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Kingdom Come - Worth the Risk - Jason Paredes

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  1. As you're grabbing your Bible to Matthew 10, we're gonna be in

  2. verse 16. And just those of you who are guests with us, every

  3. Sunday, we have guests joining us online, guests in the room. We

  4. are in a beautiful, long journey through the Gospels. And

  5. we have been over the last several months in the Gospel of Matthew,

  6. chapter by chapter, verse by verse, working our way through. Now,

  7. last week, we ended with Jesus preparing his disciples for their

  8. first ever mission trip. He's about to send them out. I explained

  9. last week that was a hinge point in the Gospel of Matthew, because

  10. up to that moment, Jesus has been doing all the preaching, teaching,

  11. and heal. And now he said, it's your turn. You're gonna go do

  12. the preaching, teaching, and healing. And he commissions them.

  13. He gives them their assignment, and now he's about to

  14. give them a pep talk right before they go. Now, I'm gonna go

  15. ahead and forewarn you. It's the most pessimistic pep talk you've

  16. ever heard in your life. When you read it, you're gonna see what

  17. I'm talking about. But in order to really understand it, you

  18. have to imagine yourself like you're about to go on your first

  19. ever mission trip. Let's just say you're about to travel overseas.

  20. There's a team right now in Southeast Asia. Let's just say you're

  21. about to go on a trip to Southeast Asia, and you're having

  22. your last team meeting, and your trip leader is going to give

  23. you a rah rah speech. And this is the speech he gives you. If you

  24. have that mindset, you'll understand the craziness of what

  25. Jesus just says. Verse 16 of Matthew 10. Here's where it starts.

  26. Behold, I am sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves.

  27. So be wise as serpents and innocent as doves. Beware of men,

  28. for they will deliver you over to courts and flog you in their synagogues,

  29. and you will be dragged before governors and kings for my sake to

  30. bear witness before them and the Gentiles when they deliver you

  31. over. Do not be anxious how you are to speak or what you are

  32. to say. For what you are to say will be given to you in that

  33. hour. For it is not you who speak, but the spirit of your Father

  34. speaking through you. Brother will deliver brother over to death,

  35. and the Father, his child, and children will rise against parents

  36. and have them put to death. And you will be hated by all for

  37. my name's sake. But the one who endures to the end will be saved

  38. when they persecute you in one town, flee to the next. For truly,

  39. I say to you, you will not have gone through all the towns of

  40. Israel before the Son of Man comes. A disciple is not above his

  41. teacher, nor a servant above his master. It is enough for the

  42. disciple to be like his teacher and the servant like his

  43. master. If they've called the master of the house Beelzebul, how

  44. much more will they malign those of his household? Fill the

  45. church you were sent. Could you imagine getting this pep talk

  46. from your troop leader? You're about to go overseas. Oh, by the

  47. way, they're going to hate you and they're going to try to kill

  48. you and they're going to incarcerate you. Good luck. I don't

  49. know about you, but there's some bit of that where I'm going.

  50. Like, I don't know if I want to go on this trip. I don't know

  51. if I want to get on that plane, if this is what's about to

  52. happen. But this is a pep talk Jesus gives them. You kind of like,

  53. why would you do this, Jesus? Well, he's trying to help them see,

  54. it's about to get really nasty out there. There's gonna be a lot

  55. of people who are against you. He says, listen, if they hate me,

  56. they're gonna hate you too. By the way, that's an odd statement

  57. in this particular part of the storyline, because people didn't

  58. really hate Jesus. Yet in this moment, people are awed and enthralled

  59. with Jesus. The Jesus stock is up and to the right at this moment.

  60. He's just preached the Sermon on The Mount, Matthew 5, 6, 7. And

  61. at the end it says, and the crowds were astonished at his teaching

  62. because he taught them as one who had authority and not like their

  63. scribes. They're going, holy cow, this guy's amazing. The Jesus

  64. stock is up. Then chapters eight and nine. He's healing people

  65. right and left, casting out demons, healing lepers, healing the

  66. sick, raising the dead. I mean, everybody wants a peace of

  67. this guy Jesus. What do you mean when people hate you? But Jesus

  68. knew something the disciples didn't know. You saw a little glimpse

  69. of it back in chapter nine when he had healed the mute man and

  70. the Pharisees said, no, we think he's doing this by the prince

  71. of demons. You see, Jesus knew the moment he started to attack the

  72. establishment, that's when it was going to get nasty. That's when

  73. they were going to turn on him. Jesus knew what was coming.

  74. So he's trying to prepare them. Don't get too comfortable.

  75. They might like us now. They're about to turn on us and you

  76. need to be ready for it. And the way to be ready is what he says

  77. in verse 17. He says, Beware of men. Be on the lookout for the

  78. evil of men because there's wickedness in them and they're going

  79. to be coming after you. By the way, that imperative beware is a

  80. present tense. I say this all the time. That means an ongoing thing.

