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Lessons from the Life of Job: Week 7

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  1. When you feel like God is giving you a calling

  2. to do something, and then you have a relationship with

  3. a church that gives you that opportunity to fulfill that calling,

  4. that's a huge blessing.

  5. We were new to the church scene. My mother in

  6. law found this wonderful church and we came here, sat

  7. through one of Pastor Andrew's sermons and it moved us.

  8. So we decided to start participating in different groups.

  9. We went to the.

  10. Next Step luncheon, which was super fun, and we learned

  11. about all the new opportunities that there were for us

  12. to serve in the ministry. So I decided to bring

  13. everybody to the One More Market. It's a moving experience

  14. to see the same people every week come back and

  15. how happy they are.

  16. Did they have this?

  17. Yeah?

  18. I was just helping out at the neighborhood market originally

  19. just being a floater, just helping out wherever I could.

  20. There.

  21. I got a text mask and if I would be

  22. willing to do deliveries, so as I go, yeah, absolutely,

  23. I'll help out wherever. I met Chuck and he kind

  24. of explained it. We're going out to the unhoused to

  25. deliver groceries to them and see what kind of needs

  26. they had. You know, Jesus really calls us to love

  27. our neighbors.

  28. I live near the church.

  29. I've come to this church, Oh Goodness.

  30. For over eight years, and the clinic has provided me

  31. with a window to my neighbors that I never knew.

  32. I have seen people come into the door hardened, faced

  33. a lot of adversity, faced a lot of nose, a

  34. lot of challenges, and I've seen them leave here with

  35. tears of joy and hope, heart's lifted, shoulders relaxed, having

  36. been touched by what is the love of Christ and

  37. what he calls us to do.

  38. This church is such a servant minded church in James.

  39. It states that we need to help our orphans and

  40. windows in short repair. Care connects skin killd and or

  41. able bodied members of our church to the widows and

  42. single moms and to help them with basic repair and

  43. we come alongside them and lift that burden off of them.

  44. I work for the umpas on Us ministry. That translates

  45. to one more step. The main idea was to help

  46. the Hispanic families that just moved to Indy to find

  47. employment and stability. Part of my family that moved to

  48. the state's long time ago and had to go through

  49. like very hard times. So I feel like I can

  50. relate to what they feel and I'm just glad to

  51. be able to be like a friendly hand for them,

  52. like someone that they can trust.

  53. It's a doorway to what our calling as Christians is

  54. to serve others and to show God's love through our actions.

  55. We're all part of God's body or his hands in

  56. his feet, and I knew that I wanted to get involved,

  57. and I just don't know what my special gifts are,

  58. but I know that to be able to find out,

  59. I'm not going to find out by sitting at home

  60. on the couch. There are a lot of unique opportunities

  61. to serve that fit people's experiences, whether it's local missions,

  62. serving with the children and youth ministries, or Celebrate Recovery.

  63. I believe they say that Celebrate Recovery is a weekly

  64. celebration of healing from life's hurts, hang ups, and habits,

  65. and a welcoming and caring community. It's a safe place

  66. for anyone and everyone to really build those life changing

  67. connections and receive hope for a new beginning. No matter

  68. what ministry you're part of, everybody is very loving and

  69. you get to make new friends.

  70. So worth it. Well, good morning, let's get a hand

  71. for that in it.

  72. Also, so as we've been making these videos, the purpose

  73. we started making some videos about a year ago and

  74. shooting them mount into our community is to reintroduce our

  75. community to our church, let them know what we're.

  76. About and also how can we serve them.

  77. But also, you know, we made a commitment as a

  78. church a few years ago that we are not gonna

  79. be a church that.

  80. Tries to win people to our church by.

  81. You know, fancy services, cool music and all this other stuff. No,

  82. we're gonna call people to a mission and the mission

  83. of Christ, to be the hands and feet of Jesus.

  84. And so what these videos do.

  85. And please when you see this on Facebook or anything

  86. on meta.

  87. Please share it immediately and invite people here church.

  88. So one purpose is to show the community here's how

  89. we could serve you. Another purpose is if people are

  90. you know, stirred up in their heart and they're like, man,

  91. I feel like God's calling me maybe to attend a church. Well,

  92. come join a mission, not a style, join a mission

  93. where we go and we become the hands and feet

  94. of Christ and we're excited to soon we'll be able

  95. to add immigrant connection to that ministry. And so God

  96. is continuing And if it wasn't for your faithfulness, we

  97. wouldn't be able to do this. Each time we've launched

  98. the ministry, it costs money, and all we've had to

  99. do is go and look at savings. It's there because

  100. you've been faithful, and so thank you very very much.

  101. Now today is the second to last week of our

  102. study of the Book of Job, and so today we're

  103. going to be looking at you know, what's the Book

  104. of Job trying to teach us overall as a congregation,

  105. to help us become.

