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Wisdom in the Desert (Week 6): Humility - The Way Up is Down

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  1. Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not

  2. count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied

  3. himself by taking the form of a servant.

  4. Being the being born in the likeliness of men and being

  5. found in human form, he humbled Himself by becoming obedient to

  6. the point of death. Holy Spirit, help me even death

  7. on the cross. Therefore God has highly exalted

  8. him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so the

  9. name of Jesus. Every knee should bow in heaven,

  10. on earth and under the earth, and every tongue should confess

  11. that Jesus Christ is Lord and to glory of God the Father.

  12. I want to begin by talking about one of the best movies ever.

  13. My wife and I recently watched through all of the Indiana Jones

  14. movies. Anybody.

  15. Yeah. OK.

  16. I hear some. I hear some chatter out there.

  17. And we were watching through Indiana Jones Three.

  18. I think it's the Last Crusade. And as always, Indy finds

  19. himself in some temple that has some obstacles, and he has to

  20. pass three tests in order to reach the Holy Grail.

  21. Pretty cool. Now, the first Test is something

  22. called the Breath of God. It's this like mysterious fog

  23. that kills you if you don't know what you're doing.

  24. And knowing that failure means certain death, Indy only has one

  25. clue. And the clue is only the

  26. penitent man shall pass. Kind of interesting, right?

  27. And so they're trying to figure out this clue.

  28. The clock is ticking. He's walking into this fog.

  29. He's knows that he could die at any moment.

  30. And he's trying to figure out this Riddle that only the

  31. penitent man shall pass, only the minute penitent man shall

  32. pass. And then he says, in this final

  33. moment, the penitent man is humble before God.

  34. And they says, the penitent man kneels before God and he kneels

  35. at just the right moment. These giant like circular saw

  36. blades go right over his head, right?

  37. And it's this crazy moment where he rolls out of the way because

  38. he dropped to his knees in humility.

  39. He nearly misses, nearly misses these saw blades, which I don't

  40. know how they got those in an ancient temple, but that's

  41. beside the point, right? And he escaped death by a

  42. whisker. And this moment is like this,

  43. this great moment of cinematic flair, you know?

  44. But it also has a profound message.

  45. You see, Indiana Jones stumbles across an important truth that's

  46. at the heart of the Bible, which is that following Jesus starts

  47. with humility. It starts with being willing to

  48. go to your knees in penitence, which is like another word for

  49. being repentant, humble, aware of our sins.

  50. See, the more we grow in revelation of God, the more we

  51. find ourselves dropping to our knees in worship.

  52. The only way through the tunnels and the twists of our lives is

  53. through humility. I don't know if you've noticed,

  54. but in my opinion, humility is not a not a trait that we widely

  55. see in our culture. By and large, it's not normally

  56. celebrated in our culture. In fact, I think it's becoming

  57. less and less of a virtue in our culture.

  58. We see success equals celebrity, success equals influence,

  59. gaining attention or notoriety or maybe even advancing in your

  60. field, right. In the corporate world, for

  61. instance, often times the goal is to outperform the person next

  62. to you to climb the corporate ladder.

  63. Maybe you've heard or to be smarter, to be more marketable.

  64. Like think about the the just the, the, the corporate resume.

  65. You're trying to put on paper how awesome you are so that

  66. people will will hire you. Isn't that an interesting

  67. concept? And again, there's nothing like

  68. necessarily all wrong with that or all bad with that.

  69. But it's it's interesting that our culture seems to value power

  70. over humility. Take a look at our our world

  71. leaders today. Like even in the last 10 years,

  72. would we say that our world leaders are marked by meekness

  73. and by humility, right. As if that's a virtue.

  74. Most people would say probably not.

  75. We just don't see it as much anymore.

  76. So the question for us today is how can you and I, as Christ

  77. followers learn to grow in humility?

