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Treating the Church Like Family - Part 3 (1 Timothy 5:17-25)

Bethesda Baptist Durham

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  1. Well, it's so good to be here with you this morning.

  2. Glad that you're here worshiping with us. Do you feel

  3. that this morning you feel something different about this morning?

  4. You know what you feel? You feel God moving, and

  5. God's moving in our church, God's moving in our students. Hey, listen,

  6. this morning, God wants to move in you. So today

  7. as we come together, I mean, we have open hearts

  8. and open minds and say, God, speak to my heart,

  9. move into me today. Father, I want to hear from you. Amen,

  10. if you turn your bibles with if you have your bibles,

  11. hope you will if you'll turn with me to first Timothy,

  12. chapter five, and we're going to continue in our series

  13. in the letter that Paul wrote to a young pastor

  14. named Timothy. We'll start chapter five this morning and we

  15. will pick up in verse seventeen this morning, One Timothy,

  16. Chapter five, Verse seventeen. You've ever felt like there was

  17. a time where you feel this morning God moving? But

  18. has there ever been a time of your life you

  19. just kind of felt empty? You see God moving in others,

  20. but spiritually you just feel like you're empty. I know

  21. there's been times in my life it's kind of like

  22. this water bottle. It seems like others might be filled

  23. with the Holy Spirit, may be filled up with God,

  24. but it might feel like you're a little empty. I've

  25. noticed in my life and there's times where I felt

  26. like I was this and felt empty. That God has

  27. a way of filling us up. I love the passage

  28. in the Gospels where there was a young man who's

  29. really empty. His name was Thomas. Thomas was empty, and

  30. some of the emptiness that Thomas was feeling because of doubt.

  31. He doubted that Christ had rose again. The other's disciples

  32. had seen Jesus there is in Lord, but Thomas had

  33. only seen his Savior die. Thomas doubted that Jesus had

  34. rose again. And Thomas said, unless I see him with

  35. my own eyes and I put my hand in his side,

  36. I will not believe. Thomas was empty. He was empty

  37. a lot of it because of the doubt he had.

  38. Do you remember the story as Jesus appears to Thomas

  39. in that upper room. The Bible says, Jesus come, and

  40. he said peace, And with just those words he filled Thomas,

  41. filled him full of faith. You know, God has a

  42. way of speaking into our lives, coming into our lives

  43. and moments where we feel desperate, where we're full of

  44. doubt or full of despair, whatever it may be. And

  45. by speaking words of God over us, we are filled

  46. with faith and confidence of the word of God. Only

  47. I believe that, and only God does that in the

  48. lives of Thomas, but I think God does that and

  49. a lot of times in our lives. I can think

  50. of a time where I was full of doubt. Brandy

  51. was sick and I've told you maybe the story before,

  52. and she had transversed my life as was in the hospital,

  53. and we didn't know if she had the MS, we

  54. didn't know if she'd ever walk again, use her hand again,

  55. all kinds of things. And I was full of doubt

  56. and fear. I was empty. And I remember calling a

  57. pastor friend of mine that day and speaking to him,

  58. and just with the words of the Lord and word

  59. of God, he just filled me spiritually. And I really

  60. believe that God uses pastors at times. I'm going to

  61. try to do this. I gotta really shake hands, Y'll see.

  62. I believe God uses pastors as instruments that when God's

  63. people are empty spiritually, they might speak the word of

  64. God over them and they might fill them up spiritually

  65. as one of the roles of a pastor is that

  66. we might be filled with the Word of God faith.

  67. And when our people are empty, we fill them with

  68. God's word. We give them truth that their faith might

  69. be filled and they might feel the presence of God

  70. in their lives. That's one of the roles of a pastor,

  71. is us to speak the word of God to when

  72. you're empty, for us to give God's word to you,

  73. you might be filled full of the spirit, full of God,

  74. full of God Word. Here's the thing. If this is

  75. the pastor and this bottle empty, bottle is you church members,

  76. there's one hundred and fifty of you, two hundred maybe

  77. of year here today. Sometimes it seems like for a pastor,

  78. our spiritual tanks getting empty. As we keep feeling, feeling,

  79. feeling and giving and giving and giving. Here's what comes

  80. an issue. Who is feeling the pastor, who is pouring

  81. into the pastor. As we come to First Timothy five,

  82. Paul's really addressing this issue of how you as a

  83. church body are to care for your elders, How are

  84. you care for your pastors, how you care for those

  85. in leadership, those who are responsible for delivering the word

  86. of God to you to encourage you to pour into you.

  87. How do you care for them? So that's our focus

  88. this morning is how do we care how do we

  89. treat church like family? How do we care for pastors?

