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The Way of Love

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  1. I'm going to read from God's Word now the passage that David is shortly going to come and preach to us from.

  2. 1 Corinthians chapter 13, those first 13 verses.

    1 Corinthians 13 chapter mention

  3. The words are going to be on the screen.

  4. The words are in your bulletin if you've got one at the front door.

  5. There's also a collection of Bibles at the back.

  6. If you'd like to have a Bible for the reading or to refer to during the sermon,

  7. please get up and get one at any time.

  8. This is 1 Corinthians chapter 13, verses 1.

    1 Corinthians 13:1

  9. To 13.

  10. If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love,

  11. I'm a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.

  12. And if I have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries and all knowledge,

  13. and I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love,

  14. I am nothing.

  15. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned,

  16. but have not love, I gain nothing.

  17. Love is patient and kind.

  18. Love does not envy or boast.

  19. It's not arrogant or rude.

  20. It does not insist on its own way.

  21. It's not irritable or resentful.

  22. It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.

  23. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

  24. Love never ends.

  25. As for prophecies, they will pass away.

  26. As for tongues, they will cease.

  27. As for knowledge, it will pass away.

  28. For we know in part and we prophesy in part.

  29. But when the perfect love comes, the partial will pass away.

  30. When I was a child, I spoke like a child.

  31. I thought like a child.

  32. I reasoned like a child.

  33. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways.

  34. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face.

  35. Now I know in part, then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.

  36. So now faith, hope, and love abide.

  37. These three.

  38. But the greatest of these is love.

  39. Amen.

  40. And this is God's own holy word.

  41. Well, in our morning worship, we've been working our way through the Old Testament book of Daniel.

  42. And Corey has been leading us through that.

  43. This morning we're taking a little break from that series.

  44. And as a standalone sermon this morning, we're looking at this very famous passage from 1 Corinthians 13.

  45. One of the most famous and perhaps well-known passages in all of Scripture.

  46. Arguably the most well-known of Paul's writings.

  47. Some have called it the hymn to love.

  48. One commentator calls it the greatest, strongest, deepest thing that Paul ever wrote.

  49. But 1 Corinthians 13 is not sentimental poetry.

  50. It's the Word of God, sharp as a two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and spirit.

  51. Here is Paul holding up a mirror to the Corinthian church so that they might examine themselves and change their ways.

  52. Because, of course, Paul did not write these famous words of 1 Corinthians 13 for a wedding ceremony.

  53. Or for them to be quoted in a hallmark greeting card.

  54. The words of the apostle here are not to be wrenched out of the context in which we find them.

  55. And we discover these verses sandwiched between two chapters in which Paul deals with a contentious issue in the Corinthian church

  56. over the use or abuse of spiritual gifts.

  57. One of the problems in the Corinthian church was the way in which so much emphasis was placed on certain gifts of the Holy Spirit.

  58. We're told in 1 Corinthians 1 verse 7, Paul says that the Corinthians lacked no spiritual gift.

    1 Corinthians 1:7

  59. When it came to gifts.

  60. When it came to gifts, this was a church that had them all.

  61. A church ablaze with the charismata.

  62. They spoke in tongues.

  63. They prophesied.

  64. They healed.

  65. They worked miracles.

  66. These dramatic, supernatural gifts of the apostolic age were greatly valued and esteemed in Corinth.

  67. And yet at the same time, the Corinthian church was also a church riddled with division, factions, pride, selfishness, and moral failure.

  68. Many had started to prize their gifts above all and everything else.

  69. And these wrong attitudes had in fact left the church in a sad and sorry state.

  70. And so, what we have here in 1 Corinthians 13 is not a cozy, feel-good passage of Scripture, although often it's presented as such.

  71. But rather, Paul giving the Corinthian church a searing critique of their behavior and conduct.

  72. Paul wasn't writing to the Corinthians so that they would say,

  73. Well, Paul, what a marvelous piece of literature.

  74. So that they would have lots of warm, fuzzy feelings.

  75. He was writing so that the Corinthians would recognize just how far they had fallen.

  76. Just how complacent they had become.

  77. And just how immature they really were.

  78. He was writing these verses to burst the bubble of their spiritual pride and superiority.

  79. Because here was a church guilty of misusing and abusing the good gifts of God.

  80. And at the close of chapter 12, a chapter that speaks about the spiritual gifts and their use,

  81. Paul says this, chapter 12, verse 31.

  82. He says this,

  83. And the language that Paul uses there is very emphatic.

  84. He says,

  85. Here is something far more wonderful.

  86. Here is something far greater.

  87. Here is something you really need to take note of.

  88. Here is something that puts all these gifts,

  89. wonderful as they are in the shade.

