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  1. Welcome to Church at the Crossing. My name is Andrew. I'm the associate

  2. teaching pastor here and if this is your first time or if you're new to

  3. Church at the Crossing, I'm so glad that you decided to be here today

  4. because we are starting a brand new message series that we're calling Parables, and

  5. so I want to start by just sharing what is a parable. Well,

  6. basically, a parable is a short story or a metaphor that might be made

  7. up or like fictional, but it's to prove a point or to share some

  8. kind of truth. And we know that Jesus shared a lot of parables.

  9. If you're familiar with the Gospels, you might know some of the parables like

  10. parable of the Good Samaritan, or parable of the Lost Sun, or the

  11. Lost Sheet, parable of or all these parables. Because stories have a way

  12. of staying in our mind almost better than anything else that we can remember.

  13. Stories grab your attention and they touch your emotions, and they train support us

  14. into the reality of the characters and the story that we're hearing. Stories are

  15. very powerful, and Jesus knew that, and that's why he shared parables.

  16. We read in Matthew thirteen. It says, Jesus spoke all these things to

  17. the crowds in parables. He did not say anything to them without using a

  18. parable. As we begin this series and we'll be looking at these parables for

  19. several weeks, I want us to remember one thing to keep in mind that

  20. Jesus's parables reveal the heart and values of the Father. Jesus's parables show us

  21. God's heart. These stories reveal the values of God. They reveal what the

  22. Kingdom of God is like and how you and I can participate in the Kingdom

  23. of God. And since we're talking about stories, let me share a story

  24. from my own life. So many years ago, I would every Christmas I

  25. would get sick. A day after Christmas or two days after Christmas. I

  26. would always get sick. I would wake up with a sore wrote or a

  27. stuffy nose, some kind of virus or a cold, just every year right

  28. after Christmas. And then I finally figured out why. At that time,

  29. I was serving out a different church in Pennsylvania, and that church had multiple

  30. Christmas Eve worship services, sometimes four, five, six services in one day.

  31. You know, hundreds and hundreds of people coming through these services. And

  32. one of my responsibilities there was to stand in the parking lot and welcome everybody

  33. to church and shake hands and hug people out in the cold, and so

  34. somewhere along the way, after several hundred handshakes, I would pick up a

  35. germ or some kind of cold and I would get sick every Christmas. And

  36. then one Christmas, Lauren gave me a Christmas Eve survival kit and inside there

  37. was handwarmers for the parking lot. I think maybe hot Tea or some of

  38. those immune booster drink mixes. And there was a bottle of hand sanitizer.

  39. It said kills ninety nine point nine germs. So I was ready and I

  40. went out to my station in the parking lot, and as people were coming

  41. in, I was shaking hands, giving hugs, Merry Christmas. After everybody

  42. went inside and worships started, I took out my hand sanitizer and drenched my

  43. hands and hand sanitizer. Then the next service came, people came in,

  44. Merry Christmas, good to see you. And after that service started, I

  45. washed my hands with more hand sanitizer. I think that bottle of hand sanitizer

  46. was completely empty by the end of the day. You know what, happened.

  47. I still got sick that year. It was that point zero one percent

  48. germ that got me that year. The title of today's message is clean Hearts

  49. and Dirty Hands. Clean hearts and dirty hands. And for the rest of

  50. our time together, we're gonna look at a passage in the Bible in Mark

  51. chapter seven, and it's a little bit of a lengthy passage, and we're

  52. gonna kind of work our way through sections of this passage, and I'm gonna

  53. share little bit of the context, and we're gonna understand how what Jesus says

  54. in Mark seven can help us live lives to honor God. So let's take

  55. a look at Mark seven. Starting in verse one, the Pharisees and some

  56. of the teachers of the Law who had come from Jerusalem gathered around Jesus and

  57. saw some of his disciples eating food with hands that were defiled, that is,

  58. unwashed. The Pharisees and all the Jews do not eat unless they give

  59. their hands a ceremonial washing, holding to the tradition of the elders when they

  60. come from the marketplace, they do not eat unless they wash, and they

  61. observe many other traditions, such as the washing of cups, pictures, and

  62. kettles. And in verse five, so the Pharisees and teaches the law,

  63. ask Jesus, why don't your disciples live according to the tradition of the elders

  64. instead of eating their food with defiled hands. Now, when I read this

  65. story, I immediately thought about a meme that I saw on the internet re

  66. recently. It says employees must wash hands, and someone wrote, I waited

  67. forty five minutes and no employee offered to wash my hands. Now, what's

  68. going on in this story in Mark seven? I don't think this has to

  69. do with hygiene. I don't think that the disciples are picking their nose or

  70. wiping snot off their face and then double dipping in the chips and salsa.

