Sermon
Coming Home for Christmas | December 15, 2024
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have actually
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been good morning.
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so I've been
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listening to, that
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song, amazing Grace.
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So if you don't
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know me, very well.
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I love Christmas.
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we start decorating
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mid-October, and we
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are decorated, and
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actually passing out
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candy with the tree
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in the background
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on Halloween.
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and, that's just
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how we do things.
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But since mid-October,
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this song has been, on
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repeat in my car and
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God placed this
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stuff on my heart
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and it wasn't
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until Monday or
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Sunday night,
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I was putting my
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kids to bed and
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I sat down and
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typed up an outline
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for this sermon.
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Texted to Andy.
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And Andy said,
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we had a little
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conversation about it.
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He said, that's great.
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He said, I've
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got these two
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times available.
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And I said,
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well, we're outta
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town both times.
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And he said,
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all right.
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This Sunday he said,
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let's pray about it.
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We'll talk on
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Wednesday at the
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daycare program.
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And Wednesday we
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talked and here I am.
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so that's how
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we got here.
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and I, you're never
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supposed to tell
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people why you're
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nervous when you
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get in front of
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people to speak.
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that's speaking 1 0 1.
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But, I'm a teacher, so
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I don't really speak.
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I teach, I don't like
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speaking to adults.
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give me hundreds of
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kids and I'll get up
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here and make a fool
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of myself with them.
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But you guys
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are scary.
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I.
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So let's just,
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let's jump in.
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the first verse I
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wanna, share with you
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is Luke chapter two,
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verses 10 through 11.
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But the angel
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said to them, do
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not be afraid.
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I bring you good
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news that will
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cause great joy
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for all the people.
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Today in the town of
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David, of a savior
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has been born to you.
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He is the
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messiah, the Lord.
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I think that we forget
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how important this
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is to Christmas.
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I think sometimes
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we have this idea
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that, we get busy
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doing Christmas.
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we get busy thinking,
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do I have this?
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Do I have that?
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Did I do this?
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Did I do that?
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And getting all of
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the things done.
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And I think that too
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often as Christians,
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we stop saying
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Christmas is about
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the angel showing up
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and.
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The angels saying, I
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bring you good noise,
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good news, a great
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joy for all people,
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and I think that we
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easily forget that
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it's for everyone.
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I think it's easy
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to forget in a world
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where we're out there
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saying happy holidays,
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that this is the
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reason it is Jesus,
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and it is because of
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that baby in a manger,
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that we even have the
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option to have grace,
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because without that,
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grace wasn't gonna
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be in the picture.
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That leads me to
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my next verse,
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Ephesians chapter
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two, verse eight,
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for it is by grace,
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you have been saved
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through faith,
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and this is not
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from yourself.
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It is the gift of God.
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That gift.
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we do this thing
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at our house where
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we have a little
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manger seeing that
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we, the kids get a
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little gift and they
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open it every day.
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and we read a little
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story that goes
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along with it and
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it's, what does God
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want for Christmas?
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and spoiler story, the
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last one is a mirror.
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and God wants you.
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That's the gift
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that God wants.
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But the gift that God
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gave you was the free
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gift of his grief,
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grace by salvation.
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And that happens
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through that
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baby Jesus.
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that you can
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skip ahead.
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Two slides Tracy for
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me that may Jesus.
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so this makes me think
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this baby Jesus, we
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think all the time
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about, Mary, I hear
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a lot of people talk
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about Mary, which
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Mary is important.
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Without her, there's
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no baby Jesus.
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That's very important.
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Don't get me wrong.
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but I think often
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we put this emphasis
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on, had Mary not
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had this, had Mary
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not done this.
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and I have this unique
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perspective having
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adopted that Joseph
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was not biologically
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Jesus's father,
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and yet Joseph had an
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angel show up to him
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and say, you're gonna
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be this kid's dad.
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And there's so much
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that goes along
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with that, that
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Joseph couldn't
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have done it
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without his parents.
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Nobody talks about
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Mary's parents or
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Joseph's parents.
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See you as parents.
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You could be raising
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the next, well, not
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the next, but you
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could be raising
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the Mary and Joseph.
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There's not gonna be
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another Jesus, sorry.
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But you could
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be raising
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those people.
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That's what you're
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putting into them.
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If Mary and Joseph's
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parents had not raised
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people who knew what
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God wanted them to
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do and raise people
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that followed what
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God wanted them to do,
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when an angel showed
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up and said, don't be
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afraid, because the
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angels weren't cute.
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As Rusty talked
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about last week,
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the angels weren't.
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These pretty cherubs
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that we think of, they
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weren't these little
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cute things we put
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on top of our trees.
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They were scary
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because the power of
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God was behind them.
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So they showed
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up and they said,
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don't be afraid.
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If Mary and Joseph
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didn't have parents
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who raised them to do
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what they were called
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to do, they would've
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turned and run.
