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Fathers Day Celebration Service - Dave Food - From Orphans to Heirs

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  1. Thank you morning, Church. You're a wonderful people. I say that,

  2. and I'm looking at you. I'm saying, you're a wonderful people.

  3. Believe it, not because of the way you made your

  4. face up this morning, not because of the way you

  5. did your hair, but because God created you.

  6. Yeah.

  7. Sometimes we look in the mirror and we go, you're

  8. looking a bit grea today, Dave. You're looking a bit

  9. wrinkly today, Dave. But God still loves us. God still

  10. loves us. On this Father's Day, I want to speak

  11. to a subject about cultivating a generous spirit. Cultivating a

  12. generous spirit, you're probably thinking what he's got to do

  13. with Father's Day? Okay, if you've got a purse, if

  14. you've got a wallet, I'd like you to get it

  15. out now, and I would like you to wave it around.

  16. Or if you've got a coin or a pound or

  17. a note in your pocket, I'd like to wave it

  18. around now. Okay, Because I'm not talking about your money,

  19. so you can put it all away again, I'm not

  20. when I when preachers start talking about a generous spirit,

  21. it's often just before a giving time. It's often before

  22. a special offering, and they kind of say, come on,

  23. get your wallets out church. The Holy Spirit today is

  24. not teaching us about giving, but our identity, our freedom,

  25. about warfare in the spiritual realm. This is not a

  26. message about money, so you can all relax. This is

  27. a message about yours and my heart. I want to

  28. expose three spiritual realities to get us started. Number One, God,

  29. who's the best Father, has a generous spirit, the spirit

  30. of sonship.

  31. We sang that in that song this morning. But do

  32. you know what we also have in the world. We

  33. have a spirit of poverty. Now.

  34. The spirit of poverty stands up against the spirit of generosity,

  35. and it's a lying spirit rooted in fear. And then

  36. there's another spirit I also want to talk about now,

  37. which is really prevalent in the world today, and that's

  38. the ortan spirit. The often spirit is destructive. It causes

  39. us to question our identity in Christ and consequently we

  40. wonder who we are as children. So I want to pray,

  41. let the Word of God speak to our hearts today.

  42. Let the Word of God touch us, change us, move us.

  43. That flowing from the father heart of God would be

  44. his generous spirit. If you want to if you want

  45. to walk into the second classroom down the steps on

  46. the world toilets.

  47. You'll see there's a few cupboards in there. You know.

  48. When I asked the college could we have some storage

  49. they space, They went, sorry, Dave, we don't have anywhere.

  50. So for the last seven months.

  51. A whole bunch of people have loaded up cars and

  52. moved stuff from Virginia, lodgter here and back again afterwards.

  53. It's been quite a big job. I took a picture

  54. this morning as we Ariis and I walked a cupboard

  55. through Egghum.

  56. This morning.

  57. We walked this big cupboard all the way and I

  58. was just thinking, I wonder what people are thinking, but

  59. I don't care because it's part of God's plan. I

  60. took a picture this morning of seven cupboards in that room.

  61. We did not pay for one of them, not one

  62. of them. God gave us them all, which means, apart

  63. from some things we have to take backwards and forwards

  64. each week, some of the big boxes, we were down

  65. to one half a car. So praise God. Let's give God,

  66. Give God thanks and praise.

  67. Amen. Amen.

  68. So God's got a generous spirit towards us. It flows

  69. from him. Generosity is not just about money. What else

  70. have you got to give? If I said put your

  71. money aside or your pockets were empty, what could you give?

  72. Time? Yeah? What else? Love? What else? Life? Yes? What else? Food? Yes?

  73. What else? Salvation?

  74. Yeah? God gives us salvation. But we also give our attention.

  75. We can give our skills all of those things, and

  76. we don't even have to put our hands in our

  77. pockets to do any of those things. Same with the Father.

