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4th June 2023 - Communion Service - Dave Food - No place I would rather be

An Inspiring Word from RCF, Egham, Runnymede,

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  1. Is no place I would rather be. And that's not just this morning.

  2. That's our theme for the whole of the month of Jude. I don't know

  3. whether you've ever been a place where you sit there and think, ah,

  4. this is great. You've probably got a favorite place to have a coffee.

  5. Maybe you've got to have a favorite place for praying. Maybe you've got a

  6. favorite place to take friends. But there'll be a place where you sit and

  7. you go something like, oh, And I'm not saying it is your home,

  8. but it feels like home. It feels like you're comfortable. That's the

  9. kind of place where we can say no place I would rather be right now

  10. at that moment, I personally believe that ought to be many times with God.

  11. I'm not saying it's always. I'm not saying God's not there, but

  12. I think our relationship with God, our space and our time, no place

  13. I would rather be than to be in His presence. Now, let me

  14. just explore before we get to no place I would rather be, let me

  15. explore sometimes when you would rather not be. You know my mum her name

  16. was Jane, and she was known as the woman with the all seeing eye.

  17. How do I know that as her son. Well, sometimes I'd be

  18. upstairs and she'd say, Dave, what are you doing? Or David?

  19. She called me, David, David, what are you doing? And I'd

  20. say nothing, Mum, And I think, how did she know that I

  21. was doing something I shouldn't have been doing. But we can feel the same

  22. about God, and so sometimes there are places we'd like to be in his

  23. presence, but we can't because we feel not able to. Sometimes we feel

  24. that we're un how can I put it. We're unable to sit, We're

  25. unable to stand in his presences. We're ashamed. Just like Adam in the

  26. garden God, God was wondering around, saying where are you Adam? And

  27. he was ashamed because he was naked. He hadn't been ashamed before he'd eaten

  28. of the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Wow.

  29. So sometimes we'd like to be in God's presence, but we think we're

  30. not worthy. You know, it's not by what we do that makes us

  31. worthy. It's not by who we are that makes us worthy. It's all

  32. because of Jesus. It's all because of him. So no place I would

  33. rather be. Let's look at Psalms David wrote in Psalms this Psalm eighty four,

  34. verses one to four, Lord who rules over all, how lovely is

  35. the place where you live. I long to be in the courtyards of the

  36. Lord's temple. I deeply long to be there. My whole being cries out

  37. for the living God, Lord who rules over all. Even the sparrow has

  38. a home near your altar, my King and my God. The swallow also

  39. has a nest there where she may have her young. Blessed are those who

  40. live in your house. They are always praising you. Blessed of those who

  41. live in your house. Now, firstly, I want to explore some simple

  42. words here. What does it mean? So house is a building? Okay,

  43. And in other translations you'll finding instead of house it says home. Now,

  44. what's the difference between a house and a home. But I know there's

  45. some people who've moved recently or in the process of moving, and there was

  46. a place you used to call home, and then you've moved and you've moved

  47. to a different building, a different house, but sometimes it's not yet home.

  48. Yeah you're kind of thinking about, well, yeah, there's stuff in

  49. boxes. Haven't got that special picture that I put on the wall in my

  50. kitchen. So it doesn't yet feel like home. But I'll tell you what.

  51. You've lived there a while, You've brought some friends around, you brought

  52. your family around. It's home. Let me give you a different example about

  53. home and house. You may have had guests to stay with you at some

  54. point. Some people will walk in and they'll walk around your house with their

  55. shoes on. Some cultures they take the shoes off outside the house. And

  56. you know, you walk in different cultures different ways. But you know,

  57. whenever I get home, I kick my shoes off straight away. I take

  58. my shoes off because it's home. I'm not precious about my carpets at all.

  59. We've got a dog. Why would you be precious about carpets with their

  60. dog. But you know, I kick my shoes off, and I do

  61. that with places where I feel at home, where people make me feel welcome,

  62. I almost automatically go, I'm going to take my shoes and sometimes they'll

  63. say, oh, you don't need to, it's okay. And it's not

  64. about me keeping their flaws clean at all. It's about me making myself at

  65. home. And so there is a difference between the house and a home.

