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Strategies for Stressful Times: Week 1

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  1. I don't know about you, but uh, when I'm scrolling

  2. on my phone and reading articles about every day, I

  3. get a notification. I wonder if you get that same notification.

  4. The notification simply goes like this, your battery is now

  5. at twenty percent, you irresponsible human being, and it's encouraging

  6. me to plug my phone up. And I'm not gonna

  7. do that. And I'm not gonna get up and plug

  8. my phone up. And so sometimes I'll let it go

  9. down to ten percent, five percent if I'm feeling wild

  10. that day, two percent. When it's down to two percent,

  11. I started having a conversation with my phone, which is

  12. kind of like, just let me finish this, arcle. Just

  13. let me finish this arcle. Just let me finish this

  14. article you serve me, you know. And then then finally,

  15. you know, I have to plug it in because you know,

  16. if not, it's gonna die. And you know, I think

  17. a lot about us. You know, my phone gets down

  18. to two percent one percent, it still looks normal and

  19. it still lights up, it can still answer a call,

  20. but behind the screen it's running out of power. As

  21. a pastor, here's what I see a lot. I see

  22. a lot of you walk in week after week and

  23. you kind of look like your battery is on ten percent,

  24. five percent, two percent, one percent. You look fine on

  25. the outside. You know you went to work this week,

  26. it took care of the kids. You smiled when I said,

  27. how are you doing? But inside your battery it's dead.

  28. And I get it here. In about two weeks, I

  29. moved from being a doctoral student to a doctoral candidate.

  30. And just even the thought of starting that big project,

  31. it exhausts me. It stresses me out. I'll be honest,

  32. I'm very stressed out about this part. And and here's

  33. the thing, I'm actually really excited too. I think a

  34. lot of times we have stuff that we're really excited,

  35. that we love, we really enjoy doing it, but we

  36. got so much stuff going on, it's so many good

  37. things that we actually just become really stressed out and overwhelmed.

  38. All the time. Life can be overwhelming, and for some

  39. of us, it's not all good things. For some of it,

  40. you have a job that makes you miserable, your marriage

  41. is rough, your finances you don't know how things are

  42. gonna get paid, your children. Some of you have been

  43. walking with someone who's been struggling for a long time,

  44. and that's hard too. And maybe nothing's falling apart in

  45. your life, but life has been heavy for so long.

  46. You're just exhausted emotionally spiritually. Now we know what to do, right,

  47. If you're tired physically, go to sleep for twelve hours,

  48. wake up, eat some horrible food, go back to bed

  49. for a few more hours, and do that again for

  50. another day. Guess what you're healed. That's if your body's tired.

  51. We can get you back and shape in two days. Okay, Now,

  52. if your soul is tired, I don't care how much

  53. you sleep. If your soul is tired, you can sleep

  54. twelve hours and still be exhausted emotionally and spiritually. So

  55. how do we keep from running low? Okay? How do

  56. we keep keeping on when we feel like we just

  57. don't have anything left? Well? The apostle Paul, this is

  58. one guy who knew a lot about pressure. He knew

  59. a lot about stress. He was criticized all the time,

  60. he was rejected, he was beaten, and also he carried

  61. the huge responsibility of the churches. He also had this

  62. ongoing illness. Three different times he came to God and said, God,

  63. you've given me all these responsibilities. But I have this

  64. illness my life, my ministry would be so much more

  65. productive if you would just take away, if you would

  66. just fill me. That's legitimate. And God said, no, my

  67. power of my grace is sufficient for you. And so

  68. Paul continued to suffer even in the midst of all

  69. these things. And so we see Paul twice and second

  70. Corinthians say, we do not lose heart. He's not speaking

  71. to somebody had his life easy. No, no, no, He's

  72. speaking to someone who's discovered that there's a strength that

  73. goes deeper than our circumstances. And that's what I hope

  74. you discover today too, that there's a strength inside of

  75. you that goes deeper than your circumstances. And Paul lets

  76. us know how we can discover that. Let's look at

  77. this text today together, he says this, and I'll pay

  78. attention because we're going to talk about this part a

  79. lot today. But we have this treasure in jars of clay. Okay,

  80. And he talks about this, that there's this treasure and

  81. jars of clay, and what does it do? It shows

  82. us all surpassing power is from God, not from us.

