Sermon
The Practice of Service | November 3, 2024
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We brought nothing
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into this world and we
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will take nothing out.
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Just this right here.
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Well, not even
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this flesh gets
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to go right.
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Just this heart.
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And man, what a
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gift that we have
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to give to the Lord.
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Hit praise and
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adoration and love.
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It's pretty
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awesome stuff.
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Well, we've been
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talking about the
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Jesus Way, right?
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Practicing the ways of
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Jesus as an apprentice
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of Jesus the Savior.
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Now, last week we
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had a really neat
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time talking about
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generosity and a
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couple of ladies
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shared from their
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trip to the hurricane
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relief, and then I
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had a chance to preach
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for about 15 minutes.
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Eric, Derek,
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come on up here.
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Blake.
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Blake.
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Hey Chris.
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Go grab Derrick Blake,
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would you come on
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up here, man, come.
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No, come up here.
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I need you.
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Grace.
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Grace, I need
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your help.
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Come here.
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I just, I wanna,
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I wanna honor the
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people who serve.
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Because if you stay
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with me, this is
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a segue, serve.
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Don't lose sight
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of that word.
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There's a lot of
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people who work
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hard and serve as
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part of White Rock,
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uh, all week long
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doing lots of stuff.
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And especially
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on a Sunday.
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There's lots of
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moving parts.
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And these guys up
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here, people on the
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worship team and the
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sound booth next door,
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huge crew working with
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the kids, greeters,
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all kinds of stuff.
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Coffee bar stuff
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people are serving
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all the time.
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Youth ministry
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during the week and
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children's ministry
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stuff all over.
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Like great,
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great stuff.
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So there's a lot
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of people who serve
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really hard and their
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hearts for service
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are beautiful.
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And so try to listen
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real intently.
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Last Sunday, I had
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about 15 minutes after
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the ladies were done
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to share with you
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generosity, right?
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And I was excited
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because this beautiful
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picture of the hand
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posture, which is
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really the heart
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posture of generosity,
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is this open
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handedness, right?
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That everything I
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have is the Lord's
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whatever he wants,
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whatever he chooses.
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My hands are open.
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They're not balled
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up in a fist
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holding my stuff
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towards God, but.
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Man, my, my hands
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are open, ready to
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receive what he wants,
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but to take anything
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that's his 'cause.
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It's all his, right,
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everything I have
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and I was excited to
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unpack, you know, I
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only got 15 minutes,
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but that's okay.
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I knew that the Lord
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would use it, but as
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soon as the ladies
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went down the stairs,
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my good friend Derrick
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Blake in the back
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by the door, right
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where Daniel is.
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Daniel, I'm gonna
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have to have you
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help a minute.
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Okay.
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You watching Derek
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started doing this.
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Okay.
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Right, right.
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To which I thought
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maybe this is my
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friend Derek harassing
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me because what
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does this mean?
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Hurry up.
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Thank you.
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Yes.
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So, uh, uh, uh,
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just, just a second.
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Keep it rolling.
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No hurry up.
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Right?
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So couple minutes
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went by and Derek's
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looking through the
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window and then he
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steps out the entryway
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and then he comes
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back and again, does.
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Right.
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So I start
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talking faster.
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Well, by the
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seventh time
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you're walking by.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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It's a gift, right?
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It is a gift.
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Should have been this
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Sunday, because we're
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all gonna be hungry
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an hour earlier.
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Right.
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But by the seventh
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time, I was pretty
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certain that we had
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an ambulance out
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there and somebody
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in real trouble
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and a real problem.
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And I better wrap
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this crazy sermon
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up and go, right.
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So I get done, I
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start to walk to
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the back, and I look
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down on my watch and
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I have my phone and
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it's 1124, right?
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And 1130 is our
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normal time.
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I'm like, dude, I went
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as fast as I could.
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And Derek's first
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words were What?
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Oh, keep going.
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You almost, you
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almost made it, man.
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You missed it because
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what were you trying
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to tell me to do?
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Well keep it going.
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Keep it rolling.
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Stretch it out.
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Yeah.
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Stretch it out.
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Yeah.
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Stretch it out.
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Yeah.
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Keep going.
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Stretch it out.
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Keep going.
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Stretch it out, right?
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Keep going.
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Yep.
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So, just because I
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want to give Eric
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some props, because
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these two guys, if
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you know him, they,
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they're, they're like.
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Same brother,
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different mother
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kind of thing, right?
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So walking across
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the parking lot after
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harassing Derek for
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a few minutes, I see
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Eric walk by and I
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said, Eric, Eric,
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what does this mean?
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I mean, you want
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to keep going.
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You want that?
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Yeah, that's
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what he said.
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Like, stretch it
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out, keep it going.
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I just want to
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acknowledge as we
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talk for a few minutes
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today about the
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practice of service so
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many people who serve,
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and we are gonna work
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on our hand signals.
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So we get this
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squared away.
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We'll have a little
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laminated sheet
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in the back, but
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big round applause
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for these guys.
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We work hard.
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Thank you fellas.
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And uh, I'm just
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looking forward to it.
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About five
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years, everybody.
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Yeah.
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Everybody's gonna be
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doing this, right?
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Like, yeah, yeah.
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No, they're not.
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No, no.
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Almost stretch it out.
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You guys do
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this to me.
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Jamie, you start
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doing this.
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I'm stretching it out.
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I just want you
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to know I learned.
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I learned.
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So if you got to lunch
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early last week, thank
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Derek because, uh, I
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was really worried and
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it, it all worked out.