  90. Here is the more excellent way.

  91. And that is the way of love.

  92. And what Paul is saying here to the Corinthians, and indeed to us,

  93. is that love is the hallmark of Christian maturity.

  94. It is the most excellent way.

  95. And without it, we are deluding ourselves about the nature of our relationship with God.

  96. We may have gifts aplenty.

  97. We may have great theological knowledge.

  98. We may have had wonderful spiritual experiences.

  99. And yet, for all those things,

  100. we can be missing out on what is the most important thing.

  101. And the chapter, you'll notice there, as Chris read it for us,

  102. has three main paragraphs,

  103. each one telling us something about the nature of love

  104. and its fundamental importance

  105. for any Christian community that is seeking to grow up into Christ.

  106. And the first paragraph that we look at is in verses 1 through 3,

  107. and we'll entitle this,

  108. The Priority of Love.

  109. The thrust of these opening verses of the chapter

  110. is that there is nothing as crucial or as important

  111. as the presence of love.

  112. Love is the vital ingredient

  113. without which we have and are nothing.

  114. And Paul really contrasts in these verses

  115. the gifts on the one hand with love on the other.

  116. The Corinthians laid great store on these gifts.

  117. They viewed these gifts as being the real mark

  118. of maturity and true spirituality.

  119. And what Paul is telling them

  120. is that in that they have got it all wrong.

  121. It's not gifts that are the priority.

  122. It is love.

  123. Gifts without love are useless.

  124. And you'll notice in these verses

  125. how Paul homes in on the kind of things

  126. that the Corinthians believed were important.

  127. And he begins in verse 1 with tongues.

  128. If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels,

  129. but have not love,

  130. I am only a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.

  131. The gift of tongues was greatly valued

  132. in the Corinthian congregation,

  133. just as it is by many and some sections

  134. of the church today.

  135. It was a gift that Paul himself exercised.

  136. And the Corinthians saw this gift

  137. as a great mark of spiritual well-being and maturity.

  138. Some believed it to be a language

  139. of angelic or heavenly origin.

  140. And yet Paul tells them here

  141. that such a gift is empty

  142. if love is not present.

  143. The gong, the cymbal,

  144. were instruments commonly used

  145. in pagan worship

  146. as, you know, to drive away spirits

  147. or to attract a God's attention.

  148. And the clanging of bronze at these temples

  149. would have been a very familiar sound

  150. in the city of Corinth.

  151. Despite their great claims

  152. to spiritual maturity

  153. and the elevation of these spiritual gifts,

  154. the absence of love,

  155. Paul says,

  156. means that the Corinthians

  157. were no better than the pagans.

  158. Without love,

  159. the church is little more

  160. than a pagan temple.

  161. And then he says,

  162. if I have prophetic powers,

  163. verse 2,

  164. understand all mysteries,

  165. all knowledge,

  166. if I have all faith,

  167. so as to remove mountains,

  168. but have not love,

  169. I am nothing.

  170. And here Paul speaks

  171. of the great gifts of God

  172. that he himself

  173. had enjoyed as an apostle,

  174. gifts that marked him out

  175. as being someday important

  176. and special,

  177. prophecy,

  178. knowledge,

  179. miracles,

  180. wonderful apostolic gifts.

  181. And yet even so,

  182. even these are not comparable

  183. with love.

  184. No matter the marvelous gifts

  185. we enjoy,

  186. without love,

  187. it's nothing.

  188. We can have degrees

  189. after our name,

  190. we can be academically brilliant,

  191. we can have a miracle-working faith,

  192. yet even so,

  193. the absence of love

  194. means we're nothing,

  195. says Paul.

  196. Supernatural gifts

  197. may make us a somebody

  198. in the eyes of the world,

  199. but the absence of love

  200. makes us a nobody.

  201. And Paul says,

  202. if I give away all I have,

  203. verse 3,

  204. deliver my body to be burned,

  205. but have not love,

  206. I gain nothing.

  207. Here Paul speaks of gifts

  208. that the world admires,

  209. sacrificial giving

  210. for the benefit of others,

  211. and yet even such noble actions

  212. can be motivated

  213. by something less than love.

  214. People can give

  215. for a whole variety of reasons,

  216. personal kudos and fame,

  217. to be thought well of by others,

  218. to gain something for themselves

  219. by way of reward.

  220. But without love being present,

  221. Paul says there is simply

  222. no gain or benefit.