  81. You have to live your life in constant awareness of the danger

  82. of people around you because they are wicked and they're going

  83. to hate me and they're going to hate you. Keep on the alert. He

  84. says there's a side. When you hear this, when you read what Jesus

  85. is teaching, it's like Jesus, almost like you're saying we shouldn't

  86. trust anybody. Verse 17 he says, don't trust the religious leaders.

  87. They're gonna drag you into the synagogues and flog you. Verse

  88. 18 he says, Don't trust your political leaders because they're

  89. gonna drag you before governors and kings and they're gonna

  90. have their way with you. He even says you don't even. Verse 21.

  91. Don't even trust your own family because brothers can turn

  92. against brother, children against parents, parents against

  93. children. You finish, you're like, I don't know if it's safe anywhere.

  94. Who do I even trust at this point? Now I'm just curious. I'm

  95. going to pause for a moment. Have any of you, you don't have to

  96. raise your hand, you don't even have to nod. But have any of

  97. you ever gotten to the point where you feel like, I don't know

  98. if I can trust anybody, where it's just like everybody I was supposed

  99. to depend upon has hurt me, has turned their back on me, has

  100. harmed me. I can't trust the media. I mean, you never know what

  101. kind of angle they're coming from. They're just trying to make

  102. a business, sell a, a story. You can't trust them. Can't trust

  103. our political leaders because you know it's going to be the flip

  104. flop opinion. They're here for us, they're not over here for us.

  105. Or one person's in office and somebody else is in office and who

  106. knows, there's no stability there. Can't even trust religious

  107. leaders. I mean, like, how many pastors right now do you see

  108. falling all over the place? Moral failures right and left? Some

  109. of you go, I don't even know if I Trust you, Jason. You probably

  110. have a reason not to. It's hard. How do we even trust our religious

  111. leaders? We don't trust my friends who were supposed to be there

  112. for me. They stab me in the back and say things about me and

  113. hurt me, and they're not there for me. And I can't even trust them

  114. sometimes. Even my own family, they were supposed to help me, and

  115. they abandoned me or harmed me, and I don't even know what to.

  116. Who do I even trust? Listen, when it comes to that moment in your

  117. life, there's a grave danger of cynicism that'll come inside you,

  118. and cynicism will lead to isolation. I can't trust anybody,

  119. so I'm gonna turn my back on everybody. I'm just gonna be me.

  120. I don't need y' all. Y' all don't need me. I'm just gonna. I'm

  121. just gonna do my own thing. Jesus is saying, beware of men. There's

  122. wickedness in men. But he is not saying, turn your back on men.

  123. There's a balance. In verse 16, I don't know if you noticed it.

  124. He talks about the whole, you're gonna be like sheep among

  125. wolves. And he says, therefore, I want you to be wise

  126. as serpents and as innocent as doves. That's the balance point.

  127. The wisest serpents, I don't know if you know this about serpents,

  128. but they're very shrewd in that they can feel the ground tremble.

  129. And so if somebody is walking toward them or an animal's walking

  130. toward them, they feel it and they scurry away. They're aware of

  131. danger. They're shrewd that way. He's saying, be aware of danger.

  132. There's wickedness all around. You feel the tremble of it and guard

  133. yourself against it. Recognize what's coming against you, but at

  134. the same time, don't lose your hope. People can still be saved.

  135. You know, he talks about being innocent as doves. That's really.

  136. I'm a picture like a childlikeness, you know? The most

  137. innocent people in the world are little children. I think about

  138. Father's Day. I've got a big span of age in my family. My older

  139. kids, they've lived long enough to know that their daddy ain't

  140. perfect. And this is one of the reasons why teenage years are

  141. so hard to parent through, because they start seeing who you

  142. really are. And they recognize, well, you don't have it

  143. all together. And most teenagers go, therefore, I don't

  144. have to listen to you. Anymore. That's the teenage portion

  145. of it. But the little kids, they still think Daddy's perfect.

  146. And I love it for however long. That's why we keep having more

  147. kids. I want little ones who just still want to think Daddy's

  148. perfect. There's an innocence to that. There's still. I still see

  149. good. I still see potential. I still see I love. And Jesus is saying,

  150. I want you to have that innocence about you when you look

  151. at the lost world. Still recognizing, yes, there's wickedness

  152. in them. Be shrewd as serpents, wise as serpents, but also

  153. recognize they bear my image and there's goodness in them and

  154. there's potential for the future. You gotta counterbalance

  155. both of these. Cause if you don't, you're gonna grow weary of

  156. serving the very people you've been sent to serve. You're gonna

  157. start to lose hope. And you're gonna stop praying for them to come

  158. to salvation. Cause you're gonna start to believe they've got

  159. no hope. You're gonna grow weary in sharing Christ with others.

