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Faith, Hope, and Mom | May 11, 2025 Mother's Day

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  1. Hey, sorry I hit the

  2. button too soon there.

  3. I didn't ruin that moment.

  4. Put a little neat tribute to motherhood.

  5. We actually worked.

  6. Uh, Noah, could you sneak up

  7. here just a little bit for me?

  8. Just be able to see you and Josh Murray.

  9. Where's he at?

  10. He was here a second ago.

  11. Just stand up real quick.

  12. And Josiah, we worked on this song

  13. with this trio, and then we decided

  14. to just show you the music video.

  15. Thought that was a better route to go.

  16. Does that work?

  17. Oh man.

  18. Mother's Day is a special day and it's

  19. impossible to try to say thank you.

  20. Or express our gratitude.

  21. That's a sweet little song that resonates.

  22. Ah, man, a mother's love.

  23. It's crazy stuff.

  24. People don't really talk

  25. about a father's love.

  26. Do you notice that?

  27. Nobody's like, ah, the old tender

  28. hearted love with the father?

  29. Nope.

  30. No, you just don't hear a lot of it.

  31. It's not legendary stuff and

  32. it's not Father's Day, so we

  33. can't even talk about dads.

  34. In fact, all of you read your email,

  35. guys who went on that men's retreat

  36. and didn't wear your shirt from Men's

  37. Retreat so that we could save it

  38. till next Sunday for testosterone.

  39. Sunday write.

  40. Dax, why don't you stand up and show off

  41. how good you are at reading emails, bro.

  42. Oh, booster's got his on.

  43. Oh, there you go.

  44. Nice work fellas.

  45. Have a seat.

  46. Thanks, man.

  47. Thanks.

  48. Good, good.

  49. Email reading this.

  50. Acts like, dude, you gotta come to church.

  51. It's gonna be awesome.

  52. We're gonna race some cars.

  53. It's flowers everywhere

  54. and a mother's love.

  55. There we go, man.

  56. That's what we're doing today.

  57. Oh.

  58. Well, a mother's love

  59. is an incredible thing.

  60. And you know, Andrew, you're

  61. starting to steal my sermon.

  62. That's why God confused You had you sit

  63. down, because here's the thing, God's love

  64. is on display through the love of a mom.

  65. That's the design, right?

  66. Lived out in perfection.

  67. Of course not.

  68. We're all fallible people, but man a

  69. mother's love is something incredible.

  70. And I want to talk about it

  71. a little bit this morning.

  72. And on Mother's Day, you have to

  73. go over to Proverbs 31, right?

  74. You have to go over and talk about

  75. the perfect woman, the perfect mom.

  76. That way they all just feel so

  77. beat up before they leave church.

  78. We're not doing that.

  79. Just so you know, we're not

  80. gonna go over to Proverbs 31.

  81. Great passage.

  82. You should read it.

  83. Marinate on it.

  84. I feel like I'm married

  85. to a Proverbs 31 woman.

  86. I'm just gonna say, notice there's no

  87. Proverbs 31 guys in the world, right?

  88. We don't even get our own

  89. chapter like that, but that's a

  90. section that we talk about a lot.

  91. Instead of talking about perfect

  92. motherhood or perfect moms.

  93. I wanna talk a little bit

  94. about perfect love today.

  95. 'cause I think we see

  96. it in the love of a mom.

  97. Not in its perfection in this

  98. fallen world, but we see something

  99. beautiful about God's love for us.

  100. So I'm gonna take us to the

  101. most well-known passage about

  102. love in all of all of the Bible.

  103. First Corinthians, chapter 13.

    1 Corinthians 13 chapter mention

  104. You're probably very familiar with it.

  105. We're gonna talk specifically about

  106. verses four through eight, and you'll

  107. probably recognize this from any wedding

  108. you've ever been to any Valentine's

  109. Day where the Bible was sitting open.

  110. We always talk about love when

  111. we look at this passage, kind

  112. of because it's a pretty good

  113. descriptor of what love looks like.

  114. It says love is patient.

  115. Love is kind.

  116. Love does not envy.

  117. It doesn't boast.

  118. Love is not proud, right?

  119. Love is not rude.

  120. It's not self-seeking.

  121. It's not easily angered.

  122. It keeps no record of wrongs.

  123. Love does not delight in evil,

  124. but rejoices in the truth, right?

  125. Love bears all things, believes

  126. all things, hopes all things,

  127. and endures all things.

