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Judging Within | 1 Corinthians 5:6-13

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  1. Well, good morning once again. I'm going to start

  2. our time together this morning in kind of an

  3. unusual way. I want to share with you a testimony

  4. that I read online this week. It's from an anonymous

  5. woman who wrote a testimony of her experience

  6. with this thing we call church discipline. And

  7. it was posted on a well -known Christian blog,

  8. and I thought it would be a good way to sort

  9. of get our hearts and minds rolling on this difficult

  10. subject. And by the way, if you're joining us

  11. this morning for the first time, sorry to be

  12. talking about church discipline, but it's an

  13. important part of Scripture. It just might be

  14. a difficult morning for you to try to catch up

  15. with where we've been, but God's sovereign over

  16. that as well. But let me read this testimony.

  17. It's a little bit long, but I think it's worth

  18. our time to understand the issue we're going

  19. to talk about this morning. Here's what this

  20. woman wrote. In 2006, I sat at a conference table

  21. with men from my church and I heard words I never

  22. wanted to hear. Church discipline. I was in the

  23. middle of an affair with a married man and the

  24. life that I had tried to keep buried was now

  25. being exposed. My sin had found me out and now

  26. I felt like I was being dragged out into the

  27. street. Hard words for men who weren't afraid

  28. to say to me, What you're doing is sin, and this

  29. is the way out of it. I had no real defense,

  30. but in that moment, I was blind. I was persistent,

  31. and I was impetuous, and I was willing to give

  32. up family, friends, and my reputation for what

  33. I wanted. So I opted for defense strategies.

  34. These men were the bad guys. They didn't understand

  35. grace. I should be free to be me. As we sat around

  36. that conference table, their faces were somber,

  37. and I felt the weight of what was coming. They

  38. laid out my sin. They addressed my wrong choices.

  39. They contrasted Scripture with my actions and

  40. gave me a plan for restoration. I had to repent,

  41. they said. I had to leave the man I was actively

  42. sinning with and cease any and all contact with

  43. him, and he would be encouraged to seek reconciliation

  44. with his wife. I thought about the date we had

  45. planned for the next day, our visit home for

  46. Christmas, our plans for the new year. I pictured

  47. him in my mind. We have only each other now in

  48. this cold, hateful world, I thought. I can't

  49. do it. It's not possible. We're too far down

  50. this road, and I will not turn back. Our love

  51. is stronger than this. Deep down in my gut, what

  52. these men were doing felt cruel. It felt unjust.

  53. They continued to talk to me about how to find

  54. healing and restoration. There was hope, they

  55. said, and a way to find freedom. But their voices

  56. were a drone of truth and I wanted to cut my

  57. ears off. The discipline was already doing its

  58. work, revealing my rebellion, helping me feel

  59. the weight of sin, and it was heavy. Oh, so heavy.

  60. And there I sat, now sobbing. This was breaking

  61. me and there was a small distant voice somewhere

  62. on the outskirts of my mind screaming at me to

  63. repent. I heard the voice like a distant bell

  64. in the dark telling me this is the way out. But

  65. I pushed it away. When the elders told me I had

  66. a few days to consider what they'd said, what

  67. I heard was this, an opportunity. I had a few

  68. days to run. I scanned the faces of everyone

  69. sitting around that table. These were men who

  70. were like family to me, but on this day they

  71. felt like thieves. I thought this will be the

  72. last time I ever sit across from them as a friend

  73. and a sister. After that meeting, I did run.

  74. I ran from New York in the midst of my affair,

  75. and I was sure I had found a safe haven in North

  76. Texas. No one would find me there. No one knows

  77. my name. No one knows my face. We had run off

  78. into the proverbial sunset, and I was sure we

  79. were going to find our happy ending. Until I

  80. got the phone call that letters had arrived on

  81. the desk of one of the pastors at the new church

  82. I was attending. I shuddered as he read the names

  83. of the elders back in New York. Why were they

  84. following me? I thought. Can't they just leave

  85. me alone? I was furious. How quickly friends

  86. become enemies as soon as they get in the way

  87. of what we want. Fast forward four years. Once

  88. my life had imploded and I found the bottom of

  89. the pit, I heard that voice once again. This

  90. is the way back home. And I found myself. I don't

  91. know why. I don't even know this woman, but I'm

  92. getting emotional. I found myself walking back

  93. into that church in New York, now as a single

  94. mom with very little to my name. Waking from

  95. my spiritual slumber, it felt like seeing the

  96. light of day for the first time in years, and

  97. then seeing the wreckage of my life. It was devastating.

  98. The only thing left standing were the arrows

  99. that pointed me back to where the gospel had

  100. first broken through my heart and mind. And one

  101. of the biggest arrows was now pointing me back

  102. to my old church family. I desperately hoped

  103. that it hadn't been too long for me to say to

  104. those elders, I was wrong and I'm sorry. I need

  105. Jesus, will you forgive me? And praise the Lord,

  106. I found that I wasn't coming home to a scolding

  107. finger, but to forgiveness. Church discipline

  108. had revealed to me the weight of my sin, but

  109. it also provided a way back home. When I said

  110. I can't do this anymore, I was met with a family

  111. that said, finally. And we wept together. Sinner

  112. to sinner, brother to sister, a messy, snotty

  113. welcome home on the dusty road to redemption.

  114. The goal of church discipline is to reveal sin.

  115. And when it's done well, it has the potential

  116. to be a rescue boat in the middle of a raging

  117. sea. What seems like harshness at first, calling

  118. out a fellow believer is in fact not unkind.

