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The True Vine | What's In a Name

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  1. Would you please stand as we read the Word of

  2. God? This is coming from John chapter 15, verses

    John 15:1–11

  3. 1 through 11. John chapter 15, verses 1 through

    John 15:1–11

  4. 11. I am the true vine, and my Father is the

  5. vinedresser. Every branch in me that does not

  6. bear fruit, he takes away. And every branch that

  7. does bear fruit, he prunes, that it may bear

  8. more fruit. Already you are clean because of

  9. the word that I have spoken to you. Abide in

  10. me and I in you, as the branch cannot bear fruit

  11. by itself unless it abides in the vine, neither

  12. can you unless you abide in me. I am the vine,

  13. you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and

  14. I in him, he it is that bears much fruit. for

  15. apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does

  16. not abide in me, he is thrown away like a branch

  17. and withers, and the branches are gathered, thrown

  18. into the fire, and burned. If you abide in me,

  19. my words abide in you. Ask whatever you wish,

  20. and it will be done for you. By this, My father

  21. is glorified that you bear much fruit and so

  22. prove to be my disciples. As the father has loved

  23. me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. If

  24. you keep my commandments, you will abide in my

  25. love, just as I have kept my father's commandments

  26. and abide in his love. These things I have spoken

  27. to you that my joy may be in you and that your

  28. joy may be full. This is the word of the Lord.

  29. Thanks be to God. You may be seated. So I could

  30. hear the disciples talking amongst themselves,

  31. saying, that triumphal entry really triggered

  32. something in Jesus. It's almost as if as soon

  33. as he entered Jerusalem, Jesus was different.

  34. He's even doing some strange things. First, after

  35. raising Lazarus from the dead, Jesus' Lazarus

  36. entourage, they meet him in Jerusalem with palm

  37. branches and they're giving him a kingly entrance.

  38. Then instead of hopping on top of a horse as

  39. a sign of a conquering king, Jesus... The one

  40. whom all things are made chose to make his way

  41. through Jerusalem sitting on a baby donkey. The

  42. optics aren't good, Jesus. Then Jesus is once

  43. again talking about his soon -to -be death. How

  44. he has to be lifted up in order to cast out the

  45. ruler of this world. The crowds who sought to

  46. crown King Jesus even recognized that Jesus'

  47. death statements were off because they knew from

  48. the law that the Christ remains forever. How

  49. can you, Jesus, say that the Son of Man must

  50. be lifted up? See, this statement, along with

  51. the miracles that Jesus performed, really divided,

  52. well, actually confused his audience. His mission

  53. is not just to save Israel from the Romans, but

  54. to save the whole world? And all this happened

  55. in chapter 12. And I dare not speak of what happened

  56. in chapter 13. Well, I already started, so I

  57. guess I might as well. See, Jesus continued to

  58. go on and on about his hour having come, which,

  59. as he stated earlier, had something to do about

  60. his soon -to -be death. Then, at the Passover

  61. dinner party, Jesus does something else unbecoming

  62. of a king. Jesus subjects himself to a foot -washing,

  63. door -tended slave and claims that if he doesn't

  64. wash his disciples' feet, that they will have

  65. no share with him when he comes into his kingdom.

  66. Also at the party, in some... random act of clairvoyance,

  67. he predicts not only that one of his disciples

  68. will betray him, but he openly identifies the

  69. disciple who would do it. He also predicts that

  70. another one of his disciples will deny him before

  71. men. In chapter 14, Jesus first stated that he

  72. was the way, the truth, and the life, and that

  73. no one comes to the Father except through him.

