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  1. Good morning, Welcome to Church at the Crossing, and Merry Christmas.

  2. My name is Andrew. If we haven't met, I'm so

  3. glad that you're here. If you're visiting, if this is

  4. your first time, welcome, I want to invite you to

  5. pray with me before we open God's Word today.

  6. Let's pray.

  7. Father, God, thank you for your grace and your presence. God,

  8. thank you for the hope that we have because of Christmas,

  9. that you lovingly willingly gave us your one and only son,

  10. so that we may be saved, that we may be forgiven,

  11. that we may have hope and an eternal future. And

  12. so God, today we've come expectant to receive more from you,

  13. to receive from your word. And so God, with that,

  14. we asked that you would silence any distraction in our

  15. hearts and minds, that for.

  16. These next few moments, God, you would.

  17. Calm any worry or concern that is weighing on us,

  18. and that you would draw our focus and our attention

  19. to your word. We pray all of this in Jesus' name.

  20. Amen.

  21. I don't know about you, but during the holidays and Christmas,

  22. I like watching Christmas movies or Christmas shows and wherever

  23. you're streaming your shows and movies. Have you noticed that

  24. recently there's now this little tiny button that comes up

  25. on the screen that says skip intro or skip recap

  26. and you can just jump right into the next episode.

  27. I love that button.

  28. Or if you're watching a movie, don't you skip through

  29. the opening credits to get to the first scene. Or

  30. think about if you read a book. When you open

  31. a book, let's be honest, how many of us really

  32. read the author's preface or how many of us really

  33. read the introduction to the book. I mean, at best

  34. maybe we skim it, but we really skip over that.

  35. Why because it's boring? You know, it's full of Oh

  36. I gotta thank my editor. I want to thank my publisher.

  37. I couldn't have done it without them. Blah blah blah

  38. blah blah. Well, today we are going to look at

  39. a passage of the Bible that's considered one of the

  40. most boring passages in all of the Bible. I'm talking

  41. about Matthew Chapter one, verses one through sixteen. These verses

  42. contain the genealogy of Jesus. And if you've ever skipped

  43. over this passage, I don't blame you.

  44. I've done it myself. Although this passage.

  45. Appears boring, I promise you that there is deeply spiritual

  46. and powerful truth and a message in these verses for us.

  47. And so we're gonna read verses one through sixteen together.

  48. It's gonna take some concentration, but I.

  49. Believe that you've got what it takes.

  50. It's gonna take there's some focus, but I believe you

  51. can do this. So follow along on the screen as

  52. I read these first sixteen verses. This is the genealogy

  53. of Jesus the Messiah, the son of David, the son

  54. of Abraham. Abraham was the father of Isaac. Isaac the

  55. father of Jacob. Jacob the father of Judah and his brothers.

  56. Judah the father of Perez and Zarha, whose mother was Tamar.

  57. Perez the father of Hesron, Hesran, the father of ram Ram,

  58. the father of aminidab Aminidab the father of Nashon. Nashon

  59. the father of Salmon. Salmon the father of Boaz, whose

  60. mother was Raehab bo As, the father of Obed, whose

  61. mother was Ruth. Obed the father of Jesse and Jesse,

  62. the father of King David. David was the father of Solomon,

  63. whose mother had been Uriah's wife. Solomon the father of

  64. Rio Boham Rioboam the father of Abijah. Abijah the father

  65. of Aesah and Aesaw, the father of Jehosephat. Jehosephat the

  66. father of Joram. Jehoram, the father of Usiah. Josiah, the

  67. father of Jotham. Jotham, the father of ahaz A Has

  68. the father of Hezekiah. Hezekiah the father of Manassa. Manassa

  69. the father of ammon. Amon, the father of Josiah and Josiah,

  70. the father of Jaconai and his brothers at the time

  71. of the exile to Babylon. After the exile to Babylon,

  72. Jaconiah was the father of shil Til. Shiel Til the

  73. father of Zerubable Rubable, the father of a bee Hood

  74. a bee Hood, the father of Eliacum Eliakcum, the father

  75. of azor Azor, the father of Zadok. Zadok, the father

  76. of a King Akeem, the father of eli Hood elli Hood,

  77. the father of Eliezar. Eliezar the father of Mathon. Mathan

  78. the father of Jacob and Jacob, the father of Joseph,

  79. the husband of Mary and Mary was the mother of Jesus,

  80. who is called the Messiah. Would you give yourselves around

  81. of applause.

