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Celebrating Family and Faith | December 28, 2025
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whew.
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It's gonna be a loud splash
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section over here today.
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Huh?
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I love that.
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Love that.
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You know, I don't know if you guys have
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been enjoying the Christmas season, like
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new parents, or parents of little kids.
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Like I'm in this stage where I have
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high schoolers now and college students.
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Which means Jamie and I get up Christmas
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morning and we drink coffee and we cook
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and we stare at each other, wondering
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if our kids care that it's Christmas.
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And Jed comes down about 10
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30 and he's mad that he didn't
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sleep till noon on Christmas.
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You know?
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And you're like, these are the glory days.
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Parents.
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Wait, just wait.
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Right?
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Those 3:00 AM mornings, right?
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No, no more, no more.
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Dax, you still look tired, bro.
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Makes me happy.
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Well, Jocelyn, thanks for
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referencing these candles.
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We've talked over this Christmas
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season about the idea of hope, right?
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That God gives us this crazy awesome
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hope through Jesus, and that he is the
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prince of peace who came to make peace
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between us and God with the wrath of sin
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that hung over us, his crazy love for us.
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And last Sunday, the kids really helped
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us, uh, get into the Christmas spirit with
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what can only be described as a joyful
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presentation of screeching microphones.
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Also with some songs and a
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little bit of Jesus mixed in.
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It was beautiful and everybody
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worked really hard on that.
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So thanks for being a part of last
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Sunday's celebration together.
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It was really special.
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Um, and you know, kids, kids
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are just a big deal, man.
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Jesus loves kids.
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I, one of my favorite passages is where.
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The disciples, you know, they're sitting
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around while Jesus is talking to, you
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know, the important people, the adults
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and some kids are trying to get close
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and they're kind of sneaking in and,
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and you know, kids probably interrupted.
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They're probably jibber jabbering.
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They're probably pushing their
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friend to see and what Jesus was
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doing, and, and the disciples are
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like, Hey, leave the teacher alone.
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Don't bother Jesus.
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And Jesus scripture says,
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rebuked his disciples.
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That's a cool word, right?
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He didn't say, come on guys, quit
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acting like knuckleheaded adults.
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He's like, knock it off.
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What is wrong with you guys?
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Right?
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These kids, man, let 'em, let
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'em get 'em over here, man.
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Unless we become like little
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children, we're not gonna
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enter the kingdom of heaven.
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That's what he taught us, right?
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Like faith, like a child, and
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the innocence of a child and the
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image of kids and what that means
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for us as followers of Jesus and.
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We call God our Heavenly Father
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because we're his children.
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And what a cool picture that is for us.
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So kids matter to Jesus.
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And if you ever become one of those
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old church people who get angry
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about the kids, I just want you to
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know, uh, I have a spot for you in
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Sunday's school to come volunteer
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where we can work that out of you.
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Right?
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Because there is nothing cooler
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than getting to hang out with
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kids and talk about Jesus.
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Well, I have a verse I wanna share with
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you this morning as I reflect on kids
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a little bit, and it's this, speaking
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of joy, man, I have no greater joy.
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John says, then to hear that my
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children are walking in the truth.
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And I was reflecting on this a
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little bit as we were gonna have
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a time of baby dedication today.
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I was reflecting a little bit on
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like Jamie and I and our parenting
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mission and purpose years ago.
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We talked vision and purpose and why are.
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Doing what we're doing and, and what
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is our mission and, and our vision and
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our purpose, you know, as parents and
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really latched on to this idea that
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my children are walking in the truth.
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And I've said this to my kids a
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million times, man, I don't care
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what they do with their life.
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I don't care.
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Sorry, I got choked up.
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I haven't been singing a lot, but
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the last, like Christmas Eve today,
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I was like, I'm gonna belt this
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out and now I can't hardly talk.
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So sorry about that.
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I'm sorry.
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I'm sorry.
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I don't.
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Um, but I don't care if my
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kids are good at sports.
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I don't care if they're
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brilliant academically.
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I don't care if they're
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making lots of money.
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I just don't care about any of that stuff.