  74. Now when one of his disciples longing to see

  75. the Father asks Jesus to show him the Father,

  76. then Jesus in some mysterious and confusing way

  77. said that the Father was in him and that he was

  78. in the Father? Now the only thing that he said

  79. that made sense was the new commandment that

  80. he issued for his disciples to love one another

  81. just as Jesus had loved them. But even this was

  82. perplexing because just what was special about

  83. Jesus' love for his disciples? Or what was the

  84. nature of the connection that Jesus has with

  85. God the Father? Or this promised Holy Spirit

  86. whom the world cannot receive because it neither

  87. knows him or sees him? Now John... chapter 15

  88. verses 1 through 11 should help clarify these

  89. questions and jesus's overall behavior during

  90. this also special stretch of jesus's time during

  91. holy week now in these verses jesus in his seventh

  92. of seven i am statements shows us four aspects

  93. of him being the true vine and they are the vines

  94. vine dresser the vine's vitality, the vine's

  95. victory, and the vine's vicarious love. Now,

  96. these four aspects of Jesus as our true vine,

  97. they compel us by faith to call him your sweet

  98. vine of mine. It's the title of my sermon today,

  99. Sweet Vine of Mine. Let's look at the vine's

  100. vine dresser in verses 1 through 3. Now, God

  101. the Father's inextricable connection with Jesus

  102. the Son begins to come into focus with the Father's

  103. role as the vine dresser to Jesus' vine. In verse

  104. 1, Jesus stated, I am the true vine, and my Father

  105. is the vine dresser. Now, by calling himself

  106. the true vine, Jesus wasn't saying anything new

  107. that the apostle John hadn't already said about

  108. him in chapter 1. In chapter 1, John said that

  109. in Jesus was life and the life was the light

  110. of men. See, Jesus' disciples would have recognized

  111. the agricultural importance of a vine and its

  112. ability to impart sustaining life and produce

  113. fruit through branches that it spawned. Now,

  114. Jesus stated that it wasn't just a vine nor the

  115. vine, but the true vine. Now, in the phrase the

  116. true vine, the adjective true is meant to modify

  117. the noun vine. Jesus is speaking primarily to

  118. the vine's quality of being the opposite of what

  119. is fictitious, counterfeit, imaginary, simulated,

  120. or pretended. Meaning Jesus, like a vine, is

  121. teeming with life -giving power that sustains

  122. all that came forth from him, or as we'll see

  123. later on, that which would by faith attach itself

  124. to him. Now Jesus says, God the Father is so

  125. intimately connected to him, the true vine, that

  126. the Father, in conjunction with the sun, not

  127. only sustains the branches, but he also preserves

  128. the vine from supplying its precious life -giving

  129. power to non -producing branches. Now, as any

  130. farmer in Jesus' time would know, the vinedresser's

  131. careful attention to an observation of the vine

  132. was pivotal to the vine's life -producing capabilities.

