Sermon
The Beatitudes | Blessed Are the Pure in Heart
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Well friends I want to Dive Right into our text.
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This morning is Rashad said we're in Matthew 5 in verse 8
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and I want to get us started this morning with a question.
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Question is this have you ever hidden something about yourself
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or played a part in order to be accepted?
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We have her hidden something by yourself or played a part in
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order to be accepted a while back.
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I was at a social event with some neighborhood dad's that I
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was just getting to know. And I was really excited to
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connect, we were huddled around a fire pit in a buddies,
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backyard. And I was just like, I'm glad I
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got invited to this thing. I've been wanting to get to know
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some of the guys who are stage of life and live close to me,
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and we were having a great time, the drinks and the jokes were
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traveling around pretty freely. Most of the evening was really
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just beautiful and connecting but there was a specific point
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in the evening. When I got caught up, when I got
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caught playing a part, an individual came up in the
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Conversation, who candidly a bunch of the people in the group
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did not like very much. Someone made a joke at his
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expense and then another person followed on with a pretty
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ungenerous judgment about this individual.
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And before you knew it, it felt like everybody was kind of
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piling on and part of me felt uncomfortable.
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I was like, oh, this feels off, you know, granted, I know this
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individual. I've been also put off by some
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things that had recently happened, but the way that he
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was being mocked kind of bothered me.
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And at the same time, there was a bigger part of me that I'm
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embarrassed to say just like wanted to fit in.
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I was more worried about kind of being part of the crew that I
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was about how I showed up as relates to this other guy.
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And so before I knew it in an attempt to connect with these
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other guys to build some Rapport, I found myself.
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Not only awkwardly laughing along but chipping in with with
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a snide comment my own the very next day and my spiritual
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practice is the holy spirit brought Me back to that moment
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with a highlighter underlining it and instantly I had one of
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those moments you know, when you're when you're communing
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with Jesus and it's like, I missed it there.
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I'm disappointed in how I showed up.
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I hadn't done anything, particularly flagrant, but as I
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looked back on the events of the previous evening, I just, I
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immediately knew I had gotten, pulled out of my values, out of
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my integrity and begun to play a part in order to fit in.
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Maybe you can relate is there been a moment where you've
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you've hidden something about yourself, you've played a part
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in order to be accepted or to get something that you want.
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Pastor and author, Mark scanned Rhett in his book on the
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Beatitudes suggest that not only do each of these sayings of
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Jesus invite us into a new posture, but they also invite us
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out of a default or a first instinct way of relating with
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one another. And this morning we come to the
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Words of Jesus that Rashad's already read for us.
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In Matthew 5:8, where Jesus says, blessed are the pure in
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heart for they will see God. So what's the opposite of that?
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If we were to pick an opposite of pure in heart, Pastor scanned
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Rhett suggests that, it might be this instinct to hide and
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pretend the instinct to hide and pretend and this Instinct has
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been with us for a while, has it not right.
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This goes all the way back to the Garden at the very beginning
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of scripture. Story in Genesis 3, we find our
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first parents disobey God and then immediately, how do they
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respond? Right?
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They begin to cover up and hide. They, they want to Shield
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themselves from being seen, no sooner than had Adam and Eve
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disobeyed. God, then there was something
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inside of them that for the very first time broke where there had
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been wholeness, there was now Division and they knew it, they
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sense something was off internally and so their
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instincts to hide to avoid being seen to avoid being seen.
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Posed in their Brokenness, there was something that told Adam and
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Eve, even in that first moment of Shifting out of Innocence
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that if I show up if I allow God to see me if I'm seen by God,
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then this thing that is off inside, my soul will be exposed.
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And so they responded by hiding and this is an instinct friends
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that continues on for each one of us, right up until today,
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right, everyone of us is a paradox, if you will where a
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mixed bag, Back because on the one hand and this is this is
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true, I can't overstate this enough.
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Every single one of us is beautiful Created in God's Own
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image designed for good. We're beautiful.
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And also paradoxically were broken, right?
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Something inside. Our soul has been Shattered by
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sin and there's their pieces of us that are off, right?