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I care about that they're walking
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in the truth, that they're walking
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in relationship with Jesus Christ.
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If my kids will have a relationship with
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Jesus Christ and they will follow him.
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So much better than any advice dad's got.
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Trust me, right?
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Following Jesus.
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That is all I want for my kids.
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That they will be faithful followers
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of Jesus Christ, who walk in the truth.
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'cause here's the cool part, right?
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Seek first the kingdom of God and his
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righteousness and all the other stuff.
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He'll take care of that, right?
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But you chase all the other stuff
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instead, man, we're chasing sports.
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We're chasing money, we're chasing
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fame, we're chasing all kinds of stuff,
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and we end up empty in the end and
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stuff just falls through our fingers.
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But man, if we are locked into chasing
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Jesus Christ with everything we got,
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and as parents, if we raise our kids
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to follow Jesus and to make this the
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priority of what we're about, man, it
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changes all eternity for my kids and for
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everybody that they come in contact with.
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For your kids, man, that's the deal.
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This season we look at the manger
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and we think about Christmas.
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We're in that weird Sunday
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kind of in between, right?
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But it's still okay to remember
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these two people, Mary and Joseph.
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Right.
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And I, I think it's fascinating 'cause
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there's the, the big is this, the
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word hubba hubba Baloo hu hullabaloo.
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Oh man, that's a ridiculous word.
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There's a whole lot going
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on at the manger, right?
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We got angels and shepherds
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and we got all kinds of stuff
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happening and it's all amazing.
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And then all of a sudden the lights
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go out and Mary and Joseph are
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tasked with raising the son of God.
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I will never forget the birth
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of Josiah, our first kid.
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And, uh, I remember we had a cool
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relationship with our nurse, right?
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Like, she was really cool.
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She was great.
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She was like our, our little
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guardian angel, you know, for those
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48, 72 hours, whatever it was.
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But I will never forget the moment.
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Do you remember this, Jamie?
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When I pulled the car up and they
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wheeled you out in that little
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chair and you had this baby and they
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were like, they were gonna send us.
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Two idiot kids home with
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this living baby, right?
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And I remember like, Hey, any chance,
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like you want to come with us?
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We got room in the car, we invited
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the nurse home, like we gave her
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our address and our phone number.
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And we're like, when you're off work, if
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you wanna stop by, we'd love to see you.
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Right?
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Like, that was terror, right?
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Like, and if you've been a new
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parent, you understand that.
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You're like, no, no way.
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I break things all the time.
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I can't hardly get my
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lawn mowed gently, right?
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Like, how am I gonna keep this kid alive?
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Like it's crazy.
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But I can never just get my mind around
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this reality for Mion Joseph, that when
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their lights faded and the shepherds
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left and everything chilled, to sit
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there and realize, whoa, we've been
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tasked with raising the son of God.
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But listen, parents, I want you to
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catch this 'cause this is important.
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You and I, while not being tasked with
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raising Jesus Christ, the son of God,
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you and I have absolutely been tasked.
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With raising sons and daughters of God.
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That's what scripture teaches us, right?
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John says to us, see what great love
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The fathers lavished on us that we
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should be called children of God.
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And that is what we are.
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Now, people can choose to live as children
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of the devil for sure, but God came
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that everyone would have opportunity
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to know him, to walk in relationship
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with him, to be his son or daughter.
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And I think sometimes parents, we forget
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that we've been tasked by God with
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the responsibility to raise not our
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kids, but his sons and his daughters.
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And a lot of parents make a big mistake
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of saying, I'm trying to raise good kids.
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It's a horrible mission statement, guys.
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We wanna raise good young adults
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and contributors to society who
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will follow Christ and be disciples
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of his raising good kids stops.
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Right, but raising people, men
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and women who will follow Jesus,
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that's a vision and that's a
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picture of what we're called to do.
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And you and I have been entrusted
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with that and that is terrifying.
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But we're entrusted so that our children
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might walk in the truth, know their
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heavenly father and walk with him.
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Well, today we are gonna
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do something special.
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We're gonna have a time of baby dedication
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kind of mixed into some things I'm
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sharing, and I'm gonna start with this.
