Sermon
Peace of Mind: Week 2
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Transcript
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Welcome to Church at the Crossing. My name is Andrew, and if you
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are new here, I'm so glad that you chose to be here today because
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we're continuing a message series that's called Peace of Mind. And in this series,
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we're looking at topics around mental health, topics like worry and depression and
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burnout. Last week we talked about the myths that are out there about mental
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health, and today we're talking about the negative thoughts that many of us struggle
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with. And I want to be really clear this series, this message is
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called peace of mind, not a peace of my mind. You've probably heard
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that expression, I'm gonna give them a piece of my mind. And then
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what usually comes after some kind of negative criticism, negative critique or complaint or
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some kind of harsh negativity. Typically, almost always it's a negative thing when
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someone says, I'm gonna give them a piece of my mind. Would you
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agree that our culture, our world is becoming more and more negative, increasingly
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more negative. There's more cynicism, there's more sarcasm, there's more skepticism.
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It's just it just abounds. And this negativity can seep into our minds that
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it can absorb into our own souls if we're not careful, I mean,
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how do we see this in our daily lives? Well, let me let's
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just think what spreads quicker on social media? Negative information or positive information?
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Negative? And what about the news and the media. What stories get more
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attention? Bad news or good news bad news? In fact, I learned
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recently that there's a news and media expression that says, if it bleeds,
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it leads. That means if it's ugly, if it's violent, if it's
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bad news story, it gets more attention, it gets more views. Interestingly,
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I learned that scientific research has discovered that our brains, the human brain,
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is predisposed, pre condition to focus on negative things more than positive things.
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In fact, the brain is drawn to negative experiences and it holds those
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like the amygdala part of our brains. It's the part that processes emotions.
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When scientists studied that part of the brain, they noticed that when the brain
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was processing negative information, there was more brain activity in the amygdala than when
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there was a positive experience. One neuroscientist named Rock Hanson writes, your brain
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is like velcro for negative experiences, and it's like teflon for positive ones.
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When you're told no or you get a disappointing email or frustrating text, you're
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wired to forget all the good things and instead obsess over the negative things.
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Let's just think about your own brain for a moment. Think about your own
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mind. Let's imagine that you're at work or maybe in school, and you
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take on volunteer for a new assignment, volunteer for some more responsibility. And
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after the assignment or the project's over, three people make comments to you.
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One says that was awesome way to go. Another one says, I'm so
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impressed with what you did, and another one says great job. And then
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a fourth person says, you know, I'm not that impressed. I think
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you could have done better. Out of all those comments, which one is
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going to stay stuck in your mind? Well, if you're like me,
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it's that last one. It's that criticism. It's that fourth single comment,
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even though there were other positive ones, That last one's gonna keep me awake
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at night. That one's gonna steal my joy and steal my peace. Because
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our brains, our minds are conditioned to focus on negativity more than positive.
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Another term for negative thoughts is the term intrusive thoughts. Intrusive thoughts are disruptive,
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distracting, and unwanted thoughts. There are the things we don't want to
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think about. The things we haven't invited into our minds today. I brought
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this shovel because I think about intrusive thoughts like a shovel that digs into our
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thought process. It tunnels into our thought process and wrex our mental peace of
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mind. During World War One, the longest and most deadly battle of the
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war was the Battle of the Psalm, fought in France and the Battle of
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the Psalm. Both sides were dug in their trenches, miles and miles of
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trench work, and they were launching bombs and explosives, raiding over each other.
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But nobody was winning, nobody was making any progress. There's this big
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no man's land in between. It was just deadly and there was no ground
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being taken until each side deployed their tunnel teams, and the tunnel teams tunneled
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underground under the no man's land behind enemy lines, where they would detonate explosives
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and sabotage behind enemy lines. I believe that intrusive thoughts will dig into our
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mental pathway tunnel to our thoughts and detonate destruction. We read here in Romans
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eight, verse six, for to set the mind on the flesh is death,
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but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. The
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scripture says that when we set our minds on Jesus, when we let God's
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spirit direct us, then we have peace. But it warns us that when
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our minds are on the flesh, that means our sinful desires, the sinful
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nature of the world, the corrupt things of the world. When our minds
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are on that, then it leads to death. It leads to destruction.
