Sermon
Parables: Week 1
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Welcome to Church at the Crossing. My name is Andrew. I'm the associate
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teaching pastor here and if this is your first time or if you're new to
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Church at the Crossing, I'm so glad that you decided to be here today
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because we are starting a brand new message series that we're calling Parables, and
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so I want to start by just sharing what is a parable. Well,
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basically, a parable is a short story or a metaphor that might be made
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up or like fictional, but it's to prove a point or to share some
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kind of truth. And we know that Jesus shared a lot of parables.
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If you're familiar with the Gospels, you might know some of the parables like
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parable of the Good Samaritan, or parable of the Lost Sun, or the
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Lost Sheet, parable of or all these parables. Because stories have a way
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of staying in our mind almost better than anything else that we can remember.
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Stories grab your attention and they touch your emotions, and they train support us
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into the reality of the characters and the story that we're hearing. Stories are
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very powerful, and Jesus knew that, and that's why he shared parables.
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We read in Matthew thirteen. It says, Jesus spoke all these things to
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the crowds in parables. He did not say anything to them without using a
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parable. As we begin this series and we'll be looking at these parables for
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several weeks, I want us to remember one thing to keep in mind that
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Jesus's parables reveal the heart and values of the Father. Jesus's parables show us
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God's heart. These stories reveal the values of God. They reveal what the
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Kingdom of God is like and how you and I can participate in the Kingdom
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of God. And since we're talking about stories, let me share a story
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from my own life. So many years ago, I would every Christmas I
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would get sick. A day after Christmas or two days after Christmas. I
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would always get sick. I would wake up with a sore wrote or a
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stuffy nose, some kind of virus or a cold, just every year right
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after Christmas. And then I finally figured out why. At that time,
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I was serving out a different church in Pennsylvania, and that church had multiple
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Christmas Eve worship services, sometimes four, five, six services in one day.
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You know, hundreds and hundreds of people coming through these services. And
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one of my responsibilities there was to stand in the parking lot and welcome everybody
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to church and shake hands and hug people out in the cold, and so
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somewhere along the way, after several hundred handshakes, I would pick up a
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germ or some kind of cold and I would get sick every Christmas. And
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then one Christmas, Lauren gave me a Christmas Eve survival kit and inside there
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was handwarmers for the parking lot. I think maybe hot Tea or some of
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those immune booster drink mixes. And there was a bottle of hand sanitizer.
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It said kills ninety nine point nine germs. So I was ready and I
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went out to my station in the parking lot, and as people were coming
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in, I was shaking hands, giving hugs, Merry Christmas. After everybody
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went inside and worships started, I took out my hand sanitizer and drenched my
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hands and hand sanitizer. Then the next service came, people came in,
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Merry Christmas, good to see you. And after that service started, I
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washed my hands with more hand sanitizer. I think that bottle of hand sanitizer
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was completely empty by the end of the day. You know what, happened.
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I still got sick that year. It was that point zero one percent
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germ that got me that year. The title of today's message is clean Hearts
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and Dirty Hands. Clean hearts and dirty hands. And for the rest of
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our time together, we're gonna look at a passage in the Bible in Mark
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chapter seven, and it's a little bit of a lengthy passage, and we're
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gonna kind of work our way through sections of this passage, and I'm gonna
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share little bit of the context, and we're gonna understand how what Jesus says
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in Mark seven can help us live lives to honor God. So let's take
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a look at Mark seven. Starting in verse one, the Pharisees and some
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of the teachers of the Law who had come from Jerusalem gathered around Jesus and
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saw some of his disciples eating food with hands that were defiled, that is,
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unwashed. The Pharisees and all the Jews do not eat unless they give
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their hands a ceremonial washing, holding to the tradition of the elders when they
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come from the marketplace, they do not eat unless they wash, and they
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observe many other traditions, such as the washing of cups, pictures, and
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kettles. And in verse five, so the Pharisees and teaches the law,
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ask Jesus, why don't your disciples live according to the tradition of the elders
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instead of eating their food with defiled hands. Now, when I read this
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story, I immediately thought about a meme that I saw on the internet re
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recently. It says employees must wash hands, and someone wrote, I waited
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forty five minutes and no employee offered to wash my hands. Now, what's
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going on in this story in Mark seven? I don't think this has to
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do with hygiene. I don't think that the disciples are picking their nose or
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wiping snot off their face and then double dipping in the chips and salsa.