  82. For making it through. And if anybody fell asleep, we

  83. can we can wake them up. See what I mean.

  84. It seems boring, But let me tell you why these

  85. verses matter. This is what we're gonna spend the rest

  86. of our time today. A few reasons why these verses

  87. are powerful. In these verses matter. Number one, Matthew Chapter

  88. one honors the women in Jesus's family. If you notice

  89. in those sixteen verses, all of the names are men

  90. except for five mothers. There's Tamar, Ruth, Rayhab, Bathsheba, and Mary,

  91. who is the mother of Jesus.

  92. And this was a deliberate.

  93. Decision on Matthew's part to honor these five women, to

  94. honor their faith. And so, in order to understand the

  95. significance of Jesus's genealogy, let me share some ancient Jewish

  96. customs and traditions. For example, ancient Jewish culture considered men

  97. more prominently than women. In that culture, a woman was

  98. only as valuable as her man, that was either her

  99. husband or her father if she was not married.

  100. Men were the dominant landowners.

  101. In an agrarian society like this, you needed to own

  102. land to survive. You needed to grow crops, you needed

  103. to raise livestock. You need to be a property owner

  104. if you were going to survive in this culture.

  105. And so a woman needed her man.

  106. She was only as valuable or could only survive as

  107. the man she was connected to. Secondly, a Jewish genealogy

  108. recorded primarily men, not women, and so Matthew's inclusion of

  109. these five mothers is a little bit unusual. Bible scholar

  110. Michael Wilkins rights, women are not usually included in Old

  111. Testament genealogies, for dissent was normally traced through men as

  112. the head of the family. When women were included, there

  113. was usually some particular reason. So Matthew including these five

  114. mothers in this genealogy was a deliberate decision.

  115. It was not an accident.

  116. It was an intentional choice to communicate something, to honor

  117. the women, to honor their faith, to honor their legacy

  118. in the life of Jesus. So the first reason that

  119. Matthew Chapter one matters is that it honors the women. Secondly,

  120. Matthew Chapter one teaches us that Jesus not only came

  121. for sinners, he also came from sinners.

  122. I first heard this from.

  123. Mac Owen, a teacher at a national conference for Celebrate Recovery,

  124. who said that Jesus came from sinners.

  125. When we look at the.

  126. Life of Jesus, we know that his mission was to

  127. come for sinners.

  128. His death on the cross paid the price for our.

  129. Sins so that we could be forgiven, so that we

  130. could be rescued and redeemed.

  131. That's why he came.

  132. That was his purpose was to save us and rescue us.

  133. And even though Jesus lived a sinless life, when you

  134. look at his family line, his family is full of

  135. sinful people. There are wicked people, there are broken people,

  136. there are weak people.

  137. In the line of Jesus.

  138. At best, some of the people in his family line

  139. are dysfunctional, and at worst they are downright evil. For example,

  140. we see Matthew chapter one refers to King David. In

  141. verse six, we read and Jesse the father of King David.

  142. David was the father of Solomon, whose mother had been

  143. Uriah's wife.

  144. Euryah's wife was named Bathsheba.

  145. And if you don't know the story of David in Bathsheba,

  146. it is a tragic, sad story of abuse and lust

  147. and murder.

  148. See Uriah and David were friends.

  149. They had been in battle together, they were loyal to

  150. each other. And one day Uriah was on the battle line,

  151. fighting to defend the country and protect Israel. Meanwhile, David

  152. was back home in his palace, and David took Euryah's

  153. wife for himself. We read in Second Samuel, then David

  154. sent messengers to get her.

  155. She came to him and he slept with her.

  156. The woman conceived and sent word to David saying I

  157. am pregnant. So this scandal compounds from a mistake from

  158. lust to an unplanned pregnancy. And I want you to

  159. notice in this text and Second Samuel, it says that

  160. David sent messengers to get her. This was not a

  161. love affair, This was not a romantic fling. This was

  162. an abuse of power. This was unrestrained lust. This was corruption,

  163. and David tried to cover it up. So he brought

  164. your Iyah home from battle. And David had hoped that

  165. if Uriah came home and he spent time with his wife,

  166. then timeline things would sync up and it would seem

  167. like the baby born would be Uriah's child.

