.
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They'd lost sight of Jesus.
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Friends,
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let's not elevate our gifts
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at the expense of love.
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What does it matter
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about our gifts
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if we cannot get on
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with each other,
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if we can't forgive
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one another,
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if we can't serve
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one another in love?
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Because this is what
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matters to God.
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Not miracles
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and signs
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and wonders.
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Love.
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May not be as showy,
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but it's more important.
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You can have great gifts
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and you can be a devil.
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Just think of those words
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at the end of the,
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towards the close
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of the Sermon on the Mount
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of Jesus.
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On that day,
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many will say to me,
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Lord, Lord,
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did we not prophesy
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in your name,
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cast out demons
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in your name,
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do many mighty works
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in your name?
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And I will declare to them,
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I never knew you.
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Depart from me,
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you workers of lawlessness.
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The priority of love.
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The power of love.
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And then thirdly
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and finally here
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in verses 8 through 13,
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the permanence of love.
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In these final words
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of the chapter,
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Paul really lifts up
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our eyes
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to the eternal horizon.
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He says,
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love never ends.
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As for prophecies,
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verse 8,
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they will pass away.
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For tongues,
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they will cease.
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As for knowledge,
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it will pass away.
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Love alone will last.
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The gifts will fade.
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They will disappear.
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They will go.
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Prophecies,
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they'll pass away.
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Tongues will fall silent.
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Knowledge will be consumed
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in the vastness of eternity.
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Only love will remain.
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For we know in part,
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verse 9,
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we prophesy in part,
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but when the perfect comes,
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the partial will pass away.
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Perfection is coming,
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says Paul.
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A new creation
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will dawn in all its fullness
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and it will swallow up
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everything that is partial
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and temporal
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and ephemeral.
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The perfect that is still to come
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is, I think here,
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almost certainly
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a reference
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to the return
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of Jesus Christ.
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Yes, there are some
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who argue
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that this perfection
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relates to the completion
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of the Scriptures
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after which the supernatural
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gifts died away.
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And while I agree
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with the view
-
that these more spectacular
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gifts were used by God
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in the early days
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of the church
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to authenticate the gospel,
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they were given
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for a temporary purpose
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while the New Testament
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was being written
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and compiled,
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I do not think
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that this text
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relates to that.
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Paul is simply
-
making the point
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that spiritual gifts,
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supernatural or otherwise,
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belong to this present age
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and not the age to come.
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Love alone will endure.
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Love alone will last.
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Love alone will stand.
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Gifts of teaching,
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mercy,
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helping,
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administration,
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all of these
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are provisional.
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Yes, they're needed now,
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but they're not going to be needed
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in the new heavens and earth.
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In the new creation,
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there will be no need
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for patience
-
and forgiveness
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or faith or hope,
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but love will continue.
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The mark of heaven
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that we experience now
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is love.
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Love is the language of heaven,
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not tongues
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or any other gifts.
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These things are temporary.
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They are not lasting.
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They won't endure.
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They will pass away.
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Jonathan Edwards wrote,
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heaven will be
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a world of love.
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So, Paul says in verse 11,
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when I was a child,
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I spoke like a child.
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I thought like a child.
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I reasoned like a child.
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When I became a man,
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I gave up childish ways.
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And I think that verse
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is more than just an analogy
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or an illustration.
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This theme of childish immaturity
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runs like a thread
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throughout the whole letter.
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And already,
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Paul has accused
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the Corinthians
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of being worldly,
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mere infants in Christ
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in chapter 3.
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In the next chapter,
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chapter 14, verse 20,
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he exhorts them
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to stop thinking like children
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and you're thinking be adults.
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Sometimes,
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with young children,
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we have a couple
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of young grandsons,
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and you discover
-
that they're more interested
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in the cardboard box
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and the wrapping paper
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than the present
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that's contained within it.
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And that's fine,
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isn't it,
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with toddlers?
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It's cute.
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It's funny.
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But if you were to see
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a 17-year-old
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discarding the games console
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and climbing inside
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a cardboard box,
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you might think
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there was something
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seriously wrong.
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And spiritually speaking,
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this is what
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the Corinthians were like.
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They should have grown up
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and been mature,
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but instead,
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they were clinging
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to childish ways.
