Sermon
Be Strong and Keep Watch | March 2, 2025
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Alright, thanks guys.
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No, uh, cheesy
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sermon, intro, music
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today, last week I
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got in way too much
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trouble with that
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kissing sermon and
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things got awkward.
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I know.
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But, uh, good to
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see the anticipation
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and excitement on
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your faces today.
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Yeah, what's
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coming next?
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Well, some good
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stuff from God's
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word, I hope.
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Uh, hey, a little
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clarification too.
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Um, Josh talked to me
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about this afterwards.
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Our headset mic
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broke a couple weeks
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ago and we've been
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fighting it, and then
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we got another one
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supposed to be here,
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but then it's coming.
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Maybe next week
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we'll find out.
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But evidently, I'm a
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guy who talks with my
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hands a lot and I had
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my stuff like this.
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I don't know, but
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Josh pointed out
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that I was flipping
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off the congregation
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a lot last week.
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So I just want to
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go on the record
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as saying that
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was definitely
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unintentional and
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if any of you guys
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have big feelings
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about that, please
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know I love you.
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And it wasn't a
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subliminal message.
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Um, now if you were
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on your phone and
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you looked up and
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felt guilty, like
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I was sending you
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a message, maybe I
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could live with that.
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I don't know.
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But not really.
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Not really.
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Oh man.
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Good stuff.
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So we were talking
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a little bit about
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some stuff kind of
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nestled in Corinthians
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and . As I've been
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praying about this
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week and looking at
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some different things,
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God has brought this
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to my attention a
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couple weeks ago and
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I've been chewing on
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wrestling with it.
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And, uh, man, I'm
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just kinda excited
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to share this really
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cool passage outta
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First Corinthians
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today and unpack it
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together a little bit.
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And I hope you find
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it encouraging.
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I think there's a call
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to followers of Jesus.
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Um, and, and you know
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what's interesting?
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We all have different
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personalities, right?
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Sometimes we read a
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passage of scripture
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and it's like just
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this quiet, bubbly
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brook, and there's
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like a little
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hummingbird and a
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flower, and you're
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like, Jesus, this
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is my passage.
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Ah, right?
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And then others of
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us are like, go punch
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the devil in the face.
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And we're like,
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yes, my passage.
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All right, we're good.
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Right?
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So this passage
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this morning has a
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little bit of a, a,
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a guy bent to it.
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But I gotta be honest
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with you, I'm a
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little, I'm a little
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bent towards calling
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guys to walk and lead
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as men in the church
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of Jesus Christ in
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their homes and in
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the world because.
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God has a little
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bent towards calling
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men to lead in the
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church of Jesus Christ
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and in their homes
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and in the world.
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And so this morning,
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I wanna share
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something that Paul
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says to the church in
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Corinth that I think
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is really powerful.
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And he didn't just
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say it to the church
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in Corinth, he said
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it to the church
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all over Rome.
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And he said it so
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that we one day
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would listen and hear
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it, and it applies
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whether you're a
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man or a woman.
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But we're gonna dive
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into some really
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cool stuff that God
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calls us to here
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this morning, and I
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hope you find some
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encouragement in this.
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It's not a
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complicated passage.
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It makes a lot
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of sense when you
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read it and at
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face value, you'll
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probably be like,
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I think I get it.
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It makes sense.
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First Corinthians
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chapter 16, verse 13.
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A lot of different
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translations.
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I'm pulling this
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outta the ESV says
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this, be watchful.
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Stand firm
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in the faith.
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Act like men.
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Be strong.
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Be watchful.
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Stand firm
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in the faith.
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Act like men
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and be strong.
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Now listen, I'm,
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I don't consider
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myself a professional
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preacher, but I
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would say that if you
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were a preacher and
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you read these four
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phrases, you could
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probably put together
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what we might call in
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the business a four
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point sermon, right?
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Pretty clear
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, even an idiot.
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Anyways, moving on.
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So be watchful,
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stand firm.
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We're gonna
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unpack this just
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a little bit.
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So let me talk to
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you a little bit
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about this idea
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of being watchful,
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because I've been
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thinking about this
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in some conversations
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I've had recently
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with some people.
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And what this picture
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really is here for
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the church in Corinth,
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this is kind of almost
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a military angle that
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Paul's working here.
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He's talking to
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people who understand
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Roman occupation.
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He, they understand
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military engagement
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and how things are,
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you know, approached
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from kind of a
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military mindset.
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Had several
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conversations this
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week, including this
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morning, talking
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with a guy about the
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fact that we are in
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a spiritual battle.
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That there is a war
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that rages right
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up here between our
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ears, that the enemy's
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constantly throwing
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lies and deception,
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and we're called
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to take captive.
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Every thought, right?