  83. We are hard pressed on every side but not crushed,

  84. perplexed but not in despair, persecuted but not abandoned, struck

  85. down but not destroyed. Now, I want to paraphrase this

  86. next part, and he says, this is why we do

  87. not lose heart, even as our bodies grow weak from stress,

  88. from pain, from trials, from good things, from bad things.

  89. You know how we just just get so broken sometimes

  90. it's stressed out. He says, God renews us within each day.

  91. Our present troubles are temporary, but God is using them

  92. to prepare eternal glory. So we center our attention not

  93. on what is visible and temporary, but what is unseen

  94. and eternal. So from the immediate context of this passage, all,

  95. why is Paul writing this to the people of Corinthians. Now?

  96. Paul is writing to a church where a couple of

  97. things going on. They're starting to question his ministry. Okay,

  98. I'll tell you why here in a moment. And they're

  99. also just starting to question his health. It's very fascinating.

  100. Paul looks like life has chewed him up and spin

  101. him out. He doesn't look good. Okay, you gotta understand

  102. that that Paul. His body has scars all over, he

  103. suffers a lot. He has these trials and these repeated hardships,

  104. like one after another. And they think, all right, Paul,

  105. if you are the apostle that God has annoyed, that

  106. God has said, if you truly represent our God and

  107. the power of God, why does your life look horrible?

  108. That's a great question, isn't it. If God is supposed

  109. to be with you, why is your life look miserable?

  110. That's a phenomenal question. Some are actually using this against him.

  111. Why because back then and saying as it is today,

  112. there's a lot of people who believe that if you're

  113. going to be a leader, the main person, that you

  114. got to look powerful, polished, successful, You gotta be impressive

  115. to other people. And Paul is saint, all all right, yeah, yeah,

  116. I got scars, I got hardships. Yes I don't look great.

  117. I look like I've been chewed up a spin out,

  118. He goes, But here's the thing. You're you're missing the point.

  119. You're looking at the container and you're missing the power

  120. that is inside of this container. You're missing the point. See,

  121. his weakness did not disprove the power of God. No, actually,

  122. his weakness demonstrated the power of God in his life,

  123. because when you look at his life, you look at

  124. his body, you look at what had happened to him,

  125. you would have to say only God, only God could

  126. do something through a God like that. He again, he

  127. looked like he had been chewed up and spit out.

  128. He had scars, he was beating, He was stone shipwrecked

  129. five different times, five times, thirty nine lashes on his back.

  130. He didn't look like a polished platform speaker that the

  131. other leaders in the ancient world did. He looked like

  132. a guy who just survived the war. Paul looked like

  133. he was living on one percent. His body was depleted,

  134. it was battered. And you know what, his circumstances were

  135. always overwhelming. And Paul would let you know, Hey, my

  136. treasure isn't my personality. It isn't my toughness, it isn't

  137. my ability to think positively about any situation. No, you

  138. need to know that my treasure is the Gospel. It's

  139. the hope, it's the joy, it's the power of Jesus

  140. living inside of me. And this is why Paul could

  141. be worn down without giving up. Now, pay attention, church, everybody,

  142. look me in the eyes. Today's sermon is not about

  143. how to avoid a difficult life. Okay, that would not

  144. be true to scripture. No, what I'm gonna talk about

  145. today is how to walk through a difficult life without

  146. losing your faith, your peace, and your joy. And the

  147. first lesson, my surprise, is from Paul and how to

  148. keep on keeping on. He says, first of all, you

  149. need to stop trying to be the source of power

  150. in your own life. Stop trying to be the source

  151. of power in your own life. He says, we have

  152. this treasure and jars of clay. Now think about the

  153. first century. If you went into any home, you were

  154. gonna see a jar of clay. Okay, this is where

  155. they're gonna hold their seeds in. Then we're gonna hold

  156. the rice, the wheat. This is whe they kept the

  157. candy away from the kids. All right, But these are fragile.

  158. Matter of fact, they they break pretty easily. It's pretty

  159. easy to damage these, you know. It doesn't take much

  160. to break a hole through them, or a few holes

  161. through them, or to crack them to the point where

  162. they don't seem like they could be used anymore. And

  163. so what would they do with them back then? Now

  164. it's not like we think, because it seems like every

  165. time you and I see an old jar clay with

  166. holes in it and cracks in it, it's in a museum. No,

  167. they did not put them in museums. After they cracked them.

