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  1. Last week was our last week on the Ten Commandment series. You might have

  2. noticed that we only did nine out of ten commandments. And Andrew and I

  3. are fine with that. Students most institutions. Nine out of ten, it's

  4. a great grade. Uh, it's okay, we didn't do uh thou shalt

  5. not covet your neighbor's wife. And so I'll just wrap that up. Don't

  6. do that. It's not good. Be content with what the Lord has given

  7. you, Okay. And so anyways, so we're done with the Ten Commandments

  8. now. And uh so we got a couple of weeks where we're just gonna

  9. kind of do some one off and today I wanted to focus on your future.

  10. And but the message for you is good for all of us today.

  11. Also here in a couple of weeks, we will be starting our summer series,

  12. and this summer we're gonna do the Book of Revelation. And Andrew and

  13. I have never taught out of the Book of Revelation, and we're excited to

  14. do that. We're calling this series attempting to demystify Revelation because it really is

  15. an attempt on our behalf. But we will be having some guest speakers like

  16. Jim Lyon and some others will be coming in this summer to help us out

  17. with that series, so we look forward to that. Anyways, Well,

  18. let's go ahead and dive into God's word. And before we do that,

  19. let us pray and prepare our souls. God, we just thank you.

  20. It's already been a celebratory morning, and we just thank you for these seniors,

  21. and we just thank you for the opportunity to be challenged by you each

  22. and every single week. By your word, God, I pray for every

  23. single one of us in this room today. Let us open our heart and

  24. allow you and your word to penetrate our heart and challenge us. In Jesus

  25. name, we pray Amen. How many of you in here have ever filled

  26. out a bucket list? Raise your hand, A few of you, A

  27. few of you. I love bucket lists. If you don't know what a

  28. bucket list is, it's a list of things that you want to accomplish before

  29. you kick the bucket or before you die. And essentially, it's a list

  30. of things that you want to accomplish or experience in your life. And for

  31. those of you who have a hard time figuring out, maybe you know what

  32. that would be for you. There's actually websites you go on and there's websites

  33. that will give you ideas for things to experience, and they will also allow

  34. you to put up your own list and you could check them off as you

  35. go. And again, these lists are very helpful. They give you some

  36. ideas like, for instance, bungee jumping, skydiving. You can learn a

  37. new language right now. That's a real popular thing to do. You could

  38. jump into a pool fully closed. I had a friend who did that.

  39. He said it was not as cool as it sounded. One of them is

  40. throw a dart on a map and wherever it lands, that's where you go.

  41. In VA case, I thought about doing that, but I thought,

  42. man, my luck, I'll end up in Baltimore. And so maybe a

  43. gondola ride Venice, Italy, I don't know. In my mid twenties,

  44. early to mid twenties, I came up a bucket list and I've been working

  45. off that bucket list for twenty years now, and it has directed an awful

  46. lot of my free time. It's directed my vacations, it's directed my weeks

  47. off because I have these things in my life that I want to check off.

  48. And there's a few things on my bucket list that's been on there for

  49. years that I still haven't checked off. One of them is I've always wanted

  50. to catch a ten pound bass, and so each time I go to Florida,

  51. almost every single time, I will call a guide up, pay a

  52. lot of money, and catch bass. But I still haven't caught a ten

  53. pound bass. Now, for years, close to twenty years, I had

  54. a ten point buck on my list, and every year I would not get

  55. a ten point buck. But then two years ago, one guy finally decided

  56. to volunteer for service. And so I'm gonna give you guys a warning right

  57. now. If you do not like taxidermy, do this. Don't come to

  58. me later upset. Okay, do this. Go ahead and put this guy

  59. off, because let me tell you what I felt like I should honor him,

  60. and I made him into a beautiful piece of art. And so now

  61. you can go ahead and take that down, and those of you who don't

  62. like taxidermy, you can breathe again. And so then the next year I

  63. put on my list a twelve pointer and guess what a twelve pointer volunteered is

  64. self for service this past fall and so I am just excited. I don't

  65. know, I gotta now, I gotta come up with something bigger for my

  66. hunting. And so anyways, I love being directed by my list. And

  67. so you know, for years, I worked my way through AFI's top one

  68. hundred movies list. So that way I watched movies with intentionality that took a

  69. few year years to get through. And also I've been to France, I've

  70. been to Australia, and after about fifteen years on my list, I finally

  71. got to see the Rolling Stones in concert. And let me tell you,

  72. if you see Mick Jagger very very tight pants dancing, it's not as exciting

  73. as you thought it would be. It's really weird and he just moves in

  74. weird ways. And it wasn't as cool as I thought it would be.