  223. Last Sunday night,

  224. Corey told a story,

  225. a famous story,

  226. first told by Charles Spurgeon

  227. in one of his sermons.

  228. I've been guilty of stealing

  229. Corey's stories

  230. and illustrations before,

  231. so I'll continue in that vein

  232. by telling it again.

  233. This is the story of the king,

  234. the farmer,

  235. and the nobleman.

  236. And this is how the story goes.

  237. Once upon a time,

  238. there was a king

  239. who ruled over everything

  240. in the land.

  241. And one day,

  242. there was a gardener

  243. who grew,

  244. this is a strange story,

  245. an enormous carrot.

  246. And he took it to the king,

  247. and he said,

  248. my lord,

  249. this is the greatest carrot

  250. I've ever grown,

  251. or ever will grow.

  252. And so,

  253. I want to present it to you

  254. as a token of my love

  255. and respect for you.

  256. Well,

  257. the king was touched

  258. by this man's actions.

  259. He discerned the man's heart.

  260. And as the man turned to go,

  261. the king said,

  262. wait,

  263. you're clearly a good steward

  264. of the earth,

  265. and I want to give you

  266. a plot of land to you,

  267. freely as a gift,

  268. so you can garden it all.

  269. The gardener was amazed

  270. and delighted

  271. at this generous gift,

  272. and he went home rejoicing.

  273. But,

  274. there was a nobleman

  275. at the king's court

  276. who overheard all of this.

  277. And he reasoned,

  278. he said,

  279. well,

  280. my,

  281. if that's what you get

  282. for a carrot,

  283. what if you gave the king

  284. something better?

  285. And the next day,

  286. the nobleman came before the king,

  287. and he was leading

  288. a handsome black stallion.

  289. He bowed low,

  290. he said,

  291. my lord,

  292. I breed horses.

  293. This is the greatest horse

  294. I've ever bred,

  295. or ever will.

  296. Therefore,

  297. I want to present it to you

  298. as a token of my love

  299. and respect for you.

  300. The king discerned

  301. this man's heart,

  302. and he said to him,

  303. thank you.

  304. And he took the horse

  305. and simply dismissed the man.

  306. And the nobleman

  307. was confused and perplexed.

  308. And so,

  309. the king said to him,

  310. let me explain.

  311. That gardener

  312. was giving me the carrot

  313. that you were giving yourself.

  314. The horse.

  315. And Paul says here,

  316. if we give only for ourselves,

  317. then such an action

  318. amounts to nothing

  319. on heaven's balance sheet.

  320. And it is possible,

  321. friends,

  322. for some people

  323. to be generous

  324. and kind

  325. and giving

  326. and to appear that way,

  327. and yet in reality,

  328. they're doing it all

  329. for themselves.

  330. actually using people

  331. rather than loving people.

  332. They love

  333. and they give,

  334. but only if they're getting.

  335. Admiration,

  336. obedience,

  337. affection.

  338. And if they're crossed

  339. or don't get what they want,

  340. your history.

  341. Friends,

  342. we know from Paul's writings

  343. that he understood

  344. love to be

  345. a product

  346. of an authentic

  347. work of God

  348. in someone's life.

  349. It's an evidence

  350. of the work

  351. of the Holy Spirit.

  352. It's a hallmark

  353. of Christian

  354. authenticity.

  355. Peter,

  356. 2 Peter 1

  357. says this,

  358. add to your faith

  359. love.

  360. It's a mark

  361. of maturity.

  362. It's the opposite

  363. of immature

  364. egocentricity

  365. because it's giving

  366. like God gets.

  367. And we desperately

  368. need this kind

  369. of love

  370. in our own lives,

  371. in our own families,

  372. in our churches,

  373. and indeed

  374. in our wider society.

  375. C.S. Lewis

  376. in his little book

  377. The Four Loves

  378. wrote this,

  379. if you don't want

  380. your heart broken,

  381. give it to nobody.

  382. Lock it up

  383. in a little casket

  384. of selfishness,

  385. and in that

  386. casket,

  387. it will not be broken.

  388. It will become

  389. unbreakable,

  390. impenetrable,

  391. irredeemable.

  392. And friends,

  393. it can happen.

  394. People who are

  395. so gifted,

  396. so knowledgeable,

  397. so able,

  398. but so unable

  399. to really love

  400. anyone else

  401. but themselves.

  402. Paul says

  403. it's not our gifts,

  404. our talents,

  405. our abilities

  406. that really matter.

  407. It's love,

  408. the priority

  409. of love.

