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Big Dreams, Big God: Week 4

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  1. I wonder how many of us remember the name Jim Braddock.

  2. Let me tell you a little bit about a guy

  3. named Jim Braddock. Jim Braddock was an amateur boxer and

  4. he was pretty good.

  5. And Jim, about two weeks.

  6. Before the stock market crash in nineteen twenty nine, threw

  7. a punch and broke his hand. And so that's not

  8. good by way, if you're a boxing you break your hand,

  9. that's not good. And so he breaks his hand and

  10. he's devastated, and then on top of that, the stock

  11. market crashes, and so he's not ready to give up.

  12. On his boxing career because he was supposed to be.

  13. You know, he was always told he's gonna be one

  14. of the greats. Over his next twenty two bouts, he

  15. only won six of them, and people started to make

  16. fun of him, say, yere has been or it never was,

  17. and they heaped all kinds of insults on him. But

  18. you know, he had a family. He was a man

  19. of character, and so during the depression, because his family

  20. had to eat, he took any he could get. And

  21. people would often recognize him and they would make little

  22. sly remarks or he would be treated really bad, but

  23. he had to work and he had to do things

  24. because he had to take care of his family. And

  25. it was during this time where he had a dream

  26. that had been unfulfilled, a dream that was crushed, a

  27. life that was you know, it.

  28. Just didn't turn out the way it was supposed to.

  29. But he had to be the man and take care

  30. of his family, no matter the insults that were heaped

  31. upon him, the way he was treated. But this built

  32. something up in him. It's built up his character. It

  33. created a strength in him that he did not have beforehand.

  34. As a matter of fact, he started to understand something

  35. that I think that a lot of us understand today

  36. is simply this, as suffering produces a strength that comfort

  37. simply cannot provide. Suffering produces something in us. Suffering changes us. Suffering,

  38. if we will persevere through it, it will change who

  39. we are as a human. It's almost like a DNA change. Well,

  40. in nineteen thirty four, so we're talking five years later,

  41. he gets a surprise invite. They need someone to fight

  42. in the undercard, which is to fight before the championship fight.

  43. And so they're looking around like, hey, we need somebody

  44. fight this evening short notice. They reach out to Jim Braddock.

  45. He literally goes from the docks and no training or

  46. nothing like that. But in the third round he knocked

  47. out a guy named John Griffin, who ended up being,

  48. by the way, a Hall of Fame boxer. He knocks

  49. him out in the third round and it's a huge

  50. upset and it makes a.

  51. Tremendous amount of news because people are like, who is

  52. this guy?

  53. Who's this guy? And all of a sudden, it put

  54. him back on a circuit. Here's what was interesting. He

  55. had to go back and fight people that had knocked

  56. him out a couple of years ago. And he just

  57. started going through these guys and just just taking care

  58. of them. And finally he got a big shot, massive

  59. square Garden against the reigning heavyweight champion of the world,

  60. Max Bear. And so he's a ten to one underdog,

  61. and let me tell you something, they beat the living

  62. tar out of each other for fifteen rounds. At the

  63. end of fifteen rounds, Jim Bradda got the decision and

  64. he became known as the Cinderella Man, the man who

  65. had basically overcome every single odd and still to this day,

  66. we in the sports world still consider this the greatest upset,

  67. the greatest comeback probably in all of sports history. Now

  68. today we're gonna be looking at another Cinderella man, our

  69. man of the hour, Joseph. And this is unlike the

  70. last few weeks where we've been talking about how Joseph

  71. it was a tough, bad, bad journey from being the

  72. favorite to the pit and the prison. But today Joseph's

  73. life is flipped upside down again as we look at it.

  74. But instead of another journey to a pit or a prison,

  75. it's the exact opposite. Today we're gonna look at when

  76. Joseph went from the pit to the pinnacle. Let's look

  77. at God's word together. It says here Joseph, by the way,

  78. is in jail at this time. And it says after

  79. two whole years. Pay attention at phrase two whole years,

  80. Pharaoh dream that he was standing in by the nile.

  81. This is two years, by the way. Just some contacts.

  82. And Andrew preached last week there was a cupbear, okay,

  83. and you had the baker, and they had these dreams,

  84. and Joseph interpreted them correctly. Joseph said, hey, when you

  85. get back to your spot talking to the cup bearer,

  86. when you're exalted again. Don't forget about me.