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That have been warped and twisted from their original
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intent. And deep down everyone of us,
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know this, we sense that there are certain parts of us that are
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more loveable than others. This is The Human Condition,
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Paradox, beautiful, and broken. And our first instinct if skin
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red is, right? Is that if we're going to feel
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okay and our desire to be accepted to, in our desire to
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find belonging that we default to hiding and pretending.
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Brene Brown. The noted.
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Shame researcher talks about fitting in and says fitting.
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In is about assessing a situation and becoming who you
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need to be in order to be accepted when we distance
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ourselves from the parts of our lives that don't fit in with who
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we think we're supposed to be, we stand outside our story and
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hustle for our worthiness. And this kind of hustling for
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our worthiness is at the very core of this instinct to hide
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and pretend and man it starts off, not only early back in
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history but it It's early for us, doesn't it?
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Like from from childhood from childhood.
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It starts out when I was little my parents love.
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The fact that I was precocious, they were both teachers and in
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our home you know they didn't this wasn't like explicit but
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they valued intelligence, they valued academic success.
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And so anytime I be carrying around a clipboard anytime I'm
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like learning the ABCs all of a sudden my parents like they just
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got so excited guys. They were like oh yeah, we are
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Really smart. This is wonderful, right?
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I don't know. Probably wasn't even that smart,
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but my parents were, like, really hype about this and, you
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know, it's not a bad thing. It's not a bad thing to
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celebrate things. In your kids.
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I have an almost two year old daughter now and I find myself
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all the time. Oh my gosh.
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Ava. You're so beautiful Ava.
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You're so smart, right? But but implicitly at a subtle
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level. What happens, right?
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We began to foreground certain parts of ourselves.
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And hide others, right? We begin to show off the parts
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of ourselves that we think others want to see and hide and
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pretend when it comes to these parts that are not ashamed of
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and and friends, if there is ever been a time when this is
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problem in the world, it's got to be now, right?
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It's got to be now when our whole world pulls out us and
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invites us into a posture of hiding and pretending, I've
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recently been interacting with the work of Sherry turkle the
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sociologists and psychologists at MIT and she names this
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reality. Saying texting email, posting
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all of these things. Let us present the self as we
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want to be. We get to edit and that means we
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get to delete, it means we get to retouch the face, The Voice,
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the flesh, the body instead of being in the world and with
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others as we really are we find ourselves wearing masks
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cultivating. Personas in order to win favor
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and the acceptance of others. And look at some level.
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I get it right? This makes sense at some level.
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So, like, all of us, all of us want our parents to like us, all
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of us, right? One other, one of the accepted
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you look nice. Today, I make up the most of you
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took showers before coming here. I'm not complaining about that.
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Okay, right. There is, there is a level at
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which it makes sense for us to foreground parts that are
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beautiful. I'm not suggesting that any of
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you walk out of here today. And, you know, Yourself.
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Hello, my name is Josh. Please allow me to introduce you
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to all the most dysfunctional and terrible parts of me, right.
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That'd be a weird way to introduce yourself.
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Not everyone is worthy to hold your wounds and your tender
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parts, right? Not everybody's worthy to hold
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your wounds and tender parts. But here's the problem while
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this instinct to hide and pretend works at a level to keep
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us safe, right? It's a great survival strategy.
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This very same strategy Keeps Us divided and keeps us stuck.
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Even if we are successful. Using the strategy even if we're
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effective at masking the broken parts of our souls even if we
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can cultivate and curate a compelling image in score,
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thousands of likes and follows and become an influencer or a
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YouTube celebrity out there with a divided life.
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They'll be something in our soul that says, it's not.
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Okay, it's not real. Parker Palmer so beautifully.
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Describes, this burden saying the divided life is a wounded
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life and the Soul keeps calling us to heal the rude.
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See when we operate in this posture in this first instinct,
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default of hiding and pretending, we begin to lose
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touch with the core of our being.
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We begin to lose touch with our souls.
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We start to disappear into personas and projections And
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very often, we sense that there's something off, there's
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something missing, something's not right?
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But instead of going inward, we go outward.
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We began to see if we can create that thing.
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Which will reflect back to us the worthiness that we long for.
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You know, if I can just get in this relationship over here and
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this girl, or this guy, right then, I'll feel like complete,
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right? If I could just man, if I could
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just get this job and this salary, right?
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Then on, I know that I've made it.
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I'm Legit. I'm I'm if I could just get into
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that school, right? Then.
