Sermon
The Connected Life: Week 2
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Good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning.
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It is good to be in the house of the
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Lord this morning. Amen. Hey man, come on, let's praise
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the Lord one more time in this place. Hallelujah, Praise
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the Lord. Well listen, I am Pastor Mike, and I'm
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so glad to be here with you this morning and
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just be able to spend a little time together as
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we dive into the Word this morning. So let us pray. Father,
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we do thank you God. We glorify your name. Lord.
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There is no one like you, And so we come
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into this place knowing that you are already here. Lord God.
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We ask that even now, that everything that we've already
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experienced in worship of God, and even and through exhortation
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of God, that You or God will take us to
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the next level. Lord, take us deeper within your word today,
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Lord God, that our ears might be in tune, that
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our eyes might see, that our mouths might look God
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communicate and declare the truth in it, O Lord, and
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that our hearts will be fixed towards you, Holy Spirit.
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Come now, do what only you can do in this space.
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Draw us closer together, individually and collectively. In Jesus' name.
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I do pray a man a man. Well, listen, it
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is good to be here again this morning as we
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take another step into the Connected Life series, focusing today
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on guarding your heart and your family. Today, we want
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to look at Nehemiah chapter four, verses thirteen and fourteen,
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And after I read this in your hearing, I'm going
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to go a little deeper to understand where this passage
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is coming out of. But the Bible says this. It says, therefore,
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I station some of the people behind the lowest points
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of the wall at the exposed places, posting them by
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families with their swords, shields, and spears. After I looked
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things over, I stood up and said to the nobles,
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the officials the rest of the people, don't be afraid
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of them. Remember the Lord who is great and awesome,
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and fight for your families, your sons and your daughters,
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your wives, and your homes. Nhemiah four thirteen through fourteen.
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In this passage of scripture, there are something I want
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to highlight here. In that highlight word I want to
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look at is the word fight, and so fight when
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we look at it in this original text, the word
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is shamar. Shamar. Shamar means that we are to guard,
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to keep, to watch over, to observe. So when we
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see the word fight, some of us think it's hand
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to hand combat, but I want to let you know
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that it's not an actual physical fight. We are actually guarding,
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we're keeping watch over, and we are observing. The biggest
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fight is a fight when you are already prepared for
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the fight. Today. A family does not become spiritually strong
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by accident. We must recognize where we are vulnerable, make
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contentional changes, and remember what is worth fighting for. Mia
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Maya was not just building rebuilding a wall. He was
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rebuilding a people. The enemy was not just attacking brick
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and martar. The enemy was attacking security, unity, peace, and
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the future of families. And that is still how the
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enemy works today. After the exile of God's people, they
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returned to Jerusalem and they rebuilt the temple, but the
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outer walls were in ruins. This was indicating that the
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city could be taken in an attack, that if someone
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wanted to come into the city, all they had to
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do was step in, because the walls were not really
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existing or in existence at that time. Some of us
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remember that Nehemiah was in Persia, but when he heard
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about the walls of Jerusalem, Jerusalem being in ruins. He
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returned to rally up the people to rebuild the wall.
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But as every good mission, there is always opposition, and
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so there were local entities that were battling against God's people,
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these enemies who would make comments and they would intimidate
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them and say that we're gonna come in and anyway,
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we're gonna disrupt your work, the things that you're trying
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to do. And so this played a role in initially
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distracting the people. I want to let you know that
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most times, the biggest thing that we're gonna deal with
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in our lives is distraction. The enemy is always gonna
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want to distract you from the purpose, from the design
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of what God wants to do in your life and
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also in your family's life. The enemy still uses the
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same strategy of distraction. He uses distraction, and then he
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follows up with temptation. He comes along, he gives us.
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We become exhausted. Then we're doing things that we start
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comparing ourselves to other people and other things, and finally
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we have this thing of constant digital noise. Everyone in
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this room today has a device or something that has
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your digital attention. And so the enemy uses all that
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he can to keep us away from focusing on the
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things of God. But Nia Mayah responded by organizing a defense.
