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Real Life | Part 7 | Dave Gruhn

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  1. Alright. Hey. Good morning.

  2. Good morning here in live. If you don't

  3. know, if you're visiting with us,

  4. we call this venue live. We also have

  5. a couple other campuses, a couple other venues

  6. here on this campus that we're gonna welcome.

  7. So if you're ready, let's say good morning

  8. to Roane County, good morning to Bearden over

  9. in Amped Blend on three. Ready? +1, 23.

  10. Good morning. Good morning. Hey. Hey. Awesome. You

  11. guys did that really great. Thank you for

  12. that. Hey. I'm Dave. And,

  13. something about me.

  14. My wife and I, we get to do

  15. something every fall,

  16. because she's a teacher. We get to

  17. I get to. That's a way to say

  18. it. Have to get to.

  19. 01:10, 02:20. Whatever it takes. Right?

  20. Sell sell tickets at the local high school

  21. football game. And we in particular, we've been

  22. doing this for years. I can't remember exactly

  23. how long, but a friend of hers, they

  24. sell the tickets,

  25. three feet away. I take the ticket and

  26. rip it in half and everybody's like, why

  27. did I just went from there to there.

  28. Why do you do that? I'm like, you

  29. know, it's the school system, the model of

  30. efficiency.

  31. So we do things.

  32. But in

  33. we work the visitors gate in particular. I

  34. love working the visitors gate. You get to

  35. see all the the people that are coming

  36. and, cheer on their other team and I

  37. get to harass some of them. I've in

  38. fact, I get to embarrass my wife frequently

  39. by harassing the opposing team. And, it was

  40. the last game of the year. This is

  41. actually a true story. There was a woman.

  42. She came and as she came through the

  43. gate,

  44. I took her ticket, ripped it, and I

  45. have to turn back around and I give

  46. her the other half. And she looks at

  47. me and she says, which side is the

  48. visitors?

  49. I looked at her. I thought she was

  50. messing with me.

  51. Seriously?

  52. I looked at the big ginormous

  53. stands on the home side and I looked

  54. at the smaller stands on the visitor side

  55. and I said to her, you know, it's

  56. those really ginormous stands over there. We wanted

  57. to make sure the visitors had all the

  58. seats they need.

  59. And she looked at me and she was

  60. like, that was a really dumb question. And

  61. I said, yep. That was a dumb question.

  62. You're right.

  63. Because guess what folks? There are such things

  64. as dumb questions.

  65. Anybody who says there's no such thing as

  66. a dumb question just said something really dumb.

  67. The majority of the dumb question had somebody

  68. say, I disagree with that. I'm gonna prove

  69. you wrong right here.

  70. The majority of dumb questions come when we're

  71. not

  72. paying attention.

  73. All she had to do is open her

  74. eyes. The story was right there in front

  75. of her. Ginormous stance with the name of

  76. the home team on them.

  77. Visitor side right in front of your face.

  78. Just pay attention.

  79. Just pay attention. And when things don't make

  80. sense when we're paying attention, then you can

  81. ask questions.

  82. Teachers will tell you all the time the

  83. dumb question in their class is the one

  84. I just answered.

  85. The one that I just gave you the

  86. answer to. The ones you're not paying attention

  87. to. And what we're gonna see today is

  88. is that Jesus

  89. gets what seems to be a dumb question

  90. from his

  91. disciples,

  92. but is it?

  93. As we walk away this weekend, we're gonna

  94. see that real life with Jesus requires humility,

  95. builds resilient faith, and pursues

  96. people. This is the real life that we're

  97. called to. This series is called Real Life

  98. Jesus, His Kingdom and You. And in this

  99. series, it's about following Jesus in everyday life,

  100. but following Jesus

  101. in everyday life in his kingdom.

  102. Living under the rule and reign of Jesus

  103. in all the places where we live our

  104. lives.

  105. As we come to Matthew chapter 18, Jesus

    Matthew 18 chapter mention

  106. is answering the question

  107. that we may all end up asking. It's

  108. very likely we we end up asking

  109. Jesus, what's my place in all of this?

  110. And all that's going on, what's my part

  111. in your story? What's my part to play

  112. within your story? And so we left off

  113. with a pair of balls in chapter 13.

  114. And we come here to chapter 18 and

  115. through Live It Out each week. We're filling

  116. in the gaps in between.

  117. Death.

  118. That he begins to talk about his journey

  119. to Jerusalem.

