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Grit & Grace: Week 1

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  1. Happy Mother's Day. So glad to see the mother's here

  2. today and we just want to welcome you and today

  3. we are just again celebrating our moms. Hope you have

  4. a good uh you know afternoon, that it's wonderful, that

  5. it's blessed. Also, we have a free gift for you

  6. out there. And uh, now for those of you who

  7. are wondering what was in the basket, I do know

  8. that there was one hundred dollars massage gift certificate in there,

  9. so just to ruin all those who lost, just to

  10. ruin your day, to let you know what you lost.

  11. And uh and also that way you're not fiddling through

  12. the basket while I'm preaching. Okay, as so, so congratulations.

  13. We are starting our new series this week, Great and Grace,

  14. And basically it's a series uh that kind of reminds

  15. us of like what type of people are we're going

  16. to become? Who are we going to become? Who is

  17. God calling us to be? And so over the next

  18. three weeks we'll be talking about that. It's kind of

  19. one of the reasons why I'm wearing, you know, a

  20. jersey today is kind of like I'm the coach Andrew

  21. and Michael be wearing jerseys next couple weeks, kind of like, hey,

  22. we're the coaches saying, all right, team, here's where we're going.

  23. And so we're again so excited to just again talk

  24. about our vision, talk about who God is calling us

  25. to be and what God wants to accomplish through us.

  26. Can you just take a moment and pray with me.

  27. Let's pray. God. We just give you pray today, and

  28. we thank you for the opportunity to worship you, to

  29. celebrate mothers, to seek your face today. And God, I

  30. just pray that you will help us to conform to

  31. the image of your son and become the people that

  32. you have called us to be in Jesus' name. Amen.

  33. You know, I've learned something over the years that I

  34. don't necessarily necessarily love, but I do know it's very true.

  35. And that's just simply this, Anything that really matters, anything

  36. that's actually worth something, usually takes a lot longer and

  37. a lot more grit than I thought it would. You know,

  38. years ago, just a few years back, I decided that

  39. I was gonna actually go out and do this manly

  40. man camp thing. And so I went out and I

  41. set up a big camp in the woods, big tent,

  42. all those things, and for the most part it was

  43. just me and my dog. And I decided that I

  44. was not going to go home until I had at

  45. least a ten point buck. Okay, now here's what that meant.

  46. That meant that I needed the buck to comply, and

  47. they weren't willing. And so cold mornings, rainy afternoons, miserable weather,

  48. and I went out on twenty three hunts. Now you

  49. might not think that's a big deal, but have you

  50. ever sit and stared at a field for five hours

  51. and not move? Here's here's how you hunt, just in

  52. case you never went hunting before. Here's what you do.

  53. You have a gun in your hand or a weapon,

  54. and you do this for five hours. You start that

  55. over again. That's that's what you do. And the mental

  56. exhaustion that that takes is insane because you can't move,

  57. you can't speak, can't make a sound. And I did this,

  58. and I got to the point where I was getting

  59. very frustrated. But I had committed in my soul that

  60. I was not coming home without this deer. And so

  61. the last day that I could hunt, because we were

  62. going back to Ohio for Thanksgiving. I finally my wife

  63. was like, you do have to go to your family's holiday.

  64. And so I went out to the store to get

  65. my last supplies and there's this old man and he

  66. just walked up to me and he said, the rut

  67. is over. We're not gonna get a deer. And that's

  68. all he said to me. And I was like, he

  69. is one hundred percent correct, and I and for a second,

  70. I felt like, you know what, I just need to

  71. listen to this old man. He's old for a reason.

  72. He knows what how to live life and do life.

  73. And so I just sit there and I was just

  74. very discouraged. But I decided, you know what, I've committed.

  75. I'm gonna go out one more time. And sure enough,

  76. at the last ten minutes of light on that last evening,

  77. this ten pound buck comes running literally several fields, over

  78. stands in front of me, says, hey, where you've been?

  79. And so, you know, God blessed. But that took so

  80. much time and so much effort, and it costs so

  81. much money, and it was full of you know, but

  82. it took grit. And let me tell you something, anything

  83. worthwhile takes grit and I've learned the same things with

  84. my education. You know, it took me eleven years to

  85. get a four year Master of Divinity, and most people

  86. like again it takes them four years. It took me

  87. eleven years. But that meant that every day off, most

  88. evenings that were free I was reading or writing or studying,

  89. are in class. And there are so many times. You

  90. can ask my wife that I just wanted to quit

  91. and give up, but I decided, you know, you got

  92. to push you like, because anything that's worth something costs something.

