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Judging Within | 1 Corinthians 5:6-13
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Well, good morning once again. I'm going to start
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our time together this morning in kind of an
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unusual way. I want to share with you a testimony
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that I read online this week. It's from an anonymous
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woman who wrote a testimony of her experience
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with this thing we call church discipline. And
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it was posted on a well -known Christian blog,
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and I thought it would be a good way to sort
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of get our hearts and minds rolling on this difficult
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subject. And by the way, if you're joining us
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this morning for the first time, sorry to be
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talking about church discipline, but it's an
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important part of Scripture. It just might be
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a difficult morning for you to try to catch up
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with where we've been, but God's sovereign over
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that as well. But let me read this testimony.
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It's a little bit long, but I think it's worth
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our time to understand the issue we're going
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to talk about this morning. Here's what this
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woman wrote. In 2006, I sat at a conference table
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with men from my church and I heard words I never
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wanted to hear. Church discipline. I was in the
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middle of an affair with a married man and the
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life that I had tried to keep buried was now
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being exposed. My sin had found me out and now
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I felt like I was being dragged out into the
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street. Hard words for men who weren't afraid
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to say to me, What you're doing is sin, and this
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is the way out of it. I had no real defense,
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but in that moment, I was blind. I was persistent,
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and I was impetuous, and I was willing to give
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up family, friends, and my reputation for what
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I wanted. So I opted for defense strategies.
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These men were the bad guys. They didn't understand
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grace. I should be free to be me. As we sat around
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that conference table, their faces were somber,
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and I felt the weight of what was coming. They
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laid out my sin. They addressed my wrong choices.
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They contrasted Scripture with my actions and
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gave me a plan for restoration. I had to repent,
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they said. I had to leave the man I was actively
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sinning with and cease any and all contact with
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him, and he would be encouraged to seek reconciliation
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with his wife. I thought about the date we had
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planned for the next day, our visit home for
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Christmas, our plans for the new year. I pictured
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him in my mind. We have only each other now in
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this cold, hateful world, I thought. I can't
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do it. It's not possible. We're too far down
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this road, and I will not turn back. Our love
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is stronger than this. Deep down in my gut, what
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these men were doing felt cruel. It felt unjust.
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They continued to talk to me about how to find
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healing and restoration. There was hope, they
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said, and a way to find freedom. But their voices
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were a drone of truth and I wanted to cut my
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ears off. The discipline was already doing its
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work, revealing my rebellion, helping me feel
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the weight of sin, and it was heavy. Oh, so heavy.
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And there I sat, now sobbing. This was breaking
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me and there was a small distant voice somewhere
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on the outskirts of my mind screaming at me to
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repent. I heard the voice like a distant bell
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in the dark telling me this is the way out. But
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I pushed it away. When the elders told me I had
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a few days to consider what they'd said, what
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I heard was this, an opportunity. I had a few
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days to run. I scanned the faces of everyone
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sitting around that table. These were men who
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were like family to me, but on this day they
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felt like thieves. I thought this will be the
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last time I ever sit across from them as a friend
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and a sister. After that meeting, I did run.
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I ran from New York in the midst of my affair,
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and I was sure I had found a safe haven in North
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Texas. No one would find me there. No one knows
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my name. No one knows my face. We had run off
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into the proverbial sunset, and I was sure we
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were going to find our happy ending. Until I
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got the phone call that letters had arrived on
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the desk of one of the pastors at the new church
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I was attending. I shuddered as he read the names
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of the elders back in New York. Why were they
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following me? I thought. Can't they just leave
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me alone? I was furious. How quickly friends
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become enemies as soon as they get in the way
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of what we want. Fast forward four years. Once
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my life had imploded and I found the bottom of
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the pit, I heard that voice once again. This
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is the way back home. And I found myself. I don't
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know why. I don't even know this woman, but I'm
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getting emotional. I found myself walking back
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into that church in New York, now as a single
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mom with very little to my name. Waking from
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my spiritual slumber, it felt like seeing the
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light of day for the first time in years, and
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then seeing the wreckage of my life. It was devastating.
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The only thing left standing were the arrows
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that pointed me back to where the gospel had
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first broken through my heart and mind. And one
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of the biggest arrows was now pointing me back
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to my old church family. I desperately hoped
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that it hadn't been too long for me to say to
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those elders, I was wrong and I'm sorry. I need
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Jesus, will you forgive me? And praise the Lord,
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I found that I wasn't coming home to a scolding
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finger, but to forgiveness. Church discipline
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had revealed to me the weight of my sin, but
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it also provided a way back home. When I said
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I can't do this anymore, I was met with a family
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that said, finally. And we wept together. Sinner
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to sinner, brother to sister, a messy, snotty
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welcome home on the dusty road to redemption.
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The goal of church discipline is to reveal sin.
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And when it's done well, it has the potential
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to be a rescue boat in the middle of a raging
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sea. What seems like harshness at first, calling
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out a fellow believer is in fact not unkind.
