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Putting Down Roots: Week 6

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  1. Welcome to Church at the Crossing. My name is Andrew, and if this

  2. is your first time, if you're new to Church at the Crossing, I'm

  3. so glad that you chose to be here today. Today we are finishing our

  4. message series that we've been in and it's a series we've been calling putting down

  5. Roots. In this series, we are studying the Book of Collossians, and

  6. in Collossions chapter two, we read it says you are rooted in Christ Jesus.

  7. And so this whole series we've been talking about how our roots are in

  8. Jesus. And today we're gonna wrap this up by looking at the last chapter

  9. of Collossians. That's Collossians chapter four. And in this section we're gonna read

  10. and learn about how to share the message and the good news of Jesus.

  11. And so I want to start by sharing a story today. It's a story

  12. about a young man that I know. This young man was in high school

  13. one summer when he went to a Christian summer camp. And the summer camp

  14. was hosted on the college campus of a university. And all week long,

  15. this young man and other high schoolers were learning about the Bible. They were

  16. learning about Christian faith, Christian doctrine. They were learning about world religions and

  17. the debates about faith, and towards the end of the week, this young

  18. man and the other campers were given an assignment kind of a workshop to go

  19. into the community in the college campus and engage strangers in conversation about faith.

  20. Some people call this evangelism or witnessing. And so this young man was going

  21. to go and talk to strangers about Jesus, and the camp gave him some

  22. tools. They gave him some talking points that they gave him certain tools,

  23. like one of them was called the four Killer questions, and the killer questions

  24. were like debate techniques like how do you know that's true? Or what do

  25. you mean by that? Or what difference does that make in your life?

  26. And I think the fourth one was what if you're wrong and you die?

  27. So just some little small talk, right, So, armed with his killer

  28. questions and his tool as, this young man went out and he started to

  29. talk with strangers and try to talk about Jesus and faith. And he talked

  30. to a handful of people that afternoon, and after a few hours he went

  31. back to the camp and rejoined the rest of the campers, and they debriefed

  32. their experience. Now I want to ask you that day, what do you

  33. think how many people did that young man lead to faith in Jesus? Zero?

  34. And another question for you, who do you think that young man was?

  35. That was me? And I've come a long way since trying to argue

  36. about faith. Today, I want to talk about a better way to sharing

  37. the message and the hope of Jesus. Because the good news of Jesus is

  38. the greatest news in the entire world. The good news of Jesus is life

  39. transforming news. It's the greatest news because it's the news that there is a

  40. God who has created us, and who has loved us so much that he

  41. would become a human being, that he would walk in our shoes, that

  42. he would suffer what we suffer, and most of all, that he would

  43. die in our place, paying the price for our sins so that we could

  44. be forgiven so we can have eternal life. This is great news. And

  45. if we were to take time today in this space, each of us has

  46. a story to tell of how you have experienced the good news of Jesus.

  47. If we were to take time to hear these stories, we would hear stories

  48. of marriages that were healed, addictions that have been broken, depression that's been

  49. removed, a hope that's been restored. We would hear so many stories here

  50. of God's provision and God's goodness because you've experienced his grace. You've been forgiven,

  51. you've been saved, You've been redeemed because of Jesus. Now, imagine

  52. for a moment, just think what would your life be like today if you

  53. had never heard the message of Jesus. What would your life be like if

  54. you had never been transformed by the grace and the love of Jesus. What

  55. would other people have to say about you if you didn't know Jesus. What

  56. would your family be like? Your relationships look like? What insecurities or struggles

  57. or sins or fears would you be fighting today if you didn't know Jesus.

  58. Jesus is a solution. We've been changed by Jesus. And there's a community

  59. here that we live in with so many people who don't know about the good

  60. news of Jesus. They don't know that there's a God who has endless love

  61. for them, who wants to lead their life and transform their life and give

  62. them hope and give them purpose. There are so many in our community living

  63. in darkness, who are living trapped in bondage to sin, to addiction,

  64. who are living in suffering and in brokenness, and Jesus is the hope for

  65. our community. You know, each week I often review some of the prayer

  66. requests that come into our church. They come in on the connect cards there

  67. and the seatbacks are digitally through email, and so many of the prayer requests

  68. I read have the names of family members and relatives and friends that we are

  69. praying for who are not Christians, but we want them to become Christians.