  78. And how can we grow in humility without getting stuck in the

  79. cycles of like shame and self defeat and oh, everyone else is

  80. better than me and I'm I'm no good.

  81. What does godly humility actually look like?

  82. Well, today we are continuing in our sermon series.

  83. It's called Wisdom in the Desert.

  84. And so for the 40 days leading up to Easter, we've been

  85. practicing what's called Lent in church history.

  86. In the sermon series is a look at some of the desert fathers

  87. and mothers. Those, this was this radical

  88. group of Christians in the in the 3rd and 4th century.

  89. And they went off into the desert, literally out of the

  90. city, out of the hustle in order to find God and do spiritual

  91. warfare. And part of what we see with

  92. these desert fathers and mothers is that their their lives were

  93. marked by obscurity and by humility.

  94. They lived lives of secrecy out in the desert as best as they

  95. could. There's this one quote by a man

  96. named Anthony the Great, and he writes this.

  97. He says, I saw the snares that the enemy spreads out over the

  98. world. And I said, groaning, what can

  99. get through from such snares? Then I heard a voice saying to

  100. me, humility. That sounds very similar to the

  101. Indiana Jones quote, Right, Right.

  102. The penitent man shall pass. Basically Saint Anthony, he's

  103. looking around at the world and he's saying, man, it seems like

  104. the devil's just laid so many traps, so many different

  105. distractions, so many different vices, so many things that catch

  106. our attention and draw our focus away from God.

  107. He, he's almost groaning. He's saying how can anyone

  108. survive? How can anyone get through all

  109. of these snares that are out there?

  110. And he says, I heard a voice, It's through humility.

  111. It's the way of Jesus. There's another famous man, his

  112. name was the Apostle Paul, and he wrote most of the new or a

  113. lot of the New Testament. And he also went on a journey

  114. not only to the deserts of Arabia, but we see throughout

  115. Scripture that Paul actually went on a journey of humility.

  116. You see, Paul initially was a religious leader.

  117. He had the pedigree, he had the notoriety, he was on the up and

  118. up. But then he met Jesus Christ and

  119. he gave his life over to Jesus. And it's interesting when you

  120. when you read Paul's words over the course of time, it seems as

  121. if his attitude about himself changes.

  122. For instance, he writes early on that he calls himself the least

  123. of all the apostles. OK, then a few years later he

  124. calls himself the least of all the Saints.

  125. So he goes from like being the least of like the apostles, just

  126. kind of like a good thing. But then he says, no, no, no,

  127. I'm, I'm the least of all the Saints.

  128. Couple years later he says I'm the chief of all sinners, right?

  129. Like it doesn't get lower than that, right?

  130. So isn't that interesting that even with the apostle Paul, we

  131. see him progressively becoming more and more humble, at least

  132. apparently in the way that he describes himself.

  133. He was on a journey towards Christlikeness and he wrote

  134. about humility to this church in a city called Philippi, which is

  135. where we get the New Testament book Philippians.

  136. Does that make sense? So Paul's writing to a group of

  137. people in Philippi, the Philippians.

  138. And that's where we're going to be today if you want to turn

  139. there. OK, Philippians is in the New

  140. Testament. So maybe three 3/4 of the way

  141. through your Bibles, if you want to find that short little book,

  142. take a take a moment to find that.

  143. We always encourage physical Bibles.

  144. If you're able to bring, it'll be on the screens as well.

  145. If you don't have them today, we just try and get away from our

  146. phones as much as we can because they're distracting and

  147. addicting, right? And so we encourage that.

  148. But Philippians chapter 2, if you can find that Philippians

    Philippians 2 chapter mention Philippians 2:5

  149. chapter 2, verse 5, the city of Philippi was founded by a man

  150. named Philip the Second of Macedon.

  151. He was this kind of great king like ruler who swept into the

  152. aid of the city. It helped that that city was

  153. flush with gold and silver. So he was glad to kind of jump

  154. in and help and he named the city after himself.

