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June 13, 2026 ”David’s Secret Weapon” Pastor Jamey Houghton

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  17. We've been going through the story of

  18. David. We're still in our in our series

  19. on the life of David. And David's life

  20. is a complicated one as you read through

  21. it. lots of tough decisions that he had

  22. to make as king. Um, decisions are

  23. tough. This is President Bush

  24. before and after he was president. Can

  25. you tell any difference between the two

  26. on the on the left, he looks ready to

  27. go. Uh, a little bit younger there. Look

  28. at the color of his hair. And then look

  29. at the color of his hair after he's been

  30. president.

  31. He had some tough things to handle. I

  32. don't know if you remember the uh the

  33. footage of him, I believe he was sitting

  34. in an elementary school classroom and

  35. somebody comes up and whispers in his

  36. ear that an airplane has hit one of the

  37. towers in New York City. Remember seeing

  38. that? I can remember seeing that video

  39. and him just processing all of it. And

  40. he's in a classroom, so he can't really

  41. jump up and handle it. He's got to kind

  42. of hold it all together. But imagine the

  43. amount of stress that conversation had

  44. on the president as he's going, "Now,

  45. what do we do? How do we handle this

  46. situation? These are choices he's never

  47. had to make before. What's going to

  48. happen? How are we going to do this?

  49. What's the right thing to do?" Lots of

  50. different choices during his presidency.

  51. And you can see the result of difficult

  52. choices. and the hair on this man's

  53. head,

  54. the stress that it causes when we have

  55. tough decisions to make and tough

  56. choices to make. And it's not only him.

  57. Most presidents, you can see the aging

  58. happened. On the left, you see

  59. President, a young President Obama right

  60. before, right as he's starting to become

  61. president. And he looks ready to go.

  62. He's serious. He's got, okay, I'm ready

  63. to be president. Then you see the same

  64. thing that happened with President Bush

  65. with President Obama. Look at the color

  66. of his hair in just a short amount of

  67. time.

  68. The stress of being a leader or head of

  69. state is immense. There are lots of

  70. different situations that they are put

  71. in where they have to make a choice and

  72. hopefully it's the right choice. Many of

  73. us have been in situations in our lives

  74. where we have several different paths in

  75. front of us and we're not sure which way

  76. we should go. Maybe it's a career choice

  77. or a where you're going to move to or a

  78. job. Different things like that. who

  79. you're going to marry. That's a big one.

  80. Lots of different choices that we have

  81. in life. And sometimes those choices can

  82. be very difficult because you don't know

  83. what the right choice is. David

  84. had a lot of choices that he had to make

  85. very early on in his role as the king.

  86. Now, in chapter 1, David is anointed

  87. king of Judah, not king of Israel. just

  88. the one tribe, King of Judah.

  89. He's anointed, but the the tribes are

  90. not all together. And there are several

  91. different characters in our story today

  92. that complicate David's life a lot and

  93. the choices that he has to make.

  94. Remember, he's new at this. He's been

  95. running around being chased, leading a

  96. band of about 600 men for quite some

  97. time because King Saul has wanted to

  98. kill him.

  99. Now, King Saul has just died along with

  100. his dear friend Jonathan. And everything

  101. is different. Everything is different.

  102. And the young king David has a lot of

  103. tough situations that he's facing as a

  104. new king. Now, some of the characters in

  105. our story

  106. are important to note, and there's two

  107. of them that that make David's life more

  108. complicated than he probably wanted. And

  109. they're both generals. The first general

  110. was the general under King Saul. His

  111. name was Abnner. Abnner was related to

  112. Saul. Now, there's there's some

  113. disagreement on how he was related based

  114. on how it's worded in the Bible. He was

  115. either Saul's uncle or Saul's cousin.

  116. One of the two, but very closely

  117. related. The way I read it, it looks

  118. like he was probably, in my opinion,

  119. Saul's cousin.

  120. Very closely related. But it's Abnner.

  121. He's the general of Saul's army. Abner

  122. has spent a good chunk of his career

  123. chasing down David trying to kill him

  124. with the suspicion that David is there

  125. to replace his cousin.

  126. Abnner's loyal to his family. But now as

  127. King Saul is dead, Abnner is still alive

  128. and Abner is actually a very highly

  129. respected person in Israel. Ellen White

  130. says that Abner was the most

  131. distinguished man in Israel. That's a

  132. pretty pretty strong compliment, isn't

  133. it? He was the most Abnner was the most

  134. distinguished man in Israel. People

  135. liked Abnner. He'd kept them safe. He

  136. protected them. He was in their

  137. estimation a very wise person.

  138. He was kind of the de facto leader of

  139. the tribes of Israel when Saul was gone.

  140. Now, Saul still had a son and his name

  141. was Ishb. It's a tongue twister, Ishb.

  142. And Abner didn't want to join up with

  143. David.

  144. He wanted to stay in more power over

  145. here. So he kind of takes Ishbos and

  146. makes him the king of Israel instead of

  147. joining with David and Judah. Now Ishbos

  148. is not a very strong character. He's not

  149. going to be king without Abnner.

