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Romans 5:6-11 "Be Reconciled to God!"
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Hi, my name is George Sinclair. I'm the lead pastor of Church of the Messiah.
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! It is wonderful that you would like to check out some of the sermons done by Church of the Messiah,
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either by myself or some of the others. Listen, just a couple of things. First of all, would you pray for us
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that we will open God's Word well to His glory and for the good of people like yourself?
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questions. It helps me actually to know, as I'm preaching, how to deal with the types of things
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that you're really struggling with. So God bless.
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I invite you to bow your heads in prayer. Father, I ask that the Holy Spirit would fall with gentle power
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upon us at this time. Father, we give you thanks and praise that your Word written is both on one hand
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a mirror for us to see and understand ourselves better, and it's also, Father, a window that opens
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us up to see who you are and what you have promised and what you have said and what you will do and have
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done. And so we ask, Father, that you would bring your Word deep into our hearts, you would bring the
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Gospel deep into our hearts that it might form us, so that we will perfectly love you and worthily
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magnify your holy name. And we ask this in Jesus' name. Amen. Please be seated.
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So one of the features of relationships is, of course, we want to have good relationships. That's
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one of the things we really desire. But it's often the case that in a relationship, one of the people
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has almost a supernatural ability to say something to the other person that deeply wounds them. Now,
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if it's a supernatural ability, in this case, it would be probably demonic. But you know what I
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mean. It's as if... And how the wound works is this. So I'm going along, or you're going along,
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and there's a whole pile of things that somebody could say about me that I just go, yeah, whatever.
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Yeah, you know, whatever. Yeah, yeah, whatever. And you're thinking that in your own mind.
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But then in the midst of a couple of those things of criticism, you know, the yeah, whatever,
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the whatever, that then there's the boom, boom. The one that actually really you're worried about,
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you're afraid of. And this isn't just in like marriages, and it can be husbands and wives,
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it can be mothers and fathers and their kids, it can be churches, it often is in churches,
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where, you know, there's all sorts of things people might say to criticize me that I might be,
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you know, whatever. But then there's that, they say that one thing, and whoa, that really goes deep
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inside the heart and really wounds. And it's not just that other people have that ability. If we're
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honest, we've done that as well. There's been times that we've said something that really just
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hurts the other person. Sometimes you can recognize almost instantly on their face that you really hurt
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them. And other times you can't, but you find out later that you've that one word really, really,
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really, really damaged the relationship. And made even the relationship, in some cases,
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the relationship can't recover. And even if it does recover, it's very, very, very difficult to
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reconcile. The Bible text that we're going to look at today, which Josiah read just a few moments ago,
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and we're going to go back and look at, believe it or not, it's not like a magic bullet that will
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automatically help you with that. But it's actually provides the building blocks in the ground
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for us to have a type of resiliency with those things. But not just a resiliency, because sometimes
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we have done those wrong things, right? It's not just a character attack, but a way to have a type of
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balance and equilibrium and a secure emotional and intellectual place to deal with those things
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and be resilient. And believe it or not, the scripture text today has some very profound truths
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to say about this. So it would be very helpful to me and to you if you take out your own Bibles
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and turn in them to Romans chapter 5, verses 6 to 11, which is what we're looking at today.
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We're going through the book of Romans slowly. Towards the end of June, we'll get to chapter 7.
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And I'm not sure if we're going to take the summer off and the fall and then come back in January to
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finish the book or if we'll finish the book in September. But we're going through the book slowly.
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And it begins in a way which is profoundly unpromising for many people in our culture. It begins by saying
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this, for while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. And you know,
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sometimes I'll say, if you actually know the original language, it's not quite as like it says something
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a little bit different. And in this case, it can also be translated as powerless,
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powerless. Like not just weak, but powerless. It's actually far more blunt in one of the senses. So weak's a good translation.
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For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. Now I know for some people
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it's a bit of an insult, but for those of us who've come to learn our weakness, it's actually a profoundly
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helpful thing. When I was studying this text this week, I was thinking of a fellow that I know that I
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see all the time at one of the coffee shops I frequent, not all the time, but fairly regularly.
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And he's a self-made man. He's probably about 70, very, very strong, very, very healthy, and a successful
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businessman. Not in the success in the sense that he'd count his wealth in tens of millions of dollars,
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but he would count his wealth in the millions, at least. So a successful guy, a strong guy, a
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self-made man, in quotation marks, but truly not a guy. You know, sometimes, you know what's that saying
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about some people? They think, you know, you know, I got up to base and hit a triple and not realize
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they were born on third base. They didn't do anything. They're just nepotism. This was a guy who really has.
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And I think if he was to be honest, he would listen to this and says, for a while we were still weak.
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And he would think, okay, well, why is the Bible insulting me? Because I'm not weak.
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And, in fact, actually, he also said, why are you calling me ungodly? Now, interestingly enough,
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this fellow, he'd probably be offended if he heard the text that said he was ungodly.