  120. And and it's where we see Peter make

  121. a great confession.

  122. Jesus says to him, who do you say

  123. that I am? And he says, you're the

  124. Messiah.

  125. But then he gets rebuked as as he

  126. rejects the idea that the promised savior of

  127. Israel would have to go suffer and die.

  128. Of Israel would have to go suffer and

  129. die.

  130. Jesus is then we see him transfigured on

  131. a mountain and it's an amazing moment.

  132. And then at the end of chapter 17,

  133. Jesus performs a miracle specifically for Peter.

  134. Catch a fish and in the the mouth

  135. of that fish, you're gonna find a coin

  136. and you're gonna take that coin and you're

  137. gonna pay the temple tax for you and

  138. for me, for both of us. And it

  139. seems, at that point, that Peter is being

  140. set apart that that he has something special,

  141. and the disciples are confused. They're a little

  142. bit disoriented

  143. about Jesus's kingdom and so they ask this

  144. question.

  145. Yeah. And that

  146. time, the disciples came to Jesus. Yeah.

  147. It's the greatest in the

  148. Whoever humbles himself, like this child, is the

  149. greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Whoever receives

  150. one such child in my name receives me,

  151. but whoever causes one of these little ones

  152. who believe in me to sin, it would

  153. be better for him to have a great

  154. millstone fastened around his neck and to be

  155. drowned in the depth of the sea.

  156. Enter life crippled or lame than with two

  157. hands or two feet to be thrown into

  158. the eternal.

  159. And if your eye causes you to send,

  160. tear it out and throw it away.

  161. To not despise one of these little ones.

  162. For I tell

  163. you that in heaven, their angels always see

  164. the face of my father who is in

  165. yeah, it's a 100 sheep, and one of

  166. them has gone astray. Does he not leave

  167. the 99 on the mountains and go in

  168. search of the one to one to one

  169. to one to one to one. It's truly,

  170. I say to you, he rejoices over it

  171. more than over the 99 that would never

  172. win a story.

  173. So it is not the will of my

  174. father, who was in heaven, that one of

  175. these little ones,

  176. starting line. That's the that's the beginning. And

  177. to reverse, we talk about this a bunch.

  178. The idea of,

  179. Biblical humility. The idea of Biblical humility is

  180. right understanding

  181. with what God says. It's understanding and agreeing

  182. with what God says

  183. about us, about the world, about what's right,

  184. that we would submit our ideas and opinions

  185. who forms those. That's the idea

  186. of humility. And so, Jada, he doesn't start

  187. answering their question directly. Instead, he calls a

  188. child. Now, the type of child here, this

  189. isn't like a teenager. This isn't a middle

  190. schooler. It's not even really a grade schooler.

  191. This is a toddler sized child.

  192. And he he calls this child, and he

  193. he puts them before them and says, this

  194. is what greatness in my kingdom looks like.

  195. Naivete. Right? Like, we won't be naive like

  196. a child, that we would be that we

  197. would be dependent

  198. like a child.

  199. He's saying become like a child in one

  200. specific way, humility. You see, a child, they

  201. they may want to do it their way.

  202. Some of you are like, oh, you don't

  203. know my child. Right? Like, my child was

  204. not humble or dependent. They they were a

  205. little rebel from the beginning. Out of the

  206. gate, they were like, me, mine, I'll do

  207. it my way. Okay? So so in this,

  208. we're saying, generally speaking,

  209. a child may want to do something,

  210. but they don't yet have the ability. There's

  211. a dependence that they have on their parents

  212. eat, that they would have a place to

  213. sleep, that they would have clothing to be

  214. protected, that they would have their needs met.

  215. It requires

  216. that they would be dependent on a parent.

  217. Our middle school pastor here at Harris Lane,

  218. Josiah.

  219. Josiah

  220. was,

  221. with his daughter, Eden. I think his wife

  222. maybe had a meeting here.

  223. He had his daughter, and so they did

  224. what any good Christian family does. They went

  225. and got Chick fil A because that's where

  226. we eat. Don't you know? That's where we

  227. eat all the time. We're Christians. We eat

  228. at Chick fil A.

  229. They got Chick fil A and, came back

  230. and they were in the lobby here. And,

  231. able to eat her dinner and,

  232. she loves Chick fil A sauce.