  150. Abnner kind of says, "Okay, now you can

  151. be king." But he's really kind of

  152. running things.

  153. Now,

  154. Abner really doesn't like David at all.

  155. Not only because he'd been ordered to go

  156. and find him so many times, but there's

  157. been several issues between David and

  158. Abnner. One of them in specific,

  159. and uh we see this in

  160. 1st Samuel chapter 26. Turn with me in

  161. your Bibles to 1st Samuel chapter 26.

  162. And we realize a little bit more why

  163. Abner does not like David so much.

  164. Now, you might remember previously in

  165. the story, David had the opportunity to

  166. kill King Saul in the cave, right? You

  167. remember that part of the story? They

  168. were hiding in the cave. Saul came in,

  169. took a nap. They were standing right

  170. over him. David's friend right next to

  171. him said, "This is your chance to kill

  172. him. You won't have to run anymore."

  173. David says, "I'm not going to do it."

  174. Cuts off the hem of his garment. He gets

  175. outside, tells him he was just there.

  176. Saul makes one of his many uh apologies

  177. that is usually short-lived.

  178. And we come now to the second time that

  179. David was in a position where he could

  180. have killed King Saul. This is previous

  181. to where we just were in the beginning

  182. of of 2 Samuel. 1st Samuel chapter 26.

  183. Saul and his men along with Abnner are

  184. camped out in the wilderness there.

  185. David and his men are hiding over here.

  186. David and Aishi. Aishi is Joab's

  187. brother. Joab is David's general. Abishi

  188. was his brother. David and Aishi sneak

  189. down right into the middle of Saul and

  190. Abner's camp. While they're all

  191. sleeping, they're tiptoeing over

  192. soldiers to get to the middle where the

  193. king is resting.

  194. Aishi and David are standing right

  195. there. There's Abner. There's Saul. And

  196. Aishi says, "David, now's your chance.

  197. Pick up his spear. His spear's right

  198. here. run him through. You won't have to

  199. run anymore. You'll be the king of both

  200. Israel and Judah, like it's supposed to

  201. be.

  202. And David's looking at the situation and

  203. he says, just like before, he says, "Who

  204. am I to harm the Lord's anointed? He's

  205. going to let God take care of those

  206. things in his own time."

  207. But there's Saul's spear, and there's a

  208. jug of water for Saul in case he wakes

  209. up and he's thirsty in the middle of the

  210. night. David says to Aishi, "Grab his

  211. spear and grab his jug of water and

  212. let's get out of here." What's also kind

  213. of mind-blowing is that they're having

  214. this whole conversation while they're

  215. standing over the king and his general

  216. Abnner right there. They're discussing

  217. this right there while these guys could

  218. wake up

  219. and they take the jug of water and the

  220. spear and they take off. Then when

  221. they're a good ways away, the Bible says

  222. far enough away, it says a great

  223. distance between them. Verse 13 and into

  224. 14 it says, "And David called out to the

  225. people and to Abnner the son of Nurse,

  226. saying, do you not answer Abnner?" So he

  227. must have tried calling several times to

  228. wake him up.

  229. And Abner answered and said, "Who are

  230. you calling out to the king?" So David

  231. said to Abnner, this is probably why

  232. Abnner doesn't like David very much. In

  233. front of all of Abnner's soldiers and in

  234. front of his boss, King Saul, David

  235. shouts out, "Are you not a man?"

  236. Questions his manhood. That's going to

  237. be fighting words still today, probably.

  238. He says, 'Are you not a man? And who is

  239. like you in Israel? Why then have you

  240. not guarded your lord the king? For one

  241. of the people came in to destroy your

  242. lord the king. This thing that you have

  243. done is not good. As the Lord lives, you

  244. deserve to die because you have not

  245. guarded your master, the Lord's

  246. anointed. See, where are the king's

  247. spear and the jug of water that was by

  248. his head?

  249. Immediately Abnner probably looks down.

  250. There's no spear. There's no jug of

  251. water. Saul probably looks down for his

  252. spear and jug of water and then looks at

  253. Abner like, "Are you kidding me?"

  254. Abnner's in a tight spot. His manhood

  255. has just been questioned by David in

  256. front of all of his soldiers. No wonder

  257. Abnner doesn't like David very much. In

  258. front of his boss and in front of all of

  259. his soldiers, he says, "You deserve to

  260. die for what you've done."

  261. Back up to 2 Samuel,

  262. we see a little bit of why Abner doesn't

  263. want to join David.

  264. David is finding out that being king is

  265. very complicated. There's war and as

  266. Ishb is the king, kind of a puppet king

  267. for Abnner,

  268. Israel and Judah

  269. are waring with each other, fighting

  270. with each other.

  271. And we see

  272. this get more complicated in chapter 2

  273. of 2 Samuel.

  274. In verse 17, there's a war going on

  275. between the two. So, it's Abnner versus

  276. Joab. Abnner, uh, Saul's former general,

  277. Joab, David's general. Now, let's talk

  278. about Joab for just a minute before we

  279. jump into the story. Joab is has earned

  280. his place as the general for David. He's

  281. been a valiant warrior.

