Sermon
Alive in Love
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It's grab our bibles, scrab our bibles and turn to First John chapter three.
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First John chapter three. If you don't have a Bible with you,
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just raise your hand and we're passing those out right now. If you didn't
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get a bulletin on your way into the worship center, just raise your hand,
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keep it up, and we will find you and we'll get you a
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bible or a bulletin. Turn to First John chapter three. And some of
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you are like, what happened to Romans? It's coming, Yeah, I
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hear you, I hear you, it's coming. It's not even coming next
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week though we're taking a three week break from Romans. We'll be back week
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after next. But turn to John, first John chapter three. As and
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as you do that, I want to introduce to you someone you already know.
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You already know mister Seamus Drake as the pastor of Family Discipleship here and
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all the good work that he does with our kids and with our students,
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and serving as an elder at this church, and so many any other ways
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that he serves this congregation. And so if you're like, well, if
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I already know him, why are you introducing him to me? Is because
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some of you still don't know that that plane is on the runway. Man.
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We are sending Shamus out to plant a church, Lord Willing, in
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fall of twenty twenty five. Yeah, okay, we can do that,
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Lord Willing. In fall of twenty twenty five, there will be another church
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in the San Antonio area, like Crossway, and it will be led and
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planted and pastored and shepherded by Seamus Drake. So would you please welcome him?
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Love, I still love when he has to like kind of go at
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mantown. It's just so much fun acting down. Yeah, you have a
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beautiful voice. Search you sound it sounds. It sounds good to my ear,
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and to the extent that we are continuing to sing and praise in the
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name of Jesus, it is. It is a sweet, sweet sound in
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the Lord's ears. As we said just a second ago. We'll be in
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First John chapter three. I'm just gonna pick up where Pastor Eric actually left
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off a few weeks ago when he was talking about practice. If you remember
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that practice, everyone who in verse four, chapter three makes a practice of
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sending also practices lawlessness. The next thing that he's talking about is love and
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the impact of love on us, So I'm gonna read the passage in just
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a moment. But I have over the past few years, and I'm sure
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some of you have gotten to do this yourself. I've had a few what
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I'll call just adventures and parenting and they're you know, they're myriad of these,
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but one that has been particularly impact in my life is teaching now two
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teenagers how to drive a vehicle and in the not in the country right where
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there's like, you know, no people, but in San Antonio, Texas.
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And I'll just be honest with you, my wife fully agreed with this
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statement in first service. If it were just it's good that there are two
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parents in this home. If there were only one of us and she was
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the one parenting these children, we would have hired that out. Like there's
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no way in the world she would have done that. It's just a particular
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kind of stress. Right when I was in high school and I did drivers
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education, I was riding around in one of those cars that the driver's ed
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teacher had to break right in the in the side. Mine doesn't have a
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break. I try. I try to do this all the time when they're
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not always doing the thing that they that they're supposed to be doing. But
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there's just they don't. You don't just come preloaded with an understanding of all
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the things you need to pay attention to when you're driving on the road.
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You have to remind them. You have to tell them that you need to
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turn on a blinker, you need to tell them you've got to plan ahead.
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You have to tell them you have a blind spot because in San Antonio,
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Texas, as often as not, maybe ninety nine times out of one
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hundred, there's an F one fifty in it, and you have to check.
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Like maybe sometimes you just change the lane and be like, oh,
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thank you Lord just so much. But yes, it is true. No
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matter what size vehicle you drive, you can hide an F one fifty in
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your blind spot in San Antonio. It happens, and it happens regularly,
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and so you need to be aware of what some of these blind spots are.
