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Strategies for Stressful Times: Week 2

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  1. Well, I wanted to start today by telling you about

  2. a stressful week that I had not too long ago,

  3. and I'm just gonna walk through one day at a time,

  4. because each day it just compounded. In this particular week,

  5. Monday morning. It started on Monday, and Monday morning I

  6. was met with a crisis that I had to deal with,

  7. kind of an emergency, and I.

  8. Wasn't planning on that.

  9. If you looked at my calendar, there was no blocked

  10. off time for crisis management on Monday. But it interrupted

  11. my plans and it took my attention, my troubleshooting to

  12. deal with this crisis. Then on Tuesday, I was here

  13. at work and in the middle of a meeting when

  14. I got a desperate phone call that my father in law,

  15. who lives in Pennsylvania collapsed at work and was rushed

  16. to the hospital and found out had a stroke. Thankfully,

  17. he made a full recovery and was back to work

  18. in a couple of days, no lasting effects. But that

  19. particular day, I was you know, we were worried, we

  20. were anxious, we were stressed, and there was a point

  21. where I was looking at Okay, I may need to

  22. drop everything and get in the car and drive to Pennsylvania.

  23. We don't know how this is going to turn out.

  24. And then on Thursday of that week, many of you

  25. know that my wife owns and operates a retail store

  26. here in the area, and I got a disturbing message

  27. on Thursday that one of our employees had pressed the

  28. emergency panic button behind the counter of the store and

  29. police were en route to the store because there was

  30. a confrontation happening between a customer and one of the employees,

  31. and this customer was threatening the safety of one of

  32. our employees. And thankfully nobody was hurt. But Thursday night

  33. we had to deal with the police. Friday morning, we

  34. were with the police, we had.

  35. To take some legal steps. Like it was stressful.

  36. And then just to top it all off for that week,

  37. my family decided that we would put in an offer

  38. to buy a new house. I think we just thought, man,

  39. Monday's been crazy, Tuesday's been crazy, Thursdays been crazy. Let's

  40. just top it off and let's move. And so it

  41. was a stressful week all in one week. I'm sure

  42. you've had a week like that, maybe different details, different circumstances,

  43. but a week where it just goes from crisis to emergency,

  44. to issue to drama, and.

  45. It's stressful, Like where do I get a break? You know?

  46. For somebody here, it's a work thing that is just

  47. stressing you out right now. I was leading my small

  48. group not long ago, and in the middle of our discussion,

  49. one of the guys in the group stood up and

  50. walked out abruptly. And I texted him later and he

  51. said that he got a message from work that there

  52. was an emergency, a crisis he had to go take

  53. care of. For some of us, it's a financial thing.

  54. Like that is stressing you out right now? What's keeping

  55. you awake at night? What's turning over in the back

  56. of your mind? Even right now when you hear me

  57. say the word stress, I know for many it's a

  58. health thing. There's someone in church I know just last

  59. week had to make an emergency visit to the hospital.

  60. Somebody else in our church just recently lost a parent

  61. suddenly without any warning. Like, these are stressful things. What

  62. is stressing you out well?

  63. Today? I want to share a.

  64. Message about responding to stress. Now here's what I can't do.

  65. I'm not gonna be able to give you three steps

  66. to make your stress go away. And I'm certainly not

  67. gonna put on the screen a phone number or a

  68. website where you can go and get all your problems removed.

  69. I can't do that.

  70. But what I do hope to do today is to

  71. open God's word where we can find supernatural wisdom and

  72. strength and power to respond to stress. So that's what

  73. we're gonna do, and we're gonna do that by looking

  74. at the Book of Philippians. We're gonna move around the

  75. Book of Philippians. Primarily we'll be in chapter one, but

  76. will also be in some other places.

  77. And let me set the context.

  78. Philippians was a letter written in the first century by

  79. the apostle. Paul was writing this to Christians living in Philippi,

  80. and the context around Paul's writing.