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He put guards and posted them both day and night
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around the walls and the gates of Jerusalem to make
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sure that the families could be stationed behind the lowest
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points of the wall. Nea Mayah devised a strategy to
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get the job done. In order to get the job done,
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you are gonna have to have a strategy in order
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to keep our families together, to keep our families safe,
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we have to have a strategy. Most of us we
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have in our homes a fire plan. If a fire
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breaks out, we know what to do. And if you
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don't have that, I would encourage you to devise that.
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But in any situation where we can be taken away,
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we need to have a strategy. We need to have
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a plan, and so Ne and Mayah had one this morning.
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I want to say this before we go any deeper.
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Devices are not evil. Devices are not evil. It's hard
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to preach, and you got four in front of you, right,
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They're not evil, But it's what they do when you
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use the device, when you allow it to have access.
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If you are not keeping watch over it, it then
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becomes dangerous. Today's message is not only for children in youth.
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Matter of fact, it's not for children and youth, but
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it's for adults. It's for parents, it's for grandparents, it's
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for singles, it's for married couples. It's from any household.
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If you are a human being on this planet, you
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probably have some form of device. This message is for you.
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Because the truth is this is not a kid problem.
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Adults are being shaped by screens too. Families are being
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discipled by whatever has their attention the most. The concern
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is real. How do we know it's real Because when
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the world starts recognizing the problem, I want to let
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you know the Church already identified it, but then the
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world starts to recognize it. The CDC reported that about
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half of the US teenagers ages twe through seventeen had
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four or more hours of daily screen time outside of schoolwork,
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and one and four of those who had four or
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more hours of screen time outside of school reported symptoms
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of anxiety and depression in the week's following being exposed.
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The Surgeon General said social media use among teens is
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nearly universal, with up to ninety five percent of teams
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using social media platforms, and that youth who spends three
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hours or more on social media face double the risk
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factors of mental health problems, which are anxiety and depression symptoms.
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The Pew research found that forty one percent of US
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adults and nearly half of teens say they are online
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concert It's not just teens. So the research confirms what
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we already know. This is a major problem. I know
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we could say, well, I have an excuse, because then
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I'm an adult, and so I'm an adult and I'm working. Well,
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a student can say the same thing, Well, I'm a
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student and I'm in school. There is a problem, and
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we have to identify that we do have a problem. Today,
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I would like to offer you three rs to help
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us all guard our hearts and our families. The first
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R is this recognize the exposed places. Nea Maya said.
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He stationed the people at the lowest points of the wall,
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at the exposed places. The first step in spiritual protection
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is honesty. We've got to be honest with ourselves. He
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stationed them at the lowest points because the lowest points
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are the places that someone can just step in. They
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don't have to work to get in, they don't have
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to climb the wall. And so we've got to identify
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what are the lowest places in our families. Each family
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has exposed places. Every adult has exposed places. Some are
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obvious and some are very subtle. Sometimes exposed places are
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not blatant sin. Sometimes it's a constant distraction that stops
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you from doing the things that you need to do.
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Sometimes it's emotional exhaustion. You keep watching, you keep washing,
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and you feel overwhelmed. You saw the elpisode and you're like,
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oh my god, that's so horrible, what just happened? Let
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me watch the next episode. Sometimes it's a slow shaping
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of our values by entertainment, scrolling and scrolling and scrolling,
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and then we start to impair and then we see
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something political, we become outraged, and before you know it,
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then we have the less thing happening. And I want
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to let you know that most times we say less
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and people think it's about a person, but it's not
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about a person. Sometimes it's about the stuff. You see
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somebody with the house, you see somebody with the car,
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somebody with the vacation, somebody with something that you now
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want because you didn't even know it existed until you
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saw it. Gotta have it, Gotta have it. TikTok shot,
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TikTok shock. They got me too. Sometimes the enemy does
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not break in through dramatic crisis. Sometimes he slips through
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the open door we stop paying attention to. That is
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why this point matters. You cannot guard what you refuse
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to identify. I'm gonna say that again. You cannot guard
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what you refuse to identify. For some homes, the exposed
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place is what comes through the TV screen. It's not
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the device, it's the TV screen because we've been watching
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that show. Some of us have been watching General Hospital
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since Luke and Laura. They're not even there anymore. I
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hope not. I hope they ain't come back. They gotta
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be like ninety two years old by now. But we're
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hooked and we keep watching because we're connected. And some
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of us it's not a TV show. It's the sticks.