  128. Love never fails.

  129. What a cool picture of this amazing

  130. gift we experience through our Heavenly

  131. Father called love, but we also

  132. experienced this perfect love lived out

  133. in imperfection through a a mother's love.

  134. And I love what you said

  135. this morning, Renee.

  136. It's beautiful because the reality

  137. is, is we live in this fallen world

  138. with sin and the sinful nature, and

  139. there's a lot of stuff going on, right?

  140. And we have relationships that didn't

  141. measure up to the perfect standard.

  142. Some of us aspire to be

  143. moms and physically it, it

  144. doesn't ever materialize.

  145. And there's some struggle there.

  146. I mean, we've had lots of people walk

  147. through fertility things in our church

  148. and sometimes God grants children

  149. and sometimes it, it doesn't play

  150. out and people are left trying to

  151. navigate that space of, of motherhood.

  152. We have adoption and we have biological

  153. kids and we have all kinds of stuff.

  154. And what I loved hearing this morning

  155. in the sharing time, like God has made

  156. his family legitimate surrogate family.

  157. Right?

  158. If you don't have an uncle,

  159. well, unfortunately look around.

  160. You got some right?

  161. If you don't have a mom in your life,

  162. if you don't have a sister or a brother,

  163. right, or a, a mom or a dad, or a son

  164. or a daughter, there are people that

  165. are part of the family of God, that

  166. God designed us to do family together.

  167. I'll go to my grave believing with all my

  168. heart that the church is supposed to be

  169. family, a family of God, united together,

  170. standing together, walking together.

  171. And today I want to take a look at

  172. how God's design for the way a mom

  173. loves, helps us just catch a little

  174. bit of his incredible love for us.

  175. But I want that little asterisk

  176. caveat that no matter how awesome

  177. your mom was or how horrible your

  178. mom was, nobody nailed it perfectly.

  179. None of us are perfect, right?

  180. And maybe your mom's with you today,

  181. and you can show honor to your mom.

  182. My mom, she left the state, right?

  183. She got as far away as she could

  184. during, I don't know how that feels.

  185. She's with her mom technically, and

  186. she's probably watching this in line.

  187. Happy Mother's Day mom.

  188. Uh, but the truth is, is that some of us

  189. can't speak to our moms anymore, and some

  190. of us maybe aren't speaking to our moms.

  191. There's a lot of stuff going on

  192. in this fallen world of ours.

  193. And I wanna encourage you that God

  194. designed motherhood unique and special

  195. from fatherhood, and it's a reflection of

  196. some of the aspects of his love the man.

  197. Only a mom can demonstrate.

  198. Through mother's love.

  199. It's pretty epic stuff.

  200. So let's walk back through this scripture,

  201. but I'm gonna kind of cheat and I'm

  202. gonna overlay motherhood in this, okay?

  203. So bear with me on this.

  204. If a mom is called by God and designed

  205. by God to love, and this is what love

  206. looks like, then I'm gonna lay out

  207. for you the ideal picture of what

  208. we would experience as, as kids, I

  209. guess from our moms, and also what

  210. we would live out moms to our kids.

  211. And we're all gonna recognize

  212. together that this is not a

  213. measuring stick we're gonna hit.

  214. But that doesn't change God's design

  215. or his standard or his call to strive

  216. to be more and more like him, right?

  217. Not only do we have a family here,

  218. God is the head of our family.

  219. We wanna strive to kind of live

  220. out that family resemblance

  221. that he's given us, right?

  222. So here we go.

  223. Love is patient.

  224. No, I'm gonna swap that

  225. out just a little bit.

  226. Forgive me, moms.

  227. Moms are patient.

  228. Now most of you're like, Uhuh,

  229. this is where the sermon just

  230. took a dive and we're out.

  231. Right?

  232. Right.

  233. Raise your hand if you tested this theory

  234. and tried your mom's patience as a child.

  235. Anyone get your hands up,

  236. all you liars out there.

  237. Everybody in here, did that come on?

  238. Everybody.

  239. Right?

  240. Man.

  241. And, and maybe mom's.

  242. Maybe mom's are only patient if

  243. we put them in the, in, you know

  244. the comparison chart with dads?

  245. How about that?

  246. Was your mom more patient than your dad?

  247. Raise your hand probably.

  248. Right?

  249. Okay.

  250. Okay.

  251. It's Mother's Day.

  252. Turkeys.

  253. Raise your hand if your

  254. mom's sitting by you.

  255. Come on, don't save that

  256. other one for Father's Day.

  257. What's wrong with it?

  258. There's this cool picture

  259. in scripture of this word.