  66. There's also a difference between visiting and living. We visit a hotel room.

  67. Anybody stayed in the hotel room. When we go there, we check in

  68. and we some of us won't even unpack our bags. If we're there for

  69. a couple of nights, we might just open up our bag and take our

  70. stuff out. We won't put everything in the war job. If we're there

  71. for a month, that's a different thing. We'll probably get everything out and

  72. pack it away. But it's still not home. It's still not home.

  73. You might have a picture of your family, you might have a whole bunch

  74. of things you bring with you to make it feel a little more homely,

  75. but it's still not home. And I bet you don't kick your kid shoes

  76. off when you go into the hotel room. Just as an example, Keith

  77. Haysel, dear friend of ours who has now gone to be with the lord

  78. who's started and led Life Links International. For many, many, many years,

  79. he traveled probably most weekends. He was away from home most weekends.

  80. He said. One of the things he learned very quickly was to make the

  81. place that he was going home. How did he do that? But he

  82. walked, He walked into our kitchen. I think one of the first times

  83. he stayed and he said, anybody on a cup of tea. Now we

  84. hadn't said to him, make yourself at home, but he made himself at

  85. home because I guess because of our body language, we'd said please. We

  86. may have even used to praise our house is your house espaniola su casa,

  87. you know, and we could say that my castle is your castle. I

  88. love that. It's a much better statement than my house is your house.

  89. My castle is your castle. Wow. And there's some great spiritual truth in

  90. that castle, you know. And as Britz I know we've got a very

  91. multinational community now at URSF, but as Brits we often have that concept of

  92. getting in the door, shutting the door, pulling up the drawbridge and keeping

  93. the world out. Do you know keeping the world out means that you make

  94. guests feel unwelcome. Same can be true of church. We can make guests

  95. feel unwelcome with we're not careful. I had a conversation on our leadership team

  96. not that long ago where we were talking about our small groups and our zoom

  97. groups. And you know, if you want to join us online in any

  98. of our small groups, the link is there. You can click on the

  99. link and the past word is publicly available. Why because we don't have bouncers

  100. on the doors. You know, you might think I'm crazy, but we

  101. don't have bouncers on the Welcomers on the door at church are not bouncers.

  102. They're not keeping the bad people out because if they kept the bad people out,

  103. none of us would be in here, because we've all got it wrong

  104. somewhere. If if the job was the welcome was to keep all the sinners

  105. out, you know, this room would be empty, including me. I

  106. wouldn't be in it because they'd be going. Dave, you upset somebody this

  107. week? You said something, Yes I did. But you know we say

  108. to people you are welcome. You are welcome in this place. Do you

  109. know there's something else about home? You want to welcome people to your home.

  110. You want to welcome people to your home. I once remember having a

  111. community is a place to gather. Church is like this community is a place

  112. to gather. It's a place to talk, it's a place to give not

  113. just money but food and fellowship and time, and it's also a place to

  114. serve. So this could be true of any community. Of any community,

  115. and I want to remember John and nyvon I went to her eightieth birthday recently.

  116. Yvonne lives over in Egham Hive and we had an after meet to her

  117. church one Sunday and she ranked it was planned to be at her house after

  118. church and she said, Dave, I haven't had time to polish this week.

  119. She said, so come we move it somewhere else, and I said,

  120. I looked at her, and I said, people are more important than

  121. polish. How many times do we keep people away because you know, I

  122. don't know. We're walking down the street with a friend and we want to

  123. say I'll come in for a coffee, and then we rewind and we think,

  124. okay, yeah, the plates are still on the table, and the

  125. washing from the washing line is in a pile in the corner somewhere, and

  126. we just suddenly think about all those things about why not to bring them.

  127. I learned something which has probably changed me for most of my life. Most

  128. of you know, I worked in Papua New Guinea and I had the privilege

  129. of going to many many villages, and because I was white and different,

  130. I'd often be walking through the bush and then somebody would come and join me,

  131. and then somebody else would come and join me, and I'd sometimes have

  132. a crowd as we walked into the village. And we walk into the village

  133. and they say, come and eat with us. I used to call me

  134. brother Dave because I was single. Then they couldn't understand how I could be

  135. unmarried, but so they called me brother Dave. I wasn't a monk or

  136. anything, but that's what I used to call me. And walked into the

  137. village and then we went to a house wind. Now a house wind is

  138. a house without any walls. It's where you sit out of the sun.