  282. He's also David's nephew. It's his

  283. sister's boy, so he's family. But it's a

  284. rocky relationship between David and

  285. Joab throughout their lives. But Joab is

  286. a very talented general, very strong

  287. general, the leader.

  288. And Joab has a couple of brothers, Aishi

  289. and Asahel. And we run into them here in

  290. this part of the story in in Samuel 2

  291. Samuel 2. So there was a very fierce

  292. battle that day, and Abner and the men

  293. of Israel were beaten before the

  294. servants of David. Now the three sons of

  295. Zariah were there. Joab, who's the

  296. general, Abishi and Asahel.

  297. And it says, "And Asahel was as fleet of

  298. foot as a wild gazelle." I think that's

  299. code for he was very fast. Fleet of foot

  300. as a wild gazelle. An interesting way to

  301. describe somebody. He must have stood

  302. out as a speedy runner, a fast runner.

  303. And now Asah as he's chasing the

  304. Israelites, he sees Abnner. And he's

  305. probably thinking to himself, if I can

  306. go and kill Abnner, Israel will then

  307. join Judah and we will unite all of the

  308. tribes

  309. because Ishbath is not a strong king.

  310. He's only there because Abnner's

  311. supporting him. And Isahel, who's one of

  312. David's mighty men, we'll we'll talk

  313. about that in just a minute. Fascinating

  314. part of the story. and some of some of

  315. David's uh soldiers. As Saul is here on

  316. the battlefield and he sees Abnner, the

  317. general that Saul had trusted and who is

  318. now leading out essentially all of

  319. Israel.

  320. And it says pursued Abner and in going

  321. he did not turn to the right hand or to

  322. the left from following Abnner. Then

  323. Abnner looked behind him and said, "Are

  324. you a Sahel?" He said, "I am." And

  325. Abnner said to him, "Turn aside to your

  326. right hand or to your left and lay a

  327. hold on and lay a hold on one of the

  328. other young men and take his armor for

  329. yourself." But Asahel would not turn

  330. aside from following him. So Abnner said

  331. again to Asahel, "Turn aside from

  332. following me. Why should I strike you to

  333. the ground? How then could I face your

  334. brother Joab?"

  335. However, he refused to turn aside, the

  336. Bible says. Now, there may have been a

  337. little bit of uh testosterone jostling

  338. there as well when uh Abner says, "I

  339. don't want to have to kill you right

  340. now." And Assah's like, "Oh, you think

  341. you can kill me, huh?" They're both very

  342. good warriors,

  343. but here there's this this

  344. com competition between these two very

  345. strong warriors. But Abner is very

  346. confident that he can kill Asal, but he

  347. doesn't want to. He says, "How could I

  348. face your brother Joab?" He realizes

  349. that there's there's relationships

  350. there. There's politics there that he

  351. has to be aware of. And Assahu will not

  352. turn aside.

  353. The Bible says, "Therefore, Abnner

  354. struck him and killed him." This is

  355. Joab's brother.

  356. So Joab, in addition to not liking

  357. Abner for being his opposing general,

  358. now he's killed his brother.

  359. Now it's more serious even.

  360. Now

  361. Joab is an interesting character to look

  362. at in the Bible and throughout the story

  363. of David. Joab is a very talented

  364. general. And in fact, you'll read

  365. different different parts of the story

  366. where Joab will pray to God before he

  367. goes into battle. A very moving prayer.

  368. God, we're in your hands. Where he's

  369. sections where he's surrounded and he

  370. says, "God, be with us." He prays and

  371. asks for the God of heaven to be there

  372. and to help him.

  373. And then you have also some some

  374. situations where Joab is the one who

  375. takes direction from David to withdraw

  376. to allow Uriah the Hitittite to be

  377. killed. We're going to talk about that

  378. story in two weeks. and he's very

  379. willing to be an accomplice in something

  380. that was so wrong. And he moves back to

  381. allow Uriah, who was also one of David's

  382. mighty men, to be killed.

  383. So, there's all kinds of complexities in

  384. this story and the people that David

  385. interacts with. So many politics, family

  386. connections, family feuds,

  387. all kinds of stuff. He's a new king

  388. trying to figure this out because his

  389. goal is to unite Judah and Israel

  390. together to be the king. But it's split

  391. off at this point with lots of different

  392. complications.

  393. David's mighty men. These are

  394. interesting because we have we have both

  395. Aishi and Assahil who are mentioned as

  396. David's mighty men in 2 Samuel 23. Turn

  397. with me over in your Bible. 2 Samuel 23.

  398. These guys

  399. are fascinating to read about. Now, God

  400. worked in many different ways with

  401. Israel, but one of the ways was to

  402. protect them, physically protect them

  403. from being attacked.

  404. And God used specific individuals in

  405. special ways to preserve life in Israel.

  406. And some of these were listed as David's

  407. mighty men. How many of you have ever

  408. read about David's mighty men before?

