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Comprehending Compassion

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  1. Jonah four, let me read our sermon text for us.

  2. Then I'm gonna if you would indulge me a quick recap.

  3. Since it's been a second. We're going to recap the

  4. book of Jonah and look at a few things in

  5. Jonah chapter four. But it displeased Jonah exceedingly, and he

  6. was angry. Okay, you see what I mean by needing context.

  7. So Jonah went and preached to the people of Nineveh,

  8. that great city, a wicked, wicked place we'll get into

  9. in a second. And they repented, and God relented of

  10. the judgment he was going to bring. And that's where

  11. we bring where we come with verse one of chapter four.

  12. And it displeased Jonah exceedingly, and he was angry. He

  13. prayed to the Lord, and he said, Oh Lord, is

  14. this not what I said when I was yet in

  15. my country. That is why I made haste to flee

  16. to Tarshish, For I knew that you are a gracious

  17. God and merciful, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love.

  18. And relenting from disaster.

  19. Therefore, oh Lord, please take my life from me. It

  20. is better for me to die than to live. And

  21. the Lord said, do you do well to be angry.

  22. Jonah went out of the city, sat to the east

  23. of the city, and made a booth for himself. There

  24. he sat under its shade till he should see what

  25. would become of the city. And now the Lord appointed

  26. a plant and made it come up over Jonah that

  27. it might shade, might be a shade over his head

  28. to save him from his discomfort. So Jonah was exceedingly

  29. glad because of the plant. But when dawn came the

  30. next day, God appointed a worm that attacked the plant

  31. so that it withered. When the sun rose, God appointed

  32. a scorching east wind, and the sun beat down on

  33. the head of Jonah so that he was faint. And

  34. he asked that he might die, and said, it is

  35. better for me to die than to live. But God

  36. said to Jonah, do you do well to be angry

  37. for the plant? And he said, yes, I do well

  38. to be angry, angry enough to die. And the Lord said,

  39. and here's a punchline this whole four chapter.

  40. Wind up.

  41. You pity the plant for which you did not labor,

  42. nor did you make it grow, which came into being

  43. in a night and perished in a night.

  44. And should I not is it not right for me?

  45. Is it not fitting? It is?

  46. Should I not pity Nineveh, that great city in which

  47. there are more than one hundred and twenty thousand persons

  48. who do not know their right hand from their left,

  49. and also much cattle.

  50. This is the word of the Lord. What kind of

  51. grasp do you have on the compassion of God towards others?

  52. On the compassion of God towards those who have created

  53. all kinds of destruction, who have done wicked things, and

  54. yet God, in his mercy, shows them some version of

  55. his compassion. How do you get a hold of it?

  56. Just to recap Jonah has been sent to this city Ninevah.

  57. This is a wicked bunch of people. This is a

  58. city and a whole culture that's marked by idolatry and oppression,

  59. and corruption and impurity. These are the kinds of people

  60. who skin their enemies alive, wicked. And God says, I

  61. want you to go preach to Ninevah. And Jonah says,

  62. and it doesn't tell that's why at first. Then he

  63. gets on a boat, he heads completely in the opposite direction,

  64. and God turns him around. He sends a storm. Jonah

  65. tells the sailors on that ship. Hey, this storm because

  66. of me. You shouldn't all go down just because of me.

  67. Go ahead and throw me over. It's better that I die.

  68. Sounds familiar. Better than I die. I'm sure God has

  69. done with me. Jonah goes overboard and he's like, this

  70. is just the way I wanted it. I'd rather die

  71. than go preach to Ninevah. And God's like, yeah, no,

  72. such luck, and rescues Jonah and waterboards him for three

  73. days till he repents, and then he delivers him seawater

  74. and vomit. You're going, And Jonah says, I'll go, and

  75. he goes to Nineveh and he preaches the worst sermon

  76. in biblical history forty more days and Nne gets flipped

  77. and they all repent. You say, praise the Lord. That's

  78. not what Jonah said. Jonah said, I knew it. This

  79. is just the kind of God you are. They don't

  80. deserve it. This isn't right. It should not be this way.

