Sermon
Grit & Grace: Week 2
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Good morning, and welcome to Church at the Crossing. My
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name is Andrew. If you are new or if this
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is your first time, I'm so glad that you decided
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to be here today. We are in a message series
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called Grit and Grace, and in this series, we're talking
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about the type of church that we want to be.
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We want to be a people of grit and grace.
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We want to be a people who will roll up
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our sleeves, get our hands dirty to fulfill the mission
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of God. We're going to do whatever it takes to
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get what matters done. We want to be a people
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of grit and grace. And so that's why I'm wearing
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a baseball jersey today because as we talk about the
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people we want to become, I'm speaking as one of
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our coaches, and so the front of the jersey it
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says we are Church at the Crossing, We are the
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ninety nine and then we go love one more. That's
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part of our mission, that's our vision. And so today
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we're going to be concentrating on being a people of grace,
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and I want to invite you to open your Bible
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to John twenty one, which we'll be looking at in
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a moment. But first, let's pray together to prepare our
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hearts to receive from God. Father, God, thank you for
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your grace and thank you for your presence. God. We
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come today in these next few moments to hear from
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your word. God. We pray that these next few moments
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would be a supernatural spiritual encounter with your word. By
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your spirit. God, we want to dedicate our attention, our
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concentration to receiving from you. Would you challenge us, would
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you convict us? Would you inspire us by your word?
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And may we have the faith to be obedient to
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what we receive from you today. I pray all of
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this in Jesus' name. Amen, if you ever wanted to
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have a do over, you ever have a moment where
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you just blew it, you just messed up, like you
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want a second chance, Well, that's what grace is. Grace
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very simply is a second chance for the millionth time.
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That's what grace is, a second chance for the millionth time.
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Let me tell you three stories about when I wish
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I had a second chance. So the first story, when
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I was a teenager in the church where I was
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growing up, I served in our youth ministry on the
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tech team, and my youth pastor was preparing a sermon
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to give to our youth service, and he wanted to
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show a movie scene from a movie, and so he
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gave me the name of the movie, and he told
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me exactly what time to start the movie scene on
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the movie, like like one hour and twenty three minutes
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and twelve seconds. That's when we hit play to show
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this clip for his teaching his lesson, and so he
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was teaching to the whole group of students and parents.
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And then the moment came and I had queued up.
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I put the DVD into the DVD player and scanned
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to that exact moment that he told me, and he
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set up the movie scene and I hit play, and
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the movie came onto the screens, and the actors on
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the movie started saying bleep, bleep, bleep, bleep, bleep, please bleep.
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It was the wrong movie scene. Expletives, curse words, very inappropriate.
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I was horrified. My youth pastor was horrified. He looked
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at me like he could kill me. What went wrong?
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It was the wrong scene? What went wrong? Well, I
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double checked, I had queued it up, set it up
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to the right time. That he had told me. Here's
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the thing. I was using a DVD of the movie.
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He gave me times from a VHS version of the movie.
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I wanted a second chance. I once was officiating a
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funeral that was about an hour away, and so I
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got in the car and had plenty of time to
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make it there with time to spare. But I did
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not expect to encounter construction traffic on the highway, and
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there was nothing I could do to avoid it. I
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got into this traffic. I got stuck. There was no
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off ramp, there was no shoulder like I was stuck
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in standstill traffic. I mean standstill, like we were not moving.
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And I was watching the clock because it was still
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moving and I was gonna be arriving with five minutes
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to spare.
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Then I was gonna be arriving on time, and then
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I'm gonna be five minutes late, like I'm panicking imagining
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this grieving family, like sitting in the front row of
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the funeral home, waiting for the pastor to arrive.
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Finally, the traffic cleared up, and I floored it like
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I gunned it, and I threw caution to the wind,
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speeding down the highway and as I was speeding down
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the highway, I saw something in my rearview mirror. It
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was the flashing red and blue and police officer pulled
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me over. And police officer did not care that I
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was on my way to funeral, did not care that
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I was on officiating the funeral. And police officer gave
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me a ticket and a very very stern warning. And
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when I finally did make it to the funeral home,
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the family member who had asked me to officiate was
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standing on the corner of the street waiting for me.