  71. This is not about germs. This is about religion and traditions and man made

  72. ceremonies. And so let me share a little bit of the context around this

  73. passage. Have you ever heard the expression cleanliness is next to godliness? Well,

  74. the Pharisees believe this one hundred percent. Just very briefly, let me

  75. share a little bit of history around the Pharisees and the Israelite culture. So,

  76. God gave Israel very strict rules for their worship leaders, like their priests

  77. and Levites. Before they were to go into the temple, they were supposed

  78. to wash their body as a reminder that God is holy and his people are

  79. holy. But these rules were meant for the Levites, for the priests.

  80. But then somewhere along the way, the leaders of Israel extended these rules to

  81. everyone, so the entire population. And here's why. Over their history,

  82. the Israelites rebelled against God, and their hearts turned away from God and they

  83. started to serve pagan false religions. And when they started following the corruption of

  84. paganism, God removed his protection from Israel, and so inevitably, the enemies

  85. of Israel invaded their lands, conquered the people, destroyed their temple, deported

  86. many of the Jews into exile, and they were corrupted by paganism. Well,

  87. after many generations of exile, the Jews came back to their homeland and

  88. the leaders were so traumatized by that pagan corruption that they set up all these

  89. rules to make sure that their people would never be corrupt again. And so

  90. if a Jew went to the market and they shook hands with a non jew

  91. they would wash their hands ceremonially and say, look, we are not being

  92. corrupted. Or if that incidentally touched something from paganism, they would wash their

  93. hands. Look, we're not going to be corrupted. So when the Pharisees

  94. see that Jesus and his disciples don't do this ceremonial washing, they panic and

  95. they think they're corrupting are people. But let's look at what Jesus says and

  96. how he responds. In verse six, he replied, Isaiah was right when

  97. he prophesied about you, you hypocrites. As it is written, these people

  98. honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. Their

  99. hearts are far from me. They worship me in vain. Their teachings are

  100. merely human rules. You have let go of the commands of God and are

  101. holding on to human traditions. Jesus says, your hearts are far from God.

  102. You got good, clean hands, you observe the traditions and the rules,

  103. but your hearts are far from God. You can have clean hands and

  104. still have dirty hearts, because clean hands don't make clean hearts. You can

  105. have a lean exterior, but what's on the inside can still be corrupt.

  106. I recently came across the documentary called Shiny Happy People, And if you've seen

  107. this documentary, you know that it's a little bit strange. It's it's a

  108. little bizarre. This documentary follows modern day Christian families who are a part of

  109. a Christian organization or this group that has some really strict rules and some really

  110. strict standards that they've got rules about the rules of men and women in the

  111. family, and rules about what you should wear and can't wear, and child

  112. discipline and just this, this whole curriculum, this, this whole organization.

  113. Now, on the outside, these families look perfect. Their kids never act

  114. out there, there's no fighting or arguing, They speak to each other kindly.

  115. Mom and dad seem to be happily married. It all looks good on

  116. the outside, but there are some problems on the inside. Behind the scenes,

  117. it's a different story. Some investigation with this documentary covers reveals that there

  118. are serious claims of use and harassment. There's some like fear tactics and manipulation

  119. used in this organization, and there's a lot of financial impropriety. It's just

  120. a mess. Because you can look good on the outside and still be corrupt

  121. and evil on the inside. Clean hands don't make clean hearts. So in

  122. our text, in verse fourteen, Jesus shares a parable to outline what he's

  123. teaching. He says in verse fourteen again, Jesus called the crowd to him

  124. and said, listen to me, everyone, and understand this. Nothing outside

  125. a person can defile them by going into them. Rather, it's what comes

  126. out of a person that defiles them. Jesus says, it's what's on the

  127. inside that directs your whole life. It's what's on the inside that influences your

  128. life. Holiness begins in the heart, Jesus saying, holiness begins in the

  129. heart. It doesn't begin with our hands. It begins in the heart.