  119. Instead, it's a marker in their life that may

  120. someday remind them that God was always at work,

  121. that they were being pursued and loved, and that

  122. there's always a way to be restored. It is a

  123. work of love to see someone running towards a

  124. cliff and do all you can to stop them from falling

  125. off. I'm thankful for those who were faithful

  126. to follow through with my church discipline.

  127. I'm thankful for their words that didn't deviate

  128. from the truth. I'm thankful for their hearts

  129. that never gave up on me. And I'm thankful for

  130. the way back home. Let's grab our Bibles. Sorry

  131. about that. That testimony did that to me during

  132. the week too. And it did it to me again this

  133. morning. 1 Corinthians chapter five. Last Sunday,

  134. we looked at verses one through five and we teased

  135. what was coming this morning. Really, this is

  136. part two of a single message because this entire

  137. chapter, all 13 verses, relate to one incident

  138. in the life of the Corinthian church and how

  139. it's to be dealt with. So let's back up to verse

  140. one. We'll read it from there. Again, this is

  141. all one, what we call pericope in scripture,

  142. one incident that we need to cover. Verse 1 says

  143. it's actually reported that there is sexual immorality

  144. among you. An immorality of such a kind as does

  145. not exist even among the Gentiles that someone

  146. has his father's wife, meaning stepmother. You

  147. become arrogant and have not mourned instead

  148. so that the one who had done this deed would

  149. be removed from your midst. For I, on my part,

  150. though absent in body but present in spirit,

  151. have already judged him who has committed this

  152. as though I were present. In the name of our

  153. Lord Jesus, when you are assembled and I with

  154. you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus,

  155. I have decided to deliver such a one to Satan

  156. for the destruction of his flesh so that his

  157. spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.

  158. Verse six, your boasting is not good. I want

  159. you to stop there for a moment and consider what

  160. Paul said already. I know this was last Sunday,

  161. and maybe you need to go back and listen to it

  162. online. In a state of shock over the perversity

  163. of the situation there in Corinth, Paul says,

  164. look, your response to this is the exact opposite

  165. of what it should be. You're proud of how you

  166. tolerate sin. You're boasting in this deviant

  167. version of grace that allows for sexual sin to

  168. stay in your body and fester there when you should

  169. be ashamed at the lack of concern that you have

  170. for the purity of the church and the testimony

  171. of the church. It's the exact opposite. As we

  172. go through the rest of the text, I'm actually

  173. going to go a little bit out of order. I know

  174. that's strange, but if you track with me, you'll

  175. see the logic in this. Let me give you an outline

  176. of where we're headed here. First, we're going

  177. to see how Paul corrects the church's understanding

  178. of a previous letter he wrote to them. That's

  179. verses 9 through 11. Then we're going to see

  180. him lay out this really important principle about

  181. who we in the church are supposed to be judging

  182. and who we're not supposed to be judging. And

  183. then we'll come back to verses six through eight,

  184. where Paul exhorts the Corinthian believers to

  185. take the right steps, the right actions toward

  186. becoming who God already declared that you actually

  187. are. Make sense? So drop down to verse nine.

  188. Let's start there with Paul's correction. Look

  189. at verse nine. He says, I wrote to you in my

  190. letter not to associate with pornois, is the

  191. Greek word, sexually immoral people. Now, this

  192. is a reference here to what scholars call Paul's

  193. lost letter. It was written probably sometime

  194. around the year 52 or 53 to the church there

  195. in Corinth. But outside of this little comment

  196. we have in verse 9, we have no idea what else

  197. Paul wrote about or what became of the letter.

  198. It's lost to the dustbin of history, which tells

  199. us God saw fit not to preserve it for us so that

  200. we could read it today. By the way, there's another

  201. letter also. that we don't have today that was

  202. written between our 1 Corinthians and our 2 Corinthians.

  203. In fact, I'll give you a little diagram because

  204. you know how I like timelines, right? The third

  205. letter is actually mentioned. So you see there

  206. the lost letter, then comes 1 Corinthians. That

  207. third letter is mentioned in 2 Corinthians 2,

    2 Corinthians 2:4

  208. verse 4, where Paul talks about having made a

  209. painful visit. to the city of Corinth, and then

  210. having written what he calls a tearful letter

  211. that caused the Corinthians sorrow. But what's

  212. interesting, when you get to chapter 7 of 2 Corinthians,

  213. you find out that Paul's actually, he hears news

  214. from Titus, and he's actually filled with joy

  215. because that tearful letter, while it did create

  216. sorrow on the front end, it ends up being godly

  217. sorrow that produced repentance in that church.

  218. So he's actually grateful for it. So if you do

  219. the math, our 1st and 2nd Corinthians are actually

  220. 2nd and 4th Corinthians. But I don't want to

  221. confuse you on that. But when you step back and

  222. look at all the things that Paul wrote to this

  223. one church, you start to realize how complex

  224. his relationship was with this congregation.

  225. And for those of you in ministry, you know how

  226. hard it must have been to shepherd a congregation

  227. like this with so many problems. And we're going

  228. to see that throughout the rest of this letter.

  229. So Paul writes this first lost letter to the

  230. church and he says, do not associate with sexually

  231. immoral people. Now in verses 10 through 11,

  232. he's going to clarify what he meant by that.

  233. Look at verse 10. He says, I did not at all mean

  234. the sexually immoral people of this world. Or

  235. with the covetous and swindlers or with idolaters.

  236. For then you would have to go out of the world.

  237. But actually, he says, actually, I wrote to you

  238. not to associate with any so -called brother.