  106. A better church.

  107. I think when I first started studying Job, I thought

  108. it was just going to be a book about how

  109. to suffer. Yeah, that teaches us that, But when you

  110. really look at it week after week, it's teaching us

  111. how to be a better church by living out the lessons,

  112. some of them by via negativa and also some by

  113. some good witness. So let's pray, prepare our hearts to

  114. receive from God today. God, we give you pray today,

  115. and we thank you for the opportunity to study your word,

  116. to seek you, to know you.

  117. God. Speak deep into our hearts in Jesus name, we

  118. pray Amen.

  119. You know one thing I've always loved is listening to

  120. children whenever they're asked serious questions.

  121. And sometimes kids almost always kids.

  122. When they're asked a serious question about life, they will

  123. more often not give you a hilarious answer. And it's

  124. fun to ask kids serious questions.

  125. You never know what you're gonna get.

  126. Take, for instance, the subject of love and marriage. Kristen

  127. h ten was asked, how do you decide who to marry?

  128. And here's what she said.

  129. No person really decides before they grow up who they're

  130. going to marry. God decides it all the way before,

  131. and you get to find out later who you're stuck with. Derek,

  132. age eight, was asked how can a stranger tell if

  133. two people are married, and he said, well, you might

  134. have to guess based on whether they seem to be yelling.

  135. At the same kids. Just go over to the children's

  136. lobby on Sunday morning. That is a truth.

  137. Laurie, age eight, was asked, what do you think your

  138. mom and dad have in common?

  139. And she says, well, I know this.

  140. Both of them don't want any more kids. Anita, aged nine,

  141. was asked, is it better to be single or married?

  142. And she said, well, it's better for girls to be single,

  143. but not for boys. Boys need someone to clean up

  144. after them.

  145. Yeah.

  146. And then Ricky, aged ten, this is somebody I think

  147. that Harvard should follow his whole life, see how his

  148. life turns out.

  149. He was asked how would you make a marriage work?

  150. And he says, well, tell your wife that she looks pretty,

  151. even if she looks like a truck.

  152. They should study that kid. They should study that kid.

  153. You know, it's fun to ask kids serious questions, knowing

  154. we're probably going to get, you know, some comedy out

  155. of it. But when life turns upside down and we're struggling,

  156. we're dealing with loss or pain. When we ask serious questions,

  157. we want serious answers. Funny answers are not going to do.

  158. And as we've walked through the Book of Job as

  159. a family, we've asked some serious questions for the last.

  160. Two months, like why do good people suffer?

  161. How can God allow a tragedy when we know good

  162. and well that he could stop it or prevent it.

  163. How do we help our good friend when they're struggling?

  164. You know, what do we say what do we not say?

  165. What do we do? What do we not do?

  166. How do we respond when everything is taken from us

  167. our job, our family, our home, our.

  168. Security, big one?

  169. How do we trust and worship God in the midst

  170. of life altering news. For two months we've pondered these questions,

  171. and then this past week, as a church family, we

  172. needed to ask every single one of those questions all

  173. over again. Rod Bryant was an amazing dad who loved

  174. his son Jason in amazing ways.

  175. Those of us who.

  176. Watched their relationship admired Rod. Rod served on our security team.

  177. He was a greeter.

  178. He was a small group host who took meticulous notes

  179. on prairie quest.

  180. Rod was there when anybody needed them.

  181. Just ask our staff. Any of us needed some help,

  182. he was there. He was a faithful member of this church,

  183. and those of us who knew him, we just knew this.

  184. He was on a security team, so he was out

  185. in the lobby a lot.

  186. He was just fun to hang out with. He was

  187. just an enjoyable guy. I had the.

  188. Privilege of Marian Rod and Cindy a few years ago,

  189. and man, he loved her. He loved her and she

  190. was an amazing woman. She loved people deeply here at

  191. this church. She was a wonderful mother, a friend. She

  192. hosted a small group with Rob, and she served as

  193. a greetor, and she served in children's ministry, and she

  194. was a prayer partner and saw her come up here

  195. many times at the inn of services. She also served

  196. in our neighborhood market and she was a very kind

  197. and sincere person, and they loved each other deeply. And

  198. then there's Jason, the most sincere and passionate worshiper of

  199. God in our church. Now, those of us who have

  200. normally come to second Service, we know that the family

  201. typically come in a little late because they were always serving.

  202. And whether it's here or here, but over in this

  203. section here, you would look over and you would see

  204. Jace worshiping with both hands up passionately. I've had many

  205. worship leaders tell me that often they would look over

  206. to him and they would be so inspired while they

  207. were leading. And there were several times over the years

  208. when I would look over at him worshiping and I

  209. would pray this prayer to God and I would say, God,

  210. I wish I could worship you like him. I wish

  211. I could worship you like him and Jace.

  212. A lot of you who knew him knew that he

  213. had down syndrome.

  214. And he taught us how to love people, how to

  215. hug tightly, how to laugh, and he loved to serve

  216. as a greeter.

  217. Just a few weeks ago, we were out in the

  218. lobby and he.

  219. Found out it was my birthday and he looked at

  220. me and told me that I was old. And then

  221. his dad walked up and he pointed to his dad

  222. and he says, really old. If we had such a

  223. laugh out of that, you know, we say that we

  224. want to be a better church.

