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Grit & Grace: Week 2

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  1. Good morning, and welcome to Church at the Crossing. My

  2. name is Andrew. If you are new or if this

  3. is your first time, I'm so glad that you decided

  4. to be here today. We are in a message series

  5. called Grit and Grace, and in this series, we're talking

  6. about the type of church that we want to be.

  7. We want to be a people of grit and grace.

  8. We want to be a people who will roll up

  9. our sleeves, get our hands dirty to fulfill the mission

  10. of God. We're going to do whatever it takes to

  11. get what matters done. We want to be a people

  12. of grit and grace. And so that's why I'm wearing

  13. a baseball jersey today because as we talk about the

  14. people we want to become, I'm speaking as one of

  15. our coaches, and so the front of the jersey it

  16. says we are Church at the Crossing, We are the

  17. ninety nine and then we go love one more. That's

  18. part of our mission, that's our vision. And so today

  19. we're going to be concentrating on being a people of grace,

  20. and I want to invite you to open your Bible

  21. to John twenty one, which we'll be looking at in

  22. a moment. But first, let's pray together to prepare our

  23. hearts to receive from God. Father, God, thank you for

  24. your grace and thank you for your presence. God. We

  25. come today in these next few moments to hear from

  26. your word. God. We pray that these next few moments

  27. would be a supernatural spiritual encounter with your word. By

  28. your spirit. God, we want to dedicate our attention, our

  29. concentration to receiving from you. Would you challenge us, would

  30. you convict us? Would you inspire us by your word?

  31. And may we have the faith to be obedient to

  32. what we receive from you today. I pray all of

  33. this in Jesus' name. Amen, if you ever wanted to

  34. have a do over, you ever have a moment where

  35. you just blew it, you just messed up, like you

  36. want a second chance, Well, that's what grace is. Grace

  37. very simply is a second chance for the millionth time.

  38. That's what grace is, a second chance for the millionth time.

  39. Let me tell you three stories about when I wish

  40. I had a second chance. So the first story, when

  41. I was a teenager in the church where I was

  42. growing up, I served in our youth ministry on the

  43. tech team, and my youth pastor was preparing a sermon

  44. to give to our youth service, and he wanted to

  45. show a movie scene from a movie, and so he

  46. gave me the name of the movie, and he told

  47. me exactly what time to start the movie scene on

  48. the movie, like like one hour and twenty three minutes

  49. and twelve seconds. That's when we hit play to show

  50. this clip for his teaching his lesson, and so he

  51. was teaching to the whole group of students and parents.

  52. And then the moment came and I had queued up.

  53. I put the DVD into the DVD player and scanned

  54. to that exact moment that he told me, and he

  55. set up the movie scene and I hit play, and

  56. the movie came onto the screens, and the actors on

  57. the movie started saying bleep, bleep, bleep, bleep, bleep, please bleep.

  58. It was the wrong movie scene. Expletives, curse words, very inappropriate.

  59. I was horrified. My youth pastor was horrified. He looked

  60. at me like he could kill me. What went wrong?

  61. It was the wrong scene? What went wrong? Well, I

  62. double checked, I had queued it up, set it up

  63. to the right time. That he had told me. Here's

  64. the thing. I was using a DVD of the movie.

  65. He gave me times from a VHS version of the movie.

  66. I wanted a second chance. I once was officiating a

  67. funeral that was about an hour away, and so I

  68. got in the car and had plenty of time to

  69. make it there with time to spare. But I did

  70. not expect to encounter construction traffic on the highway, and

  71. there was nothing I could do to avoid it. I

  72. got into this traffic. I got stuck. There was no

  73. off ramp, there was no shoulder like I was stuck

  74. in standstill traffic. I mean standstill, like we were not moving.

  75. And I was watching the clock because it was still

  76. moving and I was gonna be arriving with five minutes

  77. to spare.

  78. Then I was gonna be arriving on time, and then

  79. I'm gonna be five minutes late, like I'm panicking imagining

  80. this grieving family, like sitting in the front row of

  81. the funeral home, waiting for the pastor to arrive.