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I got some stools back there guys.
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You gonna bring those up?
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I'm gonna invite Andrew
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and Gray to sneak up here.
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If you wanna bring the kids now you can.
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But I guess we're never
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settled that exactly.
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I dunno if you guys know this about
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my friend Andrew, but sometimes if
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you give Andrew a microphone, there's
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just a lot in his heart, right?
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And I love that about Andrew.
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So we're gonna share just
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a little bit together.
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Thanks guys.
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Bad choice on my part.
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So
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Andrew, why does Gray look like she's
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hearing about this for the first time?
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My friend?
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Okay.
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Okay.
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Just making sure.
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Just making sure.
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It's another one of those red lights.
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Tim, I don't know, how are you Gray?
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I'm sorry, gray.
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This was just for what we're about to do.
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Sanders's fault for.
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I just wanna excuse
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that buddy just in case.
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Yeah, not yet.
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Not yet.
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Oh.
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Well you guys have been a
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part of some of this exciting
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journey with Andrew and Gray.
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Um, been through some fun, not so fun.
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All kinds of moments in between,
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um, but as we talked about today,
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but, and this just, we don't usually
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do this, this is like a two for
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one deal today, just so we know.
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We've got some twins that
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we're gonna dedicate.
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Normally it's just, you know,
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one per customer, but we work
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something out special today.
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Um, so Andrew, I know you want
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a chance to share just a little
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bit about what God's done and.
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And, uh, all that good stuff, man.
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So I think what I'm gonna do is just
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say, what do you wanna say this morning?
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And then we'll see where we go.
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How about that?
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Well, yesterday Andy called
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me and he said, uh, Hey buddy.
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Uh, how talkative do you feel tomorrow?
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I said, well, uh, you know how it is.
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Hand me the mic and I'll roll.
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And, uh, it's funny.
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Last year at the, uh, marriage retreat,
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everybody wrote, you know, nice things
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about people, uh, on photos of each
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couple and me and Grace's photo,
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there was about three different people
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that put great speaker talks a lot.
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So, um, we love that about you, man.
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We do, we do today, uh, today
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I've been counting down the days.
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For this day, uh, since the babies
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were were born, um, me and my wife, we
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started coming here a little over three
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years ago, and you guys embraced us.
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You, we became, you know, family here.
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We consider this church our home.
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Um, we, you know, the first two
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years of our marriage was exciting.
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A lot of traveling, um, a
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lot of fun things we did.
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Um, just enjoying being married
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and, and, and loving life.
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Um, but there was one thing missing.
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Uh, we really wanted a family.
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Um,
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she said we still need to
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continue to travel too.
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Um,
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we really wanted a family though.
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Um, and around the time when we
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started coming here was when we were
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really, really trying to have children.
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Um, and it just, things
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were just not happening.
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And I shared a lot.
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The first time I think I shared was
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at that very first men's retreat I
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went to, uh, with the church here.
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Um, and I shared about some of the
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fertility struggles that we were having.
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Um, and everyone prayed over me and, and,
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you know, uh, gave us hope and support,
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um, in that, from that point on, I mean,
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it was a two and a half year journey.
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Um, until we actually had the babies.
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Um, so, and it was, and
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it was an easy journey.
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It was not an easy journey at all.
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Oh, it was.
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Um, but I wanna share our story because
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I think it's a story of hope and faith,
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of, and just, you know, not giving
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up, uh, on your dreams, especially,
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you know, when it's your family.
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Um, um, I will get emotional quite
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a bit up here, so just bear with me.
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Um, so back in
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December of 2023, uh, we started
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the fertility treatment process
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and in March of 2024, we did
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our first IVF, uh, treatment.
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It worked.
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Um, we went to Panama to do that just
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because of the, she had a connection
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with the doctor there through her family.
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Um, and it, it was a good situation.
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We were able to financially save
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quite a bit of money since here
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in the US IVF is and I'll be nice.
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It's very crazy to, and expensive, and
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to me it seems kind of like a scam, but,
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uh, IVF is a beautiful thing for parents
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that are struggling with fertility.
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So it did, it worked.