  233. Who doesn't love Chick fil A sauce? Right?

  234. Like, this is amazing.

  235. And, so she has the container but she

  236. can't open it but she wants it open.

  237. Takes it, and he opens it, and it

  238. just made her food delicious. Everything is better,

  239. which Chick fil A sauce.

  240. It was a great picture of

  241. a humble dependence. Man, I want this, but

  242. I know I can't even open this by

  243. myself yet. Would you? Would you open this?

  244. For me

  245. So Jesus is pointing to this type of

  246. child and says, unless you turn and become

  247. like children, you will never enter the kingdom

  248. of heaven. But whoever humbles himself

  249. like this child is the greatest in the

  250. kingdom of heaven.

  251. There's a turn of phrase there and it's

  252. significant.

  253. They just said, who's the greatest?

  254. And he says, the one who enters the

  255. kingdom.

  256. Did you catch that?

  257. Who's the greatest? In order to enter the

  258. kingdom, you have to have humility. You have

  259. to recognize your need. You have to recognize

  260. your dependence. You have to be one who

  261. says, God, I recognize that I could never

  262. save myself and because of that recognition, I

  263. will trade my life,

  264. my old dead life. I will trade it

  265. for new life in Christ.

  266. We humble ourselves

  267. in order that God would then rule and

  268. reign over our lives.

  269. And when we do that, we enter the

  270. kingdom of God. And as we do, Jesus

  271. says, you're now become the greatest. And so

  272. which one is the greatest? We the greatest.

  273. I don't know. I mean,

  274. he's just said, if if you humble yourself,

  275. you're all going to be the greatest.

  276. It's not about that. There is about aspiring

  277. to greatness

  278. in the kingdom. And how do we do

  279. that?

  280. We allow Jesus to rule and reign our

  281. hearts and minds.

  282. That's

  283. greatness.

  284. So what does that look like for us?

  285. It means that we don't have to build

  286. our resume.

  287. Even our spiritual resume, it's not about that.

  288. It's not about building our reputation.

  289. Allow Jesus to shape our character. He would

  290. shape who we are.

  291. It means that we would be okay with

  292. being invisible to the people that we serve,

  293. that we would lower ourselves and elevate others.

  294. That means that there would be a marked

  295. difference in how we lead in the workplace,

  296. how we teach, how we as students, how

  297. we learn, how do we interact with our

  298. other students, and how do we interact with

  299. our teachers. Students, if you're known in your

  300. classroom

  301. as being the loudest and the most disruptive,

  302. turn.

  303. That's not a badge of honor.

  304. In our in our workplaces, if if you're

  305. known for being a boss who's a tyrant,

  306. turn.

  307. That's not a badge of honor.

  308. It's it's a life that says, woah. Our

  309. life is to elevate others and we

  310. we succeed

  311. when we help others to be elevated. That's

  312. the life. And as we enter into God's

  313. kingdom, it takes those things that the world

  314. says are most important and it flips them

  315. upside down.

  316. The world then is going to put pressure

  317. on us. He's clear

  318. that that it's not just you're gonna enter

  319. the kingdom, and that if you if you

  320. do,

  321. temptation is gonna come.

  322. And it's important to know that there's going

  323. to be pressure.

  324. And as a follower of Jesus, you can't

  325. wait until the pressure comes

  326. to start building your faith.

  327. I hope you know that already.

  328. When the pressure comes,

  329. it's the time when we draw upon

  330. the faith that's been built

  331. when the pressure wasn't there.

  332. That's how it works. The foundation we build

  333. on matters. Jesus was really clear at the

  334. end of the sermon on the mount that

  335. the foundation that we build upon

  336. matters, that we would build upon the truth

  337. of who Jesus is and our job is

  338. to build now before the pressure comes. But

  339. many of us maybe you're like, I'm already

  340. in the pressure cooker.

  341. You can still build faith in the midst

  342. of the pressure,

  343. but it's not something we sit by and

  344. just passively wait for. It requires great intentionality

  345. that we would build our faith. Our part

  346. is to build when the pressure is off.

  347. And as followers of Jesus, we build faith

  348. that stands

  349. against the world's pressures.

  350. Little

  351. ones, he's no he takes a child and

  352. then he talks about the humble ones.

  353. He's no longer talking about that little child.

  354. From there on, the little children that he's

  355. talking about are those that are in the

  356. kingdom. How do you enter the kingdom? You

  357. you choose faith. You believe in Jesus. You

  358. become a new creation. You become reborn. You

  359. become a follower

  360. of Christ.

