Sermon
Praying for You: No One’s Ever Prayed for You Like This (John 17:20-26) | Pastor PJ Berner
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Speaker: In our flesh.
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If our flesh is unchecked, this can get down to like, whoa.
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The person that set up the chairs this week, I don't like the way
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they set up the chairs this week.
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I set up the chairs better than they set up the chairs.
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Something as petty as that can begin to creep into the church, right?
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Gossip, envy, covetousness.
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These are all things that work against unity Unforgiveness.
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Things that, that create a breeding ground for division in the church
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and things that are all antigo things that are all things that work
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against the mission of the church.
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Instead, what do we need to do if, if we're gonna be a church that that's
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gonna catch the world's attention?
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We have to be a church united for a common purpose, a common mission, and
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it's gonna involve things like this.
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There's more, but some things like this.
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Number one, commit to a Philippians two preference of one another.
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When Paul writes in Philippians two, Hey, do nothing from selfish ambition or
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conceit, but in humility, count others is more significant than yourselves.
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That's gonna foster unity in the bride of Christ.
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Commit to killing envy in covetousness at the earliest
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sign when they rise up within us.
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If you find yourself envying, one of your brothers or sisters in Christ are
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coveting what they have, man, put that to death as quickly as you possibly can.
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Commit to killing gossip in the church and not contributing to its spread.
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You hear a brother or sister sharing something that, that is, is laced
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with gossip, then, then you need to, to say, Hey, we need to not
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be talking about this right now.
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Or, Hey, have you talked to them about this?
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Have you gotten to them about these things?
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Commit to seeking forgiveness when you've wronged a brother, a sister
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in Christ that's gonna foster unity within the bride of Christ.
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Commit to forgiving as we have been forgiven.
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And that one's huge and so hard too.
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But that's gonna foster unity with the, with the, in the bride of of Christ.
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Learn to weep with those who weep and rejoice with those who rejoice.
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Take more of an interest in each other than just the passing comment about, how's
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your week and how's the weather been?
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This is what's gonna produce unity here.
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That's gonna cost somebody to walk in here from the world that's not a
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believer and say, what do you have here?
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I want that.
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Again, that that's why we're we're, we're called to be united.
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That's the reason for the unity that Christ is praying for in our
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lives, that we would be one such.
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The world stops and takes notice of what we have going on here,
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but he prays more for them.
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Look at verse 24.
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He says, father, I desire that they also, whom you have given me, may be
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with me where I am to see my glory that you have given me because you loved
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me before the foundation of the world.
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Now he's praying that we would be with him and this is in keeping
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with John 14, John 14 verses two and three in my father's house.
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There's many rooms.
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If it were not, so would I have told you that I go to prepare a place
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for you and if I go verse three and prepare a place for you, I will
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come again and take you to myself.
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That where I am you may be.
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Also, Jesus wants us to be with him, church.
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And he's praying that we would be united with that in mind, that ultimately
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our final destination is not here, but there it's gonna be with him.
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It's gonna be in the presence of Jesus.
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In fact, so much so one commentator put it this way, he says this, he
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says, the ultimate goal for the disciple is not participation in the
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mission to which Jesus called them.
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Okay.
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That's startling to read that alone.
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The ultimate goal for the disciple is not the great commission, is
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what this commentator just said.
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It, but before you pick up stones, he goes on here, he says, as vital
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as that is, but last half of this, he says, but the ultimate goal is
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to see the glory of their exalted redeemer in the presence of the Father.
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That is the ultimate goal.
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Rush Church is to be with Jesus, to be in his presence, to see his
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glory, to experience the, the joy of being face to face with our savior.
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That's what Jesus is praying for, ultimately to the Father, for you and me.
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He's saying, father, I desire, I'm asking that they would be with me where
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I am, that they might see my glory.
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And the reason he's praying that is because he knows that's what is
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best for us, is to be with him and to be in the presence of his glory,
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y'all.
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That's that, that truly is what, what?
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Connects us.
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That that truly is a, the, the bond, the glue.
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It's, it's what keeps us together.
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It's the foundation of our unity, if I can put it that way.
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The fact that no matter who you are, what your background looks like, where
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you come from, what your religious beliefs were prior to coming to faith
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in Christ, what you make a year, no matter what it is, all of us together
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sit here in this morning as those that are on the, the road to the same place.
