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The Heart of Membership

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  1. One of the things that you heard if you got

  2. here early enough for the announcements, was Josh Colin saying,

  3. good morning. My name is Josh. That's not my name,

  4. that's his name. My name is Josh. Welcome to this

  5. gathering of Crossway Bible Church. Now, in this greeting, we

  6. are being intentional to not just welcome you into a building,

  7. but to actually welcome you into this gathering of this church.

  8. We aren't the only local church in the city on

  9. the street, in this zip code. We are, but we

  10. are a gathering that is committed to be here together,

  11. to serve one another, to pray with each other under

  12. the direction of our elders. The church is not a building.

  13. This church is a people. And I'm not just giving

  14. you a long welcome this morning. This is actually going

  15. to be what our focus is on this morning is

  16. the idea of local church membership. Just like Josh preached

  17. a couple of topical sermons on stewardship and giving, he

  18. asked me to preach on church membership and then specifically

  19. is church membership a biblical idea. On Sundays, we usually

  20. just go one passage at a time through a book

  21. of the Bible. But today we're going to get our

  22. exercise in here finger wise, because we're going to be

  23. flipping all through the New Testament. And if you're not

  24. ready for this high impact sword drill, just go ahead

  25. and be just ready to write those passages down and

  26. study them later, because.

  27. They are very important. Now.

  28. One of the things that I want to clarify at

  29. the beginning is when I say membership, some people think

  30. about other things.

  31. Right. You think of.

  32. Amazon or a gym or Costco, one of my favorites.

  33. But that's actually not what we're talking about here. Those

  34. are those are service providers, and the idea is, oh,

  35. what can I get? Is this a good value for

  36. my investment and my money. That's not what we're talking

  37. about here. We're talking about the commitment to live out

  38. mutual ministry within this body of believers, people who have

  39. covenanted together to join.

  40. This church and care for each other.

  41. I also understand that sitting here we have people who

  42. are in a variety of places and who have a

  43. variety of feelings about church membership. From some of you

  44. who say yes and amen, that's why I'm a member here,

  45. and then some people who.

  46. Convictionally are like, actually, I've taught.

  47. I've been taught that church membership isn't biblical, so I'm

  48. not going to join. And whatever group you are in,

  49. I am so grateful that you're here today. I pray

  50. that God would be working in our hearts to reveal

  51. what is true from His word, and that we would

  52. be soft to understanding what is important to God in

  53. the local church. But before we launch into this, actually

  54. I'm going to start not with the Bible, but with

  55. the Westminster Standards. And you're like, I don't know what

  56. you're talking about. Well, that's fine, because I'll explain it

  57. to you. Is a part of a document from the

  58. seventeenth century that actually helps serve as a theological standard

  59. for churches after the Protestant Reformation happened, and it's still

  60. widely used today. And I actually I want to draw

  61. your attention to section one point six of the Westminster Standards,

  62. which I think everyone has memorized. If I'm no, okay,

  63. well good, so we've got it on the screen. This

  64. will actually help us understand how theology and sound doctrine

  65. are developed. It says the whole Council of God concerning

  66. all things necessary for His own glory, Man, salvation, faith,

  67. and life is either expressly set down in scripture, or

  68. by good and necessary consequence, may be deduced from scripture.

  69. I think you know what most of those words up there,

  70. but deduced right, Maybe not, but we're gonna talk about

  71. deduction a lot this morning. For that, I want you

  72. to think about a police detective who can walk into

  73. a crime scene and just kind of piece together things

  74. like motives and sequence of events and fill in the

  75. missing pieces that are not there with the eye, but

  76. that are there at the scene. And in the same way,

  77. this quote from the Westminster Standards is saying that everything

  78. that we need for life and for theology is either

  79. written down right chapter and verse in the Bible, or

  80. with some careful thinking and reasoning, we can actually put

  81. the pieces together. Let's just take the understanding of the Trinity, right.

  82. This is a very important This is one of the

  83. most important doctrines of the Christian Church. And yet where

  84. is the chapter in verse that says God is a

  85. triune God. It's not there, But that doesn't mean that

  86. it's not true. Believers have understood from the very beginning

  87. of the church that to say that God isn't a

  88. triune God, because the evidence is there, even though there's

  89. not a chapter in verse, but because the evidence is there,

  90. to say that he's not would be heresy. And as

  91. we look at local church membership, I want to think

  92. about that in very similar ways. If the local church

  93. is just a human idea created by man, then we.

  94. Can kind of take it or leave it.

  95. But if God created the church and the idea of

  96. the church, then we have to submit to what he says.

  97. And it's our understanding that God has been clear about

  98. the local church and church membership. This is known as ecclesiology,

  99. or the theology of the church. Using so many big

  100. words today, guys, again, if you're looking for a chapter

  101. in verse, you're not going to find it. But I

  102. believe that we can deduce from the biblical authors that

  103. the local church is the primary way that God is

  104. building for himself a bride, that he is creating a people,

  105. and he is making disciples. This morning, we're going to

  106. examine this question from three different vantage points. Point one

  107. Jesus and we're going to see how he views the church.

  108. Point two will be crossway and we'll see the evidence

  109. for local church membership. And then point three, we'll finish

  110. it up with your sanctification, and we'll talk about how

  111. membership actually gets lived out. Starting with point one. Jesus right,

  112. how does Jesus view the church? And the first thing

  113. I want to point out is that it is a relationship,

  114. and this relationship is going to be the focus of

  115. this first point. Turn with me to Ephesians five. In

  116. this passage, are we looking at a passage that's on

  117. local church membership?