  81. Is Philippians was written under stress.

  82. Paul was in stress when he was writing this because

  83. Paul was a prisoner.

  84. He'd been arrested for preaching.

  85. The Gospel, and he was in a Roman jail waiting

  86. his trial and eventual execution. He mentions this in chapter one,

  87. verse thirteen, I'm in chains for Christ. And then in

  88. chapter two, verse seventeen, he says, I'm being poured out

  89. like a drink offering on the sacrifice in service coming

  90. from your faith.

  91. Last year I got.

  92. To visit Rome and I toured this ancient dungeon where

  93. many historians believe Paul was held prisoner in Rome.

  94. And let me tell you if.

  95. That's true, if that's where Paul was, I saw it.

  96. It is a stressful place. It's underground, there's no sunlight,

  97. there's no windows, it's cold, it's dark, there's no electricity,

  98. there's no running water. Well, there is water, but it's

  99. just seeping up through the stone in the floor, so

  100. it's damp. It is, And it's in that environment that

  101. Paul writes this Book of Philippians. I want to return

  102. to Philippians two, verse seventeen. We just read the first

  103. part of that verse. I want to read the whole verse.

  104. I want to read how this verse finishes. He says,

  105. even if I'm being poured out like a drink offering

  106. on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith, I

  107. am glad and rejoice with all of you.

  108. How can Paul say that he's glad? How can he rejoice?

  109. He's in prison, he's incarcerated, he's in bondage, he's stuck.

  110. How can he say, what's there to be joyful about?

  111. That's our message today because Paul knows something and he

  112. wants to remind us of something in these words of Philippians,

  113. that when you're under stress, shift your attitude. That's the

  114. message today. That's the main point today, is that when

  115. you're under stress, shift your attitude. Attitude is everything. Man,

  116. If you got allows the attitude, you're gonna be crushed

  117. by the stress. If you got the wrong attitude, the

  118. thing that's stressing you out is gonna overwhelm you and

  119. it's gonna ruin you. But if you got the right attitude,

  120. if you got the attitude like Paul, the Christian attitude

  121. under stress, you're gonna endure, You're gonna overcome, and you

  122. will prevail over the thing that is stressing you out.

  123. Shift your attitude.

  124. When you're driving in a car, the engine shifts gears.

  125. You know, whether you're driving an automatic car, the engine

  126. does that automatically, or if you are driving a stick

  127. shift or a manual, the driver shifts between gears as

  128. you go. Every car has the basic simple gears right

  129. you know, there's park, reverse, neutral, and drive like those

  130. are the basic fundamental shift changes.

  131. In driving a car.

  132. And I believe these four shift changes are a metaphor

  133. for how we might respond to stress, because when you're

  134. under stress, you can definitely shift into park like. You

  135. can camp out in the stress. You can wallow in

  136. self pity, you can you can get stuck, you can

  137. call off work, stay in bed like, you can just

  138. sit there. You can also go backwards. You can shift

  139. into reverse when you're under stress. Like, Man, you've been

  140. making progress, you've been following Jesus, you've been growing in

  141. your faith.

  142. Things are good.

  143. But when stress comes, you go backwards old habits, you know,

  144. old coping mechanisms, self medicating, overeating, under eating. You can

  145. shift backwards and return to sinful things like abusing drugs

  146. and alcohol, using pornography, and.

  147. Go back to the old way of like.

  148. You can definitely go backwards when you're stressed, and there's neutral. Man,

  149. when you're stressed, you can shift your attitude into neutral

  150. and say plug your ears and say la la la,

  151. no stress, no stress, and you can just ignore it.

  152. You can avoid it, act like it doesn't exist. But

  153. what happens when a car is neutral, It's pretty easy

  154. to push it and it just coasts it's pretty easy

  155. to kind of direct where it goes with very little pushing.

  156. If you're shifting to neutral under stress, the devil can

  157. influence you. The devil can push you, direct you, steer you.

  158. You can drift in your faith. And of course there's drive,

  159. and that's the metaphor for shifting your attitude. We want

  160. to shift into drive under stress. We want to move forward.

  161. We don't want to go backwards. We don't want to

  162. stay stuck. We want to move forward, shifting our attitude

  163. with the attitude of Jesus, with our eyes focused on him,

  164. following him, facing the issues. We want to shift into drive.