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This is not about germs. This is about religion and traditions and man made
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ceremonies. And so let me share a little bit of the context around this
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passage. Have you ever heard the expression cleanliness is next to godliness? Well,
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the Pharisees believe this one hundred percent. Just very briefly, let me
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share a little bit of history around the Pharisees and the Israelite culture. So,
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God gave Israel very strict rules for their worship leaders, like their priests
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and Levites. Before they were to go into the temple, they were supposed
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to wash their body as a reminder that God is holy and his people are
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holy. But these rules were meant for the Levites, for the priests.
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But then somewhere along the way, the leaders of Israel extended these rules to
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everyone, so the entire population. And here's why. Over their history,
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the Israelites rebelled against God, and their hearts turned away from God and they
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started to serve pagan false religions. And when they started following the corruption of
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paganism, God removed his protection from Israel, and so inevitably, the enemies
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of Israel invaded their lands, conquered the people, destroyed their temple, deported
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many of the Jews into exile, and they were corrupted by paganism. Well,
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after many generations of exile, the Jews came back to their homeland and
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the leaders were so traumatized by that pagan corruption that they set up all these
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rules to make sure that their people would never be corrupt again. And so
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if a Jew went to the market and they shook hands with a non jew
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they would wash their hands ceremonially and say, look, we are not being
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corrupted. Or if that incidentally touched something from paganism, they would wash their
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hands. Look, we're not going to be corrupted. So when the Pharisees
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see that Jesus and his disciples don't do this ceremonial washing, they panic and
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they think they're corrupting are people. But let's look at what Jesus says and
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how he responds. In verse six, he replied, Isaiah was right when
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he prophesied about you, you hypocrites. As it is written, these people
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honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. Their
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hearts are far from me. They worship me in vain. Their teachings are
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merely human rules. You have let go of the commands of God and are
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holding on to human traditions. Jesus says, your hearts are far from God.
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You got good, clean hands, you observe the traditions and the rules,
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but your hearts are far from God. You can have clean hands and
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still have dirty hearts, because clean hands don't make clean hearts. You can
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have a lean exterior, but what's on the inside can still be corrupt.
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I recently came across the documentary called Shiny Happy People, And if you've seen
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this documentary, you know that it's a little bit strange. It's it's a
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little bizarre. This documentary follows modern day Christian families who are a part of
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a Christian organization or this group that has some really strict rules and some really
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strict standards that they've got rules about the rules of men and women in the
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family, and rules about what you should wear and can't wear, and child
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discipline and just this, this whole curriculum, this, this whole organization.
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Now, on the outside, these families look perfect. Their kids never act
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out there, there's no fighting or arguing, They speak to each other kindly.
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Mom and dad seem to be happily married. It all looks good on
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the outside, but there are some problems on the inside. Behind the scenes,
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it's a different story. Some investigation with this documentary covers reveals that there
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are serious claims of use and harassment. There's some like fear tactics and manipulation
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used in this organization, and there's a lot of financial impropriety. It's just
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a mess. Because you can look good on the outside and still be corrupt
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and evil on the inside. Clean hands don't make clean hearts. So in
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our text, in verse fourteen, Jesus shares a parable to outline what he's
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teaching. He says in verse fourteen again, Jesus called the crowd to him
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and said, listen to me, everyone, and understand this. Nothing outside
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a person can defile them by going into them. Rather, it's what comes
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out of a person that defiles them. Jesus says, it's what's on the
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inside that directs your whole life. It's what's on the inside that influences your
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life. Holiness begins in the heart, Jesus saying, holiness begins in the
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heart. It doesn't begin with our hands. It begins in the heart.