  225. They made us a better church.

  226. Last Sunday night, on the way home from visiting his mother,

  227. all three passed away in a tragic accident, and all

  228. of a sudden, the Book of Job went from the

  229. Middle East and it traveled all the way over here

  230. to Indianapolis into our lives, and many of us we

  231. were dumbfounded with grief and shock and disbelief.

  232. And let's be honest, we all asked.

  233. A question why, And then we asked the second question,

  234. how do we respond? And then the third question, which

  235. is the same as the first, but why. A couple

  236. hours within here in the news, the staff gathered to

  237. the sanctuary and here and we sat down and we

  238. worshiped together. We were sad, we were confused, We had

  239. a lot of questions, but we worshiped, and we found

  240. something out while we were worshiping, even though it was

  241. difficult to worship. I found out why Job worshiped after

  242. his family.

  243. Was lost.

  244. It's when we worship, we invite the presence of God

  245. into our healing. And we worshiped here even though we

  246. were sad and we didn't understand.

  247. And let me tell you something, and let me tell

  248. you why we worshiped.

  249. Earlier this summer, we learned that when life gets turned

  250. upside down, our first response is to worship.

  251. We were taught that by Job.

  252. Now we did not want to apply that lesson so soon,

  253. but I was thankful that God was gracious enough to

  254. give us his word that teaches us what to do

  255. when life gets turned flipped upside down. And the story

  256. of Job, as many of us knows, as a story

  257. of tragedy, but we often focus on Job's suffering.

  258. But today, in our.

  259. Second to last week on the book of Job, here's

  260. what I want to do today. I simply want to

  261. look at ask the question, how will the Book of

  262. Job make us a better congregation? And so I pulled

  263. out four lessons from the Book of Job. But I

  264. believe throughout the Book of Job, these are the lessons

  265. we learn. For some of you, it will be new lessons.

  266. For some of you it will be reminders. But that's

  267. what we're gonna do today. We're gonna look at it.

  268. And as we grow older together, as we grow together,

  269. as we suffer together, one way that we could become

  270. a better church is by living out these lessons.

  271. So let's go ahead and look at some of these lessons.

  272. The first lesson that we learn from Job is we

  273. don't get tomorrow's script today. I think we know that

  274. we don't get tomorrow's script today.

  275. The story opens up. Everything's going great, he's a.

  276. Godly man, he has success, he has money, he has

  277. an amazing family.

  278. Then one terrible.

  279. Day he loses it all, and then the most devastating

  280. news of all. While he was still talking, another messenger

  281. arrived and said, your children were having a party at

  282. the home of the oldest brother when a tornado swept

  283. in off the desert and struck the house. It collapsed

  284. on the young people and they died. I'm the only

  285. one to get out alive and tell you what happened. Now,

  286. that's some devastating news. And let me tell you something.

  287. As I've just been living in the Book of Job

  288. for two months, I felt like the Book of Job

  289. was so relatable in so many situations with our friends losses,

  290. but a whole family being gone.

  291. That just didn't connect. It just seemed like And then

  292. I look at our.

  293. Church this week, I look at Texas gives credibility to

  294. our word. It seemed like a fantasy almost, But now

  295. we see that this can happen just like that. And

  296. Joe booke up that morning not knowing that by nightfall

  297. his whole life was gonna be devastated. And again it

  298. reminds us that we don't get tomorrow's script today. In

  299. other words, life can change just like that in an instant, and.

  300. Only God knows what's coming next.

  301. I thought a lot about Horatio Spafford Monday morning.

  302. Let me tell you a little bit about Spafford.

  303. For those of you who've been in a church for

  304. a long time, you know all about him, You've.

  305. Heard his story.

  306. Spafford was a successful businessman in Chicago, and the Great

  307. Fire of Chicago cost him financial ruin.

  308. He lost everything, and then shortly after that his.

  309. Son got sick and died, and so his family was overwhelmed.

  310. And he looked at his wife and the four daughters

  311. and said, you know what, our family just needs to

  312. take a moment.

  313. We're gonna go vacation.

  314. We're gonna it's been a season over in Europe, and

  315. we're just gonna learn to.

  316. Cope and live again.

  317. Spafford stayed behind his family went over because he had

  318. to finish up some business, and halfway across the Atlantic,

  319. they were struck by another boat.

  320. He lost all four of his daughters.

  321. And then his wife sent him a telegram and she says,

  322. saved alone, what shall I do? Can you imagine that

  323. in a matter of days, losing everything, ready for vacation,

  324. and now your life is devastated. And so as he

  325. crossed the Atlantic, he got to the spot where the

  326. ship captain said, this is where the crash happened. And

  327. it was in that moment the presence of God fell

  328. upon Spafford, and he gave Spafford a song that ministers

  329. through the decades, and the centuries he gave the church

  330. a gift.

  331. It was a song called it is Well, and we've

  332. heard it. It is well with my soul.

  333. You know the words that say when sorrows like Sea

  334. Billo's roll, whatever my Lotow has taught me to say,

  335. it is well, it is well with my soul. And

  336. those words were written by somebody whose life just got devastated.