  93. I understand that. And right now I'm in the same

  94. boat with my doctorate. You know, my evenings, my days off,

  95. I'm reading and I'm writing. Michael Diickpen called me two

  96. Thursday nights ago after I preached, and it was probably

  97. about and goes, hey, how you doing. What are you doing?

  98. I'm like sitting here working on a paper because that's

  99. my life right now. But I do know this, and

  100. he's saying, that's worth something, call something and it takes grit.

  101. But those who see it through, those of us who

  102. see it through, and you get to experience the breakthrough.

  103. It is a sweet, sweet thing. Now here's what I

  104. want you to see that it's not only true in

  105. hunting and not it's only true in school, but it's

  106. been true for us as a church. Okay, I'm halfway

  107. through my ninth year's pastor here and it's been a

  108. wonderful but let's be honest, a bit crazy. Eight and

  109. a half years. The world has changed, the church has changed,

  110. ministry has changed. But here's what has not changed. God

  111. is still at work and I can honestly tell you

  112. today I'm more excited about our future than I have

  113. ever ever been. And I want you to hear this clearly.

  114. I am so proud to be your pastor. This is

  115. the greatest honor of my life. I love you. I

  116. hope you know that I dearly love you. And I

  117. feel like I get to serve on the best staff.

  118. I get to serve the best people in Indianapolis. And

  119. there's so many times, just even over this weekend, I

  120. kept saying God, I'm just so blessed, Thank you God.

  121. Now here's why I'm saying all this, Because what we're

  122. seeing right now and what we've been seeing in our

  123. church in this last couple of seasons, people being saved,

  124. lives being changed, community being served, that doesn't just happen.

  125. It takes grit, It takes the faithfulness of people. It

  126. took people showing up when it was hard. It took

  127. people showing up when it looked like it wasn't working. Now,

  128. let me show you what I mean. Over the last

  129. few years, we stepped out of faith again and again,

  130. let's just talk about the last few years. Several years

  131. ago we started a Thursday night service, and let me

  132. tell you something. Thursday Nights, there was a lot of

  133. weeks for several years where we had twenty thirty forty

  134. people from the church showing up. Just this past Thursday,

  135. we had ninety six adults. And it's not uncommon for

  136. us now to see we hang right in every between

  137. eighty to one hundred adults on Thursday night, and we're

  138. seeing God at work and it seems to be an

  139. entry point for people into our church. Took many years though,

  140. a lot of weeks where it was like, I don't

  141. know if this service is going to make it. And

  142. we walked through the Arabic merger that took over two years,

  143. and now we have one hundred and fifty to two

  144. hundred of let me tell you some the greatest people

  145. you ever meet in your life. The Arabic people, let

  146. me tell you, they are amazing and we all we

  147. see them every week on our stage. Amen. Amen, they're awesome.

  148. And if you get a chance, especially to meet some

  149. of their college age, they're just such bright, young, amazing kids.

  150. Our Spanish ministry, you know, the week before last we

  151. baptized six. It here last week Spanish baptized seven. And

  152. at the end of the service, yeah, amen, Amen, that's

  153. something you should clap about. And then at the end

  154. of the service, Jose say, come up here and touch

  155. the water if you want to be baptized. And so

  156. now they have twelve more scheduled for the end of

  157. the month. Isn't that awesome. We open up a neighborhood

  158. market and you know, they take something that's a lot

  159. of hard work over. I mean, thousands of people have

  160. been fed through that neighborhood market, and not only thousands

  161. have been fed, but hundreds of people have been prayed for.

  162. And we've launched free legal clinics, citizenship class. We've seen

  163. people's future change because of these things. We built and

  164. launched the four to six Ministry, which by the way,

  165. is four through sixth graders. It is the most insane

  166. ministry that we have in our whole church. If you

  167. want to see pure insanity, just take your life into

  168. your own hands and go over to the staff building.

  169. Our staff building now turns into a youth center, and

  170. I know that here in the next couple of months

  171. they're going to receive thirty more fourth graders into that ministry.

  172. We've invested in our young adults and now we're seeing

  173. God do an amazing work among our young adult ministry.

  174. We've remodeled spaces. Think about the gathering place, think about

  175. our old choir room which is now the neighborhood market.

  176. Celebrate Recovery continues to change lives. Last week, this past Tuesday,

  177. they had sixty two people at Celebrate Recovery and that awesome.

  178. It's the most they've had. So they called it see

  179. Our Demayah instead of Sinko Tomaya, But really what it

  180. was it was a safe haven for those who didn't

  181. want to be out and about on Cinco de Maya.

