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Peace of Mind: Week 2

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  1. Welcome to Church at the Crossing. My name is Andrew, and if you

  2. are new here, I'm so glad that you chose to be here today because

  3. we're continuing a message series that's called Peace of Mind. And in this series,

  4. we're looking at topics around mental health, topics like worry and depression and

  5. burnout. Last week we talked about the myths that are out there about mental

  6. health, and today we're talking about the negative thoughts that many of us struggle

  7. with. And I want to be really clear this series, this message is

  8. called peace of mind, not a peace of my mind. You've probably heard

  9. that expression, I'm gonna give them a piece of my mind. And then

  10. what usually comes after some kind of negative criticism, negative critique or complaint or

  11. some kind of harsh negativity. Typically, almost always it's a negative thing when

  12. someone says, I'm gonna give them a piece of my mind. Would you

  13. agree that our culture, our world is becoming more and more negative, increasingly

  14. more negative. There's more cynicism, there's more sarcasm, there's more skepticism.

  15. It's just it just abounds. And this negativity can seep into our minds that

  16. it can absorb into our own souls if we're not careful, I mean,

  17. how do we see this in our daily lives? Well, let me let's

  18. just think what spreads quicker on social media? Negative information or positive information?

  19. Negative? And what about the news and the media. What stories get more

  20. attention? Bad news or good news bad news? In fact, I learned

  21. recently that there's a news and media expression that says, if it bleeds,

  22. it leads. That means if it's ugly, if it's violent, if it's

  23. bad news story, it gets more attention, it gets more views. Interestingly,

  24. I learned that scientific research has discovered that our brains, the human brain,

  25. is predisposed, pre condition to focus on negative things more than positive things.

  26. In fact, the brain is drawn to negative experiences and it holds those

  27. like the amygdala part of our brains. It's the part that processes emotions.

  28. When scientists studied that part of the brain, they noticed that when the brain

  29. was processing negative information, there was more brain activity in the amygdala than when

  30. there was a positive experience. One neuroscientist named Rock Hanson writes, your brain

  31. is like velcro for negative experiences, and it's like teflon for positive ones.

  32. When you're told no or you get a disappointing email or frustrating text, you're

  33. wired to forget all the good things and instead obsess over the negative things.

  34. Let's just think about your own brain for a moment. Think about your own

  35. mind. Let's imagine that you're at work or maybe in school, and you

  36. take on volunteer for a new assignment, volunteer for some more responsibility. And

  37. after the assignment or the project's over, three people make comments to you.

  38. One says that was awesome way to go. Another one says, I'm so

  39. impressed with what you did, and another one says great job. And then

  40. a fourth person says, you know, I'm not that impressed. I think

  41. you could have done better. Out of all those comments, which one is

  42. going to stay stuck in your mind? Well, if you're like me,

  43. it's that last one. It's that criticism. It's that fourth single comment,

  44. even though there were other positive ones, That last one's gonna keep me awake

  45. at night. That one's gonna steal my joy and steal my peace. Because

  46. our brains, our minds are conditioned to focus on negativity more than positive.

  47. Another term for negative thoughts is the term intrusive thoughts. Intrusive thoughts are disruptive,

  48. distracting, and unwanted thoughts. There are the things we don't want to

  49. think about. The things we haven't invited into our minds today. I brought

  50. this shovel because I think about intrusive thoughts like a shovel that digs into our

  51. thought process. It tunnels into our thought process and wrex our mental peace of

  52. mind. During World War One, the longest and most deadly battle of the

  53. war was the Battle of the Psalm, fought in France and the Battle of

  54. the Psalm. Both sides were dug in their trenches, miles and miles of

  55. trench work, and they were launching bombs and explosives, raiding over each other.

  56. But nobody was winning, nobody was making any progress. There's this big

  57. no man's land in between. It was just deadly and there was no ground

  58. being taken until each side deployed their tunnel teams, and the tunnel teams tunneled

  59. underground under the no man's land behind enemy lines, where they would detonate explosives

  60. and sabotage behind enemy lines. I believe that intrusive thoughts will dig into our

  61. mental pathway tunnel to our thoughts and detonate destruction. We read here in Romans

  62. eight, verse six, for to set the mind on the flesh is death,

  63. but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. The

  64. scripture says that when we set our minds on Jesus, when we let God's

  65. spirit direct us, then we have peace. But it warns us that when

  66. our minds are on the flesh, that means our sinful desires, the sinful

  67. nature of the world, the corrupt things of the world. When our minds

  68. are on that, then it leads to death. It leads to destruction.