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And that essentially what John is doing in this passage today. He's saying,
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we can be curiously blind to the kind of impact that the love of
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God in Christ should have on us. We can be curiously blind as we
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look at our life, and we're saying, and he tells us to love
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one another. It's really easy for us just to say, I do that
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right, and next next lesson, please, I've already I've already got that
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one down. John tells us that there are some particular ways in which we
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are blind and which we need to just sort of just want to encourage you
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today, just sort of check that blind spot just a bit today, because
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the impact of some of these particular blind spots is bigger than I have ton
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pick up in your life. They could be eternally significant and much more destructive
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than an accident can be. His love should and must always does impact the
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way that we love one another. As we're going to look at this passage
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in John, First John, chapter three, starting in verse eleven, I
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want to point out I want to argue to you today that Christ has laid
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down his life for us so that we would live in his love. Christ
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has laid down his life for us so that we would live in his love.
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Let's look what that love is supposed to look like. In First John
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chapter three, starting in verse eleven, and be reading from the English Standard
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version, follow along with me in your copy of God's Word, for this
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is the message that you have heard from the beginning that we should love one
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another. We should not be like Cain, who was of the evil one
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and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own
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deeds were evil in his brother's righteous. Do not be surprised, brothers,
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that the world hates you. We know that we have passed out of death
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into life because we love the brothers. Whoever does not love abides in death.
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Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer. And you know that no
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murder has eternal life abiding in him. By this we know love that he
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laid down his life before us, and we ought to lay down our lives
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for the brothers. But if anyone has the world's goods and seize his brother
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in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God's love abide
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in him? Little children? Let us not love in word or talk,
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but indeed and in truth. By this we shall know that we are of
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the truth, and reassure our heart before him. For whenever our heart condemns
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us, God is greater than our heart, and he knows everything well love
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it. If our heart does not condemn us, we have confidence before God,
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and whatever we ask, we receive from him. Because we keep his
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commandments and do what pleases him. And this is his commandment that we believe
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in the name of his son, Jesus Christ, and love one another,
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just as he commanded us. Whoever keeps his commandments abides in God and God
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in him. And by this we know that He abides in us. By
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the spirit whom He has given to us. This is the living word of
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the Living God. If you got a copy of the bulletin, or if
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you like taking notes, we're going to take this in roughly three sections here.
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First one is verse eleven through fifteen. God has called us, He's
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commanded us in the way that Christ has laid down his life, that we
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would live in love first, live righteously, and see this. In verse
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eleven through fifteen, he gives us this example. He says, he says,
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don't be like Cain. Don't be like Cain who murdered his brother,
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because we will know instead that we passed from death into life by the love
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that we have for the brothers. The love. This is his message.
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It's not exactly a brand new one. He says, this is his commandment
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that we've heard from the beginning. And John uses that phrase in the beginning
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in this book, he's generally talking about what he means in the beginning of
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the Gospel, in the beginning of when Christ came, that time when he
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heard and saw and touched with his hands Jesus of Nazareth. This beginning of
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Jesus' ministry, but it's an aspect of this message that Jesus had for his
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disciples, which in some way was unique for his time because of the way
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Jesus was loving his disciples. He was revealing a kind of love and exemplifying
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a kind of love that looked like the New Covenant. He was giving them
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a flesh and blood example over the course of his ministry and what it looked
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like to love righteously the brothers and sisters, a servant hearted, self sacrificing,
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laying down your life for the sake of others kind of love, the
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kind of love. And John thirteen, when he gives this command, this
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new command that I give to you love one another, he had just gotten
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done wrapping the towel around his waist and washing his disciples feet, not something
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that you saw the Pharisees and the scribes of his day doing. It was
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unique and the way he was exemplifying. It was love in this way.
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It was this kind of love that was supposed to be the second part of
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the Great Commandment when he says, love Lords of God, with your whole
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heart, soul, and mind, and strength, and love your neighbor as
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yourself, Love God with all you have, and love your neighbor as yourself.
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Love one another like this, And nonetheless, I with you probably am
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a little bit struck with this example that he gives. He says verse twelve,
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we should not be like Cain, who was of the evil one and
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murdered his brother. Now, I've been the last couple of weeks preaching at
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Radiant Church in round Rock, and I just asked, I just asked them,
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like, is murder a thing that you guys have to deal with on
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a regular basis in this body, because I know here at Crossway we're not
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regularly trying to exhort one another. Hey, guys, please stop murdering your
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brothers and sisters in Christ. That's just not something that we have to do.
