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Samuel: The Kingmaker - Week 5

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  1. Good morning, Welcome to a church at the Crossing. My name is James

  2. and America. What do they have on their mind today? Super Bowl?

  3. Yeah, so I thought I would start. I was off with a little

  4. some sports stuff a little bit here today. I wonder how many of you

  5. remember this exact quote that was on national television just a few years ago.

  6. This one man said, in this fall, this is very tough. In

  7. this fall, I'm going to take my talents to South Beach and join the

  8. Miami Heat. Anyone, Yeah, Lebron James. And as an Ohioan,

  9. I did not appreciate this moment where he went from Cleveland down to Miami.

  10. But Lebron James is not the first person that was traded or hired from another

  11. team. And because they were expecting to receive a savior, someone who would

  12. rescue them, a hero, and someone who would make them a perennial winner.

  13. Matter of fact, we can go all the way back to Babe Ruth.

  14. Babe Roof was easily the best player in Major League Baseball and he was

  15. playing for the Boston Red Sox. But then the owner of the Boston Red

  16. Sox got into some financial trouble and so he traded Babe Roof to the New

  17. York Yankees so that Boston, their owner, could fund some Broadway musicals.

  18. Yes, and then we know that the New York Yankees have gone on to

  19. be the most successful sports team in American history. And for close to one

  20. hundred years, people truly believed that Boston was cursed by the baseball gods.

  21. People have always been looking for a savior. I remember when I was young

  22. and King Griffey Junior traded to the Cincinnati Reds, and that was one of

  23. the best days of my life. And I kept thinking, Oh my gosh,

  24. we're going to finally have our dynasty. And well, you know,

  25. it didn't happen. Well, some of you might remember this story, but

  26. I would assume a lot of you don't remember this story. But there was

  27. another moment in NFL history where a team hires someone that they thought would be

  28. their savior, their hero that would change their team and make them a playoff

  29. contender every single year. And that's when the Saint Louis Rams traded for a

  30. guy. And they were so excited about this quarterback, so they traded for

  31. a guy named Trent Green. They hired him on for a four year contract

  32. and he was supposed to change the whole organization. Well, it started out

  33. great their first two or three preseason games games, he was phenomenal. In

  34. the third preseason game, he passed for twenty eight of thirty two passes,

  35. I mean twenty eight out of thirty two completions, doing pretty phenomenal. But

  36. before the game was over, someone hit him in the knee and he was

  37. done crushing in and this devastated the Saint Louis Rams, and then all of

  38. a sudden, the media jumped all over it, like well, they thought

  39. he was going to be the savior, but now it looks like the team

  40. is just going to be in the bottom again. But taking his place would

  41. be a lowly unheard of backup guy named Kurt Warner. Now, four years

  42. prior to this, Warner was stocking shelves at a grocery store in Iowa and

  43. nobody expected the Rams that could pete. But by the way, by the

  44. end of that season, think about this, Warner would shatter all the expectations.

  45. He threw for forty one touchdowns and also he led them to a victory

  46. in the Super Bowl, and he was named the MVP. So you talk

  47. about a turnaround, unexpected story they see oft in the world. We're looking

  48. for these Trent Greens while overlooking these Kurt Warners who were around today. Our

  49. text leads us to a similar situation. The story begins with a hero,

  50. someone everyone thought was a surely God's chosen one, surely the savior of the

  51. country. He had all the pedigree, he had the looks, He's from

  52. the right family, the right town. He had it all. But then

  53. he was taken out of the royal ballgame because of some bad behavior. And

  54. so the prophet Samuel and all those around him thought, well, since God

  55. is not going to continue on with King Saul, surely God's gonna bring us

  56. another hero, another savior, someone who's even better than King Saul. He

  57. might even be from a better family, better looking, better build, better

  58. pedigree, a better warrior. Surely God's gonna bring us someone better. But

  59. God had something different on his mind. The anointing of the new King of

  60. Israel reminds us from the very start today, and he's your first feeling.

  61. It's dangerous to judge people for who they appear to be. It's dangerous to

  62. judge people for who they appear to be the first king of Israel. He

  63. was promoted because he had all the right stats. Immediately he won some early