  182. I mean, that's some amazing, amazing ministries, and we recently

  183. we've expanded our ministry to those who were on the

  184. spectrum and we're getting to serve and honor those families.

  185. And in this past year alone, we've welcomed over when

  186. you look at our children, our youth, Arabic, Spanish, our

  187. English ministries, we've welcomed over one hundred new people in

  188. our church. And this is about the fourth year in

  189. a row that we've seen one hundred people join our church.

  190. And almost every single week someone comes up and says,

  191. I've decided for this to be my church home. Now,

  192. don't miss this. None of this came easy. There was

  193. moments where we didn't know if things would work. There

  194. was moments where it would just be easier if we

  195. stay comfortable. But the church didn't quit. People didn't quit

  196. showing up, stepping out, trusting God. And now we see

  197. the fruit and all those steps to grit. A few

  198. years ago I introduced the concept of us be coming

  199. people of grit, and I'll be honest, I've said this before.

  200. Where that came out of was being a pastor and

  201. looking over really the church of the whole United States

  202. during a pandemic, and this was our moment. This was

  203. the church in the United States. This was our moment,

  204. and we just blew it. And I've never seen so

  205. many churches fight amongst themselves, so many churches split, so

  206. many churches close, so many Christians, and it just became

  207. this war that we allowed politics to become involved in it,

  208. and the church lost its focus. And I remember during

  209. that time just talking to our leadership team and saying,

  210. you know what, all right, it would be so dumb

  211. for us to open this church back up and then

  212. just do the same thing we've done the last however

  213. many years, because I don't know if we made the

  214. right disciples. I don't know if the church world made

  215. the right disciples. And I do know one thing that

  216. needs a change. We need to become a people of

  217. grit A people who are not flaky, of people who

  218. are willing to get their hands dirty. A people who

  219. were not so much interested in how the building looks,

  220. or how the design of the building, or how cool

  221. the worship is, but they're more concerned about what are

  222. we doing for those in our neighborhood. And let me

  223. tell you something. This church is stepped up and you

  224. guys have allowed the Holy Spirit to lead and shape

  225. your life and we are seeing that through. And so

  226. my challenge today is simply this, for those of you

  227. who haven't committed to being a person of grit. You know,

  228. I'm challenging you today to say, all right, Lord of

  229. mull In. For those of you who have been going

  230. you know the Bible talks about do not grow weary

  231. and doing good. I'm asking you to recommit yourself to

  232. being a person of grit for God's kingdom. And I

  233. mentioned a lot of physical ministries that we launched, but

  234. let me tell you something. There was even some decisions

  235. that we made that involve a new ministry that required

  236. a lot of courage and grint. You know, I still

  237. remember the moment where our elders in an elder meeting

  238. talked about we can no longer be silent on a

  239. certain issue. We must bring clarity to our people. It

  240. might cost us some people, costs us some money, might

  241. cost a lot of pain, but we got to do

  242. what's right. And so, in the midst of this world

  243. that is divided by sexual ethics, Churches of Crossing produced

  244. and published a deeply biblical and traditional Orthodox theology that

  245. cleared up any questions of confusion about what the Bible

  246. teaches about sexual ethics and sexual purity. Why because we

  247. don't want the world to teach our kids about sex.

  248. We want to teach our kids about God's design for

  249. sex according to biblical counsel, and we want to trust

  250. in and follow the infallible word of God. And that's

  251. what we're going to teach our kids about purity. And

  252. as a result, many churches in our denomination just grabbed

  253. our document, cut and pace use it for theirs. Even

  254. our state ministry, Church of God, Indiana State, they copied

  255. a lot of and it ended up becoming the foundation

  256. for what the pastors in our state had to sign

  257. so they could keep their ordination. I mean, God, this

  258. was a big step. And I remember thinking, you know,

  259. you know, telling the elders, I don't know. I don't know.

  260. I don't know if we want to publish this, because

  261. you know, we've just been through so much with this pandemic.

  262. I don't know if we want to do this. And

  263. the elders, the elders of our church, said, you know what,

  264. let's not fear those things. If we say this is

  265. who we are, then let's not shy away. Let's just

  266. be honest about what we believe. And so we published it,

  267. and let me tell you something. I was so worried

  268. about the consequences of Here's what I saw over the

  269. next couple of years. So many new families come to

  270. our church, and I would ask a lot of them,

  271. what made you come to this church? And he said, well,

  272. we were searching all the websites and we could not

  273. find a church that was clear about what they believed.