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I wanted a second chance once Ii'm on our Thursday
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night service over in the Haverstick worship had just started.
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I was sitting in the back during service and I
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got a text message on my phone from a pastor
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friend from another church, and the text message said, Hey, Andrew,
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I hope you're on your We're starting soon. He had
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invited me to come speak and share at his church,
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but I didn't have the right date, and so panic
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filled me and I stepped out of the worship service
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and I called him and I said, I'm at my
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church today. I don't have your church on my calendar.
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I have the wrong date. And he was shocked. He
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was stunned, he couldn't believe it. And then I'll always
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remember what he said to me on the phone. He said, Andrew,
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the devil would love to get in between us right
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now with division and mistrust and anger. But I'm not
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gonna let that happen. It's gonna be okay. Grace, Grace, Grace.
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I love you, Grace. But now I need to hang
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up the phone and go get a message ready in
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the next ten minutes. I wish I had a second chance.
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Grace is a second chance for the millionth time. In
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that story about the police officer pulling me over, that
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police officer showed me justice, showed me, It gave me
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a punishment appropriately for what I was doing wrong. But
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that pastor for of mine showed me grace, showed me grace.
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He could have blamed me, he could have thrown me
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under the bus and told his church that I messed up,
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but he showed me grace. Grace is the second chance
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for the millionth time. If you want a more formal definition,
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grace is unearned, undeserved blessing at the expense of the giver.
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Look at this definition. Grace is at the expense of
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the giver. This is critical because grace is not free.
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Grace costs the giver something to give it. It cost
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my pastor friend, he absorbed the cost of frantically scrambling
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to put a message together with no prep It cost
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him the chaos of that evening. It cost him maybe
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looking a little foolish with his church. It cost him
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to show me grace. And you know what he did.
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He covered for me. He didn't blame me, he didn't
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throw me under the bus. He covered for me. And
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it makes me think of what we read in First Peter,
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chapter four, verse eight. Above all love each other deeply,
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because love does what covers over a multitude of sins.
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That's what grace does. It covers. This is the gospel
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of Jesus, that the grace of God covers us. Because
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of our sin, because of our disobedience, we are separated
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from God. We deserve justice, we deserve to spend eternity
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in hell because of sin. But God, in his love,
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sent his son Jesus to be a sacrificial payment for
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our sin. When Jesus died on the cross, he died
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as our substitute. He absorbed the wrath of God for
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your sins so that we could receive grace. Because grace
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costs the gift giver. It costs God, the father's sending
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his son, It costs the sun, it costs Jesus his blood.
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We are covered in the blood. The worst thing you've
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done in your life, the thing you wish you had
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to do over a second chance, that is covered by
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the blood of Jesus. It's all about grace. It's the
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Gospel of grace that we are covered. And so Peter,
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who writes these words in verse eight, he says love
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covers multituis sins. Peter wrote these words because he knows
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what he's talking about. These words love covers multitus sins
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is not just a philosophical idea for Peter. It's not
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just a theological or religious concept. For Peter. These words
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have a deep personal and emotional connection to Peter because
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there was a time that Peter really really messed up,
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and Peter needed a second chance, wanted a second chance.
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I shared three stories about when I messed up and
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wanted a second chance. Let me tell you about when
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Peter messed up three times. It was the night when
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Jesus was arrested. He was in the garden praying, and
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the mob and his accusers came and they seized him,
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and they dragged Jesus to a trial, and Peter, being
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a loyal friend, followed at a distance to see what
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would happen to Jesus. And here's what we read in
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Matthew chapter twenty six. Now Peter was sitting out in
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the courtyard, and a servant girl came to him. You
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also were with Jesus of Galilee, she said, But he
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denied it before them all. I don't know what you're
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talking about, he said. Then he went out to the gateway,
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where another servant girl saw him and said to the
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people there, this fellow was with Jesus of Nazareth. He
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denied it again, with an oath, I don't know the man.
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After a little while, those standing there went up to
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Peter and said, surely you are one of them. Your
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accent gives you away, and he began to call down curses,
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and he swore to them, I don't know the man.