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But at the same time, if you asked him about his life, he'd say, well, I give no attention to God
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whatsoever. I don't pay any, I don't give him any thought. I just go ahead and do it myself,
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which is actually how you define ungodly. Somebody who has no time whatsoever for the triune
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and God wants to live their own life, you know, couldn't give a hoot about God. They hear about
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what God, you know, says about certain things. They just go, yeah, whatever, yeah, whatever,
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whatever, whatever. And not only whatever, whatever, whatever, there's no way God could
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actually say something that might pierce me and hurt me, like just whatever, right? And that's how he
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would understand himself. But on the other hand, there might be some here hearing this text for the
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first time. And you go, wow, this text is speaking about me. I really feel right now in my situation
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that I'm really weak and powerless. Like I'm really struggling with a disability that I have. I'm
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really struggling maybe with alcohol. I'm really struggling in relationships. You know, my credit
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card debt is just really breaking me and bending and, and, and, you know, my relate, like there, you
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might hear that and say, yeah, you know what that I am weak. And even the ungodly part, they might say,
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you know what, that's not really that far off. I really, up until very recently, haven't actually
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given two seconds thought about God whatsoever, what he would say. So there's two different ways
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to hear this text, you know. But I'll just say one thing. I wouldn't say it to my friend unless
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the conversation moved in a very particular direction. But I said my friend is probably about
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70 and very strong and a self-made man, but he's actually living in a delusion. Isn't he?
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Like I just finished reading 1st and 2nd Chronicles and 1st and 2nd Kings. And I, you know, I think
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maybe there's just a one or two kings out of all of those that are listed that hit 70.
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I was just looking up a philosopher that was important in a novel that I read, a very famous
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philosopher, if you're into philosophy, he died at 44. C.S. Lewis died at 62 or something like that,
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right? Like you think about it, a lot of people don't make it to 70. And the one thing for sure is that
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he's close to death.
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So,
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my mechanic just died at 71, dropped dead of a heart attack.
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So, it's in a sense an illusory world to think that you're self-made and you're strong. Because
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the fact is, even if you have been very strong your entire life, you began weak, you were weak for many,
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many years, and your latter days will be weak and you will die. Now, I'm not saying that if you're
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here thinking those things as an insult. But what I am saying is that the hard part about the Bible for
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many people is that they think, the average Canadian would think that they're, or the typical
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Canadian would think that they're realistic and the Bible is unrealistic. And the problems they
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have with the Bible is often because the Bible is more realistic than they are.
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That, I mean, weakness is really a thing about human beings. We are completely and utterly dependent on
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them. Electricity working, all of these other things working that we can't control, we're completely
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dependent upon them. But this isn't, but my friend I think would say, and probably validly, but George,
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even if I come to accept this, I mean, why do I need to hear that? That doesn't help me. It doesn't
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help me to be reminded that I'm weak or that I should have some thoughts about God. And it just still
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does seem like a little bit of a put down. And it seems like it's just one of those things that
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religions do. But they put it down. And often when religions put people down, they exclude themselves.
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But just before we go any further as to why it's not just an insult, look again at verse 6 again,
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because it says, while we were still weak. In other words, I can never read this text as if it's referring
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to my friend and not to me. And Paul, who wrote this, didn't write it as if it applied to everybody
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in the world except him, or all the people outside of Christ except Christians. He says, we were still
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weak. It includes us. And it actually has something very hopeful, which you're going to see more in a
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second when we read verses 6 to 8. And it's in that very simple little word. Look again at verse 6.
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For while we were still weak, at the right time, Christ died for the ungodly.
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And the right time there, in the original language, there's two different types of words for time. One is
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just chronos, which is just chronological. This, then this, then this, then this. This 10 minute block,
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then this 10 minute block, then this 10 minute block, then this 10 minute block. Chronos time would be the
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hour and a half you spent doom scrolling on Instagram or Twitter or some other type of thing. That's just
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chronos time. Kairos time is something completely different. Kairos time implies that we live in a
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world that God exists in and that our lives have meaning. And it's like there's a significant time,
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a meaningful time, a time that touches on eternity, a time that is touching transcendence and imminence,
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a very, very, very significant time. And not just significant in terms of it's significant for me
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that this happened on a certain day, but significant in not only the whole big meaning and shape of your
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life, but in some type of almost cosmological and transcendent sense. And that's what the text is
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saying. For while we were still weak at the Kairos moment, Christ actually died for the weak and the
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ungodly. And then it continues, verse 7. For one will scarcely die for a righteous person, though perhaps for a
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good person, one would dare even to die. But God shows his love for us, demonstrates his love for us, in that
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while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. That's a very, very packed thing. And what it's saying
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is that, you know, all sorts of people will die doing things. But, you know, like, so, you know, for instance,
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when Hamas dies, they die because they want to kill as many of us as possible.
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Right? That's why they die. They're actively engaged in trying to kill as many of people like us as
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possible. And if they could kill us, they probably would, until they get their way. And then in wars,
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you're in wars and people die, and there's obviously acts of heroism. And I'm not saying that all wars are
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wrong. There are just wars. There really are. And praise God for those in our armed forces who at
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different times have volunteered to stand and defend our country and defend freedom and to deliver people
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from totalitarian bondage and power and death cults. Praise God for them. And some will die as a result of
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that. But there's a cause which is going on there, and they get, and most people don't go in thinking,
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I'm going there to die. They go there to live, and they die as a consequence. And obviously,
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we can see that, and this is getting closer to what Paul is saying here, is that it might very
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well be that a mother would willingly die for their child, or a father for their child, or a father,
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a husband for his wife, or vice versa. But this is not talking about that. This is just talking about
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how, if you were just to take the people who are going outside there, how many of the people walking by
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this, the building this way or that, or driving by, how many of them would you die for? Well, the answer is none.