  168. They threw them away. They consider them useless. Paul says

  169. that you and I are like this jar clay. The

  170. difficulties of this world, the trials of this world, the

  171. pain of this world, the loss that we experienced in

  172. this world, the stress the burdens them, the humiliation, all

  173. those things. It wears on us, and it starts to

  174. show the chink in our armor. It breaks us down,

  175. and we start to have these cracks. Are like and

  176. our bodies, as we get older, they break down. Can

  177. I get an amen? Amen? I used to always think

  178. this one's free. I'm not gonna charge you for this one.

  179. I used to always think that people who were retired

  180. were really lucky. And maybe that's because my life was overwhelming,

  181. going to school and all this sudden stuff when I

  182. was young and starting a family. And as I've matured

  183. and got to, you know, experience life a lot more,

  184. I realized that, let me tell you something, and some

  185. of the younger people need to know. You need to

  186. grow your faith passionately because the hardest years of your

  187. life are after you retire. You have a certain amount

  188. of money, and that's it for you to live the

  189. rest of your life on. You better have faith your body.

  190. It starts to do things that you don't understand. Okay,

  191. last for instance, I'm not even that old. I'm like

  192. forty seven, which is like to a kid that's ancient,

  193. but to you not really. But I went to bed

  194. last night and this shoulder hurt. I asked God because

  195. it hurt all evening. I was like, God, I love

  196. for my shoulder not to hurt. I woke up and

  197. guess what. The shoulder didn't hurt. This shoulder was an

  198. extremely like our bodies. And Paul says, yeah, you know what.

  199. You're paying attention to all this stuff and you're wondering, like, man,

  200. how can God's power rest upon you? How could God's

  201. anointing rest upon you? How could God's blessing rest upon you?

  202. When we look at your life and it looks tough,

  203. it looks miserable, it looks painfully ma'am Paul, you look

  204. like you just came out of a war, foreign country.

  205. Rough Man Paul says, you're looking at the wrong thing.

  206. You're looking that's a container. You're missing the treasure that

  207. is inside. I mean, now, what is that treasure that

  208. all of us carry? Follow Christ? Well, first of all,

  209. it's Jesus within us. It's his grace that saves us,

  210. his hope that holds us. It's his power that sustains us.

  211. We might be fragile, but it's the power of God

  212. iss I of us. Now this human container again, it's fragile.

  213. My family learned this big time. Again. Another reminder. Last month,

  214. I was preaching Father's Day Andrew came to me in

  215. between services and said, Hey, your dad, he has to

  216. go to hospital. His legs aren't working. Sound to me

  217. like he had a pinch nerve or maybe he threw

  218. out his back. So I preached. We tried to get

  219. a hold of him after service, couldn't hold of him.

  220. Figured all right, they're an er getting things checked out.

  221. And then we finally got a hold of them, and

  222. it was my brother saying like, you need to get

  223. over to Ohio. Now Dad is paralyzed and he has

  224. to go into surgery. And they've given us two options.

  225. He's either going to be paralyzed for the rest of

  226. his life or he's going to die. We drive two

  227. hours over there. What happened was he had a hemorrhage

  228. and they were saying it was on the inside of

  229. his spinal cord. And so I called some of the

  230. healthcare professionals that I know and they said, yeah, that's

  231. pretty much the case. Yeah, that's what you have to

  232. look forward to. I'm sorry. And so for the next

  233. eight hours it was a prayer vigil at the Miami

  234. Valley Hospital. When they came out, they said, we actually

  235. got good news. See, they had cut through his bottom

  236. four or five vertebrae to relieve some of the pain.

  237. And here's what they found. That the hemorrhage was not

  238. inside the spinal cord, but on top of the spinal cord.

  239. And they never found the hemorrhage. But basically what that

  240. meant was that he could be, you know, unparalyzed. And

  241. so over the next couple of days, guess what, Dad

  242. has started to be able to walk again. And today

  243. now it's been little over them up. Dad's on a walker.

  244. He's slow, but he is moving a little bit. But

  245. I was reminded, And I want to remind you right now.

  246. You know what Dad was doing. He was getting ready

  247. for church. He stood up and his body broke down

  248. like that. That's all. He just stood up. Guy's life

  249. is fragile. Our bodies can go like that. We're easily broken.