  361. And now when he's referring to these little

  362. ones,

  363. he's referring to his followers.

  364. And he says that there's going to be

  365. temptation. Verse seven, woe to the world

  366. for temptations to sin. Woe to the world.

  367. Now it's interesting here, next week we're gonna

  368. talk about things within the church, but he

  369. begins by talking about things outside of the

  370. church.

  371. He's talking about the world systems. He's talking

  372. about the things that come, the temptations to

  373. sin that are brought on by the world.

  374. And one of the ways

  375. that the world

  376. tempts us to sin is to rebel against

  377. Jesus

  378. by bringing

  379. opposition.

  380. We know this. We I hope that we

  381. know this. That if you follow Jesus, you'll

  382. face opposition. And it's gonna come in two

  383. forms.

  384. The first one is the one that Jesus

  385. is almost referring to specifically,

  386. only it's kind of cloaked, and we're gonna

  387. take a look at this.

  388. The first one is persecution.

  389. And and around the world to this day,

  390. there's followers of Christ who are facing persecution.

  391. You may be well aware of what's going

  392. on right now in Africa, specifically in Nigeria,

  393. but it's been going on. I mean, it's

  394. been going on since the days of Christ.

  395. There's been

  396. persecution. There's been martyrs. People exchange their life

  397. for the truth of the gospel.

  398. There's never been a time where that's gone

  399. away. There's people groups around the world. And

  400. so you may be familiar, but if if

  401. that's just coming to your awareness,

  402. this isn't uncommon. In fact, there's a ministry

  403. called the voice of the martyrs. And voice

  404. of the martyrs in particular is really interesting.

  405. I I went to their website this week.

  406. I'm like, I wanna read about this ministry.

  407. It began in the sixties. A couple really

  408. wanted to raise awareness about the oppression of

  409. the church, the martyrdom that was going on

  410. around the world. And it's interesting because that

  411. in their statement on why they exist as

  412. an organization,

  413. it doesn't say, in order that we would

  414. stop persecution of the church.

  415. It says in order that we would raise

  416. awareness and that faith would be built,

  417. that the faith of the people around the

  418. world would be raised,

  419. that would be built up

  420. because

  421. that we would be made aware that there's

  422. people who are trading their life for the

  423. truth of the gospel.

  424. And that

  425. is encouraging.

  426. And you're like, wow, how is that encouraging?

  427. It's worth it. And Jesus says it.

  428. So when Jesus talks about cutting off hands

  429. and feet, his audience would have heard something

  430. very different than what we hear. What we

  431. hear is hyperbole.

  432. I would have taught this. A year ago,

  433. I would have said that's just hyperbole.

  434. And then I read second Maccabees chapter seven.

  435. Now, second Maccabees is a book that's from

  436. the intertestable

  437. period, that the time between,

  438. when we would say the old testament ended

  439. and then the new testament begins in the

  440. days of Jesus.

  441. And in that period, there's a rebellion that

  442. went on called the Maccabean revolt. And in

  443. that revolt,

  444. the the Greeks at the time, they wanted

  445. to bring down that revolt

  446. And so there was a guy who there

  447. was a king

  448. and his name was Anticus

  449. Epiphanes, a Greek king, one hundred and fifty

  450. years before Jesus. He was trying to stamp

  451. out the Jewish faith. And one of the

  452. ways that he tried to stamp out the

  453. Jewish faith was by defiling them

  454. by what they ate.

  455. And so you may be familiar that you

  456. can't eat pork as a Jewish person. And

  457. so he would he brought them and he

  458. said, if you won't eat the pig, right,

  459. if you're not gonna eat the swine, then

  460. you will be put to death.

  461. And in second me second second second second

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  468. if they would not renounce

  469. their faith,

  470. if they wouldn't say that they would they

  471. would reject

  472. Yahweh, the God of the Old Testament. Right?

  473. They would reject

  474. God and that they would

  475. go ahead and just concede.

  476. So the first brother was executed

  477. brutally.

  478. His tongue was cut out, his scalp was

  479. removed, his hands and his feet were severed,

  480. all while his brothers and his mother watched,

  481. and then he was thrown into the fire.

  482. Did you hear that?

  483. Jesus is using something that his audience was

  484. well aware of that there was a persecution

  485. that had happened in their history a They

  486. exchanged

  487. their

  488. they exchanged their life for faith.