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Instead, it's a marker in their life that may
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someday remind them that God was always at work,
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that they were being pursued and loved, and that
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there's always a way to be restored. It is a
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work of love to see someone running towards a
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cliff and do all you can to stop them from falling
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off. I'm thankful for those who were faithful
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to follow through with my church discipline.
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I'm thankful for their words that didn't deviate
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from the truth. I'm thankful for their hearts
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that never gave up on me. And I'm thankful for
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the way back home. Let's grab our Bibles. Sorry
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about that. That testimony did that to me during
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the week too. And it did it to me again this
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morning. 1 Corinthians chapter five. Last Sunday,
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we looked at verses one through five and we teased
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what was coming this morning. Really, this is
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part two of a single message because this entire
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chapter, all 13 verses, relate to one incident
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in the life of the Corinthian church and how
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it's to be dealt with. So let's back up to verse
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one. We'll read it from there. Again, this is
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all one, what we call pericope in scripture,
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one incident that we need to cover. Verse 1 says
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it's actually reported that there is sexual immorality
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among you. An immorality of such a kind as does
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not exist even among the Gentiles that someone
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has his father's wife, meaning stepmother. You
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become arrogant and have not mourned instead
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so that the one who had done this deed would
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be removed from your midst. For I, on my part,
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though absent in body but present in spirit,
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have already judged him who has committed this
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as though I were present. In the name of our
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Lord Jesus, when you are assembled and I with
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you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus,
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I have decided to deliver such a one to Satan
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for the destruction of his flesh so that his
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spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.
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Verse six, your boasting is not good. I want
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you to stop there for a moment and consider what
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Paul said already. I know this was last Sunday,
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and maybe you need to go back and listen to it
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online. In a state of shock over the perversity
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of the situation there in Corinth, Paul says,
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look, your response to this is the exact opposite
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of what it should be. You're proud of how you
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tolerate sin. You're boasting in this deviant
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version of grace that allows for sexual sin to
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stay in your body and fester there when you should
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be ashamed at the lack of concern that you have
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for the purity of the church and the testimony
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of the church. It's the exact opposite. As we
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go through the rest of the text, I'm actually
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going to go a little bit out of order. I know
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that's strange, but if you track with me, you'll
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see the logic in this. Let me give you an outline
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of where we're headed here. First, we're going
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to see how Paul corrects the church's understanding
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of a previous letter he wrote to them. That's
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verses 9 through 11. Then we're going to see
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him lay out this really important principle about
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who we in the church are supposed to be judging
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and who we're not supposed to be judging. And
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then we'll come back to verses six through eight,
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where Paul exhorts the Corinthian believers to
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take the right steps, the right actions toward
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becoming who God already declared that you actually
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are. Make sense? So drop down to verse nine.
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Let's start there with Paul's correction. Look
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at verse nine. He says, I wrote to you in my
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letter not to associate with pornois, is the
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Greek word, sexually immoral people. Now, this
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is a reference here to what scholars call Paul's
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lost letter. It was written probably sometime
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around the year 52 or 53 to the church there
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in Corinth. But outside of this little comment
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we have in verse 9, we have no idea what else
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Paul wrote about or what became of the letter.
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It's lost to the dustbin of history, which tells
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us God saw fit not to preserve it for us so that
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we could read it today. By the way, there's another
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letter also. that we don't have today that was
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written between our 1 Corinthians and our 2 Corinthians.
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In fact, I'll give you a little diagram because
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you know how I like timelines, right? The third
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letter is actually mentioned. So you see there
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the lost letter, then comes 1 Corinthians. That
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third letter is mentioned in 2 Corinthians 2,
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verse 4, where Paul talks about having made a
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painful visit. to the city of Corinth, and then
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having written what he calls a tearful letter
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that caused the Corinthians sorrow. But what's
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interesting, when you get to chapter 7 of 2 Corinthians,
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you find out that Paul's actually, he hears news
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from Titus, and he's actually filled with joy
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because that tearful letter, while it did create
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sorrow on the front end, it ends up being godly
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sorrow that produced repentance in that church.
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So he's actually grateful for it. So if you do
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the math, our 1st and 2nd Corinthians are actually
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2nd and 4th Corinthians. But I don't want to
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confuse you on that. But when you step back and
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look at all the things that Paul wrote to this
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one church, you start to realize how complex
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his relationship was with this congregation.
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And for those of you in ministry, you know how
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hard it must have been to shepherd a congregation
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like this with so many problems. And we're going
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to see that throughout the rest of this letter.
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So Paul writes this first lost letter to the
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church and he says, do not associate with sexually
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immoral people. Now in verses 10 through 11,
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he's going to clarify what he meant by that.
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Look at verse 10. He says, I did not at all mean
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the sexually immoral people of this world. Or
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with the covetous and swindlers or with idolaters.
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For then you would have to go out of the world.
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But actually, he says, actually, I wrote to you
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not to associate with any so -called brother.
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In other words, a person, a man or woman who
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identifies themselves as a Christian. Don't.
