Sermon
Samuel: The Kingmaker - Week 5
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Good morning, Welcome to a church at the Crossing. My name is James
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and America. What do they have on their mind today? Super Bowl?
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Yeah, so I thought I would start. I was off with a little
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some sports stuff a little bit here today. I wonder how many of you
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remember this exact quote that was on national television just a few years ago.
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This one man said, in this fall, this is very tough. In
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this fall, I'm going to take my talents to South Beach and join the
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Miami Heat. Anyone, Yeah, Lebron James. And as an Ohioan,
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I did not appreciate this moment where he went from Cleveland down to Miami.
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But Lebron James is not the first person that was traded or hired from another
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team. And because they were expecting to receive a savior, someone who would
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rescue them, a hero, and someone who would make them a perennial winner.
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Matter of fact, we can go all the way back to Babe Ruth.
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Babe Roof was easily the best player in Major League Baseball and he was
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playing for the Boston Red Sox. But then the owner of the Boston Red
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Sox got into some financial trouble and so he traded Babe Roof to the New
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York Yankees so that Boston, their owner, could fund some Broadway musicals.
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Yes, and then we know that the New York Yankees have gone on to
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be the most successful sports team in American history. And for close to one
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hundred years, people truly believed that Boston was cursed by the baseball gods.
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People have always been looking for a savior. I remember when I was young
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and King Griffey Junior traded to the Cincinnati Reds, and that was one of
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the best days of my life. And I kept thinking, Oh my gosh,
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we're going to finally have our dynasty. And well, you know,
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it didn't happen. Well, some of you might remember this story, but
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I would assume a lot of you don't remember this story. But there was
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another moment in NFL history where a team hires someone that they thought would be
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their savior, their hero that would change their team and make them a playoff
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contender every single year. And that's when the Saint Louis Rams traded for a
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guy. And they were so excited about this quarterback, so they traded for
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a guy named Trent Green. They hired him on for a four year contract
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and he was supposed to change the whole organization. Well, it started out
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great their first two or three preseason games games, he was phenomenal. In
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the third preseason game, he passed for twenty eight of thirty two passes,
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I mean twenty eight out of thirty two completions, doing pretty phenomenal. But
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before the game was over, someone hit him in the knee and he was
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done crushing in and this devastated the Saint Louis Rams, and then all of
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a sudden, the media jumped all over it, like well, they thought
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he was going to be the savior, but now it looks like the team
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is just going to be in the bottom again. But taking his place would
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be a lowly unheard of backup guy named Kurt Warner. Now, four years
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prior to this, Warner was stocking shelves at a grocery store in Iowa and
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nobody expected the Rams that could pete. But by the way, by the
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end of that season, think about this, Warner would shatter all the expectations.
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He threw for forty one touchdowns and also he led them to a victory
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in the Super Bowl, and he was named the MVP. So you talk
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about a turnaround, unexpected story they see oft in the world. We're looking
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for these Trent Greens while overlooking these Kurt Warners who were around today. Our
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text leads us to a similar situation. The story begins with a hero,
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someone everyone thought was a surely God's chosen one, surely the savior of the
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country. He had all the pedigree, he had the looks, He's from
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the right family, the right town. He had it all. But then
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he was taken out of the royal ballgame because of some bad behavior. And
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so the prophet Samuel and all those around him thought, well, since God
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is not going to continue on with King Saul, surely God's gonna bring us
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another hero, another savior, someone who's even better than King Saul. He
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might even be from a better family, better looking, better build, better
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pedigree, a better warrior. Surely God's gonna bring us someone better. But
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God had something different on his mind. The anointing of the new King of
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Israel reminds us from the very start today, and he's your first feeling.
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It's dangerous to judge people for who they appear to be. It's dangerous to
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judge people for who they appear to be the first king of Israel. He
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was promoted because he had all the right stats. Immediately he won some early
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battles. He was an amazing leader, and Samuel, who had been leading
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the nation for years, was like, okay, I can finally hand this
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whole nation over to Saul. Saul can lead this nation. We got the
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right guy. And at that moment in Israel's history, they all assumed Saul
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was the right guy for this moment in history. But then what do we
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see last week, those of you who are with me, last week,
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we saw the darker side of Saul emerge and he began to show through his
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heroic image. We saw that he he loved power more than he loved God.