  239. In other words, a person, a man or woman who

  240. identifies themselves as a Christian. Don't.

  241. associate with them if he is a sexually immoral

  242. person or covetous or an idolater or a reviler

  243. or a drunkard or a swindler, look at that last

  244. phrase, not even to eat with such a one. Now,

  245. don't get lost in the list of sins that Paul

  246. lays out here. Typical of the writing of that

  247. day. What he's providing for us is a whole series

  248. of categories of sins. It's not intended to be

  249. an exhaustive list or to cover every possible

  250. sin that should be avoided. These are general

  251. categories. Sexual immorality, greed, thievery,

  252. idolatry, drunkenness, slander. And if you break

  253. down that list, it's interesting. What you see

  254. is these are sins against three different parties.

  255. They're sins against one's own body. There's

  256. sins against other members of the church, and

  257. most of all, sins against God himself. So it

  258. covers the whole gamut. And Paul says, don't

  259. get mixed up with people like this. Do not enter

  260. into fellowship with them. What did the Corinthians

  261. hear? They heard what they wanted to hear. They

  262. basically said, okay, fine, then we will cut

  263. ourselves off from all the unbelievers in our

  264. city who do these things. And Paul responds in

  265. verse 11, no, no, no, no. It's not what I was

  266. talking about. I was not talking about unbelievers.

  267. If you were to cut yourself off from all the

  268. non -Christians who practice these things, I'd

  269. have to take you out of the world completely.

  270. You just have to leave the entire world because

  271. guess what? The things I just listed for you,

  272. those are the fleshly deeds of people who don't

  273. know God. And they're all around you there in

  274. the city of Corinth. And by the way, this raises

  275. an important principle, not just for the Corinthians,

  276. but for us. You know, we said it before. We live

  277. in a city kind of parallel to Corinth in the

  278. first century right here in Los Angeles. And

  279. this is the phrase that often gets cited under

  280. this concept of we're to be in the world, but

  281. not of the world. Right. And that is sort of

  282. a conglomeration of a whole bunch of. passages

  283. from the New Testament and the Gospel of John

  284. and 1 John, we put that together and we come

  285. up with that important phrase. And there's truth

  286. to it. As Christ followers, we are citizens of

  287. a new kingdom, a whole new realm governed by

  288. King Jesus. And that means we are not of the

  289. world in the sense that we no longer belong to

  290. its virtues, no longer belong to its loyalties

  291. or power structures. And yet, and yet, we're

  292. called to remain in the world. True. And for

  293. a purpose. When Christ saved us, when we gave

  294. our lives to him, we're told he called us out

  295. of the world, but then he put us on mission within

  296. the world, which sounds kind of strange, right?

  297. I'm going to call you out of the world, but then

  298. I'm going to send you right back in to be on

  299. mission in the world. So Paul says to the Corinthians,

  300. you can't just cut yourselves off from the sinners

  301. around you. If you did that, you would forfeit

  302. the mission that God has you on in that city.

  303. Make sense? To win the lost, you have to spend

  304. time with the lost. And that is the harvest field

  305. that God has given you specifically to walk into.

  306. Now, it's a whole different situation with people

  307. who live an openly sinful life while at the same

  308. time claiming to be a brother or sister in Christ.

  309. That's a different situation. In that case, Paul

  310. says, you're not to rub shoulders with them.

  311. You're not to hang out with them. In fact, you're

  312. to cut off fellowship with that type of a person.

  313. Don't even eat with them, he says. Why? Because

  314. they claim they're telling the world publicly,

  315. I'm under the authority and lordship of Jesus

  316. Christ, but they're living in opposition to that

  317. claim, which makes them a liar and a deceiver.

  318. And that is not somebody you want representing

  319. Jesus in your community. Now, we'll flesh that

  320. out a bit more as we go along. And I know at

  321. first glance it sounds harsh, right? But don't

  322. get the wrong impression. We don't cut off fellowship

  323. from this type of person out of anger or out

  324. of hatred or out of vengeance. There is a great

  325. purpose to Paul's instruction here. And it's

  326. actually rooted in both truth and love. And we'll

  327. get to that as we go on. First of all, Let's

  328. go to verses 12 to 13 and look at what Paul says

  329. about this very important principle, which the

  330. world cannot seem to understand, and that's the

  331. issue of judging. Who are we to judge and who

  332. are we not to judge? Look at verse 12. Paul says,

  333. what have I to do with judging outsiders, people

  334. outside the church? Do you, Corinthians, not

  335. judge those who are within the church? But those

  336. who are outside, God judges, you guys remove

  337. the wicked man from among yourselves. This is

  338. a surprising verse for people who claim to know

  339. what the Bible says but don't really know. And

  340. part of that is because we as Christians often,

  341. we make the mistake of running around judging

  342. everybody out there. We kind of have a reputation

  343. for that, so we've got to be aware of it. So

  344. people we call natural men and women. Those who

  345. don't know Christ, don't profess to know Christ.

  346. It is not our role to go around judging them.

  347. And I know that's a hard thing for Christians

  348. to grasp, right? Because, again, I said it earlier

  349. this morning, we see so much wickedness out there

  350. in the world, and our immediate reaction is to

  351. get really upset about it. This temptation, this

  352. inclination to run around pointing fingers at

  353. everybody. Paul's point is the church should

  354. not focus its energies there at running around

  355. pointing to the world and saying, look at all

  356. the sin. Of course there's sin. Of course. What

  357. else would you expect from fallen people living

  358. in the flesh without the Spirit of God? What

  359. else would you expect? And I know it could be

  360. hard to look at social media or look at news

  361. clips without saying to yourself, my goodness.