  82. Finally, the traffic cleared up, and I floored it like

  83. I gunned it, and I threw caution to the wind,

  84. speeding down the highway and as I was speeding down

  85. the highway, I saw something in my rearview mirror. It

  86. was the flashing red and blue and police officer pulled

  87. me over. And police officer did not care that I

  88. was on my way to funeral, did not care that

  89. I was on officiating the funeral. And police officer gave

  90. me a ticket and a very very stern warning. And

  91. when I finally did make it to the funeral home,

  92. the family member who had asked me to officiate was

  93. standing on the corner of the street waiting for me.

  94. I wanted a second chance once Ii'm on our Thursday

  95. night service over in the Haverstick worship had just started.

  96. I was sitting in the back during service and I

  97. got a text message on my phone from a pastor

  98. friend from another church, and the text message said, Hey, Andrew,

  99. I hope you're on your We're starting soon. He had

  100. invited me to come speak and share at his church,

  101. but I didn't have the right date, and so panic

  102. filled me and I stepped out of the worship service

  103. and I called him and I said, I'm at my

  104. church today. I don't have your church on my calendar.

  105. I have the wrong date. And he was shocked. He

  106. was stunned, he couldn't believe it. And then I'll always

  107. remember what he said to me on the phone. He said, Andrew,

  108. the devil would love to get in between us right

  109. now with division and mistrust and anger. But I'm not

  110. gonna let that happen. It's gonna be okay. Grace, Grace, Grace.

  111. I love you, Grace. But now I need to hang

  112. up the phone and go get a message ready in

  113. the next ten minutes. I wish I had a second chance.

  114. Grace is a second chance for the millionth time. In

  115. that story about the police officer pulling me over, that

  116. police officer showed me justice, showed me, It gave me

  117. a punishment appropriately for what I was doing wrong. But

  118. that pastor for of mine showed me grace, showed me grace.

  119. He could have blamed me, he could have thrown me

  120. under the bus and told his church that I messed up,

  121. but he showed me grace. Grace is the second chance

  122. for the millionth time. If you want a more formal definition,

  123. grace is unearned, undeserved blessing at the expense of the giver.

  124. Look at this definition. Grace is at the expense of

  125. the giver. This is critical because grace is not free.

  126. Grace costs the giver something to give it. It cost

  127. my pastor friend, he absorbed the cost of frantically scrambling

  128. to put a message together with no prep It cost

  129. him the chaos of that evening. It cost him maybe

  130. looking a little foolish with his church. It cost him

  131. to show me grace. And you know what he did.

  132. He covered for me. He didn't blame me, he didn't

  133. throw me under the bus. He covered for me. And

  134. it makes me think of what we read in First Peter,

  135. chapter four, verse eight. Above all love each other deeply,

  136. because love does what covers over a multitude of sins.

  137. That's what grace does. It covers. This is the gospel

  138. of Jesus, that the grace of God covers us. Because

  139. of our sin, because of our disobedience, we are separated

  140. from God. We deserve justice, we deserve to spend eternity

  141. in hell because of sin. But God, in his love,

  142. sent his son Jesus to be a sacrificial payment for

  143. our sin. When Jesus died on the cross, he died

  144. as our substitute. He absorbed the wrath of God for

  145. your sins so that we could receive grace. Because grace

  146. costs the gift giver. It costs God, the father's sending

  147. his son, It costs the sun, it costs Jesus his blood.

  148. We are covered in the blood. The worst thing you've

  149. done in your life, the thing you wish you had

  150. to do over a second chance, that is covered by

  151. the blood of Jesus. It's all about grace. It's the

  152. Gospel of grace that we are covered. And so Peter,

  153. who writes these words in verse eight, he says love

  154. covers multituis sins. Peter wrote these words because he knows

  155. what he's talking about. These words love covers multitus sins

  156. is not just a philosophical idea for Peter. It's not

  157. just a theological or religious concept. For Peter. These words

  158. have a deep personal and emotional connection to Peter because

  159. there was a time that Peter really really messed up,

  160. and Peter needed a second chance, wanted a second chance.