  337. And it reminds us we don't know what tomorrow holds,

  338. but we do know who holds tomorrow. And it was

  339. with his faith in the midst of struggling that he

  340. was able to say it is well. And it reminds

  341. us of Job's example. What did Job do whenever he

  342. lost everything? Here it is Job, Wan says. Joe got

  343. to his feet, he ripped his robe, he shaved his head,

  344. and then he fell to the ground.

  345. And he worshiped.

  346. We as a staff, we gathered Monday and we sung

  347. it is well. Joe's story and Spaffer's story teaches us

  348. that life is unpret odactable.

  349. We don't know what's gonna happen.

  350. This next week, or what diagnosis we're gonna find out about,

  351. or what opportunity or calamity. We don't get Tomorrow's script today.

  352. So what do we do as followers of Christ. Well,

  353. we make a commitment to live ready. As followers of Christ,

  354. we live ready. Now what's it mean to live ready?

  355. It means that we stay close to God every single day.

  356. We hold our plans loosely, and we trust that God

  357. is in control.

  358. James four or fourteen.

  359. Says, you don't know the first thing about tomorrow. And

  360. so as followers of Christ, every day we say God,

  361. I trust you, I know that you are God, I

  362. know that you're in control.

  363. I got some plans, But.

  364. Lord, at the end of the day, I'm just following you,

  365. and I trust you, and we live ready for whatever

  366. today may bring. See, instead of living fear of the unknown,

  367. we learn from job to trust in the God of

  368. the unknown. This every day we pray, Lord, today I

  369. put my life and my family, my everything in your hands. Now,

  370. who and here is a planner? Raise your hand. I'm

  371. a planner. Do you all know what I'm gonna be

  372. doing in November? Y'all know I'm the worst pastor in

  373. America In November. I plan on hunting. I plan it

  374. every year. I hope I'm honting in November. But it's

  375. not guaranteed, so we hold our plans loosely. But while

  376. we hold our plans, we can do it because we

  377. can trust that God is faithful and he'll take care

  378. of us.

  379. And so when we have something.

  380. Unexpected like a job loss, an accident, a global pandemic

  381. that we didn't see coming, we shouldn't be shocked where

  382. we're like, oh my gosh, God has fallen off the throne.

  383. No.

  384. No, we in calamity, when casualties, when all.

  385. These things st our life, we don't go, oh my gosh, God.

  386. Fell off a throne. No, we remember that he is

  387. on the throne.

  388. And because we know that he is on the throne,

  389. we worship.

  390. The king who sits there.

  391. We worship we trust in him. And then we remember

  392. Job's words in the midst of our shock in life,

  393. the Lord gave and the Lord is taken away.

  394. Blessed be the name of the Lord.

  395. The second lesson we learn from Job is they even

  396. good friends can give bad guidance, So discernment matters. Even

  397. our good friends who love us, who care about us,

  398. who are well meaning, they can give us really bad

  399. advice sometimes, So we need to have discernment. Now, let's

  400. look at what's going on here. Job has lost everything,

  401. but now he's suffering. He's got boils all over his body.

  402. He's absolutely miserable, and his wife is watching him suffer,

  403. and she can't handle it anymore. So she looks at

  404. him and says, are you still maintaining your Curse God

  405. and die? Now, when we read that, we're like, oh,

  406. that's not a good wife. Curse God and die, My friends,

  407. those were words that came out of a mother who

  408. just lost ten children. Those were words from a mother

  409. who just watched her husband suffer so much that she

  410. just wished that he didn't have to suffer.

  411. One more moment. You know.

  412. I used to read that scripture with a judgmental attitude

  413. when I was younger, But just a few years ago,

  414. I was very close to my grandmother.

  415. I've talked about her a lot. She was more like

  416. a mom.

  417. I lived with her, and she got to the point

  418. where she wasn't doing well at all, and I would

  419. go over to Middletown and visit often, And my last

  420. visit before she passed away, I went over there and

  421. it took her forever to come down, but she wanted

  422. to come downstairs because she wanted to sit at the

  423. table with me. And then I watched her eat and

  424. she just kept choking everybody, so she kept asperating, and

  425. you know, and just kept being sick because food would

  426. get lodging her lungs.

  427. And then you know, she's in the hospital.

  428. And then when she and I was alone, she looked

  429. at me and said, I just want to go. I

  430. just want to go to Heaven. When I left, I

  431. did something I never thought I would do before I

  432. start having in my prayer time every day, I just said, God,

  433. will you please just let her die?

  434. Iver?

  435. You know how many times I prayed for God to

  436. rescue her when she was sick. But I saw the

  437. pain she was in and I didn't want her to

  438. be half pain anymore. Did that mean I loved her

  439. any less? Absolutely not. So we see this bad advice.

  440. It doesn't excuse it, but it comes out of pain.

  441. And often our friends will come and give us advice

  442. because they love.