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That is if you are in Christ and that destination is actually
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a person and that person is.
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Jesus.
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That's our common future, and that is the foundation of what unites us together.
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Point number two, this morning, along those lines, is this
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unite around a common future?
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Unite around a common future Being with Jesus, we're not, we're uniting for
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the, the common mission of reaching the lost and our, our unity is, is a
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passive expression of that mission, but we unite around the foundation of
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is, of our union is a common future.
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And that is being with Jesus,
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Jesus desires that we would be in his presence.
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The question for us this morning is, do we desire to be in his presence too?
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I don't know if you feel it this morning, guys.
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I'll just, just sidebar.
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I'll just stop here.
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I, I feel like I'm like the, the, the heirs out of the room this morning.
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That's just what I'm feeling right now.
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I don't know what that is.
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It just feels like we're, we're a little dead here this morning.
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Anybody else with me on that this morning?
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We need to stand up and do jumping jacks or something and sit back down.
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I'm, I'm for it if, if we need to.
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I, I, I feel that need too.
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And, and I, I get it.
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Sometimes it's, it's hard and, and, and you're coming off of a week where you've
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been busy and you're coming off of a week where you've gone through it and you're
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coming off of a week where your car's been in the shop or you're coming off of
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a week where you've had marital problems.
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You're coming off of a week of being sick.
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You're coming off of a week of problems at, at work with your boss.
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You're coming off of a week in a broken and fallen world.
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And you're drained.
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I, I get it.
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I fully understand where you're at this morning.
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This is our future though.
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We get to go be with Jesus.
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We get to be with Jesus.
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And, and I don't think about that enough.
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And, and, and the disadvantage that we have is that he's not, he's not
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sitting right here in the room with us.
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Right, and, and so it's hard for us to conceive of, man, what's it
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gonna be like to be with Jesus?
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And so let's piggyback for a second if we can on Peter.
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Peter, he has his high points.
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There are not a lot of 'em before Pentecost, but he's got some, he's got
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some, you remember Matthew chapter 17.
Matthew 17 chapter mention
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Jesus calls Peter, James and John up on this mountain with him,
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and we call it the mount of what.
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Transfiguration.
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Right.
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Why do we call it the Mount of Transfiguration?
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Because Jesus was transfiguration on the mountain.
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Yeah.
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He was transfigured on the mountain, meaning he, he showed up in his full
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glory on the mountain there, and there were two other people with him.
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Who else was with him?
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Moses and Elijah.
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Exactly.
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Yes.
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Moses and Elijah and Jesus.
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And they're on the mountain.
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And Peter and the, and James and John are up there with Jesus
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and Peter says this to Jesus.
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He says, Lord, it's good that we are here.
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It's good that we're with you.
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It's good that we're in your presence, Lord.
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And then he says, in just as honesty here, he says, I, I'll make these tents.
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One for you, one for Moses, one for Elijah.
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We don't need anybody else.
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Lord, we're good here.
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Let's just hang out here.
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Moses is here.
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He's got the manna covered.
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He can hit a rock or speak to it, whatever you want him to do.
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We'll get some water out of there.
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We'll be set.
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Let's just be here.
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Jesus, I just wanna be with you.
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That's Peter in the presence of Jesus.
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And so for us, I think it's just that, that the work that we have
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to do to, to get there, to be like, that's gonna be so good.
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Peter's not on the Mount of Transfiguration going,
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Jesus, do I get to fly?
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Am I gonna get a hole in one on every golf course that I ever play?
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Now Jesus.
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He's not sitting there looking around the Mount of Transfiguration going,
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is there anything else to do up here?
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Sometimes we fall prey to that, don't we?
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When we think about eternity, w we think about man, oh yeah,
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it's gonna be about Jesus.
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And it's gonna be about this over here too.
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It's gonna be about Jesus, but it's also gonna be about this over here too.
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It's gonna be about Jesus, but I'm also gonna get to see
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this person over here too.
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And, and, and listen.
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Eternity's gonna be more than than choir robes and pews.
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But it's certainly not gonna be less than us being overwhelmingly consumed with
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being in the presence of Jesus, being in his presence and saying with Peter,
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good Lord, it is good that we are here.
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It's good for us to be here.
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Is it good for you this morning to think about being in the presence of Jesus?
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That's where we're all headed.
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That's our common future.
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That's the thing that is the foundation of what unites us.
