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The Cost of Following Jesus - Matthew 8:18-22

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  1. Well, for those of you who I've not met, my name is Mike and I'm

  2. one of the pastors here at Redemption.

  3. And we have been so so a couple weeks ago we started this, this

  4. sermon series on the miracles of Jesus.

  5. And, and we see this in chapters 8 and, and 9, which lists off

  6. several miracles of Jesus. But right here in the middle of

  7. chapter 8, Jesus takes a moment to step out of demonstrating

  8. these miracles. And he teaches us something.

  9. He gives, he gives us 2. I think you could call them

  10. challenges. They're kind of like if you,

  11. when you drive down the road and you see the, the sign on the

  12. side of the road that says, you know, rough road or, or Rd.

  13. narrows. It's, it's very important

  14. information for something coming ahead that we should be aware

  15. of. And he gives that to us right

  16. here in, in, in this in this passage in Matthew 8 chapters,

  17. excuse me, verses 18 to 22 is where we're going to be today.

  18. So if you have your Bible, you can join us there.

  19. I'll have most of the the passages up here on the on the

  20. screen. But here's what it says in

  21. Matthew 818 through 22. Now when Jesus saw a crowd

  22. around him, he gave orders to go over to the other side.

  23. And a scribe came up and said to him, Teacher, I will follow you

  24. wherever you go. And Jesus said to him, foxes

  25. have holes, and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man

  26. has nowhere to lay his head. Another of the disciples said to

  27. him, Lord, let me first go and bury my father.

  28. And Jesus said to him, Follow me and leave the dead to bury their

  29. own dead. So in our in our first verse

  30. here, we see that Jesus is is he's very popular.

  31. We've seen this for a couple weeks now that he has developed

  32. a, a large following because of the miracles that he's done back

  33. in verse one, it said that great crowds followed him.

  34. And then last week in verse 16, we read that evening, they

  35. brought to him many who were oppressed by demons and he cast

  36. out the spirits. And we can we could certainly

  37. bet that in that day and age when multitudes, right, lots and

  38. lots of people, sick and broken people were being healed, that

  39. kind of that kind of news would spread fast, right?

  40. Because there was so many people in need.

  41. And so knowing about this, this, this news would spread from

  42. village to village and town to town very, very quickly.

  43. Many people would be fans of Jesus and might even call

  44. themselves followers of him. But what we see this week in our

  45. passage is that Jesus already knows us.

  46. And he takes a moment to make it clear to people what following

  47. him actually looks like. And so, as we'll see today,

  48. being a Christian isn't easy. That's the thing I think that

  49. the world gets wrong about Christianity is that they seem

  50. to think that it's it's full of people who hypocritically claim

  51. to be perfect and that we teach that we'll have simple stress

  52. free lives. Neither of those is at all true.

  53. Simultaneously in this passage, we see that Jesus is also

  54. calling out those who've recognized him as King of Kings

  55. and yet fail to treat him that way in their own lives.

  56. For 2000 years there have been Christ followers who who fail to

  57. go all in for Jesus. Truth be told, at one point or

  58. another, that's been every Christian, right?

  59. Each and every single one of us in this room, including myself.

  60. So the main idea here is that Jesus wants us to really

  61. understand what following him entails, how hard it will be.

  62. And then he tells us to follow him with our whole hearts

  63. anyway. So I'm going to get right to our

  64. first point here today, which is having zeal without counting the

  65. cost. And and so the first part of our

  66. passage, verses 18 through through 20 says now when Jesus

  67. saw a crowd around him, he gave orders to go over to the other

  68. side and a scribe came up and said to him, Teacher, I will

  69. follow you wherever you go. And Jesus said to him, foxes

  70. have holes and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man

  71. has nowhere to lay his head. So scribes, the scribes were

  72. like the official interpreters. They were the the documenters,

  73. the ones who who maintained documents and interpreted them.