  78. Sometimes we pray that. Sometimes we have a problem with money.

  79. You know, there's a there's a bill that needs to

  80. be paid, and we don't quite know how we're going

  81. to do it, and we, in our small mindedness, pray,

  82. God give me the money.

  83. Actually, what we need.

  84. To say is God, help me to pay the bill,

  85. because He may not pay the bill by giving you

  86. the money. He might pay the bill by get canceling

  87. the bill. That's happened. That has happened. There are people

  88. in this church whose bills somebody said, don't worry about it.

  89. It's happened to us as a church, even in this

  90. last year. You know, some people who wanted a bill

  91. us for something said don't worry about it.

  92. Thank you.

  93. God's a generous God, and we don't just have to

  94. give him our money. We need to give him all

  95. are all. God's interested in all of us. Do you

  96. know what? Sometimes you'll find headlines in the newspapers that

  97. talk about born again churches, churches full of the spirit

  98. ask their members to give ten percent or more. You know,

  99. the tithe is just a starting point. It all belongs

  100. to God. It all belongs to God. So I want

  101. to reflect the heart of the Father. Matthew seven, verse

  102. eleven says this, If you, then, though you are evil,

  103. know how to give good gifts to your children, how

  104. much more will your father in heaven give good gifts

  105. to those who ask him. A generous spirit lives from

  106. a heart full of abundance. Not what's in our bank account,

  107. but what's in our heart. Two Corinthians, Chapter nine, verses

  108. six to eight. Whoever sews sparingly will also reap sparingly,

  109. and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. God loves

  110. a cheerful giver, and God is able to bless.

  111. You and me abundantly.

  112. I want you to notice here it says not God

  113. might or God will think about, but he is able.

  114. He is able.

  115. The generous spirit gives time gives honor, gives forgiveness, gives encouragement.

  116. You know, one of the things we miss in the

  117. world all the time is encouragement. That the world is

  118. full of discouraged people. People do a good job and

  119. nobody even says thank you. I don't know how many times.

  120. Try this next time you're out sometime this week, stand

  121. somewhere as you're going into shop or going into a building,

  122. and hold the door open, and stand there and hold

  123. the door open, and just count how many people actually

  124. even acknowledge you. Number one, how many people say thank you?

  125. And then how many people look at you. They're all

  126. different ways of acknowledging us. And I'm not I'm quite

  127. happy to hold the door open. That's not the problem.

  128. But just you know what I want people to I

  129. want to encourage people to encourage one another. And I

  130. did this once. Where was I I think I was

  131. in stains and I held the door open. There was

  132. there's a crowd of people who walked through. I think

  133. I had seven or eight people who just walked through

  134. the door head down, didn't even notice that I was

  135. holding the door open for them. So when the last

  136. person went through with a big voice, I said thank you,

  137. and some of the people looked around. I've made them jump,

  138. and then they smiled, and then I think they realized

  139. they hadn't said thank you. Okay, So that's the spirit

  140. of heart of God. Our God is generous towards us.

  141. I want to talk about something that's counter to all

  142. of that, and that's the spirit of poverty. You know,

  143. I believe there's a stronghold in mankind, in life, possibly

  144. even in the Church, that we allow a poverty mentality

  145. to creep into our thinking. Let me give you a

  146. simple example. You know, sometimes of the fellowship feasts will

  147. have people who bring food, and people say, I don't

  148. want to bring too much because I don't wander it

  149. to be wasted. And I say, but I want to

  150. be generous. I want to be able to feed five thousand,

  151. five thousand turn up. Five thousand turning up would be

  152. an interesting challenge to have, wouldn't it. We'd fill the

  153. whole of the field outside. We had a fantastic thank

  154. you for everybody who came to the picnic last Sunday.