  409. Fascinating.

  410. Who were some of these people that were

  411. warriors for David?

  412. Well, one of them in verse 8 of chapter

  413. 23 in 2 Samuel said, "Here are the names

  414. of the mighty men whom David had. Joshua

  415. Bash, we'll skip his name, the

  416. Tachamite, chief among the captains. He

  417. was called Adino the Eznite because he

  418. had killed 800 men at one time."

  419. One guy versus 800.

  420. You want to be friends with a guy like

  421. that.

  422. After him was Eleazar, the son of Dota,

  423. the aholite, one of three mighty men

  424. with David when they defeated the

  425. Philistines who were gathered there for

  426. battle. And the men of Israel retreated.

  427. Okay, the men of Israel retreated, but

  428. this guy didn't. Eleazar, it says he

  429. arose and attacked the Philistines. That

  430. would be by himself, by the way,

  431. attacked them until his hand was weary

  432. and his hand stuck to the sword.

  433. Then there's Shama. There's several more

  434. here. It says, "So the people fled." And

  435. this is down in uh verse 11. So the

  436. people fled from the Philistines into

  437. verse 12. But he stationed himself in

  438. the middle of the field, defended it,

  439. and killed the Philistines. So the Lord

  440. brought about a great victory. These are

  441. brave men who station themselves in a

  442. protective mode for the people of

  443. Israel. And God works great and mighty

  444. things through them to protect Israel

  445. and to protect the people there. Now,

  446. some of these other people that are

  447. mentioned over in verse 18. Now Abiti,

  448. the brother of Joab, the son of Zariah,

  449. was chief of another three.

  450. He lifted his spear against 300 men,

  451. killed them, and won a name among those

  452. three. This is the brother of General

  453. Joab. One versus 300.

  454. Baniah down in verse 20. And eventually

  455. Baniah will become general of the armies

  456. of Israel under David later on in his

  457. life. Biniah verse 20 was the son of

  458. Jehoeda, the son of a valiant man from

  459. Cabazil who had done many deeds. He had

  460. killed two lionlike heroes of Moab. I'm

  461. not even sure what a lionlike person

  462. looks like, but it sounds intimidating.

  463. I have I have a feeling that we would

  464. all be scared of somebody who's

  465. described as a lionlike person. But

  466. Baniah went in and killed two of them in

  467. battle. Says he had also gone down and

  468. killed a lion in the midst of a pit on a

  469. snowy day.

  470. This guy is hardcore.

  471. Verse 21, it says he killed an Egyptian,

  472. a spectacular man. And in 1 Chronicles,

  473. we see a little bit more about this this

  474. story. 1 Chronicles tells us that the

  475. Egyptian man that he fought was 7 and

  476. 1/2 ft tall. He went into battle with a

  477. club. And the Egyptian had a spear.

  478. He wrestled the Egyptian spear away from

  479. him and killed him with his own spear, a

  480. 7 and 1/2t man.

  481. These were some wild warriors that David

  482. had fighting on his behalf.

  483. They had done a whole lot of different

  484. things. And Isahel, the brother of Joab,

  485. was also one of these mighty men that

  486. had been killed

  487. by Abnner.

  488. So, David has all of these different

  489. scenarios. How is he going to bring

  490. everyone together?

  491. There's something interesting that

  492. happens in this story with Abnner.

  493. Abnner gets fed up with Ishbosh, the

  494. person who he put in to be king. They

  495. get sideways with each other. He decides

  496. he wants to go make peace with David and

  497. join Israel with Judah.

  498. Now he starts he he comes over with a

  499. delegation of 20 men and he sits down to

  500. talk to David and he says, "Hey, I want

  501. to make peace." And David says something

  502. very interesting. He says, "None of this

  503. will happen unless I get my wife Michael

  504. back." You remember remember Michael who

  505. she is? Michael was David's wife that

  506. was also the daughter of King Saul. And

  507. if you'll recall in Bible times, often

  508. times there were marriages that were

  509. arranged in order to bring peace to

  510. people so that they wouldn't they

  511. wouldn't attack each other. And you had,

  512. of course, be respectful to the uh to

  513. the daughter of whatever king got

  514. married, otherwise things could get bad.

  515. So there was there was a little bit of a

  516. of an agreement when you allowed your

  517. daughter to be married to someone else.

  518. There was there was a code that like,

  519. okay, now we're going to be at peace.

  520. And so Saul had married Michael off to

  521. another man when he was chasing David.

  522. And David had to run. And so David says

  523. this, a very, very shrewd move by David.

  524. He says, "We can talk about peace, but

  525. none of this goes anywhere until I get

  526. Michael back as my wife."

  527. And what that said to all of Israel was,

  528. "Hey, this is King Saul's daughter. He's

  529. she's still married to David, which

  530. shows that there's a respect there and

  531. that he will treat you all well, the

  532. house of Saul.

  533. So, David is having to take into account

  534. all of these different little nuances of

  535. things and his agreement. And so, he and

  536. Abner sit down and talk and work out a

  537. peace agreement. Now, there's two things

  538. that are interesting about this part of

  539. the story. The first thing is is that

  540. David can sit down with somebody who

  541. hates him and has tried to kill him so

  542. many times and can talk peace.