  81. And he's ticked, and God says, do you do well

  82. to be angry? We get no answer, but Jonah goes

  83. out to the east of the city, sits down, and

  84. he waits to see if God might change his mind.

  85. Maybe God's gonna nuke him after all. And God says,

  86. I'm going to teach you a lesson very gently. I'm

  87. gonna take a plant. I'm gonna cause it to spring

  88. up so that you come to enjoy it. You're gonna

  89. appreciate it. You're gonna and he does. He's like, this

  90. is awesome. This is good God's creation. I appreciate this.

  91. God's like, okay.

  92. He sends a worm to weather the plant, and Jonah's like,

  93. how could.

  94. You do that?

  95. Why would you do that to your good creation? This

  96. was great, This was awesome, This was beautiful. And God says, okay,

  97. so that was beautiful. And you have compassion. Our ESV

  98. says pity. Other translations will say compassion or care for

  99. or concern over. You have care for this plant. You

  100. didn't create it, you didn't make it grow, you didn't

  101. even appreciate it that long. And if you can get that, Jonah,

  102. and how it's right for you to appreciate it, then

  103. can you get how it is right for me to

  104. have care for all of these people and all my

  105. creation in this big city. It's beautiful, it's awesome, it's

  106. mine and Jonah's answer.

  107. Isn't there The question just hangs in the air.

  108. Because in many ways, whether or not Jonah learns the

  109. lesson of comprehending God's compassion isn't the point. The point is,

  110. do you, dear reader, how do you grasp the way

  111. that God shows his compassion and patience and generosity and

  112. restraint of judgment against those who, unlike us, don't deserve

  113. his grace? Come on, how is a joke? If you

  114. can't see the tongue in my cheek? Grace is undeserved? Well,

  115. how do we then get a grasp of it? I

  116. think that Jonah chapter four gives us some handles, some

  117. handles that if we get a grip on some of

  118. these things, as we do so, we will get a

  119. greater grasp of God's compassion towards his world towards others.

  120. So five handles, five handles that Jonah chapter four gives

  121. us that as we get a grip on these, we

  122. will more and more get a grip on God's compassion.

  123. Here's the first one handle number one, God's questioning of

  124. our anger, God's questioning.

  125. Of our anger.

  126. Let's see it right away in verse sorry. In chapter four,

  127. verse one, Jonah is angry. It's the first response he

  128. has towards the compassion that God shows to nine. It's like,

  129. this isn't right. I'm right, they should be judged. I

  130. knew it all along. And God just asks him, are

  131. you right to be angry? Do you do well to

  132. be angry? And then, of course then God uses that

  133. anger to bring the lesson back around to him when

  134. it comes to the plant. What does the Bible say

  135. about our anger? But says the anger of man does

  136. not accomplish the righteousness of God.

  137. God, we think that we.

  138. Have latched on to something that it's right to be

  139. angry about, and there's such a thing as righteous indignation.

  140. That's true. But what happens is when.

  141. We when we latch on to anger, our field of

  142. view narrows completely into this one thing that we think

  143. we're right about.

  144. And we lose all perspective.

  145. That's why God says the anger of man does not

  146. accomplish the righteousness of God.

  147. You think you're right, but.

  148. You don't have a wide enough view of the things

  149. that I've got going on, you know. Prodigal Son. Prodigal Son,

  150. he tells his dad, you're better off dead to me

  151. than alive. I want my inheritance. Now, he takes half

  152. of his dad's money. He's off into a foreign land,

  153. spends it all in loose living. Finally comes to his

  154. senses and he comes home ragtag. Dad embraces him, throws

  155. him a dance party, and the elder brother shows up

  156. and he's like, they have all lost their minds. This

  157. is not right. It shouldn't be this way. And he

  158. stands outside the party hall. Everybody else is in there.

  159. The dance party is going on.

  160. Boots gots, boots, cats, boots gots, and Dad comes out.

  161. He's like, we gotta do this, and the elder Brother's like,

  162. it's not right.

  163. This grace, this mercy, this compassion. That parable also ends

  164. with a question. We don't never know how the elder

  165. brother responds, but we do know this.