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Every imagination,
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every lofty idea
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that sets itself up
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against the knowledge
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of God we're to
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demolish strongholds
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and arguments
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that the enemy
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would throw at us.
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And sometimes we just
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don't live in this
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reality that we're in
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a spiritual battle.
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We think things look
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safe, things look
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comfortable, and our
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struggle is sort of
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doing a little better
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as a human being.
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And that's not
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the case, man.
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We are in a spiritual
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war against the
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forces of evil and
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darkness that exist.
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And sometimes I
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think other places
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where it looks a
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little more raw and
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a little bit more
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in your face, people
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are a little bit
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more well watchful.
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And where we
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live, we get kinda
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lulled to sleep.
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But man, make, make
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no mistake, Satan
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is not taking a
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break from America.
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He's not taking
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a break from
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Hamilton County.
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He's at work
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here trying to
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do some serious
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destruction, and we
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have to be people
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who pay attention.
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And in the military,
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we would say it
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like this, and
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some translations
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use this phrase,
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be on your guard.
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And if you were a
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soldier who was on
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guard, you would be
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doing this One very
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simple principle,
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you would be paying
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attention, right?
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We don't see this a
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lot in the military,
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in our country.
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I don't know, maybe it
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happens more than we
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realize, but in Rome,
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if you fell asleep
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while you were on
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guard and you weren't
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paying attention,
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you were executed.
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I haven't seen that
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a lot in the US
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military, but the
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reality is, is the
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people who were
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responsible to be
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watchful and on
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guard were paying
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attention because
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while their own life
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mattered, right?
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But really the
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motivation behind
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paying attention
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and being on guard
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wasn't just to protect
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yourself, it was to
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protect everybody
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else around you.
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One of the things Paul
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calls the church to
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do is to pay attention
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and be watchful to
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what's going on around
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you, what's happening,
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so that you can be
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a protection for
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other people so that
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you're helping other
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people not get into
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a position where the
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enemy has access and
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destruction going on
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in, in their life.
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And I was thinking
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about this for us
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as, uh, we look at
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this, make America
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healthy again and all
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the different things
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happening culturally,
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there's a lot, you
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know, going on.
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And I was thinking
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about just this
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phrase, paying
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attention to what you
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consume, you know,
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as, as Americans
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were consumers.
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And I don't know
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if you're like me,
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I don't always pay
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a lot of attention
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to what I consume.
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I'm a pretty good
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consumer of pizza.
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I don't read a lot of
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the pizza ingredients.
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Um, you might be
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somebody who's like
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one of those box
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readers, right, who
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slow down the progress
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and the cereal aisle.
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'cause you wanna
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see exactly what
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ingredients are in it.
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Good for you.
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Great job.
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You might be like
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my wife who, uh,
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Hey Ganda, here's
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the situation.
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Jamie's helping
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next door today.
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So GA's in the
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sweet spot.
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So if you guys get
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Ganda to roll the
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eyes and do the,
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what are you talking
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about knucklehead,
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that'll keep me
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on task, right?
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So as much as that,
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much as that works,
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we don't pay a lot
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of attention to what
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we consume sometimes
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and maybe we're
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starting to to to
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pay attention more.
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I don't know, maybe
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you get a little
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older, you realize
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what's at stake
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and you begin to
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pay a little more
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attention, right?
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I was actually
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thinking there's
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probably a whole
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sermon in just this
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simple idea of paying
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attention to what
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you consume because
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consuming is just
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really what you maybe
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put in your, and I
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would just do these
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right here, man, head,
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heart, and hands.
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And I wanna
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challenge you to
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think about this for
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just two seconds.
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This isn't the
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four point sermon.
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This is a tiny
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little three point
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sermon mixed into
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the four point sermon
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for bonus points.
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No worries.
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But.
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What you put into
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your head, what you
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put into your heart
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and what you put into
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your hands, you're
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consuming that stuff.
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Had some interesting
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conversations this
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week with people about
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the music they're
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listening to and the
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stuff that they're
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just not even really
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paying attention to.
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Man, my dad used
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to make me, man, I
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remember driving in
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the car to school and
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we would, you know,
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'cause dad wasn't in
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there, we'd flip it
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over to the current
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hip hop station
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or pop, whatever's
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going on, right.
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And we'd catch the
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cool new song that
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everybody liked and
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then inevitably dad
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would get in the
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car and it's still
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on the radio and we
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forgot to change it.
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And then he is like,
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what you listening to?
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And we were like,
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I don't know what
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Christy was listening
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to, but I, I, I'm
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going to find out Dad.
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I'm disappointed
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in her.
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But my dad had this
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thing about music
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and he said this, if
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you can sit down with
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me and explain to me
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why the lyrics that
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you're listening to
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are good for you and
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they point you to the
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principles that Jesus
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wants us to follow,
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I'm great with that.