  543. I think there's value in that.

  544. Sometimes we get sideways with different

  545. people. We have disagreements with

  546. different people. It's always good to

  547. have a forgiving spirit and want to

  548. reconcile things. And for sure, David

  549. had to have done something like that in

  550. his own heart before he could even have

  551. a conversation with Abnner about this.

  552. The second thing that's interesting in

  553. the story, and we see this in just a

  554. moment when Joab comes back on the

  555. scene, when Abnner and David are talking

  556. peace about uniting Israel and Judah,

  557. Joab is not there.

  558. Joab is out on a raid somewhere else.

  559. And I think probably David arranged for

  560. this so that Joab wouldn't be there when

  561. a when uh when um Abner was there

  562. because he knew the two of them didn't

  563. like each other cuz the death of a

  564. psalm.

  565. So David's having to to delicately go

  566. back and forth with all of this, trying

  567. to be a good king, trying to handle all

  568. of the nuances, all the different tough

  569. situations.

  570. Now Abner and his 20 men take off and

  571. leave before Joab comes back into

  572. David's presence. And in verse 22 of

  573. chapter 3 in 2 Samuel it says at that

  574. moment the servants of David and Joab

  575. came from a raid and brought much spoil

  576. with them. But Abnner was not with David

  577. in Hebron for he had sent him away and

  578. he had gone in peace. When Joab and all

  579. the troops that were with him had come

  580. they told Joab saying Abner the son of

  581. Nur came to the king and he sent him

  582. away and he is gone in peace. Then Joab

  583. came to the king and said, "What have

  584. you done?"

  585. David probably knew Joab wasn't going to

  586. be happy with this decision. Probably

  587. why he sent him away. Wouldn't get in

  588. the way of negotiations.

  589. He says, "What have you done?"

  590. The relationship between David and Joab,

  591. like I mentioned a minute ago, was very

  592. rocky. Ups and downs.

  593. There were some times later on when when

  594. Joab would come and just read David the

  595. riot act.

  596. Joab was the one that killed

  597. David's rebellious son Abselum.

  598. And David weeps. Joab comes in and says,

  599. "Why are you crying for the one? We all

  600. just fought this guy and we've been

  601. fighting him and he's been treasonous

  602. and you're weeping for the bad guy and

  603. not sorry for us." A very up and down

  604. relationship between David and Joab. So

  605. much so that on David's deathbed when

  606. he's talking to Solomon who's going to

  607. take his place, he says to Solomon,

  608. "You're going to go ahead and need to

  609. kill Joab,

  610. my nephew."

  611. That's how complex the relationship was

  612. between David and Joab. At the end of

  613. his life, he says, "Solomon, you're just

  614. going to have to kill him.

  615. He's earned it."

  616. Very, very complicated. So, here we have

  617. Joab. He comes to the king, King David,

  618. and says, "What have you done? Look,

  619. Abnner has come to you. Why is it that

  620. you sent him away and he has already

  621. gone? Surely you realize that Abnner's

  622. son of N, the son of N came to deceive

  623. you. He's kind of talking a little

  624. disrespectful to a king, isn't he?

  625. Surely you see what he's doing here. Are

  626. you this dumb is kind of what he's

  627. saying.

  628. So Joab leaves. Joab sends a servant to

  629. go catch Abner and bring him back. The

  630. servant says, "Hey, David wants you to

  631. come back." Okay. Abnner turns around

  632. and comes and Joab meets him on the road

  633. right at the gate outside of Hebrron and

  634. he says hey Abnner I need to talk to you

  635. for a second privately.

  636. I'm sure Abner was like what?

  637. Cuz he killed this guy's brother.

  638. They step somewhere privately and Joab

  639. pulls a sword and kills Abner, one of

  640. the most highly respected people in all

  641. of Israel.

  642. Kills him right there.

  643. David finds out about I mean everybody's

  644. going to find out about this.

  645. David finds out about this and he

  646. realizes that the peace that he was

  647. trying to broker between Israel and

  648. Judah is going to be almost impossible

  649. now because his general has killed the

  650. guy that he was doing peace talks with

  651. that is the most influential person in

  652. all of Israel. People like this guy. How

  653. is it that they're going to want him to

  654. be their king when when one of his

  655. general his general just killed their

  656. leader?

  657. David must have thought, "How on earth

  658. did I get into this job? There's no good

  659. way out of this. Everything is so

  660. complicated.

  661. How is David going to handle this?"

  662. Verse 31. David said to Joab and to all

  663. the people who were with him, "Tear your

  664. clothes, gird yourselves with sackcloth,

  665. and mourn for Abnner." And King David

  666. followed the coffin. Did you notice who

  667. David addressed first? Who was going to

  668. be mourning at King at at Abnner the

  669. general's funeral.

  670. He says, "Joab, tear your clothes. Put

  671. on sackcloth and ashes. We're going out

  672. to mourn for the man you just killed."