  250. And so we actually have some natural questions to ask today, like,

  251. all right, if we contain this treasure here we are,

  252. we're followers of Christ. If I contain this treasure that

  253. Paul speaks of inside of me, then why doesn't God

  254. heal our bodies immediately? Wouldn't that bring God incredible glory?

  255. Why does God allow us to go through some diseases?

  256. Would it bring God incredible glory if all the Christians

  257. never got sick? Paul, this seems like a contradiction. You say,

  258. God has this treasure inside of us, but our bodies

  259. are breaking down. Why doesn't God prevent these sayings? If

  260. his treasure is so precious, why are we giving fresh

  261. all bodies? And Paul simply explains this. Here's what he

  262. goes to say. He says, but we have this treasure

  263. in Jarsah Clay, what to show that this all surpassing

  264. power is from God and not from us. Remember that song,

  265. those of you who went to Sunday School. We are

  266. but He is strong. Yes, Jesus loves me. You remember

  267. that song. We were taught from a little age that

  268. we're weak, but He is strong. And Paul wants to

  269. under us to understand that in our weakness and our

  270. struggles and our pain and our trials and our broken

  271. down bodies, the power of the Gospel is still alive.

  272. The hope of eternity is shown to us. And let

  273. me tell you something about my dad. My dad quite

  274. a personality, by the way, big personality. Every person who

  275. came into his hospital room or rehab or came to

  276. his house to visit him, he has told them all

  277. about Jesus. He's like, Jesus healed me. I should be paralyzed,

  278. I should be dead. Jesus touched me. Jesus did this.

  279. Jesus did that. Jesus even when I was at the hospital,

  280. I'm sitting there watching Dad tell each and every nurse

  281. that came in. Jesus Christ heilled me. You won't believe it.

  282. I should be paralyzed right now, but Jesus Christ healed me.

  283. And then he will look at me and start telling

  284. me about how awesome Jesus was. And I'm like, I

  285. know how awesome Jesus is. He goes, no, no, no, you

  286. don't understand Jesus, Like I understand Jesus. No, you understand

  287. you know, And we're sitting there. I'm like, no, no,

  288. I get him. No, no, no, no, no, no, I know Jesus.

  289. You know it's a He couldn't shut up about it.

  290. Why because he had experienced the glory of God even

  291. in the And here's somebody who couldn't even walk, his

  292. legs were still paralyzed, and he's telling everybody about Jesus

  293. and how awesome he is. Let me tell you something.

  294. God allows things to happen to us because it brings

  295. him great glory when we sing his praises in the

  296. midst of our pain. Now, Church, I just want to

  297. shift for a moment here and listen to me stress.

  298. And here's one of the keys being able to deal

  299. with your stress. Okay, you've got to make a decision

  300. that everything doesn't depend on you. There's some of you

  301. in this room, and you're like, I gotta hold my

  302. family together. I have to fix this problem. I gotta

  303. keep everybody happy. I gotta be the one who always

  304. know what happens next. I have to be strong enough

  305. for everybody. Well, no wonder you're exhausted. You're doing God's job,

  306. not your job. And a lot of us we're on

  307. the other end of the thing where we would just

  308. wish God would change all of our circumstances. God remove

  309. the pressure. God change this person. God open this door,

  310. God fix this by Friday. Let me tell you what's

  311. the Saint missionary Elizabeth Elliott said, she goes a secret.

  312. Is Christ in me, not me in a different set

  313. of circumstances. God can change your circumstances, but sometimes the

  314. first work is is to demonstrate His power through you.

  315. Look at this. See your weaknesses and trials are not

  316. proof that God has left you. It might be the

  317. very place where His power becomes clearest in your life.

  318. Notice Paul doesn't say the power becomes stronger with a

  319. you know, with a great personality, or a perfect schedule

  320. or trouble for your life. No, no, no. The power

  321. to handle our difficulties comes from God. That's why you

  322. and I we can go into that difficult meetings say God,

  323. give me, give me the strength when the medical news comes,

  324. we can say, God, steady me. When our child is hurting,

  325. and you know what this is like. Our child is

  326. hurt and we just can't fix it for them. God

  327. help me to love on them. When our thoughts won't

  328. slow down, God renew my thoughts. See, sometime sometimes the

  329. most spiritual thing we could do is say God, I

  330. can't handle this on my own. See, we have to

  331. drop the illusion that we can handle everything, and we

  332. got to hand it over to God. And that leads

  333. us to our next point. The second thing that Paul

  334. would tell us on how to keep on keeping all

  335. in tough times is be honest about the pressure. Be

  336. honest with others about what's going on. He continues to say,

  337. He goes, we are hard pressed on every side, but

  338. not crushed, perplexed but not in despair, persecuted but not

  339. a band is struck down but not destroyed. Now these

  340. are four honest descriptions that hard pressed. In the Greek,

  341. it gives us the image of a wine press that

  342. crushes the grapes. In other words, the pressure's real, it's painful, perplexed,