  155. But what we see here in Philippians 2 is Paul's calling

  156. people to live out in humility. And what this section of

  157. Scripture is specifically in six through 11, it's called the

  158. Christ hymn. This is likely, this is what

  159. have likely been like a worship song or a hymn that would have

  160. circulated the early church, some scholars believe as early

  161. as 30 to 40 AD. And what's remarkable is that

  162. even though this is really, really early, really close to

  163. the death and resurrection of Jesus, we see there's a really

  164. well formed and robust Christology.

  165. In other words, they had a really accurate and thorough

  166. picture of who Christ was even at an early time.

  167. This is important for things like apologetics and defending

  168. the faith. We see that they have a fully

  169. formed picture of who God was and who Jesus was before even

  170. time and how he came to earth. And we'll read it here in verse

  171. 5. Paul writes this in your

  172. relationships with one another have the same mindset as Christ

  173. Jesus, who being in the very nature God did not consider

  174. equality with God something to be used to his own advantage.

  175. So Paul is speaking to the group in Philippi, speaking to the

  176. Philippians and saying in with your attitudes with one another.

  177. Show humility. Well, what kind of humility?

  178. The kind of humility that Christ himself showed us.

  179. It's interesting here that we see that Jesus says did not

  180. consider equality with God something to be used to his own

  181. advantage. Other translations say he did

  182. not consider equality with God something to be grasped.

  183. In the Greek this is idea of something to be like snatched or

  184. something to be taken to be used to his own advantage.

  185. In other words, even though Jesus was equal with God the

  186. Father, he did not use it for his own advantage.

  187. Some scholars call back to Adam and Eve because in Genesis

    Genesis 3 chapter mention

  188. chapter 3 we see that God had previously previously made all

  189. things good in the garden. But then the deceiver Satan

  190. comes in and he tries to tempt Adam and Eve to disobey God.

  191. And what is the line that he tells them?

  192. Satan looks at this couple and he says you will be like God.

  193. That's the temptation, you will be like God.

  194. And So what does it say? It says they took the apple.

  195. They took something that wasn't theirs.

  196. Isn't it interesting that even we have terms when it comes to

  197. taking power? We say that someone, we maybe

  198. say someone took control or they seized power.

  199. There's grabbing language when it comes to power.

  200. What we see here is that Adam and Eve wanted to be like God.

  201. They're like, there's something missing.

  202. There's something in me that I don't have.

  203. I want to be like God. And So what do they do?

  204. They take. What we see here with Jesus is

  205. that even though he had equality with God, he refused to take it

  206. for his own advantage. Does that make sense?

  207. We see his humility being lived out here.

  208. So what does Jesus do instead? Rather than seizing power for

  209. himself? Verse 7, it says rather he made

  210. himself nothing. By taking the very nature of a

  211. servant being made in human likeness and being found in

  212. appearance as a man, He humbled himself.

  213. Wow. Jesus was willing to humble

  214. himself. This is the idea found in the

  215. Greek called canosis. It's the idea of empty emptying,

  216. emptying himself out or pouring himself out for others.

  217. Can you imagine just a moment? Let's let's pause for just a

  218. moment. Imagine that you're Jesus before

  219. the creation of the universe. So you're hanging out with the

  220. Father, you're hanging out the Holy Spirit and you're like, all

  221. right, how are we going to map this whole universe out?

  222. Well, let's have some like quantum theory in here.

  223. Let's invent some physics there. Let's figure out how this whole

  224. gravity thing and this the whole dark matter is going to work.

  225. Oh, lights going to be pretty important.

  226. Let's figure out how light will will interact with everything.

  227. Oh, here, let's create this earth and the perfect placement

  228. in the universe. So imagine you're in that that

  229. realm. You have all power, all

  230. authority. You're inventing things like

  231. gravity and black holes, and then you come down to become a

  232. baby. Imagine that.