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It was beautiful.
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Put your hands in
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your pocket buddy.
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Put your hands
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in your pocket.
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So service is actually
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the pro the practice
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that we're gonna talk
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just a little bit
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about this morning.
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We've got some special
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things we're gonna
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do, but if we go
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to Mark chapter 10,
Mark 10 chapter mention
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Jesus says that for
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even the son of man
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did not come to be
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served, but to serve
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and to give his life
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as a ransom for many.
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And so Jesus, the
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master, showed
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us his servants.
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That service is
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what it really means
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to be a disciple
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and a follower
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and an apprentice.
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If you go back to
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August 25th, we talked
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about these little
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silver rings, ss, and
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we are talking about
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the big church picture
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of Sunday worship
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gathering and small
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group discipleship
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and serving.
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And we went in depth
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in a lot of ways
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talking about what
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it means to serve.
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And specifically we
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looked at the idea of
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serving one another.
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That was to to serve
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the body of Christ,
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the family of God,
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and to not neglect.
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The family of God in
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our service and to
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really make sure that
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we engage in that.
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So serving within
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our faith community,
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super important thing.
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And this morning I
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want to stretch this
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thought a little bit
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and kind of expand
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our boundaries just
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a little bit to look
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more at service to
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our whole community
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as followers of
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Jesus Christ.
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'cause man, our
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world needs the
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love of Jesus.
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And the biggest way we
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get a chance to share
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his love is in serving
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others and loving our
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neighbor as ourself.
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So I'm gonna invite
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Jackie Allen to sneak
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up here and uh, I'll
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take a back seat to
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her for a few minutes
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and we've been kind
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of coordinating over
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the last few weeks
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when best to give you
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this shot at some fun.
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But Jackie and Abby
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Savoy and Maria
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Hunt all oversee
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our really cool rock
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solid families, family
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advocacy ministry.
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And so Jackie's gonna
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share some exciting
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things, some cool
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things, and uh,
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then I'm gonna wrap
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up just a little
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bit at the end.
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Well, thank you guys.
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I'm so excited to be
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here this morning.
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Um, so we wanted to
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take a few minutes
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this morning, um, to
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kind of reintroduce
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this ministry.
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This is something that
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has been in existence
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for about four years
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and I think it kind
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of comes in waves
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when we have a lot
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of work and a lot of
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ministry that we do.
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And then we kind
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of have some
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downtime in between.
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So, um, we kind of
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wanted to start by
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just reintroducing
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what this ministry
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is for those of
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you who may not be
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familiar with it.
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Um, and yeah, we'll
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talk about that.
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Um, I know Maria
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would've loved
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to be here.
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Mark, we're continuing
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to pray for her
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healing this week,
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and I know Abby is not
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complaining about not
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being on the stage.
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So I said I would
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be happy to do this
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myself this morning.
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Yes.
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So we're gonna
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start out with
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a short video.
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We work in partnership
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with a ministry called
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Hands of Hope, which
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is headquartered
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in Noblesville,
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which is awesome.
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They work throughout
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the state of Indiana.
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Um, and so they
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have put together
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this video.
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So let's start here.
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Meet Abby.
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She's a foster child
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and like 400,000 other
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children in the United
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States just like her.
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She stands in
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line for a foster
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care system that
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struggles mightily
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to provide children
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with loving homes.
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The cost of
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that struggle
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is staggering.
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Did you know that
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over 60% of American
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children caught up in
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sex trafficking come
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out of foster care,
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or that there are
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several states where
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over half the prison
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inmates come from
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the foster system,
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or that the majority
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of girls who age out
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of foster care become
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pregnant within two
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years, perpetuating
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the cycle of
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generational poverty.
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Abby needs more than
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a roof over her head.
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She needs a home.
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She needs more
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than this state.
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She needs a father
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and a mother.
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She needs consistent
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and sincere
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love, nurturing,
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accountability,
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and hope.
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Hands of hope exists
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to defend the cause
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of the fatherless
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and encourage
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the oppressed.
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Based off the
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biblical directive
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in Isaiah one 17,
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we are committed
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to be the hands of
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hope specifically
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for foster care.
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When we compare
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the number of kids
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in need of homes
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with the number of
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churches in America,
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a simple arithmetic
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becomes clear.
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If each church could
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raise up one foster
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family, we would
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be able to take all
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children in the foster
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system and place
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them in the care
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of a loving home.
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Hands of hope
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exists to encourage
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and equip these
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churches to raise
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up loving families
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and volunteers
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committed to caring
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for kids like Abby.
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We will achieve
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this in three ways.
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First, we use church
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awareness campaigns to
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inspire new families
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to express God's love
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by giving homes to
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children in need.
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Second, we provide
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an engineered care
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community to surround
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foster families
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with love and
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support, which keeps
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approved families
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fostering longer.
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Third, and finally, we
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provide many practical
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opportunities in which
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anyone can love and
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serve these children.
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Abby needs help.
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Churches want to help.
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Hands of hope helps
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churches by giving
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them clear direction
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and concrete actions
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to take hands of
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hope, helps Abby
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and many more like
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her by raising up
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families who want to
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defend and encourage
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by taking action.
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The need is great.
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The time is now.
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Let us be the hands
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of hope together.
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All right, so I think
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that video does a
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really good job of
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just kind of painting
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the overall picture
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of how desperate
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this need is in
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the United States.
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Um, these are some
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recent numbers
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though, which are,
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think are helpful.
