Sermon
Faith, Hope, and Mom | May 11, 2025 Mother's Day
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Hey, sorry I hit the
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button too soon there.
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I didn't ruin that moment.
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Put a little neat tribute to motherhood.
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We actually worked.
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Uh, Noah, could you sneak up
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here just a little bit for me?
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Just be able to see you and Josh Murray.
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Where's he at?
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He was here a second ago.
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Just stand up real quick.
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And Josiah, we worked on this song
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with this trio, and then we decided
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to just show you the music video.
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Thought that was a better route to go.
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Does that work?
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Oh man.
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Mother's Day is a special day and it's
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impossible to try to say thank you.
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Or express our gratitude.
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That's a sweet little song that resonates.
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Ah, man, a mother's love.
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It's crazy stuff.
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People don't really talk
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about a father's love.
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Do you notice that?
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Nobody's like, ah, the old tender
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hearted love with the father?
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Nope.
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No, you just don't hear a lot of it.
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It's not legendary stuff and
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it's not Father's Day, so we
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can't even talk about dads.
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In fact, all of you read your email,
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guys who went on that men's retreat
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and didn't wear your shirt from Men's
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Retreat so that we could save it
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till next Sunday for testosterone.
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Sunday write.
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Dax, why don't you stand up and show off
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how good you are at reading emails, bro.
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Oh, booster's got his on.
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Oh, there you go.
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Nice work fellas.
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Have a seat.
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Thanks, man.
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Thanks.
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Good, good.
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Email reading this.
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Acts like, dude, you gotta come to church.
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It's gonna be awesome.
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We're gonna race some cars.
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It's flowers everywhere
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and a mother's love.
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There we go, man.
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That's what we're doing today.
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Oh.
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Well, a mother's love
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is an incredible thing.
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And you know, Andrew, you're
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starting to steal my sermon.
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That's why God confused You had you sit
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down, because here's the thing, God's love
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is on display through the love of a mom.
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That's the design, right?
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Lived out in perfection.
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Of course not.
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We're all fallible people, but man a
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mother's love is something incredible.
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And I want to talk about it
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a little bit this morning.
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And on Mother's Day, you have to
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go over to Proverbs 31, right?
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You have to go over and talk about
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the perfect woman, the perfect mom.
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That way they all just feel so
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beat up before they leave church.
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We're not doing that.
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Just so you know, we're not
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gonna go over to Proverbs 31.
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Great passage.
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You should read it.
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Marinate on it.
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I feel like I'm married
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to a Proverbs 31 woman.
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I'm just gonna say, notice there's no
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Proverbs 31 guys in the world, right?
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We don't even get our own
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chapter like that, but that's a
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section that we talk about a lot.
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Instead of talking about perfect
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motherhood or perfect moms.
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I wanna talk a little bit
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about perfect love today.
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'cause I think we see
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it in the love of a mom.
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Not in its perfection in this
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fallen world, but we see something
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beautiful about God's love for us.
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So I'm gonna take us to the
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most well-known passage about
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love in all of all of the Bible.
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First Corinthians, chapter 13.
1 Corinthians 13 chapter mention
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You're probably very familiar with it.
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We're gonna talk specifically about
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verses four through eight, and you'll
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probably recognize this from any wedding
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you've ever been to any Valentine's
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Day where the Bible was sitting open.
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We always talk about love when
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we look at this passage, kind
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of because it's a pretty good
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descriptor of what love looks like.
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It says love is patient.
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Love is kind.
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Love does not envy.
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It doesn't boast.
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Love is not proud, right?
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Love is not rude.
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It's not self-seeking.
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It's not easily angered.
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It keeps no record of wrongs.
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Love does not delight in evil,
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but rejoices in the truth, right?
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Love bears all things, believes
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all things, hopes all things,
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and endures all things.
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Love never fails.
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What a cool picture of this amazing
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gift we experience through our Heavenly
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Father called love, but we also
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experienced this perfect love lived out
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in imperfection through a a mother's love.
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And I love what you said
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this morning, Renee.
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It's beautiful because the reality
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is, is we live in this fallen world
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with sin and the sinful nature, and
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there's a lot of stuff going on, right?
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And we have relationships that didn't
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measure up to the perfect standard.
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Some of us aspire to be
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moms and physically it, it
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doesn't ever materialize.
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And there's some struggle there.
