Sermon
Lessons from the Life of Job: Week 7
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When you feel like God is giving you a calling
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to do something, and then you have a relationship with
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a church that gives you that opportunity to fulfill that calling,
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that's a huge blessing.
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We were new to the church scene. My mother in
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law found this wonderful church and we came here, sat
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through one of Pastor Andrew's sermons and it moved us.
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So we decided to start participating in different groups.
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We went to the.
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Next Step luncheon, which was super fun, and we learned
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about all the new opportunities that there were for us
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to serve in the ministry. So I decided to bring
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everybody to the One More Market. It's a moving experience
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to see the same people every week come back and
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how happy they are.
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Did they have this?
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Yeah?
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I was just helping out at the neighborhood market originally
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just being a floater, just helping out wherever I could.
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There.
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I got a text mask and if I would be
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willing to do deliveries, so as I go, yeah, absolutely,
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I'll help out wherever. I met Chuck and he kind
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of explained it. We're going out to the unhoused to
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deliver groceries to them and see what kind of needs
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they had. You know, Jesus really calls us to love
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our neighbors.
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I live near the church.
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I've come to this church, Oh Goodness.
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For over eight years, and the clinic has provided me
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with a window to my neighbors that I never knew.
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I have seen people come into the door hardened, faced
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a lot of adversity, faced a lot of nose, a
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lot of challenges, and I've seen them leave here with
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tears of joy and hope, heart's lifted, shoulders relaxed, having
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been touched by what is the love of Christ and
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what he calls us to do.
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This church is such a servant minded church in James.
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It states that we need to help our orphans and
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windows in short repair. Care connects skin killd and or
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able bodied members of our church to the widows and
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single moms and to help them with basic repair and
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we come alongside them and lift that burden off of them.
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I work for the umpas on Us ministry. That translates
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to one more step. The main idea was to help
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the Hispanic families that just moved to Indy to find
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employment and stability. Part of my family that moved to
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the state's long time ago and had to go through
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like very hard times. So I feel like I can
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relate to what they feel and I'm just glad to
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be able to be like a friendly hand for them,
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like someone that they can trust.
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It's a doorway to what our calling as Christians is
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to serve others and to show God's love through our actions.
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We're all part of God's body or his hands in
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his feet, and I knew that I wanted to get involved,
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and I just don't know what my special gifts are,
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but I know that to be able to find out,
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I'm not going to find out by sitting at home
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on the couch. There are a lot of unique opportunities
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to serve that fit people's experiences, whether it's local missions,
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serving with the children and youth ministries, or Celebrate Recovery.
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I believe they say that Celebrate Recovery is a weekly
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celebration of healing from life's hurts, hang ups, and habits,
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and a welcoming and caring community. It's a safe place
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for anyone and everyone to really build those life changing
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connections and receive hope for a new beginning. No matter
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what ministry you're part of, everybody is very loving and
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you get to make new friends.
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So worth it. Well, good morning, let's get a hand
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for that in it.
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Also, so as we've been making these videos, the purpose
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we started making some videos about a year ago and
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shooting them mount into our community is to reintroduce our
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community to our church, let them know what we're.
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About and also how can we serve them.
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But also, you know, we made a commitment as a
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church a few years ago that we are not gonna
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be a church that.
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Tries to win people to our church by.
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You know, fancy services, cool music and all this other stuff. No,
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we're gonna call people to a mission and the mission
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of Christ, to be the hands and feet of Jesus.
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And so what these videos do.
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And please when you see this on Facebook or anything
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on meta.
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Please share it immediately and invite people here church.
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So one purpose is to show the community here's how
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we could serve you. Another purpose is if people are
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you know, stirred up in their heart and they're like, man,
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I feel like God's calling me maybe to attend a church. Well,
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come join a mission, not a style, join a mission
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where we go and we become the hands and feet
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of Christ and we're excited to soon we'll be able
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to add immigrant connection to that ministry. And so God
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is continuing And if it wasn't for your faithfulness, we
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wouldn't be able to do this. Each time we've launched
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the ministry, it costs money, and all we've had to
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do is go and look at savings. It's there because
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you've been faithful, and so thank you very very much.
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Now today is the second to last week of our
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study of the Book of Job, and so today we're
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going to be looking at you know, what's the Book
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of Job trying to teach us overall as a congregation,
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to help us become.
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A better church.