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So in August of 2024
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in Hamilton County
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specifically, there
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were 158 children
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who needed services
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from DCS, which
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is the Department
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of Child Services.
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And 44 of those
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were needing home
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out of home slash
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non-relative
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foster care.
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Um, if we look in the
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Bible, we see right
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here in Mark nine
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that Jesus was taking
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the child in his arms
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and he said to them.
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Whoever welcomes
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one of these little
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children in my
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name welcomes me.
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And whoever welcomes
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me does not welcome
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me, but welcomes
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the one who sent me.
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And so we believe
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that caring for
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vulnerable families
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is very important to
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Jesus and should also
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be important to us
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here at White Rock.
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Um, so like I
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mentioned about four
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years ago, we launched
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a ministry that we,
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uh, called Rock Solid
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Families, and we
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prayed about it and
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decided that Matthew
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7 24 to 25 would
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kind of be the basis
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for this ministry.
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And so it says,
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therefore, everyone
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who hears these words
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of mind and puts them
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into practice is like
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a wise man who built
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his house on the rock.
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The rain came down
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and the streams rose,
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and the winds blew
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and beat against that
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house, yet it did
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not fall because it
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had its foundation
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on the rock.
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Recently, we've been
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talking a lot about
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these practices
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of Jesus, of being
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an apprentice of
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Jesus and caring
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for families and
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children in need is
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an important part
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of these practices.
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So what can we do?
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Um, we kind of have a
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three-pronged ministry
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that is, they already
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kind of mentioned
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in that video,
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but let me mention
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it to you again.
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So one element is
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church awareness
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and education.
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So yesterday for
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example, we were
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able to put on a,
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um, training called
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A Place to Belong.
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Thank you to everyone
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who came to that.
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I know there were
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people that did not,
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were not able to
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attend yesterday,
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and it was, honestly,
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it was super good.
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I want even better
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than I anticipated.
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So we're hoping to
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start doing that
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at least a couple
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times a year, maybe
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even quarterly.
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So keep an eye
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out for that.
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We're hoping to
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do another one in
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January or February.
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Um, and that training
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was specifically
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regards to.
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How can we be more,
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like the term is
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trauma informed, but
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how can we be more
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aware of how can
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we help children,
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especially who've
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come from backgrounds
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of trauma, um, and
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treat them in a way
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that is effective
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to sharing the love
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of Jesus with them.
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I would say too,
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Jackie, that the,
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what, 16 or 18 people
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that were there like
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probably stole a
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couple really good
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parenting tips that
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were just basic
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principles that were
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really well presented
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in the material.
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So even people who
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weren't looking
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at foster care or
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specifically working
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with trauma, uh,
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walked away with a lot
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of really good stuff.
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So there's some really
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big picture valuable
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resources that were
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offering in this
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thing too, that Yeah,
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I think we had just
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that the trainings
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that they do, I think
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are so concrete that
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they give really good,
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just like practical
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tools, not just like
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big picture, but hear
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how you can get down
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on the floor, face to
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face with a child and
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interact with them in
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a way that is really
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helpful, whether
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that child comes
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from a foster system.
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Or not, you know,
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any child who walks
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through our doors, we
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wanna be showing them
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the love of Jesus.
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So you're saying
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like, the next time
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we offer one of these
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people would be smart
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just to check it out?
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Hundred percent
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for free.
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Okay.
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It is free.
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Just wanna put a
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little plug in there.
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And we even had
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coffee and donuts.
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We'll probably
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do that again.
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So it's always
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the draw.
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All right, so then
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the second pro prong
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of our, kind of the
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work that we do as
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service projects.
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So, um, we've done
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different service
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projects in the past.
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We're hoping to
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keep doing more, but
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something that we
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just did recently
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and, um, this happened
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on the day I took my
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son to the hospital.
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So I did not, wasn't
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really in the right
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state of mind to get
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photos, unfortunately,
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but every October is,
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um, a month in which
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we kind of put focus
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toward appreciating
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the staff who work
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for the Department
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of Child Services.
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As you can imagine,
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um, especially
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licensed clinical
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social workers like
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Renee, um, do a
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lot of very, uh.
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Uh, difficult,
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stressful work, um,
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with taking children,
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trying to remove them
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from these places
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of abuse and neglect
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and bring them into
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a place of safety.
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Um, and it is
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taxing on their
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own mental status.
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And so we try to
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really just, um,
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even just, we took
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them lunch from
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Michelangelo's,
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the missions board
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helped us fund that.
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We wrote some cards
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of appreciation for
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them, um, just to
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help them know that
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they're not forgotten
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and the work that they
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do is appreciated,
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um, by those of us
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who are not doing
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that work every day.
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Mm-Hmm.
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And then the last
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big thing that we do
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is care communities.
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And so this is
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probably something
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that you guys have
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been more familiar
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with, but we're
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gonna talk a little
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bit more about
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this this morning.
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Um, and this is just
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kind of a really
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cool model where we
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can come and do what
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we call wraparound
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care, specifically
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for adoptive and
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foster families.
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Um, the people that
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are, you know, on
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the front lines of
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actually welcoming
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these children into
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their homes, um, being
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there through all
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the ups and downs and
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the court hearings.
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Um, the therapy
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appointments, meeting
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with their, um, what
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am I looking for?
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Their parents and all
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of those, yeah, their
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birth parents and
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all of those pieces.
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So it's a big
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responsibility.
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It's a lot of work
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for these families.
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And so for those of
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us who maybe, maybe
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you're feeling like,
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I don't have the time
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or the ability, or
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really the calling
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to actually step
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full time into foster
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care, but I still
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care about this.
