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Missing the Mark | August 3, 2025

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  1. Today's reading comes

  2. from the book of Proverbs.

  3. Mmm.

  4. If I may digress for a moment from

  5. my prepared message, I mean it.

  6. When I say to you,

  7. you guys, sometimes you're bad.

  8. Don't be jerks.

  9. You are supposed to be good.

  10. I'm in my office every day and somebody

  11. comes in and they're like, Hey, whoops.

  12. I'm like, don't,

  13. Dan, what is your deal?

  14. If anybody doesn't know Dan is the worst.

  15. I took a vow to not say who was the

  16. worst, but it's Dan, you guys are

  17. making me look bad in front of God.

  18. What's that?

  19. Oh look, it's Jesus.

  20. And he said, stop it.

  21. The word of the Lord.

  22. All right.

  23. I had foolish optimism that

  24. this Mike would work on me.

  25. Russell was, I saw him eyeing me when

  26. I walked up with it, shaking his head.

  27. He's shaking his head now.

  28. So we're gonna go, we're

  29. gonna go to the headset.

  30. I told Debbie, I, I was the

  31. first one to use that mic.

  32. When we got that mic, Andy was made a

  33. big deal 'cause he was outta town and

  34. he was like, Hey, don't break that mic.

  35. It worked perfectly for me.

  36. I didn't have any issues with it.

  37. And then it did not work for

  38. anybody else who used it.

  39. And I told Debbie, my theory

  40. was Andy is tall and bald,

  41. so he's basically an antenna.

  42. And I thought maybe it works

  43. for me because I'm not an

  44. antenna, but I was wrong.

  45. So,

  46. so I, yeah, I did that video

  47. because I referenced it a couple

  48. weeks ago when I preached.

  49. And I really liked that video.

  50. Uh, and it's funny, if you look at that

  51. video on YouTube, all of the comments

  52. are pastors who are like, I'm a pastor.

  53. I've watched this video five times.

  54. This is how I feel so many times now.

  55. I'm not saying that to come

  56. down on you as the congregation.

  57. Um, 'cause I think all of us really feel

  58. that way, even if we're not pastors, um,

  59. when we just look at the world, right?

  60. So I wanna talk about how do

  61. we deal with sin as Christians,

  62. um, not just as pastors.

  63. How do we deal with sin?

  64. Well, let's break down

  65. what even is sin like.

  66. It, it's something we say all the time

  67. to, we really stop and think about what

  68. sin is because I think a lot of times

  69. maybe if you just ask someone what sin

  70. is, it's like, well, it's being bad.

  71. I mean, that's what that video is.

  72. You guys are being bad.

  73. Just be good.

  74. But what does that mean to be bad?

  75. The word sin, there's three

  76. words that are used in Hebrew

  77. and in Greek to describe sin.

  78. Um, but the primary one is the Greek

  79. word or the, uh, Hebrew word kata.

  80. And that means to fail or to miss.

  81. So it's, it's used when talking

  82. about someone throwing something

  83. and they, and they miss the

  84. target that they're aiming for.

  85. Uh, it, or when you, when you

  86. fail at doing something, that word

  87. kata means to fail or to miss it.

  88. It ironically is not necessarily tied

  89. in with ethics or morals, but rather

  90. the cons, missing a mark, not hitting

  91. the point where you're supposed to.

  92. So

  93. maybe sometimes our problem is that

  94. we're just trying to focus on being

  95. good and doing the right thing when we

  96. should be trying to aim at a target.

  97. And that target is God's word.

  98. What does God's word tell us to do?

  99. And what's more interesting

  100. is failing or miss.

  101. What's more tied to is, is this

  102. concept of like, well, what is

  103. failing and missing in the Bible?

  104. And we can talk about the

  105. law, but it's more than that.

  106. Let's, let's even go to when someone

  107. approaches Jesus and they said, Hey,

  108. what is the most important commandment?

  109. What's the most important

  110. thing for me to do?

  111. And Jesus says, to love your Lord,

  112. your God with all your heart,

  113. mind, soul, and strength, and to

  114. love your neighbor as yourself.

  115. So by that definition.

  116. What really is the heart of what God

  117. wants for us to honor him and to honor

  118. others, to love him and to love others,

  119. which makes sense 'cause that's looking

  120. at it from the New Testament perspective.