  410. It brings me

  411. to the second thing

  412. here from verses

  413. four through seven.

  414. And we'll call this

  415. the power

  416. of love.

  417. If love is more

  418. important than

  419. the gifts,

  420. then secondly,

  421. love is more powerful

  422. than the gifts.

  423. And Paul tells us

  424. something here,

  425. I think,

  426. in these verses

  427. about the power

  428. of love.

  429. love.

  430. Many different

  431. words in Greek

  432. to describe

  433. different kinds

  434. of love,

  435. that between a man

  436. and a woman,

  437. a parent and a child,

  438. between friends

  439. and so forth.

  440. But the word

  441. that Paul uses

  442. here is the word

  443. agape.

  444. It was rarely used

  445. before the writing

  446. of the New Testament.

  447. But it's a word

  448. that the apostles

  449. took to describe

  450. Christian love.

  451. And it relates

  452. to love for the

  453. unlovely,

  454. love for the

  455. unworthy,

  456. love for those

  457. who are different,

  458. love for the sinner,

  459. love for the guilty,

  460. love for the lost.

  461. And what Paul

  462. endeavors to do here,

  463. I think,

  464. in these verses

  465. is to sketch

  466. for us a portrait

  467. of love's power.

  468. He describes

  469. or depicts love

  470. not in terms of,

  471. you'll notice,

  472. feelings or emotions,

  473. but rather in terms

  474. of what it does

  475. and does not do.

  476. In the original language,

  477. there are verbs

  478. everywhere here,

  479. doing words,

  480. words of action.

  481. Love is active.

  482. Here is the way

  483. of maturity.

  484. This is what love

  485. looks like.

  486. This is how you know

  487. it's the real thing.

  488. Look at what he says.

  489. Love is patient

  490. or long-suffering.

  491. Whatever it faces,

  492. love does not

  493. lose its temper.

  494. Human nature

  495. means that we are

  496. often patient

  497. and understanding

  498. with ourselves,

  499. but much less so

  500. with others.

  501. Love is kind.

  502. It cares more

  503. for others

  504. than for self.

  505. It's generous.

  506. It has an open hand.

  507. Love does not end

  508. envy or boast.

  509. It's not puffed up.

  510. It's not proud.

  511. Eugene Peterson,

  512. in his paraphrase,

  513. the message says,

  514. love doesn't want

  515. what it doesn't have.

  516. Love doesn't strut.

  517. Love doesn't have

  518. a swollen head.

  519. Actually,

  520. all through this letter,

  521. we detect

  522. that was actually,

  523. that was a major problem

  524. for the childish

  525. Corinthians.

  526. Corinthians.

  527. Chapter 4,

  528. verse 18,

  529. Paul says,

  530. some of you become arrogant.

  531. Later,

  532. he says in chapter 5,

  533. verse 2,

  534. you're proud.

  535. Chapter 8,

  536. he tells them,

  537. knowledge puffs up,

  538. but love builds up.

  539. Love is not arrogant

  540. or rude.

  541. The Greek word

  542. literally means

  543. to ride roughshod

  544. over someone,

  545. to take advantage

  546. of them,

  547. to bulldoze,

  548. to steamroller them,

  549. to take no notice

  550. of their feelings.

  551. Love does not insist

  552. on its own way.

  553. It's not self-seeking.

  554. Paul has already

  555. told the Corinthians

  556. in chapter 10,

  557. verse 24,

  558. nobody should seek

  559. his own good,

  560. but the good of others.

  561. Love is always

  562. me first.

  563. And it's easy,

  564. even in,

  565. even in God's service,

  566. to seek position

  567. and influence

  568. and status

  569. for our own glory

  570. rather than God's.

  571. The Christian mystics

  572. in John of the Cross

  573. once wrote these words,

  574. all visions,

  575. revelations,

  576. heavenly feelings,

  577. whatever experiences

  578. greater than these

  579. are not worth

  580. the least act

  581. of humility.

  582. For acts of humility

  583. are the fruit

  584. of that agape love,

  585. which neither values

  586. nor seeks itself,

  587. which thinks well

  588. not of self,

  589. but of others.

  590. love is not irritable

  591. or resentful.

  592. It's not easily angered.

  593. It isn't touchy.

  594. Love is not easily provoked.

  595. Love is a long fuse.

  596. I've been in churches

  597. where, you know,

  598. some Christians

  599. should be wearing a sign

  600. around their necks,

  601. danger,

  602. high explosive.

  603. Love keeps no record

  604. of wrongs.