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What can I do?
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Um, joining one of
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these communities
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to come around and
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do some practical
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work on this front
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is something that
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we have felt very
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honored to do.
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And so the biggest
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point here is
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that everyone
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can do something.
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So we've got a quick
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video here that's
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more specifically
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says, why do care?
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Communities matter.
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We're gonna
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watch that here.
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The foster care
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situation in the
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United States is dire.
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Over the past
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20 years, at any
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given moment, there
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have been 400,000
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or more children
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in state custody
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across the country.
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Most states have a
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significant shortage
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of homes for the
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children flooding
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their child welfare
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systems, systems that
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are oftentimes broken
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or functioning at
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a strain capacity.
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In some states,
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children end up
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sleeping at the
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child welfare office
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or in extended
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stay hotels because
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there aren't enough
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available homes.
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Now, each of
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these children has
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experienced trauma.
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Simply the fact that
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they've been removed
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from their family and
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everything they've
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ever known and held
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dear is traumatic.
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Caring for children
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from hard places
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and working within a
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sometimes frustrating
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system makes fostering
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and adopting an
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isolating journey.
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A journey.
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Foster parents all
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too often give up on
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across the nation.
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Only 50% of foster
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families will continue
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fostering after
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their first year.
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However, when foster
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families are well
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supported with an
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equipped, organized,
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and committed
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care community,
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more than 90% will
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continue beyond
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that first year.
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Committing to serve in
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a care community will
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make an incredible
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difference in the life
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of a foster family.
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We know well-supported
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families foster
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longer and stronger.
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All right, so what
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is a care community?
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Basically, this is a
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group that's a team
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of individuals in
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various roles who
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support the needs of
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family and children.
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So you're gonna have
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one person who acts
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as a team leader,
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that's kind of the
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liaison to help with
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the communication.
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They send an email
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every week they call
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the foster family
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or adoptive family,
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and just talk with
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them about what
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are your needs?
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How can we
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pray for you?
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How can we
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support you?
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You're gonna
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have some family
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helpers who provide
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practical details.
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This is a big piece
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that a lot of people
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feel like this is
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something I can do.
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Um, we pick one day
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a week, so let's say
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Tuesday for example,
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and every Tuesday
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somebody brings
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that family a meal.
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Um, and I know
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that that has been
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something that is
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a small detail that
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goes a really long
-
way for our families.
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Um, we've also had
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people help with
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housework and yard
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work, whether that's.
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Us picking up
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around the lawn
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or doing laundry.
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Um, I know when
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Derek Blake was on a
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team with us, um, he
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offered to do help
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with vehicle issues,
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um, for that whole
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year, for that family.
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Um, we also try to
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have a couple people
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who are specifically
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child mentors.
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And so these are
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people that are more
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intentional about
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spending time with
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the children who
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are involved here,
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whether that's with
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childcare or tutoring
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that could just be
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taking them out for
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ice cream every now
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and then and spending
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time with them in
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a specific way.
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And then we also try,
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if we're able to have
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an interim caregiver,
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somebody, um, maybe
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that's an individual
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or a couple who
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might be willing to
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even just provide an
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evening or a night.
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Um, if able may be
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a longer stretch
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of time where they
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can actually give
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some respite to that
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family and take those
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children off their
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hands for a period
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of time so that they
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can actually get
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some rest for their
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mental health as well.
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So this provides
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prayer, encouragement,
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meals, connections
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with the kids, and
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overall just tangible
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support that, um, just
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helps this family know
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that they're not alone
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with all of these,
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the good, hard work
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that they're doing.
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So, real fast, I
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wanted to show you
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some quick pictures.
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Most of you guys
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are gonna recognize
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the people in
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these photos.
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What has our impact
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been here in the
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last four years?
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We've had the
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privilege of
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caring for four
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separate families
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in our church.
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Uh, Nate, Amy and
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Oliver Harshman.
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Um.
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Ollie was adopted
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from China several
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years ago and we
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were, they were kind
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of our test case.
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Uh, he was already
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with them when we
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started this ministry.
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Um, and Amy was going
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through some hard
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work having surgery
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on her knee and they
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needed the support.
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And so we were
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excited to kind
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of start out this
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ministry with them.
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Uh, Joel Jewel,
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Lily Matthew and
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Silas Williamson.
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Um, we were excited
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to share this, um,
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ministry with them and
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provide some care for
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them when they were
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first getting Matthew
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and before Silas
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was born actually.
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But we are excited to
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share that with them.
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Um, mark, Maria,
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Chris, John Lana,
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and James Hunt.
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Uh, when they did
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some fostering, we
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were able to provide
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some support for them.
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And then Ryan, Sarah,
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Jason and Hailey
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Christopher, uh,
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they were our first
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family that has
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fostered to adopt
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here in a long time.
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Um, and we're so
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thankful that we are
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able to support them
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through the whole long
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process of welcoming
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these children into
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their home, going
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through everything
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that's involved
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in fostering and
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eventually allowing
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them to adopt.
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So, yeah.
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Amen.
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That's pretty
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cool stuff.
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So here's the big
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picture question.
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What is next?
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Well, as I watched
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your video, it was
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clear to me that
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if every church
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in America helped
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one family and we
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just did like one,
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two, like we're
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done, we're done.
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Job White Rock.
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We did it.
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If only that's
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how it worked.
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Oh.
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Oh.
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But I think we're
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bored, right?
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Are we bored?
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A little bit.
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Little bored, right?