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And also he began to disobey God. What did he do? He
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built a monument to himself, statue to himself. And then also instead of
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crucifying or killing King of God, what did he do? He put him
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in prison. That way, every year he could bring him back out to
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his parades and say, hey, look here's another one of the kings that
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I conquered. He was supposed to get rid of all the animals, and
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said he says, no, no, no, I'm gonna do a religious
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sacrifice. And then even when he was confronted by Samuel with all of his
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disobedience and he had all these consequences brought down to him, think about what
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Saul did. Saul did not fall down on his knees and repent and say
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God, I have sonned, God, forgive me, God help me.
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Knowing what did he do, Saul said, all right, Samuel, I
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knew, I know, I really blew it. I really messed up.
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But here's what I need you to do. There's a religious festival out here.
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Can you and I go out together to this religious festival and we're gonna
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act like everything's okay with me, and that I'm still the king, that
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I'm still loved by God, all everything's all cool. He cared more about
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how he looked to the people of Israel than how he looked to God.
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And so we see in this last chapter we discussed last week, we see
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Saul just have this complete metamorphosis that at the heart of it was this all
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consuming search for more and more power. So God took the kingdom away from
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him. And now let's look at the text. We're going to go to
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first Emuel sixteen and we're going to watch today. We're going to see the
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heart of God. And now here's what I want you to do today.
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Those of you who are followers of Christ, those of you who are new
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and those of you who've been following Christ for a long time. Today,
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you're going to see the heart of God. And you're also going to see
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who God wants to partner with to do great things. You're gonna see some
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characteristics. It's gonna say, here's the people that God partners with. Sorry,
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I beg you, I beg you. I beg you to pay close
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attention today. All right, here we go. For Samuel sixteen, it
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says the Lord said to Samuel, how long will you mourn for? Saul
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says, I have rejected him as king over Israel. He says, fill
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your horn with oil and be on your way. I am sending you to
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Jesse of Bethlehem. I have chosen one of his sons to be king.
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Now, let's say at the obvious right here, it's a very dangerous job
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to select a new king while a king is still in the throne. Would
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you agree that's a very dangerous job. You know, Samuel's no dummy.
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He knows that. All right, this, this sounds like a dangerous job.
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You want me to select a new king while Saul is still on the
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throne. Now, check out his response to God. He says, how
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can I go? Samuel asks the Lord, Saul will hear about this and
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kill me? Now, pay attention to that, he says, Saul,
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when he hears about this, is going to kill me. Now, if
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we look back at all the previous chapters, King Saul coward to the Prophet
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Samuel. Okay, he had huge respect for him. He was also in
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fear of him. But we see that something's changed, Something's changed in such
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a dramatic way that now Samuel says, hey, if if Saul finds out
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that I'm trying to replace him, he will murder me, even though I've
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been his mentor, his spiritual God. Here's what we know. During this
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time, Saul's heart had turned so evil, he became so corrupt with power
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that he would be even willing to kill his own mentor and the prophet of
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Israel if it meant keeping his throne. Saul is fully over to the dark
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side. Now, all right, so let's look at this. Now,
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this is a legitimate concern for Samuel. He's like, listen, he's gonna
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kill me if he finds out. And I love how the Lord reassures Samuel.
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Check out this verse about how the Lord reassures Samuel. Let's look at
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it. Let's look at that scripture about how the Lord reassures Samuel. Are
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you noticing something here? He doesn't reassure Samuel. What does he say?
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Verse three? You are to annoint for me the one I indicate, says
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the Lord. Now, this lack of reassurance from God, I think he
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is basically saying he's saying, Samuel, get off the task. And that
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reminds us. I think a lot of us and I find this a lot
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with Christians, that we spend a lot of time waiting for all the stars
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to align and make sure all everything's in place instead of just getting all of
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the mission that God's called us to do, you know, and God sometimes
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it just said, Hey, you're waiting for everything to line up, and
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I'm just telling you, go trust me, move forward, stop worrying about
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all the what ifs, and just trust me and obey. The Lord says
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Samuel, I know what's going on. Go trust me. Stop worrying about
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all the white ifs. And so he goes to Bethlehem for a worship service.