  274. You guys, were clear about what you believed about sexual ethics.

  275. So we came. We tried when we joined the church. Now,

  276. that was something that in that time, in that moment

  277. when the world was blowing up like right today, that

  278. probably wouldn't feel like a big deal throwing it out,

  279. But in that moment, that was a big deal. That

  280. was like tossing a grenade out into Indianapolis. But a

  281. lot of the things that God has calling us to do,

  282. it takes grit. Our working definition of grit around here

  283. simply this grit is doing what it takes to get

  284. what matters done. Is doing what it takes to get

  285. what matters done. And we've seen a lot of grit

  286. throughout the Bible. Think about Joseph, he Ian dear prison

  287. so he could fulfill his calling. Moses stood before the

  288. most powerful man on this earth, and he said, let

  289. my people go. And all he had was a staff

  290. with him, just a simple piece of wood. And he

  291. was bold enough and grit enough to stand before the

  292. most powerful man on the earth. Think about David. He

  293. stood up to this giant and just clabbered him, knocked

  294. him out. It is shocked all of those in the

  295. valet of Elah. Here is a young boy with grit.

  296. Think about our Jesus. Jesus knew from the day that

  297. he started his mission that he was gonna endure pain, suffering,

  298. that his body was gonna be torn apart. Yet he

  299. still preached, he still loved, he still did ministry, he

  300. still defied those who were in charge, and he made

  301. his way all the way to Jerusalem, knowing that when

  302. he got to Jerusalem it was gonna be nothing but

  303. misery for him. Jesus was a man of grit. Think

  304. about Paul. Paul, Oh my gosh, what he endured over

  305. and over and over again. You know, when we think

  306. about grit, it would do us, do us good today

  307. to go back to the original man of grit. And

  308. today I want to talk about the first person in

  309. the Bible that we could point to and we could

  310. say now that that's a person of grit. This person

  311. I'm talking about lived when the whole world was corrupt,

  312. being godly nonexistent. The task given to him insurmountable, and

  313. the faith that it took for him to do this

  314. God given task is almost unmatched in the whole Bible.

  315. His faithfulness to those around him seemed like mental illness. Okay,

  316. his task caused him to be an outcast. Yeah, he

  317. believed that God was calling him, and so he was

  318. faithful to his calling. I'm talking about Noah here, and

  319. let's just take a few moments to look at the

  320. original man of grit. All right, here we go. It

  321. says the Lord saw how great the wickedness of the

  322. human race had become on us. If let me tell

  323. you something. He saw that the earth was murderous, violent, lustful, evil,

  324. corruption was the norm, Hatred was commonplace, war was on

  325. everybody's menu. He said, the wickedness of the human race

  326. had become on earth in that every inclination of the

  327. thoughts of the human heart was only what check this out,

  328. was only evil all the time, Evil all the time. Okay,

  329. So the Lord regretted Andrew talking about this a few

  330. weeks ago. What did it mean that word regret? It

  331. It means that he was deeply heartbroken that he had

  332. made human beings on the earth, and his heart was

  333. deeply troubled. So the Lord said, I'm gonna wipe out

  334. from the face of this earth the human race that

  335. I've created, and within the animals, the birds, and the

  336. creatures that move along the ground, for I regret that

  337. I've made them. But Noah found favor in the eyes

  338. of the Lord. See God looked out on his surf,

  339. and he realized this is a behavior problem that new

  340. commandments or new rules are not gonna fix. A new king,

  341. a new leader, it's not gonna fix it. I gotta

  342. start all over. And the evil was so mess it

  343. seemed into the very heart of every human on this earth.

  344. So the Lord saw how great the wickedness of the

  345. human race had become on earth, and every inclination and

  346. the thoughts of the human heart was only evil all

  347. the time. Let's look at this phrase, inclination of the thoughts.

  348. It's literally translated the forming of their thoughts, the molding

  349. of their thoughts, And so it gives us image of

  350. a person who's in the hands of a potter, and

  351. the potter is forming the clay. And so God looks

  352. out on this earth during his time, and it looks

  353. like everybody who was born is being molded and shaped

  354. to have a mind of wickedness, a mind of debauchery.

  355. They're molded into evil, molded into hate, molded into lust,

  356. molded into violence and murder. And so the people knew

  357. it was written on their hearts. Do not lie. But

  358. then they would say, well, sometimes it's necessary. It was

  359. written in their hearts, do not murder. And they're right, well,

  360. sometimes murder is necessary. It was written on their hearts.

  361. They're supposed to be with one person for the rest

  362. of their life. They said, well, who wants to just

  363. be with one person when there's other people I'm attracted to.