  74. And they were the experts on civil law, kind of like the the

  75. lawyers of their of the time. Whereas the Pharisees were a

  76. religious sect that focused on the practical application of

  77. civil and religious law. And so these, these groups were

  78. distinct from each other in their duties, though they're

  79. often mentioned together in scripture as civil law and

  80. religious law were often intertwined in that culture.

  81. But this particular scribe, after witnessing these miracles

  82. and sitting for the teachings of Jesus, he's, he's eager to go.

  83. He wants to be part of this movement, right?

  84. After all, Jesus is a a powerful speaker, sharing wisdom and, and

  85. even offering perfect clarification on the things that

  86. this guy, this scribe was supposed to be the recognized

  87. expert in. So he definitely admires Jesus

  88. here. So, so when, when he's there and

  89. Jesus called the disciples to go across the lake, he sees them

  90. being told to get on the boat and, and to go to whatever it is

  91. that Jesus is planning on doing next.

  92. And the scribe says, Hey, I, I want, I want to be in, I want

  93. to, I want to be a part of whatever's going on next.

  94. And the passage doesn't tell us how the scribe responded to

  95. Jesus, which means that it's what Jesus said that we should

  96. focus on. And Jesus response is he

  97. explains some some pretty important facts, like the fact

  98. that he's homeless, right? This means that Jesus probably

  99. has almost no earthly possession.

  100. So we can infer from this that Jesus is telling this guy that

  101. that following him means a life of very little luxury.

  102. Now last week, we know from the passages that we read, we know

  103. that his disciple Peter had a home, but Peter and his brother

  104. Andrew, as well as James and John had all just walked off

  105. their jobs. We read that back in chapter 4

  106. of the same, of the same book. So he's saying this is a this is

  107. a transient lifestyle that offers little in the way of

  108. tangible security, at least in the way that the people think of

  109. it, right? A house and, and money and a

  110. pantry full of food that lasts for, you know, weeks and months

  111. and a career with a pension plan and all that.

  112. And, and although this passage doesn't speak to it elsewhere in

  113. Scripture, we know that there is even a danger that accompanies

  114. following Jesus. Many of the, of the, the, the

  115. original 12 disciples, if not all of them were martyred for

  116. their faith. And, and then history, of

  117. course, tells us of the atrocities that the Christians

  118. face in the 1st century. What we get, excuse me, what we

  119. get from his response, is that the scribe is looking at a

  120. humble life ahead if he follows Jesus.

  121. In fact, the phrase that Jesus uses to refer to himself, Son of

  122. Man in our in our passage is in itself a proclamation of

  123. humility because Jesus is fully God.

  124. He isn't simply the Son of God, and he isn't simply a man who

  125. lives a good life and attains godhood.

  126. He is the eternal embodiment of God here on earth.

  127. Theological term for that is hypostatic union.

  128. And that just simply means that Jesus exists in one person with

  129. two distinct natures, without confusion, without change,

  130. without division or separation. So Jesus is telling the scribe

  131. not to make a hasty decision about following him or not,

  132. because if God in the flesh lives a humble, transient,

  133. dangerous life, then his followers should expect that as

  134. well. And he wants, he wants this

  135. scribe to know that being a Christ follower isn't the easy

  136. life here on earth. And Jesus knows what's coming

  137. for himself, right? He knows that.

  138. That although He is God in the flesh and lives without sin, He

  139. knows that. That one day He will be falsely

  140. arrested and flogged and beaten. He knows that people will mock

  141. Him and spit on Him before they nail him to the cross and murder

  142. Him because of the sins that we commit.

  143. And since He knows that that is what awaits Him, He wants us to

  144. know that we must also consider what following Him will cost us.

  145. Now, as I said a few minutes ago, Jesus has has at this point

  146. become very popular for his teachings and his miracles in

  147. our next chapter as we continue on with the the miracles in

  148. Matthew 9 in verse 26, it says in the in the report of this,

  149. these miracles, the report of this went through all that

  150. district and a few verses later still in that same chapter, it

  151. says, but they went away and spread his fame through all that

  152. district. So his he, he was, he was

  153. gathering a large following, but in true human fashion, many of

  154. those peoples are many of those people are, are following him

  155. because they want what he has here and now, right?

