Sermon
The Helper (2)
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What an amazing, probably if I had to guess, one of the most
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famous hymns of all time, Amazing Grace.
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And no matter what tech issues we have, that song resounds in
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our hearts and tech is great until it doesn't work.
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But that grace will lead us home.
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Like I said, this is one of two more sermons we have in the book
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of Hebrews.
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We have this week and then we have next week because Advent
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starts later than normal this year.
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It starts in December.
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Usually it would be normally next weekend.
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But I was told once of a story at this church and I don't
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remember the name and I don't want to say it to get it wrong,
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but that years and years and years ago there was a child that
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was misbehaving in the church.
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And as the parent was bringing them to the back of church, they
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yelled out for all to hear, pray for me, because they knew that
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they were going to be disciplined in some way, shape or form when
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they got out of the sanctuary.
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Okay?
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Now, if that were to ever happen here, that would be amazing
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because it's just hilarious of the understanding that a child
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really knows when discipline is coming.
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And that's another reason why we understand that we as children,
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right, though we are called to have faith like a child, which
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is unquestioning, right, that is a faith that is assured that mom
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and dad love us, that as we though we as we are younger and
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we get disciplined, we still want to make sure that mom and
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dad are there, that we may have a child that when you go out
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maybe on a date night or on a vacation, they want to know when
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you're going to be back to the minute or the date of when
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you're going to be back and that there's a comfort in our parents
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even though they might be disciplinarians.
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Now I understand that me saying that not everybody here had that
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and that not everybody when they think back about their
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relationship with their mom and dad is a positive one.
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And so I don't want to continue with that sermon illustration
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knowing that for some of you that might bring pain, the
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discipline in your life has happened nonetheless.
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Though like the child that understands whatever kind of
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beating that child was going to get, he wanted the church to
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pray for them, there's an understanding of discipline in
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the Bible that really starts from the very, very beginning.
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If we go all the way back to the Garden of Eden, I would think
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that after the fall when Adam and Eve bit the apple and sin
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entered the world that God was pretty upset, that God
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disciplined and he did that via a curse, right?
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That he cursed the ground, all of those things that the fall
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happened, sin now had entered the world, that there is
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something now in our DNA, there's something in Hudson,
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there's something in Addison that wants to always fight
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against discipline, that wants to fight against a father or a
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mother or a parent who disciplines them.
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And even like us, when we were kids, we didn't like to be
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disciplined.
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I don't know anybody that was like, no, I enjoyed being
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disciplined by my parents.
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That discipline is hard, but it's a principle and really an
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attribute in the Scriptures that we see from the very beginning.
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Our confessions even speak about it now, our confessions that
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we hold the three forms of unity here in the church, the
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Heideberg Catechism, the Belgian Confession, the Canons of
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Dorian.
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These are historical writings that are there to help us
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understand God's Word.
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That as a Christian-informed church, we hold to those, that
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myself included, none of us are endowed with all wisdom of all
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things in the Bible, that there were people before us that had
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deep, amazing thoughts of how to make sense of the Scriptures.
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And so we look at Article 32 in the Belgian Confession this
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morning.
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We've been in the Heideberg a lot and the Canons of Dorian,
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the sermon series.
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But the Belgian Confession, Article 32 says, we also
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believe that although it is useful and good for those who
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govern the churches to establish and set up a certain
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order among themselves for maintaining the body of the
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church, they ought always to guard against deviation from
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what Christ, our only master, has ordained for us.
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Therefore, we reject all human innovations and all laws
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imposed on us in our worship of God, which bind and force our
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consciousness in any way.
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We also accept whatever it is proper to maintain harmony and
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unity to keep all in obedience to God.
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To that end, excommunication, it involves according to the word
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of God, is required.
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So you can leave that, that's a really harsh last paragraph.
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But when we talk about discipline in the church, it is
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there for order, that God is a God of order, right?
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That we as a church, we order ourselves in the way of Jesus.
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And that if any of us deviate from that without repentance,
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that's key, that discipline ought to be enacted.