  160. Here's what I want you to know. The same gospel power that

  161. saves a person who is riddled with addiction is the same gospel

  162. power that saves the kid who grew up in church and never had a

  163. big sin in their life. Because all of our sins are wicked. Every

  164. single one of us are so grotesque in our heart that we deserve

  165. eternal damnation. So if God were to save any of us, it's the

  166. greatest miracle of all. But that also means that that serial

  167. killer who repents on death row and makes it into heaven, the

  168. thief on the cross who does nothing but says, remember me when

  169. you come in paradise. It takes the same grace to save them as it

  170. does us. Nobody is beyond the grace of our king. That's what it

  171. means to be innocent as dust. It's still to believe I can go anywhere

  172. and I can share the gospel and I can pray for the lost and. And

  173. there's still hope that some will be saved. Yeah, there's wickedness,

  174. but there's hope. And therefore I don't grow weary. I'm

  175. gonna give you. I'm gonna give you five points. It's more than I

  176. normally give you today. But there's just a lot in here that I

  177. wanna give you. Here's the first one. You may wanna write this

  178. down. Here's what the scripture's teaching. We must learn

  179. how to beware of men without becoming weary of men. That's the

  180. balance point. How do I live that life where I have to beware

  181. of men. There's danger, there's wicked. But I must never

  182. become weary of men thinking there's no hope, not taking the gospel

  183. to them, because there's anything we have in the Gospel of

  184. Jesus Christ, it is hope. Anybody can be saved. Don't stop

  185. sharing with that friend or that family member or that work associate.

  186. Keep sharing, keep believing, because there's hope. But I also

  187. want you to hear this. Even though everybody can be saved, it

  188. definitely does not mean everybody will be saved. Even though

  189. the Gospel has power to save, not everybody's gonna receive the

  190. Gospel. And that also means that many will reject not just the

  191. gospel, but the messenger who brings the gospel. And we gotta be

  192. prepared for it. That's what verse 22 was talking about. I want

  193. you to go back to verse 22. Hard truth he slaps us with right

  194. here. He says in verse 22, and you will be hated by all for my name's

  195. sake. But the one who endures to the end will be saved. You will

  196. be hated by all for my name's sake. He says, go ahead and buckle

  197. up. It's going to get nasty out there. Be ready for it. But he

  198. also says, the one who endures to the end will be saved. Now, I

  199. got to help clear some confusion because it's very simple

  200. to come to the wrong idea in reading that. And what you might

  201. read in there is what Jesus teaching is. If I work really hard,

  202. if I try to keep my face at it, if I just pull myself by the

  203. bootstraps and I work hard to endure, then I'll earn my salvation.

  204. That is not what Jesus is teaching. We do not earn our salvation.

  205. You have the book of Ephesians, chapter 2. Paul says very

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  206. clearly, we're saved by faith in Christ alone, not by our work.

  207. So that we don't boast. It's the work of Christ. We are saved

  208. by grace alone, through faith alone in Christ alone. That's the

  209. message of the gospel. So you can't have that message and then

  210. turn around and say, and now I gotta work really hard to earn my

  211. salvation. It's not what he's saying. Here's what he is saying.

  212. He's saying a genuine faith in Jesus Christ will endure to the end.

  213. And therefore, if you don't endure, you didn't have a genuine

  214. faith to begin with. And here's the reason why. Faith in Christ

  215. overcomes every single area of our life that would cause us to.

  216. To throw in the towel, not to endure. So take their situation,

  217. for example. The Reason why they would not endure would be fear

  218. of men. My brother might hand me over. I might be dragged before

  219. the governors or the kings or the synagogues or my own family.

  220. And I'm scared to death of what's going to happen. Therefore,

  221. I recant my faith because I'm scared of men. And here's what he's

  222. trying to teach us. He's saying, I want you to understand,

  223. faith in God will kill every single bit of your fear of men. You

  224. don't have to be afraid of them. You just gotta trust me. When

  225. you trust me, it drowns out fear. This is exactly why he goes

  226. into where he goes Next in verse 26. So now you've heard this

  227. rah rah speech that he's been given the most pessimistic support

  228. speech ever. But now he's gonna come in a little more positive

  229. and say, you don't actually have to live in fear. Verse 26. So

  230. have no fear of them. For nothing is covered that will not

  231. be revealed or hidden, that will not be known. What I tell you

  232. in the dark, say in the light and what you hear whispered, proclaim

  233. on the housetops. And do not fear those who kill the body, but

  234. cannot kill the soul. Rather, fear him who can destroy both soul

  235. and body. In hell are not two sparrows sold for a penny, and not

  236. one of them will fall to the ground apart from your father, but

  237. even the hairs on your head are all numbered. Fear not, therefore,

  238. for you of more value than many sparrows. Now, I'm going to

  239. stop right there. You just got six verses, and three times in six

  240. verses you hear some form of don't be afraid, don't be afraid.

  241. Have no fear. Fear not. Just over and over, every single time

  242. you hear Jesus say something three times in a quick succession,

  243. he's saying, it's really, really important. Lean in and listen.

