Sermon
Advent: Week 4
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Transcript
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Good morning, Welcome to Church at the Crossing, and Merry Christmas.
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My name is Andrew. If we haven't met, I'm so
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glad that you're here. If you're visiting, if this is
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your first time, welcome, I want to invite you to
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pray with me before we open God's Word today.
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Let's pray.
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Father, God, thank you for your grace and your presence. God,
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thank you for the hope that we have because of Christmas,
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that you lovingly willingly gave us your one and only son,
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so that we may be saved, that we may be forgiven,
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that we may have hope and an eternal future. And
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so God, today we've come expectant to receive more from you,
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to receive from your word. And so God, with that,
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we asked that you would silence any distraction in our
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hearts and minds, that for.
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These next few moments, God, you would.
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Calm any worry or concern that is weighing on us,
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and that you would draw our focus and our attention
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to your word. We pray all of this in Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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I don't know about you, but during the holidays and Christmas,
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I like watching Christmas movies or Christmas shows and wherever
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you're streaming your shows and movies. Have you noticed that
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recently there's now this little tiny button that comes up
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on the screen that says skip intro or skip recap
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and you can just jump right into the next episode.
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I love that button.
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Or if you're watching a movie, don't you skip through
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the opening credits to get to the first scene. Or
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think about if you read a book. When you open
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a book, let's be honest, how many of us really
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read the author's preface or how many of us really
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read the introduction to the book. I mean, at best
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maybe we skim it, but we really skip over that.
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Why because it's boring? You know, it's full of Oh
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I gotta thank my editor. I want to thank my publisher.
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I couldn't have done it without them. Blah blah blah
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blah blah. Well, today we are going to look at
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a passage of the Bible that's considered one of the
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most boring passages in all of the Bible. I'm talking
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about Matthew Chapter one, verses one through sixteen. These verses
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contain the genealogy of Jesus. And if you've ever skipped
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over this passage, I don't blame you.
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I've done it myself. Although this passage.
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Appears boring, I promise you that there is deeply spiritual
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and powerful truth and a message in these verses for us.
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And so we're gonna read verses one through sixteen together.
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It's gonna take some concentration, but I.
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Believe that you've got what it takes.
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It's gonna take there's some focus, but I believe you
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can do this. So follow along on the screen as
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I read these first sixteen verses. This is the genealogy
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of Jesus the Messiah, the son of David, the son
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of Abraham. Abraham was the father of Isaac. Isaac the
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father of Jacob. Jacob the father of Judah and his brothers.
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Judah the father of Perez and Zarha, whose mother was Tamar.
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Perez the father of Hesron, Hesran, the father of ram Ram,
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the father of aminidab Aminidab the father of Nashon. Nashon
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the father of Salmon. Salmon the father of Boaz, whose
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mother was Raehab bo As, the father of Obed, whose
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mother was Ruth. Obed the father of Jesse and Jesse,
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the father of King David. David was the father of Solomon,
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whose mother had been Uriah's wife. Solomon the father of
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Rio Boham Rioboam the father of Abijah. Abijah the father
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of Aesah and Aesaw, the father of Jehosephat. Jehosephat the
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father of Joram. Jehoram, the father of Usiah. Josiah, the
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father of Jotham. Jotham, the father of ahaz A Has
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the father of Hezekiah. Hezekiah the father of Manassa. Manassa
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the father of ammon. Amon, the father of Josiah and Josiah,
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the father of Jaconai and his brothers at the time
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of the exile to Babylon. After the exile to Babylon,
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Jaconiah was the father of shil Til. Shiel Til the
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father of Zerubable Rubable, the father of a bee Hood
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a bee Hood, the father of Eliacum Eliakcum, the father
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of azor Azor, the father of Zadok. Zadok, the father
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of a King Akeem, the father of eli Hood elli Hood,
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the father of Eliezar. Eliezar the father of Mathon. Mathan
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the father of Jacob and Jacob, the father of Joseph,
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the husband of Mary and Mary was the mother of Jesus,
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who is called the Messiah. Would you give yourselves around
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of applause.
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For making it through. And if anybody fell asleep, we
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can we can wake them up. See what I mean.