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associate with them if he is a sexually immoral
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person or covetous or an idolater or a reviler
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or a drunkard or a swindler, look at that last
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phrase, not even to eat with such a one. Now,
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don't get lost in the list of sins that Paul
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lays out here. Typical of the writing of that
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day. What he's providing for us is a whole series
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of categories of sins. It's not intended to be
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an exhaustive list or to cover every possible
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sin that should be avoided. These are general
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categories. Sexual immorality, greed, thievery,
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idolatry, drunkenness, slander. And if you break
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down that list, it's interesting. What you see
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is these are sins against three different parties.
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They're sins against one's own body. There's
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sins against other members of the church, and
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most of all, sins against God himself. So it
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covers the whole gamut. And Paul says, don't
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get mixed up with people like this. Do not enter
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into fellowship with them. What did the Corinthians
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hear? They heard what they wanted to hear. They
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basically said, okay, fine, then we will cut
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ourselves off from all the unbelievers in our
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city who do these things. And Paul responds in
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verse 11, no, no, no, no. It's not what I was
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talking about. I was not talking about unbelievers.
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If you were to cut yourself off from all the
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non -Christians who practice these things, I'd
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have to take you out of the world completely.
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You just have to leave the entire world because
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guess what? The things I just listed for you,
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those are the fleshly deeds of people who don't
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know God. And they're all around you there in
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the city of Corinth. And by the way, this raises
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an important principle, not just for the Corinthians,
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but for us. You know, we said it before. We live
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in a city kind of parallel to Corinth in the
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first century right here in Los Angeles. And
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this is the phrase that often gets cited under
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this concept of we're to be in the world, but
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not of the world. Right. And that is sort of
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a conglomeration of a whole bunch of. passages
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from the New Testament and the Gospel of John
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and 1 John, we put that together and we come
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up with that important phrase. And there's truth
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to it. As Christ followers, we are citizens of
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a new kingdom, a whole new realm governed by
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King Jesus. And that means we are not of the
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world in the sense that we no longer belong to
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its virtues, no longer belong to its loyalties
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or power structures. And yet, and yet, we're
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called to remain in the world. True. And for
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a purpose. When Christ saved us, when we gave
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our lives to him, we're told he called us out
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of the world, but then he put us on mission within
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the world, which sounds kind of strange, right?
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I'm going to call you out of the world, but then
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I'm going to send you right back in to be on
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mission in the world. So Paul says to the Corinthians,
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you can't just cut yourselves off from the sinners
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around you. If you did that, you would forfeit
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the mission that God has you on in that city.
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Make sense? To win the lost, you have to spend
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time with the lost. And that is the harvest field
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that God has given you specifically to walk into.
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Now, it's a whole different situation with people
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who live an openly sinful life while at the same
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time claiming to be a brother or sister in Christ.
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That's a different situation. In that case, Paul
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says, you're not to rub shoulders with them.
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You're not to hang out with them. In fact, you're
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to cut off fellowship with that type of a person.
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Don't even eat with them, he says. Why? Because
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they claim they're telling the world publicly,
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I'm under the authority and lordship of Jesus
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Christ, but they're living in opposition to that
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claim, which makes them a liar and a deceiver.
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And that is not somebody you want representing
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Jesus in your community. Now, we'll flesh that
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out a bit more as we go along. And I know at
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first glance it sounds harsh, right? But don't
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get the wrong impression. We don't cut off fellowship
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from this type of person out of anger or out
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of hatred or out of vengeance. There is a great
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purpose to Paul's instruction here. And it's
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actually rooted in both truth and love. And we'll
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get to that as we go on. First of all, Let's
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go to verses 12 to 13 and look at what Paul says
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about this very important principle, which the
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world cannot seem to understand, and that's the
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issue of judging. Who are we to judge and who
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are we not to judge? Look at verse 12. Paul says,
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what have I to do with judging outsiders, people
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outside the church? Do you, Corinthians, not
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judge those who are within the church? But those
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who are outside, God judges, you guys remove
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the wicked man from among yourselves. This is
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a surprising verse for people who claim to know
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what the Bible says but don't really know. And
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part of that is because we as Christians often,
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we make the mistake of running around judging
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everybody out there. We kind of have a reputation
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for that, so we've got to be aware of it. So
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people we call natural men and women. Those who
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don't know Christ, don't profess to know Christ.
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It is not our role to go around judging them.
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And I know that's a hard thing for Christians
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to grasp, right? Because, again, I said it earlier
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this morning, we see so much wickedness out there
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in the world, and our immediate reaction is to
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get really upset about it. This temptation, this
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inclination to run around pointing fingers at
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everybody. Paul's point is the church should
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not focus its energies there at running around
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pointing to the world and saying, look at all
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the sin. Of course there's sin. Of course. What
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else would you expect from fallen people living
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in the flesh without the Spirit of God? What
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else would you expect? And I know it could be
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hard to look at social media or look at news
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clips without saying to yourself, my goodness.