  64. battles. He was an amazing leader, and Samuel, who had been leading

  65. the nation for years, was like, okay, I can finally hand this

  66. whole nation over to Saul. Saul can lead this nation. We got the

  67. right guy. And at that moment in Israel's history, they all assumed Saul

  68. was the right guy for this moment in history. But then what do we

  69. see last week, those of you who are with me, last week,

  70. we saw the darker side of Saul emerge and he began to show through his

  71. heroic image. We saw that he he loved power more than he loved God.

  72. And also he began to disobey God. What did he do? He

  73. built a monument to himself, statue to himself. And then also instead of

  74. crucifying or killing King of God, what did he do? He put him

  75. in prison. That way, every year he could bring him back out to

  76. his parades and say, hey, look here's another one of the kings that

  77. I conquered. He was supposed to get rid of all the animals, and

  78. said he says, no, no, no, I'm gonna do a religious

  79. sacrifice. And then even when he was confronted by Samuel with all of his

  80. disobedience and he had all these consequences brought down to him, think about what

  81. Saul did. Saul did not fall down on his knees and repent and say

  82. God, I have sonned, God, forgive me, God help me.

  83. Knowing what did he do, Saul said, all right, Samuel, I

  84. knew, I know, I really blew it. I really messed up.

  85. But here's what I need you to do. There's a religious festival out here.

  86. Can you and I go out together to this religious festival and we're gonna

  87. act like everything's okay with me, and that I'm still the king, that

  88. I'm still loved by God, all everything's all cool. He cared more about

  89. how he looked to the people of Israel than how he looked to God.

  90. And so we see in this last chapter we discussed last week, we see

  91. Saul just have this complete metamorphosis that at the heart of it was this all

  92. consuming search for more and more power. So God took the kingdom away from

  93. him. And now let's look at the text. We're going to go to

  94. first Emuel sixteen and we're going to watch today. We're going to see the

  95. heart of God. And now here's what I want you to do today.

  96. Those of you who are followers of Christ, those of you who are new

  97. and those of you who've been following Christ for a long time. Today,

  98. you're going to see the heart of God. And you're also going to see

  99. who God wants to partner with to do great things. You're gonna see some

  100. characteristics. It's gonna say, here's the people that God partners with. Sorry,

  101. I beg you, I beg you. I beg you to pay close

  102. attention today. All right, here we go. For Samuel sixteen, it

  103. says the Lord said to Samuel, how long will you mourn for? Saul

  104. says, I have rejected him as king over Israel. He says, fill

  105. your horn with oil and be on your way. I am sending you to

  106. Jesse of Bethlehem. I have chosen one of his sons to be king.

  107. Now, let's say at the obvious right here, it's a very dangerous job

  108. to select a new king while a king is still in the throne. Would

  109. you agree that's a very dangerous job. You know, Samuel's no dummy.

  110. He knows that. All right, this, this sounds like a dangerous job.

  111. You want me to select a new king while Saul is still on the

  112. throne. Now, check out his response to God. He says, how

  113. can I go? Samuel asks the Lord, Saul will hear about this and

  114. kill me? Now, pay attention to that, he says, Saul,

  115. when he hears about this, is going to kill me. Now, if

  116. we look back at all the previous chapters, King Saul coward to the Prophet

  117. Samuel. Okay, he had huge respect for him. He was also in

  118. fear of him. But we see that something's changed, Something's changed in such

  119. a dramatic way that now Samuel says, hey, if if Saul finds out

  120. that I'm trying to replace him, he will murder me, even though I've

  121. been his mentor, his spiritual God. Here's what we know. During this

  122. time, Saul's heart had turned so evil, he became so corrupt with power

  123. that he would be even willing to kill his own mentor and the prophet of

  124. Israel if it meant keeping his throne. Saul is fully over to the dark

  125. side. Now, all right, so let's look at this. Now,

  126. this is a legitimate concern for Samuel. He's like, listen, he's gonna

  127. kill me if he finds out. And I love how the Lord reassures Samuel.