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And, um, you know, we were very
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excited, uh, felt so blessed.
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And then in June of, uh, of that year.
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We were on a short little vacation
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in Tennessee, and, um, we got a call
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that my mom was in the hospital,
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um, and she was in the ICU.
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And so we rushed back for my mom.
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And that was kind of a god thing
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because when we got back to
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Indianapolis, gray had a miscarriage.
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Um, and all the medications, all the
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preparation, all the travel, all the
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money, just everything we had sacrificed.
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Um, we k we kind of felt
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like it was all gone.
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You know, we, we were at
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a point of desperation.
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Um, we did a lot of praying and we
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had an unbelievable amount of support.
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From people in this church.
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Um, a lot of people specifically that
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were mentors to me, um, and gray, um,
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just so much support and throughout
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that whole process, you know, we
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shared with everybody along the way.
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Uh, I did a lot of standing up
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and sharing about, you know, how
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things were going with us and, and
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you know, how we were progressing
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through the fertility treatments.
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Um, and with her immigration status
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being what it was, and it was her
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green card was coming up for renewal.
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We had to make a quick decision.
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Um, and we had to pretty much turn
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right around and do the IVF again.
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Um, and it is a.
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Long, arduous process.
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A lot of shots, a lot of
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pills, months of preparation.
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Um, we get there and, uh,
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we go through the IVF.
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There were some, some struggles
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when we initially got there,
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uh, to have the procedure.
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Uh, we thought that it
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wasn't gonna be possible.
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Um, and God found a way.
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God found a way.
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And a couple weeks later
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we find out we're pregnant.
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In fact, before we found out we were
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pregnant, I spoke with Preor on the phone.
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This was like literally two days
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after they had had, did, did the,
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uh, IVF Preor said, you know, God's
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telling me it's gonna be twins.
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And I said.
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I laughed and, and he said, what?
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You don't believe me?
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And I said, no, I believe you.
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I believe you.
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Uh, but you know, he, he,
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he, he felt that, and he said
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that, and, and he was right.
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Um, it, it is just so hard to
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believe that those two beautiful
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angels, uh, are with us today.
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Um,
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I've been looking forward to this
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day dedicating them to the Lord, um,
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so that they can be raised and in a
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way that I was raised by my parents.
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You know, I, I always as
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a child, never felt alone.
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'cause I always felt
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like Jesus was with me.
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And that's because my
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parents raised me that way.
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And I want to raise, and she wants
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to raise our children that way.
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Um.
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But we, we really struggled.
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We really struggled, uh, in the
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last two years have been ups and
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downs like nobody can imagine.
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Um, and not just with the fertility
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thing, you know, there were, there
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were some, not consequences, but
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we had to sacrifice a lot mm-hmm.
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To, to have these two beautiful babies.
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And, and I just wanna say Andrew, as
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getting to be kind of an observer in
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that rollercoaster ride, I wasn't on
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the rollercoaster with you, thankfully.
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It was fun to watch you guys, but
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the reality of that was your faith.
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I mean, I, I just wanna say publicly,
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like so many conversations about
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faith in those two years, um.
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And watching you guys keep trusting the
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Lord and keep trying to hold onto him,
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even when it looked the bleakest and it
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looked the hardest, or looked the darkest.
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And, uh, that's a beautiful picture
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of, I mean, it makes the dawn and
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the, the light so much brighter having
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walked through that darkness and not
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giving up and not quit and not throwing
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up your hands and said, I'm done.
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You know?
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Uh, and I just wanna affirm that in both
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of you guys, you guys walked in faith and,
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and, and maybe just to speak to this a
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second, um, yeah, I didn't say something I
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didn't say about our little fun adventure.
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Like, I thought we'd have like
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tons of kids, you know, like raise
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a bunch, like that whole full
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quiver of arrows kind of vibe.
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Right.
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You know, and we had Josiah and we're
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off and running and then, you know, Jamie
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almost died in a few different crazy
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things with some miscarriages we had
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and then live or not live, uh, having
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to do an emergency C-section and get the
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whole little baby cheer, you know, who's.
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Like my, what, 18-year-old daughter in
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heaven right now, hanging out, right?