  165. And this is what Paul actually says. Look up chapter three,

  166. Starting in verse twelve, he says, I press on.

  167. He's saying, I shift into drive. I'm moving forward.

  168. I press on to take hold of that for which Christ,

  169. Jesus took hold of me, forgetting what is behind. I'm

  170. not going in reverse.

  171. Streighting toward what is ahead. I press on. In other words,

  172. when we're stressed, shift your attitude, shift your attitude, shift

  173. in to drive the attitude of Christ.

  174. He goes on in verse fourteen, I press on for

  175. the goal for the prize, of the upward call of

  176. God and Christ Jesus. Therefore, all who are mature, let's

  177. have this attitude. Let's have this attitude, the attitude of Christ.

  178. Let's shift into drive. Let's shift your attitude, because ultimately,

  179. your attitude controls how you respond distressful things.

  180. Out of your control.

  181. Your attitude controls how you respond. You can't control the situation,

  182. you can't control the circumstance, but you're you can't control.

  183. Your attitude, and it controls how you respond.

  184. Paul says in one verse twenty seven, whatever happens, whatever

  185. happens good or bad, whatever happens stressful, whatever happens with

  186. the doctor's result, test results, whatever happens.

  187. With report from school, whatever.

  188. Happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the Gospel

  189. of Christ.

  190. Shift your attitude.

  191. Your attitude control is how you respond to the things

  192. that you don't control. Controls your conduct, your behavior, your words.

  193. Your attitude controls your witness, especially under stress.

  194. There's a couple sources of stress.

  195. I think two of those sources are stressful circumstance and

  196. stressful people. Now, I know you all want to hear

  197. about stressful people. We'll get there in a minute, A

  198. stressful circumstance, something you can't control. I told you earlier

  199. that our families has been house hunting, house searching, and

  200. when we started that process early on, I crunched the numbers.

  201. I put a budget together.

  202. I looked at income and equity and all these things,

  203. and I came up with a house shopping budget, like

  204. I think we can for this price range for a house. Well,

  205. when I got to work with a mortgage lender, with

  206. a professional, they also crunched the numbers, and they decided

  207. that my number was a little too high, about twenty

  208. percent too high, and so they preapproved me for a

  209. lower number than I had in mind. And so what

  210. that means is it changes how I where I can

  211. look for a house. It changes if I'm looking for

  212. something moving ready or something needs some repairs.

  213. Like there's a limit. I don't control that.

  214. I can't change that no matter how many times I call.

  215. I can't change the numbers. Numbers are numbers. But I

  216. can shift my attitude instead of being disappointed, instead of

  217. being frustrated or pouting, I can shift my attitude and

  218. I can say, well, you know, a smaller number that

  219. means borrowing less.

  220. That means less debt. That's a good thing. You know.

  221. I can shift my attitude. I can remind myself.

  222. Man, seven years ago, got provided the house I'm in now.

  223. Seven years before that, he provided that house.

  224. He knows what I need. God's got me.

  225. Shift your attitude because circumstances are things that you cannot control.

  226. And if you know me well, you know that I

  227. cannot hide what I'm feeling. I don't have a poker face.

  228. I wear my emotion on my sleeves. You can just

  229. see it in my face, and I'll tell you. You might

  230. have been here a few weeks ago. I was in

  231. a situation that was outside of my control. When in

  232. the middle of our service, in the middle of me

  233. up here preaching, the fire alarm went off, and if

  234. you were in here or if you were watching online,

  235. you saw my face.

  236. Set at all just as we evacuated like nothing.

  237. I could do, nothing, I could change, nothing I can control,

  238. And here was my attitude. There are things that you

  239. can't control in life. You can't control the hiring process.

  240. You don't control when the company goes through layoffs. You

  241. don't control the weather. You don't control when the rivers rise,

  242. you don't control. You don't control the blood test results.

  243. You don't control when the car stops working. You don't

  244. control other people. There are things that you can't control.

  245. Paul was in a circumstance beyond his control. He was

  246. in jail, he was stuck, and in the midst of

  247. the stressful situation, Paul redirects his attitude.