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I would know if I can buy this house in this neighborhood,
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right? If we could have a kid and on
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and on and on, we go with these attempts to somehow create
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externally. These mirrors, that would would
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show back to us that we're okay that we're worthy were accepted
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in all the time, we fail to realize in our search for the
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missing piece that that which is missing is us As long as we
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attempt to manage our image and traffic in projections real
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relationship remains Out Of Reach, you may have 1,000
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connections but you're still going to wind up with deep
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loneliness. Palmer suggest that there can be
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no greater suffering than living a lifelong lie and friends.
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I don't think it is accidental that we are now in a space in
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our society and culture where we are more connected than we have
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ever been. And also more moment.
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So many of us are caught in this default of hiding and pretending
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me too, instead of showing up as we really are, So what's Jesus
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got to say about all this, back to our text Matthew 5:8, Jesus
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proclaims a blessing, over those who are pure in heart, blessed
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are the pure in heart. He says, for they will see God.
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Now let me be real with y'all for a second.
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When I first read this verse, I thought Jesus was talking about
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sex. Okay, maybe you did too.
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I don't know. I grew up in Conservative
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Christian culture. Somebody else out here did to I
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know And, you know, there's a strong Association if that's you
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between Purity and sex, right? So if you are reading this and
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thinking as kind of I did initially, that Jesus is
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warning, that if you really want to connect with God, don't look
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at explicit content or sleep with you partner outside of
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marriage, right? That is not.
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I would suggest to you, what is actually going on in this text
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now, there may be other good reasons for that, right?
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But tonight, despite my initial assumptions, I don't think
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that's what this passage is all about.
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See in scripture Purity, generally has A much deeper and
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richer meeting than it's kind of given in Purity culture.
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When a material is free is pure in the world rather it has the
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characteristic of being free from division, right?
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It's not contaminated by other sources, its whole later in the
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same sermon Jesus again brings this same concept back in in
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chapter 6, verses 22 through 24 and there he's warning again
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about the same danger of a divided heart, but his caution
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isn't about sex. It's actually about the love of
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money and the danger or of walking in a Vision where we try
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and pursue both Jesus and wealth.
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The same time in another context, James is talking about
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the same thing. When he says a double minded,
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man is unstable. The kind of Purity Jesus is
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describing here has to do not primarily with sexual
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abstinence, but it has to do with interior, alignment and
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undivided Soul. So Jesus says, blessed are the
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pure of heart and heart here, too, can be a word that can get
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us off track based. Our cultural assumptions about
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what the heart is, right? Because in our, in our language,
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and in our thinking, very often the heart has to do with the
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emotions, it has to do with our feelings, right?
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But this word in the Greek actually has to do with the
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interior, the deepest part of one's Soul, right?
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So what Jesus is saying in otherwise is this, he's saying,
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blessed is the one whose values beliefs and actions are aligned
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right down to the core of their being.
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I think the message translation actually gets at this pretty
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effectively when it says blessed are you when you get your inside
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World your mind and heart put right?
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The best way of describing this kind of purity of heart.
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Jesus has in mind here, might actually be Integrity integrity.
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In other words, Jesus is inviting us from a posture of
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hiding and pretending into a posture of wholehearted.
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Integrity, and integrity is a powerful word, isn't it?
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As it has some weight to it, right?
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You know, instinctively kind of what this quality of Integrity
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is, right? If your chair has some Integrity
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to it, you're good, right? If it loses his Negra T, what
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happens? What happened?
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So you've all right, somebody's gonna end up on the ground,
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right? You want you chair to have some
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Integrity to it? Integrity is this characteristic
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of alignment that says that when things are in Integrity,
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everything fits together, everything aligns, everything is
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where it's supposed to be. And this quality of Integrity,
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when its present, it allows for things to function, effectively
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and powerfully. Potently for several years
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growing up, I study martial arts.
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I'm not cool. I was not very good at it.
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I Remember very much of it and please, I do not want to spar
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you after this Gathering, okay? But one thing I do remember is
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how important alignment was right?
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This is something that our instructors like drilled a sin.
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If you're going to throw a punch the punch doesn't come from your
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elbow, right? The punch comes from your lower
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body. All the way from from your hips,
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right? When you throw a punch
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correctly, the energy is being transferred, from your hips,
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through your shoulders, down your arm, and into your
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opponent, right? And when you throw it, when you
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throw a punch with alignment with integrity, something on the
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other end is going to move. There's some power there, right?