  90. How do we care for elders. We've been as we've

  91. been in first Timothy Paul has been talking to the

  92. church about how they treat the church like family. How

  93. do you treat older members, older men like fathers. How

  94. you treat older women like you would treat your mother.

  95. He treat younger women as you treat your sister. He

  96. treat younger men as you treat your brother. We treat

  97. each other like family. And last week he shifts a

  98. little big bit and he starts focusing on different groups

  99. in the church. In these groups in the church or

  100. groups that are important, but some are faithful and some

  101. are unfaithful. Last week he started talking about widows and

  102. how there was in the Church of Ephesus there was

  103. widows who were faithful and there was widows who were unfaithful.

  104. And Paul gives Timothy instructions how he's the care for both.

  105. But this morning he comes to another group, and that

  106. is elders, and in this Church of Ephesus, there are

  107. elders who are faithful, and Paul gives the church instructions

  108. how he's a care for those elders. But also there's

  109. unfaithful elders, and he gives us struction of how he

  110. should care for them. So this morning, I challenge you

  111. together as a body, I have a responsibility. You're a pastor.

  112. As elders here we have many elders here at our church.

  113. We have responsibility to care for you. I challenge you,

  114. how are you caring for your elders? How are you

  115. treating your elders? How do you care for them? Let's

  116. look and examine God's word, and let's look at his

  117. instructions of how the church should treat its elders. Let's

  118. stand with me and let's read God's word together. We

  119. start verse seventeen. Let the elders who rule well be

  120. considered worthy of a double honor, especially those who labor

  121. and preaching and teaching. For a scripture says you shall

  122. not muzzle and os when it treads out the grain

  123. and the laborer deserves his wage. Do not met a

  124. charge against an elder, accept on the evidence of two

  125. or three witnesses, as for those who persistence in rebuke them,

  126. when the presence of alved that they may, so that

  127. the rest may stand in fear and the presence of

  128. God in Christ, Jesus and of the let angels. I

  129. charge you to keep these rules without prejudice. Do nothing

  130. from partiality. Do not be hastily and laying on hands,

  131. nor take part in the sins of others. Keep yourselves pure.

  132. No longer drink only water, but use a little wine

  133. for the sake of your stomach and for the frequent ailments.

  134. The sins of some men are conspicuous, going before them

  135. to judgment, but the sins of others appeared later. So

  136. also good works are conspicuous, and even those that are

  137. that are not cannot remain hidden. Let's pray together, Father,

  138. we thank you Lord for this word. God, your word

  139. tells us in Ephesians that you gave the church gifts pastors, teachers,

  140. evangelists to equip the saints for the work of the ministry. Lord,

  141. we know that elders are a gift from you to

  142. your church, to to lead, to encourage, to pour into

  143. your body. So Lord, we pray today that we would

  144. recognize and we would honor those who lead well in

  145. our church, that we would care for them, that we

  146. would pour into them, that we would encourage them, support them,

  147. stand alongside them. Lord, in the days where we might

  148. have those who stray. Lord, help us be faithful to

  149. hold elders accountable. Lord, I pray that we would be

  150. a church that would care well for those that you

  151. put in leadership over us. Lord, lead us today to

  152. listen to your word, to understand it, to think about

  153. how it applies to us, to see our responsibility and

  154. caring for those leaders in our church. Lord, help us, Lord,

  155. look to you in the ways that we need you today.

  156. We need your word. So Lord, I pray that your

  157. spirit would speak upon us. Lord, I pray today that

  158. you might feel me that I might give your word.

  159. And Lord, today, Lord, I pray that the church would

  160. hear not a message from me, but a message from you.

  161. And Lord, we surrender Lord to your word. Today in name,

  162. we pray, Amen, you may be seated how the church

  163. should treat its elders. First, we must honor faithful elders.

  164. Paul begins as I said, he's been going through different

  165. groups in the church here. Last week he looked that widows.

  166. There are faithful widows and they are unfaithful widows. Here

  167. he goes to the next group, and that is elders.

  168. These are elders are the leaders in the church who

  169. are responsible for leading the church and preaching, teaching, and administrating.

  170. So this is a group of men who are leading

  171. in the church. He describes how who they should honor

  172. lists of the passage verse seventeen. Let the elders who

  173. rule well. Let the elders who rule well. So he's

  174. talking about elders again. In this church. We know there

  175. are those who are faithful, and there's are unfaithful. He

  176. describes these here are these who lead well. The word

  177. lead there or rule maybe in your translation, describes someone

  178. who is exercising leadership. Paul uses this same word in

  179. the Greek to describe leading in the home. In One

  180. Timothy three four through five, he describes the importits of

  181. elders and deacons who manages their household well, the idea

  182. of managing your household. There is the same word in

  183. the Greek. It's the idea of leading their household well.