  443. Us, they care about as in this well meaning.

  444. But here's the thing.

  445. If they give his advice that is contrary to God's word,

  446. it's still bad advice. Often when you're struggling, often when

  447. you are suffering, you're gonna get advice from people who

  448. love you and care about you. But if it does

  449. not line up of God's word, you're you're gonna have

  450. to pass a reminder of the Apostle Peter. The Apostle Peter,

  451. when Jesus said, you know.

  452. I'm not ready to go to Jerusalem. When I go

  453. to Jerusalem, they're gonna beat me, They're gonna kill me.

  454. And I'm gonna do.

  455. This because this is what God has called me. He's

  456. talked about how he was gonna die for the sins

  457. of all humanity.

  458. And then Peter, his good friend, does this. What does

  459. he say?

  460. He says, never, Lord, this shall never happen to you.

  461. He says, in other words, We're not gonna let them

  462. take you. This is not gonna happen. So then Jesus responds,

  463. he says, get behind me, Satan. By the way, it's

  464. never good to be called satan by Jesus. But anyway,

  465. and he says, you're a stumbling blocked to me. But

  466. now now pay attention what Jesus says here. You do

  467. not have in mind the concerns of God, but you're

  468. thinking merely.

  469. On human terms.

  470. So sometimes our well meaning friends, they speak words that

  471. oppose God's word, and that's why we need.

  472. To have discernment. Listen to this scripture here.

  473. Probverbs thirteen twenty says, walk with the wise, and we'll

  474. become wise.

  475. For a companion of fools suffers harm.

  476. Now there's a family that started coming to our church

  477. less than a year ago, and I went out to

  478. launch with them, and they did not have a church background.

  479. So I asked, so, tell me why you start coming

  480. to church. And the guy said to me, he goes, well,

  481. if you want to soar with the eagles, you can't

  482. be flying around with the turkeys.

  483. That's exactly what that verse means. That's how you interpret

  484. that verse.

  485. If you want to soar the eagles, you can't be

  486. flying around with turkeys. And what this verse is saying

  487. is that the wise people, it's those who fear God

  488. follow his word even if it means a hard road.

  489. The fools, they're only concerned with self interest. They will

  490. put their own will above God's will. So we gotta

  491. test everything according to what God says. James five, or

  492. excuse me, James. Chapter one, verse five says this, if

  493. any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who

  494. gives generously to all without finding fault.

  495. It will be given to you.

  496. God wants to give you his wisdom. But the world

  497. is fighting to push its philosophies on us.

  498. So we need to discern. So here's one thing we

  499. can do.

  500. A practical tip, all right, give space and prayer before

  501. acting on any major advice. Give space and prayer and

  502. allow the Holy Spirit to enter into that decision.

  503. All right. Number three, the third one.

  504. And I think this one right here, as I've preached

  505. through the weekend, I believe that this one might be

  506. maybe the most important one for our in the future.

  507. And I will explain that.

  508. Okay, the third lesson that we learned from job is simply,

  509. it's easy to become a Monday morning quarterback.

  510. When other people suffer.

  511. It's easy to become a Monday morning quarterback when other

  512. people suffer.

  513. Now, what's a Monday morning quarterback. It's one of us guys.

  514. We watch football.

  515. The play is over and we gough he should have

  516. ran that play. Well, dug, you know how it ended up.

  517. That play didn't work. So almost any other play, you know,

  518. you could say. And so what we do with Monday

  519. mornings is we talk about all the should haves and

  520. the kuldofs that the quarterback or the coach does, and

  521. so we play Monday morning quarterback and we give all

  522. of our advice out and we analyze things. We say,

  523. here's how you would fix things. But of course we

  524. have zero risk, zero involvement in it, and we don't

  525. have a three hundred pound person trying to take our

  526. head off. So it's easy to become a Monday morning quarterback.

  527. And let me tell you something, the church world is

  528. famous for being Monday morning quarterbacks when it comes to

  529. other people's trials and suffering. Who in here grew up

  530. in a church? Raise your hand you have encountered a

  531. Monday morning quarterback. The Monday morning quarterback finds out that

  532. this is happening in someone's life, or this is happening

  533. in someone's life, and instead of having a broken heart

  534. for them, they analyze why it probably happened to them.

  535. In other words, they're judging. And let me tell you something.

  536. I know people who's their their life is struggling and

  537. life is messed up, and all of a sudden, we

  538. don't see them at church anymore. Why Because they're scared

  539. to death of judging people.

  540. And it's when life is.

  541. Messed up and your life has been blown up, you

  542. know what you need the most. You need the community,

  543. You need the family of God. But because the church

  544. is not worldwide for being so judgmental that people actually

  545. stay away from the very place they need because they're

  546. afraid of judgment. We see that Job's friends they play

  547. Monday Morning quarterback and awful lot. Job says to them, Oh, guys,

  548. he finally breaks down. I wish I'd never been born.

  549. That's how much pain he's in.

  550. I wish I'd never been born.

  551. And instead of saying, oh my gosh, we feel you,

  552. they try to fix and analyze this problem. And so

  553. they said, well, Job, is easy for us to understand.

  554. The reason you're suffering is there must be some sin

  555. in your life because.