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It is so bad out there. The world is spiraling
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down so fast. Guys, when you feel that, first
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of all, take a deep breath. And remember two
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things. First of all, that God is still sovereign.
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He's still in control. And number two, remember,
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that's what you used to be before God plucked
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you out of that life. True? So we can't get on
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our high horse and judge everybody else out there.
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That's who we used to be. And because these outsiders,
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as Paul calls them, don't claim to know Christ
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and they haven't submitted themselves to the
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word of God, we can't hold them to standards
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that we've accepted. They've not submitted themselves
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to the word of God. We can't hold them to that
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and then judge them for not doing it. They don't
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have the spirit of God. How could they know?
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So we let God handle that. Those on the outside,
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God judges, Paul says. But within the church,
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it's different, right? Paul says we are to judge
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one another. Now let me qualify that. We're not
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to judge wrongly. We're not to judge quickly.
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We're not to judge hypocritically. We're not
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to judge pridefully. We don't judge each other
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in anger or resentment. Our judgment within the
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walls of the church has to be motivated by a
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heart of love. and concern for unity, concern
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for purity, and for one another's spiritual condition.
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So we're to judge, but with the right heart motive.
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Therefore, Paul concludes, because of this, he
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says, the Corinthians have to take action against
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this unrepentant, sexually immoral man. He's
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to be judged by the body and removed from the
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congregation. Remove him from among yourselves,
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Paul says. Interestingly, that is a citation
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from the Torah. So Paul reaches back into his
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Jewish heritage, and he quotes from Deuteronomy
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17. Now remember, in Old Testament times, in
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that day, God manifested his presence in pretty
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spectacular ways in the midst of his people,
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in the camp of Israel. And because of his holiness,
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it was required that the Israelites cleanse the
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camp from all sin. Well, guess what? Paul recognizes
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that similar principle under the new covenant.
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God is still... among his people, now indwelling
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believers in their hearts through the presence
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of the Holy Spirit. And that means, yes, within
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our camp here at this church, under the new covenant,
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we too have to expel that sin from among our
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body. So the parallels are similar, aren't they?
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Are you tracking with me? Okay, good. This is
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important. So here's what I want to do now. We're
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going to do a little excursus for a second on
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the issue of church discipline. Let's pause and
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let's talk about the process because this is
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important. This matters, guys, both for life
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here at Oak Hill and life at any church you might
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go to in the future, to understand the process
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of church discipline. It's important to realize,
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first of all, that the situation we're reading
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about here in 1 Corinthians 5 is not typical.
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of how most cases play out today, typically they
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start out privately and informally. That is not
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the situation here. Remember, Paul says, look,
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I'm hearing reports. It's publicly known about
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what's going on there. Typically, it doesn't
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start out like that today. It's usually private
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and informal. But like the 1 Corinthians 5 scenario,
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in its final stage, church discipline, even today,
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involves removing the sinner from membership
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in the local church. and barring him from participation
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at the Lord's table. This is why we guard the
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table here at Oak Hill. It's important that elders
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do that. By the way, this is just one of the
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reasons why, I'm just going to say this, one
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of the reasons why membership matters here at
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our church or any church. Membership should matter
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no matter where you go in the future, any church
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you're a part of. If a church is going to practice
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church discipline, it first has to have membership.
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Because when a believer commits himself to membership
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in a local church, he makes a series of vows.
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He makes vows to other church members. He voluntarily
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places himself under the authority of the elders,
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and he puts himself under church discipline of
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the entire church body. How does he do that?
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Well, he says, look, I'm signing this covenant
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membership agreement, making these promises and
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saying, yes, please, I want accountability. Every
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church talks about accountability. And we always
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want it until we don't. Right? But this is the
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reality. When you become a covenant member, you
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say, I desire accountability. I want to be put
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under the discipline of the entire church body.
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So membership is essential to this whole process.
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Now, backing up for a moment. By the way, let
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me just say, churches that don't have membership,
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they really don't have standing to discipline
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their members. Why? Because unrepentant sinners
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from the body who haven't first been affirmed
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as believers through that membership process,
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folks who haven't asked for that accountability,
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guess what? We don't have a standing to really
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discipline them out. That's why we continue to
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encourage you guys to come into covenant membership.
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All the beauties of membership, but also this
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issue of your saying to one another and to the
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world, I want that accountability. And maybe,
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I say this often, maybe that's why our church
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remains small. Because not everybody wants it.
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They say it, but they don't want it. They don't
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actually want it. And so sometimes people go,
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you know what? This is a hard church to belong
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to. Okay, praise the Lord. Because we're living
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biblically together. Okay, back up for a moment.
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So the process of church discipline has to happen
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in stages. And of all people, guess who laid
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out those stages for us? Jesus, yeah, that's
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a good answer. That's the Sunday morning answer.
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Jesus did, right? In the Gospel of Matthew, he
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tells us exactly how this should play out. Stage
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one is found in Matthew 18, verse 15, where Jesus
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says, look, if your brother's in sin, here's
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where we start. Take it up with him privately.