  139. You eat together. And we sat in the house when and they said,

  140. would you like to eat with us? It's all that's very kind of you,

  141. thank you very much. And then they bring food out. Now in

  142. Papua New Guinea, it's all root vegetables. There's very little protein. So

  143. you get great big glumps of sweet potato, great big glumps of taro,

  144. great big glumps of yam, you know, in the great big bowl,

  145. and you don't need a knife and fork. You just pick it up and

  146. eat it. It's cooked, but you eat it like apples, like you

  147. would eat an apple, take a bite out it, put it down on

  148. the plate and so on, you know. And I felt very welcome,

  149. and they bought the plates out and I said, O god, this is

  150. pretty good because I'd only walked. They hadn't planned that I was going to

  151. visit. How is it that they had dinner ready? Until I've done this

  152. a few times? And I started talking to Peter, who was one of

  153. my best friends there, and said, how does this work? He said,

  154. well, you're eating their lunch. I said, pardon. He said,

  155. yes, no, they've cooked their lunch for their family, and they

  156. are serving you as a special guest, and they're saying welcome, please eat

  157. with us. But someone's going with that, and I, honestly I didn't

  158. know what to do. I didn't know what to say. Even now,

  159. forty years ago, it still kind of brings me to tears to think about

  160. it. But then I remembered that my mum used to say, FHB anybody

  161. used that phrase before? Do you know what it stands for? Family holds

  162. back? Sometimes you might have a chicken dinner for your family. There's four

  163. in your family, and you choose a child in your family says, oh,

  164. can I invite so and so for dinner. Yes, of course you

  165. can, Okay, but there's only four portions of chicken. So how does

  166. that work? Family holds back. Somebody may have the bits of the chicken

  167. that have fallen off. Somebody might just have rice and peace, no chicken

  168. at all. But I'll tell you what. It humbled me. It truly

  169. humbled me because I then realized that they were making me at home. They

  170. were making me at home, and church's a place where I hope that we

  171. could be. And I don't know whether if we go back to the previous

  172. slide, Jonathan, look at the similarity that work. So I talked about

  173. gather to talk, to give, to serve, and in church we just

  174. bring another dimension into this, which is of course God. And in church

  175. we gather to be with one another, but to be with God. We

  176. gather to talk, but not just to talk to one another, to talk

  177. to God. We gather to give, and we will take the offering after

  178. in the midst of the communion, and we will give to God and to

  179. others, and will gather to serve not just God, but the community beyond.

  180. There's a program that used to be on television. I don't think it's

  181. on television anymore. But they used to go into celebrities houses. I think

  182. it was called through the Keyhole, and you go into celebrities house and there

  183. will be a phrase that came up on screen. I tried to find this

  184. clip of it, but I couldn't find one. They said, whose house

  185. could this be? And then they'd wander around the house and they take pictures

  186. of the books on the bookshelf, and they take pictures of certain things,

  187. and they show it and then they'd say, who do you think it is?

  188. And the celebrities would guess, and they would guess, I wonder if

  189. we took a camera around your house. Now some of you immediately are doing

  190. exactly the people polish thing. You're already thinking, oh, what if I

  191. said to you right now there is a TV crew visiting your house. We've

  192. spoken to somebody in your family, they've let the TV crew in, and

  193. they're going to be walking around your house filming, and we're just about to

  194. bring it up on live that I am not Michael McIntyre by at this point,

  195. by the way, but that's the kind of thing he would do.

  196. And you're immediately thinking, well, what states my house in But I'll tell

  197. you what, if we zoomed in on certain things, I wonder if we'd

  198. recognize your house. I'm not talking about the building and the shape, because

  199. we many of us have visited one of those houses. But maybe the books

  200. that are are our bookshelves. Maybe the thing that the precious thinks the pictures,

  201. because in Matthew chapter six, verse twenty one, it says this,

  202. for where your treasure is there, your heart will be. Also, the

  203. things that are important to us we take with us we display. Some of

  204. you probably work in a hot desk environment. I don't mean that your desk

  205. is hot. I mean that you know it's not your desk. It's a

  206. real challenge because this home house issue comes back to play when you work in

  207. a hot desking environment, because it's no longer your desk, it's a desk.