  556. Surely God would not let this happen to you without

  557. all this sin in your life. Okay, so they've analyzed it.

  558. In other words, they're like, Job, you fumbled the ball.

  559. In life and now you've been tackled the actor like

  560. they had God's playbook.

  561. You know what Job said to.

  562. Them, I love this Job said.

  563. Miserable comforters? Are you all?

  564. You can translate that many ways into modern English. I'm

  565. sure there's more profound ways to say that. But I

  566. think Job was saying, you guys are a lousy I'm

  567. broken and you're trying to analyze me.

  568. And let me tell you, we might.

  569. Not want to be too harsh on Job's friends, because

  570. have you ever been harsh?

  571. I know I have. I try not to be judging,

  572. but we've all been. Josie, Oh they lost their job.

  573. Well if that work ethic, sure, there's just a matter

  574. of time. They're getting a divorce.

  575. I wonder who's the big problem in that marriage, or

  576. or I wonder who's decided to give up in that marriage.

  577. And here's one I hope i'd never ever, ever ever

  578. hear this one from this congregation. Effect, we're not allowed

  579. to do this in our congregation.

  580. You're ready at burn. But I've seen all through the years,

  581. I've heard it so many times.

  582. Families who raise their kid in the church. If their

  583. kid goes astray, they somehow assigned blame on the parents,

  584. like you weren't. How did the parents.

  585. Mess this up?

  586. And let me tell you something that's insane that's crazy reasoning. Okay,

  587. I was a youth.

  588. Pastor for many years and plenty of times.

  589. I had a son and a daughter and from the

  590. same house, absolute, loving family, faithful family. One goes to jail,

  591. one goes into ministry, same household.

  592. I've seen kids.

  593. Who've been nurtured from little children and family was so faithful.

  594. As soon as they were off to college, they wanted

  595. nothing to do with God ever again. And then I

  596. have kids whose families was complete pagans never even went

  597. to church. Once the kid comes to church by a friend,

  598. they get safe, and then they spend.

  599. The rest of their life in ministry.

  600. Okay, but for some reason in the church culture, people

  601. like to point out and.

  602. Say I wonder what they did wrong or whether they

  603. do wrong.

  604. That's completely insane, because here's what you need to understand.

  605. When it comes to your child following Jesus, that is

  606. a decision.

  607. That only your child can make.

  608. You can't make it for them. I wish I could.

  609. You cannot make it for them. Now here's what we

  610. can do. We can keep them in the Christian community

  611. as much as we can. You know we're going through

  612. that right now. My daughter hasn't missed the Week of

  613. the Young Adults, and she's loving it. Had no idea

  614. she would ever join that, but I'm so glad. And

  615. when she wouldn't want to come to service, she'd liked

  616. to come serve, and she got loved on by so

  617. many of you, all right, but it's still at the

  618. end of the day, I wish she would just let

  619. me make the decision for her.

  620. She won't, And so people, we can't be judge. And

  621. so here's what we have to understand. You know, we

  622. come to our friend and they're depressed, and we're like,

  623. we gotta fix you.

  624. Hey, cheer up. God doesn't want you to be sad.

  625. No no, no, no, no, no no no.

  626. That's a former play Monday Morning quarterback. And we see

  627. this through the Bible. People are always trying to discern or.

  628. Say, here's why there's this problem.

  629. When we come to John chapter nine, there's a guy

  630. who was born blind, and the people say.

  631. To him, say, Brabbie talking to Jesus, who's sin this man?

  632. Are his parents so that he was born blind? Jesus like,

  633. I wonder if he just like close his eyes, like.

  634. Oh, my lord.

  635. And then Jesus answered and said neither this man nor

  636. his parents sin.

  637. But this happens so that the words of God might

  638. be displayed.

  639. See, they're trying to Monday Morning quarterback analyze why is

  640. this happening to this person?

  641. And let me tell you something people do that.

  642. We see it again when there's a moment where Jesus

  643. is walking into the town and they're talking about recent tragedy.

  644. There was a taller Shalom.

  645. It had fallen down and it killed a bunch of

  646. people from Jerusalem, And so he starts talking about when

  647. pilot pilot killed a bunch of people from Galilee because

  648. there was a little uprising, and so people were kind

  649. of saying, we know, well, they died because they're sinners.

  650. They died because they're criminals.

  651. And they're trying to figure.

  652. Out why would God let that happen to all these

  653. people if they had a tragedy, must because they did

  654. something wrong.

  655. So then Jesus.

  656. Answers this and he goes, do you think those murdered

  657. Galileans were worse sinners than any other Galileian?

  658. Not at all, And then he points back to them.

  659. He says, unless you turn to God, you too, you're

  660. gonna die, and then he goes those eighteen people in

  661. Jerusalem the other day, the ones crushed and killed.

  662. By the taller Shalom when it collapsed and fell on them.

  663. Do you think that they were worse citizens than any

  664. other Jerusalem might not at all. Then he terms to them,

  665. unless you turn to God, you too would die. So

  666. he was saying, all right, stop judging. Whatever bad happen

  667. to this person today, it can happen to you tomorrow.

