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People of Grit: Week 5

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  1. Let me begin and ask you what does it feel.

  2. Like when you have to wait? When you have to

  3. wait for something or wait on someone. If you're a sibling,

  4. or maybe you live with roommates and you have to

  5. share a bathroom, that's no fun waiting for your turn.

  6. Or if you're watching something on the internet and your

  7. WiFi is slow and it's buffering, waiting for the lag

  8. to catch up and download, that's not very fun. I

  9. remember in January when Lauren and I were waiting for

  10. our baby, Shepherd to be born.

  11. It was a Tuesday in January, and.

  12. I was at work and Lauren was at home, and

  13. Lauren began to go into labor Tuesday morning. Now, for

  14. some labor lasts for many, many hours, so Lauren wanted

  15. to stay at home as long as she could before

  16. going to the hospital. But Shepherd was not the only

  17. thing we were waiting for that day. It just so

  18. happened on that same day, on that Tuesday in January,

  19. we had a plumbing problem in our house and so

  20. one of our bath wasn't working. There was drainage issues,

  21. and Lauren's.

  22. Car would not start.

  23. So we are waiting for a plumber, waiting for a

  24. Triple A repair, and waiting for a baby, and where

  25. was I not at home? So just imagine Lauren dealing

  26. with all of this. Let me share with you some

  27. of the text messages that she and I exchanged that day.

  28. Lauren says, there's a little water on the floor from

  29. the toilet, and I say, not today, satan.

  30. Lauren says, I can't go into labor without a toilet.

  31. I mean, that's that's reasonable, Like, that's that's not too

  32. much to ask. I'm trying to be helpful, and I

  33. say you can also try using a plunger, you know,

  34. trying to offer solution, and Lauren says, I'm not doing

  35. any plunging right now.

  36. I'll let you interpret the tone of that text.

  37. So Lauren was waiting for a plumber, waiting for Triple

  38. A repair and wait, waiting for a baby, and where

  39. was I not at home? Thankfully, the plumber and Triple

  40. A showed up, and Lauren took this picture of our

  41. driveway just so I could use it one day in

  42. a sermon.

  43. There's a Triple A and the plumber.

  44. And no mother wants to be waiting on a car mechanic,

  45. waiting on a plumber and waiting on a baby. Thankfully,

  46. they got everything fixed, and then Lauren sent me this

  47. text message, let me know when you're on your way home.

  48. I came home just in time to go straight to

  49. the hospital, and then Shepherd was born a little bit

  50. later that night. What does waiting feel like? Let me

  51. ask it this way. How does it feel when you

  52. wait for God? Don't you wish you could just send

  53. God a text message? Let me know when you're on

  54. your way. What are you waiting for right now in

  55. your life? What are you waiting for? What breakthrough are

  56. you waiting for? Are you waiting for healing or a cure?

  57. Are you waiting for something at your job, maybe a

  58. new job?

  59. Or are you waiting for a decision. There might be

  60. somebody listening who's waiting.

  61. For a decision from a court, a decision from a boss.

  62. Or are you waiting for the check to get deposited?

  63. What are you waiting for in your life right now?

  64. The big idea of this message today, the one thing

  65. that I want you to remember today is that people

  66. of Grit wait for the Lord.

  67. People of Grit wait for the Lord. This is the

  68. main point throughout this series. We've said that people.

  69. Of Grit are determined, people of Grit are bold, people

  70. of Grit are fearless. All these things, and today I

  71. want to say, people of Grit wait for the Lord.

  72. Often we think about grit having to do with like

  73. not giving up and doing whatever it takes, and it

  74. is those things.

  75. But there's another piece of grit that includes patience and

  76. trust and waiting.

  77. Take a look at this scripture in Psalm fortyvers verse one.

  78. It says I waited patiently for the Lord. He turned

  79. to me and heard my cry. Now recently I learned

  80. something about this particular verse. This verse in Psalm forty

  81. was originally written by King David in the Hebrew language,

  82. and in the original Hebrew text, the word patiently is

  83. not used in Hebrew.

  84. Now, there is a Hebrew.

  85. Word for patient, but it's not used in this text. Actually,

  86. what is used in this text is the word wait

  87. in Hebrew is repeated two times, so literally it reads

  88. I waited and waited for the Lord.

  89. I waited and waited for the Lord. People of Grit

  90. wait for the Lord. People of Grit wait for his answer.