  130. You can live a holy life. Christians are to be people who are holy,

  131. who are following God, who are obeying God. We are to be

  132. people who remove sin from our lives. But we can't do that with our

  133. own hands, with our own power, with our own man made rules.

  134. We need the power of Jesus to be holy. We need the Spirit of

  135. God in our lives. To be holy. We need his grace and his

  136. power to obey him. Starts in the heart. Holiness begins in the heart.

  137. In verse seventeen, Jesus explains what his parable means. After he had

  138. left the crowd and entered the house, his disciples asked him about this parable.

  139. Are you so dull? He asked, don't you see that nothing that

  140. enters a person from the outside can defile them? For it doesn't go into

  141. their heart, but into their stomach and then out of the body. And

  142. saying this, Jesus declared all foods clean. He went on, what comes

  143. out of a person is what defiles them. For it is from within,

  144. out of a person's heart, that evil thoughts come, sexual immorality, theft,

  145. murder, adultery, greed, malice, to see, lewdness, envy,

  146. slander, arrogance, and folly. All these evils come from inside and

  147. defile a person. Holiness begins in the heart. Last month, a big

  148. windstorm knocked out the power in my neighborhood, and we didn't have electricity for

  149. several days. And after some time I noticed that there was a puddle of

  150. water beneath my refrigerator in the garage because there was something wrong on the inside.

  151. The power had gone out and the refrigerator icemaker was leaking, and when

  152. I opened the door, more water came leaking out onto the ground. Whatever's

  153. inside of your heart will leak out into your life. It leaks out into

  154. your life. Look closely at our text. In verse twenty three, Jesus

  155. says, all these evils come from inside and defile a person. In Greek,

  156. this expression come from his one Greek word, and it can be translated

  157. as proceed, burst forth, or flow out. It means what's on the

  158. inside of your heart will leak out into your life, and it will leak

  159. out onto other people. It will leak out in messy ways. What's leaking

  160. out is a sign of what's going on in the heart. So when somebody

  161. overreacts and anger or rage are leaking out in their life, it might be

  162. a sign that inside their heart there's some insecurity, or there's a wound that

  163. they're dealing with. When somebody is leaking out they're unmotivated, or there's depression

  164. leaking out in their life, it might be that inside their heart there is

  165. grief and they need healing. You know, addiction can leak out symptoms like

  166. paranoia, erratic behavior, Your mood swings can be leaking out things like greed

  167. and deception can leak out of a heart that is fearful, or a heart

  168. that is envious and jealous. But whatever it is, what is inside your

  169. heart will leak out onto other people. It'll leak out on the people closest

  170. to you. In the Gospel of Luke, Jesus once said this, a

  171. good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart,

  172. and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his

  173. heart. For the mouth speaks with the heart is full of I think that

  174. most of us don't want to leak out unhealthy things on the people around us.

  175. I think most of us don't want to leak out toxic things or unholy

  176. things. I think most of us we want to be a blessing to our

  177. friends. We want to be a blessing to our families and encouragement to those

  178. around us. Is so, we need God to do a work in our

  179. hearts. We need God to clean our hearts. We need God to get

  180. his hands dirty to do a transformation in our hearts. Last month, I

  181. was visiting my relatives in Pennsylvania, and my father in law owns some property

  182. and he's got some big machinery and large tractor lawnmowers, and one of these

  183. lawnmowers had broken down. And if you've ever owned or worked with one of

  184. these, it can be super expensive to replace one of these mowers. And

  185. so my father in law was trying to fix it. And when I went

  186. to the garage to say hello to him, I reached my hand out to

  187. greet him, and he said, no, you do not want to touch

  188. me. I'm filthy. And he was up to his elbows in grease,

  189. he had swept through his shirt, he had oil and dirt on his face.

