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Acts: Faithful Leadership (Part 2)

Bethesda Baptist Durham

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  1. And man, I hope you have your Bible's turning with

  2. me to act Chapter twenty. We'll start in verse seven,

  3. and just a moment acts Chapter twenty, starting verse seven.

  4. I loved that last song. Reminded me as he was

  5. singing it. I was a child. I remember a church.

  6. I grew up in Ebenezer Baptist Church and we had

  7. a little children's choir, and that was the very first

  8. song I can remember singing in that children's choir. I

  9. love You Lord. Just sitting there as we were singing it,

  10. thinking about who. That's been twenty years, thirty years probably,

  11. and I'm still pursuing that God that I love. And

  12. that's what That's what church is all about, right, coming

  13. together and from our children to marijuana, to as we

  14. continue to grow in different parts of the church and

  15. continue to leave people to love the Lord. That's what

  16. it's all about. You know. There's different times throughout was

  17. lives where they may be looking for a church. And

  18. I heard a story of a man who was looking

  19. for a church and trying to find the right church,

  20. and he was really pursuing the perfect church. So he

  21. went to Spurgeon's Church and he came to Spurgeon, he

  22. told him. He says, you know, I'm really looking for

  23. the perfect church. And Spurgeon said to him, he says,

  24. you know, there's many really godly people in our church,

  25. he says, But I'm going to be honest with you,

  26. he said. There's probably a few Judases in there too,

  27. he said, because you know, Jesus had twelve disciples disciples,

  28. but he had one traitor, he said, And there may

  29. be some in our church that maybe not living for

  30. the Lord like they should, walking disobedient to the Lord,

  31. he says, because they were disobedient believers in the church

  32. in Rome and carn and Galatia and Sartists. He says.

  33. So I'm telling you, if you're coming and looking for

  34. the perfect church, this is not it. He says. But

  35. before you leave, he says, and go and look for

  36. a perfect church someone at where else? He says. If

  37. you do find it, he says, I ask you, don't

  38. join it. Man, look at him, He says, what do

  39. you mean? He says, because if you join it, you'll

  40. ruin it yourself. You know. That's the truth is there's

  41. no really perfect church in the world. And I hope

  42. if you've been here at Bethesda, or you're coming to Bethesda,

  43. You'll find that we are not a perfect church. I

  44. am not a perfect pastor. Our staff are not perfect,

  45. our order is not perfect, our deacons are not perfect.

  46. There's nobody here that's perfect. But what I do hope

  47. you'll find is that will be faithful, will be a

  48. faithful church of what God has called us too. As

  49. we come to this passage this morning, and we see

  50. that Paul is a faithful leader, and we've been last

  51. week we look at faithful leadership, and today I want

  52. to continue in and as Luke comes to chapter twenty,

  53. Luke is really just demonstrating how Paul throughout is going

  54. through different regions he's in and throughout these different regions

  55. he's strengthened in the church. He went through Macedonia. We

  56. see that he went through different areas and all through

  57. along the way, his his goal is to strengthen the church.

  58. As we looked last week, he stops at the end

  59. of after he goes through Macedonia, he stops and tro

  60. Us and Trous was a little seaport town in the

  61. in the coast of Asia. And Paul stops in this

  62. little town for seven days and his purpose in stopping

  63. and tro Us is to encourage church there. And so

  64. there's he encourages the church. We see that he's he's

  65. demonstrating faithful leadership. We saw as he's gone through all

  66. these different areas, he's gathered leaders from different areas, from Macedonia,

  67. different churches, and they're all with him intro Us and

  68. he's there to strengthen the church. And as we come

  69. to this morning's passage, I want you to see, as

  70. last week we saw that Paul was faithful to he

  71. demonstrated faithful leadership by encouraging this morning, I want to

  72. look further into the different elements of Paul's leadership and

  73. how he demonstrated faithfulness, how he demonstrated how to be

  74. a faithful leader, and that today is we are. Whether

  75. you're a leader in your home, or whether you're a

  76. leader in workplace, your leader in your school, or whether

  77. you're a leader here at church. God's one thing that

  78. God has called us all too. We all are leaders,

  79. whether we want to be or not, we're all leaders.

  80. And when God's called us to be a leader, most importantly,

  81. it's important for us to be faithful in that leading.

  82. And so this morning, I'll just look at different areas

  83. of how Paul led the churches and on as individuals.