  75. You know, I've continued to work my way through that list over the years.

  76. It's got to see Eric Clapton, who hears seeing Bob Dylan. I

  77. got to see Bob Dylan. I think that we should only be charged per

  78. word we understand from that concert. I got to see Roger Walters from Pink

  79. Floyd and I got to see last year or two years ago, I row

  80. Off, I got to see Robert Plant from led Zeppelin, and then of

  81. course Taylor Swift. I'm sorry, that's Andrew Miller's list. Sorry about that.

  82. The main idea of a bucket list is that you're intentional abot accomplishing some

  83. things. Now here's the first feeling today is simply this. Most people regret

  84. the things that we haven't done. Okay, when it comes to life,

  85. most people regret the things that they haven't done. And we call those missed

  86. opportunities. And have you ever asked yourself, had you gotten older? I

  87. wanted you know, what if I would have taken that job, What if

  88. I'd have gone out for that team, or what if I hadn't quit that

  89. job and just hanging a little bit longer, it's not a good feeling.

  90. We call that feeling regret, and regret is a sign that, man,

  91. we feel like we missed a great opportunity in our one and only life.

  92. Now, not all bucket list stuff is equally Importantess, it's not going to

  93. crush my life. If I don't ever take my wife on a gondola ride

  94. through Venice, Italy, I will be okay. But if I don't do

  95. some of the things that God has called me to do, God has gifted

  96. me to do, God has nudged me to do, or God has given

  97. me opportunities to do. Now, those are the things I will regret.

  98. Here's what I believe today. I believe that every single one of us have

  99. been given gifts by God, a calling by God to make great impact with

  100. your life. Whether you are a teacher, a nurse, or whatever you're

  101. gonna do life, whatever God calls you, whatever vocation inside of that and

  102. outside of that, God has called you to make it great impact for His

  103. kingdom. Could you imagine if some people were not faithful with their gifts.

  104. What if Abraham Lincoln said, you know, I would love to be president,

  105. but that sounds like a lot of work. What if Michael Angelo said

  106. I would love to paint, but man, that's a lot of laying on

  107. my back in the Sistine Chapel. We would all regret that. And so

  108. today, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna actually look at a parable

  109. where Jesus talks about living a life without regrets. So here's what we're gonna

  110. do today. Okay, so es just so everybody can follow along and understand

  111. how I'm gonna break this parable up. The first thing I'm gonna do is

  112. walk us through the first part of the story. The first part of the

  113. story, Jesus is actually using a local character, a local person that that

  114. audience would have known to just kind of, you know, be a master's

  115. teacher, and so they can relate. The second part of the parable is

  116. where we get into the main point. Okay, and what God is calling

  117. us to do. So let's just go ahead and jump in, and let's

  118. look at Luke nineteen today. And it says, as they heard these things

  119. talking about the audience, Jesus proceeded to tell a parable. Because he was

  120. near to Jerusalem, and because they supposed that the Kingdom of God was to

  121. appear immediately. So Jesus said, I got a little story for you.

  122. He says, a nobleman went into a far country to receive now pay attention

  123. to this, to receive for himself a kingdom, and then returned. So

  124. before he did that, he called ten of his servants together and he gave

  125. them ten mina. Now, a mina is about four months of pay.

  126. According to inflation this year, that's eight months of pay. Anyways, and

  127. he said to them, engage in business until I come. But now I'll

  128. pay attention to this detail too. His citizens hated him and sent a delegation

  129. after him, saying, we do not want this man to reign over us.

  130. Now, this story, the front part of this story is kind of

  131. hard to understand unless you understand what the original audience would have understood. Who

  132. and here has heard of Archelaus Raiser Hannah, Yeah, I didn't hear of

  133. Archilaus until I studied this story. But Archaulaus is basically the nobleman that Jesus

  134. is referring to in this story. Arkaulaus of was a son of Herod the

  135. Great, and when Herod the Great died, he gave his three sons three

  136. pro Now, Archilaus, and here's what you're gonna understand, Archelaus. Back

  137. then, you did not become a ruler through popular vote. You either conquered

  138. an area or you were appointed or somebody who knew you gave you that area.