  233. Yeah, I like that is unfathomable to me.

  234. The descent from going to on high, creating all of the

  235. universe, to coming way down to becoming an infant.

  236. You see, Jesus was tempted in every way, like us as human

  237. beings. So that thing that you're going

  238. through right now, that sin that you're tempted with, that

  239. struggle, Scripture says that Jesus knows what it's like.

  240. Jesus experienced everything from from being hot in the

  241. desert to being cold at night. I would imagine he went from

  242. everything from exhaustion to indigestion, right?

  243. Like he was fully human and he was fully God.

  244. And when Jesus was in the wilderness, Satan tempted him

  245. with power and control, just like Adam and Eve.

  246. He said, I'm going to give you all the kingdoms of the world.

  247. If you just, you know, you know, just bow down and worship me.

  248. Jesus refused. Why?

  249. Because Jesus was called by God to take a different route to

  250. glory. This is what it says in verse

  251. 28. By becoming obedient to death,

  252. even death on a cross. You see, Jesus was being

  253. obedient to the Father's will that He should come and live a

  254. perfect life for you and for me. He was being obedient to the

  255. Father, not by grasping power in the kingdoms of this world that

  256. were offered to Him, but He was obedient to the Father by taking

  257. the low road to the cross. Jesus was willing to die for you

  258. and for me, and he did it to take your sins upon himself.

  259. All the wrongdoing you've ever done, all the shame you've ever

  260. felt, all the death you ever experienced, Jesus was willing

  261. to take that upon himself in his own body, on the cross for you

  262. because he loved you that much. And by doing that, he glorified

  263. the Father out of perfect obedience.

  264. This is the story of the Kingdom.

  265. This is the story of Jesus. You see, the first Adam failed

  266. to obey God by taking the power in order to be like him.

  267. But Jesus obeyed God not by taking equality, but by being

  268. willing to be lowered on a cross.

  269. Adam tried to elevate up, but Jesus lowered down.

  270. In other words, the first Adam grasped for power, the second

  271. Adam laid it down. That's the story of Jesus.

  272. There was this popular activity. I imagine it was probably

  273. popular in like the 50s, sixties, 70s.

  274. It was called limbo. Does anyone know what limbo is

  275. where you grab a bar and you try and get under the bar, right?

  276. Any, any older folks? Was this popular in like the

  277. 50s, sixties? OK, they're all raising their

  278. hand. I like to imagine this like

  279. groovy disco party where people are doing the limbo.

  280. I don't know if that's ever happened, but I like to picture

  281. it right? And there's this kind of,

  282. there's this kind of chant that goes along with limbo.

  283. How low can you go? Stay with me.

  284. How low can you go one more time?

  285. How low can you go? You're with me.

  286. And the idea is that the person who can go the lowest is the

  287. winner. This is like the world record

  288. holder, by the way, with Limbo. You should go watch videos of

  289. her. It is striking the way she can

  290. move across that. And that it is, it's a bit

  291. uncomfortable, quite quite honestly.

  292. But my point in bringing this up is to say, when it comes to

  293. limbo, the person who can go the lowest is actually the winner.

  294. Does that make sense? The person who's willing to

  295. lower themselves as much as they can is the person who is

  296. elevated to greatness. And Jesus was willing to go

  297. lower than any of us have ever seen.

  298. Jesus went from equality to emptying to embodying.

  299. Jesus went as low as you can possibly go.

  300. Jesus was willing to go lower. Jesus Christ was the in the very

  301. nature. He was the very nature of God,

  302. the same essence, but he was willing to go lower.

  303. He did not consider equality with God something to be used

  304. lower. He made himself nothing lower by

  305. taking on the very nature of a servant lower.