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So really, Jean, is that are you talking well? I mean,
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obviously he's not talking necessarily about physical murder, although the other kind of
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murder would also be off the table. Just like when Jesus was talking about
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murdering the Sermon on the Mount, we're supposed to remember what he was talking
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about there. In Matthew chapter five, Here, in verse fifteen, he
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says, everyone who hates his brother is a murderer. Now i'd like to
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be I can say that I can't remember the last time that I was tempted
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to actually murder a brother or sister in Christ, praise the Lord. But
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I think that if I said I had never been tempted to hate a brother
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or sister, John would call me a liar, rather than hatred, which
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John says is actually murder. The mark of the one who has passed from
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death to life, who has eternal life abiding in him, is that the
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tenor and tone of our life towards one another is a most remarkable kind of
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righteous love. In two aspects of this love that John further explains. He
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says first that the way we love the brothers is the opposite of evil.
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It's righteous. We love one another righteously, we love them in doing righteous
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deeds, good things for them, And that when we do this, just
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like Cain hated Abel, so also the world is going to hate us,
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because there are a few things in the world that's going to spark hatred and
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murder more than undermining another person's self made self righteousness. If you expose the
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hypocrisy of another human being and there's not a remedy for it, then they
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get angry sometimes, and it happens in the world. Do not be surprised
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then that the world hates you. Consider what Jesus was doing when the around
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the religious leaders. I mean, they got viscerally angry when he would heal
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people. Right, who gets mad when a blind person can suddenly see?
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Who gets mad when a person who is lame can walk? Well, it
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was because he was revealing their hypocrisy. Because as the blind man who was
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healed in John chapter nine, he's talking to the religious leaders and he's like,
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well, we know that God doesn't hear sinners, and yet we know
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some things about this man. His disciples don't wash their hands according to the
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traditions of the elders. They even pluck wheat on the Sabbath. How dare
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they they? Jesus is the one who gives people sight on the Sabbath.
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He casts out demons with the word. He can even raise the dead,
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and his message doesn't align with yours. So what do you guys have to
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say about that? All of a sudden you challenge their authority at the point
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of their self righteousness, and their response is visceral anger. Do not be
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surprised then, that the world hates you. Rather than allow the critique of
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their self righteousness to expose it and to turn them to repentance, they turned
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and they followed him with stones and sought to cancel him in the most brutal
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and efficient way that they could. Just like Cain. Cain saw his brother
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was a living example of in his mind his own rejection before God. And
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thus when he had the opportunity, he was angry and his face fell despite
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the fact that God had warned him soon as crouching at your door its desirous
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contrary to you, you must rule over it. Cain did not do well.
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He did not rule over his anger. He rose up against his brother
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Able and killed him. And John tells us the reason why is because why
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did he murder him? Verse twelve. Because his own deeds were evil and
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his brothers were righteous. Thus Cain was a murderer in his heart before he
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spilled his brother's blood, as are we. And the litmus test of our
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faith, according to this passage, is the way that we love the brothers
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and the brothers and the sisters, not because they're like us, not because
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we like them. Although there will be many times in our life when we
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come across the most delightful people in the world that we've ever met that are
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part of the body of Christ, not all of us are as easy to
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love as Richard. Okay, And so that doesn't mean we're not just going
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to all sort of morph into loving one another in that kind of way,
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right, because the thing is inside this body, it's supposed to look different
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inside this body. We love each other because the thing that's most important to
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us is the thing that's most important to all of us. And therefore we
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love each other for Jesus's sake. J. Carson famously said, very often
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from the perspective of social different pfernances, social stratification, the love of Christians
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for Christians is nothing other than the love of Christians for enemies, for they
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are a band of natural enemies who love one another for Jesus's sake. But
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then you might say, well, who could ever possibly hate their brother or
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sister. How could you hate a brother in Christ? Well? Have you
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ever been slighted or ignored, or passed over or left out by someone over
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something you didn't get put into that text thread? Something that was pretty important
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to you? Maybe a Christian even did this? Have you ever been hurt
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by someone who, maybe in a moment of weakness, actually deliberately said something
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to hurt your feelings in the church? Parents, have you ever had interactions
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with your teenagers who are professing faith in Christ, and yet they treat you
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in such a way that doesn't look like the love of Christ? Teenagers?