  673. That was probably a tough pill for Joab

  674. to swallow. And off they go, mourning

  675. the death of Abnner.

  676. And David,

  677. it says he wept at the grave of Abnner.

  678. This speaks a lot for David and how he's

  679. able to forgive people who have done him

  680. harm, to be sad. And a little bit later

  681. on, he calls him a prince

  682. and a great man. Those are the two words

  683. that he calls him over in verse 38

  684. describing Abner.

  685. The people of Israel see how he is upset

  686. at David's at at Abnner's death. He even

  687. sings a song in the funeral dur says,

  688. "Should Abnner die as a fool dies? Your

  689. hands were not bound nor your feet put

  690. into feathers. As a man falls before

  691. wicked men, so you fell." What is he

  692. saying there about Joab? He just sang a

  693. song about how his general is a wicked

  694. man.

  695. the politics that he's having to deal

  696. with, the tough choices, the difficult

  697. people, his own people going behind his

  698. back

  699. make things so much more difficult for

  700. him.

  701. Here's what he says at the end, verse

  702. 39.

  703. With all of this drama going on, he

  704. says, "And I am weak today, although

  705. anointed king.

  706. And these men, the sons of Zariah, who

  707. are Joab and his brother, who's still

  708. alive.

  709. These sons of Zariah are too harsh for

  710. me. The Lord shall repay the evildoer

  711. according to his wickedness. Basically,

  712. Joab, he couldn't touch him. Even though

  713. he did something wrong that made him

  714. look bad, that that complicated

  715. everything, he could not touch him

  716. because he and his brother were too

  717. strong. And he says, 'Even though I'm

  718. king, my hands are tied. I can't do

  719. anything about this.'

  720. probably thought how in the world am I

  721. going to do any of this? How am I going

  722. going to lead this nation?

  723. There are times in our lives where we

  724. face impossible situations, complicated

  725. situations in life, decisions that we

  726. have to make.

  727. And

  728. in our lives, we're going to come back

  729. to those slides here in just a minute.

  730. In our lives, we face a wide variety of

  731. different situations. end of life care

  732. for loved ones, decisions, caring for

  733. grown children. Sometimes we face

  734. difficult how are we going to do this?

  735. Sometimes if our if our children have

  736. walked away from God, how are we going

  737. to bring this up? More than anything,

  738. you want your kid to follow Jesus, but

  739. they don't want to maybe want to hear

  740. about it. How is it that you can bring

  741. up spiritual things without them getting

  742. angry at you?

  743. Difficult situations, how we navigate

  744. career change. If you're changing your

  745. careers and all right, what am I going

  746. to do with my life now? Maybe maybe uh

  747. AI has changed your whole career and now

  748. AI does your job and you're like, "All

  749. right, now I have to figure out what I'm

  750. going to do with my life. What do I do

  751. here? What decision do I make?" Maybe

  752. it's loneliness that you're trying to

  753. figure out how to handle living alone

  754. and being alone.

  755. Maybe it's a trying to decide what

  756. you're going to study in college, what

  757. what degree you're going to take, which

  758. direction you're going to go in your

  759. life. Maybe you're wondering how you're

  760. going to be able to retire. Looking at

  761. different different financial situ how

  762. am I going to be able to do this and

  763. quit working.

  764. Maybe you're single and you're like, I'd

  765. really like to get married, but I'm just

  766. not sure who what I'm looking for. I

  767. there's nobody around that kind of meets

  768. what I'm looking for and I'm just not

  769. sure about this. God, what's if if they

  770. come, what should I be looking for? Who

  771. who should I be looking for? There's

  772. lots of different decisions that we have

  773. to make in life. How was it that David

  774. made his decisions

  775. in all the complexities that he faced in

  776. life? Let's take a look

  777. in 1st Samuel 23:2.

  778. It starts off and says, "Therefore,

  779. David inquired of the Lord."

  780. >> Then you see again in 1st Samuel 23:4,

  781. two verses later, it says, "Then David

  782. inquired of the Lord." Again, in 1st

  783. Samuel 23:9-12, David inquires two more

  784. times. Ask God, "What should I do? Are

  785. they going to do this? What what's going

  786. to happen here?" God answers both of

  787. those. 1st Samuel 37:8, "And David

  788. inquired of the Lord." 2 Samuel 2:1,

    2 Samuel 2:1

  789. "After David inquired of the Lord," do

  790. you see a trend here? As he's facing

  791. tough situations, David repeatedly asks

  792. God what he should do. 2 Samuel 5:19,

    2 Samuel 5:19

  793. "And David inquired of the Lord." 2

    2 Samuel 5:23

  794. Samuel 5:23. And David inquired of the

  795. Lord over and over again as David faces

  796. tough situations. He says, "God, what

  797. should I do?