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I mean, we've had lots of people walk
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through fertility things in our church
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and sometimes God grants children
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and sometimes it, it doesn't play
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out and people are left trying to
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navigate that space of, of motherhood.
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We have adoption and we have biological
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kids and we have all kinds of stuff.
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And what I loved hearing this morning
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in the sharing time, like God has made
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his family legitimate surrogate family.
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Right?
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If you don't have an uncle,
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well, unfortunately look around.
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You got some right?
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If you don't have a mom in your life,
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if you don't have a sister or a brother,
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right, or a, a mom or a dad, or a son
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or a daughter, there are people that
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are part of the family of God, that
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God designed us to do family together.
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I'll go to my grave believing with all my
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heart that the church is supposed to be
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family, a family of God, united together,
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standing together, walking together.
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And today I want to take a look at
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how God's design for the way a mom
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loves, helps us just catch a little
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bit of his incredible love for us.
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But I want that little asterisk
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caveat that no matter how awesome
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your mom was or how horrible your
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mom was, nobody nailed it perfectly.
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None of us are perfect, right?
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And maybe your mom's with you today,
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and you can show honor to your mom.
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My mom, she left the state, right?
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She got as far away as she could
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during, I don't know how that feels.
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She's with her mom technically, and
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she's probably watching this in line.
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Happy Mother's Day mom.
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Uh, but the truth is, is that some of us
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can't speak to our moms anymore, and some
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of us maybe aren't speaking to our moms.
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There's a lot of stuff going on
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in this fallen world of ours.
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And I wanna encourage you that God
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designed motherhood unique and special
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from fatherhood, and it's a reflection of
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some of the aspects of his love the man.
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Only a mom can demonstrate.
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Through mother's love.
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It's pretty epic stuff.
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So let's walk back through this scripture,
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but I'm gonna kind of cheat and I'm
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gonna overlay motherhood in this, okay?
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So bear with me on this.
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If a mom is called by God and designed
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by God to love, and this is what love
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looks like, then I'm gonna lay out
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for you the ideal picture of what
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we would experience as, as kids, I
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guess from our moms, and also what
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we would live out moms to our kids.
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And we're all gonna recognize
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together that this is not a
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measuring stick we're gonna hit.
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But that doesn't change God's design
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or his standard or his call to strive
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to be more and more like him, right?
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Not only do we have a family here,
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God is the head of our family.
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We wanna strive to kind of live
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out that family resemblance
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that he's given us, right?
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So here we go.
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Love is patient.
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No, I'm gonna swap that
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out just a little bit.
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Forgive me, moms.
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Moms are patient.
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Now most of you're like, Uhuh,
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this is where the sermon just
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took a dive and we're out.
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Right?
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Right.
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Raise your hand if you tested this theory
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and tried your mom's patience as a child.
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Anyone get your hands up,
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all you liars out there.
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Everybody in here, did that come on?
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Everybody.
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Right?
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Man.
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And, and maybe mom's.
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Maybe mom's are only patient if
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we put them in the, in, you know
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the comparison chart with dads?
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How about that?
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Was your mom more patient than your dad?
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Raise your hand probably.
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Right?
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Okay.
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Okay.
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It's Mother's Day.
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Turkeys.
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Raise your hand if your
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mom's sitting by you.
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Come on, don't save that
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other one for Father's Day.
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What's wrong with it?
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There's this cool picture
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in scripture of this word.
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Check this word out.
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Long suffering.
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It's a long word because
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it means long suffering.
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And moms are patient now.
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Patient imperfection.
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No.
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Stop.
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Stop going that direction,
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but just listen.
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Yeah.
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Moms put up with so much, right?
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How many of you guys are still
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alive after the things you've done?
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Right?
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Your mother patiently.
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Oh my gosh, how many long?
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I, I love that little song.
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It's so cute, right?
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Like, I didn't sleep for two years.
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Woo-hoo.
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Right?
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Changing diapers, putting on
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bandaids endlessly, right?
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A mother's love demonstrates a
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patient long suffering love, and
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it's a beautiful picture to us.
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And of course, moms run out of patience.
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Of course, we get on mom's
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nerves and she loses it.
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And of course, when you're in junior high,
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you like to see if you can make it happen.
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I understood that, right?
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But the reality is, is that God
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designed something in the heart
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of the mom to patiently endure and
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long suffering with her children.
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To this day, some of us
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still reach out to our moms.