  362. It is so bad out there. The world is spiraling

  363. down so fast. Guys, when you feel that, first

  364. of all, take a deep breath. And remember two

  365. things. First of all, that God is still sovereign.

  366. He's still in control. And number two, remember,

  367. that's what you used to be before God plucked

  368. you out of that life. True? So we can't get on

  369. our high horse and judge everybody else out there.

  370. That's who we used to be. And because these outsiders,

  371. as Paul calls them, don't claim to know Christ

  372. and they haven't submitted themselves to the

  373. word of God, we can't hold them to standards

  374. that we've accepted. They've not submitted themselves

  375. to the word of God. We can't hold them to that

  376. and then judge them for not doing it. They don't

  377. have the spirit of God. How could they know?

  378. So we let God handle that. Those on the outside,

  379. God judges, Paul says. But within the church,

  380. it's different, right? Paul says we are to judge

  381. one another. Now let me qualify that. We're not

  382. to judge wrongly. We're not to judge quickly.

  383. We're not to judge hypocritically. We're not

  384. to judge pridefully. We don't judge each other

  385. in anger or resentment. Our judgment within the

  386. walls of the church has to be motivated by a

  387. heart of love. and concern for unity, concern

  388. for purity, and for one another's spiritual condition.

  389. So we're to judge, but with the right heart motive.

  390. Therefore, Paul concludes, because of this, he

  391. says, the Corinthians have to take action against

  392. this unrepentant, sexually immoral man. He's

  393. to be judged by the body and removed from the

  394. congregation. Remove him from among yourselves,

  395. Paul says. Interestingly, that is a citation

  396. from the Torah. So Paul reaches back into his

  397. Jewish heritage, and he quotes from Deuteronomy

  398. 17. Now remember, in Old Testament times, in

  399. that day, God manifested his presence in pretty

  400. spectacular ways in the midst of his people,

  401. in the camp of Israel. And because of his holiness,

  402. it was required that the Israelites cleanse the

  403. camp from all sin. Well, guess what? Paul recognizes

  404. that similar principle under the new covenant.

  405. God is still... among his people, now indwelling

  406. believers in their hearts through the presence

  407. of the Holy Spirit. And that means, yes, within

  408. our camp here at this church, under the new covenant,

  409. we too have to expel that sin from among our

  410. body. So the parallels are similar, aren't they?

  411. Are you tracking with me? Okay, good. This is

  412. important. So here's what I want to do now. We're

  413. going to do a little excursus for a second on

  414. the issue of church discipline. Let's pause and

  415. let's talk about the process because this is

  416. important. This matters, guys, both for life

  417. here at Oak Hill and life at any church you might

  418. go to in the future, to understand the process

  419. of church discipline. It's important to realize,

  420. first of all, that the situation we're reading

  421. about here in 1 Corinthians 5 is not typical.

  422. of how most cases play out today, typically they

  423. start out privately and informally. That is not

  424. the situation here. Remember, Paul says, look,

  425. I'm hearing reports. It's publicly known about

  426. what's going on there. Typically, it doesn't

  427. start out like that today. It's usually private

  428. and informal. But like the 1 Corinthians 5 scenario,

  429. in its final stage, church discipline, even today,

  430. involves removing the sinner from membership

  431. in the local church. and barring him from participation

  432. at the Lord's table. This is why we guard the

  433. table here at Oak Hill. It's important that elders

  434. do that. By the way, this is just one of the

  435. reasons why, I'm just going to say this, one

  436. of the reasons why membership matters here at

  437. our church or any church. Membership should matter

  438. no matter where you go in the future, any church

  439. you're a part of. If a church is going to practice

  440. church discipline, it first has to have membership.

  441. Because when a believer commits himself to membership

  442. in a local church, he makes a series of vows.

  443. He makes vows to other church members. He voluntarily

  444. places himself under the authority of the elders,

  445. and he puts himself under church discipline of

  446. the entire church body. How does he do that?

  447. Well, he says, look, I'm signing this covenant

  448. membership agreement, making these promises and

  449. saying, yes, please, I want accountability. Every

  450. church talks about accountability. And we always

  451. want it until we don't. Right? But this is the

  452. reality. When you become a covenant member, you

  453. say, I desire accountability. I want to be put

  454. under the discipline of the entire church body.

  455. So membership is essential to this whole process.

  456. Now, backing up for a moment. By the way, let

  457. me just say, churches that don't have membership,

  458. they really don't have standing to discipline

  459. their members. Why? Because unrepentant sinners

  460. from the body who haven't first been affirmed

  461. as believers through that membership process,

  462. folks who haven't asked for that accountability,

  463. guess what? We don't have a standing to really

  464. discipline them out. That's why we continue to

  465. encourage you guys to come into covenant membership.

  466. All the beauties of membership, but also this

  467. issue of your saying to one another and to the

  468. world, I want that accountability. And maybe,

  469. I say this often, maybe that's why our church

  470. remains small. Because not everybody wants it.

  471. They say it, but they don't want it. They don't

  472. actually want it. And so sometimes people go,

  473. you know what? This is a hard church to belong

  474. to. Okay, praise the Lord. Because we're living

  475. biblically together. Okay, back up for a moment.

  476. So the process of church discipline has to happen

  477. in stages. And of all people, guess who laid

  478. out those stages for us? Jesus, yeah, that's

  479. a good answer. That's the Sunday morning answer.

  480. Jesus did, right? In the Gospel of Matthew, he

  481. tells us exactly how this should play out. Stage

  482. one is found in Matthew 18, verse 15, where Jesus

    Matthew 18:15

  483. says, look, if your brother's in sin, here's

  484. where we start. Take it up with him privately.