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Like imagine Josh, 18-year-old,
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my daughter, your youth group.
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Whoa.
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But I mean, God's goodness
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and his faithfulness.
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And then, and then the Lord gave us Jed,
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who made up for the whole quiver, right?
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We just shove him in
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that whole thing, right?
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And, uh, all good, but, but
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we don't control everything.
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We don't, we don't always, things don't
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always play out like we anticipate.
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Um, and yet when you're able to
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just trust the Lord, seek first his
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kingdom, his righteousness, right?
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And just do your best to be faithful, like
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what he does is so much more beautiful
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than what you could ever create of your
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own controlling or your own manipulating
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of circumstances and situations.
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You know, uh, your two cute little squirts
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that, uh, are a ton of fun and we're gonna
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get to dedicate here in a few minutes.
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Like, what a beautiful gift from the Lord.
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And had you played it all out
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different ways or try to manipulate
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a million different things, who
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knows where it really ends up.
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God's God is good in what he's
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accomplishing as we trust in Him.
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Everything we went through
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was for a purpose, a reason.
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You, I'm sure everybody's
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heard this saying, you know,
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you wanna make God laugh.
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Tell him your plans.
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I I
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None of this was our plans.
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Yeah.
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And I think, I don't think, I know it
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was God preparing us for our future.
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Um, God allowed us to go
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through those struggles.
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God allowed us to, you know, feel
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that the pain that we felt, um,
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because he was building us up for
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something big, bigger, and better.
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Um, and, you know, we remained
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hopeful all the way up, you know, uh.
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Until her water broke.
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Really.
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I mean, even after that, we were still
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believing, you know, God has this, because
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when Gray at the house, when Gray's
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water broke, it actually went water.
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It was a lot of blood.
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Um, I'm not trying to get graphic, but
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she lost a ton of blood in our house.
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We had to call the ambulance.
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The ambulance came.
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I couldn't ride with her.
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I had to jump in the car and drive.
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Um, she, the babies were not moving
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and her belly, um, it was a very
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traumatic, traumatic, uh, delivery.
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Um, and I just remember driving
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to the hospital, flying, probably
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going 110 miles an hour trying to
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catch up with the ambulance even.
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And I still couldn't.
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But that whole time I was just praying,
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Lord, Lord, please, please, please,
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you know, lay your hands on, on gray.
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And the babies and the doctors.
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And when I walked in that hospital room,
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I didn't know what to expect.
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And I turned that corner and I
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could hear the machines beeping
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and I could hear their heart rates,
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could hear their hearts beeping.
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I thought that they could be dead.
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Um, I thought something
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could be wrong with gray.
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But they were all healthy.
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She was laying there smiling.
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The nurses were so, so, uh, just
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they, the care they gave us.
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I mean, everything that we went
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through and, and I know, I know.
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Giving birth and having kids.
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Everybody has their own, you know, story.
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And, but what I want to share with you
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guys, I guess the main thing is that, you
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know, keep hope, um, keep hope, um, and
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keep your faith, you know, 'cause you may
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be struggling now, but it's temporary.
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Mm-hmm.
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It's not long term.
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Uh, you know, if you stay strong,
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keep your faith, God will reward you.
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Um, I do not feel personally
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like I deserve these babies.
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I was a bad kid.
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Let's just be real.
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I was a bad kid.
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I made a lot of bad decisions
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and I felt like that was God.
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I, I felt like I was being punished.
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Um.
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I felt like I was being punished for
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some of the things that I had done
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for some of the decisions I had made.
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Uh, you know, times in my life
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when I wasn't, you know, as strong
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in my relationship with God and
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I felt like I was being punished
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and that wasn't the case at all.
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God was just setting us
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up for a better situation.
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And now we have this beautiful
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family that I'm so grateful
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for and my birthday's tomorrow.
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Christmas was several days ago, but
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today, this is the real gift for me and
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my wife of this season, is to be able to
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dedicate our two beautiful babies to God
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into this life of living, you know, by
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God's rules and, and, and living on faith.
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Um, and we will not lose hope.
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Yeah.