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No matter where you come from, what your background looks like is you and I are
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gonna be together for eternity with Jesus.
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And you might be thinking, well, why should I look forward to that?
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Help me understand that a little bit.
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Two thoughts.
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Number one, you're gonna be like him when you're with him.
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You can be like Jesus and I, I don't mean that in the sense that Satan wanted
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to be like God and fell from heaven.
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I mean that in the best sense.
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We talked about sanctification a handful of weeks ago, that we've
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got our positional sanctification that is at the moment of salvation,
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you are justified and positionally set apart as holy to the Lord.
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Then we've got progressive sanctification, and that's what
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we're all in the midst of right now.
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This progression of being made more like Jesus, the longer that
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we live here, and then ultimately is the perfect sanctification.
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That's what I'm talking about here with the fact that you're,
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you're gonna be like him.
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Uh, John describes it, our author from John's Gospel in one John.
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He says, beloved, we are now God's children and what we will be has
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not yet appeared, but we know that when he appears we shall be like him
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because we shall see him as he is.
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We'll be in his presence.
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No more sin nor any of its effects will be there.
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Mark was reading about it in, in Revelation 22, earlier.
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That's our future.
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There's no son.
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Why?
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Because the glory of Jesus is all the light we're gonna need.
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You don't need a temple because you've got the Lamb of God
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and you're gonna be like him.
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You're gonna be able to draw near to him.
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You're gonna have access to him.
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Paul says in Philippians three 20, our citizenship is in heaven.
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And from it, we await our savior, the Lord Jesus Christ, who will transform
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our lowly body to be like his glorious body by the power that enables him
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even to subject all things to himself.
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Jesus is gonna make your earthly body like his glorious, heavenly, holy body.
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Colossians three, four.
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Paul says, when Christ who is your life appears, then you also
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will appear with him in glory.
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So church, one of the reasons why you should long to be with Jesus
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is because you will be like Jesus.
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You'll be like him.
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No more sin.
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All the sin that besets you, the sin that frustrates you.
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It's gone.
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And you'll be with them and you'll be like him.
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Not only will you be like him, but also second, you will
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know true joy and true peace.
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True joy and true peace to be in the presence of Jesus.
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And, and there's other things that I could have pointed to besides these
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things, but I think the, the, the presence of Jesus conveys these things.
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Psalm 1611, David says, in your presence there's fullness of
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joy, and that's your right hand.
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Our pleasure's forevermore.
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John chapter 20.
John 20 chapter mention
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After the resurrection, we read this on the evening of that day, the first day of
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the week, the doors being locked, where the disciples were for fear of the Jews.
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Jesus came and stood among them and said to them, peace be with you.
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And so here we see the, the presence of Jesus is accompanied
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by the peace of Christ.
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The presence of Jesus is, is imbued with peace.
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That's going to last.
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Peace.
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That's going to transcend, and, and, and there's an already not yet component
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of that, that as Christians, we get to experience Philippians four, that
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the peace of Christ would guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
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Right?
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There's an already component to that, but the fullness of it, we will know
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in eternity we will be with him and we will know a peace that will never end
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a piece that will never be threatened.
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But he not only says, peace be with you.
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Notice the, the response to the disciples when he said this, he
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showed them his hands and his side, and then the disciples were glad.
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And that is the understatement of the century right there.
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It's him.
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It's Jesus.
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They're not just glad, they're rejoicing with joy and expressible,
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and that is a, a byproduct of being in the presence of Jesus.
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And so to be with him, you will know true joy and true and lasting
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peace will be yours as well.
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CS Lewis, I think hit the nail on the head with how little we think about how great
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that's gonna be and how satisfied we are with the things that this world offers us.
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Instead, when Lewis wrote this.
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He said, if we consider the un blushing promises of reward and the staggering
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nature of the rewards promised in the gospels, it would seem that our Lord finds
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our desires not too strong, but too weak.
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And then he says this, we are half-hearted creatures fooling around with drink and
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sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered to us like an ignorant child
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who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what's
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meant by the offer of a holiday at.
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See, we are far too easily pleased.
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Amen to that.
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We are far too easily pleased and I, I'm, I'm convicted of that.
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Anytime.
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I think, man, Jesus, I wanna be with you, but can you wait until this happens first?
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And to be with Jesus is better than anything else This world can offer us.