  121. But even the Old Testament,

  122. that same thing was at the

  123. heart of the Old Testament.

  124. To love your lord's, your God

  125. with all your heart, mind, soul,

  126. and strength, and to love others.

  127. It was the golden rule

  128. for For the old covenant.

  129. And for the new covenant.

  130. Everyone understood that.

  131. So maybe we need to measure things

  132. by recognizing, are we honoring God?

  133. Are we honoring other people

  134. and and why does that matter so much?

  135. I mean, I think we can

  136. probably understand.

  137. Honoring God obviously is important.

  138. Loving God is important.

  139. He made us, I think we sometimes

  140. mess up on the loving other people.

  141. Why?

  142. Well.

  143. Based on that video.

  144. 'cause sometimes it's hard to love other

  145. people, and especially when people are

  146. bad, it makes it hard to love them.

  147. But let's go back to the beginning.

  148. God created man.

  149. He created man in his image.

  150. All of humankind is image bearers of God.

  151. They're created in his image.

  152. So if we're not honoring other people,

  153. we're not honoring the image of God.

  154. It's easy for us to look at sinning

  155. as doing something against God, but

  156. I don't think we always realize that

  157. when we're dishonoring other people,

  158. when we're not loving other people,

  159. we're still dishonoring his image.

  160. It's important that we

  161. have reverence for God.

  162. I asked Rusty this week if

  163. he could do a song, but.

  164. We had a lot of things going on this

  165. week and I gave him late notice and

  166. it wouldn't have worked in hindsight,

  167. especially because we had all these

  168. sound issues from our sound being

  169. set up for having a giant castle in

  170. here and that messed everything up.

  171. So it was rough morning.

  172. And so in hindsight, it definitely

  173. would've worked, so would not have worked.

  174. So Rusty made the right call.

  175. Um, but the reason I picked the song that

  176. I had talked to him about was, I love

  177. how the song has this reverence for God.

  178. Um, but then Rusty had the last song

  179. The Holy Forever, which really had the

  180. same, it evoked the same feelings that,

  181. um, I was going for with the other song.

  182. So I think it all worked out in the end.

  183. Um, but it's really important

  184. for us to have honor for God,

  185. to have reverence for God.

  186. And it's important that we have

  187. reverence for other people.

  188. And I don't mean we worship

  189. other people like we worship God.

  190. And I'm not saying other people, um,

  191. I'm not saying other people are God.

  192. But we have to recognize

  193. their image bearers of him.

  194. And he loves them just

  195. as much as he loves us.

  196. And if we're not loving them like

  197. he loves them, then we kind of value

  198. ourselves more important than God.

  199. 'cause we think this person's

  200. not worthy of my love.

  201. Well, they're worthy of God's love.

  202. So why are you so much better that

  203. they're not worthy of your love?

  204. So maybe we all struggle

  205. a little bit with sin.

  206. Not maybe we all do.

  207. That's biblical.

  208. We all struggle with sin.

  209. So how do we deal with our sin?

  210. Okay, we've recognized maybe we aren't.

  211. We all make mistakes.

  212. We, we sin.

  213. How do we deal with our sin?

  214. Well, it's really a lot like how

  215. you deal with anything in humanity,

  216. how we deal with our emotions.

  217. Okay,

  218. you just.

  219. Ignore them and you focus

  220. on other people's problems.

  221. Okay, so we'll move on to other people.

  222. How do we deal with other people's sins?

  223. Now, I'm not, I know there are some

  224. people, like my wife, who are note

  225. takers who are like, I just wrote

  226. a section on dealing with our sin,

  227. and then you just glaze past it.

  228. How do we deal with their sins?

  229. Well, let's open up our

  230. Bibles to Matthew seven.

  231. 'cause really this whole chapter is kind

  232. of Jesus' basic explanation for this

  233. in Matthew seven, starting

  234. right at the beginning.

  235. Do not judge, or you two will be judged

  236. for in the same way you judge others,

  237. you will be judged in the same measure.

  238. You use it, you will be measured.

  239. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust

  240. in your brother's eye and pay no

  241. attention to the plank in your own eye?

  242. How can you say to your brother, let

  243. us take the speck out of your eye.

  244. When you, all the time there's a plank

  245. in your own eye, you hypocrite First.

  246. Take out the plank out of your own eye

  247. and then you will see clearly to remove

  248. the speck from your brother's eye.