  156. They, they want food. He's he's, you know, on, on

  157. several occasions Jesus has fed them.

  158. He, they want to be healed. They've seen and heard of these

  159. miracles. And so they want what he has

  160. here and now. They are missing the big picture

  161. of what being a Christ follower is all about.

  162. But Jesus wants them to really think about this.

  163. And in a in in the Gospel of Luke, we see a very similar kind

  164. of a dynamic that that Jesus walks us through.

  165. It says For which of you desiring to build a tower does

  166. not first sit down and count the cost whether he has enough to

  167. complete it. Otherwise, when he has laid a

  168. foundation and is not able to finish, all who see all who see

  169. it begin to mock him, saying this man began to build and was

  170. not able to finish. Or what king going out to

  171. encounter another king in war will not sit down 1st and

  172. deliberate whether he is able with 10,000 to meet him who

  173. comes against him with 20,000? And if not, while the still the

  174. other is is yet a great way off, he sends a delegation to ask for

  175. terms of peace. So therefore, any one of you who

  176. does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple.

  177. Now Jesus never tells us to remove logic from our decision,

  178. but we should be careful about making a decision based on

  179. emotion. In Proverbs 19 verse 2, it says

    Proverbs 19:2

  180. desire without knowledge is not good and whoever makes haste

  181. with his feet misses his way. So in fact, he's urging us to

  182. understand logically that the decision to put our faith solely

  183. in Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of our sins and

  184. therefore the gift of of eternal life is free.

  185. But it comes with a transfer of ownership.

  186. That means recognizing and agreeing to some terms first.

  187. That's why we see this in the midst of these miracles, these

  188. these miracles that are getting people excited and they're like,

  189. I want to be a part of that. So he's telling us about that.

  190. And it's not hidden in the fine print either.

  191. Jesus is, is telling them plainly, we cannot follow him

  192. and the world's way at the same time, the world's ways are

  193. about, you know, me, me, me. It's it's about making a name

  194. for ourselves, about getting paid, about climbing the

  195. corporate or the OR the social ladders.

  196. But in following Jesus, we may suffer the loss of some of our

  197. relationships. We might lose customers at our

  198. business and therefore we would have less money and less

  199. materialism. Guys, we might be put to death

  200. for our beliefs as Christians. And that's not hyperbole.

  201. That's what we're promised in Galatians 524.

  202. Whether we're we're put to death or not for our faith, one thing

  203. is for certain, our our sinful ways will be put to death.

  204. In Galatians 524 says this, it says and, and those who belong

  205. to Christ and those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified

  206. the flesh with its passions and desires.

  207. And let's be honest, for some people, for some Christians,

  208. this is scarier than death because sometimes we hold on to

  209. our secret sin and we even, we even protect it, although we

  210. might be ashamed of it and, and wish that we could be rid of it.

  211. The idea of it being removed from us is hard and it's, it's

  212. scary. Jesus, though, isn't saying this

  213. to scare us, but to make sure that we aren't just zealous

  214. about being part of an exciting movement without considering the

  215. totality of what is involved. As we said, it's a transfer of

  216. ownership. And when we think that we're

  217. following him because we, you know, go to church somewhat

  218. regularly or or, you know, because we have a cross around

  219. our neck or something, but we don't fully surrender to him and

  220. come to this with wisdom. In James 1/6, it says that we'll

  221. be like a, a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the

  222. wind. In other words, zeal without

  223. knowledge of the cost is dead. In the synoptic gospels and

  224. Matthew, Mark, Luke and John, excuse me, Matthew, Mark and

  225. Luke, Jesus tells the parable of the soils.

  226. Many of you guys are probably familiar with that, but it's a,

  227. it's an image lesson of, of scattering seeds right on on the

  228. ground and, and it's representing people responding

  229. to the gospel or or not. And, and some take root and, and

  230. others are, you know, snatched up by, by the birds.