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And that's our common future.
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That's what unites us together.
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That's what ow allows us and enables us to come together as brothers and sisters
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in Christ and to sing songs of praise and to encourage each other and to spur
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one another on towards Christ likeness.
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Because we get to say, this world is not it.
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It's not it.
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We're not here to just try to make the world a, a better place.
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We're here to, to try to, to, to introduce more people to a better
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savior until we get to the better place.
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Which is with him.
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And so you might say, well, okay, how do I get there?
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How do I cultivate this?
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If, if I, if I say, man, I, I want to want Jesus more.
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It's a great desire.
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It's a great hope.
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That's a great ambition.
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Let me give just a handful of suggestions.
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Number one, spend time with Jesus.
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If you wanna be with Jesus, there want to be with Jesus here.
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If you don't wanna be with Jesus here, why do you think you're
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gonna wanna be with Jesus?
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There?
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Spend time with Jesus.
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How do I spend time with Jesus?
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You spend time in His word and you spend time in prayer.
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I will never, ever, ever, ever, ever apologize for telling you to
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read your Bible and pray more ever.
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That is the, that's the conduit of your relationship with Christ.
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Spend time with him.
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You wanna cultivate a desire to be with him.
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Spend time with him, talk to him.
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Talk to him, pray, engage in relationship with him.
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Spend time with Jesus.
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Friends, say, who are Jesus friends?
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Look around the room at those that are in Christ.
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Remember what Jesus told his disciples, no longer do I call you
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servants, but I call you friends.
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Spend time with other people that love Jesus and that's
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gonna stir a love for Jesus.
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And you too.
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A desire to be with Jesus.
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Do the things that Jesus loves.
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Jesus loves the Father and loves to submit and obey to the obey the Father.
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So be submissive and obedient to the Father, to the word of God.
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Put off the things that Jesus hates.
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You wanna cultivate a desire to be with Jesus if, if you are engaged in a lot
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of things that Jesus hates, that's not gonna produce affections to be with Jesus.
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You're not gonna wanna be with Jesus if you're doing the things that Jesus
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hates, which we call sin, right.
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The, the more Christlike, the more sanctified, the more holy you can become
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this side of eternity, the, the more you will desire to be with Jesus in eternity.
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And so you wanna cultivate that desire to be with Jesus so that you would say, man,
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that that's, that, that is what I want.
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That is what it looks like.
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It's that old quote from Piper, if you could have heaven in everything
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they're in and not have Jesus, would you be okay with that?
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We wanna all get to the place of saying no.
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Because we're all tracking that direction.
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Did you know that there are such things as cruises to nowhere?
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So it's a thing, it's a, it's a real thing.
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I was listening to another pastor who, who called this to my attention first,
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and then I, I dug into it this week.
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This is a, a, a real ship that's a cruise to nowhere.
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Um, and it's, it's that there's no destination for this cruise.
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You get on the ship, you, you leave your port, and the whole point of
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this cruise is just to enjoy the ship.
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It is just to be on the ship.
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Enjoy the amenities of the ship.
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Enjoy the views from the deck on the ship.
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I've never been on a cruise.
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I have no desire to go on a cruise.
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The Titanic will always be there.
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My wife would let me on the door.
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There was enough room.
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We've covered that already, but I just, I don't wanna go on a cruise.
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Some people like to go on cruises to nowhere, and the whole point of a cruise
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to nowhere is just to enjoy the ship.
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In fact, here's from their website, the cruise itself is the
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destination on a nowhere cruise.
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And with the innovations that cruise lines, cruise lines have implemented on
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their world-class, state-of-the-art ships, what a destination it is With a nowhere
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cruise, you could find yourself bathing in the sun on a spacious deck with a city
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as a background surrounded by ocean waves.
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A nowhere Cruise is all about exploring your ship and letting the ocean breeze
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put you in a relaxed state of mind.
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Somebody who apparently enjoyed their nowhere crews, they had a a, a.
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A recommendation for it on the website said Our cruise to nowhere
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was the perfect way to experience cruising for the first time.
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We weren't sure we that we would like cruising, but now we're hooked
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and ready to plan our next cruise.
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We witnessed spectacular wildlife and enjoyed all the amenities on board.
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Being at sea for two nights allowed us to take advantage of the pools and
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the entertainment, which was perfect.
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See, that's just it.