  306. He was made in human likeness as an appearance of a man.

  307. Lower, by becoming obedient to death, even death on a cross,

  308. Jesus was willing to go lower. He went as low as you can go.

  309. Nobody, nobody has descended further than Jesus himself.

  310. He went from the highest of highs to the lowest of lows.

  311. He went from the the the spiritual realm and the

  312. heavenlies hovering over all of the universe in the beginning of

  313. time. And you came all the way down

  314. and what to wear to the realm of the dead in the ground.

  315. That is how far Jesus was willing to come for us.

  316. That is how far love was willing to travel for you and for me.

  317. There's this moment in the gospels where James and John are

  318. wanting power and so their their mom gets involved.

  319. Maybe you're familiar with the story and.

  320. The mom is looking after her boy.

  321. She see that sees that this Jesus is on the on the rise.

  322. We he they believe that this Jesus is bringing in a new

  323. Kingdom. And so mom is is looking after

  324. her son. She wants the best for them.

  325. She wants to know that they're going to be taken care of.

  326. And so she approaches Jesus and she says, grant one of these two

  327. sons of mine that they may sit on your right and the other at

  328. your left in the Kingdom. She wants greatness for her sons

  329. if there's going to be a cost. And the sons, James and John,

  330. they're, they're looking at Jesus and they're saying, hey,

  331. can we be great too? We want to be great.

  332. It's a question we all want, question we all ask.

  333. Jesus looks at there was a request for greatness and it

  334. responds with a pretty simple question.

  335. He says, I see it. I see that you want greatness.

  336. I see that you want to be elevated.

  337. But can you drink the cup? Can you drink the cup?

  338. The cup throughout Scripture was was one's divinely appointed

  339. destiny either for great blessing or for great curse.

  340. And here when Jesus is talking about the cup, what he's talking

  341. about is the is the cross, the fact that he was divinely

  342. appointed to go and suffer and die for humanity.

  343. And so when, when you know, James and John are hearing this,

  344. there may be thinking of like David and Goliath, they're

  345. thinking, yeah, I'm ready to go to war for you, Jesus.

  346. I'm ready to take on the bad guy and, and, and receive success

  347. and acclaim and notoriety. And what they didn't understand

  348. is that the cup that Jesus was destined for was the cross.

  349. It was the cup of being a servant, the cup of being a

  350. slave. You see, the Kingdom values are

  351. inverted with the ways of the world.

  352. In the Kingdom, the way up is down.

  353. In the Kingdom, the way up is actually by going lower.

  354. Matthew 2028. The Son of Man did not come to

  355. be served, but to serve in some way or another, in some facet of

  356. our lives or another. We all want to be great.

  357. I think especially as men, we want to achieve and we want to

  358. be seen and we want to be known and, and it's, it's, it's kind

  359. of a universal thing for all of us, I think.

  360. And we go about it many ways. Maybe we try to gain followers

  361. or achieve at work or even just like trying to maximize your

  362. life, right? I'm going to be the fittest I

  363. can possibly be. I'm going to improve my mental

  364. health. I'm going to do all the things

  365. and live my best life. And again, that's not all bad,

  366. but it's how we're actually going about and how we're trying

  367. to achieve greatness. So for for you and for me, it's,

  368. it's not that you want to be great or you want to be an

  369. achiever, you want to have notoriety.

  370. But the question that we must ask is, am I willing to drink

  371. the cup? Am I really willing to go where

  372. Jesus went? Am I willing to follow his

  373. model, His descent, even to the place of the cross?

  374. Following Jesus always costs us something.

  375. There is always a cost to discipleship.

  376. And every single day we have to just be willing to ask ourself,

  377. am I really willing to follow Jesus there?

  378. Am I really willing to give it up?

  379. Man, I feel like 95% of the Christian life is just learning

  380. how to surrender. Just more and more and more

  381. learning how to surrender. You take something on, you give

  382. it. You get a little something in

  383. life. Life throws you some some

  384. blessing and it's just learning how to surrender it back down at

  385. the feet of Jesus. This is not easy, but it's

  386. necessary. Are you willing to drink the

  387. cup? When we see here in Philippians

  388. 2 with this Christ hymn, see that we see that Jesus was

  389. willing to be emptied so that he could be exalted.

