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Coming Home for Christmas | December 15, 2024

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  1. have actually

  2. been good morning.

  3. so I've been

  4. listening to, that

  5. song, amazing Grace.

  6. So if you don't

  7. know me, very well.

  8. I love Christmas.

  9. we start decorating

  10. mid-October, and we

  11. are decorated, and

  12. actually passing out

  13. candy with the tree

  14. in the background

  15. on Halloween.

  16. and, that's just

  17. how we do things.

  18. But since mid-October,

  19. this song has been, on

  20. repeat in my car and

  21. God placed this

  22. stuff on my heart

  23. and it wasn't

  24. until Monday or

  25. Sunday night,

  26. I was putting my

  27. kids to bed and

  28. I sat down and

  29. typed up an outline

  30. for this sermon.

  31. Texted to Andy.

  32. And Andy said,

  33. we had a little

  34. conversation about it.

  35. He said, that's great.

  36. He said, I've

  37. got these two

  38. times available.

  39. And I said,

  40. well, we're outta

  41. town both times.

  42. And he said,

  43. all right.

  44. This Sunday he said,

  45. let's pray about it.

  46. We'll talk on

  47. Wednesday at the

  48. daycare program.

  49. And Wednesday we

  50. talked and here I am.

  51. so that's how

  52. we got here.

  53. and I, you're never

  54. supposed to tell

  55. people why you're

  56. nervous when you

  57. get in front of

  58. people to speak.

  59. that's speaking 1 0 1.

  60. But, I'm a teacher, so

  61. I don't really speak.

  62. I teach, I don't like

  63. speaking to adults.

  64. give me hundreds of

  65. kids and I'll get up

  66. here and make a fool

  67. of myself with them.

  68. But you guys

  69. are scary.

  70. I.

  71. So let's just,

  72. let's jump in.

  73. the first verse I

  74. wanna, share with you

  75. is Luke chapter two,

  76. verses 10 through 11.

  77. But the angel

  78. said to them, do

  79. not be afraid.

  80. I bring you good

  81. news that will

  82. cause great joy

  83. for all the people.

  84. Today in the town of

  85. David, of a savior

  86. has been born to you.

  87. He is the

  88. messiah, the Lord.

  89. I think that we forget

  90. how important this

  91. is to Christmas.

  92. I think sometimes

  93. we have this idea

  94. that, we get busy

  95. doing Christmas.

  96. we get busy thinking,

  97. do I have this?

  98. Do I have that?

  99. Did I do this?

  100. Did I do that?

  101. And getting all of

  102. the things done.

  103. And I think that too

  104. often as Christians,

  105. we stop saying

  106. Christmas is about

  107. the angel showing up

  108. and.

  109. The angels saying, I

  110. bring you good noise,

  111. good news, a great

  112. joy for all people,

  113. and I think that we

  114. easily forget that

  115. it's for everyone.

  116. I think it's easy

  117. to forget in a world

  118. where we're out there

  119. saying happy holidays,

  120. that this is the

  121. reason it is Jesus,

  122. and it is because of

  123. that baby in a manger,

  124. that we even have the

  125. option to have grace,

  126. because without that,

  127. grace wasn't gonna

  128. be in the picture.

  129. That leads me to

  130. my next verse,

  131. Ephesians chapter

  132. two, verse eight,

  133. for it is by grace,

  134. you have been saved

  135. through faith,

  136. and this is not

  137. from yourself.

  138. It is the gift of God.

  139. That gift.

  140. we do this thing

  141. at our house where

  142. we have a little

  143. manger seeing that

  144. we, the kids get a

  145. little gift and they

  146. open it every day.

  147. and we read a little

  148. story that goes

  149. along with it and

  150. it's, what does God

  151. want for Christmas?

  152. and spoiler story, the

  153. last one is a mirror.

  154. and God wants you.

  155. That's the gift

  156. that God wants.

  157. But the gift that God

  158. gave you was the free

  159. gift of his grief,

  160. grace by salvation.

  161. And that happens

  162. through that

  163. baby Jesus.

  164. that you can

  165. skip ahead.

  166. Two slides Tracy for

  167. me that may Jesus.

  168. so this makes me think

  169. this baby Jesus, we

  170. think all the time

  171. about, Mary, I hear

  172. a lot of people talk

  173. about Mary, which

  174. Mary is important.

  175. Without her, there's

  176. no baby Jesus.

  177. That's very important.

  178. Don't get me wrong.

  179. but I think often

  180. we put this emphasis

  181. on, had Mary not

  182. had this, had Mary

  183. not done this.

  184. and I have this unique

  185. perspective having

  186. adopted that Joseph

  187. was not biologically

  188. Jesus's father,

  189. and yet Joseph had an

  190. angel show up to him

  191. and say, you're gonna

  192. be this kid's dad.

  193. And there's so much

  194. that goes along

  195. with that, that

  196. Joseph couldn't

  197. have done it

  198. without his parents.

  199. Nobody talks about

  200. Mary's parents or

  201. Joseph's parents.

  202. See you as parents.

  203. You could be raising

  204. the next, well, not

  205. the next, but you

  206. could be raising

  207. the Mary and Joseph.

  208. There's not gonna be

  209. another Jesus, sorry.

  210. But you could

  211. be raising

  212. those people.

  213. That's what you're

  214. putting into them.

  215. If Mary and Joseph's

  216. parents had not raised

  217. people who knew what

  218. God wanted them to

  219. do and raise people

  220. that followed what

  221. God wanted them to do,

  222. when an angel showed

  223. up and said, don't be

  224. afraid, because the

  225. angels weren't cute.

  226. As Rusty talked

  227. about last week,

  228. the angels weren't.

  229. These pretty cherubs

  230. that we think of, they

  231. weren't these little

  232. cute things we put

  233. on top of our trees.

  234. They were scary

  235. because the power of

  236. God was behind them.

  237. So they showed

  238. up and they said,

  239. don't be afraid.