  84. As a church body, how are we leading and how

  85. we leading well as Paul did. So let's stand un

  86. Let's read God's word together. It's Acts chapter twenty, starting

  87. a verse seven, and wory throughs verses twelve. He says

  88. these words, this is the word of the Lord. On

  89. the first day of the week, when we were gathered

  90. together to breakth Paul talked with him and tended to

  91. depart on the next day, and he prolonged his speech

  92. until midnight. Well you thought my sermons were long. And

  93. there were many lamps in the upper room and where

  94. we were gathered, and a young man, young Uticus, sitting

  95. on the windows sink into a deep sleep. And as

  96. Paul's talked, still longer, and being overcome by sleep, he

  97. fell down from the third story and was taken up dead.

  98. But Paul went down and bent over him, and taking

  99. him in his arms, he said, don't be alarmed, for

  100. his life is in him. And when Paul had gone up,

  101. he'd broke in and had broken bread at eaton. He

  102. conversed with him a long while until daybreak, so he departed,

  103. and verse twelve says in day took the youth away

  104. alive and were not a little tole comforted. Let's pray together, Father,

  105. we come together, Lord, and I pray that we would

  106. today as we look at Paul's life. We look at

  107. Paul's leadership. As he led churches in Macedonia, Asia, Galatia.

  108. Has he led this church in tro Us, Lord, he

  109. was faithful. The leaders were with him were faithful. God,

  110. I pray today that as we examine their faithful leadership,

  111. may we examine our leadership Lord, as fathers, mothers, grandparents,

  112. co workers. Lord, whatever leadership capacity you've given us, Lord,

  113. I pray that we would be faithful that you've called

  114. us too. So Lord, may you use the principles we

  115. find in this Pastorg's day to speak to our hearts. God,

  116. we thank you Lord for today. We thank you Lord

  117. for your word. Lord. I pray today, Lord for a

  118. movement of you, the movement of your spirit. Lord, something

  119. that I cannot produce on paper or preparation. And Lord,

  120. that is about your spirit would speak to the hearts

  121. of people today. So, Father, God, may I decrease and

  122. may you increase and Lord today, may the hearers hear

  123. you Lord in your name, Amen, you may be seated.

  124. See several different aspects of pulse leadership today and how

  125. faithful leaders. So number one we see faithful leaders gather

  126. for worship. Faithful leaders gather for worship. You come to

  127. verse seven again, he's in tro as the scripture tells

  128. us in verse six, they go and trow us there

  129. this little seaport town. They spend seven days there, and

  130. in verse seven it kind of gives us some more

  131. details of what actually they did there. It's the last day.

  132. It's on a Sunday, and verse seven says on the

  133. first day of the week, which is Sunday, we were

  134. gathered together to break bread. Now some a few important

  135. details as you're digging into verse seven to understand that

  136. may be just common for you as you read it,

  137. you may not catch on. Number one, is it was Sunday.

  138. You know, this is the first occurrence in Acts. This

  139. is the first mentioned by Luke of the church meeting

  140. on Sunday. We understand, now we regularly worship on Sunday,

  141. but jew typical Jews worship in the synagod on the Sabbath.

  142. The Sabbath was a Saturday, and so we see through

  143. Mark and Matthew, there's great significance for Jesus and for

  144. Jesus' followers for Sunday because Jesus rose again on the

  145. resurrection day, which is Sunday. So Luke is giving us

  146. details that the yearly church gathered together regularly on Sunday

  147. because it was resurrection day to worship the Lord. He

  148. said number one. I think as you look at his

  149. passage to understand, Luke is showing us the importance of

  150. the church gathering on Sunday to worship. Another thing that's

  151. very important that you see in this passage scripture of

  152. verse seven, it says on the first day of the week,

  153. when this is alway, he says we, when we were

  154. gathered together to break bread. It's interesting that Luke gives

  155. us a little detail there and he uses a personal

  156. pronoun we to include that Luke was there most of

  157. the time. As you read through the narrative, he doesn't

  158. mention used the first personal pronouns. He uses pronouns that

  159. describe them or they, But here he uses weed to

  160. demonstrate that he was among them. Who is the we there?

  161. It is him and all the other leaders from all

  162. the other churches. If you go to verse four from

  163. last week, he listed different leaders. As Paul went through

  164. Macedonia and to talk to different churches throughout Macedonia, he

  165. would gather leaders from all these different churches. And we

  166. saw that last week we separateurb and verse four. Here

  167. who was a briand he's from the Brion church, and

  168. he gives us different leaders and they would he gathered

  169. them together with him, and they travel with him. Paul's

  170. headed to Jerusalem, and Luke is with them, Timothy's with them.

  171. They're all gathered together. And when Paul says, hey, on

  172. the first day of the week, on Sunday, we gathered together,

  173. who's he talking about? He says, all the leaders that

  174. Paul's gathered together, we went to church. And who's the

  175. other part of that is the church members from cho Ess.