  244. Don't be afraid, don't be afraid, don't be afraid. He's saying

  245. you don't have to live in fear of men. Your faith can endure because

  246. when you are in genuine faith of me, it will kill every vestige

  247. of fear of men that might rise up inside you to the highest degree,

  248. even death. He says. Did you notice what he said back in verse

  249. 28? He said, See how and do not fear those who kill the body

  250. but cannot kill the soul. Even if they could kill your body. You

  251. don't have to be afraid of them. Okay, I want to be. I'm going

  252. to be real honest with you. There are times when somebody wants

  253. to kill my body and I'm afraid of them. There's a longer story to

  254. this. I've told parts of it in the past. I'm just gonna give you

  255. the quick version. There was a time when I was just a little outside

  256. of Waco, when I was in school and college and I was in the middle

  257. of nowhere. And I walked up to this dilapidated mobile home and

  258. I knocked on the door because I needed help. And the door flung

  259. open and a person, really crazy looking man, put a shotgun

  260. about two inches from my nose and started screaming at me. Can

  261. I go ahead and tell you? I was afraid for my life in that moment.

  262. Now, I should have remembered the scripture. Don't be afraid, you

  263. know, of somebody who can kill my body, but he could kill my body.

  264. And I was afraid. Had to throw those pantalones away when it was

  265. all said and done. Because it was like every body fear you got

  266. was coming out. Sometimes when people can harm us, our body, whether

  267. we like it or not, it creates fear. I remember I was in Argentina.

  268. I was living overseas and I was in a. Buenos Aires is a massive

  269. city, 15, 16 million people. And there's a part of it called Fuerte

  270. Apache. It means strong Apache Indian. And it was like the Bronx,

  271. but in Buenos Aires. And I was told by so many different people,

  272. never be in Fuerte Apache at night because you probably won't

  273. make out of there alive. So I'd gone over there as a missionary

  274. and I'd ridden the bus. And I'm there at a church service. Let

  275. me go and tell you about church services in Argentina. You

  276. think it's long? Like an hour and a half here it's like a four

  277. hour church service. And so we're. Yeah, praise God, let's do

  278. that. Four hours, I like it. And we were there worshiping and

  279. I could see out the window. I'm like, oh, it's getting dark,

  280. it's getting dark. And it was over. It was dark. I mean, like,

  281. dark, dark. And it was time for me to leave. And I was all by

  282. myself. And I had to make the walk over to the bus station to get

  283. on my bus to head home. And I want you to know, as I'm walking

  284. around, I'm looking at every single movement. I'm like, I'm gonna

  285. die. I know way I'm gonna make it out here. Either return now, King

  286. Jesus, or it's over. Because there's no way I'm gonna. They told

  287. me I'm gonna die. I'm gonna die. Right now, I was afraid of every

  288. movement. And then somebody comes out of the corner and walks

  289. up to me looking as thuggish as you've done ever seen before in

  290. your life. Like tatted up and down, crazy looking. And here it's

  291. over. He's coming and he says to me, quiensto vo y porquesta sa

  292. qui? Which means, who are you? What are you doing here? And I thought,

  293. okay, I don't you want to stab me in the back? The front? What you

  294. want? Can I just go and tell you? In that moment though, Jesus

  295. says, don't be afraid of somebody who can kill your body.

  296. I was afraid of somebody who could kill my body. Now I'll tell

  297. you in a moment what happened. So. So hang in tight right there.

  298. I did survive. Don't worry, I made it. But it was one of those

  299. realizations that Jesus's words here sometimes are hard to

  300. live out. We just got to be honest with that. It's easy to hear.

  301. It's hard to live out. But Jesus is saying, it is possible,

  302. though it may be hard, it is possible. And he tells us how. He

  303. says, let the greater fear drown out the lesser fear. Did you

  304. notice what he said in there? He said, don't fear the ones who

  305. can kill the body. Fear the one who can throw body and soul into

  306. hell. He's saying, listen, there's an earthly body and there

  307. are humans who can kill the earthly body, but only for this life.

  308. And the Bible tells us this life is like a wisp of soil, just

  309. poof. And then it's gone and there's all eternity. But there is

  310. somebody, almighty God, who has power over our eternity. Fear

  311. him. And let the greater fear drown out the lesser fears. Let me

  312. go ahead and give you the next point that I want you to have. Here's

  313. what it is. Fear of God drowns out fear of men. The greater fear

  314. drowns out the lesser fear. By the way, when I say fear of God,

  315. I don't mean tremble. You're scared of God, he might hurt you.

  316. The Bible refers to it as reverence and awe. Fear of God, respect

  317. and awe. The God who holds the universe will drown out the fear

  318. of men. Have you ever noticed that a greater fear drowns out a

  319. lesser fear? I remember this was a while back, but I remember

  320. one of my kids was really freaking out about an upcoming math

  321. test. And I'm not going to tell you which kid it is, because

  322. all my kids are here and they don't like it when I tell stories

  323. about them. So the kid who will not be named was freaking out

  324. about a math test. I'm talking, like, hyperventilating.

  325. Life is over. I'm not gonna make it into college. My whole life

  326. is ruined because I'm gonna fail this math test. And it's over.