  364. It was written on their heart to love one another.

  365. They're like, why do that when it's so satisfying to hate?

  366. And so on and so on and so on. And

  367. by the way, our culture today is not much different.

  368. Think about the phrases we have today. Live your truth,

  369. in other words, make up your own morality, do what

  370. feels right to you, follow your emotions, do what makes

  371. you happy, or it's all about love, right, Love is

  372. all that matters. We have the same rebellious spirit today

  373. not to follow the ways of God. By the way

  374. their early church and apostles reign into this. Just four years,

  375. four years after Jesus resurrected, we see this guy Caligula

  376. and he starts to reign as emperor over Rome. This

  377. guy was sadistic, He was a pervert, He was messed up,

  378. and this guy created a culture that was sex crazed

  379. and immoral. Following in his line was a guy later

  380. down the road, Nero, who was so messed up in

  381. his head that he thought it would be fun to

  382. make sport of humans, threw them into the gladiatorial games,

  383. light them on fire. I mean, these guys were twisted,

  384. they were messed up. And so this is the culture

  385. that the church thrived in. Think about it. It started

  386. in a room. It was just a few who gathered

  387. together to hang out in fellowship and focus on God's word.

  388. And yet they spread out in the midst of this sadistic,

  389. messed up world, and God bless them. Why let me

  390. tell you something about the early Church. They were people

  391. of grit, They didn't care. They did what it took

  392. to do what matters. And so you know, even today

  393. we say that man, those guys were messed up. But

  394. let me tell you, I'm neither today nor the early

  395. Church came close to the evil of Noah's day. It says.

  396. So the Lord said, I will wipe from the face

  397. of earth to human race I've created. Yet faithfully he

  398. found one that was faithful to him despite what was

  399. going on in the rest of the world, it says,

  400. but Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord.

  401. And so here's what God did. God said a timer, okay,

  402. to give Noah time to raise his family, to have children,

  403. to build a huge arc, to gather the animals. That says,

  404. then the Lord said, my spirit will not contend with

  405. humans forever, for their mortal their days will be one

  406. hundred and twenty years Now. A lot of people see

  407. that passage as we're gonna live to be one hundred

  408. and twenty years old. The way I read that passage

  409. is God was gonna give people on this earth one

  410. hundred and twenty years to repent. Why because we serve

  411. a holy God, but a graceful God. He didn't want

  412. to destroy for one hundred and twenty years. As Noah

  413. built this ark, God was hoping that people would repent,

  414. that people would turn, that people would draw near to God.

  415. But what do we see, Oh, they never turned to God.

  416. But in the midst of all this evil, we see

  417. God's grace. It says in chapter six, verse thirteen. Then

  418. God said to Noah, the end of all flesh has

  419. come before me, for the earth is filled with violence

  420. because of them. And behold, I'm about to destroy them

  421. with the earth. He said, make for yourself an ark

  422. of gopher wood. And he said, you shall make you

  423. know the ark with rooms. This Noah did according to

  424. all God that commanded him. So he did. And God

  425. tells Noah, I old this incredible montrosity of an arc,

  426. and he does it. And let me tell you something.

  427. Because of Noah's faithfulness, because I Noa's great, you're here today.

  428. We're all here today because one man was faithful to

  429. God and did what it took to get things done.

  430. It was grueling work, it was backbreaking work. You know,

  431. each winter our household goes through at least a two

  432. truckloads of wood. And I love the cutwood. I love fires.

  433. And almost every night during the winter Gena and I

  434. in our evening with a fire and a fireplace. That's

  435. just kind of like that's where we reset every evening.

  436. And I'm again, you know, but I cheat sometimes I

  437. use a wood splitter when no one's around, and I

  438. come inside look at my wife, like wow. You know.

  439. I was in Wisconsin a few years ago for a

  440. hunting trip and we were driving out in the Boonies

  441. and I look over and there's this mina nite guy.

  442. He's wearing a jacket, a suit jacket and a hat

  443. and this tree. I mean, you could not even put

  444. even four or five people stood here. We could not

  445. get our arms around it together. This tree was gargantiuman

  446. and he was out there in the middle of the

  447. day with an axe. And we drove by quickly and

  448. going was that guy cutting that huge tree with an axe.