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Just like we are to be disciplined as children by our
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parents and even as adults, we break a rule, there are
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consequences, right?
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There are times that we as adults get disciplined.
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Does it look different?
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Sure.
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Does it feel different?
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Sure.
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But the same thing is happening.
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We are being corrected in life.
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The church has the obligation and in some ways the honor,
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though that's a weird way of saying it, to discipline those
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that deviate from the truth.
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Because it's a truth that as a Christ-reformed church and a,
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what I would call a church of God, a true church, the Belgian
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Confession also talks about that.
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That there are three tenets of the true church.
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The pure preaching of the gospel, right?
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The pure administration of the sacraments and church
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discipline.
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That church discipline is being used in a Godly, God-honoring
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biblical way.
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It's not a three-strike rule and you're out.
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It's not you mess up and you're gone.
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No, it's an understanding that there is grace, a grace that is
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greater than all of our sin.
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The church should reflect that as well.
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However, the church should also correct.
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The church should also maintain unity.
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Now, are we all, each and every person, going to agree 100% on
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everything in the Bible?
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No, we're not.
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Hopefully we agree on the, what I would call the essentials of
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the faith, faith Christ, Christ crucified and was raised from the
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dead.
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It's in Christ that we are saved.
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That is the most important thing.
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But there are other theological things as well that I hope we
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have agreement on.
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Things that are necessary for the faith.
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And when that's not there, that discipline and accountability
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have to happen.
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This isn't an easy topic.
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It's not super comfortable to preach up here on the stage,
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especially as a sinner.
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And so these are the journeys of discipline that we see in the
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book of Hebrews.
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And I find it interesting, I actually find it fascinating that
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in a book that's telling us Jesus is better than everything,
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Jesus is supreme over everything, he is the best,
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he is simply irresistible in life,
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that following Jesus is the greatest thing you could ever do
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in your life, he's ending with discipline.
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This is after the faith sections.
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So he wants us to have defined what faith is, right?
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It is the belief in what we cannot see,
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the assurance that God is there, that we have new life in Christ
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though we are tempted and attacked day in and day out,
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that God is with us.
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Then he even goes on last week and says we're surrounded by
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those that have gone in the faith.
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We can look to Moses, we can look to Elijah,
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we can look to David, to all of these people in Scripture,
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but our ultimate view should be Jesus,
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the author and perfecter, the artist of your faith is Jesus.
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And what I love about that is he doesn't paint with the same
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brush for all of us.
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That I could sit with, I don't know, 250 people here,
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you've all come to faith differently.
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But I find it fascinating, it's faith in Christ alone.
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That if there is another entity, another person,
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another belief that you're putting on par with Jesus,
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then you can't say that.
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You can't say that you have faith in Christ alone if you put
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something else, an ideology, a political system,
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a other belief, a world religion with that.
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Right?
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We believe that you can't say that I believe in Jesus but I'm
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a Buddhist.
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Right?
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That doesn't make sense that we understand that in Christ alone
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our hope is found, our definition is given.
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That there is a difference.
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He is the author and the perfecter of our faith.
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If you think you are, then you're putting yourself on the
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same level as Jesus.
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It's a real dangerous place to be.
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But we know in time and in life we may be tempted to do that.
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For some of you it may be in there right now.
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Your love for a certain potential sin is on par with
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Jesus.
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And pastor, what do you mean by that?
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That you engage that sin week in and week out more than you
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engage Jesus.
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Right?
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If all of a sudden, how do I kind of understand that analogy
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if my wife Carrie and I, if I went a week without talking to
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her, actually you may like that.
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So if I go a month without talking to her and she's going
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to want to know, well then who are you talking with?
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I know you need to talk.
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Babe, you talk to the wall.
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Like what else have you given this affection for talking to?
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That at some point I'm desiring to talk to this or do this or
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whatever this is on par with my wife.
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And all of us say that's completely messed up.
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That is not right.
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Yet we do that with faith and we do that with Jesus all too
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often.