  91. We wait for his voice, we wait for his timing.

  92. Mark Vrogop writes Waiting is what you do when you

  93. can't do what you want to do. When you can't

  94. fix the problem, you wait and wait. When you can't

  95. solve the issue, You wait and wait when you can't

  96. control the outcomes, When you can't change that person, you

  97. wait and wait. People of grit wait for the Lord.

  98. Maybe you've been praying for something and it feels like

  99. God hasn't heard you, or you've been praying for something

  100. for a long time and you're still waiting for an answer.

  101. You're still waiting to hear from God.

  102. Or maybe you feel like giving up because you haven't

  103. received what you've been praying for. Someone might be praying

  104. every day for something that you care about, a relationship,

  105. a breakthrough, and it just seems like God doesn't hear

  106. when you pray. God always hears your prayer. God always

  107. hears your prayer, and God answers our prayers in one

  108. of three ways. God will say yes, no, or wait

  109. when you pray. God's answer to your prayer comes as yes, no,

  110. or wait, or some combination of all three.

  111. You know, we love that first answer.

  112. We love it when God says yes, when we receive

  113. what we want, what we've been praying for. It's those

  114. other two answers that we really don't like very much.

  115. Those are more of a struggle. And what do we

  116. do when God says wait? What do we do if

  117. God says no? I think many of us might get frustrated,

  118. might feel disappointed, might feel let down, might even get

  119. depressed or even angry. And if we're being really honest,

  120. when God says no to something we've prayed for.

  121. Sometimes we doubt that we can actually trust God. Why

  122. does God say no? Why does God say wait?

  123. Well, I'd be a really poor pastor if I told

  124. you I knew the answer to that question for every situation.

  125. I honestly don't know why God might say wait or

  126. God might say no.

  127. But here's what I want to say. You may not

  128. know why, but you do know who.

  129. You may not know why the answer was no, but

  130. you do know who.

  131. You may not know.

  132. Why you're waiting, why there's the delay, but you know who.

  133. You know the God who you can trust even in

  134. the waiting. You can trust that He is good.

  135. Even in the waiting.

  136. You know him and He is with you while you wait.

  137. In Daniel chapter ten, we see Daniel waiting for an answer.

  138. From the Lord. Look at Daniel chapter ten, verse one.

  139. In the third year of Cyrus, King of Persia, a

  140. revelation was given to Daniel, who was called also called Baltachesar.

  141. Now Daniel, if you remember, he was grew up in Judah,

  142. in the Israelite nation, and then he was deported out

  143. of Judah to Babylon when he was a teenager. And

  144. Daniel has been living in Babylon for more than seventy years.

  145. And now he's in his eighties or in his nineties,

  146. and it's been seventy long years of waiting, seventy years

  147. since he's seen his homeland, seventy years of praying, seventy

  148. years of asking God, seventy years of trusting and hoping,

  149. and finally King Cyrus becomes king, and Cyrus gives permission

  150. for some of the Israelites to return to Jerusalem and

  151. begin rebuilding the Temple.

  152. Things are happening. Progress is happening.

  153. And so now here in Daniel chapter ten, Daniel is

  154. praying to God asking for a vision.

  155. For the nation of Israel to come. Let's keep reading

  156. in verse two.

  157. At that time, I Daniel mourned for three weeks. I

  158. ate no choice food, No meat or wine touched my lips,

  159. and I use no lotion at all for three until

  160. the three weeks were over.

  161. Now, what's Daniel doing.

  162. Is Daniel going on a dietz Is he trying to

  163. lose some weight?

  164. What Daniel's doing is he's fasting. He's abstaining from certain foods.

  165. He's fasting in order to re seve God's answer, in

  166. order to hear from God. Fasting is a spiritual practice

  167. that strengthens our faith. Fasting allows us to hear what

  168. God wants to share with us. Fasting reminds our heart

  169. and our body that we need God. I like to

  170. think of it this way. Fasting shrinks your stomach and opens.

  171. Your ears while you wait.

  172. While you're waiting and you're fasting, you feel those hunger pains.

  173. Those hunger pains are a reminder that we need God.

  174. It's a reminder that as much as we need food

  175. to survive, we need God even more if we want

  176. to thrive. And this text in Daniel ten has inspired

  177. something called the Daniel Fast. The Daniel fast is when

  178. you might dedicate three weeks to go without certain foods

  179. like meat and delicacies, and only eat some things like fruit, vegetables, water,

  180. those kind of things. And it's a three week fast

  181. to dedicate time to hear from God into pray. You see,

  182. fasting concentrates your mind and it concentrates your body to

  183. receive from God, to hear God.