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I think when I first started studying Job, I thought
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it was just going to be a book about how
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to suffer. Yeah, that teaches us that, But when you
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really look at it week after week, it's teaching us
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how to be a better church by living out the lessons,
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some of them by via negativa and also some by
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some good witness. So let's pray, prepare our hearts to
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receive from God today. God, we give you pray today,
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and we thank you for the opportunity to study your word,
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to seek you, to know you.
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God. Speak deep into our hearts in Jesus name, we
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pray Amen.
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You know one thing I've always loved is listening to
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children whenever they're asked serious questions.
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And sometimes kids almost always kids.
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When they're asked a serious question about life, they will
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more often not give you a hilarious answer. And it's
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fun to ask kids serious questions.
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You never know what you're gonna get.
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Take, for instance, the subject of love and marriage. Kristen
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h ten was asked, how do you decide who to marry?
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And here's what she said.
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No person really decides before they grow up who they're
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going to marry. God decides it all the way before,
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and you get to find out later who you're stuck with. Derek,
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age eight, was asked how can a stranger tell if
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two people are married, and he said, well, you might
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have to guess based on whether they seem to be yelling.
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At the same kids. Just go over to the children's
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lobby on Sunday morning. That is a truth.
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Laurie, age eight, was asked, what do you think your
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mom and dad have in common?
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And she says, well, I know this.
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Both of them don't want any more kids. Anita, aged nine,
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was asked, is it better to be single or married?
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And she said, well, it's better for girls to be single,
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but not for boys. Boys need someone to clean up
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after them.
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Yeah.
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And then Ricky, aged ten, this is somebody I think
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that Harvard should follow his whole life, see how his
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life turns out.
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He was asked how would you make a marriage work?
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And he says, well, tell your wife that she looks pretty,
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even if she looks like a truck.
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They should study that kid. They should study that kid.
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You know, it's fun to ask kids serious questions, knowing
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we're probably going to get, you know, some comedy out
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of it. But when life turns upside down and we're struggling,
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we're dealing with loss or pain. When we ask serious questions,
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we want serious answers. Funny answers are not going to do.
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And as we've walked through the Book of Job as
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a family, we've asked some serious questions for the last.
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Two months, like why do good people suffer?
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How can God allow a tragedy when we know good
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and well that he could stop it or prevent it.
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How do we help our good friend when they're struggling?
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You know, what do we say what do we not say?
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What do we do? What do we not do?
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How do we respond when everything is taken from us
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our job, our family, our home, our.
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Security, big one?
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How do we trust and worship God in the midst
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of life altering news. For two months we've pondered these questions,
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and then this past week, as a church family, we
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needed to ask every single one of those questions all
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over again. Rod Bryant was an amazing dad who loved
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his son Jason in amazing ways.
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Those of us who.
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Watched their relationship admired Rod. Rod served on our security team.
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He was a greeter.
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He was a small group host who took meticulous notes
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on prairie quest.
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Rod was there when anybody needed them.
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Just ask our staff. Any of us needed some help,
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he was there. He was a faithful member of this church,
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and those of us who knew him, we just knew this.
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He was on a security team, so he was out
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in the lobby a lot.
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He was just fun to hang out with. He was
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just an enjoyable guy. I had the.
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Privilege of Marian Rod and Cindy a few years ago,
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and man, he loved her. He loved her and she
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was an amazing woman. She loved people deeply here at
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this church. She was a wonderful mother, a friend. She
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hosted a small group with Rob, and she served as
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a greetor, and she served in children's ministry, and she
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was a prayer partner and saw her come up here
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many times at the inn of services. She also served
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in our neighborhood market and she was a very kind
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and sincere person, and they loved each other deeply. And
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then there's Jason, the most sincere and passionate worshiper of
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God in our church. Now, those of us who have
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normally come to second Service, we know that the family
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typically come in a little late because they were always serving.
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And whether it's here or here, but over in this
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section here, you would look over and you would see
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Jace worshiping with both hands up passionately. I've had many
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worship leaders tell me that often they would look over
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to him and they would be so inspired while they
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were leading. And there were several times over the years
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when I would look over at him worshiping and I
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would pray this prayer to God and I would say, God,
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I wish I could worship you like him. I wish
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I could worship you like him and Jace.
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A lot of you who knew him knew that he
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had down syndrome.
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And he taught us how to love people, how to
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hug tightly, how to laugh, and he loved to serve
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as a greeter.
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Just a few weeks ago, we were out in the
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lobby and he.
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Found out it was my birthday and he looked at
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me and told me that I was old. And then
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his dad walked up and he pointed to his dad
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and he says, really old. If we had such a
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laugh out of that, you know, we say that we
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want to be a better church.