  128. Check out this verse about how the Lord reassures Samuel. Let's look at

  129. it. Let's look at that scripture about how the Lord reassures Samuel. Are

  130. you noticing something here? He doesn't reassure Samuel. What does he say?

  131. Verse three? You are to annoint for me the one I indicate, says

  132. the Lord. Now, this lack of reassurance from God, I think he

  133. is basically saying he's saying, Samuel, get off the task. And that

  134. reminds us. I think a lot of us and I find this a lot

  135. with Christians, that we spend a lot of time waiting for all the stars

  136. to align and make sure all everything's in place instead of just getting all of

  137. the mission that God's called us to do, you know, and God sometimes

  138. it just said, Hey, you're waiting for everything to line up, and

  139. I'm just telling you, go trust me, move forward, stop worrying about

  140. all the what ifs, and just trust me and obey. The Lord says

  141. Samuel, I know what's going on. Go trust me. Stop worrying about

  142. all the white ifs. And so he goes to Bethlehem for a worship service.

  143. All right, let's look at this. It says. When Samuel arrived

  144. to Bethlehem, he says to the town elders, consecrate yourselves and come to

  145. the sacrifice with me. So everybody comes to the sacrifice, and finally the

  146. family of Jesse approaches. Verse six and seven, it says when they arrived,

  147. Samuel saw Iliab and thought, oh, all right, surely the Lord's

  148. annoyed to stands here before the Lord. But the Lord said this, do

  149. not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. And

  150. now this is the scripture of the day, says the Lord does not look

  151. at the things. Man looks at man looks at the outward appearance, but

  152. the Lord looks at the heart. Now. I love that this series is

  153. called the Life of Samuel, not the Perfect Life of Samuel. And here

  154. we see a huge flaw in Samuel's thinking. He's incredibly focused on the appearance

  155. of a person. Now I thought a lot about that this past week,

  156. like, what would make this holy guy who has been following the Lord,

  157. who listens to the Lord who has been faithful all these years. What would

  158. make this guy just kind of just get off the path so far? And

  159. I started to think about the office of the prophet and how that was the

  160. highest office in Israel. I had the most respect. They were to spiritual

  161. leaders. But if you look at their track record for picking leaders, pretty

  162. bad. Okay. First of all, Eli, who was a prophet before

  163. Samuel, he picked his sons to lead Israel. And what was the text

  164. say about them? Says Eli's sons were scoundrels. They had no regard for

  165. the Lord. So the first guys were picked, they were scoundrels. Well,

  166. then Samuel did the same thing. He tried to say the same things

  167. right, and he appointed his own sons to lead Israel, and that didn't

  168. go. Well, let's look at this. When Samuel grew old, he

  169. appointed his sons as Israel's leaders, but his sons did not follow his ways.

  170. They turned aside after dishonest gain and accepted bribes and perverted justice. All

  171. right, so they're oh for two and picking leaders. But then after they're

  172. over two. So remember this is after the prophets mess up two appointments to

  173. lead Israel. That is actually when the people said, all right, guys,

  174. obviously you don't know what you're doing, so can you get as a

  175. king? So then Samuel says, okay, I will find you a king.