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We don't really
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have anybody on
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our radar at the
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moment that is in
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our church community
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that's meeting this.
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Well, it was fun
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to help people in
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our church family.
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That was cool, right?
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Super cool.
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But what if, and we
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started having this
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conversation, which
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is super cool, right?
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What if instead of
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helping a foster
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family and white rock,
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which we're gonna do,
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if the Lord raises
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that up, don't worry.
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But what if.
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We could come
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alongside an
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unchurched family
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who has no church
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affiliation at all, or
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maybe even interest.
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And as the church of
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Jesus Christ, create
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a care community to
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come along alongside
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of them as they
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walk through this
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fostering thing.
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Wouldn't that
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be awesome?
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That'd be super cool.
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What's next, Jackie?
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Absolutely.
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Uh, what a great
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idea, Andy.
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We should really
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look into that.
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I, that's what
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an original idea.
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Um, so yes, that's
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really what we
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are hoping to do.
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So one of our, um,
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Ashley, who's our
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church liaison with
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Hands of Hope, this
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is something that has
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been a possibility
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and been on our radar
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since we started
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this ministry.
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Um, but we, she
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started talking to
-
us about it a few
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months ago that there
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are some specific
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families that are
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in our area who are
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struggling, who are
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fostering currently,
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who need some support.
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Um, and is that
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a possibility?
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Is that something that
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White Rock can do?
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Um, and I felt like
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we just needed to
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sort out the timing,
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but I know the DNA
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of our church and I
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know the hearts of the
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people who are here
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and how awesome you
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guys are at stepping
-
up to love people
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in so many active
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ways, people that
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you know, and people
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that you don't know.
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And so we, um, see
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if I can press the
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right button here.
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We need you, um, God
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cares deeply about
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our families and
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children, and you can
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participate in the
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work he's doing by
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joining a team that
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we are forming for a
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local care community.
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Um, we, I would love
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to get a couple teams
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started, but at the
-
very least, we have
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one family that we
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know of that's in
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the Carmel area that
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we are hoping to
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go ahead and start
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building a team for.
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Um, some of you guys
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who have been on care
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communities before,
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I've already reached
-
out and we're starting
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to put those, put that
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team together, but we
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need some more people
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than what we have.
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Um, and so it's
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not complicated.
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Uh, basically there's
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basically an hour long
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orientation video and
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some questions which
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are done on your time.
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Just to kind of
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help give you some
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more background.
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You don't have to be
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a foster parent to
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know, you know, you
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don't have to have
-
lots of training
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to be part of this.
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Um, there's a virtual
-
launch meeting once
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we get everybody
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on the same page to
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form this team to
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share our passions
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and make plans.
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Um, 'cause everybody
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kind of has
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something that maybe
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God is stirring
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in your heart.
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What can you bring
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to the table?
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As I mentioned, Derek
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Blake has, you know,
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skills with auto, what
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am I trying to say?
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Autos, cars, vehicles.
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I know nothing about
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that, so I can't
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fix anybody's car.
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I can put gas in it.
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That's about as
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far as I can get.
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But if you, if you
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have a skill or a
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talent or a gift that
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you wanna bring to
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the table, um, we
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would love to find a
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way to plug you in.
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Um, well eventually
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we're gonna connect
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with this family.
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I don't even know
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their names yet.
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So we're gonna connect
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with them and get in
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touch and actually
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have a meet and greet
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meal with this family.
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Um, and then our
-
goal is to serve
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them for a year.
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Um, we'll see what
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comes from that, but,
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um, but really it's
-
more just kind of the
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meetings and the time
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on the front end once
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it gets launched.
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Um, it's really
-
just a week to
-
week situation.
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Maybe that means that
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you get an email and
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you pray for this
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family on a regular
-
basis and then you
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take them a meal
-
once, a once a month.
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Um, so I would say
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the commitment level
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is not that high.
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And given how serious
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the need is and how
-
much Jesus cares
-
about this, I think
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that it's really
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important for our
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church body to yeah,
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step up and be able
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to participate here.
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Plus super
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cool, right?
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To just get to
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love people really
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hard who are open
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to it, but they're
-
not open to church.
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Like how awesome is
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that you guys, we
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get a chance to just
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like wrap our arms
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around this community
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and show 'em or this,
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this family and say,
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Jesus loves you.
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You.
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That's why we're
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doing this.
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'cause Jesus loves
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you and that's it.
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And there's no, no
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strings attached.
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You don't have to
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come to our church.
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You don't have to
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listen to our stupid
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YouTube channel.
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That's fine.
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We don't care.
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We're just
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gonna love you.
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What an awesome
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opportunity that is.
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I mean, not that it's
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not cool to serve
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one another, it is
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cool, but when we
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get the door open up
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to serve those who
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are disinterested
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in Christ.
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Wow.
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Super cool.
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So how can they get
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in touch with you,
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Jackie, about this?
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Absolutely.
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If they have some
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interest or, well,
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you can come talk
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with me this morning.
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I will be here until
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the end of church
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'cause until the
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doors are locked,
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basically that's me.
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I'll be here.
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So you can talk
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to me anytime.
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But also Maria and
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Abby and I, you're
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welcome to send any of
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us an email or a text.
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Um, and we would just
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really, like our goal
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is to try to get this
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launched and moving in
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the next couple weeks
-
before the holidays.
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So, um, so yeah, I
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would ask you to just.
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Pray about that and
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see what the Lord
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might be doing in your
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heart in that area.
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Super cool.