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They made us a better church.
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Last Sunday night, on the way home from visiting his mother,
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all three passed away in a tragic accident, and all
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of a sudden, the Book of Job went from the
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Middle East and it traveled all the way over here
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to Indianapolis into our lives, and many of us we
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were dumbfounded with grief and shock and disbelief.
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And let's be honest, we all asked.
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A question why, And then we asked the second question,
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how do we respond? And then the third question, which
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is the same as the first, but why. A couple
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hours within here in the news, the staff gathered to
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the sanctuary and here and we sat down and we
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worshiped together. We were sad, we were confused, We had
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a lot of questions, but we worshiped, and we found
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something out while we were worshiping, even though it was
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difficult to worship. I found out why Job worshiped after
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his family.
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Was lost.
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It's when we worship, we invite the presence of God
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into our healing. And we worshiped here even though we
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were sad and we didn't understand.
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And let me tell you something, and let me tell
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you why we worshiped.
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Earlier this summer, we learned that when life gets turned
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upside down, our first response is to worship.
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We were taught that by Job.
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Now we did not want to apply that lesson so soon,
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but I was thankful that God was gracious enough to
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give us his word that teaches us what to do
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when life gets turned flipped upside down. And the story
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of Job, as many of us knows, as a story
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of tragedy, but we often focus on Job's suffering.
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But today, in our.
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Second to last week on the book of Job, here's
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what I want to do today. I simply want to
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look at ask the question, how will the Book of
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Job make us a better congregation? And so I pulled
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out four lessons from the Book of Job. But I
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believe throughout the Book of Job, these are the lessons
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we learn. For some of you, it will be new lessons.
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For some of you it will be reminders. But that's
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what we're gonna do today. We're gonna look at it.
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And as we grow older together, as we grow together,
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as we suffer together, one way that we could become
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a better church is by living out these lessons.
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So let's go ahead and look at some of these lessons.
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The first lesson that we learn from Job is we
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don't get tomorrow's script today. I think we know that
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we don't get tomorrow's script today.
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The story opens up. Everything's going great, he's a.
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Godly man, he has success, he has money, he has
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an amazing family.
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Then one terrible.
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Day he loses it all, and then the most devastating
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news of all. While he was still talking, another messenger
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arrived and said, your children were having a party at
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the home of the oldest brother when a tornado swept
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in off the desert and struck the house. It collapsed
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on the young people and they died. I'm the only
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one to get out alive and tell you what happened. Now,
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that's some devastating news. And let me tell you something.
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As I've just been living in the Book of Job
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for two months, I felt like the Book of Job
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was so relatable in so many situations with our friends losses,
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but a whole family being gone.
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That just didn't connect. It just seemed like And then
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I look at our.
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Church this week, I look at Texas gives credibility to
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our word. It seemed like a fantasy almost, But now
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we see that this can happen just like that. And
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Joe booke up that morning not knowing that by nightfall
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his whole life was gonna be devastated. And again it
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reminds us that we don't get tomorrow's script today. In
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other words, life can change just like that in an instant, and.
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Only God knows what's coming next.
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I thought a lot about Horatio Spafford Monday morning.
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Let me tell you a little bit about Spafford.
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For those of you who've been in a church for
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a long time, you know all about him, You've.
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Heard his story.
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Spafford was a successful businessman in Chicago, and the Great
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Fire of Chicago cost him financial ruin.
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He lost everything, and then shortly after that his.
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Son got sick and died, and so his family was overwhelmed.
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And he looked at his wife and the four daughters
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and said, you know what, our family just needs to
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take a moment.
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We're gonna go vacation.
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We're gonna it's been a season over in Europe, and
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we're just gonna learn to.
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Cope and live again.
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Spafford stayed behind his family went over because he had
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to finish up some business, and halfway across the Atlantic,
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they were struck by another boat.
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He lost all four of his daughters.
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And then his wife sent him a telegram and she says,
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saved alone, what shall I do? Can you imagine that
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in a matter of days, losing everything, ready for vacation,
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and now your life is devastated. And so as he
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crossed the Atlantic, he got to the spot where the
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ship captain said, this is where the crash happened. And
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it was in that moment the presence of God fell
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upon Spafford, and he gave Spafford a song that ministers
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through the decades, and the centuries he gave the church
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a gift.
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It was a song called it is Well, and we've
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heard it. It is well with my soul.
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You know the words that say when sorrows like Sea
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Billo's roll, whatever my Lotow has taught me to say,
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it is well, it is well with my soul. And
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those words were written by somebody whose life just got devastated.