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What happens when you throw a punch out of alignment?
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Well, a couple of things can happen, right?
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One thing that can happen, is that your punched just kind of
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crappy, right? There's not a lot of power
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there, right? You just you throwing This
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Little Light punch that's coming from, from your elbow or from
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your shoulder. Another thing that can happen is
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you can actually get injured. Very often.
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This is exactly what happens. People actually get injured.
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In fact, the injury is so common, it's called boxer's
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fracture and boxer's fracture is the injury that occurs when you
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throw a punch and, and things are not aligned.
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And instead of that, that power are flowing through you into
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your opponent. What actually happens is your
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hand gets snapped in the process.
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Right. Integrity and Alignment are
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important and they're not just important in boxing.
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You know this right? When we lose Integrity in our
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lives, when we lose a purity of heart, it frustrates our ability
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to show up in the world with power and our ability to connect
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with other people a few minutes ago.
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I described the situation in which I began to slide out of
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alignment in response to some perceived social pressure.
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I was more concerned with fitting in even if it meant
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putting forward, a projection of myself, then I was about being
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true to my values and maintaining my own Tegrity.
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I was hiding and pretending in order to fit, in, in this moment
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and friends. This is the absolute opposite of
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what we see in Jesus. It's the absolute opposite of
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what we see in Jesus, and Jesus is fascinating to me, because
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Jesus, honestly, is kind of weird.
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I don't know if you thought about this before, like Jesus is
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a super weird, dude, right? Don't get me wrong.
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Jesus is enormously impressive. There's huge Authority and power
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that comes out all over the place, but there were any number
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of parts of Jesus that you would think that he'd be a little bit
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awkward by, right that he try and hide that he try and kind of
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move into the background. I mean, this is a dude, there
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was rumors that Joseph wasn't his real dad.
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He was from a Podunk Village out in the middle of nowhere, right?
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Vocationally, he did not have a quality education.
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This man was working as a lowly Tradesmen.
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And yet Jesus did not hide. He didn't try to impress people
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or cater to them. In fact he constantly invited
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people into the reality of his life and he went he will like
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far with this friends like Jesus straight up said, hey follow me,
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come with me even when he did not have a place to live.
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We thought about this like the tank says he did not have a
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place to lay his head. Can you think about the audacity
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of that with me for like one second?
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All right, you are homeless, you literally do not have a place to
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stay and you're like, yo, why don't you come to my place
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afterwards? Like this is gonna be great,
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right? I mean that's some that's some
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audacity right there. It wasn't just that how many of
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you have ever been in a situation where you had to ask
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somebody for help, right, maybe for it, maybe was a cow.
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Ouch, you need to crash on for a couple nights either just
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because you're out and bad luck or we're traveling.
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Maybe you need to borrow somebody's car.
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Maybe you go on a service trip and you need to raise a couple
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bucks, right? And you had to go around and ask
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some family and some friends. If they chip in, I don't know
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about you. I've been in that position a few
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times in my life and let me tell you, it feels it feels
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vulnerable. Doesn't it right?
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You know, if you've been in that spot it's like who this feels
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vulnerable. I don't like not being
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self-sufficient. I don't like needing to depend
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on other people. Get my needs met and yet.
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Jesus whole Ministry. This dude who is literally the
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creator of the universe? The possessor of all things puts
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himself in a position where he has to vocationally depend on
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other people's generosity to do his work.
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Like scripture tells us that there was a group of women that
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had the bag, like they were, they were helping this man get
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paid so he could continue doing this thing.
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And what's crazy is that Jesus didn't debit any of this out of
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his profile. All right, like we got the text.
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Jesus, loved it all in there. Like, how easy would it be for
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Jesus? Or for his followers to say is
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kind of what's our guy in a bad light?
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Lets, you know, we're just going to shake this up a little bit
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over here, put a little filter, on it, over here, we can, you
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know, make that a little thinner, you know, it's going to
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be good. Jesus leaves it all in.
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And that's Integrity, Jesus knew who he was.
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He operated in a wholehearted Integrity for Jesus.