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It's a danger.
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Maybe there's,
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maybe somebody here,
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you need to climb out
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of the cardboard box
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of your selfishness
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and your immaturity
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and leave it behind
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in your thinking.
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Be adults.
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For now we see
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in a mirror dimly,
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then face to face,
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verse 12,
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now I know in part,
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then I shall know fully,
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even as I've been fully known.
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Corinth was a city
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famous for metal work,
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and that included
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the manufacture of,
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there were kind of
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bronze mirrors.
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And these mirrors,
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nothing like as clear
-
and as accurate
-
as those we have today.
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In those mirrors,
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you only saw
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a poor reflection.
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Seeing someone face to face
-
was very different.
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And in this present age,
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we see the face
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of Jesus Christ,
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yes, reflected
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in His creation
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and in the Scriptures.
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But a day is coming
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when we will have
-
no need of those mirrors
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that reflect His glory,
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for we will meet Him
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and see Him face to face.
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There's an old hymn
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we sometimes sang,
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Face to face
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with Christ my Savior,
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face to face
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what will it be,
-
when with rapture
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I behold Him,
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Jesus Christ,
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who died for me.
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Our knowledge of God here
-
is always partial
-
and incomplete,
-
but a day is coming
-
when all will be revealed.
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As we ourselves
-
are known and loved by God,
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so we will know
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and love Him.
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We shall see Him
-
face to face,
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we will know Him
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as He is,
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and our knowledge of Him
-
will be so much greater
-
and more wonderful.
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Now these three remain,
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verse 13,
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faith, hope, and love,
-
but the greatest of these
-
is love.
-
And yes,
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faith and hope
-
are important
-
in this world,
-
but love is in a category
-
of its own,
-
because love is a property
-
of God Himself
-
in a way in which
-
faith and hope are not.
-
God doesn't need faith
-
or hope.
-
If He did,
-
He wouldn't be God.
-
But if God didn't love,
-
He wouldn't be God.
-
And it's in this sense
-
that love is the greatest
-
of gifts,
-
because the essence of love
-
is that we are turned
-
away from ourselves
-
towards others,
-
towards God.
-
and beyond anything else
-
that can build up
-
any Christian community
-
in harmony and unity
-
and maturity
-
is love.
-
Maybe it's good
-
to look at ourselves.
-
Are we like the Corinthians
-
of old,
-
in danger of becoming
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noisy gongs,
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clanging cymbals,
-
gifted but loveless?
-
Do we prize our knowledge,
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our zeal,
-
our service,
-
our preaching,
-
while our hearts
-
are cold and indifferent?
-
Maybe we should be praying,
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Lord, help me
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to be more loving,
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because this is
-
what's important.
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This is the most
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excellent way.
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And no matter
-
who you are this morning,
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young or old,
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gifted or not,
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big or small,
-
strong or weak,
-
no matter who you are,
-
if you are in Jesus Christ,
-
you can be great in love.
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We need to be committed
-
to loving one another.
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By this shall all men know
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that you're my disciples,
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said Jesus.
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It's the real test
-
of our discipleship,
-
because church is not
-
a gathering for the gifted.
-
It's a community
-
of compassion and care.
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That difficult brother,
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that annoying sister,
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that person who gets
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on your nerves,
-
they are your calling
-
as God's children.
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Love them.
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Be patient with them.
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Forgive them.
-
Bear with them.
-
And do that not
-
in your own strength,
-
but in the power
-
of the Holy Spirit,
-
who in His grace,
-
God pours His love
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into our hearts.
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The final thing
-
I'm going to say
-
just as we close,
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be looking to Jesus Christ,
-
because He's the one
-
who embodies this love.
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He was patient
-
with His slow-witted disciples.
-
He was kind
-
to the outcast and sinner.
-
He was compassionate
-
to the lost,
-
forgiving towards His enemies.
-
For sinners,
-
He endured the cross,
-
despising its shame.
-
And if you want to know
-
what love looks like,
-
look there.
-
Look to Jesus.
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Look to His cross.
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Look to Calvary.
-
Look to the blood
-
and the nails,
-
because it's there
-
that we see
-
that the steadfast love
-
of the Lord
-
never ceases.