  70. We want them to be transformed by Jesus. We want to see our world,

  71. our community, our families changed by Jesus. And Jesus calls you and

  72. me to be a part of this work in sharing the good news message.

  73. When Jesus was on earth, he was talking with his disciples just before he

  74. went back to heaven, and he gave some pretty clear instructions to them and

  75. to us. Jesus said this in Acts one eight. He said, you

  76. will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you, and you will be

  77. my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends

  78. of the earth. You and I are Jesus's witnesses. Notice, look at

  79. this text closely. Does he say you'll be my politician. Does he say

  80. you'll be my activists or my protesters. He doesn't say that you'll be my

  81. soldiers. And he doesn't get hyper spiritual and say you'll be my spiritual gurus

  82. or my monks. He says you are my witnesses. And what does a

  83. witness do. A witness gives testimony. A witness retells what they have seen,

  84. what they have heard, and what they've experienced. That's what a witness

  85. does. We are called to be his witnesses. And so the question that

  86. we're asking today is what is a Christian witness? What is a witness for

  87. Jesus? What is a Christian witness that a witness for Jesus. Well,

  88. we're gonna take a look at the text of Colossians, chapter four, and

  89. let me give some background here. Colossians was originally a letter that was written

  90. by Paul, a leader in the early Church. This was written in the

  91. first century to other Christians, giving them instruction and helping them follow Jesus and

  92. So here's what Paul writes in Colossians for Starting in verse two, he says,

  93. devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful, and pray for us

  94. too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we

  95. may proclaim the mystery of Christ for which I'm in chains. Pray that I

  96. may proclaim it clearly, as I should now look closely. Here at verse

  97. three, Paul writes, pray that God may open a door for our message.

  98. A Christian witness is a life that opens doors for the Gospel of Jesus

  99. through words and actions. Christian witness is about opening doors. And this is

  100. the big idea today. This is the main point. There's one thing that

  101. I want each of us to remember today when we walk out. If you'll

  102. remember this big idea, open doors for the Gospel. Open doors for the

  103. Gospel. The Gospel simply means good news, the good news that Jesus died

  104. for our sins and rose from the dead to give us eternal life. You

  105. and I, through our witness, we get to open yours for the Gospel.

  106. Who you are, how you live, what you say. It opens

  107. doors. So the other people who are outside the Gospel can come inside the

  108. faith. Let's keep reading in our text. Here in verse five we read,

  109. be wise in the way you act toward outsiders. Make the most of

  110. every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt,

  111. so that you may know how to answer everyone. Notice here in the

  112. first line of this verse, be wise in the way you act toward outsiders.

  113. This scripture makes an assumption that there are insiders and there are outsiders.

  114. Insiders are Christians. Insiders are those who have put their faith in trust in

  115. Jesus. Insiders is someone who says, I am a sinner, I need

  116. God's forgiveness, and I'm gonna follow Jesus. That's an insider, and an

  117. outsider is somebody who is not a Christian, who has not put faith in

  118. Jesus, who has not trusted in Jesus. But the good news is that

  119. God will it's everyone to come on the inside. God wants everyone to come

  120. inside the family of God, and our witness opens doors so that others can

  121. come inside the Family of God. Last summer, my wife Lauren surprised me

  122. for my birthday by making reservations at a secret, hidden restaurant here in Indianapolis.

  123. That's right. It's a secret restaurant. It doesn't have a sign,

  124. it's not publicized or advertised. In fact, it's a secret restaurant that's inside

  125. of another restaurant, a public, well known restaurant. And so we arrived

  126. at the public restaurant, and we went up to the host and we gave

  127. like a password or a code word to confirm our reservation, and then the

  128. host escorted us, led us through the main restaurant, through the dining room,

  129. throughout the past other customers, through the kitchen, and then we came

  130. to the secret dark door. And I can't remember exactly, but I think

  131. the host had a code word or a secret knock that opened the door to

  132. this secret, hidden restaurant. And inside it was really small. It was

  133. this tiny maybe room for ten or twelve people. It was beautifully decorated,