  176. He gets to be the king, and Saul now turns out to be

  177. a dud. So Samuel and the prophets, they've suffered an embarrassment of riches

  178. up to this point, especially when it comes to the appointment of people to

  179. lead Israel. So Samuel's not too far away from death, and Samuel's thinking,

  180. I got one more shot to get it right, and I got one

  181. more shot to elevate the office of the prophet. So naturally Samuel's going to

  182. be concerned about restoring the respect of the office of the prophet, and that

  183. would include being very concern about public perception. Can everybody say public perception,

  184. don't act like you don't care about it. Over time, if you stay

  185. concerned with public perception, you could become more focused on what the public wants

  186. and admires instead of what God wants and A Myers. Now, I'm not

  187. saying that Samuel's hearts to mess up. I'm just saying that he became a

  188. little too concerned with what the people thought, and he became more concerned about

  189. what the people thought instead of only being concerned with what God thinks. And

  190. so one by one, all these brothers pass by, and God says no,

  191. no, no, no, and Samuel and the rest of the world

  192. is about ready to learn about what God looks for in a man or woman

  193. that he is going to partner with to do some amazing things and make an

  194. impact in this world. So after they go through all the sons, the

  195. beauty pageant is over, no one is crowned, and then Samuel says,

  196. this, are these all the sons you have? And the father says,

  197. well, they're still the youngest. But he's out tending sheep. So they

  198. thought so little David that they didn't even bring him up to the party.

  199. Okay, he doesn't even rate in imitation. So by the way, Samuel's

  200. mad. Okay, he says, send for him. He says he cries.

  201. I don't think he was crying, And I think he was just like,

  202. are you kidding me? We're out here in the hot desert waiting on

  203. this guy. Go get him. And then he says, I love this.

  204. He just trips on the people a little bit. Uh, we're gonna

  205. stand here. No sitting down, get up, no sitting down. We're

  206. all gonna stand here until he comes. So they all stand and they wait,

  207. and then verse twelve, this grimy, dirty shepherd boy shows up.

  208. Verse twelve. It says, now he was ruddy and had beautiful eyes and

  209. was handsome. Ah do you hear that? All right, let me break

  210. this down for you. What does that mean? Remember that King David was

  211. on the throne when this book was written, and I believe that they threw

  212. the king of bone. Okay. They said he's ruddy and handsome, all

  213. right, all right, Okay, the text says ruddy. Does anyone here

  214. know what ruddy means? Runny means redheaded? So they're like, well,

  215. he's no Saul, but he's a redhead. And we all know how crazy

  216. women go for redheads. I mean they lose their mind over redheads. Ask

  217. any girl on my high school. They lose their mind. Well maybe not,

  218. okay, listen. So they're like, all right, the best of

  219. writers could come up with us. Yeah, he's a redhead. All right,

  220. So here we go verse twelve. And then the Lord said, rise

  221. and annoint him. He is the one. So Samo took the horn of

  222. oil and anointed him the presence of his brothers, And from that day on

  223. the spirit of the Lord came upon David in power. God found his king.

  224. And here's what we're gonna learn from God's choice. That God doesn't look

  225. at the things the world looks at. He looks into the heart. He

  226. doesn't choose the next king based on his size, strength, age, wisdom,

  227. education, battle, experience resume. No, God doesn't need all those

  228. things. See, the world looks in all of these things of our pedigree,

  229. talent, charisma, The world looks at looks style. The world looks

  230. at all of these things. But God, when he chooses the partner with

  231. someone in his kingdom. Do you know why God doesn't need all of those

  232. things? The answers in the verse because the spirit of the Lord came upon

  233. David in power. Because God looks for the right heart, and then he

  234. equips that heart with his power. See, God doesn't need what the world

  235. needs. God goes deeper and he looks at the heart. He sees the

  236. beauty underneath all the appearances. Now what does this mean for us? All

  237. right, very practical, Since the Lord doesn't judge by appearances. Neither should

  238. we. Since the Lord doesn't judge by appearances, neither should we. In

  239. can I, H can I address something that we don't talk about much in

  240. church at all, but it's a huge, huge deal in our society.

  241. We live in a culture that is obsessed with looks. Yet here's the internal

  242. danger that obsession poses when we look at the outside of others. Okay,

  243. And here's what happens when we're judging other people. We're looking at other people

  244. in our subconscious we're actually comparing ourselves to those around us. We evalue way

  245. one hundred things like their appearance, their personality, their height, their weight,

  246. their intelligent their strength, their achievements, their age, and so on.