  449. So what we did was we went around this country

  450. mile I said, I gotta see this again. And then

  451. we drove back by and I'm like, this dude is

  452. cutting that tree with an axe. He's cutting it with

  453. And I said to my buddies, like, there's one true

  454. man left on this earth. And we found him a

  455. few hours later. We came back by, and he was

  456. still cutting that tree. And let me tell you something

  457. that blows my mind. But Noah would have given anything

  458. or a high carbon steel axe. He had this early

  459. form of iron acts. And let me tell you something.

  460. Let me tell you something. The amount of hours that

  461. it took him to cut one tree would blow your mind.

  462. And so Novah he labored any sweating and suffered for decades.

  463. Why all because of a calling from Gossie. He again,

  464. he was the original man of guilt or of grit.

  465. And let me tell you, here's what I'm asking us

  466. to do today, in light of the calling for our church,

  467. in light of looking at Noah and all the biblical

  468. examples of all these people of grit, here's what I'm

  469. asking for us to do today. We're gonna look at

  470. the characteristics of Noah, and I'm gonna ask you at

  471. the end of this message to look at those characteristics

  472. and have a conversation with God about which one you

  473. need to grow in. So that's what we're gonna do

  474. for the rest of time, just a few moments. We're

  475. gonna look at the characteristics of the original man of grit.

  476. Let's look at number one. He fulfilled. He fulfilled his

  477. call through grunt work. He he he worked like like

  478. no one had ever worked before. He was a beast. Tough,

  479. grueling work and by the way Kingdom works sometimes can

  480. be grueling. I can't help but think about Thursday nights.

  481. Every Thursday night for the last eight years, there's a

  482. group of people who at around five five point thirty

  483. have to transform a cafe into a sanctuary. That takes

  484. quite a well, you know, it takes a bit of time.

  485. It's all physical work, lifting up chairs, moving tables. After

  486. service send his services over, they don't get to hang

  487. out and chat and and and you know, just chill

  488. out with our friends. They then gotta take him, put

  489. everything back up and set the room back up for

  490. a cafe. It eight years. That group has never came

  491. to me and complained. Why Because they know what they're doing,

  492. They know what they're mis I think about another group

  493. are people who run our neighborhood market. Now here's what

  494. you need to understand about our neighborhood market. Because we

  495. feed so many people that about every two weeks we

  496. gotta go out and get a lot of food. We

  497. got we got a red shirt all and then we

  498. gotta go and put it all back out now about

  499. every two weeks. That's a lot of work. And that

  500. work is done when no one's really around. It's done

  501. not in front of a crowd, not in front of

  502. a group. But basically, think about a mini mart. They

  503. have to restock a whole mini mart every two weeks

  504. just to serve and love on our community. And here's

  505. the reality. They do it about glory. They just get

  506. in there and get physical and see. Sometimes kingdom work

  507. is tough on our bodies. Number two, Noah labored for

  508. the good of others. He suffered for his family, but

  509. he also suffered for us. We're here today because of him.

  510. He suffered for future generations who wouldn't even know him.

  511. And that's why I calling us to work hard for

  512. our children in our youth ministry is to pour into them.

  513. We invest, we serve, we labor, because they're the future

  514. of God's kingdom. Jordan was telling me that right now

  515. we have more little kids in preschool than we've ever had,

  516. and this church is getting a lot younger, and we're

  517. throwing out a lot of babies. And let me tell

  518. you something. The most hero thing that someone can do

  519. on a weekend here at church is to change the

  520. diaper as some chubby baby that's not your own child

  521. or your own grandchild, so that a young family could

  522. come and hear in worship. That's kingdom love. Let me

  523. tell you about our former head elder, doctor Terry Horner.

  524. He's if you don't know him, he is a renowned neurosurgeon.

  525. For decades, he was on the sidelines for Indiana University football.

  526. For the Indianapolis Colts, he was their head injury guy.

  527. So he actually got to touch Peyton Manon's head and

  528. I don't know how many concussions it takes for his

  529. head to get shaped that way. But you know, here's

  530. this guy. He's hung out with celebrities and you know,

  531. on the sideline, and he's lived a life that a

  532. lot of us can't imagine. And he was our head

  533. elder during the pandemic, very challenging time. And when that

  534. time ended, he was trying to figure out why his

  535. next ministry. But you know, he's not too many years

  536. away from eighty. I don't know his zact age. I

  537. think it's rude at a certain point to ask. But

  538. as he was looking for his next role in ministry.

  539. He took the toughest job in our church. He's a

  540. nursery worker. And here's this neurosurgeon every single week changing diapers.