  605. It wipes the slate clean.

  606. It forgives.

  607. It doesn't go around

  608. casting up people's mistakes.

  609. It doesn't treasure

  610. grievances,

  611. bearing grudges.

  612. It doesn't think

  613. the worst of others,

  614. always impugning

  615. their motives

  616. or the motives

  617. behind their actions.

  618. Love does not rejoice

  619. at wrongdoing.

  620. It rejoices with the truth.

  621. Love is not anything goes.

  622. That's sometimes

  623. what we hear

  624. in our wider culture.

  625. Sometimes people

  626. paint a contrast

  627. between the right thing

  628. and the loving thing,

  629. but friends,

  630. the right thing

  631. is the loving thing.

  632. And the loving thing

  633. is always the right thing.

  634. Love is never,

  635. ever to be an excuse

  636. for sin

  637. and evil

  638. and immorality.

  639. Then he says,

  640. love bears all things,

  641. believes all things,

  642. hopes all things,

  643. endures all things.

  644. It's indestructible.

  645. It's powerful.

  646. Many years ago,

  647. we had a lady

  648. that we prayed for

  649. who was served

  650. overseas

  651. in China.

  652. And when she was there,

  653. the authorities

  654. sent a woman

  655. to spy on her,

  656. to get close to her

  657. and to report back to them.

  658. And eventually,

  659. after a few months,

  660. this lady

  661. who'd been sent

  662. from the government

  663. spoke to our friend

  664. and said,

  665. confessed.

  666. And she said,

  667. look,

  668. I can't report on you

  669. because

  670. the love that you've shown me,

  671. the love that you've displayed,

  672. I love you too much.

  673. As Paul's description proceeds,

  674. surely it's clear to us

  675. that there is only

  676. one human model

  677. he could have used

  678. for this portrait.

  679. And that's

  680. our Lord Jesus Christ.

  681. He is the,

  682. alone is the one

  683. through whom we can come

  684. to know

  685. this kind of love.

  686. Love looks like Jesus.

  687. He is the image

  688. of the invisible God,

  689. the Word made flesh.

  690. Love is the revelation

  691. of God's character

  692. that we discover

  693. and encounter

  694. in the Lord Jesus Christ.

  695. The Corinthians were gifted,

  696. but they were graceless.

  697. They thought they were

  698. so spiritual and mature,

  699. but they were children.

  700. They were spoiled brats.

  701. They'd lost sight of Jesus.

  702. Friends,

  703. let's not elevate our gifts

  704. at the expense of love.

  705. What does it matter

  706. about our gifts

  707. if we cannot get on

  708. with each other,

  709. if we can't forgive

  710. one another,

  711. if we can't serve

  712. one another in love?

  713. Because this is what

  714. matters to God.

  715. Not miracles

  716. and signs

  717. and wonders.

  718. Love.

  719. May not be as showy,

  720. but it's more important.

  721. You can have great gifts

  722. and you can be a devil.

  723. Just think of those words

  724. at the end of the,

  725. towards the close

  726. of the Sermon on the Mount

  727. of Jesus.

  728. On that day,

  729. many will say to me,

  730. Lord, Lord,

  731. did we not prophesy

  732. in your name,

  733. cast out demons

  734. in your name,

  735. do many mighty works

  736. in your name?

  737. And I will declare to them,

  738. I never knew you.

  739. Depart from me,

  740. you workers of lawlessness.

  741. The priority of love.

  742. The power of love.

  743. And then thirdly

  744. and finally here

  745. in verses 8 through 13,

  746. the permanence of love.

  747. In these final words

  748. of the chapter,

  749. Paul really lifts up

  750. our eyes

  751. to the eternal horizon.

  752. He says,

  753. love never ends.

  754. As for prophecies,

  755. verse 8,

  756. they will pass away.

  757. For tongues,

  758. they will cease.

  759. As for knowledge,

  760. it will pass away.

  761. Love alone will last.

  762. The gifts will fade.

  763. They will disappear.

  764. They will go.

  765. Prophecies,

  766. they'll pass away.

  767. Tongues will fall silent.

  768. Knowledge will be consumed

  769. in the vastness of eternity.

  770. Only love will remain.

  771. For we know in part,

  772. verse 9,

  773. we prophesy in part,

  774. but when the perfect comes,

  775. the partial will pass away.

  776. Perfection is coming,

  777. says Paul.

  778. A new creation

  779. will dawn in all its fullness

  780. and it will swallow up

  781. everything that is partial

  782. and temporal

  783. and ephemeral.