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The deepest parts of his nature and character flowed through his
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values into his actions into his behavior into the way he showed
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up with people. And there was an authority, it
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was present because of that. It was nothing tisza T, that's
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present because of that. Now friends, I am embarrassed to
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admit this, but I'm a millennial.
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How many Millennials we got out here?
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If you're a millennial in the crowd.
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Okay, Millennials everywhere. All right, shout out to all the
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Millennials out there. So if if there's one thing that
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we value as Millennials it is, Authenticity, cool.
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I thought someone was gonna say iPhones, but yeah, authenticity
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is actually the answer that I was looking for authenticity.
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Unlike most Millennials, I have a high value for authenticity,
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but I think sometimes in our culture Authenticity is put
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forward not as the real version of authenticity, but is a
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counterfeit. Does anybody know what I mean?
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By this? Write as a times we use the word
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authenticity which again I think is a good thing is a value.
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But sometimes we use this kind of counterfeit version of
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authenticity. That means something along the
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lines of just, I'm going to express whatever feels true to
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me, right? I'm going to say, whatever.
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I think with no filter, right? My dad used to say.
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Yeah. You're like somebody who just
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like open their mouth and their brains fell out, right?
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It's like Sometimes we think that that's what authenticity
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looks like. And I would suggest that these
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versions of authenticity are actually counterfeit.
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To according to scripture, there's not one you inside you.
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Right. We're actually in this innermost
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being we're divided. There's there's a lot of stuff
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going on Paul talks about this in Romans 7 when he describes
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the wrestling that he experiences between conflicting
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desires. He says, I don't understand what
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I do. Like I want to do.
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I don't do it like, but what I hate I do that.
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What's going on here? I'm like, Paul, I feel the same
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way when I need to go to sleep, but there's like social media
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and there's something on Netflix and then there's this bad, a bag
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of chips, that's calling. My name, right?
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Like I get it. There are things that I like, I
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want to do but I also don't want to do those things.
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There's a battle inside us, right?
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Where a mixed bag where a paradox.
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It's interesting. Like Paul said this like a while
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ago, internal family systems. If any of you therapy nerds out
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there saying the same thing, right?
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We have all of these parts inside us that are operating in
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different ways and showing up in different ways and pulling us in
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different directions. Everyone of us is a paradox.
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We are beautiful and we are broken.
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Both things are true. And the path forward.
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I think this is, I want to dial in on this because sometimes in
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the push, for authenticity. What actually ends up happening
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is we say, I'm just going to embrace and celebrate the whole
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back. Write everything that is
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present. And I would suggest to you that
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the path forward is not just settling for a divided soul.
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Right. It's not just saying, okay well
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there's all this going on, it's all good.
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It's all to be celebrated great. Nor is it as I think sometimes
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in the church, we do more often or is it self-hatred right?
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Because there are parts of us that we dislike.
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Wholehearted Integrity can accept and be with all of who we
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are, the good Bad and the Ugly, but here's where it differs
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from. This kind of counterfeit
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authenticity wholehearted, Integrity, invites us Beyond it,
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it offers us, an actual path forward towards wholeheartedness
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and healing. Towards an undivided heart where
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we increasingly align all the way from our values through our
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feelings, into our Behavior will become the beautiful people that
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God has designed to us to be. So, what is this path to Purity?
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I think it's actually hinted here.
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It's not a lot of text and I'm working with this morning, but I
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think it's hinted here in Matthew 5:8.
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Jesus says, blessed are the pure in heart for they will see God,
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you see it. You see the pathway.
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It's precisely the opposite of hiding and pretending.
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It's the opposite of settling for a divided.
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Soul. The pathway to purity of heart
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is coming out from behind our cover-ups, into the light to be
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seen and to see God. In our Christian faith is
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practice is called confession. And confession really is just
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simply the act of naming. What is real naming?
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What is true. And this is counterintuitive for
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us friends, because it goes directly against some of our
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instincts in this matter. Right.
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Because our instinct to hide and pretend tells us, yo, if you
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bring this thing into the light, they will reject you.
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Right? If you bring this thing into the
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light, then you cannot be worthy.
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You cannot be loved. And sometimes it feels when
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we're attempting to bring this thing.
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That's so hard to name. That's wrapped in shame where
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we're hurt or broken or traumatized into the light.