  69. We experience death in our self esteem when we have these intrusive thoughts of self

  70. hate or self loathing or self harm. There's a destruction in our relationships with

  71. others because there's these intrusive thoughts that say nobody understands, nobody gets you,

  72. you can't trust people, you can't have a strong, healthy relationship, and

  73. our relationship with God gets under attack and can be corrupted when of thoughts tell

  74. you things like God's angry with you, He's gonna punish you, or God's

  75. given you too many second chance as he's done, he's given up. You've

  76. used them all up. When we have those kind of thoughts, it destroys

  77. our relationship with God. The mindset on the flesh is death. But if

  78. we set our minds on the thing of God, on the Spirit of God

  79. in its life, and there's peace of mind. So today we're gonna learn

  80. how we can receive more peace of mind through the power of God. And

  81. we're going to concentrate our attention in the Bible, in the Book of Philippians.

  82. Last week we looked at Philippians chapter four, verses four through seven,

  83. and today we're gonna pick up right there. We're gonna look at Philippians four,

  84. starting in verses eight and nine. So invite you to read this with

  85. me. It says, finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true,

  86. whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely,

  87. whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy. Think about such

  88. things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in

  89. me, put it into practice, and the God of Peace will be with

  90. you. The God of Peace will be with you. When your mind is

  91. surrendered to Jesus, the Peace of God is with you. And then when

  92. you feel depressed, when you feel worried, when you feel anxious, the

  93. God of Peace is with you. When you're fighting off negative, intrusive thoughts.

  94. When you're fighting off self contempt and shame, the Peace of God is

  95. with you. This scripture tells us that we have to be intentional about what

  96. we think about. This passage tells us that you get to choose. You

  97. get to decide what thoughts are going to stay in your mind and what thoughts

  98. you're gonna let go. Intrusive and negative thoughts will keep us stuck in a

  99. destructive pattern. Or one way to think about it is that intrusive, negative

  100. thoughts keep us stuck in a mental rut. We get stuck in a rut,

  101. like we're spinning our wheels and we can't go anywhere. We're stuck.

  102. You ever been stuck in a rut before? I've seen a lot of ruts

  103. on dirt roads, mountain roads where the water might wash it out or the

  104. mud. It creates these ruts, and when you get into that rut,

  105. you are stuck. You might be able to go a little bit, but

  106. you're not going to get out of the rut or your wheels and your tires

  107. might be spinning. You're stuck in a rut. Have you ever been stuck

  108. in a mental rut? Have you ever been stuck in a negative place where

  109. you keep having thought after thought after a thought that's just negative and negative and

  110. critical and harsh. I call these ruts of ruin. These ruts of ruin

  111. get into our mind and corrupt our thought process. One time I was driving

  112. through the snow in a snowstorm, and I was driving up a steep hill

  113. and my two wheel drive car got stuck in a rut and stuck in the

  114. snow, and my tires were spinning, and I wasn't going anywhere now.

  115. The passengers sitting next to me was my friend, Pastor James, and I'm

  116. sure he might have been ranging under his breath, and or he might have

  117. had some negative thoughts about my driving skills while we were stuck. And then

  118. all of a sudden, an eighteen wheeler came flying up the hill. The

  119. semitruck had no problem cruising through the snow. And then James said, We've

  120. got two choices. We can leave the car and walk home, or we

  121. can maneuver over and get into the tracks of that semi truck and follow those

  122. tracks out of the snow, and so we turned the car over and we

  123. got it into the tracks. And once we got into the tracks, we

  124. were out of that rut. We had traction and it pulled us right out

  125. of the snow. Some of us get stuck in mental ruts where we were

  126. just spinning over and over. Intrusive negative thoughts create mental ruts in your mind.

  127. These ruts of ruin are are destructive, and they hurt your faith,

  128. they hurt your development. Think of it this way. It goes over.