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You can live a holy life. Christians are to be people who are holy,
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who are following God, who are obeying God. We are to be
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people who remove sin from our lives. But we can't do that with our
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own hands, with our own power, with our own man made rules.
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We need the power of Jesus to be holy. We need the Spirit of
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God in our lives. To be holy. We need his grace and his
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power to obey him. Starts in the heart. Holiness begins in the heart.
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In verse seventeen, Jesus explains what his parable means. After he had
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left the crowd and entered the house, his disciples asked him about this parable.
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Are you so dull? He asked, don't you see that nothing that
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enters a person from the outside can defile them? For it doesn't go into
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their heart, but into their stomach and then out of the body. And
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saying this, Jesus declared all foods clean. He went on, what comes
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out of a person is what defiles them. For it is from within,
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out of a person's heart, that evil thoughts come, sexual immorality, theft,
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murder, adultery, greed, malice, to see, lewdness, envy,
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slander, arrogance, and folly. All these evils come from inside and
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defile a person. Holiness begins in the heart. Last month, a big
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windstorm knocked out the power in my neighborhood, and we didn't have electricity for
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several days. And after some time I noticed that there was a puddle of
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water beneath my refrigerator in the garage because there was something wrong on the inside.
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The power had gone out and the refrigerator icemaker was leaking, and when
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I opened the door, more water came leaking out onto the ground. Whatever's
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inside of your heart will leak out into your life. It leaks out into
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your life. Look closely at our text. In verse twenty three, Jesus
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says, all these evils come from inside and defile a person. In Greek,
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this expression come from his one Greek word, and it can be translated
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as proceed, burst forth, or flow out. It means what's on the
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inside of your heart will leak out into your life, and it will leak
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out onto other people. It will leak out in messy ways. What's leaking
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out is a sign of what's going on in the heart. So when somebody
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overreacts and anger or rage are leaking out in their life, it might be
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a sign that inside their heart there's some insecurity, or there's a wound that
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they're dealing with. When somebody is leaking out they're unmotivated, or there's depression
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leaking out in their life, it might be that inside their heart there is
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grief and they need healing. You know, addiction can leak out symptoms like
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paranoia, erratic behavior, Your mood swings can be leaking out things like greed
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and deception can leak out of a heart that is fearful, or a heart
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that is envious and jealous. But whatever it is, what is inside your
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heart will leak out onto other people. It'll leak out on the people closest
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to you. In the Gospel of Luke, Jesus once said this, a
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good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart,
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and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his
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heart. For the mouth speaks with the heart is full of I think that
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most of us don't want to leak out unhealthy things on the people around us.
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I think most of us don't want to leak out toxic things or unholy
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things. I think most of us we want to be a blessing to our
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friends. We want to be a blessing to our families and encouragement to those
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around us. Is so, we need God to do a work in our
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hearts. We need God to clean our hearts. We need God to get
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his hands dirty to do a transformation in our hearts. Last month, I
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was visiting my relatives in Pennsylvania, and my father in law owns some property
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and he's got some big machinery and large tractor lawnmowers, and one of these
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lawnmowers had broken down. And if you've ever owned or worked with one of
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these, it can be super expensive to replace one of these mowers. And
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so my father in law was trying to fix it. And when I went
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to the garage to say hello to him, I reached my hand out to
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greet him, and he said, no, you do not want to touch
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me. I'm filthy. And he was up to his elbows in grease,
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he had swept through his shirt, he had oil and dirt on his face.