  133. I know we have farmers in our midst, so I want

  134. to be careful about what I'm saying. Now, Andrew

  135. Murray, he said that the chief care of the vine

  136. dresser is the pruning. The pruning is a cleansing

  137. for the vine. Now, in verse 2, Jesus mentions

  138. two types of branches in him. One type is a branch

  139. that does not bear fruit. And the other type

  140. is a branch that does bear fruit. Now the father

  141. takes away the non -fruit producing branches

  142. and he prunes the fruit producing branches that

  143. they may bear more fruit. Sort of like our liturgy

  144. just said. Now the pruning process, as Murray

  145. put it, is not the removal of weeds or thorns

  146. or things. from without that may hinder the growth

  147. of the vine it's the cutting off of the long

  148. shoots of the previous year the removal of something

  149. that comes from within the vine that has been

  150. produced by the life of the vine itself we're

  151. talking about cutting healthy fruit producing

  152. branches sometimes eight and ten feet long leaving

  153. just one to two inches coming from the wood which

  154. is enough to bear The grapes. Here's a real -life

  155. example of the two types of branches. Judas and

  156. Peter. See, Jesus, the true vine, he hand -picked

  157. both Judas and Peter. Judas betrayed Jesus for

  158. 30 shekels. Peter denied Jesus three times. Judas

  159. was not bearing good fruit at the time of his

  160. betrayal, and Peter was not bearing good fruit

  161. at the time of his denial. So what's the difference

  162. between these two men? In John 13, Jesus, after

  163. Satan had entered into Judas, told Judas, what

  164. you are going to do, do it quickly. In Luke 22,

  165. Jesus told Peter, but I have prayed for you.

  166. that your faith may not fail, and when you have

  167. turned again, strengthen your brothers. In other

  168. words, the vinedresser took away Judas and pruned

  169. Peter. Well, what does the vinedresser use as

  170. his pruning tool to cleanse the true vine? Now,

  171. intuitively, we would think it's primarily affliction

  172. and adversity. But in verse 3, Jesus says, already

  173. you are clean because of the word I have spoken

  174. to you. See, the vine dresser's pruning shears

  175. and his loppers are his word. For the word of

  176. God is living and active, sharper than any two

  177. -edged sword, piercing to the division of soul

  178. and spirit, of joints and marrow, and discerning

  179. the thoughts and intentions. of the heart. And

  180. when the word of God makes contact with our hearts,

  181. it either accuses or excuses our consciences.

  182. So it's only appropriate that Jesus only said

  183. what his father, the vinedresser, told him to

  184. say to reveal what type of branches we are. In

  185. John 12, Jesus said, The one who rejects me and

  186. does not receive my word has a judge. The word

  187. I have spoken will judge him on the last day.

  188. For I have not spoken on my own authority, but

  189. the Father who has sent me, he has given me a

  190. commandment what to say and what to speak. It's

  191. as if Jesus' words are the vine dresser's pruning

  192. and cleansing tools. See, affliction or adversity

  193. are merely the means by which the word comes

  194. to life for us. See, if the word of the gospel

  195. has no effect on your life, then there is no

  196. level of affliction or adversity that will bring

  197. you to saving faith in Jesus Christ. You're just

  198. going to simply find yourself taking lap after

  199. lap on the track of hard times, never bearing

  200. the fruit that you were intended to bear. You,

  201. my friend, are a branch that the vinedresser

  202. will take away. However, when you're faced with

  203. affliction or adversity and the word of the gospel

  204. penetrates through the coarse cracks of your

  205. crusty heart, Then the supernatural response

  206. is a person who finally has a sense of their

  207. sin and the mercy of God in Christ. And with

  208. grief and hatred, they turn from their sin and

  209. they turn to Christ with the full purpose of

  210. an endeavor after new obedience. If this is you,

  211. then you, my brother or sister, are a branch

  212. that the vine dresser is pruning. Now this time

  213. of pruning, it's good for you because of the

  214. true vine's vitality that continually supplies

  215. you with what you need to continue producing

  216. the fruit. And that's what verses 4 to 6 say

  217. in regards to my second point, the vine's vitality.

  218. Now, particularly in verse 4, Jesus showed the

  219. importance of the continual life -giving power

  220. of the vine by commanding his disciples to abide

  221. in me and I in you. Now, by abide, Jesus means

  222. to stay, and this is in a given place, a state,

  223. a relation. or expectancy. It also means to continue,

  224. to dwell, to endure, to be present, to stand,

  225. and to tarry. More importantly, it means to remain

  226. as you are, to not become another, or to not

  227. become different. Abide in Christ. Or die. Now

  228. after the command, Jesus further illustrated

  229. the importance of abiding in him in verse 4 with

  230. an agricultural reality. As the branch cannot

  231. bear fruit by itself unless it abides in the

  232. vine, neither can you unless you abide in me.

  233. Abide in Christ or die. And just when you thought

  234. the command and the agricultural reality were

  235. enough, Jesus in verse 5, I'll write, reiterated

  236. what he said earlier. I am the vine. You are

  237. the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him,

  238. he it is that bears much fruit. For apart from

  239. me, you can do nothing. Abide in Christ or die.

  240. In verse 6, all Jesus did was further elaborate

  241. on what happens to the non -abiding, non -fruit

  242. -producing branches. They are thrown away like

  243. a branch and withers, and the branches are gathered,

  244. thrown into the fire, and burned. Abide in Christ

  245. or die. Now, this further look. and to the non

  246. -abiding branches is no doubt an allusion to

  247. hell. The place of unquenchable fire, where non

  248. -abiding branches do not die. They are not consumed.