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I was like, well
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dad, it sounds
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really cool, right?
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I did this with some
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teens a few years ago.
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They love
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screamo music.
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And I was like, Hey,
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that's not music.
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You're just.
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I mean, you can
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get in trouble
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with your parents.
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They'll scream at
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you every, why don't
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you enjoy that?
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Right?
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But so we, we
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listened to this song.
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I mean, I painfully
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listened to the
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whole song, and
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they're like,
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isn't that awesome?
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And I was like, no,
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it's horrible, but
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I see why you would
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think it's awesome.
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I guess, what
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are they saying?
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And the guys said,
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well, I mean, I, I
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think it's like a
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good, I think it's
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kind of like a good
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message about, you
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know, whatever.
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Right?
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So we printed off the
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lyrics and I had them
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just read the lyrics
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to me out loud and
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you know, verse, you
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know, sentence three.
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They were like, I
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don't think I should
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read this to a Pastor
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I was like, I don't
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think you should read
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this to yourself, bro.
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Right?
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So we did the
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only thing we
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knew how to do.
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I tried to help
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these young men and
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I said, here's what
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we're gonna do, man.
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We pulled off a
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version of the
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song that was just
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instrumental, which
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Screamo instrumental
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is tricky, right?
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So we got the
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instrumental track,
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we laid it down, and
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then we went online
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and I was like, you
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want some screaming?
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You want some
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screaming?
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Let's do this.
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We went to YouTube
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and we found seven
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videos of these
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African-American
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women preachers who
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were 70 year olds.
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Older screaming at
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the congregation,
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we overlaid it
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to their music.
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And then I played
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that for them.
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I was like, now
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you got some
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Jesus screamo.
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What do you think?
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Right.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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They weren't
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impressed either.
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I thought it
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was brilliant.
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Um, but they
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didn't listen to
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a lot of screamo
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around me anymore.
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So, but here's the
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thing, what you listen
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to, man, garbage in,
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garbage out, right?
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The stuff that goes
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into your head,
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you're absorbing it.
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The principles, the
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messaging, you're just
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soaking it in and it
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does not return void.
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It does not just sort
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of bouncing your ear
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and back out like,
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well, like the tune.
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I like the stuff.
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Listen, we gotta
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pay attention to the
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messaging that we're
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consuming and getting
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into our heads and
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into our hearts,
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and we carry around
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these phones all
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day long, endlessly.
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And we're
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consuming content
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just constantly.
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And most of the
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time we're not
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discerning, we're
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not filtering, we're
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not paying attention.
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We're just . Soaking
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it all in, man.
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And our hearts, our
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spirits are like a
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sponge sometimes.
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And we're just
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soaking in the
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world's messaging and
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what's going on in
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the world around us.
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And then you watch it,
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man, the stuff that
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you've listened to
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starts to accidentally
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slip outta your mouth
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in a conversation
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and in a moment.
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And I'm not saying
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you can't listen to
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some music that's
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not all about Jesus,
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but maybe there's
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something to this idea
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of being watchful of
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what we are consuming
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and putting in.
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We need to be watching
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for the enemy.
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Where's he?
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Where he is at
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work for sure.
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We need to be standing
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our guard, right?
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But some of that
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being on guard is not
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opening the side door
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for the enemy and
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inviting him to sit
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in with us while we
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watch the front gate
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to see if he's coming.
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Right?
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And that sounds like
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old man fuddy duddy.
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And I'm super
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sorry, right?
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There's some really
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great Christian
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music out there.
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There's some really
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great secular
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music out there.
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There's kind of fun.
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But.
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Man, you gotta be
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discerning and you
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gotta pay attention.
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And if you can't
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defend what you're
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putting in and if you
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can't stand before
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Jesus and say, Lord,
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this is cool for me to
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absorb this, I would
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challenge you that,
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uh, maybe you're being
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a little disobedient
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to what he calls us
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to as his people.
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And if you can,
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that's great.
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It doesn't mean
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I'm gonna like,
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it still probably
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sounds terrible,
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but so also in this
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idea of watchful
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is this word watch.
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And I just wrapped
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up basketball season
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with uh, Jed, which
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is a ton of fun.
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And uh, man, I kind
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of miss coaching.
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And then after a
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while, I don't miss
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coaching at all,
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but love basketball.
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And I was thinking
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about this idea
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of watchful
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with basketball.
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And one of the things
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we always talk about
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in coaching and in
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games, and if you've
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ever sat in the stands
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and you've watched
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high school or junior
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high basketball,
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there's a phrase
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about watching that's
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really important.
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And it's this
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very simple
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phrase, eyes up.
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Right.
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Holy cow.
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The blood pressure
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of watching a dude
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streak wide open
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to the basket while
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somebody's dribbling
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and staring at
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their shoe laces is
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maddening, right?