  489. And he says it's better for that person

  490. that they would recognize

  491. the permanence of of life with me.

  492. And so the brothers refused to break and

  493. the story goes on, it goes through them

  494. and when the third brother's turn came, he

  495. voluntarily sticks out his tongue, extends his hand

  496. and he says to them and he says

  497. this, I got these from heaven and because

  498. of his laws, I disdain them and from

  499. him, I hope to get them back again.

  500. Even the king, it says, was impressed by

  501. his faith, he killed him anyway.

  502. That's the context Jesus's listeners lived in. They

  503. knew suffering was possible and they knew that

  504. staying faithful

  505. might cost them everything, including

  506. their life.

  507. And he says it's better.

  508. It's better that that you would lose a

  509. limb.

  510. Losing a limb is temporary.

  511. Being separated from Jesus is forever. It's better

  512. that you would hold on, and so this

  513. is extreme.

  514. And for us, that's not our cultural reality.

  515. Okay? Our cultural reality is different, but there's

  516. a second way that the world does tempt

  517. us. There is something called an allurement. It

  518. it it numbs us. The the world in

  519. North America numbs us into thinking there is

  520. no threat.

  521. So if persecution doesn't work, the world offers

  522. attractive

  523. alternatives.

  524. The world offers you something else, comfort, status,

  525. acceptance,

  526. security.

  527. If you'll just compromise,

  528. if you'll just consume what everyone else consumes,

  529. believe what everyone else believes,

  530. value what everyone else values.

  531. If you look at the things that are

  532. most important in our lives

  533. and there's there's no difference of what's most

  534. important to us

  535. than any other normal American, we may have

  536. a problem.

  537. I'm I'm gonna get up in my business

  538. If I value the things most

  539. that every other American

  540. values

  541. most,

  542. it's an indication

  543. of a problem in my heart.

  544. We have to be really careful, this is

  545. a real threat.

  546. As we're looking there at the things that

  547. seem so obvious, the subtle is coming from

  548. the other direction.

  549. And so I wanna start, I'm gonna tell

  550. you moms and dads, this is gonna go

  551. PG 13. I'm gonna give you an opportunity.

  552. If you have a kid and you're like,

  553. I don't really know that I wanna go

  554. PG 13. Yeah. I'll give you a chance.

  555. You can get up. You can leave right

  556. now because we're gonna go PG 13. We

  557. don't normally do that here, but we're gonna

  558. go there because the world offers

  559. alternatives, and the world's alternatives

  560. have still never changed through all history.

  561. It's about

  562. power,

  563. It's about

  564. money,

  565. and it's about sex.

  566. These are the three. This is the world's

  567. allurement, and the world has faked us out.

  568. And now I wanna start by being crystal

  569. clear.

  570. Avoidance of all things. What the goal is

  571. is that we would be faithful to Christ.

  572. And so it's really important that you would

  573. get this. Faithfulness

  574. is sustained

  575. intimacy

  576. with Jesus. That's the

  577. goal. Sustained

  578. intimacy

  579. with Jesus,

  580. following Jesus closely.

  581. Following Jesus closely, this is the goal. Okay?

  582. Intimacy with Jesus is the goal, Not sin

  583. avoidance but intimacy

  584. with Christ is the goal. The way that

  585. we're going to avoid the temptations of the

  586. world is by staying close to Christ. It

  587. requires a spirit empowered response.

  588. Are we clear?

  589. Because if we try to do this on

  590. our own, many of us have tried this

  591. method. I'll speak from my own experience. I've

  592. tried this method. It does not work. You

  593. just hold on tighter. If I just white

  594. knuckle this thing through, maybe I'll be able

  595. to to overcome. Maybe that I'll be able

  596. to succeed.

  597. So don't think you can just white knuckle

  598. your way through this. I also wanna say

  599. that I'm gonna name some stuff and I

  600. don't have time to unpack every single thing

  601. and there's going to be some that are

  602. gonna require that you reach out for help.

  603. Here's the deal,

  604. it's on you.

  605. It's on you.

  606. If you know that one of the issues

  607. that I'm gonna talk about is an issue

  608. in your life, it's on

  609. you to reach out for help or you'll

  610. just stay stuck in a cycle

  611. destroying your life over and over and over

  612. again. There's a personal responsibility.