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We experience death in our self esteem when we have these intrusive thoughts of self
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hate or self loathing or self harm. There's a destruction in our relationships with
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others because there's these intrusive thoughts that say nobody understands, nobody gets you,
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you can't trust people, you can't have a strong, healthy relationship, and
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our relationship with God gets under attack and can be corrupted when of thoughts tell
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you things like God's angry with you, He's gonna punish you, or God's
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given you too many second chance as he's done, he's given up. You've
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used them all up. When we have those kind of thoughts, it destroys
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our relationship with God. The mindset on the flesh is death. But if
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we set our minds on the thing of God, on the Spirit of God
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in its life, and there's peace of mind. So today we're gonna learn
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how we can receive more peace of mind through the power of God. And
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we're going to concentrate our attention in the Bible, in the Book of Philippians.
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Last week we looked at Philippians chapter four, verses four through seven,
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and today we're gonna pick up right there. We're gonna look at Philippians four,
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starting in verses eight and nine. So invite you to read this with
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me. It says, finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true,
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whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely,
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whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy. Think about such
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things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in
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me, put it into practice, and the God of Peace will be with
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you. The God of Peace will be with you. When your mind is
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surrendered to Jesus, the Peace of God is with you. And then when
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you feel depressed, when you feel worried, when you feel anxious, the
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God of Peace is with you. When you're fighting off negative, intrusive thoughts.
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When you're fighting off self contempt and shame, the Peace of God is
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with you. This scripture tells us that we have to be intentional about what
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we think about. This passage tells us that you get to choose. You
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get to decide what thoughts are going to stay in your mind and what thoughts
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you're gonna let go. Intrusive and negative thoughts will keep us stuck in a
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destructive pattern. Or one way to think about it is that intrusive, negative
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thoughts keep us stuck in a mental rut. We get stuck in a rut,
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like we're spinning our wheels and we can't go anywhere. We're stuck.
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You ever been stuck in a rut before? I've seen a lot of ruts
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on dirt roads, mountain roads where the water might wash it out or the
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mud. It creates these ruts, and when you get into that rut,
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you are stuck. You might be able to go a little bit, but
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you're not going to get out of the rut or your wheels and your tires
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might be spinning. You're stuck in a rut. Have you ever been stuck
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in a mental rut? Have you ever been stuck in a negative place where
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you keep having thought after thought after a thought that's just negative and negative and
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critical and harsh. I call these ruts of ruin. These ruts of ruin
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get into our mind and corrupt our thought process. One time I was driving
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through the snow in a snowstorm, and I was driving up a steep hill
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and my two wheel drive car got stuck in a rut and stuck in the
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snow, and my tires were spinning, and I wasn't going anywhere now.
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The passengers sitting next to me was my friend, Pastor James, and I'm
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sure he might have been ranging under his breath, and or he might have
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had some negative thoughts about my driving skills while we were stuck. And then
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all of a sudden, an eighteen wheeler came flying up the hill. The
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semitruck had no problem cruising through the snow. And then James said, We've
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got two choices. We can leave the car and walk home, or we
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can maneuver over and get into the tracks of that semi truck and follow those
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tracks out of the snow, and so we turned the car over and we
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got it into the tracks. And once we got into the tracks, we
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were out of that rut. We had traction and it pulled us right out
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of the snow. Some of us get stuck in mental ruts where we were
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just spinning over and over. Intrusive negative thoughts create mental ruts in your mind.
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These ruts of ruin are are destructive, and they hurt your faith,
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they hurt your development. Think of it this way. It goes over.
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Like if you have this rut of ruin in your mind that you're unworthy,
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you're not good enough, what happens when you have a breakup or a divorce,
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or there's some rejection in your life. You go back to that rut
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and you get stuck thinking I'm unlovable, I'm unwanted, I can't have that,
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I'm not marriage material. Or if you've got this rut that says everybody's
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out to get you, then you get stuck in this victim mentality. So
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when you lose your job or or you get cut from the team, or
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where you're you're told you're not qualified, you revert back into that rut,
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and that rut says, well, everybody's out to get me. I can't
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trust anybody. You gotta look out for myself. I'm a victim and I'm
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not gonna let anybody make me their victim. It's it's a mental rut,
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a rut of ruin. These ruts reinforced lies about who you are, and
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they steal your peace of mind. I want to share a little bit about
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a mental rut in my life. I mentioned last week that one of my
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insecurities in my life is the idea that I'm not good enough, and so
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mentally that produces intrusive thoughts like I need to try harder, I need to
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be perfect, I need to prove myself. And so one day I was
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at the airport and I was getting ready to travel, and I was about
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to go in line for the security checkpoint when I remembered that in my carry
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on was a tool with a sharp blade on it that they're not going to
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let you through security within the airport. And so I felt embarrassed because I
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had to get out in line and I didn't want to get caught, and
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I didn't know what to do with it. But I found the help desk
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and they were able to package it and I could ship it back to my
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own address. Well, I was just really frustrated and now I'm running late,
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and on the way back to the security line, I turned to Lauren,
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my wife, and I say, I'm really upset with myself because I
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don't make mistakes like that. Now, this is really vulnerable to share.