  231. And when he speaks of the rocky soil, he says that the seeds

  232. sown in it sprout quickly, but when the sun comes up, they are

  233. scorched. Their roots are not established

  234. properly, right? And so they die.

  235. He's talking about people who get excited about new faith, but

  236. it was never real. And I think we still see this

  237. kind of thing happening today. In fact, I think that we see

  238. churches and ministries that sometimes thrive on this,

  239. whether it's intentional or not. And I think, I think often it is

  240. many preachers and, and ministries offer up a powerful

  241. sermon or an impassioned evangelism or, or an amazing

  242. piece of music that engenders the heart to this crescendo of,

  243. of feeling. And then they lead them through

  244. a version of the the sinner's prayer that that person repeats,

  245. but with no real understanding of what it means to be a Christ

  246. follower. Now.

  247. Billy Graham Billy Graham was a a famous evangelist and he held

  248. revivals all over the world. And and they say that during all

  249. of these revivals that he held that there was upwards of 215

  250. million people who heard the gospel at those events.

  251. And according to his staff, more than 3.2 million people have

  252. responded to the invitation at Billy Graham Crusades to accept

  253. Jesus Christ as their personal savior.

  254. Amazingly though, Billy Graham himself often said that he

  255. estimated that roughly 1/4 of those of those people who went

  256. forward and thought they were becoming followers of Jesus

  257. actually came to saving faith. That was Billy Graham's

  258. estimation of of that. So now on one hand we can

  259. celebrate that based off of that math 800,000 people came to know

  260. Jesus personally, but what about the other 2.4 million people who

  261. thought they were Christian? But we're not now this is not

  262. something we should take lightly.

  263. I think it was a couple weeks ago we read this passage in

  264. Matthew 7 verses 21 through 23. This is not everyone who says to

    Matthew 7:21–23

  265. me, Lord, Lord will enter the Kingdom of heaven, but the one

  266. who does the will of my Father who is in heaven on that day.

  267. Many will say to me, Lord, Lord, did we not prophecy in your name

  268. and cast out demons in your name and do many mighty works in your

  269. name? And then will I declare to them,

  270. I never knew you depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.

  271. Guys, it is, it is crucial that people know what it means to be

  272. a Christ follower. Every one of us in this room has

  273. family and friends that believes that they are followers of

  274. Jesus, but they don't actually know what it entails.

  275. We need to sit on that for a minute.

  276. We should contemplate that. But in our passage in our

  277. passage here, though, it isn't just the zealous follower that

  278. that doesn't fully know what he's getting into that Jesus

  279. cautions, but also those who are counting the cost, but with no

  280. zeal. That's our second point here

  281. today. And as we continue into the the

  282. next part of the of our of our main passage here in verses 21

  283. through 22, it says another of the disciples said to him, Lord,

  284. let me first go and bury my father and Jesus said to him,

  285. follow me and leave the dead to bury their own dead.

  286. Well, what does that mean? To leave, Leave the dead to bury

  287. their own dead? Well, this is a a paradox that

  288. doesn't make sense at face value per SE, but Jesus uses it

  289. masterfully so. But in order to understand what

  290. he's getting at here, we need to look at Paul's letter to the

  291. Ephesians to get some context. And in chapter 2 of Ephesians,

  292. the 1st 2 verses, it says and you were dead in your trespasses

  293. and sins. In which you once walked

  294. following the course of this world.

  295. See left alone in our sin, we are spiritually dead.

  296. We are eternally dead. If you've ever heard the action,

  297. the acronym of Tulip, it's Tulip or of of the OR referred to as

  298. the Doctrines of grace. This concept would be the the T

  299. in that acronym for total depravity.

  300. Now the the the doctrine of total depravity is an

  301. acknowledgement that the that the Bible teaches that as a

  302. result of the fall of man that we read about in in Genesis 3,

  303. every part of man, his his mind, his will, his his emotions and

  304. his flesh have been corrupted by sin.