  168. But the cover up didn't work, and.

  169. So David continued to scheme, and he conspired to have

  170. Uriah killed in battle. And even though David had plausible deniability,

  171. soldiers die in battle all the time, he had orchestrated

  172. Eurya's death, and it was effectively murder. And David took

  173. your Ya's wife for himself. Jesus came from sinners. This

  174. is the story of Jesus's family. This is in his genealogy.

  175. This corruption, this broken this dysfunction. Michael Wilkins writes, there is,

  176. in other words, no pattern of righteousness in the lineage

  177. of Jesus. Adulterous, prostitutes, heroes, and gentiles are all found

  178. in the genealogy. We see that wicked kings father good kings,

  179. and good king's father wicked kings. There is dysfunction in

  180. Jesus's genealogy. There's brokenness, there's corruption, there's scandal. Notice in

  181. our text, verse three, it mentions Judah, the father of

  182. Perez and Ziha, whose mother was Tamar. The story of

  183. Tamar and Judah is found in Genesis thirty eight. Tamar

  184. was Judah's daughter in law. See what I mean it's

  185. already scandalous. Tamar was married to Judah's son, but her

  186. husband died when he was young. Now, to understand the

  187. story of Judah and Tamar, let me describe a Jewish

  188. tradition called kinsman redeemer. So the kinsman redeemer was a

  189. tradition kinsman means blood relative or family member. Remember, women

  190. did not own property. They weren't landowners. And you needed land,

  191. you needed to grow crops.

  192. You need to raise livestock in that culture.

  193. And so when a woman's husband died young, his property

  194. did not go to his widow. His property reverted back

  195. to his family, his brothers, or his father. And so

  196. this widow was left without income, without property. But the

  197. kinsman redeemer was a tradition that provided that the closest

  198. male relative of the widow's deceased husband, usually a brother,

  199. could redeem the property. Often would marry the widow and

  200. have children with her to redeem the deceased husband's family

  201. legacy and property. And so Tamar is a widow and

  202. she needs a kinsman redeemer. Well, it just so happens

  203. her deceased husband's brother is too young to marry.

  204. He's just a boy. We read in Genesis thirty eight.

  205. Judah then said to his daughter in law, Tamar, live

  206. as a widow in your father's household until my son

  207. Sheila grows up.

  208. Well, this seems normal. Boy's too young, go grow up.

  209. However, what Judah does here is extremely dishonoring to the

  210. widow Tamar. You see, he sends her back to her

  211. family of origin, instead of being a good father in law,

  212. instead of protecting and providing for her, instead of bringing

  213. her into his home and redeem it her property, her

  214. husband's property, he kicks her out, and he disgraces her

  215. and dishonors her, and then he never keeps his promise

  216. to give her his next son in marriage, and so

  217. Tamar never marries. Disgraced, deceived, Tamar eventually takes matters into

  218. her own hands. And what happens next in this story

  219. is messed up and weird and in the Bible. One day,

  220. Tamar disguises herself as a prostitute and she meets Judah,

  221. her father in law, on the road, and Judah does

  222. not recognize her because in that culture, a prostitute would

  223. veil her face unrecognizable and so unknowingly, Judah hires his

  224. daughter in law for sex.

  225. I told you, it's messed up, it's weird, and it's

  226. in the Bible.

  227. And as payment, Judah gives Tamar some very personal possessions.

  228. He gives her his seal and his staff. In our

  229. modern this this is how they conducted business. The seal

  230. was your business transaction. Your staff was your personal possession.

  231. And so for us that would be like giving somebody

  232. your driver's license, or your social Security number, or the

  233. pin number to your debit card.

  234. It was very personal.

  235. And so what happens next we read in Genesis thirty eight.

  236. About three months later, Judah was told, your daughter in law,

  237. Tamar is guilty of prostitution, and as a result, she

  238. is now pregnant.