  166. He was.

  167. Angry parable of the unforgiving servant. The king forgave him

  168. a debt of like five billion dollars. And then he

  169. comes across another servant who owes him like fifteen grand

  170. He throttles him.

  171. Pay back what you owe. I'm not letting you off.

  172. I shouldn't let you continue to owe this money.

  173. It should get settled up it. It shouldn't be this way.

  174. He's angry. Anger is a spiral.

  175. That locks our focus in on the one place where

  176. we think we're right, and we just see that so clearly,

  177. as in without context of the big picture, and in

  178. seeing that more clearly, you get more angry and therefore

  179. more focused. And anger just continues to say, I'm right,

  180. I'm right, I'm right about this thing. You know, there's

  181. an entire industry, there's an entire industry that's founded on

  182. provoking your outrage and keeping you so focused in But

  183. the Bible says, refrain from anger and forsake wrath. The

  184. Bible says, anger lodges in the heart of fools.

  185. And as we get ahold.

  186. Of the way that God questions our anger, do you

  187. do well to be angry? And the picture widens to

  188. include what God may be doing in his patience and

  189. his compassion and his grace, we start to get a

  190. greater grasp of his compassion overall, if we'll just get

  191. a handle on what He says about our anger. Here's

  192. the second handle, the second handle that Jonah chapter four

  193. gives us when it comes to getting an overall grasp

  194. on God's compassion is do we have a grip on

  195. God's character in himself? A grip on God's character in himself?

  196. See in verse two. Jonah has a complaint. He's narrowed

  197. his complaint to this thing right here. Isn't this what

  198. I was saying?

  199. I knew you were a gracious God.

  200. Merciful, slow to anger, and abounding insteadfast love and relenting

  201. from disaster. And if you know your old Testament pretty well,

  202. that would sound very specific to you, because these are

  203. the words that God uses himself in Exodust thirty four.

  204. He uses these words himself when he speaks to Moses

  205. to tell Moses.

  206. Who he is.

  207. He says, I am the Lord, and this is who

  208. I am. This is my character. I am a gracious God, merciful,

  209. slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and relenting

  210. from disaster. And Jonah picks that up. He says, I

  211. know who you are, and I'm gonna throw it in

  212. your face, God, because not only have you made a

  213. bad choice, you're a bad God. Your very character is

  214. my complaint.

  215. But he left something out.

  216. Because that's not all God says in Exodus chapter thirty

  217. four about himself he says these very words, and then

  218. he also says, but I will by no means clear

  219. the guilty. And in fact, if you turn to Nahem,

  220. you don't have to. I'll read it to you. It's

  221. probably just over. Like for me, it's like seven pages.

  222. Nahem is the prophet that follows Jonah.

  223. Up.

  224. He's just a few generations after Jonah. And guess who

  225. he prophesies about.

  226. Anybody want to take guess.

  227. You'll see in verse one of the book of Nahem

  228. an oracle.

  229. Concern learning Ninevah.

  230. You see what happened amongst the people of Ninevah is

  231. they genuinely repented as best they knew how I mean,

  232. these people did not know their right hand from the left.

  233. They were wicked, They did not know anything about God.

  234. But they're like, we want as best we know how

  235. to bend the knee to the living God. We're gonna repent,

  236. We're going to fast, We're gonna make our cows fast

  237. to whatever it takes. But within a few generations they

  238. were back to their own way, old ways.

  239. And Nahem says, let me tell you about my God

  240. verse three. The Lord is.

  241. Slow to anger and greater in power, and the Lord

  242. will by no means clear the guilty. And God brought

  243. the judgment that Jonah wanted to see so badly. He

  244. brought the judgment on the people of Nineveh for their sin.

  245. See is God gracious or.

  246. Is he just? Yes? And sometimes our sense of what

  247. is right narrows our field of.

  248. Vision on one aspect of God's character. But when and

  249. as we get a grasp on the perfection of who

  250. God is in his character, as we see all of

  251. these characteristics of God, these qualities, these attributes that he

  252. holds in himself are perfectly as Edwards would say, perfectly concatenated.