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It feels like, oh my gosh, this would absolutely crush me.
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It'd be so shaming that I could never stand it.
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But I can say, and this doesn't make sense, but I can tell you
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it's true, is that when we actually bring our shame to
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Jesus, we bring it into the light and the presence of loved
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that. Instead of being reinforced, or
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us being crushed, somehow, it's diffused by his presence, maybe
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I was witness to that. Anybody else out there, have
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that experience. In first, John 1:9 scripture
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talks about this. It says, when we confess our
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sins, when we bring them into the light, Jesus Will purify us,
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So purify us and the Greek word for Purity.
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Here is the r is 0 from which we get the word cathartic
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cathartic. I don't know if you've
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experienced this but I can tell you there have been times in my
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life where I was sitting on a point of Shame for a while.
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And it felt to me, like, oh my gosh, I can't tell anybody about
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this. If I do, I will die.
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Terrible, things will happen. I will be rejected.
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There are times looking back in my story where I was stuck in
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that place for a couple of years, like for a minute.
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I can tell you every time, every time I have vulnerably brought
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those pieces of Brokenness, those pieces of hurt to
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trustworthy people in my life who looked like Jesus, What I
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have gotten is not shaming or more hurt, it's actually been
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healing, it has felt cathartic, right?
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And some of you know what I'm talking about.
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If you've been down this road, you know what I'm talking about
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when that thing that you've been holding and walking with alone
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when you're able to share it with somebody else.
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There's a freedom that emerges but it's not just cathartic in
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the sense of releasing some kind of emotion because I can tell
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you that when we're willing to face these places of Shame,
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these places of injury and sometimes it's things that we
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have done, sometimes it's things that have been done to us,
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right? Sometimes we're talking about
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sins, sometimes we're talking about trauma, but whatever.
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These things are these places of injury and Brokenness in which
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we feel unworthy and unloved, when we bring them into the
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light, Right? It's not just a cathartic
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experience. We're actually taking the first
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crucial step towards wholeheartedness and integrity.
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Just before John's call to conversion confession.
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And first John 1:9, he says, two verses earlier.
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In first, John 17, if we walk in the light, as he is in the
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light, we have fellowship with one another and the blood of
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Jesus. His son purifies us from all sin
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man. I could talk about that for a
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minute. What is he saying?
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He's saying when we bring these points of Shane and Brokenness
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into the light, right? Two things happen.
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One we have Fellowship. Right, we get connected.
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You cannot connect based on a false Persona.
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You can't be deeply. Loved when you are pretending.
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But when we come into the light as we really are in all of our
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Beauty and Brokenness connection happens, right?
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And not just connection but we're actually purified.
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All right, there's that word again.
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Where purified? We move towards Integrity.
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Why is it that Jesus says, blessed are the pure in heart
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for they will see God. What?
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If one of the people who are pure in heart get to see God.
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I'd suggest to you this morning is that when we choose this
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pathway of Purity, when we choose this, this pathway of
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wholehearted Integrity. What we're choosing is to
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abandon this strategy of hiding and pretending.
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And we're entering the very presence of God.
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And what then happens is transformation, what then
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happens is wholeness because if you spend time in God's
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presence, you will be changed. Right?
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It's not a neutral. Transaction that relationship
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will transform you friend. And honestly, I don't mean this
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to sound like a threat, okay. Starfighter initiating.
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I'm not sure what's happening back here, but Jesus said, Jesus
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taught us. I'm gonna need a minute.
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Jesus taught us that whatever is inside of us eventually comes
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out right? Whatever is inside of us
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eventually comes out. He said in another place there's
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nothing hidden that will not be disclosed nothing concealed that
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will not be known or brought into the open.
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See. Jesus understood that God knows
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all and everything eventually reveals itself.
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This is incredible. How this happens?
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Friends, some of you who are nerds, like me may have read
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Bessel, Van, Der kolk Sex book, number one, New York Times
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bestselling author. The body keeps the score to
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talks about how trauma lives in our bodies, right?
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And he says, a lot of things, but one of the things that van
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der kolk, explorers in, this book is how traumas from our
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life manifest actually physiologically in our bodies,
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right? Is a crazy but profound read and
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friends. When we choose to tolerate The
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Divided self, granted some of us are doing it because we feel
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like we got to protect ourselves.