  240. If Mary and Joseph

  241. didn't have parents

  242. who raised them to do

  243. what they were called

  244. to do, they would've

  245. turned and run.

  246. Because the fear

  247. was too great,

  248. but they did.

  249. And I can't imagine

  250. the role that Jesus's

  251. grandparents on earth

  252. played in raising

  253. them, raising him.

  254. I think of Sarah

  255. and i's parents, and

  256. there is so much Jesus

  257. that is put into my

  258. kids because of them.

  259. Because if they

  260. don't, first of all,

  261. if they didn't pour

  262. Jesus into us, how

  263. do I know what to do?

  264. Where does it come

  265. from if you are

  266. not living out that

  267. example at home?

  268. And

  269. and on that.

  270. Think of the amount

  271. of grace I've learned

  272. a lot about grace

  273. becoming a dad.

  274. it takes more grace

  275. to be a parent than I

  276. ever thought it would.

  277. when for the third

  278. time, your children

  279. are screaming at

  280. you that they don't

  281. want to get dressed

  282. and you're already

  283. late for work.

  284. that takes grace.

  285. when you know that

  286. the reason they're

  287. screaming at you is

  288. because it's late

  289. and they should be in

  290. bed, it takes grace

  291. when you're trying to

  292. train them in the way

  293. that a child should

  294. go and you have to

  295. love them instead of

  296. getting mad at them.

  297. That takes grace.

  298. And I'm not saying

  299. I've got it right.

  300. I'm not saying

  301. it's perfect,

  302. but guys, if you are

  303. not at least trying

  304. to show Jesus to your

  305. children, you are

  306. missing the mark.

  307. I.

  308. on that, I want to

  309. talk about a guy

  310. named John Newton.

  311. you can go to two

  312. more slides, Tracy.

  313. So this guy right

  314. here, John Newton,

  315. that is the guy

  316. that wrote the

  317. song, amazing Grace.

  318. and, there he was on

  319. a slave trading ship.

  320. He actually

  321. traded slaves.

  322. that was his job

  323. and he was in a

  324. storm in the seas

  325. off of Ireland.

  326. And, he was scared

  327. and he cried out

  328. to God and he said,

  329. God, if you save

  330. me from this storm,

  331. my life is yours.

  332. And God saved him

  333. from the storm.

  334. And, I don't know

  335. all of the details,

  336. but I can only

  337. imagine that with a

  338. transformation like

  339. that, that, I mean

  340. he obviously didn't

  341. do that job anymore.

  342. but he, I can

  343. only imagine that

  344. he threw himself

  345. into serving God.

  346. well four years later

  347. after that event, he

  348. wrote a song for a

  349. New Year's celebration

  350. at his church called

  351. Amazing Grace, and

  352. that's the song

  353. that we just sang.

  354. there's actually

  355. 12 verses.

  356. Some of them

  357. are little grim.

  358. but when you're

  359. talking about grace

  360. and salvation,

  361. you have to talk

  362. about death.

  363. So it comes with

  364. a grim undertone.

  365. So you can have

  366. that bright side.

  367. but I'm gonna

  368. talk about that

  369. transformation, and

  370. how that grace, God's

  371. grace saved him from

  372. a storm that very

  373. likely could have

  374. killed him, could

  375. have killed all of the

  376. people on that ship.

  377. I.

  378. John Newton, actually,

  379. it's not widely known,

  380. but during a little

  381. research for this, I

  382. found out that John

  383. Newton actually did

  384. a lot of work, to

  385. lay the groundwork

  386. that actually

  387. stopped slave trading

  388. completely in Europe.

  389. and we're talking

  390. hundreds of

  391. years before it

  392. actually happened.

  393. and I don't know if

  394. John Newton's parents

  395. were Christians,

  396. I don't know.

  397. But what I do know

  398. is that what he did

  399. started a course

  400. for ending things

  401. that were hurting a

  402. lot of people, and

  403. praise God for that.

  404. on transformation.

  405. So one of the things

  406. that we talk about

  407. a lot as a teacher,

  408. is we talk a lot

  409. about what positively

  410. impacts children.

  411. Nearly every

  412. professional

  413. development I've had

  414. in the last three

  415. years has been what

  416. will positively

  417. impact these students.

  418. you don't know what

  419. home life is like.

  420. You don't know what

  421. it's, what's going

  422. on, in their minds.

  423. You don't know

  424. what's going on,

  425. at all, period.

  426. And you don't know

  427. the things that have

  428. happened just before

  429. they got on the bus.

  430. You don't know what

  431. happened on the bus.

  432. You don't know

  433. what happened as

  434. they walked into

  435. school, did they

  436. get breakfast?

  437. all of the things

  438. you just never know.

  439. but one of the things

  440. that has a trend, I

  441. won't say that it's,

  442. I don't know the

  443. amount of research

  444. behind it, so I

  445. won't say that it's

  446. scientifically backed

  447. yet, but one of the

  448. things, a trend that

  449. has come out in the

  450. last couple of years

  451. that I've noticed is

  452. that, there's starting

  453. to be evidence to

  454. support that one

  455. positive adult

  456. influence in a child's

  457. life when everything

  458. else is negative

  459. in their life.

  460. Begins to change

  461. their mindset that

  462. it doesn't have

  463. to be this way.

  464. and one of the things

  465. that we're learning

  466. is that is not an

  467. immediate change.

  468. It takes time.

  469. and it's interesting

  470. because, when I heard

  471. this, I immediately

  472. leaned over to a

  473. fellow teacher of mine

  474. who is a Christian,

  475. and I said, that

  476. sounds biblical.

  477. but the speaker that

  478. told us this said

  479. that it takes to

  480. the third or fourth

  481. generation to get to

  482. the point where the

  483. children of those

  484. students no longer

  485. just think that life

  486. has to be that way,

  487. where they're no

  488. longer saying life

  489. is about people

  490. just scream at each

  491. other at home, where

  492. they no longer think

  493. life is just okay.

  494. The way that I live

  495. it, that the bad

  496. things that are

  497. happening around me

  498. are just part of life.