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He was filthy. By the end of the day, he fixed whatever
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was wrong with that tractor, and he was on top of it and driving
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it and mowing it because he got his hands dirty and fixing it. The
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Pharisees in Jesus Day didn't want to get their hands dirty. They wanted to
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keep their hands clean, and so they did not want to associate with sinners
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or people with poor reputations. They avoided the sick, they avoided people who
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were broken and hurting, even people with disabilities, because they were unclean.
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They wanted to keep their hands clean. But Jesus gets his hands dirty because
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Jesus seeks out sinners. Jesus goes to the sick, the hurting, and
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the broken, and he meets them with compassion. The Gospel of Jesus demonstrates
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that God gets his hands dirty to transform our lives. We read in First
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Peter two twenty four Jesus himself bore our sins in his body on the cross,
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so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness. By his
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wounds, you have been healed. God saw our greatest need. He saw
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that our hearts needed cleans. He saw that our hearts were broken and needed
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to be healed. He saw you in your disobedience. He saw you in
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the filthiest part of your sin. And what did he do when he saw
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you in your brokenness? Did he distance himself from you? Did he ignore
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you? No? He rolled up his sleeves and he got his hands dirty.
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He got on your level. He got into our lives, into the
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filth of our sin, by sending his son Jesus to be a sacrifice,
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a substitute for our sin. There is nothing more filthy and more disgusting than
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death by crucifixion. And God and braced it because he gets his hands dirty
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to transform your life. Because Jesus died and he rose from the dead,
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you can live in power, You can live in victory. Your heart can
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be transformed. You are set free from addiction, you are healed from hurt,
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you are cleansed from the power of sin in your life, and you
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can live for righteousness because Jesus has transformed your life. That's the power of
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the Gospel. And there's a lie that man made religion and rules will try
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to tell you about the Gospel. And that lie is that you need to
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clean up your life before you can be loved by God. That lie says
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you need to get your act together, clean up your mess before God will
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accept you. That is a lie. What you need is to be washed
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by the blood of Jesus, cleansed by the grace of Jesus. Think of
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this when you take a shower. Do you first wash your hands in the
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sink before you take a shower? Probably not? Probably not for most of
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us. When my home was without power, that windstorm knocked down a tree
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in my neighbor's yard, big massive tree, and we spent the afternoon cleaning
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up the branches and using chainsaws and cutting it all up. And I was
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filthy, I was covered in sweat, I was sticky, and sawdust was
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sticking to my body. And I needed clean So I went home and I
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left my shoes outside of the house, and then I threw away the socks
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that I was wearing, and I got in the shower. I didn't stop
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by the sink to wash my hands. My whole body needed washed and cleansed.
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When you come to Jesus, he washes every part of your life.
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He washes your entire heart, your entire life, Every part of you is
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washed in the grace of Jesus. So don't believe that lie that you gotta
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wash your hands or clean up some part of your life before God to accept
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you. He cleanses all of it. And when Jesus transforms your heart,
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when he cleanses your heart and then he invites you into his mission, Jesus
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expects you to get your hands dirty. That's why this message is called clean
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hearts and dirty hands. Clean hearts make dirty hands. We are to be
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a people with clean hearts and dirty hands. Church at the Crossing as a
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church with clean hearts and dirty hands. We've got clean hearts, We love
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God, we obey Jesus, the honorgyes, we repent from sin. We
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have clean hearts and we've got dirty hands because we serve the poor. We
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meet the knees, we go to brokenness. We walk with people in their
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grief and in their sorrow. We serve even when it's messy. We get
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our hands dirty. And so what are the characteristics of a people with clean
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hearts and dirty hands? What are the trademarks of clean hearts and dirty hands.
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Well, one is that we embrace the mess. We embrace the mess.