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All right, let's look at this. It says. When Samuel arrived
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to Bethlehem, he says to the town elders, consecrate yourselves and come to
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the sacrifice with me. So everybody comes to the sacrifice, and finally the
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family of Jesse approaches. Verse six and seven, it says when they arrived,
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Samuel saw Iliab and thought, oh, all right, surely the Lord's
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annoyed to stands here before the Lord. But the Lord said this, do
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not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. And
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now this is the scripture of the day, says the Lord does not look
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at the things. Man looks at man looks at the outward appearance, but
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the Lord looks at the heart. Now. I love that this series is
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called the Life of Samuel, not the Perfect Life of Samuel. And here
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we see a huge flaw in Samuel's thinking. He's incredibly focused on the appearance
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of a person. Now I thought a lot about that this past week,
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like, what would make this holy guy who has been following the Lord,
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who listens to the Lord who has been faithful all these years. What would
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make this guy just kind of just get off the path so far? And
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I started to think about the office of the prophet and how that was the
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highest office in Israel. I had the most respect. They were to spiritual
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leaders. But if you look at their track record for picking leaders, pretty
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bad. Okay. First of all, Eli, who was a prophet before
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Samuel, he picked his sons to lead Israel. And what was the text
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say about them? Says Eli's sons were scoundrels. They had no regard for
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the Lord. So the first guys were picked, they were scoundrels. Well,
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then Samuel did the same thing. He tried to say the same things
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right, and he appointed his own sons to lead Israel, and that didn't
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go. Well, let's look at this. When Samuel grew old, he
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appointed his sons as Israel's leaders, but his sons did not follow his ways.
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They turned aside after dishonest gain and accepted bribes and perverted justice. All
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right, so they're oh for two and picking leaders. But then after they're
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over two. So remember this is after the prophets mess up two appointments to
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lead Israel. That is actually when the people said, all right, guys,
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obviously you don't know what you're doing, so can you get as a
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king? So then Samuel says, okay, I will find you a king.
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He gets to be the king, and Saul now turns out to be
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a dud. So Samuel and the prophets, they've suffered an embarrassment of riches
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up to this point, especially when it comes to the appointment of people to
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lead Israel. So Samuel's not too far away from death, and Samuel's thinking,
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I got one more shot to get it right, and I got one
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more shot to elevate the office of the prophet. So naturally Samuel's going to
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be concerned about restoring the respect of the office of the prophet, and that
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would include being very concern about public perception. Can everybody say public perception,
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don't act like you don't care about it. Over time, if you stay
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concerned with public perception, you could become more focused on what the public wants
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and admires instead of what God wants and A Myers. Now, I'm not
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saying that Samuel's hearts to mess up. I'm just saying that he became a
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little too concerned with what the people thought, and he became more concerned about
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what the people thought instead of only being concerned with what God thinks. And
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so one by one, all these brothers pass by, and God says no,
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no, no, no, and Samuel and the rest of the world
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is about ready to learn about what God looks for in a man or woman
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that he is going to partner with to do some amazing things and make an
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impact in this world. So after they go through all the sons, the
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beauty pageant is over, no one is crowned, and then Samuel says,
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this, are these all the sons you have? And the father says,
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well, they're still the youngest. But he's out tending sheep. So they
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thought so little David that they didn't even bring him up to the party.
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Okay, he doesn't even rate in imitation. So by the way, Samuel's
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mad. Okay, he says, send for him. He says he cries.
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I don't think he was crying, And I think he was just like,
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are you kidding me? We're out here in the hot desert waiting on
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this guy. Go get him. And then he says, I love this.
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He just trips on the people a little bit. Uh, we're gonna
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stand here. No sitting down, get up, no sitting down. We're
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all gonna stand here until he comes. So they all stand and they wait,
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and then verse twelve, this grimy, dirty shepherd boy shows up.