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Zero. Nada. Not going to do it. Like, don't even think about it. And then maybe if you found out that one of
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those people was really, really, really, really, really, really, really good, or they'd been really, really,
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really, really, really a kind benefactor and done lots of charity work and are continuing to do it, would you die for them?
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Would you die for them? Well, maybe one of us would. One in a thousand, one in a hundred thousand,
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one in a million, but still, no, somebody else could do that type of thing. There must be some
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other work around. That's just not going to happen. And what this Bible text is saying is that,
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if you look at it again, verse seven and eight, for no, for one will scarcely die for a righteous person,
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though perhaps for a good person one would dare even to die, but God shows his love for us.
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And the word shows means demonstrates, proves, makes public. His love for us, that in that while we
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were still sinners, and sinner is a relationship type of word, it's saying, in a sense, we say to God,
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we're not interested. It's a little bit like the rebellious 15 or 16 year old whose parents say,
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yes, you can go out tonight and you can borrow, there's 16 or 17, and you can borrow the car,
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but you got to be back by 10. And the 16 or 17 year old says, just to show my parents they can't tell me
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what I should do, I'm going to come back at one in the morning, or two in the morning, just to show them
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they can't tell me what to do. That's capturing the idea of sin. It's a more relational type of defiance
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against God and what he said. And it's, but notice in all of this, that God shows his love for us,
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demonstrate, proves that he actually loves us, in that while we were weak, while we were ungodly,
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while we were sinners, he died for us. He died for us. And the word there, for us, it, there's some
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nuances in it, but primarily it's saying that he died in my place. He died in my stead. It's not as if
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he died, you know, tragically trying to defend me or accomplish something for me. No, no, the whole
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reason he came is he looked down the corridors of history and he saw George, and he saw that George
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is weak, and he saw that George fundamentally doesn't really care about God and God's ways,
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and that in fact George has often been like that 17 year old and just said, I'm going to show you,
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Kent Bosmira, I'm going to do whatever I want. And God saw all of those things for me, and out of love,
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not out of weakness, not out of guilt, not out of shame, not out of some sense that he needs to prove
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himself, because he had nothing to prove, he doesn't need anything, and completely and utterly out of love,
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he decided to take my place.
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He decided to take my place and die.
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And, and you know, the thing, one of the things which is so, there's many things which are wonderful
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about, about, about Christianity, but
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one of the things which is just so wonderful about this is that Christianity is completely
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and utterly unique amongst all of the religions in the world.
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If the Quran, I don't know if the Quran actually says that God loves you,
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but if it did, you could say
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to those who believe the Quran, well, prove it.
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Why should I believe that?
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In fact, there's good reasons for me not to believe it.
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Some of the things it says,
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and some of the things I know about Muhammad, there's good reasons not to believe it.
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Like, why should I believe that?
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It would be the same with anything. It would be the same with, you know, Buddhism,
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it would be the same with Hinduism. If they say that God is love,
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you say, well, why should I believe that?
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But Christianity is all, you can't, you know, you could have Buddhism without Buddha.
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In fact, Buddhas would say that because there can be other gurus.
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There could have been somebody else who had an enlightenment other than the Ketama.
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And, and in a sense, Muhammad was just God's final prophet.
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There were other prophets and there could have been some other one other than Muhammad
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to deliver the, the, the Quran to the human race.
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And the same with Hinduism. There's been many sages,
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but you can't have Christianity without Jesus.
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And the very heart of the Christian faith is his death upon a cross and his resurrection.
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And the resurrection changes everything.
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The resurrection after his crucifixion changes everything.
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So when I say these things about this demonstrates God's love,
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it's not just like me talking about Santa Claus or the Easter bunny or the great pumpkin,
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if you're like the peanuts.
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This actually something that happened like in history.
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I was just listening to an interview with Molly Werther a little while ago.
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She teaches at an elite university in the States and she writes for elite publications like the Atlantic
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and the New York or the New York Times.
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And she's, I think she's in her mid to late forties.
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She became a Christian just a couple of years ago as an adult.
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And, and she's a history professor.
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And one of the things is that she got challenged about this.
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She's actually, believe it or not, her specialization was the history of Christianity.
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And she got confronted by a guy who said, you know, you're a professor,
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an expert in the history of Christianity,
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but you've never actually studied the origin of Christianity
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in this central Christian belief that Jesus died on a cross and rose from the dead.
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She ended up being convicted by it.
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And so she looked into it and as, as she was sharing the interview,
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one of the things is that it shocked her.
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It shocked her for how much evidence there was that he actually rose from the dead.
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Like it shocked her.
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It's not compelling evidence that you can't, you can look at it,
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not come up with any other explanation,
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but it was just very, very shockingly strong.
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And she began, as she says, from an atheistic perspective,
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just looking at the historical documents,
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giving them no credence as to having any type of special value
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or holy significance whatsoever.
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And that was part, of course, of her whole becoming a Christian.
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But the point is that when they say here that Christ died for us,
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that we're talking about this way that what Christians understand
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is that when Jesus died on the cross,
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he died in our place, in our stead.
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And he died knowing that people did not care about God.
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He knew there are weaknesses.
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He knew our rebellion.
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And in a moment, we're going to see another image of being reconciled.