  247. And here's what happens when we're judging other people and we're breaking down someone

  248. and we're looking at someone. Did you know what's going on on a subconscious

  249. level when we're judging other people and looking at other people. Here's what's going

  250. on on a subconscious level. You're deciding this, am I superior to them?

  251. Or am I inferior to them? And what you're really doing when you're

  252. looking at other people is you're really looking at yourself and you're saying, am

  253. I better than them? Or am I not as good as them? And

  254. let me tell you something. That's not a good place to live. That's

  255. not a healthy place to live. Now, I'm one who is not typically

  256. obsessed with looks, and I'm sure you're like, well, yeah, amen,

  257. we get that obviously. I have a good case. Years ago,

  258. I invented the dad bod, and then recently I invented the super dad bod.

  259. It's a little bit bigger, slower, needs more naps. But I'm

  260. typically not too concerned about looks. I remember a few years ago, about

  261. four or five years ago, my hairline got mad at my face and decided

  262. that they weren't on talking terms anymore, and so my hairline decided to back

  263. off a little bit from the relationship. It's no big deal. My childhood

  264. best friend made some jokes, my wife and daughter made some jokes. No

  265. big eie. I brushed them off. I didn't care. And then a

  266. Facebook video of one of my sermons popped up as I was scrolling through,

  267. and I saw these lights shine down on my head right here in the camera.

  268. That's a different look. And I was a little bit shocked because I

  269. was like, oh my gosh, that's the truth teller. Something's going on

  270. right here that I don't like. And I was just as shocked. And

  271. I remember that for the next probably month, every time I was watching TV,

  272. I would look at other men's like, you know, their hairstyle,

  273. and I would look at their frontage and I would think, he's got good

  274. hair. And then I would look at guys who didn't have great frontage and

  275. I would say, that's why he's in the support roll. And if you

  276. look and you pay close to attention, that's true. Good hair gets the

  277. leading role, you know, and the guys who are a little bit of

  278. bald unless you shaved the whole thing off and become evil character, you're not

  279. in the show. You're a sidekick. Okay, you're the scientist, you're

  280. the funny guy. Well, anyways, so I'm noticing this, and then

  281. I decided I don't care again. I quickly said, you know, this

  282. is stupid. I'm not gonna care about this. That is until a few

  283. weeks ago I said to my daughter, you gotta watch this joke I tell

  284. about your mom. So we pull up my sermon. Okay, and these

  285. lights were super bright they're down on my head, and all of a sudden,

  286. I just trimmered because it looks like, now I have a mustache right

  287. here. And if you've seen me on video, you know what I'm talking

  288. about. It looks like I have a little mustache right here, and I

  289. could hardly look at it. I was so overwhelmed by this. I even

  290. went to my wife and daughter. I said, I look at this.

  291. This is a real problem. And so I said, I think I need

  292. to shave this. And my wife's like, I don't know, you might

  293. want to call your mom. So I call my mom. I said,

  294. mom, get on Facebook. I want you to look at my head.

  295. And so she gets on Facebook and she's like, yeah, it's not looking

  296. good. And I said, okay, here's my idea. Should I just

  297. shave that? And she says, oh no, honey, no, no,

  298. no, no, you'll regret it. Don't do this. So I

  299. didn't, and Mommy saved me and probably saved you. But the good thing

  300. is you guys have to look at it way more than I do. But

  301. I think on some level, we all have insecurities about our looks. Yet

  302. we don't only have insecurities about our appearances. We all have insecurities about how

  303. we appear to others. Am I successful enough? Is my house enough?

  304. Is my bank account enough? Is my career enough? Is my care enough?

  305. Is my family enough? And we can quickly become insecure worrying about how

  306. we appear to others. And by the way, none of this is helpful.