  260. Check this word out.

  261. Long suffering.

  262. It's a long word because

  263. it means long suffering.

  264. And moms are patient now.

  265. Patient imperfection.

  266. No.

  267. Stop.

  268. Stop going that direction,

  269. but just listen.

  270. Yeah.

  271. Moms put up with so much, right?

  272. How many of you guys are still

  273. alive after the things you've done?

  274. Right?

  275. Your mother patiently.

  276. Oh my gosh, how many long?

  277. I, I love that little song.

  278. It's so cute, right?

  279. Like, I didn't sleep for two years.

  280. Woo-hoo.

  281. Right?

  282. Changing diapers, putting on

  283. bandaids endlessly, right?

  284. A mother's love demonstrates a

  285. patient long suffering love, and

  286. it's a beautiful picture to us.

  287. And of course, moms run out of patience.

  288. Of course, we get on mom's

  289. nerves and she loses it.

  290. And of course, when you're in junior high,

  291. you like to see if you can make it happen.

  292. I understood that, right?

  293. But the reality is, is that God

  294. designed something in the heart

  295. of the mom to patiently endure and

  296. long suffering with her children.

  297. To this day, some of us

  298. still reach out to our moms.

  299. Who know the nonsense of how we've lived

  300. and yet still listen and patiently wait

  301. for us to tell our story and to unpack

  302. all of our stuff and give us guidance.

  303. And counsel moms reflect

  304. this piece of patience.

  305. And I want you to understand this.

  306. It's not just so we can enjoy that.

  307. It's also so that we can know that

  308. we have a heavenly Father who is

  309. patient and long suffering with us.

  310. How many times have you screwed up?

  311. How many times have you not listened?

  312. How many times have

  313. you just done it wrong?

  314. Over and over and over again?

  315. And yet, scripture says to us loudly that

  316. our God is a patient long suffering God.

  317. He loves us.

  318. He continues to love us even

  319. when he probably shouldn't.

  320. And sometimes we test his

  321. patience, no doubt, but our God.

  322. Endures in long suffering.

  323. Patience us.

  324. Why?

  325. Pray for the same reason

  326. your mom did love, right?

  327. Definitely not.

  328. 'cause you deserved it.

  329. Not 'cause you were awesome.

  330. Just love.

  331. Just love.

  332. Don't miss that.

  333. Our God is a God who defines

  334. himself, characteristically as

  335. love and then he gives it to moms

  336. to try to show just a little bit.

  337. Moms be encouraged.

  338. Nobody nailed this perfectly.

  339. And if you don't care about trying,

  340. then maybe feel a little conviction.

  341. Children just know this.

  342. Oh wait, let's maybe do this.

  343. 'cause I feel like this probably is fair.

  344. How many of you guys in here had a mom?

  345. I feel like there's some hands that

  346. probably should be up that aren't, uh,

  347. you still trying to do the math on that?

  348. I don't know.

  349. Yeah, we all had moms right?

  350. So there isn't anybody when I say kids,

  351. who doesn't get to fit in that category.

  352. And how many of you in here are moms?

  353. Just so we know, just so we can like

  354. you guys get double whammy stuff today.

  355. I am sorry about that.

  356. But yeah, we're all gonna

  357. get some application here.

  358. Moms are kind now admittedly, maybe

  359. not all the time, but this is in

  360. contrast to the idea of cruel, right?

  361. Can we push mom to the

  362. point where she's not kind?

  363. Sure, sure.

  364. And is every mom tenderhearted

  365. and compassionate?

  366. No, but but again, go back to that

  367. picture of like a father's tender hearts.

  368. People don't talk.

  369. Why are we laughing out loud?

  370. Come on guys.

  371. We're not known as the

  372. tenderhearted fathers.

  373. Doesn't mean that we don't

  374. get tenderhearted or that we

  375. shouldn't be tenderhearted.

  376. It's just something that people know.

  377. Like a mother's tender loving care, right?

  378. There's an element of kindness

  379. that we experience from our.

  380. Mom, like in my house, I think Jamie's

  381. more of the disciplinarian than I am.

  382. But my boys all go to her thinking

  383. they're gonna get away with stuff, right?

  384. Because she's mom and dad's a knucklehead.

  385. I don't know how that works.

  386. But the reality is just there's this mom

  387. aura of kindness, of gentleness, of, as

  388. scripture talks about gathering a hen,

  389. gathering her little chicks under her

  390. wing to protect and to take care of.

  391. Like that's that image God uses

  392. for himself with his people.