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Hey, big round
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of applause for
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Jackie and the
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whole team helping
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to meet all that.
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Thank you.
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I'm gonna shake
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your hands, make it
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really appreciate.
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Thank you, Jackie.
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That was very
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official.
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Yes.
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Thank you.
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Super cool.
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And, uh, Jackie had
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one more thing in her
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presentation that I
-
asked her if she could
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take it out because it
-
was what I was gonna
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share this morning.
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And so we arm
-
wrestled, she won,
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but she was gracious.
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And let me do it,
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uh, because as we
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wrap up this thought
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on serving, um, and
-
it, I don't know
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if you'll listen to
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anything I have to
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say because hopefully
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the rest of the time
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you're sitting there
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thinking, wow, God,
-
how cool, how cool
-
of an inroad, how
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neat, what could I do?
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What should I do?
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How could I get
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involved with what
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you're doing in
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this situation?
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Oh, how could I
-
love my neighbor
-
even better?
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How could I serve
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people around me?
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This would be great.
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Oh, he prayed.
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We're done.
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That's okay.
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If that's you, I'm
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good with that.
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'cause what the
-
Holy Spirit wants
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to do is better than
-
what I gotta say.
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But I do want to tell
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you something Jesus
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said about this idea
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of serving, and I
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think it's pretty
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powerful, comes from
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Matthew Chapter 25.
Matthew 25 chapter mention
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And it's a parable.
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Jesus tells That's
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really not a parable.
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It's sort of a
-
picture of what life
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is gonna be like
-
one day as we stand
-
before the throne,
-
and it's commonly
-
referred to as the
-
sheep and the goats.
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And it goes like this.
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Jesus is speaking
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and he says, when
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the son of man comes
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in his glory, right?
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When Jesus comes
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at the end of time
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to take all people
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to stand before his
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throne of judgment,
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and all the angels
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are with him, he's
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gonna sit on his
-
glorious throne and
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all nations will
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gather before him.
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Every man, woman,
-
child who's ever been.
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Will stand before
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the throne of God
-
acknowledging who
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Jesus is as Lord
-
and judge over all,
-
and he will separate
-
the people one from
-
another as a shepherd
-
separates the sheep
-
from the goats.
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Now, years ago, I
-
was told this in
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some historic book
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in Israel, that sheep
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and goats, while
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today they look very,
-
very distinct back
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in the time of Jesus,
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sheep and goats kind
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of mingled together
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pretty consistently.
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And as they got
-
fluffier and fluffier
-
and hairier and
-
hairier, you couldn't
-
always distinguish
-
easily the difference
-
between the sheep and
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the goats, but the
-
shepherd always could,
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and he did it based
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on their behaviors
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and their demeanor.
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Kind of an
-
interesting time.
-
But Jesus uses this
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picture that at the
-
end of the age sitting
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on his throne, he
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separates the sheep
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from the goats.
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And he says this,
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he'll put the
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sheep on his right.
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And the goats
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on his left.
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Now, as much as you
-
wanna make this a
-
political moment,
-
please don't do that.
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Okay?
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Um, right-leaning,
-
left-leaning.
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That's not what
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this is about.
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And me bringing it
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up might have tipped
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my hand a little bit,
-
but just look away.
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He will put his sheep
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on the right and his
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goats on the left,
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and then the king
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will say to those on
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his right, the sheep,
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this is what he says.
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Come you who are
-
blessed by my father.
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Take your inheritance,
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the kingdom
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prepared for you.
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Since the creation
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of the world,
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take your reward.
-
Why?
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Well, for I was
-
hungry and you gave
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me something to eat.
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I was thirsty
-
and you gave me
-
something to drink.
-
I was a stranger and
-
you invited me in.
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I needed clothes.
-
You clothed me.
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I was sick.
-
You looked after me.
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I was in prison and
-
you came to visit me.
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And the sheep ask
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a very interesting
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question.
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And Jesus subtly
-
shifts this to
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righteousness now.
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Right?
-
The righteous and the
-
unrighteous, the sheep
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and the goats, the
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righteous the sheep.
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Ask this question,
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huh uh Lord, when did
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we see you hungry?
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When did we see
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you get thirsty?
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When a stranger, when
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needing clothing, when
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sick, when in prison,
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when maybe we helped
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a lot of people?
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Maybe we did a
-
lot of serving and
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making a difference
-
in the lives in
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the community.
-
But God, I feel like
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if you were sitting
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there in prison, I
-
would've picked up
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on the fact that the
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radiant king of all
-
glory was shining in
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the prison cell, and
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I'd have been happy to
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visit with you, right?
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Or that when you
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came to my door
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and you knocked in,
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in your radio and
-
glory, I saw you.
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I immediately prepared
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a meal for you because
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of who you were, but I
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never, never saw you.
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Never noticed.
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You didn't realize
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when, when, when did
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I do these things?
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Now, remember,
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they're receiving
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their inheritance.
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They've been commended
-
for their behavior
-
and their action
-
and their service.
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They have no idea
-
what the king is
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talking about, and
-
this is what he says.
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The king will reply.
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Truly, I tell you,
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whatever you did for
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one of the least of
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these brothers and
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sisters of mine,
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you did for me.
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When you love and when
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you serve even the
-
least of these, you're
-
not just doing it for
-
them and you're not
-
just doing it to them,
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you're doing it to me.
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Then the king
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looks to the left,
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to the goats, to
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the unrighteous.
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He says, depart from
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me, you who are cursed
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into the eternal
-
fire prepared for the
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devil and his angels.