  184. So it's using the term of leading the home, but

  185. it's also leading in the church. The references is guiding, administrating, caring, Paul,

  186. is you fall that to train the thought for Paul?

  187. It's those who care well for the church. These are

  188. men who are leading as elders in the church, and

  189. they are caring well for the church. They're guiding the

  190. church well, they're administrating well, they're leading the church well

  191. as a church body. The Bible says here that let

  192. the elders who rule well, this is what it says,

  193. be considered worthy of double honor, considered worthy, this worthy ideas,

  194. this honors expressed them here there to be considered. Scripture

  195. says here of receiving worthy of double honor, you to

  196. honor them, that they're worthy. Why are they worthy? They're

  197. worthy because they're leading well, how are you to honor them?

  198. How are you to do that? Well? That word honor

  199. there is used to express material possessions. He says here

  200. double honor to would imply maybe twice as much Paul.

  201. Throughout Scripture in the New Testament, in First Corinthians and

  202. other passages talk about the importance of churches providing for

  203. the needs of the elders. There there we see that

  204. one Corinthians nine thirteen through fifteen, he says, in the

  205. same way in verse thirteen through fourteen, So do you

  206. not know that those who are employed in the temple

  207. service get their food from the temple, and those who

  208. serve the altar share and their sacrificial offerings. In the

  209. same way, the Lord commanded that those who proclaim the

  210. Gospel should get their living by the Gospel. So Paul

  211. is struggling the church there those who lead, well, you should,

  212. you should take care of them, you should provide for them.

  213. And you know, I'll be honest with you. When I

  214. first came to this passage, I've heard this passage use

  215. throughout ministry about how important it is that care for

  216. passages provide financially for pastors. But at just first glance,

  217. I didn't get that. How do you see that just

  218. out of the idea of double honor? But I think

  219. as we continue to see the passage and read the

  220. rest of the passage, you see this idea. Look at

  221. what Paul does. When Paul is a good teacher of

  222. the Bible, and when you teach the Bible, support and

  223. when you have an idea to support it with other

  224. references in the Bible. And that's what Paul does here.

  225. Look at what he does. He gives an Old Testament

  226. reference in support of how you to honor provide for

  227. those needs of the pastors. And he gives a New

  228. Testament reference. Look at the passage in verse eighteen. He

  229. says for those who labor and for the scripture says,

  230. you shall not muzzle an ox when it treads out

  231. the grain. What Paul, they're in referencing is how pastures

  232. should be provided for. He gives two scripture quotes. One

  233. is the Old Testament reference, and that's Deuteronomy twenty five

  234. to four in Dune army twenty five to four. Is

  235. this reference? Is this you shall not muzzle on ox

  236. when it treads out the grain. The illustration here is

  237. an ox. The ox is used in the Old Testament

  238. times as they would put out the weed in the grain.

  239. They would take the ox and they would drive walk

  240. the ox over the grain, and the hoofs of the

  241. ox would thresh out the grain and it would separate

  242. the stalks from the chaff with its hoofs. What he's

  243. saying is there is that a farmer should not muzzle

  244. an ox who's doing his job. What is if you

  245. muzzle on ox while he's treading out the grain. You're

  246. you're hindering from doing what he's supposed to do. You're

  247. hindering his job. And what he's referring to there is

  248. if a church is not providing for the pastor, you're

  249. hindering him and what God's called him to do. You're

  250. hindering him and being obedient to what God's instructed him

  251. to do. Not only does Paul give a reference to

  252. the Old Testament, Paul also quotes Jesus look at He

  253. quotes Jesus in Luke ten to seven. Jesus says, remain

  254. in the same house, eating and drinking they provided for.

  255. The laborer deserves his way his wages. Paul quotes that

  256. in One Timothy five eighteen nineteen don't admit a charge.

  257. I'm sorry, Verse eighteen for scripture says you shall not

  258. muzzle an ox when it treads out to grain, and

  259. the laborer deserves his wage. He's saying, pastors, he's liking

  260. in the pastors to an ox, who's being obedient to

  261. what he's commanded to do. He's liking the laborer here

  262. to this one. Who is this laborer who's laboring for work.

  263. And if he's laboring for work, he deserves his way.

  264. And he says, a pastor is faithful to do what

  265. God's called him to do, and you should provide for him,

  266. We should care for him. It's interesting, as Paul continues

  267. in this passage, if you go back, what is he

  268. laboring in. He's laboring and leading the church. But he

  269. also says here this passage, look at verse seventeen. Let

  270. the elders who are rule well be considered worthy of

  271. double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching.