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We didn't want to reconcile with God.
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And God, knowing all of this, God, the Son of God,
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took into himself our human nature,
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and Jesus actually died on the cross.
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You see, here's the thing.
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You can never do anything to make God love you more.
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I'll say that again.
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You can never do anything to make God love you more.
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Because God is love.
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He is love.
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I'll say it again.
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You can never do anything to make God love you more.
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Because God is love.
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He is love.
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He doesn't have love.
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He's not loving.
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I mean, he is loving, but he's loving because he is love.
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And you don't have to, you can't say love itself.
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It's love himself.
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That's who he is.
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Now, some might hear this and say, well, George, I'm not.
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So you're saying that you put your faith in Christ
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and somehow you're made right with God.
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And George, okay, George, I'm not entirely like you.
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You know, George, I'm actually way weaker than you are, maybe.
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That's why maybe I'm not a Christian and you can be.
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And you know what?
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I'm actually way more uninterested in religious and spiritual things than you are.
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And I actually, I can really screw up relationships.
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And I'm sure that given how good I am at screwing up relationships,
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that if I was to actually see God, I'd screw up that relationship as well.
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And I'm definitely, you said something about reconciliation,
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and I definitely am not good at reconciling.
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So I don't know if things like this are for me.
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And the next part is just so unbelievably beautiful and precious.
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Look what it says next.
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It's as if God, and not as if he does, in fact,
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anticipate those problems that we have.
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And he says in verse 9, the Bible says in verse 9,
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since therefore, look at the double therefores,
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since, since, therefore, therefore.
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Sorry, I chuckle over things like that.
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And therefore, therefore, since, since, we have now been justified by his blood,
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that is, by his death, much more shall we be saved by him from the wrath of God.
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And I'm not going to go over the wrath of God at great length.
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But what this text is saying is this.
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It's mainly what we were talking about last week,
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and just sort of, you know, the Bible isn't, the Bible,
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Romans says that the gospel is,
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for I'm not ashamed of the gospel,
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for it is the power of God for salvation for everyone who believes.
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The gospel is a proclamation.
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It's news.
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And in this news is this idea that God has done something in this,
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in the mystery of what his son has done upon,
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by his death upon the cross.
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There's been something profound that God has done for human beings
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that we cannot do for ourselves because we are weak,
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because our connection with God is at best intermittent,
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and our concern about what God thinks is at best intermittent.
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And we actually, completely and utterly incompetent,
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incompetent at actually even being reconciled to God.
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And in that whole situation,
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God does something for us that we can't do for ourselves.
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And he does it with his son's life upon earth,
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and then his death upon the cross, and his resurrection.
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And when I trust, take God at his word,
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when I trust what God has said that he's done in his son,
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and what Jesus said he was accomplishing,
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I take him at his word, and I believe it and trust into that,
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I enter into union with him.
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And in union with him, then these profound benefits come to me,
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which I'll talk about two of them in a moment.
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But then it's as if, you know, it's like receiving Christ is a little bit,
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like I shared about last week,
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like receiving a coin of infinite value.
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And in that coin, one side of it said,
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made right with God, and the other side says justified.
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And what do those two things mean?
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The first thing means that you're literally made right with God.
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It's right, you're right.
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You're in Christ, it's right with me.
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And justified is this other aspect of a,
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it's almost like a formal public declaration
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and guarantee from all eternity.
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I declare that George, who has put his faith and trust
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into the Lord Jesus Christ, is right with me,
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and right with the created order,
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and right with eternity from this time on,
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from his entire life into all eternity.
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I proclaim it.
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It's guaranteed by me.
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I have done it.
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Christ has done it.
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It is guaranteed.
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And it would be as if the day that I put my faith in Christ,
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there was a billboard put in heaven
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that God says on that billboard,
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today, George put his faith and trust
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in the Lord Jesus Christ.
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He is right with me.
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I guarantee it for all eternity.
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I guarantee it.
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And when I get to the new heaven and the new earth,
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maybe I will see that billboard,
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and we can all go around,
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and I can go with Daniels.
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Hey, Daniel, there's yours.
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And there, Daniel, sorry, lots of Daniels.
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There's yours, you know?
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Marshall, Beth, there's yours.
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That's what justified means.
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That's what Christ accomplished for you and me
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when he died on the cross.
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And so, you see, it's not a matter of then,
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he did that, and look what it says again, right?
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It's saying that, you know,
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listen to verses 6 through 9 again.
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For while we were still weak,
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God knew we, Christ knew we were weak,
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and he died for us.
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He died for the ungodly.
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He knew I was ungodly when he died for me.
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And then, you know, it says,
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somebody will scarcely die for a righteous person
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through perhaps for a good person
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one would dare even to die.
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You know, why is it that a parent
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would be very different with their own child
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than it would be for just that same parent
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with the random stranger going by?
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They love their child.
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They love their child.
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No way would they not die for their child
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if it was a matter of their child gets to live if I die.
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Yes, absolutely.
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It's pointing to this profound love
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that God has for us.
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But God shows his love for us,
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demonstrates it,
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that while we were still sinners,
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ungodly and weak,
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Christ died for us.
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Since therefore we have now been justified
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by his blood,
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much more will be saved
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from the wrath of God from him.
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And I'll explain what that means in a moment
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when you look at verse 10.
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Like, why death?
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Why death?