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But that comment revealed something about a rut, a mental rut in my mind.
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See, I don't make mistakes like that is really code for I should
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be perfect or else I'm not good enough. And now psychologists will say this
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type of thinking is a negative thought pattern called should or must thinking. It's
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when somebody gets in their mind like I did I should do this, or
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I should not be that, I must always do this, or I must
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never do that. It's a negative thought process. It's a rut. Now
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you may have something completely different in your thought process than mine. You may
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have a mental rut of jumping to conclusions, like you're always jumping to a
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negative assumption when something bad happens, or when you get you read that that
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subject of an email, or you see that person's name come up on the
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screen of your phone, you don't have any other facts, but you're jumping
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to a negative assumption, negative conclusion or somebody else. That might be a
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catastrophe mental process where you get bad news from somebody and now it's the end
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of the world and your very existence is threat because you've got some bad news
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or something didn't go the way you expect. That's catastrophe thinking. Whatever it
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is, we have these ruts that dig into our mind. But today I
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want to tell you there is hope and there is peace because of Jesus.
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Jesus makes it possible for us to get out of those ruts, to get
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back on the right road, the correct road, the victory road, and
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follow Jesus. We read in Romans twelve two, do not be conformed to
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this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind. The Gospel
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of Jesus is the transformation power that we need to get out of those ruts
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and get on the right path and following God and allowing the right thoughts into
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our mind. Because when Jesus died on the cross, he paid the price
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for the forgiveness of our sins and for our transformation. When Jesus rose from
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the dead, he rose in victory. He rose with power to transform.
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He rose in power to transform all that negative thoughts that you've been having over
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and over. He has the transformation power for all the negative things you've been
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told by your family of origin, by relative, by the things that you
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think, beating yourself up, getting down on yourself, hurting yourself, harming
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or stuff. He has the transformation power to set you free. And as
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I was thinking of praying today, I had this mental picture in my mind
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that like many of us have these these potholes or these ruts in our hearts,
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in our minds where trauma detonated an explosion, or abuse or neglect detonated
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an explosion, or being betrayed, or some sin or addiction issues like this
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big pothole in our lives. And I just see Jesus. I see Jesus
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with a shovel, and he's pouring like concrete into those into those holes.
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He's bringing healing where there was loss. He's bringing redemption where things were stolen.
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He's bringing transformation where sin had its grip on you. So do not
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tell me that you're stuck in a rut, because Jesus has made a way
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out for you, there's victory in Jesus. And so how do we how
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do we navigate these ruts? How how do we get out of these ruts?
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Well, I want to say today then instead of staying stuck in a
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rut, we need God's help to form trenches of truth, trenches of truth.
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Now, what's the difference between a rut and a trench. Well,
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a rut typically happens accidentally, is when water just finds the easiest path and
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roads the dirt or the soil. But a trench is formed intentionally. It's
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made on purpose to do a job. Many years ago, I was down
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in Nicaragua working with a Christian organization that was bringing fresh water to communities that
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didn't have running water, and we were using tools like this to dig trenches.
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We were digging these trenches and we would lay PVC pipe into the trench
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that would bring water into all the homes in the community. And all of
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this we were doing by hand. And let me tell you, it was
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hot and it was sweaty. I mean it was so sweaty, like at
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that time of year. It's like when you walk outside and it feels like
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there's a wet towel on your face just so sweaty. When we would in
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the morning, we'd make our sack lunches, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches,
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and by the time we broke for lunch, we were slurping up this melted
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goo of our sandwiches. But we were digging these trenches for a purpose.
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We wanted to bring good things to the right places. A trench of truth
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helps your mind receive peace from God, truth from God. And so today
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I want to share the ABC's of forming trenches of truth in your mind.
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The ABC's are assess, bypass, and cultivate, and we're gonna talk about
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each one of these one at a time. Let's return to our text.
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Here in verse eight, the text says, finally, brothers and sisters,
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whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure,
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whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy,
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think about such things. So it says here, whatever it is true,
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we need the truth of God, a trench of truth in our mind,
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And it says think about these things. Think. It's a verb,
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it's active, it's work that we put in what we're thinking about, what
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we're giving our attention to the word think here in Greek is a word that
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also means to ponder, or to value, or to paraphrase, to assess.