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Why?
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Well, I was hungry and
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you gave me nothing.
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I was thirsty and
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you gave me nothing.
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I was a stranger.
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You didn't
-
invite me in.
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I needed to close.
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You didn't clothe me.
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I was sick.
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I was in prison.
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And much like
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the righteous,
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they said, whoa.
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Well, when I'll
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abbreviate the
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next verse for you.
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When, Lord, if you
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would've showed
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up in your radiant
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glory at our door
-
and knocked and said,
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can you help me?
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I would've helped you.
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I would've helped
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you in a heartbeat.
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Come on when you
-
never were there.
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And he says the
-
same to the goats,
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I tell you, whatever
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you did not do.
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To the least of these
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brothers and sisters
-
of mine, you did not
-
do for me what you
-
didn't do for the
-
least of these, you
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didn't do for me.
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Then they will go
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away into eternal
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punishment.
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Jesus says, but the
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righteous to eternal
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life, and I love the
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simplicity of this
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illustration 'cause
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we can get caught up
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in all the theology
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of works-based
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faith and blah,
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blah, blah, blah,
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blah, blah, blah.
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But in Jesus's
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telling of this, it's
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super simple, right?
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It's a two letter
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word, do the
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distinguishing factor
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between the goat, the
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sheeps, the righteous,
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the unrighteous
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is what you did
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and did not do.
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See, Jesus is serious
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about serving others,
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about loving our
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neighbor as ourself.
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Jesus isn't
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joking about that.
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He's not throwing out
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some fancy doctrinal
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words that sound
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pretty about what
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it looks like to
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live a saintly life.
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He's serious about
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what we do or what
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we don't do, and
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it somehow matters
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for all eternity.
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And he gives us
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this great picture,
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doesn't he?
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Hungry, thirsty,
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stranger, clothed,
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sick prison.
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This is a great
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list to kind
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of work off of.
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Is it all inclusive?
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Do you have to
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do everything
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on the list?
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I kind of tend to
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think, maybe we should
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stop asking those
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dumb questions and
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just say, let's do
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something on the list.
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Right?
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Forget about, did you
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check every box or is
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there a different box?
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I should check?
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Let's do
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something right.
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Hey, I just wanna
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say this as an
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encouragement church.
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'cause I think there's
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a point of conviction
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here for all of
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us that we have to
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own a little bit.
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And I think we should,
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but I also wanna
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say like hungry.
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Maybe thirsty fits
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in there too, right?
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But, but hungry.
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You guys do an amazing
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job of trying to
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bring food and get
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food to other people,
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and we do food.
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Uh, drives and
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different things
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all the time to
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try to help keep
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the pantry stocked
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and help people.
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You guys do a lot of
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things outside of the
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organized efforts of
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our church to try to
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help meet people's
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needs in the way that
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they need food, right?
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Some basic necessities
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and thirsty.
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I love this idea, like
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giving a cup of cold
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water in Jesus' name
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doesn't go unnoticed,
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but man, the amount
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of, uh, lemonade and
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water and tea you
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distribute during
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vacation Bible schools
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and during events
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and activities in our
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community and helping
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people, like you guys
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are doing some really
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great things there.
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Clothing.
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A couple times a
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year we're rocking
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this place with
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clothing giveaways and
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trying to get people
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things as a, as a.
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Organized body
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collectively
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trying to meet some
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of those needs.
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You guys are amazing
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when it comes to
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people who are
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sick between prayer
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and visitation,
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encouragement and
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providing meals and
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trying to support and
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come alongside people.
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Epic job there.
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You know, since Covid,
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it's been a bummer
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'cause we used to
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do, uh, Christmas
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dinner at the jail and
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Easter dinner at the
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jail, and we haven't
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been able to do those
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things again since
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that whole piece.
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But there's people
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involved in some
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prison efforts and
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some things, and maybe
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that's an area where
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you have a heart for
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that and maybe God
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wants to stir some
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more of that in you.
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That's a cool piece.
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And I love this
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idea of welcoming
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the stranger, the
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foreigner, the alien.
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I think a, as a
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church, you guys
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are incredible
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at loving people.
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Anybody God brings
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in these doors
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and on this place,
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whether it's our
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daycare families or
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just random people
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who walk in off the
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street and have no
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idea what they're
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getting into, right?
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Like just trying
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to love people.
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Well, you do an
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awesome job of that.
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But I was also
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thinking about this
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Sunday, or this
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Tuesday, we're gonna
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have the election, uh,
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polling place in here.
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Um, I'm gonna give
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you a chance today,
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actually at the
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end of the service
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if you want to
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serve a stranger.
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I'm gonna invite you
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to stack the chair
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next to you and
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help get the chair
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stacked in here so
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that people can come
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in here and vote.
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And, and actually if
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you wanna be part of
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our Tuesday coffee
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bar rotation, let me
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know if you're free
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on Tuesday and you
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wanna come for an hour
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or something, help
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serve coffee to people
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in the community.
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'cause let me just say
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to you as a polling
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place, we're gonna
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have a whole lot of
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people in here that
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are strangers and
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aliens and foreigners
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and are on the other
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side of the aisle
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than you, no matter
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what side of the
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aisle you're on.
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People who are
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different than us,
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and Jesus calls us to
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serve those people.
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One of the things
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that's fascinating
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to me is sitting
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here some days on
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these polling days
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and watching people
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come in and having
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conversation, and
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it's not too hard to
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pick up pretty quick
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how passionately
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they're driven.