  184. It opens your ears. Mark Batterson writes.

  185. Very rarely does our first prayer request hit the bullseye

  186. of God's good, pleasing and perfect will. Most prayer requests

  187. must be refined. Fasting is a way of refining our

  188. prayer requests. Fasting is a way of tuning our ears

  189. our hearts to hear from God. And if you want

  190. to learn more about fasting, if you want to try

  191. hearing from God through fasting, there's a prayer and fasting

  192. guide that can help you. You can find that on

  193. the Church of the Crossing mobile app where we take

  194. message notes, or there's a paper copy at the desk

  195. in the lobby that explains more. So, Daniel is fasting,

  196. He's fasting for three weeks and praying to hear from God.

  197. Let's read what happens at the end of those three weeks.

  198. In verse four, On the twenty fourth of the first month,

  199. as I was standing on the bank of the great river,

  200. the Tigris. I looked up, and there before me was

  201. a man dressed in linen, with a belt of fine

  202. gold from Oupahs around his waist. Now this is an angel,

  203. a divine messenger that God sent to Daniel to give

  204. him an answer. Let's look closely at verse twelve. Then

  205. the angel continued, do not be afraid, Daniel. Since the

  206. first day that you set your mind to gain understanding

  207. and to humble yourself before your God, your words were heard,

  208. and I have come in response to them. So on

  209. the first day that Daniel prayed, God heard. Daniel fasted

  210. for twenty one days before the angel came. But on

  211. the first day of that prayer and fasting, God heard

  212. and dispatched an answer.

  213. Verse thirteen.

  214. The angel goes on, But the Prince of the Persian

  215. kingdom resisted me twenty one days. This is an evil spirit,

  216. a demonic spirit resists the angel of God for twenty

  217. one days. Then Michael, one of the chief princes, one

  218. of the angels of God, came to help me because

  219. I was detained there with the King of Persia. Now

  220. I have come to explain to you what will happen

  221. to your people in the future for the vision concerns

  222. of time yet to come. So Daniel on day one

  223. decided to pray and fast, and his prayer was heard

  224. in heaven. And on day one, God's an angel to

  225. answer that prayer, and Daniel faster for twenty one days.

  226. His answer was delayed for three weeks because of resistance.

  227. Have you ever been delayed when.

  228. You're traveling, like a delayed flight or a canceled flight,

  229. or maybe construction on the highway.

  230. Have you ever been delayed? I'll tell you this story.

  231. It's a little bit embarrassing to share, but years ago,

  232. I was on my way to an appointment and I

  233. left my house with plenty of time to arrive on time,

  234. early in time for this appointment. But I did not

  235. anticipate construction traffic on the highway. And so as I'm

  236. driving to this appointment, I hit construction traffic and the

  237. whole highway comes to a standstill. They funnel us down

  238. to one lane and I can't get off, I can't

  239. turn around. I'm stuck in this traffic, just inching forward.

  240. With every inch that we crawled forward, I watched the

  241. minutes on the clock tick by, knowing that I'm gonna

  242. be late. I'm running late for this appointment. Once the

  243. traffic cleared up, I floored it. I went as fast

  244. as I could to make up time because I did

  245. not want to be late for this appointment. And as

  246. I'm driving down the highway, I see something in my mirror.

  247. I see the flashing red and blue lights of the police.

  248. I got pulled over for speeding.

  249. Now, let me take a moment, kids, young drivers, speeding

  250. is wrong.

  251. I was wrong. Take this as a warning. My life

  252. is a warning to you. Do not do that.

  253. So the police officer pulled me over, and I tried

  254. to explain the police officer that I'm a pastor. I'm

  255. on my way to disappointment. I can't be late for this.

  256. Did I mention where I was going. I was on

  257. my way to officiate a funeral. I was running late

  258. for a funeral. Just imagine the grieving family at the

  259. funeral home and the pastor is nowhere to be found.

  260. Everybody's coming in, family, friends, to pay their respects, and

  261. there's no pastor there. Well, the police officer did not

  262. have mercy and still gave me a ticket and let

  263. me go, and I drove as quickly and as safely

  264. as I could to get to.