  208. And so people then start to play these kind of games and they start

  209. to make their desk their home. And what they will do is they'll bring

  210. a picture of the family, They'll bring other things. They'll bring their their

  211. coffee mug and their coffee heater to keep their coffee warm, and all those

  212. things. And then they'll deliberately leave them out to say this is my desk.

  213. Keep away, this is my desk. You know, even though the

  214. guid that says please have a clear desk at the end of the day,

  215. you still see in those kind of companies stuff being left on desks. They

  216. go, oh, sorry that it was an accident. No it wasn't.

  217. It's about saying this is my place. I want to sit here. Don't

  218. you dare sit in my desk for where your treasure is that your heart is.

  219. Also, let me give you a different example. I hadn't really thought

  220. about this until we had to do an inventory check for insurance, and we've

  221. got a whole shelf. And I know this is old school now guys.

  222. So for those newer people and younger people, let me put it that way,

  223. you're probably thinking that, yeah, okay, I'm not talking about LPs

  224. now, I'm talking about DVDs. We've got a whole shelf full of DVDs,

  225. hundreds of them, you know, and you know, the next generation

  226. coming through won't know about that at all. I'll just press on that app

  227. on their phone and they'll play what they want to play. But I was

  228. just thinking about it and thinking Okay. If each one of those DVDs cost

  229. somewhere between five and ten pounds each, and then you start counting the DVDs

  230. on the shelf, I just think, man alive. There's a lot of

  231. money on that shelf. Where your treasure is there, your heart will be

  232. also. I mean, there's a program that I've listened to on Radio four

  233. I'm revealing some of my habits now Radio four called Desert Island Discs. It's

  234. on Friday mornings, and so I think it's on Sundays as well now.

  235. And a celebrity is invited to talk about if they went to a desert island

  236. and they discussed their life, and they're allowed to take eight pieces of music

  237. with them, and they picked these eight pieces of music and they tell them

  238. why it's important, and then they eventually say okay, and if all of

  239. your and then you're allowed a luxury and a book you're allowed to know the

  240. Bible and Shakespeare, and then another book as well. What's your special book

  241. you would take? And I'm just throwing these out there. You might like

  242. to think about it yourself. What would be the book you would take beyond

  243. the Bible? But one of the questions, then says, Okay, if

  244. you then jumped onto a boat to get off the island, and then that

  245. boat sunk and you could only have one piece of music, what would be

  246. the one piece of music you would keep? And I'd like to ask you

  247. a similar question in sense of okay, if your house was burning down and

  248. you had to grab a few things, what one thing would you grab?

  249. Do you know where it is? This is just this is I'm not trying

  250. to sell insurance here, guys, by the way, but but but but

  251. but you know, think about it. If you said, okay, the

  252. one thing I would grab is my box of treasures, which has maybe got

  253. your birth certificate in it, and maybe your passport and a few other things,

  254. maybe your first child's tooth. When that for all those kind of things,

  255. the kind of things that are irreplaceable, do you know where it is?

  256. Now? You might say, they don't be so morbid, But I'm

  257. sure they're listening right now. But Alison Gordon, who used to worship with

  258. us, they're now further up north and they'll be joining us online. The

  259. block of flats they lived in court fire. It was on the news.

  260. I remember it being on the news. And they had to leave, not

  261. because they're built their flat was on fire, but because the whole block of

  262. flax is on fire, and it burnt for a long time, and the

  263. smoke got everywhere, and eventually they put the fire out, and after a

  264. couple of days and they stayed in that they might have stayed with us to

  265. start with, or in the hope that they can't remember, it doesn't matter.

  266. But the point is they were then told, Okay, because the building

  267. is now unsafe, you're going to be allowed to go back into the building

  268. for one visit. Now think about this, because this is where your treasure

  269. is there, your heart. This is the question as you went back into

  270. the building, what would you go and collect. Okay, you're going to

  271. be had a walk out. This is not a wardrobe or a bed or

  272. you know, you're not going to carry your lovely bed out that you love

  273. sleeping in, because you know you need two or three people to do that.