  307. It only helps us. It only distracts us from what God looks at

  308. when he sees us. And we better be thankful because despite how the world

  309. judges, when God looks at us, he's not judging us by the same

  310. standards that the world judges us. Matter of fact, here's the next lide.

  311. See, when the Lord looks at us, the Lord sees my heart.

  312. And we ought to praise God that he sees the heart, because that's

  313. comforting that God sees your heart. But then as I start thinking about that

  314. this week, I go, oh, no, he sees my heart.

  315. Oh, because sometimes my appearance and who I'm projecting myself to be is a

  316. coverage of my heart, of who I really am. Matter of fact,

  317. Jesus happened to say this about our hearts. He says, Jesus said,

  318. what comes out of a man is what marks him. Or makes him unclean.

  319. For from within, out of men's hearts come evil thoughts, sexual,

  320. immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, to see,

  321. lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance, and folly. All these evils come

  322. from inside. And that's what makes a man unclean. What does that teach

  323. us? We can't fool God. We can fool others, but we can't

  324. fool God. Now it's a frightening thought. But I also think it's a

  325. very beautiful thought that since I cannot hide those things from God, I might

  326. as well confess them and ask for forgiveness and receive a clean heart. And

  327. then I can live my life only caring about what God thinks about me,

  328. instead of caring about what everyone else thinks about me. God sees our heart.

  329. But God is also the one who can cleanse our heart. Second truth,

  330. the Lord sees what my heart can become in his hands. All right,

  331. now, may ask a question here, what did the Lord see in

  332. David's heart that was not in his brothers our souls? Let me tell you

  333. the answer is simply this, David's willingness to surrender his heart to the Lord.

  334. David places his hands and the Lord's might. Listen to one of David's

  335. prayer, he says, my soul thirst for God, for the Living God.

  336. Where can I go to meet God? Do you hear this? David

  337. passionately wanted to know God. He saw after the Lord. And David knows

  338. that he cannot feel his imptiness in his heart by pleasing people. Only God

  339. can make him whole and seeing in God's hands, the little shepherd boy became

  340. the greatest King of Israel. But here's the real point of the story today.

  341. Let me give you three lines. Outward appearance is never the real story.

  342. It is not the real measure of you. God looks at who we

  343. are beyond the surface, and what does he see. God sees his beautiful

  344. children that he created. God sees those that he has been with since you

  345. in your mother's womb. God created you, God equipped you. God's given

  346. you talent. God is walking with you, and your God is crazy about

  347. you. And your God sees the possibilities of what your life can become if

  348. it's in his hands. When God looks at you, he's a proud,

  349. proud parent who is deeply in love with his children. And let me tell

  350. you some One of the most basic themes we learn in the Bibles, this

  351. is that He searches in the most unax back to places and uses the most

  352. unlikely people. So he chose the youngest son, He chose the shepherd.

  353. At that time, that was the lowest job on the totem pole. It

  354. should have been his oldest brother, should have been from a big tribe,

  355. someone had military victories. But God says, that's not how I make my

  356. choices. See, God chooses nobodies and then he turns them into somebodies.

  357. All right, So let's ask this question today as we head down to land

  358. the plane. How do we compare this scene in the life of Samuel and

  359. David to our lives? How do we do this? And here's the thing.

  360. If we look at David's life, all right, I don't think a

  361. lot of us are in line to become a king, okay, are a

  362. queen. And if you look at the royals, it doesn't look like it's

  363. a great job anyways. And David's journey, it's a messy life, but

  364. it's a real authentic life. But his life had impact on those around him

  365. and for generations. And see, here's what I believe about everyone who goes

  366. to Church of the Crossing. I believe that all of us are looking for

  367. a life of significance, not just success. Are you looking for success or

  368. significance? That's the question that God has for you today. Do you need

  369. success or do you need significance? Because let me tell you, those are

  370. two different things. And God wants to team up with those who are looking

  371. for a life of significance. So here's what we're gonna look at. All

  372. right, what does God look for when he teams up with people? When

  373. God scans the earth for potential, He's not in search of angels and flesh,

  374. because there's certainly no perfect people. But let's look at the qualities God's

  375. looking for. Number one, God looks for a surrendered heart. That's number

  376. one, a surrendered heart. As I say, here says the Lord has

  377. sought out a man after his own heart. Now, what does it mean

  378. to be a person after God's on? Hold? Here's what it means.