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When I was a youth pastor, I trained our volunteer adult leaders to
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love students and meet students the love of Jesus. And I would use this
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teaching. We said embrace the mess, or sometimes we would say embrace the
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squiggle, and we would use this illustration where I think most of us adults
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think that spiritual growth should look like this. On the left side, we're
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living our life and then we come to Jesus, and then after that we
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become more and more like Jesus. As the years go by, you know,
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we're moving up into the right. You know, we're becoming more like
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Jesus. Maybe we have some ups and downs, but by and large we're
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moving up and to the right. But with teenagers and students, it often
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looks a little bit more like this. When you come to Christ, it
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just kind of looks like this. It's a squiggly mess. Embrace the squiggle.
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And so most people, when they look at this, some of them
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will will be overwhelmed or intimidated by this. But when I look at this,
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I'm not intimidated. I think to myself, how can I mess this
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up? It's already a mess. So we embrace the squiggle. We embrace
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the mess. We listen, we love, we encourage, we pray,
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show Jesus. But if we're being honest, every single one of us has
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lives that look like the one on the right. We're all a mess.
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Whether we're young or whether we're old, whether we're men or women, We've
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got messes in our lives, and so to be people with clean hearts and
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dirty hands, we embrace the mess. We welcome new people into our small
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groups and into our Sunday groups. We don't try to fix somebody's political opinion.
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We love, We embrace somebody who looks different than us. We embrace
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the immigrant. Even if there's a language barrier, a smile, a hug,
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a handshake overcomes a language barrier for some of us. You're embracing the
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mess literally in serving in children's ministry. It is messy there. There's snot
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and boogers and diapers, and it's messy, but it's holy. It's holy
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work because we're sharing Jesus with the next generation. I think about our volunteer
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teams when our church gathers and we share meals together. Our church loves to
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eat and have relationships around meals, and we have volunteer teams who are preparing
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those meals, who are setting up early and cleaning up late, and they're
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embracing the mess. It'd be really easy for us to spend a lot of
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money and have those kind of things catered, or would be convenient for us
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to maybe charge some admission cost, but we don't do that because we don't
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want to set up any barriers. We want everyone to be welcome, everyone
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to have access, and so our volunteer teams embrace the mess. Clean hearts
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and dirty hands, we embrace the mess. The second characteristic is that we
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embrace God's word. We embrace God's word. If we have clean hearts and
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dirty hands, we embrace God's where we hold on to God's word. If
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we let go of God's word, then we lose our mission and we lose
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our identity. Notice what Jesus says in verse eight. He says to the
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Jewish religious leaders, you have let go of the commands of God and are
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holding on to human traditions. And then Jesus goes on in verse nine to
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give an example of how they've let go of God's word, and he uses
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this Jewish tradition called corbin. There's a word called corbin in this text.
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What is corbin? What is Jesus talking about? Well, imagine it this
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way. Let's say you sold property or sold a home, and you had
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profit from that sale, and you decided that you wanted to give that profit
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in that money to the Lord, dedicated to the Lord. So you might
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put it in an account or in an escrow account and say this is dedicated
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to the Lord for a future time and a future purpose. And it's dedicated.
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But then what if your parents come along and they need help. Maybe
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they're having some medical issues and they need help with their medical treatment, or
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they need assisted living well, the Bible says, honor your mother and father,
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or take care of your mother and father. Can you use the money
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that you've set aside on that account to help honor your father and mother.
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Well, the Jewish religious leaders would say, no, you can't. You've
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set that into corbin dedicated to God. And then therefore your dison honoring your
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parents are disobeying the word of God. We have to hold on to the
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word of God. We have to embrace the word of God and obey the
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word of God, not human traditions or human barriers. I could give you
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story after story of people in our church who are embracing God's word and holding
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on to God's word. There's the family who struggle to trust God with their
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finances and they're struggling to make ends. Me is very stressful. But then
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they made the very difficult decision that they were going to tie the portion of
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their income back to God. Why did they do that because they are embracing
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God's word. They want to obey God, and they'll tell you how God
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has provided for them, how God has increased their faith through this. And
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then there's that one young man that I know who just started following Jesus,
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and his job schedules him to work every Sunday morning, and he tries asking
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off work every Sunday morning, but he doesn't get Sunday mornings off. So
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what does he do. He quits that job and tries to find another job
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so he can have Sunday mornings to worship and be in church. Why because
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he's embracing God's where he's obeying Jesus. And there's the young couple I know
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who got engaged and then they bought a house together, and then they moved
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in together, and then when they started following Jesus, they've made a difficult
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decision that they were going to live in separate bedrooms of their home and they
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were gonna put their sexual relationship on pause until they got married. Why because
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they love Jesus. They're embracing God's word and they want to obey God's word.