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We got to stay safe, right? But, when we choose to tolerate,
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The Divided self, there is a cost that accrues to us, right?
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Places of sin and wounding unhealed can manifest in all
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sorts of ways. We're embodied being so
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spiritual and emotional problems show up in, chronic pain, and
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sickness Unforgiven an unhealed trauma can show up as hauntings
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in new relationships, that continue to distort fresh
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relationships with injuries that were incurred in the past,
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right? The addiction that you think
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that you have a handle on. If it remains hidden will grow
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Until you find yourself. Engaging in Risky behaviors
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that. You may end up getting exposed.
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Jesus says, there is nothing hidden.
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That will not be disclosed and friends for some of us that is
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our greatest fear, right? That that thing that I've been
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hiding would come out to the light that people would know it.
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I get it, it's risky. But what I'm saying this morning
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is that we actually have a choice.
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We have a choice about how we bring these things into the
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light. Right, it going to happen at
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some point some way. But you can choose to be in
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control of that process, you can choose to bring it to people who
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are trustworthy in a way that allows you to be healed.
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In a way that allows you to connect and find true belonging
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and friends. I get it stepping into the light
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is terrifying. It's scary.
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It feels as though sometimes our shame will crush us or will be
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rejected. But isn't it interesting that
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the person that we are invited to bring things to is the one
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who already knows? Hey, isn't it funny like anybody
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else sometimes trying to hide things from God in here?
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I do. Is anybody trying to hide things
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from yourself that you totally know to be true?
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But you're like, I'm gonna pretend that's not a real thing,
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right? Isn't it ironic, we are silly.
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Because we're embarrassed about these things, we try and hide
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them from from the people who can help us right from ourselves
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from God. Friends.
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Jesus is the one who already knows, you completely and loves
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you, absolutely. He is the one who knowing fully
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all of your Brokenness. Still loved you so much to give
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everything in order to be connected to you.
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This is crazy. What I'm saying is that, Jesus
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is one, who is worth holding your broken parts.
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It's still going to feel like a risk, but Jesus is worth the
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risk. Jesus is worth bringing it to.
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Because friends, there is a reward for integrity.
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When we move down the path of Integrity towards
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wholeheartedness. The reward is intimacy.
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If you will choose to move towards Integrity, you'll get
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intimacy. And so, this text tells us
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blessed are the pure in heart for they will see God.
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And be seen by God. Intimacy.
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Friends. That's why it's worth it.
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His transformation and intimacy are some pretty big payoffs.
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It's worth the risk. You want to see God, you've got
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to allow yourself to be seen. If we were to imagine this this
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morning is a physical posture, I think it might look like
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standing or maybe even kneeling with an open body position open
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hands Open Hearts. Actually, let me invite you to
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just get into that position. Now physically, whatever that
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looks like for you and open body position, maybe on crossing your
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arms, opening up your chest, raising your head, maybe there's
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some muscles that need to be relaxed.
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Maybe there's some shoulders that could be opened up.
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Friends. We're going to move into a time
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of response this morning. An opportunity to move towards
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intimacy to move towards transformation. as we move into
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confessions, we move into wholeheartedness And friends
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I'll just name with you again. You know, it's risky, I get it I
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feel it. It feels that way for me too.
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But the reward for integrity is intimacy.
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And you can trust Jesus. So this morning, as we move into
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a time of worship, we're going to have the prayer rugs down at
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the front. Here are open If you want to
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calm want to pray, we'll have some space afterwards if you
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want to talk to somebody. I'd ask you to consider.
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What's true for you? What does that thing in your
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life that you've been hiding been sitting on been pushing
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down, have stuffed into the backpack that you're just trying
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to make it alone. It feels like if you were to
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surface you would just die. But you're carrying alone.
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Where have you? Abandon yourself?
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Or maybe you're in performance and projection you know you're
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hustling you got a million connections, your Instagram
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profile or your Tick Tock is popping but you still feel
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lonely. Where's your life out of step
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with your best and truest self? What are you trying to project
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to the world? Or convince everybody else is
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true. How might you bring what you're
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noticing into like this morning? And with whom in your life,
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might you take the risk to share Jesus and some trusted people
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who are up for holding those tender wounded parts.
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Did you pray with me? Did you pray with me?