-
It's there that we see
-
that His mercies
-
never come to an end.
-
There's a question
-
that sometimes,
-
on occasions,
-
it's usually
-
the wife's wife
-
will ask this question
-
of her husband
-
rather than
-
the other way around.
-
But the question is this,
-
do you love me?
-
Well,
-
the answer to that question,
-
of course,
-
is yes, darling.
-
Of course I do.
-
But if you answer
-
in that way,
-
you're not going to get
-
off that easy,
-
because there's always
-
a follow-up.
-
And the follow-up
-
is the
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why do you love me
-
question.
-
Why do you love me?
-
Lots of possible answers
-
you can give to that.
-
I love you
-
because of your
-
beauty,
-
because you're,
-
you've lost
-
some money,
-
because we've got
-
similar interests,
-
because you're
-
a great cook,
-
because you're
-
much prettier
-
than I am handsome.
-
You know,
-
there's lots of things
-
you can say.
-
But friends,
-
there's only one answer
-
upon which you can
-
build a marriage.
-
And that's,
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I love you
-
because I love you.
-
I love you
-
because I love you.
-
Because if you're loved
-
because of this,
-
that,
-
and the other,
-
all that does
-
is breed
-
an incredible
-
insecurity.
-
And the other person
-
is left wondering,
-
are they still
-
pretty enough,
-
rich enough,
-
patient enough?
-
We long
-
as human beings
-
for a love
-
that liberates.
-
We long
-
to be really loved.
-
And this is
-
God's love
-
in Jesus Christ.
-
This is
-
His electing love.
-
This is
-
what Christ
-
says to us
-
in the gospel.
-
He says,
-
I love you
-
because I love you.
-
He loves us
-
and invites us
-
whoever we are
-
to come to Him
-
in faith.
-
And it's a powerful love.
-
It will transform you.
-
Being united
-
to Jesus
-
will change you.
-
This is the love
-
that converts sinners,
-
that builds relationships,
-
that strengthens churches,
-
that matures disciples.
-
It is the essential
-
ingredient
-
in that process
-
of growing
-
as a Christian.
-
we learn
-
and grow
-
not as we
-
fixate
-
on ourselves,
-
our own gifts
-
and abilities.
-
We learn
-
and grow
-
as we reflect
-
and rejoice
-
in the amazing
-
love of God
-
for us
-
in Jesus Christ.
-
It's in being
-
joined to Jesus
-
that we draw
-
from Him
-
all that we need
-
to love God
-
and to love
-
our neighbor
-
as ourselves.
-
And it's only
-
as Jesus
-
and His love
-
overwhelms us
-
and indwells us
-
that we can even
-
begin to think
-
of loving like this.
-
It's the love
-
that we see
-
at the cross.
-
Look there
-
and see how much
-
He loves you.
-
The Scottish preacher
-
James Denny
-
used to say
-
that the only time
-
He envied
-
the Roman Catholic
-
priest
-
His crucifix
-
was when He
-
wanted to shake
-
it in people's
-
faces
-
and say
-
God loves you
-
like that.
-
It's only
-
as we look
-
to the cross
-
in faith
-
that we receive
-
from Christ
-
that wonderful
-
assurance
-
that can change
-
us and transform
-
us
-
because it's
-
there at Calvary
-
He tells
-
sinners
-
I love you
-
because
-
I love you.
-
Let's pray together.
-
Almighty God
-
we are
-
weak and frail
-
human beings.
-
We
-
falter
-
and fail
-
in so many
-
different ways
-
especially
-
in this whole
-
realm
-
of love.
-
Lord
-
would you be
-
pleased
-
in your
-
mercy
-
to pour
-
out your
-
love
-
into our
-
hearts
-
by your
-
Holy Spirit
-
that we
-
may be
-
transformed
-
and changed
-
that you
-
might conform
-
us to the
-
image of your
-
Son
-
that we
-
might be
-
more like
-
him.
-
Lord
-
forgive us
-
restore us
-
renew us
-
and refresh
-
us
-
by your
-
Spirit
-
by your
-
love
-
love
-
that you
-
might
-
receive
-
all the
-
glory
-
honour
-
and
-
praise
-
in Jesus
-
name
-
Amen
-
Amen.