  155. There was some really good dancing that went on at

  156. the end, and there's video evidence of the dancing too,

  157. So but do you know what, five thousand people would

  158. fill that field. So I'm just giving you some scale

  159. when we talk about feeding the five thousand. But you

  160. know what, sometimes we have a poverty mentality that says, oh, well,

  161. I'll just bring just enough because I don't want to waste. Well,

  162. I understand that from a planet point of view, we

  163. don't want to waste. But do you know what, we

  164. can be generous. And one of the things I love

  165. at the end of the fellowship feast is when I

  166. say to people, please take something home, Please take something home,

  167. and some people go, oh, I can't, I'm watching my way.

  168. Do you know what what I want to say to

  169. you is that food could be your outreach tool. Could

  170. take a plate full of cookies home and instead of

  171. eating them yourself, and what you could do is take

  172. them home and go and knock on a neighbor's door

  173. and say, hey, we had some excess at church on

  174. this afternoon, I'd love to share it with you.

  175. Would you like a few cookies?

  176. And they might say, oh, yes, please, why don't you

  177. come in and have a coffee with me and we'll

  178. share the cookies together. Now you've got a chance to

  179. talk and it all started with a few cookies. Do

  180. you know what, Sometimes we can kind of think about

  181. just feeding ourselves. But do you know what, The world

  182. out there needs to see a generous spirit. The world

  183. out there needs to say, a generous church. The world

  184. out there needs to see a generous God. In Revelation three,

  185. verse seventy, it says you say, I am rich, I

  186. have acquiet wealth, and do need a thing, do not

  187. need a thing? But you do not realize that you

  188. are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked. That's a really

  189. strong scripture. But you know what, just because we look

  190. good on the outside doesn't mean that we're rich inside

  191. at all. You can have some very you can have

  192. people who walk around in thousand dollar suits. They look

  193. just right, but inside they're crying out, they're lonely, they're

  194. sad and that. Yeah, you know, And I'm sure you

  195. could think of places where you've been as well. But

  196. I had the privilege to be at do a number

  197. of places in the world where.

  198. They don't have a football.

  199. And so they screw up a piece of paper and

  200. stick it up with sticky tape, and then they kick

  201. this ball of paper around. You know, there are children

  202. I know who if their football went flat, they go,

  203. what am I going to do now? And there'd be

  204. other children who still be kicking the flat football around

  205. because they're having fun.

  206. You know.

  207. Sometimes we can allow a poverty mentality to creep in.

  208. There's a danger with material wealth. How do we think?

  209. How do we trust? How do we live? When we

  210. look at something which requires financial and we say, oh,

  211. I don't know whether I've got enough. Sometimes the father

  212. needs to say I want you to give because my

  213. storehouse is full and I can give to you. Poverty

  214. mentality will reveal itself with things like fear of loss.

  215. Sometimes we won't invest because we're fearfull of loss. We

  216. like to hoard rather than to sew. There's a proverb

  217. that talks about this. Walking through the desert, a gentleman

  218. comes across an oasis, and in this oasis is a

  219. porl is a pool, and it's empty because it's dry

  220. because the sun is beating down. And next to the

  221. empty pool is a water pump, and the water pump

  222. has a leather valve that dries out in the sun.

  223. And next to the water pump.

  224. Is a jar full of water, a big jar full

  225. of water with a screw top lid on, and the

  226. instructions say, please please empty all the water onto the

  227. leather so that the leather will be supple, and then

  228. the pump will work. Please do not drink the water

  229. from the jar. Please empty all the water onto the

  230. leather so that the pump will work. And then when

  231. you've finished, please fill up the jar again for the

  232. next person.

  233. Now, just imagine walking through the desert.

  234. Walking through the desert, you're really parched and dry, and

  235. you come to this pump and you think, oh, it's dry,

  236. and then you see this jar of water. Your natural

  237. instinct is to go, oh, I'll take a drink first.

  238. But if you drink all of that, there is no

  239. further water, there is no further supply. And so the

  240. wisdom says, pour out all that you have so that

  241. I can give you more. When we run out of ourselves,

  242. we run into God. If I just look at what's

  243. in my pockets, and all that's in my pockets today

  244. is inkerchief, you know I've got nothing to give. And

  245. I've told you this story before now, but do you

  246. know what it taught me? Something that still sticks with

  247. me forty fifty years later.