  129. Like if you have this rut of ruin in your mind that you're unworthy,

  130. you're not good enough, what happens when you have a breakup or a divorce,

  131. or there's some rejection in your life. You go back to that rut

  132. and you get stuck thinking I'm unlovable, I'm unwanted, I can't have that,

  133. I'm not marriage material. Or if you've got this rut that says everybody's

  134. out to get you, then you get stuck in this victim mentality. So

  135. when you lose your job or or you get cut from the team, or

  136. where you're you're told you're not qualified, you revert back into that rut,

  137. and that rut says, well, everybody's out to get me. I can't

  138. trust anybody. You gotta look out for myself. I'm a victim and I'm

  139. not gonna let anybody make me their victim. It's it's a mental rut,

  140. a rut of ruin. These ruts reinforced lies about who you are, and

  141. they steal your peace of mind. I want to share a little bit about

  142. a mental rut in my life. I mentioned last week that one of my

  143. insecurities in my life is the idea that I'm not good enough, and so

  144. mentally that produces intrusive thoughts like I need to try harder, I need to

  145. be perfect, I need to prove myself. And so one day I was

  146. at the airport and I was getting ready to travel, and I was about

  147. to go in line for the security checkpoint when I remembered that in my carry

  148. on was a tool with a sharp blade on it that they're not going to

  149. let you through security within the airport. And so I felt embarrassed because I

  150. had to get out in line and I didn't want to get caught, and

  151. I didn't know what to do with it. But I found the help desk

  152. and they were able to package it and I could ship it back to my

  153. own address. Well, I was just really frustrated and now I'm running late,

  154. and on the way back to the security line, I turned to Lauren,

  155. my wife, and I say, I'm really upset with myself because I

  156. don't make mistakes like that. Now, this is really vulnerable to share.

  157. But that comment revealed something about a rut, a mental rut in my mind.

  158. See, I don't make mistakes like that is really code for I should

  159. be perfect or else I'm not good enough. And now psychologists will say this

  160. type of thinking is a negative thought pattern called should or must thinking. It's

  161. when somebody gets in their mind like I did I should do this, or

  162. I should not be that, I must always do this, or I must

  163. never do that. It's a negative thought process. It's a rut. Now

  164. you may have something completely different in your thought process than mine. You may

  165. have a mental rut of jumping to conclusions, like you're always jumping to a

  166. negative assumption when something bad happens, or when you get you read that that

  167. subject of an email, or you see that person's name come up on the

  168. screen of your phone, you don't have any other facts, but you're jumping

  169. to a negative assumption, negative conclusion or somebody else. That might be a

  170. catastrophe mental process where you get bad news from somebody and now it's the end

  171. of the world and your very existence is threat because you've got some bad news

  172. or something didn't go the way you expect. That's catastrophe thinking. Whatever it

  173. is, we have these ruts that dig into our mind. But today I

  174. want to tell you there is hope and there is peace because of Jesus.

  175. Jesus makes it possible for us to get out of those ruts, to get

  176. back on the right road, the correct road, the victory road, and

  177. follow Jesus. We read in Romans twelve two, do not be conformed to

  178. this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind. The Gospel

  179. of Jesus is the transformation power that we need to get out of those ruts

  180. and get on the right path and following God and allowing the right thoughts into

  181. our mind. Because when Jesus died on the cross, he paid the price

  182. for the forgiveness of our sins and for our transformation. When Jesus rose from

  183. the dead, he rose in victory. He rose with power to transform.

  184. He rose in power to transform all that negative thoughts that you've been having over

  185. and over. He has the transformation power for all the negative things you've been

  186. told by your family of origin, by relative, by the things that you

  187. think, beating yourself up, getting down on yourself, hurting yourself, harming

  188. or stuff. He has the transformation power to set you free. And as

  189. I was thinking of praying today, I had this mental picture in my mind

  190. that like many of us have these these potholes or these ruts in our hearts,

  191. in our minds where trauma detonated an explosion, or abuse or neglect detonated

  192. an explosion, or being betrayed, or some sin or addiction issues like this

  193. big pothole in our lives. And I just see Jesus. I see Jesus

  194. with a shovel, and he's pouring like concrete into those into those holes.