  485. Privately. It says, go and tell him his fault

  486. between you and him alone. The idea is that we

  487. handle the situation privately so as to not broadcast

  488. it and create unnecessary gossip that circulates

  489. around the church. Now, there might be times

  490. when the situation is complex and you need to

  491. get counsel from an elder before you go to your

  492. brother, but the goal is the same. At the outset

  493. of this, you want to keep the circle as tight

  494. as possible, as few people involved as possible.

  495. So you go humbly to your brother. And you have

  496. this confrontation about sin. By the way, how

  497. many of you guys like confrontation? It's hard.

  498. It's hard, isn't it? But it's biblical. This

  499. is one of those things, man. Christians say,

  500. I don't want to get involved. You're not given

  501. that option. If you follow biblical truth, you're

  502. not given that option. So we go humbly and we

  503. confront our brother. Humbly, right? Not with

  504. a big giant log sticking out of our eye, but

  505. we go humbly. We don't accuse him right out of

  506. the gate. We give him the benefit of the doubt.

  507. And we ask clarifying questions. And we ask him

  508. to explain. Say, look, I'm having a difficult

  509. time reconciling your profession of faith with

  510. the way you're living. The lifestyle that you've

  511. chosen doesn't seem to line up with your profession

  512. of faith. And then you give your brother an opportunity

  513. to explain. It's possible that you've misunderstood

  514. something. Or you didn't see what you think you're

  515. seeing. So give him that opportunity. And the

  516. vast majority of the time, if the confronter

  517. approaches with that right motivation, the sinner

  518. is going to respond well because he feels that

  519. you're here out of love and concern. And Jesus

  520. says that is the goal. He says, if he listens

  521. to you, Jesus says, you have gained your brother

  522. or you've won your brother over. Amen and amen.

  523. We move forward, right? Your motive is always

  524. love. It's love for the sinner. It's love for

  525. Christ. It's love for your fellow members. And

  526. it's love for the testimony of the church that

  527. we get this thing cleared up. Amen on stage one.

  528. Now, if things go poorly and you are convinced

  529. that your friend is living this sinful lifestyle,

  530. you might want to go and have multiple conversations

  531. with him privately first to try to win him over.

  532. But if he's unresponsive, you have to take it

  533. to stage two. And that's to bring another believer

  534. with you, somebody else who cares about this

  535. person, someone from the church family. Maybe

  536. bring one or two other people. And you try to

  537. persuade the sinner to own that sin and to turn

  538. from it and repent. Jesus says in verse 16, if

  539. he does not listen, take one or two others along

  540. with you that every charge may be established

  541. by the evidence of two or three witnesses. Catch

  542. that now. This is a very important courtroom.

  543. principle. Church discipline is not mob justice.

  544. Church discipline is established by due process

  545. and a multiple sets of eyes and ears on the situation

  546. so that it's properly evaluated. Make sense?

  547. Now, if the sinner still digs in his heels and

  548. you've had multiple opportunities now to break

  549. through, it goes to stage three. And Jesus says

  550. in verse 17, if he refuses to listen to the two

  551. or three witnesses, Tell it to the church. Okay,

  552. this is the 1 Corinthians 5 stage, right? Tell

  553. it to the church. And this is where it gets really

  554. serious because it goes from private to public.

  555. Now the sin has to be laid out before all of

  556. the members of the church. So you don't want

  557. to get to stage three. Repent of sin, right?

  558. Repent of sin. Typically, members of the elder

  559. team who have oversight responsibility in the

  560. body, they're the ones who lead this step, but

  561. they should never stand up in front of the congregation

  562. and speculate about what's going on. They should

  563. have done their due diligence, gotten the agreed

  564. upon facts, and then lay the case out before

  565. the members. Now, that doesn't mean that every

  566. single gory detail about the sin has to be revealed

  567. or exposed, but enough needs to be said. Enough,

  568. and it's a difficult line, enough to be said

  569. so that the members can grasp what's really happening

  570. in this situation and feel comfortable with the

  571. fact that we are voting now to remove this person

  572. from membership. So not all the gory details,

  573. but enough so the body understands the situation.

  574. And this public revelation then kicks off a whole

  575. nother stage, a time of prayer. and a time of

  576. more aggressive confrontation of the sinner.

  577. Now it's not just those two or three witnesses,

  578. it's the entire church family. We're going to

  579. go after this person strongly because we love

  580. him, because we care about his soul. We're all

  581. going to go after him and plead with him with

  582. tears to turn from the sin and come back. And

  583. this is part of the process that cannot be rushed.

  584. Adequate time needs to be given for people to

  585. go to the center. Adequate time has to be given

  586. for God to work through those multiple conversations.

  587. So that can take months. But if after enough

  588. time has passed and the center just appears he's

  589. not going to turn from his ways, then the elders

  590. of the church step into the role that Paul has

  591. here in 1 Corinthians 5. They express their judgment

  592. and they ask the members to follow that lead.

  593. And this is the heartbreaking point, right? And

  594. we've gone through it at Oak Hill, and it's the

  595. hardest thing we have to do as a church family.

  596. This is the heartbreaking point. Again, Jesus

  597. explains the final step in verse 17. If he refuses

  598. to listen even to the church, could you imagine?

  599. If he refuses to listen even to the church, let

  600. him be to you as a Gentile. and a tax collector.