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Who have you ever? Have you ever had parents who profess the same Jesus
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who would treat you in such a way that it doesn't look like the love
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of Christ? Friends, have you ever had a theological debate of any kind
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with someone in the church with whom you disagree? However small? I have
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to throw my own lot into this. A few years back, while I
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was the lead pastor our church, there arose such a debate, and over
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the course of a few weeks I had in the way that I was leading,
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I had almost completely alienated one of our staff guys because he was on
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the other side of the debate. There was an issue that we decided and
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this was the way that we were going. And I had handled it,
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you know, as a good leader shouldn't by memos and by side comments and
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just sort of expecting him to just kind of come and lockstep. This is
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what we're going to do, this is what we're going to say, we
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believe, and this is how we're going to walk in these ways. I
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did not handle that well. I had essentially, I had made what amounted
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to ultimatums just fall in line, and at some point it got to be
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so unbearable and for him to work alongside me in the same building for the
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way that I was treating him, that he would just sometimes office in the
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next building. He wouldn't even come into the facility where we were. This
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went on for weeks, and one day, I still believe it was completely
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against my will. I walked down to where he was officing and just asked
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if he had a minute, and I just started talking. I sat down
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in the chair. By God's grace, I just I just wept over the
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way that I had treated him as a brother and treating him harshly and I
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just asked for his forgiveness, And in the course of that those moments,
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that wall that had been built up between us, that seemed to be made
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of granite, crumbled to dust in a matter of seconds, as this man
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who still disagreed with me, loved and decided because of Jesus to forgive me
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in a manner of seconds. What had lasted for weeks and what was a
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legitimate slight became something that just was under the blood of Jesus Christ. And
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neither of our positions changed theologically, neither of us actually we still to this
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moment, to this day, disagree on thost particular issues. Now he is
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a pastor, he's pastoring a church in that city, in that way,
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and we still keep up with one another. And over the course of the
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next several months after that, even though that sort of thing continued to roil
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about in and among our church body, even though he didn't agree with me,
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he was one who would defend me from unjust accusations. He kept loving
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me. And this was the man who loved me in such a way that
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the only excuse use was Jesus, does your love look like that? Frankly,
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I doubt very much whether anyone who can't conceive of ever doing anything but
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loving their brethren and their sister, and has ever done anything more than play
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on the edges of Christian fellowship. When you're invested, you've got skin in
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the game, you'll understand why the Bible consistently commands us to love one another.
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Because we need to be reminded to love one another. Just exhort you
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live in righteous love towards one another, and don't be shocked when it confounds
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the world, because you're going to be continually tempted to go back into those
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social stratifications as soon as you get outside of the walls of this church.
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You're going to be tempted to assume the worst of another person's motives, despite
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the fact that you share the same Jesus. You're going to be tempted to
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forget that Christ is also in the process of sanctifying them too, and you're
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going to be tempted to remember the hurt above all else when you think of
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them. Maybe even just avoid them altogether, but just remember that John here
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commands us not merely not to hate, but that whoever does not love abides
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in death. It's a potential blind spot. Would others, especially those who
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are not in Christ, see the way that you love each other, particularly
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in this church, and be unsettled by how righteous and right it looks.
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Would they see your love and say, well, you must belong to something.
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You must belong to that Jesus guy, because righteous and self giving love
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stinks to those who are committed to abiding and death. And what do they
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say about the way that you live and righteous love towards your brothers and sisters?