  176. And so we see this imagery of Paul saying, I

  177. mean Luke's saying, hey, we went to church. It was

  178. on Sunday, Sunday Day, and it was the day that

  179. we worshiped the Lord, and we came together. I think

  180. if you think about this passages, I think it's so

  181. important that you see the leadership of Paul. You see

  182. the leadership of these leaders from all these different churches,

  183. and you can imagine that they had been under Paul's leadership.

  184. They've heard Paul preaching their church. They've heard Paul preach

  185. at different places we know from the passages of Scripture.

  186. Before they took five days to get the troy Us.

  187. They get to this little town, they've been there seven days.

  188. It's the last day of the week. And surely these

  189. leaders says, you know what, I've heard this sermon before

  190. I heard him. He did this sermon. It was a

  191. good one. It's a really good one, but I heard

  192. it before. You know what, it's been a long week.

  193. We've been here seven days. There's long days of five

  194. of five days of travel, and and tomorrow morning we're

  195. getting up on the ship and we're going to travel

  196. some more. And we got a long journey Jerusalem. You know,

  197. it's Sunday. This is the only day I get to rest.

  198. I just think I'll take us this Sunday to just

  199. give me a little straight up and get a little

  200. straight get a little extra rest before I go into

  201. the next work week. No, they don't, they don't take off.

  202. They don't say, you know what, I've heard that sermon before.

  203. Maybe I'll catch it on the podcast, or I'll catch

  204. it some other time. I just need a little extra rest. Know,

  205. these leaders, this early church understood that it's important for

  206. the church to gather, and leaders are committed to faithfully

  207. gathering together. Can I tell you, church body, one of

  208. the great aspects of your leadership as individual members, as

  209. the importinance of you being faithful to lead, and importance

  210. of gathering together for worship, We should not Scripture says,

  211. by the way in Hebrews ten twenty five, don't neglect

  212. the meeting together as the habit of some, but encourage

  213. one another all the more as you see the day

  214. drawing near the writer of Hebrews. Many believe that Paul says, hey,

  215. we should not neglect the gathering of the church body,

  216. as many have. Can I tell you it's you know,

  217. it's throughout ministry I have. I was thinking the other day,

  218. I've been a ministry twenty nine years. I've been pastoring

  219. senior pastor for seventeen of those years, and I have

  220. seen all kinds of different things throughout my ministry about

  221. just church attendants, people coming and be faithful church. I've

  222. heard all kinds of different excuses. I heard of a

  223. church one day and they were read about this church.

  224. It was a church in Seattle. You know, they were

  225. struggling with people and being faithful to church attendants, and

  226. so they sent out a mailer to their church members

  227. and it was in the mailor it was a courageon

  228. to come to this church service. And the name of

  229. the church service was no excuse to stay home Sunday,

  230. and according to the past during the letter the mailer

  231. they send out that says, so we won't have any excuses,

  232. he says, We've made arrangements for cots to be available

  233. for those who say Sunday is their only day to sleep.

  234. He says eye drops will be supplied for those who

  235. had red eyes from watching TV to stay up too

  236. late watching TV the night before. There'll be still helmets

  237. for those who say the roof will cave in if

  238. they attend church. There'll be blankets think for those who

  239. think the church is too cold, fam for those who

  240. say the church is too hot, score cards for those

  241. who wish to list all the hypocrites in the church.

  242. TV dinners who can't get who can't go to church

  243. because they need to cook. And finally will have Christmas decorations,

  244. point settas and Easter lilies for those who never see

  245. church without them a church service where there is no excuse. Right,

  246. you know, there is all kinds of different reasons why

  247. we can make excuses why we shouldn't be here on Sunday.

  248. But can I tell you church family, they gathered together

  249. for worship regularly, whether they were lay, whether we're the

  250. leader of the church or leader, lay leaders or lay

  251. members in the church, worship was important. And you know

  252. why I believe worship was important, It is because their

  253. heart posture. You know, David says, I'd rather be a

  254. doorkeeper in the house of the Lord right better as

  255. one day in your courts than the thousands elsewhere. Can

  256. I tell you, church family, we need to have hearts

  257. that says there's no other place I'd rather be than

  258. with my Lord in his place. Can I encourage you church,

  259. May we be leaders who lead in the importance of

  260. gathering together for worship. Can I encourage you husbands, you're

  261. a spiritual leader your home support that you set the

  262. example for being in worship. Can I tell you moms, wives,

  263. it's important that you set example of the imports of

  264. gathering for worship. Can I tell you leaders here, elders, deacons,

  265. growth group leaders, whatever leadership capacity you may have. Here,

  266. it's important that you set the example for leading and

  267. gathering for worship. May we be leaders that demonstrate and

  268. lead in the imports of gathering for worship. Secondly what

  269. you see and only faithful leaders gather for worship. But secondly,

  270. faithful leaders lead in worship. You know, we looked at

  271. the reports in them gathering together, but in verse seven

  272. it tells us kind of what they did when they gathered.