  613. Sometimes we don't really

  614. I wanna drive that home.

  615. You're responsible for you.

  616. You're responsible for your spiritual life.

  617. You're responsible to make sure that you're being

  618. intentional

  619. with the stuff that you're putting in to

  620. your heart and mind.

  621. K. Are we clear?

  622. Moms and dads, you had your warning. Here

  623. we go.

  624. When it comes to the world's alternative,

  625. some things are obviously out of bounds. Okay?

  626. There's some things that are obviously out of

  627. bounds. If the world says something is out

  628. of bounds,

  629. surely, we should look and go, wait a

  630. minute. What does the Bible say about something

  631. being out of bounds?

  632. We should be able to like, it shouldn't

  633. take the world to go, hey, there's there's

  634. a billionaire caught in affair at a Coldplay

  635. concert on the kiss cam, and now we're

  636. like, oh, okay. I guess affairs are out

  637. of bounds.

  638. Affairs

  639. are out of bounds.

  640. And hopefully we all say, yes. And if

  641. you're in one,

  642. confess,

  643. repent,

  644. turn, it may cost me my marriage.

  645. Yes.

  646. But don't let it cost you your life.

  647. Don't don't be foolish.

  648. That's the obvious.

  649. K? Now let's go to the subtle. All

  650. the things. Guess what? An emotional affair is

  651. an affair. If you're trying to fill intimacy

  652. with someone of the opposite sex or or

  653. somebody that you would say, hey, I need

  654. to fill this void,

  655. in my life that my spouse isn't filling.

  656. If you're not allowing Christ to fill that

  657. void,

  658. then you need to repent. Some of us,

  659. we we try that it's statistics would say

  660. many that are trying to fill that void

  661. with things like pornography

  662. or with drugs

  663. or with alcohol

  664. that we're trying to fill and numb the

  665. pain in some way shape or form for

  666. what we're not and so we think that

  667. it's okay.

  668. Every day you come home from work, you

  669. have a drink, I'm gonna suggest you,

  670. maybe that's a problem.

  671. Maybe that's a problem.

  672. We're not anti alcohol,

  673. but what we are is like, wait. What

  674. what's the artificial? What's the thing? What's the

  675. substitute? What am I putting in? What's the

  676. thing that I'm substituting

  677. for my intimacy

  678. with Christ?

  679. What's the thing that I'm putting in my

  680. life that I'm hoping just to numb the

  681. pain?

  682. And so

  683. these are all things that are poison.

  684. If you're getting drunk or high to numb

  685. the pain, if you're like, well, it's legal,

  686. pot's legal, it's cool, right? No. Not cool.

  687. You may have heard this before. It's a

  688. gateway drug. It is what it is.

  689. It just leads to destruction and so we

  690. need to go, wait. These things are obviously

  691. out of bounds. So hopefully hopefully,

  692. if one of those things resonates in your

  693. heart and mind, we wanna encourage you, get

  694. help. These aren't things, if you've been trying

  695. for years to overcome the thing, then guess

  696. what? It's not gonna change

  697. this week because now you're really resolved. It's

  698. gonna change when you reach out for help.

  699. When you say, I've tried to overcome this

  700. on my own.

  701. I need help. I need the power of

  702. God himself. I need the word of God.

  703. I need the spirit of God, and I

  704. need another follower of Christ

  705. to come alongside.

  706. Now I'm gonna put all of us into

  707. it in the, what's maybe not obviously evil,

  708. the subtle. It may be the social media

  709. feed that keeps us wanting for more. It

  710. keeps us longing for another person's life. It

  711. keeps us thinking that I'm missing out. It's

  712. comparison. I'm constantly comparison

  713. my life to somebody else. Or maybe it's

  714. it's binging TV shows in order just to

  715. fill this idea. I mean, I come home

  716. from work, I'm exhausted. I don't wanna interact

  717. with my family. I'm just gonna binge a

  718. show, check out and get up and grind

  719. it out again tomorrow. After all, I do

  720. live it out in the morning, so the

  721. nights belong to me.

  722. Maybe it's

  723. a friend group.

  724. You have the friend group and they're your

  725. non Jesus friend group and you're so grateful.

  726. Like I only have to put Jesus into

  727. part of my life.

  728. I have friends, I have coworkers

  729. and and I you know, the thing is

  730. I really and I'm gonna suggest you, if

  731. you have friends and coworkers who don't know

  732. Jesus, this is awesome. But here's where it

  733. goes not awesome. You love the fact that

  734. they don't know Jesus.