  327. Like, just overwhelmed about this upcoming math test, totally

  328. afraid until the tornado sirens went off. And then my brother,

  329. who is like, he always watching the weather, says, you gotta

  330. go ahead and seek cover. And we go, we have to remove everything

  331. for the closet underneath our staircase. And we're all huddled

  332. in there and ducking cover and hearing the rain pelt the window

  333. and the hail and all that. Can I go ahead and tell you the last

  334. thing my daughter was thinking about in that moment was her math

  335. test. She was just thinking, oh, Jesus, let us survive this moment.

  336. The greater fear drowned out the lesser fear. That's how the human

  337. psyche works. And this is what he's telling us. And Jesus is saying,

  338. let the greater fear, fear of God, drown out the lesser fear. Because

  339. when you know who God is, that he is all powerful and you're on

  340. his side, why would you ever fear man? What can they do to you

  341. when God is on your side? Therefore, the most important thing

  342. you can do is make sure that God is on your side and you are on

  343. his side. Which is exactly why he goes into saying, just acknowledge

  344. me before us. Listen to where he goes next. Jesus has a reason

  345. for everything he's telling us. We keep Moving on. Verse 32.

  346. So everyone who acknowledges me before men, I also will acknowledge

  347. before my Father who is in heaven. But whoever denies me before

  348. men, I also will deny before my Father who is in heaven. Do not

  349. think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have

  350. not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man

  351. against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and

  352. a daughter in law against her mother in law. And a person's enemies

  353. will be those of his own household. Whoever loves father or

  354. mother more than me is not worthy of me. And whoever loves son

  355. or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. And whoever does

  356. not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds

  357. this life will lose it. And whoever loses his life for my sake

  358. will find it. So he starts off by saying, if you acknowledge me

  359. before others, I'll acknowledge you before my Father

  360. who's in heaven. My king, the Father, the one who has authority

  361. over all this universe. Just acknowledge me and I'll acknowledge

  362. him. And you got Nothing to fear. I want to go back to that story.

  363. When I was in Fuerte Apache and that guy came up to me and I

  364. thought, he's about to kill me. There was one ace card I had

  365. up my sleeve. So I had been told by a number of people and church

  366. members, if anybody ever comes up to you in this neighborhood and

  367. you feel scared, you just tell them, I'm with Pastor Emilio from

  368. the church just down the corner, the Iglesia Bautista, just

  369. down the corner, the Baptist church. I'm with Pastor Emilio because,

  370. see, Pastor Emilio had been in Fuerte Apache for decades doing ministry.

  371. He had been loving on people. He'd been visiting people in the

  372. hospital. He'd been providing food for hungry families. He'd been

  373. praying over the sick, and they'd seen miracles. He had done

  374. such a ministry. Everybody respected Pastor Emilio. And so when

  375. that guy came up to me and I was scared to death, I'm literally

  376. trembling all over. All I could say is, I'm with Pastor Emilio.

  377. And the guy just said, cuidate means watch yourself, and then let

  378. me go. This is exactly what Jesus is talking about. You don't

  379. have to be afraid of men when they come up to you. Just say, I'm

  380. with Him. I'm with Jesus. I acknowledge him. I'm with him. And

  381. the devil himself has to say, watch yourself. Go on. I can do nothing

  382. to you. That's why we acknowledge Jesus. That's why we

  383. don't have fear. Because we say, I'm with him, I'm with him,

  384. I'm with him. But if we don't acknowledge him, then we'd best be

  385. afraid. Because this world has power over us. We gotta claim Jesus.

  386. But here's the next point I want you to write down. You need

  387. to know this. When we claim Jesus, he claims us, but he claims

  388. all of us. Make sure you understand that. Yeah, you need to

  389. claim Jesus, acknowledge him, call him Lord and Savior. When we

  390. claim Jesus, you know he's going to claim you right back. But

  391. when he claims you, he claims every single bit of you. That's why

  392. Jesus says in this passage, if anyone loves father or mother more

  393. than me, he is not worthy of me. If anyone loves son or daughter,

  394. you can put anything in there. Job, sports, team activity, possession.

  395. More than me, not worthy of me whatsoever. That's an interesting

  396. thing. You might not know this, but in Jewish culture, the

  397. nuclear family was the most important element of all culture.

  398. It was something you never messed with. You don't get in the

  399. way of a family. So rabbis, though, they would make high demands

  400. of their disciples, their apprentices, they would never actually

  401. stand in the way of their own family, a rabbi. That was not their

  402. position because the family was stronger even than the relationship

  403. between rabbi and disciple. And yet Jesus breaks all those rules.

  404. He says, no, actually I demand allegiance. Even above your own family,

  405. Even above spouse, parents, children. There's a reason why. Because

  406. he's no ordinary rabbi. Because He's God in the flesh. And

  407. therefore he deserves our complete and total allegiance. And

  408. if we do not give it to him, then we are not worthy of Him. Fourth

  409. point I want you to write down. We're getting somewhere. Now,

  410. here's what it is. If we do not esteem Jesus above everything,

  411. then we don't actually esteem him at all. If we esteem anything

  412. above Jesus anything at all, we don't actually esteem him at all.