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Privately. It says, go and tell him his fault
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between you and him alone. The idea is that we
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handle the situation privately so as to not broadcast
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it and create unnecessary gossip that circulates
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around the church. Now, there might be times
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when the situation is complex and you need to
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get counsel from an elder before you go to your
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brother, but the goal is the same. At the outset
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of this, you want to keep the circle as tight
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as possible, as few people involved as possible.
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So you go humbly to your brother. And you have
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this confrontation about sin. By the way, how
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many of you guys like confrontation? It's hard.
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It's hard, isn't it? But it's biblical. This
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is one of those things, man. Christians say,
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I don't want to get involved. You're not given
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that option. If you follow biblical truth, you're
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not given that option. So we go humbly and we
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confront our brother. Humbly, right? Not with
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a big giant log sticking out of our eye, but
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we go humbly. We don't accuse him right out of
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the gate. We give him the benefit of the doubt.
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And we ask clarifying questions. And we ask him
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to explain. Say, look, I'm having a difficult
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time reconciling your profession of faith with
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the way you're living. The lifestyle that you've
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chosen doesn't seem to line up with your profession
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of faith. And then you give your brother an opportunity
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to explain. It's possible that you've misunderstood
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something. Or you didn't see what you think you're
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seeing. So give him that opportunity. And the
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vast majority of the time, if the confronter
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approaches with that right motivation, the sinner
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is going to respond well because he feels that
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you're here out of love and concern. And Jesus
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says that is the goal. He says, if he listens
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to you, Jesus says, you have gained your brother
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or you've won your brother over. Amen and amen.
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We move forward, right? Your motive is always
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love. It's love for the sinner. It's love for
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Christ. It's love for your fellow members. And
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it's love for the testimony of the church that
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we get this thing cleared up. Amen on stage one.
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Now, if things go poorly and you are convinced
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that your friend is living this sinful lifestyle,
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you might want to go and have multiple conversations
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with him privately first to try to win him over.
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But if he's unresponsive, you have to take it
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to stage two. And that's to bring another believer
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with you, somebody else who cares about this
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person, someone from the church family. Maybe
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bring one or two other people. And you try to
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persuade the sinner to own that sin and to turn
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from it and repent. Jesus says in verse 16, if
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he does not listen, take one or two others along
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with you that every charge may be established
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by the evidence of two or three witnesses. Catch
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that now. This is a very important courtroom.
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principle. Church discipline is not mob justice.
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Church discipline is established by due process
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and a multiple sets of eyes and ears on the situation
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so that it's properly evaluated. Make sense?
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Now, if the sinner still digs in his heels and
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you've had multiple opportunities now to break
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through, it goes to stage three. And Jesus says
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in verse 17, if he refuses to listen to the two
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or three witnesses, Tell it to the church. Okay,
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this is the 1 Corinthians 5 stage, right? Tell
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it to the church. And this is where it gets really
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serious because it goes from private to public.
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Now the sin has to be laid out before all of
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the members of the church. So you don't want
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to get to stage three. Repent of sin, right?
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Repent of sin. Typically, members of the elder
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team who have oversight responsibility in the
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body, they're the ones who lead this step, but
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they should never stand up in front of the congregation
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and speculate about what's going on. They should
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have done their due diligence, gotten the agreed
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upon facts, and then lay the case out before
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the members. Now, that doesn't mean that every
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single gory detail about the sin has to be revealed
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or exposed, but enough needs to be said. Enough,
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and it's a difficult line, enough to be said
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so that the members can grasp what's really happening
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in this situation and feel comfortable with the
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fact that we are voting now to remove this person
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from membership. So not all the gory details,
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but enough so the body understands the situation.
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And this public revelation then kicks off a whole
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nother stage, a time of prayer. and a time of
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more aggressive confrontation of the sinner.
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Now it's not just those two or three witnesses,
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it's the entire church family. We're going to
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go after this person strongly because we love
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him, because we care about his soul. We're all
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going to go after him and plead with him with
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tears to turn from the sin and come back. And
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this is part of the process that cannot be rushed.
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Adequate time needs to be given for people to
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go to the center. Adequate time has to be given
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for God to work through those multiple conversations.
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So that can take months. But if after enough
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time has passed and the center just appears he's
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not going to turn from his ways, then the elders
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of the church step into the role that Paul has
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here in 1 Corinthians 5. They express their judgment
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and they ask the members to follow that lead.
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And this is the heartbreaking point, right? And
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we've gone through it at Oak Hill, and it's the
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hardest thing we have to do as a church family.
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This is the heartbreaking point. Again, Jesus
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explains the final step in verse 17. If he refuses
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to listen even to the church, could you imagine?
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If he refuses to listen even to the church, let
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him be to you as a Gentile. and a tax collector.