  601. Or as Paul said in 1 Corinthians 5, do not associate

  602. with him, do not even eat with such a one. Rather,

  603. he said in the beginning of the chapter, deliver

  604. him over to Satan for the destruction of his

  605. flesh so that his spirit might be saved in the

  606. day of the Lord Jesus. So this is where the local

  607. church, through tears and sorrow, says to the

  608. unrepentant believer, you cannot stay here with

  609. us while you insist on clinging to this sin.

  610. We are grieved to tell you we can no longer affirm

  611. your profession of faith. We can no longer say,

  612. yes, you're a born again believer. This is what

  613. I described last Sunday as the wielding of the

  614. keys of the kingdom. The binding and loosing

  615. process that we see in Matthew 16, we see in

  616. Matthew 18. And this is a heavy responsibility

  617. that a church body has. The members of the church

  618. together bind a believer as they affirm his profession

  619. of faith and his baptism as he comes into the

  620. church as a member. And we then invite him to

  621. come to the Lord's table. That is the binding

  622. process. And then the loosing process is when

  623. we remove that person from membership in the

  624. church and we prevent him from coming to the

  625. Lord's table because we can no longer affirm

  626. his profession of faith. Binding and loosing.

  627. It's been given to the local church. We have

  628. jurisdiction over these things. Heavy, heavy

  629. stuff. Now, it's important to understand that

  630. this final step of discipline does not mean that

  631. the church is assigning this person to hell,

  632. eternal hell. We don't have that power. Right?

  633. The final step doesn't even mean that we're saying

  634. with certainty that this person isn't a believer.

  635. That gets tested in the discipline process. What

  636. we're saying again is, look, we don't have x

  637. -ray vision to look at a person's soul. We can't

  638. be certain, but we can say this. Based on your

  639. lifestyle, based on the fact that you will not

  640. repent, we can no longer affirm that you're a

  641. believer. That's the extent of our power. And

  642. according to what both Jesus and Paul say in

  643. Scripture, At that point, all personal relationships

  644. in the church family have to change. We can no

  645. longer spend casual time together with this person

  646. as if things are okay because they're not. They're

  647. not any longer. We can't just hang out with them.

  648. Any time we spend with this person now has to

  649. be about asking them, pleading with them to repent

  650. and return. And the point of cutting off a fellowship

  651. is simple. There is a point to this. The reason

  652. we cut off fellowship. Once this person is removed

  653. from the community of God's people, the hope

  654. is that he or she will go out into the world

  655. and be miserable. That they will find life intolerable,

  656. unbearable. That he'll look at his sin at some

  657. point and like the prodigal son say, what am

  658. I doing? Look what I've lost. I'm going back.

  659. I'm going back to my church family. That's what

  660. we heard in that testimony I read at the beginning,

  661. right? Her life became unbearable, and she went

  662. back. That's the process. That's the process.

  663. Now, one of the questions that often comes up,

  664. and it's a good question, is, all right, well,

  665. what sins? What sins warrant this Matthew 18

  666. process? Does every single sin that we commit

  667. warrant this type of process? Practically, the

  668. answer is no. Right? We'd be so busy. Aren't

  669. you glad? We'd be so busy if we treated it that

  670. way. And Jonathan Lehman, if you know him, author,

  671. Nine Marks author, uses a funny example to make

  672. this point. He says, my wife might privately

  673. rebuke me for selfishly eating all the ice cream

  674. in the freezer, and I might even continue in

  675. that pattern without repenting, but that's probably

  676. not the kind of sin which would warrant public

  677. discipline. You get the point. It's good to categorize

  678. the things which would require the whole process

  679. to be carried out. So our best understanding

  680. is these three words. Any sin that is outward,

  681. significant, and unrepentant. So church discipline

  682. is necessary when first a sin becomes outward

  683. in the sense it becomes common knowledge. Even

  684. among unbelievers, they know what's going on.

  685. That's what we see in 1 Corinthians 5, right?

  686. Paul says it's being reported everywhere that

  687. this is going on. It's an outward sin. Right?

  688. They're living in such a way that causes a disconnect

  689. between what they claim and what the world sees.

  690. It's out there. So, you know, it's got to be

  691. visible, at least with the eyes or the ears.

  692. But then it's got to be significant, meaning

  693. it's serious enough that members of the church

  694. say, okay, I can't reconcile that person being

  695. a believer in the way they're living. It's got

  696. to be that serious. So again, eating ice cream

  697. is probably not going to go, I'm not sure you're

  698. a believer. Because you're eating all the ice

  699. cream in the house. But there are other sins

  700. as well. Things like fear and worry, even bouts

  701. with lust that we struggle with. Those things

  702. are not outward and probably not serious enough

  703. to where I look at you and say, oh, you're struggling

  704. with fear? You're not a believer. Right? So it

  705. wouldn't rise to that level. So it's got to be

  706. outward and it's got to be significant. And then

  707. finally, most importantly, as we looked at last

  708. Sunday. It's only when a person refuses to repent

  709. of that outward significant sin that Matthew

  710. 18 becomes required. Does that make sense? So

  711. this is a wisdom principle, right? It's something

  712. that the church body needs to discern in each

  713. unique situation. It's never going to be just

  714. black and white. By the way, the church discipline

  715. process is never just cut and dried black and

  716. white. It requires wisdom on the part of leadership

  717. and wisdom on the part of the body. I said this

  718. last Sunday, I'll say it again. If you didn't

  719. grow up in a church that practiced discipline

  720. like this, or you've never seen it practiced

  721. as an adult, I know this is hard. I know this

  722. is a difficult teaching, but you should know

  723. that this was once a very common practice in

  724. Protestant churches. It's only over the last

  725. 50 years or so that we seem to have grown tired

  726. of holding each other accountable to Christian

  727. living. Or perhaps other principles have gotten

  728. in the way. Now it's all about, well, we don't

  729. want to offend people or we want to grow our

  730. church. And so we've laid aside a biblical command

  731. because we just don't want to rock the boat.