  541. Why so the young families can worship in peace? You know,

  542. Terry's one. We have a lot of Noah's in this church,

  543. but he's one of the Noah's in this church. And

  544. we need a lot more nous to rise up. Let's

  545. look continue to talk about Noah. Noah was also jeered,

  546. not cheered by society. And let's be honest, most people

  547. thought he was crazy building a huge ship nowhere near

  548. water that had never seen a flood before. And sometimes

  549. your friends are gonna think you're crazy for, you know,

  550. spending your time here, your resources, spending all this energy,

  551. you know, not going out with your friends and partying

  552. like you used to. And let me tell you, a

  553. personal grit follows the Lord, even if no one around

  554. them follows. Noah. We also see wasn't a complainer. He

  555. just got it done. He didn't want it done for him.

  556. He didn't expect the wood to cut itself. But he

  557. was a man who saw himself as a laborer of

  558. the Lord. Now complaining in this church. Here's where it's

  559. okay if we drop your kid on their head, like

  560. there's appropriate times to complain, like we shouldn't do that. Okay,

  561. that's our bad, but just to complain over your preferences.

  562. The person that grit doesn't do that, that's a sign

  563. of immaturity. Is selfishness. And when a toddler in our

  564. nursery grabs a hold of a toy and says, mine,

  565. I want this, we kind of expect it. But when

  566. an adult says I want this, it doesn't feel like

  567. a person a grit. And we're calling us, we're calling

  568. all of us to be people of grit. Next, we

  569. see he was a man of obedience, not only because

  570. he built the arms, but he followed the Lord's plans

  571. and obeyed him. Next, he lived by faith and not

  572. by sight. And that's what people of grit do. They

  573. work and they labor and deliver even when they don't

  574. see things happening, trusting that the Lord will be faithful

  575. in the future. Also, he did what it took to

  576. get it done, and there was times where he had

  577. to be so creative. Think about this. He had to

  578. build a zoo before there were zoos and here's the

  579. thing that bothers me about Noah'm gonna tell you something

  580. right now, here's what bothers me about Noah. Noah thousands

  581. of years ago figured out how to get all the

  582. animals that come to him, and he didn't write any

  583. of this down. So every generation dumb hunters go out

  584. there and stumble in the dark, and we don't know

  585. what to do when some do thousands of years ago

  586. figured out how to get every animal to him. But whatever,

  587. he was creative, he took what he did what it

  588. took to get things done. Okay, Now, why am I

  589. calling us to be a people of great the people

  590. who look at people like know and say, all right,

  591. we need to become like Noah. Well, it's because our

  592. goal here is to become a better church, not a

  593. bigger church. And I'm not talking about comparing ourselves to

  594. other churches. No, no, no no, I'm talking about us every

  595. year becoming a better church. And how do we judge

  596. ourselves by what standards? You know? Instead of looking at

  597. attendant sheets, here's what we do. We look at Matthew

  598. twenty five. That's if you want to know what our

  599. attendants is. We compare ourselves to this, not to a number.

  600. Let's look at this together, says When the Son of

  601. Man comes in his glory, just talking about the end

  602. of time and all the angels with him, he will

  603. see on his glorious throne, all the nations will be

  604. gathered before him, and he will separate the people one

  605. from another, as a shepherd separates the sheep from goats.

  606. And he's gonna put the sheep on his right, then

  607. the goat's on his left. And here's what happens. Then

  608. the king will say to those on his right, Come you,

  609. who are blessed by my father. Take your inheritance the

  610. kingdom prepared for you since the creation of this world.

  611. For I was hungry, and you gave me something to eat.

  612. I was thirsty, and you gave me something to drink.

  613. I was a stranger and you invited me in. I

  614. needed clothes and you clothed me. I was sick and

  615. you looked after me. And I was in prison and

  616. you came to visit me. And they're gonna say, when

  617. we when did we do all that? Verse forty. The

  618. King will reply, truly, I tell you, whatever you did,

  619. one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine.

  620. You did for me. Here's what I want you to understand.

  621. Everything you do in the kingdom, you're not only serving others,

  622. but you're serving Jesus and blessing Jesus as well. When

  623. you love on a kid, you're you're loving on Jesus.