  798. How should I handle this?"

  799. And what did God do for David?

  800. God led and guided David through a

  801. complex web of situations, people, and

  802. politics,

  803. and was by his side throughout all of

  804. that, giving him guidance and what to

  805. do. He says here in Psalms 25:4 to5,

    Psalms 25:4–5

  806. "Show me your ways, O Lord. Teach me

  807. your paths. Lead me in your truth and

  808. teach me." Psalm 27:11, "Teach me your

    Psalms 27:11

  809. ways, O Lord, and lead me on a level

  810. path." again at the end of uh Psalm 143,

  811. teach me to do your will. David was not

  812. a perfect man.

  813. He made some big life mistakes, poor

  814. choices when he was doing them on his

  815. own. When David was asking God for

  816. guidance in his life, God was there to

  817. point him in the right direction.

  818. Friends, when we face different

  819. situations in life where we're just not

  820. quite sure what the right decision is,

  821. I think the best thing we can do

  822. is learn from David from what he did

  823. right and ask God. Say, God, what is it

  824. I should do here? What decision should I

  825. make? What decision would honor you? And

  826. you know what? We don't have to have

  827. that that really cool yurum and thumbum

  828. rock that the high priest had, that yes

  829. and no rock. That'd be really nice to

  830. have. We don't need to have that. We've

  831. got God's word right here.

  832. >> And when we pray and ask God for

  833. guidance in our life, he will either

  834. reveal it here as we study God's word.

  835. He may impress our minds. He might bring

  836. a spiritual friend who is discerning and

  837. and close to Jesus to point you in the

  838. right direction. There's a a thousand

  839. ways that God still works today. God

  840. loves you as much as he loves loved

  841. David. He didn't like David any better

  842. than you. If he was willing to work with

  843. David, he's willing to work with you.

  844. There are so many neat Bible promises

  845. that talk about

  846. God helping us. Psalm 32:8, I will

    Psalms 32:8

  847. instruct you and teach you in the way

  848. you should go. I will counsel you with

  849. my eye upon you. Isaiah 58:11, "And the

    Isaiah 58:11

  850. Lord will guide you continually." How

  851. often?

  852. >> Continually. He will satisfy your desire

  853. in the scorched places and make your

  854. bones strong. That's code for he will

  855. take care of you when you're in tough

  856. times and he'll give you strength to

  857. make it. Psalm 23:2 to3, he makes me lie

    Psalms 23:2–3

  858. down in green pastures. He leads me

  859. beside still waters. He restores my

  860. soul. He leads me in paths of

  861. righteousness for his name's sake. If we

  862. were to switch this around, this promise

  863. is for you. He makes you to lie down in

  864. green pastures. He leads you beside

  865. still waters. What is he doing for you?

  866. Leading you. He restores your soul. He

  867. leads you in paths of righteousness for

  868. his name's sake. Friends, the creator

  869. God is just a whisper away.

  870. And he cares about what goes on in your

  871. life. He cares about the things that are

  872. important to you. And he promises to

  873. give us wisdom in how to handle these

  874. things. He gave David wisdom

  875. when David asked.

  876. There was a man who was called to be a

  877. missionary, a medical missionary to Mali

  878. in Africa. And there was uh there was a

  879. mission outpost there with the medical

  880. emphasis. And someone one of the leaders

  881. in the in the clinic there came to him

  882. and said, "Hey, I've got a I've got a

  883. job for you that that doesn't really

  884. have to do with anything medical, but

  885. it's really going to help out with the

  886. people in the village because the people

  887. in the village need to work. there's

  888. nothing for them to do to work. And so I

  889. really want to start an industry here

  890. where they can work and that'll help us

  891. connect with the village as well. He

  892. says,"I want you to start making soap.

  893. We'll sell the soap and you can hire

  894. people from the village to come make the

  895. soap." He said, "Okay." So he started

  896. looking uh at what it would take to

  897. start a soap factory and all the

  898. different tools that he would need. And

  899. he went online and was sitting at his

  900. desk and looking on his computer looking

  901. for the different things that he would

  902. need. And there was a machine that he

  903. was going to need to cut the bars of

  904. soap. And that machine was like $1,800.

  905. He was thought, "Man, I don't have

  906. $1,800 for this thing. I'm not sure how

  907. I'm going to pull this off and start a

  908. whole business without the right

  909. equipment to be able to cut the soap so

  910. we can then divide it up and sell it.

  911. I'm not sure what we're going to do."

  912. And as he was sitting at that desk, he

  913. whispered a prayer and said, "God, I

  914. need your help.

  915. I'm not sure how to move forward with

  916. this project, but I think it'll be a

  917. good help for the community and help us

  918. connect with them. Please God, help me

  919. figure something out. And as he's

  920. wrapping up his prayer, one of the bolts

  921. inside of his desk drops, a big bolt. It

  922. drops right on the ground and makes a

  923. big loud noise. And he kind startles

  924. just a little bit. And he looks down at

  925. this bolt and he's like, "Huh, it's a

  926. huge bolt." He reaches down and picks it

  927. up and he looks closer at the bolt and

  928. at the top on the head of the bolt, it's

  929. thick like this. And there's a there's a

  930. hole drilled through the through the top

  931. of the bolt. And he's like, "Huh, I've

  932. never seen a bolt like this in my life."