  248. As a student.

  249. I was at our church, at the church I was

  250. going to at the time, and came to the time

  251. of the offering, and I put my hand in my pocket,

  252. one pocket and took out my offering ready to put

  253. it in the offering bowl. As the offering bowl was

  254. coming around, and I felt the father say what's in

  255. your other pocket? When that's my bus fare? He said,

  256. I want you to give everything today. And I'm not

  257. saying that's what God's saying to you. I'm just giving

  258. you an example. So I took both. I emptied both pockets,

  259. put it all in the offering with my mindset, Okay,

  260. I'm walking home today, thirty forty minute walk, not a problem,

  261. but you know, thirty forty minute walk. So I emptied

  262. my pockets because God's a generous god. End of the service,

  263. one called Harry came up to me and he said, Dave,

  264. what are you doing for lunch? I said nothing, I'm

  265. going to be going back to my digs. And he said,

  266. why don't you come and have lunch with me and

  267. my family. And me and another student went and had

  268. lunch with Harry and his family. And then when the

  269. meal had finished, what do you think he said, can

  270. I give you a lift home? Yes, I'm in the

  271. bus company. He got less money out of me, but

  272. I got a lunch and I got blessed too. You know,

  273. if we have a poverty meant I to this day,

  274. I still think maybe Harry wouldn't have invited me if

  275. I haven't vmpted my pockets.

  276. I don't know.

  277. I don't know because I can't repeat the experiments. I

  278. can't repeat the experiment. But do you know we're fearful

  279. of loss. We hoarde rather than so we keep enough wheat.

  280. Think of this, we keep enough wheat in the barn

  281. so they we've got enough food to feed us, rather

  282. than thinking about the next season and sewing for the

  283. next season. People are suspicious of generosity. Yesterday we gave

  284. out one hundred and well the previous week we gave

  285. out in the seven hundred and fifty pastries. Yesterday we

  286. gave out about one hundred and sixty pastries and cookies

  287. on Eggham High Street, and quite a few people who

  288. were standing there going would you like a free pastry?

  289. And people say, oh, I'd like a pastry? How much

  290. can I pay? We don't want you to pay then

  291. they kind of took a little step back from me

  292. and went, so, what do you want then? So I

  293. don't want anything. I just want to bless you, be blessed. Oh,

  294. thank you, And some people came back for a second.

  295. One.

  296. I said, take a double portion. That's okay, there's nothing

  297. wrong with that. But you know, people are suspicious of generosity.

  298. But you know what, the culture of God's Kingdom is

  299. different to the culture of this world. So generosity comes

  300. and hits the spirit of poverty. And you know, the

  301. spirit of generosity, if we keep on allowing it to flow,

  302. will wash away the spirit the impact to the spirit

  303. of poverty.

  304. Do you know what.

  305. There's also another thing which I want to call out now,

  306. which is sometimes people are resentful, resentful towards people who

  307. are blessed. People say, oh, wow, maybe God's given you

  308. something and you share it with somebody else, and you

  309. see them kind of kind of cower a little bit

  310. and say, oh, it's all right for you, isn't it.

  311. You've got the blessing. But I want to celebrate your blessing.

  312. I want to celebrate your blessing. Let's share blessings with others.

  313. In Hagi verse, one, chapter six, And we don't often

  314. read from Haguy, so let's enjoy it whilst we can.

  315. You have planted much but harvested little. You earn wages

  316. only to put them in a purse with holes in it. Yeah,

  317. Bible is sometimes so clear. Why would you put money

  318. in a purse that has got holes in it? Why

  319. would you even keep the purse that's got holes in it?

  320. What I know, it might be a precious person, it

  321. might be a really old poke, it might be hundreds

  322. of years, but it's not functioning as a person anymore.