  499. And I think about

  500. that as a parent and

  501. I think about the

  502. things that come into

  503. that have affected

  504. my world and I think,

  505. holy cow, I am one

  506. generation from

  507. some of those things

  508. and it's gonna take

  509. another generation,

  510. two more generations

  511. to say, that's

  512. completely out of my

  513. future generation's

  514. minds, because that's

  515. the effect of it.

  516. The flip side of

  517. it is that, think

  518. about that concept

  519. that one positive

  520. adult influence on a

  521. child starts changing

  522. their mindset.

  523. It takes a lot of

  524. work, but children

  525. take a lot of work.

  526. I mean, when we

  527. adopted our twins, we

  528. had those shirts made.

  529. A lot of you

  530. wore them.

  531. They say, we

  532. are the village.

  533. The reason they say

  534. we are the village

  535. is because this is

  536. not a solo thing.

  537. This is not just Sarah

  538. and I raising kids.

  539. This isn't us thing.

  540. It doesn't mean

  541. that I'm dropping

  542. my kids off at

  543. Josh and Audrey's

  544. house and saying,

  545. have fun with them.

  546. What it means is that

  547. what it means is that

  548. you guys love my kids

  549. and I love your kids.

  550. What it means is

  551. that when they're

  552. teenagers and they're

  553. facing something

  554. hard, hopefully they

  555. can sit down with

  556. John Hunt and tell

  557. him how hard it is

  558. because of what we

  559. have poured into each

  560. other because of the

  561. grace that God gave

  562. us so that we can

  563. pour it back out.

  564. On that note of

  565. transformation,

  566. one of the other

  567. things that we talk

  568. about is dendrites.

  569. and dendrites are

  570. the little pieces in

  571. your brain that are

  572. constantly growing and

  573. changing and moving.

  574. and we did a men's

  575. series, I believe it

  576. was last year, that

  577. we talked a lot about,

  578. your brain and the

  579. nervous system and

  580. all of those things.

  581. And it's interesting

  582. dendrites.

  583. What happens is

  584. dendrites grow based

  585. on your experiences.

  586. your dendrites don't

  587. grow because you

  588. hear something, your

  589. dendrites grow because

  590. something happened

  591. like I touched a hot

  592. stove and now I have

  593. this dite that says,

  594. don't touch the stove.

  595. It might be hot.

  596. And then eventually

  597. I have to grow the

  598. dendrite that okay,

  599. the stove is only

  600. hot when it's on.

  601. So those dendrites

  602. are good.

  603. Dendrites can also

  604. be negative dendrites

  605. are that when I.

  606. Don't do this.

  607. Think of a child.

  608. When a child says,

  609. when I do this

  610. action, this negative

  611. impact happens to me.

  612. And those dendrites

  613. grow and they

  614. continue to grow and

  615. they get bigger and

  616. they get stronger.

  617. And now we can

  618. see why it takes

  619. three generations

  620. to break that.

  621. Because we teach our

  622. kids all the time,

  623. don't come, don't

  624. even comment that we

  625. have a small kitchen.

  626. Don't come in the

  627. kitchen when we're

  628. cooking or stay on

  629. the other side of the

  630. kitchen from the stove

  631. because we don't want

  632. them to get burnt.

  633. That's a den

  634. rate that's grown

  635. in our heads.

  636. It's a D rate we're

  637. hoping to grow

  638. in our children.

  639. So they're naturally

  640. going to grow up

  641. and say, I don't

  642. want my children to

  643. get burnt from the

  644. stove and so on.

  645. But if that dite is

  646. grown on something

  647. that's a negative

  648. response, something

  649. that is hurtful.

  650. It's hard to

  651. break that.

  652. It is actually

  653. painful.

  654. It's physically

  655. painful for your brain

  656. to break those things.

  657. And I don't mean

  658. immediate, like I

  659. got stuck by a pin.

  660. I mean, it is

  661. something that

  662. physically, that

  663. your brain has

  664. to force itself

  665. to work through.

  666. And it takes time

  667. to break that cycle

  668. and it takes time to

  669. regrow those dendrites

  670. into something

  671. that is good.

  672. and all of that comes

  673. with this idea, I

  674. guess I say all of

  675. that to say that

  676. this grace that we

  677. have, this grace that

  678. Jesus offers us is

  679. so much more than,

  680. oh yeah, I have

  681. grace at the foot

  682. of the cross.

  683. Think about how much

  684. more impactful it

  685. is to know that the

  686. people around you

  687. are fighting things

  688. that you don't know.

  689. And that grace

  690. that you extend

  691. could start to be

  692. the one thing that

  693. grows a newin rate.

  694. It could be the

  695. thing that starts

  696. them on a path to

  697. say, why was that

  698. person kind to me?

  699. why?

  700. I don't understand.

  701. so a lot of this

  702. has been, the focus

  703. of this is grace.

  704. so I.

  705. One of the things that

  706. God really led on my

  707. heart as I was putting

  708. this together was this

  709. idea of living out

  710. that grace, during

  711. this time of year.

  712. And I think it's very

  713. easy as Christians

  714. to get to this point

  715. where we get snobby

  716. and we say, well,

  717. the world doesn't

  718. say Christmas.

  719. They say Happy

  720. Holidays.

  721. And so I'm gonna

  722. be snobby and I'm

  723. gonna say, Chris,

  724. merry Christmas

  725. to everybody.

  726. I'm gonna show them.

  727. It's very, I hear

  728. it all the time.

  729. I hear it from

  730. Christians that

  731. I work with.

  732. I hear it from

  733. Christians that I

  734. know in other realms,

  735. and it is just this

  736. constant that I want

  737. to prove that Merry

  738. Christmas is what we

  739. should be saying at

  740. this time of year.

  741. Well, guess what?

  742. There's not much

  743. grace in that.

  744. So then how do

  745. we live that out?

  746. How do we make

  747. that application

  748. to our lives?

  749. Well, my mom prayed

  750. over us every day

  751. and she would always

  752. say, go preach

  753. the gospel, and if

  754. necessary, use words

  755. and you will.