  139. Now you had two jobs as a ruler because Rome is ruling the world

  140. during this time. So Rome is calling for you to do two things.

  141. Number One, they don't want any rebellions. Now, why don't they want

  142. rebellions because it costs a lot of money to send an army someplace, so

  143. that keeps, you know, their calls down. Number two, you better

  144. have those taxes come in the Rome now in order to do these two things

  145. where you don't have a rebellion and you keep the tax money coming in.

  146. A king or a ruler of a province has got to make sure that they

  147. got those people in their province under their thumb. So Archelaus comes up with

  148. this insane idea insane idea. He decides he'll never have to worry about a

  149. rebellion or collecting taxes if he just kills three thousand Jewish men at the very

  150. beginning of his reign. So at the very beginning of his reign, what

  151. does Archaelaus do. He gathers three thousand Jewish men and he has them all

  152. butchered and executed, and just shocks the whole community, and people are like,

  153. you gotta be kidding me, and this is insane. And then,

  154. by the way, what do we see then a group of Jews. When

  155. Archaleus went off to Rome to meet with Caesar Augustus to receive his title and

  156. his power as was custom, and we see in the text. We also

  157. see that a delegation of Jews when Alona say, hey, by the way,

  158. this Archilaus guys, he is a nutcase. Caesar, do not let

  159. him be put in charge of us, and so again we see this in

  160. the text as well. So here's what Jesus is doing. He's a master

  161. teacher. He has this original audience, and he's using an event that happened

  162. recently, okay, to bring it to his story. That way, everybody

  163. who's listening to his story goes, oh, I know who you're talking about.

  164. You're talking about Archelaus. Oh yoh, well, yeah, we remember

  165. when he did that. Oh yeah, we remember when he did that.

  166. And so Jesus is being a masterful storyteller here. But here's what Caesar did.

  167. When Caesar heard from the Jews, he said, all right, Archallaus

  168. sounds like he really messed things up there. I'm not gonna make you king

  169. over that area. I'm basically gonna give you You're gonna be an intern.

  170. Okay, So they made him a king intern. Did you imagine going back

  171. to the people and being like, Hi, I'm the king intern. And

  172. he was the king intern and the goal was, Hey, if you can

  173. get everybody to get along together, then you could be the king in this

  174. area. And that never happened. So all right, so I caught you

  175. up. That's the original story. Jesus was Jesus. Now Jesus moves to

  176. the main point of the story, and this is where jesus Us is the

  177. people's response to the king. But it's also comparing how you and I are

  178. to live our life in the meantime while our king is away and waiting for

  179. his return. All right, let's look at this text together. What does

  180. it say here? It says talking about the ruler. When he returned having

  181. received the kingdom, he ordered these servants to whom he had given the money,

  182. to be called to him that he might know what they had gained by

  183. doing business. The first came before him, saying, Lord, your minah

  184. has made ten minah more. And he said to him, hey, great

  185. job, well done, good servant. Because you've been faithful very little,

  186. you shall have authority over ten cities. By the way, they were not

  187. expecting this. This is huge news. And the second one came and said,

  188. Lord, your mina has made five more mina. And then he said,

  189. all right, I'm gonna give you rule over five cities. So the

  190. ruler, first of all, he's excited to see the faith fullness of those

  191. he left behind why he went away. He's so excited that he gives him

  192. extravagant rewards. They were not expecting these rewards. Ten cities, five cities,

  193. huge rewards, huge benefits, huge pay Now you can imagine the shock

  194. of the servants. They weren't ready for this. Now, this is where

  195. we can't help but to compare our life to this story. And here's what

  196. I want to do. I want you to understand. And graduates, if

  197. you get this at your age, you're gonna be so much further ahead than

  198. the rest of us. One day, every one of us is gonna stand

  199. face to face before our ruler, our Lord, our king, our God,

  200. and then we're gonna be called to give an account with what we did

  201. with our resources, our time, and our talent. And the question will

  202. be this, were you faithful in the in between time and the in between

  203. time from the time that the Lord blushed you and get to you until you

  204. meet him face to face. And this is a call to all of us

  205. to be faithful even though our ruler to us. We might not see him

  206. right now, he might be in heaven, but someday we will all stand

  207. face to face before him. Now as we are buried, to shift and

  208. to the last part of the parable, here's what we see. We see

  209. a record screeching moment. I love the eighties movies. I love him,

  210. love them, love them. And it seems like every time there's a party

  211. and somebody has a party foul and they mess up, they do something stupid.