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Our ideology, our sense of identity, ourselves, we can put
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on par with Jesus to the point where we may even say, well,
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I'm going to actually put that, because I believe this, I'm
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going to, Jesus, you have to believe in me like this.
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Any stance you're going to have over Jesus is not a stance, not
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a Christian stance.
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Just like we say a Christian stance is not to have a stance
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over anybody else but to come alongside them in life.
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To come alongside them in unity, even in discipline.
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Now we see there's that statement of excommunication
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and that's a scary word.
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Friends, that is a process.
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Right?
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No elder in a church, well, you know what, I'm just going to
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speak for our church.
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No elder in this church is going to look, A, we don't take
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attendance, but if so and so is not at church on a Sunday, they
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don't come to me or they don't come to the rest of the elders
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who go, it's time to excommunicate.
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We don't do that.
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That excommunication in Matthew 18, Jesus makes it very clear,
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there needs to be a process of offering repentance and
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forgiveness to make relationship with an airing way of somebody,
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a deviation of the gospel.
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And I love how the Belgian Confession uses that word
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deviate, that there's a deviation.
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A deviation isn't, I accidentally did that or, oh,
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man, I just completely messed up and I fell that way.
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A deviation is a premeditated thing that we are going to go
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away from the truth.
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That if there's someone in the church that is trying to bring
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people away from the truth of God, that that is a deviation.
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And it doesn't mean, and you're done.
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No.
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That there is a process of walking alongside them, of
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correcting them.
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And yes, I understand that that puts the elders and myself in a
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very high position, but that is our governance structure.
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There's sinners just like I am, just like you are, but that we
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are called to hold each other accountable for when we deviate
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because it says in the book of Hebrews, chapter 12, if you're
Hebrews 12 chapter mention
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new, we read from the ESV, but you have whatever translation of
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the Bible you might have on your phone or with you.
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Starting with verse 12, we're going to go 12 through 14.
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Again, this is after he is saying, do not despise the Lord's
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discipline because the Lord chides or disciplines those that
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he loves.
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I use the example of my boys.
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I discipline them because I love them.
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Now, they may not feel that way, right?
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Do you guys feel that way all the time?
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No.
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And I'm sure if you asked your kids, they would say the same
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thing, but we discipline because we love.
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We see an error or a deviation in some way, right?
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Like we learned this past week, you don't throw a poop bag on
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the roof and then tell nobody that it's up there.
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Now, you don't even know my kids, but you're looking right
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at them, and I appreciate that.
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I do, yeah.
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Went up on the roof today, found a poop bag.
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How did that get there, right?
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I had one of my sons say, I tried to throw it over the
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house.
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That's not a thing, right?
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How many people is that a thing in your house?
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Like we're going to try to throw poop bags over the house
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and see what sticks.
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No, that's disgusting, right?
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So we learn, we correct.
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That one's fairly easy.
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Hey, don't do that, right?
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Not okay.
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But whatever that is, whatever the deviation from what your and
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your spouse or your family agrees upon that is right in the
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society, right?
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You want to correct that.
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You can go to like law and justice and all of that.
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Now, again, I understand that we all may feel different things
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about different laws being put in place, but the laws are there
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to help correct, right?
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You're doing 80 in a school zone and you get a pretty hefty
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ticket.
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Please don't come to me and go, this is not right.
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You're doing 80 in a school zone.
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At least do it on ridge, not a school zone.
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You know, you will find no compassion from me if you get
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pulled over doing 80 in a school zone.
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But the police officer has every right to correct you and say,
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don't do that.
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That correction and discipline in life is what the writer of
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Hebrews brings up in the beginning of chapter 12.
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He continues with verse 12.
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Therefore, lift your drooping hands and strengthen your weak
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knees and make straight paths for your feet so that what is
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lame may not be put out of joint but rather be healed.
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Strive for peace with everyone and for the holiness without
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which no one will see the Lord.
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So he's continuing, this writer is continuing with this
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understanding that discipline is put in place as a mature
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believer to make things right.
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But what this says is that discipline should strengthen
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you.