  272. He further identifies there a group of elders or maybe

  273. some elders, who their labor is preaching and teaching. This

  274. word preaching there is actually the word logos. It means

  275. word they labor in the word. They're laboring the preaching

  276. of God's word. The teaching theirs is in focus of

  277. teaching the word of God. Some would say these two

  278. is on the preaching there is focused on his preaching

  279. to the lass or unbelievers, and the teaching there is

  280. his teaching to believers. That is the role of a pastor,

  281. were to preach the lost and the believers, and the unbelievers,

  282. and that's what he labors in, and he's worthy of honor.

  283. I think it's important to understand Paul is showing that

  284. there's some who, as elders of the church, say lead

  285. the pastoral care. I will think of our elder board

  286. here as our church. Of course, I've one of my

  287. main responsibilities of laboring and preaching and teaching. But there's

  288. other elders here that focus on pastoral care. They do

  289. a lot of work and caring for those in need

  290. and who are hurting, sick, homebound. There's those in our

  291. elder board that does that. Some are geared more to

  292. administrative things, helping with administration things. Here. We have different gifts,

  293. we have different service, but we all are leading at

  294. the church and here as God's called us. The lead

  295. scripture says the church should honor those in leadership. You

  296. know one thing I've noticed most of you may know.

  297. When I started out in the ministry, I was a

  298. student pastor and I had a I was working in

  299. the church in Conway, South Carolina. I had a senior

  300. pastor of preacher Jerry Phillips was my pastor at the time.

  301. And so I've worked in a church as a as

  302. a youth pastor and then eventually become a senior pastor.

  303. And one things I've noticed through the years in ministry

  304. when I was a student pastor, now that I'm a

  305. senior pastor, and sometimes elders don't get treated the same. Sometimes,

  306. just to be frank, when someone comes into office, maybe

  307. from the outside, and they're want to sell us some

  308. material or looking to sell us something for the church

  309. and the ministry who that they want to talk to.

  310. They want to talk to the pastor. Tanner and Devin

  311. may come to the door, but they where's the pastor?

  312. They want to talk to me. They think that I

  313. have more clout than anybody else maybe and they want

  314. to talk to me. And sometimes Tanner and Devin will

  315. tell you they are treated differently because they're not the

  316. senior pastor. They feel that. And when I was a

  317. student pastor at Hickory Grove, I felt the same way.

  318. They they treated Pregigieri different than when they treated me.

  319. I think as important as we come to this passage

  320. of Scripture, that you as a church body listen to me,

  321. you as a church body, that you treat the elders

  322. the same. Skip Carl van Tanner devon. Their role in

  323. leading this church is just as important as my role,

  324. and they deserve honor and care and support and prayer

  325. and encouragement just as much as I do. I want

  326. you to think about something this morning, the statistics. There's

  327. a study that came out in twenty twenty three about

  328. how evangelicals come to faith. Do you know this morning

  329. that and this has been a study that's been seen

  330. for over the last thirty forty years. Do you know

  331. that in that study in twenty twenty three that seventy

  332. two percent of people who come to faith to faith

  333. by before the age of eighteen, think about seven out

  334. of ten. Majority of people when they receive Christ, they

  335. receive it before the age of eighteen. The study says

  336. that five percent become received Christ before the age of five,

  337. twenty six percent between the ages of five to nine,

  338. twenty four percent came to faith between ten and twelve,

  339. and seventeen percent came to faith between the ages of

  340. thirteen and seventeen. Do you know if that study also

  341. talked about what was the most for these young people

  342. who come to Christ before the age of eighteen. It

  343. asked them what was the most influential, significant influence in

  344. our life. Forty four percent said one of the most

  345. influential things in theirs was reading the Bible for themselves.

  346. The second most influential thing in their life, I'm sorry,

  347. forty four percent was the church. The second was reading

  348. the Bible. The third most influential thing in the life

  349. of a believer a young believer under the age of eighteen.

  350. You know what it is a pastor. I want you

  351. to hear me today, Church. You know what, according to

  352. that statistic, you know who the most important pastors on

  353. our staff are Devin in Tanner because they have an

  354. opportunity to reach young people to Christ. And really, if

  355. we think about it, that is the future of our church,

  356. isn't it. This morning as we see four students come

  357. to know the Lord and be baptized, how did that happen?

  358. What happened? Because there's a church and there's a pastor

  359. who is shepherding and pouring the Gospel into young people.