  190. He was filthy. By the end of the day, he fixed whatever

  191. was wrong with that tractor, and he was on top of it and driving

  192. it and mowing it because he got his hands dirty and fixing it. The

  193. Pharisees in Jesus Day didn't want to get their hands dirty. They wanted to

  194. keep their hands clean, and so they did not want to associate with sinners

  195. or people with poor reputations. They avoided the sick, they avoided people who

  196. were broken and hurting, even people with disabilities, because they were unclean.

  197. They wanted to keep their hands clean. But Jesus gets his hands dirty because

  198. Jesus seeks out sinners. Jesus goes to the sick, the hurting, and

  199. the broken, and he meets them with compassion. The Gospel of Jesus demonstrates

  200. that God gets his hands dirty to transform our lives. We read in First

  201. Peter two twenty four Jesus himself bore our sins in his body on the cross,

  202. so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness. By his

  203. wounds, you have been healed. God saw our greatest need. He saw

  204. that our hearts needed cleans. He saw that our hearts were broken and needed

  205. to be healed. He saw you in your disobedience. He saw you in

  206. the filthiest part of your sin. And what did he do when he saw

  207. you in your brokenness? Did he distance himself from you? Did he ignore

  208. you? No? He rolled up his sleeves and he got his hands dirty.

  209. He got on your level. He got into our lives, into the

  210. filth of our sin, by sending his son Jesus to be a sacrifice,

  211. a substitute for our sin. There is nothing more filthy and more disgusting than

  212. death by crucifixion. And God and braced it because he gets his hands dirty

  213. to transform your life. Because Jesus died and he rose from the dead,

  214. you can live in power, You can live in victory. Your heart can

  215. be transformed. You are set free from addiction, you are healed from hurt,

  216. you are cleansed from the power of sin in your life, and you

  217. can live for righteousness because Jesus has transformed your life. That's the power of

  218. the Gospel. And there's a lie that man made religion and rules will try

  219. to tell you about the Gospel. And that lie is that you need to

  220. clean up your life before you can be loved by God. That lie says

  221. you need to get your act together, clean up your mess before God will

  222. accept you. That is a lie. What you need is to be washed

  223. by the blood of Jesus, cleansed by the grace of Jesus. Think of

  224. this when you take a shower. Do you first wash your hands in the

  225. sink before you take a shower? Probably not? Probably not for most of

  226. us. When my home was without power, that windstorm knocked down a tree

  227. in my neighbor's yard, big massive tree, and we spent the afternoon cleaning

  228. up the branches and using chainsaws and cutting it all up. And I was

  229. filthy, I was covered in sweat, I was sticky, and sawdust was

  230. sticking to my body. And I needed clean So I went home and I

  231. left my shoes outside of the house, and then I threw away the socks

  232. that I was wearing, and I got in the shower. I didn't stop

  233. by the sink to wash my hands. My whole body needed washed and cleansed.

  234. When you come to Jesus, he washes every part of your life.

  235. He washes your entire heart, your entire life, Every part of you is

  236. washed in the grace of Jesus. So don't believe that lie that you gotta

  237. wash your hands or clean up some part of your life before God to accept

  238. you. He cleanses all of it. And when Jesus transforms your heart,

  239. when he cleanses your heart and then he invites you into his mission, Jesus

  240. expects you to get your hands dirty. That's why this message is called clean

  241. hearts and dirty hands. Clean hearts make dirty hands. We are to be

  242. a people with clean hearts and dirty hands. Church at the Crossing as a

  243. church with clean hearts and dirty hands. We've got clean hearts, We love

  244. God, we obey Jesus, the honorgyes, we repent from sin. We

  245. have clean hearts and we've got dirty hands because we serve the poor. We

  246. meet the knees, we go to brokenness. We walk with people in their

  247. grief and in their sorrow. We serve even when it's messy. We get

  248. our hands dirty. And so what are the characteristics of a people with clean

  249. hearts and dirty hands? What are the trademarks of clean hearts and dirty hands.

  250. Well, one is that we embrace the mess. We embrace the mess.

  251. When I was a youth pastor, I trained our volunteer adult leaders to

  252. love students and meet students the love of Jesus. And I would use this

  253. teaching. We said embrace the mess, or sometimes we would say embrace the

  254. squiggle, and we would use this illustration where I think most of us adults

  255. think that spiritual growth should look like this. On the left side, we're

  256. living our life and then we come to Jesus, and then after that we

  257. become more and more like Jesus. As the years go by, you know,

  258. we're moving up into the right. You know, we're becoming more like

  259. Jesus. Maybe we have some ups and downs, but by and large we're

  260. moving up and to the right. But with teenagers and students, it often

  261. looks a little bit more like this. When you come to Christ, it

  262. just kind of looks like this. It's a squiggly mess. Embrace the squiggle.