  668. So don't judge someone else's situation. Let me tell you.

  669. In order for us to become a better church, sometimes

  670. I have to go back into our church history a

  671. little bit and say, maybe we didn't do so good here,

  672. but let's do better next time.

  673. Our church, and pretty much every church.

  674. In America did not get an A plus in our

  675. behavior during the pandemic.

  676. So we have lessons to learn from the pandemic.

  677. Because when the pandemic first started, there was some people

  678. who said, well, it's because of sin, or it's because

  679. this nation's sins. So they tried to give it a

  680. simple reason why all this was happening.

  681. And then this started, and.

  682. This was something that happened in the church.

  683. And by the way, the church was supposed to come

  684. together in America and this was our moment to show

  685. the world Jesus through our unity. And guess what every

  686. church in America did. Man, why are you so fearful?

  687. Why am I fearful? Why aren't you taking this serious?

  688. You should have more faith as a Christian?

  689. You should have some sense.

  690. And people started blaming each other according to what other

  691. people believed. Now we have hindsight and what's the reality.

  692. And everybody was just doing the best they could. They

  693. didn't understand. People were scared and that's okay. I hope

  694. to God that we never have to go through something

  695. that again.

  696. But if we do as a church, you're gonna hear

  697. me say this. We're gonna say it's okay.

  698. To not be where everybody else is, and we're gonna

  699. have to look at somebody and say, well, I'm not

  700. where you're at, but I'm still your brother. So we

  701. have to look back at these moments in order for

  702. us to become a better church.

  703. We can't be a judge church.

  704. See when we look at the Bible, what does it

  705. say in the Bible. The Bible says Roma is twelve fifteen.

  706. Weep with those who weep.

  707. It does not say lecture those who weep, analyze those

  708. who weep.

  709. No, we weep with those who weep.

  710. Galatian sixty one says, if any of you is caught

  711. in a fault or struggling, and restore them gently, watching

  712. yourself lest.

  713. You also be tempted.

  714. So he says, all right, So as you go.

  715. To somebody else in the church and say, all right,

  716. you're struggling in the sin, and I want to help

  717. you through this, he said, At the same time, understand

  718. that you can be struggling with that same sin too,

  719. and you can fall too. So don't be judgy. You're

  720. not invincible. So we don't play Monday morning quarterback.

  721. No, no, no, no.

  722. We walk beside people and we lift them up. The

  723. last lesson today is we close out greedy. Obedience ends

  724. with restitution. Let me tell you what happens at the

  725. end of Job. For thirty eight chapters. Job wants to

  726. know why am I suffering? And then in chapter thirty

  727. eight God comes to him and.

  728. Guess what God does.

  729. To all the questions that Job had Guess how many

  730. he answered.

  731. Zero? God doesn't give.

  732. Him the answer at all. Instead, God gives him something

  733. way better.

  734. He gives them himself.

  735. And those of you who have ever had the dark

  736. knight or the soul, those of you who've ever truly

  737. suffered in this life, you know what it's like.

  738. You're just like Man.

  739. If I could just hear one word from God, I

  740. know everythings will be fine, or if I can just

  741. experience the presence of God of God will just show

  742. up in my life right now.

  743. And what happened was at.

  744. Job's lowest moment, God shows up and he gives himself

  745. to Job. And then Job, all of a sudden, guess what,

  746. he doesn't.

  747. Care anymore about why he.

  748. Suffered, because he saw the majesty of God. God said

  749. to him Job, as he was talking about who he was,

  750. He says, Job, where were you when I laid the

  751. Earth's foundation? Have you ever commanded the morning or comprehended

  752. the vast expanses of the earth. In other words, Job,

  753. look what I've done. Job, I can take care of

  754. your problem. If I can create the earth in the world,

  755. in the universe and uphold it, I could take.

  756. Care of your problem.

  757. And then Job, after he sees all of God, he

  758. says this, my ears have heard of you. But now

  759. my eyes have seen you. Therefore I despise myself and

  760. repent in dust and ashes. In other words, oh man,

  761. none of that matters. Now that I have you, I

  762. know you're with me, and you see me, and you're

  763. my friend.

  764. See.

  765. Job realizes that knowing God is better than knowing all

  766. the answers. And as a result, God doesn't have to

  767. do this. But guess what God does. God only gives

  768. him himself, but he restores everything.

  769. What does that say here?

  770. God blessed Job's later life even more than his earlier life.

  771. He ended up with fourteen thousand sheep, six thousand camels,

  772. one thousand team of oxen, and one thousand donkeys.

  773. He even has seven sons and three daughters.

  774. And so it is through Job's gritty obedience and sticking

  775. it out and during it led to restoration. Now here's

  776. how I want you to understand the Book of Job.

  777. At the beginning, we start the book of Job, and

  778. we have a glimpse of heaven. God is on the

  779. throne and God is in charge. Job suffers and he

  780. doesn't know why. At the end of the Book of Job,

  781. we get a glimpse of what heaven is going to

  782. be like, we too will.