  323. You know. Here's the ouch.

  324. I think sometimes the church and you and me will

  325. operate in a spirit of poverty because we believe that

  326. God is limited in some way. God is constrained in

  327. some way. God is not able to do. Scripture says

  328. God is able to do immeasurably more than we ask

  329. or imagine. Now, my imagination is pretty big. How big

  330. is yours? So if God's able to do immeasurably more,

  331. that means unmeasurably, you know, Well, that's that's miles miles

  332. you can measure, hundreds of miles you can measure, so

  333. immeasurably more than you ask or imagine. Then we kind

  334. of have an independent spirit that says, well, old man,

  335. I'll manage with what I've got, rather than saying I'm

  336. managing with what he's got. We've got to get to

  337. trust God. We've got to get to trust God. There

  338. are people in this room I know who are walking

  339. through stuff at the moment, which means that your current

  340. physical capability, your current financial capability, your current physical situation

  341. limits you right now. But you're believing God for more

  342. and I want to stand with you in prayer. We

  343. want to stand with you as church in prayer and

  344. see those things come through. Because our God's a generous god,

  345. so let's not view him as a small minded god.

  346. One of the challenges I think certain in the church

  347. in Britain has is we believe God's a bit like

  348. a Victorian father. And today on Father's Day I can

  349. talk like that. You know, Victorian fathers would say children

  350. are there to be seen and not heard, so you

  351. would stand to attention, You'd be dressed in your Sunday

  352. best and you wouldn't say anything until you were asked

  353. to speak. That would have been very much the culture.

  354. But do you know what I think. God loves children,

  355. He loves you and me, He loves us to run

  356. into His presence say Daddy help. I've had the privilege

  357. of teaching lots and lots and lots and lots of

  358. little children, and I love the moment when they're playing

  359. on the floor doing something in a classroom and you

  360. can see that they're struggling, maybe struggling to assemble some

  361. bricks or build a tower or do something, and you

  362. can see them struggling, and you want to join in,

  363. but you also want them to learn. And the moment

  364. when they turn and say, can you help me? Yes,

  365. of course I can. The Father is looking to you

  366. and to me and to those at home and saying,

  367. I'm just waiting for you to ask me to help you.

  368. There's also the spirit, the orphan spirit. It's a spirit

  369. of insecurity. It's a spirit that's all over the place.

  370. To be honest, spirit says I'm alone, and it affects everything.

  371. It affects our attitude in relationships, it affects our ministry,

  372. it affects our worship, it affects our leadership. If we

  373. think we're alone and we're doing it on our own,

  374. and I think everybody in this room at some point

  375. you found a moment when you're doing something for somebody

  376. else or something or an event or something, and you

  377. find yourself doing it on your own, and the orphan

  378. spirit kicks in and goes, see you're on your own.

  379. You might even do that this morning as we set

  380. up church for those people. You might find yourself in

  381. a room on your own doing something. If the ofphan

  382. spirit kicks in, see you're on your own. No one's

  383. helping you. Do You know what gets my mind away

  384. from that is who I'm doing it for. I don't

  385. put chairs out on a Sunday for you, although practically

  386. I do. I do it for him. Arash doesn't put

  387. the flags up at the back for you.

  388. It's for him.

  389. Jonathan doesn't stick lots of wires in lots of different

  390. places for you, although that helps for all of us

  391. to hear and for those to join us online. He

  392. does it for him. And one of the greatest ways

  393. of dealing with the orphan spirit is to recognize who

  394. our father is. I'm not talking about your biological father.

  395. As Julia said right at the beginning of the service,

  396. someone has some very fractious and difficult relationships with our parents.

  397. But John fourteen, verse eighteen says this, I will not

  398. leave you as orphans. I will come to you. The

  399. father promises he won't leave us as orphans. Many of

  400. us can act like elphins. There are people who in

  401. the church who will act like worlphans. And we'll try

  402. and do it on our own. We'll try and do

  403. it our own way. And how we might recognize that.