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Who know the nonsense of how we've lived
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and yet still listen and patiently wait
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for us to tell our story and to unpack
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all of our stuff and give us guidance.
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And counsel moms reflect
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this piece of patience.
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And I want you to understand this.
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It's not just so we can enjoy that.
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It's also so that we can know that
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we have a heavenly Father who is
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patient and long suffering with us.
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How many times have you screwed up?
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How many times have you not listened?
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How many times have
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you just done it wrong?
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Over and over and over again?
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And yet, scripture says to us loudly that
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our God is a patient long suffering God.
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He loves us.
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He continues to love us even
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when he probably shouldn't.
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And sometimes we test his
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patience, no doubt, but our God.
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Endures in long suffering.
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Patience us.
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Why?
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Pray for the same reason
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your mom did love, right?
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Definitely not.
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'cause you deserved it.
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Not 'cause you were awesome.
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Just love.
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Just love.
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Don't miss that.
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Our God is a God who defines
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himself, characteristically as
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love and then he gives it to moms
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to try to show just a little bit.
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Moms be encouraged.
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Nobody nailed this perfectly.
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And if you don't care about trying,
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then maybe feel a little conviction.
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Children just know this.
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Oh wait, let's maybe do this.
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'cause I feel like this probably is fair.
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How many of you guys in here had a mom?
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I feel like there's some hands that
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probably should be up that aren't, uh,
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you still trying to do the math on that?
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I don't know.
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Yeah, we all had moms right?
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So there isn't anybody when I say kids,
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who doesn't get to fit in that category.
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And how many of you in here are moms?
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Just so we know, just so we can like
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you guys get double whammy stuff today.
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I am sorry about that.
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But yeah, we're all gonna
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get some application here.
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Moms are kind now admittedly, maybe
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not all the time, but this is in
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contrast to the idea of cruel, right?
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Can we push mom to the
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point where she's not kind?
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Sure, sure.
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And is every mom tenderhearted
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and compassionate?
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No, but but again, go back to that
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picture of like a father's tender hearts.
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People don't talk.
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Why are we laughing out loud?
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Come on guys.
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We're not known as the
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tenderhearted fathers.
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Doesn't mean that we don't
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get tenderhearted or that we
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shouldn't be tenderhearted.
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It's just something that people know.
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Like a mother's tender loving care, right?
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There's an element of kindness
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that we experience from our.
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Mom, like in my house, I think Jamie's
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more of the disciplinarian than I am.
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But my boys all go to her thinking
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they're gonna get away with stuff, right?
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Because she's mom and dad's a knucklehead.
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I don't know how that works.
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But the reality is just there's this mom
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aura of kindness, of gentleness, of, as
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scripture talks about gathering a hen,
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gathering her little chicks under her
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wing to protect and to take care of.
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Like that's that image God uses
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for himself with his people.
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God is kind.
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God is tender hearted.
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He is compassionate.
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He is not cruel.
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I think one of the greatest tricks
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that Satan's pulled on humanity is
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to get us to think that God is cruel
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and God is trying to ruin your life.
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Ha ha, ha.
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He doesn't want you to go out and mess
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around sexually with people because he's
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a jerk and doesn't want you to have fun.
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Or maybe he doesn't want you to
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get STDs and rip your heart apart.
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Right?
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And tear your soul.
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But maybe that's mean too.
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I don't know.
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Right.
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Like God's ways aren't evil, they're not
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tyrannical, they're not mean or cruel.
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God's ways are good.
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And he's like, Hey, walk in life.
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This leads to life.
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Don't you want to experience life?
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And we're like, oh, jerk.
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Ruining my fun.
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You're not kind, you're cruel.
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Oh, the rules and the laws
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and the regulations, right?
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Instead, God's like go that way.
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It leads to destruction.
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We've believed the lie, the
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enemy that God is not kind.
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He is.
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He's patient, he's kind.
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Moms do not envy, I think.
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Sure, a mom can be jealous of
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another mom's ability to keep the
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house clean and keep the kids alive.
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I mean, I've heard that over
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the years from people, right?
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Like there's points of envy and
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jealousy that are part of it.
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But as a whole, this is what I
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see more often than not in moms.
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Moms are busy celebrating us.
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And they tap into this crazy reservoir
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of contentment about this is what
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I gotta do for everybody else.
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And moms are so busy serving and helping
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and loving and caring that they tend to
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maybe even neglect what they want often.