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Because the fear
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was too great,
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but they did.
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And I can't imagine
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the role that Jesus's
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grandparents on earth
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played in raising
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them, raising him.
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I think of Sarah
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and i's parents, and
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there is so much Jesus
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that is put into my
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kids because of them.
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Because if they
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don't, first of all,
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if they didn't pour
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Jesus into us, how
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do I know what to do?
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Where does it come
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from if you are
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not living out that
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example at home?
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And
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and on that.
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Think of the amount
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of grace I've learned
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a lot about grace
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becoming a dad.
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it takes more grace
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to be a parent than I
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ever thought it would.
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when for the third
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time, your children
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are screaming at
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you that they don't
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want to get dressed
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and you're already
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late for work.
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that takes grace.
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when you know that
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the reason they're
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screaming at you is
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because it's late
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and they should be in
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bed, it takes grace
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when you're trying to
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train them in the way
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that a child should
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go and you have to
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love them instead of
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getting mad at them.
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That takes grace.
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And I'm not saying
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I've got it right.
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I'm not saying
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it's perfect,
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but guys, if you are
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not at least trying
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to show Jesus to your
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children, you are
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missing the mark.
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I.
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on that, I want to
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talk about a guy
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named John Newton.
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you can go to two
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more slides, Tracy.
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So this guy right
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here, John Newton,
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that is the guy
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that wrote the
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song, amazing Grace.
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and, there he was on
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a slave trading ship.
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He actually
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traded slaves.
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that was his job
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and he was in a
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storm in the seas
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off of Ireland.
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And, he was scared
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and he cried out
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to God and he said,
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God, if you save
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me from this storm,
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my life is yours.
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And God saved him
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from the storm.
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And, I don't know
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all of the details,
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but I can only
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imagine that with a
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transformation like
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that, that, I mean
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he obviously didn't
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do that job anymore.
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but he, I can
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only imagine that
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he threw himself
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into serving God.
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well four years later
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after that event, he
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wrote a song for a
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New Year's celebration
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at his church called
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Amazing Grace, and
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that's the song
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that we just sang.
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there's actually
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12 verses.
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Some of them
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are little grim.
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but when you're
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talking about grace
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and salvation,
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you have to talk
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about death.
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So it comes with
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a grim undertone.
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So you can have
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that bright side.
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but I'm gonna
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talk about that
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transformation, and
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how that grace, God's
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grace saved him from
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a storm that very
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likely could have
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killed him, could
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have killed all of the
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people on that ship.
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I.
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John Newton, actually,
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it's not widely known,
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but during a little
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research for this, I
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found out that John
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Newton actually did
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a lot of work, to
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lay the groundwork
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that actually
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stopped slave trading
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completely in Europe.
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and we're talking
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hundreds of
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years before it
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actually happened.
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and I don't know if
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John Newton's parents
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were Christians,
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I don't know.
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But what I do know
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is that what he did
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started a course
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for ending things
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that were hurting a
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lot of people, and
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praise God for that.
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on transformation.
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So one of the things
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that we talk about
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a lot as a teacher,
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is we talk a lot
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about what positively
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impacts children.
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Nearly every
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professional
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development I've had
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in the last three
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years has been what
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will positively
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impact these students.
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you don't know what
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home life is like.
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You don't know what
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it's, what's going
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on, in their minds.
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You don't know
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what's going on,
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at all, period.
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And you don't know
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the things that have
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happened just before
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they got on the bus.
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You don't know what
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happened on the bus.
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You don't know
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what happened as
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they walked into
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school, did they
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get breakfast?
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all of the things
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you just never know.
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but one of the things
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that has a trend, I
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won't say that it's,
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I don't know the
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amount of research
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behind it, so I
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won't say that it's
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scientifically backed
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yet, but one of the
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things, a trend that
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has come out in the
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last couple of years
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that I've noticed is
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that, there's starting
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to be evidence to
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support that one
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positive adult
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influence in a child's
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life when everything
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else is negative
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in their life.
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Begins to change
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their mindset that
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it doesn't have
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to be this way.
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and one of the things
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that we're learning
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is that is not an
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immediate change.
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It takes time.
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and it's interesting
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because, when I heard
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this, I immediately
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leaned over to a
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fellow teacher of mine
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who is a Christian,
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and I said, that
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sounds biblical.
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but the speaker that
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told us this said
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that it takes to
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the third or fourth
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generation to get to
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the point where the
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children of those
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students no longer
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just think that life
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has to be that way,
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where they're no
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longer saying life
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is about people
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just scream at each
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other at home, where
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they no longer think
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life is just okay.
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The way that I live
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it, that the bad
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things that are
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happening around me
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are just part of life.