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It seems boring, But let me tell you why these
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verses matter. This is what we're gonna spend the rest
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of our time today. A few reasons why these verses
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are powerful. In these verses matter. Number one, Matthew Chapter
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one honors the women in Jesus's family. If you notice
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in those sixteen verses, all of the names are men
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except for five mothers. There's Tamar, Ruth, Rayhab, Bathsheba, and Mary,
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who is the mother of Jesus.
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And this was a deliberate.
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Decision on Matthew's part to honor these five women, to
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honor their faith. And so, in order to understand the
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significance of Jesus's genealogy, let me share some ancient Jewish
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customs and traditions. For example, ancient Jewish culture considered men
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more prominently than women. In that culture, a woman was
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only as valuable as her man, that was either her
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husband or her father if she was not married.
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Men were the dominant landowners.
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In an agrarian society like this, you needed to own
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land to survive. You needed to grow crops, you needed
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to raise livestock. You need to be a property owner
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if you were going to survive in this culture.
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And so a woman needed her man.
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She was only as valuable or could only survive as
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the man she was connected to. Secondly, a Jewish genealogy
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recorded primarily men, not women, and so Matthew's inclusion of
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these five mothers is a little bit unusual. Bible scholar
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Michael Wilkins rights, women are not usually included in Old
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Testament genealogies, for dissent was normally traced through men as
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the head of the family. When women were included, there
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was usually some particular reason. So Matthew including these five
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mothers in this genealogy was a deliberate decision.
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It was not an accident.
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It was an intentional choice to communicate something, to honor
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the women, to honor their faith, to honor their legacy
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in the life of Jesus. So the first reason that
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Matthew Chapter one matters is that it honors the women. Secondly,
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Matthew Chapter one teaches us that Jesus not only came
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for sinners, he also came from sinners.
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I first heard this from.
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Mac Owen, a teacher at a national conference for Celebrate Recovery,
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who said that Jesus came from sinners.
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When we look at the.
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Life of Jesus, we know that his mission was to
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come for sinners.
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His death on the cross paid the price for our.
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Sins so that we could be forgiven, so that we
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could be rescued and redeemed.
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That's why he came.
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That was his purpose was to save us and rescue us.
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And even though Jesus lived a sinless life, when you
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look at his family line, his family is full of
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sinful people. There are wicked people, there are broken people,
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there are weak people.
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In the line of Jesus.
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At best, some of the people in his family line
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are dysfunctional, and at worst they are downright evil. For example,
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we see Matthew chapter one refers to King David. In
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verse six, we read and Jesse the father of King David.
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David was the father of Solomon, whose mother had been
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Uriah's wife.
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Euryah's wife was named Bathsheba.
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And if you don't know the story of David in Bathsheba,
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it is a tragic, sad story of abuse and lust
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and murder.
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See Uriah and David were friends.
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They had been in battle together, they were loyal to
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each other. And one day Uriah was on the battle line,
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fighting to defend the country and protect Israel. Meanwhile, David
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was back home in his palace, and David took Euryah's
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wife for himself. We read in Second Samuel, then David
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sent messengers to get her.
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She came to him and he slept with her.
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The woman conceived and sent word to David saying I
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am pregnant. So this scandal compounds from a mistake from
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lust to an unplanned pregnancy. And I want you to
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notice in this text and Second Samuel, it says that
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David sent messengers to get her. This was not a
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love affair, This was not a romantic fling. This was
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an abuse of power. This was unrestrained lust. This was corruption,
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and David tried to cover it up. So he brought
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your Iyah home from battle. And David had hoped that
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if Uriah came home and he spent time with his wife,
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then timeline things would sync up and it would seem
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like the baby born would be Uriah's child.
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But the cover up didn't work, and.
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So David continued to scheme, and he conspired to have
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Uriah killed in battle. And even though David had plausible deniability,
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soldiers die in battle all the time, he had orchestrated
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Eurya's death, and it was effectively murder. And David took
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your Ya's wife for himself. Jesus came from sinners. This
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is the story of Jesus's family. This is in his genealogy.