  253. He is perfect.

  254. And when we get a hold of that, we get

  255. a long way down the road in getting a hold

  256. of God's good right. It should be compassion towards others.

  257. Here's the third handle. Here's the third handle. We would

  258. get a good and better grasp of God's compassion if

  259. we got to handle on this God's prerogative, God's prerogative

  260. for patience and generosity, God's prerogative for patience and generosity.

  261. In verse ten, he says this to Jonah, you pity

  262. the plant. You have compassion and care for and concern

  263. over the plant for which you did not labor, nor

  264. did you make it grow, which came into being in

  265. a night and perished in a night. You think you're

  266. in charge. I made that plant grow. You think you're

  267. in charge. I sent that storm, I appointed that fish,

  268. I appointed that plant, I appointed that worm, I appointed

  269. that wind.

  270. I am in charge.

  271. It is my prerogative to show patience and compassion and

  272. generosity as I see fit. You're appreciating this plant, and

  273. well you should. But I made this plant grow, and

  274. I made that city grow. I made Austin, Texas grow.

  275. I made Iran grow, and the gauze of Strip.

  276. And every.

  277. Person whom you look down on because of their perversion,

  278. I created them, and I made them grow. And it

  279. is my sovereign prerogative how I will show them patience

  280. and generosity. Peter says, the Lord isn't slow, he's patient.

  281. He is not wishing that anyone would perish but come

  282. to repentance. Patience is God's prerogative, and he says, he says,

  283. to the laborers, remember the laborers, the early laborers who

  284. came and they worked for the master of the vineyard.

  285. And he said, I'll pay you a Denarius, and they're like, great.

  286. We love it.

  287. Until it got to the end of the day and

  288. he had hired others throughout the day, and he paid

  289. them also the same.

  290. They were angry. He says, get out of here with

  291. your anger. Am I not free to do with my

  292. own money? Are you? Are you?

  293. Are you begrudging my generosity? It is my prerogative to

  294. be generous. How do we feel about a man who

  295. destroys his marriage through adultery, and in fact destroys her

  296. marriage too because of the woman that he was cheating with.

  297. So he destroys his marriage, wrecks that home, and then

  298. marries a third woman, and then comes to repentance and

  299. faith and humbly thrives as a Christian husband and then father.

  300. I mean, he's left destruction in his wake. None of

  301. us left destruction in their wake. And though we mourn

  302. that destruction, do we rejoice over the compassion of God

  303. in his life or do we resent it? Because whether

  304. you come early to Christ or you come late to Christ,

  305. each one of us comes by way of God's own

  306. patience and generosity, not our own works.

  307. Lest anyone should boast.

  308. The only thing we contribute to our justification is the

  309. sin that makes it necessary. And as we get a

  310. handle on God's prerogative for patients, God's prerogative for generosity,

  311. we will start to get a grasp on his compassion

  312. not just to us, but to others.

  313. Fourth handle.

  314. The fourth handle, I think that Jonah chapter four presents

  315. to us is God's image in people, God's image in

  316. other people.

  317. In verse.

  318. He's already said to Jonah, you pitied the plant. You

  319. were affectionate towards this my creation. You're appreciative of this,

  320. You're like, this is beautiful, this is awesome. But there

  321. is one hundred and twenty thousand people who are created

  322. in my image here, And do you not see how

  323. it is right for me to pity, for me to

  324. have compassion on one hundred and twenty thousand image bearers

  325. as well as the rest of my creation that's present here.

  326. This is awesome, This is beautiful. Don't think for a

  327. second God doesn't see none of his sin. Of course,

  328. he sees none of his sin, But what he also

  329. sees is his image. Do you know what God sees

  330. when he looks at people entrenched in lifestyles of sexual perversion?

  331. Do you know what God sees when he sees nations

  332. of people making war on the peaceful.

  333. Or taking terrorist action.

  334. Do you know what God sees when he looks at

  335. people and activists who are promoting an ideology that undermines

  336. families and harms children.