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Imediately a rooster crowed. Three times. Peter denies knowing Jesus
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three times. He fails. Three times, he blows it, he
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messes up. And then we read verse seventy five, Peter
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remembered the word Jesus had spoken just hours before, when
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they were at a meal together. Jesus said, Peter, before
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the rooster crows, you will disown me. Three times, and
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he went outside and wept bitterly. He wept. He knew
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he had messed up. He knew he wanted a second chance,
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he wanted a do over. Have you ever seen a
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grown man weep? It's heartbreaking. A good friend of mine
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was in a car accident that night. He had had
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too much to drink, and he has no memory of how.
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He ended up in the back of an ambulance and
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a neck brace on his way to the hospital. And
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when we saw each other for the first time after that,
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I really didn't know what I was going to say
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or what to expect. And when I saw him, he
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had the neck brace and his beard pushed up over
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his chin, and he had no words. He was at
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rock bottom. And this grown man with a big, thick
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beard just wept and sobbed, and through the tears he whispered,
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I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry. And
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the only thing that I could say was I love you,
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I love you. I love you, because in that moment,
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he was at rock bottom. My friend did not need
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someone to jump up and down on him to tell
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him what a knucklehead he was for doing something so ridiculous.
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He didn't need to be judged him. He needed a
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friend at rock bottom to say I love you. Peter
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was at rock bottom, broken and ashamed. Grace picks you
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up from rock bottom. And you may not be in
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a car wreck or in a neck brace, but if
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your life feels like a wreck, Grace meets you in
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the wreckage. When you've been wrecked by sin or wrecked
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by grief, Grace meets you in that broken when you've
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been wrecked by addiction, erecked by brokenness. There is grace
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for you. For the person who's thinking that you've run
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out of second chances, I'm here to tell you that
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God does not run out of second chances. There is
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no sin too great that grace cannot overcome. There is
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no pit, there is no rock bottom too deep that
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the grace of God cannot meet you there, because Grace
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picks us up from rock bottom. And that's where Peter
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was weeping, bitterly, broken, ashamed, depressed, alone, he messed up.
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After Peter's threefold denial, Jesus was condemned. The next day
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he was crucified, and his dead body was placed in
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a tomb. And three days later the stone in front
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of that tomb rolled away, and Jesus rose from the
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dead victorious. And after the resurrection, Jesus and Peter met
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face to face. There's a conversation. It's in John twenty one.
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And I wonder if Peter was a little bit nervous.
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I wonder if Peter struggled to make eye contact with
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Jesus in this conversation. But I want us to look
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at John twenty one, Starting in verse fifteen, Jesus said
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to Simon, Peter, Simon's son of John, do you love
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me more than these? So notice here that Jesus calls
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him by his full name. Jesus had given him the
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name Peter to signify his strength and his leadership, but
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his given name was Simon's son of John. And so
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this is kind of like when you get middle named
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by your parent. If my mom growing up ever, said
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Andrew David, I knew she was serious. So Jesus is serious.
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He says, Simon's son of John, do you love me
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more than these. He's probably talking about the other disciples there.
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Do you love me more than your friends? Do you
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love your friends? Yes, Lord, he said, you know that
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I love you. Jesus said, feed my lambs verse sixteen.
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Again Jesus said to Simon's son of John, do you
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love me? He answered, yes, Lord, you know that I
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love you, and Jesus said, take care of my sheep
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verse seventeen. The third time he said to him, Simon's
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son of John, do you love me? Peter was hurt
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because Jesus asked him the third time? Do you love me?
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He said, Lord, you know all things. You know that
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I love you, and Jesus said, feed my sheep. So
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notice here it says that Peter was hurt why because
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Jesus asked him the third time. Peter was hurt because
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he asked him a third time. Do you see the
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pattern of three in this story? In this text, Peter
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denied Jesus three times. Now Jesus asks him three times,
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do you love me? Three times? Peter says yes. Three instructions,
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Jesus gives Peter pattern of three, and Peter sees what
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Jesus is doing one by one Jesus is addressing each
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of Peter's denials systematically, intentionally. He's addressing each denial, each failure,
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with grace because he loves Peter. I told you about
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when I let down my pastor friend. He showed me
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so much grace. Shortly after that, we met in person
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together and I continue to apologize and ask for his forgiveness,
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and he continued to show more grace. In fact, he said, Andrew,
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I still want you to come and share at my church.