  212. To emphasize this, what do they do, they have a record screech.

  213. Well, this is like considered like an old Testament record screech. Okay,

  214. because somebody commits a party foul in the last part of this parable,

  215. check this out here it goes. Then another came saying, Lord, here's

  216. your mina, which I kept laid away in a handkerchief, for I was

  217. afraid of you, because you are a severe man. You take what you

  218. did not deposit, You reap what you did not sew. And he said

  219. to him, I will condemn you with your own words. Okay, all

  220. right, because you wicked servant, you knew that I was a severe man,

  221. taking what I did not deposit, and reaping what I did not sew.

  222. Why then did you not put my money in the bank so that at

  223. might coming I might have collected with interest? And then he said to those

  224. who stood by, he says, all right, here's what I want you.

  225. To take the mina from him and give it to the one who has

  226. ten mina. Now you can imagine, can imagine this moment where this last

  227. person comes up and they've watched these other people get these huge rewards, and

  228. he's thinking to himself, well, I didn't lose money. And so he

  229. walks up to the ruler and he hands him a handkerchief, and the rulers

  230. like, what do I got mustard on my face? Am I sweating?

  231. What's going on? He goes, no, this is your money back.

  232. And then he does something that's insane. And by the way, this will

  233. help any of you whoever get a job. All right, what does he

  234. do when he does not do his part and earn more mina? What does

  235. he do? In a text, he blames it on the boss. He

  236. says, well, I knew that you were a severe man, so I

  237. didn't want to risk losing this money. So, in other words, he

  238. says, the reason that I only have one mina here is because of you

  239. and the way you are. Let me just give you a good life lesson.

  240. If you mess up at work, don't tell your boss you messed up

  241. because the boss is an idiot. Okay, that's gonna help you tremendously adults.

  242. Is that a good reminder for us too? Now, those of us

  243. who are in the workplace, we might know that sometimes we do mess up

  244. because our boss is an idiot, but we still don't tell them that,

  245. okay. And so you know, he goes to the boss and he blames

  246. it on the boss. And so what does the boss do? Takes even

  247. what he had, and he gave it away. Now, this is a

  248. major moment of regret. This is not a good moment. And you can

  249. imagine how the servant was filling inside after watching everyone else be rewarded in extravagant

  250. ways. And here the servant realized, I wasted an amazing opportunity. Now

  251. for us in this room, two thousand years later, we have to ask,

  252. what's the point of this parable what's Luke hoping that we get about Jesus

  253. teaching today? Well, here it is the bomb mine is. God has

  254. called each of us to be faithful with our resources that He has given us

  255. to make a kingdom impact with our lives, not the person next to you

  256. or the person in front of you, every single one of you. Did

  257. you notice in this parable he called them all together, He sent them all

  258. out, and all of them had to come back and answer. Every single

  259. one one of us will be called to answer what did we do in between

  260. times? So here's what I want to do for the next few moments.

  261. I want to remind ourselves about what God has given us. Every single one

  262. of you in this room. You have abilities, and you have talents.

  263. Every single one of you have time. We have twenty four hours a day,

  264. every single one of us. God, let me tell you, if

  265. you are a follower of Christ, you've received the Holy Spirit. God will

  266. birth dreams inside yourself. God will give you passions. And it's what do

  267. we do with all of these things, these dreams, these talents, these

  268. abilities. And Jesus's point is this that God did not give you all those

  269. dreams and abilities and talents for you to roll them up in a handkerchief.

  270. He's called us to be faithful with them. But the fact that Jesus told

  271. us parable Hindic case that not everyone who is given talents and gifts are going

  272. to use them. Now, why wouldn't we use these Why wouldn't we be

  273. faithful with what God has given us? Hero I'm going to talk about a

  274. few reasons as we kind of head down the path today. I think there's

  275. a few reasons why we don't take steps and we're faithful with what God's you

  276. know, is number one. I think fear and anxiety is a big one.