  248. Go to chapter one, verse twelve.

  249. We're gonna work our way through twelve, thirteen, fourteen, and on.

  250. He says, I want you to know, brothers and sisters,

  251. that what has happened to me has actually advanced the Gospel.

  252. Paul's attitude is focused on the Gospel. He saying, man,

  253. this stressful situation is for God's glory. How's God gonna

  254. get glory? Next verse verse thirteen, it has become known

  255. throughout the whole Imperial Guard and to everyone else. Then

  256. my imprisonment is because I'm in Christ. A couple of

  257. things that Paul teaches us in these verses. He shows

  258. us that your attitude under stress is a witness to unbelievers.

  259. He says, the Imperial Guard knows about Christ. Everyone else

  260. knows that I'm in chains for Christ. There's a witness

  261. The Imperial Guard was an elite specialized group in the

  262. first century Rome. They're also called the Praetorian Guard, and

  263. they would be most compared to our modern day secret service.

  264. The Praetorian Guard was responsible to protect the emperor, his family,

  265. to protect other government officials, and historically the Pratorian Guard

  266. became politically powerful and influential, so much so that they

  267. could install and remove government leaders as they chose.

  268. In forty one a d.

  269. The Praetorian Guard assassinated Emperor Caligula and then installed a

  270. new emperor of their choice like they had power. And

  271. here's Paul saying, Hey, this powerful group. They've heard about

  272. the Gospel, They've heard about Jesus. Because I'm in prison

  273. under stress. Your attitude is a witness to unbelievers. This

  274. world is looking for Christians who have a different attitude. Man,

  275. this world is looking for Christians. You have an attitude

  276. of hope, who have an attitude of eternity. This world

  277. is looking for Christians who are gonna suffer different, endure

  278. different with a different attitude. You see, when the rest

  279. of the world is panicked because of what's going on

  280. in the economy and the stock market, and interest rates.

  281. It's Christians who have a different attitude and say, man,

  282. Jesus provides my needs, my resources, belong to an eternal,

  283. heavenly father.

  284. What everyone else in this world is is.

  285. Terrified by a fatal diagnosis. Christians have a different attitude,

  286. who say, man, my earthly body is not my permanent,

  287. forever home.

  288. We have a hope for an eternal resurrection.

  289. When the rest of the world gives its allegiance and

  290. loyalty to a politician or a political party.

  291. Or an agenda.

  292. Christians have a different attitude, who say, man, I belong

  293. to a king whose kingdom is not of this world,

  294. and whose throne will not be shaken. You see, your

  295. attitude under stress is a witness to unbelievers about who

  296. your God is and who you belong to. Let's keep

  297. reading the next verse. We're working our way through twelve thirteen.

  298. Now fourteen, Paul says, most of the brothers have gained

  299. confidence in the Lord for my imprisonment, and dare even

  300. more to speak the word fearlessly.

  301. Would you say the word fearlessly? Fearlessly? Paul saying, because

  302. of his stressful situation.

  303. Other believers are speaking up because of his stressful situation.

  304. Other Christians are sharing the gospel because under stress, your

  305. attitude is an encouragement to other believers. How you handle stress,

  306. your attitude under stress is an encouragement to other believers.

  307. I remember talking to one person in our church who

  308. lost his spouse. Man, he was grieving, he was depressed,

  309. and he shared with me how he was really depending

  310. on his adult children, his adult son and leaning on them.

  311. And as we talked, I reminded this widow.

  312. Where I said, Man, your children and your grandchildren, you're

  313. setting an example for them of how to grieve with

  314. the hope that we have in Jesus.

  315. Like they're watching you walk through this turmoil and you're

  316. an encouragement to them.

  317. I know somebody else in our church who got fired

  318. from a job, worked to that job for a long time,

  319. and just kind of without warning, suddenly just let go.

  320. And I admired that person's attitude. They weren't angry, they weren't.

  321. Revengeful, they weren't bitter, and even.

  322. Though they didn't have income, they had a family, they

  323. had responsibilities. That person was like, Hey, God's got me.