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And so they don't find themselves
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in a place where they're envious
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as often because quite honestly,
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they're busy trying to provide and
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to care to celebrate everybody else.
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And that's a beautiful picture.
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It's a beautiful picture of the heart of
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our moms in their best moments, right?
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Maybe not always, but
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in their best moments.
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And a pretty cool picture of
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our God who is not consumed with
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his own joyous celebration, but
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delights in us, delights in us.
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Moms do not boast.
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They're not proud more often than not.
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Where moms struggle maybe is
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being proud of their kids.
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I'll give you that.
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Maybe they boast about my
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kids smarter than your kid.
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I got a sticker on the back
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of my car in your face, right?
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Moms might do that, but moms tend
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to demonstrate humility, taking
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a backseat to everybody else,
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and they sacrifice and they make
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sure everybody else is lifted up.
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God has that same picture with us, right?
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That we humble ourselves
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before him and he exalts us.
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He is a God.
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Scripture says, you know,
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take my yoke upon you.
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Learn from me.
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I am humble of heart.
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I don't think anybody believes that,
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that the God of all creation is humble.
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'cause we sure as heck wouldn't be
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humble if we could do whatever we wanted.
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We're in charge of everything.
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Boom, right?
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Like, ain't no way, but God is humble.
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God's not proud and arrogant and boastful.
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He's gentle and he's
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kind, and he's loving.
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Our moms didn't always perfect this.
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No way.
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No way.
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But they helped us see just a
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little glimpse of what love could
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look like without the pride and
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the arrogance, and instead helping
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lift everybody else up around them
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instead of promoting themselves.
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Right?
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Moms are not rude.
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Moms tend to be thoughtful of
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others around them and notice and
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care about how our actions impact.
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In fact, I don't know how it was
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at your house, but moms teach
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us manners oftentimes in spite
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of what dad was teaching, right?
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Like I saw that a lot of my
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house and maybe currently at
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the house I live in, right?
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Don't do what your father does.
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This is how you should do that, right?
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Or I don't know how many
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times I heard Martin, right?
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Is that a thing?
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Dad?
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Is he, he probably left.
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He doesn't wanna hear this anymore.
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Alright, so manners.
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Think back.
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Maybe you learn how many of
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you guys learned manners?
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How many of you guys even have man ra?
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If you have manners, maybe we start there.
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Okay.
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How many of you guys learned
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manners from your father?
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Who taught you how to do?
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Okay?
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How many of you guys from your mom?
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Okay, that's great.
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'cause I brought a bunch of moms in.
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They're gonna test you right afterwards.
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Next door.
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We set up some table settings.
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We're gonna see if you
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got, no, I'm just kidding.
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That'd be hilarious though.
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Uh, most of us, if we even paid
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attention and learned manners,
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it was usually from mom, right?
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Why?
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Because moms aren't rude.
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They're not crass.
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They're not thinking about how
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they can tear people down or
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just be disrespectful in places.
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They have this sense of trying to be
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thoughtful of those around them and
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conscious of their actions and their
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approaches and their attitudes, and how
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it affects people around them in a, in a
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hopefully positive and encouraging way.
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Maybe as a mom, that's not your thing.
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Maybe you're a rude mom.
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Ah, I would strive not to be,
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but none of us get this perfect.
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We try to strive towards being people
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who are thoughtful of others rather
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than just consumed with ourselves.
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And speaking of self moms
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are not self seeking.
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They do not seek their own as
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kind of a language translations.
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They don't seek their own man.
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Time and time and time and time again.
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Moms give moms serve moms help.
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They're not consumed with selfishness.
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And you see it in a mom.
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They don't even get to control
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their own bodies, right?
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Let's be honest, the kids hijack the body.
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They hijacked all kinds
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of parts for years.
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Like there's just stuff going on.
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Moms, you can't be selfish.
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You're too busy keeping
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other humans alive, right?
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That's a thing.
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And that's a beautiful aspect
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though, of what our God looks
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like to us that he serves.
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He laid down his own life for us
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in the same way that moms kind of
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lay down their lives to help their
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children and then later on strangled
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them when they're teenagers.
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But that's a different conversation.
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Because moms are not easily angered.
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Oh, Adam and I tested this theory.
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Uh, I disagree with this scripture.
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This is the one that
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just, I'm just kidding.
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I'm just, don't nod your heads.