  239. Judah said, bring her out and have her burned a death.

  240. As she was being brought out, she sent a message

  241. to her father in law, I am pregnant by the

  242. man who owns these, and she added, see if you

  243. recognize who's seal and cord and staff these are. I

  244. told you, it's messed up, it's weird, it's it's icky,

  245. and it's in the family of Jesus. This scandal, this manipulation,

  246. this dysfunction is in the family of origin of Jesus. Now,

  247. I don't know about you, but when I read some

  248. of this in Jesus's family, it makes me feel a

  249. little bit better about the family I come from. Or

  250. there may be some of us who read this and say, oh, really,

  251. that's it.

  252. You haven't seen my family.

  253. Can we all agree that there is no such thing

  254. as a perfect family. Can we agree that we've all

  255. got our challenges, We've all got our struggles, that our

  256. families have dynamics. Some of us come from even very

  257. dysfunctional families. You've heard me share before that I come

  258. from a family with divorced parents, and Christmas time was

  259. especially dysfunctional and stressful in our family. My parents had

  260. very strict custody arrangements around the holidays, and in addition

  261. to the regular stress that comes with the holidays, it

  262. got more complicated because my brother, my little brother's birthday

  263. is on December twenty third, and my dad's birthday is

  264. on December twenty fifth, So it got more complicated.

  265. And my parents had.

  266. Agreed that on odd number years we would spend my

  267. brother and I would spend Christmas Day with one parent.

  268. On even number of years we would spend Christmas Day

  269. with the other parent, and there was a strict transfer

  270. of custody at ten pm on Christmas Eve night, so

  271. it was very, very complex. And I remember one Christmas

  272. where Christmas Eve came and the deadline came and my

  273. brother and I did not want to go with the

  274. other parent. We wanted to stay with one parent for

  275. Christmas Day, and there was a standoff in the doorway

  276. of the house. There was arguing and tears and hurt feelings.

  277. I mean, it was just a mess. It was ugly,

  278. it was dysfunctional. There's no such thing as a perfect family.

  279. Our families, our backgrounds have dynamics, dysfunction and struggles. We've

  280. got that one family member that we just hope doesn't

  281. ruin Christmas this year. Or there's that one subject that

  282. everyone knows is off limits and you don't bring it up.

  283. If you bring it up, it's like throwing a grenade

  284. right in the middle of the room. There's difficulties, conflict, friction,

  285. and the holidays can amplify the dysfunction of families.

  286. But I want to encourage you because Jesus.

  287. Knows all about family dysfunction, because Jesus came from a

  288. family line that was dysfunctional and broken. I want to

  289. tell you something else I learned from mac Owen, and

  290. that is that there is dysfunction in the blood line,

  291. but there is healing in the blood. In the blood

  292. line of Jesus, there is scandal, there's manipulation, there's deception,

  293. there's abuse. There is brokenness in the blood line of Jesus.

  294. But the blood of Jesus brings healing. The shed blood

  295. of Jesus brings hope and restoration and forgiveness and transformation.

  296. When you think about the family you come from, where

  297. do you see brokenness dysfunction? What are you not proud

  298. of in your family of origin? Is it some generational

  299. sin that keeps repeating itself, the stories of manipulation or

  300. deception or betrayal.

  301. Is it a secret or.

  302. Something that feels embarrassing, like a unplanned pregnancy or a

  303. scandal of divorce, an arrest report, an addiction issue like

  304. David and Bathsheba. Is there an example of abuse in

  305. your family? Perhaps you were abused by somebody you trusted,

  306. or somebody you loved and cared about, was abused by

  307. somebody that you trusted for someone listening. Right now, you

  308. find yourself stuck in an unhealthy, codependent, toxic relationship. I

  309. want to tell you that Jesus comes from a dysfunctional family,

  310. but there is healing in his blood. When he died

  311. on the cross, he paid the price for all of

  312. our sin, all of our brokenness. He absorbed all of

  313. our sorrow, all of our grief on the cross. He

  314. paid the price so that we can be healed. Isaiah

  315. fifty three says he was pierced for our transgressions. He

  316. was crushed for our iniquities. The punishment that brought us

  317. peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.

  318. Jesus came to redeem you from family dysfunction. He came

  319. to redeem you from brokenness, from the sin, from the trauma.

  320. All the things that you've been affected, all the things

  321. that you've suffered.