  732. I've shared this before. I'll say it again. Our

  733. spiritual ancestors, the Protestant reformers,

  734. literally defined a church by three things. Here

  735. they are. Number one, that apostolic doctrine

  736. is rightly taught. Number two, that the sacraments

  737. of the church are rightly administered. And number

  738. three, that church discipline is rightly carried

  739. out. They saw those three things as necessary

  740. to define a church. So what happens today when

  741. a church, first of all, begins to water down

  742. its doctrine in order to please people? Number

  743. two, stops treating the Lord's table as sacred

  744. as it should be. And number three, just shelves

  745. the whole idea of church discipline. Because

  746. it's offensive to some people. What happens?

  747. The church becomes powerless. Are we not seeing

  748. that? The church as a whole in this country becoming

  749. powerless, losing its credibility even in the

  750. eyes of God because we're not doing the things

  751. that God commands us to do. And so we'll do this

  752. at Oak Hill. With tears, it's hard, but we will

  753. continue to be faithful to what Scripture says.

  754. Okay, let's keep going. Go back up to verse 6b

  755. now. This is the final piece to this passage.

  756. Paul says to the Corinthians, don't you know

  757. this? Don't you know that a little leaven leavens

  758. the whole lump or the whole batch of dough? Do

  759. you not know this basic principle? Now, why does

  760. he use leaven? Well, there's two reasons he uses

  761. leaven. One, there's a... A really important

  762. Old Testament connection, which we'll get to

  763. in a moment. But secondly, consider the properties

  764. of leaven. What does leaven do? Cooking people,

  765. right? Come on, chefs, right? It's the yeast,

  766. right, that makes dough rise into bread. And

  767. what's interesting, it has a, get this big word,

  768. permeating property to it. What that means is

  769. leaven first mingles with the dough. then it

  770. works its way throughout the entire batch, and

  771. then it actually modifies the finished product.

  772. It mingles with the dough, it works its way through

  773. the whole lump, and it modifies the dough itself.

  774. Now think about what sin does, unrepentant sin

  775. does when it's injected into a local church body.

  776. It has that same internal spreading influence

  777. that modifies the condition Of the body itself.

  778. That's why he's using this as an example. It's

  779. brilliant. So failing to deal with sin in the

  780. church is catastrophic. Just a little bit of

  781. leaven, right? Goes all the way through the dough.

  782. Just a little bit of cancer in the human body

  783. can kill. Just a little bit of poison dropped

  784. into your food can do its work. A little hole

  785. in the bottom of a boat can sink a ship. A little

  786. bit of corruption, a little bit of false teaching,

  787. a little bit of moral compromise, all those little

  788. amounts have dire consequences. It cannot be

  789. allowed to stay. And because leaven was used

  790. back then as what we call a starter, how many

  791. of you guys do sourdough? Okay. It was a starter

  792. to produce a new loaf of bread. It carries a

  793. whole other idea, and this to me is so profound.

  794. It carries the idea of bringing something from

  795. the past into the present. Something that hangs

  796. around from the past that's brought into the

  797. present. Now consider that principle in terms

  798. of the sins of your past life. Talk about the

  799. old man, the new man, the desires of the old

  800. man that once dominated your thinking. Paul says,

  801. don't bring that old leaven into your present

  802. life. Don't do it. You're a new creature born

  803. by the spirit. Leaven represents what you once

  804. were, but not anymore. Your new life, he says,

  805. is unleavened. Isn't that cool? Don't bring the

  806. old leaven of sin into your new creature life.

  807. You're now unleavened. That's the basis. Look

  808. at verse 7, the basis of Paul's command. He says,

  809. clean out the old leaven so that you may be a

  810. new lump or a new batch. He says, just as you

  811. are, in fact, unleavened. He's screaming at the

  812. Corinthians. You are in fact unleavened. This

  813. is what God says you are. So get rid of that

  814. starter from the past. That sin from your past

  815. that you've been nurturing and holding on to.

  816. You don't need it. You don't want it. Don't let

  817. those old patterns of your unsaved life remain.

  818. Old things have passed away. Let them go. Become

  819. who God says you are. You are in fact unleavened.

  820. Unleavened in Christ, he says. So become that.

  821. When you were justified by God's grace alone,

  822. he declared this to be true. You are unleavened

  823. in my son. Wow, it's beautiful, isn't it? And

  824. when that old leaven seeps back into your life,

  825. because it does, right? We're all in the battle.

  826. None of us are perfect. What do we do? Well,

  827. God has told us what to do. Confess it to the

  828. Lord. repent of it, turn away from it. You trust

  829. in his promise to cleanse you of unrighteousness,

  830. and then you move forward again without guilt,

  831. without shame, because that's not part of your

  832. identity in Christ, and you live by the power

  833. of the Spirit once again. Amen? Continuing in

  834. verse seven, we see Paul reach back into his

  835. Jewish past. He says, for Christ our Passover.

  836. has also been sacrificed. Now, when you first

  837. read that, you're like, that's kind of an obscure

  838. reference, right? But he's connecting it back

  839. to Levin in the Passover festival. Do you remember

  840. what God commanded the Israelites to do in the

  841. Passover? Whoa. I jumped ahead. Was that you,

  842. Casey? Casey. Do you remember this command? To

  843. the Israelites, sacrifice to the Lord your God

  844. a Passover lamb from the herd and do not eat

  845. leavened bread with it. For seven days you're

  846. to eat unleavened bread, which is the bread of

  847. hardship because you left the land of Egypt in

  848. haste. No leaven is to be found anywhere in your

  849. territory for those seven days. The sacrifice

  850. of the lamb now, get this, symbolizes the separation

  851. of Israel from the land of Egypt. The Israelites

  852. were leaving that old way of life. They were

  853. being freed from slavery. So he's like, don't

  854. bring that leaven with you when you leave Egypt

  855. and you go to the promised land. Don't bring

  856. that stuff from your past into your present.