  756. You will impact

  757. somebody more

  758. with your actions

  759. than you ever will

  760. with your words.

  761. You will do more

  762. by showing love to

  763. other people face

  764. to face than ever by

  765. posting on Facebook

  766. how much of this or

  767. that you believe in,

  768. or whatever you do.

  769. The way husbands,

  770. the way you respond

  771. to your wife when

  772. she says something

  773. that you're not crazy

  774. about in the middle

  775. of the grocery store

  776. will speak more to

  777. the people around you

  778. than anything else

  779. you will ever do.

  780. It also speaks to her

  781. wives.

  782. It goes the other way.

  783. Parents,

  784. the way that you

  785. speak to each other

  786. in front of your

  787. children will speak to

  788. them more about how a

  789. marriage is supposed

  790. to look than anything

  791. else you will ever

  792. do to parent them.

  793. Parents, be

  794. careful what you're

  795. doing in front

  796. of your children.

  797. Be careful what you're

  798. allowing in your home.

  799. Everything that you

  800. do, your children will

  801. take one step further.

  802. Literally everything.

  803. That means that if

  804. you are, you say,

  805. well, there's nothing

  806. really in scripture

  807. that says I can't do

  808. activity X, so it's

  809. okay if I do this.

  810. Guess what?

  811. Your kids are gonna

  812. take it a step further

  813. and be aware of that

  814. because generational

  815. sin is real.

  816. It will affect the

  817. next generation.

  818. Your kids see

  819. you and your kids

  820. are constantly

  821. wondering, when do

  822. I get to do that?

  823. So instead of saying,

  824. I get to do this

  825. because I'm an adult,

  826. what if instead

  827. of doing that, we

  828. were saying, how

  829. am I showing joy,

  830. peace, patience,

  831. kindness, love, grace.

  832. So then instead of

  833. your kids going, when

  834. do I get to do that

  835. thing that only mom

  836. and dad get to do?

  837. Your kids are saying,

  838. well, how can I

  839. do this myself?

  840. So instead of growing

  841. dendrites that say,

  842. when do I get to do

  843. that thing that only

  844. mom and dad get to do?

  845. Your kids are saying

  846. they're growing

  847. these dendrites

  848. that have love, joy,

  849. peace, patience,

  850. kindness, generally

  851. self-control.

  852. And

  853. when you make mistakes

  854. and they see you

  855. correct them, they

  856. start to understand,

  857. wow, I can make

  858. mistakes and there's

  859. a God who has grace,

  860. who loves me, that I

  861. can go forth and I can

  862. do the things that God

  863. has called me to do.

  864. Do it in front

  865. of your kids.

  866. Do it when your kids

  867. aren't there because

  868. believe me, for

  869. being a children's

  870. pastor and a youth

  871. pastor, your kids

  872. know about it.

  873. They're not stupid.

  874. They're not naive.

  875. Your kids know the

  876. things that you do

  877. behind closed doors.

  878. They know the things

  879. that you do once

  880. they go to bed

  881. or once they

  882. go to bed.

  883. I mean, they know

  884. what you're doing.

  885. They hear the shows

  886. you're watching.

  887. they know it and

  888. it's affecting them

  889. one way or another.

  890. And just be

  891. aware of it.

  892. And if God is

  893. calling you to make

  894. a change, if you're

  895. sitting there going,

  896. well, but Ryan, you

  897. don't understand the

  898. show that I watch

  899. is fine because

  900. of this, and this.

  901. Guess what?

  902. That's conviction.

  903. Change it.

  904. If you're saying,

  905. well, but you

  906. don't understand

  907. the stress of this

  908. and the stress of

  909. that, I'm a teacher.

  910. My wife's a

  911. social worker.

  912. I get stressed,

  913. make changes.

  914. If the Holy Spirit is

  915. prompting you to make

  916. a change, do it today.

  917. Don't wait.

  918. Don't say, well,

  919. one more time,

  920. make changes.

  921. Have some grace

  922. for yourself.

  923. It's really easy to

  924. have grace for the

  925. rest of the world.

  926. You can see how

  927. everybody else

  928. could do it better.

  929. It's hard to have

  930. grace for yourself.

  931. That grace comes with

  932. an action behind it

  933. that if you don't

  934. have grace for you,

  935. there's never

  936. an opportunity

  937. for change.

  938. It's just shame.

  939. And shame is not

  940. worth it if there's

  941. not grace behind it

  942. to make changes to do

  943. the things that God

  944. is calling you to do.

  945. So I wanna wrap up

  946. with, With just a

  947. little bit about

  948. hope, and I'm gonna

  949. touch really quickly

  950. that as, as we were

  951. considering, as we

  952. were on that process

  953. of adoption, there

  954. were times when we

  955. thought we weren't

  956. gonna be able to

  957. adopt to the twins.

  958. And times when we

  959. thought we were,

  960. and times it was

  961. just back and forth.

  962. as a foster

  963. care journey

  964. is, it happens.

  965. you're dealing with

  966. fallible people

  967. and things happen.

  968. We started a

  969. playlist in our

  970. home called Hope.

  971. And it's funny because

  972. Sarah and I revisit

  973. that from time to

  974. time and we look back

  975. at, those songs in

  976. the order that they

  977. were put in, and

  978. you can see our hope

  979. change in the songs

  980. that we were choosing

  981. to put in there.

  982. And so don't

  983. think that Grace

  984. is just about

  985. letting everything

  986. happen, however

  987. it's gonna happen.

  988. Grace is an action.

  989. Grace is an action

  990. of having hope.

  991. And you can't have

  992. hope without grace.

  993. For others, a grace

  994. for yourself, grace

  995. that comes directly

  996. from a baby in a

  997. manger that 30 some

  998. odd years later

  999. died on a cross

  1000. and rose from the

  1001. grave so that you

  1002. could live with him.