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Everyone on a cruise to nowhere is content to just enjoy the ride without
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any concern for their destination.
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A lot of people treat the church like a cruise to nowhere.
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You're just here to enjoy the benefits.
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You just wanna enjoy the amenities.
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Just be able to check the box, feel good about yourself, feel good about your
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family, because you're involved in church.
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You've got your kids in a kid's ministry, that's good.
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We're doing what we're supposed to do.
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That's great.
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Church.
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This is not a cruise to nowhere.
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We have a destination, and the destination is a person, and the person is Jesus.
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We're, we're here not to just simply enjoy being here.
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We're here because this is meant to take us somewhere else.
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It's meant to take us to Jesus.
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It's meant to usher us into the presence of Jesus with our
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brothers and sisters in Christ.
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So if you're wanting to just enjoy the amenities of the world and
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float around aimlessly, that's not what the church is about.
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The church is the bride of Christ united together around this common
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future, which is our foundation.
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He continues though, and wraps up in verse 25 and 26.
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He says, oh, righteous father, even though the world does not know you, I know you
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and these know that you have sent me.
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So here Jesus is praying similar to what he had said earlier.
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I'm sending them into the world.
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The world's gonna hate them.
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He's creating this distinction again between us and the world.
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The world doesn't know you, but I know you and these know
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that you have sent me verse 26.
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I made known to them your name and I will continue to make it known.
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That's, again, think the spirit.
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This is all in the context of the upper room discourse.
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He's prayed that the spirit would continue to enlighten them and and
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teach them and call to mind the things that he had taught them.
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So that's how Jesus is gonna continue to make the Father's name known to them.
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And then he goes on here and he says this in order that.
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With the result that the love with, with which you have loved me may
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be in them and I in them, that the love with which you have loved
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me may be in them and I in them.
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Okay?
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We gotta ask ourselves the question, what's the nature of this love?
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Is it a love in us in the sense that it's, it's in us as believers.
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We've received this love, we've experienced the love of the Father
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through the son, applied by the spirit.
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Is, is that what he's talking about, that the love is in us as
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believers, or is this love among us?
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Which is another translation of that preposition.
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Therein is the love among us as believers in that it's showing up in the love of
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God, has manifested in our relationships with one another as the church.
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So is it the love in us or the love among us?
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If you've listened to the podcast long enough, you know
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the answer to this question.
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What is it?
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Yes, yes.
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Is the answer to this question.
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Yes, it's both.
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It's not one over the other because you can't have one without the other.
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Teacher, what's the greatest commandment?
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Love the Lord your God with everything that you've got.
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Oh, by the way, the second is like it, love one another as yourself.
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Why is the second like it?
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Because the, the first produces the second.
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And so as Jesus hears praying and saying that we would know the love that the
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Father has shown to the son, and that that love might be in us, which is read,
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salvation, there experiencing the love of the Father for the son applied to
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us through the Spirit is by faith alone through grace alone, right by grace alone
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through faith alone in Christ alone.
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That's salvation.
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That, that, that we would experience, that love.
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And if we experience that love, guess what?
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It's gonna show up in our relationships with one another.
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It's gonna be the love that's manifested among us.
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This is why, again, we, we talked about this passage last week, first Peter
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1, 2, 22 through 23, having purified your souls by your obedience to the
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truth for a sincere, brotherly love, love one another, earnestly from a pure
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heart since you've been born again.
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Love flows out of our relationship with Christ out of our being born again.
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And so we talked about it.
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We've got a reason, we've got a, a purpose for our unity, and that is the mission.
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We've got the foundation of our unity, and that is the, the, uh,
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the, the future with with Christ.
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And then finally, we've got the means of our unity, and that is the common love
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that we should have for one another.
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So point number three this morning is this unite by a common love.
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Unite by a common love.
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This is the means for how we're gonna be a United Unified Church.
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Without this, we can't have it.
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Your relationships with people in this room should be tangibly
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different than your relationships with your neighbors and your coworkers.
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And I would even go so far as to say even your extended family members.
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And if they're not, then there's a disconnect here.
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We moved into our, our new offices this past week, a couple
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weeks ago, which was, was great.
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And by the way, those of you guys that made it out for the, the open
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house, thanks for stopping by.
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It was so fun.
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Uh, we, we loved having you there, but as, as we're there, I replaced
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the light switch in my office and it came with a three pack.