  274. This is what you can carry out. What would it be? They

  275. would suggest, this scripture is severely tested in that particular moment where your treasure

  276. is there, your heart will be also in Matthew, the Gospel of Matthew

  277. get Chapter twenty two, Jesus is asked this teacher, which command in God's

  278. Law is the most important. Jesus said, love the Lord your God with

  279. all your passion and prayer and intelligence. This is the most important, the

  280. first on any list. But there is a second. But there is a

  281. second to set alongside it. Love others as well as you love yourselves,

  282. teacher, which is the great commandment in the law. Oh, now you've

  283. gone back to the beginning again, sorry, Jesus. Jesus said to him,

  284. you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all

  285. your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great

  286. commandment. And the second is like this, that you love your neighbor as

  287. yourself. Two versions, the International Reader and the New King James. I

  288. wanted to read it in a couple of versions there, just to give us

  289. some flavor here. The first one love God, and the second to love

  290. the world around you, to love those around you. Okay, let me

  291. ask some ouch questions now, Okay, if possible, the being in God's

  292. presence is the place you want to be, then wouldn't you want to invite

  293. because you love some other people to the place where you want to be.

  294. There's a place in Norwich Cathedral that I, as a student loved very much.

  295. And I was a student at Norwich and as a pside chapel in Norwich

  296. Cathedral which has a beautiful picture on the altar, and sometimes I'd go in

  297. there and I'd just sit. Firstly, it was nice and called in the

  298. summer. But secondly, this picture, it was a picture of an opened

  299. half open door and it was basically saying welcome. But the picture almost you

  300. could feel yourself. You could walk up to it and think, actually,

  301. there is something beyond. It was that good a picture. You could almost

  302. feel you could walk up there and push the door open and walk through.

  303. It was so inviting as a picture. No place I would rather be than

  304. to be in God's presence. No place I would rather be than to be

  305. in God's house. I personally this is just my personal example. But you

  306. know, I've had to travel over weekends before now. In fact, I'm

  307. traveling this afternoon for work. And one of the things I've said to my

  308. boss every time is I don't want to miss church, so you're going to

  309. have to work, So Dave, the that doesn't work. So this afternoon

  310. I'm actually meant to be somewhere at five point thirty, and I'm not going

  311. to be there at five because the latest plain I can catch to still be

  312. in church means I'm going to be late for a meeting. But for me,

  313. there's no place I would rather be than be here. And that's not

  314. because I'm a church leader. That's not because that's because I want to be

  315. in with God's people. I want to be with you in his presence.

  316. I want to be in his presence this morning. Now, there are other

  317. places I could have gone, and I'll give you a different example. So

  318. the other way is sometimes it's not possible. So at the beginning of May,

  319. I had to be in a conference in the States and I said to

  320. them, Okay, you're gonna have to fly me out on Saturday. Well

  321. why is that, then, Dave, or because I need to be in

  322. church on Sunday and for me to be there Sunday evening, I'm actually gonna

  323. have to leave on Saturday. Now, God gives me some great wisdom and

  324. he says, well, actually, if you fly on a Saturday, the

  325. tickets are cheaper, and that you often say more on the tickets than you

  326. do on the hotel. So just at the beginning of May, I find

  327. myself in a hotel in Orlando, thinking, okay, God, where do

  328. you want me to go to church this morning? So I opened up the

  329. phone book and I opened up my app and I typed in some things,

  330. found a church that was pretty close, got an uber to go to church,

  331. arrived at church like all guests do. This is just a reminder toward

  332. us. Guests always arrive early. I was there half an hour before the

  333. service started. You know, they were still practicing and worship practicing. The

  334. worship band were practicing. What I hadn't realized I hadn't paid attention to it

  335. was a Spanish speaking church. So you might think, oh, just a

  336. coincidence. So I was sitting there at the back with my bag because you

  337. know, I was changing hotels as well, so that I had two bags,

  338. and I was sitting in the back as they were worshiping, and various

  339. people came over to me and I used my little broken Spanish and they talked

  340. to me, and eventually somebody came across and started translating and said, thank

  341. you. Where do you come from? And I explained and said, we've

  342. got Spanish speaking people in our church too, So anyway, service start and

  343. the whole service gets translated into English. There's somebody standing at the front a

  344. leading worship, well not in worship, but you know, whenever there was

  345. an announcement, they'd simultaneously translated into English, and I thought, wow,

  346. I feel special. What I hadn't realized was there was another couple who'd also

  347. turned up for the first time from Puerto Rico, and his wife didn't speak

  348. any Spanish either, so there was two of us in the service. Not

  349. my plan, not my agenda, but I'll tell you what. They made

  350. me feel so home. I sat there thinking, God, they translated just

  351. for me. Well, thank you God. And then then afterwards, lost

  352. we were having coffee, I said, you didn't need to translate just for

  353. me. I have a smattering of Spanish and I can go with the flow.