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Why was death required?
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Well, let's look at verse 10.
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Notice it begins with the word for.
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For if while we were enemies,
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here's another thing,
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I'm weak,
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I'm godly,
-
a sinner,
-
an enemy.
-
Sorry, just a joke, right?
-
God, why don't you tell us
-
what you really think?
-
You know,
-
he does, right?
-
Enemies,
-
read again,
-
for if while we were enemies,
-
we were reconciled to God
-
by the death of his son,
-
much more,
-
now that we are reconciled,
-
shall we be saved by his life.
-
More than that,
-
we also rejoice in God
-
through our Lord Jesus Christ,
-
through whom we have now
-
received reconciliation.
-
Go back to verse 10.
-
For if while we were enemies,
-
we were reconciled to God
-
by the death of his son.
-
You know,
-
one of the things which is unique,
-
another thing which is unique
-
amongst,
-
of Christianity,
-
amongst all of the world's religions,
-
is none of the other world's religions
-
care about you being reconciled to God.
-
Quran does not teach
-
that God is,
-
that Allah is concerned
-
with being reconciled to you.
-
You being reconciled to him.
-
Because he's not,
-
doesn't desire a relationship with you.
-
You were created in a sense
-
to be a slave.
-
All the pagan religions,
-
you're fundamentally created
-
to be a slave
-
to the ancestors or the gods.
-
And then of course,
-
at the end as well,
-
in the Eastern religions,
-
in their governing myths,
-
the fact that human beings
-
exist at all
-
is a tragedy.
-
And you end up
-
just being merged with the all.
-
There's no reconciliation.
-
Reconciliation requires others
-
and assumes relationships and love.
-
It's a completely,
-
massively unusual idea.
-
And I think that explains
-
why we human beings
-
not only long
-
at our deepest levels
-
for reconciliation with God,
-
but long to be reconciled
-
with others.
-
So why this image?
-
Well here,
-
consider this example.
-
I decide to be a good guy one day.
-
I have an extra car
-
and so I lend it to one of you.
-
And because you're really stuck,
-
you really need to get to Toronto,
-
let's say,
-
and get back.
-
And you're really stuck
-
for some money
-
and I say,
-
here,
-
you can borrow my car
-
and here,
-
I'll lend you my credit card
-
so you can get some gas
-
and get some meal.
-
And you know,
-
the implication is
-
you'll give me the car back
-
and you'll give me the,
-
you'll pay me back later on,
-
right?
-
Maybe I'll cut it off
-
a little bit
-
because I,
-
you know,
-
I want to be a good guy
-
and all that.
-
But you know,
-
I'm generous.
-
Here's the credit card.
-
Here's the car.
-
And you take it
-
and you keep it
-
and you keep it
-
and you keep it
-
and you wreck it
-
and you make it all
-
completely and utterly filthy
-
inside and bang it up
-
and you get a whole pile
-
of traffic tickets
-
which are all going to be
-
in my name,
-
not yours.
-
And you rack up
-
a whole pile of credit card debt
-
almost immediately
-
before I can find out
-
what's going on
-
and you refuse to give
-
the car back.
-
You refuse to give me
-
the credit card back.
-
You bad mouth me publicly
-
for even suggesting it
-
and you lie about me
-
and you slander me
-
and then you claim
-
that in fact,
-
it's all your,
-
all my fault,
-
not their fault
-
and that in fact,
-
the debt really is theirs
-
and
-
well,
-
that would be
-
a terrible situation.
-
You could change it.
-
You,
-
you let a,
-
you know,
-
you,
-
you let a person
-
borrow your cottage
-
or your house.
-
Same type of idea
-
and they just wreck it
-
and tell everybody
-
it's theirs
-
and bad mouth you
-
and obviously
-
you want some type of,
-
you want them out
-
and let's say
-
you eventually get them out
-
but you're still stuck
-
with all those debts
-
and the wrecked cars
-
and everything else
-
and then they come
-
and they say
-
they want to be reconciled
-
to you.
-
Now let's just be honest,
-
most of us probably
-
don't love them enough
-
or love enough
-
that we want to ever
-
see them again
-
for the rest of our lives
-
unless it's to hear
-
that they're behind bars
-
in jail
-
and we just go to the jail
-
just to take one picture
-
of them behind the bars
-
and we keep it
-
as our front page
-
on our phone.
-
Now I'm probably vastly
-
more wicked
-
than all of you
-
but let's say
-
actually you decided
-
out of love
-
you did want to have
-
reconciliation happen
-
with them.
-
Well how on earth
-
is that going to work?
-
So what has to happen
-
in reconciliation?
-
Well in reconciliation
-
first of all
-
the person who's done
-
all those wrong things
-
to you has to actually
-
want to reconcile.
-
The second thing is
-
they have to acknowledge
-
and confess
-
that they've done
-
all of these terribly
-
wrong things
-
and you're not going
-
to just let them go
-
and say yeah yeah
-
a little bit uncareful
-
with money.
-
No no no no no
-
you weren't just
-
a little bit uncareful
-
with money.
-
You need to confess
-
the things that you
-
actually did
-
and as well as that
-
in some cases
-
you say and you have
-
to take the punishment.