  379. What's important to God? That's important to you? What burns God? That

  380. burnens you? When God says go right, you go right. When God

  381. says go left, you go left. When God says sopped out, in

  382. your life, you're like, okay. When God says, hey, this

  383. is wrong, I want you to change, you say okay, because I

  384. have a heart for God. And that's bottom line Biblical Christianity. See,

  385. when you're surrendered to God, you have a heart that is sensitive to the

  386. things of God. A parallel verse and second chronicle says this, for the

  387. eyes of the Lord move to and fro throughout the earth, that he may

  388. strongly support those whose heart is completely his. If you want the empowering of

  389. the Holy Spirit in your life, then allow your heart to belong completely to

  390. him and he will empower you all right. Secondly, God looks for humility.

  391. Think about this. God went to the home of Jesse. No one

  392. knew he was there. He was like almost on this secret surveillance, and

  393. he's going around and he's checking out all the sons. But then the Lord

  394. saw David in his heart of humility, the boy who was faithfully keeping his

  395. father's sheep. And now again during his time in history, that's the lowliest

  396. job there was. And God says, listen, and I want everyone in

  397. this room to get this. God does not care about you having a slick

  398. image. Here's what God says, show me a person with character, and

  399. I will give them the image they need. I'm gonna say that again.

  400. Some of you need to hear this today. God says, show me a

  401. person with character, and I'll give them the image that they need. God

  402. doesn't require a certain temperament, a certain charisma, doesn't care about looks or

  403. impressive track record. He cares about character. Number three, God's looking for

  404. integrity. What does this say here? In Psalm seventy eight, talking about

  405. David, says, from the care of talking about his Lambs, he brought

  406. him to shepherd Jacob his people, and Israel his inheritance. So he shepherded

  407. them according to what the integrity of his heart. Circle that word integrity because

  408. it's so significant. God is not looking for magnificent specimens of humans. No,

  409. He's looking for those who are deeply spiritual, genuinely humble, honestly to

  410. core people of integrity. Integrity is that that's who you are when it was

  411. looking You're a bone deep, honest person. Now when I think about integrity,

  412. I think about Tim and Andrew. I've worked with him now for over

  413. fifteen years together. And let me tell you something. There are two men

  414. of integrity. Okay, let's take Andrew for instance. Andrew, if you

  415. ask him about his ministry or his life, he never makes himself sound better

  416. than he is. He's a scruciatingly honest about his failures, his mishaps.

  417. He never tries to sell himself. Now, on the flip side, when

  418. I ask him how he thinks I'm doing, he's also excruciatingly honest, and

  419. he doesn't make me I'm better than I am. Several years ago, we

  420. were hanging out with some friends and they were asking me some personal questions and

  421. I said to him, I said, well, you know, here's how

  422. I think other people might describe me. And then I looked at Andrew and

  423. I said, Andrew, would you agree? Is that an honest assessment of

  424. myself? And Andrew just stared at me no answer, which means you might

  425. want to take another look at yourself. See, it's fun to have friends

  426. with integrity, but you can trust integrity, and the Lord wants those that

  427. he can trust, and who can God trust those with integrity. Lastly,

  428. God looks for those who are real. As we see through David's life over

  429. and over again. When David blew it, he was real think about this.

  430. We're going to read this passage here in a moment. I want to

  431. show you the difference between David's confession and Saul's confession. When Saul had the

  432. kingdom taken from him and he has consequences, what does he do? He

  433. says Samuel, I don't want anyone to find out that I've messed up.