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The opportunities
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that get missed on
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a basketball court,
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because we don't
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have our eyes up.
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The danger that we
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don't avoid on a
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basketball court
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because we don't have
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our eyes up, man, I
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learned more about
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following Jesus on a
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basketball court than
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I did in a Sunday
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school classroom.
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That's probably
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not totally true,
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but I feel like it
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applied and made
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more sense to me.
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Preacher be like,
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well, pay attention.
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Fix your eyes
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on Jesus.
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I'm like, I
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don't know man.
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Look for the open man.
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Stay away from
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the defender.
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The defender's,
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the devil.
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The open man
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is your fellow
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follower, Jesus.
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Oh, ding, that
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makes sense.
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I get it right.
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Like some of the
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metaphors and the
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pictures that are
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super clear on
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the basketball
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court, translate
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to the scriptures.
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You gotta have your
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eyes up where you miss
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everything and you put
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yourself in positions
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where you're gonna
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go and walk right
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into double teams in
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trouble and messes.
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We have to learn to
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do that spiritually.
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It's no different.
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God calls us to
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keep our eyes up
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and be watchful.
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I have a son who's
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getting ready to do
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the whole driving
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thing, which I don't
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wanna talk about that
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right now, but, um,
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a lot of increased
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prayer lifetime.
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Right?
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But I remember the
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first time, one of
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the first times I
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was driving with my
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dad, man, and we were
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just rocking between
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those lines back and
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forth, back and forth
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until my dad was
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gonna throw up on me.
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And he is like, dude,
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where are you looking?
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And I was like, I'm
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staring over the hood
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to make sure I keep it
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in the, in the lines.
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He is like, lift
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your eyes up man.
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Look at the horizon.
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'cause now things
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are gonna not only
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smooth out, but you
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can see obstacles
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coming and dangerous
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things coming.
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And I was like, ah,
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now for him, that was
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probably self-serving
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'cause he didn't wanna
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throw up anymore.
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But also it taught me
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a ton about getting
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my eyes up in driving.
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Be watchful.
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Pay attention
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as followers of
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Jesus Christ.
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Eyes up.
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Watch what we're
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putting in our
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heads, our heart,
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our hands in matters.
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Stand firm
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in the faith.
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Stand firm
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in the faith.
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If you don't think
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standing firm is
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a really important
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thing to Paul, you've
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never read Ephesians
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where he says, stand,
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and now that you've
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done everything
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to stand, I say,
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stand, stand firm.
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Then with a belt
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of truth, he says,
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stand like my mom was
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like, Andrew, Andrew.
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Andrew, Andrew,
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Andrew, and he's
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like, stand, stand,
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stand, stand, stand.
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Right.
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He wants us to
-
be people who
-
stand firm, right?
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Biblically, this
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picture is to hold
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your ground in a
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military sense.
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It makes sense.
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It also makes sense
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in a basketball
-
sense, right?
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I dunno if you've
-
ever seen anybody play
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basketball who doesn't
-
know how to box out
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and hold their ground
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on the defense, trying
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to get a rebound on
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the offense, trying
-
to get a rebound.
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It gets shoved
-
everywhere, right?
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Offensive position.
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You gotta hold your
-
ground in basketball.
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It makes a
-
lot of sense.
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If we throw back
-
the idea of the car,
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oh wait, this is
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a motorcycle, Jed,
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this is all you'll
-
ever get, buddy.
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A tiny moped, so don't
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even think about it.
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Right?
-
I had a buddy who
-
used to teach, um,
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motorcycle classes
-
and I finally got this
-
question answered.
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'cause I gotta be
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honest, if you don't,
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if you don't ride,
-
you don't understand.
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But motorcycles
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are always like
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way out there in
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that first lane off
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the yellow, right?
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They're always
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like right there.
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And I'm always
-
riding behind 'em.
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I'm like, dude, you
-
got like so much space
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you could just kind
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of hang out in this
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sweet spot over here.
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No Rusty, right?
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Why not?
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I was looking for a
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short answer, but yes.
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Thank you.
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So mostly, mostly
-
protection, right?
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And safety.
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You gotta stay in a
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higher visibility spot
-
and out of the crud
-
and the junk, right?
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For sure.
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It's kinda like the
-
eyes up thing, right?
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You hold your position
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in the lane, you
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hold your ground,
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and if you don't do
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that as a motorcycle
-
rider, man, you're
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gonna get knocked all
-
over the place and
-
potentially wipe out.
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God's principles for
-
us are pretty simple.
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When we look at the
-
world around us,
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people understand
-
what it means to
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hold firm and hold
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your ground in
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basketball, in driving
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and spiritually,
-
man, we've got
-
to hold ground.
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Scripture says, let
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us only let us live
-
up to what we've
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already attained
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this picture of.