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And it reminds us we don't know what tomorrow holds,
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but we do know who holds tomorrow. And it was
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with his faith in the midst of struggling that he
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was able to say it is well. And it reminds
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us of Job's example. What did Job do whenever he
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lost everything? Here it is Job, Wan says. Joe got
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to his feet, he ripped his robe, he shaved his head,
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and then he fell to the ground.
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And he worshiped.
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We as a staff, we gathered Monday and we sung
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it is well. Joe's story and Spaffer's story teaches us
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that life is unpret odactable.
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We don't know what's gonna happen.
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This next week, or what diagnosis we're gonna find out about,
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or what opportunity or calamity. We don't get Tomorrow's script today.
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So what do we do as followers of Christ. Well,
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we make a commitment to live ready. As followers of Christ,
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we live ready. Now what's it mean to live ready?
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It means that we stay close to God every single day.
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We hold our plans loosely, and we trust that God
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is in control.
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James four or fourteen.
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Says, you don't know the first thing about tomorrow. And
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so as followers of Christ, every day we say God,
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I trust you, I know that you are God, I
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know that you're in control.
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I got some plans, But.
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Lord, at the end of the day, I'm just following you,
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and I trust you, and we live ready for whatever
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today may bring. See, instead of living fear of the unknown,
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we learn from job to trust in the God of
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the unknown. This every day we pray, Lord, today I
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put my life and my family, my everything in your hands. Now,
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who and here is a planner? Raise your hand. I'm
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a planner. Do you all know what I'm gonna be
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doing in November? Y'all know I'm the worst pastor in
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America In November. I plan on hunting. I plan it
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every year. I hope I'm honting in November. But it's
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not guaranteed, so we hold our plans loosely. But while
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we hold our plans, we can do it because we
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can trust that God is faithful and he'll take care
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of us.
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And so when we have something.
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Unexpected like a job loss, an accident, a global pandemic
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that we didn't see coming, we shouldn't be shocked where
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we're like, oh my gosh, God has fallen off the throne.
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No.
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No, we in calamity, when casualties, when all.
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These things st our life, we don't go, oh my gosh, God.
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Fell off a throne. No, we remember that he is
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on the throne.
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And because we know that he is on the throne,
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we worship.
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The king who sits there.
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We worship we trust in him. And then we remember
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Job's words in the midst of our shock in life,
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the Lord gave and the Lord is taken away.
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Blessed be the name of the Lord.
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The second lesson we learn from Job is they even
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good friends can give bad guidance, So discernment matters. Even
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our good friends who love us, who care about us,
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who are well meaning, they can give us really bad
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advice sometimes, So we need to have discernment. Now, let's
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look at what's going on here. Job has lost everything,
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but now he's suffering. He's got boils all over his body.
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He's absolutely miserable, and his wife is watching him suffer,
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and she can't handle it anymore. So she looks at
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him and says, are you still maintaining your Curse God
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and die? Now, when we read that, we're like, oh,
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that's not a good wife. Curse God and die, My friends,
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those were words that came out of a mother who
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just lost ten children. Those were words from a mother
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who just watched her husband suffer so much that she
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just wished that he didn't have to suffer.
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One more moment. You know.
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I used to read that scripture with a judgmental attitude
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when I was younger, But just a few years ago,
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I was very close to my grandmother.
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I've talked about her a lot. She was more like
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a mom.
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I lived with her, and she got to the point
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where she wasn't doing well at all, and I would
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go over to Middletown and visit often, And my last
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visit before she passed away, I went over there and
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it took her forever to come down, but she wanted
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to come downstairs because she wanted to sit at the
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table with me. And then I watched her eat and
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she just kept choking everybody, so she kept asperating, and
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you know, and just kept being sick because food would
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get lodging her lungs.
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And then you know, she's in the hospital.
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And then when she and I was alone, she looked
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at me and said, I just want to go. I
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just want to go to Heaven. When I left, I
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did something I never thought I would do before I
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start having in my prayer time every day, I just said, God,
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will you please just let her die?
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Iver?
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You know how many times I prayed for God to
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rescue her when she was sick. But I saw the
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pain she was in and I didn't want her to
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be half pain anymore. Did that mean I loved her
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any less? Absolutely not. So we see this bad advice.
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It doesn't excuse it, but it comes out of pain.
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And often our friends will come and give us advice
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because they love.
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Us, they care about as in this well meaning.
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But here's the thing.