  134. and this little restaurant was called a sound space or a listening room. And

  135. what that means is every part of this restaurant, from Florida ceiling, the

  136. architecture, the furniture, everything was perfectly designed and perfectly placed to have perfect

  137. sound acoustics so you could listen to music on old record players and the food

  138. was delicious. There's just this awesome, awesome experience. As followers of Jesus,

  139. we have the secret to eternal life, and it's a secret that must

  140. be shared. And we are opening doors so that other people can come into

  141. eternal life. We are opening doors so that others can come inside the family

  142. of God, so that they can live the life that God created them for

  143. now. I believe that there are effective witnesses for Christ and there are not

  144. so effective witnesses for Christ. And as we talk about having an effective witness

  145. for Jesus, I want to describe two extremes of Christian witness. There's two

  146. extremes. On one extreme we have what I'm calling the bully witness, and

  147. on the other extreme is the boring witness. The bully witness is somebody who

  148. argues for Jesus. A bully witness wants to be right and prove their right.

  149. That story I told about summer Camp earlier would be like a bullied trend

  150. toward being a bully witness. Argumentative, have you ever seen a Christian arguing

  151. about things? Or have you heard someone use Bible verses as evidence, like

  152. to prove something or a cross examining somebody to get a point across. Jesus

  153. did not call us to be his defense attorneys. Jesus called us to be

  154. witnesses giving testimony, not lawyers giving an argument. Instead of opening doors for

  155. the gospel, a bully witness often closes doors in people's faces. Now,

  156. on the other extreme is the boring witness, And the boring witnesses is somebody

  157. who is a Christian, but they don't really talk about why they follow Jesus

  158. or what their faith is. They might go to church, they might read

  159. the Bible, they probably listen to Christian music. But a boring witness is

  160. somebody that's very quiet, shy about what they believe. And it's the attitude

  161. of you know, I'm gonna mind my own business. I'm gonna be a

  162. good person. I've got my beliefs, you've got your beliefs. We can

  163. get along as long as we don't bother each other. It's a boring witness.

  164. Instead of opening doors for the gospel, a boring witness stands in the

  165. door in waves. A bully witness closes the door, and a boring witness

  166. stands in the door in waves and says Hey, you know, if you

  167. need anything, let me. I'm just gonna do my Christian thing. You

  168. do your thing. But I believe there's a better way. I believe there's

  169. a third way. It's not the boring witness, it's not the bully witness.

  170. I believe it's the biblical witness. It's what Jesus calls us to.

  171. It's what the apostle Paul and Classians four is describing. I believe, as

  172. we look at this text, we're gonna discover three components of a biblical effective

  173. Christian witness. And if you will adopt these three components, if you will

  174. practice these three components, you're gonna see God do things in your life.

  175. Your faith is gonna grow, your confidence is gonna grow, your joy is

  176. gonna increase, and you're gonna see people come to know Jesus. You're gonna

  177. see lives transformed, and most of all, you're gonna see the power of

  178. God working through your witness. You want to know what these three components are,

  179. Let's look at our text. Look at verse five. We read walk

  180. in wisdom toward outsiders making the best use of time. This is the first

  181. component of an effective Biblical Christian witness, live wisely. Live wisely, opening

  182. doors for the Gospel begins with the choices and the decisions that you make on

  183. a daily basis, the habits, the patterns that we make on a regular

  184. daily basis, your behavior, your conduct, how you speak about others,

  185. how you treat others. Think of it this way. It's like opening the

  186. door so that others can get a glimpse into your faith. And I want

  187. to be really clear by what I mean by live wisely. This does not

  188. mean live judgmental. There are plenty of Christians who are judgmental, plenty of

  189. Christians who shame others, look down on others, and project this idea I'm

  190. better than you because I'm a Christian. Living wisely is not about judgment or

  191. shame. Living wisely is suppos to elicit the question why it's supposed to create

  192. curiosity? Why are Christians different? Why are Christians unique? Think of it

  193. this way. It's it's like the college student who decides I'm not gonna get

  194. drunk at the party, and it's not because I'm better than you. It's

  195. because I want to honor Jesus with my body and my decisions. It's like

  196. the couple who decides they're gonna honor God with their sexual intimacy and marriage,