  434. How about let's go to this festival and let's fake it like everything's okay.

  435. So, in other words, he goes, I don't want to be embarrassed.

  436. How does David respond to his sin? For I know my transgressions of

  437. my sin as always before me against you, and only you have I sin

  438. and done what is evil in your sight, creating me a pure heart of

  439. God. David was real and God can use real people. Now let's get

  440. really real at the moment as I close up today, for over three and

  441. a half years, I went to weekly counseling, and now I do what

  442. you would call like mental emotional spiritual checkups. Don't worry, you didn't put

  443. me in counseling, but I did realize in order for me to be the

  444. best pastor that I could be, I needed someone looking into my life someone

  445. helped me to take significant steps of growth. And one of the commitments I

  446. made in counseling was I was gonna be boned honest. Okay, I was

  447. gonna be very real. I was never gonna try and make myself look better

  448. because you can, and by the way, in counseling try to impress your

  449. counselor, which is really dumb. But I have some things in my ministry

  450. and my childhood that needed some real, deep healing. Here's what was funny.

  451. The more honest and vulnerable that I was, the more healing that I

  452. received. Every single one of my breakthroughs happened after a moment of deep honesty

  453. and vulnerability, in other words, being real. And when I think about

  454. this, how cool is it to confess before a whole church that I need

  455. help to be a man of God. I haven't arrived, I'm not polished,

  456. I'm not superhuman. I'm a broken man who needs the help of Jesus

  457. Christ. Now, I remember how nervous I was the first time telling this

  458. church that I was in counseling. But I knew it was necessary. Do

  459. you know why I knew it was necessary. It was because the type of

  460. church I dream of pastoring. I dream of pastoring a church to people who

  461. are surrendered to God, people who walk in humility, but most importantly,

  462. that we're real people, that we're honest about who we are, that we're

  463. not putting on a facade when people come in. Because let me tell you

  464. those that we're trying to reach out there, they're looking for real people and

  465. real relationships. They're looking for people who are honest about who they are so

  466. that they could be honest. Because here's the thing, and to your honest

  467. with who you are and honest about what you struggle with, there can be

  468. no spiritual breakthrough. And so in order for us to become the church that

  469. Jesus can use, we got to become real. And let me tell you

  470. something, the Holy Spirit will do a work through us that we couldn't even

  471. imagine. See. God chose David because he was a real person who depended

  472. on God for mercy and grace. And David was motible and because he was

  473. faithful, motible, God could use him to make a significant impact. And

  474. I want the same for you today as we close, here's what I want

  475. us to do. Go ahead and close your eyes and bow your head.

  476. I'm going to give you four subjects that we talked about today, and I

  477. want you to speak to God about which one of those you need to take

  478. some steps to grow in. First of all, have you surrendered your heart

  479. to God? And if you haven't surrendered your heart to God, today's the

  480. day to do that. If that's the prayer you need to pray today,

  481. can you raise your hand? You need to surrender your heart fully to God.

  482. Okay, I see those hands. Secondly, maybe integrity is an area

  483. that you've got to grow in and take next steps in. Can you raise

  484. your hand if that's the area that you need to grow in? Okay,

  485. I see those hands. What about just being real? Is that an area

  486. you need to grow in in your life? We see those hands? Yeah,

  487. I see those hands. Maybe if one of those was not hitting you,

  488. I would maybe encourage humility and ask God to grow you in humility.

  489. Let's just take time to pray through those right now and speak to your Lord

  490. where you're at. God, we thank you that we can come to you

  491. and receive grace and mercy. But also God, we thank you for conviction.

  492. For God, you want to mold as you want to shape us.

  493. And you want to change us. So God, I pray in the mighty

  494. mighty name of Jesus Father, that God you will grow us into the type

  495. of people have a heart like David, because David had a heart like yours.

  496. And again, God, thank you for your grace today in Jesus' name.