  263. And so most people, when they look at this, some of them

  264. will will be overwhelmed or intimidated by this. But when I look at this,

  265. I'm not intimidated. I think to myself, how can I mess this

  266. up? It's already a mess. So we embrace the squiggle. We embrace

  267. the mess. We listen, we love, we encourage, we pray,

  268. show Jesus. But if we're being honest, every single one of us has

  269. lives that look like the one on the right. We're all a mess.

  270. Whether we're young or whether we're old, whether we're men or women, We've

  271. got messes in our lives, and so to be people with clean hearts and

  272. dirty hands, we embrace the mess. We welcome new people into our small

  273. groups and into our Sunday groups. We don't try to fix somebody's political opinion.

  274. We love, We embrace somebody who looks different than us. We embrace

  275. the immigrant. Even if there's a language barrier, a smile, a hug,

  276. a handshake overcomes a language barrier for some of us. You're embracing the

  277. mess literally in serving in children's ministry. It is messy there. There's snot

  278. and boogers and diapers, and it's messy, but it's holy. It's holy

  279. work because we're sharing Jesus with the next generation. I think about our volunteer

  280. teams when our church gathers and we share meals together. Our church loves to

  281. eat and have relationships around meals, and we have volunteer teams who are preparing

  282. those meals, who are setting up early and cleaning up late, and they're

  283. embracing the mess. It'd be really easy for us to spend a lot of

  284. money and have those kind of things catered, or would be convenient for us

  285. to maybe charge some admission cost, but we don't do that because we don't

  286. want to set up any barriers. We want everyone to be welcome, everyone

  287. to have access, and so our volunteer teams embrace the mess. Clean hearts

  288. and dirty hands, we embrace the mess. The second characteristic is that we

  289. embrace God's word. We embrace God's word. If we have clean hearts and

  290. dirty hands, we embrace God's where we hold on to God's word. If

  291. we let go of God's word, then we lose our mission and we lose

  292. our identity. Notice what Jesus says in verse eight. He says to the

  293. Jewish religious leaders, you have let go of the commands of God and are

  294. holding on to human traditions. And then Jesus goes on in verse nine to

  295. give an example of how they've let go of God's word, and he uses

  296. this Jewish tradition called corbin. There's a word called corbin in this text.

  297. What is corbin? What is Jesus talking about? Well, imagine it this

  298. way. Let's say you sold property or sold a home, and you had

  299. profit from that sale, and you decided that you wanted to give that profit

  300. in that money to the Lord, dedicated to the Lord. So you might

  301. put it in an account or in an escrow account and say this is dedicated

  302. to the Lord for a future time and a future purpose. And it's dedicated.

  303. But then what if your parents come along and they need help. Maybe

  304. they're having some medical issues and they need help with their medical treatment, or

  305. they need assisted living well, the Bible says, honor your mother and father,

  306. or take care of your mother and father. Can you use the money

  307. that you've set aside on that account to help honor your father and mother.

  308. Well, the Jewish religious leaders would say, no, you can't. You've

  309. set that into corbin dedicated to God. And then therefore your dison honoring your

  310. parents are disobeying the word of God. We have to hold on to the

  311. word of God. We have to embrace the word of God and obey the

  312. word of God, not human traditions or human barriers. I could give you

  313. story after story of people in our church who are embracing God's word and holding

  314. on to God's word. There's the family who struggle to trust God with their

  315. finances and they're struggling to make ends. Me is very stressful. But then

  316. they made the very difficult decision that they were going to tie the portion of

  317. their income back to God. Why did they do that because they are embracing

  318. God's word. They want to obey God, and they'll tell you how God

  319. has provided for them, how God has increased their faith through this. And

  320. then there's that one young man that I know who just started following Jesus,

  321. and his job schedules him to work every Sunday morning, and he tries asking

  322. off work every Sunday morning, but he doesn't get Sunday mornings off. So

  323. what does he do. He quits that job and tries to find another job

  324. so he can have Sunday mornings to worship and be in church. Why because

  325. he's embracing God's where he's obeying Jesus. And there's the young couple I know

  326. who got engaged and then they bought a house together, and then they moved

  327. in together, and then when they started following Jesus, they've made a difficult

  328. decision that they were going to live in separate bedrooms of their home and they

  329. were gonna put their sexual relationship on pause until they got married. Why because

  330. they love Jesus. They're embracing God's word and they want to obey God's word.