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Verse twelve. It says, now he was ruddy and had beautiful eyes and
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was handsome. Ah do you hear that? All right, let me break
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this down for you. What does that mean? Remember that King David was
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on the throne when this book was written, and I believe that they threw
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the king of bone. Okay. They said he's ruddy and handsome, all
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right, all right, Okay, the text says ruddy. Does anyone here
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know what ruddy means? Runny means redheaded? So they're like, well,
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he's no Saul, but he's a redhead. And we all know how crazy
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women go for redheads. I mean they lose their mind over redheads. Ask
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any girl on my high school. They lose their mind. Well maybe not,
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okay, listen. So they're like, all right, the best of
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writers could come up with us. Yeah, he's a redhead. All right,
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So here we go verse twelve. And then the Lord said, rise
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and annoint him. He is the one. So Samo took the horn of
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oil and anointed him the presence of his brothers, And from that day on
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the spirit of the Lord came upon David in power. God found his king.
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And here's what we're gonna learn from God's choice. That God doesn't look
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at the things the world looks at. He looks into the heart. He
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doesn't choose the next king based on his size, strength, age, wisdom,
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education, battle, experience resume. No, God doesn't need all those
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things. See, the world looks in all of these things of our pedigree,
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talent, charisma, The world looks at looks style. The world looks
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at all of these things. But God, when he chooses the partner with
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someone in his kingdom. Do you know why God doesn't need all of those
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things? The answers in the verse because the spirit of the Lord came upon
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David in power. Because God looks for the right heart, and then he
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equips that heart with his power. See, God doesn't need what the world
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needs. God goes deeper and he looks at the heart. He sees the
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beauty underneath all the appearances. Now what does this mean for us? All
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right, very practical, Since the Lord doesn't judge by appearances. Neither should
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we. Since the Lord doesn't judge by appearances, neither should we. In
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can I, H can I address something that we don't talk about much in
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church at all, but it's a huge, huge deal in our society.
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We live in a culture that is obsessed with looks. Yet here's the internal
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danger that obsession poses when we look at the outside of others. Okay,
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And here's what happens when we're judging other people. We're looking at other people
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in our subconscious we're actually comparing ourselves to those around us. We evalue way
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one hundred things like their appearance, their personality, their height, their weight,
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their intelligent their strength, their achievements, their age, and so on.
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And here's what happens when we're judging other people and we're breaking down someone
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and we're looking at someone. Did you know what's going on on a subconscious
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level when we're judging other people and looking at other people. Here's what's going
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on on a subconscious level. You're deciding this, am I superior to them?
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Or am I inferior to them? And what you're really doing when you're
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looking at other people is you're really looking at yourself and you're saying, am
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I better than them? Or am I not as good as them? And
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let me tell you something. That's not a good place to live. That's
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not a healthy place to live. Now, I'm one who is not typically
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obsessed with looks, and I'm sure you're like, well, yeah, amen,
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we get that obviously. I have a good case. Years ago,
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I invented the dad bod, and then recently I invented the super dad bod.
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It's a little bit bigger, slower, needs more naps. But I'm
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typically not too concerned about looks. I remember a few years ago, about
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four or five years ago, my hairline got mad at my face and decided
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that they weren't on talking terms anymore, and so my hairline decided to back
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off a little bit from the relationship. It's no big deal. My childhood
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best friend made some jokes, my wife and daughter made some jokes. No
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big eie. I brushed them off. I didn't care. And then a
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Facebook video of one of my sermons popped up as I was scrolling through,
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and I saw these lights shine down on my head right here in the camera.