  249. Do not give to dogs what is sacred.

  250. Do not throw your pearls to pigs.

  251. If you do, they may trample you.

  252. They may trample them under their

  253. feet and turn and tear you to pieces.

  254. So going back to the beginning there,

  255. do not judge for you will be judged

  256. too, as you have judged others.

  257. I used to throw this verse around

  258. in college all the time and in

  259. ministry, I've heard so many pastors

  260. talk about how this is the most.

  261. Taken out of context Bible verse,

  262. and I agree and disagree with that.

  263. Now, in college, I would say it

  264. more in like a joking manner.

  265. Like I'd be with my friends and they'd

  266. be like, Dex, you just ate a whole bag

  267. of peanut butter m and ms in one sitting.

  268. What's wrong with you?

  269. And I'd be like, Hey, Matthew

  270. seven, one, don't judge me 'cause

  271. you're gonna be judged too.

  272. True story.

  273. Um, but

  274. I think the, a lot of pastors have

  275. issues with this 'cause they think

  276. it's kind of saying like, Hey,

  277. don't hold anybody accountable.

  278. Don't, don't call anybody out

  279. for doing something wrong.

  280. But that's not what Jesus

  281. is talking about here.

  282. Because later on in the New Testament,

  283. there's plenty of times of the

  284. Bible telling us to rebuke others.

  285. But there's a difference

  286. between rebuking and judging.

  287. Rebuking is, is saying, Hey,

  288. this thing is, is not right.

  289. Here's biblical evidence

  290. of why that's not right.

  291. That's not something

  292. that we should be doing.

  293. Right.

  294. Judging.

  295. Is when you are casting judgment

  296. on them, you are condemning them.

  297. You are putting in a different place.

  298. You're putting them in a different

  299. place as you, it's God's God's job to

  300. judge people, to hold them in a, whether

  301. they're going to hell, where they're

  302. going to heaven to hold their soul

  303. and where it's supposed to be placed.

  304. That's not for us to do.

  305. We're not supposed to elevate

  306. ourselves other over people.

  307. So what I wanna talk about is, I think

  308. one of the first things of dealing with

  309. other people's sin is to not gatekeep.

  310. Now maybe you might not know what

  311. this phrase gatekeep comes from.

  312. This is really like a, a cultural, um,

  313. word where the concept of when we, when

  314. we allow something to be allowed in.

  315. So for instance, this is like, um.

  316. One of the instances I can think of the

  317. most of gatekeeping is seeing someone

  318. like some, you know, young kid wearing

  319. like a Led Zeppelin t-shirt, and some

  320. older person goes up and is like,

  321. led Zeppelin, you like Led Zeppelin.

  322. They're like, yeah, like

  323. name a Led Zeppelin song.

  324. And they're like, um, I don't know.

  325. And then like, you're

  326. not a Led Zeppelin fan.

  327. You can't wear that shirt.

  328. Right?

  329. It's that kind of thing of like, you

  330. can't be allowed in here because you

  331. don't care about this thing the way I do.

  332. And sometimes we do that to other people.

  333. We see people who maybe identify

  334. as Christians, but we don't like

  335. the things that they're doing.

  336. And so we gate keep them.

  337. We, we say they're not allowed

  338. to be part of Christianity.

  339. That's not really our place to say.

  340. Now again, we can rebuke other people.

  341. And let me think of another issue of,

  342. like, another context of this is, I

  343. remember years ago when Kanye West.

  344. Started pushing out these gospel albums

  345. and some people were really happy about

  346. it and think it's so awesome and other

  347. people like me were skeptical of it.

  348. I had issues with Kanye West

  349. and as time has gone on, I have

  350. more issues with Kanye West.

  351. But here's the thing, and it would've

  352. been a lot different if I actually

  353. like personally had interactions

  354. with Kanye West, but I didn't.

  355. So what my attitude towards him

  356. was, didn't really change what

  357. he was doing, but I was like,

  358. no, this guy's not a Christian.

  359. I know what you guys are saying.

  360. He's not a Christian 'cause he's doing

  361. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

  362. And what would the difference have

  363. been if I did interact with him

  364. and have that attitude towards him?

  365. Again, I can call him out for

  366. what he's doing, but it's another

  367. thing for me to put value on

  368. his soul and where it belongs.