  331. When we embrace God's word, in one hand we hold the Bible and

  332. in the other hand we hold hands with people, even when it's messy.

  333. So people with clean hands, clean hearts, and dirty hands, we embrace

  334. the mess. We embrace God's word. And the last trait is that we

  335. embrace vulnerability. We embrace vulnerability. And let me be really clear what I

  336. mean by vulnerability. Vulnerability means choosing to be real and honest and authentic about

  337. who you are. Vulnerability means that you don't hide your weakness or your insecurity.

  338. Nability means that you don't try to be something that you're not. And

  339. I believe that the American Church will grow if we embrace vulnerability. The Church

  340. in the United States will experience revival when we embrace vulnerability and reject this idea

  341. of being perfect and squeaky clean. But if we repent from sin and turn

  342. to the Lord and vulnerability with one another, that's where revival happens. As

  343. I was looking at this passage in Mark seven and thinking about the Pharisees,

  344. I gotta imagine that the Pharisees resisted vulnerability. Vulnerability didn't come naturally for them.

  345. And then I was thinking even more, I wonder if the Pharisees felt

  346. unsafe around each other. I wonder if they were an environment where they were

  347. unsafe with each other and they couldn't let their guard down with each other,

  348. that they didn't want to appear weak or appear insecure around each other. And

  349. so they had these these defense mechanisms, because vulnerability grows in safe relationships that

  350. you trust. I remember not too long ago, I was in my small

  351. group, and the guys in our group we were praying for each other at

  352. the end of our time together. And at that time, I was struggling

  353. with holding a grudge and some bitterness and unforgiveness towards somebody, not somebody in

  354. my group, but somebody else in my life. And I was tempted to

  355. say to my group, pray for me because I'm struggling with something difficult.

  356. But that's still vague, that's not vulnerable. So I stepped out of vulnerability

  357. and I said I need prayer because I'm struggling with this bitterness and unforgiveness toward

  358. this person. And I named that person. And you know what happened next.

  359. Another member in my group told me about a story in his life where

  360. he was holding unforgiveness against somebody, a relative in his family. My vulnerability

  361. was met with vulnerability. It was not met with judgment or criticism. It

  362. wasn't met with even a good hearted well, let me tell you how you

  363. can fix that. And it certainly wasn't met with gossip, you know someone

  364. texting, or you won't believe Pastor Andrew. Vulnerability begets vulnerability. Vulnerability grows

  365. in community. There's too many fake Christians out there trying to be squeaky clean,

  366. holier than now. Put up this perfect and there's a possibility that as

  367. you're listening to this, maybe you've been hurt by somebody who has said that

  368. they're a Christian or that they follow Jesus. But you've realized that they've got

  369. clean hands. But but the heart isn't always there. I want to tell

  370. you today that God wants to heal that wound. God wants to transform that

  371. wound, and you can be vulnerable about that wound. Maybe for you today,

  372. your first step in vulnerability is to get into community. Vulnerability grows in

  373. community. If you're not in community, might feel like you're on an island

  374. by yourself. Try a small group, try serving team, Get around people

  375. who are gonna walk with you. We want to be a people with clean

  376. hearts and dirty hands. And today I want to close this message with a

  377. parable about a family who recently moved to Indianapolis. Mom and dad have a

  378. young boy and a young daughter, and they bought a great home in a

  379. nice school district. The dad has a new job in Indie, and the

  380. boy he's athletic. The daughter gets good grades at school, and everything on

  381. the outside looks good. They're a happy, kind family. But on the

  382. inside, in the home, there's just something off. There's something missing.