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This corruption, this broken this dysfunction. Michael Wilkins writes, there is,
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in other words, no pattern of righteousness in the lineage
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of Jesus. Adulterous, prostitutes, heroes, and gentiles are all found
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in the genealogy. We see that wicked kings father good kings,
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and good king's father wicked kings. There is dysfunction in
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Jesus's genealogy. There's brokenness, there's corruption, there's scandal. Notice in
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our text, verse three, it mentions Judah, the father of
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Perez and Ziha, whose mother was Tamar. The story of
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Tamar and Judah is found in Genesis thirty eight. Tamar
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was Judah's daughter in law. See what I mean it's
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already scandalous. Tamar was married to Judah's son, but her
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husband died when he was young. Now, to understand the
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story of Judah and Tamar, let me describe a Jewish
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tradition called kinsman redeemer. So the kinsman redeemer was a
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tradition kinsman means blood relative or family member. Remember, women
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did not own property. They weren't landowners. And you needed land,
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you needed to grow crops.
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You need to raise livestock in that culture.
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And so when a woman's husband died young, his property
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did not go to his widow. His property reverted back
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to his family, his brothers, or his father. And so
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this widow was left without income, without property. But the
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kinsman redeemer was a tradition that provided that the closest
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male relative of the widow's deceased husband, usually a brother,
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could redeem the property. Often would marry the widow and
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have children with her to redeem the deceased husband's family
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legacy and property. And so Tamar is a widow and
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she needs a kinsman redeemer. Well, it just so happens
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her deceased husband's brother is too young to marry.
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He's just a boy. We read in Genesis thirty eight.
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Judah then said to his daughter in law, Tamar, live
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as a widow in your father's household until my son
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Sheila grows up.
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Well, this seems normal. Boy's too young, go grow up.
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However, what Judah does here is extremely dishonoring to the
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widow Tamar. You see, he sends her back to her
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family of origin, instead of being a good father in law,
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instead of protecting and providing for her, instead of bringing
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her into his home and redeem it her property, her
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husband's property, he kicks her out, and he disgraces her
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and dishonors her, and then he never keeps his promise
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to give her his next son in marriage, and so
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Tamar never marries. Disgraced, deceived, Tamar eventually takes matters into
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her own hands. And what happens next in this story
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is messed up and weird and in the Bible. One day,
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Tamar disguises herself as a prostitute and she meets Judah,
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her father in law, on the road, and Judah does
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not recognize her because in that culture, a prostitute would
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veil her face unrecognizable and so unknowingly, Judah hires his
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daughter in law for sex.
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I told you, it's messed up, it's weird, and it's
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in the Bible.
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And as payment, Judah gives Tamar some very personal possessions.
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He gives her his seal and his staff. In our
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modern this this is how they conducted business. The seal
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was your business transaction. Your staff was your personal possession.
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And so for us that would be like giving somebody
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your driver's license, or your social Security number, or the
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pin number to your debit card.
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It was very personal.
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And so what happens next we read in Genesis thirty eight.
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About three months later, Judah was told, your daughter in law,
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Tamar is guilty of prostitution, and as a result, she
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is now pregnant.
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Judah said, bring her out and have her burned a death.
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As she was being brought out, she sent a message
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to her father in law, I am pregnant by the
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man who owns these, and she added, see if you
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recognize who's seal and cord and staff these are. I
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told you, it's messed up, it's weird, it's it's icky,
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and it's in the family of Jesus. This scandal, this manipulation,
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this dysfunction is in the family of origin of Jesus. Now,
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I don't know about you, but when I read some
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of this in Jesus's family, it makes me feel a
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little bit better about the family I come from. Or
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there may be some of us who read this and say, oh, really,
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that's it.
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You haven't seen my family.
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Can we all agree that there is no such thing
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as a perfect family. Can we agree that we've all
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got our challenges, We've all got our struggles, that our
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families have dynamics. Some of us come from even very
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dysfunctional families. You've heard me share before that I come
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from a family with divorced parents, and Christmas time was
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especially dysfunctional and stressful in our family. My parents had
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very strict custody arrangements around the holidays, and in addition
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to the regular stress that comes with the holidays, it
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got more complicated because my brother, my little brother's birthday
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is on December twenty third, and my dad's birthday is
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on December twenty fifth, So it got more complicated.
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And my parents had.
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Agreed that on odd number years we would spend my
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brother and I would spend Christmas Day with one parent.
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On even number of years we would spend Christmas Day
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with the other parent, and there was a strict transfer
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of custody at ten pm on Christmas Eve night, so
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it was very, very complex. And I remember one Christmas
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where Christmas Eve came and the deadline came and my
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brother and I did not want to go with the
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other parent. We wanted to stay with one parent for
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Christmas Day, and there was a standoff in the doorway
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of the house. There was arguing and tears and hurt feelings.