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Do you love and live righteously towards them? Secondly, pick it up
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in verse sixteen through eighteen. It's a practical explanation that we ought to live
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sacrificially. God calls us living in love will mean that we live sacrificially.
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He says, by this we know that this is the way that we know
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love, that He laid down his life for us. The shape of our
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love then ought to be just like that, by the way that we love
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one another love the brothers. Verse eighteen is esscially a biblical way of saying
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that when it comes to love, when it comes to love, talk is
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cheap. That means that we know that we are in Christ's love by the
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way that we love like he did when he laid down his life for us.
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And I know for some of us, we're going to read that and
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we're going to say we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers,
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and we immediately have this what Paul Tripp calls this, this little inner lawyer
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who's going to stand up and say, yeah, I do that. I
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love my brothers and sisters. I mean, I do that really well.
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And immediately we're going to point to some examples of maybe up comes the case
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of our love versus love that is true. The opening arguments are fairly sound,
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so we think, because of course, of course we love everybody,
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and we're perfectly willing to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters.
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Just give us an opportunity. But then the defense rests, and the prosecution
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stands and presents us with one potentially contrary piece of evidence. Point one.
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If you who say that Jesus laid down his life for you, you who
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have the world's goods, it's very practical. If the world's goods the stuff
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of life, and you see your brother and sister in need, and you
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close off your heart to them, where you withhold compassion from them. How
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can God's love abide in you? How can you for whom Jesus laid down
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his life not lay down your stuff for your brother and sister in need?
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And how can you say that you've been transformed by the love of the one
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who, when he saw people in need, when he saw people who were
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broken, he had led him to prayerful action, to cries of lament publicly,
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to weeping out loud. Jesus is of love, led him to wash
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his disciples feet and receive, eat with and associate with the lowly and with
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the sinners. And more than that, Jesus wasn't just willing to lay down
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his life, He willingly did so. He came to serve, not to
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be served, but to give his life as a ransom for many. And
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how can we say that we abide in that love if we're not living sacrificially
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for our brothers and sisters, especially when they have needs. How can we
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be so quick to close off our compassion, even for those who are part
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of our church, even for those who are part of our small group.
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The closer we get to knowing one another, the more needs we will know
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and will arise. What do we do and how do we affect help in
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those moments? How can God's love abide in such a one that shows no
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compassion at a visceral, gut level that drives us to action, indeed and
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truth to alleviate their suffering and to supply their need. We usually tend to
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reserve our compassion and our stuff, our material good for the things and for
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the people that we think deserve them the most. And quite often that's us
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ourselves. And that's part of the danger of living in a supposed meritocracy.
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Right. We think of the world's goods or the stuff of earth as those
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things that we have at our disposal. We tend to think of them as
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really ours, as though they really belong to us. When the Word tells
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us that the earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof, we're pretty quick
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to obfuscate the fact that the Bible talks a lot about such things, the
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stuff of life being the proving ground of whether or not we actually trust Jesus.
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And so when we see a brother or sister in need, sometimes we're
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quick to maybe we would be really really quick to go help, but to
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do so in a way that we're assuming some sort of superiority over them.
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Oh, they need our help, right, We would think that maybe there's
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some sort of deficiency in them, deficiency in their character if they work harder,
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if they just you stick it out for a job for a little longer,
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or whatever, that they just need our help because there's somehow less than
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Lord have mercy. That is a kind of love that condescends indeed, but
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not in truth, because it doesn't actually meet the needy brother or sister at
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the foot of the same cross that saved you. Humility is needed here.
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And besides that, even if we were able and we managed to give away
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everything that we had, everything that we had, lay down, even our
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life in the flames, so just that all that we all that was left
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of us was dust and ashes because of our great sacrifice. If it was
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not done in love, Paul says in One Grindian's thirteen, it is nothing.
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It profits nothing, It doesn't count. Paul talks about the kind of
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person who loves in such a way they give away everything they have, They
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even give up their body to be burned, and that's sacrificial love. If
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it's not a company by actual love, in truth, it accomplishes nothing.