  393. God is kind.

  394. God is tender hearted.

  395. He is compassionate.

  396. He is not cruel.

  397. I think one of the greatest tricks

  398. that Satan's pulled on humanity is

  399. to get us to think that God is cruel

  400. and God is trying to ruin your life.

  401. Ha ha, ha.

  402. He doesn't want you to go out and mess

  403. around sexually with people because he's

  404. a jerk and doesn't want you to have fun.

  405. Or maybe he doesn't want you to

  406. get STDs and rip your heart apart.

  407. Right?

  408. And tear your soul.

  409. But maybe that's mean too.

  410. I don't know.

  411. Right.

  412. Like God's ways aren't evil, they're not

  413. tyrannical, they're not mean or cruel.

  414. God's ways are good.

  415. And he's like, Hey, walk in life.

  416. This leads to life.

  417. Don't you want to experience life?

  418. And we're like, oh, jerk.

  419. Ruining my fun.

  420. You're not kind, you're cruel.

  421. Oh, the rules and the laws

  422. and the regulations, right?

  423. Instead, God's like go that way.

  424. It leads to destruction.

  425. We've believed the lie, the

  426. enemy that God is not kind.

  427. He is.

  428. He's patient, he's kind.

  429. Moms do not envy, I think.

  430. Sure, a mom can be jealous of

  431. another mom's ability to keep the

  432. house clean and keep the kids alive.

  433. I mean, I've heard that over

  434. the years from people, right?

  435. Like there's points of envy and

  436. jealousy that are part of it.

  437. But as a whole, this is what I

  438. see more often than not in moms.

  439. Moms are busy celebrating us.

  440. And they tap into this crazy reservoir

  441. of contentment about this is what

  442. I gotta do for everybody else.

  443. And moms are so busy serving and helping

  444. and loving and caring that they tend to

  445. maybe even neglect what they want often.

  446. And so they don't find themselves

  447. in a place where they're envious

  448. as often because quite honestly,

  449. they're busy trying to provide and

  450. to care to celebrate everybody else.

  451. And that's a beautiful picture.

  452. It's a beautiful picture of the heart of

  453. our moms in their best moments, right?

  454. Maybe not always, but

  455. in their best moments.

  456. And a pretty cool picture of

  457. our God who is not consumed with

  458. his own joyous celebration, but

  459. delights in us, delights in us.

  460. Moms do not boast.

  461. They're not proud more often than not.

  462. Where moms struggle maybe is

  463. being proud of their kids.

  464. I'll give you that.

  465. Maybe they boast about my

  466. kids smarter than your kid.

  467. I got a sticker on the back

  468. of my car in your face, right?

  469. Moms might do that, but moms tend

  470. to demonstrate humility, taking

  471. a backseat to everybody else,

  472. and they sacrifice and they make

  473. sure everybody else is lifted up.

  474. God has that same picture with us, right?

  475. That we humble ourselves

  476. before him and he exalts us.

  477. He is a God.

  478. Scripture says, you know,

  479. take my yoke upon you.

  480. Learn from me.

  481. I am humble of heart.

  482. I don't think anybody believes that,

  483. that the God of all creation is humble.

  484. 'cause we sure as heck wouldn't be

  485. humble if we could do whatever we wanted.

  486. We're in charge of everything.

  487. Boom, right?

  488. Like, ain't no way, but God is humble.

  489. God's not proud and arrogant and boastful.

  490. He's gentle and he's

  491. kind, and he's loving.

  492. Our moms didn't always perfect this.

  493. No way.

  494. No way.

  495. But they helped us see just a

  496. little glimpse of what love could

  497. look like without the pride and

  498. the arrogance, and instead helping

  499. lift everybody else up around them

  500. instead of promoting themselves.

  501. Right?

  502. Moms are not rude.

  503. Moms tend to be thoughtful of

  504. others around them and notice and

  505. care about how our actions impact.

  506. In fact, I don't know how it was

  507. at your house, but moms teach

  508. us manners oftentimes in spite

  509. of what dad was teaching, right?

  510. Like I saw that a lot of my

  511. house and maybe currently at

  512. the house I live in, right?

  513. Don't do what your father does.

  514. This is how you should do that, right?

  515. Or I don't know how many

  516. times I heard Martin, right?

  517. Is that a thing?

  518. Dad?

  519. Is he, he probably left.

  520. He doesn't wanna hear this anymore.

  521. Alright, so manners.

  522. Think back.

  523. Maybe you learn how many of

  524. you guys learned manners?