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And I think about
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that as a parent and
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I think about the
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things that come into
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that have affected
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my world and I think,
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holy cow, I am one
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generation from
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some of those things
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and it's gonna take
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another generation,
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two more generations
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to say, that's
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completely out of my
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future generation's
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minds, because that's
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the effect of it.
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The flip side of
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it is that, think
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about that concept
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that one positive
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adult influence on a
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child starts changing
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their mindset.
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It takes a lot of
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work, but children
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take a lot of work.
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I mean, when we
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adopted our twins, we
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had those shirts made.
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A lot of you
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wore them.
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They say, we
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are the village.
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The reason they say
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we are the village
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is because this is
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not a solo thing.
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This is not just Sarah
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and I raising kids.
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This isn't us thing.
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It doesn't mean
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that I'm dropping
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my kids off at
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Josh and Audrey's
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house and saying,
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have fun with them.
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What it means is that
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what it means is that
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you guys love my kids
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and I love your kids.
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What it means is
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that when they're
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teenagers and they're
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facing something
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hard, hopefully they
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can sit down with
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John Hunt and tell
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him how hard it is
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because of what we
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have poured into each
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other because of the
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grace that God gave
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us so that we can
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pour it back out.
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On that note of
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transformation,
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one of the other
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things that we talk
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about is dendrites.
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and dendrites are
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the little pieces in
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your brain that are
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constantly growing and
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changing and moving.
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and we did a men's
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series, I believe it
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was last year, that
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we talked a lot about,
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your brain and the
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nervous system and
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all of those things.
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And it's interesting
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dendrites.
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What happens is
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dendrites grow based
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on your experiences.
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your dendrites don't
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grow because you
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hear something, your
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dendrites grow because
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something happened
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like I touched a hot
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stove and now I have
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this dite that says,
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don't touch the stove.
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It might be hot.
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And then eventually
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I have to grow the
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dendrite that okay,
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the stove is only
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hot when it's on.
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So those dendrites
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are good.
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Dendrites can also
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be negative dendrites
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are that when I.
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Don't do this.
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Think of a child.
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When a child says,
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when I do this
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action, this negative
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impact happens to me.
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And those dendrites
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grow and they
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continue to grow and
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they get bigger and
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they get stronger.
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And now we can
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see why it takes
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three generations
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to break that.
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Because we teach our
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kids all the time,
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don't come, don't
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even comment that we
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have a small kitchen.
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Don't come in the
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kitchen when we're
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cooking or stay on
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the other side of the
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kitchen from the stove
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because we don't want
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them to get burnt.
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That's a den
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rate that's grown
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in our heads.
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It's a D rate we're
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hoping to grow
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in our children.
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So they're naturally
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going to grow up
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and say, I don't
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want my children to
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get burnt from the
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stove and so on.
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But if that dite is
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grown on something
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that's a negative
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response, something
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that is hurtful.
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It's hard to
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break that.
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It is actually
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painful.
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It's physically
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painful for your brain
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to break those things.
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And I don't mean
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immediate, like I
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got stuck by a pin.
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I mean, it is
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something that
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physically, that
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your brain has
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to force itself
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to work through.
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And it takes time
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to break that cycle
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and it takes time to
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regrow those dendrites
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into something
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that is good.
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and all of that comes
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with this idea, I
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guess I say all of
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that to say that
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this grace that we
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have, this grace that
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Jesus offers us is
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so much more than,
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oh yeah, I have
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grace at the foot
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of the cross.
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Think about how much
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more impactful it
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is to know that the
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people around you
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are fighting things
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that you don't know.
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And that grace
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that you extend
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could start to be
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the one thing that
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grows a newin rate.
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It could be the
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thing that starts
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them on a path to
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say, why was that
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person kind to me?
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why?
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I don't understand.
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so a lot of this
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has been, the focus
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of this is grace.
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so I.
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One of the things that
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God really led on my
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heart as I was putting
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this together was this
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idea of living out
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that grace, during
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this time of year.
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And I think it's very
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easy as Christians
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to get to this point
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where we get snobby
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and we say, well,
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the world doesn't
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say Christmas.
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They say Happy
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Holidays.
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And so I'm gonna
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be snobby and I'm
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gonna say, Chris,
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merry Christmas
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to everybody.
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I'm gonna show them.
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It's very, I hear
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it all the time.
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I hear it from
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Christians that
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I work with.
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I hear it from
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Christians that I
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know in other realms,
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and it is just this
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constant that I want
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to prove that Merry
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Christmas is what we
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should be saying at
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this time of year.
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Well, guess what?
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There's not much
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grace in that.
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So then how do
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we live that out?
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How do we make
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that application
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to our lives?
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Well, my mom prayed
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over us every day
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and she would always
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say, go preach
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the gospel, and if
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necessary, use words
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and you will.
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You will impact
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somebody more
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with your actions
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than you ever will
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with your words.