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Okay, preacher, So you're saying I have to do something, but that
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if I do something, it may not count. Well, yeah, that's
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actually it's pretty much exactly what I'm saying. I'm telling you that white knuckling
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it is not going to fix it either, because you can become a penniless
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pile of ash and it will gain you nothing if it's done disconnected from truth
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and love in Christ. Why not, Well, just as the tongues of
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men and angels, we could speak with the tongues of men and angels,
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and we're nothing more than a noisy, redundant symbol apart from love, the
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word and talk of love that does an issue. Indeed and truth, love
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is meaningless and empty. That's exactly what he says, little children. Let
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us not love in word or talk, but indeed and in truth. Why
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how is this accomplished? And why does he continue to make this so difficult?
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Because he wants your heart. He doesn't just want to wrestle you into
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submission and make you do the things and give away all the stuff. It's
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not about the stuff. It's about what he's doing in your heart such that
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at a gut level, when you see a need and you have the capacity
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to help. You want to help because you've been changed at a gut level.
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You've been given a new heart, and only he can accomplish that.
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You can't white knuckle your way through it. He's commanding the kind of response
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that only he can affect, a generosity of hand connected to a compassionate heart
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that's been transformed by the sacrificial love of a savior who laid down his life
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for us. He doesn't just want your stuff, He's after your heart so
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that you would do so freely and gladly. For you who have been impacted
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by this love and this sacrifice, the love of God in you is flowing
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out of you in beautiful ways. It's already happening. It happens in this
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church all the time. I've been a recipient of this particular kind of love
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when I had need the church. Step in this church, not just the
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church. You have done this for me in the past, and continue to
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do it for one another on a regular basis, indeed, and in truth,
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and it's a beautiful thing. But for you who've only heard about this
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kind of love, and you're hoping that this love is real, and you
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see it from afar. That's the different thing. The difference is Jesus.
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He's changed heart such that that makes sense, not dollars and cents, but
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since in terms of what He has done for us in the Gospel. Trusting
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Jesus changes you at a heart and guts level. And what you've seen and
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hopefully come to long for in your own life is what we just call faith
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working through love in those who belong to Jesus. And he wants that for
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you, and we who have already experienced this love, we want that for
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you too. We want you to know him as King and be forever changed
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by his life laid down for you. Some of you also, who are
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still just play acting the particular kinds of people that John is talking to play
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acting in love. You're happy to talk about it all day until your words
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are tested in real life. I just want to urge you please stop kidding
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yourself. We're looking just a second. God knows all things. Who do
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you think you're kidding? You're not kidding him. Put your life and your
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hope and whatever else you're holding on to is yours. Fue into his hands.
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Turn from your sin, repent of your self, rule and know for
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real the love that Christ has for you, now, not later, not
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the next time you hear a sermon about it, Now, right now,
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if you hear his voice, lay it down. He wants your heart.
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Living in Christ's love is going to mean that you live sacrificially. Third,
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and finally, living in Christ's love, John tells us it means that we
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will live confidently. Brothers and sisters, I have good news. God is
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greater than your heart. If you are trusting in Christ Jesus, and you're
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loving your brothers and sisters in truth, you can be prayerfully confident that you
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please him. You can ask what you need. And he gives verse nineteen
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points us in both directions, both to what he's already talked about, that
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we will know that we are of the truth, and we are sure our
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hearts before him if we walk in this kind of love, and we will
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know that we are of the truth, if we believe these true things about
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Jesus. Verse twenty three. This is his commandment that we believe, sorry
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that we believe in the name of his son Jesus Christ, and love one
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another just as he has commanded us. God sees and knows everything, and
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he judges it all perfectly. He actually judges perfectly. Every time we don't
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do that. He calls you to put your trust in the name of Jesus
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of Nazareth, the one that John saw and that he touched with his hands,
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that he looked upon, that Jesus, this commandment of God to you
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the work of God. As Jesus responds in John chapter six, like what
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must we be doing to be doing the works of God? He says,
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believe in the name of the Son of God, whom he sins the work
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of God. Is you resting all of your hope in the name of Jesus
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for the forgiveness of sins, the Jesus who died, but who was raised
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from the dead and is alive forevermore that Jesus. It means that I'm not
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hoping in all of the stuff and the things of this earth and this world.