  413. He has to be highest or he's not ours. Jesus is an all or nothing

  414. kind of savior and master. If we esteem anything above him, just

  415. know it, whatever that may be, then we don't actually esteem him

  416. at all. And I want you to know Jesus will test us on this. He will

  417. expose the areas of our life where we do not esteem him as we

  418. should. I've told the longer version of this story before, but

  419. I'm gonna share a shortened version of it because it's pertinent

  420. to this. There was a time in my life where the Father showed me

  421. this. So those of you who've been in the church for a while and

  422. know Pastor Gary, the pastor who was here before me, know Pastor

  423. his story. He shares it often. But there was a time when he had

  424. to go through the hardest of hard. And the Lord allowed one of

  425. his sons to be taken. He was 13 years old. His son was shot and

  426. killed. And he had to endure the hardest of pain imaginable to

  427. a human being. And it was one of the reasons why he could minister

  428. to people like you had never seen before, because he endured the

  429. hardest of heart. And when somebody was suffering and a man

  430. who'd lost their own son said, you're going to make it through.

  431. Trust me, you're going to make you believed him. And so I knew.

  432. This was 11, 12 years ago, when they were first starting to

  433. talk about me becoming the next pastor of this church, I knew

  434. that if I had any hope of shepherding this flock the way Pastor

  435. Gary shepherded this flock, I'd have to go through some hardships.

  436. And one of the greatest fears of my life was that God would take

  437. one of my children. And as we were in the discussion about me potentially

  438. becoming the next pastor of the church, it looked like it was

  439. starting to happen. My daughter anneliese got into some

  440. medicine, and she was being rushed to the hospital, and it looked

  441. like she was going to die, that the medicine was going to take

  442. her that she shouldn't have gotten into. And I went in my backyard

  443. and started screaming, praying to God. But it was not a good prayer.

  444. It was an angry prayer. And it was, I don't want this, Jesus. If

  445. me being the pastor of this church means you're going to take

  446. one of my children, I'm out. I'm not willing. I don't even know

  447. if I want to follow you, if taking my children is one of the

  448. things you would allow. So I'm out. I'm done. Now, by the grace

  449. of God, My daughter Annelise is alive and well. Just got back

  450. from the Houston mission trip. Everybody knows Lulu loves her, but

  451. God was never intending to take her. He was just intending to

  452. expose my heart to me. He was just intending to show me I have

  453. allegiances that are above him. And I had to repent, and I had

  454. to say, jesus, forgive me. I didn't trust you, and I should have.

  455. If we esteem anything our own children above Christ, we don't actually

  456. esteem him at all. He demands full allegiance. This is why he's

  457. given this pep talk to his disciples before he sends them out

  458. on their first mission trip. It's gonna be really hard out there.

  459. You're gonna want to turn your back on me. But I need you to know,

  460. if you don't esteem me above even your own world, your own life,

  461. you, can't even be my disciple. It's a hard call for us.

  462. This is why he talks about, take your cross. If anyone's not

  463. willing to take his cross and follow me, he's not worthy of me.

  464. You know, it's interesting that he would mention the cross this

  465. early in the story. We hear him say, take up your cross, and

  466. we go, yeah, that makes sense, because, you know, he died on the

  467. cross. Well, at this point in the story, he was still years away

  468. from the cross. In fact, there are some scholars who would say they

  469. didn't think Jesus actually said this, because there's no way

  470. he would have talked about the cross this early. It must have been

  471. something Matthew added later, because he mentions the cross so

  472. early in the ministry, to which I think is a bunch of hogwash.

  473. Everybody knew what the cross was back then because they were all

  474. oppressed by the Romans. The Romans loved to show their power

  475. through crucifixion. In fact, if you ever visited Jerusalem, at

  476. least on a weekly basis, you saw crucifixions. And they were very

  477. cruel in how they did it. And one of the things they would do every

  478. time they crucified somebody is they would force him to carry

  479. the cross beam through town on his way to crucifixion. That's what

  480. it means to carry your cross. It's the march of death, as you're

  481. carrying the cross beam on your way over to be crucified. And

  482. it was to show the whole city, don't you mess with Rome. That march

  483. of death is what Jesus is talking about. If you're not willing

  484. to carry the cross beam in front of everybody on your way to

  485. death, then you're not worthy of me. If you're not willing to give

  486. up everything for me, if you esteem even your own life above me,

  487. you're not worthy of me. Persecutions may come, hardship may

  488. come, death may come, but I want you to follow me anyway. He

  489. says, I gotta be real with you. There's some of you right now

  490. going, look, I didn't know if I wanted to follow Jesus or not,

  491. but now I definitely don't want to follow Jesus. Why would anybody

  492. want to follow a guy who says, yeah, I want to go ahead and let

  493. you be hated and persecuted and beat up and maybe even killed

  494. for my sake. Why? Why would anybody do this? There is an answer.