  265. The funeral home.

  266. And I pulled into the parking lot of the funeral home,

  267. and I walked into the funeral home with one minute

  268. before the service.

  269. Was scheduled to start. I had sixty seconds to spare.

  270. I wasn't late, just delayed. Daniel. His answer was delayed

  271. because of spiritual resistance.

  272. God heard his prayer on day one, send an answer

  273. by way of angel on day one, but there was

  274. spiritual resistance in the supernatural world. Spiritual resistance tries to

  275. delay your answer. While you wait, you may not even

  276. see or know what's happening when spiritual irresistance comes against

  277. what you're praying for. Notice what we read in our text,

  278. the angel sent by God contended with the evil spirit

  279. for twenty one days. How long was Daniel fasting and

  280. praying twenty one days?

  281. I wonder what.

  282. If Daniel had stopped praying on day twenty, what would

  283. have happened?

  284. Would he have gotten his answer?

  285. Now? The text doesn't say that, but I wonder, if

  286. you have stopped praying on day twenty, might he not

  287. have received the answer?

  288. Might he not have seen the breakthrough?

  289. I wonder if Daniel's fasting and praying was adding strength

  290. to this spiritual struggle. I wonder if all that fasting

  291. and praying was creating and conditioning Daniel to receive what

  292. God had to give him.

  293. People of Grit wait for the Lord even when there's

  294. spiritual resistance. We wait on God even when.

  295. Evil comes against us, even when there's evil forces working

  296. against us, even when it tries to intercept and delay

  297. your answer. We wait for the Lord because I want

  298. to tell you that God is greater than every resistance.

  299. God is more powerful than any evil that's coming against

  300. you or trying to delay your answer.

  301. It's possible that in your.

  302. Waiting, God is conditioning your soul to be ready to

  303. receive what He wants to give you. How have you

  304. experienced spiritual resistance? Years ago, when I was a youth pastor,

  305. I was leading a weekend spiritual retreat for high school students,

  306. and I was praying that God would do great things

  307. at this retreat. I was praying for miracles, I was

  308. praying for salvations. I was praying for breakthrough in students' lives.

  309. Just transformation is praying for big things. And so in

  310. the months before this event. I decided to do a

  311. twenty one day prayer and fasting, and just like Daniel,

  312. I didn't eat meat and gave up snacks and just

  313. ate fruit, vegetables, water, those kind of things for twenty

  314. one days, and every day I prayed for this for

  315. this upcoming retreat. I even went to the campground the

  316. retreat center, and I walked the campus praying that God

  317. would do things when our group got there. And then

  318. on day nineteen of my praying and fasting, there was

  319. spiritual resistance. I was notified by the camp where we

  320. were going to hold this event that that organization was

  321. going to dramatically increase the cost of us using their facility.

  322. Now this was a problem because it was a huge cost.

  323. They were getting pressure.

  324. From their insurance company and there's all these details about

  325. this insurance and liability that they had to cover. They

  326. couldn't afford it. We couldn't afford it. I'd already had

  327. people signing up. I couldn't go back to families and

  328. students and asked them to pay more money.

  329. I didn't have extra budget money.

  330. Like this was a problem, and if we didn't solve this,

  331. then this event was not gonna happen r at the

  332. very least, we'd have to look.

  333. For another place more affordable. And just as I was

  334. about to panic.

  335. I realized, this is why I've been praying and fasting

  336. for nineteen days. I didn't know on day one I

  337. was gonna meet resistance on day nineteen, but those days

  338. of fasting and praying had built my faith in God,

  339. my trusting God, my confidence that he was going to

  340. solve the solution, and so I trusted him and I said, God,

  341. I know that you have a plan. Twenty four hours later,

  342. the very next day, the camp director called me and

  343. somehow they solved this problem. It was not going to

  344. be a cost to our group. They were satisfied on

  345. their end. Everything was taken care of and it was

  346. just eliminated. It was taken care of, and then the

  347. next day we signed the contract to rent and reserve

  348. that facility. That was day twenty one of a twenty

  349. one day prayer and fasting. I didn't know on day

  350. one exactly what I was praying for, but all those

  351. days of prayer and fasting built my faith to be

  352. ready when I met spiritual resistance. So when you encounter resistance,

  353. when you're waiting on God, and there are spiritual resistance.