  343. and the Greek it's fascinating. It not only means I

  344. don't know why this happened. It also means I don't

  345. know how to fix this. I don't know if you

  346. have been there, But that's pretty miserable. I like to

  347. know at least one of them, why did this happen,

  348. or how to fix it? But I don't like it

  349. when I don't know why this happened and I don't

  350. know how to fix it. And Paul says, this is

  351. part of our life sometimes, you know, as a pastor,

  352. I get asked this question all the time. Why did

  353. this happen? Why is this happening? What's going on? You know?

  354. And I sometimes just wish that there would be like this,

  355. this ribbon that would just drop down to heaven. It

  356. would drop down from heaven and you would talk to

  357. me about your problems, and I would go, uh huh

  358. uh huh, Well, let me tell you why this is

  359. happening to you, and let me give you the meaning

  360. behind this, and let me tell you why this is

  361. actually good for your life. And then I just tie

  362. up a little bow and go, here's your boat. Enjoy it.

  363. But when people ask me why did I lose my job?

  364. I don't have a bow for you. Why did my

  365. mom leave my family when I was young. I don't

  366. have a bau for you. Why did this child die

  367. when it was young? I don't have a bou for that?

  368. Why do I have this terminal illness? I don't have

  369. a bou for that. Sometimes we don't have a bow

  370. where we can just, you know, neatly wrap all of

  371. our trials up and say, well, this is why. So,

  372. when Paul says he was perplexed, you saying this is

  373. part of the Christian experience. Sometimes we don't know why,

  374. and we don't know how to fix it. But here's

  375. what I want you to know today. Faith doesn't mean

  376. that you always understand it. It means that you still

  377. trust in God even when you don't understand it. Paul

  378. says he was perplexed. Paul continues, says he was persecute.

  379. In other words, sometimes people came against him, struck down.

  380. That gives the image of a fighter who's been knocked down.

  381. But he says, but not destroyed. And let me tell

  382. you something, This right here is one of the most

  383. helpful pictures of faith. I want to show you this.

  384. See we faith does not deny the first half of

  385. this sentence. I'm gonna give you. Faith holds onto the

  386. butt not okay. See, I am pressed but not crushed.

  387. I am confused, but not hopeless. I have been hurt,

  388. but not abandoned. I got knocked down, okay, but not out.

  389. Now as we look at this list, I don't know

  390. about you, but I would love to erase the first

  391. half of every single one of those sentences. But that's

  392. not life, okay. Our faith holds onto the butt not.

  393. And here's the thing. I've been around the church for

  394. my whole life, and for some reason, mature Christians or

  395. people have this image of mature Christians where they're just

  396. so polished that, you know, I'm not afraid, I'm not angry,

  397. I'm not disappointing, I'm not lonely. You know, I know

  398. what to do. But the Bible is filled with people

  399. who don't know what to do with their emotions. At

  400. some point, they're not gonna man, I got it all,

  401. It's all good, everything's perfect. No, no, look at David.

  402. David said, how long Lord am I gonna suffer? Jeremiah wept.

  403. We see Elijah. He got to the point where he says,

  404. I'm done. I've had enough of this. Even Jesus in

  405. the garden. What does he say? I am overwhelmed sorrow.

  406. God's not intimidated by your honesty, but you need to understaying.

  407. You can't surrender, but you keep pretending is not there.

  408. So be specific God, I'm afraid of this diagnosis. God,

  409. I'm carrying anger towards this person. God, I'm tired of waiting. God,

  410. I don't know how my family is going to pay

  411. for this. Be honest. The third way to keep on

  412. keeping on, according to Paul and Second Corinthians, is you

  413. need to receive today's strength for today's trouble. Receie today's

  414. strength for today's trouble. What does he say? He says,

  415. though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are

  416. being renewed day by day. Now here's what's going on.