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You will do more
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by showing love to
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other people face
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to face than ever by
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posting on Facebook
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how much of this or
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that you believe in,
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or whatever you do.
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The way husbands,
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the way you respond
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to your wife when
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she says something
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that you're not crazy
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about in the middle
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of the grocery store
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will speak more to
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the people around you
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than anything else
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you will ever do.
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It also speaks to her
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wives.
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It goes the other way.
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Parents,
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the way that you
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speak to each other
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in front of your
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children will speak to
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them more about how a
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marriage is supposed
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to look than anything
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else you will ever
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do to parent them.
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Parents, be
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careful what you're
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doing in front
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of your children.
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Be careful what you're
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allowing in your home.
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Everything that you
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do, your children will
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take one step further.
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Literally everything.
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That means that if
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you are, you say,
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well, there's nothing
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really in scripture
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that says I can't do
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activity X, so it's
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okay if I do this.
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Guess what?
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Your kids are gonna
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take it a step further
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and be aware of that
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because generational
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sin is real.
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It will affect the
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next generation.
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Your kids see
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you and your kids
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are constantly
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wondering, when do
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I get to do that?
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So instead of saying,
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I get to do this
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because I'm an adult,
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what if instead
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of doing that, we
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were saying, how
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am I showing joy,
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peace, patience,
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kindness, love, grace.
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So then instead of
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your kids going, when
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do I get to do that
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thing that only mom
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and dad get to do?
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Your kids are saying,
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well, how can I
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do this myself?
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So instead of growing
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dendrites that say,
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when do I get to do
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that thing that only
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mom and dad get to do?
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Your kids are saying
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they're growing
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these dendrites
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that have love, joy,
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peace, patience,
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kindness, generally
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self-control.
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And
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when you make mistakes
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and they see you
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correct them, they
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start to understand,
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wow, I can make
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mistakes and there's
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a God who has grace,
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who loves me, that I
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can go forth and I can
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do the things that God
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has called me to do.
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Do it in front
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of your kids.
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Do it when your kids
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aren't there because
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believe me, for
-
being a children's
-
pastor and a youth
-
pastor, your kids
-
know about it.
-
They're not stupid.
-
They're not naive.
-
Your kids know the
-
things that you do
-
behind closed doors.
-
They know the things
-
that you do once
-
they go to bed
-
or once they
-
go to bed.
-
I mean, they know
-
what you're doing.
-
They hear the shows
-
you're watching.
-
they know it and
-
it's affecting them
-
one way or another.
-
And just be
-
aware of it.
-
And if God is
-
calling you to make
-
a change, if you're
-
sitting there going,
-
well, but Ryan, you
-
don't understand the
-
show that I watch
-
is fine because
-
of this, and this.
-
Guess what?
-
That's conviction.
-
Change it.
-
If you're saying,
-
well, but you
-
don't understand
-
the stress of this
-
and the stress of
-
that, I'm a teacher.
-
My wife's a
-
social worker.
-
I get stressed,
-
make changes.
-
If the Holy Spirit is
-
prompting you to make
-
a change, do it today.
-
Don't wait.
-
Don't say, well,
-
one more time,
-
make changes.
-
Have some grace
-
for yourself.
-
It's really easy to
-
have grace for the
-
rest of the world.
-
You can see how
-
everybody else
-
could do it better.
-
It's hard to have
-
grace for yourself.
-
That grace comes with
-
an action behind it
-
that if you don't
-
have grace for you,
-
there's never
-
an opportunity
-
for change.
-
It's just shame.
-
And shame is not
-
worth it if there's
-
not grace behind it
-
to make changes to do
-
the things that God
-
is calling you to do.
-
So I wanna wrap up
-
with, With just a
-
little bit about
-
hope, and I'm gonna
-
touch really quickly
-
that as, as we were
-
considering, as we
-
were on that process
-
of adoption, there
-
were times when we
-
thought we weren't
-
gonna be able to
-
adopt to the twins.
-
And times when we
-
thought we were,
-
and times it was
-
just back and forth.
-
as a foster
-
care journey
-
is, it happens.
-
you're dealing with
-
fallible people
-
and things happen.
-
We started a
-
playlist in our
-
home called Hope.
-
And it's funny because
-
Sarah and I revisit
-
that from time to
-
time and we look back
-
at, those songs in
-
the order that they
-
were put in, and
-
you can see our hope
-
change in the songs
-
that we were choosing
-
to put in there.
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And so don't
-
think that Grace
-
is just about
-
letting everything
-
happen, however
-
it's gonna happen.
-
Grace is an action.
-
Grace is an action
-
of having hope.
-
And you can't have
-
hope without grace.
-
For others, a grace
-
for yourself, grace
-
that comes directly
-
from a baby in a
-
manger that 30 some
-
odd years later
-
died on a cross
-
and rose from the
-
grave so that you
-
could live with him.