  369. Jesus talks about this later on.

  370. He talks about when he, when he's

  371. doing all the allegories of, of sowing

  372. seeds and evangelizing to people.

  373. And he talks about when you throw

  374. out a bunch of seeds, but then

  375. weeds start to grow in with them.

  376. And he says, don't pull out all these

  377. weeds that are ruining the crops.

  378. 'cause if you pull them out, you're

  379. gonna pull out the good crops too.

  380. Just let them all grow.

  381. And when the harvester Jesus comes, he'll

  382. pull out, he'll take care of it all.

  383. So that's not our job.

  384. And I think it's also worth recognizing

  385. is there's a huge difference in how we

  386. rebuke people who are Christians and

  387. just people who have no interest in God

  388. and, and we'll come back to that.

  389. But the next thing Jesus talks

  390. about is removing the plank.

  391. A lot of the times, the reason why

  392. we have problems with judging people

  393. is casting where they deserve to go.

  394. Because we also deserve to go there.

  395. So it's really unfair for us to

  396. be like, well, you're a sinner.

  397. This guy's, he does this

  398. thing and this thing.

  399. He deserves to go to hell.

  400. I can't claim his.

  401. And as a Christian, yeah, all

  402. of us deserve to go there.

  403. And, and we don't approach

  404. people with, I think the empathy

  405. that they sometimes need.

  406. Another example, I can think

  407. of this, of calling myself out.

  408. I did have a video calling congregation

  409. out, so I'm gonna call myself

  410. out here now a couple weeks ago.

  411. I'm sure.

  412. I, I feel like this was all over the

  413. place, so everyone probably knows

  414. this story, but on the off chance you

  415. don't, there was this cold play concert

  416. that happened a while back, right.

  417. And Coldplay, the, the lead singer, he had

  418. this whole thing where he had a camera,

  419. uh, and it was showing couples and they

  420. could kind of sing songs to the couples

  421. or whatever while they were playing.

  422. It panned to this one couple,

  423. and immediately, as soon as the

  424. camera panned to them, I mean,

  425. it's like on the like mega, the,

  426. the big jumbotron kind of thing.

  427. Um, the, the husband was like, or the,

  428. the guy with like crouched down and then

  429. the girl just turned around and shamed.

  430. I feel like this is everywhere, so if

  431. you don't know what I'm talking about,

  432. that's pretty much the main gist of it.

  433. And the, the lead singer of Coldplay like

  434. joke, like I either they're a really shy

  435. couple or there's an affair going on.

  436. It turned out it wasn't affair

  437. and it was the CEO of a company.

  438. And the girl he was with was the head of

  439. HR of that company who was also married.

  440. So it was a whole thing.

  441. And now there's like a divorce underway.

  442. Um, and he ended up issuing a public

  443. statement that basically talked about

  444. how he did bad things and he's sorry.

  445. But then the end of that statement,

  446. he then talked about how it was

  447. unfair for Coldplay to take a private

  448. moment and to publicize it and.

  449. Allegedly, he's suing Coldplay now.

  450. So, and when that all happened, I

  451. remember I was on vacation at the time

  452. when all this happened and I was like,

  453. this bozo, like, and, and Jackie and

  454. I even both talked and it was like,

  455. yeah, the Bible talks about this.

  456. When you sin, your sin

  457. will be brought out.

  458. Your sin will be revealed.

  459. And that's what we said.

  460. And he was like, yeah, you can't get mad.

  461. This was not a private event.

  462. You went to a public place, they

  463. announced they were doing this.

  464. You were sending in front of

  465. thousands of people and then you're

  466. just mad that you got caught.

  467. And that was the attitude that I have.

  468. And I was extremely judgmental of the guy.

  469. And here's the thing, he sinned.

  470. So I'm, what I'm about to say

  471. is not saying that that's okay.

  472. And, and I don't know whether

  473. he's a Christian or what, uh, what

  474. his religious background is, but

  475. I didn't approach with empathy.

  476. I approached with judgment because

  477. honestly, it made me feel better

  478. to call this guy out for his sin.

  479. It made me feel better about myself.

  480. If I'm being truly honest.

  481. 'cause here's the thing Jesus talks

  482. about, if you even look at a woman

  483. lustfully, you're committing adultery.

  484. So when I bear that same ruling

  485. on myself, yeah, I'm guilty.