  360. So I want you to hear me today, Church. God's

  361. commanded us that God is giving us a gift. And

  362. I believe our elders are a gift to this body,

  363. and you as a church body you have a responsibility

  364. to honor those who labor well. Tanner, Devin skip Van,

  365. Carl Floyd. They are serving and leading well, and they

  366. deserve honor from you Church. And listen, many times I

  367. can tell you they're running on empty and they need

  368. a church body to come alongside of them and say,

  369. I love you, I appreciate you. I want to stand

  370. beside you and encourage you. Can I encourage you? Church,

  371. Let's honor our elders. Well, let's care for them, Let's

  372. hold them in honor. What you see next in this

  373. passage scripture as we continue this morning, there are faithful

  374. elders in the church. But and it's unfortunate, there are

  375. unfaithful elders in the church. We must recognize that, and

  376. the church must be prepared to confront when an elder

  377. is way, when it elder falls into sin. And Paul

  378. instructs the church and how to do that. Listen what

  379. the passage says in verse nineteen says, don't admit a

  380. charge against the elder, accept on the evidence of two witnesses.

  381. As for those who persistence sin, rebuke them with the

  382. presence of all, so that the rest may stand in

  383. fear and the presence of God and of Christ, Jesus

  384. and elect angels. I charge you to keep these rules

  385. without prejudice and do nothing from parsionality. We should treat that.

  386. How should the church treat its elders. It must honor

  387. faithful elders. But secondly, we must hold elders accountable. Now

  388. I believe Paul here, who are these elders? I believe

  389. these elders that Paul has instructed Timothy to hold accountable

  390. into practice church discipline are on are the elders who

  391. are who have fallen into false teaching. Much if you're

  392. new here to our series, much of the subject of

  393. First Timothy is Paul telling Timothy to confront the false

  394. teachers or in the church. And so we know many

  395. of these elders who maybe have fallen away are elders

  396. who are following false teaching and maybe teaching false teaching

  397. in the church. And so Paul is telling Timothy, listen,

  398. you're to honor faithful elders, but you're to confront the

  399. elders who have gone away, who are following false teaching,

  400. who are falling into sin. And he kind of gives

  401. if you will really a manual a guidebook of how

  402. a church is to hold elders accountable. First, he strugts,

  403. they're one, there must be consistent charges. There must be

  404. consistent charges. Look at verse nineteen. Don't admit a charge

  405. on an elder except on the evidence of two or

  406. three witnesses. I think it's important to understand that there's

  407. always criticisms right among pastors, among any leader, no matter

  408. what organization they are, there's going to be criticism. But

  409. there must be legitimate charges. There must be legitimate sin.

  410. That's here the way the Old Testament and a New

  411. Testament would establish it there's legitimate sin or issues with

  412. an elder or those in leadership is there must be

  413. legitimate charges and there must be consistent charges. Here it

  414. uses the idea there must be the charges of two

  415. or three witnesses. Don't omit a charge. The idea meant

  416. there is the idea, don't entertain or stop accepting accusation

  417. unless there's two or three witnesses, and this is established.

  418. This is a protocol that was established really from the

  419. Old Testament and into the New Testament. In the Old

  420. Testament Deuteronomy nineteen fifteen, the Old Testament law established that

  421. no charge or crime could be brought against the individual

  422. unless there was two or three witnesses. In Deuteronomy nineteen fifteen,

  423. a single witness shall not suffice against a person of

  424. any crime or of any wrong in connection with any

  425. offense that he's committed. Only the evidence of two witnesses

  426. or of three witnesses shall shall a charge be established.

  427. Paul's referencing that he's alluding to this idea that Protocol

  428. was establishing the Old Testament. Must be two or three

  429. witnesses who all affirmed the same charge, the same sin,

  430. the same following in the false teacher, and whatever it

  431. may be. There must be consistent charges. It's also a

  432. reference that Paul established in First Corinthians or Second Corinthians thirteen.

  433. He says this a third time I come to you.

  434. Every charge must be established by the evidence or two

  435. or three witness So there must be consistent charges. As

  436. we look at the guidelines for holding elder accountable, it

  437. must be consistent charges. Secondly, there must be persistent sin.

  438. But you notice is what he says here in verse nineteen.

  439. Don't omit a charge against an elder. It's setting on

  440. the evidence of two or three witnesses. But as for

  441. those who persist in sin, if you're familiar with the

  442. New Testament, one of the things we know that Jesus

  443. established like a maybe a formula for church discipline. This

  444. in Matthew eighteen. Let me read it with you. In

  445. Matthew eighteen, he establishes this kind of form of discipline.

  446. If your brother sins against you, go and tell him

  447. your fault between you and him alone. And if he

  448. listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he

  449. does not listen, take one or twothers along with you.

  450. That every charge may be established by the evidence of

  451. two or three witnesses. You see that same protocol Jesus' following.

  452. And if you refuse to listen to them, tell it

  453. to the church. And refusally listen to even to the church,

  454. let him be to you as a gentile and a

  455. tax letter. So here's this protocol that Jesus establishes formulaves church.

  456. This one. If a brother sins, it gets you go

  457. to him one on one in private. If he listens

  458. to you and repensive his sins, you what gains your brother.