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Though in the moment you may feel weak, right, on my mom's
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side of the family, my papa didn't slap with his hand.
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He hit with his belt, right.
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And I was a frequent recipient of that form of discipline.
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Now, you get hit once with a belt and you're thinking, why
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would I ever do that again?
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Like nothing about that felt good.
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And I would love to be able to give testimony that papa only
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had to do it once.
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But that's not true.
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Or, and you all, and maybe you remember my grandma, right,
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Grandma Bonnie Wells, my mom's mom, right, who I get my
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glorious height from as she died at 4'8", 5'7 tall to 4'8",
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Rick, don't look at me like that.
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She was a ninja when it came to discipline, right.
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The two times that I remember vividly being disciplined is
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when we were at the table and my elbows were on the table and
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then out of nowhere what seemed like a samurai sword, it was
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only her fork, was jabbed into my elbow.
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Grandma, what in the world?
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No elbows on the table.
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Grandma, words work, right, but she understood me and understood
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that maybe a little poke in the elbow would get the point
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across and then I will remember, and a lot of you will remember
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this as well.
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I remember in junior high, I would say that in junior high
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the verbal disrespect in my mouth was probably somewhat at
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an all-time high and I remember I said something sarcastic to my
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grandma as I'm standing over her at 5'7", because I haven't
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grown since junior high, at least vertically, all of a
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sudden my mouth's hurting.
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That without me even seeing it, she whacked this part of my
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mouth, this upper lip, and so fast that I really didn't even
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see it coming.
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And I looked at her and I said, grandma, what did you do that
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for?
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And she looked at me dead up and said, because it won't leave
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a mark.
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You say that in 2023, where's grandma going?
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To jail.
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But that was her form of discipline and she's doing it to
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correct that you don't sass your grandma.
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Now, again, grandma, words work, but she chose that form of
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discipline.
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It strengthened me.
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Right?
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It's the people we know in life that when they get disciplined,
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they just flop on the floor.
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They think it's the worst thing ever.
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Right?
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I don't know if you guys ever saw the video or the meme of
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there's a dog chewing, I think it's a bone on a couch and it
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falls off.
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And so funny, the dog looks at the bone and just falls
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backwards.
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Super dramatic, like I cannot believe this bone fell on the
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floor.
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That's not what discipline is supposed to be.
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We're not supposed to wallow in discipline and go, whoa, it's
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me.
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The writer of Hebrews is saying, no, it strengthens your legs.
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It strengthens your arms.
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It strengthens your person.
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Because regardless of your discipline, you have a job to
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do.
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Right?
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You may always joke that if you get in early on a Monday morning
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to work and something bad happens, you're like, I just
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want to quit today.
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No, grow up.
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That sometimes things happen.
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We get disciplined and we are to continue moving on.
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We don't, oh, we're disciplined, so that's it.
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I'm going back to bed.
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No, it's there to strengthen us because we still have a job to
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do.
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I think of the manufacturer, right, who's on the line in a
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factory.
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They do something wrong and they get disciplined for it.
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Maybe they get written up, verbal warning or whatever, and
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they go, that's it, I'm out.
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No, the cars still have to get made.
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There's still a job to do.
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Discipline does not destroy your life.
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Discipline strengthens your life.
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Now, maybe you've had this moment where as you got older,
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you've reflected on your relationship with your mom or
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your dad or whoever was kind of the disciplinarian in your
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family, and one day you went to them and just said, thank you.
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I know I was a handful.
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Hopefully you don't wait until that person's gone, but you
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have that connection moment that you recognize that the
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discipline you had in your life worked, at least in some way,
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because you stopped doing that thing.
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You stopped making that mistake.
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You grew up and you grew out of it.
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That is part of this discipline process of faith.
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That, believe me, the Lord is everlasting and everlasting, and
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the Lord plays the long game with you as he does with me.
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He is willing to discipline you about the same thing over and
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over and over again, but I guess the question I would ask then is
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you're the common denominator.
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What are you going to do differently?
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As a dog returns to his vomit, so we return to our sin.