  486. And so how judgmental is it for me

  487. to call this guy out for adultery

  488. when by Jesus's law, by Jesus's

  489. words, I'm committed adultery and I

  490. can look back at any sin in my life.

  491. And I get mad too when

  492. I get called out on it.

  493. I get more mad when it's publicized

  494. in front of everybody, and I've

  495. blamed those people for calling

  496. me out, or I've made excuses for

  497. why I did the things that I did.

  498. So I didn't have personal

  499. interaction with the CEO.

  500. I think that that's what really

  501. spoke to me is how judgmental I

  502. was, and I wasn't even around him.

  503. And maybe it's easier to be judgmental

  504. because of that, but it doesn't make

  505. the, it doesn't make it any different.

  506. So if, if I had the opportunity to talk

  507. to this guy, it'd be so easy to just be

  508. like, Hey man, you're in the wrong you.

  509. You were in public.

  510. You chose that, you made that mistake.

  511. But it might be better for me to say,

  512. Hey, you know what, Hey, I've sinned.

  513. Two, I've made mistakes.

  514. I've done really dumb things

  515. and I blamed other people.

  516. But in the end, I had to just

  517. take ownership of what I did.

  518. And I learned to love my wife more and

  519. to put her above every other, every

  520. other person and you know, and I can

  521. walk him through what my journey was.

  522. And that's a whole lot different

  523. than just casting judgment on him.

  524. And that's really important for us.

  525. The other thing that Jesus talks

  526. about is to not waste pearls.

  527. Don't throw your pearls before swine.

  528. Don't give dogs what is sacred.

  529. If you do, they may trample

  530. under them under their feet

  531. and turn to tear you to pieces.

  532. Now, this is where it gets a little hard

  533. because here we're now almost saying the

  534. opposite of what I just talked about.

  535. There are some people who have no interest

  536. in what you're going to rebuke them with.

  537. What is the pearls?

  538. Pearls of wisdom?

  539. If I talk to them about,

  540. Hey, this is what God says.

  541. There's gonna be people who have

  542. absolutely no interest in that,

  543. and it's just gonna turn them

  544. off to Christianity even more.

  545. It's gonna turn them off to

  546. you, and they're never gonna be

  547. interested in what you have to say.

  548. So sometimes, as Jesus says here,

  549. it's not always smart to impart

  550. wisdom to people and their sin.

  551. And that's a tricky game because it's

  552. so easy for us to just be like, well,

  553. they're not interested in what I have

  554. to say, so I'm not gonna say anything.

  555. And we just walk away from that.

  556. And most of our failures

  557. probably as Christians, is

  558. finding when is the right time?

  559. Who is the right person

  560. to say something to?

  561. And to not say something to which brings

  562. me to what will help with that and what

  563. the next important thing is, which is

  564. that we gotta pray for those people.

  565. 'cause maybe you don't know

  566. that person's heart very well.

  567. God talks about how we look

  568. at people from the outside and

  569. not from the inside as he does.

  570. So maybe you don't have the best judgment

  571. of whether this person is ready to hear

  572. wisdom, to have wisdom imparted on them.

  573. So you need to spend time.

  574. Praying for them and praying to

  575. God for wisdom on how to handle

  576. each situation with every person.

  577. And I can say from my experience,

  578. there have been times where I've

  579. talked to someone and it was, it was a

  580. conversation I was worried about and,

  581. and I, I prayed about it and I talked

  582. to them and afterwards I was like, huh,

  583. I don't even know what I just said.

  584. That was smarter things than I can

  585. talk about because God does give

  586. us wisdom and he will give us,

  587. give us the right words to say.

  588. And lastly, we are to love them.

  589. Jesus goes on and he says, ask

  590. and it will be given to you.

  591. Seek and you will find Knock in

  592. the door will be opened to you.

  593. For everyone who asks receives the

  594. one who seeks finds, and the one

  595. who knocks the door will be opened.

  596. Which one of you, if your son asks

  597. for bread, will give him a stone?

  598. Or if he asks for a fish

  599. will give him a snake.

  600. If you then through, though you are evil,

  601. know to give good gifts to your children,

  602. how much more will your father in heaven

  603. give good gifts to those who ask him?

  604. So in everything due to others, what

  605. you would have them do to you for

  606. this sums up the law of the prophets.

  607. Now, here is a verse, or this

  608. passage even is one that I would

  609. say gets taken out of context.