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Gotta hop online with my friends after work. I gotta
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do my thing and I just need I just need.
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An hour turns into four or five, six hours until
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we are exhausted with the game. For some of us,
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it's what comes through our phones. For others, it's the
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absence of conversation. You're in the same room, but nobody's talking.
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It's the absence of words because I am distracted by
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what's in front of me. For some adults, the exposed
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place is not their children's screen time, it's their own.
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We can be so busy monitoring our kids' screen time
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that we never even monitor ourselves. We've gotta take a
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look at ourselves as well. John ten and Ten says,
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the thief comes only to steal, and kill and destroy.
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I have come that they may have life and have
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it to full. I want to let you know the
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strategy of the enemy has not changed. He is still
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trying to steal our attention. He's trying to kill our peace,
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and he's trying to destroy our relationships. And he's using
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it in the form of these rectangle boxes, anything to
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keep us from being in relationship with each other and
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with God. Simple truth. What repeatedly enters our eyes, our ears,
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eventually enters our heart and begins to shape our life
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and our home. This week, I want to offer some applications,
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and the application for this week. One of them is
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we need to do a prayerful inspection of our walls.
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We need to walk around the walls of our family.
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And I'm not talking about physical walls, but I'm talking
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about spiritual walls. And I want us to look at
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our family and see where are the places that are
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most vulnerable. It's the first question we should ask ourselves. Secondly,
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what content, habits, or patterns are weakening us? Am I
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watching this show so much that I am literally feeling
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myself being pulled away from God, being pulled away from
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my family, being pulled away from the ones that I love?
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Am I so caught up on this social media thing
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that I've got to like everything? Thirdly, what is shaping
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our emotions more than the presence of God? What's making
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us feel? Do I feel more about this than Him?
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Where have the devices become a doorway instead of a tool? Listen, Lord,
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have mercy if we didn't have these devices, man, Like,
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this thing does everything for me. Like I can't even
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drive my car without this thing. Literally, I can't drive
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my car without it. Right, it opens my garage. I
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get around this whole church with this phone. There's doors.
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I get it, I go be and it goes right through. Right,
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So it's a tool. But when I take this tool
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and I give it authority and power over my life,
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it can become dangerous. The key to this inspection, do
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not start with shame, start with honesty. I want to
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let you know. Listen, no one's got a reason to
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be a shame. No shame here. Let's be honest. And
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I didn't come here to say, hey, point the finger
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because I got my own stuff. I'm dealing with amen.
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So we've got to be honest about where you are,
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where we are in this conversation as it relates to
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our devices. Start with honesty. Number two, reposition your people.
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Me and Mayah did not just identify the exposed places.
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He posted people by families with sword, chill and spear.
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In other words, he did not leave the family unprepared.
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He positioned them for battle. I want to say this,
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you need to be ready for battle. We don't even
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talk like that anymore. We talk like this. Jesus did
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it all. Jesus died on the cross. Yes, this is true.
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He got up with all victory and power in his hand.
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Because he's got victory. I got victory. All of that's true.
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But I want to let you know you need to
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be ready to fight. As well. Growing up as a kid,
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my grandmother she was ready for battle. How did I
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know it? She would sing songs. I'm a souljah, indeed.
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On the other Lord, I'm a soulja indeed. Now I
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would be like Grandma, but where's your equipment? She's a
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singing she's a soldier. Okay, all right, all right, soldier.
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But I found her weapons because her weapons were not cardinal,
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they were mighty through God to pull down strongholders. Because
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that woman knew how to pray. She would get on
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her knees and she would pray, and we would see
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things happening because of Grandma's prayers. I want to let
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you know we have to be prepared to fight, so
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we need to have the equipment for battle. This is
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important to us. Now. We cannot complain about culture. Culture
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is not gonna change. It's probably gonna get a lot worse.