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I mean, it was just a mess. It was ugly,
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it was dysfunctional. There's no such thing as a perfect family.
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Our families, our backgrounds have dynamics, dysfunction and struggles. We've
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got that one family member that we just hope doesn't
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ruin Christmas this year. Or there's that one subject that
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everyone knows is off limits and you don't bring it up.
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If you bring it up, it's like throwing a grenade
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right in the middle of the room. There's difficulties, conflict, friction,
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and the holidays can amplify the dysfunction of families.
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But I want to encourage you because Jesus.
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Knows all about family dysfunction, because Jesus came from a
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family line that was dysfunctional and broken. I want to
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tell you something else I learned from mac Owen, and
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that is that there is dysfunction in the blood line,
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but there is healing in the blood. In the blood
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line of Jesus, there is scandal, there's manipulation, there's deception,
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there's abuse. There is brokenness in the blood line of Jesus.
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But the blood of Jesus brings healing. The shed blood
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of Jesus brings hope and restoration and forgiveness and transformation.
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When you think about the family you come from, where
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do you see brokenness dysfunction? What are you not proud
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of in your family of origin? Is it some generational
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sin that keeps repeating itself, the stories of manipulation or
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deception or betrayal.
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Is it a secret or.
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Something that feels embarrassing, like a unplanned pregnancy or a
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scandal of divorce, an arrest report, an addiction issue like
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David and Bathsheba. Is there an example of abuse in
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your family? Perhaps you were abused by somebody you trusted,
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or somebody you loved and cared about, was abused by
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somebody that you trusted for someone listening. Right now, you
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find yourself stuck in an unhealthy, codependent, toxic relationship. I
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want to tell you that Jesus comes from a dysfunctional family,
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but there is healing in his blood. When he died
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on the cross, he paid the price for all of
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our sin, all of our brokenness. He absorbed all of
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our sorrow, all of our grief on the cross. He
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paid the price so that we can be healed. Isaiah
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fifty three says he was pierced for our transgressions. He
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was crushed for our iniquities. The punishment that brought us
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peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.
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Jesus came to redeem you from family dysfunction. He came
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to redeem you from brokenness, from the sin, from the trauma.
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All the things that you've been affected, all the things
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that you've suffered.
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Jesus brings healing.
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Ephesians one tells us in him we have redemption through
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his blood, the forgiveness of sin. The blood of Jesus
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redeems us from sin. There is no sin too great,
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no no pain too deep, no trauma too old that
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the blood of Jesus cannot cover and make clean. There's
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dysfunction in the blood line, but there is healing in
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the blood.
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My own family of origin has stories of dysfunction.
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Divorce goes back to my parents and to my grandparents.
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My dad grew up without knowing his biological father.
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His biological father walked out.
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When my dad was born, and my dad was raised
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by his mom and his adoptive dad, and it wasn't
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until my dad was in his forties that he actually
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met his biological father for the first time. Shortly before
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that man passed away and my dad learned that he
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had a half brother and a half.
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Sister for the first time.
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I mean, it got really complex, and the dysfunction continues
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through the generations. I was a teenager when my parents
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got divorced, and the dysfunction of going back and forth
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from mom's house to dad's house and packing a suitcase,
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and the custody battles in court and family counseling sessions
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that were painful. And I remember when my dad got
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remarried and I was angry and I boycotted the wedding
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and I treated my step mom very cruelly, and the
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dynamics of now having step siblings and their other side
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of If you're a part of a blended family, you
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know the challenges and the complexity that comes with that.
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And in some of that dysfunction, I was angry. I
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lied to my parents. I stole money from my parents
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in a weird way of trying to make myself feel
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better about getting.
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Back at them.
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And in that brokenness is where I fell into an
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addiction to pornography.
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That became a spiritual prison. Like it was just very dysfunctional.
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But I stand here today to tell you that there
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is dysfunction in the bloodline, but there is healing in
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the blood. The blood of Jesus has changed my life.
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The blood of Jesus has forgiven me. The blood of
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Jesus has transformed me and has transformed my family. Today,
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I have authentic, healthy relationships with all of my parents.
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All of my parents are now following Jesus faith. And
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of course we've got scars. Of course we've got some
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painful memories, but we are healed and we are moving forward,
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all because of the blood of Jesus.
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There's dysfunction in the bloodline, but there is healing in
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the blood.