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That's a different look. And I was a little bit shocked because I
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was like, oh my gosh, that's the truth teller. Something's going on
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right here that I don't like. And I was just as shocked. And
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I remember that for the next probably month, every time I was watching TV,
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I would look at other men's like, you know, their hairstyle,
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and I would look at their frontage and I would think, he's got good
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hair. And then I would look at guys who didn't have great frontage and
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I would say, that's why he's in the support roll. And if you
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look and you pay close to attention, that's true. Good hair gets the
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leading role, you know, and the guys who are a little bit of
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bald unless you shaved the whole thing off and become evil character, you're not
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in the show. You're a sidekick. Okay, you're the scientist, you're
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the funny guy. Well, anyways, so I'm noticing this, and then
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I decided I don't care again. I quickly said, you know, this
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is stupid. I'm not gonna care about this. That is until a few
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weeks ago I said to my daughter, you gotta watch this joke I tell
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about your mom. So we pull up my sermon. Okay, and these
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lights were super bright they're down on my head, and all of a sudden,
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I just trimmered because it looks like, now I have a mustache right
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here. And if you've seen me on video, you know what I'm talking
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about. It looks like I have a little mustache right here, and I
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could hardly look at it. I was so overwhelmed by this. I even
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went to my wife and daughter. I said, I look at this.
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This is a real problem. And so I said, I think I need
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to shave this. And my wife's like, I don't know, you might
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want to call your mom. So I call my mom. I said,
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mom, get on Facebook. I want you to look at my head.
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And so she gets on Facebook and she's like, yeah, it's not looking
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good. And I said, okay, here's my idea. Should I just
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shave that? And she says, oh no, honey, no, no,
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no, no, you'll regret it. Don't do this. So I
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didn't, and Mommy saved me and probably saved you. But the good thing
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is you guys have to look at it way more than I do. But
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I think on some level, we all have insecurities about our looks. Yet
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we don't only have insecurities about our appearances. We all have insecurities about how
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we appear to others. Am I successful enough? Is my house enough?
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Is my bank account enough? Is my career enough? Is my care enough?
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Is my family enough? And we can quickly become insecure worrying about how
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we appear to others. And by the way, none of this is helpful.
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It only helps us. It only distracts us from what God looks at
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when he sees us. And we better be thankful because despite how the world
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judges, when God looks at us, he's not judging us by the same
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standards that the world judges us. Matter of fact, here's the next lide.
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See, when the Lord looks at us, the Lord sees my heart.
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And we ought to praise God that he sees the heart, because that's
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comforting that God sees your heart. But then as I start thinking about that
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this week, I go, oh, no, he sees my heart.
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Oh, because sometimes my appearance and who I'm projecting myself to be is a
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coverage of my heart, of who I really am. Matter of fact,
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Jesus happened to say this about our hearts. He says, Jesus said,
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what comes out of a man is what marks him. Or makes him unclean.
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For from within, out of men's hearts come evil thoughts, sexual,
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immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, to see,
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lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance, and folly. All these evils come
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from inside. And that's what makes a man unclean. What does that teach
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us? We can't fool God. We can fool others, but we can't
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fool God. Now it's a frightening thought. But I also think it's a
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very beautiful thought that since I cannot hide those things from God, I might
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as well confess them and ask for forgiveness and receive a clean heart. And
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then I can live my life only caring about what God thinks about me,
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instead of caring about what everyone else thinks about me. God sees our heart.
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But God is also the one who can cleanse our heart. Second truth,
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the Lord sees what my heart can become in his hands. All right,
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now, may ask a question here, what did the Lord see in
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David's heart that was not in his brothers our souls? Let me tell you
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the answer is simply this, David's willingness to surrender his heart to the Lord.
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David places his hands and the Lord's might. Listen to one of David's
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prayer, he says, my soul thirst for God, for the Living God.
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Where can I go to meet God? Do you hear this? David
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passionately wanted to know God. He saw after the Lord. And David knows
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that he cannot feel his imptiness in his heart by pleasing people. Only God
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can make him whole and seeing in God's hands, the little shepherd boy became
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the greatest King of Israel. But here's the real point of the story today.
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Let me give you three lines. Outward appearance is never the real story.
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It is not the real measure of you. God looks at who we
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are beyond the surface, and what does he see. God sees his beautiful
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children that he created. God sees those that he has been with since you
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in your mother's womb. God created you, God equipped you. God's given
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you talent. God is walking with you, and your God is crazy about
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you. And your God sees the possibilities of what your life can become if
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it's in his hands. When God looks at you, he's a proud,
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proud parent who is deeply in love with his children. And let me tell
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you some One of the most basic themes we learn in the Bibles, this
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is that He searches in the most unax back to places and uses the most
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unlikely people. So he chose the youngest son, He chose the shepherd.