  525. How many of you guys even have man ra?

  526. If you have manners, maybe we start there.

  527. Okay.

  528. How many of you guys learned

  529. manners from your father?

  530. Who taught you how to do?

  531. Okay?

  532. How many of you guys from your mom?

  533. Okay, that's great.

  534. 'cause I brought a bunch of moms in.

  535. They're gonna test you right afterwards.

  536. Next door.

  537. We set up some table settings.

  538. We're gonna see if you

  539. got, no, I'm just kidding.

  540. That'd be hilarious though.

  541. Uh, most of us, if we even paid

  542. attention and learned manners,

  543. it was usually from mom, right?

  544. Why?

  545. Because moms aren't rude.

  546. They're not crass.

  547. They're not thinking about how

  548. they can tear people down or

  549. just be disrespectful in places.

  550. They have this sense of trying to be

  551. thoughtful of those around them and

  552. conscious of their actions and their

  553. approaches and their attitudes, and how

  554. it affects people around them in a, in a

  555. hopefully positive and encouraging way.

  556. Maybe as a mom, that's not your thing.

  557. Maybe you're a rude mom.

  558. Ah, I would strive not to be,

  559. but none of us get this perfect.

  560. We try to strive towards being people

  561. who are thoughtful of others rather

  562. than just consumed with ourselves.

  563. And speaking of self moms

  564. are not self seeking.

  565. They do not seek their own as

  566. kind of a language translations.

  567. They don't seek their own man.

  568. Time and time and time and time again.

  569. Moms give moms serve moms help.

  570. They're not consumed with selfishness.

  571. And you see it in a mom.

  572. They don't even get to control

  573. their own bodies, right?

  574. Let's be honest, the kids hijack the body.

  575. They hijacked all kinds

  576. of parts for years.

  577. Like there's just stuff going on.

  578. Moms, you can't be selfish.

  579. You're too busy keeping

  580. other humans alive, right?

  581. That's a thing.

  582. And that's a beautiful aspect

  583. though, of what our God looks

  584. like to us that he serves.

  585. He laid down his own life for us

  586. in the same way that moms kind of

  587. lay down their lives to help their

  588. children and then later on strangled

  589. them when they're teenagers.

  590. But that's a different conversation.

  591. Because moms are not easily angered.

  592. Oh, Adam and I tested this theory.

  593. Uh, I disagree with this scripture.

  594. This is the one that

  595. just, I'm just kidding.

  596. I'm just, don't nod your heads.

  597. Moms, this gets you in trouble.

  598. The scripture really speaks to this idea.

  599. They are not easily provoked to anger.

  600. You can make mom angry.

  601. Raise your hand if you've

  602. ever made your mom angry.

  603. Yeah, yeah.

  604. Raise your hand if it was one of

  605. your brothers or sisters, not you.

  606. Oh, there we go.

  607. There's the truth.

  608. Uhhuh.

  609. Yeah.

  610. Yeah.

  611. Moms are not easily angered.

  612. You can rouse your

  613. mother to fury and wrath.

  614. It's been done.

  615. Seen it firsthand, right?

  616. Definitely observed it when Adam

  617. was making bad choices, but I know.

  618. I know.

  619. Oh man.

  620. The belt, the wait till

  621. your father gets home.

  622. That was the worst one.

  623. Right?

  624. Because we knew we could

  625. get away with whatever.

  626. With mom, her spankings

  627. didn't hurt Too bad.

  628. This doesn't mean moms never got

  629. angry, but it means it's not easy to

  630. provoke them to acting in anger because

  631. they are long suffering and they're

  632. patient and they put up with and

  633. they endure, and they're not quick to

  634. just lash out in fury and rage again.

  635. Fallen world stuff.

  636. Sometimes we struggle with this, right?

  637. Maybe you had a mom who really

  638. didn't do this well, and I'm sorry

  639. that was your experience because

  640. it's definitely not God's design.

  641. And let me just be real

  642. honest, real quick.

  643. I know I'm saying mom's,

  644. mom's, mom's, mom's, dad's.

  645. This really doesn't say

  646. mom's in the language, right?

  647. It says, love is, and we're supposed

  648. to operate in love as dads too.

  649. So don't just turn and stare at your

  650. spouse, your wife, and be like, ha,

  651. you better keep it together, woman.

  652. Right?

  653. Because that's gonna end

  654. up provoking her to anger.

  655. And you're gonna see that this verse

  656. sometimes, right, gets lived out.