  195. He's bringing healing where there was loss. He's bringing redemption where things were stolen.

  196. He's bringing transformation where sin had its grip on you. So do not

  197. tell me that you're stuck in a rut, because Jesus has made a way

  198. out for you, there's victory in Jesus. And so how do we how

  199. do we navigate these ruts? How how do we get out of these ruts?

  200. Well, I want to say today then instead of staying stuck in a

  201. rut, we need God's help to form trenches of truth, trenches of truth.

  202. Now, what's the difference between a rut and a trench. Well,

  203. a rut typically happens accidentally, is when water just finds the easiest path and

  204. roads the dirt or the soil. But a trench is formed intentionally. It's

  205. made on purpose to do a job. Many years ago, I was down

  206. in Nicaragua working with a Christian organization that was bringing fresh water to communities that

  207. didn't have running water, and we were using tools like this to dig trenches.

  208. We were digging these trenches and we would lay PVC pipe into the trench

  209. that would bring water into all the homes in the community. And all of

  210. this we were doing by hand. And let me tell you, it was

  211. hot and it was sweaty. I mean it was so sweaty, like at

  212. that time of year. It's like when you walk outside and it feels like

  213. there's a wet towel on your face just so sweaty. When we would in

  214. the morning, we'd make our sack lunches, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches,

  215. and by the time we broke for lunch, we were slurping up this melted

  216. goo of our sandwiches. But we were digging these trenches for a purpose.

  217. We wanted to bring good things to the right places. A trench of truth

  218. helps your mind receive peace from God, truth from God. And so today

  219. I want to share the ABC's of forming trenches of truth in your mind.

  220. The ABC's are assess, bypass, and cultivate, and we're gonna talk about

  221. each one of these one at a time. Let's return to our text.

  222. Here in verse eight, the text says, finally, brothers and sisters,

  223. whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure,

  224. whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy,

  225. think about such things. So it says here, whatever it is true,

  226. we need the truth of God, a trench of truth in our mind,

  227. And it says think about these things. Think. It's a verb,

  228. it's active, it's work that we put in what we're thinking about, what

  229. we're giving our attention to the word think here in Greek is a word that

  230. also means to ponder, or to value, or to paraphrase, to assess.

  231. You have to decide how valuable is a thought in your mind. And

  232. I want to say, assess of thoughts, value, Assess the value of

  233. those intrusive thoughts. Your brain only has so much information that it can contain,

  234. so you have to decide where are you gonna let in and where you

  235. gonna keep out. A few years ago, when I bought my home here

  236. in Indianapolis, the mortgage company did an appraisal on the home. They wanted

  237. to evaluate the worth of the home, and so they looked at the square

  238. footage, They looked at the updates, they looked at the bedrooms, number

  239. of bathrooms, and they also compared to other homes in the surrounding area to

  240. the value of the home I was buying, to determine what it was worth.

  241. You can do the same thing with your thoughts. When you have an

  242. intrusive thought, a negative thought, evaluate it, hold it out there,

  243. look at it. Is this adding value to my life? Is this helping

  244. me? Is this draw me closer to Jesus? I think? Is that

  245. scrolling on social media is adding value to you? Is that talk show or

  246. that podcast helping you? Or is it raising the level of anxiety and worry.

  247. Assess the value of thought. Sometimes when you assess the thoughts value,

  248. you may decide that you just need to reject it completely. When I was

  249. in Nicaragua and we were digging those trench lines, my team had pretty easy

  250. soil. It was easy to move and dig, and we made pretty quick

  251. work. But some teams ran into some big obstacles in they're digging. They

  252. ran into things like big boulders or rocks they couldn't pull out. And remember

  253. we were using only hand tools. We had no heavy machinery, backs,

  254. no big equipment. It was just this and some pick axes. And so

  255. if they ran into a big rock or a big tree root, I mean,

  256. what would they do. What's likely they would just bypass the obstacle.