  249. They are tormented day and night, forever and

  250. ever. See, this is eternal defeat. However, this

  251. is not the destiny. of the abiding branches.

  252. The abiding branches experience the vine's victory,

  253. my third point. See, victory in the vine is God

  254. being glorified in the fruit -bearing prayers,

  255. words, decisions, and actions of his covenant

  256. people. In verse 7, Jesus gave his disciples

  257. some scary assurance. If you abide in me, and

  258. my words in you, then ask whatever you wish,

  259. and it will be done for you. See, here Jesus

  260. writes his disciples and us a blank check to

  261. ask for whatever you wish, and it will be done

  262. for you. Now, you're probably thinking, there's

  263. no way Jesus means what he says. Well, I think

  264. he does. He means what he says because he said

  265. it before. Look with me in some of the ask and

  266. receive verses in the Gospels. Matthew 7, 7.

  267. Ask, and it will be given to you. Seek, and you

  268. will find. Knock, and it shall be opened. Matthew

  269. 7, 8. For everyone who asks, receives. And the

  270. one who seeks... and the one who knocks it will

  271. be opened. Matthew 18, 19. Again, I say to you,

  272. if two of you agree on earth about anything that

  273. they ask, it will be done for them by my Father,

  274. the vinedresser, in heaven. Matthew 21, 22. And

  275. whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive

  276. if you have faith. Well, Jesus, you got me. You

  277. got me. What's the catch? The catch is that you

  278. abide in Christ and his words abide in you. Abiding

  279. in Christ and his words, abiding in you, is the

  280. only condition standing between you and whatever

  281. it is that you desire. Now, when I read this,

  282. when I say this, I get the prosperity gospel

  283. heebie -jeebies. You know, the health. wealth

  284. and prosperity gospel, the name it and claim

  285. it gospel, the blab it and grab it gospel. I

  286. know and I have seen the damage of this brand

  287. of gospel, if you want to call it that. I know

  288. what it can do to a person, to a family, to a

  289. church. and to a society who's on the outside

  290. looking in for some kind of hope in this garden

  291. of Whedon. Yeah, okay, all right, all right.

  292. So we must hold Jesus' words not only in context,

  293. but we must hold them in tension. For example,

  294. if your tendency is to think to ask for wealth,

  295. fame, or riches, Then you also got to remember

  296. that the very same Jesus who said, verse 7, also

  297. said to a rich young ruler who couldn't stand

  298. the idea of pardon from his stuff, that it's

  299. easier for a camel to enter the eye of a needle

  300. than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom

  301. of heaven. Uh -oh. Or how about the same Jesus

  302. who in his Sermon on the Mount said, don't lay

  303. up for yourselves treasures. Here on earth, where

  304. moth and rust destroy and where thieves break

  305. in and steal. Or how about this same Jesus who

  306. says you can't serve God and money? Don't get

  307. me wrong. I'm not saying that Jesus is saying

  308. that being rich is bad or somehow it's a sin.

  309. Rather, Jesus is alluding to how our sin nature

  310. can turn a good thing like money into an ultimate

  311. thing. thus making it an idol. So if you who

  312. are spiritual, if you have Christ's words abiding

  313. in you, then the things you are praying for,

  314. which will be granted, are of a spiritual nature.

  315. Things such as your kingdom come and your will

  316. be done on earth as it is in heaven. See, these

  317. types of prayers and the results that they bring,

  318. as verse 8 says, it serves two purposes. They

  319. bring God glory and they prove you to be Jesus'

  320. disciples. In fact, this is the example that

  321. Jesus gave his disciples to pray. Wanting and

  322. yearning and praying for the spiritual things

  323. of Christ are the result of a pruned faith. Christian.