  1003. the last, one of

  1004. the last lines that

  1005. I think of here

  1006. is when we've been

  1007. there 10,000 years,

  1008. bright shining is

  1009. the sun, and that is

  1010. our reason for hope.

  1011. One day in glory, when

  1012. we are praising God

  1013. for 10,000 years and

  1014. we look up and we say,

  1015. wow,

  1016. wow.

  1017. That's how

  1018. good God is.

  1019. So I just ask guys

  1020. that you would.

  1021. Move toward that place

  1022. of grace with hope

  1023. and peace.

  1024. Alright, well

  1025. thank you Ryan.

  1026. There is your lyrics.

  1027. We got 'em up there.

  1028. Hey, I gotta be

  1029. honest, I was pretty

  1030. devastated when Ryan

  1031. contacted me because

  1032. I was very excited

  1033. about what I wanted

  1034. to preach this week

  1035. and Ryan's like, man,

  1036. I think God wants me

  1037. to share this stuff.

  1038. And I was like, no,

  1039. he doesn't, Ryan.

  1040. I guarantee it.

  1041. Guarantee it.

  1042. But honestly, God's

  1043. amazing grace.

  1044. It's why we have hope.

  1045. It's why we have joy.

  1046. It's why we

  1047. have Christmas

  1048. at all, right?

  1049. Because of

  1050. what he's done.

  1051. And you have a

  1052. neat perspective,

  1053. Ryan, sharing from

  1054. a adoptive dad of

  1055. two twins and the

  1056. reality of Joseph

  1057. and that perspective

  1058. is really cool.

  1059. and knowing, just

  1060. how good God is.

  1061. In the midst of

  1062. that, it's really why

  1063. we celebrate hope.

  1064. This first candle of

  1065. our advent season that

  1066. we started lighting

  1067. just not that long

  1068. ago, we looked at

  1069. this idea of hope

  1070. that because of Jesus,

  1071. 'cause of that baby

  1072. and the manger that

  1073. he came, that he died,

  1074. and he gave us life an

  1075. opportunity that even

  1076. in the midst of the

  1077. darkest stuff that we

  1078. walked through, man,

  1079. we are never without

  1080. hope, and I hope

  1081. that's real for you.

  1082. Like to know Jesus

  1083. is to know that no

  1084. matter what, there's

  1085. hope, no matter what,

  1086. there's nothing is

  1087. hopeless with Jesus.

  1088. So much of our

  1089. world is lost

  1090. in the darkness

  1091. of hopelessness.

  1092. But for those of us

  1093. who are in Christ,

  1094. that light of hope.

  1095. Burns forever

  1096. and ever.

  1097. And last week Rusty

  1098. talked about love and

  1099. we lit this candle

  1100. that represents

  1101. probably the one cheat

  1102. code for the Christmas

  1103. season, right?

  1104. Like all you gotta

  1105. do is say love, and

  1106. it covers everything.

  1107. But love is what

  1108. drove Jesus.

  1109. Not just to come

  1110. but to stay.

  1111. Right?

  1112. If I was him, I'd

  1113. have got here and

  1114. been like, this Airbnb

  1115. ain't working for me.

  1116. I'm out.

  1117. You know what I mean?

  1118. this is not cool.

  1119. Not at all.

  1120. But he chose to stay

  1121. and not just for a

  1122. couple months, knock

  1123. it out, get rolling.

  1124. He did that incognito

  1125. embedded spy mission

  1126. work against the enemy

  1127. for 33 years here

  1128. and then died for us.

  1129. Because of his

  1130. great, ridiculous.

  1131. I was thinking

  1132. about that.

  1133. I wanted to say the

  1134. word ridiculous,

  1135. crazy love of God.

  1136. And I was like, well,

  1137. I don't wanna be

  1138. disrespectful, right?

  1139. I'm not trying to

  1140. make God crazy or

  1141. ridiculous, but

  1142. if you think about

  1143. the definitions

  1144. of ridiculous and

  1145. crazy, who loves when

  1146. they're murdered?

  1147. Who loves when they're

  1148. despised and hated?

  1149. That's crazy love.

  1150. That's

  1151. ridiculous Love.

  1152. That's love beyond

  1153. any kinda love that

  1154. we know apart from

  1155. him and his great

  1156. love is what gives

  1157. us hope and light.

  1158. And this last word

  1159. here that we'll

  1160. talk about this

  1161. morning is this

  1162. third candle peace.

  1163. Peace is a really

  1164. interesting word, the

  1165. absence of conflict.

  1166. This epically

  1167. cool idea that

  1168. enmity, right?

  1169. That.

  1170. Fancy word that

  1171. sounds old school.

  1172. It just really means

  1173. being an enemy of

  1174. God is put to death

  1175. through the peace

  1176. that Jesus brings.

  1177. An end to hostility,

  1178. an end to conflict.

  1179. I don't know if we

  1180. catch this or not, but

  1181. man, what Jesus does

  1182. in coming and living

  1183. and dying and offering

  1184. us life, it's peace.

  1185. He gets this

  1186. cool title, the

  1187. Prince of Peace.

  1188. You know what's

  1189. cool about that?

  1190. He's not the God

  1191. who brings peace

  1192. that he does.

  1193. He's not the God who

  1194. speaks peace or the

  1195. God who shows peace.

  1196. He's the God of peace.

  1197. It's the substance

  1198. of who he is.

  1199. He is peace and man

  1200. when he resides in

  1201. us, there's an end

  1202. to the hostility and

  1203. the conflict there.

  1204. The nonsense and the

  1205. stuff of this world.

  1206. Man, if we can get

  1207. our eyes fixed on

  1208. Jesus, we can know

  1209. real safety, real

  1210. security, real

  1211. family, real peace.

  1212. And I've been thinking

  1213. about this idea a lot

  1214. this season, coming

  1215. home for Christmas.

  1216. And I love that

  1217. imagery of home.

  1218. not because I have

  1219. to listen to a lot

  1220. of Hallmark movies

  1221. from Jamie, but

  1222. because I actually

  1223. watched a really

  1224. cool clip the other

  1225. day of a Hallmark

  1226. movie backwards.