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And we can't afford to move backwards. We gotta keep
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moving forward. We gotta press the battle on. And that
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means that we have to know who we are fighting for,
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who is standing with and we are standing with the Lord,
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and that means that we have to reorder our homes.
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This is a call to every family. It's time to
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put things in order. And I know you're thinking, like,
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how can I do it. We've been doing this so long.
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I don't know if we can revert. I want to
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let you know. You can revert back. You could start again.
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You could start having the dialogue, you could start having
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the conversations. You can rebuild the walls. Now. I know
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this is not an amen type of sermon. Most of
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you will wish I would preach about coffee today. Just
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preach about coffee pastor might please. It'd be good because
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coffee is always good, right, But today this is a
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word that we need. Deuteronomy six says God's words are
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to be on our hearts and impress them upon our children.
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Proverbs for twenty three says, above all else, guard your heart,
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for everything you do flows from it. That means protection
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must be intentional. You're not gonna just be protected. You
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have to be intentional about your protection. Intentional. Some of
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you have families because you were not intentional about your protection.
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I hope that was high enough that it went over
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to the ones that they met. Praise the Lord. Amen.
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I couldn't figure it out in the first service, but
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I got it write this time. Theymen, hallelujah. Amen, you
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gotta be intentional. So notice this. Nea Maya's people had
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three weapons. We need those weapons too. You need a sword.
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The sword is the conversations. We need to have conversations.
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Adults must talk. You need to be talking to each other's.
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Parents must talk to one another. Parents must talk to
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their children and grandparents. You need to bring some wisdom
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to the table. You've been here long enough, you've seen enough.
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And the worst thing we ever did the grandparents was
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bring them up phone. You remember, because you had to
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sit there and explain how to turn the thing on,
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how to get to this screen. And they said, all
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I want to do is make calls. Now grandma's not
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baking cookies anymore. She's playing Cray Candy Crush. So we've changed,
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but we need to go back to some things. It's
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okay to go back to some things. We've gotta be talking. Listen, parents,
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I know some of us we are we're raising kids
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in two different homes. But I'm telling you, mom and dad,
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you need to get on the same page. So the
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same rules you have that your house is the same
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rules that's in the other house. That we are on
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the same page because it's worth fighting for. We cannot
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let the algorithms have the loudest voice in our homes. Thirdly,
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they had sorry. Secondly, they had shields. Shields represent the boundaries.
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Every home has to have boundaries. Boundaries are not punishment.
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Boundaries are protection. Healthy homes don't just have love, they
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also have limits. There's got to be a place where
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you say, no, we don't do this here. We don't
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do this here. This is not something we do in
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our home. We care so much about you, but we
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won't allow this. Listen in our home. When our kids
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were growing up, we did not allow them. When they
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were with their friends, they wanted to face time and
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do things of that nature. Were like, you don't face
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time in bedrooms, you don't FaceTime in bathrooms, you don't
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let's not face time in a home at all, because
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that just might be one to walk around sometimes and
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I gotta be thinking about what I'm wearing now, you know.
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It's it's just like kind of like that that mentality
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of like, listen, let's protect the home. Everybody doesn't need
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access and entry into your home. You've got to protect
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your home. Well, these boundaries are so important to the home.
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The shield is important to the home, and then thirdly
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is the spear. The spirit represents values. Every family has
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to have values. You have to know what your house
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stands for. If you don't define your values, culture will
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define them for you. Joshua was very clear about that
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in Joshua twenty four. He said, but if serving the
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Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourself this
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day whom you will serve. But as for me and
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my house, we will serve the Lord. For my house,
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I don't care what Susie's doing down the street. I
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don't know who Susie is, But whoever she is, I
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don't care. But in this house we love. In this house,
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we forgive. In this house, we pray. In this house,
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we connect. In this house, we come together because we
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are family. As for me and my house, we will
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serve the Lord. This is where the message must be
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real balanced, because adults, we can't call our children and
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youth away from digital access or excess while staying changed
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to our own devices. This is not a do as
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I say, not as I do message. This is us
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coming together. Parents must model the life they want to reproduce,
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you gotta model it. The Surgeon General's guidance for families
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includes creating family media plans, establishing tech free zones, and
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modeling responsible behavior. Modeling responsible behavior. Body's watching you. That
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little baby is watching you. I know you think they're
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only one and two, and they are not paying attention,
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and they got toys to play with, and you got
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them distracted with something else. But they're watching. What distracts you.