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We will continue to be hopeful
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because the struggles do not end.
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Um, in fact, with with twins, it
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doesn't get easier with twins.
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In fact, they multiply.
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So, um, you know, we still have
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our, our, our, our struggles.
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But these babies, they just, they,
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they've, they've changed our life
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and, and I can't express and she
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cannot express how grateful and
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thankful we are for this church.
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All the prayers, all the
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gifts, all the cards,
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all the love and support, not only
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from the church, from my family,
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from my friends, um, her whole
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family that's watching on YouTube
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right now, all over the world.
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Um.
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And my grandmothers and uncles and
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aunts that are watching in other states,
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you know, it, it means so much to us
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that we have the support we have mm-hmm.
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From our family and the church and
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our own family and friends at home.
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Um, this place is special.
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This place is special.
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And uh, I feel like this church had a
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lot to do with where we are right now.
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And I'm just so grateful.
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Um, yeah.
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It's an honor to walk this journey
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with you guys and come to this
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day where we get to dedicate
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your kids to the Lord with you.
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That's a, that's a special thing
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for us as your church family.
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'cause we've been on this three
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year journey with you too, you know,
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watching and praying and hoping
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and, and, uh, it's a special thing
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to, to celebrate with you guys what
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God has done in the gift of kids.
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So I think we better just do this thing,
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but unless Gray, you wanna say something?
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Yeah.
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No, eh, I know my mom watching online
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night we talking about the hope.
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Keep hope we No,
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that's beautiful.
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We were gonna use some translation,
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but thankfully there's ai
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Google Translate, right?
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So, uh, that's special stuff to all
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of Gray's family that's watching.
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It's been a fun journey to be a
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part of this with you guys and we
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love you guys and we're excited for
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you and your whole extended family.
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'cause every time you get to visit, it's
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gonna be a party at your house, right?
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It's great stuff.
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Well, Jamie, if you'd
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come join me up here.
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We're going to, uh, move into this
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dedication ceremony and then I
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have a few kind of closing thoughts
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I wanna share with all of us.
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And if you wanna go grab your
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kids, they're kind of the
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main, main stars of this scene.
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So
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we will stand over here.
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That way you guys can, we'll trade
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you spots and that way everybody
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can, from your family can see,
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Hey Jamie, we got work to do.
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Interesting.
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Oh yeah.
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Whatever you need there.
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We got stools.
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Hey.
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There you go.
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There you go.
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All right, let's get everybody up.
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Centered a little bit here.
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Oh, that's kind of pretty, huh?
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That's a good look.
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We'll stay right there.
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Let's just move this stuff.
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And
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how are you guys?
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Yeah, pretty fun, huh?
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It's pretty fun.
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Big time.
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Yeah.
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All right.
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Sorry, I get distracted pretty easily too.
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Um, wow.
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What a special thing to get to
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do together and what a special
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season to get to do it in.
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And
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we got Charlotte and Clementine and they
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are, you guys do, you guys are like pros.
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Have you done this before?
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No.
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Yes.
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Okay.
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Okay, man.
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Alright, well let's move into this
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time of child dedication as we dedicate
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Charlotte and we dedicate Clementine
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to the Lord with their family.
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Yeah.
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As children, we're welcomed
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by Jesus, so they are welcome
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as part of this congregation.
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As a new member of a family in this body,
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they're an integral part of this church.
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They're recipients of its blessings
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and mission and experience.
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Its fellowship, and maybe unfortunately
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it's traditions as well as parents
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bring their little ones in.
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Presentation to the Lord.
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We covenant as a congregation to
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surround the children and their family
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with the support of the people of God.
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In this dedication today, parents publicly
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commit themselves to provide a home in
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which their children will grow up in the
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nurture and admonition of the Lord and
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where they will learn of Christ and his
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ways and be encouraged to receive him
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as their own personal Lord and Savior.
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Her parents are the child's primary
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pastor and greatest influence
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for good and righteousness.
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Proverbs 22, 6 says, train a child in
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the way she should go, and when she
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is old, she will not depart from it.
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Well, Andrew and Gray, God has
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been gracious to you in giving
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you these precious gifts.