  784. The perfect that is still to come

  785. is, I think here,

  786. almost certainly

  787. a reference

  788. to the return

  789. of Jesus Christ.

  790. Yes, there are some

  791. who argue

  792. that this perfection

  793. relates to the completion

  794. of the Scriptures

  795. after which the supernatural

  796. gifts died away.

  797. And while I agree

  798. with the view

  799. that these more spectacular

  800. gifts were used by God

  801. in the early days

  802. of the church

  803. to authenticate the gospel,

  804. they were given

  805. for a temporary purpose

  806. while the New Testament

  807. was being written

  808. and compiled,

  809. I do not think

  810. that this text

  811. relates to that.

  812. Paul is simply

  813. making the point

  814. that spiritual gifts,

  815. supernatural or otherwise,

  816. belong to this present age

  817. and not the age to come.

  818. Love alone will endure.

  819. Love alone will last.

  820. Love alone will stand.

  821. Gifts of teaching,

  822. mercy,

  823. helping,

  824. administration,

  825. all of these

  826. are provisional.

  827. Yes, they're needed now,

  828. but they're not going to be needed

  829. in the new heavens and earth.

  830. In the new creation,

  831. there will be no need

  832. for patience

  833. and forgiveness

  834. or faith or hope,

  835. but love will continue.

  836. The mark of heaven

  837. that we experience now

  838. is love.

  839. Love is the language of heaven,

  840. not tongues

  841. or any other gifts.

  842. These things are temporary.

  843. They are not lasting.

  844. They won't endure.

  845. They will pass away.

  846. Jonathan Edwards wrote,

  847. heaven will be

  848. a world of love.

  849. So, Paul says in verse 11,

  850. when I was a child,

  851. I spoke like a child.

  852. I thought like a child.

  853. I reasoned like a child.

  854. When I became a man,

  855. I gave up childish ways.

  856. And I think that verse

  857. is more than just an analogy

  858. or an illustration.

  859. This theme of childish immaturity

  860. runs like a thread

  861. throughout the whole letter.

  862. And already,

  863. Paul has accused

  864. the Corinthians

  865. of being worldly,

  866. mere infants in Christ

  867. in chapter 3.

  868. In the next chapter,

  869. chapter 14, verse 20,

  870. he exhorts them

  871. to stop thinking like children

  872. and you're thinking be adults.

  873. Sometimes,

  874. with young children,

  875. we have a couple

  876. of young grandsons,

  877. and you discover

  878. that they're more interested

  879. in the cardboard box

  880. and the wrapping paper

  881. than the present

  882. that's contained within it.

  883. And that's fine,

  884. isn't it,

  885. with toddlers?

  886. It's cute.

  887. It's funny.

  888. But if you were to see

  889. a 17-year-old

  890. discarding the games console

  891. and climbing inside

  892. a cardboard box,

  893. you might think

  894. there was something

  895. seriously wrong.

  896. And spiritually speaking,

  897. this is what

  898. the Corinthians were like.

  899. They should have grown up

  900. and been mature,

  901. but instead,

  902. they were clinging

  903. to childish ways.

  904. It's a danger.

  905. Maybe there's,

  906. maybe somebody here,

  907. you need to climb out

  908. of the cardboard box

  909. of your selfishness

  910. and your immaturity

  911. and leave it behind

  912. in your thinking.

  913. Be adults.

  914. For now we see

  915. in a mirror dimly,

  916. then face to face,

  917. verse 12,

  918. now I know in part,

  919. then I shall know fully,

  920. even as I've been fully known.

  921. Corinth was a city

  922. famous for metal work,

  923. and that included

  924. the manufacture of,

  925. there were kind of

  926. bronze mirrors.

  927. And these mirrors,

  928. nothing like as clear

  929. and as accurate

  930. as those we have today.

  931. In those mirrors,

  932. you only saw

  933. a poor reflection.

  934. Seeing someone face to face

  935. was very different.

  936. And in this present age,

  937. we see the face

  938. of Jesus Christ,

  939. yes, reflected

  940. in His creation

  941. and in the Scriptures.

  942. But a day is coming

  943. when we will have

  944. no need of those mirrors

  945. that reflect His glory,

  946. for we will meet Him

  947. and see Him face to face.

  948. There's an old hymn

  949. we sometimes sang,

  950. Face to face

  951. with Christ my Savior,

  952. face to face

  953. what will it be,

  954. when with rapture

  955. I behold Him,

  956. Jesus Christ,

  957. who died for me.

  958. Our knowledge of God here

  959. is always partial

  960. and incomplete,

  961. but a day is coming

  962. when all will be revealed.