  273. We see in verse seven sins on the first day

  274. of the week, when we were gathered together to break bread.

  275. Paul talk with them and intended to depart the next day.

  276. In the prolonged his speech until midnight. We see as

  277. they gathered together, the Bible tells us that how to

  278. they broke the bread together or keen the bread that's

  279. used throughout scripture. We'll look at another place in just

  280. a minute. The idea was the early church would have

  281. a fellowship meal together, so we would have time for

  282. preaching but have a time to eat. I definitely think

  283. they were some of the Baptists. I imagine they probably

  284. had fried chicken, so they gathered together to eat. And

  285. then part of that meal would include the taking of

  286. the Lord Supper. That was a regular part of worship

  287. in the early Church. And so what Paul was describing

  288. here is the elements of worship. And one of the

  289. elements regular for the church worship was taking the Lord's Supper.

  290. We see another element for worship in their early church

  291. here and this church and trow Us, and there's the

  292. regular element was the preaching of the Word. And that's

  293. what I'm doing now, is the teaching of the Word

  294. of God. And we see that. You know, it's interesting

  295. on you to turn with me, go back with me

  296. to chapter two and Acts. In Chapter two and Acts,

  297. we see a summary that Luke gives us. The summary

  298. and Acts chapter two is the very first church. What

  299. was the very first church? It was a church in

  300. Jerusalem that was right after Pentecost. There's thousands of people

  301. came and got saved. In chapter two, the end of

  302. chapter two, we see that church body together in Jerusalem

  303. gathering for worship, and Luke kind of gives us a

  304. summary of that gathering. The summary of what they would

  305. do regularly as a New Testament first church. We see

  306. in Acts chapter two it says, verse forty two, you

  307. go there with me, and you will read just one verse.

  308. It's actually forty two through forty seven, but for this morning,

  309. we'll read just one verse. And it says, and they

  310. devoted themselves. This is the early church. They there is

  311. the early Church, devoted themselves to the apostles, teaching, to

  312. the fellowship, to the breaking of the bread, and the prayers.

  313. So you see, listen, there is the different elements. What

  314. were the elements of the very very first church ever well, preaching,

  315. teaching the word of God. The other elements this fellowship

  316. gathering together as a body of believers. Just as just

  317. spoke of, they understood the port its of Listen, it's

  318. not just I just I don't just come just to hear,

  319. but I come to fellowship and gather together with brothers

  320. and sisters of Christ. So I don't need to neglect

  321. the body because I need the word of God, but

  322. I also need the fellowship of other brothers assists in Christ.

  323. You see the other element, the breaking of the bread.

  324. That's is the meal and the Lord's Supper. And then

  325. you see the last element here, and that is prayers.

  326. So these different elements of the very first Church, if

  327. you fast forward all the way to Acts chapter twenty,

  328. you have to understand in Paul's missionary journey, we see

  329. now two missionary journeys. He started churches and in Asia,

  330. he started churches in Glacia, he started churches in Syria,

  331. he started churches in Macedonia. He's got churches all over,

  332. probably tens of probably twenty to thirty churches or more.

  333. Maybe I don't know the different numbers of how many

  334. churches he started. But in all these churches, listen to

  335. the same elements are there here in Troas. Just as

  336. the early church was leading in teaching God's word, Paul

  337. is still doing the same elements. He's leading them in

  338. the teaching of God's Word. He's leading them in the

  339. Lord's Supper. Can I tell you listen, it's not all

  340. important that we gather together for worship, but we as leaders,

  341. whether we're leading in our homes or whether we leading

  342. in the church, it's important that we lead others in

  343. following the different aspects of worship. He said, what do

  344. you mean by that? Pastor you know it's important that

  345. and you know on Sundays we have different things that

  346. we lead you through, like leading you to how to

  347. pray like the Acts and teaching you how to pray adoration,

  348. confession and thanksgiving and supplication. Well, why do we do

  349. that because we want to lead you in growing individually

  350. in prayer. Listen to me. Hear me. Now, just as

  351. important as your pastor I am to lead you in

  352. taking the Lord's supper, leads you in times of prayer

  353. as we've already done, leads you in times of singing,

  354. leads you in the preaching of God's word. Listen, it's

  355. just as important that you, as individual members, lead others

  356. in those same elements. You what I mean by that, Preacher,

  357. It's not only important for me to pray here corporately,

  358. but it's also important that you're also praying. You hear me,

  359. and you're leading others in prayer. It's not important that

  360. I administer the Lord's supper, but it's also important that

  361. you also take the Lord's supper serious, and you lead

  362. others to take the Lord's supper serious. It's not important

  363. that I teach the word of God, but listen, it's

  364. also important that you hear the word of God. You

  365. learn the word of God as individual members, and you

  366. lead others in understanding and learning the word of God.