  257. They would turn the trench and put an elbow in the PVC pipe and just

  258. keep going. They were not gonna waste time with a worthless obstacle. Do

  259. not waste your time on worthless intrusive thoughts. So you need to bypass a

  260. thought with scripture bypassive thought with scripture. When Jesus was alone in the wilderness,

  261. he was fastening, he was praying for forty days, and during that

  262. time the devil came to Jesus with some intrusive thoughts. And first the devil

  263. said, hey, Jesus, you gotta be really hungry after all this fasting.

  264. If you're really the son of God, if you have all this power,

  265. why don't you turn these stones into some bread. What did Jesus say

  266. in Matthew four verse four, He said, it is written man shall not

  267. live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of

  268. God. Jesus bypassed the intrusive thought with scripture, with the word of God.

  269. He didn't even contemplate or he didn't even assume the premise of what the

  270. devil was saying. He just bypassed it. And you can bypass intrusive thoughts

  271. with scripture. So when there's that thought, I don't make mistakes like this,

  272. and that thought is full of shame and fear and insecurity, I can

  273. overcome that bypass it with scripture. The scripture of sad Crinthians twelve that says,

  274. my grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in

  275. weakness. When you have a thought that says you're a failure, you're a

  276. mess up, you're a screw up, you can bypass that by remembering Second

  277. Corinthians five. If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.

  278. The old has passed away. Behold, the new has come. When you

  279. have that fear, that crippling fear that says you don't have enough money,

  280. you can bypass that fear with scripture. Philippians Force says, my God will

  281. supply every need of yours according to his riches and glory in Christ Jesus.

  282. You can bypass intrusive negative thoughts with scripture. I'd like to point out that

  283. these first two ABC's assess and bypass. These first two are all about thinking.

  284. It's all about our cognitive work in our thought process. But thinking is

  285. only the first part. Thinking is not enough. There's another piece that we

  286. need to look at it. Look closely at verse nine. Verse nine says,

  287. whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me,

  288. put it into what practice. Put it into practice, and the God

  289. of Peace will be with you. This verse says, practice what you believe

  290. and what you think and what you know practice it. Having the right information

  291. is not enough for a trench of truth and not enough for healthy pathways.

  292. Having knowledge about the Bible is not enough. Going to another Bible study or

  293. another book discussion is not what we're talking about. At some point, we

  294. have to practice what we know and believe. When I was in Nicaragua working

  295. with that group, we did not just sit around the table and debate the

  296. theology of clean water. We didn't put up a whiteboard and draw a strategy

  297. or a plan for the pipe system. At some point we picked up some

  298. tools and we got our hands dirty. We put into practice what we believed

  299. in what we were doing. Practice takes what we know and puts it into

  300. our bodies. You've likely heard that expression that says practice makes perfect, and

  301. then there's its cousin perfect practice makes perfect. I want to share another expression

  302. that comes from the military community, and the military community has this expression that

  303. says, you do not rise to the occasion, you default to your training.

  304. And what this means is military operators will say in a crisis, in

  305. a tragedy, people don't just somehow magically rise to the occasion and become heroes.

  306. Know what they do is they default to their training, and if they've

  307. been trained well, if they've been prepared well, then they can adapt and

  308. they can overcome it, and they can come through that crisis. Your default

  309. to your training, and your brain works the same way you default to what

  310. you know. I'll explain how I've seen this in my life. Years ago,

  311. I was on vacation and I wanted to try a snorkeling excursion, and

  312. I've never done snorkeling before, and so I got in the boat and while

  313. I was climbing into the boat, the sun was out, the sky was

  314. clear, the water was calm, and we traveled out on the ocean for

  315. a little bit. And when we stopped for the snorkel experience, the sun

  316. had disappeared and the wind had picked up, and the waves started to get

  317. a little bit more choppy. And when I got into the water with my

  318. snorkel gear, the rain started to come down. This was not as enjoyable

  319. as the brochure made it sound, and so I panicked a little bit.