  354. Do not give up. Don't give in when there's resistance.

  355. Keep praying, keep knocking, keep asking, keep fasting, keep contending.

  356. Daniel receives strength from the Lord we see in verse thirteen.

  357. The angel continues and says, the prince of the Persian

  358. Kingdom resisted me twenty one days. Then Michael, one of

  359. the chief princes, one of God's angels, came to help me.

  360. When you meet spiritual resistance, God helps you. God fights

  361. for you. God dispatches his angels on your behalf. Warren

  362. Worsby writes, when we pray, God directs the armies of

  363. heaven to fight on our behalf. Even though we may

  364. know nothing about the battles that are being waged in

  365. this invisible war, we know that there is victory over

  366. every evil resistance because of Jesus. When Jesus died on

  367. the cross, he defeated the devil.

  368. When he rose from the dead, he conquered death and

  369. all evil. So we know that all resistance must bow

  370. to the name of Jesus.

  371. That whatever resistance and whatever evil you are confronted with

  372. in this life, God's love is greater than that resistance.

  373. His love goes before you, his love comes behind you.

  374. He helps you, and he fights for you.

  375. Spiritual resistance is a reality for the Christian life. And

  376. that's why I want to tell you next week there's

  377. gonna be an event called Contending for the Kingdom where

  378. we're going to learn tools and equipping about spiritual warfare,

  379. about contending when there's resistance and when there's evil forces

  380. at work. If you want to learn about that event,

  381. you can visit the church website for more. So, Daniel

  382. was facing spiritual resistance, but God gave him strength as

  383. he was waiting for the Lord. We read in verse eighteen,

  384. Daniel says again, the one who touched me like a

  385. man looked at the one who looked like a man

  386. touched me and gave me strength. Do not be afraid,

  387. you who are highly esteemed, He said, peace, be strong.

  388. Now be strong.

  389. God gives you supernatural strength when you wait for the Lord,

  390. when you are praying, when you are waiting, when you

  391. are trusting, He gives you strength and endurance to keep waiting.

  392. I love this story of Daniel.

  393. I love this Daniel chapter ten story because it reminds

  394. me of something that happened in my life that I

  395. will never forget.

  396. A couple of years ago, I had this terrible toothache.

  397. I was just in so much pain. I couldn't eat,

  398. I couldn't chew. I was just miserable. And so finally

  399. I gave in and I went to the dentist, and.

  400. The dentist took one look and told me that I

  401. had a wisdom tooth that needed to be removed. And

  402. before I could think twice, they numbed me up and

  403. pulled that tooth right out. And I was so relieved

  404. that the pain was gone. I was grateful that my

  405. physical pain was gone.

  406. But then I got an.

  407. Emotional pain when the dentist gave me the bill. I

  408. did not expect this bill. This was an expensive procedure.

  409. I hadn't planned on this. I hadn't prepared for this.

  410. This surprised me, and I didn't know exactly how I

  411. was going to pay for this unexpected expense. Two days later,

  412. I opened my mailbox and I had a letter from

  413. a relative. This relative had no idea that I had

  414. a toothache. This relative had no clue that I had

  415. been to the dentist. This relative had no knowledge of

  416. this large expense in my life. And the note from

  417. the relative said, Andrew, I was thinking about you, and

  418. I felt prompted to send you this gift just to

  419. bless you.

  420. And there was a check for an amount that covered

  421. that unexpected expense.

  422. The best part of that story is the date on

  423. that check was the same day that I was.

  424. At the dentist two days earlier.

  425. The date that this person wrote that check was the

  426. same day that I was at the dentist getting this cost.

  427. Even before I knew the expense, God was providing away.

  428. God was providing a solution. So here's what I'm saying

  429. to you. If you pray really hard and you go

  430. home today, there might be money in your mailbox.

  431. Absolutely not. That is not what I'm saying at all.

  432. I'm not preaching a prosperity gospel. I don't believe in healthy,

  433. wealthy preaching. That's not what I'm saying.

  434. I told you that story because it's a reminder of

  435. what Jesus has done for us spiritually. Because all of

  436. us we are spiritually bankrupt. Our sin, our rebellion, has

  437. bankrupt us, and we are doomed a punishment and death.

  438. But two thousand years ago, Jesus paid the price to.

  439. Pay off our debt.

  440. Two thousand years ago, Jesus paid the cost for our forgiveness.

  441. Jesus paid the price for our eternal life. And so now,

  442. when you come against resistance, you draw on the deposit

  443. that Jesus made. When you're fighting for healing, when you're

  444. fighting through treatment, when you get a diagnosis, you draw

  445. on the deposit that Jesus made. When you come against

  446. addiction and grief and depression, you.