  933. And then an idea hits him as he's

  934. sitting there with the bolt in his

  935. hands. He's looking at he's like, "Wait

  936. a second. I bet that if I run a guitar

  937. string through this hole in this bolt

  938. and I tighten it on the other side, I

  939. bet it'll be tight enough and be perfect

  940. and anchor it just right enough so that

  941. we can use it to cut the soap into bars

  942. so that we can sell it.

  943. He went and tried it out and it worked

  944. perfectly.

  945. And he thought to himself, "God answered

  946. my prayer right away. How long has that

  947. bolt been getting loose getting ready to

  948. answer my prayer? He said he went online

  949. and looked at how desks were made. He

  950. said he couldn't find one desk

  951. manufacturer that made bolts that had a

  952. hole in the top of it like the one that

  953. fell out of his desk.

  954. And it fell out right as he was praying

  955. to God for help. And it was the perfect

  956. solution exactly to what he was praying

  957. for. God knew about that prayer back

  958. when that desk was being manufactured

  959. and someone put the wrong screw in

  960. there, but it was the right screw.

  961. was the screw that was going to answer

  962. his prayer all those years later and

  963. fall out just at the right time. God

  964. cares about the big stuff in our life.

  965. He cares about the little stuff in our

  966. lives. If it's important to you, it's

  967. important to God.

  968. What an amazing thing that is that the

  969. God of the universe

  970. who the Bible says by the breath of his

  971. mouth the heavens were made. That's how

  972. powerful of God that we're talking

  973. about. He cares about what goes on in

  974. your life. He cares about the struggles,

  975. the choices that you have to make in

  976. your life. And he promises to give you

  977. wisdom and how to make the best choice.

  978. As you look at choices in your life, I

  979. want to encourage you to spend time in

  980. God's word.

  981. You may be surprised as you read through

  982. God's word, as a thought pops into your

  983. mind, as he inspires you through his

  984. word here. Listen for that still small

  985. voice as you pray. Because the God who

  986. guided David through very complicated

  987. situations as he became the king is the

  988. same God that has promised to give you

  989. wisdom and guide you through the choices

  990. in your life to make the very best

  991. choices that will honor him and bring

  992. you happiness in life. That same God

  993. cares about you today here in McDonald,

  994. Tennessee. And he loves you and wants

  995. the best for you.

  996. >> Amen.

  997. >> And he's only a whisper away. Amen.

  998. >> We're going to close with a song and I

  999. invite our singers to come back up. Our

  1000. closing song is Fill My Cup, Lord. And

  1001. the song says, "I lift it up, Lord. Come

  1002. and quench this thirsting of my soul.

  1003. Bread of heaven, feed me till I want no

  1004. more. Fill my cup. Fill it up and make

  1005. me whole." God is willing to send out

  1006. blessings to each one of us and fill us

  1007. when we need it. Let's stand together as

  1008. we sing our closing song, Fill My Cup,

  1009. Lord. Father in heaven, Lord, thank you

  1010. for showing us how you were with David

  1011. and giving us an example from him on on

  1012. going to you with our our the things

  1013. that are on our heart, the complexities

  1014. of life, the choices that we have to

  1015. make. Lord, help us to follow suit there

  1016. and do as he did and going to you first

  1017. for wisdom and advice. God, thank you so

  1018. much for promising to give us that

  1019. wisdom and advice. And like the

  1020. scripture said this morning, your lamp

  1021. is a light to our feet. And Lord, we

  1022. thank you for your scripture leading and

  1023. guiding us, for the whispers in our ear,

  1024. the convictions in our hearts that you

  1025. give to us. And Father, for those that

  1026. are facing tough choices in life right

  1027. now, Lord, I just ask that you be with

  1028. them and give them clarity of where you

  1029. want them to go and what choice you want

  1030. them to make in their situation. God,

  1031. thank you for caring about the big

  1032. things and the little things in our

  1033. lives. And Lord, we love you so much and

  1034. can't wait to be with you in heaven.

  1035. Keep us faithful until you come to take

  1036. us home is our prayer today in Jesus

  1037. name. Amen.

  1038. >> Thanks so much for joining us here at

  1039. the McDonald Road 7th Day Adventist

  1040. Church for worship. Each month we reach

  1041. between 25 and 30,000 people with gospel

  1042. content online. We're looking to expand

  1043. our audiovisisual department this year

  1044. and looking to raise $30,000 in this

  1045. project. We would love for you to

  1046. partner with us on this and consider

  1047. making a donation to our audiovisisual

  1048. department as we look at expansion and

  1049. reaching more people with the gospel

  1050. across the internet this next year. You

  1051. can go to mrcsda.org

  1052. to make a donation directly to our

  1053. audiovisisual department. Thank you so

  1054. much for considering making this

  1055. donation and the privilege is ours to

  1056. partner with you in making this a bigger

  1057. and more effective ministry here at the

  1058. McDonald Road 7th Adventist Church.

  1059. God bless each one of you and thanks

  1060. again for joining us here at the

  1061. McDonald Road 7th Adventist Church.