  87. Let Pharaoh know that I was falsely.

  88. Accused, that I was stolen and put into slavery. Tell

  89. him my story so that he will get me out

  90. of this pit. But the cupbearer for good and for

  91. two whole years, Joseph said in wonder. But then we

  92. see God intervene, because God gives Pharaoh a dream, and

  93. let's look at it. It says so in the morning

  94. talking about Pharaoh. His spirit was troubled, and he sent

  95. and called for all the musicians or magicians, excuse me

  96. of Egypt and all of its wise men, but there

  97. was none who could interpret them. So this dream freaks

  98. Pharaoh out so much that he actually calls in all

  99. the interpreters, all the wise men, the magicians, everybody who

  100. could know anything about dream interpretation. He brings them all

  101. in from all over the country, from all over the world,

  102. because he is so troubled by this dream. And you

  103. gotta understand that dream interpretation was a big business back then.

  104. Matter of fact, they had schools where people would go

  105. and they would be trained in dream interpretations. They had

  106. colleges for dream interpretation like Dream University, Nightmare College, Insomnia

  107. Community College. Now I'm just kidding, but they really did

  108. have colleges. This is a big deal. This is a

  109. big profession. People wrote books about dream interpretation. You can

  110. make a really good living off interpreting dreams. But here's

  111. the problem. He gathers all the interpreters and guess what.

  112. They're still stomped, it says.

  113. Then, after all effort, everybody was stomped.

  114. He says. Then the chief cupbearer said to Pharaoh, a

  115. young Hebrew, a servant of the Captain of the guard.

  116. When we told him, he interpreted our dreams for us.

  117. So finally, after all these years, after this huge journey,

  118. finally Joseph is remembered. And after one I'll attempt after another.

  119. The king's right hand man says, all right, all right,

  120. I do know a guy, and let's look at what

  121. happens next, it says. Then Pharaoh sent and called Joseph,

  122. and they quickly brought him out of the pit. By

  123. the way, I love that Moses still uses the word

  124. pit here. And when he had shaved himself and changed

  125. his clothes, he came in before Pharaoh. Now think about this,

  126. for thirteen years, Joseph has experienced one pit after another.

  127. But notice something here. Before he can go and talk

  128. to Pharaoh, they clean him up. They shave his head,

  129. they shave his beard, they change his clothes. Why. Well,

  130. back in that day, the hebrew men who identified with

  131. Jehovah God, they would wear their beards very long, and

  132. they said, hey, before you can come into Pharaoh's presence,

  133. we need you to look more like an Egyptian because

  134. we're going to be talking to a guy who believes

  135. that he's a god of the Egyptians. So they pretty

  136. much get get rid of any symbols of him that

  137. looks like a Hebrew, has any Hebrew heritage, and he

  138. goes before the king. Now, this again might not seem

  139. like a big deal to you, like James. Why are

  140. you making such a big deal about him shaving his

  141. beard and changing his clothes. I'm gonna get to that

  142. here in a little bit. Okay, all right, because Moses

  143. really leans in on this. All right, But first of all,

  144. let's look at how Joseph responds to Pharaoh. It says

  145. in Pharaoh said to Joseph, I've had a dream, and

  146. there's no one who can interpret it. I've heard it

  147. said of you that you hear a dream and you

  148. can interpret it. So Joseph answered Pharaoh, and I love

  149. this be goes it is not me. God will give

  150. Pharaoh a favorable answer. So Pharaoh tells Joseph, like, listen,

  151. I know that you've got a gift, you got some skills,

  152. and I know that you can interpret the dream.

  153. But let me tell you. Let's look at the change

  154. in Joseph.

  155. Joseph says, not I, but God, and God's going to

  156. do this for you. You know what we see here

  157. in that short little phrase, we see a changed man.

  158. Because when he was seventeen years old, what did he do?

  159. He went around bragging and he goes, let me tell

  160. you about this dream or this dream, and the dreams

  161. were all about him being exalted. But now he's been

  162. in the pit for thirteen years and his only hope

  163. has been God.

  164. His old companion has been God.

  165. And he says, let me tell you. Don't give me

  166. any credit, let me tell you what God can do.