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You have to decide how valuable is a thought in your mind. And
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I want to say, assess of thoughts, value, Assess the value of
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those intrusive thoughts. Your brain only has so much information that it can contain,
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so you have to decide where are you gonna let in and where you
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gonna keep out. A few years ago, when I bought my home here
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in Indianapolis, the mortgage company did an appraisal on the home. They wanted
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to evaluate the worth of the home, and so they looked at the square
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footage, They looked at the updates, they looked at the bedrooms, number
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of bathrooms, and they also compared to other homes in the surrounding area to
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the value of the home I was buying, to determine what it was worth.
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You can do the same thing with your thoughts. When you have an
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intrusive thought, a negative thought, evaluate it, hold it out there,
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look at it. Is this adding value to my life? Is this helping
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me? Is this draw me closer to Jesus? I think? Is that
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scrolling on social media is adding value to you? Is that talk show or
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that podcast helping you? Or is it raising the level of anxiety and worry.
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Assess the value of thought. Sometimes when you assess the thoughts value,
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you may decide that you just need to reject it completely. When I was
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in Nicaragua and we were digging those trench lines, my team had pretty easy
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soil. It was easy to move and dig, and we made pretty quick
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work. But some teams ran into some big obstacles in they're digging. They
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ran into things like big boulders or rocks they couldn't pull out. And remember
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we were using only hand tools. We had no heavy machinery, backs,
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no big equipment. It was just this and some pick axes. And so
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if they ran into a big rock or a big tree root, I mean,
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what would they do. What's likely they would just bypass the obstacle.
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They would turn the trench and put an elbow in the PVC pipe and just
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keep going. They were not gonna waste time with a worthless obstacle. Do
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not waste your time on worthless intrusive thoughts. So you need to bypass a
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thought with scripture bypassive thought with scripture. When Jesus was alone in the wilderness,
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he was fastening, he was praying for forty days, and during that
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time the devil came to Jesus with some intrusive thoughts. And first the devil
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said, hey, Jesus, you gotta be really hungry after all this fasting.
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If you're really the son of God, if you have all this power,
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why don't you turn these stones into some bread. What did Jesus say
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in Matthew four verse four, He said, it is written man shall not
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live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of
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God. Jesus bypassed the intrusive thought with scripture, with the word of God.
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He didn't even contemplate or he didn't even assume the premise of what the
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devil was saying. He just bypassed it. And you can bypass intrusive thoughts
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with scripture. So when there's that thought, I don't make mistakes like this,
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and that thought is full of shame and fear and insecurity, I can
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overcome that bypass it with scripture. The scripture of sad Crinthians twelve that says,
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my grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in
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weakness. When you have a thought that says you're a failure, you're a
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mess up, you're a screw up, you can bypass that by remembering Second
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Corinthians five. If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.
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The old has passed away. Behold, the new has come. When you
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have that fear, that crippling fear that says you don't have enough money,
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you can bypass that fear with scripture. Philippians Force says, my God will
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supply every need of yours according to his riches and glory in Christ Jesus.
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You can bypass intrusive negative thoughts with scripture. I'd like to point out that
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these first two ABC's assess and bypass. These first two are all about thinking.
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It's all about our cognitive work in our thought process. But thinking is
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only the first part. Thinking is not enough. There's another piece that we
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need to look at it. Look closely at verse nine. Verse nine says,
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whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me,
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put it into what practice. Put it into practice, and the God
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of Peace will be with you. This verse says, practice what you believe
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and what you think and what you know practice it. Having the right information
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is not enough for a trench of truth and not enough for healthy pathways.
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Having knowledge about the Bible is not enough. Going to another Bible study or
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another book discussion is not what we're talking about. At some point, we
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have to practice what we know and believe. When I was in Nicaragua working
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with that group, we did not just sit around the table and debate the
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theology of clean water. We didn't put up a whiteboard and draw a strategy
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or a plan for the pipe system. At some point we picked up some
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tools and we got our hands dirty. We put into practice what we believed
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in what we were doing. Practice takes what we know and puts it into
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our bodies. You've likely heard that expression that says practice makes perfect, and
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then there's its cousin perfect practice makes perfect. I want to share another expression
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that comes from the military community, and the military community has this expression that
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says, you do not rise to the occasion, you default to your training.