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At that time, that was the lowest job on the totem pole. It
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should have been his oldest brother, should have been from a big tribe,
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someone had military victories. But God says, that's not how I make my
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choices. See, God chooses nobodies and then he turns them into somebodies.
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All right, So let's ask this question today as we head down to land
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the plane. How do we compare this scene in the life of Samuel and
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David to our lives? How do we do this? And here's the thing.
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If we look at David's life, all right, I don't think a
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lot of us are in line to become a king, okay, are a
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queen. And if you look at the royals, it doesn't look like it's
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a great job anyways. And David's journey, it's a messy life, but
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it's a real authentic life. But his life had impact on those around him
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and for generations. And see, here's what I believe about everyone who goes
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to Church of the Crossing. I believe that all of us are looking for
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a life of significance, not just success. Are you looking for success or
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significance? That's the question that God has for you today. Do you need
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success or do you need significance? Because let me tell you, those are
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two different things. And God wants to team up with those who are looking
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for a life of significance. So here's what we're gonna look at. All
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right, what does God look for when he teams up with people? When
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God scans the earth for potential, He's not in search of angels and flesh,
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because there's certainly no perfect people. But let's look at the qualities God's
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looking for. Number one, God looks for a surrendered heart. That's number
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one, a surrendered heart. As I say, here says the Lord has
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sought out a man after his own heart. Now, what does it mean
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to be a person after God's on? Hold? Here's what it means.
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What's important to God? That's important to you? What burns God? That
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burnens you? When God says go right, you go right. When God
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says go left, you go left. When God says sopped out, in
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your life, you're like, okay. When God says, hey, this
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is wrong, I want you to change, you say okay, because I
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have a heart for God. And that's bottom line Biblical Christianity. See,
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when you're surrendered to God, you have a heart that is sensitive to the
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things of God. A parallel verse and second chronicle says this, for the
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eyes of the Lord move to and fro throughout the earth, that he may
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strongly support those whose heart is completely his. If you want the empowering of
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the Holy Spirit in your life, then allow your heart to belong completely to
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him and he will empower you all right. Secondly, God looks for humility.
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Think about this. God went to the home of Jesse. No one
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knew he was there. He was like almost on this secret surveillance, and
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he's going around and he's checking out all the sons. But then the Lord
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saw David in his heart of humility, the boy who was faithfully keeping his
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father's sheep. And now again during his time in history, that's the lowliest
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job there was. And God says, listen, and I want everyone in
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this room to get this. God does not care about you having a slick
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image. Here's what God says, show me a person with character, and
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I will give them the image they need. I'm gonna say that again.
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Some of you need to hear this today. God says, show me a
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person with character, and I'll give them the image that they need. God
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doesn't require a certain temperament, a certain charisma, doesn't care about looks or
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impressive track record. He cares about character. Number three, God's looking for
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integrity. What does this say here? In Psalm seventy eight, talking about
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David, says, from the care of talking about his Lambs, he brought
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him to shepherd Jacob his people, and Israel his inheritance. So he shepherded
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them according to what the integrity of his heart. Circle that word integrity because
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it's so significant. God is not looking for magnificent specimens of humans. No,
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He's looking for those who are deeply spiritual, genuinely humble, honestly to
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core people of integrity. Integrity is that that's who you are when it was
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looking You're a bone deep, honest person. Now when I think about integrity,
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I think about Tim and Andrew. I've worked with him now for over
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fifteen years together. And let me tell you something. There are two men
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of integrity. Okay, let's take Andrew for instance. Andrew, if you
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ask him about his ministry or his life, he never makes himself sound better
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than he is. He's a scruciatingly honest about his failures, his mishaps.
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He never tries to sell himself. Now, on the flip side, when
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I ask him how he thinks I'm doing, he's also excruciatingly honest, and
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he doesn't make me I'm better than I am. Several years ago, we
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were hanging out with some friends and they were asking me some personal questions and
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I said to him, I said, well, you know, here's how
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I think other people might describe me. And then I looked at Andrew and
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I said, Andrew, would you agree? Is that an honest assessment of
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myself? And Andrew just stared at me no answer, which means you might
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want to take another look at yourself. See, it's fun to have friends
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with integrity, but you can trust integrity, and the Lord wants those that
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he can trust, and who can God trust those with integrity. Lastly,
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God looks for those who are real. As we see through David's life over
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and over again. When David blew it, he was real think about this.