  1227. This girl leaves

  1228. a small tree farm

  1229. and goes to New

  1230. York and loves it.

  1231. And the redneck dudes

  1232. are like all alone.

  1233. Sorry.

  1234. That's how that works.

  1235. But you know, home

  1236. has almost this

  1237. crazy little, I

  1238. don't know, almost a

  1239. fantasy image of I.

  1240. This warm hearth

  1241. and the invitation

  1242. of relationship.

  1243. That's good.

  1244. And some of us

  1245. have some tough

  1246. home life stuff for

  1247. sure, and some of

  1248. us are enduring some

  1249. challenges in that

  1250. space relationally

  1251. with other people.

  1252. But here's

  1253. the cool part.

  1254. Your Heavenly Father,

  1255. through his amazing

  1256. grace, has adopted us

  1257. as sons and daughters,

  1258. given us opportunity

  1259. to be in relationship

  1260. with him, given us

  1261. opportunity to belong

  1262. and have home to come

  1263. to no matter where

  1264. you've been, no matter

  1265. what you've done,

  1266. there's nothing that

  1267. disqualifies you from

  1268. his invitation to

  1269. just come home and to

  1270. belong and be loved.

  1271. And man, I hope

  1272. you feel that this

  1273. Christmas season

  1274. amidst all the chaos,

  1275. all the craziness,

  1276. there is a God of

  1277. peace who invites you.

  1278. To just be with

  1279. him, to just spend

  1280. time with him, to

  1281. be in his presence

  1282. and to belong.

  1283. You matter so much

  1284. to him, and he

  1285. loves you so much.

  1286. Amen.

  1287. Praying his

  1288. presence over you

  1289. this Christmas.

  1290. Lord Jesus, thank

  1291. you for your

  1292. incredible love for us

  1293. demonstrated not just

  1294. on a wooden cross, but

  1295. in a wooden manger.

  1296. Thank you for your

  1297. amazing grace that

  1298. we didn't deserve.

  1299. Thank you for hope,

  1300. for love, and for

  1301. the opportunity to

  1302. experience peace,

  1303. Lord through Jesus

  1304. Christ, the way,

  1305. the truth and the

  1306. life, the invitation

  1307. to come home.

  1308. What a beautiful and

  1309. what an important

  1310. invitation.

  1311. Now, Lord, I pray

  1312. over all of us this

  1313. morning, no matter how

  1314. far away we feel, and

  1315. no matter how close

  1316. we feel, Lord, I pray

  1317. in a special way as

  1318. we go into this week

  1319. leading up to the

  1320. week of Christmas,

  1321. that we would feel

  1322. like we belong, that

  1323. we're loved, and

  1324. that your presence

  1325. would show up just

  1326. in some awesome ways.

  1327. I pray in Jesus' name.

  1328. Amen.

  1329. Well, speaking of

  1330. belonging and home,

  1331. one of the things I

  1332. love about this crazy

  1333. cool group of people

  1334. we call White Rock.

  1335. It's not the

  1336. only words we

  1337. use knuckleheads.

  1338. I think that's

  1339. in there too.

  1340. But sorry.

  1341. Might've been

  1342. the Holy Spirit.

  1343. Took my arm and

  1344. just did that.

  1345. Robin.

  1346. I don't know.

  1347. I dunno.

  1348. It wasn't me.

  1349. Hey, I wanna invite

  1350. some people up to

  1351. help me really quick

  1352. because there are

  1353. some really cool

  1354. things that are

  1355. happening as part

  1356. of this family and

  1357. things that you need

  1358. to know about, things

  1359. that have been going

  1360. on this week, things

  1361. that are coming up.

  1362. It's pretty exciting.

  1363. So, for some upcoming

  1364. events, I wanna

  1365. invite up, the four

  1366. wise men who were

  1367. in my office at the

  1368. wrong time yesterday.

  1369. So, guys, you know

  1370. who you are coming

  1371. up here please, Jed.

  1372. Yep.

  1373. Yep.

  1374. Gabriel, Elliot.

  1375. Where's Finn at today?

  1376. Is he pretending

  1377. to be sick?

  1378. Drake, you're

  1379. in Finn's class.

  1380. Come on up here buddy.

  1381. Join me.

  1382. That's perfect.

  1383. Fantastic.

  1384. Thanks man.

  1385. So, hey, as these

  1386. guys, yeah, the

  1387. round applause.

  1388. That's great.

  1389. That's great.

  1390. You have to grab

  1391. that cordless mic

  1392. over there, fellas.

  1393. And, so one of

  1394. the things that we

  1395. didn't get a chance

  1396. to do this morning

  1397. and working all

  1398. this stuff out is

  1399. take up our morning

  1400. tithes and offerings.

  1401. I just wanna make

  1402. sure that you're

  1403. aware we have a

  1404. basket in the back.

  1405. There's our digital

  1406. click on, boom,

  1407. that kind of jazz.

  1408. all the things that

  1409. we do together as a

  1410. church, the ways that

  1411. we impact people and

  1412. share the gospel and

  1413. all that cool stuff.

  1414. it's a collective

  1415. effort, right?

  1416. As we together bring

  1417. our tithes and worship

  1418. to the Lord and our

  1419. offerings to him, and

  1420. he blesses it and does

  1421. some cool things, well

  1422. these guys are gonna

  1423. help us, but we'll

  1424. actually help you

  1425. know what's going on.

  1426. So take it

  1427. away, Ellie.

  1428. Alright.

  1429. yeah.

  1430. All right.

  1431. Well, if you're a

  1432. guest and this is

  1433. your first time

  1434. being here today,

  1435. oh, you better hold

  1436. that mic real close.

  1437. 'cause Austin

  1438. doesn't wanna hurt

  1439. anybody's ears.

  1440. Welcome.

  1441. We have a, well, I

  1442. guess it's up here.

  1443. yeah.

  1444. We have a QR code to

  1445. fill out for, digital

  1446. Glass Card, I guess.

  1447. I don't know.

  1448. Yeah, that's

  1449. all right.