  390. Verse 9. Philippians 2.

  391. Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the

  392. name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every

  393. knee should bow in heaven and on earth and under the earth, in

  394. every tongue acknowledged that Jesus Christ is Lord to the

  395. glory of God the Father. Paul uses the language that he

  396. exalted him to the highest place in the Greek.

  397. It's almost as if Paul is saying that that God super exalted

  398. Jesus to the highest place. What we see in this trajectory

  399. of Jesus that we see his descent and we see his exaltation with

  400. Jesus, nobody has descended lower and nobody has ascended

  401. higher. We worship a humble God.

  402. For most world religions out there, those two words, a humble

  403. God, those are an oxymoron. Those are a contradiction.

  404. Those two things do not go side by side.

  405. Those two words next to each other do not compete A compute a

  406. humble God. It's only in Jesus Christ that

  407. we see the perfect model of obedience to the Father by being

  408. willing to be humbled so that God can do the exalting.

  409. It's interesting here that the city of Philippi was named after

  410. Philip the Second because the exact same year that Philip the

  411. Second named the city Philippi, he had a son.

  412. Do you want to know who that son was?

  413. Alexander the Great, And he lived in that same region.

  414. Isn't it interesting that this, this great king had a great son

  415. in the city called Philippi, the city with greatness in the name.

  416. And yet Paul is looking at the group of people living in the

  417. city with greatness all around them, and he's saying have the

  418. same mindset as Christ. Lower.

  419. Lower. The call to the Philippians is

  420. the call to you and me today. We have to be willing to go

  421. lower just like Jesus. So how can we do this in our

  422. age? How can we live this out and our

  423. culture where everything is about achievement and greatness

  424. and influence and followers, how do we actually model the

  425. humility of Christ in our day-to-day life in a world where

  426. it just seems impossible at times?

  427. I want to give you really three really, really quick things as

  428. we begin to conclude #1 is that humility is cultivated first and

  429. foremost from identity. You can write that down.

  430. Humility is cultivated from identity.

  431. I believe part of the problem with Adam and Eve is that they

  432. had an identity crisis. They said, wait, wait, wait.

  433. We're we're not like God. There's something more that is

  434. missing in ourselves. And Satan knew that.

  435. They came in and he came in with that deception and said, you'll

  436. be like God. You can be like him.

  437. They had an identity crisis because what it says in Genesis,

  438. what they didn't realize or what they failed to remember was that

  439. when God made man and woman, it says that they made them.

  440. He made them in His own image. In other words, He made them in

  441. the Imago day. You see, what Adam and Eve

  442. failed to realize is that they already were like God.

  443. They didn't need anything else because God had already made

  444. them with intrinsic worth. He made them in perfect

  445. relationship. Their identity was meant to be

  446. rooted in Him. They had a crisis of identity

  447. and so their their temptation is our temptation.

  448. They tried to take and they tried to grab and it LED them to

  449. disobedience. You see, if we don't know who we

  450. are, we will always try to measure up to others.

  451. If we don't have a strong sense of self in Christ, we will

  452. always try to elevate ourselves and try and find our place in

  453. the world. We will always be lost.

  454. And when Jesus started his ministry, there was these words

  455. spoken over him, where God the Father during the baptism said,

  456. this is my Son with whom I am well pleased.

  457. And these words of identity were spoken over Jesus and they

  458. propelled him into ministry. You see, Jesus never had a

  459. confidence issue. Jesus never had an identity

  460. issue. Why?

  461. Because he knew the words that the Father had spoken over him.

  462. This is my son with whom I'm well pleased.

  463. Jesus never had the crisis of of identities and we have them in

  464. excess. Would you agree?