  963. As we ourselves

  964. are known and loved by God,

  965. so we will know

  966. and love Him.

  967. We shall see Him

  968. face to face,

  969. we will know Him

  970. as He is,

  971. and our knowledge of Him

  972. will be so much greater

  973. and more wonderful.

  974. Now these three remain,

  975. verse 13,

  976. faith, hope, and love,

  977. but the greatest of these

  978. is love.

  979. And yes,

  980. faith and hope

  981. are important

  982. in this world,

  983. but love is in a category

  984. of its own,

  985. because love is a property

  986. of God Himself

  987. in a way in which

  988. faith and hope are not.

  989. God doesn't need faith

  990. or hope.

  991. If He did,

  992. He wouldn't be God.

  993. But if God didn't love,

  994. He wouldn't be God.

  995. And it's in this sense

  996. that love is the greatest

  997. of gifts,

  998. because the essence of love

  999. is that we are turned

  1000. away from ourselves

  1001. towards others,

  1002. towards God.

  1003. and beyond anything else

  1004. that can build up

  1005. any Christian community

  1006. in harmony and unity

  1007. and maturity

  1008. is love.

  1009. Maybe it's good

  1010. to look at ourselves.

  1011. Are we like the Corinthians

  1012. of old,

  1013. in danger of becoming

  1014. noisy gongs,

  1015. clanging cymbals,

  1016. gifted but loveless?

  1017. Do we prize our knowledge,

  1018. our zeal,

  1019. our service,

  1020. our preaching,

  1021. while our hearts

  1022. are cold and indifferent?

  1023. Maybe we should be praying,

  1024. Lord, help me

  1025. to be more loving,

  1026. because this is

  1027. what's important.

  1028. This is the most

  1029. excellent way.

  1030. And no matter

  1031. who you are this morning,

  1032. young or old,

  1033. gifted or not,

  1034. big or small,

  1035. strong or weak,

  1036. no matter who you are,

  1037. if you are in Jesus Christ,

  1038. you can be great in love.

  1039. We need to be committed

  1040. to loving one another.

  1041. By this shall all men know

  1042. that you're my disciples,

  1043. said Jesus.

  1044. It's the real test

  1045. of our discipleship,

  1046. because church is not

  1047. a gathering for the gifted.

  1048. It's a community

  1049. of compassion and care.

  1050. That difficult brother,

  1051. that annoying sister,

  1052. that person who gets

  1053. on your nerves,

  1054. they are your calling

  1055. as God's children.

  1056. Love them.

  1057. Be patient with them.

  1058. Forgive them.

  1059. Bear with them.

  1060. And do that not

  1061. in your own strength,

  1062. but in the power

  1063. of the Holy Spirit,

  1064. who in His grace,

  1065. God pours His love

  1066. into our hearts.

  1067. The final thing

  1068. I'm going to say

  1069. just as we close,

  1070. be looking to Jesus Christ,

  1071. because He's the one

  1072. who embodies this love.

  1073. He was patient

  1074. with His slow-witted disciples.

  1075. He was kind

  1076. to the outcast and sinner.

  1077. He was compassionate

  1078. to the lost,

  1079. forgiving towards His enemies.

  1080. For sinners,

  1081. He endured the cross,

  1082. despising its shame.

  1083. And if you want to know

  1084. what love looks like,

  1085. look there.

  1086. Look to Jesus.

  1087. Look to His cross.

  1088. Look to Calvary.

  1089. Look to the blood

  1090. and the nails,

  1091. because it's there

  1092. that we see

  1093. that the steadfast love

  1094. of the Lord

  1095. never ceases.

  1096. It's there that we see

  1097. that His mercies

  1098. never come to an end.

  1099. There's a question

  1100. that sometimes,

  1101. on occasions,

  1102. it's usually

  1103. the wife's wife

  1104. will ask this question

  1105. of her husband

  1106. rather than

  1107. the other way around.

  1108. But the question is this,

  1109. do you love me?

  1110. Well,

  1111. the answer to that question,

  1112. of course,

  1113. is yes, darling.

  1114. Of course I do.

  1115. But if you answer

  1116. in that way,

  1117. you're not going to get

  1118. off that easy,

  1119. because there's always

  1120. a follow-up.

  1121. And the follow-up

  1122. is the

  1123. why do you love me

  1124. question.

  1125. Why do you love me?

  1126. Lots of possible answers

  1127. you can give to that.