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If they give his advice that is contrary to God's word,
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it's still bad advice. Often when you're struggling, often when
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you are suffering, you're gonna get advice from people who
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love you and care about you. But if it does
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not line up of God's word, you're you're gonna have
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to pass a reminder of the Apostle Peter. The Apostle Peter,
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when Jesus said, you know.
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I'm not ready to go to Jerusalem. When I go
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to Jerusalem, they're gonna beat me, They're gonna kill me.
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And I'm gonna do.
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This because this is what God has called me. He's
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talked about how he was gonna die for the sins
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of all humanity.
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And then Peter, his good friend, does this. What does
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he say?
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He says, never, Lord, this shall never happen to you.
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He says, in other words, We're not gonna let them
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take you. This is not gonna happen. So then Jesus responds,
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he says, get behind me, Satan. By the way, it's
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never good to be called satan by Jesus. But anyway,
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and he says, you're a stumbling blocked to me. But
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now now pay attention what Jesus says here. You do
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not have in mind the concerns of God, but you're
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thinking merely.
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On human terms.
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So sometimes our well meaning friends, they speak words that
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oppose God's word, and that's why we need.
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To have discernment. Listen to this scripture here.
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Probverbs thirteen twenty says, walk with the wise, and we'll
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become wise.
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For a companion of fools suffers harm.
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Now there's a family that started coming to our church
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less than a year ago, and I went out to
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launch with them, and they did not have a church background.
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So I asked, so, tell me why you start coming
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to church. And the guy said to me, he goes, well,
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if you want to soar with the eagles, you can't
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be flying around with the turkeys.
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That's exactly what that verse means. That's how you interpret
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that verse.
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If you want to soar the eagles, you can't be
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flying around with turkeys. And what this verse is saying
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is that the wise people, it's those who fear God
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follow his word even if it means a hard road.
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The fools, they're only concerned with self interest. They will
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put their own will above God's will. So we gotta
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test everything according to what God says. James five, or
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excuse me, James. Chapter one, verse five says this, if
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any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who
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gives generously to all without finding fault.
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It will be given to you.
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God wants to give you his wisdom. But the world
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is fighting to push its philosophies on us.
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So we need to discern. So here's one thing we
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can do.
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A practical tip, all right, give space and prayer before
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acting on any major advice. Give space and prayer and
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allow the Holy Spirit to enter into that decision.
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All right. Number three, the third one.
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And I think this one right here, as I've preached
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through the weekend, I believe that this one might be
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maybe the most important one for our in the future.
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And I will explain that.
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Okay, the third lesson that we learned from job is simply,
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it's easy to become a Monday morning quarterback.
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When other people suffer.
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It's easy to become a Monday morning quarterback when other
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people suffer.
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Now, what's a Monday morning quarterback. It's one of us guys.
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We watch football.
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The play is over and we gough he should have
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ran that play. Well, dug, you know how it ended up.
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That play didn't work. So almost any other play, you know,
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you could say. And so what we do with Monday
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mornings is we talk about all the should haves and
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the kuldofs that the quarterback or the coach does, and
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so we play Monday morning quarterback and we give all
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of our advice out and we analyze things. We say,
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here's how you would fix things. But of course we
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have zero risk, zero involvement in it, and we don't
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have a three hundred pound person trying to take our
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head off. So it's easy to become a Monday morning quarterback.
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And let me tell you something, the church world is
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famous for being Monday morning quarterbacks when it comes to
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other people's trials and suffering. Who in here grew up
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in a church? Raise your hand you have encountered a
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Monday morning quarterback. The Monday morning quarterback finds out that
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this is happening in someone's life, or this is happening
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in someone's life, and instead of having a broken heart
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for them, they analyze why it probably happened to them.
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In other words, they're judging. And let me tell you something.
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I know people who's their their life is struggling and
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life is messed up, and all of a sudden, we
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don't see them at church anymore. Why Because they're scared
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to death of judging people.
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And it's when life is.
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Messed up and your life has been blown up, you
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know what you need the most. You need the community,
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You need the family of God. But because the church
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is not worldwide for being so judgmental that people actually
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stay away from the very place they need because they're
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afraid of judgment. We see that Job's friends they play
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Monday Morning quarterback and awful lot. Job says to them, Oh, guys,
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he finally breaks down. I wish I'd never been born.
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That's how much pain he's in.
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I wish I'd never been born.
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And instead of saying, oh my gosh, we feel you,
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they try to fix and analyze this problem. And so
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they said, well, Job, is easy for us to understand.