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Yeah, that is really distracting, huh?
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That's a really good smile you got going.
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I like that.
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Do you now present your children
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before God in dedication to him?
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If so, answer.
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We do.
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We do.
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We do.
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Okay.
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Is it your purpose to bring up Clementine
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and Charlotte in the ways of the Lord?
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If so, answer It is.
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It is 100.
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Percent.
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Well that that's an add on.
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I like that.
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That's good.
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Will the two of you continue to
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love each other as the chi, as these
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children God has given you, so that
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they will experience the meaning of
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faith and hope and trust and grace
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and everything else Jesus offers?
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If so, answer, we will.
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We'll.
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We'll and will you endeavor to
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provide a Christian home and
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atmosphere for each of your children?
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Will you teach them in the Christian faith
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and way surrounding them with Christian
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influences through the church and other
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relationships and encourage them to their
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own individual faith in Jesus Christ?
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If so, answer With God's help, we will.
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With God's help, we will.
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Very good.
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Alright, and congregation, I'm gonna
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invite you symbolically to stand.
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As a covenant with Andrew and Gray, and
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our commitment to support and to love and
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to encourage on this amazing journey of
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faith with Charlotte and with Clementine.
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And you might as well, you know what?
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You could probably be seated if you want
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to now, otherwise you're not able to
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see all these little guys in the back.
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But we see all that.
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You see those guys all standing
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with you in affirmation.
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Alright, very good.
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You, you may be seated.
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And now let's, let's start.
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What do you think?
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Do you wanna go first, Charlotte?
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All right, Charlotte.
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Here we go, kiddo.
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All right, how are you?
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I got you on the wrong side
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with this microphone, huh?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Actually I don't need that.
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We're just gonna pray and dedicate
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this little squirt to Jesus.
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This is really like one of my favorite
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things we get to do around here.
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You know what I mean?
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All the moms always hog the babies.
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Do you notice that all the, all
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the grandmas out there, they're
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like, oh, let me hold her.
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Let me, you know, but like I can make
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this last for a good half hour here.
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Sure.
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Alright, well Charlotte, this day
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we dedicate you to God that all
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the efforts of mom and dad and your
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church family will lead you to your
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own relationship with Jesus Christ.
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Let's pray.
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Lord Jesus, thank you
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so much for Charlotte.
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Thank you for her love that she brings
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into her home with her mom and dad.
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Thank you for the sister Lord, that
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she is gonna be in big, amazing ways.
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Thank you for her little heart, God.
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And we pray that you would guide and
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direct her all the days of her life, that
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you would protect her, that you would
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surround her with your spirit and with
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your love, and that you would draw her.
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Deeper and deeper into a amazing
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relationship with her love
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or loving Heavenly Father.
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This day.
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God, we dedicate her to you.
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In the name of the Father and
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the Son and the Holy Spirit.
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Amen.
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All right, I'll give you back to Mom.
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Oh, great job.
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Great.
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Great grip, huh?
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All right, I'm here, Clementine.
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How are you?
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Squirt.
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All right.
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How are ya?
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Yeah, those glasses look fun.
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Huh?
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Grab them.
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Not good.
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Precious little squirt.
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I'm tell you, we should
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get another one of these.
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You know what I mean?
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No.
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Okay, so not, definitely not.
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Alright.
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Give it a year, Annie.
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Okay?
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Yeah.
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Clementine.
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You're a precious little lady.
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Isn't that.
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Yeah, well, God has big plans for both
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of you girls and for your mom and dad,
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and it's a privilege for us to get to
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pray and dedicate you to Jesus today.
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So Clementine today, we dedicate
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you to God that all the efforts of
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mom and dad and your church family,
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and all the surrounding friends and
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family that are part of your life
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will help lead you in faith and into
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your own relationship with Jesus.
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'cause He loves you so much.
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Lord Jesus.
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Thank you for this precious little girl.
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Thank you for the love that she brings.
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Thank you for the opportunity, Lord
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to be a part of her amazing family
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that you've built and put together.
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And God we pray over Clementine
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that you would guide and direct
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her all the days of her life.