  657. But what a picture of our heavenly father.

  658. Do you know that scripture says God

  659. is not easily provoked to anger?

  660. God does not desire to operate in wrath.

  661. Now, listen, when there are actions

  662. that are disobedient and destructive

  663. and they result in consequences,

  664. sometimes we interpret that as anger,

  665. and now it's probably not anger,

  666. it's probably just reality, right?

  667. And sometimes in our wrath and

  668. anger, we can exact judgment,

  669. a little tainted, right?

  670. With the emotion of anger.

  671. It's one of the reasons

  672. Scripture warns us as people to

  673. not hang on to anger too much.

  674. It's toxic.

  675. Get rid of it, right?

  676. Try not to in your, you

  677. know, in your anger.

  678. Do not sin.

  679. Don't go to bed angry.

  680. Get rid of all sin, anger, mal,

  681. it's like we shouldn't handle anger.

  682. It's just destructive for

  683. us, because we can't execute

  684. justice without our bias, right?

  685. So no mom, when she's been pushed

  686. to the limit, is gonna operate in

  687. perfect justice, but that's why

  688. we shouldn't mess with it, right?

  689. That differs from God a little bit because

  690. our eternal heavenly Father, who is the

  691. one righteous judge, he sees everything.

  692. He knows everything.

  693. He understands the intent of the heart.

  694. He is completely unbiased, and

  695. so the execution of his wrath

  696. and judgment and consequences are

  697. just, and they're perfect, and

  698. they're exactly what we earned.

  699. The wages of sin death, right?

  700. That's exactly what

  701. scripture says we earned.

  702. Choosing to walk in rebellion against

  703. God equals God's wrath and destruction.

  704. He's super clear on that, but

  705. he's not easily pushed to anger.

  706. Though you might have figured out how

  707. to do this to your mom, and I love

  708. this phrase, no record of wrongs.

  709. Moms keep no record of wrongs.

  710. Moms forgive.

  711. Now, here's how I know this.

  712. Here's how I know this.

  713. Y'all are alive.

  714. You're not a headline about

  715. how mom lost it, right?

  716. Because I was thinking back to this idea.

  717. Okay.

  718. Do moms hold on to resentments?

  719. Sure they're human.

  720. Do moms sometimes hold on to moments

  721. and and kind of have some bitterness.

  722. Sure, that can happen.

  723. But as a general rule, moms forgive.

  724. How many times did you not clean up your

  725. room when you were told to how many?

  726. Don't raise your hand.

  727. This is not a good time to do that.

  728. How many times?

  729. I was just teasing.

  730. How many times did you disobey your mom?

  731. Do you remember?

  732. Just do a quick count.

  733. Nate Scott, don't even bother.

  734. Right?

  735. At the end of the day, like

  736. the number is astronomical.

  737. Astronomical.

  738. We disobeyed our mom so many times

  739. beyond count, and yet moms forgave.

  740. Was it 70 times seven?

  741. Or just the metaphor of that?

  742. Maybe moms forgive.

  743. And in that we get to see a little

  744. bit about how God forgives us.

  745. Is your mom still holding on to

  746. the cookie that you stole from

  747. the cookie jar when you were four?

  748. Now, hopefully she brings it

  749. up at like Christmas dinner.

  750. That's fun, right?

  751. That's entertainment

  752. value, but probably not.

  753. Still angry and furious

  754. with you about it, right?

  755. Because she forgave and she

  756. forgot some of the stories.

  757. Adam and I like to tell.

  758. We're like, Hey mom, remember when?

  759. And she's like, no, I don't remember.

  760. That could be, she just blocked

  761. it out from the emotional pain.

  762. But also could be that she just

  763. didn't hold on to the anger about

  764. what we did or didn't do, right?

  765. Because she forgave.

  766. And she forgave and she forgave.

  767. And our Heavenly Father says when you

  768. come to him and you ask for forgiveness,

  769. he takes our sin and he casts it.

  770. As far as the east is from the west,

  771. which that's not measurable, right?

  772. It's endless.

  773. It's gone.

  774. He remembers our sin no longer.

  775. What a cool picture of what

  776. motherhood looks like in

  777. forgiveness and moms do not delight.

  778. In evil.

  779. In fact, most moms are disappointed

  780. when their kids choose to

  781. do destructive, evil things.

  782. They don't delight in evil.

  783. But moms do rejoice in the truth.

  784. They are happy, right?

  785. They're happy when their kids

  786. are walking in righteousness.

  787. John says, there's no greater joy to know

  788. that my children are walking in the way.