  324. God's gonna provide. I'm not stressing because I have faith

  325. in God that I admire that I want to have

  326. that kind of attitude under stress. You see, your attitude

  327. under stress is a witnessed unbelievers, and it's an encouragement

  328. to other believers. How you respond, a stressful circumstance encourages others.

  329. So there are stressful circumstance and then there are stressful people.

  330. That's the one everybody you want to hear about the

  331. stressful people. Well, in these next verses, verses fifteen, sixteen seventeen, Paul,

  332. he talks about some people stressing him out, or some

  333. stressful people. He says in verse fifteen, it is true

  334. that some preach Christ out of envy and rivalry, but

  335. others out of good will. The latter do so out

  336. of love, knowing that I'm put here for the defense

  337. of the Gospel. The former preach Christ out of selfish ambition,

  338. not sincerely supposing that they can stir up trouble for

  339. me while I'm in chains.

  340. But what does it matter?

  341. The important thing is that in every way, whether from

  342. false motives or true, Christ is preached.

  343. And because of this I rejoice. Now. I want to

  344. break this down.

  345. I want to go back through these verses, and I

  346. want to share a few things that I learned recently

  347. about this from Pastor Rick Warren. There are people who

  348. stress you out. Look in verse fifteen closely. What does

  349. Paul say. It's true that some preach Christ out of

  350. envy and rivalry.

  351. These are critics.

  352. Critics will stress you out. Critics are stressful people. Usually,

  353. critics are those who are envious or jealous of who

  354. you are and.

  355. What you have.

  356. Anyone who wants to live for Christ will be criticized.

  357. I remember a critic some criticism in the past. Someone

  358. criticized my preaching, and I really want to try and

  359. be open to helpful feedback. I want to be open

  360. to that. But this was not helpful feedback. This was

  361. just criticism. This was unfair. They had strong opinions about

  362. my preaching, and it hurt my feeling. I carried it

  363. for a little bit, but then I just felt the

  364. Holy Spirit speak to me and God say, Andrew, that person,

  365. thenn't call you.

  366. I called you.

  367. Be faithful to what I've called you to do. So

  368. I just release that stress to the Lord, let him

  369. carry it.

  370. And you're gonna have critics. You're gonna have critics look

  371. at verse.

  372. Seventeen, Paul talks about some another stressful type of person.

  373. He says, the former preach Christ out of selfish ambition.

  374. These are competitors.

  375. There are just some people that are gonna compete against you.

  376. Some people that are gonna want to win, want to

  377. beat you. There's just some people. They want more recognition,

  378. more power, more applause. Usually they'll put others down to

  379. elevate themselves. You will always face competitors. If you're in business,

  380. there's a competitor trying to steal your business. If you're

  381. in school, you're gonna have competition.

  382. You're gonna have rivalry. You have a choice to make

  383. when you encounter competition.

  384. Are you going to focus your attitude on the competitor?

  385. Are you gonna try to compete? Are you gonna try

  386. to fight? Are you gonna try to win? Because I'm

  387. telling you, if you shift your attitude to focus on

  388. the competitor, you're probably gonna be miserable. You're probably gonna

  389. lose your joy, and you may even compromise your beliefs

  390. and your values in order to win. We have to

  391. face competitors. There are competitors that we have to deal

  392. with Verse seventeen continues, the former preach Christ have a

  393. selfish ambition, not sincerely supposing.

  394. That they can stir up trouble for me while I'm

  395. in chains. These are challengers. Challengers are stressful people. This

  396. type of person is a troublemaker. Man. They love gossip.

  397. They love having the scoop on something.

  398. They love feeling like they're on the inside, like they

  399. know something that nobody else knows, and they can, at

  400. their discretion, share this information. They love to spread rumors

  401. and start trouble. Let me tell you there's a couple

  402. of favorite phrases that these stressful people have.

  403. Some of their favorite.

  404. Phrases include some people are saying, or let me add

  405. my two cents, or I.