  404. Here's some of the things and you might recognize some

  405. of these things in yourself that we compete for attention, me, me, me, me,

  406. look at me, look at me, look at what I'm doing.

  407. Or maybe we're desperate for approval. We're waiting for that.

  408. No one loves me, no one appreciates me. Do you

  409. know what? We've got to get our eyes off looking.

  410. And that's why encouragement is so important. Encouragement continues to

  411. to move that in those kinds of directions. Sometimes we're

  412. afraid with the orphaned spirit of being rejected, of getting

  413. it wrong. Sometimes you won't even start something because we

  414. might get it wrong. One of the things that church

  415. needs to grow up to, and we need to grow

  416. up to it RCF is giving people space to get

  417. it wrong once.

  418. In a while.

  419. It's okay to get it wrong, Julia corrected me. I

  420. can't remember how many months ago it was, but I

  421. started talking about the garden of Eden. I was talking

  422. about the garden of guestsemone or the other way around.

  423. I can't remember which way around it was. But you know,

  424. we all had a laugh and I felt a bit embarrassed.

  425. But you know what, So what, sometimes we don't even

  426. start because we're fearful of rejection. And here's the thing

  427. that really kicks in around the Father.

  428. Is sometimes was.

  429. Suspicious of authority. I know people come from backgrounds where

  430. maybe authority has done wrong things in your situation and

  431. your circumstance, and as a consequence, you don't trust the police,

  432. or you don't trust government, or you don't trust any

  433. authority figure. And so we as church, we as leaders,

  434. need to be humble. We need to be more like

  435. the Father, and we need to say come, come, be

  436. part of the family. Come and be part of the

  437. bigger family. Romans, chapter eight, verse fifteen says this, the

  438. spirit you receive does not make you slaves so that

  439. you live in fear again. Rather, the spirit you received

  440. brought you about about your adoption to sonship and by him,

  441. we cry, Abba, Father, Abba, Father, one of those things

  442. that I really love, Abba, father, Daddy, Daddy. We need

  443. to learn to rest in the father's love. One of

  444. the things that deals with the orphan mentality is recognizing

  445. who our father is and resting in his presence, resting

  446. in his love. Sons and daughters give because they trust

  447. trust in him. Trust in him is his willingness to

  448. be generous. How can I say this, you might say, Dave,

  449. how can you say these kind of things?

  450. Galatians five, Verse one.

  451. It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.

  452. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourself be burdened

  453. again by a yoke of slavery. Stand firm because Christ

  454. has set us free. He's paid the price. So let's

  455. consider some steps we might take to step into generosity,

  456. to step away from poverty, and to not be often minded.

  457. Number one, repent of the lies. Sometimes we accept lies.

  458. I've heard people say I'm no good at this. So

  459. what makes you say that, Oh, because I've never been

  460. any good at it? Well, what makes you think that?

  461. Do you know? The what? And the questions?

  462. Wonderful questions do you get annoyed when little children go,

  463. so why is the sky blue? And then you give

  464. some kind of explanation, they go, so why is that true?

  465. And they keep on asking why. I remember a precious

  466. son of a friend of ours who wanted his bedroom

  467. painted tomato red. Because his mum was the kind of

  468. mum who wanted to go with the flow. She said, Okay,

  469. I'm going to paint your bedroom tomato red. The room

  470. got painted tomato red. He walked in and she said,

  471. what do you think? And he said, where are the pips?

  472. It is exactly his question, exactly his question, where are

  473. the because tomato red was not just tomato red, it

  474. also inside of the tomato. Do you know what? So

  475. then so let's think through this question. So why do

  476. you say you're not good at it? Well, because and

  477. actually you'll probably get back to somebody said something, maybe

  478. your mum, your dad, your brother, your sister, a teacher.