  322. Jesus brings healing.

  323. Ephesians one tells us in him we have redemption through

  324. his blood, the forgiveness of sin. The blood of Jesus

  325. redeems us from sin. There is no sin too great,

  326. no no pain too deep, no trauma too old that

  327. the blood of Jesus cannot cover and make clean. There's

  328. dysfunction in the blood line, but there is healing in

  329. the blood.

  330. My own family of origin has stories of dysfunction.

  331. Divorce goes back to my parents and to my grandparents.

  332. My dad grew up without knowing his biological father.

  333. His biological father walked out.

  334. When my dad was born, and my dad was raised

  335. by his mom and his adoptive dad, and it wasn't

  336. until my dad was in his forties that he actually

  337. met his biological father for the first time. Shortly before

  338. that man passed away and my dad learned that he

  339. had a half brother and a half.

  340. Sister for the first time.

  341. I mean, it got really complex, and the dysfunction continues

  342. through the generations. I was a teenager when my parents

  343. got divorced, and the dysfunction of going back and forth

  344. from mom's house to dad's house and packing a suitcase,

  345. and the custody battles in court and family counseling sessions

  346. that were painful. And I remember when my dad got

  347. remarried and I was angry and I boycotted the wedding

  348. and I treated my step mom very cruelly, and the

  349. dynamics of now having step siblings and their other side

  350. of If you're a part of a blended family, you

  351. know the challenges and the complexity that comes with that.

  352. And in some of that dysfunction, I was angry. I

  353. lied to my parents. I stole money from my parents

  354. in a weird way of trying to make myself feel

  355. better about getting.

  356. Back at them.

  357. And in that brokenness is where I fell into an

  358. addiction to pornography.

  359. That became a spiritual prison. Like it was just very dysfunctional.

  360. But I stand here today to tell you that there

  361. is dysfunction in the bloodline, but there is healing in

  362. the blood. The blood of Jesus has changed my life.

  363. The blood of Jesus has forgiven me. The blood of

  364. Jesus has transformed me and has transformed my family. Today,

  365. I have authentic, healthy relationships with all of my parents.

  366. All of my parents are now following Jesus faith. And

  367. of course we've got scars. Of course we've got some

  368. painful memories, but we are healed and we are moving forward,

  369. all because of the blood of Jesus.

  370. There's dysfunction in the bloodline, but there is healing in

  371. the blood.

  372. So how do we heal from dysfunction and brokenness. Often

  373. in a dysfunctional family system, each person plays a role

  374. in the system, whether they know it or not. They're

  375. playing a role, sometimes like an actor's in a movie

  376. or a play, playing a role. And you can dive

  377. down the journey of family systems theory. But there are

  378. some roles that we all are familiar with, Like there's

  379. the family member.

  380. Who is the peace at all costs.

  381. That's the role they're playing, and they'll do whatever it takes,

  382. absorbing the conflict, absorbing the hurt to keep peace, or

  383. even manipulating or lying to keep things from spilling over.

  384. You've got the stubborn my way or the highway bully,

  385. that ransom ray. You've got the firstborn child with the

  386. pressure to achieve and succeed.

  387. You've got the black sheep, you know, the troublemaker.

  388. And there's that one relative that is predictably unpredictable.

  389. You know, you don't know which version you're gonna get.

  390. And all these roles are in the family system that

  391. keeps it dysfunctional.

  392. So how do we heal? Well, First, you have to

  393. name it, don't ignore it. You gotta name it. You

  394. gotta call it for what it is.

  395. You got to see it, and that may even mean

  396. taking an honest look at yourself and say, what is

  397. my role in this?

  398. What is my part? What what do I own here?

  399. You gotta name it, don't don't don't minimize dysfunction. Don't

  400. just brush it off as a as a personality werk

  401. or oh that's that's just a bad temper. Oh that

  402. was just you know, a bad habit. No, don't minimize it.

  403. Bring it to the.

  404. Recently, my son got an upgrade in his bedroom. He

  405. has a big boy bed now. He loves his big

  406. boy bed. And but this bed is special. It's unique

  407. because this bedframe was my childhood bed as a boy,

  408. and before that it was my dad's childhood bedframe. So

  409. this this bedframe has been in our family. We've passed

  410. it down from father to son. It's something that we've

  411. passed down through the generations. Families pass good things through

  412. the generations. Likewise, dysfunction can be passed down through the generations.