  167. This is a changed man. We're talking to a different

  168. Joseph now. And see he understood something. To see. Suffering

  169. humbles us. But it was his trust in God that

  170. sustained him and grows us, and the same thing is

  171. for us. We are gonna be humbled. But let me

  172. tell you something, ass we're in the mists of being humbled.

  173. If we keep our eyes and trust in the Lord,

  174. it's gonna change us. It's gonna sustain us, and it's

  175. gonna grow us. And so Pharaoh tells Joseph the dream,

  176. and then Joseph wows him with his interpretation. So let

  177. me tell you the dream summon up basically, basically that

  178. Pharaoh had a dream that there was seven skinny cows,

  179. and then there were seven very fat cows, and the

  180. seven skinny cows ate the fat cows, which is a

  181. weird dream.

  182. And then he saw seven stocks of grain that were

  183. weak and.

  184. Looked horrible. Then they devoured seven healthy stocks of grain.

  185. And so Joseph says, you know what, here's what your

  186. dream means. And he says, for seven years, we are

  187. gonna have great harvest, plenty of cattle. Things are gonna thrive.

  188. But after seven years, we're gonna have seven years of famine.

  189. And he says, after seven years of famine, and if

  190. we don't do something now, the whole population is gonna

  191. be wiped out. Here's what he's actually talking about. Okay,

  192. we've seen famines that last for a year or two.

  193. Matter of fact, go back and look at China and

  194. Russia twenties and then I think the early fifties. There's

  195. a couple of famines there that went for a year

  196. or two. Tens of millions of people died. Seven years famine.

  197. We're talking about world wide devastation. This is an extinction event. Okay.

  198. So God warns Pharaoh, Hey, there's an extinction coming. We

  199. can't survive past seven years of famine. Back then, the

  200. whole culture was a grariat.

  201. That was it.

  202. And so God spoke to Joseph and said, all right,

  203. here's what you need to do. And he speaks to

  204. Joseph and he gives Joseph a plan to save the

  205. whole world. Here's a man who's been sitting in a

  206. dungeon for thirteen years, and God gives him the plan

  207. to save the whole world. Basically, he said, listen, here's

  208. what you're gonna do. Put back twenty percent for seven years, okay.

  209. And he gave him the systems and the structures, and

  210. let's let's look at He glays out this whole plan

  211. to say the world. Let's look at how Pharaoh responds

  212. this proposal, please Pharaoh. And then Pharaoh said that Joseph says,

  213. God has shown you all of this, in other words,

  214. the dream, the plan, the systems. He goes, there is

  215. none so discerning or wise as you. He said, you

  216. shall be over my house, and all my people shall

  217. order themselves as you command. Only as regards the throne,

  218. will I be greater than you. And Pharaoh said that Joseph,

  219. CEI have set you over all the land of Egypt.

  220. And then Pharaoh took his signet ring from his hand

  221. and put it on Joseph's hand, and clothing in garments

  222. of fine linen, and put a gold chain around his neck.

  223. And he made him ride in.

  224. His second chariot, and they called out before him, bow

  225. the knee. Thus he was set over all of the

  226. land of Egypt. Finally we see Joseph's redemption. Let's look

  227. at this next screen here, and I just want to

  228. remind us of his journey. First, he went from the

  229. prize Sun. Okay, he went to the one who has

  230. chosen son, the one that was a supervisor. And then

  231. his brothers got jealous and they threw him into the pit,

  232. and then he goes from the pit to Potiphar's house.

  233. And why he's there, he's exalted by God because he's

  234. a f a worker.

  235. But Pover's wife lies on him, and.

  236. So the next thing you know, now he's in a prison,

  237. and after all these years in prison, he finally gets

  238. a chance to get out with these guys forget him,

  239. and so he goes from the prison to this encounter

  240. with Pharaoh, and this encounter with Pharaoh leads him to

  241. a pinnacle moment in his life. Now, can I just

  242. be honest theologically here for a moment like this is

  243. stuff that people don't like to think about. But let

  244. me tell you something. If this story ended like how

  245. I'm gonna share it, I think God would have been

  246. okay with it. Okay, matter of fact, I rewrote the passage.

  247. Is it okay? Is that okay? I'm gonna let me.

  248. I'm gonna tell you again. God would have had no

  249. problem finishing this story like this. All right. Here he

  250. goes the proposal, please Pharaoh and all of his servants.