  447. Draw on Jesus's deposit.

  448. When you feel mistreated and cheated, you are not defeated

  449. because he paid the price. And I want to say

  450. that if there's somebody who thinks that you should end

  451. your own life, look to the one who gave his

  452. life for you. Because there is hope in Jesus. He

  453. gives us strength when we wait for the Lord, we

  454. can trust him even while we're waiting for the breakthrough.

  455. While we're waiting for the answer.

  456. We said that God hears our prayers, and God answers

  457. our prayers yes, no or wait? What do we do

  458. when God says no? How does it feel when you're

  459. told no? Long time ago, I was thinking about the

  460. idea of planting a new church, starting a new church.

  461. And so the church that.

  462. I was currently serving at sent me in Lauren to

  463. a pastor's boot camp.

  464. This is a real thing.

  465. And for two days there were couples from all over

  466. the country being assessed and evaluated for possibly starting new churches.

  467. And for these two days it was intense.

  468. At the end of the two days, the assessment group

  469. would give a grade to each couple, and that grade

  470. could range from yes, you should start a new church

  471. to know you're not qualified to do this. And so

  472. for those two days, we had to do Bible knowledge exams,

  473. we took multiple personality profile tests, there were group presentations,

  474. there was role play fundraising, how to fundraise, you had

  475. to preach a sermon.

  476. On the spot, like there was all this. It was intense.

  477. It kind of felt like pastor reality TV.

  478. And nobody wanted to get voted off, you know, alliances

  479. and all this. And so at the end of the

  480. two days, Lauren and I met with the assessment team

  481. and they told us, no, you're not ready to start

  482. a new church.

  483. And I felt hurt. My ego felt hurt. I was disappointed,

  484. and I felt a little bit embarrassed.

  485. Too, they told me no. How does it feel when

  486. you get told no? What does it feel like when

  487. God says no? What do we do when you've been

  488. praying for healing, praying for a miracle, and that healing

  489. doesn't come in this life, but it comes in heaven.

  490. How does that feel?

  491. What do you do when you're praying for a new

  492. job but God says no? Or you've been praying for

  493. your marriage but your spouse still walks out. What do

  494. we do when we pray for our loved one who's

  495. in the hospital but they pass away.

  496. What do we do when we say no when God

  497. says no. Well, like we said earlier, you may not

  498. know why God says no, but you can know who.

  499. Even when God says no, you can trust the God

  500. who you know. You can trust that he hears your prayers.

  501. You can trust that He is with you. You can

  502. trust that he knows what you're going through. That's why

  503. people of grit wait for the Lord. And I want

  504. to say that there are some insensitive Christians who will

  505. try to justify why God says no, and they have

  506. these cute little sayings, but they're really harsh and hurtful.

  507. Saying is like, well, God's teaching you a lesson, there's

  508. something to learn, or you know, just have more faith.

  509. You know, that's called faith shaming. You need more faith

  510. and God will.

  511. God will give you the miracle.

  512. Or there's the one that says, well, maybe is there

  513. any unconfessed sin that's blocking your prayer? You need to

  514. confess your sin. All of those responses are cruel on.

  515. Christian and unbiblical.

  516. And if you've been wounded by that, today, in the

  517. name of Jesus, we break that off and we reject

  518. those responses.

  519. In Jesus's name.

  520. People of Grit wait for the Lord. People of Grit

  521. wait for the Lord. And sometimes God says no.

  522. But hear me. When God says no, that might not

  523. be a bad thing. No is not always bad. Sometimes

  524. no can be good.

  525. Do you know what the greatest prayer answer no was.

  526. It's the prayer that Jesus prayed on the night before

  527. his death. Jesus was in the garden and he was praying.

  528. We read in Luke twenty two. Jesus went out as

  529. usual to the Mount of Olives, and his disciples followed him.

  530. On reaching the place, he said to them, pray that

  531. you will not fall into temptation.

  532. He withdrew about a stone's.

  533. Throw beyond them, knelt down and prayed, father, if you

  534. are willing, take this cup from me, He's saying, take

  535. this cup of suffering, take away the pain, take away

  536. the rejection, take the cross away, take this cup from me.

  537. Yet not my will, but yours be done.

  538. Jesus asked the father to intervene and stop what was

  539. about to happen.