  277. Fear and anxiety. It keeps a lot of us away from investing our

  278. talents and our gifts and our abilities. Fear and anxiety it's a real thing.

  279. It's a real thing that the enemy uses in our life so that we

  280. will stay comfortable in a seat, stay comfortable in a pew, stay comfortable,

  281. and never step out and take a risk. Now, I've shared this

  282. a couple of times before, but for those of you who don't know,

  283. you would never guess. The biggest source of anxiety in my life is public

  284. speaking. Still did say twenty five years later, it's the thing that gives

  285. me most anxiety. Look at me sweating. It's not hot up here.

  286. This is anxiety. This is me thinking I said that joke, there should

  287. have been more laughed five minutes ago. They didn't laugh. They went right

  288. by it. What's wrong with them? And then I finally get to what's

  289. wrong me? But anyways, but when I first started preaching and I would

  290. be asked to preach to the adults at my home church, I would be

  291. sick that whole week, that whole weekend because I didn't want to preach.

  292. I was so nervous. And then I would often get calls and ask to

  293. preach at this camper or preach at this revival, and I would turn them

  294. down and say no, Now that's not something you're supposed to do as a

  295. pastor. But I would say no, why because I didn't want to be

  296. miserable all week Every Sunday as a youth pastor. My first six seven years

  297. as a youth pastor, every Sunday, as soon as Sunday morning church was

  298. over, I had a horrible stomach ache until Sunday night Youth was over.

  299. Nervous as can be still to this day. Tyler Whitney, who attends Thursday

  300. Night service every Thursday, he comes up to me says, James, how

  301. can I pray? For you before you get up and preach, and he'll

  302. tell you. Almost every single week, I'll say, my shoulder and my

  303. neck, please pray for that right now, Well, what's going on my

  304. anxiety? There's a ball there and it tightens up, so then he'll pray

  305. over me that way, when I get up, I don't have all that

  306. pain and that's anxiety. And here's the thing I want you to know that

  307. often God will call us to do things and God will say, here's what

  308. I want you to do. And yes, I believe God has equipped to

  309. do this. I believe that God has called me to do this. I

  310. believe that God will help me each and every single week. The last thing

  311. I say before I step out on the stage every Sunday is this, God,

  312. don't let me go out there by myself. You gotta come with me.

  313. But let me tell you something. God loves to stretch us. God's

  314. okay with me having twenty five years of anxiety over my preaching. You know

  315. why every week I have to lean on him and let me tell you something.

  316. Don't be shocked with the things that God is calling you to do in

  317. your life causes you to have to lean on God. And by the way,

  318. I would say this that if you really want to know that God is

  319. in your adventure of life, pretty good sign that God is in the adventure

  320. of your life is if you have to lean on him, because that's how

  321. God gets glory, and that's how God strengthened us, and that God,

  322. that's how God walks with us and grows us and shapes us. Second thing,

  323. I think a lot of people don't do what God has called them to

  324. do in their life is well because someone else has a dream for them,

  325. you know, and and you know, we're always aware of what other people

  326. think of us, and often we will do what other people expect. I

  327. know a lot of people who wanted to do this or that, but their

  328. mom and dad said nope, I'm not paying for your college unless you do

  329. this. And I'm gonna tell you something right now, Graduates, don't let

  330. someone else's dream for your life lead your life. God created you uniquely and

  331. He has a special calling for every single one and it's for you. Okay,

  332. you got to follow God's call in godsly. The third thing the influence

  333. of our past. See a lot of us we have failures, We have

  334. messed us we have these big moments in our life where we stepped out.

  335. We try something, we want to do something, we started a business,

  336. the business fail. We went and got this degree, but then when when

  337. we got to the job and we didn't like the job, and then that

  338. happened, and this happened, our marriage failed, and all these things,

  339. and we look back at our life when we say, hey, you know

  340. what, every single time I've stepped out, there's been failure. So then

  341. God says, here's what I want you to do. I want you to

  342. take a step here. I want you to take a step here, and

  343. I want you to lead here. But we're like, man, I have

  344. just a life of failure here. And I would tell you this, do

  345. not let your past determine your future. Often, all these failures this preparation

  346. for what God is going to have you do in your future. My childhood

  347. best friend had the most unconventional way of becoming a pastor. But we were

  348. juniors in high school. He got his girlfriend pregnant and then, you know,

  349. while a lot of us were going off to college, he was in

  350. and out of drug rehab. He had anger issues, messed up home life,

  351. lived in poverty, had everything against him, yet he had this calling.