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the last, one of
-
the last lines that
-
I think of here
-
is when we've been
-
there 10,000 years,
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bright shining is
-
the sun, and that is
-
our reason for hope.
-
One day in glory, when
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we are praising God
-
for 10,000 years and
-
we look up and we say,
-
wow,
-
wow.
-
That's how
-
good God is.
-
So I just ask guys
-
that you would.
-
Move toward that place
-
of grace with hope
-
and peace.
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Alright, well
-
thank you Ryan.
-
There is your lyrics.
-
We got 'em up there.
-
Hey, I gotta be
-
honest, I was pretty
-
devastated when Ryan
-
contacted me because
-
I was very excited
-
about what I wanted
-
to preach this week
-
and Ryan's like, man,
-
I think God wants me
-
to share this stuff.
-
And I was like, no,
-
he doesn't, Ryan.
-
I guarantee it.
-
Guarantee it.
-
But honestly, God's
-
amazing grace.
-
It's why we have hope.
-
It's why we have joy.
-
It's why we
-
have Christmas
-
at all, right?
-
Because of
-
what he's done.
-
And you have a
-
neat perspective,
-
Ryan, sharing from
-
a adoptive dad of
-
two twins and the
-
reality of Joseph
-
and that perspective
-
is really cool.
-
and knowing, just
-
how good God is.
-
In the midst of
-
that, it's really why
-
we celebrate hope.
-
This first candle of
-
our advent season that
-
we started lighting
-
just not that long
-
ago, we looked at
-
this idea of hope
-
that because of Jesus,
-
'cause of that baby
-
and the manger that
-
he came, that he died,
-
and he gave us life an
-
opportunity that even
-
in the midst of the
-
darkest stuff that we
-
walked through, man,
-
we are never without
-
hope, and I hope
-
that's real for you.
-
Like to know Jesus
-
is to know that no
-
matter what, there's
-
hope, no matter what,
-
there's nothing is
-
hopeless with Jesus.
-
So much of our
-
world is lost
-
in the darkness
-
of hopelessness.
-
But for those of us
-
who are in Christ,
-
that light of hope.
-
Burns forever
-
and ever.
-
And last week Rusty
-
talked about love and
-
we lit this candle
-
that represents
-
probably the one cheat
-
code for the Christmas
-
season, right?
-
Like all you gotta
-
do is say love, and
-
it covers everything.
-
But love is what
-
drove Jesus.
-
Not just to come
-
but to stay.
-
Right?
-
If I was him, I'd
-
have got here and
-
been like, this Airbnb
-
ain't working for me.
-
I'm out.
-
You know what I mean?
-
this is not cool.
-
Not at all.
-
But he chose to stay
-
and not just for a
-
couple months, knock
-
it out, get rolling.
-
He did that incognito
-
embedded spy mission
-
work against the enemy
-
for 33 years here
-
and then died for us.
-
Because of his
-
great, ridiculous.
-
I was thinking
-
about that.
-
I wanted to say the
-
word ridiculous,
-
crazy love of God.
-
And I was like, well,
-
I don't wanna be
-
disrespectful, right?
-
I'm not trying to
-
make God crazy or
-
ridiculous, but
-
if you think about
-
the definitions
-
of ridiculous and
-
crazy, who loves when
-
they're murdered?
-
Who loves when they're
-
despised and hated?
-
That's crazy love.
-
That's
-
ridiculous Love.
-
That's love beyond
-
any kinda love that
-
we know apart from
-
him and his great
-
love is what gives
-
us hope and light.
-
And this last word
-
here that we'll
-
talk about this
-
morning is this
-
third candle peace.
-
Peace is a really
-
interesting word, the
-
absence of conflict.
-
This epically
-
cool idea that
-
enmity, right?
-
That.
-
Fancy word that
-
sounds old school.
-
It just really means
-
being an enemy of
-
God is put to death
-
through the peace
-
that Jesus brings.
-
An end to hostility,
-
an end to conflict.
-
I don't know if we
-
catch this or not, but
-
man, what Jesus does
-
in coming and living
-
and dying and offering
-
us life, it's peace.
-
He gets this
-
cool title, the
-
Prince of Peace.
-
You know what's
-
cool about that?
-
He's not the God
-
who brings peace
-
that he does.
-
He's not the God who
-
speaks peace or the
-
God who shows peace.
-
He's the God of peace.
-
It's the substance
-
of who he is.
-
He is peace and man
-
when he resides in
-
us, there's an end
-
to the hostility and
-
the conflict there.
-
The nonsense and the
-
stuff of this world.
-
Man, if we can get
-
our eyes fixed on
-
Jesus, we can know
-
real safety, real
-
security, real
-
family, real peace.
-
And I've been thinking
-
about this idea a lot
-
this season, coming
-
home for Christmas.
-
And I love that
-
imagery of home.