  251. So here's what I wrote. So Pharaoh, thank Joseph and

  252. increase his rations. Joseph returned to prison. Then God continued

  253. to walk with Joseph. Joseph lived out his years full

  254. of integrity and never blame God for the injustice in

  255. his life.

  256. Meanwhile, back in.

  257. Canaan, you know how devastated we would be if that

  258. was the ending. Why Because for some reason, when it

  259. comes to life and when we think about our life

  260. and we think about how God works with people, we

  261. want this fairy tale ending. We want a Disney ending.

  262. We want Joseph.

  263. Leaving out in a cheeriot with a beautiful, beautiful Egyptian wife,

  264. and we want, you know, like a Disney scene where

  265. all these animals come around and they sing and they talk.

  266. That's what we want. We want these fairy tale endings.

  267. And but here's what I'm gonna ask you to do today.

  268. I'm gonna ask you to take off your Hollywood lens

  269. and I want to look at this story in a

  270. different way today. I'm sure all of you have heard

  271. the phrase the flip side of the coin. You know,

  272. they've been talking about whether or not they're gonna keep

  273. certain coins or get rid of them because they don't

  274. see how they're really valuable in America anymore. But even

  275. if we were to get rid of all of our coins.

  276. I believe that this phrase was stay in our vernacular,

  277. the flip side of the coin. What does the flip

  278. side of the coin means is saying like, well, here's

  279. another way to look at it. Let's look at this

  280. another way. And here's what I'm gonna do today. We're

  281. gonna look at the story of Joseph, but we're gonna

  282. look at the flip side of the coin for the

  283. rest of the time today. Now, for some of you,

  284. you're gonna walk out and you're gonna go James, I

  285. never thought about that. Wow, thank you so much for

  286. just showing me a different way to look at the

  287. life of Joseph. Some of you are gonna be like,

  288. you completely ruined this story for me, because this is

  289. not how my Sunday school teachers taught me when we

  290. had flannel graphs and all this other stuff. So here's

  291. what we're gonna do.

  292. We're gonna look at the flip side of the coin.

  293. And ready, here's my big statement right now, for the

  294. rest of our time today, here's my big statement. I

  295. don't believe that Joseph saw this moment.

  296. As his big payoff in life.

  297. There I said it. I don't think Joseph saw this

  298. as his big turnaround moment in his life.

  299. And here's by the way, Moses didn't want.

  300. Any of his readers, particularly the Hebrew readers, to see

  301. this moment as a big payoff as they went to

  302. Saturday school, because you know, they went to the church

  303. on Saturday, when we do go on Sunday, so we

  304. have Sunday school, but Saturday school back in the day

  305. of the Hebrew children, they would not have wanted them

  306. to see this as a big payoff. Now it's a

  307. big moment, sure, but let me tell you, Joseph, if

  308. we put ourselves in his shoes, we would understand that

  309. he saw this as a continuation of his captivity, not

  310. a moment that brings the big payoff. He would have

  311. seen this as an extension of his captivity. And by

  312. the way, let me let me take you through some

  313. evidence of the flip side the coin. Okay. So here's

  314. what I'm gonna do for the next few moments. I'm

  315. gonna take us through like almost like a court case. Okay.

  316. I'm gonna give you exhibits, okay. And so here's what

  317. we're gonna do. We're gonnaok at Exhibit one. Okay, Joseph's

  318. new name and his new wife, It says verse forty five,

  319. and Joseph or excuse me, Pharaoh called Joseph's name zapph

  320. and aff Panea. And he gave him a marriage to

  321. a woman named Asenath. And she was the daughter of Potipharah,

  322. who was a priest of Aun. So first of all,

  323. this new beginning, this this this new chapter, in this

  324. ugly life, we see that, first of all, his name

  325. is changed to zaph and aff Panea. Now it's a

  326. cool name. It's a very very cool name. Matter of fact,

  327. I remember when I was younger, I used to tell

  328. my wife and my mom that when we had our

  329. first son, I was gonna name our son Zaffanafinea because

  330. Joseph was like my favorite character. Probably why I didn't

  331. have a son. But think about this name change all

  332. right now, as you walk back, just through the Book

  333. of Genesis, name changes meant something. Abram went to Abraham, Sarah,

  334. I went to Sarah, Jacob went to Israel.

  335. Now, every single time that there was a name change,

  336. what did it mean.