  305. Not that he not that he actively sins 100% of the time, but that

  306. it that all parts of him have been corrupted.

  307. In other words, sin effects all areas of our being in including

  308. who we are and what we do. So the first dead in our passage

  309. is talking about non believers. Those who are who are separated

  310. from God's goodness because of because of their their sin and

  311. have not placed their faith in in Jesus.

  312. But the second dead is talking about the things of the world.

  313. The example here that that he uses in this or that we see in

  314. here in this passage is basically having a funeral for

  315. the man's dead and the man's dad.

  316. Jesus really swings for the fence here.

  317. He gets right at it and he makes his point.

  318. Going right at something that we would generally say is a is a

  319. high priority, a healthy priority in our lives to honor a

  320. loved one who has died. That seems like a pretty good

  321. thing to do to honor your father and your mother, but it's not.

  322. Now Jesus isn't saying that funerals are bad or or that we

  323. shouldn't participate in and that's not what it is.

  324. He's he's saying that nothing of the world should be of a higher

  325. concern to us than worshipping and following him.

  326. In Colossians chapter 3 verses one and two, it says if then you

    Colossians 3 chapter mention

  327. have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above

  328. where Christ is seated at the right hand of God.

  329. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that

  330. are on earth. Jesus is reminding this disciple

  331. of of a critical fact. You are not part of them

  332. anymore. Stop clinging into that dead

  333. world and the things that the dead world thinks are valuable.

  334. So in the first part of our passage today, we saw a scribe

  335. that was too quick to want to follow Jesus without knowing

  336. what all that entailed. But here now we see a disciple.

  337. So so then someone who is already following Jesus, who

  338. lacks the passion to prioritize Jesus above all else.

  339. So in the middle of this chapter, telling us all about

  340. these amazing miracles that he was doing.

  341. It didn't say anything about the one Eric just did with catching

  342. that thing was fell off the off the the thing.

  343. I sort of saw that from my seat. But but but right here in the in

  344. the middle of this, Jesus reminds us that that that some

  345. people love what he says, but they don't realize all that the

  346. Christian life entails. And then there are those who

  347. believe in Jesus but fail to recognize him as king of their

  348. life above everything else. There is no passion or zeal in

  349. their relationship with Him in in having been saved from the

  350. clutches of hell. Now I was reading this article

  351. from Ligonier Ministries and it said the substitutionary

  352. atonement of Jesus Christ is not only something to affirm and

  353. defend, but it should be something in which we rejoice.

  354. Yes, zeal without knowledge is dead, but knowledge without deep

  355. affection is just as lifeless. See if you guys were here with

  356. us not too long ago, couple months ago at Christmas time, we

  357. read a passage from Isaiah 9. That one was verse 6.

  358. You've heard it before at Christmas time a lot it says or

  359. to us, a child is born to us a son is given right?

  360. But but right before that, in the passage in verses 2 and

  361. three, it says the people who walked in darkness have seen a

  362. great light. Those who dwelt in a land of

  363. deep darkness on them has light shone.

  364. You have multiplied the nation. You have increased its joy.

  365. They rejoice before you as with joy at the harvest as they are

  366. glad when they divide the spoil. So back in the Old Testament,

  367. the thought of a of a coming Messiah was something that was a

  368. light in the darkness like like like we see there.

  369. It was an amazing blessing that brought joy and gladness to the

  370. oppressed, and it should do the same to those of us who have

  371. become followers of that Messiah.

  372. It isn't just business as usual. We should be excited to to to

  373. follow Him, to be counted amongst the disciples.

  374. We should be joyous that we are no longer eternally dead.

  375. Romans 611 says so. You must also consider

  376. yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Jesus Christ.