-
not because I have
-
to listen to a lot
-
of Hallmark movies
-
from Jamie, but
-
because I actually
-
watched a really
-
cool clip the other
-
day of a Hallmark
-
movie backwards.
-
This girl leaves
-
a small tree farm
-
and goes to New
-
York and loves it.
-
And the redneck dudes
-
are like all alone.
-
Sorry.
-
That's how that works.
-
But you know, home
-
has almost this
-
crazy little, I
-
don't know, almost a
-
fantasy image of I.
-
This warm hearth
-
and the invitation
-
of relationship.
-
That's good.
-
And some of us
-
have some tough
-
home life stuff for
-
sure, and some of
-
us are enduring some
-
challenges in that
-
space relationally
-
with other people.
-
But here's
-
the cool part.
-
Your Heavenly Father,
-
through his amazing
-
grace, has adopted us
-
as sons and daughters,
-
given us opportunity
-
to be in relationship
-
with him, given us
-
opportunity to belong
-
and have home to come
-
to no matter where
-
you've been, no matter
-
what you've done,
-
there's nothing that
-
disqualifies you from
-
his invitation to
-
just come home and to
-
belong and be loved.
-
And man, I hope
-
you feel that this
-
Christmas season
-
amidst all the chaos,
-
all the craziness,
-
there is a God of
-
peace who invites you.
-
To just be with
-
him, to just spend
-
time with him, to
-
be in his presence
-
and to belong.
-
You matter so much
-
to him, and he
-
loves you so much.
-
Amen.
-
Praying his
-
presence over you
-
this Christmas.
-
Lord Jesus, thank
-
you for your
-
incredible love for us
-
demonstrated not just
-
on a wooden cross, but
-
in a wooden manger.
-
Thank you for your
-
amazing grace that
-
we didn't deserve.
-
Thank you for hope,
-
for love, and for
-
the opportunity to
-
experience peace,
-
Lord through Jesus
-
Christ, the way,
-
the truth and the
-
life, the invitation
-
to come home.
-
What a beautiful and
-
what an important
-
invitation.
-
Now, Lord, I pray
-
over all of us this
-
morning, no matter how
-
far away we feel, and
-
no matter how close
-
we feel, Lord, I pray
-
in a special way as
-
we go into this week
-
leading up to the
-
week of Christmas,
-
that we would feel
-
like we belong, that
-
we're loved, and
-
that your presence
-
would show up just
-
in some awesome ways.
-
I pray in Jesus' name.
-
Amen.
-
Well, speaking of
-
belonging and home,
-
one of the things I
-
love about this crazy
-
cool group of people
-
we call White Rock.
-
It's not the
-
only words we
-
use knuckleheads.
-
I think that's
-
in there too.
-
But sorry.
-
Might've been
-
the Holy Spirit.
-
Took my arm and
-
just did that.
-
Robin.
-
I don't know.
-
I dunno.
-
It wasn't me.
-
Hey, I wanna invite
-
some people up to
-
help me really quick
-
because there are
-
some really cool
-
things that are
-
happening as part
-
of this family and
-
things that you need
-
to know about, things
-
that have been going
-
on this week, things
-
that are coming up.
-
It's pretty exciting.
-
So, for some upcoming
-
events, I wanna
-
invite up, the four
-
wise men who were
-
in my office at the
-
wrong time yesterday.
-
So, guys, you know
-
who you are coming
-
up here please, Jed.
-
Yep.
-
Yep.
-
Gabriel, Elliot.
-
Where's Finn at today?
-
Is he pretending
-
to be sick?
-
Drake, you're
-
in Finn's class.
-
Come on up here buddy.
-
Join me.
-
That's perfect.
-
Fantastic.
-
Thanks man.
-
So, hey, as these
-
guys, yeah, the
-
round applause.
-
That's great.
-
That's great.
-
You have to grab
-
that cordless mic
-
over there, fellas.
-
And, so one of
-
the things that we
-
didn't get a chance
-
to do this morning
-
and working all
-
this stuff out is
-
take up our morning
-
tithes and offerings.
-
I just wanna make
-
sure that you're
-
aware we have a
-
basket in the back.
-
There's our digital
-
click on, boom,
-
that kind of jazz.
-
all the things that
-
we do together as a
-
church, the ways that
-
we impact people and
-
share the gospel and
-
all that cool stuff.
-
it's a collective
-
effort, right?
-
As we together bring
-
our tithes and worship
-
to the Lord and our
-
offerings to him, and
-
he blesses it and does
-
some cool things, well
-
these guys are gonna
-
help us, but we'll
-
actually help you
-
know what's going on.
-
So take it
-
away, Ellie.
-
Alright.
-
yeah.
-
All right.
-
Well, if you're a
-
guest and this is
-
your first time
-
being here today,
-
oh, you better hold
-
that mic real close.
-
'cause Austin
-
doesn't wanna hurt
-
anybody's ears.