  161. I shared three stories about when I messed up and

  162. wanted a second chance. Let me tell you about when

  163. Peter messed up three times. It was the night when

  164. Jesus was arrested. He was in the garden praying, and

  165. the mob and his accusers came and they seized him,

  166. and they dragged Jesus to a trial, and Peter, being

  167. a loyal friend, followed at a distance to see what

  168. would happen to Jesus. And here's what we read in

  169. Matthew chapter twenty six. Now Peter was sitting out in

  170. the courtyard, and a servant girl came to him. You

  171. also were with Jesus of Galilee, she said, But he

  172. denied it before them all. I don't know what you're

  173. talking about, he said. Then he went out to the gateway,

  174. where another servant girl saw him and said to the

  175. people there, this fellow was with Jesus of Nazareth. He

  176. denied it again, with an oath, I don't know the man.

  177. After a little while, those standing there went up to

  178. Peter and said, surely you are one of them. Your

  179. accent gives you away, and he began to call down curses,

  180. and he swore to them, I don't know the man.

  181. Imediately a rooster crowed. Three times. Peter denies knowing Jesus

  182. three times. He fails. Three times, he blows it, he

  183. messes up. And then we read verse seventy five, Peter

  184. remembered the word Jesus had spoken just hours before, when

  185. they were at a meal together. Jesus said, Peter, before

  186. the rooster crows, you will disown me. Three times, and

  187. he went outside and wept bitterly. He wept. He knew

  188. he had messed up. He knew he wanted a second chance,

  189. he wanted a do over. Have you ever seen a

  190. grown man weep? It's heartbreaking. A good friend of mine

  191. was in a car accident that night. He had had

  192. too much to drink, and he has no memory of how.

  193. He ended up in the back of an ambulance and

  194. a neck brace on his way to the hospital. And

  195. when we saw each other for the first time after that,

  196. I really didn't know what I was going to say

  197. or what to expect. And when I saw him, he

  198. had the neck brace and his beard pushed up over

  199. his chin, and he had no words. He was at

  200. rock bottom. And this grown man with a big, thick

  201. beard just wept and sobbed, and through the tears he whispered,

  202. I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry. And

  203. the only thing that I could say was I love you,

  204. I love you. I love you, because in that moment,

  205. he was at rock bottom. My friend did not need

  206. someone to jump up and down on him to tell

  207. him what a knucklehead he was for doing something so ridiculous.

  208. He didn't need to be judged him. He needed a

  209. friend at rock bottom to say I love you. Peter

  210. was at rock bottom, broken and ashamed. Grace picks you

  211. up from rock bottom. And you may not be in

  212. a car wreck or in a neck brace, but if

  213. your life feels like a wreck, Grace meets you in

  214. the wreckage. When you've been wrecked by sin or wrecked

  215. by grief, Grace meets you in that broken when you've

  216. been wrecked by addiction, erecked by brokenness. There is grace

  217. for you. For the person who's thinking that you've run

  218. out of second chances, I'm here to tell you that

  219. God does not run out of second chances. There is

  220. no sin too great that grace cannot overcome. There is

  221. no pit, there is no rock bottom too deep that

  222. the grace of God cannot meet you there, because Grace

  223. picks us up from rock bottom. And that's where Peter

  224. was weeping, bitterly, broken, ashamed, depressed, alone, he messed up.

  225. After Peter's threefold denial, Jesus was condemned. The next day

  226. he was crucified, and his dead body was placed in

  227. a tomb. And three days later the stone in front

  228. of that tomb rolled away, and Jesus rose from the

  229. dead victorious. And after the resurrection, Jesus and Peter met

  230. face to face. There's a conversation. It's in John twenty one.

  231. And I wonder if Peter was a little bit nervous.

  232. I wonder if Peter struggled to make eye contact with

  233. Jesus in this conversation. But I want us to look

  234. at John twenty one, Starting in verse fifteen, Jesus said

  235. to Simon, Peter, Simon's son of John, do you love

  236. me more than these? So notice here that Jesus calls

  237. him by his full name. Jesus had given him the

  238. name Peter to signify his strength and his leadership, but

  239. his given name was Simon's son of John. And so

  240. this is kind of like when you get middle named

  241. by your parent. If my mom growing up ever, said

  242. Andrew David, I knew she was serious. So Jesus is serious.

  243. He says, Simon's son of John, do you love me

  244. more than these. He's probably talking about the other disciples there.