-
You have to go
-
and say I'm not
-
going to have
-
my drivers
-
I'm not going
-
to have my
-
you know things
-
suspended
-
or my insurance
-
thing
-
it has yours
-
done
-
you have to
-
take those things
-
on yourself
-
you have to be
-
something
-
and you have to
-
make some type
-
of restitution
-
you have to pay
-
back some of the
-
some of the things
-
or all of the things
-
and you have to
-
desire to live
-
differently
-
and it's not
-
just a matter
-
of desiring
-
to live differently
-
you actually have
-
to accomplish
-
living differently.
-
everything that exists
-
comes from God
-
we are the ones
-
who have trashed
-
his car
-
ridden up debt
-
bad mouthed him
-
ignored him
-
and now
-
we come to God
-
and say we want
-
to be reconciled
-
to him
-
as Jordan Peterson
-
would say
-
good luck
-
with that
-
how could you
-
do that
-
so the first thing
-
you'll see
-
that in this
-
particular illustration
-
with being
-
reconciled to God
-
it doesn't mean
-
that God has done
-
wrong things to us
-
and he needs to
-
be reconciled to us
-
there has never
-
been a time
-
in your life
-
that you have
-
been unloved
-
by God
-
God is love
-
and there is
-
nothing you can do
-
to make God
-
love you more
-
there is nothing
-
that God has
-
to repent of
-
or confess
-
or amend
-
he cannot change
-
himself
-
he's only good
-
goodness itself
-
beauty itself
-
truth and justice
-
there is nothing
-
that he has to do
-
it all has to
-
come from me
-
and to be honest
-
I'm too weak
-
to do any of
-
those things
-
and my heart
-
is way too
-
intermittent
-
to ever actually
-
really believe
-
I could accomplish
-
a new way of living
-
and there is no way
-
I could ever pay
-
that debt back
-
you see
-
in forgiveness
-
let's say I was
-
to forgive the person
-
just off the bat
-
in that particular
-
with the car example
-
somebody still has
-
to pay for the debt
-
if I actually
-
forgive them
-
I can only
-
forgive them
-
and they don't
-
have any money
-
if I pay the debt
-
that's what
-
forgiveness is
-
and in a sense
-
what the Bible
-
is saying
-
the debt
-
of your
-
the things
-
that you've done
-
wrong and
-
failed to do
-
right is so
-
great
-
that if it was
-
to be made
-
public
-
every single
-
little detail
-
it would mean
-
it would crush
-
you
-
you would die
-
but Jesus
-
was the one
-
who died
-
in my place
-
he paid
-
my debt
-
the punishment
-
that I deserved
-
was laid
-
on him
-
the debt
-
I could not
-
pay
-
he paid
-
by his
-
debt
-
and this is
-
some of this
-
I get from
-
a very brilliant
-
essay by C.S. Lewis
-
in Mere Christianity
-
called The Perfect Penitent
-
written I think
-
in 1942
-
you see
-
when I put
-
my faith
-
and trust
-
into Christ
-
it's not just
-
that he
-
in a sense
-
pays the sin
-
and the price
-
that I have to do
-
that I can't do
-
for myself
-
he is
-
the perfect
-
penitent
-
that I need
-
to be reconciled
-
to God
-
he desires
-
that
-
he had that
-
desire
-
to be with
-
his father
-
and he was
-
always with
-
the father
-
he never
-
did anything
-
wrong
-
he pays
-
the debt
-
he is
-
the one
-
who lived
-
the life
-
that I needed
-
to live
-
and could
-
not live
-
he is
-
the perfect
-
penitent
-
I need
-
to go
-
from being
-
God's
-
enemy
-
to his
-
friend
-
for all
-
eternity
-
and there
-
is no
-
other
-
and my
-
faith
-
and trust
-
into him
-
is my
-
faith
-
and trust
-
into him
-
as that
-
penitent
-
that I need
-
to be
-
reconciled
-
to God
-
and there
-
is no
-
other
-
and there
-
is no
-
greater
-
love
-
than what
-
Christ
-
has done
-
for us
-
by dying
-
on the
-
cross
-
notice
-
at verse
-
11
-
it's why
-
it says
-
that more
-
than that
-
we also
-
rejoice
-
in God
-
through our
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
Christ
-
through whom
-
we have
-
now
-
received
-
reconciliation
-
just three
-
things
-
very briefly
-
in closing
-
the first
-
thing there
-
is we
-
rejoice
-
there's a
-
verb
-
there
-
for rejoice
-
and the
-
question
-
always
-
is what
-
is God
-
actually
-
asking
-
us
-
to do
-
and what
-
he's
-
not
-
asking
-
us
-
to do
-
is to
-
feel
-
joyful
-
what
-
he's
-
actually
-
asking
-
us
-
to do
-
is something
-
very
-
different
-
you see
-
it's
-
going
-
to involve
-
joy
-
but if
-
it's
-
just
-
actually
-
trying
-
to make
-
ourselves
-
feel
-
joyful
-
that's
-
not
-
going
-
to
-
work
-
what
-
it
-
actually
-
is
-
always
-
asking
-
us
-
to do
-
is to
-
boast
-
and exult
-
in God
-
to remember
-
to say
-
before God
-
in those
-
times when
-
we are
-
very
-
very
-
broken
-
and also
-
in the
-
times
-
when we're
-
very
-
very
-
successful
-
when
-
I'm
-
very
-
very
-
successful
-
I need
-
to say
-
all things
-
come of
-
you
-
God
-
and of
-
your
-
own
-
have
-
I
-
given
-
back
-
and when
-
I am
-
very
-
very
-
broken
-
I have
-
to say
-
God
-
I am
-
so
-
weak
-
I am
-
so glad
-
that when
-
I am
-
weak
-
Jesus
-
died
-
for me
-
on the
-
cross
-
I am
-
so glad
-
that even
-
though I
-
have had
-
a week
-
of
-
being
-
really
-
really
-
really
-
a
-
terrible
-
Christian
-
I am
-
so glad
-
that you
-
knew
-
that
-
and Jesus
-
died
-
on the
-
cross
-
for me
-
and
-
Father
-
when I
-
have
-
done
-
things
-
even
-
in
-
defiance
-
of you
-
things
-
that are
-
morally
-
wrong
-
not
-
just
-
indifferent
-
but morally
-
wrong
-
I am
-
so glad
-
that Jesus
-
knew that
-
and died
-
on the
-
cross
-
for me
-
and I'm
-
so glad
-
Father
-
that when
-
I've
-
talked
-
to people
-
not as
-
if I'm
-
a Christian
-
but really
-
as if
-
I'm
-
your
-
enemy
-
because
-
of the
-
cruel
-
things
-
that I
-
have
-
said
-
I
-
am
-
Father
-
thank
-
you
-
that
-
Jesus
-
died
-
for me
-
on the
-
cross
-
and
-
rejoicing
-
is
-
all
-
about
-
exalting
-
and
-
glorying
-
in
-
who
-
God
-
is
-
and
-
what
-
he
-
did
-
for
-
me
-
in
-
the
-
cross
-
and
-
when
-
you
-
do
-
that
-
sometimes
-
joy
-
is a
-
byproduct
-
of it
-
and that's
-
why it's
-
called
-
rejoicing
-
not that
-
you try
-
to psychologically
-
manipulate
-
yourself
-
do you
-
feel
-
joy
-
but you
-
think
-
of
-
Christ
-
and
-
what
-
he
-
has
-
done
-
this
-
is
-
part
-
of
-
what
-
it
-
means
-
to
-
preach
-
the
-
gospel
-
to
-
yourself
-
because
-
it's
-
this
-
rejoicing
-
is
-
something
-
that
-
you
-
can
-
say
-
in
-
your
-
own
-
!
-
self
-
talk
-
in
-
your
-
prayers
-
and
-
one
-
of
-
the
-
things
-
we
-
get
-
to
-
do
-
is
-