  610. I think a lot of people just use like,

  611. Hey, you need something in your life.

  612. You need a better job.

  613. Uh, you need this thing.

  614. Ask and it'll be given to you.

  615. And, and I'm not saying our god's not a

  616. provider and he doesn't do those things.

  617. But this whole chapter is talking

  618. about the context of salvation

  619. of other people's salvation.

  620. 'cause even after that, he then

  621. starts talking about how the

  622. narrow and the wide gate, right?

  623. He's talking about salvation, and

  624. then he's talks about false prophets.

  625. So he talks about the concept

  626. of people delivering the word.

  627. He's talking about evangelism.

  628. So I think this whole thing of asking and

  629. knocking, and it will be given to you.

  630. And he's talking about praying for other

  631. people, asking for other people to be

  632. saved, evangelizing to other people.

  633. Because here's the thing, there's

  634. a lot of things that I've prayed

  635. for that God's never given me, and

  636. I don't give up on hope on that.

  637. And I think sometimes we can focus

  638. on that verse and take it for

  639. other things and it can hurt us.

  640. I think God Jesus is really trying

  641. to emphasize to us this concept of

  642. you have someone who you care about

  643. who you want to be brought to the.

  644. To the Lord.

  645. You wanna say the right

  646. words to those things?

  647. Ask, and it will be given to you.

  648. I will give you the right

  649. words to say to this person.

  650. I will soften their heart.

  651. Because it's hard for us

  652. to do that on our own.

  653. It's impossible for us

  654. to do that on our own.

  655. And by doing that, you

  656. are loving those people,

  657. but you're not just loving them

  658. by praying for them, but actually

  659. going out and doing things for those

  660. people, spending time with them.

  661. I, I know a lot of people in this

  662. church who have relationships with

  663. people who are not Christian and

  664. they don't mistreat those people.

  665. They treat them just like they

  666. would treat someone in this church.

  667. They help them out when

  668. they're in times of trouble.

  669. They're someone that they can

  670. talk to and they're not just out

  671. preaching to them talking about

  672. how they're sinners, but they're

  673. loving those people where they are.

  674. And that's what's important for us to do,

  675. to love people where they are.

  676. So those are the five things that you can

  677. do when dealing with other people's sin.

  678. All right.

  679. How do we go back?

  680. Uh, well, sorry.

  681. Now what I'm gonna say with how,

  682. going back to dealing with arson,

  683. exact same things,

  684. don't gate keep.

  685. Sometimes we look at our own life

  686. and we look at the sin that we have.

  687. Now, maybe we're someone who

  688. has some addiction that's hidden

  689. that hasn't been revealed yet.

  690. And I know I've been at places

  691. where I'm like, I'm too far broken.

  692. I'm not gonna get over this thing.

  693. I don't think heaven's a place for me

  694. 'cause I can't get over this thing.

  695. We sometimes gate keep ourselves.

  696. We say that we're not

  697. worthy of God's love.

  698. I'm not gonna get past this thing.

  699. I'm not good enough for God.

  700. This whole Christianity

  701. thing, I'm not good enough.

  702. So we gate keep ourselves

  703. out of Christianity, which is

  704. completely wild because none of

  705. us are good enough for heaven.

  706. And the only reason that we all

  707. are going to get to go to heaven is

  708. because Jesus unlocked that door.

  709. Right.

  710. He has the keys, he unlocked

  711. the shackles, he opened the

  712. door so that we can all go in.

  713. So it's kind of like crazy that there's

  714. been times in my life where I'm like

  715. standing and front of an open gate and

  716. I'm like, yeah, no, I can't get in there.

  717. And Jesus is like, dude, go.

  718. I opened the door.

  719. You're just standing there.

  720. Oops.

  721. Sorry.

  722. We need to remove the

  723. plank from our own eye.

  724. And what that means is,

  725. I mean, I kind of already covered it, but

  726. we have sin in our life that blinds us.

  727. We have inequities that blind

  728. us from seeing and having

  729. an honest look at ourselves.

  730. One of the earliest uses of that word

  731. qta is in the story of Cain Abel.

  732. And when Cain gets angry that his brother

  733. has a better blessing than him, right?

  734. And he gets jealous, and

  735. God says to him, be careful.

  736. Ka tah sin is crouching at your doorstep.

  737. He's almost giving this concept of, of

  738. sin being a living creature that's waiting

  739. to devour him because that's what sin is,

  740. and we're lying to ourselves.