  479. Somebody said, so you never any good at languages? And

  480. it sticks and we build upon it because we keep

  481. on repeating it, we keep on declaring it, we keep

  482. on speaking it over ourselves. I bless her irens now

  483. with the Lord. But I remember Irene would say, you

  484. would say something like see you next week, Irene, She

  485. sayd the Lord willing her future was always in God's hands.

  486. You know, if I'm able to do, I will help you.

  487. Now it may not be in my skill set, but

  488. I don't need to rubbish myself by saying I'm bad

  489. at it. I say that I'm willing to help you.

  490. Know.

  491. I can open the bonnet to a car and I

  492. can look and go, yeah, it's an engine. That's about

  493. the limit of where I get to. But I can

  494. still look. So let's repent of some of these lies

  495. that we believe that maybe we keep on repeating. Let

  496. me give you a few examples, because I really want

  497. to make this very practical. But number one, there's not enough. Okay,

  498. we can pray. How did the feeding of the five works?

  499. I don't know whether it's people put in their pockets

  500. or God actually genuinely multiplied the food. It doesn't matter.

  501. They got fed. Another lie. I'm on my own and

  502. the biggie I can't trust God. Second thing would be

  503. to receive the spirit of adoption that's spoken about in

  504. Romans eight, verse sixteen. The Spirit himself testifies with our

  505. spirits that we are God's children. So rather than thinking

  506. of ourselves as orphans, let's say, Daddy, Abba, Father, thank

  507. you for creating me. Thank you that you are there

  508. for me, thank you that you are listening to me.

  509. Thank you are moved by my prayers. Let's receive that

  510. spirit of adoption. Release what's in your hand. Remember I

  511. talked earlier on about sometimes we just talk about holding

  512. on rather than sewing and reaping a generous spirit. A

  513. generous mindset breaks the power of poverty. Giving affirms our

  514. sonship as we show we trust the Father. How do

  515. we do this well? We can forurth thing to renew

  516. our minds. Daily Romans, Chapter twelve, Verse two, do not

  517. conform yourself to the pattern of this world, but be

  518. transformed by the renewing of your minds, and finally walk

  519. in relationship, not in religion. I heard a few times

  520. in conversations yesterday people were saying, I don't I don't

  521. do church, I don't do religion, And I heard the

  522. answer coming back from various different people, Yes, neither do I,

  523. because I've got a personal relationship with Jesus. And that's

  524. the key. So the question today is not whether God

  525. is generous. It's whether we trust him. I'll say that again,

  526. it's not whether God is generous, it's whether we trust

  527. him with our future, with our current situations, with uncertainty.

  528. God will never leave you, nor for sake Joseph when

  529. he was in prison, do you think he probably kind

  530. of got close to thinking, where are you God, I'm

  531. in prison now you gave me that dream, Now look

  532. where I am. Or maybe he looked a little further

  533. and said, God, despite the fact that I'm in prison,

  534. You're still on the throne, Despite the fact I'm in poverty.

  535. Allow me to ask of you for the riches of heaven.

  536. We are not poor, We are not orphans. We are

  537. not abandoned. Your sons and daughters of the Living God.

  538. Whether you're at home, whether you're listening later, whether you're

  539. in the room, you and I are children of the

  540. Living God. And it's really our choice as to how

  541. we relate to our mum and dad, our father in heaven.

  542. I'm going to close just with a little bit of

  543. a testimony. But you know, my parents didn't get on

  544. and I used to sometimes end up standing in the middle,

  545. being defending my mum. Maybe that relates for some of you,

  546. and so I really didn't like my dad very much.

  547. He left, and I had a mindset about my dad

  548. that he'd left me. It was my fault, like many

  549. children do, many teenagers and children will do, even though

  550. it's nothing to do with them.

  551. The children go, oh, well, it's my fault.

  552. That daddy's not here or mummy's not here, whatever the situation,

  553. it's my fault, and so we walk around with that mentality.