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They need your presence, They need your eyes open to
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see what is going on in their lives. A simple truth.
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We do not drift into spiritual health. We decide our
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way there. I want to let you know the same
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way we don't drift into physical health. Some of y'all
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been to the gym, and some of us went past
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the gym, but we know what a gym is, right,
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And so you don't just become physically healthy. And the
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same way you just don't become physically healthy, you just
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don't just become virtually healthy. You've gotta do some work.
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You gotta show up, you gotta get in your word,
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you've gotta pray, you've gotta do the work. And that's
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how you become spiritually healthy. You gotta decide your way there.
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Application pick one structural change this week. No phones at
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the dinner table may could be one of them. Maybe
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it's no devices in the bedroom at night. That could
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be one of them. One shared hour of screen free connection.
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I don't want to connect with anything else. I don't
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want to connect with anyone else. I want to connect
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with you, my family. I want to be connected in
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this space for one smooth hour. Maybe it's a family
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devotion time during the week. Maybe it's a one hour
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or or some time spent an honest conversation about what
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everyone in the house is consuming. What are you watching?
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What do you take an adult? It's not about us
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enforcing it, it's about us modeling it. If you lead,
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they will follow. Three. The third one today is to
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remember what you are fighting for. I love this word remember,
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And the reason I love him remember is because of
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this movie I watch, and I probably watch it way
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too much because of my kids. Well, let me to
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say I like the movie. Okay, it's a lion king.
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The most famous line in that whole movie is when
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Simba forgets who he is and he gets out there
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in the wilderness and he gets knocked over the head,
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and then he sees his father. I'm not sure because
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he'sknocked over his head, but he sees his father and
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he looks into reflection. Maybe that was a screen of
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some sort, and move Fossa shows up and he says, remember,
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it's the coolest thing. I love that. We need to
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remember what we're fighting for. We're fighting for our homes,
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We're fighting for our peace, We're fighting for our families.
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We're fighting for our continued victory in Jesus. We must fight.
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And if we are going to shemar, if we are
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going to fight, we need to put on the full
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honor of God. The Bible says in Ephesian six' ten it, says,
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finally be strong in The lord and in his mighty.
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Power put on the full armor Of god so that
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you can take your stand against the devil's. Schemes the
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devil's got. Schemes it's a. Scheme it's a. Crapshoot it's a.
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Thing he's trying to mix up the. Cards he's doing
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that type of. Thing it's a scheme for our. Struggle
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it's not against flesh and. Blood you are not fighting
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with your thirteen year old. Daughter you're fighting with the
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scheme that the double has set. Up Darry you're not
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fighting with your mama because she won't pay you attention
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when your whole world is. Exploding you are fighting with
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the schemes of the. Enemy but we wrestle against the,
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rulers against the, authorities against the powers of this dark.
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World there are powers and operation in this dark. WORLD
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i want to let you know that the algorithm is
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listening to you right. Now if you just started saying polka,
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dot poka, dot pok, Dot i'm telling you you'll get
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everything poka, dot poka, dot, umbrellas polka dot, hats polka dot,
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shirts polka dot, socks because the algorithm is listening to
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your words and you you are fighting against. That Nea
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mayah told the people remember The lord who is great and,
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awesome and fight for your, families for your, sons for your,
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daughters your, wives and your. Homes this is the heart
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of this. Message we are not fighting for control. Parents
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you are not fighting for control over your. Kids we
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are fighting for. Hearts we're fighting for. Peace we're fighting for.
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Clarity we're fighting for. Presents we want, presents presence, together
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to be in the same, room to be at the
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same dinner, table to be in the same, space and
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you are actually, there fully, told tuned in to the
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moment that we don't miss. It and most, importantly we
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are fighting for the spiritual future of our. Homes ephesian
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six reminds us about this. Wrestle so the problem is
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not merely. Technology the issue is spiritual. Formation who is shaping,
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us what is discipling, us what is capturing our affections
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and our? Attention what is our minds being conformed? To
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what's changing our minds our? Thoughts we didn't always think this?