  735. You love the fact that you get to

  736. talk about Jesus on Sunday and Tuesday night

  737. when you go to your group.

  738. But the rest of the time, I'm cool

  739. with it being me time. I'm cool hanging

  740. out with the guys. I'm cool hanging out

  741. with the gals.

  742. I love that I don't have to have

  743. Jesus in that part of my life.

  744. Maybe it's the news cycle that keeps you

  745. angry

  746. because the news channel that you watch is

  747. trying to make you angry.

  748. Be wise.

  749. Turn it off.

  750. The sun's gonna come up tomorrow if Jesus

  751. wants it to. Hallelujah and amen. Alright?

  752. Turn it off if it's making you angry.

  753. Okay? If it's making you angry, if you're

  754. getting upset, if it's causing anxiety,

  755. turn it off. I speak from experience.

  756. And then later you can try and go

  757. back and use it as a gauge

  758. of a spiritual discipline.

  759. In other words, am I able to watch

  760. this and not become angry?

  761. If I can, then I can watch it

  762. again. If I can't, turn it back off.

  763. There's more work, there's more layers.

  764. And here's the goal, Okay? It's not just

  765. that we would we would be people. It's

  766. that we would have a strong faith because

  767. we need a strong faith for the next

  768. thing Jesus talks about. And it's that we

  769. would be a people who pursue the one

  770. who's missing. And he uses this parable talking

  771. about a shepherd who goes after the lost

  772. sheep.

  773. And he says that my father doesn't desire

  774. anyone to perish.

  775. And so there's there's people that in our

  776. life that were once following Christ, excuse me,

  777. who no longer are.

  778. Maybe they were part of Two Rivers Church,

  779. but I wanna be clear, this isn't about

  780. Two Rivers Church, this is about the kingdom

  781. of God. And so there may be people,

  782. they're still they're still following off

  783. they're still following Jesus. They're just doing it

  784. in another flock and that's cool. Okay? I'm

  785. not talking about trying to talk people into

  786. coming back to church at Two Rivers, but

  787. I am talking about people who have wandered

  788. away, people who have wandered off, the people

  789. that you know in your life that have

  790. wandered from the faith and that you would

  791. pursue them.

  792. I'm talking about the people who aren't here

  793. yet.

  794. Another group of people, they don't know Jesus

  795. yet.

  796. This is true. Statistics for years have said,

  797. and and also our own,

  798. waiting class bears out that the majority of

  799. people end up at a church because somebody

  800. invited them.

  801. Some people, they end up here just because

  802. they drove by and they saw the church

  803. building, but many people, they end up there

  804. because somebody invited them. And in my life,

  805. for Kelly and I, there was a church

  806. that we were part of and that church

  807. was a hot mess, but

  808. we ended up there and Jesus changed our

  809. lives there

  810. because a co worker said, hey, you should

  811. come check it out. And we're like, okay,

  812. we're looking for a church, we'll go check

  813. it out. And and God used that, that

  814. we do what we do today because of

  815. what God did

  816. in that

  817. environment, okay? Not because of that church but

  818. because of what Jesus did.

  819. So it's important that we would be those

  820. kinds of people.

  821. And here's what ties this all together, the

  822. kingdom of God inverts what

  823. the world values

  824. calling us to actively pursue people. We are

  825. all the under shepherds of Jesus.

  826. He's the shepherd,

  827. he's the good shepherd, he's the one who

  828. pursues and the way that he pursues people

  829. is

  830. us.

  831. The way Jesus

  832. pursues people is through you.

  833. You're the one

  834. who goes after

  835. the one.

  836. So the question is this,

  837. are we actually living in Jesus' kingdom? I

  838. think that's a question personally and it's a

  839. question corporately.

  840. We just finished up

  841. something we call Quiet Waters. It's an opportunity

  842. for us to spend twenty three hours actively

  843. seeking Jesus together. Okay? That's the ultra simplified

  844. version

  845. and and during that time, we had this

  846. imagery

  847. that that we believe that God was calling

  848. us to to not be people who have

  849. one foot in the kingdom of the world

  850. and one foot in the kingdom of God.

  851. What's it look like for us to be

  852. people who step both feet into the kingdom

  853. of God, allowing him to rule and reign

  854. over every area of our life? And that's

  855. the invitation.