  337. It meant that there was a.

  338. Change in the relationship with God. A name change meant

  339. that they had a change.

  340. They're closer to God, they're different, They're a change person.

  341. And God recognizes this new relationship that they have, so

  342. God will give them a new name. But this goes

  343. in the opposite direction. Matter of fact, the person who

  344. renames Joseph as a man who believed that he was

  345. a god and would have people worship him, this goes

  346. an exact opposite direction, completely against Joseph's heritage. And see,

  347. here's what's going on this name change. What was it

  348. really doing if his name was changed, what's really going

  349. on here? They are masking his Hebrew identity, They're erasing

  350. his relationship with God. To them, they're erasing his race

  351. and his heritage. They're giving him a new name and saying,

  352. huh uh uh, you're with us now again. Take off

  353. your hollywoodlends and you'll see it, because Genesis forty one

  354. is not the big payal. Secondly, he's given an Egyptian wife.

  355. I'm sure that she was absolutely beautiful. I am sure

  356. that if Joseph was here today, he'd be like, be

  357. careful what your barterer say. I love my wife. But Again,

  358. here's what you have to understand when you look earlier

  359. at the marriages in Genesis. It was a really big

  360. deal for his family to go find women of their

  361. own tribe, and so by Pharaoh saying this is gonna

  362. be your wife again, he's erasing his Hebrew heritage. Okay.

  363. Now again, Moses is being very clear about this. This

  364. is what he's want his readers to see. Okay, this

  365. again is not the big payoff.

  366. Exhibit number two. Joseph was not able to return home.

  367. Exhibit number two. It says what it says, So Joseph

  368. went out over the land of Egypt. Now again, think

  369. about this. Do you think that Joseph was okay with

  370. living the rest of his life in Egypt. He has power,

  371. he has money, he has fine linens for clothes, he

  372. has a great chariot, He's got money, he probably has

  373. a cup bearer. He has gold, he has a beautiful wife.

  374. He has everything that somebody could you know, imagine.

  375. Writing on the list of saying, wouldn't even great if.

  376. I have this? He had it all, But look at

  377. his dying request. Joseph said to his brothers, I'm about

  378. to die. Then Joseph made the sons of Israel swear saying,

  379. God will surely take care of you, and you shall

  380. carry my bones up from here. Joseph never stopped dreaming

  381. of going home. His last dying request was, I didn't

  382. make it back. I never made it back home. Can

  383. you at least take my bones there? Wow, again, this

  384. is not his big payoff. Joseph sees this as a

  385. continuation of his captivity. Then exhibit number three, the naming

  386. of his children. Okay, let's look at this. Two sons

  387. were born to Joseph. Joseph called the name of the

  388. first born Manassa four. He said, God has made me

  389. forget all of my heart in all my father's house.

  390. And then he goes on the name of the second.

  391. He called him Ephraim, for God has made me fruitful

  392. in the land of my affliction. Now here's what you

  393. gotta understand again. Names are a really, really big deal

  394. in Genesis, and often when you give a child a name,

  395. there's a story behind this child's name. The name that

  396. you give your child was a part of your family's story,

  397. and this is a big part of the Hebrew tradition,

  398. especially in Genesis. So they were very, very careful with

  399. their name selection. You know what, I took great care

  400. in the selection of my child's name. I thought for sure.

  401. I was convinced when Gina got pregnant that we were

  402. gonna have a boy, okay, because I just could not

  403. imagine my God would ever give me a girl. Okay,

  404. because almost every girl I had ever met thought I

  405. was an idiot and so and Gina thought I was

  406. about forty idiot, but she still rolled the dice. I

  407. didn't know anything about girls. I didn't grow up around girls.

  408. And I'm like, why would God give me a girl? Surely,

  409. you know, because I was so into sports and so

  410. into athletics and hunting and all. I'm like, surely God

  411. would not give me a girl. Well then some video

  412. evidence came out in a room and it was clear

  413. I'm having a girl. And I walked away from that moment.

  414. My wife is excited, asking be I walked away just

  415. like oh man, felt the weight of the world come

  416. on me, Like what am I going to do with

  417. a girl? I don't know what to do with a girl.