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When we embrace God's word, in one hand we hold the Bible and
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in the other hand we hold hands with people, even when it's messy.
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So people with clean hands, clean hearts, and dirty hands, we embrace
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the mess. We embrace God's word. And the last trait is that we
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embrace vulnerability. We embrace vulnerability. And let me be really clear what I
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mean by vulnerability. Vulnerability means choosing to be real and honest and authentic about
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who you are. Vulnerability means that you don't hide your weakness or your insecurity.
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Nability means that you don't try to be something that you're not. And
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I believe that the American Church will grow if we embrace vulnerability. The Church
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in the United States will experience revival when we embrace vulnerability and reject this idea
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of being perfect and squeaky clean. But if we repent from sin and turn
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to the Lord and vulnerability with one another, that's where revival happens. As
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I was looking at this passage in Mark seven and thinking about the Pharisees,
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I gotta imagine that the Pharisees resisted vulnerability. Vulnerability didn't come naturally for them.
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And then I was thinking even more, I wonder if the Pharisees felt
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unsafe around each other. I wonder if they were an environment where they were
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unsafe with each other and they couldn't let their guard down with each other,
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that they didn't want to appear weak or appear insecure around each other. And
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so they had these these defense mechanisms, because vulnerability grows in safe relationships that
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you trust. I remember not too long ago, I was in my small
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group, and the guys in our group we were praying for each other at
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the end of our time together. And at that time, I was struggling
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with holding a grudge and some bitterness and unforgiveness towards somebody, not somebody in
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my group, but somebody else in my life. And I was tempted to
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say to my group, pray for me because I'm struggling with something difficult.
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But that's still vague, that's not vulnerable. So I stepped out of vulnerability
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and I said I need prayer because I'm struggling with this bitterness and unforgiveness toward
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this person. And I named that person. And you know what happened next.
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Another member in my group told me about a story in his life where
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he was holding unforgiveness against somebody, a relative in his family. My vulnerability
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was met with vulnerability. It was not met with judgment or criticism. It
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wasn't met with even a good hearted well, let me tell you how you
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can fix that. And it certainly wasn't met with gossip, you know someone
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texting, or you won't believe Pastor Andrew. Vulnerability begets vulnerability. Vulnerability grows
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in community. There's too many fake Christians out there trying to be squeaky clean,
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holier than now. Put up this perfect and there's a possibility that as
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you're listening to this, maybe you've been hurt by somebody who has said that
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they're a Christian or that they follow Jesus. But you've realized that they've got
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clean hands. But but the heart isn't always there. I want to tell
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you today that God wants to heal that wound. God wants to transform that
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wound, and you can be vulnerable about that wound. Maybe for you today,
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your first step in vulnerability is to get into community. Vulnerability grows in
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community. If you're not in community, might feel like you're on an island
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by yourself. Try a small group, try serving team, Get around people
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who are gonna walk with you. We want to be a people with clean
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hearts and dirty hands. And today I want to close this message with a
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parable about a family who recently moved to Indianapolis. Mom and dad have a
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young boy and a young daughter, and they bought a great home in a
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nice school district. The dad has a new job in Indie, and the
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boy he's athletic. The daughter gets good grades at school, and everything on
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the outside looks good. They're a happy, kind family. But on the
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inside, in the home, there's just something off. There's something missing.