  354. I can speak in tongues when I run out of words, I can

  355. do that. But they said, well, David, wasn't just for you,

  356. It's for this lady over here as well. And they said, we're

  357. taking this as a prophetic sign that we need to start preparing for international visitors.

  358. I'm still in contact with them now four weeks later, So my choice

  359. was just a coincidence. Yeah, come on, two people. I didn't

  360. get to speak to the couple from Puerto Rico, but it was their first

  361. time in church. Two and they'd only moved into the area the previous Thursday,

  362. and they were in church on Sunday looking for a local church. They

  363. looked up on the web. And I know that can be true for some

  364. of the people sitting in this room. You just looked us up on the

  365. web, found us, and came and now your family. I guess because

  366. of exactly what I'm talking about. This place feels like home. Even though

  367. our even though our skin colors are different, even though our habits are different,

  368. even though our cultures are different, this feels like home. Well how

  369. does that work? You walk into different cultured homes and the smell of the

  370. kitchen will be very, very very different. Some you'll get the freshness of

  371. herbs, you know, something like an Italian. There'll be lots of different

  372. herbs and you'll smell freshness tomato. Another place you'll smell spices. Another place

  373. you'll smell the gee. You really will no place I would rather be.

  374. There's no better place than to be home. How many of you have been

  375. through a stressful situation, a stressful day at work, a stressful trip,

  376. and as you walk through the door, kick your shoes off and go and

  377. sit down, make yourself a cup of tea or coffee, whichever is your

  378. preference, and sit there, and then there's probably this moment where you go,

  379. I'm home. And this is not just true about the home that you

  380. live in. If you are parents or grandparents and your children move away,

  381. there will be times when they come and visit and they'll kick their shoes off,

  382. and they'll pick up a cup of tea or a cup of coffee,

  383. and they'll go, it's great to be home, Mum, It's great to

  384. be home dad. It's not their home, but they still remember it as

  385. home. And I hope that for many hundreds of people, UCF would be

  386. a place that we fall home. I don't just mean this building. I

  387. mean the building that we would grow into, the place that we would grow

  388. into, the online services that we would do. I deliberately want to encourage

  389. everybody to say we want to talk to you, to talk to you at

  390. home, not just those in the room. It's not a flight you're not

  391. watching us doing church. We are doing church. We're doing church together,

  392. and as we do church together, you can be part of us and we

  393. can be part of you. That's why we gather. That's what this is.

  394. We talk, we pray, That's what the WhatsApp groups are about.

  395. We give time and money, and then we find a place to serve.

  396. In p Salm eighty four, David wrote this verses ten to twelve. A

  397. single day in your ports is better than a thousands anywhere else. I'd rather

  398. guard the door of the house of my God than live in the tents of

  399. sinful people. The Lord God is like the sun that gives us light.

  400. He has a shield that keeps us safe. The Lord blesses us with favor

  401. and honor. He doesn't hold back on anything good from those whose lives are

  402. without blame. Lord rules over all. Blessed is everyone who trusts in You.

  403. One of the things we do to help people make them feel at home

  404. is we welcome them. That's why I'm encouraging people to and we started having

  405. somebody on the door because of COVID. Let's turn that into something good and

  406. always have somebody on the door. If you are wanting to be part of

  407. the welcome team. Let me know that, Julia. Let Julia know.