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So how do we heal from dysfunction and brokenness. Often
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in a dysfunctional family system, each person plays a role
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in the system, whether they know it or not. They're
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playing a role, sometimes like an actor's in a movie
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or a play, playing a role. And you can dive
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down the journey of family systems theory. But there are
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some roles that we all are familiar with, Like there's
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the family member.
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Who is the peace at all costs.
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That's the role they're playing, and they'll do whatever it takes,
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absorbing the conflict, absorbing the hurt to keep peace, or
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even manipulating or lying to keep things from spilling over.
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You've got the stubborn my way or the highway bully,
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that ransom ray. You've got the firstborn child with the
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pressure to achieve and succeed.
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You've got the black sheep, you know, the troublemaker.
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And there's that one relative that is predictably unpredictable.
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You know, you don't know which version you're gonna get.
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And all these roles are in the family system that
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keeps it dysfunctional.
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So how do we heal? Well, First, you have to
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name it, don't ignore it. You gotta name it. You
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gotta call it for what it is.
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You got to see it, and that may even mean
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taking an honest look at yourself and say, what is
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my role in this?
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What is my part? What what do I own here?
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You gotta name it, don't don't don't minimize dysfunction. Don't
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just brush it off as a as a personality werk
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or oh that's that's just a bad temper. Oh that
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was just you know, a bad habit. No, don't minimize it.
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Bring it to the.
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Recently, my son got an upgrade in his bedroom. He
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has a big boy bed now. He loves his big
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boy bed. And but this bed is special. It's unique
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because this bedframe was my childhood bed as a boy,
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and before that it was my dad's childhood bedframe. So
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this this bedframe has been in our family. We've passed
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it down from father to son. It's something that we've
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passed down through the generations. Families pass good things through
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the generations. Likewise, dysfunction can be passed down through the generations.
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Brokenness, sin coping mechanisms can get passed down.
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Learn behaviors, unhealthy habits can get passed down. Even addiction
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can get passed down. Abuse can get passed down. Through
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the generations. Research has shown fifty three percent of children
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of parents with an alcohol used to order misused alcohol.
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Children of abused mothers are six times more likely to
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abuse drugs and alcohol. Boys who witnessed abuse of their
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mothers are ten times more likely to abuse their female
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partners as adults, and girls whose fathers left home before
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they were five years old are eight times more likely
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to become pregnant as adolescents.
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We got to recognize the dysfunction. We gotta name it.
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And here's what I want to tell you that these
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are statistics, these are facts. But there is healing in
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the blood of Jesus, and his blood, his redemption, his
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hope has the power to keep you and your family
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from being another statistic. There's healing in his blood. But
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it starts with naming it. Don't ignore it, don't minimize it.
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We gotta name it. And then we got to turn
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it over. Don't hold on to it. We got to
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turn it over. We got to bring it to Jesus.
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Years ago, as a youth paser, I knew a teenager
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named Jimmy, and Jimmy had some dysfunction in his home.
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His dad really wasn't in the picture. His mom had
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different guys in and out of her life. And Jimmy
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came to our youth program one Sunday night, I think
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it was during December.
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It was the holidays.
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We were having like a Christmas party, and that night
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Jimmy told me a terrifying story about the dysfunction in
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his home. He said, Andrew, last night, my mom's boyfriend.
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He likes to drink a lot, and when he drinks,
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he gets angry, He gets.
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Loud and sometimes physical.
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And Jimmy said, last night he was drunk and I
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sat in my bedroom with the door closed, holding onto
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my shotgun in case he came through the door.
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I was shocked. It stunned me. It broke my heart.
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And of course our team did the right thing to
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make sure that Jimmy had a safe to stay that
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night and contact with the authorities so they could investigate
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and make sure things were safe. As extreme as that
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story is, every single one of us has something in
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common with Jimmy. Jimmy was holding on to a shotgun
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to cope with the dysfunction in his family. What are
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you holding onto as a coping mechanism? What are you
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holding on to to guard yourself, to defend yourself, to
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protect yourself.
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What are you hiding behind? Self?
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Medicating an addiction, a codependent relationship, a toxic relationship, the
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holes in the dry wall from an outburst? What are
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you holding on to? We have to let it go.
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We have to turn it over to Jesus.