  857. And in the same vein, the sacrifice of Christ

  858. is what separates us from our old way of life

  859. and the present. We too are freed slaves. Do

  860. you realize that? The imagery of this, we are

  861. freed slaves, free from being a slave to sin

  862. and to death. The Exodus has so many applications

  863. to our lives. You start digging into it, it is

  864. rich. A once for all sacrifice has been made

  865. for us. Therefore, Paul says, remove the leaven

  866. from your life. Don't harbor it, don't nurture

  867. it, don't bring it with you. It's in your past.

  868. And when you find leaven, What do you do as a

  869. Jew? You identify it and you remove it. Identify

  870. it, remove it. This is what God has commanded

  871. us to do in our lives as New Testament believers.

  872. By the way, on this Sunday night, tonight, our

  873. covenant members will gather around the communion

  874. table. And this is what we will remember, this

  875. very statement, that Christ, our Passover lamb,

  876. has been sacrificed. And as a church family committed

  877. to living life together in purity, you know what

  878. we're going to do tonight? Once again, we're

  879. going to cleanse the camp of sin. By self -examination

  880. and by confession, we will come together and

  881. we will rid the camp of all sin. And then we

  882. will come to the feast. The parallels are amazing.

  883. We'll celebrate the cross. We will enjoy the

  884. bread and the cup as a sign and a symbol of the

  885. grace that's been poured out upon us. And that's

  886. what we see in verse eight, last verse. This

  887. should be a regular celebration in the life of

  888. the believer. He says, therefore, let us celebrate

  889. the feast. Not with the old leaven, nor with

  890. the leaven of malice and wickedness, but with

  891. the unleavened bread of sincerity. And what a

  892. beautiful summary of the life that we're to live

  893. now that we're found in Christ. A continuous

  894. celebration that says, out with the old and in

  895. with the new. Old things like malice and wickedness

  896. and hatred and division, they go out. And over

  897. time, as the Spirit of God works in us, new things

  898. like sincerity and truth and compassion and humility,

  899. they come in. Friends, our life as followers

  900. of Christ is a continuous process of leaving

  901. behind the old leaven and delighting in who God

  902. says we are and living that life. New creatures

  903. freed from the burdens of the past, free from

  904. slavery to sin. Therefore, let us keep celebrating

  905. the feast. Make church membership a top priority

  906. in your life. Commit to a church family. Ask

  907. for accountability. Voluntarily place yourself

  908. under the authority of the elders and the discipline

  909. of the entire church and come to the Lord's table

  910. in celebration. There's nothing more important

  911. than this. Don't be afraid to come under the

  912. discipline of the church. It is the best thing

  913. for you. It's the best thing for me to know that

  914. you guys will hold me accountable. Let me just

  915. close with just a small snippet from that testimony

  916. where we started. Listen to it again. With all

  917. that we've now walked through, listen to it again.

  918. This is what that woman wrote. The goal of church

  919. discipline is to reveal sin. And when it's done

  920. well, it has the potential to be a rescue boat

  921. in the middle of a raging sea. What seems like

  922. harshness at first is in fact not unkind. It's

  923. a marker in their life that may someday remind

  924. them that God was always at work, that they were

  925. pursued and loved and that there was always a

  926. way to be restored. I'm thankful for those who

  927. were faithful to follow through with my church

  928. discipline. I'm thankful for their words that

  929. didn't deviate from the truth. I'm thankful for

  930. their hearts that never gave up on me and I'm

  931. thankful for the way back home. Beautiful, isn't

  932. it? Is God's design for the church not amazing?

  933. If we would just embrace it and say, yes, Lord,

  934. that's what we want. Let's pray together. Father,

  935. these things can be difficult for us. And really,

  936. Lord, it's only because we live in a culture

  937. that no longer likes hard truths, no longer is

  938. willing to offend for the sake of what you have

  939. said is true. And so Father, as an elder team,

  940. we don't take credit for being more courageous

  941. than anyone else. We just praise you that you've

  942. saved us and that you've given us the conviction

  943. that we need to be faithful to your word. And

  944. so we thank you for that. We thank you you didn't

  945. leave us to guess how to handle these situations.

  946. given us this process so clearly in your word.

  947. Help us, Lord, to continue at this local church

  948. to be faithful, to do the things you've asked

  949. us to do. Because we trust you. We know you're

  950. sovereign. We know you're good. We know that

  951. your design for the church is far better than

  952. anything we would ever dream up. And so, Lord,

  953. thank you for your word, and thank you for your

  954. instructions, and thank you for this church body

  955. who continues to press hard into the truth that

  956. you've given us. Lord, as we study this hard

  957. thing, now we get a chance to respond by singing.

  958. Singing praises to you. So help us to do that

  959. in both spirit and truth as a body together today.

  960. Lord, we thank you for this time. And we praise

  961. you in the name of our Savior, Jesus Christ.

  962. And we all said what? Amen.