  413. Brokenness, sin coping mechanisms can get passed down.

  414. Learn behaviors, unhealthy habits can get passed down. Even addiction

  415. can get passed down. Abuse can get passed down. Through

  416. the generations. Research has shown fifty three percent of children

  417. of parents with an alcohol used to order misused alcohol.

  418. Children of abused mothers are six times more likely to

  419. abuse drugs and alcohol. Boys who witnessed abuse of their

  420. mothers are ten times more likely to abuse their female

  421. partners as adults, and girls whose fathers left home before

  422. they were five years old are eight times more likely

  423. to become pregnant as adolescents.

  424. We got to recognize the dysfunction. We gotta name it.

  425. And here's what I want to tell you that these

  426. are statistics, these are facts. But there is healing in

  427. the blood of Jesus, and his blood, his redemption, his

  428. hope has the power to keep you and your family

  429. from being another statistic. There's healing in his blood. But

  430. it starts with naming it. Don't ignore it, don't minimize it.

  431. We gotta name it. And then we got to turn

  432. it over. Don't hold on to it. We got to

  433. turn it over. We got to bring it to Jesus.

  434. Years ago, as a youth paser, I knew a teenager

  435. named Jimmy, and Jimmy had some dysfunction in his home.

  436. His dad really wasn't in the picture. His mom had

  437. different guys in and out of her life. And Jimmy

  438. came to our youth program one Sunday night, I think

  439. it was during December.

  440. It was the holidays.

  441. We were having like a Christmas party, and that night

  442. Jimmy told me a terrifying story about the dysfunction in

  443. his home. He said, Andrew, last night, my mom's boyfriend.

  444. He likes to drink a lot, and when he drinks,

  445. he gets angry, He gets.

  446. Loud and sometimes physical.

  447. And Jimmy said, last night he was drunk and I

  448. sat in my bedroom with the door closed, holding onto

  449. my shotgun in case he came through the door.

  450. I was shocked. It stunned me. It broke my heart.

  451. And of course our team did the right thing to

  452. make sure that Jimmy had a safe to stay that

  453. night and contact with the authorities so they could investigate

  454. and make sure things were safe. As extreme as that

  455. story is, every single one of us has something in

  456. common with Jimmy. Jimmy was holding on to a shotgun

  457. to cope with the dysfunction in his family. What are

  458. you holding onto as a coping mechanism? What are you

  459. holding on to to guard yourself, to defend yourself, to

  460. protect yourself.

  461. What are you hiding behind? Self?

  462. Medicating an addiction, a codependent relationship, a toxic relationship, the

  463. holes in the dry wall from an outburst? What are

  464. you holding on to? We have to let it go.

  465. We have to turn it over to Jesus.

  466. We have to bring his healing, his change into our

  467. lives in our tech. In Matthew chapter one, we read

  468. about another mother in Jesus's storyline. Because sometimes there are

  469. things we are holding on to that keep us stuck

  470. in dysfunction and brokenness. Other times it seems like there

  471. are things holding onto us.

  472. There's something in the past.

  473. That's holding onto us, or there's some situation that's holding

  474. onto us. And in verse five we read Salmon, the

  475. father of Boaz, whose mother was Rayhab. Matthew Chapter one

  476. is the only place in the Bible that.

  477. Does not mention Rayhab's job title.

  478. It's the only place that doesn't include Rahab's job description.

  479. Joshua two, we read a prostitute named Rahab. This was

  480. her job description. Rayhab's name was attached to this sin.

  481. This label was holding on to Rahab. This label hung

  482. over her and followed her around, and I wonder if

  483. there's a label that's been holding on to you. It

  484. may not be the label prostitute, but something that hurts you,

  485. that stings when you hear it.

  486. Something simple like.

  487. Foster child, step parent, divorcee, addict, the sting or the

  488. scandal of terms like adultery, a fair were labels like

  489. bankrupt or unemployed can bring a sting.

  490. Is there a situation that's been holding on to you?

  491. There's something that you just hope nobody of the family

  492. gathering will ask you about that situation because it's holding

  493. on to you. Turn it over, don't hold on to it,

  494. and celebrate recovery.