  383. There's joy missing, there's peace, and relational connection is just missing because you

  384. see, Dad is really stressed out with this new job, and when he

  385. gets stressed, his temper gets short with the kids. And ever since the

  386. move, Mom has been struggling with loneliness and some depression, but she doesn't

  387. want to bring this up around Dad because he's stressed out. Well. Then

  388. a neighbor invites the family to church at the Crossing, and they come to

  389. church at the Crossing and the kids get involved in youth ministry and children's ministry,

  390. and then not too long, mom and dad try to decide to try

  391. a small group with other couples, and they're a little bit hesits in a

  392. little standoffice, you know, being around new strangers Christians. But they realize

  393. that these other couples, they're vulnerable with each other, they share their weaknesses,

  394. their struggles. They're not squeaky clean, holier than now Christians. But

  395. then things take a turn for the worst at home. The young boy gets

  396. in trouble at school and there's some serious consequences he's facing. When Dad gets

  397. that call, he just loses it. He loses his temper. Everybody's walking

  398. around on eggshells around him. And then mom discovers some text messages on her

  399. daughter's phone that are troubling, and she discovers that her daughter's struggling with some

  400. self harm and it's just but she's not gonna bring this up to Dad because

  401. it is his temper and it's just overwhelming. This pressure is just mounting in

  402. their home, and so they stop going to church because they just feel this

  403. shame like things aren't right at home. And then they start pulling away from

  404. their small group because they just can't deal with this. And after some time,

  405. another member in that small group just feels prompted to reach out just compassionately.

  406. Hey, how you doing it? I've missed you. And that's all

  407. it took for that mom and dad to just open up and let it all

  408. out. What do you think that small group leader does? They roll up

  409. their sleeves and they get their hands dirty. They go right over to that

  410. family's home. They embrace mom and dad. One of the other dads in

  411. that group starts mentoring that young boy and helping him with some of his challenges.

  412. Some other women in the group surround that daughter with love and support and

  413. encouragement. Pretty soon mom and dad decide that they want to try some marriage

  414. counseling. And it's messy, it's painful, but healings happening in their marriage.

  415. And then after some time goes by, Mom and Dad are at Church

  416. of the Crossing on a Sunday morning, and they're soaking wet because they just

  417. got baptized, and they're getting ready to baptize their children. The young boys,

  418. a leader in his small group, and his high school small group,

  419. and the daughters inviting her friends and bringing them to church. It's a family

  420. that's been transformed by the grace and compassion of Jesus. The truth about that

  421. story is that every single one of our stories is somewhere in that parable.

  422. Now that the details might be different, the circumstances might be different, the

  423. ending might be a little different, but somewhere in that story, you and

  424. I can identify our story and I don't know about you, but I don't

  425. want that to just be a parable. I don't want that to just be

  426. a story. I want that to be reality. I want that story to

  427. be a true story, a living parable. I want to hear stories like

  428. that coming out of our church and out of our community. Because we are

  429. a church that has clean hearts and dirty hands. We embrace the mess.

  430. We love people. We don't run away from people when they struggle. We

  431. run two struggling people because we have clean hearts and dirty hands. Can I

  432. pray for us? Father, God, we thank you for your grace,

  433. and we thank you that you got your hands dirty, that you came to

  434. us in our mess, and that your grace has transformed us. And so

  435. God, I want to pray right now that your favor would increase upon us.

  436. First, I want to start with the homes. God. I want

  437. to pray for every family that's represented, every marriage that's represented, God,

  438. that your favor would increase in those homes and in those families, that your

  439. favor of grace and vulnerability would increase. God. I want to pray for

  440. our church, starting with our youngest ministries, the nursery and the preschool,

  441. all the way up to our adult classes and our adult groups. God,

  442. that all through those life stages, that your grace and your favor would rest

  443. upon our people. And God, we pray an expectation for the lives that

  444. are going to be transformed, for the people that we have not met yet,

  445. the neighbors that we have not encountered yet, but the ones who are

  446. already working in their hearts. God, You're already working in their hearts,

  447. in their minds, that you're going to do a transformation. We pray with

  448. expectation that we will see more people come to faith, more people transform,

  449. more families healed. God, thank you for your grace, and most of

  450. all, we thank you for the gift of Jesus. And in his name

  451. we pray Amen.