  352. So he muscled his way through Bible college. And then he found a

  353. woman and got married, and then he learned everything he could. He was

  354. stay up so late every night reading books until he became a great theologian.

  355. Let me fast forward twenty years later. He's up in Wisconsin now and he's

  356. pastoring the largest church in that county. It's the place to be, it's

  357. the church to be at. And now his whole family, all his kids,

  358. are following Christ. He lives on a farm, and God is doing

  359. a great work. I mean there's some times that they'll have a service in

  360. there baptized in twenty five thirty people in a baptism service. God is doing

  361. a great work through him. And sometimes and I just can't help but just

  362. sit there and talk late in to the night, like how on earth did

  363. you get here? How did you get here? You had everything against you,

  364. had every excuse. But let me tell you some One thing I've been

  365. asking us to do as a church is to be a people of grit.

  366. In other words, we don't back down. We don't stop just because you

  367. know there's some bumps in the road or things aren't going with We are people

  368. who power through things because we believe in God's calling in our life. And

  369. let me tell you something, with a little bit of grit and God in

  370. your life, God can do amazing things through you. So don't let your

  371. pass determine your futures. Somebody needs to hear that today. All right,

  372. Lastly, some of you are like, you know what, James, I

  373. would love to serve the Lord. I would love to find out specifically what

  374. my calling is. And I know I have my job, but what's God

  375. want me to do in my job? Or what God wants me to do

  376. with ministry here to church or I would love to do but I just don't

  377. know it. It's confusing to me. And I want to help you just

  378. the last couple of minutes as we close up today, See, sometimes we

  379. don't know it. And here's what I want to help you understand is many

  380. people will say that we find you know, we will find our calling in

  381. an intersection of three things. One is our values, okay, And our

  382. values are basically the things that are important for you, okay. And how

  383. can you tell what your value is? Well, here's a couple quick ways

  384. to find out what you value in life want what angers you? If you

  385. are listening and hearing about kids who don't have parents or kids who you know

  386. are in a fosteris system, and that angers you to the point where you're

  387. like, hey, I gotta do something about it. I gotta bring kids

  388. in to my house. Probably that's probably a value to you. If you're

  389. looking around you and say, man, these people, these young men just

  390. are not getting disciple the way they need to get disciples. So I'm gonna

  391. start a small group. Well, that's probably a value to So some things

  392. that anger you that causes you to do something about it. Remember Martin Luther

  393. King was angry at the treatment of African Americans during the time of segregation,

  394. and that led from anger to m saying I have a dream. Their thing

  395. is what gives you joy? What is something that when you do or dabbling

  396. and brings you joy. That's probably that's where you're gonna find out your values.

  397. Number two, your spiritual gifts. If you were a follower of Christ,

  398. you have a spiritual gift. And I should be able to walk up

  399. to any follow of Christ and ask you what are your spiritual gifts? And

  400. you should be able to tell me what your spiritual gifts are because God loves

  401. you. You are His children, and He is imparting his power and his

  402. gifts into your life. Now, there's a couple of places in the Bible

  403. that you can find your spiritual gift, you know, we look at one

  404. Corinthians twelve fourteen or Romans twelve. But also let me tell you something,

  405. all right, we have a great way for you to discover your giftingness.

  406. You can just go on to our website another thing that says serve and we

  407. have a shape assessment for you. Okay. At the end of your shape

  408. assessment, we are more than happy to meet with you and help you figure

  409. some things out. And you know what, maybe you did that in the

  410. past, but now you're in a different place and you'd like to have a

  411. conversation again about how God can use you. So here's what I want you

  412. to do. I want you to reach out to Dave Hughes, not the

  413. youth pastor, Dave Hughes. Okay, Now, if you're a teen,

  414. reach out to Dave Hughes, the youth pastor. If you're not a team,

  415. we have an older Dave Hughes. That's your day, Okay, is

  416. that clear, very clear, clear as mud good. Here's Dave Hughes's email

  417. address. What he does is he meets with people from our church and he

  418. listens to you and he helps you figure things out. Lastly, you look

  419. at your past experiences. God has already been doing some things in your life.