  789. When you do good things, here's a

  790. good way to measure that, right?

  791. How many of you call up your mom

  792. nowadays and you're like, Hey mom, lemme

  793. tell you about some bad stuff I did.

  794. Raise your hand real quick.

  795. 'cause we should probably

  796. talk about that afterward.

  797. Okay?

  798. How many of you guys call mom to tell

  799. her about something good you did?

  800. How many of you need to

  801. call your mom in general?

  802. Fellas, let's go.

  803. Right?

  804. Come on.

  805. But we don't go to mom and and try to,

  806. Hey mom, guess what bad choice I made.

  807. Check it out.

  808. Cha-ching.

  809. Now we do.

  810. When we've screwed it up bad enough,

  811. we're like, oh mommy, I'm 60,

  812. but I really could use some help.

  813. Right?

  814. That's how it works.

  815. We don't brag to our mom about

  816. evil because moms delight and they

  817. rejoice and they're happy when

  818. we're walking in the right ways.

  819. God delights in us when

  820. we walk in righteousness.

  821. Moms bear all things,

  822. believe all things hope.

  823. All things endure.

  824. All things.

  825. And I've, each translation says, moms

  826. always protect, always trust, always hope.

  827. Always persevere.

  828. Did you see Mama Bear up there?

  829. Mom's Bear.

  830. I thought that was a

  831. pretty funny one, right?

  832. Like Moms protect, don't

  833. mess with Mama Bears.

  834. They have claws and they are, you

  835. wanna provoke a mom to anger, mess

  836. with her if she's not your mom, right?

  837. And mess with her kid

  838. if she's not your mom.

  839. That's problematic.

  840. Moms Protect.

  841. I love that phrase, moms Protect.

  842. Dads prepare.

  843. We got some different roles and

  844. some different general ways that

  845. we engage with our kids, but Moms

  846. Protect, they take care of they guard.

  847. And they're very concerned about that.

  848. And they lay down boundaries and they

  849. talk to you about boundaries, and they

  850. get on you about how you're maintaining

  851. boundaries because they love you and

  852. they care about you, and they're trying

  853. to protect what's sacred and important.

  854. God protects us.

  855. He loves us, man.

  856. He surrounds us and he calls us to

  857. maintain and to guard and to protect our

  858. heart because he cares about our future.

  859. And we see that in a mom.

  860. Moms trust, they believe in us when

  861. they absolutely shouldn't, right?

  862. And they hold onto hope.

  863. They hold onto hope, that no

  864. matter how it looks right now,

  865. there's a better destination.

  866. There's good things on the

  867. horizon, there's a way forward.

  868. And man, it's pretty cool that

  869. this book ends with long suffering,

  870. patience, and the idea of endurance

  871. and perseverance because moms.

  872. Man, they're wrapped in

  873. endurance and perseverance.

  874. A mother's love tolerates and puts up

  875. with and endures and long suffers and

  876. maintains because moms never fail.

  877. And I don't mean they never fail,

  878. like they never make mistakes.

  879. But moms never quit on us.

  880. And they never give up.

  881. They don't.

  882. They should.

  883. Oh my gosh, they should, but they don't.

  884. And what a picture of our heavenly

  885. father who loves us, to the very gates

  886. of hell and back, and he doesn't quit

  887. on us, and he doesn't give up on us,

  888. and he endures and he holds out hope and

  889. opportunity all the way until the end.

  890. And yeah, we gotta make some choices.

  891. And we see it in motherhood, don't we?

  892. In in physical form.

  893. Moms clinging to hope, enduring, but their

  894. children making choices that lead to their

  895. destruction, and it breaks a mom's heart.

  896. Just like it breaks the heart of our

  897. Heavenly Father, but that's not the goal.

  898. The goal is that this kinda love,

  899. this kinda love leaves us with

  900. no choice but to respond to a

  901. mother's love with love ourselves.

  902. How do you not love somebody

  903. who loves you like this?

  904. How do you not respond with love

  905. when you're loved like this?

  906. How do you not respond to a heavenly

  907. father who loves you like this?

  908. How do you keep pushing them away?

  909. How do you keep ignoring him?

  910. How do you keep just doing your

  911. own thing and spitting in his

  912. face over and over and over again?

  913. What great love the father has lavished

  914. on us that we should be called children

  915. of God and that is what we are.

  916. John tells us that because

  917. Jesus tells us that.

  918. And he loves us so much.

  919. Moms weren't perfect.

  920. Our heavenly father is.

  921. And Moms, thank you for helping us

  922. see just a little bit of God's heart.