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And I said, no way, like you shouldn't trust me.
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I don't deserve that like no, but he insisted, He
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insists he's like for our friendship, he still wants you
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to come. Grace preserves relationships. Grace heals relationships, strengthens relationships.
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What relationship in your life needs a little more grace?
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Where do you need to show a little more grace?
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Who needs a little more patience forgiveness? Who needs your encouragement?
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Grace is what preserves relationships. Jesus knew that Peter was broken.
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He saw Peter's repentance, and so the grace of Jesus
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restores the friendship between Jesus and Peter, and it also
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restored Peter to leadership because the three instructions that Jesus
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has for Peter, feed my lambs, take care of my sheep,
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feed my sheep. Those are leadership instructions, Jesus saying, Peter,
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preach the gospel, lead the church, pastor the people of God.
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Be a leader, because Grace transformed Peter into a humble leader.
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If you know Peter's life and you can read it
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throughout the Gospels, before this moment, before great Peter was
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not a very humble leader. Peter was pretty self confident,
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pretty self assured. Peter was a little bit cocky before
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Grace changed him. I want us to go back before
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Peter denied Jesus. So go back to John thirteen, before
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the denial. Go back to before Jesus was arrested. Jesus
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and the disciples are sharing a meal, and Jesus tells
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them trouble is coming, and then Peter speaks up. In
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John thirteen, verse thirty six Simon. Peter asked him, Lord,
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where are you going? Jesus replied, where I'm going. You
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cannot follow, but you will follow. Later, Peter asked, Lord,
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why can't I follow you? Now? I will lay down
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my life for you. Another Gospels say, he says, I'll
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go to prison for you, I'll sacrifice for you, I'll
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die for you. Jesus. I mean, this guy sounds pretty common.
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He sounds that he's got a lot of grit. You know,
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he's courageous, litle bit cocky because he doesn't know what
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he doesn't know. Grace prevents a humble church from becoming
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a cocky church. In my doctorate program or class, got
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to meet and learn from church leaders around the country.
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And I remember one interview listening to a church leader
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talk about a big change that they made at their church.
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And this large church had purchased a new building in
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many miles from their original location, and they moved the
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whole church to this new place because they felt like
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that's where God wanted them, and that was the mission
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of God was to be in that place. However, the
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church leadership did not expect some of the fallout because
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they moved so quickly and so hastily and so confidently.
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Somewhere maybe around fifty percent of the people in the
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church did not move with the relocation and they just
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left the church. And it made an impression on me
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listening to this leader talk. It didn't seem to bother
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him that much. He just kind of shrugged and said, well,
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we knew we would you get the numbers back with
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new people after we relocated. There wasn't a lot of
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grace or patience to make a decision slowly and appropriately.
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Grace prevents a humble church from becoming a cocky church.
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Before grace, Peter was overly confident. Peter was cocky. He
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was self assured, he believed he had what it took
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to get it done. But then Grace changed him. I've
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been here at Church of the Crossing from here it'll
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be seven years this summer. And when I first arrived
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here about seven years ago, I shared some things in
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common with Peter. You see, Peter thought he was the expert.
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Peter thought he knew better than Jesus. And I'll tell
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you when I first arrived here, I had more confidence
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in my experience, my training, my ability, and I had
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an attitude of I am the expert I know best.
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And over the last seven years, God has shown me
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that there is only one expert in the Kingdom of God,
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and it's the Lord Jesus Christ. He is an expert
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in humility. He is an expert in compassion. He's an
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expert in grace, and this one and only expert invites
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us calls us to follow him in the way of grace.
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Grace prevents a humble church from becoming a cocky church
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church of the Crossing. If we become a graceful church,
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God is going to use us for his kingdom. If
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we embody grace, it will exponentially multiply what God can
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do through us. If we humbly submit to God, He's
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gonna lead us. If we decide to be a better church,
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not a bigger church, then we're gonna see the Kingdom
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of God advanced. We're gonna see more lives changed. We're
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gonna see more marriage is restored. We're gonna see addiction broken.
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We're gonna see children growing up. Generation is growing up
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knowing the Gospel. If we choose to follow the path
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of grace, following Jesus, we're gonna see more people saved
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and more people baptized. Because that's the type of church
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that God works with. It's a graceful church following the
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way of Jesus. Peter was transformed by grace. He was
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changed by grace. Grace healed the relationship between Peter and Jesus.