  1450. Alright, great stuff.

  1451. Fantastic.

  1452. Welcome to,

  1453. you're a Guest.

  1454. I don't know if you

  1455. felt, I don't know

  1456. if you felt really

  1457. welcome, but if

  1458. you're a first time

  1459. White Rock attendee

  1460. this morning, just

  1461. know that, that's the

  1462. best we could do to

  1463. invite you here, man.

  1464. It's get some teams

  1465. up and be like, Hey.

  1466. Hey, it's a better

  1467. greeting than I got

  1468. this morning from

  1469. my teenage son.

  1470. Like, oh, you're here.

  1471. So, I mean, it could

  1472. be worse, right?

  1473. Alright, pass

  1474. that mic down.

  1475. Drake.

  1476. Here you go buddy.

  1477. awesome events

  1478. yesterday.

  1479. We had some awesome

  1480. events yesterday.

  1481. Why is that

  1482. covered up?

  1483. secret Families of

  1484. Hamilton County.

  1485. angels attic.

  1486. I don't know what

  1487. that is, what is,

  1488. but it sounds cool.

  1489. So, yeah.

  1490. Did any of you

  1491. guys participate

  1492. in any of those?

  1493. Oh, Gabriel, you

  1494. should talk about it.

  1495. Since poor Drake

  1496. had just got drug

  1497. up as a replacement.

  1498. Thank you.

  1499. I was thinking,

  1500. I don't think

  1501. you're worthy to

  1502. talk about it.

  1503. You weren't there.

  1504. Oh man.

  1505. Drake's just

  1506. finding out, bro.

  1507. Geez.

  1508. Hey, Gabriel, I don't

  1509. make a big deal out

  1510. of this bro, but, why

  1511. don't you hold this

  1512. peace candle if you're

  1513. gonna take shots, you

  1514. know what I'm saying?

  1515. Just throw

  1516. it out there.

  1517. But, yeah,

  1518. it was great.

  1519. yesterday we went

  1520. and we shopped

  1521. for two families.

  1522. Our group.

  1523. And then we wrapped

  1524. the presents and

  1525. we delivered them.

  1526. So it was a great

  1527. opportunity to spread

  1528. the love of Jesus

  1529. to other people.

  1530. Yeah.

  1531. You guys got to

  1532. like drop off a

  1533. Bible and pray for

  1534. the families and

  1535. Yes, we also prayed

  1536. for the families.

  1537. Yes.

  1538. Yeah.

  1539. super cool.

  1540. And then our college

  1541. age crew, a bunch

  1542. of them went up to

  1543. Angel's attic and

  1544. packed food boxes.

  1545. So great job.

  1546. All you collegiate

  1547. smart looking people.

  1548. Very nice.

  1549. Jed, what's

  1550. going on tonight?

  1551. Tonight is ba bam.

  1552. Oh no.

  1553. Gabriel.

  1554. Just in case you

  1555. just hold onto that

  1556. buddy just in case

  1557. from five to six 30.

  1558. Alright.

  1559. We're at dude,

  1560. youth group.

  1561. Wait, church

  1562. over there.

  1563. How long you

  1564. been coming to

  1565. White Rock, man?

  1566. First time.

  1567. Wow.

  1568. Your whole life

  1569. is next door, bro.

  1570. Next door.

  1571. All right, perfect.

  1572. Hey, let's just kick

  1573. it back to Elliot for

  1574. the, quick update on

  1575. the college stuff.

  1576. All right.

  1577. we have a college

  1578. age-ish, I guess.

  1579. Small group

  1580. over at Andy and

  1581. Jamie's house.

  1582. Five o'clock.

  1583. Five o'clock.

  1584. Jamie's not in

  1585. here, otherwise it'd

  1586. say five o'clock.

  1587. What?

  1588. Going on?

  1589. What?

  1590. Epic morning.

  1591. What is it gonna be?

  1592. children's

  1593. Christmas program.

  1594. December 22nd at

  1595. 10:00 AM Nicely done.

  1596. Sounds a lot fun.

  1597. Nicely done.

  1598. Alright, so there's

  1599. word on the street

  1600. that there's actually

  1601. some movie called

  1602. The World's Greatest

  1603. Christmas pageant.

  1604. They're gonna

  1605. rename it to the

  1606. second greatest

  1607. Christmas pageant.

  1608. 'cause next week is

  1609. gonna be epic with the

  1610. platforms and the kids

  1611. and angels screaming

  1612. and singing and all

  1613. that good stuff.

  1614. It's gonna be awesome.

  1615. It's gonna be awesome.

  1616. And then also

  1617. what after that?

  1618. Well, we have

  1619. the Christmas Eve

  1620. service at 6:00 PM

  1621. so better come to

  1622. that 'cause always.

  1623. What day is that one?

  1624. What day is that one?

  1625. Christmas Eve.

  1626. Got it.

  1627. If you don't know what

  1628. day Christmas Eve is,

  1629. then maybe you should

  1630. do some research.

  1631. Do some research.

  1632. That's fantastic.

  1633. Hey, and are you

  1634. holding a candle for

  1635. any particular purpose

  1636. as it relates to the

  1637. Christmas Eve service?

  1638. Apparently

  1639. it's for peace.

  1640. That's good.

  1641. That's good.

  1642. We'll be doing

  1643. some candlelight

  1644. caroling in here.

  1645. All in the dark.

  1646. And you get to play

  1647. with fire that one

  1648. time a year, right?

  1649. The one time a year

  1650. White rock People

  1651. get to touch fire.

  1652. It's gonna be great.

  1653. It's gonna be great.

  1654. Hey, also some

  1655. coming events.

  1656. Jed, what's

  1657. happening here?

  1658. Teen winter camp.

  1659. Yeah.

  1660. Finally at 10.

  1661. the 17th to 19th.

  1662. Gotta get registered

  1663. right away.