  495. It's because it's worth it. Following Jesus is worth it. This

  496. is why, when Jesus finishes this pep talk, he finishes by telling

  497. them about the reward. The last few verses, you're going to

  498. hear him say three times again the word reward. Let's finish up

  499. the Matthew passage, chapter 10, verses 40 to 42. He says, Whoever

  500. receives you receives me, and whoever receives me receives him

  501. who sent me. The one who receives a prophet because he is

  502. a prophet will receive a prophet's reward. And the one who

  503. receives a righteous person, because he is a righteous person

  504. will receive a righteous person's reward. And whoever gives

  505. one of these little ones even a cup of cold water because he is

  506. a disciple, truly I say to you, he. He will by no means lose

  507. his reward. Reward. Reward. Reward. Three times. Remember I told

  508. you, when he says something three times, you listen. He wanted

  509. to end his talk on the reminder that it's going to be hard,

  510. it's going to get nasty, but it's going to be absolutely worth

  511. it. Those three different levels he's saying the prophet's

  512. reward. If you receive a prophet, you'll receive a prophet's

  513. reward. What is that? It's the life that comes with receiving the

  514. message of that prophet. That prophet delivers truth to you, and

  515. when you live according to his truth, you experience the blessings

  516. of that. Well, what's the reward of a righteous man? Well,

  517. that's the message of the whole gospel. That we were unrighteous

  518. and deserve the wrath of hell. But Jesus Christ was righteous. When

  519. we receive a righteous man, we get his righteousness imputed upon

  520. us. Well, what about the cup of cold water? Well, here's what

  521. it's saying. He's saying, if you do the smallest, the least act

  522. of help for my mission, I'll bless you beyond what you could imagine.

  523. I don't know if you know this, but in ancient Israel, if you've

  524. ever been to Israel, Palestine area, even into Jordan, it's a very

  525. arid, dry place, very little natural water. So the most basic

  526. base level of hospitality everybody was expected to give was

  527. to give a cup of cold water to somebody who was going by like that's

  528. almost like a no brainer, you have to do that. And he's saying,

  529. even if you do the smallest act of mercy toward those who are

  530. about my mission, I will give you an incredible reward. He doesn't

  531. miss a thing we sacrifice for him. A thing we give. It is eternally

  532. worth it. I want you to flip over. We're going to finish up passage

  533. in Mark chapter 10, verses 29 and 30. And I want you to listen

    Mark 10:29

  534. to how Jesus talks about the reward. Mark 10:29, Jesus said, Truly

    Mark 10:29

  535. I say to you, there is no one who has left house or brothers or

  536. sisters or mother or father or children or lands for my sake and

  537. for the gospel, who will not receive a hundredfold now and this

  538. time, houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children

  539. and lands with persecutions and in the age to come, eternal life.

  540. He says, yeah, I may ask you to give up some things, but it's

  541. gonna be worth it. It's gonna be worth it. He says, even in this

  542. life, it's gonna be worth it. Now when he says, I'm gonna give

  543. you lands and mother, sister, brother and all that. This is not

  544. a health, wealth, prosperity, you get whatever you want. What this

  545. is is him saying, you get the church, you have a family, you have

  546. brothers and sisters all over the world, spiritual mothers and

  547. fathers. Whatever the church owns, you own it because you're now

  548. one of the recipients of my inheritance. But most importantly,

  549. you get eternal life. The reward will never cease. Fifth, last

  550. point. I want you to hear. The cost of following Jesus is high,

  551. but the reward is infinitely higher. The reward never stops. Infinitely

  552. higher. Why do you go on the mission? Because it will be worth

  553. it for all eternity. The question is, do you have enough faith

  554. to actually believe it? I'm going to be real honest with you.