  417. There's two realities in the Christian life that happen at

  418. the same time. One. Outwardly, life drains you, Okay, your

  419. body ages, your schedule, fills up, problems, wear on you,

  420. grief leaves the mark. Okay. Get that. At the same time, inwardly,

  421. those of us who have the Holy Spirit, God is

  422. renewing us. Okay, Sometimes we wake up. Life is still tough.

  423. The diagnosis has not changed, the relationship is still difficult.

  424. The answer has not arrived. But here's what God does.

  425. Check this out, check the timing. He renewses and gives

  426. us strength day by day. He might not give you

  427. all the strength you need for the next month, but

  428. He will give you the strength you need for today.

  429. Pastoring a church ur in a pandemic wouldn't recommend it

  430. to anybody. Okay, the whole world was looney tunes for

  431. a while, if you remember that, especially that first year.

  432. It was a tough year for a few reasons. But

  433. there was a COVID nineteen pandemic, and then there was

  434. trust me, a mental health pandemic. And it seemed like

  435. each and every day there was a new decision that

  436. had to be made that day. Here's some things we

  437. all experienced. We all experienced that new crazy opinion, to

  438. listen to, that new complaint, to respond to a new theory,

  439. to roll our eyes at a new conspiracy that was

  440. floated out there, a new political debate, all experiences things.

  441. The war was out for me personally. On top of

  442. all that, leading has scattered church for three years. That

  443. war on me I remember one season, about a year

  444. and three or four months into the pandemic, I reached

  445. my point where I was not just physically tired, but

  446. I was emotionally spiritually done. And on top of walking

  447. with the church of this season, I'd also lost up

  448. to that point about eight or nine family members who

  449. were close but like my whole family had just been

  450. wiped out. And so when I got to that bottom part,

  451. and I was thinking, I don't know if I'm going

  452. to pass with this church, and I was really contemplating

  453. thinking I maybe should move on, and maybe they should

  454. let someone else come in who has renewed energy and

  455. then come in and just really revive this church, because

  456. I think I'm done. Man, if it was not for Tim,

  457. Andrew Nobill, Terry Horner, and Don Courtney this one day

  458. in my life, God sent them to say the right

  459. thing at the right time that changed my attitude. Now,

  460. they didn't fix everything that day, but here's what would happened.

  461. God starts sending people. I would have people literally come

  462. to me and say, God told me that I am

  463. to come and take you out to launch today and

  464. love on you. Andy. How many times did you love

  465. on me? You just took me out to launch, fed

  466. me a bunch of sushi, said crazy things, and let

  467. me know how much you love me. But God kept

  468. sending people to me like that all the time, and

  469. I fell deeply in love with this congregation. And there

  470. was a season there where it felt like God was

  471. always I was meeting a new family. And then the

  472. thing that really got me was just watching the faithfulness

  473. and the grit of this congregation. And I couldn't believe

  474. how during the of us being scattered, I felt so

  475. much more deeply in love with you. You know, God

  476. never gave me the strength for two weeks or three weeks,

  477. but it seemed like every day when I was gonna

  478. bottom out, he was there for me. My body was weak,

  479. I was tired, I was exhausted. But that treasure that's

  480. inside of me, that power of the Gospel, it renewed me.

  481. And that same power is available to every single one

  482. of you. And one of the best ways Paul tells

  483. us to keep our spirits up, to keep motivated, to

  484. allow the power of the Gospel to run through our

  485. life is leaning the gratitude. That's our last point today.

  486. If you want to keep on keeping on you gotta

  487. lean into gratitude. It's one of the best ways that

  488. God renews us. And he says this all this is

  489. for your benefits, so that the grace that is reaching

  490. more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to

  491. what the glory of God. Gratitude doesn't mean that everything's good,

  492. trusts me on that. Corey ten Boone and her sister

  493. Betsy one of the most crazy stories you ever hear.

  494. They were thrown into one of the most miserable camps

  495. during the Holocaust, Ravens Brook and these two sisters made

  496. a pack that they were going to praise God and

  497. thank God every single day. So they had a list

  498. of things but they would show gratitude to God for

  499. and they did this for a while, but then Corey

  500. ten Boone's sister Betsy said, let's start praising God for

  501. the fleas. Their barracks were infested with fleas, and Corey said,

  502. that's my line, not praising God for these fleas. No way. Well,

  503. her sister insisted, and they start praising God for the fleas.