  406. Heard somebody say.

  407. These folks usually have anonymous sources and unverified information. Man,

  408. when you encounter a stressful challenger, if you chase down

  409. every gossip, you're gonna waste your time and energy. If

  410. you try to confront and correct every rumor, you're just

  411. gonna create more conflict. Proverbs chapter sixteen says, a contrary

  412. person spreads conflict, and a gossip separates close friends. We

  413. can't control stressful circumstances. We can't control stressful people and

  414. stressful personalities, but we can't shift our attitude.

  415. We can change our attitude.

  416. Even when things feel out of your control, you can

  417. shift your attitude. Paul reminds Us. He says this in

  418. Philippians chapter three. Here's what he says. Our citizenship is

  419. in heaven, and we eagerly away a savior from there,

  420. the Lord Jesus Christ, who by the power that enables

  421. him to bring everything under his control, will transform our

  422. lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body.

  423. I want you to look closely at the text. Look

  424. closely here at verse twenty one.

  425. What does it say.

  426. Does it say Jesus controls a few things? Does it

  427. say Jesus controls the small things? Does it say that

  428. Jesus controls little things, tiny things? It says he controls everything.

  429. Jesus is the one who is in the storm on

  430. the water, and the winds and the waves obeyed him.

  431. Can he not calm the storm that's swirling around you.

  432. He's the one who healed the sick, who gave sight

  433. to the blind, who restored people's legs who couldn't walk,

  434. don't you think that disease and illness is no match

  435. for him? He is the one, our God, our savior,

  436. the one who cast out demons, the one who.

  437. Rebuke evil spirits.

  438. Don't you think that he can speak to anxiety and

  439. turmoil and fear and depression. He died on the cross,

  440. he faced death and rose from the dead three days later.

  441. That means that cancer is no match for him. The

  442. grave is no match for him. Death is no match

  443. for him. That's our God, that's our savior. And it

  444. says everything's under his control. When you're stressed out by

  445. things that you can't control, remember the one who is

  446. in control. Let's get practical for a few moments. Let's

  447. talk about navigating stress. Return of Philippians one verse eighteen.

  448. Paul says, what does it matter? The important thing is

  449. that in every way, whether from false motives or true,

  450. Christ is preached.

  451. And because of this.

  452. I rejoice and I will continue to rejoice. Wants you

  453. to notice what Paul does not say. Paul does not

  454. say because of this, I feel sad. Because of this,

  455. I feel.

  456. Angry, I feel disappointed. He doesn't even say, well.

  457. I feel happy, I feel glad because Paul does not

  458. talk about his emotions. He doesn't talk about feelings. He

  459. describes a decision that he made that he chooses to rejoice.

  460. He chooses joy.

  461. He makes a decision.

  462. Joy is a Christian attitude in spite of stress. It's

  463. an attitude, it's a mind s it's a state of mind.

  464. Because joy's not the same as happiness. Happiness comes and goes.

  465. Happiness is a feeling, but joy is a decision.

  466. When you're driving in your car and you want to

  467. go faster, the engine down shifts to a lower.

  468. Gear to get that power to accelerate to go faster.

  469. You know, Let's imagine that you're driving on for sixty five,

  470. you know, being sixty miles an hour. Who am I kidding?

  471. Nobody drives sixty miles an hour for sixty five.

  472. Let's just say you're driving along sixty miles.

  473. An hour and you come up behind a slow moving

  474. car that you want to pass, you want to get around.

  475. We've all been there, we've been there.

  476. Well, when you press the gas, let's say you're cruising

  477. out sixty miles an hour and six gear. When you

  478. press the gas, the engine down shifts maybe into like

  479. fourth gear. To get that power, get that accelerator to

  480. go faster. You downshift. That's why I want to encourage

  481. you to downshift to joy when you're under stress.

  482. Downshift to joy. Use joy because joy accelerates your faith.

  483. Joy gives you power to endure when the circumstances and

  484. the people are out of your control. Downshift into joy

  485. because joy is a choice. Joy chooses to worship even

  486. when you're worried. Joy chooses to obey no matter the circumstance.

  487. Joy chooses to trust God in the trial. Joys a choice.

  488. Downshift into joy and you will find supernatural power in

  489. the stress. I want to also encourage you to ask

  490. a question. Ask yourself, who's in the driver's seat when

  491. you're under stress? Ask yourself who's in the driver's seat?