  1664. Yep.

  1665. Right.

  1666. It's a lot of fun.

  1667. A lot of fun.

  1668. Good.

  1669. Watch Finn try to

  1670. flirt with girls

  1671. all the time.

  1672. There are a lot

  1673. of flirting with

  1674. girls that go on.

  1675. This is true.

  1676. This is true.

  1677. All right, Elliot.

  1678. What's happening

  1679. in February, man?

  1680. Oh yeah, I've

  1681. been avoiding you.

  1682. this whole season.

  1683. These avoiding

  1684. the camera season.

  1685. Yeah, it is.

  1686. Yeah.

  1687. we have, well that's

  1688. a little early.

  1689. Sorry about that.

  1690. All right,

  1691. Drake, that's

  1692. foreshadowing buddy.

  1693. That's yours

  1694. coming up.

  1695. It's gonna be awkward.

  1696. Make sure you cranked

  1697. that up there, Austin.

  1698. Yep.

  1699. Don't miss a Super

  1700. Bowl event and

  1701. all.

  1702. I don't know what

  1703. that was fair.

  1704. Apparently there's a

  1705. marriage retreat fair.

  1706. Couldn't happen

  1707. to a nicer guy.

  1708. February 14th

  1709. through the 16th.

  1710. So if you're

  1711. married, you should

  1712. probably get off.

  1713. Alright.

  1714. Normally it's 235

  1715. bucks to be able to

  1716. pull this off, but we

  1717. are actually gonna be

  1718. making it 160 bucks

  1719. and it's really the

  1720. first 26 couples

  1721. get their own cabin.

  1722. After that you

  1723. gotta bunk up like

  1724. dormitory style, which

  1725. is not as cool on

  1726. a couple's retreat.

  1727. Lemme tell you,

  1728. there's a QR code you

  1729. can sign up for that.

  1730. I think some email

  1731. stuff went out.

  1732. So definitely

  1733. don't miss that.

  1734. Good stuff.

  1735. Alright, so hey

  1736. guys, we're gonna

  1737. be, I'm calling

  1738. it a wrap on that.

  1739. How about this?

  1740. Big round of applause

  1741. for all you guys

  1742. coming up helping

  1743. out with that.

  1744. Thank you.

  1745. you gonna put your

  1746. can, well actually

  1747. here, why don't you

  1748. hold this real quick?

  1749. That's perfect.

  1750. That's technically

  1751. the love candle

  1752. that you lit, not

  1753. the peace candle.

  1754. No, that's the

  1755. peace candle bro.

  1756. Hope, love, peace.

  1757. I guess I wasn't

  1758. paying attention.

  1759. I guess I wasn't

  1760. paying attention.

  1761. Fair enough bro.

  1762. Fair enough.

  1763. Hey, tell what, do

  1764. me this real favor

  1765. because I thought

  1766. this would be a

  1767. great illustration.

  1768. Seth, Elijah, you

  1769. guys still listen

  1770. to back there.

  1771. Perfect.

  1772. Come on up here.

  1773. If you would please,

  1774. grab your buddy on

  1775. the basketball team.

  1776. Is he still in here?

  1777. I miss?

  1778. Yep.

  1779. Yep.

  1780. I can't remember

  1781. your name, dude.

  1782. I'm super sorry,

  1783. but come on up.

  1784. Let's be great.

  1785. And then Finn's

  1786. not here, so this

  1787. isn't gonna work.

  1788. So, Elliot,

  1789. you're in Finn's

  1790. class too, right?

  1791. So Gabriel, just

  1792. step over there

  1793. one second by those

  1794. plants for me.

  1795. That's perfect,

  1796. Jed, you scoot

  1797. over that way.

  1798. We'll get you three

  1799. guys up here running

  1800. this platform.

  1801. I was thinking about

  1802. the best way to

  1803. send us off on this.

  1804. Peace Sunday.

  1805. And you know what?

  1806. Let's come down

  1807. on the platform.

  1808. That'd be

  1809. easier, buddy.

  1810. Why don't you

  1811. guys, you three

  1812. guys step down.

  1813. Gabriel, you can

  1814. stay up there.

  1815. This is perfect.

  1816. It's gotta be three

  1817. on three, otherwise

  1818. it's not fair.

  1819. Perfect, Elliot.

  1820. Okay, we're gonna

  1821. make a transition now.

  1822. You are no longer

  1823. Finn, my friend.

  1824. You are Finn.

  1825. Oh, you're back to

  1826. being Drake and Jed.

  1827. Elijah, Seth,

  1828. and remind me.

  1829. Amen.

  1830. Marino.

  1831. Marino.

  1832. Thank you man.

  1833. Alright.

  1834. So I thought this was

  1835. really appropriate

  1836. today as we send

  1837. you off on this day

  1838. where we celebrate

  1839. the peace that Jesus

  1840. brings, these six

  1841. young men right now.

  1842. Stand here in the be

  1843. front of a church with

  1844. Christmas and hope

  1845. and joy and peace.

  1846. What's happening

  1847. on, Tuesday night

  1848. though, buddy?

  1849. a basketball game

  1850. between these

  1851. guys and you guys?

  1852. You guys gonna come

  1853. back together as

  1854. peace, or is this just

  1855. like a one time deal?

  1856. This peace thing.

  1857. One time deal.

  1858. One time deal.

  1859. Alright.

  1860. Hey, Jesus

  1861. loves you guys.

  1862. We're gonna be in

  1863. situations all week

  1864. where we might find

  1865. ourselves not wanting

  1866. to be at peace

  1867. with other people.

  1868. Probably like an hour

  1869. and 20 minutes on

  1870. a basketball court.

  1871. I think it's like an

  1872. off limits kind of

  1873. space, but let's walk

  1874. in peace with our

  1875. Heavenly Father and

  1876. with each other and

  1877. behave yourselves.

  1878. Guys, on

  1879. Tuesday night.

  1880. All right, good

  1881. to have you guys

  1882. here this morning.

  1883. Have a great

  1884. day in the Lord.

  1885. We love you all.

  1886. Have a great week.