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And what this means is military operators will say in a crisis, in
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a tragedy, people don't just somehow magically rise to the occasion and become heroes.
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Know what they do is they default to their training, and if they've
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been trained well, if they've been prepared well, then they can adapt and
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they can overcome it, and they can come through that crisis. Your default
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to your training, and your brain works the same way you default to what
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you know. I'll explain how I've seen this in my life. Years ago,
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I was on vacation and I wanted to try a snorkeling excursion, and
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I've never done snorkeling before, and so I got in the boat and while
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I was climbing into the boat, the sun was out, the sky was
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clear, the water was calm, and we traveled out on the ocean for
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a little bit. And when we stopped for the snorkel experience, the sun
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had disappeared and the wind had picked up, and the waves started to get
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a little bit more choppy. And when I got into the water with my
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snorkel gear, the rain started to come down. This was not as enjoyable
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as the brochure made it sound, and so I panicked a little bit.
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My adrenaline was pumping and my heart was racing, and I was trying to
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catch my breath and tread water. And now the rain and the waves are
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coming into my snorkel, I'm spitting up water, and so I felt like
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I was in this crisis, and in this crisis, I did the most
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brave thing that I could do, and I doggy paddled back to the boat
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and climbed back in. I wasn't even out there for five minutes, and
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I've never been snorkeling since. I defaulted to my training, or my lack
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of training. I wasn't prepared, I never took a class, I didn't
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have any experience. I defaulted to what I knew was safe. Your mind
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will default to what it thinks is safe when you face a tragedy, when
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you face a crisis, even if you're just disappointed or your expectations aren't met,
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your mind is going to default to what it thinks is safe, to
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what it knows. And if that is a rut of ruin, if it's
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a negative mental pathway, you're gonna get stuck in that. So we have
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to retrain our mind. That's what I'm saying. Cultivate spiritual practices. Cultivate
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spiritual practices. Cultivate is a gardening term or a term from farming, and
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it has to do with preparing the soil for what you're gonna plant. If
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you think about your mind as the soil, what are you planting in your
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mind? What are you allowing to take root in your mind? When we
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were digging those waterlines in Nicaragua, and we're preparing those trenches, before we
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put the pipe into the trench, we would add some sand and some gravel,
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which would help with drainage and also protect the pipes a little bit from
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in truth of things like weeds or were roots that would compromise the integrity of
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the pipes. Spiritual practices protect your mind from intrusive thoughts and intrusive things.
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Cultivate spiritual practices. Since the beginning of Christianity, believers have cultivated spiritual practices,
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they've embodied spiritual practices, and for centuries, Christians have identified practices in
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two categories, personal practices and community practices. Personal practices are just what they
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sound like. They're They're what you and I do personally. It's prayer,
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it's reading and meditating on the Bible. It's times of solitude or times of
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fasting. It's what we do personally. And here's the thing about practices.
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Practices are more than just what we think or do with our mind. Practices
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have to do with our body. That's why we embody them. It's it's
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using our hands, using our attention and our time. And then community practices,
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our community practices that we do together, because you're not an isolated follower
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of Jesus. We're in community together. What we're doing right now this moment
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is a community practice. We are gathering together to worship. In just a
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few minutes, we're going to celebrate baptism together when a few people are going
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to be baptized today. That is a community practice, the Lord's Supper communion.
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That is a practice that we do together. Practices protect your pathways and
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create new pathways. I'll share how I've seen this in my life. There
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are several practices that I observed, and three of my personal practices are daily
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prayer and Bible reading time. A second one is I meet with a Christian
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counselor regularly, and then a third one is I have wise godly mentors in
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my life that I learn from. These are just three of my regular practices
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that I've been embodying for the last several years. One time I experienced a
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terribly painful crisis just just a brutal crisis, and I won't share all the
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details because it is very personal. But this crisis just shook me to my
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core. And this wasn't just surface level. I was deeply hurt and deeply
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wounded by somebody that I trusted, and I felt betrayed and I felt paralyzed
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emotionally. I felt like second guessing a lot of my decisions and my negative
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mental pathway that those ruts of ruin would have dragged me to a harmful place
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of like I'm not good enough, I need to try harder, I failed,
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I can't recover, or I can't trust anybody again, or whatever.
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But my mind didn't go there because I had my spiritual practices. So first
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I went to the Lord in my daily prayer and reading time and just shared
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with him what was going on and expressed my feelings of hurt and betrayal.