  465. I, I don't know about you, but I have confidence issues all the

  466. time. I feel insecure all the time.

  467. There's this phrase going around called, I think it's called male

  468. fragility. You ever heard that phrase?

  469. I, I don't exactly know what it means, but whatever it is, I

  470. think I got it OK. I think it has something to do

  471. with ego and trying to puff yourself up and trying to, you

  472. know, have this sort of overconfidence, right?

  473. I'm pretty sure I've got it. Men, you probably got it too.

  474. And whatever the version of female fragility is, ladies, you

  475. probably have it too. The reality is this, we're all

  476. insecure to some degree or another.

  477. We all lack confidence. We all try to puff ourselves up.

  478. We're all trying to seek our place in this world.

  479. And for so many of us, I think we swing from the two extremes.

  480. We swing from the extreme of insecurity and feeling down on

  481. ourselves and feeling worthless. Or we swing to the other extreme

  482. of just this false sense of self in this overconfidence.

  483. And as I've got it all together and I need to puff myself up and

  484. rather than swinging back and forth between these two, what if

  485. instead we were rooted and established in our loving

  486. identity in Christ Jesus? What if instead we could hear

  487. the Father's voice speaking over us that he is pleased with us?

  488. What if we could step into our identity that we are more than

  489. conquerors in Christ, That we are Co heirs with Jesus, That we

  490. are fully known and fully loved by our Heavenly Father.

  491. There are so many times even in this last week where I made

  492. mistakes and I made the same mistake twice and it was

  493. embarrassing and I had to humble myself.

  494. And I just had this thought of like what is wrong with me?

  495. Why can't I seem to get it figured out?

  496. And then these moments where I'm tempted to just go into

  497. insecurity, God reminds me of my identity.

  498. Louis had this line in Mere Christianity.

  499. He says that do not imagine that if you meet a really humble man,

  500. I'm just going to actually read it over here.

  501. He says do not imagine that if you meet a really humble man, he

  502. will be what most people call humble nowadays.

  503. He will not be thinking about humility.

  504. He will not be thinking about himself at all.

  505. In other words, humility is not thinking less of yourself, it's

  506. just thinking of yourself less. So many people get this wrong.

  507. They think, oh, I need to be humble.

  508. So I'm just need to kind of live in this place of insecurity and

  509. fear and not thinking too highly of myself.

  510. But rather humility is just not thinking of yourself as much.

  511. Otherwise, we just have a false humility #2 humility is living a

  512. cruciform lifestyle. By cruciform I just mean like a

  513. cross shaped lifestyle. This is a lifestyle marked by

  514. self sacrifice and self-service to others.

  515. The emphasis in Philippians 2 is the cross and Jesus being

  516. obedient to his call. You see, the cross isn't just

  517. the way to life. The cross is a way of life.

  518. The cross is a, is a lifestyle for you and for me to sacrifice

  519. ourselves more and more for others.

  520. Tim Keller wrote a book by the name of the freedom of self

  521. forgetfulness. And it's pretty rare that like

  522. just the title of a book could change your life if you lived it

  523. out right. This is one of them, the freedom

  524. of self forgetfulness. And he has this incredible line,

  525. super convicting for me. He says true gospel humility

  526. means I stop connecting every experience and every

  527. conversation with myself. Anyone else do that?

  528. Every experience, every conversation, I somehow find a

  529. way to bring it back to me. The point is this gospel

  530. humility is a willing death to self absorption.

  531. It's a willing death to self preoccupation.

  532. It's a willing death to ego. How many of us would agree that

  533. our culture desperately needs a death to ego?

  534. Our leaders desperately need a death to ego.

  535. And so we pray for them. We pray for them eagerly, that

  536. there would be a spirit of humility for whoever's in the

  537. president now to whoever's next, to whoever's next, we pray for

  538. them. The goal is an influence.