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But that was not the only relationship that needed to
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be healed. Remember, as Jesus and Peter are talking, who
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else is listening? But the other disciples, they're there, they're
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watching this happen. In fact, that's why John records it.
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He saw it happen, and so Jesus wanted to make
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sure that that relationship was healed between Peter and the
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other disciples. I mean, think about the other disciples. It's
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possible that they were skeptical of Peter after the way
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he failed so miserably. It's possible that they they were
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doubting Peter's loyalty, doubting his leadership. They might have even
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questioned the commitment of his faith because he had messed up.
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And yet Jesus restores Peter and forgives Peter and shows
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grace because he wants the other disciples to trust Peter.
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To grace protects a church from division. A divided church
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as a church with no grace. A church without grace
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is full of factions, silos, and ministries that compete and
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compare against one another. When I was a youth pastor
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many years ago, I believed that the youth ministry I
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was leading was the most important ministry in the church,
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and I believed it should be acknowledged as the most
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important ministry. And I'm ashamed to say that. In a
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conversation with my executive pastor at that time, I told
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him that the youth ministry deserved more resources because the
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youth ministry baptized more students than the adult ministry had
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baptized that year. I'm still like, I regret that. I
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wish I had a second chance, but I'm committed to
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protecting our church from that type of attitude, a competitive attitude,
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a singular attitude, a silo attitude. Well this is my ministry,
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or I don't have anything to do with that ministry.
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See what does that attitude look like or sound like
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around here? It might be like, well the food pantry
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is the most important ministry, or my Sunday school class
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is the most valuable, or the young adults ministry is
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better than that ministry, or the English service is more
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valuable than the Arabic service, or this program this ministry
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deserves more acknowledgment or more promotion, or Sunday morning is
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better than Thursday night. I said the opposite thing on Thursday,
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being transparent. But you get the idea. It's this comparison,
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this competitive this separation. To be a people of grace,
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not a divided people. We're gonna celebrate other successes. We're
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united by our mission. That is what is leading us.
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It's the mission. We don't compete, we don't compare, we
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don't envy or criticize. We're gonna work together to do
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what it takes to get what matters done. We're gonna
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be a people of grace. Grace transformed Peter. Before that
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moment of grace, Peter was a coward, denying that he
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even knew Jesus. But that moment of grace changed Peter
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into a courageous leader. Notice at the end of their conversation,
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what does Jesus say At the end of this text,
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Starting in verse eighteen, Jesus said, feed my sheep very truly.
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I tell you, when you were younger, you dressed yourself
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and went where you wanted. But when you are old,
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you will stretch out your hands. Jesus is probably describing
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that Peter will be stretched out and nailed on a cross.
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Someone else will dress you. It's probably describing that Peter
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will be stripped, naked and humiliated and lead you where
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you do not want to go, meaning he will be
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led to prison and led to execution verse nineteen. Jesus
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said this to indicate the kind of death by which
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Peter would glorify God. Then he said to Peter, follow me.
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This isn't a very attractive job description. You're gonna be
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led where you don't want to go. Someone else is
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gonna dress you, You're gonna be stretched out, you're gonna
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be persecuted, you're gonna be murdered. So follow me. But
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this is a call of Christ in our lives, and
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it takes people of grit and grace to follow Jesus
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where he wants to lead us. This moment changed Peter's
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life because it turned him into a bold, gritty leader.
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I want to tell you that grace produces a courageous church.
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We're gonna be a courageous church. After this moment between
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Peter and Jesus. A few days later, Peter preached that
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Jesus was Lord in front of the whole city, and
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three thousand people were baptized that day, and then he
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was threatened to stop preaching try to be intimidated. But
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he said, I have to keep preaching about Jesus. Then
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he was arrested, and he was beaten, and he was flogged,
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and yet he rejoiced that he was found worthy to
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suffer disgrace for the name of Jesus. He was a
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courageous leader. We are gonna be a courageous church. Grace
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will make us a courageous church. We're gonna be courageous
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to share the gospel, courageous to serve, couragous to roll
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up our sleeves, get our hands dirty. We're gonna be
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courageous to do what it takes to get what matters done,
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to be the light of the Gospel in our community,
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no matter what it costs us. Eventually, Peter was arrested
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and he was condemned to be executed for his faith.