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Do not go backwards,
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but hold firm
-
to what's been
-
established.
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And we do that
-
through the power
-
of the Holy Spirit.
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We do that through
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the armor of God
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and all kinds of
-
different connections
-
to his resource
-
and his strength.
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But we are called
-
to be people who do
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not go backwards.
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We may not always
-
be able to, to press
-
forward and strive
-
forward, but we
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don't go backwards.
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We hold the ground.
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We stand firm
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in the faith.
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I think as a young
-
man, this resonated
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with me growing up
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out west more than
-
anything else in this
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idea of standing firm.
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The Cheyenne
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dog Soldier.
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It's a painting,
-
but the Cheyenne
-
dog soldier was the
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most fierce Indian
-
warrior on the planes.
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And they, I mean, they
-
had all kinds of, you
-
know, intimidation
-
tactics and whatnot.
-
But one of the
-
things they did
-
that was amazing,
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they had a sash.
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They, they, uh, had
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attached to them
-
called a dog rope.
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And in battle, they
-
would stake the
-
dog rope to the
-
ground and they
-
would not retreat.
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They would hold
-
their ground and
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they would fight
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or die, win or die,
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right there attached
-
to that stake.
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There was no place
-
for them to retreat,
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no place for them
-
to go backwards.
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They stood their
-
ground, they held
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their ground.
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And as a cool picture,
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as a guy, it resonates
-
with me a ton as a
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man who doesn't quit,
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who doesn't give up,
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who doesn't rip out
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the stake and turn and
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run when it's hard.
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God calls us to be
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people who stand firm.
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Who hold our ground
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and constantly the
-
devil challenges
-
us to, to give
-
ground, to let go.
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Does it really matter?
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Cast doubt, fear,
-
worries, anxieties
-
endlessly.
-
But God calls us to
-
be people who hold our
-
ground and stand firm.
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And I love that this
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phrase is followed
-
up with this one
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act like men.
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Now ladies, I just
-
wanna say this does
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not mean you're exempt
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from the call here.
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It's why some
-
translations have
-
changed this to be
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be courageous or be
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brave, which is not
-
a bad idea, except
-
that and Dr. May in
-
the Greek, this phrase
-
literally means to
-
act like a man and
-
man, we live in this
-
culture where manhood
-
is sort of kicked
-
to the curb where
-
masculinity is toxic.
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Where.
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God designed men,
-
and he called men
-
to bravery and
-
not cowardice.
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He called men to
-
stand and to fight
-
and to be courageous.
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That does not
-
mean an absence
-
of fear, right?
-
Sometimes there's
-
fear, there's worry,
-
there's anxiety, but
-
it means no retreat
-
and no giving up,
-
and no throwing our
-
hands up and saying
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it's somebody else's
-
responsibility.
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Guys, God has called
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men to lead in their
-
families spiritually.
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It disgusts me to
-
see how much the
-
American church has
-
become the women
-
being the spiritual
-
nurturers and the guys
-
being the providers.
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That is biblical
-
bull crap.
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I think that's
-
the official term.
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Sorry, but it's
-
just a lie.
-
It's not even
-
true at all.
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God calls men to
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teach their children
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about the Lord when
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they get up, when
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they go to sleep,
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when they're walking,
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when they're making
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dinner, when they're
-
mowing the lawn.
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Modern translation.
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But the reality
-
is, is all day long
-
we're supposed to
-
see the opportunities
-
and seize the
-
opportunities to
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lead our children
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in discipleship,
-
following Jesus,
-
being apprentices of
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the King of Kings.
-
Man, that's a
-
call to manhood.
-
That's not
-
biblically a woman's
-
responsibility.
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It's not.
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She needs to nurture
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and care and come
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under the direction
-
of her husband in
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the, in those areas.
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Sure.
-
But man, guys, we
-
answer to the Lord
-
for what we do with
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the call to lead and
-
disciple our families.
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That's straight
-
scripture.
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And we live in a
-
culture where men
-
and women are equal.
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They can do the
-
same things, I mean.
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It's just so dumb.
-
I mean, women are
-
better than men.
-
That's obvious.
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But we don't do
-
the same things
-
and we're not built
-
the same, and we
-
don't even bring
-
the same things to
-
the equation, right?
-
God desperately
-
wants a mom and a
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dad to influence the
-
kid in a way that
-
gives a full rounded
-
picture of God's
-
glory and goodness
-
and his love, right?
-
Both, both aspects.
-
Maybe you protect
-
and maybe you push
-
a little bit, right?
-
Like whatever that
-
looks like in the
-
tensions between
-
the two of you.
-
But God designed
-
family so that we
-
would experience
-
God's love and
-
manhood is under
-
attack culturally.