  741. And I think it's, it's healthier if we

  742. look at sin as an actual monster that's

  743. alive and moving, it's not just, it's

  744. not just like a choice that we make.

  745. It's not just, um, a mistake that festers

  746. in our brains, but it's something that's

  747. actively trying to destroy us and we

  748. need to put up our guard against it.

  749. And because it is, it tricks us.

  750. I mean, read the Bible, read any

  751. story, and you see people who get

  752. corrupted, who think they're doing

  753. the right thing and they're doing the

  754. wrong thing and how far they can fall.

  755. And so it's important that we

  756. are always taking a look at

  757. ourselves and trying to be honest.

  758. Is there a sin that you have in your life?

  759. 'cause none of us are perfect.

  760. Don't waste pearls.

  761. Now, how do we waste

  762. pearls against ourselves?

  763. Well, I think what this really is,

  764. is that we give the best parts of us

  765. to things that are not worthy of us.

  766. I mean, what do we say is

  767. the most precious commodity

  768. time's?

  769. The only thing that you can't get more of.

  770. And so if time is the most

  771. precious thing to you, are you

  772. casting your time before swine?

  773. Are you wasting your time with

  774. things that are not good for you?

  775. Every once in a while I'll kind

  776. of try to take an account of

  777. like, all right, what have I done

  778. this week and 20 years from now?

  779. How am I gonna look at

  780. the time that I spent?

  781. And especially as a father

  782. now I've thought of like time

  783. that I've spent with my kids.

  784. How am I gonna feel about the time

  785. where I spent, you know, playing

  786. out in the yard with my kids?

  787. How am I gonna feel about, you

  788. know, the time where I was annoyed?

  789. 'cause I didn't want to go through

  790. the hassle of the splash pad so

  791. close to bedtime and then I have to

  792. give them a bath and all this stuff.

  793. And it's obnoxious.

  794. And it's sometimes easier to be

  795. like, Hey, you know what kids,

  796. we're not gonna do that tonight.

  797. We're just gonna chill at home.

  798. I had an exhausting day.

  799. But I look back at that and my kids

  800. aren't gonna remember that time where

  801. I just let them watch a TV show 'cause

  802. it was way easier than dealing with

  803. quality time that I spent with them.

  804. And how does that relate

  805. to our time with God?

  806. And

  807. I look back and how much quality

  808. time did I have with God versus

  809. how much time did I have working

  810. overtime at my job, going to some fun

  811. event, going to a Coldplay concert.

  812. I don't know.

  813. Are you wasting important things

  814. with things that are not God?

  815. And, and then praying for

  816. them, praying for ourselves.

  817. How much time are you spending in

  818. prayer and, and maybe you're struggling

  819. with the concept of being humble and

  820. having an honest look at yourself.

  821. If you are in the, in the congregation

  822. thinking, yeah, I don't really know that I

  823. have anything that is an issue in my life.

  824. Probably do.

  825. And maybe that's an indication.

  826. God give me wisdom.

  827. Let me see myself as you see me, because

  828. we are constantly being bombarded by

  829. hawk, how culture sees this, and that

  830. corrupts the way we see ourselves.

  831. So God, I'm praying that you will

  832. help me see me the way you see me.

  833. So that I can see my errors and I

  834. can see the good things in me that

  835. maybe I am not giving my pearls

  836. to, that I am not recognizing.

  837. And lastly, love them.

  838. Now, this can be a dangerous thing to say

  839. love yourself because honestly, we're in

  840. a culture that's like, Hey, love yourself,

  841. treat yourself, do all these things,

  842. and maybe we have an issue with that.

  843. So I wanna kind of

  844. twist that a little bit.

  845. So when I say love yourself, I

  846. don't mean, hey, yeah, go buy that

  847. car that maybe you don't need.

  848. You deserve it.

  849. You know, go take a guy's trip away

  850. from everybody else and you know

  851. that you don't really need, like,

  852. I'm not saying all these things

  853. of treat yourself in that way.

  854. More so I'm saying love yourself in

  855. the sense that the way God loves you.

  856. As I talked about, there's been

  857. things in my life where, like I

  858. said, I was gatekeeping myself.

  859. I was keeping myself locked out of.

  860. What God's love was for me.

  861. He broke me free of the shackles.

  862. And how many of us bound ourselves to sin

  863. when God has already freed us from that?