-
Welcome.
-
We have a, well, I
-
guess it's up here.
-
yeah.
-
We have a QR code to
-
fill out for, digital
-
Glass Card, I guess.
-
I don't know.
-
Yeah, that's
-
all right.
-
Alright, great stuff.
-
Fantastic.
-
Welcome to,
-
you're a Guest.
-
I don't know if you
-
felt, I don't know
-
if you felt really
-
welcome, but if
-
you're a first time
-
White Rock attendee
-
this morning, just
-
know that, that's the
-
best we could do to
-
invite you here, man.
-
It's get some teams
-
up and be like, Hey.
-
Hey, it's a better
-
greeting than I got
-
this morning from
-
my teenage son.
-
Like, oh, you're here.
-
So, I mean, it could
-
be worse, right?
-
Alright, pass
-
that mic down.
-
Drake.
-
Here you go buddy.
-
awesome events
-
yesterday.
-
We had some awesome
-
events yesterday.
-
Why is that
-
covered up?
-
secret Families of
-
Hamilton County.
-
angels attic.
-
I don't know what
-
that is, what is,
-
but it sounds cool.
-
So, yeah.
-
Did any of you
-
guys participate
-
in any of those?
-
Oh, Gabriel, you
-
should talk about it.
-
Since poor Drake
-
had just got drug
-
up as a replacement.
-
Thank you.
-
I was thinking,
-
I don't think
-
you're worthy to
-
talk about it.
-
You weren't there.
-
Oh man.
-
Drake's just
-
finding out, bro.
-
Geez.
-
Hey, Gabriel, I don't
-
make a big deal out
-
of this bro, but, why
-
don't you hold this
-
peace candle if you're
-
gonna take shots, you
-
know what I'm saying?
-
Just throw
-
it out there.
-
But, yeah,
-
it was great.
-
yesterday we went
-
and we shopped
-
for two families.
-
Our group.
-
And then we wrapped
-
the presents and
-
we delivered them.
-
So it was a great
-
opportunity to spread
-
the love of Jesus
-
to other people.
-
Yeah.
-
You guys got to
-
like drop off a
-
Bible and pray for
-
the families and
-
Yes, we also prayed
-
for the families.
-
Yes.
-
Yeah.
-
super cool.
-
And then our college
-
age crew, a bunch
-
of them went up to
-
Angel's attic and
-
packed food boxes.
-
So great job.
-
All you collegiate
-
smart looking people.
-
Very nice.
-
Jed, what's
-
going on tonight?
-
Tonight is ba bam.
-
Oh no.
-
Gabriel.
-
Just in case you
-
just hold onto that
-
buddy just in case
-
from five to six 30.
-
Alright.
-
We're at dude,
-
youth group.
-
Wait, church
-
over there.
-
How long you
-
been coming to
-
White Rock, man?
-
First time.
-
Wow.
-
Your whole life
-
is next door, bro.
-
Next door.
-
All right, perfect.
-
Hey, let's just kick
-
it back to Elliot for
-
the, quick update on
-
the college stuff.
-
All right.
-
we have a college
-
age-ish, I guess.
-
Small group
-
over at Andy and
-
Jamie's house.
-
Five o'clock.
-
Five o'clock.
-
Jamie's not in
-
here, otherwise it'd
-
say five o'clock.
-
What?
-
Going on?
-
What?
-
Epic morning.
-
What is it gonna be?
-
children's
-
Christmas program.
-
December 22nd at
-
10:00 AM Nicely done.
-
Sounds a lot fun.
-
Nicely done.
-
Alright, so there's
-
word on the street
-
that there's actually
-
some movie called
-
The World's Greatest
-
Christmas pageant.
-
They're gonna
-
rename it to the
-
second greatest
-
Christmas pageant.
-
'cause next week is
-
gonna be epic with the
-
platforms and the kids
-
and angels screaming
-
and singing and all
-
that good stuff.
-
It's gonna be awesome.
-
It's gonna be awesome.
-
And then also
-
what after that?
-
Well, we have
-
the Christmas Eve
-
service at 6:00 PM
-
so better come to
-
that 'cause always.
-
What day is that one?
-
What day is that one?
-
Christmas Eve.
-
Got it.
-
If you don't know what
-
day Christmas Eve is,
-
then maybe you should
-
do some research.
-
Do some research.
-
That's fantastic.
-
Hey, and are you
-
holding a candle for
-
any particular purpose
-
as it relates to the
-
Christmas Eve service?
-
Apparently
-
it's for peace.
-
That's good.
-
That's good.
-
We'll be doing
-
some candlelight
-
caroling in here.
-
All in the dark.
-
And you get to play
-
with fire that one
-
time a year, right?
-
The one time a year
-
White rock People
-
get to touch fire.
-
It's gonna be great.
-
It's gonna be great.