  197. not because I'm better than you, but because we want the best for our

  198. marriage, and we want the best for obeying God. It's like the parents

  199. who tithe off of their income and they model and show their children how to

  200. trust God for provision, not trust in a paycheck or trust in the stock

  201. market, but trust Jesus. It's the co worker who forgives when they're wronged

  202. and doesn't try to get even a revenge. It's the employee who shows up

  203. early and stays late because they want to give their best. They're not working

  204. for a human boss, They're working for serving for the Lord. See,

  205. it's not about right and wrong behavior. It's about character and conduct in a

  206. life that is affected by the Gospel and reflects the Gospel. I know so

  207. many Christians who are living wisely to open doors for the Gospel. You saw

  208. David up here a moment ago our youth pastor. And one thing that you

  209. may not know about David is that during the school year, David volunteers to

  210. help coach a boy's sports team at one of the local high schools. Here

  211. he's not paid for. He's volunteering. And often on Thursdays he will leave

  212. work early to go coach rain or shine, and I've seen him on some

  213. rainy days and then he will return for Thursday night service. And David's living

  214. wisely. He's making the best use of time by being an example to these

  215. boys of building relationship, of building trust, opening doors for the Gospel.

  216. It makes me think about another Christian that I know. One day, she

  217. showed up at work and was totally surprised when an entire higher department at her

  218. company quit overnight and then went and joined a competitor company out of spite to

  219. hurt the former company. And my friend and the remaining coworkers were devastated.

  220. They were shocked, and then they had to scramble to pick up the pieces

  221. of what was left behind. And my friend told me that while the other

  222. co workers started getting toxic and grumbling and had resentment and bitterness, she saw

  223. an opportunity to bring more of Jesus into her environment. And she started talking

  224. about her faith, and she invited other co workers to begin praying with her

  225. for her company and for their boss. And she told me that she felt

  226. like God had put her in this negative situation to bring more of his light

  227. and more of his love. That's what it means to live wisely. You

  228. can live wisely through your choices. Your witness is opening doors to give a

  229. glimpse to your faith. And so here's my encouragement. Start by asking yourself

  230. this question. Does my daily life open doors or closed doors for the Gospel?

  231. Does my daily life open doors or closed doors for the Gospel? Do

  232. your choices reflect the Gospel? Do your relationships, how you treat people,

  233. the friendships you have, does it reflect the gospel? Does how you spend

  234. your time and your money reflect the Gospel? Your daily choices living wisely making

  235. wise choices can be an open door to reflect the Gospel. Let's keep reading

  236. our text here and look at verse six with me. Paul writes, Let

  237. your conversation be always full of grace and seasoned with salt, so that you

  238. may know how to answer everyone. Notice our text tells us that our witness,

  239. we must speak the Gospel with grace, Speak gracefully. This is the

  240. next component of an effective biblical witness. Speak gracefully. Remember those two extremes

  241. of a poor witness, The bully witness and the boring witness. This text

  242. does not tell us to be argumentative or to be aggressive or to fight for

  243. Jesus. That sounds like a bully witness. And it doesn't say just be

  244. quiet, be unnoticed, be silent. That's a boring witness. The text

  245. tells us to speak with grace, to be vocal, and it also says

  246. to season our conversation with salt to be interesting, to be flavorful. I

  247. really enjoy a salty snack. I enjoy pretzels, peanuts, French fries.

  248. I love French fries. If you offered me French fries without salt, I

  249. would just not enjoy that very much. Have you ever been in the grocery

  250. store and seen the peanuts or the cashews that advertise fifty percent less salt.

  251. Well, I think that's one hundred percent more boring. I want a salty

  252. snack. Our witness should be the same. When we speak about the gospel,

  253. we season it with grace, and we season we make it interesting,

  254. we make it engaging. It's not supposed to be flavorless and brand and boring

  255. and end. Our witness is not supposed to be bitter, angry, combative,

  256. judgmental, harsh, supposed to be seasoned with salt. Now, let's

  257. just be honest. For some, the thought of talking about faith is scary.

  258. For some, the idea of bringing up the Gospel or Jesus is intimidating.

  259. It might feel stiff and awkward and uncomfortable. But I want to notice

  260. one thing in our text. If we go back to Colossians four, verse

  261. six, it says, let your conversation be always full of grace. You

  262. don't have to get up in front of a crowd and give a speech.