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We're going to read this passage here in a moment. I want to
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show you the difference between David's confession and Saul's confession. When Saul had the
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kingdom taken from him and he has consequences, what does he do? He
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says Samuel, I don't want anyone to find out that I've messed up.
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How about let's go to this festival and let's fake it like everything's okay.
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So, in other words, he goes, I don't want to be embarrassed.
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How does David respond to his sin? For I know my transgressions of
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my sin as always before me against you, and only you have I sin
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and done what is evil in your sight, creating me a pure heart of
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God. David was real and God can use real people. Now let's get
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really real at the moment as I close up today, for over three and
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a half years, I went to weekly counseling, and now I do what
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you would call like mental emotional spiritual checkups. Don't worry, you didn't put
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me in counseling, but I did realize in order for me to be the
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best pastor that I could be, I needed someone looking into my life someone
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helped me to take significant steps of growth. And one of the commitments I
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made in counseling was I was gonna be boned honest. Okay, I was
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gonna be very real. I was never gonna try and make myself look better
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because you can, and by the way, in counseling try to impress your
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counselor, which is really dumb. But I have some things in my ministry
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and my childhood that needed some real, deep healing. Here's what was funny.
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The more honest and vulnerable that I was, the more healing that I
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received. Every single one of my breakthroughs happened after a moment of deep honesty
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and vulnerability, in other words, being real. And when I think about
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this, how cool is it to confess before a whole church that I need
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help to be a man of God. I haven't arrived, I'm not polished,
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I'm not superhuman. I'm a broken man who needs the help of Jesus
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Christ. Now, I remember how nervous I was the first time telling this
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church that I was in counseling. But I knew it was necessary. Do
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you know why I knew it was necessary. It was because the type of
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church I dream of pastoring. I dream of pastoring a church to people who
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are surrendered to God, people who walk in humility, but most importantly,
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that we're real people, that we're honest about who we are, that we're
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not putting on a facade when people come in. Because let me tell you
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those that we're trying to reach out there, they're looking for real people and
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real relationships. They're looking for people who are honest about who they are so
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that they could be honest. Because here's the thing, and to your honest
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with who you are and honest about what you struggle with, there can be
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no spiritual breakthrough. And so in order for us to become the church that
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Jesus can use, we got to become real. And let me tell you
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something, the Holy Spirit will do a work through us that we couldn't even
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imagine. See. God chose David because he was a real person who depended
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on God for mercy and grace. And David was motible and because he was
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faithful, motible, God could use him to make a significant impact. And
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I want the same for you today as we close, here's what I want
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us to do. Go ahead and close your eyes and bow your head.
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I'm going to give you four subjects that we talked about today, and I
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want you to speak to God about which one of those you need to take
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some steps to grow in. First of all, have you surrendered your heart
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to God? And if you haven't surrendered your heart to God, today's the
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day to do that. If that's the prayer you need to pray today,
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can you raise your hand? You need to surrender your heart fully to God.
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Okay, I see those hands. Secondly, maybe integrity is an area
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that you've got to grow in and take next steps in. Can you raise
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your hand if that's the area that you need to grow in? Okay,
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I see those hands. What about just being real? Is that an area
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you need to grow in in your life? We see those hands? Yeah,
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I see those hands. Maybe if one of those was not hitting you,
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I would maybe encourage humility and ask God to grow you in humility.
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Let's just take time to pray through those right now and speak to your Lord
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where you're at. God, we thank you that we can come to you
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and receive grace and mercy. But also God, we thank you for conviction.
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For God, you want to mold as you want to shape us.
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And you want to change us. So God, I pray in the mighty
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mighty name of Jesus Father, that God you will grow us into the type
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of people have a heart like David, because David had a heart like yours.
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And again, God, thank you for your grace today in Jesus' name.