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There's joy missing, there's peace, and relational connection is just missing because you
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see, Dad is really stressed out with this new job, and when he
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gets stressed, his temper gets short with the kids. And ever since the
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move, Mom has been struggling with loneliness and some depression, but she doesn't
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want to bring this up around Dad because he's stressed out. Well. Then
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a neighbor invites the family to church at the Crossing, and they come to
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church at the Crossing and the kids get involved in youth ministry and children's ministry,
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and then not too long, mom and dad try to decide to try
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a small group with other couples, and they're a little bit hesits in a
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little standoffice, you know, being around new strangers Christians. But they realize
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that these other couples, they're vulnerable with each other, they share their weaknesses,
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their struggles. They're not squeaky clean, holier than now Christians. But
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then things take a turn for the worst at home. The young boy gets
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in trouble at school and there's some serious consequences he's facing. When Dad gets
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that call, he just loses it. He loses his temper. Everybody's walking
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around on eggshells around him. And then mom discovers some text messages on her
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daughter's phone that are troubling, and she discovers that her daughter's struggling with some
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self harm and it's just but she's not gonna bring this up to Dad because
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it is his temper and it's just overwhelming. This pressure is just mounting in
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their home, and so they stop going to church because they just feel this
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shame like things aren't right at home. And then they start pulling away from
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their small group because they just can't deal with this. And after some time,
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another member in that small group just feels prompted to reach out just compassionately.
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Hey, how you doing it? I've missed you. And that's all
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it took for that mom and dad to just open up and let it all
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out. What do you think that small group leader does? They roll up
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their sleeves and they get their hands dirty. They go right over to that
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family's home. They embrace mom and dad. One of the other dads in
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that group starts mentoring that young boy and helping him with some of his challenges.
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Some other women in the group surround that daughter with love and support and
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encouragement. Pretty soon mom and dad decide that they want to try some marriage
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counseling. And it's messy, it's painful, but healings happening in their marriage.
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And then after some time goes by, Mom and Dad are at Church
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of the Crossing on a Sunday morning, and they're soaking wet because they just
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got baptized, and they're getting ready to baptize their children. The young boys,
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a leader in his small group, and his high school small group,
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and the daughters inviting her friends and bringing them to church. It's a family
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that's been transformed by the grace and compassion of Jesus. The truth about that
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story is that every single one of our stories is somewhere in that parable.
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Now that the details might be different, the circumstances might be different, the
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ending might be a little different, but somewhere in that story, you and
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I can identify our story and I don't know about you, but I don't
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want that to just be a parable. I don't want that to just be
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a story. I want that to be reality. I want that story to
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be a true story, a living parable. I want to hear stories like
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that coming out of our church and out of our community. Because we are
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a church that has clean hearts and dirty hands. We embrace the mess.
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We love people. We don't run away from people when they struggle. We
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run two struggling people because we have clean hearts and dirty hands. Can I
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pray for us? Father, God, we thank you for your grace,
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and we thank you that you got your hands dirty, that you came to
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us in our mess, and that your grace has transformed us. And so
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God, I want to pray right now that your favor would increase upon us.
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First, I want to start with the homes. God. I want
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to pray for every family that's represented, every marriage that's represented, God,
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that your favor would increase in those homes and in those families, that your
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favor of grace and vulnerability would increase. God. I want to pray for
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our church, starting with our youngest ministries, the nursery and the preschool,
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all the way up to our adult classes and our adult groups. God,
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that all through those life stages, that your grace and your favor would rest
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upon our people. And God, we pray an expectation for the lives that
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are going to be transformed, for the people that we have not met yet,
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the neighbors that we have not encountered yet, but the ones who are
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already working in their hearts. God, You're already working in their hearts,
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in their minds, that you're going to do a transformation. We pray with
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expectation that we will see more people come to faith, more people transform,
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more families healed. God, thank you for your grace, and most of
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all, we thank you for the gift of Jesus. And in his name
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we pray Amen.