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The reason you're suffering is there must be some sin
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in your life because.
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Surely God would not let this happen to you without
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all this sin in your life. Okay, so they've analyzed it.
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In other words, they're like, Job, you fumbled the ball.
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In life and now you've been tackled the actor like
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they had God's playbook.
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You know what Job said to.
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Them, I love this Job said.
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Miserable comforters? Are you all?
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You can translate that many ways into modern English. I'm
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sure there's more profound ways to say that. But I
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think Job was saying, you guys are a lousy I'm
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broken and you're trying to analyze me.
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And let me tell you, we might.
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Not want to be too harsh on Job's friends, because
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have you ever been harsh?
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I know I have. I try not to be judging,
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but we've all been. Josie, Oh they lost their job.
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Well if that work ethic, sure, there's just a matter
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of time. They're getting a divorce.
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I wonder who's the big problem in that marriage, or
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or I wonder who's decided to give up in that marriage.
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And here's one I hope i'd never ever, ever ever
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hear this one from this congregation. Effect, we're not allowed
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to do this in our congregation.
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You're ready at burn. But I've seen all through the years,
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I've heard it so many times.
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Families who raise their kid in the church. If their
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kid goes astray, they somehow assigned blame on the parents,
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like you weren't. How did the parents.
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Mess this up?
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And let me tell you something that's insane that's crazy reasoning. Okay,
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I was a youth.
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Pastor for many years and plenty of times.
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I had a son and a daughter and from the
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same house, absolute, loving family, faithful family. One goes to jail,
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one goes into ministry, same household.
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I've seen kids.
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Who've been nurtured from little children and family was so faithful.
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As soon as they were off to college, they wanted
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nothing to do with God ever again. And then I
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have kids whose families was complete pagans never even went
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to church. Once the kid comes to church by a friend,
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they get safe, and then they spend.
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The rest of their life in ministry.
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Okay, but for some reason in the church culture, people
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like to point out and.
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Say I wonder what they did wrong or whether they
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do wrong.
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That's completely insane, because here's what you need to understand.
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When it comes to your child following Jesus, that is
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a decision.
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That only your child can make.
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You can't make it for them. I wish I could.
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You cannot make it for them. Now here's what we
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can do. We can keep them in the Christian community
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as much as we can. You know we're going through
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that right now. My daughter hasn't missed the Week of
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the Young Adults, and she's loving it. Had no idea
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she would ever join that, but I'm so glad. And
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when she wouldn't want to come to service, she'd liked
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to come serve, and she got loved on by so
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many of you, all right, but it's still at the
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end of the day, I wish she would just let
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me make the decision for her.
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She won't, And so people, we can't be judge. And
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so here's what we have to understand. You know, we
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come to our friend and they're depressed, and we're like,
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we gotta fix you.
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Hey, cheer up. God doesn't want you to be sad.
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No no, no, no, no, no no no.
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That's a former play Monday Morning quarterback. And we see
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this through the Bible. People are always trying to discern or.
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Say, here's why there's this problem.
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When we come to John chapter nine, there's a guy
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who was born blind, and the people say.
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To him, say, Brabbie talking to Jesus, who's sin this man?
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Are his parents so that he was born blind? Jesus like,
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I wonder if he just like close his eyes, like.
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Oh, my lord.
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And then Jesus answered and said neither this man nor
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his parents sin.
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But this happens so that the words of God might
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be displayed.
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See, they're trying to Monday Morning quarterback analyze why is
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this happening to this person?
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And let me tell you something people do that.
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We see it again when there's a moment where Jesus
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is walking into the town and they're talking about recent tragedy.
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There was a taller Shalom.
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It had fallen down and it killed a bunch of
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people from Jerusalem, And so he starts talking about when
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pilot pilot killed a bunch of people from Galilee because
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there was a little uprising, and so people were kind
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of saying, we know, well, they died because they're sinners.
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They died because they're criminals.
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And they're trying to figure.
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Out why would God let that happen to all these
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people if they had a tragedy, must because they did
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something wrong.
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So then Jesus.
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Answers this and he goes, do you think those murdered
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Galileans were worse sinners than any other Galileian?
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Not at all, And then he points back to them.
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He says, unless you turn to God, you too, you're
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gonna die, and then he goes those eighteen people in
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Jerusalem the other day, the ones crushed and killed.
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By the taller Shalom when it collapsed and fell on them.
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Do you think that they were worse citizens than any
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other Jerusalem might not at all. Then he terms to them,
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unless you turn to God, you too would die. So
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he was saying, all right, stop judging. Whatever bad happen
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to this person today, it can happen to you tomorrow.