  245. Do you love me more than your friends? Do you

  246. love your friends? Yes, Lord, he said, you know that

  247. I love you. Jesus said, feed my lambs verse sixteen.

  248. Again Jesus said to Simon's son of John, do you

  249. love me? He answered, yes, Lord, you know that I

  250. love you, and Jesus said, take care of my sheep

  251. verse seventeen. The third time he said to him, Simon's

  252. son of John, do you love me? Peter was hurt

  253. because Jesus asked him the third time? Do you love me?

  254. He said, Lord, you know all things. You know that

  255. I love you, and Jesus said, feed my sheep. So

  256. notice here it says that Peter was hurt why because

  257. Jesus asked him the third time. Peter was hurt because

  258. he asked him a third time. Do you see the

  259. pattern of three in this story? In this text, Peter

  260. denied Jesus three times. Now Jesus asks him three times,

  261. do you love me? Three times? Peter says yes. Three instructions,

  262. Jesus gives Peter pattern of three, and Peter sees what

  263. Jesus is doing one by one Jesus is addressing each

  264. of Peter's denials systematically, intentionally. He's addressing each denial, each failure,

  265. with grace because he loves Peter. I told you about

  266. when I let down my pastor friend. He showed me

  267. so much grace. Shortly after that, we met in person

  268. together and I continue to apologize and ask for his forgiveness,

  269. and he continued to show more grace. In fact, he said, Andrew,

  270. I still want you to come and share at my church.

  271. And I said, no way, like you shouldn't trust me.

  272. I don't deserve that like no, but he insisted, He

  273. insists he's like for our friendship, he still wants you

  274. to come. Grace preserves relationships. Grace heals relationships, strengthens relationships.

  275. What relationship in your life needs a little more grace?

  276. Where do you need to show a little more grace?

  277. Who needs a little more patience forgiveness? Who needs your encouragement?

  278. Grace is what preserves relationships. Jesus knew that Peter was broken.

  279. He saw Peter's repentance, and so the grace of Jesus

  280. restores the friendship between Jesus and Peter, and it also

  281. restored Peter to leadership because the three instructions that Jesus

  282. has for Peter, feed my lambs, take care of my sheep,

  283. feed my sheep. Those are leadership instructions, Jesus saying, Peter,

  284. preach the gospel, lead the church, pastor the people of God.

  285. Be a leader, because Grace transformed Peter into a humble leader.

  286. If you know Peter's life and you can read it

  287. throughout the Gospels, before this moment, before great Peter was

  288. not a very humble leader. Peter was pretty self confident,

  289. pretty self assured. Peter was a little bit cocky before

  290. Grace changed him. I want us to go back before

  291. Peter denied Jesus. So go back to John thirteen, before

  292. the denial. Go back to before Jesus was arrested. Jesus

  293. and the disciples are sharing a meal, and Jesus tells

  294. them trouble is coming, and then Peter speaks up. In

  295. John thirteen, verse thirty six Simon. Peter asked him, Lord,

  296. where are you going? Jesus replied, where I'm going. You

  297. cannot follow, but you will follow. Later, Peter asked, Lord,

  298. why can't I follow you? Now? I will lay down

  299. my life for you. Another Gospels say, he says, I'll

  300. go to prison for you, I'll sacrifice for you, I'll

  301. die for you. Jesus. I mean, this guy sounds pretty common.

  302. He sounds that he's got a lot of grit. You know,

  303. he's courageous, litle bit cocky because he doesn't know what

  304. he doesn't know. Grace prevents a humble church from becoming

  305. a cocky church. In my doctorate program or class, got

  306. to meet and learn from church leaders around the country.

  307. And I remember one interview listening to a church leader

  308. talk about a big change that they made at their church.