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Moms, this gets you in trouble.
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The scripture really speaks to this idea.
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They are not easily provoked to anger.
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You can make mom angry.
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Raise your hand if you've
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ever made your mom angry.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Raise your hand if it was one of
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your brothers or sisters, not you.
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Oh, there we go.
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There's the truth.
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Uhhuh.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Moms are not easily angered.
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You can rouse your
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mother to fury and wrath.
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It's been done.
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Seen it firsthand, right?
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Definitely observed it when Adam
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was making bad choices, but I know.
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I know.
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Oh man.
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The belt, the wait till
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your father gets home.
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That was the worst one.
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Right?
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Because we knew we could
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get away with whatever.
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With mom, her spankings
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didn't hurt Too bad.
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This doesn't mean moms never got
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angry, but it means it's not easy to
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provoke them to acting in anger because
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they are long suffering and they're
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patient and they put up with and
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they endure, and they're not quick to
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just lash out in fury and rage again.
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Fallen world stuff.
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Sometimes we struggle with this, right?
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Maybe you had a mom who really
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didn't do this well, and I'm sorry
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that was your experience because
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it's definitely not God's design.
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And let me just be real
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honest, real quick.
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I know I'm saying mom's,
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mom's, mom's, mom's, dad's.
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This really doesn't say
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mom's in the language, right?
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It says, love is, and we're supposed
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to operate in love as dads too.
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So don't just turn and stare at your
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spouse, your wife, and be like, ha,
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you better keep it together, woman.
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Right?
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Because that's gonna end
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up provoking her to anger.
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And you're gonna see that this verse
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sometimes, right, gets lived out.
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But what a picture of our heavenly father.
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Do you know that scripture says God
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is not easily provoked to anger?
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God does not desire to operate in wrath.
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Now, listen, when there are actions
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that are disobedient and destructive
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and they result in consequences,
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sometimes we interpret that as anger,
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and now it's probably not anger,
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it's probably just reality, right?
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And sometimes in our wrath and
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anger, we can exact judgment,
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a little tainted, right?
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With the emotion of anger.
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It's one of the reasons
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Scripture warns us as people to
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not hang on to anger too much.
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It's toxic.
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Get rid of it, right?
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Try not to in your, you
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know, in your anger.
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Do not sin.
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Don't go to bed angry.
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Get rid of all sin, anger, mal,
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it's like we shouldn't handle anger.
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It's just destructive for
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us, because we can't execute
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justice without our bias, right?
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So no mom, when she's been pushed
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to the limit, is gonna operate in
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perfect justice, but that's why
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we shouldn't mess with it, right?
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That differs from God a little bit because
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our eternal heavenly Father, who is the
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one righteous judge, he sees everything.
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He knows everything.
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He understands the intent of the heart.
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He is completely unbiased, and
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so the execution of his wrath
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and judgment and consequences are
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just, and they're perfect, and
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they're exactly what we earned.
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The wages of sin death, right?
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That's exactly what
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scripture says we earned.
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Choosing to walk in rebellion against
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God equals God's wrath and destruction.
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He's super clear on that, but
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he's not easily pushed to anger.
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Though you might have figured out how
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to do this to your mom, and I love
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this phrase, no record of wrongs.
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Moms keep no record of wrongs.
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Moms forgive.
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Now, here's how I know this.
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Here's how I know this.
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Y'all are alive.
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You're not a headline about
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how mom lost it, right?
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Because I was thinking back to this idea.
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Okay.
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Do moms hold on to resentments?
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Sure they're human.
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Do moms sometimes hold on to moments
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and and kind of have some bitterness.
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Sure, that can happen.
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But as a general rule, moms forgive.
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How many times did you not clean up your
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room when you were told to how many?
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Don't raise your hand.
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This is not a good time to do that.
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How many times?
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I was just teasing.
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How many times did you disobey your mom?
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Do you remember?
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Just do a quick count.
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Nate Scott, don't even bother.
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Right?
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At the end of the day, like
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the number is astronomical.
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Astronomical.
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We disobeyed our mom so many times
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beyond count, and yet moms forgave.
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Was it 70 times seven?
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Or just the metaphor of that?
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Maybe moms forgive.
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And in that we get to see a little
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bit about how God forgives us.
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Is your mom still holding on to
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the cookie that you stole from
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the cookie jar when you were four?