  320. My adrenaline was pumping and my heart was racing, and I was trying to

  321. catch my breath and tread water. And now the rain and the waves are

  322. coming into my snorkel, I'm spitting up water, and so I felt like

  323. I was in this crisis, and in this crisis, I did the most

  324. brave thing that I could do, and I doggy paddled back to the boat

  325. and climbed back in. I wasn't even out there for five minutes, and

  326. I've never been snorkeling since. I defaulted to my training, or my lack

  327. of training. I wasn't prepared, I never took a class, I didn't

  328. have any experience. I defaulted to what I knew was safe. Your mind

  329. will default to what it thinks is safe when you face a tragedy, when

  330. you face a crisis, even if you're just disappointed or your expectations aren't met,

  331. your mind is going to default to what it thinks is safe, to

  332. what it knows. And if that is a rut of ruin, if it's

  333. a negative mental pathway, you're gonna get stuck in that. So we have

  334. to retrain our mind. That's what I'm saying. Cultivate spiritual practices. Cultivate

  335. spiritual practices. Cultivate is a gardening term or a term from farming, and

  336. it has to do with preparing the soil for what you're gonna plant. If

  337. you think about your mind as the soil, what are you planting in your

  338. mind? What are you allowing to take root in your mind? When we

  339. were digging those waterlines in Nicaragua, and we're preparing those trenches, before we

  340. put the pipe into the trench, we would add some sand and some gravel,

  341. which would help with drainage and also protect the pipes a little bit from

  342. in truth of things like weeds or were roots that would compromise the integrity of

  343. the pipes. Spiritual practices protect your mind from intrusive thoughts and intrusive things.

  344. Cultivate spiritual practices. Since the beginning of Christianity, believers have cultivated spiritual practices,

  345. they've embodied spiritual practices, and for centuries, Christians have identified practices in

  346. two categories, personal practices and community practices. Personal practices are just what they

  347. sound like. They're They're what you and I do personally. It's prayer,

  348. it's reading and meditating on the Bible. It's times of solitude or times of

  349. fasting. It's what we do personally. And here's the thing about practices.

  350. Practices are more than just what we think or do with our mind. Practices

  351. have to do with our body. That's why we embody them. It's it's

  352. using our hands, using our attention and our time. And then community practices,

  353. our community practices that we do together, because you're not an isolated follower

  354. of Jesus. We're in community together. What we're doing right now this moment

  355. is a community practice. We are gathering together to worship. In just a

  356. few minutes, we're going to celebrate baptism together when a few people are going

  357. to be baptized today. That is a community practice, the Lord's Supper communion.

  358. That is a practice that we do together. Practices protect your pathways and

  359. create new pathways. I'll share how I've seen this in my life. There

  360. are several practices that I observed, and three of my personal practices are daily

  361. prayer and Bible reading time. A second one is I meet with a Christian

  362. counselor regularly, and then a third one is I have wise godly mentors in

  363. my life that I learn from. These are just three of my regular practices

  364. that I've been embodying for the last several years. One time I experienced a

  365. terribly painful crisis just just a brutal crisis, and I won't share all the

  366. details because it is very personal. But this crisis just shook me to my

  367. core. And this wasn't just surface level. I was deeply hurt and deeply

  368. wounded by somebody that I trusted, and I felt betrayed and I felt paralyzed

  369. emotionally. I felt like second guessing a lot of my decisions and my negative

  370. mental pathway that those ruts of ruin would have dragged me to a harmful place

  371. of like I'm not good enough, I need to try harder, I failed,

  372. I can't recover, or I can't trust anybody again, or whatever.

  373. But my mind didn't go there because I had my spiritual practices. So first

  374. I went to the Lord in my daily prayer and reading time and just shared

  375. with him what was going on and expressed my feelings of hurt and betrayal.

  376. Then second, I immediately contacted my counselor and asked for the next available women

  377. because I knew I need to talk to somebody about this. I needed some

  378. tools that a professional could help me navigate. And then third, I brought

  379. in those wise mentors, those godly mentors, because they had an objective view,

  380. they had a thirty thousand foot view, and they could see things that

  381. I couldn't see in this situation because I was so close to the pain,

  382. and they could help me learn from it, and I got through that healthy.

  383. I didn't spiral into a negative run. Now, let me be clear,

  384. I didn't just magically come up with these practices when I was in a

  385. crisis. I didn't embodied and cultivated these practices for years so that when I

  386. was in a crisis I could default to that training. I could default to

  387. that preparation. And so today I want to invite you to try a new

  388. practice for thirty days. And this isn't a challenge. I'm not saying I'm

  389. gonna challenge you to do this because I'm not gonna check your report card or

  390. ask for a progress update next week. I believe so strongly in spiritual practices

  391. that I don't need to incentivize this. This is an invitation to try something

  392. new, a spiritual practice. And I've heard the gospel of anti religion.