  540. But how did the father answer the son? The father

  541. said no, Jesus was still arrested. Jesus was still beaten

  542. and flogged. Jesus was nailed to the cross. Jesus died.

  543. The father did not stop him from dying.

  544. The greatest prayer answer knows the prayer that Jesus prayed.

  545. But just because the father said no, that does not

  546. mean the father rejected the son. Keep reading verse twenty two,

  547. says father, if you're willing take this cup from me,

  548. Yet not my will, but yours be done.

  549. What do we read?

  550. In verse forty three, An angel from heaven appeared to

  551. him and what and strengthened him. Even when the father

  552. said no to Jesus, he sent him more strength.

  553. Just like God sent an angel to Daniel. He sent

  554. an angel to Jesus.

  555. The Father gave Jesus more strength and courage and power

  556. to endure. When God says no, he is still with

  557. you while you wait.

  558. You are not waiting alone. You are not.

  559. Rejected, You are not in the dark. God is not

  560. silent when you are waiting. I believe that God comes

  561. closer to us even when we wait for him, Even

  562. when he says no and we're in the middle of

  563. pain and disappointment, His presence is with us, and we

  564. can hear him while we're waiting. Remember, not every no

  565. is a bad thing. Sometimes no can be good.

  566. When God said no to Jesus, it was for good.

  567. If the Father said yes to Jesus, then there would

  568. be no hope for you and me. If he said yes,

  569. evil would have won. The devil would have won.

  570. We would be doomed.

  571. There would be no gospel if the Father had said yes.

  572. But the Father said no, And the Gospel is built

  573. on this answer. No. For our sake, Praise be to

  574. God that he said no, and Jesus died waiting.

  575. Jesus was in the garden waiting. Jesus was arrested waiting.

  576. Jesus was flogged waiting.

  577. His hands and his feet were nailed while he was waiting,

  578. and Jesus died waiting. What was he waiting for? He

  579. was waiting for Sunday. He was waiting for the resurrection.

  580. He was waiting for the stone to be rolled away

  581. and the victory to be declared. So let me tell you,

  582. on the other side of your waiting is resurrection.

  583. On the other side of your longing, and your praying

  584. is resurrection. On the other side of your tears.

  585. And you're desperation in your crist for help, there is

  586. a resurrection waiting for you.

  587. God knows what he's doing. He's not surprised by your circumstance.

  588. You may be surprised, you may be disoriented, you may

  589. be confused.

  590. But God is not.

  591. He's not up in heaven scratching his head saying, oh man,

  592. I didn't expect that God is in control.

  593. There's always resurrection on the other side of your waiting.

  594. People of grit wait for the Lord.

  595. Daniel waited for the Lord, and he heard from God.

  596. We read in Daniel ten nineteen when the Angel spoke

  597. to me. I was strengthened and said, speak, my Lord,

  598. since you have given me strength.

  599. Daniel said, speak. He was ready to hear from God.

  600. So when your situation is serious, when your troubles are

  601. very scary, you are going to be able to hear

  602. from God. When you're waiting on the Lord, he will

  603. speak to you. Even in disappointment. You can hear him,

  604. even in the pain, in a long journey of treatment,

  605. even when you're facing that financial tragedy. God is with you.

  606. He does not withhold his presence from you. He is

  607. near to you while you wait, people of grit, wait

  608. for the Lord. I want to end just with one

  609. more story of how I've experienced God's goodness.

  610. While I wait for him. Some of you know some

  611. of the details of this story.

  612. When Lauren and I lived in Pennsylvania, Lauren worked for

  613. Starbucks Coffee and she had a great job there. She

  614. was promoted, she excelled, But after a while that specific

  615. job just kind of wore her down and it wasn't

  616. fulfilling her God given calling. And so in twenty seventeen,

  617. Lauren started praying about a new job. In fact, this

  618. picture on the screen is a picture of her prayer

  619. journal where she's praying for a new job. And then

  620. in November of twenty seventeen, we learned about an opening

  621. at a nonprofit organization and this job description was perfect

  622. for Lauren. We thought she was a great match, and

  623. so she submitted an application and we.

  624. Waited and waited and we waited. There was no response,

  625. no call, no.

  626. Interview, nothing, and we felt really disappointed because we had

  627. prayed about this, we had worked on this, we had

  628. waited for this, and we really felt like this was

  629. an answer no, but it was really an answer wait.