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Now, hopefully she brings it
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up at like Christmas dinner.
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That's fun, right?
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That's entertainment
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value, but probably not.
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Still angry and furious
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with you about it, right?
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Because she forgave and she
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forgot some of the stories.
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Adam and I like to tell.
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We're like, Hey mom, remember when?
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And she's like, no, I don't remember.
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That could be, she just blocked
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it out from the emotional pain.
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But also could be that she just
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didn't hold on to the anger about
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what we did or didn't do, right?
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Because she forgave.
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And she forgave and she forgave.
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And our Heavenly Father says when you
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come to him and you ask for forgiveness,
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he takes our sin and he casts it.
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As far as the east is from the west,
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which that's not measurable, right?
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It's endless.
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It's gone.
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He remembers our sin no longer.
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What a cool picture of what
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motherhood looks like in
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forgiveness and moms do not delight.
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In evil.
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In fact, most moms are disappointed
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when their kids choose to
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do destructive, evil things.
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They don't delight in evil.
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But moms do rejoice in the truth.
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They are happy, right?
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They're happy when their kids
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are walking in righteousness.
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John says, there's no greater joy to know
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that my children are walking in the way.
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When you do good things, here's a
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good way to measure that, right?
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How many of you call up your mom
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nowadays and you're like, Hey mom, lemme
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tell you about some bad stuff I did.
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Raise your hand real quick.
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'cause we should probably
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talk about that afterward.
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Okay?
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How many of you guys call mom to tell
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her about something good you did?
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How many of you need to
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call your mom in general?
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Fellas, let's go.
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Right?
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Come on.
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But we don't go to mom and and try to,
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Hey mom, guess what bad choice I made.
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Check it out.
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Cha-ching.
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Now we do.
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When we've screwed it up bad enough,
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we're like, oh mommy, I'm 60,
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but I really could use some help.
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Right?
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That's how it works.
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We don't brag to our mom about
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evil because moms delight and they
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rejoice and they're happy when
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we're walking in the right ways.
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God delights in us when
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we walk in righteousness.
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Moms bear all things,
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believe all things hope.
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All things endure.
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All things.
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And I've, each translation says, moms
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always protect, always trust, always hope.
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Always persevere.
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Did you see Mama Bear up there?
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Mom's Bear.
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I thought that was a
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pretty funny one, right?
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Like Moms protect, don't
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mess with Mama Bears.
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They have claws and they are, you
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wanna provoke a mom to anger, mess
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with her if she's not your mom, right?
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And mess with her kid
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if she's not your mom.
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That's problematic.
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Moms Protect.
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I love that phrase, moms Protect.
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Dads prepare.
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We got some different roles and
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some different general ways that
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we engage with our kids, but Moms
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Protect, they take care of they guard.
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And they're very concerned about that.
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And they lay down boundaries and they
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talk to you about boundaries, and they
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get on you about how you're maintaining
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boundaries because they love you and
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they care about you, and they're trying
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to protect what's sacred and important.
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God protects us.
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He loves us, man.
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He surrounds us and he calls us to
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maintain and to guard and to protect our
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heart because he cares about our future.
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And we see that in a mom.
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Moms trust, they believe in us when
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they absolutely shouldn't, right?
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And they hold onto hope.
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They hold onto hope, that no
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matter how it looks right now,
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there's a better destination.
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There's good things on the
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horizon, there's a way forward.
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And man, it's pretty cool that
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this book ends with long suffering,
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patience, and the idea of endurance
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and perseverance because moms.
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Man, they're wrapped in
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endurance and perseverance.
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A mother's love tolerates and puts up
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with and endures and long suffers and
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maintains because moms never fail.
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And I don't mean they never fail,
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like they never make mistakes.
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But moms never quit on us.
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And they never give up.
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They don't.
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They should.
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Oh my gosh, they should, but they don't.
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And what a picture of our heavenly
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father who loves us, to the very gates
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of hell and back, and he doesn't quit
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on us, and he doesn't give up on us,
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and he endures and he holds out hope and
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opportunity all the way until the end.
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And yeah, we gotta make some choices.
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And we see it in motherhood, don't we?
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In in physical form.
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Moms clinging to hope, enduring, but their
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children making choices that lead to their
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destruction, and it breaks a mom's heart.
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Just like it breaks the heart of our
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Heavenly Father, but that's not the goal.