  408. You know we'd love to add you to the welcome team. This is just

  409. a couple of things you got to do. Number One, turn up early,

  410. because guests always turn up early. Number two is come with a small

  411. on your face and make people feel welcome. A church I visited again on

  412. one of my international trips where I was there on a Sunday, and a

  413. gentleman came and he saw me walking from my car in the car park and

  414. he started walking from the steps at the front of the church. He probably

  415. walked twenty meters towards me. He said, sir, you're new here,

  416. aren't you. He said welcome, And as we walked, he walked so

  417. effectively walked all the way, you know, right to the end of the

  418. road. He saw me parking. He recognized that I was different, I

  419. guess, because I was in a car with a different number plate and he

  420. said it said higher car on the back window. I guess. But he

  421. greeted me and we walked together up the steps and we stood on the steps

  422. and we talked, and then he gave me a business card and said Dave,

  423. I'd love to stay in contact with you, and for the next few

  424. weeks afterwards he encouraged me. I mean he was in America, I was

  425. back in the UK. He stayed in contact. There are people who call

  426. RCF home and they now live in other company countries. How does that work?

  427. Well, it's the same way as your children leaving home. When your

  428. children leave home, they move somewhere else. I can think of students who

  429. used to be with us from Chile, Paula and Gonzala. You know they

  430. still think of us as home. They still stay in touch from time to

  431. time. Another one would be a manual. Emmanuel was a master's student here

  432. probably ten years ago now, and he still stays in touch. He still

  433. sends us a Christmas message. As a church, he always asks how are

  434. you doing? He joins us online and listens to the service. He might

  435. be listening today. Who knows if you are welcome? Better is one day

  436. in your courts than the thousand elsewhere. One of the things that I'll be

  437. honest with you, I was almost a little disappointed with was that we didn't

  438. have life worship. And it's something we really laid our hearts before God.

  439. That senior leadership, the leadership of the church, and we're going to pray

  440. about this, and we prayed about it. We started praying about it back

  441. in the last year, really laying it before the Lord. And now look,

  442. firstly, we've got Paul and Keddy coming and visiting us, and thank

  443. you for coming. That's just great in relationship, out of friendship. I

  444. hope Mikasasukas, I hope this feels like home. But then it seemed like

  445. out of nowhere, Jonathan and Sama and Cherryon arrived and we now have a

  446. worship too. I just praise God for that because I'll tell you what.

  447. There's music in my house. There's music in my hope. There's worship in

  448. my hope. Again, I'll give you a bit of a hint now,

  449. but we'd often have Radio two on in our house, and then when a

  450. certain gentleman moved from Radio two to somewhere else, we've moved our allegiances too,

  451. you know. So, but when he's gone, often the music that's

  452. on in our house is worship. Okay, Alexa, And I don't want

  453. to say Alexa too loud because I might switch something on at home for those

  454. people who are listening, you can cause real have it if somebody's listening to

  455. a stream. And I've heard about people doing this on radio and they very

  456. loudly said okay, alecta. And things have happened at people's homes because anyway,

  457. that's a bit of fun. Better is one day in your courts than

  458. a thousand elsewhere. So what am I asking you to do? Well?

  459. I guess one of the things I'm asking you is to mentally kick your shoes

  460. off at the door. If you want to kick your shoes off, please

  461. make sure your socks are clean, and you wash and you wash your feet.

  462. But feel free. If you want to kick your shoes off as you

  463. come into church as a as a statement I'm home, then feel free to

  464. do so. We'll work out how we deal with all the shoes by the

  465. door. That's a different issue. But make yourself at home. If you

  466. want to dance in his presence, then feel free to do so. Don't

  467. feel you only have to do it at home, for better is one day

  468. in your courts than a thousand to elsewhere. I sometimes twist this little scripture.

  469. Sometimes I get an opportunity to not here, but somewhere else. I've

  470. various conferences. I've said, I'll be on the door, is it,

  471. David, You don't need to be on the door. No, No,

  472. I'd like to because I'd rather be a doorkeeper in his house than doing something

  473. else. So if I was going to visit your house, what would your

  474. house say? Are you calling church home? No place I would rather be.