  324. The true vine is supplying you with his abundant

  325. life, and through his abundant life, you produce

  326. the fruit of an abundant life. This, my brothers

  327. and sisters, is the vine's victory in the Christian's

  328. life. This is the life that Jesus came to secure

  329. for you, Christian, both in the life now and

  330. in the one to come. The only thing I could think

  331. to call Jesus' act of securing this life for

  332. you and me now is divine's vicarious love, which

  333. is my fourth and final point for this text. Now,

  334. verses 9 through 10, Jesus once again showed

  335. his disciples the inseparable nature of the eternal

  336. and qualitatively perfect love between him and

  337. his Father. of the vine and the vine dresser

  338. but the eternal love that jesus and his father

  339. have for one another doesn't terminate between

  340. the two of them jesus brings his disciples into

  341. that love look at it in verse 9 as the father

  342. has loved me so i have loved you see first jesus

  343. talks of the from before The foundations of the

  344. world love that his father had him. The entirely

  345. self -sufficient love that his father had for

  346. him. The I didn't need to create to know what

  347. it means to love, love that the father had for

  348. him. The holy, holy, holy love that the father

  349. had for him. Then Jesus says, with that same

  350. measure of love, so have I loved you. Jesus loves

  351. us with the very same love that his father loved

  352. him with. Let that sink in for a moment. And

  353. then think about John 3, 16. For God so loved

  354. the world that he gave his only begotten son

  355. so that the believing one should not perish eternally,

  356. but have everlasting life. See, God's love led

  357. him to giving his only begotten son. Jesus' love

  358. for the Father led him to voluntarily lay his

  359. life down for the sheep. God the Father's love

  360. and God the Son's love are identical in their

  361. purpose to seek and save at great cost sinners

  362. like you and me to the glory of God the Father.

  363. And the eternal nature of divine and divine dress

  364. is love. It had no beginning. And guess what?

  365. It'll have no end. Christian, your only hope

  366. in life and in death is to, as verse 9 says,

  367. abide in Jesus' love. Abide in Christ's love

  368. or die? Those are your options. Now, this love

  369. that we're talking about, it's not the superficial

  370. and the fickle and the artificial love that the

  371. world has to offer. See, the world's idea of

  372. love... is that it strings us along, and then

  373. it leaves us high and dry, and it has us afraid

  374. to risk the vulnerability that God's love would

  375. have us receive and reflect to one another. See,

  376. the world's love has given God's love a bad name.

  377. Well, how do we abide in Jesus' love? Verse 10

  378. tells us, by commandment keeping. If you keep

  379. my commandments, you will abide in my love, just

  380. as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide

  381. in his love. Earlier in John 14, 15, Jesus said,

  382. if you love me, keep my commandments. The condition

  383. of abiding in Jesus' love is that we keep his

  384. commandments. Commandments. Adam and Eve blew

  385. it with just one commandment. Just how are we

  386. to keep commandments? If Jesus expects us to

  387. keep commandments, we are cooked, baked, fried,

  388. and filleted. See, Jesus knows this, and he makes

  389. a way for us to be able to keep his father's

  390. commandments. He himself fulfills his father's

  391. commandments. Listen to this. Listen to this.

  392. Out of the love he has for his father. See, Jesus'

  393. example of commandment keeping is as verse 11

  394. says, a joy to him. Jesus received joy from obeying

  395. his father, and his joy was full. Now, Jesus

  396. wants to transfer the same eternal joy he felt

  397. in following the Father's commandment to us in

  398. the midst of this fallen condition. It's as if

  399. Jesus is saying the only way for you to experience

  400. the eternal love and joy he experienced with

  401. the Father is if you live vicariously through

  402. him. Abide in Christ or die. Just like a father

  403. or a mother may live vicariously through their

  404. children. You've all seen it. They look silly.

  405. You've seen them on the sidelines. Right? And

  406. I'm ashamed to admit that I'm one of those parents.

  407. But the idea of the father or the mother trying

  408. to live vicariously through their children, you,

  409. Christian, must live vicariously through Christ

  410. to make it in this life. And the one to come,

  411. abide in Christ or die? Well, just how do we

  412. abide in Christ? This brings me to the centrality

  413. of Jesus. How do we abide in Christ? It's through

  414. a theological phrase titled union with Christ.