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The goal is that this kinda love,
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this kinda love leaves us with
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no choice but to respond to a
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mother's love with love ourselves.
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How do you not love somebody
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who loves you like this?
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How do you not respond with love
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when you're loved like this?
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How do you not respond to a heavenly
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father who loves you like this?
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How do you keep pushing them away?
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How do you keep ignoring him?
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How do you keep just doing your
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own thing and spitting in his
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face over and over and over again?
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What great love the father has lavished
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on us that we should be called children
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of God and that is what we are.
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John tells us that because
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Jesus tells us that.
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And he loves us so much.
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Moms weren't perfect.
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Our heavenly father is.
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And Moms, thank you for helping us
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see just a little bit of God's heart.
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And I know you didn't get it all perfect.
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And I do not want you to leave
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today feeling discouraged about
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how you didn't measure up.
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But I want you to know this.
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Us dads were busy picking our nose
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and building stuff in the garage.
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We missed most of this, right?
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So you, you did some important stuff
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and you're not done being a mom.
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You continue to love others and
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you continue to bring other people
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into this space with your mom's
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heart, where you can show a mother's
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love to the people around you.
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And guys, ladies, kids, I think
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that's everybody in the room.
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You might look back on Mothers
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Today and think to yourself
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how disappointed you are.
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Wish you had something different.
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But I really hope that you can
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get in tune a little tiny bit.
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With what God did in this design and
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what your mom tried to do, and in
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her best moments, she hit some of
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these marks but never imperfection.
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And sure, in her worst moments,
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it might have been pretty rough.
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But I hope that you can at least
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acknowledge the effort that maybe your
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mom tried to do to love you and find
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a way to express some honor to her, if
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nothing else, than just giving you breath.
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But there's a place to show some honor
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and some gratitude for who our moms are.
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Well, we're gonna close
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this morning like this.
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Would you please stand if you're a mom?
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I'm watching you guys.
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Yep.
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If you're a mom, if you just please stand.
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Nothing awkward, nothing weird.
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This is Mother's Day.
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We do not wanna get
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poked by those flowers.
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Yeah.
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Stay seated, Derek.
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Thank you in the back.
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Appreciate that.
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Well, moms.
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You've heard it said pretty
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nicely in the sharing time even.
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Thank you for your impact in the ladies
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in this room, the men in this room, the
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teens in this room, the kids next door.
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You guys are really, really important
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and what you demonstrate, we know you're
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carrying a ton, but thank you for what
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you have done and thank you for what
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you're gonna continue to strive to do.
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'cause man, it matters so much and we
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are all blessed just by your presence
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and your effort in trying to love well.
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So we want to close by praying a prayer
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of blessing over you, and then we'll
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let you get to your Mother's Day lunch
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that should be prepared for you and the
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dishes that should be washed for you
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and the afternoon nap that should be
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scheduled only for you while your husband
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does a lot of work around the house.
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So let's close.
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Father, thank you for this
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incredible group of ladies.
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Thank you for the moms in our life.
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Thank you for the work.
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The energy, the heart.
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Thank you for the sacrifice.
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Lord.
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We go through this whole huge
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list of patience and forgiveness
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and everything that they do.
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God, I pray that you would bless
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them, that you would encourage their
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hearts, that you would increase the
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reservoir of love, that they can
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even hold that it would be bursting
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at the seams, that you would give
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them joy in the midst of being a mom.
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Whatever stage of motherhood
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they're in, God, that they would
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find rich, joy, peace, and hope,
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maybe even a little fun mixed in.
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God, I pray that this would be a
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beautiful Mother's day for their heart,
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and going forward into this year as
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a mom, God, would you walk with them?
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Would you guide them and direct them?
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Give them strength, give them favor.
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Just bless their socks off.
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I pray in a. Really special way.
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Thank you that they're a part of my
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life and I get to be on a journey
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with this awesome group of ladies.
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God, I pray that you would pour out
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your incredible love and blessing
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on them and help all of us, help all
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of us Lord to be reminded of your
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incredible love and to respond like
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we would in gratitude to our own moms.
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Help us respond with gratitude to
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you for all that you have done.
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Please give us an awesome afternoon and
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evening ahead, some of us relaxing and
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the rest of us working hard to remind Mom
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how important she is in Jesus' name, amen.
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Amen.
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Love all you moms.
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Have a great Mother's day and
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thanks for being here this morning.
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Lord bless you all.