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We have to bring his healing, his change into our
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lives in our tech. In Matthew chapter one, we read
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about another mother in Jesus's storyline. Because sometimes there are
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things we are holding on to that keep us stuck
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in dysfunction and brokenness. Other times it seems like there
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are things holding onto us.
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There's something in the past.
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That's holding onto us, or there's some situation that's holding
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onto us. And in verse five we read Salmon, the
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father of Boaz, whose mother was Rayhab. Matthew Chapter one
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is the only place in the Bible that.
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Does not mention Rayhab's job title.
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It's the only place that doesn't include Rahab's job description.
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Joshua two, we read a prostitute named Rahab. This was
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her job description. Rayhab's name was attached to this sin.
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This label was holding on to Rahab. This label hung
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over her and followed her around, and I wonder if
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there's a label that's been holding on to you. It
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may not be the label prostitute, but something that hurts you,
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that stings when you hear it.
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Something simple like.
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Foster child, step parent, divorcee, addict, the sting or the
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scandal of terms like adultery, a fair were labels like
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bankrupt or unemployed can bring a sting.
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Is there a situation that's been holding on to you?
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There's something that you just hope nobody of the family
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gathering will ask you about that situation because it's holding
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on to you. Turn it over, don't hold on to it,
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and celebrate recovery.
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We're guided by the eight Principles, and principal.
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Number five says, voluntarily submit to every change God wants
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me to make in my life, and humbly asked him
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to remove my character defects. You see, Rahab had this
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label that was hanging over her, this label that was
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holding on to her, but that's not what defined her legacy.
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When the Israelites came into the Promised Land, Rehab gave
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aid to Israelites spies, and she gave her life to God.
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That's why we read in James chapter two was not
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even Rahab the prostitute considered righteous for what she did
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when she gave lodging to the spies. We remember this
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prostitute as righteous because her life was changed and she
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obeyed God. That is her legacy. Her faith is her legacy.
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She changed and she's a part of the lineage of Jesus.
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So what change do you have to make?
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What do you have to turn over to Jesus to
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make a change. Your faith can be your legacy. You
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following Jesus. You surrendering to Jesus can rewrite the trajectory
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of your family for generations. Turn it over, don't hold
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on to it. And when you turn it over, you're
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gonna have to turn it over again. You're gonna have
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to turn it over again and again and again. Healing
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is not a one and done sort of thing. Healing
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happens through a process. Healing happens through repeatedly surrendering and
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giving it over to Jesus. Generational things, dysfunctional things take
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time and intentionality to surrender.
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Again and again and celebrate recovery.
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Principal number six says, evaluate all my relationships. Offer forgiveness
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to those who have hurt me and make amends for
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harm I've done to others, except when to do so
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would to harm them or others.
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If you need to forgive someone, forgiveness is.
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Not always a one time decision, because you'll make that
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decision to forgive, and then the next time time you
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may see that person, some of those feelings come back
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up again.
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You got to choose to forgive again. Next time you
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hear their name.
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And that resentment comes back, and you gotta choose again again,
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turn it over again and again.
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In our text, we read that Rayhab married and Rayhab
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had a son.
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Verse five continues, Salmon the father of Boas, whose mother
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was Rayhab, bo As the father of Obed, whose mother
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was Ruth.
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Let's talk about Ruth for a moment.
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Before Ruth ever knew bo As, Ruth was happily married
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to a young man, and that young man died young,
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and so Ruth became a widow. Now, Ruth's deceased husband
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was Jewish, and Ruth was a gentile. She was a Moabite,
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a non Jew. Now remember a kinsman redeemer. Ruth needed
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a kinsman redeemer.
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She was a widow. She didn't own property, she didn't
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own land. She didn't have a source of income.
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She needed someone from her deceased husband's family, a redeemer,
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a relative to step in to provide and protect for.
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Her, to redeem the land so that she could survive.
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However, because Ruth was a gentile and non jew, it
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made it very unlikely that a Jewish relative would want
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to take on her responsibility. In fact, there was a
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Jewish relative who who was in line to redeem the
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property and to redeem Ruth, but when he found out
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that that Ruth was a gentile, he wanted nothing to
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do with it. In Ruth four verse six, we read
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the guardian redeemer said, I cannot redeem it because I
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might endanger my own estate. He didn't want the scandal.