  415. Union with Christ means seeing your life. as

  416. inseparably bound up or united with Christ's

  417. life, death, burial, resurrection, ascension,

  418. and intercession, otherwise known as the gospel

  419. of Jesus Christ. Union with Christ is by faith

  420. and repentance, living your life through the

  421. lenses of the gospel to experience and enjoy

  422. the eternal love that the vine and the vinedresser

  423. had. from before the foundations of the world.

  424. Union with Christ is prioritizing Jesus above

  425. everything, putting Jesus smack dab in the middle

  426. of everything, and then having Jesus right at

  427. the end of everything. See, this is the type

  428. of focus that Jesus had while he was here on

  429. earth, exemplifying what true humanity is and

  430. complete and utter devotion to God at all times

  431. and in all ways. This is God's standard. You

  432. shall be holy, for I am holy. Now, this type

  433. of focus is truly supernatural. That for us to

  434. have it, it's almost as if we at least have to

  435. die to ourselves and be born again anew. And

  436. at most, we have to literally be God to do what

  437. God says. Now, if you're thinking this, you're

  438. right. This is what Jesus secured for us so that

  439. we could vicariously experience the fullness

  440. of the inseparable love and joy that freely flowed

  441. between the Father and the Son. Are you abiding

  442. in Christ? Well, I submit to you that we are

  443. not, at least not as we should be. How do I know?

  444. Because I heard it through the grapevine. See

  445. what I did there? Yep. Now, by grapevine, I mean

  446. Jesus. See, Jesus knows that without the Holy

  447. Spirit, the Comforter, the one that he promised

  448. to leave us in John 14, 16, we couldn't and we

  449. wouldn't be able to stomach the idea of someone

  450. besides ourselves being in the forefront of our

  451. lives. And I speak of this in moments of our

  452. greatest joy and our greatest despair. It's us

  453. at the center of our universe. In our greatest

  454. moments of joy, pride creeps in. And it deceives

  455. us to think how good we are. How fortunate my

  456. spouse is to have me. How lucky my job is to

  457. have me. How blessed my church is to have me.

  458. In our greatest moments of despair, pride creeps

  459. in and it deceives us, making us think that nobody

  460. knows the trouble I've seen. Nobody knows my

  461. sorrows. Have you ever thought to yourself that

  462. this world would be a better place if you weren't

  463. in it? That everything and everyone that you

  464. touch goes to waste? Ever think you can't be

  465. redeemed? Well, my friend. This could be you

  466. still being at the center of your universe, and

  467. you must surrender from this pride. This pride

  468. is the reason that most of our relationships

  469. suffer. See, pride is the number one destroyer

  470. of marriages, thinking that your spouse exists

  471. to worship you, or even worse, that they exist

  472. to complete you. Come on. Union with Christ is

  473. the life -giving source of marriage. For marriage

  474. is a picture of the saga of redemption between

  475. Christ the bridegroom for the church his bride.

  476. Christ's humility and his obedience is where

  477. we find the security in the traditional vows

  478. that husband and wife say to one another. See,

  479. the biblical prescription is husbands loving

  480. their wives and wives respecting their husbands

  481. as Christ loved and revered the Father. To all

  482. my married folks, you ever go back to look at

  483. your vows? You promise that you'll stay together

  484. for good times and bad times, sickness and in

  485. health, richer for poor, to death do you part?