  377. Our our full faith in Jesus moves us not only from a place

  378. of of eternal death, but into a place of eternal life and

  379. eternal joy. Jesus called us to an exciting,

  380. passionate, radical faith that that means that you're going to

  381. have to choose between the the things that are good and the

  382. things that are great. He says, compared to me, you're

  383. going to need to hate those good worldly things that you love.

  384. That article that I mentioned from Ligonier, it continues on

  385. and it says it should be obvious to script.

  386. It should be obvious that Scripture calls us to be a

  387. people who feel what we believe, who not only know truth but

  388. experience it. There is an order to this.

  389. Our feelings and emotions must be governed and guided by truth.

  390. We are to fear the Lord, hate evil, love the truth, mourn over

  391. sin and injustice, and rejoice in our in our sufferings.

  392. These are not naked commands, but precepts given by God in

  393. light of who He is and what He has done.

  394. We are supposed to feel the weight and power of the truth

  395. revealed in Scripture, but what does that look like to be

  396. zealous for our faith? To be excited and passionate

  397. about this radical relationship with and love for Jesus?

  398. What does it look like to leave the spiritually dead non

  399. believers to worry about worldly things?

  400. Well, as if the idea of of targeting A beloved father's

  401. funeral wasn't hard enough for us to consider, in the Gospel of

  402. Luke, Jesus cuts to the bone even more in chapter 14, verses

  403. 25 through 27. I think it is says now great

  404. crowds accompanied him and he turned and said to them, if

  405. anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother

  406. and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and

  407. even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.

  408. Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot

  409. be my disciple. OK, let's just pause for a

  410. second here and and and digest this idea that in order for us

  411. to have a proper attitude about following Jesus that we would

  412. hate our parents and our spouses and our children.

  413. How is that? How is that OK?

  414. How do we sort of reconcile that?

  415. What Jesus is telling us is that that by comparison, our love for

  416. him and our unquestionable prioritization of him and of his

  417. will would then make our love for our family and those good

  418. things in in, in our life that we that we love look like hate.

  419. He should be so clearly in the top spot of things that we care

  420. about that everything else is left behind.

  421. Now, guys, we know from other places in scripture that he is

  422. not telling us to, to hate people, right?

  423. So we can know then that what he is calling us to do is to be

  424. passionate, in fact, more passionate about our

  425. relationship with him. And, and honestly, why wouldn't

  426. we be? Why wouldn't we be more

  427. passionate about that in our, in our passage when he says leave

  428. the dead to bury their own dead, he has articulated that there is

  429. a difference between US and the spiritually dead.

  430. So, so just like we said a minute ago, you are not part of,

  431. of, of them out there anymore. Stop clinging to that dead world

  432. and the things that the that the dead world thinks are valuable.

  433. You who who have placed your faith in Jesus Christ alone are

  434. spiritually alive. You have been rescued from

  435. eternal death. Think about this.

  436. If you were, you know, lost at sea, You're, you're, you're

  437. drifting out to, to sea and you, you've lost your oars or your

  438. motor or whatever it is, and you're drifting out to, to sea.

  439. You are, you know that you are facing certain death, right?

  440. There is no way you're going to last getting all the way to the

  441. other side of of the ocean. And then I'll if a, if a ship

  442. came along and rescued you, you would be ecstatic.

  443. You'd try tears of joy every time you thought about what you

  444. were rescued from the pain and the, and the worry and the, the,

  445. the, the terror of drifting out to sea and to your to your

  446. certain death. Well, that's who we are.

  447. We are the rescued. Why wouldn't we be in the

  448. business of of passionately sharing our story with other

  449. people? Why wouldn't we be excited to

  450. tell them how they can also be rescued as well?

  451. So we must consider these these two challenges that Jesus gives

  452. us and find out how to apply the lessons in our lives today.

  453. My friends, that means that Jesus needs to be he needs to be

  454. your first love period, end of story.

  455. Nothing else. Nothing else should transcend

  456. that He needs to be the most important thing in your life.

  457. But what does that look like? It looks like just that

  458. prioritizing him, reading him right, reading his word.