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In values that are
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totally opposite
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of mine, and yet
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still giving 'em a
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cup of coffee and
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trying to encourage
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their day and show
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'em a little love.
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And man, that's a big
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piece of what's gonna
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play out on Tuesday
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too, guys, that God
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calls you in the land
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of darkness to shine
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your light brightly.
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And I don't think
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it's a coincidence
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that we're in this
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service weekend.
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We wanna serve our
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country and our civic
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responsibilities.
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But man, we are called
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to serve one another.
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And that includes
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people we don't like
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and people we don't
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want relationship
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with and we want
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to stay away from.
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And yet God calls
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us to be people
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who love and serve.
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And you gotta have
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some maybe healthy
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boundaries in some
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of that and some
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reasonable, you
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know, process to
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how you do it.
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And the Holy Spirit
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will lead you in it.
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But do not neglect
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to be obedient and
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faithful to God's call
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to serve those who are
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different than you.
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And who are on a
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foreign, I mean, I
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was, I was having
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breakfast the other
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day with somebody and
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an older gentleman
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walked in and then
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I realized it wasn't
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a gentleman, it
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was a gentleman
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in transition.
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And I couldn't really
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figure out how to
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engage very well.
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And it was a very,
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very obviously awkward
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kind of dynamic.
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And uh, tried to
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have a little chat
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on just, you know,
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the weather and how
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kolaches are awesome
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kind of thing, right?
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But I couldn't
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even figure out
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any common ground.
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And I kept trying and
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I was just praying
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while I was there.
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Lord, help me to
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help me to at least
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smile and shine,
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hope and light in
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some capacity, right?
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That's hard to do, but
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that's the world that
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we're living in now.
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And Jesus has not
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made us exempt
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from that world.
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And he hasn't said,
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you get to just step
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away from everybody
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different than you
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and don't love and
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don't serve others.
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We've gotta be
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people who fulfill
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what this scripture
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teaches us, right?
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That when we do
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this to the least
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of these, and in
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our own estimation,
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the least of these.
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We do it to
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Jesus, right?
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And the goal is that
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we will hear the king
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say that, Hey, not
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only are you just
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doing it to them,
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you're doing it to me.
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And ultimately
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he says the words
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to us that Jesus
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echoes in Matthew.
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Well done, good and
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faithful servant.
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Great job,
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apprentice of Jesus.
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Loving.
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Well, the people
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who are different
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than you, the people
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who are hungry and
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thirsty and sick
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and in prison,
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wherever they're at.
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Jesus calls us to
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this practice of
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serving others.
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I'm excited about this
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hands of hope thing
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coming alongside some
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unchurched family.
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Maybe another one.
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Do some cool
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things, man.
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Please pray
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about that.
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See how God might
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raise you up.
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But you have people
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in your neighborhood.
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You have people
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in your office.
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You have people
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in your business
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and community, and
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in your school.
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I.
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On your sports teams,
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you have people
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that are a struggle.
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You have people
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that are different.
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You have people
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that have needs.
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And it's easy for
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us to just look
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the other way.
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And man, Jesus says,
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Nope, not my people.
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My people roll
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up their sleeves
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like I did.
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And they didn't
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come here to get
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served by people.
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They came here to
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serve the people
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around them.
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So I challenge us
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in a time where it's
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very easy to be very
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selfish and consumed
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with our own self
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gratification and
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our own agendas.
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Our own passions, to
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stop looking at people
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through those lenses
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and instead look at
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the lens that Jesus
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calls us to precious,
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eternal beings.
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Lost in confusion,
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maybe lost in pain
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and suffering.
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'cause there's
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all kinds of sin.
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How can we love
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well, those people
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that God might
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bring into our path.
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How can we serve?
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Don't forget best
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statement in the
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history of the world,
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serving others does
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not lead to greatness.
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Serving others
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is greatness.
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The greatest in
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the kingdom is the
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servant of all.
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So let's be people
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who serve like
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Jesus and let's see
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where that takes
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everything, regardless
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of Tuesday and all
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the other days that
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are libel before us.
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Father, thank you
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for your love for us.
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Thank you for the call
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to be your servants.
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Lord, help us as we
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navigate this week.
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You know, the
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emotions, the
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anxieties,
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the worries.
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Lord, I pray you just
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help us to cast all
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those on you, father,
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that we would remember
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your sovereignty,
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win or lose if our
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candidate does well
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on Tuesday or not
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if our country's in
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turmoil all week.
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Lord, you've called
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us for such a
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time as this to be
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your apprentices.
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The world
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that we're in.
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So I pray this week,
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especially all the
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things we've talked
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about for the last
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several weeks, Lord,
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that all of them
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would kind of come
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to fruition in the
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way we love this
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week, that we'd be
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connected with you.
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That our hearts would
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be in solitude and
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peace regardless of
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the world around us.
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That we'd be people
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who are praying like
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crazy all week in all
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the moments, Lord, and
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that we would love and
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serve and be generous
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with our time, energy,
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and resources to the
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people around us.
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Lord, that people
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would see Jesus this
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week no matter what
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they see anywhere
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else but in us.
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They're gonna see you.
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Lord, we wanna stand
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with the persecuted
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church, thankful
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and joyful that our
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destination is not
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on this planet, that
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our hope is not tied
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to anything here.
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But Lord, we have
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an inheritance
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and a glory that
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far outweighs
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everything we endure.
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So Father, help us
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keep our eyes fixed
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on you and just
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make this week epic.
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So many ways
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for eternity.
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I pray in Jesus name.
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Amen.