  486. You know where that comes from? That comes from

  487. Christ's example to his church. And we are called

  488. to be little pictures, little micro pictures

  489. of the macro imagery and reality of what Christ

  490. is doing with his people. Abide in Christ by

  491. vicariously living out your marriage through

  492. the lenses of Christ's example. Pride is the

  493. number one destroyer of our vocations, our jobs,

  494. what we do every day. Thinking that you exist

  495. for your job. Or that you're irreplaceable. The

  496. constant search for validation from your employer

  497. or your employees as if that's the justification

  498. for your existence in this world. Union with

  499. Christ is the life -giving source of our vocations.

  500. See, Jesus' validation didn't come from man.

  501. Jesus' validation came from God the Father. God

  502. the Father? perpetually and eternally recognize

  503. Jesus as the employee of the month. Remember

  504. when he said, this is my beloved son in whom

  505. I am well pleased. And he exalts him and he gives

  506. him a name that is above all names so that at

  507. the name of Jesus, every knee will bow and every

  508. tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord

  509. to the glory of God the Father. Now the biblical

  510. prescription for not feeling validated by your

  511. employer or your employees is to work heartily

  512. as for the Lord and not men. Knowing that from

  513. the Lord you will receive the inheritance as

  514. your reward. Abide in Christ by vicariously working

  515. as one serving not man, but ultimately the Lord

  516. Jesus Christ. Pride is the number one destroyer

  517. of our children. Thinking that you must model

  518. strength and infallibility before your children

  519. to earn the respect that you think you deserve.

  520. Or even worse, failing to disciple your children

  521. out of laziness. I've been there. Or failing

  522. to discipline your children for fear that they

  523. may not like you. Been there too. Union with

  524. Christ is the life -giving source of our parenting.

  525. For parents are to raise their children in the

  526. fear and admonition of the Lord, and children

  527. likewise are to obey their parents. See how the

  528. Bible sets it out for you in those clear terms?

  529. Abide in Christ by vicariously teaching, admonishing,

  530. and obeying all that the Father gives you before

  531. your children. Apologize to your children. Admit

  532. fault and wrongdoing. And then model faith and

  533. repentance to your children because of the free

  534. grace that Christ won for you. It's amazing,

  535. especially in my generation. I have a lot of

  536. friends, a lot of my professional colleagues

  537. who have the bitterness of their mother and their

  538. father as an impediment that keeps them from

  539. coming to Christ. This is true. All because you

  540. can't apologize and say that you were wrong.

  541. What do you have to lose? Your life is hidden

  542. in Christ. In him you live, move, and have your

  543. beings. You're a sinner who's been saved by grace

  544. that's going to keep making mistakes. Why not

  545. model that to your children so that when they

  546. grow up, they don't feel ashamed and prideful

  547. and admit the same thing? Pride is the number

  548. one destroyer of our friendships and common bonds,

  549. especially when you put unrealistic expectations

  550. of what a friend should be on another. And then

  551. you get mad when they don't reciprocate what

  552. you've given them. I've been there. See, union

  553. with Christ is the life -giving source of our

  554. friendships and common bonds. For it was Christ

  555. that said, greater love has no one than this,

  556. that someone lay down his life for his friends.

  557. Abiding Christ by vicariously understanding your

  558. own sinful nature. as well as others, so that

  559. your expectations are realistic even when your

  560. close friends let you down. And if you haven't

  561. been there yet, that day is coming. Your joy

  562. in this life cannot be conditioned upon other

  563. people because that, my brothers and sisters,

  564. is a miserable existence. Believer, allow the

  565. word of God to prune you. Do you know that the

  566. word prune is where we get the word catharsis?

  567. See, a cathartic activity is an activity that

  568. provides psychological relief through the open

  569. expression of strong emotions, such as crying

  570. or screaming or physically exerting oneself.

  571. And with God, your cries and your tears are not

  572. in vain. The Father's pruning is cathartic in

  573. that the whole point of the Christian life is

  574. to bear fruit. And that bearing fruit is proof

  575. that you are one of Jesus' disciples. So the

  576. vine dresser's pruning is good for us. Unbeliever,

  577. if you're not in union with Christ, you're not

  578. bearing fruit. If you're not bearing fruit, then

  579. you're not being pruned. If you're not being

  580. pruned, then you are being prepared to be fuel

  581. for the fire. So believer and unbeliever alike,

  582. turn from your sin and by faith abide in the

  583. vine. My prayer is that you come to see the sweetness

  584. of the vine and you sing. He's sweet. I know.

  585. He's sweet. I know. Storm clouds may rise. Strong

  586. winds may blow. That's the pruning. But I'll

  587. tell the world wherever I go. That I found a

  588. Savior. And he's sweet, I know.