  459. But if he doesn't listen you take another with you.

  460. You take another brother or maybe two brothers with you,

  461. two or three witnesses, and then you bring the charge

  462. against him again, hopefully that he might repent. But if

  463. he doesn't repent after the second time, then you bring

  464. him before the church. You have this same imagery that's

  465. found in One Timothy, that maybe the leaders of the

  466. church have found this evidence of sin. They've heard the

  467. two or three witnesses among the church members of these

  468. consistent sin that's in the life of this elder. They

  469. confront the elder, they've gone one on one, he's refused

  470. to repent. Maybe they've taken more elders and they confronted

  471. him again. He refuses to repent. And then you notice

  472. the language here in this passage, as for those who

  473. persist in sin. These elders are refused to repent. And

  474. so now the third thing is following that they are

  475. to be public crew rebuked. Guidelines for holding elder accountable.

  476. There must be consistent charges, there must be persistent sin

  477. refuses to repent. The second step in practicing church just

  478. one on elders, there must be public rebuke. Listen the

  479. imagery there in the presence of I mean verse twenty

  480. as for those who persist, rebuke them in the presence

  481. of them all, so that rest may stand in fear. Rebuke,

  482. there is a public rebuke. It's in the presence of all.

  483. The presence of all is the precess of all the congregation.

  484. What is the rebuke here? Some would say it would

  485. be removal from leadership, removal from being an elder. Titus

  486. says this a Titus three ten as for a person

  487. who stirs up division after warning him once and then twice,

  488. have nothing more to do with him. So maybe it's

  489. removal from leadership. Some would say this may be removal

  490. from the church. That's communication. I want you understand that

  491. the process of all three have taken place. Was what

  492. we would understand by Paul's explanation here. The last guideline

  493. here is there must be an example of fear. He

  494. must be an example of fear. Look at what it

  495. says here as for those who resistance or abute them

  496. in the presence of all, why so that the rest

  497. may stand in fear. You remember in One Timothy chapter four,

  498. Paul is telling Timothy what his role is as a pastor,

  499. How is the lead? What's his responsibilities as a pastor?

  500. What is the responsibility as a pastor of the church.

  501. Is he used to be an example. He's to show

  502. the church how to live for God in his personal

  503. walk with the Lord, what it means to be a

  504. man of God. There to look at his life, and

  505. he's to be an example of faith, of example of purity,

  506. example of speech. He's to be a living example for them.

  507. You remember that as one Timothy four to twelve. Let

  508. no one despise you for your youth, but set the

  509. believers an example in speech and conduct and love and

  510. faith and I purity. Here Paul is drawing upon that

  511. imagery that if he's not that example and he falls

  512. into sin, he won't be an example of purity and

  513. all the other things. What he will turn be an

  514. example is the example of the consequences of sin. That

  515. he is a leader, has fallen into sin, and he

  516. is suffering the consequences of his sin. He's an example.

  517. He's to be an example of fear, example of seriousnes

  518. of sin, example of God's punishment. You remember the one

  519. of the guidelines is that must be consistent charges. Here

  520. Paul outlines that when he stands before the church and

  521. they bring him before the church for abuc hum in

  522. front of all the congregation. Not only is he the

  523. congregation is a witness of this, and it brings fear

  524. upon them. He's an example of fear, example of God's judgment.

  525. He's also in the presence of another witnesses, and Paul

  526. in the next verse gives three witnesses who are witnessing

  527. the rebuke of this elder who's fallen away. Look at

  528. these witnesses and verse twenty one, in the presence of

  529. God and of Christ, Jesus and the elect angels are

  530. charging you to keep these rules without prejudice. Not only

  531. does the church see how he has fallen, but God,

  532. Jesus and the angels have seen how he's fallen away.

  533. Can I tell you church today, we must be a

  534. church to treat our elders faithfully. We must honor the

  535. faithful elders well. We must be a church that holds

  536. elders accountable. It's heart. Tell you I've seen throughout ministry

  537. God's blessed us and protected my ministry. And I've never

  538. had to do this at a church that I've been

  539. at with a leader. There's spent some time. Maybe this

  540. church discipline throughout churches, but never anything like this. But

  541. I have seen churches who I feel like not have

  542. done this faithfully. You ever heard of the someone the

  543. whole saying is someone says, you know, the best way

  544. to get up get rid of a cold or the flu.

  545. You know what the saying is, you give it to

  546. someone else. That's a joke, right, and that if you

  547. got the cold, give it someone else, that's the best

  548. way to get rid of it. I mean, honest with you.

  549. Sometimes I believe that's the way churches treat this issue.

  550. They believe that the best way to get rid of

  551. a bad pastor is to give the bad pastors someone else,

  552. and they quietly send him on't don't public rebuke him,

  553. and they just let him find another church in move

  554. him all. I think that's a detriment to the church.