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Way how do we get? Here, WELL i want to
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let you know The bible, says do not conform any
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longer to the pattern of this. World the world has a,
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pattern and it keeps going deeper and deeper and. Deeper
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but be transformed by the renewing of your, mind and
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then you'll be able to test and approve What god's
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will is his, good pleasing and perfect. WILL i want
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to let you know you cannot continue to conform to this.
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Pattern there's destruction at the end of this. Pattern but
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be transformed by the renewing of your. Mind we must
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remember that family is worth fighting, for but, adults we
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need to remember our own heart is worth fighting for,
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Too it's Worth. God we're not just trying to protect our.
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Kids we're trying to protect. Marriages we're trying to protect.
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Peace we're trying to protect mental, space protecting. Tenderness the
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world around us can cause us to be so callous
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and so, hard and we don't feel, anymore and we
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don't share. Anymore we have a lack of. Empathy we're
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protecting our walk With. God social media and digital life
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can connect, people but they also are very. Risky The
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American Psychological association has worn that social media is not
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inherently good or. Bad hear that it's not inherently good or,
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bad but check this. Out it affects depends heavily on
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how it is, used the content, involved and the vulnerabbibilities
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of the person using. It how vulnerable are you to these,
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things the things that you're, seeing the things that you're taking.
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In so this sermon should not come across as anti.
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Technology it should come across as pro, wisdom pro, discipleship
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and pro, family because this is what, matters simple. Truth
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we do not fight for if we don't fight for
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the spiritual climate of our, homes something else will shape.
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Us if you don't, fight the enemy is already. Winning
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if you don't, fight doing nothing is. Dangerous i'm gonna
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say that. Again doing nothing is. Dangerous we've got to do.
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So so this, week here's an. Application write down every
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name of every person in your. Home well why write it?
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DOWN i know everybody who lives in my. House, well
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maybe there's some other people who are connected to your.
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House maybe it's, grandma maybe it's, aunt maybe it's an.
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Uncle maybe it's your, brother your, sister maybe someone else
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who's connected to your. Family and once you write their names,
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DOWN i want you to pray over those. Names and
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THEN i want you to do. THIS i want you
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to ask these questions of The. Lord what does this
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person need from me? Spiritually what CAN i? Render what
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CAN i offer? To what boundaries would bless? Them what
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boundaries DO i need to? Set what boundaries DO i
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need to? Set With? Grandma? Grandma when they come to your,
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house they can only be on the tablet for one.
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HOUR i know you really love, them you want them
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to be, happy and you want them to not get
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on your. Nerves but one, hour what conversation HAVE i been.
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Avoiding what conversation HAVE i been avoiding with my? Spouse?
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Y'all some of y'all so Glad i'm preaching this. Today.
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Amen i'm glad he said it BECAUSE i ain't gotta
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say it. Now, amen what example DO i need to?
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Set start with? Prayer then take one practical, Step just
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do one. Thing. LISTEN i want to give you seven
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tips to safeguard your. Family. One create device free. Spaces
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device free. Spaces this is a space we don't use.
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Devices this is a space for, connection for, rest for,
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conversation and we don't use. Devices. Two keep devices out
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of the bedroom at. Night i'm telling you it messes you.
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Up AND i know some people, say WELL i just can't. Sleep,
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well guess what if you pull out Your bible and start.
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READING i bet you go to. Sleep i've seen many
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go to sleep with The. Bible. Amen ain't no blue
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light on This. Bible. Amen get you one to turn
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pages all? Right, okay get the regular old school when
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they sell them at The barns And nobles. Too. Amen,
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three build a family media. Plan build it. Together don't
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only make rules for the. Children let the whole household
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agree about rules and. Rhythms and. Expectations. Four review screen,
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habits honestly talk about. It my biggest goal right now
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is for My bible app to be the number one
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thing that pops up WHEN i open up to see
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review my screen. Time that's my goal right now is.
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Text people text a lot these, Days lord A. Mercy.