  309. And this large church had purchased a new building in

  310. many miles from their original location, and they moved the

  311. whole church to this new place because they felt like

  312. that's where God wanted them, and that was the mission

  313. of God was to be in that place. However, the

  314. church leadership did not expect some of the fallout because

  315. they moved so quickly and so hastily and so confidently.

  316. Somewhere maybe around fifty percent of the people in the

  317. church did not move with the relocation and they just

  318. left the church. And it made an impression on me

  319. listening to this leader talk. It didn't seem to bother

  320. him that much. He just kind of shrugged and said, well,

  321. we knew we would you get the numbers back with

  322. new people after we relocated. There wasn't a lot of

  323. grace or patience to make a decision slowly and appropriately.

  324. Grace prevents a humble church from becoming a cocky church.

  325. Before grace, Peter was overly confident. Peter was cocky. He

  326. was self assured, he believed he had what it took

  327. to get it done. But then Grace changed him. I've

  328. been here at Church of the Crossing from here it'll

  329. be seven years this summer. And when I first arrived

  330. here about seven years ago, I shared some things in

  331. common with Peter. You see, Peter thought he was the expert.

  332. Peter thought he knew better than Jesus. And I'll tell

  333. you when I first arrived here, I had more confidence

  334. in my experience, my training, my ability, and I had

  335. an attitude of I am the expert I know best.

  336. And over the last seven years, God has shown me

  337. that there is only one expert in the Kingdom of God,

  338. and it's the Lord Jesus Christ. He is an expert

  339. in humility. He is an expert in compassion. He's an

  340. expert in grace, and this one and only expert invites

  341. us calls us to follow him in the way of grace.

  342. Grace prevents a humble church from becoming a cocky church

  343. church of the Crossing. If we become a graceful church,

  344. God is going to use us for his kingdom. If

  345. we embody grace, it will exponentially multiply what God can

  346. do through us. If we humbly submit to God, He's

  347. gonna lead us. If we decide to be a better church,

  348. not a bigger church, then we're gonna see the Kingdom

  349. of God advanced. We're gonna see more lives changed. We're

  350. gonna see more marriage is restored. We're gonna see addiction broken.

  351. We're gonna see children growing up. Generation is growing up

  352. knowing the Gospel. If we choose to follow the path

  353. of grace, following Jesus, we're gonna see more people saved

  354. and more people baptized. Because that's the type of church

  355. that God works with. It's a graceful church following the

  356. way of Jesus. Peter was transformed by grace. He was

  357. changed by grace. Grace healed the relationship between Peter and Jesus.

  358. But that was not the only relationship that needed to

  359. be healed. Remember, as Jesus and Peter are talking, who

  360. else is listening? But the other disciples, they're there, they're

  361. watching this happen. In fact, that's why John records it.

  362. He saw it happen, and so Jesus wanted to make

  363. sure that that relationship was healed between Peter and the

  364. other disciples. I mean, think about the other disciples. It's

  365. possible that they were skeptical of Peter after the way

  366. he failed so miserably. It's possible that they they were

  367. doubting Peter's loyalty, doubting his leadership. They might have even

  368. questioned the commitment of his faith because he had messed up.

  369. And yet Jesus restores Peter and forgives Peter and shows

  370. grace because he wants the other disciples to trust Peter.

  371. To grace protects a church from division. A divided church

  372. as a church with no grace. A church without grace

  373. is full of factions, silos, and ministries that compete and

  374. compare against one another. When I was a youth pastor

  375. many years ago, I believed that the youth ministry I

  376. was leading was the most important ministry in the church,

  377. and I believed it should be acknowledged as the most

  378. important ministry. And I'm ashamed to say that. In a

  379. conversation with my executive pastor at that time, I told

  380. him that the youth ministry deserved more resources because the

  381. youth ministry baptized more students than the adult ministry had

  382. baptized that year. I'm still like, I regret that. I

  383. wish I had a second chance, but I'm committed to

  384. protecting our church from that type of attitude, a competitive attitude,

  385. a singular attitude, a silo attitude. Well this is my ministry,

  386. or I don't have anything to do with that ministry.