  555. I've heard of churches where pastors have had affair with

  556. someone in the church and he ups and leaves, and

  557. he goes and finds him another church. That should not

  558. be so when he be churches that sometimes, I really believe.

  559. You know the first name Heel twenty four to six.

  560. It says David would not cut the hem of Saul's garment.

  561. Why because he says, this is the Lord's anointed, and

  562. I won't put my hand again the Lord's anointing. I

  563. think sometimes we have this such revere respect and maybe admiration,

  564. or maybe we sometimes, if we're real honest, even idolize

  565. a pastor so much so that we'll let him get

  566. away with anything and we won't confront him. We won't

  567. handle it properly because we don't want to hurt the

  568. Lord's anointing. I think Paul's very clear here. If a pastor,

  569. if an elder's falling into the sin, and there's consistent charges,

  570. there's a refusal repent of sin, persistent sin, and you

  571. practice church this one and if he doesn't repent, there

  572. should be a public rebuke. And I'll notice the imagery

  573. for Paul says, Timothy, do this and show no partiality,

  574. no partiality, I don't. It doesn't matter how great he

  575. is as a preacher, how much you might revere him,

  576. what he made done in the past. If he's fallen,

  577. you've got to hold him accountable. So I encourage you. Church.

  578. We must be a church the honors faithful elders, but

  579. we also need to be a church that hold elders

  580. accountable when they fall. Lastly, as we kind of finish

  581. up this morning, we must be careful to recognize elders.

  582. You can imagine there's going to be a void in

  583. the church here here, Paul's gonna have to remove some

  584. elders from the church. There's gonna be a gap, there's

  585. gonna be a void of elders not in the church.

  586. That he's going to need to add new elders. And

  587. there's a temptation for maybe Timothy to rush this and

  588. put elders in position quickly, and Paul responds to that.

  589. Listen what he says in verse twenty two. Don't be

  590. hasty and laying on of hands, take no part of

  591. the sins of others. Keep yourself pure. He tells him

  592. not to be hasty. The laying of hands there is

  593. a was an idea, is a symbolical act. Laying of

  594. hands to recognize the church laying their hands on someone

  595. to be an elder or ordaining them was what the

  596. idea we would use. It's a symbolic signifies a church

  597. recognizes God's calling on that individual. It's also using scripture

  598. to demonstrate the church commissioning someone into service. Paul says

  599. this reminds Timothy of the church laying hands on him

  600. in one Timothy four or fourteen and remind him God

  601. saw God's the church sees your calling and your gifting this,

  602. and they've laid hands on you to affirm you have

  603. this gift. Paul's cautioning Timothy to not be hasty, not

  604. rush into laying hands on the elders. Why, because they

  605. may not be ready, they may fall into sin. They

  606. may yeah, they may turn out not to be faithful,

  607. So be careful, don't rush it. Take your time, make

  608. sure they're right. You ever had a time where you've

  609. recommenced somewhere for a job, maybe for a position you

  610. knew someone's open, and they ended up not being a

  611. good candidate, maybe they ended up getting fired or didn't

  612. fall through. And the people you recommended says, I thought

  613. you said this guy was a great guy, and you

  614. kind of feel like you bear some responsibilities. I recommended

  615. him and he really or she didn't really turn out

  616. to be a good employee. You kind of feel responsible

  617. for kind of creating some That's what Paul is saying here.

  618. Be careful, Timothy, if you put someone in an elder position,

  619. and they don't and they fell in being a faithful

  620. elder kind of bear some of that responsibility, So don't

  621. be hasty In that he encourages him to be careful

  622. appointing leaders. He also kind of gives some personal recommendations

  623. to Timothy as a pastor, so maybe advice for him.

  624. Look at verse twenty two says, don't be hasty and

  625. laying of hands, nor take pardon the sins of others.

  626. He says, Listen, Timothy, there's a temptation. As you see

  627. other elders fall and falling into other temptations. You need

  628. to protect yourself. You need to keep yourself pure. You

  629. don't take part in them. Listen to myselves, keep yourselves pure.

  630. I think it's important for us, and I think Tanner

  631. and Devin will both tell you. One of the things

  632. that I really feel responsible for as the pastor of

  633. this church is caring well for them. One of the

  634. things I do is ask them Tanner, Devin, how are

  635. you reading your Bible? How are you doing your devotions?

  636. How are you doing in your purity? How are you

  637. staying faithful? Why? Why do I do that? Because I

  638. care for their souls? I don't want them just to

  639. be good at doing their job. I want them to

  640. be spiritually well healthy. I want them to be being

  641. filled with the Lord and growing in their relationship with them.