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So I gave one to Pastor Ron.
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I gave one to, to mark too to, to put into their offices.
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And I all of a sudden had Mark asking me, Hey, did, did
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your wires look like my wires?
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And this is a, we're, we're a bunch of guys in, in ministry, right?
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None of us, none of us are electricians.
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Mark's probably the smartest guy amongst us when it comes to these things.
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Um, and so I walk into his office and it's got three extra wires that I didn't have.
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So I'm like, I, I don't know what to do with that.
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I said, mine didn't have this wire, and it also didn't have those three wires.
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So Mark's like, okay, well, I'll figure it out.
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So Mark.
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Pulled one wire out and tried to hook it up and, and then he broke the office.
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Um,
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well he broke his lights in Kelly's, lights in the hallway,
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lights in the bathroom lights, which made that an adventure.
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Um, anyways, I don't understand how it happened and John
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Kingsolver can explain it to us.
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I'm gonna say it was the short circuit 'cause it fits my illustration.
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Okay.
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Short circuiting.
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What is short circuiting?
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I had to look it up, but I figured out what it's a short circuit is
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when the, the, the, the electricity, the, the current doesn't complete
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the loop that's meant to complete.
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Instead, it takes the path of least resistance and it bypasses the
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ultimate destination and it ends up overheating and overloading because
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it, it, it's not able to dissipate its energy the way it's meant to.
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John, did I get that somewhat right?
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Thanks.
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He gave me somewhat of a head nod there.
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We'll take that so.
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When we as Christians don't display the love that we've received from God, we're
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short circuiting part of the purpose for that love that he's given to us.
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The love that he's shown us in Christ is meant to be expressed in
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our relationships with one another, in other words, and so we should be
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loving each other tangibly this way.
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That's why these relationships are different than any other relationship
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that exists on the planet.
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Uh, because they are, are grounded by, and united by and expressed through
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a love that's unique to Christians.
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This is why your relationships with your brothers and sisters in Christ
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are in many ways more significance than your relationship with your
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biological unbelieving family members.
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Because there is a love that you can express mutually between one another that
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cannot be expressed outside of the church.
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It's, it's not possible.
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Jesus was meeting with people and, and preaching to them and talking to
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them, and his mother and brothers and sisters come and they're outside and
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somebody says, teacher, your, your family's here, and they, they need you.
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And Jesus says, who is my mother, who are my brothers?
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And stretching out his hand towards his disciples, he said, here are my mother
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and my brothers, for whoever does the will of my father, and heaven is my
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brother and my sister and my mother.
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Jesus is establishing the paradigm that there are relationships within
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the body of Christ that transcend the depth of even blood relationships.
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Paul experienced this and knew this one.
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Thessalonians two, verse eight, one Thessalonians chapter two, verse eight.
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Paul says this, he says, being affectionately desirous of you, we were
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ready to share with you not only the gospel of God, but also our own selves,
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because you would become very dear to us.
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That's what we need to have in the church.
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A love for one another that's even sharing our own selves with one another.
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Paul says, in one Corinth or second Corinthians seven, five, he says,
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when we came into Macedonia, I mean, our bodies had no rest, but we were
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afflicted at every turn and we were fighting without fear or fighting
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without, and and fear within.
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And then he says this in verse six, but God who comforts
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the downcast comforted us.
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Notice how by providing a brother in Christ to comfort them,
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he comforted us with Titus.
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He comforted us with the relationship of another believer, and not only by
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his coming, but also by the comfort with which he comforted us by you as Titus told
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us of your longing, your mourning, your zeal for me so that I rejoice still more.
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You see how Paul is built up in the midst of affliction and suffering
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and pain, knowing that he's got Titus there and knowing through
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Titus that he has other brothers and sisters in Christ who love him and
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are building him up and care for him.
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Church, our unity is, is, is only realized through our love for one another.
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We don't have time, but Philippians chapter two verses 19 through 30,
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we, you, you see another example of this as Paul talks about Timothy and
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a paphitis there in that passage.
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This is the how y'all.
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In other words, if we're saying, okay, we need to be un unified for
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our mission, and we are unified on the foundation of our common future,
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how does, how do we realize this?
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We realize it through our love for each other.
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We realize it through the love of Christ that we've experienced
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poured into our hearts.