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That you would blaze the trail before
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her, that you would watch over her
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coming and going, and every step,
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Lord, that you would lead her in
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paths of righteousness and draw her to
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you, protect her and watch over her.
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And God that you would be a
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constant present comfort and hope,
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and encouragement in her life.
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All the days on this earth that you
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give her to shine bright for you.
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Jesus, we dedicate her to you.
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In the name of the Father and
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the Son and the Holy Spirit.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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We should hang out more like this, huh?
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I don't think I wanna
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give you back to Dad.
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This is kind of fun.
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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I gotta see that.
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Look.
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Maybe it's time, dad.
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All right.
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Well, you guys can stand right here
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for one moment, and I want to just
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say a couple little closing thoughts.
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Baby dedication.
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This special ceremony, it is about
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dedicating our children to the Lord,
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but really at its heart, it's also about
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parents being dedicated to the task
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of raising God's sons and daughters.
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And scripture tells us in Deuteronomy
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six, six through seven, something really
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important and it's addressed to the
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leaders of the households dads, but it
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applies to moms and everybody in between.
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These commandments that I give you
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today are to be upon your heart.
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Impress them on your children.
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Impress them.
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That doesn't mean press them.
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It means draw them into a desire to know
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and to learn and to grow, share, and
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love, and encouragement, and hope these
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principles and commandments of the Lord.
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You're supposed to talk about
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'em when you sit at home.
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I know most of us are busy on our
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phones, or we're texting, or we're
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playing video games, or we're
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watching tv, but we're supposed to
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be talking about the commandments
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of the Lord when we're at our homes.
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Oh, and also when we walk along the
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road, when we're in transport, when
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we're going places, so home or not home.
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We're also supposed to, when we lie
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down and when we get up, talk with
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our children, impress upon them
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the, the direction, the wisdom,
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the instruction of the Lord.
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It's kind of clear, right?
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If you're at home or if you're not,
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if you're laying down or if you're
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not, there's really nothing left
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to like be the area where we just
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avoid talking, avoid impressing,
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avoid teaching and instructing.
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Train up a child in the way
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she should go, and when she's
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old, she won't depart from it.
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This is a challenge, Andrew and Gray
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that I wanna share with you, but church
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family, I want to share it with you as
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parents and I wanna share it with you
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as surrogate moms and dads and aunts and
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uncles and cousins, because the family
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of God is not designed to be isolated.
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People watching a show, it's family,
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which means we're all part and we're all
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invested together so that our children
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can walk and the truth and know who
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Jesus is and experience all the amazing
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adventures that God has in store for them.
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So amazing.
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Yeah.
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Amen.
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Huh?
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You guys done no more talking for me.
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I got it.
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Well, let's pray and we'll
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get y'all outta here.
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You guys have been very patient
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on this holiday, mid Christmas,
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new Year's morning, Lord Jesus.
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Thank you.
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For loving us.
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Thank you for inviting us to be sons and
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daughters in your kingdom adopting us
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and loving us, and drawing us to you.
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God, thank you for the gift
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of getting to be a parent.
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We live in a society that really
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knocks it and says it's a hindrance,
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but God, there is no greater gift.
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Nothing more meaningful and
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purposeful than getting to experience
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being a dad or being a mom.
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In this world that you've created, you're
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a heavenly Father, the Heavenly Father,
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and you entrust parenting to us, tasked
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with raising your sons and daughters.
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God, I pray over Andrew and Gray that you
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would bless them, that you would guide and
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you would direct them, that you would give
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them strength and encouragement, and hope
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and comfort, support, wisdom, discernment
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in every area as they walk in life with
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these little precious daughters of theirs.
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And God, I pray, to help us as a
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congregation to come alongside them,
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offering support and encouragement
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and guidance and help as well.
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And God, I pray over all of us, all of
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our families, all the children you've
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entrusted to us, all the relationships
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that you've put us in, may we be a light
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that shines brightly, giving hope and
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encouragement and sharing your love.
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Thank you for this morning.
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Thank you for this special time together.
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And God, I pray you'd help us
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to walk in amazing love towards
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others in the week ahead.
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In Jesus' name, amen.