  1128. I love you

  1129. because of your

  1130. beauty,

  1131. because you're,

  1132. you've lost

  1133. some money,

  1134. because we've got

  1135. similar interests,

  1136. because you're

  1137. a great cook,

  1138. because you're

  1139. much prettier

  1140. than I am handsome.

  1141. You know,

  1142. there's lots of things

  1143. you can say.

  1144. But friends,

  1145. there's only one answer

  1146. upon which you can

  1147. build a marriage.

  1148. And that's,

  1149. I love you

  1150. because I love you.

  1151. I love you

  1152. because I love you.

  1153. Because if you're loved

  1154. because of this,

  1155. that,

  1156. and the other,

  1157. all that does

  1158. is breed

  1159. an incredible

  1160. insecurity.

  1161. And the other person

  1162. is left wondering,

  1163. are they still

  1164. pretty enough,

  1165. rich enough,

  1166. patient enough?

  1167. We long

  1168. as human beings

  1169. for a love

  1170. that liberates.

  1171. We long

  1172. to be really loved.

  1173. And this is

  1174. God's love

  1175. in Jesus Christ.

  1176. This is

  1177. His electing love.

  1178. This is

  1179. what Christ

  1180. says to us

  1181. in the gospel.

  1182. He says,

  1183. I love you

  1184. because I love you.

  1185. He loves us

  1186. and invites us

  1187. whoever we are

  1188. to come to Him

  1189. in faith.

  1190. And it's a powerful love.

  1191. It will transform you.

  1192. Being united

  1193. to Jesus

  1194. will change you.

  1195. This is the love

  1196. that converts sinners,

  1197. that builds relationships,

  1198. that strengthens churches,

  1199. that matures disciples.

  1200. It is the essential

  1201. ingredient

  1202. in that process

  1203. of growing

  1204. as a Christian.

  1205. we learn

  1206. and grow

  1207. not as we

  1208. fixate

  1209. on ourselves,

  1210. our own gifts

  1211. and abilities.

  1212. We learn

  1213. and grow

  1214. as we reflect

  1215. and rejoice

  1216. in the amazing

  1217. love of God

  1218. for us

  1219. in Jesus Christ.

  1220. It's in being

  1221. joined to Jesus

  1222. that we draw

  1223. from Him

  1224. all that we need

  1225. to love God

  1226. and to love

  1227. our neighbor

  1228. as ourselves.

  1229. And it's only

  1230. as Jesus

  1231. and His love

  1232. overwhelms us

  1233. and indwells us

  1234. that we can even

  1235. begin to think

  1236. of loving like this.

  1237. It's the love

  1238. that we see

  1239. at the cross.

  1240. Look there

  1241. and see how much

  1242. He loves you.

  1243. The Scottish preacher

  1244. James Denny

  1245. used to say

  1246. that the only time

  1247. He envied

  1248. the Roman Catholic

  1249. priest

  1250. His crucifix

  1251. was when He

  1252. wanted to shake

  1253. it in people's

  1254. faces

  1255. and say

  1256. God loves you

  1257. like that.

  1258. It's only

  1259. as we look

  1260. to the cross

  1261. in faith

  1262. that we receive

  1263. from Christ

  1264. that wonderful

  1265. assurance

  1266. that can change

  1267. us and transform

  1268. us

  1269. because it's

  1270. there at Calvary

  1271. He tells

  1272. sinners

  1273. I love you

  1274. because

  1275. I love you.

  1276. Let's pray together.

  1277. Almighty God

  1278. we are

  1279. weak and frail

  1280. human beings.

  1281. We

  1282. falter

  1283. and fail

  1284. in so many

  1285. different ways

  1286. especially

  1287. in this whole

  1288. realm

  1289. of love.

  1290. Lord

  1291. would you be

  1292. pleased

  1293. in your

  1294. mercy

  1295. to pour

  1296. out your

  1297. love

  1298. into our

  1299. hearts

  1300. by your

  1301. Holy Spirit

  1302. that we

  1303. may be

  1304. transformed

  1305. and changed

  1306. that you

  1307. might conform

  1308. us to the

  1309. image of your

  1310. Son

  1311. that we

  1312. might be

  1313. more like

  1314. him.

  1315. Lord

  1316. forgive us

  1317. restore us

  1318. renew us

  1319. and refresh

  1320. us

  1321. by your

  1322. Spirit

  1323. by your

  1324. love

  1325. love

  1326. that you

  1327. might

  1328. receive

  1329. all the

  1330. glory

  1331. honour

  1332. and

  1333. praise

  1334. in Jesus

  1335. name

  1336. Amen

  1337. Amen.