  420. They'll help you figure out what you're calling is. It's the intersection of

  421. your values, your spiritual gifts, and your past experiences. Now, as

  422. we close out today, I want to speak to not only those of you

  423. who are young, because I say, you got your whole life ahead of

  424. you, and that's great, and you're gonna have some great moments of triumph,

  425. but you're also going to have some moments where you're like, man,

  426. where are you God? I thought we had a deal. If I was

  427. a good kid and I went to college and I honored my mom and dad

  428. and I didn't do this or that, that my whole life full of blessings.

  429. I hope no one's taught you that your life will be full of blessings.

  430. But often God allows us to go through struggles to grow us, to

  431. shape us into the people that we will ultimately be. And for those of

  432. us in this room, you might be in this dream and say, you

  433. know what, I've had dreams for years, but they'd never been fulfilled.

  434. Let me tell you something that is okay. You know, when I was

  435. seventeen years old, halfway through my senior year, I came to Christ.

  436. A couple months later, I felt a calling into ministry. You know,

  437. it was very clear to me that I was going to be a senior pastor.

  438. I knew that. It was very very clear to me. I went

  439. to Bible College, I got my undergrad, went to grad school, did

  440. all these things? Was it ministry full time? And I kept saying to

  441. God, God, when am I going to be a senior pastor? Because

  442. it was very clear to me that's what my calling was. And I missed

  443. this opportunity. I missed this opportunity, or maybe I didn't get this job.

  444. And I kept going on, all right, God, maybe I heard

  445. you wrong, but I'm pretty sure I heard you right. You didn't know

  446. what it wasn't until I was eight years old. So that's twenty one years

  447. after my calling that God put me into place. God did not It seems

  448. to me that God did not mind taking twenty one years to shape me.

  449. Okay, but that's okay. And that's okay, and so God has his

  450. hand on your life and God loves you, but don't rush the journey.

  451. For those of you who have been walking for a long time, you're saying

  452. that I missed the boat me and I'm a little bit too old. No,

  453. what do I say around here? If you have breath in your lungs,

  454. God still has something for you to do. So can we just take

  455. some time now? By the way, I ended my sermon five minutes early.

  456. Can everybody salute, collap praise the Lord? All right? I don't

  457. even know how this happened. I'll make sure it doesn't happen next service.

  458. I'll give them the full points. Can we just take some time to go

  459. before the Lord and pray? And here's what I want for you, seniors.

  460. I want you again just to offer your life to Lord and say,

  461. Lord, here, I am here, I am here. I am for

  462. those of you who are in behind these students. Again, ask the Lord?

  463. Lord, am I being faithful with what you have called me to do?

  464. God? Am I missing something? God? Are you speaking to me?

  465. God? Are you nudging me to something? I just want us to

  466. have an open heart today. So can we just pray. Let's just go

  467. and this just take some time. Bow our heads, let's open our hands

  468. to the Lord and say here I am Here, I am God, as

  469. we discerned this morning, I pray that you are speaking to our adults in

  470. the room right now, speak deeply to them, knock away the excuses and

  471. help us. Just have open hands to you right now and just say,

  472. all right, Lord, what is my next step? Here's what I want

  473. you to figure out. Those of you adults, ask God, what is

  474. your next step? What is your next step to fulfilling God's call and purpose

  475. in your life? And now, Church, I want this just to if

  476. our eyes continue to be closed, just go ahead and put your arms out

  477. towards the front where these seniors are, and let's ask God to bless them.

  478. God, we call on you again today and we just ask the You're

  479. handy upon each and every single one of these seniors who are graduating. We

  480. praise you for them, and God, we ask in the mighty name of

  481. Jesus, that you will help them to find your dreams for their life and

  482. then equip them and help them to accomplish those And God, I just pray

  483. that you will move mountains in their life. God that you will be with

  484. them on their days in the valley, and God that you will lift them

  485. up when they're on the mountaintop. But God, no matter what, let

  486. them know that you were always with them. Love on them today in a

  487. name of Jesus.