  783. Enter into the presence of God.

  784. And every tear will be wiped, every pain will be healed,

  785. every loss in our life will be restored by God.

  786. And so job begins with a glimpse of heaven. Then

  787. there's the trials of this life, and then it shows

  788. us what it's gonna be like for us someday when

  789. we go to heaven. When we go to heaven, we

  790. will see Jesus and all of our questions will go away,

  791. and then everything that we lost.

  792. Will be restored to us.

  793. You see, faithful endurance leads to restitution, and only God

  794. has the power to restore. See, we're gonna lose our

  795. life here on this earth, but then we're gonna get

  796. eternal life there. We're gonna lose our health here, okay,

  797. but we're gonna be healed there. We're gonna leave our

  798. wealth behind, but then we're gonna worship in the moory

  799. of His riches there.

  800. We're gonna experience pain here, but we're gonna be overwhelmed

  801. with praise there.

  802. Hebrews says this, you need to persevere so that when

  803. you have done the will of God, you will receive

  804. all this promise. In other words, someday, if you will

  805. live a life of gritty obedience, all things will be restored.

  806. All right, let me close up now, going back to

  807. where we started today, we got.

  808. Some serious questions as a church this week, and we

  809. want answers.

  810. And this week our congregation wants to know why one

  811. of our families had to leave us in such a

  812. tragic way. And I don't have an answer for you,

  813. and I will never have an answer for you. But

  814. I do know this that one by one.

  815. Each of us are gonna pass from this earth.

  816. Then we're gonna see Jesus. Then we're gonna see his disciples.

  817. Then we're going to see our friends and friends and

  818. our family that pass before us.

  819. Then eventually.

  820. We're gonna run into Rod and Cindy and they're gonna

  821. be full of joy. And then we might even look

  822. over and see Jay's leading worship with a beautiful, beautiful voice.

  823. Because in the end, God being God, will make all

  824. things right. So here's what here's the question as we

  825. get towards the end of the Book of Job. I

  826. believe the Book of Job again is about teaching us

  827. how to be a better church. So what can we

  828. commit to do in the meantime. Over these years as

  829. a church, well, I think we could commit and I

  830. think job Is taught us that we need to show

  831. up when our friends are hurting.

  832. We need to mourn with those who mourn.

  833. We need to not judge other people. We need to

  834. encourage other people. We need to pray for other people.

  835. We need to suffer with each other. Okay, we need

  836. to endure with each other, serve each other, be patient

  837. with each other, be compassionate with each other, be generous

  838. with each other.

  839. We need to be a family, a.

  840. Family that you could trust, a family that you can

  841. lean on, a family that's there at the births. But

  842. we're also holding the hands as they slip away in life.

  843. And when we do these things, we're gonna become a

  844. better church, a church that brings God glory, that trust

  845. in His goodness and.

  846. Obey even when it cost us.

  847. And when we do that, we will become the people

  848. that God has called us to be.

  849. We're gonna close up today. I feel like it's appropriate

  850. for us to close up.

  851. Singing the song that's the staff sung this morning or

  852. Monday morning. We're gonna sing it as well with my soul. Now,

  853. for those of you who knew the family, I've talked

  854. to so many of you. I know you're hurting, You're confused.

  855. It's tough. For those of you who don't know the family.

  856. We need you to mourn as we mourn. Let us sing.

  857. H m h.

  858. M.

  859. When peace s my coy but my way, when.

  860. So li see bills for.

  861. Worlds my.

  862. Now has time.

  863. To say, it is well.

  864. It is we.

  865. With my soul.

  866. It is with.

  867. Is with my soul, my soul, It is well. It

  868. is well.

  869. With my so.

  870. My sin.

  871. Oh the bliss.

  872. Of this school, school.

  873. My scene, not impart, not the he is nail to

  874. the cross and die b nom, Praise the Lord, praise the.

  875. My soul.

  876. It is.

  877. Where is.

  878. With my school, with my sole?

  879. He is well. It is well with.

  880. My son.

  881. You stand as we sing this last first together.

  882. Oh, hastday when my face shall beside.

  883. The cloud bell back as a school.

  884. Oh, the trum shall resigned.

  885. And the.

  886. Shop descend.

  887. He so.

  888. He is well with my soul. Well is.

  889. Bea my soul, my soul.

  890. He it is well. He is well with my.

  891. Sou Well.

  892. The world.

  893. With mine, Lord, Father God, We thank you Lord.

  894. For your grace and for your presence. Thank you, Lord

  895. for the hope that you give us, for the hope

  896. that we have in Jesus, Father God, thank you that

  897. because of you, because of your presence, because of your

  898. love for me, because that you chose me first, that

  899. it is well with my soul. Father God, thank you

  900. that we have a hope to see you, Lord, and

  901. being with you is better than anything ever.

  902. So it is well with my soul.

  903. Thank you Lord that you welcome us with open arms,

  904. so it is well with my soul.

  905. Thank you, Lord that you.

  906. Welcome our questions and our grief with open arms. So

  907. it is well with my soul.

  908. Father.

  909. Thank you Lord, Amen.