-
Hey, also some
-
coming events.
-
Jed, what's
-
happening here?
-
Teen winter camp.
-
Yeah.
-
Finally at 10.
-
the 17th to 19th.
-
Gotta get registered
-
right away.
-
Yep.
-
Right.
-
It's a lot of fun.
-
A lot of fun.
-
Good.
-
Watch Finn try to
-
flirt with girls
-
all the time.
-
There are a lot
-
of flirting with
-
girls that go on.
-
This is true.
-
This is true.
-
All right, Elliot.
-
What's happening
-
in February, man?
-
Oh yeah, I've
-
been avoiding you.
-
this whole season.
-
These avoiding
-
the camera season.
-
Yeah, it is.
-
Yeah.
-
we have, well that's
-
a little early.
-
Sorry about that.
-
All right,
-
Drake, that's
-
foreshadowing buddy.
-
That's yours
-
coming up.
-
It's gonna be awkward.
-
Make sure you cranked
-
that up there, Austin.
-
Yep.
-
Don't miss a Super
-
Bowl event and
-
all.
-
I don't know what
-
that was fair.
-
Apparently there's a
-
marriage retreat fair.
-
Couldn't happen
-
to a nicer guy.
-
February 14th
-
through the 16th.
-
So if you're
-
married, you should
-
probably get off.
-
Alright.
-
Normally it's 235
-
bucks to be able to
-
pull this off, but we
-
are actually gonna be
-
making it 160 bucks
-
and it's really the
-
first 26 couples
-
get their own cabin.
-
After that you
-
gotta bunk up like
-
dormitory style, which
-
is not as cool on
-
a couple's retreat.
-
Lemme tell you,
-
there's a QR code you
-
can sign up for that.
-
I think some email
-
stuff went out.
-
So definitely
-
don't miss that.
-
Good stuff.
-
Alright, so hey
-
guys, we're gonna
-
be, I'm calling
-
it a wrap on that.
-
How about this?
-
Big round of applause
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for all you guys
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coming up helping
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out with that.
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Thank you.
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you gonna put your
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can, well actually
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here, why don't you
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hold this real quick?
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That's perfect.
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That's technically
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the love candle
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that you lit, not
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the peace candle.
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No, that's the
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peace candle bro.
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Hope, love, peace.
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I guess I wasn't
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paying attention.
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I guess I wasn't
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paying attention.
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Fair enough bro.
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Fair enough.
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Hey, tell what, do
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me this real favor
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because I thought
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this would be a
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great illustration.
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Seth, Elijah, you
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guys still listen
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to back there.
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Perfect.
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Come on up here.
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If you would please,
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grab your buddy on
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the basketball team.
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Is he still in here?
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I miss?
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Yep.
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Yep.
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I can't remember
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your name, dude.
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I'm super sorry,
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but come on up.
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Let's be great.
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And then Finn's
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not here, so this
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isn't gonna work.
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So, Elliot,
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you're in Finn's
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class too, right?
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So Gabriel, just
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step over there
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one second by those
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plants for me.
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That's perfect,
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Jed, you scoot
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over that way.
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We'll get you three
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guys up here running
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this platform.
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I was thinking about
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the best way to
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send us off on this.
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Peace Sunday.
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And you know what?
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Let's come down
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on the platform.
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That'd be
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easier, buddy.
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Why don't you
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guys, you three
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guys step down.
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Gabriel, you can
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stay up there.
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This is perfect.
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It's gotta be three
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on three, otherwise
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it's not fair.
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Perfect, Elliot.
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Okay, we're gonna
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make a transition now.
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You are no longer
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Finn, my friend.
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You are Finn.
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Oh, you're back to
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being Drake and Jed.
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Elijah, Seth,
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and remind me.
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Amen.
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Marino.
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Marino.
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Thank you man.
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Alright.
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So I thought this was
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really appropriate
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today as we send
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you off on this day
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where we celebrate
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the peace that Jesus
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brings, these six
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young men right now.
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Stand here in the be
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front of a church with
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Christmas and hope
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and joy and peace.
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What's happening
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on, Tuesday night
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though, buddy?
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a basketball game
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between these
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guys and you guys?
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You guys gonna come
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back together as
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peace, or is this just
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like a one time deal?
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This peace thing.
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One time deal.
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One time deal.
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Alright.
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Hey, Jesus
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loves you guys.
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We're gonna be in
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situations all week
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where we might find
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ourselves not wanting
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to be at peace
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with other people.
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Probably like an hour
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and 20 minutes on
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a basketball court.
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I think it's like an
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off limits kind of
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space, but let's walk
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in peace with our
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Heavenly Father and
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with each other and
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behave yourselves.
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Guys, on
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Tuesday night.
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All right, good
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to have you guys
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here this morning.
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Have a great
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day in the Lord.
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We love you all.
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Have a great week.