  367. It's important that we lead you in these worships, but

  368. it's important that you as members take upon those elements

  369. of worship and apply those to your own aspects of leadership.

  370. Do you understand me? I'll never get And I know

  371. I've told you this story before. Many years ago, I

  372. was in seminary. I was finishing my last year. We

  373. had moved to South Carolina, so I was traveling back

  374. and forth to here to to to finish my last

  375. semester of class. And Dennis and Angie Loong were good

  376. friends of ours. Y'all know Dennis. Many of y'all know

  377. Dennis and Angielong. And they had their their their son

  378. at the time was Nick. He was a middle school

  379. student here at b c A. And and I would

  380. come and stay with him and have a little extra room,

  381. and I would stay with them and go to class

  382. for like one day a week. And and I'll never

  383. get We would come and I was I was young,

  384. and we would come up and stay up, me and

  385. Nick and and and Dennis would stay up watching TV

  386. and doing different things, and and I kind of come

  387. later on the evening and I could say, Dennis would say,

  388. all right, Nick, it's time for you to go to bed,

  389. and he said, you get ready, and I'll be in

  390. there in just a minute. And I'll never forget. I

  391. have my little room that I would say, in that

  392. little game room, and I would hang out in there,

  393. and I'll never forget as long as I live, Dennis

  394. going in the room with his son and hearing him

  395. pray of his son every night, just begging God to

  396. do a mighty work in his son's life. And I

  397. never forgot that as long as I live. And how

  398. important it was when my little girls were little that

  399. I took that same example. I saw a faithful father

  400. leading his son in prayer. How important it was that

  401. I just didn't pray here on Sunday morning, but I'd

  402. also leave my children in prayer at home. And can

  403. I tell you fathers, mothers, Sunday school teachers, whatever you

  404. may you may be, whatever leadership example you may have

  405. in your life, it's important listen that you lead in

  406. worship and you lead others in importance of worshiping in

  407. their life all right, never get Doctor Lawless at Southeastern

  408. Seminaries in a class a few years ago, and he

  409. was talking about the students that he have seen throughout

  410. teaching of the seminary students are going in the ministry,

  411. and he said, the most passionate determine children that I

  412. have seen who have a holy hunger for God are

  413. the ones who can recall seeing their mom and dads

  414. pray everything. Can I ask you mom's, dads, grandparents, when's

  415. the last time your grandchildren, your children have seen you pray? Ever,

  416. when's the last time they've seen you at home there

  417. by the table reading your bible. Listen, we must lead

  418. in worship. You know, I have one thing I just

  419. admire about my father in law is he leads in worship.

  420. You know when peeceas in the house, don't you but

  421. listen because it comes from the heart, and listen. If

  422. we want to be a place that says we want

  423. to whether it's praising the Lord with our hands or

  424. whatever it may be, may we lead others in that

  425. Amen so important if we're going to be a faithful

  426. church that God calls us to be, that we're faithful

  427. to worship, gather together worship, but we're faithful to lead

  428. others in worship. Amen, want you see third here this morning,

  429. Faithful leadership gathers for worship. Faithful leaders lead and worship.

  430. Faithful leaders listen, lead and teaching. As you see this

  431. passage scripture, I really believe Paul is only in this

  432. little town trough Us for seven days. He's spent three

  433. years at Ephesus. He spends most of the time in place,

  434. as many months as he's established in a church. He

  435. only has seven days in tro Us, and so he

  436. goes on a Sunday morning. He preaches, and the Bible says,

  437. he preaches all the way through midnight. Like I said,

  438. you thought it was bad when I go over twelve o'clock.