  492. And when you're stressed, you can stay in the driver's seat.

  493. You can grip that metaphorical steering wheel and you can

  494. white knuckle it through the stress. Or you can allow

  495. Jesus to be in the driver's seat. Notice what Paul

  496. writes in verse nineteen. He says, I know, through your

  497. prayers and God's provision of the spirit of Jesus Christ,

  498. what has happened to me, will turn out for my deliverance.

  499. He's like, Man, God's in the driver's seat. God's gonna

  500. take care of it. God's gonna provide. God is steering

  501. and driving, come whatever may, if there's a detour, if

  502. there's a turn, if there's a bridge out, like, God

  503. is gonna provide. God's in the driver's seat. So I

  504. want to ask you a very very important question. Who's

  505. in the driver's seat of your life? This is the

  506. basic fundamental question that every human being has to answer.

  507. Who's in the driver's seat of your life? Who's in charge?

  508. Who's in control of your life? Is it Jesus or

  509. is it not?

  510. Man?

  511. Somebody here, I think I'm speaking to somebody that maybe

  512. you are a follower of Jesus. Jesus is in the

  513. driver's seat, but sometimes you're sitting the passenger and when

  514. things get stressful, when things get tense, you reach over

  515. and want to grab that that steering with.

  516. Who am I talking to?

  517. I'm talking to me for sure, because man, when I'm

  518. stressed out, like yeah, let me see who I can call,

  519. Let me see what I can take control, let me

  520. see what I can do. Man, who's in the driver's seat.

  521. There's only one choice. It's either Jesus or it's not

  522. who's in the driver's seat. Let's finish this passage verse twenty.

  523. I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no

  524. way be ashamed, but will have sufficient courage so that

  525. now as always, Christ will be exalted in my body,

  526. whether by life or by death. For to me, to

  527. live is Christ, and to die is Gain. If I'm

  528. to go on living in the body, this will mean

  529. fruitful labor for me. Yet what shall I choose?

  530. I do not know. I'm torn between the two.

  531. I desired to depart and be with Christ, which is

  532. better by far, but it is more necessary for you

  533. that I remain in the body. So it was Paul

  534. saying in this passage, and he's saying he's focused on Jesus.

  535. He's saying, man, if I die, if my time on

  536. earth is done, great, it's gain. I go to Heaven

  537. I see Jesus. If I stay here on earth, great

  538. I've got more ministry to do to glorify Jesus. He's saying,

  539. it's all about Jesus, It's all about his purpose. He's focused,

  540. he's not distracted by the stress. Last week, my family

  541. was traveling to Pennsylvania and we were driving on I

  542. seventy across Ohio and there's a lot of I seventy

  543. across Ohio, and we came across this unusual sign on

  544. I seven, I think it was maybe around Zanesville, Ohio,

  545. and it says something like it says something like now

  546. entering distraction driver, distraction.

  547. Free enforcement zone, something like that.

  548. And so for like the next ten twenty miles or so,

  549. we were in this zone.

  550. And so we're just.

  551. Driving along, and then after ten fifteen twenty miles somewhere

  552. there was another sign that said now leaving distracted driver zone.

  553. And I just laughed, and I thought, oh, is it

  554. now legal to be a distracted driver? And I'm out

  555. of the zone. Stress can distract us. Stress can get

  556. us off course. And so I want to encourage you.

  557. Keep your eyes on the road, keep your eyes on Jesus,

  558. keep your eyes on your purpose, keep your eyes focused.

  559. On what Jesus is doing.

  560. Don't be focused on the criticism, don't be focused on

  561. your insecurity, don't be focused.

  562. On your fear.

  563. Keep your eyes on the road, stay focused on Jesus.

  564. Keep showing up, keep moving forward, stay and drive. I

  565. want to end with just telling you one more story.

  566. When I was in Pennsylvania last week, I got to

  567. visit the previous church where I served years ago, and

  568. got to reconnect with a lot of friends and family

  569. and old friends and people hadn't.

  570. Seen in a long time.

  571. And one of the persons that I reconnected with last

  572. week was a guy named Ed.