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And if we're being corrected about something, we should
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really be mature enough to look inward and go, oh, maybe I
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shouldn't do that.
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Yet for some of us that's hard, because the other thing that
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discipline does, discipline exposes.
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That when we are disciplined, when we're called out, when
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we're held accountable, when we didn't make the right choice or
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we hurt somebody or whatever, discipline can expose the sin
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in our life.
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It strengthens us, but it also exposes.
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Verse 15.
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Starts with, see to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of
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God, that no root of bitterness springs up and causes trouble,
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and by it many become defiled, that no one is sexually immoral
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or unholy like Esau who sold his birthright for a single meal.
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For you know that afterward when he desired to inherit the
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blessing, he was rejected, for he found no chance to repent,
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though he sought it with tears.
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You go back to Jacob and Esau, that there is, you know, there
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are problems on both sides.
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Jacob, he tricks his mom, right?
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He tricks the understanding of his parents and he steals Esau's
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blessing, that Esau for a mere thing of soup gives his
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birthright and his blessing away.
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Talk about a giant wah-wah in Esau's life.
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I guarantee he probably would have wanted that back, and maybe
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you have been there in life.
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Maybe you have given away a part of yourself.
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Maybe you have made decisions that has completely changed your
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course of life in your mind.
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And maybe you are sitting here weeks, days, weeks, months,
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years later, and you go, oh, I wish I wouldn't have done that.
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You guys all know the saying, woulda, woulda, coulda, shoulda.
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We look back and we go, man, I shoulda done that.
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I coulda done something different.
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And this is different than thinking you could make it in
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baseball or whatever it was.
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These are decisions that change the course of your life because
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of maybe a mistake you made or something you chose to do.
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And you go back and you go, ugh.
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But the mature believer doesn't go back and go, ugh.
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The mature believer goes back and goes, man, but God still
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found me.
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God's still there.
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God did not give up on me.
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God did not say, and you are out.
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That God still not only desires a relationship with you, but he
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wants to guide your life.
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God is the number one person in the world that could say to each
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and every one of us, told you so, but he doesn't.
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That's grace.
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He doesn't give us what we do deserve, wrath, death, but he
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gives us grace when we don't deserve it.
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None of us have earned it.
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None of us has gone to church as much to earn his grace.
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All of you that are gonna sign up for nursery and actually do
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it, you're not gonna earn the grace of God.
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He gives it to you so you can say, oh, I did sign up a year
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ago.
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I forgot that I did.
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Or whatever it is.
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That he's correcting that in your life.
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Do not despise the Lord's discipline.
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And there he makes it actually very specific.
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He knows that in our society, sexual sin and sexual immorality
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is going to run rampant.
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I think he's right.
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We look at 2023 and it is all over the place.
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That God understands that that is going to be something that
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his followers and his people fall in time and time again in
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a myriad of sins, right?
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And understanding that he's saying stop.
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Come back to me.
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This is what my desire is for you.
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And understanding that forgiveness.
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But it's one thing to understand the forgiveness.
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It's another thing to correct the behavior.
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God, I get it, but I still want to do it.
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Oh, but I know that the hundredth time I do it, you'll
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forgive me that too.
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Dieter Bonhoeffer calls that cheap grace.
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We talked about that weeks ago.
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That's probably an ideology that's going to sting of a false
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conversion.
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That if you think God is just this immoral or moral ATM
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machine that I'm going to step in the sin but I'm going to get
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grace so I keep stepping in the sin so I'm going to get grace,
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that is a very ugly understanding of Jesus.
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Of the grace he actually affords you.
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That he went to the cross to die and then perfect it in you.
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That's not a perfected faith.
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That's taking advantage of faith.
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And so we understand, see it was a good idea.
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We understand that not only does this strengthen us when we get
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discipline, it exposes our need for discipline, especially for
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all those that think we can hide our sin from God.
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Spoiler alert, you can't.
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And the understanding that he's with you every step of the way.
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I remember growing up in youth group when youth group people
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would date and all of that because that happens in the youth
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group.