  475. I'll end with a story which is a bit of an out story,

  476. but it's true. My dad passed away on Wednesday evening, I think it

  477. was Wednesday anyway, weekday evening, and I got a phone call in the

  478. midst of our small group meeting that was going on. Obviously, the phone

  479. kept on ringing. Not normally we would just let the phone ring, but

  480. the phone kept on ringing and kept on ringing. So I said, okay,

  481. I better go and check. And that was my that mum. She

  482. told me that my dad had passed away and obviously explained the situation. I

  483. came back into the room, and obviously I didn't look good, and people

  484. said, Dave, what's what's happened? I said, well, if that

  485. has passed, immediately said sorry to hear about that, and said, well

  486. we better go. Then this is The point I'm making is I said,

  487. no, I'd rather you stay. Rather you stay because your family and they

  488. stayed, and they prayed with me and Julia, and you know, it's

  489. just a small group because sometimes we can run away from difficult circumstances. There's

  490. no place I would rather be with a difficult circumstance than in His house with

  491. you. And now think if we start modeling that, then the world will

  492. start looking going. Do you know what If I take my problems or if

  493. I take my struggles to a place where they can get sorted with people who

  494. can can connect with God, Miracles will happen, Prophetic words will come,

  495. insight come, intercession will happen, breakthrough will happen. No place I would

  496. rather be. So Church, what is it? It's a place of change.

  497. I hope that you will not leave this place the same way you arrived.

  498. In some small way. It might be an adjustment of mindset. It

  499. might be a miraculous touch from God, it might be a fresh perspective that

  500. God's given you through scriptures. But it's a place of change. That's the

  501. kind of thing that I'm looking for, the place that I want to linger.

  502. No place so it's a place of change. It's a place of connection

  503. not just with one another, but with God too. And please, if

  504. we leave God out of that equation, then we're lost. I really believe

  505. that. You know, we could just be a club if we're just going

  506. to have a chat. And I know BT said, it's good to talk.

  507. And it's a place of commitment too. It's a place of commitment to

  508. God. It's a placement of commitment to one another. Sometimes part of our

  509. journey is to share our stories. Sometimes part of our story is to share

  510. with other people and say, hey, this is what I'm walking through right

  511. now. And then, in my opinion, family and friends, what we

  512. do is then the next time we see somebody, how's it going. You

  513. know last week you told me about this, what's happened? How can I

  514. keep praying? Because that shows commitment to one another and commitment to a relationship

  515. with God. We keep on bringing our friends to God, bringing our connections

  516. to God and saying Lord, I can't deal with this, but you can.

  517. So let me pray. Let me pray. No place I would rather

  518. be. I'm just going to pause and allow this to settle into your spirits.

  519. Just since that there's been some raining going on, there's been some fresh

  520. insight come, some fresh questions arisen. It's so easy to look at the

  521. reasons why you wouldn't, why we wouldn't invite someone home for tea and coffee.

  522. The same thing can happen with church too. We can think of all

  523. the reasons why not, rather than the one reason why not. So Father,

  524. first, firstly, I pray that you'd open our eyes. Open our

  525. eyes, O God, open our eyes to what you're doing in our world,

  526. what you're doing in our lives, what you're doing in our homes,

  527. what you're doing in the church. Lord God, Father, I pray that

  528. Lord your light would burn brightly in us as we read in Isaiah, the

  529. Lord your light shines up. So Father, I pray that Lord, we

  530. wouldn't tarnish the light that you'd set a blaze within us. Fathers, help

  531. us to be men and women, have holiness set apart, to walk like

  532. you, to walk your ways, to walk like Jesus, to do what

  533. Jesus would do. And Father, help us to run to church. Help

  534. us to want to be with His people, because there's no place we would

  535. rather be. Now, as I'm praying, there's one thing that immediately sprang

  536. into my mind. Sometimes we say to ourselves, I can't go and hang

  537. out with them. I'm not like them, And that could be a whole

  538. set of reasons. Maybe I've done something wrong that I shouldn't have done,

  539. and think, Okay, how can I sit in God's presence? How can

  540. I sit with these people when I know I've done this thing wrong. Well,

  541. turn from that habit, turn from that way, turn from that choice,

  542. and choose to walk into His presence. No place I would rather be

  543. be in your house over So we're going to come back to a place of

  544. worship now as we sing a song. But I want to use this as

  545. a place of reflection before we come to communion, because we're going to gather

  546. around the communion table after we sung this song, and we're going to do

  547. that just because we're moving from no place I would rather be to be in

  548. your presence, to sit at your feet where your love surrounds me and makes

  549. me complete. So I want to encourage you as we sing this song if

  550. you need to have a