  495. We're guided by the eight Principles, and principal.

  496. Number five says, voluntarily submit to every change God wants

  497. me to make in my life, and humbly asked him

  498. to remove my character defects. You see, Rahab had this

  499. label that was hanging over her, this label that was

  500. holding on to her, but that's not what defined her legacy.

  501. When the Israelites came into the Promised Land, Rehab gave

  502. aid to Israelites spies, and she gave her life to God.

  503. That's why we read in James chapter two was not

  504. even Rahab the prostitute considered righteous for what she did

  505. when she gave lodging to the spies. We remember this

  506. prostitute as righteous because her life was changed and she

  507. obeyed God. That is her legacy. Her faith is her legacy.

  508. She changed and she's a part of the lineage of Jesus.

  509. So what change do you have to make?

  510. What do you have to turn over to Jesus to

  511. make a change. Your faith can be your legacy. You

  512. following Jesus. You surrendering to Jesus can rewrite the trajectory

  513. of your family for generations. Turn it over, don't hold

  514. on to it. And when you turn it over, you're

  515. gonna have to turn it over again. You're gonna have

  516. to turn it over again and again and again. Healing

  517. is not a one and done sort of thing. Healing

  518. happens through a process. Healing happens through repeatedly surrendering and

  519. giving it over to Jesus. Generational things, dysfunctional things take

  520. time and intentionality to surrender.

  521. Again and again and celebrate recovery.

  522. Principal number six says, evaluate all my relationships. Offer forgiveness

  523. to those who have hurt me and make amends for

  524. harm I've done to others, except when to do so

  525. would to harm them or others.

  526. If you need to forgive someone, forgiveness is.

  527. Not always a one time decision, because you'll make that

  528. decision to forgive, and then the next time time you

  529. may see that person, some of those feelings come back

  530. up again.

  531. You got to choose to forgive again. Next time you

  532. hear their name.

  533. And that resentment comes back, and you gotta choose again again,

  534. turn it over again and again.

  535. In our text, we read that Rayhab married and Rayhab

  536. had a son.

  537. Verse five continues, Salmon the father of Boas, whose mother

  538. was Rayhab, bo As the father of Obed, whose mother

  539. was Ruth.

  540. Let's talk about Ruth for a moment.

  541. Before Ruth ever knew bo As, Ruth was happily married

  542. to a young man, and that young man died young,

  543. and so Ruth became a widow. Now, Ruth's deceased husband

  544. was Jewish, and Ruth was a gentile. She was a Moabite,

  545. a non Jew. Now remember a kinsman redeemer. Ruth needed

  546. a kinsman redeemer.

  547. She was a widow. She didn't own property, she didn't

  548. own land. She didn't have a source of income.

  549. She needed someone from her deceased husband's family, a redeemer,

  550. a relative to step in to provide and protect for.

  551. Her, to redeem the land so that she could survive.

  552. However, because Ruth was a gentile and non jew, it

  553. made it very unlikely that a Jewish relative would want

  554. to take on her responsibility. In fact, there was a

  555. Jewish relative who who was in line to redeem the

  556. property and to redeem Ruth, but when he found out

  557. that that Ruth was a gentile, he wanted nothing to

  558. do with it. In Ruth four verse six, we read

  559. the guardian redeemer said, I cannot redeem it because I

  560. might endanger my own estate. He didn't want the scandal.

  561. He didn't want the risk of marrying a gentile. See,

  562. Ruth was unwanted. Have you felt unwanted, perhaps in the

  563. family that you come from. Is this underlying on spoken

  564. feeling that you have that you are unwanted? Or this

  565. holiday season you may feel lonely because the loved ones

  566. passed away, or you live alone, or because of some

  567. family dysfunction, you've.

  568. Been excluded this holiday.

  569. Someone listening may even feel like the in law who's

  570. just never been fully accepted into the family. You feel

  571. kind of on the outside, like Ruth, an outcast, unwanted.

  572. That's how Ruth's story started, but it's not how her

  573. story ended. Although she was unwanted, God provided for her.

  574. God provided a man named Boaz, who fell in love

  575. with her, who married her, who redeemed her and defended her.