  387. See what does that attitude look like or sound like

  388. around here? It might be like, well the food pantry

  389. is the most important ministry, or my Sunday school class

  390. is the most valuable, or the young adults ministry is

  391. better than that ministry, or the English service is more

  392. valuable than the Arabic service, or this program this ministry

  393. deserves more acknowledgment or more promotion, or Sunday morning is

  394. better than Thursday night. I said the opposite thing on Thursday,

  395. being transparent. But you get the idea. It's this comparison,

  396. this competitive this separation. To be a people of grace,

  397. not a divided people. We're gonna celebrate other successes. We're

  398. united by our mission. That is what is leading us.

  399. It's the mission. We don't compete, we don't compare, we

  400. don't envy or criticize. We're gonna work together to do

  401. what it takes to get what matters done. We're gonna

  402. be a people of grace. Grace transformed Peter. Before that

  403. moment of grace, Peter was a coward, denying that he

  404. even knew Jesus. But that moment of grace changed Peter

  405. into a courageous leader. Notice at the end of their conversation,

  406. what does Jesus say At the end of this text,

  407. Starting in verse eighteen, Jesus said, feed my sheep very truly.

  408. I tell you, when you were younger, you dressed yourself

  409. and went where you wanted. But when you are old,

  410. you will stretch out your hands. Jesus is probably describing

  411. that Peter will be stretched out and nailed on a cross.

  412. Someone else will dress you. It's probably describing that Peter

  413. will be stripped, naked and humiliated and lead you where

  414. you do not want to go, meaning he will be

  415. led to prison and led to execution verse nineteen. Jesus

  416. said this to indicate the kind of death by which

  417. Peter would glorify God. Then he said to Peter, follow me.

  418. This isn't a very attractive job description. You're gonna be

  419. led where you don't want to go. Someone else is

  420. gonna dress you, You're gonna be stretched out, you're gonna

  421. be persecuted, you're gonna be murdered. So follow me. But

  422. this is a call of Christ in our lives, and

  423. it takes people of grit and grace to follow Jesus

  424. where he wants to lead us. This moment changed Peter's

  425. life because it turned him into a bold, gritty leader.

  426. I want to tell you that grace produces a courageous church.

  427. We're gonna be a courageous church. After this moment between

  428. Peter and Jesus. A few days later, Peter preached that

  429. Jesus was Lord in front of the whole city, and

  430. three thousand people were baptized that day, and then he

  431. was threatened to stop preaching try to be intimidated. But

  432. he said, I have to keep preaching about Jesus. Then

  433. he was arrested, and he was beaten, and he was flogged,

  434. and yet he rejoiced that he was found worthy to

  435. suffer disgrace for the name of Jesus. He was a

  436. courageous leader. We are gonna be a courageous church. Grace

  437. will make us a courageous church. We're gonna be courageous

  438. to share the gospel, courageous to serve, couragous to roll

  439. up our sleeves, get our hands dirty. We're gonna be

  440. courageous to do what it takes to get what matters done,

  441. to be the light of the Gospel in our community,

  442. no matter what it costs us. Eventually, Peter was arrested

  443. and he was condemned to be executed for his faith.

  444. And when the executioners came for Peter to take him

  445. to crucifixion, Peter had one last request and he asked

  446. that he'd be crucified up side down, because he said

  447. he was unworthy to die in the same manner as

  448. his Lord Jesus Christ. Who is this man of grit,

  449. who is this bold, courageous who is this man who

  450. does not shrink back from death but says, no, you're

  451. gonna kill me, do it upside down? Who is this

  452. courageous man none other than the coward who denied Jesus,

  453. but Grace changed him. And so I've got a sense

  454. that someone listening right now. You may have self doubt,

  455. You may have regrets. You may even feel like you

  456. are disqualified from doing the thing that God has called

  457. you to. I want to tell you today that it's

  458. the grace of Jesus that will make you courageous and

  459. equip you and empower you to do what God has

  460. called you to. Grace will make us a courageous church.