  337. Don't think for a second. He doesn't see their sin.

  338. Just like he sees although the less obvious sin. But

  339. what he also sees is his very good creat What

  340. he also sees is his image bearers.

  341. What do you see?

  342. This isn't about being light on sin. This isn't about

  343. not speaking plainly of evil. This is about seeing what

  344. God also sees and feeling what God also feels.

  345. Compassion.

  346. As Christ looked on those who would soon turn on

  347. him and shout for his crucifixion, he knowingly looked at

  348. them and had compassion on them because they were like

  349. sheep without a shepherd.

  350. They were his, They were his image bearers.

  351. And as we get a handle on God's image in

  352. all people, we will grow in our grasp of his

  353. compassion towards all people.

  354. For God so loved the world.

  355. That he gave his only begotten son. Here's the fifth handle.

  356. The fifth handle, I think the Jonah chapter four gives

  357. us that we would get an overall grasp on God's compassion.

  358. Is God's examples for our instruction, God's examples for our instruction.

  359. I mean we see that in Jonah. For God very

  360. graciously parabolizes this plant. He grows up this plant to

  361. graciously invest Jonah's attitude in its well being. He gives

  362. him an example and then says, great, as you get

  363. a handle on your compassion for this plant, that will

  364. be a way of getting a handle on my compassion

  365. for this city.

  366. And he gives him an exam in.

  367. Chapter two, Jonah, as you get a handle on my

  368. compassion towards you.

  369. When you'd rather commit.

  370. Suicide than go fulfill my mission for you, and I

  371. wouldn't let you. And I rescued you from drowning, and

  372. I rescued you from rebellion, and I brought you to

  373. a place of repentance, and I delivered you back to

  374. my mission. As you get a handle on the rescue

  375. that I have performed in your life, you will start

  376. to get a handle on the rescue that I am

  377. thrilled to provide for these Ninavites.

  378. And He's given.

  379. Us so many examples throughout scripture the prodigal son, the

  380. unforgiving servant, the laborers in the vineyard, elder brother, as

  381. you get a handle on the necessity to celebrate the

  382. triumph of repentance and mercy and grace, as you come

  383. to realize that we must celebrate like the angels are

  384. celebrating over one sinner who repents. As you get a

  385. handle on that, you're going to get a handle on

  386. the compassion that I have for this world.

  387. And ultimately the example.

  388. And He has given you for grasping his compassion is

  389. the compassion that you have received in Jesus. And as

  390. you get a handle on Christ's compassion toward you, that

  391. he didn't just relent from disaster towards you.

  392. He took the disaster that was for you.

  393. That Christ. In Christ's compassion for you, he passed through

  394. a grave that was way more vicious than Jonahs three days.

  395. That in Christ's compassion towards you, he has brought you

  396. into a family and adopted you. In Christ's compassion towards you,

  397. He's given you.

  398. A role in his kingdom when you were his enemy.

  399. In Christ's compassion towards you, day by day, as you

  400. fall in your failures, of purity. He lifts you up

  401. with a gentle hand as you fall in your failures

  402. of parenting. He picks you up like a good father.

  403. As you fall in your failures of patience. He day

  404. by day is patient with you as you fall in

  405. your prayerlessness. He says, draw near to me. I will

  406. draw near to you. I'm waiting for you right here.

  407. I have compassion for you. Yet again, his mercies towards

  408. you are new every morning, not because you know your

  409. left hand from your right, because He is abounding and

  410. steadfast love.

  411. We so need to get.

  412. A grasp a handle on Christ's ongoing heart of compassion.

  413. We need that for our own souls, and we need

  414. it for grasping and rejoicing in God's compassion in this world.

  415. As we better grasp how he has shown us compassion,

  416. how he loves his creation and his image bearers, how

  417. he has his own prerogative in patience and generosity, how

  418. he is a gracious and merciful God who also will

  419. not clear the guilty, and how he rebukes our sense

  420. of outrage that so often blinds us to the bigger

  421. picture of what He's doing.

  422. Then we would find. Then we would find that if

  423. he were to ask us, should I not show compassion

  424. to others, then we would say yes, and so should

  425. I