  923. And I know you didn't get it all perfect.

  924. And I do not want you to leave

  925. today feeling discouraged about

  926. how you didn't measure up.

  927. But I want you to know this.

  928. Us dads were busy picking our nose

  929. and building stuff in the garage.

  930. We missed most of this, right?

  931. So you, you did some important stuff

  932. and you're not done being a mom.

  933. You continue to love others and

  934. you continue to bring other people

  935. into this space with your mom's

  936. heart, where you can show a mother's

  937. love to the people around you.

  938. And guys, ladies, kids, I think

  939. that's everybody in the room.

  940. You might look back on Mothers

  941. Today and think to yourself

  942. how disappointed you are.

  943. Wish you had something different.

  944. But I really hope that you can

  945. get in tune a little tiny bit.

  946. With what God did in this design and

  947. what your mom tried to do, and in

  948. her best moments, she hit some of

  949. these marks but never imperfection.

  950. And sure, in her worst moments,

  951. it might have been pretty rough.

  952. But I hope that you can at least

  953. acknowledge the effort that maybe your

  954. mom tried to do to love you and find

  955. a way to express some honor to her, if

  956. nothing else, than just giving you breath.

  957. But there's a place to show some honor

  958. and some gratitude for who our moms are.

  959. Well, we're gonna close

  960. this morning like this.

  961. Would you please stand if you're a mom?

  962. I'm watching you guys.

  963. Yep.

  964. If you're a mom, if you just please stand.

  965. Nothing awkward, nothing weird.

  966. This is Mother's Day.

  967. We do not wanna get

  968. poked by those flowers.

  969. Yeah.

  970. Stay seated, Derek.

  971. Thank you in the back.

  972. Appreciate that.

  973. Well, moms.

  974. You've heard it said pretty

  975. nicely in the sharing time even.

  976. Thank you for your impact in the ladies

  977. in this room, the men in this room, the

  978. teens in this room, the kids next door.

  979. You guys are really, really important

  980. and what you demonstrate, we know you're

  981. carrying a ton, but thank you for what

  982. you have done and thank you for what

  983. you're gonna continue to strive to do.

  984. 'cause man, it matters so much and we

  985. are all blessed just by your presence

  986. and your effort in trying to love well.

  987. So we want to close by praying a prayer

  988. of blessing over you, and then we'll

  989. let you get to your Mother's Day lunch

  990. that should be prepared for you and the

  991. dishes that should be washed for you

  992. and the afternoon nap that should be

  993. scheduled only for you while your husband

  994. does a lot of work around the house.

  995. So let's close.

  996. Father, thank you for this

  997. incredible group of ladies.

  998. Thank you for the moms in our life.

  999. Thank you for the work.

  1000. The energy, the heart.

  1001. Thank you for the sacrifice.

  1002. Lord.

  1003. We go through this whole huge

  1004. list of patience and forgiveness

  1005. and everything that they do.

  1006. God, I pray that you would bless

  1007. them, that you would encourage their

  1008. hearts, that you would increase the

  1009. reservoir of love, that they can

  1010. even hold that it would be bursting

  1011. at the seams, that you would give

  1012. them joy in the midst of being a mom.

  1013. Whatever stage of motherhood

  1014. they're in, God, that they would

  1015. find rich, joy, peace, and hope,

  1016. maybe even a little fun mixed in.

  1017. God, I pray that this would be a

  1018. beautiful Mother's day for their heart,

  1019. and going forward into this year as

  1020. a mom, God, would you walk with them?

  1021. Would you guide them and direct them?

  1022. Give them strength, give them favor.

  1023. Just bless their socks off.

  1024. I pray in a. Really special way.

  1025. Thank you that they're a part of my

  1026. life and I get to be on a journey

  1027. with this awesome group of ladies.

  1028. God, I pray that you would pour out

  1029. your incredible love and blessing

  1030. on them and help all of us, help all

  1031. of us Lord to be reminded of your

  1032. incredible love and to respond like

  1033. we would in gratitude to our own moms.

  1034. Help us respond with gratitude to

  1035. you for all that you have done.

  1036. Please give us an awesome afternoon and

  1037. evening ahead, some of us relaxing and

  1038. the rest of us working hard to remind Mom

  1039. how important she is in Jesus' name, amen.

  1040. Amen.

  1041. Love all you moms.

  1042. Have a great Mother's day and

  1043. thanks for being here this morning.

  1044. Lord bless you all.