to
-
come
-
together
-
on
-
a
-
Sunday
-
morning
-
and
-
remember
-
it
-
at
-
the
-
Lord's
-
table
-
we
-
remember
-
that
-
Christ
-
knowing
-
that
-
his
-
disciples
-
were
-
going
-
to
-
flee
-
knowing
-
that
-
Judas
-
was
-
betraying
-
him
-
knowing
-
that
-
he
-
would
-
have
-
to
-
drink
-
the
-
cup
-
of
-
God's
-
wrath
-
and
-
our
-
sins
-
and
-
knowing
-
that
-
he
-
would
-
die
-
on
-
the
-
cross
-
he
-
institutes
-
a
-
new
-
as
-
these
-
truths
-
of
-
the
-
gospel
-
become
-
more
-
real
-
to
-
our
-
heart
-
that
-
that
-
person
-
says
-
about
-
George
-
yeah
-
you know
-
whatever
-
yeah
-
whatever
-
yeah
-
whatever
-
whoa
-
that
-
really
-
stung
-
as
-
truths
-
like
-
this
-
become
-
more
-
real
-
to
-
our
-
heart
-
and
-
we
-
preach
-
the
-
gospel
-
to
-
ourselves
-
remembering
-
what
-
Christ
-
has
-
done
-
for
-
us
-
on
-
the
-
cross
-
I
-
can
-
hear
-
that
-
criticism
-
and
-
say
-
that's
-
true
-
and
-
boy
-
they
-
don't
-
even
-
the
-
half
-
of
-
it
-
I'm
-
actually
-
way
-
worse
-
than
-
that
-
I'm
-
actually
-
way
-
worse
-
than
-
that
-
I
-
am
-
just
-
so
-
grateful
-
that
-
Christ
-
died
-
for
-
me
-
knowing
-
all
-
of
-
that
-
and
-
you
-
see
-
it
-
starts
-
to
-
create
-
an
-
emotionally
-
and
-
effectively
-
and
-
intellectually
-
secure
-
place
-
for you
-
to hear
-
such
-
criticisms
-
and
-
to
-
acknowledge
-
them
-
and to
-
repent
-
and to
-
deal
-
with
-
them
-
because
-
once
-
again
-
there
-
has
-
never
-
been
-
a
-
time
-
in
-
your
-
life
-
that
-
you
-
have
-
been
-
unloved
-
by
-
God
-
and
-
God
-
shows
-
his
-
love
-
and
-
demonstrates
-
and
-
proves
-
it
-
by
-
Jesus
-
death
-
upon
-
the
-
cross
-
and
-
he
-
did
-
it
-
when
-
you
-
were
-
sick
-
when
-
you
-
were
-
weak
-
when
-
you
-
were
-
sinful
-
and
-
finally
-
as
-
this
-
truth
-
of
-
God
-
doing
-
all
-
that's
-
required
-
to
-
reconcile
-
me
-
to
-
him
-
as
-
that
-
becomes
-
more
-
real
-
to
-
and
-
a
-
place
-
upon
-
which
-
you
-
stand
-
and
-
you
-
can
-
look
-
at
-
your
-
own
-
life
-
it
-
starts
-
to
-
form
-
you
-
to
-
desire
-
reconciliation
-
and
-
that
-
means
-
maybe
-
to
-
be
-
willing
-
to
-
extend
-
it
-
to
-
the
-
person
-
who's
-
profoundly
-
wronged
-
you
-
and
-
being
-
willing
-
to
-
extend
-
it
-
because
-
it's
-
important
-
and
-
it
-
also
-
is
-
the
-
place
-
by
-
which
-
when
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you
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realize
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that
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you're
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the
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one
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who's
-
mainly
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done
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the
-
wrong
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that
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there's
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a
-
and
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you
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need
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to
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deal
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with
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it
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the
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story
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isn't
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just
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a
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story
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it's
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true
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it's
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true
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in
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eternity
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it's
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transcendent
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it's
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true
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in
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history
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it is
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deeply
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deeply
-
deeply
-
deeply
-
true
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and
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as
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it
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becomes
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more
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deeply
-
true
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to
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your
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heart
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it
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forms
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you
-
it
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forms
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you
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in a
-
way
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that
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you
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want
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to
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be
-
formed
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don't
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you
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don't
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you
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want
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to
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be
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one
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who's
-
!