  263. It says, let your conversation. It's conversation. It's the words that we

  264. say. But I think some of us get so much in our head,

  265. like we gotta give this presentation with a power point and a handout, that

  266. we would rather just be quiet because it seems overwhelming, it seems intimidating.

  267. But here's my encouragement for you today. When you speak about Jesus, when

  268. you speak with grace, when you seize in your words with salt, with

  269. the love and the grace of Jesus, God fills your words with power.

  270. It's not your job to convince or change someone's mind. Let God do the

  271. transformation. He uses your words. There is power in your words. And

  272. if we don't speak the gospel, there is no power. Romans ten,

  273. verse thirteen puts it this way. Everyone who calls on the name of the

  274. Lord will be saved. But how can they call on him to save them

  275. unless they believe in him? How can they hear unless someone tells them.

  276. We gotta tell him, We gotta tell him. How will they hear unless

  277. we tell him? For some, it's just sharing what God has done in

  278. your life, describing how He's healed you, always transformed you, how he's

  279. changed you. For some, it's a conversation over a meal or while working

  280. together on a project. For many, it's a simple invitation to church or

  281. to small group. But whatever it is, speak with grace, be interesting,

  282. like salt, be flavorful. And I also want to say that many

  283. times you'll see transformation immediately when you share the gospel, you'll see someone's heart

  284. transform immediately. And often it takes a long time. It's not immediate.

  285. Often it takes many conversations in a lifetime or a long time of relationship.

  286. I'll give you an example from my life. I became friends many years ago

  287. with Larry and Larry and I were in the same community and we were working

  288. on a community project for an organization there, and we met regularly to work

  289. together. And I felt God put on my heart that he wanted me to

  290. share the Gospel with Larry, and so when we would meet together, I

  291. would gently steer our conversations towards things of faith, and Larry had a lot

  292. of questions about my faith because Larry kind of had a little bit of a

  293. religious background but didn't go to church, didn't follow Jesus, just had a

  294. lot of questions. And I would end most of our meetings by asking,

  295. how can I pray for you? And then eventually Larry became comfortable enough to

  296. pray with me when we entered those meetings. And after some time of building

  297. our friendship, Larry had some bad things happened and Larry was dealing with some

  298. grief and loss and disappointment. So Larry reached out to me for advice,

  299. and I met with Larry, and this was an opportunity to show more of

  300. God's love to Larry, and and I listened to Larry, and then I

  301. shared a story from the Bible about God's love and God's hope got to share

  302. a little bit of the gospel. And then later on we were sharing a

  303. meal together and I was prompted by God just to simply ask the question,

  304. Larry, do you believe that Jesus died and rose from the dead? And

  305. Larry looked at me and said, yes, absolutely. I believe that this

  306. was a huge change from when I first met Larry. A little while later,

  307. at another meal, Larry opened up about the past and about some childhood

  308. pain and some difficulty, and Larry said, I believe God saved me from

  309. that life. And then I was able to give Larry a Bible and explain

  310. how to read it and how to understand it, and Larry began reading the

  311. words of Jesus and walking with Jesus. Now, I want to point out

  312. a couple of things. First of all, asking the question how can I

  313. pray for you is a lot better than what if you're wrong and you die?

  314. But I want to point out that this transformation didn't happen overnight. Can

  315. you guess how long that journey was with my friend? Those highlights were just

  316. a few highlights from a three year journey of conversation of building relationship. Larry

  317. didn't need an argument. Larry didn't need evidence, Larry didn't need a presentation.

  318. Larry needed a friend who would listen to questions and who would speak with

  319. grace and show Larry who Jesus is. Your conversation can be graceful. So

  320. I encourage you today to ask yourself this question, how do I speak about

  321. my faith with others? How do you speak about your faith with others?

  322. Because God has put you in your situation. He's put you in your classroom,

  323. in your workplace to bring encouragement, to share his truth, to share

  324. his love. He's put you in your family, in your neighborhood to be

  325. the hope and the love of Jesus through your words. And don't fear because

  326. Jesus is gonna give you the right words to say. He's gonna give you

  327. the wisdom and there's power when you speak the gospel. How will they believe

  328. unless someone tells them. We're gonna tell them. So far, our text

  329. has showed us that an effective biblical witness it includes livewisely, speak gracefully.