  439. He preaches all the way to midnight. And the heart

  440. behind that, for Paul, it is the heart that I

  441. told you last week. He understands how important it is

  442. that people hear the word of God. He understands how

  443. important it is that they receive faithful teaching. And so

  444. you know Romans, by the way, Romans ten says ten

  445. to seventeen. So faith comes from hearing and hearing the

  446. word of Christ. He tells Timothy right, and we saw

  447. last week in second Timothy four one through two. I

  448. charge you, in the presence of God of Christ, Jesus,

  449. who judge the living and the dead by his peering

  450. his kingdom, preach the word, be ready in season and

  451. analyses and reproved, extort with complete patience in teaching. He

  452. tells you on Timothy, he said, Timothy, what this church

  453. needs is faithful teaching, faithful preaching. And can I encourage

  454. you today, leaders, because you're all leaders, Whether you're, like

  455. I said, leading in your home, leading in your workplace,

  456. leading in your neighborhood, whatever it may be, leading your classroom,

  457. you're all faithful leaders. May you be a faithful leader

  458. who demonstrates the faithfulness to worship, demonstrates the faithful leading

  459. others in worship. But listen, it's important that you are

  460. faithful in teaching. Can I tell you I've been a

  461. pastor for many, many years and mentioned that earlier, and

  462. I have I have talked to a well meaning many

  463. church members who said, you know, preacher, I really think

  464. you should think about preaching on this, or you should

  465. think about preaching on that. And that's just a passive

  466. aggressive way to say I really think you need to

  467. not preach what you're preaching and preach what I think

  468. you should be preaching. And you say that doesn't happen. Listen,

  469. trust me, it does happen. And I've had people say,

  470. you know, you know, your preaching is really really you know,

  471. it's good in all preacher, and that's a passive aggressive

  472. race that I really don't like preaching. I really want

  473. you're preaching to be like this. But I've heard them say,

  474. you know what, you know, you preach a lot on

  475. what the Bible says, but I think we need to

  476. hear more about more about the current events of our world.

  477. And listen, listen to me, with all graces, I can

  478. say right now to you what church, what we need

  479. as a church is not to be an extension of

  480. the news media you hear me, or we don't need

  481. to be extension of the social issues or what's popular

  482. on trending on social media. What the church needs from

  483. now and forever more is the Word of God. It

  484. doesn't need my opinions. It doesn't need to chase the

  485. cultural trends of the world or chase the popularity of

  486. this world. What the church needs listen to me is

  487. the Word of God. And today we live in a climate.

  488. And I'm gonna be honest with you. Maybe get them

  489. my little soap box. I don't do that much. We

  490. live in a climate today. What people have fine. Just

  491. as Timothy Paul would say to Timothy, people define teachers

  492. who satisfy the ears of individuals. Listen, I don't need

  493. to satisfy your ears. I need to satisfy the Word

  494. of God and give you what you need. And that

  495. is the Word of God and nothing else, nothing else

  496. besides the Word of God is what change your heart

  497. and what will change my heart. And so listen today,

  498. I want you to hear that from me, because I

  499. promise you there's pressure in me from church members through

  500. the past to try to get me to adapt the

  501. message of the Word of God to be more cultural

  502. acceptive to what the world says. And if that's the

  503. pressure that I feel, So do you feel it in

  504. your homes? So do you feel it in the workplace?

  505. So do you feel it in the classroom or the

  506. schools where you can't really say that, you can't really

  507. say what the Word of God says because you might

  508. offend someone or you might offend your family member, or

  509. you might offend this person or that person. Listen, what

  510. your family man need, what your classmates need, what your

  511. co worker needs. They need to hear the word of God.

  512. And you need to teach the word of God. And

  513. you say, well, pastor, I'm not a preacher. You're asking

  514. me to teach? Well, can I tell you? The Bible

  515. wants you to teach. You know, there's a Bible, there's

  516. a passage, and I'm running out of time, and I'm

  517. getting excited too, say, y'all are in trouble. I won't

  518. keep you the midnight though, I promise, because y'all didn't

  519. bring food and we didn't have a fellowship a meal plan.

  520. But listen as I want you to hear today in

  521. First Corinthians, listen to this. Husbands, the Bible says if

  522. your wife has any questions about the Bible, she should

  523. go to you. So what does that mean? Husband's your

  524. teacher and God's commanded you as spiritual lead your home

  525. to teach your wife and to teach your children. So,

  526. whether you want it or not, whether you signed up

  527. for it or not, you did sign up for it

  528. when you married that beautiful young lady that God gave you,

  529. and God's commanded you to teach her. But listen, that's

  530. not only for the husbands. That's for you wives, as

  531. you mothers, as you lead your families, you are to

  532. teach the word of God. What your wives need, husbands,

  533. is for you to be faithful to the word of God,

  534. to know the Word of God that you might teach it.

  535. And you, ladies, as you lead your families, they need

  536. to hear the word of God from you. There's a

  537. lot of things this world may offer them. There's nothing

  538. that's greater that you can offer them than the Word

  539. of God. So it means you need to study, you

  540. need to grow and it. You need to learn it

  541. that you might teach it faithfully. Okay, let's move on,

  542. so you won't be here to midnight. All right. The

  543. last thing, don't you see, Faithful leaders gather for worship.