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Or as Paul said in 1 Corinthians 5, do not associate
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with him, do not even eat with such a one. Rather,
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he said in the beginning of the chapter, deliver
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him over to Satan for the destruction of his
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flesh so that his spirit might be saved in the
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day of the Lord Jesus. So this is where the local
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church, through tears and sorrow, says to the
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unrepentant believer, you cannot stay here with
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us while you insist on clinging to this sin.
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We are grieved to tell you we can no longer affirm
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your profession of faith. We can no longer say,
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yes, you're a born again believer. This is what
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I described last Sunday as the wielding of the
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keys of the kingdom. The binding and loosing
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process that we see in Matthew 16, we see in
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Matthew 18. And this is a heavy responsibility
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that a church body has. The members of the church
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together bind a believer as they affirm his profession
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of faith and his baptism as he comes into the
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church as a member. And we then invite him to
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come to the Lord's table. That is the binding
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process. And then the loosing process is when
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we remove that person from membership in the
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church and we prevent him from coming to the
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Lord's table because we can no longer affirm
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his profession of faith. Binding and loosing.
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It's been given to the local church. We have
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jurisdiction over these things. Heavy, heavy
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stuff. Now, it's important to understand that
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this final step of discipline does not mean that
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the church is assigning this person to hell,
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eternal hell. We don't have that power. Right?
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The final step doesn't even mean that we're saying
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with certainty that this person isn't a believer.
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That gets tested in the discipline process. What
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we're saying again is, look, we don't have x
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-ray vision to look at a person's soul. We can't
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be certain, but we can say this. Based on your
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lifestyle, based on the fact that you will not
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repent, we can no longer affirm that you're a
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believer. That's the extent of our power. And
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according to what both Jesus and Paul say in
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Scripture, At that point, all personal relationships
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in the church family have to change. We can no
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longer spend casual time together with this person
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as if things are okay because they're not. They're
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not any longer. We can't just hang out with them.
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Any time we spend with this person now has to
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be about asking them, pleading with them to repent
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and return. And the point of cutting off a fellowship
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is simple. There is a point to this. The reason
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we cut off fellowship. Once this person is removed
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from the community of God's people, the hope
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is that he or she will go out into the world
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and be miserable. That they will find life intolerable,
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unbearable. That he'll look at his sin at some
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point and like the prodigal son say, what am
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I doing? Look what I've lost. I'm going back.
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I'm going back to my church family. That's what
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we heard in that testimony I read at the beginning,
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right? Her life became unbearable, and she went
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back. That's the process. That's the process.
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Now, one of the questions that often comes up,
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and it's a good question, is, all right, well,
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what sins? What sins warrant this Matthew 18
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process? Does every single sin that we commit
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warrant this type of process? Practically, the
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answer is no. Right? We'd be so busy. Aren't
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you glad? We'd be so busy if we treated it that
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way. And Jonathan Lehman, if you know him, author,
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Nine Marks author, uses a funny example to make
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this point. He says, my wife might privately
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rebuke me for selfishly eating all the ice cream
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in the freezer, and I might even continue in
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that pattern without repenting, but that's probably
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not the kind of sin which would warrant public
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discipline. You get the point. It's good to categorize
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the things which would require the whole process
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to be carried out. So our best understanding
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is these three words. Any sin that is outward,
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significant, and unrepentant. So church discipline
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is necessary when first a sin becomes outward
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in the sense it becomes common knowledge. Even
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among unbelievers, they know what's going on.
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That's what we see in 1 Corinthians 5, right?
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Paul says it's being reported everywhere that
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this is going on. It's an outward sin. Right?
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They're living in such a way that causes a disconnect
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between what they claim and what the world sees.
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It's out there. So, you know, it's got to be
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visible, at least with the eyes or the ears.
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But then it's got to be significant, meaning
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it's serious enough that members of the church
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say, okay, I can't reconcile that person being
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a believer in the way they're living. It's got
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to be that serious. So again, eating ice cream
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is probably not going to go, I'm not sure you're
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a believer. Because you're eating all the ice
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cream in the house. But there are other sins
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as well. Things like fear and worry, even bouts
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with lust that we struggle with. Those things
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are not outward and probably not serious enough
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to where I look at you and say, oh, you're struggling
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with fear? You're not a believer. Right? So it
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wouldn't rise to that level. So it's got to be
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outward and it's got to be significant. And then
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finally, most importantly, as we looked at last
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Sunday. It's only when a person refuses to repent
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of that outward significant sin that Matthew
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18 becomes required. Does that make sense? So
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this is a wisdom principle, right? It's something
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that the church body needs to discern in each
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unique situation. It's never going to be just
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black and white. By the way, the church discipline
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process is never just cut and dried black and
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white. It requires wisdom on the part of leadership
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and wisdom on the part of the body. I said this
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last Sunday, I'll say it again. If you didn't
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grow up in a church that practiced discipline
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like this, or you've never seen it practiced
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as an adult, I know this is hard. I know this
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is a difficult teaching, but you should know
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that this was once a very common practice in
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Protestant churches. It's only over the last
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50 years or so that we seem to have grown tired
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of holding each other accountable to Christian
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living. Or perhaps other principles have gotten
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in the way. Now it's all about, well, we don't
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want to offend people or we want to grow our
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church. And so we've laid aside a biblical command
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because we just don't want to rock the boat.