  418. But you know what, I started thinking about her name,

  419. and I started thinking, you know what, I want my

  420. daughter to grow up strong willed and strong minded. By

  421. the way, nineteen years later check check like my lord.

  422. But I wanted her, I wanted her name to speak

  423. into her character. And so during that time I had

  424. for the last year been studying the Protestant Reformation. It

  425. got really deep into it. And this was when Martin

  426. Luther changed the whole world by bringing up that, hey,

  427. let's just stick with scripture instead of following whatever the

  428. Catholic Church says that we should do. And this changed

  429. the world well. As a result of this, Martin Luther

  430. start going around to these monasteries and because you had

  431. priests and nuns who had taken a vowle of celibacy.

  432. But now they're leaving the Catholic Church, they need to

  433. get married.

  434. So what does he do.

  435. He brings them all out. He would go to these

  436. monasteries and he bring out the priests, and he'd bring

  437. out the nuns, and he would say, all right, you

  438. marry you. And they'd be like, okay, I mean, what

  439. did they know. I mean they never dated and they

  440. were just happy, like, oh Lord and so, and he

  441. would go you you, you, you you. But according to

  442. my professor, the story goes simply like this that when

  443. he pointed to the woman that was going to be

  444. his wife some days, she says, no, I'll take you,

  445. and he said okay. And as history goes on to

  446. show that she was a phenomenal, phenomenal, strong willed, strong

  447. minded woman of God. And here's what he did. He

  448. called her my dear Kate. And if you read through

  449. his books over and over again, he would talk about

  450. my dear Kate. Now that Kate stood for Katerina, but

  451. he called her my dear Kate. And that's where my

  452. daughter's name comes from. Kate turned into Caitlyn, and so

  453. her name. I took great care in naming my child.

  454. So you can imagine Joseph here he is. He spent

  455. all these years in captivity. And for the first time

  456. in his life, guess what, as this is the first

  457. time in his adult life that he actually gets to

  458. make the choice. Think about this. This is his first

  459. choice that he is completely free to make it. So

  460. what does he do? He says, I'm going to tell

  461. the story of my life through mine kids. Their names

  462. were so important, and you gotta remember again, this is

  463. his first time he's received a name, He's received a

  464. new outfit, everything and knew I did ay. But here

  465. he's gonna make an impact of his Childre's name. So

  466. he calls the first one of Nanassa, which says, God

  467. has made me forget all my harship in all my

  468. father's house. He wasn't saying I forgot my father. What

  469. he's saying is, I went through some really tough times.

  470. Life was pretty horrible. I went from one pit to another.

  471. I was abandoned and rejected by my family.

  472. I was lost in prison.

  473. I had a pretty miserable life. But my God has

  474. made me forget all that because my God has healed me.

  475. My God has restored me, and my God has been

  476. good to me. So he says, you know what my

  477. God has done. My God has restored my soul. And

  478. this son of Nassa represents this. And then he talks

  479. about his other son, Ephraim, and Ephraim which in the

  480. basic Hebrew just means fruitful, but it means so much work,

  481. because he says that God has made me fruitful in

  482. my land of to pay attention, not last word, in

  483. the land of my affliction. He has a palace, he

  484. has a chariot, he has servants, he's got money, food, clothes, power.

  485. I mean, we're checking off the list of every single

  486. thing that a human might possibly want in this world. Status.

  487. But what does he call this place? The land of

  488. my affliction? He's still on for home. Joseph was a

  489. boy who just wanted to go back home. He wanted

  490. to see his family, He wanted to know his father again.

  491. But he says, you know's what, God has still made

  492. me fruitful despite all of this. And here's what he

  493. was doing. This is a big, big punch in Pharaoh's

  494. nose because he was saying, you know what, Pharaoh, You've

  495. given me all this, but I don't want to be

  496. identified with you in my legacy. No, no, no, no,

  497. my children, because I want to be identified with God

  498. in my legacy. It's a big deal here, very very

  499. very big deal. He's taking big picture, first time he

  500. has freedom to choose. He's thinking about his legacy. And

  501. here's the thing I want everyone to know. As we

  502. close up today, all of us are gonna leave a legacy.

  503. And what is your legacy? A legacy is is what

  504. lives on after we've lived our life on this earth.