  330. And there's one more component, and that is pray consistently. I think it's

  331. the most important, most critical components to an effective wis pray consistently. Notice

  332. our text in verse two, we read, devote yourselves to prayer, being

  333. watchful and thankful, and pray for us too, that God may open a

  334. door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ for

  335. which I'm in chains. Pray that I may proclaim it clearly as I should.

  336. Paul uses the word prayer in each one of these verses. Pray,

  337. pray, pray, pray. I think prayer is really important to an effective

  338. Christian witness. Prayer is the supernatural work of activating God's power for transformation.

  339. Prayer releases more of God's love. Prayer opens more doors for the gospel.

  340. If you've been here at Church of the Crossing before, you've seen our prayer

  341. partners who are available in the front at the end of services to pray with

  342. us. And one of our prayer partners was sharing with me recently that she

  343. keeps a prayer wall in her home with prayer requests people that she's praying for

  344. it. And you can see in this picture that some of it's been blocked

  345. out just to protect some privacy and confidentiality. But you see that at the

  346. top there are names and initials where it says she's praying for them to come

  347. to faith in Jesus, a relationship with Jesus, prayers for family, for

  348. friends, all of these things. Prayer releases more of God's love. It

  349. opens more doors for the gospel. Now, you may not have a chalkboard

  350. in your home, but all of us have some type of prayer lists,

  351. whether it's in a notebook or on our phone, or even if it's just

  352. a mental or something in our heart that we keep. We have a list

  353. that we're praying for. And we have people that we love and care about

  354. that we want to see come to faith in Jesus. We want to see

  355. them transformed by the good News of Jesus. Prayer is the supernatural work of

  356. activating God's power for transformation. And so if we're gonna pray consistently, this

  357. is why today when you came in, you received one of these sticky notes.

  358. If you would go ahead and take this out now, and if you

  359. didn't receive one, just most and our ushers would be happy to get one

  360. for you. And while I'm speaking, I want to invite you to take

  361. a pen that you have there with you and write down the name of somebody

  362. that you care about who is not a Christian, somebody that you want to

  363. pray for to come into relationship with Jesus. Go ahead, right now while

  364. I'm talking. You can write that person's name down and you're gonna take this

  365. home with you. You can put it in a place that will be a

  366. reminder to pray, refrigerator, the car. It might be a co worker,

  367. it might be a relative or a family member, somebody that you know,

  368. someone in your life that's not a Christian. Just write their name down

  369. and then and then circle their name. Now you might be asking, well,

  370. what do I pray for? How do I pray for this person?

  371. Well, here's what I would say. First, pray for opportunities. Pray

  372. for opportunities to speak to them about Jesus. Pray for opportunities to show them

  373. the love and the grace of Jesus. Next, pray for soft hearts.

  374. Pray for their hearts to be softened to the message of Jesus. Pray for

  375. their hearts to be open and soft to the message of Jesus. Next,

  376. pray for their ears to be open, that their ears would be open to

  377. hearing the message. And then pray for their eyes. Pray that their eyes

  378. would see their need for Jesus, see their need for His love and forgiveness.

  379. Now, if a name doesn't come to mind right now, just draw

  380. a circle and take it home and begin praying, and let God tell you

  381. what name needs to go in that circle. I believe that many of us

  382. here want our loved ones to come to faith in Jesus. We want to

  383. see the people we care about transformed by the power and the grace of Jesus.

  384. I know that there are heavy hearts here. I know that there are

  385. names on these sticky notes that we care about that we're burdened forth. And

  386. I want to end a day by sharing a story that I recently came across

  387. about a father and his daughter. And I want to tell you up front

  388. that this story doesn't have an ending yet. We're still waiting for the ending.