-
And listen, if you
-
think toxic manhood
-
is like chauvinistic
-
dictatorship,
-
you have no idea
-
what manhood is.
-
Manhood and marriage
-
and leadership
-
and headship in
-
marriage is saying,
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I love you so much.
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I'm gonna follow
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Jesus' example, and
-
I'm gonna die to
-
myself to serve you.
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If you think
-
that's like toxic,
-
uh, ladies, I'd
-
challenge you to
-
get in one of those
-
relationships and see
-
how it really works.
-
It's kind of a
-
cool deal, right?
-
And a wife who
-
honors her husband
-
and submits to her
-
husband and respect,
-
it's a beautiful
-
picture based on God's
-
design for what men
-
are supposed to be.
-
But listen, guys,
-
we've, we've just sent
-
in and caved into this
-
idea of being brave
-
and courageous and
-
to stand and to lead.
-
And that is
-
so contrary
-
to God's word.
-
Your kids need
-
to see it.
-
Your wife needs
-
to see it.
-
Your fiances
-
need to see it.
-
Your girlfriends
-
need to see it.
-
Girls who think
-
they might wanna
-
be your girlfriends
-
need to see it.
-
Everybody needs
-
to see it.
-
Be a man who leads,
-
act like men.
-
And I love that phrase
-
in the scripture.
-
It's understood
-
what men do.
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They're brave,
-
they're courageous,
-
and they lead.
-
And we've come along
-
and tried to dumb
-
it down with a few
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adjectives, man.
-
Right here in
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the scriptures.
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Hmm.
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Watch be on guard.
-
Pay attention.
-
Stand firm and
-
lead like a man.
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Live like a man.
-
Impact your
-
families and the
-
world around you.
-
Like a man.
-
That's the call
-
of God to men.
-
And he ends with
-
this phrase.
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Be strong in this
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passage right here.
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Be strong.
-
This word literally
-
is tied to this
-
idea of mighty.
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And I want, I
-
hope you can find
-
some encouragement
-
in this idea.
-
Check this out.
-
The word mighty.
-
Here's kinda a working
-
definition of mighty.
-
Does anybody remember
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Mighty Mouse?
-
Yes.
-
Yeah.
-
Right, right.
-
Well, there's
-
a reason.
-
Mighty Mouse
-
was a thing.
-
Check out what this
-
definition means.
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Mighty possessing
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great and
-
impressive power
-
or strength, right?
-
We get that mighty
-
possessing great
-
and impressive
-
power or strength,
-
but it's not the
-
complete definition.
-
Especially on
-
account of size.
-
The implication
-
here is that might
-
surprises you because
-
it comes in a smaller
-
package than you might
-
expect, and I find
-
great encouragement
-
in this promise that
-
God calls us to be
-
strong because the
-
truth is in our own
-
strength, man, we
-
don't have a lot going
-
on sometimes and in
-
our own strength,
-
we might look pretty
-
small to the world
-
around us, but we're
-
not operating in
-
our own strength.
-
Right?
-
Be strong, Ephesians
-
says in the Lord
-
and in the power
-
of his might.
-
Paul speaks to this
-
idea of when I'm
-
weak, I'm actually.
-
Crazy strong.
-
Why?
-
Because it's no
-
longer about my
-
strength and my
-
ability and my pride
-
and what I can do.
-
It's about full
-
surrender to the
-
power of God at work
-
in me, letting him
-
bring the strength,
-
bring the resource,
-
move the mountains.
-
And all I'm doing
-
is just trying to be
-
obedient and keep in
-
step with what he's
-
calling me to do.
-
Being brave,
-
being courageous,
-
stepping, trusting,
-
and watching his
-
power show up in me.
-
I'm called to be
-
strong, but it's not
-
about being strong
-
in Andy weight.
-
It's about being
-
strong in his
-
power, in his might.
-
And guys all the time
-
try to get strong, to
-
try to impress, try
-
to get strong, to try
-
to accomplish, try to
-
maneuver and position
-
instead of first and
-
foremost, and always
-
plugging directly into
-
the Lord and saying,
-
father, it's your
-
strength, not mine.
-
What do you want me
-
to do and how do you
-
want me to, to walk
-
and step and lift?
-
Because what I'm gonna
-
do is I'm gonna take
-
a step and maybe I
-
don't possess much.
-
'cause I'm, I'm small
-
in stature and to
-
the world's eyes and
-
to this circumstance
-
and situation.
-
I'm kind of small, but
-
I'm mighty because of
-
the real power that
-
I have access to.
-
And that's gonna
-
show up in this
-
circumstance, in
-
this situation.
-
That's an awesome
-
picture of what it
-
means to be strong.
-
And I love that we
-
have this bookend
-
of be and be.
-
These are not
-
situational.
-
These are
-
ongoing action,
-
a state of being.