  642. I want them, as Paul is here with Timothy, to

  643. keep themselves pure, to do battle in their own soul

  644. and drawing close to the Lord. He also talks about

  645. Timothy's health here in verse twenty three. Timothy has a

  646. stomach issue is often getting sick, and so he tells

  647. Timothy to take a little wine for his stomach. I

  648. will say just quickly about this. Many times a lot

  649. of people use this passage to justify drinking. I do

  650. not believe in any way that's what Paul is talking

  651. about here, Because Paul, the issue for Timothy is his stomach.

  652. The issue for many other people drinking is not their stomach,

  653. it's their pleasure and their enjoyment. For Paul here is

  654. helping Timothy with a sickness issue. And also, I think

  655. we have to take in what other passages of Scripture

  656. says about this. In Romans fourteen twenty one says it's

  657. not good. It is not good to eat or drink wine,

  658. or do anything that causes your brother to stumble. I

  659. believe you know me, I believe in alcohol abstinence, that

  660. we should have stained from alcohol wine because for our

  661. witness and to to cause the stumbling block for any believer.

  662. And so I believe that's very important for us as

  663. a church. But here he's trying to care for the physical.

  664. I think it's important as we think about pastors, how

  665. are we caring for them spiritually? But also how are

  666. we caring for them physically? How do we make sure

  667. they're taking care of their health? As we finish up today?

  668. I encourage you, church, how are you caring well for

  669. the pastors here? How are you caring well for the elders.

  670. God's commanded us to honor our faithful elders, to hold

  671. them accountable, to be careful in selecting future elders. How

  672. are you caring for them? And last, Tanner and the

  673. band to come and lead us in a song the invitation? Yeah.

  674. I remember I was a young pastor and I would

  675. We had just left seminary. It was four three. I

  676. think we had Chloe at that time, only Chloe. We

  677. left seminary and we went to a little church in Conway,

  678. South Carolina. Hecrew grow Baptist Church. They had been through

  679. some things and we were coming in and you know,

  680. they didn't have a whole lot. It was maybe the

  681. first time they had a full time youth pastor. And

  682. I remember trying to make sure I could take care

  683. of my family, and I remember it, really, to be

  684. honest with you, was the step of faith. Brady didn't

  685. really have a job quite yet, and I remember going

  686. and thinking, Lord, I don't know if we can actually

  687. take care of my family. You know, I think it's

  688. I don't know if you could ever fully understand what

  689. it means for a pastor to leave everything and to

  690. go to a church where you don't know anybody yet

  691. and you don't know if they're going to like you

  692. or they were wanting to get rid of you in

  693. a year, and then you've got the financial thing is

  694. if you've got to take care of your family. And

  695. I remember going and thinking, I don't know if they

  696. can take care of me. And I remember we struggled

  697. the first year, and I thank God that I had

  698. a pastor. Preacher Jerry that year knew that we were

  699. struggling the first year, and that next year he went

  700. to the board I don't remember who's in did the

  701. finances or at that time, and they He told the church,

  702. I don't want you to give me any increases for

  703. I don't know how long it was, but I want

  704. you to take what you're going to give me. I

  705. want you to give it the child that we might

  706. take care of him. You see, in that moment, for me,

  707. it taught me as a pastor, how important it is

  708. for me to make sure I take care of him,

  709. To make sure I take care of Devon, to make

  710. sure I treat the others elders just as I treat myself.

  711. To realize how important it is that I honor them,

  712. that I care for them no matter what they do,

  713. because they're laid bring for the Lord. Can I tell

  714. you church, as the pastor, may we be a church

  715. that together we come together and say, God, you gave

  716. us leaders, and may we honor them, May we care

  717. for them, May we treat them the same, May we

  718. hold them accountable, and may we care for their spiritual

  719. needs and may care for their physical needs. Listen, I

  720. need you, need you, Devon needs you, Skip needs you,

  721. Van needs you, Carl Floyd. They need your care. Church,

  722. Let's care well for elders. Amen, you pray with me. God,

  723. I thank you Lord for a church that doesn't see

  724. me as an employee, that I have a job to

  725. do and I'm at their service. God, I thank you

  726. for a church that sees me like family. For some

  727. they see me like a son, some see me like

  728. a father. And God, I thank you that we are

  729. a family. And God, may I be faithful to care, might,

  730. be faithful, to labor, to encourage, to strengthen, to pour

  731. into Lord lead me and being faithful to be pure,

  732. lead our staff and taking care of themselves spiritually and physically.

  733. But Lord, help us as a church come alongside of

  734. each other and honor each other well, and recognize we

  735. all have a part in this family. We all have

  736. a role, we all have a responsibility. Lord, help us

  737. as a church be faithful and what You've called us

  738. to do. Or we love you. We thank your Lord

  739. for this day and your name. We pray and all

  740. to Him.