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Then as we turn around and we, we show that love to one another
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as we walk through this life, it's the one Corinthians 13 love
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that we talked about last week.
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It's the love that's patient that's kind, that doesn't envy.
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Doesn't boast.
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It's not arrogant.
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It doesn't insist on its own way.
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It's not irritable, it's not resentful.
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It doesn't rejoice.
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It wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
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It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
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I, it's the love that Peter calls the earnest, brotherly love.
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The sincere brotherly love.
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In one Peter, chapter one, verse 22, it's the love of Colossians,
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chapter three of kindness, humility, meekness, patience, forgiveness, peace,
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instruction, admonishment, singing thanksgiving above all these things.
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He says, put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.
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It's the love that Jesus commended to us in John 1334, A new commandment
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I give you that you love one another, just as I have loved you.
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You also are to love one another, and by this, will all people
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know that you are my disciples if you have love for one another.
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Here's the thing though, y'all, this love is going to cost us.
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If you look around this room and at this pulpit.
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All of us are sinners, and just like any other family, we're
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gonna step on each other's toes.
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Sometimes people are gonna step on your toes intentionally, and
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they're gonna step on all of them.
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A couple times.
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You're gonna step on theirs too.
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If we're gonna remain, remain united together as a church, we
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have got to count the cost and love this way, and it's gonna count us.
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It's gonna cost us forgiving when we don't feel like forgiving.
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It's gonna cost us having to humble ourselves and go and seek forgiveness.
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Even though we don't want to do that, it's gonna cost us covering a, an
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offense of a brother or sister in Christ.
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'cause love covers a multitude of sins.
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It's gonna cost us weeping.
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The, with those who weep.
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It's gonna cost us our time, it's gonna cost us our comfort.
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It's gonna cost us these things.
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But church, I'm convinced it's worth the cost, and I hope you are too.
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Y'all if, if you're not hungry for this kind of unity expressed in a
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community, committed to Christ and committed to one another, if you're just
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looking for a place to get expository preaching once a week, I've said
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it before, but there are far better podcast preachers out there than me.
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Church if, if you want the unity that Jesus is talking about here, it's more
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than an hour and a half every Sunday.
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You can't get it that way.
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You need to be all in with other people who love Jesus.
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You need to plug in, you need to invest, you need to
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connect, you need to be with us.
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I, I don't know what the future holds here.
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You may have seen the news, but over towards McKinney, they're building a,
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a, a massive Islamic community that is purported to be pursuing Sharia law.
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There.
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McKinney.
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I said, I didn't say Flint, Michigan.
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I didn't say the Middle East.
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I, I said our backyard here.
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I, I, I don't know what the future holds with us.
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I know one thing, I'm, I'm thankful for our administration, but I also
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know Donald Trump is not Jesus
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and there's no political savior that's coming for, for us.
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So what the next administration does, we have no idea if the heat gets turned up.
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We're gonna need one another in this room.
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We're gonna need to be able to know what oneness in this room looks like.
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In a way, again, that being here for an hour and a half every week is not
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gonna, is not gonna do the trick.
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We need to have relationships with each other.
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We need to actually be building into those things with each other.
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Uh, this past week, my dad took Josh and I to a a Dallas Stars game.
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And, uh, we were, for about two and a half hours, we were united with about
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19,000 other people in the American Airline Center, and we were rejoicing
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with those who rejoiced when the good guys scored a goal High five, in celebrating.
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It was awesome.
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And we were weeping with those who Weep won.
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The bad guys, scored a goal, which unfortunately they
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scored one more than we did.
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So.
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But we were united with these 19,000 other people in this building, all
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of us together with one cause and we're all like, yes, this is great.
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Ghost stars, Dallas Stars Pantera was playing, it was goals, it's great.
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But as soon as we walked out those doors and got our cars to leave the parking lot,
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any unity that existed inside that building was a distant memory.
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Don't treat the church that way.
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Don't be all in as long as we're here under this roof and then have
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no thought or connection to the bride of Christ for the rest of the week.
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Make this place different than anything else out there in the world.
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I think Jesus wanted that.
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That's why he's praying for this right before the cross.
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He's praying for our unity right before the cross.
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How do we know if we're alive and not dead?
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I think the pulse at least a good place to check the pulse is
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checking the pulse of our unity as brothers and sisters in Christ.
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Will you stand with me?
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I'll pray and then we'll be dismissed.