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So don't judge someone else's situation. Let me tell you.
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In order for us to become a better church, sometimes
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I have to go back into our church history a
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little bit and say, maybe we didn't do so good here,
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but let's do better next time.
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Our church, and pretty much every church.
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In America did not get an A plus in our
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behavior during the pandemic.
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So we have lessons to learn from the pandemic.
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Because when the pandemic first started, there was some people
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who said, well, it's because of sin, or it's because
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this nation's sins. So they tried to give it a
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simple reason why all this was happening.
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And then this started, and.
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This was something that happened in the church.
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And by the way, the church was supposed to come
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together in America and this was our moment to show
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the world Jesus through our unity. And guess what every
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church in America did. Man, why are you so fearful?
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Why am I fearful? Why aren't you taking this serious?
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You should have more faith as a Christian?
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You should have some sense.
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And people started blaming each other according to what other
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people believed. Now we have hindsight and what's the reality.
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And everybody was just doing the best they could. They
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didn't understand. People were scared and that's okay. I hope
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to God that we never have to go through something
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that again.
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But if we do as a church, you're gonna hear
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me say this. We're gonna say it's okay.
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To not be where everybody else is, and we're gonna
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have to look at somebody and say, well, I'm not
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where you're at, but I'm still your brother. So we
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have to look back at these moments in order for
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us to become a better church.
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We can't be a judge church.
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See when we look at the Bible, what does it
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say in the Bible. The Bible says Roma is twelve fifteen.
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Weep with those who weep.
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It does not say lecture those who weep, analyze those
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who weep.
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No, we weep with those who weep.
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Galatian sixty one says, if any of you is caught
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in a fault or struggling, and restore them gently, watching
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yourself lest.
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You also be tempted.
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So he says, all right, So as you go.
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To somebody else in the church and say, all right,
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you're struggling in the sin, and I want to help
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you through this, he said, At the same time, understand
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that you can be struggling with that same sin too,
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and you can fall too. So don't be judgy. You're
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not invincible. So we don't play Monday morning quarterback.
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No, no, no, no.
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We walk beside people and we lift them up. The
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last lesson today is we close out greedy. Obedience ends
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with restitution. Let me tell you what happens at the
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end of Job. For thirty eight chapters. Job wants to
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know why am I suffering? And then in chapter thirty
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eight God comes to him and.
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Guess what God does.
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To all the questions that Job had Guess how many
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he answered.
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Zero? God doesn't give.
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Him the answer at all. Instead, God gives him something
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way better.
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He gives them himself.
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And those of you who have ever had the dark
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knight or the soul, those of you who've ever truly
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suffered in this life, you know what it's like.
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You're just like Man.
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If I could just hear one word from God, I
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know everythings will be fine, or if I can just
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experience the presence of God of God will just show
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up in my life right now.
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And what happened was at.
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Job's lowest moment, God shows up and he gives himself
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to Job. And then Job, all of a sudden, guess what,
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he doesn't.
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Care anymore about why he.
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Suffered, because he saw the majesty of God. God said
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to him Job, as he was talking about who he was,
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He says, Job, where were you when I laid the
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Earth's foundation? Have you ever commanded the morning or comprehended
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the vast expanses of the earth. In other words, Job,
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look what I've done. Job, I can take care of
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your problem. If I can create the earth in the world,
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in the universe and uphold it, I could take.
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Care of your problem.
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And then Job, after he sees all of God, he
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says this, my ears have heard of you. But now
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my eyes have seen you. Therefore I despise myself and
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repent in dust and ashes. In other words, oh man,
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none of that matters. Now that I have you, I
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know you're with me, and you see me, and you're
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my friend.
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See.
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Job realizes that knowing God is better than knowing all
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the answers. And as a result, God doesn't have to
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do this. But guess what God does. God only gives
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him himself, but he restores everything.
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What does that say here?
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God blessed Job's later life even more than his earlier life.
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He ended up with fourteen thousand sheep, six thousand camels,
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one thousand team of oxen, and one thousand donkeys.
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He even has seven sons and three daughters.
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And so it is through Job's gritty obedience and sticking
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it out and during it led to restoration. Now here's
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how I want you to understand the Book of Job.
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At the beginning, we start the book of Job, and
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we have a glimpse of heaven. God is on the
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throne and God is in charge. Job suffers and he
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doesn't know why. At the end of the Book of Job,
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we get a glimpse of what heaven is going to
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be like, we too will.