  630. And so we kept praying all of twenty seventeen. We

  631. kept praying all of.

  632. Twenty eighteen until twenty nineteen when Church of the Crossing

  633. invited Lauren and I to come here and join the

  634. team here, and Lauren was asked to become the manager

  635. of the Haverstick, our coffee shop and coworking space here

  636. on our campus. Matching her background in business and coffee

  637. with her calling and passion to serve God and serve

  638. people is a perfect fit. And you know what the

  639. best part about that was. Do you remember when Lauren

  640. applied for that other job, Remember when she started praying

  641. for a new job. It was November of twenty seventeen.

  642. Do you know when Church of the Crossing open the

  643. Haverstick November of twenty seventeen. God was already providing an answer.

  644. God was already working even though we could not see it.

  645. We had to trust him.

  646. We had to wait, We had to keep taking one

  647. step at a time, waiting for the Lord.

  648. He was already working on our behalf.

  649. It took us more than two years to see the

  650. solution that we were praying for. Remember, when God says no,

  651. it does not mean it's bad. When God says wait,

  652. there may be something better. There is goodness on the

  653. other side of waiting. So if you are waiting on

  654. the Lord, do not give up.

  655. If you are waiting and.

  656. Praying, keep praying, keep fasting, keep seeking, keep knocking.

  657. People of grit, wait for the Lord.

  658. I want to invite all of us to take a

  659. moment and personally respond to what we've heard today. Let

  660. you take a moment to bow your head with me

  661. and turn your thoughts and attention to the Lord. And

  662. if there is something that you are waiting for, if

  663. there's something that you are praying for, would you tell

  664. the Lord that you are waiting and praying. Would you

  665. ask him for the faith and the trust to keep praying.

  666. If there's someone listening who's experienced delay and what you're

  667. waiting for, and you feel ashamed, like it's your fault,

  668. or you're blaming yourself, or there's something that you've done

  669. to make this delay, I believe God wants.

  670. To encourage you that it is not your fault. The

  671. delay is not caused by you. Would you just ask

  672. the Lord to give you a renew faith to continue

  673. to wait. And if there's someone listening.

  674. And you've been told the answer no, God has said

  675. no to what you've prayed for, would you ask God

  676. to give you the faith and the.

  677. Peace to trust him to trust his goodness.

  678. I pray that if you have received an answer no,

  679. that you feel more of God's presence even today, that

  680. you know you're not alone, that the Lord is with you,

  681. and the Lord is going to provide, that the Lord

  682. is going to lead, That the Lord is right there

  683. with you. Even if you feel like you are in

  684. your guard and praying take this cup from me, the

  685. Lord is with.

  686. You in the garden. And finally, if you're listening to this.

  687. And you are not in a relationship with Jesus, you

  688. are far from God and you've been waiting for God

  689. to give you a sign or waiting for God to.

  690. Grab you.

  691. This might be your sign right now that God wants

  692. a relationship with you.

  693. And if you want a saving.

  694. Relationship with God, and then I invite you to just

  695. simply pray this prayer after me in your heart, say,

  696. Dear God, I admit that I'm a sinner. I believe

  697. Jesus died for my forgiveness. I believe he rose from

  698. the dead to save me. And today I confess that

  699. Jesus is Lord of my life.

  700. Amen, I'll pray for all of us. God.

  701. I pray that you would give us the faith and

  702. the courage to trust you, to wait for you.

  703. And God, may our joy increase as.

  704. We obey you, and as we follow you each day,

  705. each step at a time, and we pray.

  706. All of this in the name of Jesus.

  707. Amen, I think it's appropriate that we receive communion.

  708. We talked about that night where Jesus prayed in the garden,

  709. and just before he went to the garden, he was

  710. with his twelve disciples and he gave them communion, the

  711. Lord's Supper, and he told us, then, when we eat

  712. this bread, when we drink the wine.

  713. We do so in remembrance of his sacrifice.

  714. So we receive these elements today, remembering what Jesus has

  715. done and celebrating the resurrection. And so as we prepare

  716. to receive these, would you search your heart and take

  717. a moment. If there's anything that you need to confess

  718. to the Lord, or any sin you need to ask

  719. for his forgiveness.

  720. You can do so. Now.

  721. Now together, let's receive the cracker, the body of Jesus,

  722. and let's receive the juice his blood.

  723. Amen.