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And when the executioners came for Peter to take him
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to crucifixion, Peter had one last request and he asked
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that he'd be crucified up side down, because he said
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he was unworthy to die in the same manner as
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his Lord Jesus Christ. Who is this man of grit,
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who is this bold, courageous who is this man who
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does not shrink back from death but says, no, you're
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gonna kill me, do it upside down? Who is this
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courageous man none other than the coward who denied Jesus,
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but Grace changed him. And so I've got a sense
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that someone listening right now. You may have self doubt,
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You may have regrets. You may even feel like you
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are disqualified from doing the thing that God has called
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you to. I want to tell you today that it's
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the grace of Jesus that will make you courageous and
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equip you and empower you to do what God has
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called you to. Grace will make us a courageous church.
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And that's why Peter's qualified to write the words we
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read earlier in one Peter four above all love each
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other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins. Very briefly,
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with our remaining time, I just want to look at
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this one line, love each other deeply. I just want
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to briefly answer the question, how can a graceful church
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love each other deeply? Just a couple of points for us.
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Want to assume the best. We gotta assume the best
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when somebody lets you down. Assume the best. Don't jump
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to conclusions. Don't don't don't jump to an assumption. Assume
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the best. Maybe they forgot, maybe there was miscommunication, misunderstanding,
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or maybe maybe they were just having a bad day.
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A really dear friend of mine once told me about
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the moment he decided to never return to church again.
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When he was a young boy, he attended vacation Bible school,
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and summer programs at a church in his community. And
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just like any good church event, there was free food,
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and so this little boy was in line to get pizza.
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And just like any growing boy, one piece of pizza
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is not enough, and so he reached to take a
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second piece of pizza, and that's when somebody smacked his
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hand and said, only one piece of pizza. That was
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the moment he decided to not come back to church.
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And as he grew up, his life took a different turn,
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down a dark path of drugs, alcohol, and other evil
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And it was many, many, many years before he returned
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to Christ. What might have been different in my friend's
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story if someone had assumed the best. Just assume this
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little boy is not trying to steal from the church.
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Just assume he's got a fast metabolism. He's just hungry.
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We're gonna assume the best because Colossians Chapter four says,
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be wise in the way you act toward outsiders. Make
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the most of every opportunity to let your conversation be
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always full of what grace. We're gonna assume the best,
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no judgment, no hand smacks. You can have as much
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pizza as you want a church across you know. That's
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one of the things I love about our food pantry.
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Many organizations and food pantries have some standards or some
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requirements to shop, like provide documentation or paperwork, or provide
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an income statement, or reach a level of need in
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order to shop. But not here at Church with the Crossing,
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we believe if you live in Indianapolis and you have
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a need, you can shop here. We want to be
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a people of grace, so we assume the best. How
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can a graceful church love each other deeply? We keep
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short accounts. This means we don't let a fence fester.
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We don't hold on to grudges, keep short accounts. Holding
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onto resentment is like credit card debt. Let me tell
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you when I use my credit card and I charge
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something on my credit card. There is a ticking time
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clock that starts because what happens at the end of
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that when that time runs out and I don't pay
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that interest and interest is evil. If I don't pay
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that on time, if I don't keep a short account,
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that interest is gonna grow and it's gonna be harmful.
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If you hold onto a grudge, hold on to resentment,
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it's like a bitterness interest that just multiplies and grows.
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We gotta pay it off, We gotta keep short accounts.
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And then, finally, how does a graceful church love each
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other deeply? We give without keeping score, because let me
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tell you something about grace. Grace gives and gives and
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gives and gives and gives and gives without asking for
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anything in return. Grace is generous. It does not keep score.
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Every year, around Christmas time, my wife and I have
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the same conversation or a version of the same conversation,
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and usually goes something like who are we buying Christmas
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gifts for? And it sounds something like, well, last year,
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this person got us something, so we kind of owe them,
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or they may have an expectation, so we should really
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get them something this year, Or if we go to
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this event, that relative will be there. They might have
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something for us, so we should bring something for them,
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just to be prepared. You know, that is not gift giving.