  461. And that's why Peter's qualified to write the words we

  462. read earlier in one Peter four above all love each

  463. other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins. Very briefly,

  464. with our remaining time, I just want to look at

  465. this one line, love each other deeply. I just want

  466. to briefly answer the question, how can a graceful church

  467. love each other deeply? Just a couple of points for us.

  468. Want to assume the best. We gotta assume the best

  469. when somebody lets you down. Assume the best. Don't jump

  470. to conclusions. Don't don't don't jump to an assumption. Assume

  471. the best. Maybe they forgot, maybe there was miscommunication, misunderstanding,

  472. or maybe maybe they were just having a bad day.

  473. A really dear friend of mine once told me about

  474. the moment he decided to never return to church again.

  475. When he was a young boy, he attended vacation Bible school,

  476. and summer programs at a church in his community. And

  477. just like any good church event, there was free food,

  478. and so this little boy was in line to get pizza.

  479. And just like any growing boy, one piece of pizza

  480. is not enough, and so he reached to take a

  481. second piece of pizza, and that's when somebody smacked his

  482. hand and said, only one piece of pizza. That was

  483. the moment he decided to not come back to church.

  484. And as he grew up, his life took a different turn,

  485. down a dark path of drugs, alcohol, and other evil

  486. And it was many, many, many years before he returned

  487. to Christ. What might have been different in my friend's

  488. story if someone had assumed the best. Just assume this

  489. little boy is not trying to steal from the church.

  490. Just assume he's got a fast metabolism. He's just hungry.

  491. We're gonna assume the best because Colossians Chapter four says,

  492. be wise in the way you act toward outsiders. Make

  493. the most of every opportunity to let your conversation be

  494. always full of what grace. We're gonna assume the best,

  495. no judgment, no hand smacks. You can have as much

  496. pizza as you want a church across you know. That's

  497. one of the things I love about our food pantry.

  498. Many organizations and food pantries have some standards or some

  499. requirements to shop, like provide documentation or paperwork, or provide

  500. an income statement, or reach a level of need in

  501. order to shop. But not here at Church with the Crossing,

  502. we believe if you live in Indianapolis and you have

  503. a need, you can shop here. We want to be

  504. a people of grace, so we assume the best. How

  505. can a graceful church love each other deeply? We keep

  506. short accounts. This means we don't let a fence fester.

  507. We don't hold on to grudges, keep short accounts. Holding

  508. onto resentment is like credit card debt. Let me tell

  509. you when I use my credit card and I charge

  510. something on my credit card. There is a ticking time

  511. clock that starts because what happens at the end of

  512. that when that time runs out and I don't pay

  513. that interest and interest is evil. If I don't pay

  514. that on time, if I don't keep a short account,

  515. that interest is gonna grow and it's gonna be harmful.

  516. If you hold onto a grudge, hold on to resentment,

  517. it's like a bitterness interest that just multiplies and grows.

  518. We gotta pay it off, We gotta keep short accounts.

  519. And then, finally, how does a graceful church love each

  520. other deeply? We give without keeping score, because let me

  521. tell you something about grace. Grace gives and gives and

  522. gives and gives and gives and gives without asking for

  523. anything in return. Grace is generous. It does not keep score.

  524. Every year, around Christmas time, my wife and I have

  525. the same conversation or a version of the same conversation,

  526. and usually goes something like who are we buying Christmas

  527. gifts for? And it sounds something like, well, last year,

  528. this person got us something, so we kind of owe them,

  529. or they may have an expectation, so we should really

  530. get them something this year, Or if we go to

  531. this event, that relative will be there. They might have

  532. something for us, so we should bring something for them,

  533. just to be prepared. You know, that is not gift giving.

  534. That is transactional gift raffing. Grace is not transactional. It

  535. gives and gives and gives without keeping score. That's why

  536. set in Corinthians five says God was reconciling the world

  537. to himself in Christ, not counting people's sins against them.

  538. Because of Jesus's life, death, and resurrection, God can offer

  539. us grace freely without you paying it back or paying

  540. it off. Remember what we said earlier, Grace is unearned,

  541. undeserved blessing at the expense of the giver. Grace is expensive.