-
able
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to
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deal
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with
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the
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crap
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in
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your
-
life
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don't
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you
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want
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to
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be
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one
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who's
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willing
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to
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extend
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the
-
olive
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branch
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the
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other
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direction
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don't
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you
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want
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to
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be
-
emotionally
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and
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spiritually
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secure
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enough
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to
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have
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that
-
be
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what
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characterizes
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you
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that
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you
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can
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be
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humble
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and
-
grounded
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in
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times
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of
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huge
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success
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and
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that
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you
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can
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stand
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and
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grow
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and
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deal
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with
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things
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when
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you're
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very
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weak
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!
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The
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gospel
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begins
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by
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subverting
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you
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by saying
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these
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things
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about
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you
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but
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it's
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all
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so
-
you
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can
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stand
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and
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grow
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and
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be
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free
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and
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rejoice
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in
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the
-
Lord
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Jesus
-
Christ
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I
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invite
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you
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to
-
stand
-
let's
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bow our heads
-
in prayer
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Father we
-
give you
-
thanks and
-
praise that
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you know
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our
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weakness
-
you know
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our
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lack
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of
-
care
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about
-
you
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you
-
know
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our
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defiance
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of
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you
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you
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know
-
even
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those
-
times
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that
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we
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really
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acted
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like
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enemies
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of
-
you
-
and
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you
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knew
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all
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of
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that
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you
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knew
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every
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single
-
act
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from
-
beginning
-
to
-
end
-
and
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still
-
Jesus
-
came
-
to
-
die
-
for
-
us
-
God
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the
-
Son
-
of
-
God
-
our
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
Christ
-
came
-
to
-
die
-
for
-
us
-
and
-
this
-
really
-
does
-
show
-
that
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you
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are
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the
-
only
-
God
-
of
-
love
-
that
-
you
-
are
-
love
-
that
-
you
-
really
-
do
-
love
-
us
-
you
-
really
-
not
-
just
-
love
-
us
-
in
-
the
-
abstract
-
but
-
that
-
you
-
love
-
me
-
in
-
my
-
concrete
-
particular
-
historical
-
story
-
and
-
that
-
you
-
love
-
each
-
one
-
who
-
is
-
here
-
and
-
hears
-
these
-
words
-
and
-
we
-
ask
-
Father
-
that
-
for
-
those
-
of
-
us
-
who
-
have
-
not
-
yet
-
given
-
their
-
lives
-
to
-
Christ
-
that
-
you
-
will
-
Father
-
Holy
-
Spirit
-
will
-
move
-
in
-
their
-
lives
-
that
-
they
-
might
-
call
-
out
-
even
-
today
-
even
-
now
-
Jesus
-
please
-
be
-
my
-
Savior
-
and
-
my
-
Lord
-
thank
-
you
-
for
-
taking
-
my
-
place
-
and
-
dying
-
on
-
the
-
cross
-
thank
-
you
-
that
-
you
-
want
-
me
-
to
-
be
-
!
-
you
-
!
-
thank
-
you
-
!
-
you
-
are
-
my
-
may
-
the
-
gospel
-
become
-
more
-
and
-
more
-
real
-
to
-
our
-
heart
-
and
-
in
-
times
-
of
-
great
-
triumph
-
and
-
in
-
times
-
of
-
great
-
need
-
and
-
weakness
-
and
-
failure
-
Father
-
may
-
our
-
hearts
-
remember
-
may
-
our
-
mind
-
and
-
our
-
lips
-
recount
-
what
-
you
-
have
-
done
-
for
-
us
-
in
-
the
-
person
-
of
-
your
-
son
-
and
-
that
-
that
-
is
-
now
-
declared
-
in
-
the
-
heavens
-
forever
-
and
-
guaranteed
-
so
-
Father
-
please
-
do
-
this
-
work
-
in
-
!
-
and
-
help
-
us
-
to