  573. And Ed is just a faithful Christian, faithful to his church.

  574. And Ed is up there in years and every week

  575. Ed serves at the front door of his church. He's

  576. he's greeting and opening doors and shaking hands, welcoming people

  577. to church.

  578. And when I reconnected with Ed, he.

  579. Told me that he had lost his wife about four

  580. years ago. I didn't know that. I didn't know that.

  581. And I remember what Ed said to me. He said, Andrew,

  582. it's been tough. He said, it's been stressful. And then

  583. he said, but that's why I keep showing up here

  584. at church. So that's why I'm here at the front

  585. door every week greeting.

  586. I've got a purpose. He's focused on Jesus.

  587. What I saw in his face, what I heard in

  588. his words, was the joy of the Lord and what

  589. I admired about. It was even in stress, even in grief,

  590. Ed's like, man, I keep my eyes focused on Jesus.

  591. So I want to encourage you when you're stressed, keep

  592. showing up, keep showing up, keep your eyes focused on Jesus.

  593. Shift your attitude to the joy of the Lord. I

  594. want to remind somebody here today. We often say, hey, man,

  595. God's got it. For that expression, God's got it. You know, Hey,

  596. I don't know how it's gonna wrong.

  597. But God's got it. And that's true, God's got it.

  598. But I want to remind you today God's got you.

  599. I thought about that this week, man, and all the

  600. stress and all the unknown, at the end of the day,

  601. my joy is that God's got me. God's got you.

  602. I want to invite us to respond to what we've

  603. heard today. If you're able, would you stand with me.

  604. I want to ask you to bow your head and

  605. close your eyes. And here's what I'm going to ask

  606. you to do. I'm gonna pray, and I'm gonna mention

  607. some things. And if anything that I say relates to

  608. you connects with you, I'm going to ask you, as

  609. a bold step of faith, just to raise your hand

  610. in the air so I can see you and pray

  611. for you. Just keep it up there while we pray.

  612. But I want to ask, is there anybody here that's

  613. in a stressful relationship issue, a stressful family issue? Would

  614. you just raise your hand? Just slip it up there

  615. and keep it up because I want.

  616. To pray for you.

  617. Who's got stressful sign financial needs that's stressing.

  618. You out right now? Just raise your hand.

  619. Who's got stressful stuff with what's going on with the

  620. weather and the water and all that right now?

  621. Who's stressing about that? Who's stressing over a health thing?

  622. Keep your hands up.

  623. Who's got a health issue, even if it's a loved

  624. one that you're concerned about, it's got a health issue.

  625. And there may be so much more.

  626. If you've got anything that's stressing you that even I

  627. didn't mention, and you want to raise your hand and

  628. ask God for his intervention, ask God for his breakthrough.

  629. Just raise your hand, Father, God. I want to pray

  630. for all of us today. First, God, I prays you

  631. would meet our needs. You are the eternal Father, a

  632. good father. You tell us how much more do you

  633. delight to give good things to your children. So, God,

  634. would you meet our needs material needs, financial needs in

  635. the ways that you want to do it.

  636. God, would you provide?

  637. And God, I want to pray for the families, the relationships. God,

  638. there are some that are stressing about a marriage thing,

  639. the parents and adult child issues. God, I pray that

  640. you would bring healing. You bring reconciliation, You'd bring forgiveness

  641. to those stressful relationship things.

  642. God.

  643. The health needs, God, would you bring healing according to

  644. your will?

  645. Would you do miracles in our bodies.

  646. Would you do miracles in the tissue, in the bones,

  647. would you do miracles in the lungs? God, would you

  648. bring healing in the way that only you can. Because

  649. we know that Jesus rose from the death, that means

  650. he's victorious over death, He's victorious over disease, He's victorious

  651. over evil. God, I pray for the one who's stuck

  652. an addiction in its stressing amount. God, break that addiction

  653. with the same power that raised Jesus from the dead. God,

  654. thank you that we have an eternal hope. May we

  655. keep our eyes on You. We pray all of this

  656. by the power of Jesus for his glory.

  657. Amen.