  576. And I love what Boas says in Ruth chapter four.

  577. He says, I've also acquired Ruth the Moabite Malhon's widow

  578. as my wife, in order to maintain the name of

  579. the dead with his property, so that his name will

  580. not disappear from among his family or from his hometown. Today,

  581. you are witnesses, and the elders and all the people

  582. of the gates said, we are witnesses. May the Lord

  583. make the woman who is coming into your home like

  584. Rachel and Leah, who together built up the family of Israel.

  585. May you have standing in Ephritha and be famous in Bethlehem.

  586. So Boas stands up for Ruth, he redeems her, he

  587. protects her. And she noticed that last sentence. Notice where

  588. Boas and Ruth lived. They lived in a little town

  589. called Bethlehem, which brings us back to the Christmas story.

  590. Jesus was born in Bethlehem. These are Jesus's ancestors. This

  591. is the family that Jesus comes from. The good, the bad,

  592. and the ugly, the flawed and the broken, and the dysfunctional.

  593. And just as Boas redeemed Ruth, Jesus has redeemed us.

  594. Jesus is the great Kinsman redeemer. If your faith is

  595. in Jesus, then he has the power to redeem you

  596. from brokenness and sin. If you've trusted him as your savior,

  597. believe that he died for your sins and rose from

  598. the dead three days later. He redeems you from anything

  599. in your past, anything that you're ashamed of. He is

  600. your redeemer. That's why Pesians One says, in him we

  601. have redemption through his blood. There is dysfunction in the bloodline,

  602. but there is healing in the blood today. Where do

  603. you need the healing of Jesus? Where does your family

  604. need the healing of Jesus? Where does your heart, your

  605. soul need a healing touch from Jesus.

  606. Today?

  607. I'm grateful that we are going to receive communion in

  608. a few moments, because today we've said that there is

  609. dysfunction in the bloodline, but there is healing in the blood.

  610. And when we receive communion, when we receive these elements,

  611. we celebrate that Jesus shed his blood. We celebrate that

  612. there is power and healing in his blood to transform

  613. our lives. And before we receive these elements, I want

  614. to share one more scripture from Hebrews chapter twelve. Now,

  615. out of all the scriptures we've read today, would you

  616. read this one and remember this one and take this

  617. one with you. It says you have come to Jesus,

  618. the mediator of a new covenant, and to the sprinkled.

  619. Blood that speaks a better word.

  620. I'm here to tell somebody today that the blood of

  621. Jesus speaks a better word over your life, That the

  622. blood of Jesus declares a better word over your family,

  623. That the blood of Jesus declares a better word over

  624. your future, over your children, over your marriage. That the

  625. blood of Jesus is better than the worst thing that

  626. is ever happened to you, the worst thing that you

  627. regret doing in your life.

  628. As we prepare to.

  629. Take communion, I want to invite you to stand right

  630. now with me, and I want to declare over us

  631. today the better word, that the blood of Jesus is greater,

  632. that the blood of Jesus is greater than family dysfunction.

  633. The blood of Jesus is greater than sin. The blood

  634. of Jesus is greater than addiction. The blood of Jesus

  635. is greater than a parent who walked out.

  636. The blood of Jesus is greater than a loved one

  637. who passed untimely.

  638. The blood of Jesus is greater than your deepest shame,

  639. your biggest mistake. The blood of Jesus is greater than

  640. generational curses that have traveled on through the generations.

  641. The blood of Jesus is greater and better.

  642. And we declare that today because there is healing in

  643. the blood. And so let's turn our hearts and minds

  644. and prayers. We prepare to receive these elements. Father, God,

  645. we come to you and we celebrate the sacrifice of Jesus.

  646. And right now, God, we take a pause a moment.

  647. If there's any sin to confess to you, if there's

  648. anything that we need to ask for your forgiveness or

  649. turn over to you, God, we do so right now

  650. in this moment of silence, Father God, Today we claim

  651. the promise of scripture. Verse John one nine tells us

  652. that if we confess our sins, you are faithful and

  653. just to forgive us and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. God,

  654. Today we believe that there is healing in the blood.

  655. We thank you for the death and resurrection of Jesus.

  656. And his name. We pray Amen, We're gonna