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He didn't want the risk of marrying a gentile. See,
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Ruth was unwanted. Have you felt unwanted, perhaps in the
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family that you come from. Is this underlying on spoken
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feeling that you have that you are unwanted? Or this
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holiday season you may feel lonely because the loved ones
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passed away, or you live alone, or because of some
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family dysfunction, you've.
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Been excluded this holiday.
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Someone listening may even feel like the in law who's
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just never been fully accepted into the family. You feel
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kind of on the outside, like Ruth, an outcast, unwanted.
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That's how Ruth's story started, but it's not how her
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story ended. Although she was unwanted, God provided for her.
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God provided a man named Boaz, who fell in love
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with her, who married her, who redeemed her and defended her.
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And I love what Boas says in Ruth chapter four.
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He says, I've also acquired Ruth the Moabite Malhon's widow
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as my wife, in order to maintain the name of
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the dead with his property, so that his name will
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not disappear from among his family or from his hometown. Today,
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you are witnesses, and the elders and all the people
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of the gates said, we are witnesses. May the Lord
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make the woman who is coming into your home like
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Rachel and Leah, who together built up the family of Israel.
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May you have standing in Ephritha and be famous in Bethlehem.
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So Boas stands up for Ruth, he redeems her, he
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protects her. And she noticed that last sentence. Notice where
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Boas and Ruth lived. They lived in a little town
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called Bethlehem, which brings us back to the Christmas story.
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Jesus was born in Bethlehem. These are Jesus's ancestors. This
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is the family that Jesus comes from. The good, the bad,
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and the ugly, the flawed and the broken, and the dysfunctional.
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And just as Boas redeemed Ruth, Jesus has redeemed us.
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Jesus is the great Kinsman redeemer. If your faith is
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in Jesus, then he has the power to redeem you
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from brokenness and sin. If you've trusted him as your savior,
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believe that he died for your sins and rose from
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the dead three days later. He redeems you from anything
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in your past, anything that you're ashamed of. He is
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your redeemer. That's why Pesians One says, in him we
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have redemption through his blood. There is dysfunction in the bloodline,
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but there is healing in the blood today. Where do
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you need the healing of Jesus? Where does your family
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need the healing of Jesus? Where does your heart, your
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soul need a healing touch from Jesus.
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Today?
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I'm grateful that we are going to receive communion in
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a few moments, because today we've said that there is
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dysfunction in the bloodline, but there is healing in the blood.
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And when we receive communion, when we receive these elements,
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we celebrate that Jesus shed his blood. We celebrate that
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there is power and healing in his blood to transform
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our lives. And before we receive these elements, I want
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to share one more scripture from Hebrews chapter twelve. Now,
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out of all the scriptures we've read today, would you
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read this one and remember this one and take this
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one with you. It says you have come to Jesus,
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the mediator of a new covenant, and to the sprinkled.
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Blood that speaks a better word.
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I'm here to tell somebody today that the blood of
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Jesus speaks a better word over your life, That the
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blood of Jesus declares a better word over your family,
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That the blood of Jesus declares a better word over
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your future, over your children, over your marriage. That the
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blood of Jesus is better than the worst thing that
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is ever happened to you, the worst thing that you
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regret doing in your life.
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As we prepare to.
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Take communion, I want to invite you to stand right
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now with me, and I want to declare over us
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today the better word, that the blood of Jesus is greater,
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that the blood of Jesus is greater than family dysfunction.
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The blood of Jesus is greater than sin. The blood
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of Jesus is greater than addiction. The blood of Jesus
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is greater than a parent who walked out.
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The blood of Jesus is greater than a loved one
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who passed untimely.
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The blood of Jesus is greater than your deepest shame,
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your biggest mistake. The blood of Jesus is greater than
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generational curses that have traveled on through the generations.
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The blood of Jesus is greater and better.
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And we declare that today because there is healing in
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the blood. And so let's turn our hearts and minds
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and prayers. We prepare to receive these elements. Father, God,
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we come to you and we celebrate the sacrifice of Jesus.
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And right now, God, we take a pause a moment.
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If there's any sin to confess to you, if there's
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anything that we need to ask for your forgiveness or
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turn over to you, God, we do so right now
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in this moment of silence, Father God, Today we claim
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the promise of scripture. Verse John one nine tells us
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that if we confess our sins, you are faithful and
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just to forgive us and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. God,
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Today we believe that there is healing in the blood.
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We thank you for the death and resurrection of Jesus.
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And his name. We pray Amen, We're gonna