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I'm not hoping in my job. I'm not hoping in myself. I'm
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not hoping in the capacity for me to be able to pull myself up by
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my own bootstraps and get better. I'm hoping completely and absolutely in the name
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of Jesus Christ. That's what that means. And when that's happening. When
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that happens, what will happen? John says, it will happen. We
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will know that we are of the truth and we are heart sure our hearts
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before him is that we will love the brothers and sisters who share Christ with
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us in word, and we will we will love them indeed and in truth,
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not just in word and in talk. Those who love in this way
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will not hate the brothers. They'll be moved at a gut level to love
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them and to respond to them in need, opening His heart their hearts to
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them. That will happen. It will. So if you're in Christ,
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there is evidence for you to see that you may not be paying a whole
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lot of attention to because it's hard for us to look back and say,
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like, in what way am I loving? Particularly like Christ? But he's
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telling you to do that. You will know that you are in his love
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by how you love, So how are you loving? It's to the point
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that if that is not happening downstream of a person's supposed faith in Jesus,
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then the problem isn't downstream, like we just need to sort of fix it
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down here and just get better at it. It's problem that's upstream at the
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source. Because those who love and trust Christ love one another. And those
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who trust in Christ and love one another keep the commandments of God and rest
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in Jesus doing what pleases him. The profession of their faith is shown in
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their love for one another. And every time, every time, that's going
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to impact you in two ways. When your heart condemns you, God knows
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all things and loves you anyway. He who is for you, and send
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Jesus to die and rise so that you could live forever in him. He
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overcomes your self condemnation because you believe you can take Him at his word.
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God knows better than you do. God is greater than your heart. And
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then secondly, you can boldly and confidently relate to Him and abide in this
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God who is pleased with you because you're united to His Son, you're united
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to Jesus, and so you can ask for what you need and He gives.
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Because we're sure to be accepted in and because of Jesus, we don't
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need to be driven to prayerlessness or live in condemnation because we take God at
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his word. As a prospective church planter, that's really encouraging to me.
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Because we're going to have to need We need everything because I keep saying like,
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well, there's not a church yet, which means there's not people,
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which means there's not a place, which means there's which means there's nothing,
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which means we have an idea, which means we have enough because we have
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the God who gives. You've seen it happen. That's why you're here.
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Now, let's pray he would do it again. But there's times in my
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life when certain thoughts interact with the things that I know to be true.
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At least that's me. In my house, we have a tendency to watch
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survival shows from time to time, which is where they go and they drop
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them out in the wilderness and try to get them to survive. All kinds
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of different shows are like this, and I think it's funny. It's kind
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of like it's like a like watching somebody in the zoo. I like to
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go to the zoo. It's kind of fun I personally like to live inside.
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I think that we've gotten to the point where indoor plumbing should should I
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mean that we should never live or sleep outside unless we absolutely must. I'm
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not an outside person. That's just my so a man camp. You'll see
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me at the motel, thank you very much. But I've seen these shows
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enough to know that there are certain things that if they do the thing,
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then it's not going to go well for them. Like if they get there
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and they're like, okay, I need to set up shelter, and like,
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I don't know, I have some opinions about that, but honestly,
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yeah, give or take. But when they get there and they start to
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get thirsty and they find water on the ground and they like, they're like,
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oh yeah, I can just go ahead. No no, no,
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no, no, stop. Don't drink the water, because the dude who
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drinks the water is metavac twenty four hours later. Right. Every time,
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you can't just drink the water. It's not clean. You have to put
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the little linine tablet in it, and you have to wake the requisite ten
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minutes and after that then you can drink the water. You have to be
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patient. But don't think that you can just drink the water. Your heart
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is the same way. The thoughts that go in and around your mind,
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that come into your heart that you interact with on a regular basis, some
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of them come from you. Most of those are generally true, I hope.