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Five replace screen time with connection, time, meals, walks, games,
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prayer reading, together face to face conversations build what screens.
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Cannot when you pick the kid up from, school they
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are old enough now to sit in the front, seat
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talk to, them because most times it looks like this
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kid is and the other side going and Sometimes, mom
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is you? Two? Dad Six talk openly about content and,
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influence not just what you're. Watching but the better question
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is how is it shaping? You how is that show shaping?
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You is it Glorifying? God is it making you? BETTER
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i know you might be enjoying, it but is it
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introducing some things that might be toxic down the? Road
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model what you? Repeat what you? Want. Repeated number, Seven
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model what you want. Repeated, adults you get to set the.
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Tone kids will watch and they will normalize what you.
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Do guarding your family starts with guarding your own. Heart
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identifying weak, spaces creating wise, boundaries and remembering that the
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fight is. Spiritual this is a spiritual, fight and your
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family is worth. It AS i get ready to, Neha
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mayah and the people Of god took fifty two days
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to rebuild the, walls how long did it take to
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tear them? Down AS i was looking and searching and
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preparing for this, MESSAGE i searched my own, heart search
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my own, devices AND i started to ask myself the
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questions where DO i need to, Stretch where DO i
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need to? Grow where DO i need to do? Better
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where DO i need to Meet? God in this, CONVERSATION
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i want to invite you to take a journey with.
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Me over the next fifty two, DAYS i am going
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to make some changes in my consumption of digital. Media
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only you can make that decision for. YOU i don't
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want to give a prescription here because maybe your docage
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is different what you're taking. In but you know you
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need to make a. Change AND i want you to
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sit with your, family sit with your, kids sit with,
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yourself and, Say, Lord i'm searching within myself what needs to. Change,
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lord help me show me WHAT i need to. Change
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AND i trust. THIS i know The lord. Will and
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as you pull, AWAY i promise you you're gonna start
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seeing a lot. Clearer you're gonna start hearing a lot,
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Clearer you're gonna start feeling a lot. Better why because
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you won't be consumed by the thing that's been consuming. You, so, parents,
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grandparents young, people it's time to get. Up it's time
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to get back on the. Wall it's time to post
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ourselves in strategic positions that the enemy does not have
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access to our family. Anymore stay with me. Today if
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you have your, device just grab it for a. Second
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james did this last week and he had me in
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the back AND i was, like, ooh this thing goes
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everywhere with, us everywhere every room of our house that
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goes in some of us take it in the bathroom
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and he, say, oh let me check one. Email and
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before you know, it you've been in there for thirty,
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minutes could barely. WALK i knew you knew WHAT i
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was talking. About BUT i don't want this to have
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that type of power in my. LIFE i Want god
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to have the most important space in my life that
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WHEN i walk through my, home in every, space That
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i'm more interested in Meeting him than meeting a deadline or,
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meeting the next email or the next post, store whatever's out.
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THERE i want him to take. Resident so this MORNING
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i want to pray for. YOU i want to pray two,
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things that The lord will search your, heart and then
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that The lord will bless, you and that he will
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bless you real. Good let's. Pray. GOD i thank you right.
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NOW i thank you for your. Word. God you've met,
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US O, god every, Night thursday night and this morning
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and this second. Service Lord, god you've met. Us And Lord,
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god you've been challenging, US O, god and we feel,
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it and we won't ignore. It. God we will not
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walk out of this space and say we did not
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hear the word Of, god we did not hear the.
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Challenge we are going to take the challenge because it
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matters our, family, matters our, soul, matters our, mind, matters
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our ears and mouths and hearts matter Or. God we
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want you more than anything. Else. God So lord search,
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us and if you find, Anything, god take it. Out
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Will god correct, it straighten it, out help us to
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partner With, you that we will have a fortified woe
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in our lives that the enemy cannot cross and he
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cannot enter And, lord as you do bless your. People,
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lord may you bless and keep. Us may your faith
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shine upon. Us may you continue to be so gracious
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to us Of god and give us shalom your. Peace
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this is my. Prayer it is, so and so it
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is In jesus'. Name let everybody say amen and, amen