  542. It costs something to give. It costs God his son.

  543. When we give grace, it will cost us. But we're

  544. gonna be a people of grace without keeping score. We're

  545. gonna give financially without a payback. We're gonna give compassion

  546. and care without strings attached. We're gonna bless people. We're

  547. gonna forgive. We're gonna be understanding without tracking what we

  548. get back in return. Here at Church of the Crossing,

  549. we will use our resources. We will use our manpower.

  550. We will use our facilities in our campus to bless people,

  551. to bring the Gospel of Jesus, to meet needs in

  552. the name of Jesus, without getting a payback or keeping score.

  553. We're gonna be a people of grace. And so if

  554. we're gonna be a church of grace, it has to

  555. start right here. It has to start right now. I

  556. once was leading a mission trip of high school students

  557. out of state where we were serving out service projects

  558. in another state. And on these trips, we often borrowed

  559. vehicles like minivans and SUVs from parents of the students

  560. so we could transport all of the students. And I

  561. was driving a borrowed minivan from a parent, and on

  562. the first night of the trip, I was late and

  563. I was looking for someplace to eat, and I was

  564. driving this mini van by myself, and I was in

  565. a car accident and it was my fault. Thankfully, nobody

  566. was hurt, but the van was smashed really good. And

  567. I was sick to my stomach because I had to

  568. make a phone call to the parent who owned the vehicle,

  569. and I was sick. I was worried that how they

  570. would react. I was worried that I would lose trust.

  571. I was worried that I'd be humiliated and embarrassed. I

  572. was just sick. And so I made that phone call

  573. and explain what had happened, and the parent was so kind.

  574. The parent said, Andrew, don't worry about it, We'll figure

  575. this out. Just glad that nobody was hurt. Then we

  576. hung off the phone, and the spirit of God must

  577. have spoken to that parent, because a few minutes later

  578. after hanging up, that parent called me back. When they

  579. called me back, they said, Andrew, I want to make

  580. sure you know that I am serious. Do not worry

  581. about this. Focus on the trip, Focus on the students,

  582. Focus on the mission. Do not let this be a distraction.

  583. This is all grace. And so if you feel like

  584. your life is a wreck and you've messed it up,

  585. I'm telling you there is more grace. If you are

  586. afraid of how God may react to you or respond

  587. to you, if you're afraid of judgment of wrath, I

  588. want to tell you that Jesus paid all of that

  589. on the Cross, so you can have grace. If you

  590. think you've run out of second chances, there is one

  591. more chance today for his grace. And so if I'm

  592. speaking to you, would you come to Jesus, confess your

  593. sin and receive his grace. I want to invite us

  594. to respond to what we've heard. Would you bow your

  595. head and close your eyes with me? And if I'm

  596. speaking to you and you want to put your faith

  597. in Jesus as your Lord and savior and receive his grace,

  598. I invite you to pray this prayer after me. Say,

  599. Dear God, I admit that I'm a sinner and I

  600. need your forgiveness. I believe Jesus died for me and

  601. rose from the dead to save me. I confess Jesus's

  602. lord of my life. Father, send your spirit into my life.

  603. Thank you for your grace. And now let me pray

  604. for all of us. Father God, we thank you for

  605. the grace that you've extended us, the grace that gives

  606. and gives and gives. Thank You that we are covered

  607. by grace. And so God, we want to be a

  608. people of grace. God, we can't be perfect people. We're

  609. not going to get it right all the time. And

  610. so God, help us to show grace to each other.

  611. Help us to show grace to one another, to walk

  612. into spirit of grace, and God, I pray with boldness

  613. that you would make us the people that you've called

  614. us to be, that we not just be playing church,

  615. not just attending church, but that we be living, breathing,

  616. being the church, making a difference in our community, making

  617. a difference in our region. God, I pray that you

  618. would help us there'd be a spirit of grace in

  619. our families, a spirit of grace across all of our ministries. God,

  620. I pray for a spirit of revival to come, because

  621. it is grace that brings forth transformation. And so we

  622. acknowledge that we are a people who are saved by grace,

  623. and we thank you for that gift we have in

  624. Jesus and in his name we pray Amen.