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But some of them come from your flesh and try to convince you that
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you need something that you don't need, or that you need something more than
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you need it. Some of those things come from the Holy Spirit praise the
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Lord. And some of those things are scripture that the Holy Spirit brings to
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mind at the exact moment that he needs to praise the Lord, that when
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you can drink. But some of those things are coming from the world.
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Some of those things are coming from other people, and some of those things
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are coming straight from the enemy you have. Just because you're able to listen
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to something that's walking around in between your ears does not mean that it's something
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that you need to think is true. We have biblical warrant to suspect the
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thoughts in our heart and the thoughts that rise up from within us. We
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have to grow up in learning to take every thought captive and making them obedient
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to Christ. To say, along with John, God is greater than our
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heart, because sometimes our hearts do condemn us. Sometimes they condemn us when
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we should be confident in Christ, and then God is greater than our heart.
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There are times when our hearts are actually convicting us, and that's different.
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Let be clear here, there are times when God uses things like this
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to convict us, Like maybe I hope right now the ways in which we
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need to grow in our love towards our brothers and sisters, that could be
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conviction. That's different. But what we must not do is just sort of
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let our minds run amok and assume that if we have a thought, that
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it is true because it came one hundred percent authentically from within us. I
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have to test it. Set your confidence that you can take. Set your
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confidence in the reality that you can take God at his word. He knows
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everything, and he is greater than your heart. Let him draw your heart
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if you're in him. To see the encouragement in the ways that you love
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your brothers and sisters, to believe all the more that you are placing your
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faith in Jesus and not trying to pick yourself up and do this whole thing
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on your own. Learn to ask yourself when you're discouraged, is this my
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mind trying to overcome the truth of God? Or is this a situation where
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I'm being convicted because my deeds aren't aligning with God's commands? It is good
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news. It is such good news that God is greater than our hearts.
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Do not do not follow your heart, follow God, and in so doing,
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He's gonna abide in you, and you're gonna abide in him, and
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you're going to walk into spirit that he gives to us. And learn to
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pray, learn to ask for the things that you know your heavenly father knows
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you need. He wants you to have them, sometimes more than you even
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want them. And you don't ask what are you asking him full? Or
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what are you trusting him for? Just kind of trying to do the best
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you can and getting what you can. What are you not asking him for?
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Because you don't think he cares about it if it matters to you.
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Do you not think that it matters to the Father who loves you? What
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aspect of your life would change if you knew that you were walking confidently in
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God because you knew that he accepted you. God is greater than your heart.
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I'm i ask the band to go ahead and come on up. God
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is greater than your heart, which means that you can you can make decisions
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in his pleasure knowing that He's already accepted you. It means that you can
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care for others out of an overflow of gratitude for what He has already done
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for you. That means that you can speak to your heart knowing that He
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has not condemned you, so you shouldn't either. We can be curiously blind
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to the reality of whether and how we actually love one another. It's a
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lot easier to just assume that you love people than to actually love them indeed
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and truth. And that's why John says these things. The beauty of text
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like this is that it's an opportunity to do what I was trying to teach
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my teenagers to do and still am on a regular basis. There are blind
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spots you need to check just a second, just take your just look over
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your shoulder, check your blind spots, make sure there's nothing there. That's
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what this is. If you're a faithful follower of Christ, you're walking with
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Christ today, I urge you take a look at your love to see whether
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or not those those spaces are clear. You have to check them, rather
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than to assume our sinful hearts are mixed with the inconvenience. You mix our
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sinful hearts with the inconvenience of loving others, and we're going to have opportunities
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to not love because love doesn't come naturally. It only comes super naturally,
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as the transforming love of Christ actually has an impact on us on a regular
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basis. Christ laid down his life for us so that we would love one
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another. May that happen here as much as any other place on Earth.