  505. So the last few minutes to day, I want to

  506. talk about what are you leaving this earth? What legacy

  507. are you gonna leave here? And I think there's three

  508. different types of main legacies. There's the first one simply

  509. this a relational legacy. Let me tell you, as a pastor,

  510. I've been to a ton of funerals. Do you know

  511. what I've never heard somebody saying a funeral how much

  512. money somebody made? Never heard it? Barely do I ever

  513. ever hear anything even about their career? Do you know

  514. what takes up the word count at funerals, over and

  515. over and over and over and over again, no matter

  516. what anybody has accomplished, no matter if it's a one

  517. thousand or ten thousand square foot house. Guess what everyone

  518. talks about at your fearer, So guess what your legacy is.

  519. They'll talk about how this person loved me, what this

  520. person meant to me, how this person treated me. At

  521. the end of the day, your legacy, the biggest part

  522. of your legacy is going to be about how you

  523. treated other people and the imprint you left in her life. Now,

  524. some of us were like, oh man, I gotta get

  525. to work on that legacy. Well, let me tell you something.

  526. There's here's some good news today because some of us

  527. in this room might not have been building a great

  528. relational legacy. But if you haven't, let me tell you something,

  529. and I say this over and over again, it's not

  530. over until it's over. Because there's another type of legacy.

  531. There's the thing called the redemptive legacy. And maybe you're

  532. sitting here saying, you know, I'm not gonna have the

  533. relational legacy. You know, me and my kids, my expouse,

  534. we got some issues and you know, but let me

  535. tell you something. There's something that you can live called

  536. a redemptive legacy. And see Joseph's story reminds us that

  537. it's not over until it's over. So if you're here today,

  538. your story's not over and your legacy is still being built.

  539. If you would have asked me about my dad's mom

  540. and dad when I was probably in my teens, I

  541. probably wouldn't have gave them rating reviews. My grandmother, my

  542. dad's mom, was a very, very how would you say

  543. this in the most nice way? She was an extremely

  544. difficult person. Do any of you all know a difficult person?

  545. Are they sitting next to you right now? But she

  546. was a difficult person. But the last ten years of

  547. her life, something switching her and she started to passionately

  548. pursue Christ. She changed. She was different, and the way

  549. she treated the family was very different. And she was kind,

  550. she was loving, she was encouraging, and matter of fact,

  551. I said to my family multiple times, like, you know

  552. that Nanny changes every single year. She's different. She is

  553. more like Christ every single year. And matter of fact,

  554. if you've got to hang out in Nanny at all

  555. those last few years, she would just want to talk

  556. about the Bible and Jesus are encouraging. It was like,

  557. who is this. You're not the grandma I grew up with.

  558. You know what, when she passed away, you know, the

  559. thing I love about my family is were we don't

  560. sugar coat stuff, and so we're like, well, you know,

  561. you know how she was right. But you know, those

  562. last ten years she became a pretty remarkable woman. She

  563. became someone who became like Christ. So she has this

  564. redemptive history because the whole family can see that even

  565. at the end of her life, she was pursuing Christ

  566. and it changed those relationships. Her whole seventy some years

  567. wasn't awesome, but there's a redemptive legacy and listen to

  568. me today. I'm sharing with you her redentive legacy. Her

  569. story is different because of Jesus. My grandfather, my dad's father.

  570. He was a drunk, he left the family. He was

  571. a miserable man. I think he was married either nine

  572. or ten times. And he not a good guy. I

  573. can tell you a lot of bad stories about him.

  574. But the very end of his life, he reached out

  575. to my dad and I got to go over with

  576. my dad and I watched him ask my dad for forgiveness.

  577. Here is my dad. My dad was in his probably fifties,

  578. close to sixty at this point, and it was one

  579. of the most beautiful scenes I've ever seen in my life.

  580. It was like my dad just like everything he'd wanted

  581. since he was eight years old when his dad left him.