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Enter into the presence of God.
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And every tear will be wiped, every pain will be healed,
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every loss in our life will be restored by God.
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And so job begins with a glimpse of heaven. Then
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there's the trials of this life, and then it shows
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us what it's gonna be like for us someday when
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we go to heaven. When we go to heaven, we
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will see Jesus and all of our questions will go away,
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and then everything that we lost.
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Will be restored to us.
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You see, faithful endurance leads to restitution, and only God
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has the power to restore. See, we're gonna lose our
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life here on this earth, but then we're gonna get
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eternal life there. We're gonna lose our health here, okay,
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but we're gonna be healed there. We're gonna leave our
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wealth behind, but then we're gonna worship in the moory
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of His riches there.
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We're gonna experience pain here, but we're gonna be overwhelmed
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with praise there.
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Hebrews says this, you need to persevere so that when
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you have done the will of God, you will receive
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all this promise. In other words, someday, if you will
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live a life of gritty obedience, all things will be restored.
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All right, let me close up now, going back to
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where we started today, we got.
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Some serious questions as a church this week, and we
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want answers.
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And this week our congregation wants to know why one
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of our families had to leave us in such a
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tragic way. And I don't have an answer for you,
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and I will never have an answer for you. But
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I do know this that one by one.
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Each of us are gonna pass from this earth.
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Then we're gonna see Jesus. Then we're gonna see his disciples.
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Then we're going to see our friends and friends and
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our family that pass before us.
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Then eventually.
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We're gonna run into Rod and Cindy and they're gonna
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be full of joy. And then we might even look
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over and see Jay's leading worship with a beautiful, beautiful voice.
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Because in the end, God being God, will make all
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things right. So here's what here's the question as we
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get towards the end of the Book of Job. I
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believe the Book of Job again is about teaching us
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how to be a better church. So what can we
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commit to do in the meantime. Over these years as
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a church, well, I think we could commit and I
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think job Is taught us that we need to show
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up when our friends are hurting.
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We need to mourn with those who mourn.
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We need to not judge other people. We need to
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encourage other people. We need to pray for other people.
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We need to suffer with each other. Okay, we need
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to endure with each other, serve each other, be patient
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with each other, be compassionate with each other, be generous
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with each other.
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We need to be a family, a.
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Family that you could trust, a family that you can
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lean on, a family that's there at the births. But
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we're also holding the hands as they slip away in life.
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And when we do these things, we're gonna become a
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better church, a church that brings God glory, that trust
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in His goodness and.
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Obey even when it cost us.
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And when we do that, we will become the people
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that God has called us to be.
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We're gonna close up today. I feel like it's appropriate
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for us to close up.
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Singing the song that's the staff sung this morning or
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Monday morning. We're gonna sing it as well with my soul. Now,
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for those of you who knew the family, I've talked
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to so many of you. I know you're hurting, You're confused.
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It's tough. For those of you who don't know the family.
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We need you to mourn as we mourn. Let us sing.
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H m h.
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M.
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When peace s my coy but my way, when.
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So li see bills for.
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Worlds my.
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Now has time.
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To say, it is well.
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It is we.
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With my soul.
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It is with.
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Is with my soul, my soul, It is well. It
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is well.
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With my so.
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My sin.
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Oh the bliss.
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Of this school, school.
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My scene, not impart, not the he is nail to
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the cross and die b nom, Praise the Lord, praise the.
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My soul.
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It is.
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Where is.
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With my school, with my sole?
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He is well. It is well with.
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My son.
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You stand as we sing this last first together.
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Oh, hastday when my face shall beside.
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The cloud bell back as a school.
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Oh, the trum shall resigned.
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And the.
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Shop descend.
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He so.
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He is well with my soul. Well is.
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Bea my soul, my soul.
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He it is well. He is well with my.
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Sou Well.
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The world.
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With mine, Lord, Father God, We thank you Lord.
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For your grace and for your presence. Thank you, Lord
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for the hope that you give us, for the hope
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that we have in Jesus, Father God, thank you that
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because of you, because of your presence, because of your
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love for me, because that you chose me first, that
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it is well with my soul. Father God, thank you
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that we have a hope to see you, Lord, and
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being with you is better than anything ever.
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So it is well with my soul.
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Thank you Lord that you welcome us with open arms,
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so it is well with my soul.
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Thank you, Lord that you.
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Welcome our questions and our grief with open arms. So
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it is well with my soul.
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Father.
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Thank you Lord, Amen.