  544. Faithful leaders worship, lead and worship. Faithful leaders teach. Lastly,

  545. faithful leaders comfort with compassion. The Bible says it was

  546. late as we read the passage. Let's just read it again.

  547. In verse eight, it says, and there were many lamps

  548. in the upper room, and they were gathered and young

  549. man and Uticus, sitting at the windows, sink into a

  550. deep sleep. And as Paul talked still longer, and being

  551. overcome by sleep, he fell down from the third story

  552. and was taking up dead. But Paul went down and

  553. bent over him, taking with him in his arms, and said,

  554. do not be alarmed, for his life is in him.

  555. And when Paul had gone up, he broken bread and

  556. eating and conversed with them a long while until daybreak.

  557. So he departed and they took the youth away alive.

  558. And we're not a little comforted. We understand they're in

  559. this room. It's t pt packed tight. Now this is

  560. a very large room. There's three stories high. Young boy there.

  561. It's probably from anywhere from I think the studies tell

  562. us or scholars will tell us he's probably from anywhere

  563. from eight to fourteen. He's in the church. He's kind

  564. of maybe probably a little stuff in there. He's got

  565. some lamps and so it's all kinds of kind of dark.

  566. He's scripture uses the word servant to describe him in

  567. the in the Greek, so we know that he's someone

  568. who's probably done a lot of work that day, serving

  569. in different capacities. It's a long sermon. I'll tell you

  570. I've preached the many sermon, and I've put a lot

  571. of children and and and people asleep. But and so

  572. this brings me a lot of comfort that I'm not

  573. the only one. Even Paul put people to sleep. Paul's preaching,

  574. and he fell asleep. Scripture says, in a deep fleet,

  575. fells out of the window, falls two stories, three stories down.

  576. Scripture said, he's dead. By the way Luke's writing this,

  577. Luke's a physician, So Luke knew what terms the right

  578. to describe whether he was really live or who was dead.

  579. Luke said he was dead. Listen what happens. Paul stops

  580. mid sermon, or probably not mid sermon. Script she said

  581. he had more to say later on. So who knows

  582. where he was. He stops his sermon, He goes down

  583. right to where he was, He prays over him, cares

  584. for him. We know that he raises him from the dead,

  585. as we see in this passage, because scripture says Luke

  586. says he's dead. In verse twelve, it says they took

  587. the boy the youth away alive. So he raises him

  588. from the dead. And then what does Paul do? He

  589. goes back to preaching in the Lord's Supper. But I

  590. don't you understand something as important as the message was

  591. in that moment, there was someone who's hurting, and Paul

  592. stopped right where he was to care for those who

  593. were hurting around him. Can I tell you listen to me,

  594. church family, as leaders, we need to be leaders that

  595. are committed to gathering. We need to be leaders who

  596. are committed to leading others in worship. We need to

  597. be committed to leaders or committed to the teaching the

  598. Word of God and a personal lives. As a church

  599. as a whole, we need to be faithful to the teaching.

  600. But listen, it's so so vital we as a church

  601. are also our leaders who comfort with compassion, who recognize

  602. the herding that are in our mits and run to

  603. the hurting, not away from it. Heard of a professor

  604. at Southeastern I was talking to just six months ago

  605. or more, and he told me a story of a

  606. pastor who had a church member in his church who

  607. battle mental health. He was the individual was difficult, He

  608. did some things that were strange to church members. He

  609. was struggling. I don't remember the diagnosis exactly, but he

  610. was struggling, the young man was or the individual, and

  611. the pastor told the professor at Southeastern, I just told

  612. our deacons just to to give him some distance and

  613. just leave him alone, kind of ignore him, because I

  614. think that's just kind of the best thing for us

  615. to do. Do you think I did the right thing?