  555. Christianity is hard. Following Jesus is hard. If it's

  556. not, then you're not following Jesus. There are far too many preachers

  557. out there, and they drive me loony. I want to scream when I hear

  558. them say that following Jesus will make your life so much easier

  559. and so much better. Because that is not the message King Jesus

  560. taught. He said, you're gonna have persecutions, suffering and

  561. hardship. People are gonna hate you because everybody's swimming

  562. one direction. I want you to swim the other. Things are gonna

  563. happen that you can't quite explain. You're just gonna have to

  564. trust me. It's really hard, but it's worth it. Jesus himself

  565. already taught in the Sermon on the Mount. You know, the gate

  566. is wide and the way is easy. That leads to destruction. And those

  567. who enter by it are many, but the gate is narrow and the way is

  568. hard. That leads to life, and those who find it are few. It's hard,

  569. but it's worth it. Will you trust him that it's worth it? I believe

  570. the Lord is calling us to do some hard things this morning. In

  571. fact, there are three different ways that I think the Lord

  572. is calling us to do something hard. And many of you will need to

  573. respond in one of these three ways. And the only way you're going

  574. to respond is if you believe in Christ. It's going to be worth

  575. it. Here's the first way. I believe there are some of you who

  576. need to do the hard work of repentance this morning. I believe

  577. there are some of you. And as you look at your life and the teaching

  578. Jesus just gave, you've realized that you had an opportunity

  579. to acknowledge Jesus in front of other people and you shrunk back

  580. and you didn't. Maybe it was a friend. Maybe it was somebody you

  581. met at the store. Maybe it was a family member. And you had the

  582. opportunity to talk about Jesus, but you were afraid of what

  583. they would think about you or how they might respond, and you shrunk

  584. back. You were denying him in that moment. And maybe you need to

  585. repent. Jesus says, take it real seriously. Maybe you need to

  586. come down, just bow down and say, forgive me. Maybe. Maybe everybody

  587. was going One direction. And you knew to be a follower of Christ

  588. meant you weren't supposed to drink that drink, wash that thing,

  589. go to that party, do that thing, whatever, make that decision,

  590. tell that lie. But everybody else was doing it, and you just went

  591. with it. Maybe you need to say, oh, God, forgive me. I was supposed

  592. to live different in the world and I didn't esteem you enough to

  593. do it. Maybe there is something that you love more than

  594. Jesus and you need to confess it. I had to get on my knees and

  595. I had to confess to the Lord over and over again whenever I realized

  596. there was something I had affection for greater than Jesus.

  597. Maybe you need to do that. Maybe the Lord is revealing to you

  598. that you love someone or something else more than Jesus. And

  599. you come down here and just bow down and say, forgive me. It's

  600. hard. People might see you bowing down, going, oh, no, that

  601. person's got some problems. And you're saying, I don't care because

  602. the reward is worth it. The lifting of that weight upon me is

  603. worth it. Being in a right relationship with my Father is worth

  604. it. There's a second way. The second hard thing you might need

  605. to do. You might need to come forward and receive prayer for something

  606. going on. Our Father cares for you. He talked about caring about

  607. even the hair on our head, every single one of them numbered.

  608. And if you don't have hair up top, armpit hair somewhere, he knows

  609. every single one of your hairs. He's got it covered. He knows

  610. you. And if he cares about the least important things of all, he

  611. cares about what's going on in your life. But every once in a while,

  612. it can look like God doesn't care. I bet you when those disciples

  613. are being persecuted and being roughed up and being drugged before

  614. kings and governors, it didn't feel like God cared. And he said,

  615. I want you to have faith and still trust me. Maybe some of you

  616. have been praying for something for a long time and the

  617. Father hadn't done anything yet, and you're starting to lose

  618. hope. You're starting to get cynical. Maybe you don't want to

  619. pray because you don't want to open yourself up to disappointment.

  620. What if God doesn't do it? What if. What if it doesn't work

  621. out? I don't know if my faith can handle it. I don't know if I

  622. want to pray. Or maybe my issue just doesn't matter to him.

  623. Sometimes it's hard to slip down and come forward. But you might

  624. need to say it's a hard thing. But it's worth it if my father will

  625. answer. I'm going to keep asking, keep trusting. So if you

  626. need to, in a moment, I'm going to invite you to come. The

  627. last one, the most important one of all. I believe there are some

  628. of you and you need to take seriously what he said. If you acknowledge

  629. me before men, I will acknowledge you before the Father.

  630. This baptistry is on stage because it is the first step of acknowledging

  631. Jesus. When you get baptized, you are acknowledging you are dead

  632. and buried in Christ Jesus. And when you come out of the water,

  633. you are acknowledging you are resurrected in Christ Jesus and he's

  634. now Lord and master of your life. And you need to acknowledge

  635. him here. I just know there are some people. You have been hearing

  636. the gospel. I hear it all the time. And they go, I just don't know

  637. if I'm ready for it yet. I mean, I believe the message is true,

  638. but I'm not ready. Maybe there's a few things I need to get

  639. right in my life. Have some more conversations, do something.

  640. And you are not acknowledging him before men. Let me tell you,

  641. if you're not acknowledging him before men, you're denying him

  642. before men. And he says, if anyone denies me before men, I will

  643. deny him before my Father. And I'm gonna go ahead and tell you,

  644. if you can't even acknowledge him in front of a room of people

  645. who love Jesus, how are you ever gonna acknowledge him outside

  646. the walls of this church building? It starts here. It is time

  647. for you to acknowledge publicly the private faith that you

  648. have in Jesus Christ. There's no better day than today. And I want

  649. to give you a chance to do it. I'm invite you all to stand to your

  650. feet. I'm invite the prayer team to come down here, spread out

  651. and get ready. There's nowhere else you need to be. I promise you,

  652. your father will wait for you to deal with God today. We're going

  653. to sing to him. We're going to seek prayer. If you need to come

  654. bow down in repentance, do it. If you need prayer, do it. If you're

  655. ready to declare Jesus as your savior through baptism, you come

  656. let us know and we'll get you ready. Now's the time.