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I've shared this before. I'll say it again. Our
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spiritual ancestors, the Protestant reformers,
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literally defined a church by three things. Here
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they are. Number one, that apostolic doctrine
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is rightly taught. Number two, that the sacraments
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of the church are rightly administered. And number
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three, that church discipline is rightly carried
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out. They saw those three things as necessary
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to define a church. So what happens today when
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a church, first of all, begins to water down
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its doctrine in order to please people? Number
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two, stops treating the Lord's table as sacred
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as it should be. And number three, just shelves
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the whole idea of church discipline. Because
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it's offensive to some people. What happens?
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The church becomes powerless. Are we not seeing
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that? The church as a whole in this country becoming
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powerless, losing its credibility even in the
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eyes of God because we're not doing the things
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that God commands us to do. And so we'll do this
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at Oak Hill. With tears, it's hard, but we will
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continue to be faithful to what Scripture says.
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Okay, let's keep going. Go back up to verse 6b
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now. This is the final piece to this passage.
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Paul says to the Corinthians, don't you know
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this? Don't you know that a little leaven leavens
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the whole lump or the whole batch of dough? Do
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you not know this basic principle? Now, why does
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he use leaven? Well, there's two reasons he uses
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leaven. One, there's a... A really important
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Old Testament connection, which we'll get to
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in a moment. But secondly, consider the properties
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of leaven. What does leaven do? Cooking people,
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right? Come on, chefs, right? It's the yeast,
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right, that makes dough rise into bread. And
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what's interesting, it has a, get this big word,
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permeating property to it. What that means is
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leaven first mingles with the dough. then it
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works its way throughout the entire batch, and
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then it actually modifies the finished product.
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It mingles with the dough, it works its way through
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the whole lump, and it modifies the dough itself.
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Now think about what sin does, unrepentant sin
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does when it's injected into a local church body.
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It has that same internal spreading influence
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that modifies the condition Of the body itself.
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That's why he's using this as an example. It's
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brilliant. So failing to deal with sin in the
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church is catastrophic. Just a little bit of
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leaven, right? Goes all the way through the dough.
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Just a little bit of cancer in the human body
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can kill. Just a little bit of poison dropped
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into your food can do its work. A little hole
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in the bottom of a boat can sink a ship. A little
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bit of corruption, a little bit of false teaching,
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a little bit of moral compromise, all those little
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amounts have dire consequences. It cannot be
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allowed to stay. And because leaven was used
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back then as what we call a starter, how many
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of you guys do sourdough? Okay. It was a starter
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to produce a new loaf of bread. It carries a
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whole other idea, and this to me is so profound.
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It carries the idea of bringing something from
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the past into the present. Something that hangs
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around from the past that's brought into the
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present. Now consider that principle in terms
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of the sins of your past life. Talk about the
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old man, the new man, the desires of the old
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man that once dominated your thinking. Paul says,
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don't bring that old leaven into your present
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life. Don't do it. You're a new creature born
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by the spirit. Leaven represents what you once
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were, but not anymore. Your new life, he says,
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is unleavened. Isn't that cool? Don't bring the
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old leaven of sin into your new creature life.
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You're now unleavened. That's the basis. Look
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at verse 7, the basis of Paul's command. He says,
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clean out the old leaven so that you may be a
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new lump or a new batch. He says, just as you
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are, in fact, unleavened. He's screaming at the
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Corinthians. You are in fact unleavened. This
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is what God says you are. So get rid of that
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starter from the past. That sin from your past
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that you've been nurturing and holding on to.
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You don't need it. You don't want it. Don't let
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those old patterns of your unsaved life remain.
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Old things have passed away. Let them go. Become
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who God says you are. You are in fact unleavened.
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Unleavened in Christ, he says. So become that.
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When you were justified by God's grace alone,
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he declared this to be true. You are unleavened
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in my son. Wow, it's beautiful, isn't it? And
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when that old leaven seeps back into your life,
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because it does, right? We're all in the battle.
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None of us are perfect. What do we do? Well,
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God has told us what to do. Confess it to the
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Lord. repent of it, turn away from it. You trust
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in his promise to cleanse you of unrighteousness,
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and then you move forward again without guilt,
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without shame, because that's not part of your
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identity in Christ, and you live by the power
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of the Spirit once again. Amen? Continuing in
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verse seven, we see Paul reach back into his
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Jewish past. He says, for Christ our Passover.