  582. It was like he got it all in that moment,

  583. and it was one of the most amazing scenes I've

  584. ever seen in my life. About a year later, he

  585. got cancer and he was about ready to die, and

  586. he my father and my mother got to lead him

  587. to Christ on his deathbed. You know that's a different

  588. story then. If he would not have came to Christ, right,

  589. the story would just simply be here's this guy. He

  590. was a drunk and he left his family and he

  591. was a pretty lousy human being. What's his story. Now, yeah,

  592. he's a pretty lousy human being. But man, at the end,

  593. he got a ride and our whole family is so

  594. much better because of that. My dad is so much

  595. of a better man because he had that. So there's

  596. a redemptive legacy. So maybe you're here today and you

  597. know what, those first many decades of your life have

  598. not been awesome. Maybe you weren't the greatest at this

  599. or that, but it's not over. Until it's over. This

  600. is the last thing that we can leave and that's

  601. called our ingdom legacy. And I believe that this one

  602. is the most important. See your kingdom legacy answers one question,

  603. what did you do with Christ in your life? And

  604. this is the legacy that brings the biggest impact. Let

  605. me go ahead and jump with you to the Book

  606. of Exodus. What does it say here at the beginning

  607. of Exodus? It says, eventually a new king came to

  608. power in Egypt who knew nothing about Joseph or what

  609. he had done. Joseph knew Joseph knew that he was

  610. not going to be remembered, that there was gonna be

  611. other leaders, and.

  612. So his legacy was going to be through his children.

  613. So that's why he named his children of the things

  614. that he named his children. But let me help you

  615. understand something about Joseph's legacy. See, Joseph was sent away

  616. for all these years, and Jacob, his father, had twelve sons.

  617. What are they called the twelve tribes of Israel. If

  618. you went to Sunday School, you learned the twelve tribes

  619. of Israel. Do you notice that Joseph, one of his sons,

  620. is not a tribe. Joseph didn't make it into the tribes. No,

  621. he actually made it in twice. Because both of his

  622. sons were named a tribe, Manassa and Ephraim. Joseph was

  623. doubly blessed. And when they told the story of those tribes,

  624. still to this day they talk about what God had

  625. done through Joseph, and that, my friends, that is his

  626. kingdom legacy. I was out to lunch one day with

  627. a guy named top and Borman. Toping Borman is a

  628. guy who is done a lot of missionary work in Bangladesh,

  629. and I had picked my daughter up. She had been

  630. volunteering at VBS that morning, and so I had to

  631. bring her to lunch. And I was meeting with another

  632. couple in our church.

  633. And this other couple in our church, they've been starting a.

  634. Big work in Bangladesh, and they've been going there for

  635. sometimes months at a time for years now, and they've

  636. spent a tremendous amount of their time and there and

  637. a lot of their resources investing, investing heavily in this work.

  638. And we were actually meeting to talk about the Crossings

  639. International School, which is a school that we've been working on,

  640. but also a school that we're going to continue to

  641. build and develop. And what the school is a school

  642. is basically a school that is going to teach English

  643. and it's going to be the only place that teaches

  644. English language in a region full of Muslims and people

  645. who don't speak English. So it's going to be flocked

  646. to when it's done. And it's also going to be

  647. our way of sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ with

  648. the Muslims in that area.

  649. And I'm sitting there at that lunch and I'm.

  650. You know, taking all in. I look at my daughter

  651. and I had this thought because the couple that I

  652. was talking with from our church, they had an extremely

  653. successful career, and my thought was simply this, Caitlin doesn't

  654. even know what they did for a living, but she

  655. knows that they are the people who have given their

  656. life to a people group to lead them to Christ.

  657. And many years from now, as our church talks about

  658. Crossing International School, the people who have given them bulk

  659. of their life to this, we will not talk about

  660. their careers. We will talk about their kingdom legacy. So

  661. maybe you're here today and you're like, you know what, James,

  662. I don't feel too great about my kingdom legacy. I

  663. don't feel too great about my relational legacy. And well,

  664. guess what, you can start your redemptive legacy. If your

  665. relational legacy is something you need to take a look

  666. at today, because that's something you have time to strengthen.

  667. Let's do that. But all of us need to be

  668. thinking about our kingdom legacy. And so here's what I

  669. want to do as we close out today. I want

  670. to just to take some time before the Lord and

  671. I want you to take some time. We're going to

  672. take two or three. It's just to pray and process

  673. and think and think through your relational legacy, think through

  674. your redemptive legacy, and also think through your kingdom legacy.

  675. And here's what I want you to do. I want

  676. you to simply say, Lord, lead me and guide me.

  677. You show me what to do, because it's all about you.

  678. Can you do that? Can we take some time today

  679. to process our life at a bigger level. Let's take

  680. some time. Let's go before the Lord.