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Then second, I immediately contacted my counselor and asked for the next available women
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because I knew I need to talk to somebody about this. I needed some
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tools that a professional could help me navigate. And then third, I brought
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in those wise mentors, those godly mentors, because they had an objective view,
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they had a thirty thousand foot view, and they could see things that
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I couldn't see in this situation because I was so close to the pain,
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and they could help me learn from it, and I got through that healthy.
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I didn't spiral into a negative run. Now, let me be clear,
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I didn't just magically come up with these practices when I was in a
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crisis. I didn't embodied and cultivated these practices for years so that when I
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was in a crisis I could default to that training. I could default to
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that preparation. And so today I want to invite you to try a new
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practice for thirty days. And this isn't a challenge. I'm not saying I'm
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gonna challenge you to do this because I'm not gonna check your report card or
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ask for a progress update next week. I believe so strongly in spiritual practices
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that I don't need to incentivize this. This is an invitation to try something
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new, a spiritual practice. And I've heard the gospel of anti religion.
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I've preached the gospel of anti religion. The anti religion gospel says, you
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know good works don't save you. Religious obligations. Don't impress God. Your
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religious duties is not how you get to heaven. And that's true. We
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get to heaven. We're saved by grace. Spiritual practices are not religious obligations.
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They're an invitation to walk closer with Jesus, to embody more of Christ
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in your thinking, in your daily lives. So I invite you to try
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and practice. If you want some ideas, in the Church of the Crossing
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app on your phone, there's a hand out a PDF of spiritual practices.
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There's also a paper copy at the grow desk in the lobby. And let
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me be really, really, really really clear about spiritual practices. Don't bite
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off more than you can chew. Start out small, please. If you
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want to try fasting, please don't start with a thirty day fast. If
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you've never fasted before, you might harm yourself and you might end up an
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atheist at the end of that. Start out small. If you haven't read
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much of the Bible, start with the Bible app and reading the Daily Verse
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each day. That's a good practice to start. But start these spiritual practices
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as we end. I want to go back to that insecurity that I've mentioned
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before. Feeling like I'm not good enough. That intrusive thought has affected my
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relationship with my heavenly Father, where I'll feel like I'm not living up to
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him, or I'm letting him down, or he's disappointed with me, and
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I need to impress him or make him happy. It's very harmful to my
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relationship with the Father. Until I heard someone say something that I'll never forget.
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They said, I do not want to think a thought about myself that
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is not a thought about me in the mind of the Father. I don't
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want to think a thought about me that the Father's not thinking about me.
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If the Father's not thinking that, it's an intrusive thought, and I don't
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even need to think about it. Earlier, I mentioned when Jesus was alone
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in the wilderness and he was being tempted, he had those all those intrusive
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thoughts. Do you know what Jesus experienced right before he went into that desert?
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What happened to him the desert happened in Matthew chapter four? Do you
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know what happened in Matthew chapter three? He heard the voice of the Father.
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We read in Matthew three seventeen, behold a voice from heaven said,
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this is my beloved son with whom I am well pleased. God the Father
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declared his love for his son, and he declared that Jesus, his identity
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is the Son of God. And so I want to say, if your
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faith is in Jesus, you are secure as a child of God. You
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are his daughter, you are his son. And no intrusive thought is gonna
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steal your peace of mind, No intrusive thought is gonna steal your joy because
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you're protected by the God of Peace, by your heavenly Father. Your heavenly
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Father loves you no matter what negativity you keep thinking about. He loves you
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no matter what self hate or self loathing you have, no matter what shame
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or fear or depression is in your life, he loves you. You are
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his child. You've been redeemed, You've been rescued, and he says to
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you, you are my child, and I am pleased with you. He
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loves you, and he's gonna protect your mind. It's gonna give you peace
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of mind. So as we end to Dad, I'd like for us to
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pray together, and I'd like for us to receive more of God's peace today.
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Would you pray with me. Father, God, thank you that your
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grace covers us. God, I want to pray right now for like a
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spiritual helmet over all of our minds, that your grace would cover our minds
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and our thought processes. God. For the one here who is just living
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with shame or just beating themselves up. God you bring peace. God,
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for the one who is just stuck with some fear, like they're spinning their
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tires with fear and anxiety. God, would you bring peace? God.
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I also feel led to pray for anyone who feels a little bit cynical,
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cynical about faith, cynical about their jobs, cynical about things going on in
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their family life. God, would you dissolve that cynicism, that negativity with
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more of your peace and increased joy. God, we thank you for your
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grace. We thank you for the freedom and the healing that we have because
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of Jesus. And it's in his name we pray Amen.