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Our youth leaders, our youth pastor would always say, hey,
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leave room for Jesus.
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Super awkward.
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And I may or may not have responded but I have him in my
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heart so this is okay as my way of saying no, I want to do these
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things.
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We can't justify it out.
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God is not going to, he understands.
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Jesus doesn't go, God doesn't go, oh, I didn't know Jim was
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going to say that.
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And I know there are a lot of parts of my testimony, my life
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where all, I think what Jesus is doing is the hand and face emoji.
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I get it.
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But he's shown me that and says, hey, grow from this.
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He puts people in by life.
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I remember when internet filters became a thing and I was a
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sophomore in high school and part of my journey was to find
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areas of the internet I probably shouldn't be and I would get
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access denied, right?
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Because that was the, or like, and it was like, okay, I'm going
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to try to fly past this one.
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I remember one night after youth group, and this, guys, a lot of
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you have met my dad.
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He didn't come in to parent, he came in to disciple because I
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was about ready to start high school and my sister was already
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in high school.
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No one was home and it was very strange because I was like, this
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is Sunday night, why isn't anybody home?
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My little brother has to go to bed.
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And he's down by my room in the basement.
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And every time the computer went, eh, access denied, he made
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a copy of it and he printed it out.
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And there was this little mini phone book of access denied.
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And all he said to me was, you've been in places you
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shouldn't be.
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You got to talk about this.
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Oh, believe me, I was grounded.
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Yeah, there's a definitely grounding part of that story.
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I don't think I was able to touch a computer for six months.
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But it was understanding that we have to correct this behavior.
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Because if you go off now as a sophomore in high school and you
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go, let's say, five years, you're going to be here.
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And his worry is that that place on the internet was going to
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become second nature to me.
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And he knew that can't be the case.
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And maybe that's your story.
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Whatever your internet filter is, maybe God is trying to get
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you to understand that you keep going and trying to do that
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thing.
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God is going to give you those messages, those, eh, access
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denied.
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And a mature believer takes that and says, all right, I'll stop.
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But the immature believer says, nope, I'm going to try to go
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right around it.
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Maybe if I spell it this way, we're going to try to justify
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sin.
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And that is a foolishness.
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That's not a maturity in Christ.
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So God's discipline not only does it strengthen, it exposes
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and that hurts.
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When our sin is exposed, right, when that wound of sin is
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exposed, it doesn't feel good.
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We want to get rid of it.
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So we need to accept the Lord's discipline.
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We need to correct that error in our life.
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We need to be held accountable for those things.
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Because the final thing that discipline, the end game, I
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believe of discipline is that discipline emboldens.
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I had a different word for that.
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You can put the slide up.
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And Mike helped me and found a way better word for this.
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That discipline emboldens.
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Verse 18.
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For you have not come to what may be touched, a blazing fire
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and a darkness and a gloom and a tempest and the sound of a
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trumpet and a voice whose words made the hearers beg that no
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further messages be spoken to them.
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For they could not endure the order that was given.
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If even a beast touches the mountain, it shall be stoned.
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Indeed, so terrifying was the sight that Moses said, I
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tremble with fear that you have come to Mount Zion and to the
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city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem and the
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innumerable angels in festal gathering and to the assembly
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of the firstborn who are enrolled in heaven and to God,
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the judge of all and to the spirits of the righteous made
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perfect and to Jesus, the mediator of the new covenant and
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to the sprinkled blood that speaks a better word than the
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blood of Abel.
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That we are emboldened.
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That when we are disciplined, not only are we strengthened by
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the Lord's discipline because it's exposed what is going on
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in our life and saying if you keep following this, not only
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are you a fool, but you're not going to get anything from it.
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You're not going to add this to your life.
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This is going to bring you spiritual death.
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The word I had was reverent fearlessness.
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But I think emboldened makes it so much better that we know
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and we are emboldened that we come to the Mount of Zion.
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We come to the city of Jerusalem which is now Christ
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and we lay down our sins.