  393. I've preached the gospel of anti religion. The anti religion gospel says, you

  394. know good works don't save you. Religious obligations. Don't impress God. Your

  395. religious duties is not how you get to heaven. And that's true. We

  396. get to heaven. We're saved by grace. Spiritual practices are not religious obligations.

  397. They're an invitation to walk closer with Jesus, to embody more of Christ

  398. in your thinking, in your daily lives. So I invite you to try

  399. and practice. If you want some ideas, in the Church of the Crossing

  400. app on your phone, there's a hand out a PDF of spiritual practices.

  401. There's also a paper copy at the grow desk in the lobby. And let

  402. me be really, really, really really clear about spiritual practices. Don't bite

  403. off more than you can chew. Start out small, please. If you

  404. want to try fasting, please don't start with a thirty day fast. If

  405. you've never fasted before, you might harm yourself and you might end up an

  406. atheist at the end of that. Start out small. If you haven't read

  407. much of the Bible, start with the Bible app and reading the Daily Verse

  408. each day. That's a good practice to start. But start these spiritual practices

  409. as we end. I want to go back to that insecurity that I've mentioned

  410. before. Feeling like I'm not good enough. That intrusive thought has affected my

  411. relationship with my heavenly Father, where I'll feel like I'm not living up to

  412. him, or I'm letting him down, or he's disappointed with me, and

  413. I need to impress him or make him happy. It's very harmful to my

  414. relationship with the Father. Until I heard someone say something that I'll never forget.

  415. They said, I do not want to think a thought about myself that

  416. is not a thought about me in the mind of the Father. I don't

  417. want to think a thought about me that the Father's not thinking about me.

  418. If the Father's not thinking that, it's an intrusive thought, and I don't

  419. even need to think about it. Earlier, I mentioned when Jesus was alone

  420. in the wilderness and he was being tempted, he had those all those intrusive

  421. thoughts. Do you know what Jesus experienced right before he went into that desert?

  422. What happened to him the desert happened in Matthew chapter four? Do you

  423. know what happened in Matthew chapter three? He heard the voice of the Father.

  424. We read in Matthew three seventeen, behold a voice from heaven said,

  425. this is my beloved son with whom I am well pleased. God the Father

  426. declared his love for his son, and he declared that Jesus, his identity

  427. is the Son of God. And so I want to say, if your

  428. faith is in Jesus, you are secure as a child of God. You

  429. are his daughter, you are his son. And no intrusive thought is gonna

  430. steal your peace of mind, No intrusive thought is gonna steal your joy because

  431. you're protected by the God of Peace, by your heavenly Father. Your heavenly

  432. Father loves you no matter what negativity you keep thinking about. He loves you

  433. no matter what self hate or self loathing you have, no matter what shame

  434. or fear or depression is in your life, he loves you. You are

  435. his child. You've been redeemed, You've been rescued, and he says to

  436. you, you are my child, and I am pleased with you. He

  437. loves you, and he's gonna protect your mind. It's gonna give you peace

  438. of mind. So as we end to Dad, I'd like for us to

  439. pray together, and I'd like for us to receive more of God's peace today.

  440. Would you pray with me. Father, God, thank you that your

  441. grace covers us. God, I want to pray right now for like a

  442. spiritual helmet over all of our minds, that your grace would cover our minds

  443. and our thought processes. God. For the one here who is just living

  444. with shame or just beating themselves up. God you bring peace. God,

  445. for the one who is just stuck with some fear, like they're spinning their

  446. tires with fear and anxiety. God, would you bring peace? God.

  447. I also feel led to pray for anyone who feels a little bit cynical,

  448. cynical about faith, cynical about their jobs, cynical about things going on in

  449. their family life. God, would you dissolve that cynicism, that negativity with

  450. more of your peace and increased joy. God, we thank you for your

  451. grace. We thank you for the freedom and the healing that we have because

  452. of Jesus. And it's in his name we pray Amen.