-
Well, when do we
-
stop being watchful?
-
I mean, we're supposed
-
to just like be
-
watchful for a second.
-
Are we just supposed
-
to watch Now?
-
It doesn't say
-
watch, right?
-
It doesn't say watch.
-
It says be watchful.
-
Ongoing action.
-
We don't step out
-
and pretend like
-
there's no battle.
-
We don't decide it's
-
no longer of interest
-
to us or worth the
-
fight to fight for
-
our families and for
-
our marriages, and for
-
the people around us.
-
We don't withdraw.
-
We don't walk away.
-
We stay staked, right
-
where we're positioned
-
and where God's
-
planted us to fight.
-
And we stay in an
-
active, ongoing state
-
of being strong,
-
of being watchful,
-
right, of standing
-
firm and acting
-
courageous even if
-
inside we're quaking.
-
And let me encourage
-
you with this little
-
motivation that Paul
-
tags in on verse
-
14, he kind of wraps
-
this thought up
-
with this phrase,
-
let all that you
-
do be done in love,
-
if your motivation
-
to be strong is to
-
intimidate others
-
or to accomplish
-
your own success or.
-
Your own ambitions.
-
If your motivation
-
to stand firm or be
-
courageous is to look
-
in the mirror and
-
feel hyped and good
-
about who you are.
-
All of your motivation
-
is messed up.
-
Love is what
-
drives this action.
-
So one of the reasons
-
America's been a,
-
a feared fighting
-
force since World
-
War I and World War
-
ii, and in those eras
-
of Americans getting
-
involved, they fought
-
for each other and
-
they fought for the
-
love of country.
-
And in that space,
-
man, there's a
-
reservoir and there's
-
a resource to keep
-
people standing
-
and fighting and
-
not quitting.
-
I mean, mercenaries
-
get hired, right?
-
And when it gets bad
-
enough, they bail.
-
But when you're
-
fighting for your
-
families and you're
-
fighting for your
-
friends and the
-
people that you love,
-
when do you quit?
-
When do you give up?
-
When do you walk out?
-
When do you untake and
-
walk away and say, I
-
don't care anymore.
-
Right?
-
Love is what
-
drives our action.
-
Love is the only way
-
to be courageous when
-
all you want to do
-
is quit and give up.
-
Love is the only
-
way to stand when
-
you just wanna
-
lay down and cry.
-
But the love of God
-
is more powerful than
-
any circumstance and
-
any situation we face,
-
and we have access to
-
that for every single
-
thing in our life.
-
And when we get
-
connected to that
-
man, there is nothing
-
that the enemy can
-
do to overrun us.
-
Nothing.
-
Lord, thank you
-
for your word,
-
for your truth.
-
Thank you for your
-
call to be people who
-
are paying attention,
-
who have their eyes
-
up, and who are
-
watching, who are
-
paying attention to
-
what they consume,
-
and paying attention
-
to what the enemy's
-
doing around them
-
for themselves.
-
Also for their family,
-
for their friends,
-
for their community.
-
God forgive us for
-
how often we look
-
to our own ways and
-
our own devices.
-
And just doing our own
-
selfish stuff helps
-
us to be on guard.
-
And Lord, you know,
-
the ground that we've
-
taken from the enemy
-
in our life, you know,
-
the progress maybe
-
we've made in some
-
areas, or you know,
-
some of the struggles.
-
God, I pray you'd
-
give us the, the
-
determination to drive
-
a stake in the ground
-
and not give up any
-
more ground to the
-
enemy, but to stand
-
and fight and to see
-
your deliverance,
-
and to see you come
-
alongside us and move
-
that stake a little
-
deeper into enemy
-
territory as we take
-
new and fresh ground.
-
Lord, you know, we
-
live in a culture that
-
tells us acting like
-
a man is toxic and
-
stupid and prideful.
-
And I suppose if we're
-
doing it for selfish
-
ambition and tyranny.
-
Then maybe it is.
-
But God, acting
-
like a man means
-
something about
-
courage and bravery
-
and determination
-
and strength.
-
And God, I pray for
-
the men in our church
-
that they would find
-
a fresh sense of
-
determination to be
-
the men they need
-
to be, to lead in
-
their own life, in
-
the lives of their
-
families, and in the
-
life of our church.
-
And Lord, that
-
those ripple effects
-
would go far beyond.
-
And thank you, Lord,
-
that in our weakness
-
though we are small,
-
in stature, we
-
are mighty because
-
of your strength.
-
And Lord, I pray that
-
love would really be
-
the motivation when
-
we want to give up
-
and we want to quit
-
and we just decide.
-
It's just too hard
-
that we would look
-
at the faces of the
-
people that we love.
-
The people around us
-
who are lost that you
-
love, and that there
-
would be a renewed
-
sense of determination
-
through love, to
-
continue to fight, to
-
continue to press on.