  459. This is a priority in your life. How many of us this is?

  460. I don't, I'm not trying to point fingers or anything like this,

  461. but how many of us aren't getting into our our our Bibles

  462. on a regular day at at home? And I mean, we don't even take

  463. them to church, right? We don't even hold the pastor

  464. accountable to, to making sure that, that, that, that we are

  465. honoring God by being in this with our church family and

  466. making sure that what is spoken from, from this stage is

  467. accurate to what, what he said. We need to prioritize reading

  468. him and knowing what's in here so we know what to share with

  469. those lost people out there. We need to be able to recognize

  470. that when when somebody gives us something else that is

  471. counterintuitive to this, counter to the truth of this,

  472. that we could speak back to it. So we need to prioritize him by

  473. reading his word and taking it seriously that this is a gift

  474. that he gave us and he miraculously has maintained for

  475. us to this day. We need to be talking to him.

  476. That's our prayer life again. How many times, and I'm just

  477. speaking to myself right now, how many times have we stepped

  478. away from our even our own habits of, you know, pray at

  479. this time in the morning and I and I pray for how I dedicate

  480. this much time to him or whatever.

  481. But on this day, I just wasn't feeling it.

  482. And then the next day wasn't feeling it again today, but I'll

  483. get back to it. How many times have we done

  484. that? I've done it a million times.

  485. We need to talk to him. It's a relationship with him.

  486. We wouldn't, we wouldn't go without talking to our spouse

  487. about them. The big things in life and the

  488. small things. God deserves to be the the, the,

  489. the recipient of the big things you talk about and the small

  490. things that you that you talk about.

  491. It means seeking him. It means wanting to know more

  492. about his heart right by getting into his word and seeing what he

  493. says about himself. It means worshipping him John

  494. did a great job this morning of walking us through what worship

  495. is as a spiritual discipline and I it was it was great as he was

  496. saying that a couple different times I had these light bulbs

  497. going off of man. I really could I could really

  498. grow in that area or with that part of my just my attitude

  499. towards it. But but in worshipping him, in

  500. committing to being an active participant, participant in his

  501. in his body here, right the, the, the church in serving

  502. sacrificially, in giving sacrificially, in loving

  503. sacrificially. You know, back in the 1st

  504. century, when we look at the 1st century church, they were

  505. meeting together in each other's homes every single day.

  506. And we struggle to make it to to make church a priority

  507. sometimes. What about being a part of a

  508. small group study, a Bible study with other believers?

  509. We have to prioritize that. What about meeting with another

  510. person to invest in their messy life?

  511. Guys, I'll let me tell you this. I get one of the blessings of my

  512. position is that I get to be involved in your messy lives, in

  513. your chaos, right? And you could be involved in

  514. mine and it is a gift. It's not, it's not a chore.

  515. It's not a chore to, to love on the person that's down the, the,

  516. the, the road from you right now.

  517. It's not a chore to go into their home when their kids are

  518. screaming or when they're talking about marital problems

  519. or when they're coming to you yet again with, Hey, I'm not

  520. getting any traction in my my spiritual life.

  521. And you know, it's because they, they, they're not open on the

  522. Bible. They're not being a part of the

  523. church body, whatever. These are blessings for us to be

  524. able to to, to do, to be all in this way, to sell out to Jesus

  525. and make him the priority of us of our lives.

  526. When we do this, we have we have the time in our lives to do

  527. this. And don't let anybody convince

  528. you that you're so busy that you can't do that.

  529. In fact, let me take a second and just call some call the men

  530. out here for a second, because here's the here's the thing.

  531. I believe with my whole heart. If, if, if men followed Jesus

  532. properly and LED their families properly, our world would be a

  533. different place. We used to be a Society of, of,

  534. of, of overworking men, right? Guys that would, that would work

  535. 70 hours a week. They weren't home, but now we

  536. have more time. Some of us work from home or we

  537. have opportunities to work from home or, or to handle some of

  538. these, these sort of add on projects over the computer, over

  539. text messages or, or you know, whatever it is we have more time

  540. with and for our families than ever.