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has also been sacrificed. Now, when you first
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read that, you're like, that's kind of an obscure
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reference, right? But he's connecting it back
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to Levin in the Passover festival. Do you remember
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what God commanded the Israelites to do in the
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Passover? Whoa. I jumped ahead. Was that you,
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Casey? Casey. Do you remember this command? To
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the Israelites, sacrifice to the Lord your God
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a Passover lamb from the herd and do not eat
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leavened bread with it. For seven days you're
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to eat unleavened bread, which is the bread of
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hardship because you left the land of Egypt in
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haste. No leaven is to be found anywhere in your
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territory for those seven days. The sacrifice
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of the lamb now, get this, symbolizes the separation
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of Israel from the land of Egypt. The Israelites
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were leaving that old way of life. They were
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being freed from slavery. So he's like, don't
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bring that leaven with you when you leave Egypt
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and you go to the promised land. Don't bring
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that stuff from your past into your present.
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And in the same vein, the sacrifice of Christ
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is what separates us from our old way of life
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and the present. We too are freed slaves. Do
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you realize that? The imagery of this, we are
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freed slaves, free from being a slave to sin
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and to death. The Exodus has so many applications
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to our lives. You start digging into it, it is
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rich. A once for all sacrifice has been made
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for us. Therefore, Paul says, remove the leaven
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from your life. Don't harbor it, don't nurture
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it, don't bring it with you. It's in your past.
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And when you find leaven, What do you do as a
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Jew? You identify it and you remove it. Identify
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it, remove it. This is what God has commanded
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us to do in our lives as New Testament believers.
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By the way, on this Sunday night, tonight, our
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covenant members will gather around the communion
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table. And this is what we will remember, this
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very statement, that Christ, our Passover lamb,
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has been sacrificed. And as a church family committed
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to living life together in purity, you know what
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we're going to do tonight? Once again, we're
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going to cleanse the camp of sin. By self -examination
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and by confession, we will come together and
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we will rid the camp of all sin. And then we
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will come to the feast. The parallels are amazing.
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We'll celebrate the cross. We will enjoy the
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bread and the cup as a sign and a symbol of the
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grace that's been poured out upon us. And that's
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what we see in verse eight, last verse. This
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should be a regular celebration in the life of
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the believer. He says, therefore, let us celebrate
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the feast. Not with the old leaven, nor with
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the leaven of malice and wickedness, but with
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the unleavened bread of sincerity. And what a
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beautiful summary of the life that we're to live
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now that we're found in Christ. A continuous
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celebration that says, out with the old and in
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with the new. Old things like malice and wickedness
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and hatred and division, they go out. And over
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time, as the Spirit of God works in us, new things
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like sincerity and truth and compassion and humility,
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they come in. Friends, our life as followers
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of Christ is a continuous process of leaving
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behind the old leaven and delighting in who God
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says we are and living that life. New creatures
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freed from the burdens of the past, free from
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slavery to sin. Therefore, let us keep celebrating
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the feast. Make church membership a top priority
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in your life. Commit to a church family. Ask
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for accountability. Voluntarily place yourself
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under the authority of the elders and the discipline
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of the entire church and come to the Lord's table
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in celebration. There's nothing more important
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than this. Don't be afraid to come under the
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discipline of the church. It is the best thing
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for you. It's the best thing for me to know that
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you guys will hold me accountable. Let me just
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close with just a small snippet from that testimony
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where we started. Listen to it again. With all
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that we've now walked through, listen to it again.
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This is what that woman wrote. The goal of church
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discipline is to reveal sin. And when it's done
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well, it has the potential to be a rescue boat
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in the middle of a raging sea. What seems like
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harshness at first is in fact not unkind. It's
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a marker in their life that may someday remind
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them that God was always at work, that they were
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pursued and loved and that there was always a
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way to be restored. I'm thankful for those who
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were faithful to follow through with my church
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discipline. I'm thankful for their words that
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didn't deviate from the truth. I'm thankful for
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their hearts that never gave up on me and I'm
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thankful for the way back home. Beautiful, isn't
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it? Is God's design for the church not amazing?
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If we would just embrace it and say, yes, Lord,
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that's what we want. Let's pray together. Father,
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these things can be difficult for us. And really,
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Lord, it's only because we live in a culture
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that no longer likes hard truths, no longer is
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willing to offend for the sake of what you have
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said is true. And so Father, as an elder team,
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we don't take credit for being more courageous
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than anyone else. We just praise you that you've
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saved us and that you've given us the conviction
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that we need to be faithful to your word. And
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so we thank you for that. We thank you you didn't
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leave us to guess how to handle these situations.
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given us this process so clearly in your word.
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Help us, Lord, to continue at this local church
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to be faithful, to do the things you've asked
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us to do. Because we trust you. We know you're
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sovereign. We know you're good. We know that
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your design for the church is far better than
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anything we would ever dream up. And so, Lord,
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thank you for your word, and thank you for your
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instructions, and thank you for this church body
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who continues to press hard into the truth that
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you've given us. Lord, as we study this hard
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thing, now we get a chance to respond by singing.
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Singing praises to you. So help us to do that
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in both spirit and truth as a body together today.
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Lord, we thank you for this time. And we praise
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you in the name of our Savior, Jesus Christ.
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And we all said what? Amen.