  389. But here's what the father wrote. He said, while living overseas,

  390. our daughter secretly converted to a false religion. I was angry. I had

  391. no idea what this religion was really about. I told her that after she

  392. moved out, she could do whatever she wanted, but while she lived with

  393. us, she would attend our church. To this day, I will forever

  394. regret those words. I began to study that religion relentlessly. I would wake

  395. up at three in the morning and study for four hours daily. I would

  396. find out a new incriminating piece of evidence about that religion and call my daughter

  397. and it would turn into a horrendous argument. The scriptures to me were a

  398. sword, and I was going to do anything I could to pummel my daughter

  399. into understanding we were right and she was wrong. Then the father says that

  400. God changed his heart, and he says, while there is still hurt in

  401. the relationship with our daughter, my wife and I continue to grow. My

  402. anger has subsided, and we have opened our door. It's the big idea

  403. today opened doors. We have opened our door to share the good news of

  404. what Jesus did and who he really was. We still feel devastated, but

  405. we are happy, and we pray for opportunities to reach our daughter in love.

  406. A story is still waiting for an ending, it's waiting for a new

  407. beginning. But today your story doesn't need to wait. Your story can have

  408. a new beginning today. And I believe that there are two responses to the

  409. message we heard today, I think the first response is for those of us

  410. who hear that story and you can relate to the father in that story,

  411. that you have a loved one or someone you care about, a friend who's

  412. not a Christian, or maybe they were once a Christian and they've walked away,

  413. and you have felt all the feelings. You've felt sad and angry and

  414. embarrassed and afraid, and you know arguing is not gonna work. You also

  415. know avoiding isn't gonna work, and you feel like it's out of it's beyond

  416. your control. That's because it is. But I believe today that God wants

  417. to do a new beginning in your heart. That God wants to do something

  418. new in your heart. He wants to heal some wounds in your heart.

  419. He wants to bring some comfort to you today. And I also believe that

  420. God wants to say to someone today, it is not your responsibility to change

  421. someone's mind. Somebody here needs to be set free from that burden. That's

  422. that another person's salvation is your responsibility. No, your responsibility is to be

  423. a witness, to open doors for the gospel and let God do the transference.

  424. So we break off that shame or that guilt. In the name of

  425. Jesus, I said, there are two responses today. I think the second

  426. response today is for anyone who's listening and you identify with the daughter in that

  427. story we just heard, that you are have been hurt by Christian bullies or

  428. family that's judged you and condemned you or rejected you. And right now you

  429. know that you are separated from God. You know that you are living a

  430. life of sin or you are living in brokenness, that you are far from

  431. Him, you're not following him, and you know that if you relate to

  432. what I just said, I want to ask you to look at your sticky

  433. note right now, if you are disconnected from God, if you are far

  434. from look at your sticky note. And you probably know that your name belongs

  435. on the sticky note, I want to ask you a look at me.

  436. God knows your name, God knows your past. He knows the ugly stuff,

  437. he knows the sinful stuff, he knows the things that you think are

  438. completely secret in him, and he knows all of it. But more importantly,

  439. God is telling you today that he sees you, he hears you,

  440. and he knows you. And today He is reaching out and he's inviting you

  441. to come into relationship with him. Today can be your new beginning. Today

  442. can be a fresh start. So I want to invite you right now if

  443. you would to pray with me. Let's close our eyes and bow our heads

  444. together. And today, if you recognize that you are living separated from God

  445. and you want to have a fresh start in a relationship with God, I'm

  446. gonna ask that you just simply repeat this prayer after me in your heart.

  447. Say, Dear God, I admit that I'm a sinner and I need your

  448. forgiveness. I believe Jesus died for me and rose from the dead to save

  449. me. And today I confess Jesus's lord of my life. I want to

  450. come inside your family God, and now I want to pray for all of

  451. us here today, everyone who's listening. Father, God, would you bring

  452. comfort to those who need some comfort today? God, would you also bring

  453. some boldness? God, for those who are burden for loved ones, burden

  454. for friends who need to hear the gospel message? Did you give them boldness?

  455. And God, would you give them wisdom and how to share and show

  456. love and be a witness. God, we pray today that there would be

  457. opportunities, even in this week. God, that there would be opportunities for

  458. us to show more of your love, to answer questions, to share the

  459. good news of Jesus. And most of all, God, would you increase

  460. our faith to trust you with results, trust you with transformation. And we

  461. pray all this in Jesus name. Amen.