  616. Can I tell you the answer is no, he did

  617. not do the right thing. We need, we need to

  618. be church leaders. Listen that when we when we encounter

  619. difficult things that we don't run from, that we run

  620. to and those are hurting in our midst, whether it's

  621. an emotional mental health struggle or a crisis of laws

  622. or death, we don't run through because well, I will

  623. appreciate it. I don't know what to say. I don't

  624. have the words to say. I don't know how they feel. Listen,

  625. they don't need your answers. They just need you to

  626. come alongside them and show them listen, very simply that

  627. you care. They don't. They don't want you to fix

  628. all their issues. They want you to be a person

  629. who shows very simply that you care. You know the

  630. powerful part of this story. When Paul goes to him,

  631. Scripture tells, let's look at the passage and verse verse ten.

  632. When Paul went down, he bent over, taking him in

  633. his arms, and he says, don't be alarmed, for his

  634. life is in him. We understand Paul went to him

  635. and he prayed over him. You know, there's a story

  636. in the Old Testament of Elijah. He encounters a woman

  637. by a widow and her son dies. Elijah takes the

  638. boy boy up into the room and he prays over

  639. him and he raises him back to life. It's also

  640. very similar to a very same story of a Jesus

  641. who a man who came to Jesus who had a

  642. daughter named who was dead. His name was Jirius. He

  643. goes to Gyrus's house, the daughter is dead. Jesus sends

  644. everybody out of the room, he prays over her, and

  645. he raises her from the dead. Listen to me, you

  646. know what Luke is wanting you and I to see

  647. that Paul all looked a lot like Jesus when Paul

  648. went running to the hurting. When Paul demonstrated the mercy

  649. of God and cared for the hurting in his mits,

  650. he sure looked like Jesus. Can I tell you leaders

  651. today when we run to the herting, and we care

  652. for those who are hurt around us. We look a

  653. lot like Jesus. I don't know about you, but I

  654. want to be a leader that not only knows the

  655. importance of gathering for worship, to be a church that

  656. le leads others in worship. I want to be a

  657. leader that teaches the word of God, but I want

  658. to be a leader that looks like Jesus. How about you?

  659. Will you be an individual that says, God help me?

  660. Who do you know in your community? Who do you

  661. know in your workplace? Who do you know in this

  662. church body? Who do you know in your family? Who

  663. friends of yours that you know are hurting right now?

  664. And what do you do to run to and not

  665. run from? How may you by going to where they

  666. are finger them, you might demonstrate the mercy of Jesus

  667. and look like Jesus. Today on the last tanner in

  668. the band to come forward and lead us through a

  669. song invitation, Listen, we need We're not a perfect church,

  670. but we need faithful leaders, and we need faithful leaders

  671. that will gather. We need faithful leaders who will lead

  672. others in worship. We need faithful leaders who will teach

  673. God's word and we need faithful leaders to show compassion.

  674. You know I heard that story. I'll share with you

  675. in just a minute. You know, this is Memorial Day,

  676. and the Memorial Day we remember all those who've gone

  677. before us, who, like Billy Graham described, who died, sacrifice

  678. their comfort, sacrifice their time, sacrifice their plans. The most important,

  679. they sacrifice their lives that you might be free to

  680. live in a free country. Worship the Lord freely. I

  681. wonder today as we think about where we are today

  682. as a church, but asda is where it is today

  683. because of the Lord. He is the head of this

  684. church and forevermore he will be. But I'm thankful that

  685. he had faithful leaders long before me, who were faithful,

  686. who faithful to gather, They were faithful to lead and worship,

  687. They were faithful to teach the Word of God, and

  688. they were faithful to comfort with compassion. We need more

  689. leaders in the future who will say, I want to

  690. be the next leader that leads Bethesda, who will lead

  691. others to follow after me. Will you be that leader?

  692. Will you be that leader in your home? Will you

  693. commit to be that leader in your workplace? Will you

  694. commit to be that leader in your community, in your neighborhoods.

  695. We need faithful leaders who will pave the way for

  696. those who will come after them. Will you be that leader?

  697. Let's pray the Lord. We love you God. I thank

  698. you Lord for today. God. I thank you Lord for

  699. just the other day that we stood on this stage

  700. and we saw faithful leadership demonstrated that many many years

  701. ago John Butler would come here as pastor and God today,

  702. this church is where it is today because of pastors

  703. like John Earl Eccles, so many deacons, Lord, Bruce Lyttle

  704. one that comes to my mind instantly, and others Vernon Parnell,

  705. faithful men, faithful leaders, faithful Sunday school teachers like Elois Lily. Lord,

  706. we thank you Lord for their faithfulness before us that

  707. set the example for how we should worship, how we

  708. should gather, how we should teach, and how should we

  709. should care. God. May you raise up today in our

  710. minst leaders who say God, I want to be faithful

  711. Lord because someone led me before, and I want to

  712. lead others ahead of the day's to come. Or we

  713. love you God. I thank you Lord for your word. God.

  714. I thank you Lord for your calling upon us Lord,

  715. May we not cower, or may we not back down.

  716. May we not try to cast off this to someone

  717. else but God. May we rise up, Lord and be

  718. who you caused to be. Lord, we love you, or

  719. we pray that right now, in this time and this invitation,

  720. that God, we would respond to your word as you

  721. lead us. In your name, we pray and all to

  722. Him