  539. The goal is resemblance to Jesus.

  540. The goal is to become like him together.

  541. Finally, as I wrap up, I'm going to invite the team back,

  542. forward. Finally, Humility is magnifying

  543. God becoming more and more aware of His Holiness to realize where

  544. and who we are. Humility is being made aware of

  545. our brokenness and our sinfulness and our need of

  546. Jesus, and then thrusting ourselves into His arms and into

  547. His love. You see, humility is not just

  548. about us stooping down and lowering ourselves to a level of

  549. insecurity, but rather it's standing at our full height and

  550. realizing that God is even taller.

  551. He's even greater. He is magnificent and he is

  552. above all things. It's standing on our full height

  553. with arms raised high and realizing God, you are so much

  554. bigger than I could ever be, knowing our proper place that he

  555. is God and we are not. And so as we conclude, I just

  556. want to ask you, where are you tempted to self promote?

  557. Where are you tempted, whether it's on LinkedIn, Instagram,

  558. your dating app, your family, your friend group, whatever it

  559. may be, your school, where are you tempted to elevate yourself

  560. and how can you choose instead to honor others above yourself?

  561. Romans 12/10 says be devoted to one another and love, honor one

  562. another above yourselves. There are so many times as a

  563. pastor with the spotlight and the stage and planting a church

  564. where, you know, I get all these Pats on the backs and

  565. congratulations and all of that. And there's a temptation in that

  566. sometimes to, to, to allow my press clippings to go to my

  567. head. Sometimes there's temptations to

  568. allow my ego to, to, to go off and running.

  569. But the humble reality is this. I'd be nothing without the grace

  570. of God. This church wouldn't exist

  571. without the people humbly serving day in and day out, the

  572. people who are coming and setting up and tearing down

  573. every single week, the people who are preparing communion

  574. today and greeting people and people who are pouring out hours

  575. and hours and hours. And so I just want to take a

  576. moment to honour you all. I love this church and I love

  577. seeing how you guys serve and I love seeing how you pour out for

  578. the Kingdom. And it's humbling for me.

  579. And it's, it's such a privilege to see that this is about a

  580. Kingdom. And I honor you guys in that.

  581. So we have a few practices for you.

  582. These are invitations. These are not, you know, do them

  583. or else you're a bad Christian or anything like that, OK?

  584. They're just some invitations so that we can practice and

  585. cultivate a life of humility #1 is maybe you just want to spend

  586. some time in God's presence and allow Him to to show you all

  587. those areas of brokenness and sinfulness and and allow His

  588. love to meet you in those areas. Maybe for you it's asking the

  589. simple question, where am I working to gain the approval of

  590. others and just spending some time with God in that question.

  591. Maybe this week you want to choose to embrace the mundane as

  592. meaningful. Maybe this week as you're, you

  593. know, dealing with your third blowout and your kids diaper, or

  594. you know that the house is a mess again, or the dishes are

  595. piling up, find meaning in those mundane activities.

  596. Allow those activities to just humble you.

  597. Find contentment in them. And thank God and realize that

  598. even Jesus came to serve. So as you serve your families

  599. and as you serve your children, as you serve whoever, find

  600. contentment, find meaning in that mundane entity.

  601. Maybe for you it's as practical as choosing a bad parking spot

  602. instead of the best parking spot, or cleaning a toilet

  603. without being noticed, right? Finding some way to serve in

  604. obscurity, serve in secrecy. Or finally, maybe you want to

  605. choose to associate with the lowly, spending time and

  606. offering yourself to someone who advances your cause in no way

  607. whatsoever, but you choose to just be with them anyway and

  608. love them. Realizing that they are made in

  609. the image of God too, and they have something to teach you and

  610. offer you as well. And if you do all these things,

  611. don't go tell people about it. Forget it.

  612. Enjoy the humility and worship God.

  613. So church, how low can you go? We need to remember that winning

  614. is actually lowering and that the way up is down.