  856. That's the invitation Jesus has for us.

  857. Real life with Jesus requires humility,

  858. and it builds resilient faith, and it pursues

  859. people.

  860. That's the life.

  861. So real life with Jesus in his kingdom

  862. requires that we would actively respond,

  863. that we would be a people who

  864. intentionally

  865. seek what we're putting in, that we're people

  866. who intentionally

  867. seek what he's saying to

  868. us. And so I wanna encourage you

  869. that when we ask these questions in a

  870. moment here that you wouldn't think this is

  871. just cursory. This is the beginning. This is

  872. the beginning two questions to begin a conversation

  873. with Jesus to carry on throughout your week.

  874. And so these are the two questions that

  875. we're gonna sit on and and I'm gonna

  876. suggest in the time that you have, you're

  877. gonna have to focus in on one or

  878. the other. You don't have time and I'm

  879. gonna trust that the Holy Spirit will bring

  880. to mind in your heart and mind the

  881. one that he's asking you to focus in

  882. on. And the first question is, what foundation

  883. am I building?

  884. The second question is, who is Jesus

  885. asking me to pursue?

  886. Now I want to encourage you that the

  887. one of the things that would be

  888. really encouraging is a sense of expect expectancy

  889. right now, that you would break out your

  890. phone, you would have a pen, whatever it

  891. is that you would say, I really anticipate

  892. Jesus will bring to mind something that I'm

  893. building on or a person that he's calling

  894. me to pursue and and then I would

  895. write it down and I would take it

  896. captive. And you're gonna have about thirty seconds

  897. because this isn't to solve the question,

  898. it's to begin a conversation.

  899. And so if you have somebody's face

  900. come to mind, if you have a name

  901. that crosses your mind, if you have something

  902. in your world

  903. that crosses your mind, hey, you're really building

  904. life on your four zero one ks. You're

  905. really building your life on the the reputation

  906. that you have at work. You're really building

  907. your your your life upon

  908. people thinking

  909. that you're a really great person. Whatever that

  910. is, allow Jesus to bring it to mind

  911. and when he does, take it captive and

  912. then I'm gonna tell you what we're gonna

  913. do with it. Jesus, would you show

  914. us in a very personal kind of way,

  915. through the power of your spirit,

  916. what is that you have for us?

  917. Now I'm gonna ask you to take that,

  918. hold it captive.

  919. You wrote it down. And now you're gonna

  920. have a conversation about that thing with Jesus

  921. throughout the week. And I wanna encourage you

  922. that that if you've never used our tool

  923. called Live It Out, if you're visiting with

  924. us and visiting one of our our our

  925. campuses or our venues, in the middle of

  926. your bulletin is something called Live It Out.

  927. The better way is to to take your

  928. phone, go online, go to 2rc.tv/liveitout.

  929. It's it's meant to be used on your

  930. mobile phone. It's a perfect layout on your

  931. mobile phone.

  932. And that you would take these questions into

  933. your week with Jesus, that you would begin

  934. to sort it out with him.

  935. You would begin to work your way through

  936. it. What's that look for me to stop

  937. wishing that I could follow Jesus in my

  938. everyday life and to start following Jesus

  939. in your everyday life.

  940. Living with both feet

  941. in his kingdom.

  942. That's the invitation

  943. that we would walk with Jesus this week.

  944. And the only way we can do this

  945. is by this consistent diet of putting his

  946. word in.

  947. Consistent diet of res

  948. like, resolve

  949. that we would be intentional in seeking him.

  950. Trusting the Holy Spirit's power.

  951. Accepted.

  952. It's not how we earn the Father's love,

  953. it's because we're loved and because we're loved,

  954. we put

  955. spiritual practices

  956. into place

  957. in order that we would build faith so

  958. we can follow Jesus

  959. closely.

  960. That's the life.

  961. And what we're gonna do in now is

  962. we're gonna remind ourselves

  963. of the love that God has for us.

  964. He is for us. He is not against

  965. us. And he's called us to life because

  966. the father doesn't want one to perish. That's

  967. a reason for us to worship in all

  968. of our venues. I'm gonna invite you to

  969. stand. God, we're so grateful

  970. that your love is far beyond anything that

  971. we could ask or imagine,

  972. that you love us more than we could

  973. possibly ever even love ourselves, that that you

  974. are for us and Jesus is proof of

  975. that. And so we celebrate your love for

  976. us now, in Jesus name.

  977. Amen.