  541. But are we using that time appropriately for God?

  542. How many of us guys, how many of us spend more time on our

  543. hobbies than on promoting Christ in our homes?

  544. All of us, men and women, have room to improve in our zeal for

  545. following Jesus. And I'll tell you what, when you

  546. do that, you'll be a better spouse, you'll be a better

  547. father, you'll be a better mom, you'll be, you'll be better at

  548. your job, you'll be a better boss because he's going to be

  549. changing you from the inside out.

  550. And the people around you will be impacted by these changes.

  551. I know several of you know I'm talking to you right now because

  552. we've had these conversations and these changes you're

  553. building in your life. You don't necessarily think

  554. you're impacting people, but you are.

  555. They're watching you and they're learning something about, about

  556. God because you talk about them and you share these things that

  557. you're passionate about. So let this change you and, and

  558. watch how it changes the, the, the people around you.

  559. This doesn't mean guys, that life gets easier, that you're,

  560. you know, you're not going to be rich.

  561. And honestly, I can't imagine you guys could look any better.

  562. But but God might call you to leave your job and go into the

  563. mission field. He might prompt you to give more

  564. at church and vacation less. You might lose friendships.

  565. When, when, when this change happens inside you and your

  566. behavior changes and you're not interested in living the same

  567. lifestyle that that you once cherished, you know you'll find

  568. yourself, you are less comfortable living amongst the

  569. worldly. I promise you, you'll face

  570. persecution in some way. Rather than tell you again why,

  571. why that's all a good thing, Let's end this with something

  572. that Paul wrote to the church at Rome in Romans 8, verses 18 and

    Romans 8:18

  573. 19, he says. For I consider that the

  574. sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the

  575. glory that is about to be revealed to us.

  576. For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing

  577. of the sons of God. All of creation stands waiting

  578. with braided with bated breath to see how God, in His infinite

  579. love and mercy, promises to pour out blessings on His beloved.

  580. You guys pray with me Lord God. I've, I think I've been both of

  581. these men in this, in this passage at different times in

  582. life. In fact, I know that I have and,

  583. and each of us here can probably very much relate to this.

  584. Either we, we get excited about hearing a sermon and, and the

  585. things that we read in, in the Bible and we, we want to be a

  586. part of that because it's exciting and it's new and it's

  587. got good advice and all that. But we don't really take into

  588. context what all of that means. The hard, the hardness of the

  589. Christian life, the things that will be difficult for us, the

  590. cutting away of sin that the changing of our ways and, and

  591. the, the, the loss of friendships and new friendships.

  592. And so, Lord, for those people here in the room, I would ask

  593. that you would help them to really understand what they're

  594. they're looking at here and to make a solid profession of faith

  595. that they would really, truly would, would be they would

  596. understand that that it is only through your life, death and

  597. resurrection that they have an opportunity at, at participating

  598. in your glory forever and not facing eternal death.

  599. But Lord, for those of us who who are believers, and yet we

  600. lack, for whatever reason that we've justified, we lack some

  601. level of passion about being the church, about being your hands

  602. and feet. We, we lack a willingness to put

  603. you as the top priority in our life.

  604. Lord, I just ask that you would wreck us over that, Lord.

  605. If there are, if there are things in my life that I am

  606. prioritizing or over you, Lord, you can you destroy them for me,

  607. Lord, and, and, and take them away from me so that you are

  608. clearly in that top position. I don't want to have anything

  609. that stands between between me and you, Lord, you are the King

  610. of Kings and I just ask that you would help all of us to to do

  611. that and that that through that change, we would be a people who

  612. come to you with contrite, humble hearts and that recognize

  613. you really truly where you belong on the throne as King of

  614. Kings and Lord of Lords. Lord, we love you and we thank

  615. you. Say this in Jesus name, Amen.

  616. Amen. Would you stand and sing a

  617. response for this?