-
Lord, we love you
-
and we're so thankful
-
that you loved
-
us and that you
-
fought for us.
-
And Lord, help us to
-
use that as a little
-
bit of a reminder
-
to engage well
-
where you've got us.
-
Thank you Lord.
-
In Jesus name.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
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Whew.
-
Some heavy stuff man.
-
Hey uh, Caleb.
-
What's up man?
-
You on spring break?
-
No.
-
Are you on
-
spring break?
-
You don't get
-
spring break.
-
Caleb, come on up here
-
Josiah, come on up
-
here Mr. Spring break.
-
'cause uh.
-
Speaking of watching,
-
I want you to watch
-
what's coming up and
-
these guys thought
-
they were on break
-
and they could just
-
chill out, but I'm
-
gonna put 'em to work
-
this morning telling
-
you about what's
-
coming up at White
-
Rock as we wrap up
-
the morning service.
-
So you guys got, uh,
-
these mics right here
-
and if you guys
-
don't wanna do it,
-
I'm gonna be like,
-
just be courageous.
-
Act like men.
-
Two mics.
-
Alright, go ahead
-
Caleb, since
-
you got the mic.
-
What's happening
-
tonight buddy?
-
Youth group?
-
Uh, six 6:00
-
PM Hang on.
-
You better do
-
that again.
-
Austin didn't
-
want you to talk.
-
He wanted to be
-
courageous back there.
-
Youth group 6:00
-
PM All right,
-
you hear me?
-
Uh, college age
-
group as wait, wait,
-
wait, wait, wait.
-
See that guy
-
right there?
-
He's courageous and
-
he's gonna come for
-
you and you have to
-
stand your ground.
-
If you don't sell
-
that youth group.
-
Slide a little harder.
-
Caleb.
-
Let's go.
-
Youth group at
-
6:00 PM Woo.
-
All right.
-
There you go.
-
There you go.
-
Uh, college age
-
group at 6:00 PM Woo.
-
Yeah.
-
And then first
-
beater, small groups.
-
There's some
-
small groups
-
going on as well.
-
Yeah.
-
Yes.
-
Nice.
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Tuesday at
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six 30 there's
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financial peace.
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And also Saturday
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at 9:00 AM Yeah.
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Very nice.
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Very nice parents.
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Night out.
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Date night.
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Okay.
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That was
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authentic ladies.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Um, Saturday,
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March 8th.
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Just I think
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everybody's at Tom
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and Shannon's, right?
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I don't know.
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I have no idea, man.
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My kids kind of take
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care of themselves,
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so I don't know what's
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going on, but, okay.
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You still sign up
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next door, right?
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And then dropping
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kids off here.
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Does that sound
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right to anybody?
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Yeah.
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Oh, it's next door.
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It's next door.
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Is the drop off.
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And, and the
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sign up is next
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door too, right?
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People can sign up?
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Yes.
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Perfect.
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All right.
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What they said, what's
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going on this week,
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men, uh, men's group
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this week, first
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and third Wednesday
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at 7:00 PM Yeah, so
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we're on the odd days
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'cause we're odd guys.
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Totally legit.
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Uh, games in the
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Dark with the Rock
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Solid Youth Man.
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Yeah.
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March 14th,
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six 30 to 10.
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I feel like this needs
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a little explanation.
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We're just gonna
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shut the lights
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off for a couple
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hours and the teens
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emerge after that.
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The rocks.
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Rocks in the dark.
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That's dangerous.
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Hey, uh, ladies,
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take a hike, right?
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What do we got here?
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I hope you all have
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a wonderful time.
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Um, March 15th
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at 9:00 AM See
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Tara for details.
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Tara's raising your
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hand over there.
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If you're interested,
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getting more
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information about
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this amazing walk.
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Should be like
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11 or 12 degrees.
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Something really fun
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like that, right?
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Uh, the following
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week, we got
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Mighty Moms Group.
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Uh, March 22nd at 6:00
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PM Snacks and Canvas.
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Renee's over there.
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Hey, Renee,
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where's this at?
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Do we know here?
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All right, so, woo.
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But you got RSVP,
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otherwise no
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snacks for you.
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Man, it's rough.
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Hey, you can check out
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a bunch of upcoming
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events We have
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Easter season, like
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around the corner.
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There's a ton of
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stuff in April.
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A ton of stuff in May.
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Things are going
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nuts on the calendar
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so we don't have
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time for it all
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this morning 'cause
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these guys are on
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spring break and they
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wouldn't gimme much.
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But uh, check
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out the website.
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There's a ton of
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stuff going on.
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We don't want
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you to miss that.
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And, uh, last but not
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least, love you guys.
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Be strong in the Lord
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and his mighty power.
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Have a great
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week in him.