  864. Love yourself enough to get rid of those

  865. things in your life that are ruining

  866. it or that are not hopeful for it.

  867. You need to love yourself enough

  868. to respect yourself, to see

  869. yourself the way God sees you.

  870. And once we can appropriately do

  871. those things for ourselves, it

  872. makes it all the easier to do all

  873. those things for other people.

  874. Because here are the things

  875. we live in a broken world.

  876. And I, when I first got called

  877. into ministry, I, I remember being

  878. mad at the church 'cause I saw how

  879. hypocritical and judgmental the

  880. church I thought the church was.

  881. I thought, I don't think

  882. I'm a judgmental person.

  883. I think maybe that's why God's

  884. calling me into ministry.

  885. 'cause I have a gift in this.

  886. And the longer, the closer I've

  887. grown to God, the longer I've

  888. been in ministry, the more I've

  889. realized, yeah, I'm judgmental too.

  890. And I've ironically become less judgmental

  891. the longer I've been in ministry.

  892. But I just didn't see it before.

  893. And so the biggest takeaway I want

  894. to have for you is to every day

  895. in the morning when you wake up,

  896. I mean, Sarah talked about

  897. memorizing Bible verses.

  898. That's great, do that.

  899. But also just a simple thing.

  900. It's not a lot that I'm adding onto that.

  901. Just pray.

  902. God, help me see the

  903. world the way you see it.

  904. Help me see through your eyes.

  905. And that means seeing other

  906. people and also seeing yourself.

  907. It will change your day.

  908. It'll change your week and

  909. it will change your life.

  910. You bow your heads with me in prayer.

  911. God, thank you so much for today.

  912. Thank you for the beautiful weather that

  913. is a break from, uh, blistering heat.

  914. And just as we've kind of lived the

  915. last couple months in blistering heat,

  916. we live in a world with blistering sin.

  917. Sin that is just killing

  918. us and we're blind to it.

  919. And we wanna look at the world and

  920. say how broken it is and how it

  921. needs fixed, but sometimes we're not

  922. always interested in fixing it and

  923. we're just interested in judging it.

  924. So I just ask that you will help all of

  925. us see the world the way you see it, so

  926. that we can fix the world through you.

  927. You are indeed holy forever.

  928. And we need your power to break the sin

  929. in our lives and in other people's lives.

  930. Thank you that you will send people across

  931. the ocean just to save one person, and

  932. thank you that you can also just send

  933. us across the street to save one person.

  934. Be with us in all that we do.

  935. Amen.

  936. So while we're talking about ways

  937. that we can go out and reach people,

  938. if you're a guest with us,

  939. thanks again for being here.

  940. Uh, come find me.

  941. I'd love to talk to you, uh,

  942. and I'll try to come find you.

  943. But, uh, we we're just happy that

  944. you're here with us this morning.

  945. So Men's fishing retreat,

  946. it's already happened.

  947. They're all gone at that.

  948. That's why they're not here.

  949. Um, but I just, I wanted to keep this

  950. slide in here 'cause I wanna just

  951. remind us, Hey, let's be praying for

  952. them as they're coming back home.

  953. It's like a 12 hour drive.

  954. We just wanna pray that everyone makes

  955. that drive safely and that they had a

  956. great time and that whatever conversations

  957. they had with Marty, with Andy, um, with

  958. one another, that they will be ones that

  959. stick with him for the rest of the week.

  960. Uh, so continue to be praying for

  961. those guys throughout the day.

  962. Uh, we have the educator Comedy Night.

  963. I know Ryan, he can really

  964. answer all your questions if you

  965. have any questions about that.

  966. Um, he's raising his hand, uh,

  967. and that's gonna be a fun thing.

  968. And the cool thing about that is they're

  969. gonna people who aren't part of our

  970. church, who are gonna be at that event.

  971. So if you're going to that event,

  972. cool, that's a great time to

  973. make connections with people.

  974. Uh, there is not gonna

  975. be any ba bam tonight.

  976. Um, I don't know of any other

  977. events going on tonight, so, 'cause

  978. everyone's gone at the fishing trip.

  979. Literally the shortest announcements

  980. that we've had in forever.

  981. Um, so I just wanna say

  982. we love you White Rock.

  983. Um, go out and show love to people.

  984. Uh, you're dismissed