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That is transactional gift raffing. Grace is not transactional. It
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gives and gives and gives without keeping score. That's why
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set in Corinthians five says God was reconciling the world
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to himself in Christ, not counting people's sins against them.
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Because of Jesus's life, death, and resurrection, God can offer
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us grace freely without you paying it back or paying
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it off. Remember what we said earlier, Grace is unearned,
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undeserved blessing at the expense of the giver. Grace is expensive.
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It costs something to give. It costs God his son.
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When we give grace, it will cost us. But we're
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gonna be a people of grace without keeping score. We're
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gonna give financially without a payback. We're gonna give compassion
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and care without strings attached. We're gonna bless people. We're
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gonna forgive. We're gonna be understanding without tracking what we
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get back in return. Here at Church of the Crossing,
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we will use our resources. We will use our manpower.
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We will use our facilities in our campus to bless people,
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to bring the Gospel of Jesus, to meet needs in
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the name of Jesus, without getting a payback or keeping score.
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We're gonna be a people of grace. And so if
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we're gonna be a church of grace, it has to
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start right here. It has to start right now. I
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once was leading a mission trip of high school students
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out of state where we were serving out service projects
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in another state. And on these trips, we often borrowed
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vehicles like minivans and SUVs from parents of the students
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so we could transport all of the students. And I
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was driving a borrowed minivan from a parent, and on
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the first night of the trip, I was late and
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I was looking for someplace to eat, and I was
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driving this mini van by myself, and I was in
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a car accident and it was my fault. Thankfully, nobody
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was hurt, but the van was smashed really good. And
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I was sick to my stomach because I had to
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make a phone call to the parent who owned the vehicle,
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and I was sick. I was worried that how they
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would react. I was worried that I would lose trust.
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I was worried that I'd be humiliated and embarrassed. I
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was just sick. And so I made that phone call
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and explain what had happened, and the parent was so kind.
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The parent said, Andrew, don't worry about it, We'll figure
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this out. Just glad that nobody was hurt. Then we
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hung off the phone, and the spirit of God must
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have spoken to that parent, because a few minutes later
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after hanging up, that parent called me back. When they
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called me back, they said, Andrew, I want to make
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sure you know that I am serious. Do not worry
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about this. Focus on the trip, Focus on the students,
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Focus on the mission. Do not let this be a distraction.
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This is all grace. And so if you feel like
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your life is a wreck and you've messed it up,
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I'm telling you there is more grace. If you are
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afraid of how God may react to you or respond
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to you, if you're afraid of judgment of wrath, I
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want to tell you that Jesus paid all of that
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on the Cross, so you can have grace. If you
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think you've run out of second chances, there is one
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more chance today for his grace. And so if I'm
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speaking to you, would you come to Jesus, confess your
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sin and receive his grace. I want to invite us
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to respond to what we've heard. Would you bow your
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head and close your eyes with me? And if I'm
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speaking to you and you want to put your faith
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in Jesus as your Lord and savior and receive his grace,
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I invite you to pray this prayer after me. Say,
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Dear God, I admit that I'm a sinner and I
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need your forgiveness. I believe Jesus died for me and
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rose from the dead to save me. I confess Jesus's
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lord of my life. Father, send your spirit into my life.
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Thank you for your grace. And now let me pray
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for all of us. Father God, we thank you for
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the grace that you've extended us, the grace that gives
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and gives and gives. Thank You that we are covered
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by grace. And so God, we want to be a
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people of grace. God, we can't be perfect people. We're
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not going to get it right all the time. And
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so God, help us to show grace to each other.
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Help us to show grace to one another, to walk
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into spirit of grace, and God, I pray with boldness
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that you would make us the people that you've called
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us to be, that we not just be playing church,
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not just attending church, but that we be living, breathing,
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being the church, making a difference in our community, making
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a difference in our region. God, I pray that you
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would help us there'd be a spirit of grace in
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our families, a spirit of grace across all of our ministries. God,
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I pray for a spirit of revival to come, because
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it is grace that brings forth transformation. And so we
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acknowledge that we are a people who are saved by grace,
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and we thank you for that gift we have in
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Jesus and in his name we pray Amen.