  504. Here's what they found out subsequently, it was because of

  505. those fleas and an infestation the guards left their Barrack alone,

  506. and they were able to have Bible studies, they were

  507. able to worship Jesus, they were able to prave of

  508. each other, they were able to share the gospel because

  509. of the fleas. Now here's what okay, all right, Gratitude

  510. does not call evil things good. Okay, I'm not talking

  511. about denial here. See, there's a difference between gratitude denial.

  512. Denial says this is not hurt. Gratitude says this hurts.

  513. But hurt is not the only thing here. God is

  514. here too. Now, our kids are all going back to school,

  515. our college kids are going back to school. So I

  516. felt like it would only be fair for me to

  517. give every single one of you an assignment this week. Okay,

  518. I'm gonna give all of you homework. This for every

  519. single one of you. Okay. Here's what it simply is.

  520. I want you, each day this week, on your phone,

  521. text it to yourself, or on your notes, or in

  522. your diary, your devotional whatever. Each day this week, I

  523. want you to write one thing down that you were

  524. thankful for. Maybe it was a mill, maybe it was

  525. a conversation, maybe it was a blessing from God. But

  526. I want you to start tracking what God has done

  527. and the goodness, and it will change your attitude in

  528. the midst of suffering, in the mist of stress. You know,

  529. I have a thankfulness list on my phone. Funny enough,

  530. I started this thankfulness list September twenty sixth, twenty nineteen.

  531. I have a running log of seven years of answered

  532. prayers and things I am thankful for God for. I mean,

  533. I got stuff on here about staff members who came

  534. on staff. Every single one of my bucks is on

  535. here in great detail, and just like every blessing. And

  536. let me tell you something, I take this list out.

  537. I updated a lot, but I often take it out

  538. when I'm having a tough week, and it doesn't take

  539. long for me to remember how awesome God is and

  540. how faithful He has been in it. Today's trouble is

  541. just today's trouble. But over God, overall God, just like

  542. He's had my past, he has my future. And by

  543. the time it takes a long time to get to

  544. the end of my list, now, by the time I

  545. get to the end of that, I'm praising God. I'm

  546. worshiping God. I'm sitting at my desk saying, God, you

  547. are amazing. You are faithful. You know, if your phone

  548. is running down, you don't need a motivational speech. Got

  549. to plug it into the power source. And we as

  550. clay jars. Often when our bodies break, chinks in our

  551. armor happen, and maybe we don't look too great. Maybe

  552. our life looks stressful, Maybe our life looks painful. Maybe

  553. our life just doesn't look like what someone would think

  554. a Christian's life would look like. Maybe you've been battered.

  555. But let me tell you something. Remind yourself, this is

  556. just a container. All those things happen in your life,

  557. that's just part of this life. But here's what we

  558. are all called to do. We are called to allow

  559. God's glory to shine through our cracks, to shine through

  560. our pain, to shine through our hurt, to shine through

  561. all of the broken places in our life. So when

  562. you're hard pressed, let that glory shine through you. When

  563. you're persecuted, let that glory shine through you. When you

  564. get knocked down, let that glory shine through you. When

  565. you are perplexed, let that glory shine through you. Here's

  566. the thing. Yeah, you're gonna have a beat up, bruised body.

  567. And let me tell you. Some of you guys who

  568. are older, as younger people were watching your life. And

  569. I am so proud of the older people in this

  570. church because, let me tell you something, you bring glory

  571. and honor to God through your suffering. You are showing

  572. us the great power of God despite your circumstances. Let's

  573. take some time to pray now, in the midst of

  574. our stress and our heaviness and the trials of our life.

  575. Why don't you go ahead and think about those things

  576. that are perplexing to you, those things that may be

  577. in your life that are hard pressed, those trials in

  578. your life, those stresses, and go ahead and hand them

  579. over to God this morning. Recommit them and ask God

  580. to help identify it, admit it, and then admit that

  581. you meet his help. Take those to Him now. And

  582. now let's close out by asking God for his glory

  583. and his treasure to shine through your wounds, your scars,

  584. the pain in your life, to shine through your diagnosis,

  585. to shine through you, your poverty, to shine through your pain.

  586. Ask the Lord for his glory to be seen in

  587. your life. Dedicate your trials, dedicate your stress to Him

  588. for his glory