  624. When you when you when you pick clean up a mess,

  625. you clean up a mess in Jesus's name. And let

  626. me again, I want to break this passage down because

  627. it has a simple but very powerful, blunt message. When

  628. it's all said and done, what is gonna matter is

  629. not what was said, but what was done with what

  630. we said? In other words, did we preach the gospel

  631. and then live it out? So how does this apply

  632. for the Church of the Crossing. Well, we asked the question,

  633. what is Matthew twenty five? To us? What is our

  634. Matthew twenty five? Well, first of all, we begin with

  635. the family, okay, And so we're committed to have the

  636. best children's ministry and youth ministry around that that we

  637. can possibly have. Okay, We're gonna invest our resources, our staff,

  638. our dollars, and to our children in our youth because

  639. they're the future. Next week, we will be announcing our

  640. new children's pastor, and Jordan has been going through this

  641. transition for a year and Jordan's gonna continue to stay

  642. through the summer. But we're excited next week to be

  643. sharing who our next children's pastor is. Our youth ministry,

  644. we want to be a place that's safe where they

  645. could build relationships at the same time not compromise the

  646. word of God. We want our groups here at our

  647. church to run deep, be deep, deeply connected with each other.

  648. We want to worship with passion in here. We don't

  649. want to just check in. We want to seek the Lord.

  650. We want to pray over every situation, and we want

  651. to preach the truth with grace and without compromise. See again,

  652. our goal is to be a better church, not a

  653. bigger church. So we have this desire to look around

  654. our community and say, all right, what does it look

  655. like for us to fulfill Matthew twenty five. Well, we

  656. started some things, like I said, a neighborhood mark, get

  657. autis the ministry, free legal help, citizenship class, celebrate recovery.

  658. We're continuing Passport to employment soon, immigration connection. Well, those

  659. things have taken time, just like Noah It took decades,

  660. but our job's not over yet. I still see things

  661. I still think about our future here at the church

  662. and in our community. I still see a day where

  663. when it comes around fall, if anybody needs a coat

  664. or gloves, they know they can come here. We're gonna

  665. take care of them. One of the biggest needs in

  666. our areas a laundry room. I believe we can do

  667. that someday. A couple months ago, I went to Chicago

  668. just to check out a church that had a free

  669. medical clinic. Let me tell you something, we could do this.

  670. We have the resources, and we have the talent. We

  671. can pull this off. And let me tell you with

  672. health care and the all schooling crazy, this could be

  673. a huge ministry. I still want to see us having

  674. counseling offer for free to anybody in our community needs it.

  675. You know, I've thrown this out a few times. I

  676. would love for us to change oil about three times

  677. a year for single moms. I will love when Thanksgiving

  678. comes around for us to feed one hundred families. And

  679. then when I look around and I realize, here's the stats.

  680. They say if a child is going to come to Christ,

  681. ninety seven percent of them come to Christ before they're eighteen.

  682. So in other words, if someone really doesn't come to

  683. Christ before they're eighteen, there's a very little chance that

  684. they will come to Christ. And then I look at

  685. our area around here, and I think we got to

  686. do something about our children because their parents are not

  687. going to teach them about Christ. And so I think

  688. that we could easily have one bus or two buses

  689. of maybe fifteen passengers, and we could just start a

  690. ministry where we go around and we start ministering and

  691. sharing the love of Jesus Christ and bringing these children

  692. from unchurched families into our ministry. Like I said, we

  693. probably can't do a hundred, but I think we can

  694. start with fifteen because let me tell you something, if

  695. we don't tell them about Jesus, they're not going to

  696. know about Jesus. And by the way, everything I've mentioned here,

  697. it takes a lot of work, a lot of sacrifice,

  698. but one step at a time, see again, because our

  699. goal is to be a better church, not a bigger church.

  700. So in order to do this, we just have to

  701. decide to throw a punch, throw a haymaker, and say,

  702. you know what, I'm not gonna back down. We're gonna

  703. be people of grit. We're gonna continue in the mission,

  704. and we're gonna own this community and say, if there's

  705. a need, if there is if there's a pain in

  706. this community, and if we have the talent and the

  707. resources to meet it, we're going to do it. But

  708. let me tell you something. It takes an all play.

  709. This is something that if we only have twenty percent

  710. of the people in our church doing it will crumble.

  711. And it's not self sustaining. This is an all play.

  712. So here's what we're gonna do, is we cast vision today.

  713. Here's what I'm gonna do. Could you throw back up

  714. the characteristics of Noah? And what we're gonna do is

  715. we're just gonna take a couple of minutes to pray.

  716. And I want you to look at these characteristics of

  717. Noah and I want you to ask, all right, God,

  718. what are some of those that I need to grow in?

  719. And I want you to commit and say, all right, Lord,

  720. help me grow this here and take time allow the

  721. Holy Spirit to speak to you. Maybe maybe you've been

  722. on the sidelines and it's time to go get your

  723. hands dirty. I'm just gonna allow the Holy spirit to

  724. speak to you. So let's just take some time to pray.

  725. Let's talk to the Lord. Now, let's pray