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A beginning person of faith, a new believer's faith isn't
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tied up with if we confess our sin, he is faithful and just.
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They don't realize that yet.
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But it's the seasoned person of faith, the mature believer as
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Hebrews says understands and recognizes that when we confess
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our faith, he is faithful and just.
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The new believer may think if I confess my faith, not only
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are you going to be disciplined, God is going to be done with me.
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I likened that to maybe when you were dating, right, and you
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didn't want to bring out your inner crazy or whatever it was
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because you wanted that person to like you for the version of
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the person you wanted to give them.
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But the relationship takes a whole new turn when you feel
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like you can be yourself.
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When you don't feel like the date mask has to be put on.
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When they see you, really see you in the good, the bad,
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and the ugly.
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How do I know?
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Not that I've ever been on a dating site because those weren't
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a thing when Carrie and I got engaged and got married but I
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hear stories of people on dating sites and there's a myriad of
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them, I'm not going to say them because I'll probably say the
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wrong one and you're all thinking of me very differently.
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But what do people put on?
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Do they put all of their failures on there?
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Come date me because I keep trying to find those places on
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the internet, I keep traveling 80 down school zones, I keep
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doing all of these things, please date me.
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No.
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And what person is going to be like, oh, yeah, give me some of
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that?
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No.
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And the boss, they're like, oh, they're a project, I'm going to
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fix them.
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Danger, do not go, do not collect $200.
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Don't do that.
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People put what they think those people want to see.
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Right?
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If you're on some kind of fitness dating app, you're not
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going to, first thing you're going to say is I'm a couch
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potato.
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I love chili and I hate working out.
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Oh, pastor, why do you have to throw chili under the bus?
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I don't know why that came into my, are we having chili
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today?
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I don't know why.
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I have chili in my head.
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But to me couch potatoes eat chili.
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You're welcome.
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But understand, like, we're going to try to put our best
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foot forward in those dating apps, I assume.
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Yeah, I went, I tried out for a triathlon.
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Didn't finish but I did it.
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Right?
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I go to the gym all the time.
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I go to the snack bar but I go to the gym all the time.
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We try to put our best foot forward.
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The immature person tries to do that with God.
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That's what the writer of Hebrews is saying.
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Don't be a failure in your faith.
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Don't try to be what you think people want you to be.
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Be you.
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And if you are encouraged, if you are emboldened, if you are
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exposed and you've learned and now strengthened in the follies
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of your life, lead with that because that's the power of your
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testimony.
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That's what a mature believer does.
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That's why Jesus is the greatest because Jesus says, no, no, no,
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no, no, I'm going to use your good and your bad and your
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ugly to help bring my word of the gospel to the world.
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So you may be coming here this morning and go, God can't use
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me because I do this.
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Oh, no, he can because guess what?
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He already knows you do it.
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So as we turn and we finish this book of Hebrews with chapter 13,
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he's going to tie it up in a nice bow, but I think the ending
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is really here.
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And if Jesus is the greatest thing in your life, live that
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out.
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Because so often we're tempted to live another version of that.
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We're tempted to say, oh, no, I get that.
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Me and Jesus, yeah, we're tight.
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We're BFFs.
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But in the world, I don't want to be seen like this.
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I want people to see the way I want them to see me.
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But the real believer says this is me.
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This is the good, the bad, and the ugly, and Christ died for me.
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I think that makes a lot more sense in a fallen world because
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people are going to, wait, if Jesus can love a Jim Holland
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owner, I'm not nearly as bad as him.
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He can love me or it could be if Jesus can save a Jim, he can
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save a me.
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I'm so sorry that sounded like Mario.
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I am so sorry for that.
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But it's the same holds true.
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That he can save you and he wants to save you and if he has
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saved you, walk that out.
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Not your own version of it.
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Walk out the fact that you are saved by Jesus in your muck, in
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your mire.
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You are saved by Jesus.
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Your sin has been exposed.
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You've been strengthened and you've been emboldened to walk
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that out.
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And he has one more encouragement for us next week.
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Let's pray.