  554. I'm all on my own.

  555. I can't talk to mummy or daddy about it, because

  556. you know, they're the one that's remaining. They're the one

  557. that's looking after me. I don't want to end up

  558. on my own. What happens if I scare the other

  559. the other parent away? So we get isolated, we get bitter,

  560. we get twisted. That's where I got to. I used

  561. to go upstairs sometimes and play music. I just just

  562. to lose myself. Wasn't a healthy place. There's certain bits

  563. of music today I still can't listen to because there,

  564. for me, are places that I go to that would

  565. make me feel sad and disappointed and take me back

  566. to that place. I don't need to go there anymore.

  567. And for some of those pieces of music they've changed.

  568. God's got to turn it around for me. But do

  569. you know what I had to rebuild my relationship with

  570. my dad. I had to look at him differently. I

  571. had to look at him through a different lens. My

  572. heavenly father needed to give me a different lens to

  573. look at.

  574. My earthly father.

  575. My mom passed and I had the privilege of being

  576. at my dad's wedding, being part of my dad's wedding

  577. when he got married again. I'll tell you what. My

  578. attitude to my dad was different then when I preached

  579. at his funeral. You know, my dad was a different

  580. dad to me. I'd got a different lens. I was

  581. looking through the rubbish of the past. So, Church, I

  582. want to declare a few things. Number One, God's a

  583. generous God. We need a generous spirit. We need to

  584. leave behind often mentality, and we need to leave behind

  585. poverty too. And it's a poverty mindset. It's not you

  586. know I talked about people playing with paper footballs. You

  587. know you can still have fun with very little. So

  588. I'm going to pray. So I'm going to close. I

  589. want to encourage you to close your eyes and I'm

  590. going to say to you, you know, if one of

  591. these things has touched you right now, if there's something

  592. you need to leave behind, if there's a a if

  593. there's a spiritual mindset that you need to step out of,

  594. if there's a fruitfulness you need to step into. Would

  595. you stand right now. We're going to keep our eyes

  596. closed for those at home. If you want to stand too,

  597. that'll be fine. No one's going to see you. But

  598. I just want to stand and acknowledge that Lord, I

  599. need you to help me out of where I am

  600. to where I need to be. I need to let

  601. go of some of the stuff that I'm holding onto

  602. because it feels safe, secure and normal, and I need

  603. to step into and lay hold of the things that

  604. you have for me. And I've got a picture even

  605. as I'm praying right now, even as I'm just talking

  606. of somebody who's not able to lay hold of something else,

  607. because your hands are full of the past, and the

  608. Father just says, put the past down, Just put the

  609. past down. There's certain bits of it you will pick

  610. up again, but you need to get hold of me

  611. again first. Once you've got hold of me again first,

  612. then you can lay hold of some of the bits

  613. of the past that I still want you to hang

  614. on to because they're good and they're pleasant, and they're

  615. wonderful things. Father, I thank you for everybody standing. Father,

  616. I thank you for those who've been touched Lord as

  617. you've spoken today, Father, I pray that you'd break the

  618. poverty mentality in Jesus' name, would you break Would you

  619. break open the oil of worship and anointing?

  620. Father?

  621. Would you release the sense and smell of your presence

  622. in this place today?

  623. Lord?

  624. Would you cause us to walk with a new sprightness

  625. and spring in our step?

  626. Father? Would you cause us to look up rather than

  627. look down? Father?

  628. Would you cause us to look to you rather than

  629. to our own resources?

  630. Father?

  631. Would you help us to be men and women of faith? Father,

  632. Where we have chosen and laid hold of an orphan mentality? Father,

  633. help us to see the big family around us, the

  634. family that is a heavenly family. Help us to see

  635. you as the loving Father God that you really are,

  636. and help us to walk into your embrace. Help us

  637. to lay hold of who you are. Help us to

  638. touch Lord God, who you are. We pray in Jesus'

  639. name and Father, I pray that you'd release your life

  640. your spirit to us right now. Release your life and

  641. spirit to us in Jesus name.

  642. Amen.

  643. Okay,