  118. No, no, I don't think so.

  119. But what I do think is there is that this

  120. passage gives us the context what we need to understand

  121. about God's thoughts on the local church. Visians five twenty one,

  122. Paul is talking about to submitting to one another out

  123. of reverence for Christ, and then he turns his attention

  124. to husbands and wives, and we see Paul slip this

  125. in in Ephesians five twenty two to twenty four. He said, wives,

  126. submit to your own husbands as to the Lord. For

  127. the husband is the head of the wife, even as

  128. Christ is the head of the church, his body, and

  129. is himself It's savior. Now as a church submits to Christ,

  130. so also wives should submit to in everything to their husbands.

  131. Now we might like pull this passage out and sometimes

  132. get some good marriage counsel from it, because you know,

  133. we see that it says husbands and wives. But the

  134. thing that I want us to think about here as

  135. we move forward, is what does the bride get in return?

  136. Listen to what Christ does for his bride starting in

  137. verse twenty five. Now I want to challenge you again.

  138. We're going to think about marriage. We're going to think

  139. about husbands and wives. We're going to think as a

  140. manner or as a woman. But I want you to

  141. read this and listen to this. Being a child of God,

  142. being someone who is loved by God. Ephesians five twenty

  143. five to thirty two. It says, husbands, love your wives

  144. as Christ loved the Church and gave himself up for her,

  145. that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the

  146. washing of water with the word, so that he might

  147. present the Church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle,

  148. or any such thing, that she might be holy and

  149. without blemish. In the same way, husbands should love their

  150. wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife

  151. loves himself, For no one ever hated his own flesh.

  152. But nourishes it and cherishes it, just as Christ does

  153. the Church, because we are members of His body. And then,

  154. quoting from Genesis two, when God brought Adam and Eves together,

  155. we see this in verse thirty one. Therefore a man

  156. shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to

  157. his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.

  158. Verse thirty two.

  159. This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it

  160. refers to Christ and the Church. Paul here lets us

  161. in on a little secret at the end of the passage.

  162. This passage is not primarily about marriage, and in fact

  163. we see from the scriptures that marriage isn't even primarily

  164. about marriage. No, God created marriage to give us a

  165. way to begin to comprehend his love for his bride.

  166. That's why God set up marriage. Let that wrinkle your

  167. brain for just a moment. This is why Jesus came

  168. to earth. He came to live a perfect life that

  169. fulfilled the law in a way that we never could.

  170. He came to die a substitutionary death in our place,

  171. taking that the punishment for sin upon himself, and he

  172. created for himself a bride who he will love for eternity.

  173. Marriage is a thing that we tend to think this

  174. is ultimate, right, This is the ultimate human relationship is marriage,

  175. and yet God created it so that it would point

  176. to something else. God created as a shadow, as a

  177. pointer to get us to think about His love for

  178. his church. This most important of all human relationships for

  179. every single one of us, will one day end.

  180. But what will never end for.

  181. All of eternity is Christ's love for his bride, the church,

  182. and the local church is not a separate entity from

  183. the universal church. The local church is just a manifestation,

  184. a smaller gathering of His bride, the church. This is

  185. how the bride gets built up, all right, This is

  186. how we row in sanctification is not universally but lived

  187. out in a local church community. And this is how

  188. Jesus views the church. Again, and I think this sets

  189. us up well to look at how we need to

  190. look at the local church. So moving on to point two, crossway,

  191. crossway and the evidence for church membership. While it's not

  192. explicit in these texts, I think that we'll be able

  193. to deduce through church, through these passages that church membership

  194. is actually the standard for what Christians are to be doing.

  195. That it wasn't extraordinary to join a church, but that

  196. everyone in the New Testament was a part of a

  197. local church. Sometimes Josh gives a warning that he's going

  198. to be a little bit teachy instead of preachy. Well, today,

  199. I want to give you a warning that we're going

  200. to be a little bit detectivey as we look through

  201. these scriptures. The first piece of evidence that we'll look

  202. at here is actually what the New Testament authors talk about,

  203. how they talk about the local church, which is the

  204. pictures of the building, the family, and the body. We're

  205. going to start in Ephesians two, starting in verse nineteen,

  206. Paul says this, so then you are no longer strangers

  207. and aliens, but you are fellow citizens, with the saints

  208. and members of the household of God built on the

  209. foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ, Jesus himself being

  210. the cornerstone in whom the whole structure, being joined together,

  211. grows into a holy temple. This local church that Paul's

  212. talking to is now one temple built on the foundation

  213. of the scriptures, and with Jesus Christ himself as the cornerstone.

  214. I don't want to stretch Paul's analogy too far, but

  215. how do you know if a brick is part of

  216. a building. Well, yeah, you're all these confused faces.

  217. I see. Good, That's exactly what I was going for.

  218. It's pretty self evident if a brick is part of

  219. a building, you just see it in the building. Well,

  220. in the same way, Paul says that the local church

  221. is actually built up of these individual bricks, these individual believers.

  222. But the bricks are never the point. The point of

  223. a brick isn't that it is a self contained unit,

  224. but that together you build something that you couldn't have

  225. built on your own. That together you are something more

  226. than you are when you're a part. That's just like

  227. being a part of a local church, all right. The

  228. second picture we get is that of a family. It

  229. comes up several places in the New Testament, right, Paul

  230. is explicit about it to Timothy and first Timothy five

  231. to one to two, and even in this Ephesians two

  232. passage that we just looked about, he talks about how

  233. we are now in the household of God, right, and

  234. in different places it talks about Jesus as are our

  235. older brother.

  236. Right.

  237. So this is one of the images that's used. Well,

  238. what is a family by the very nature of a family.

  239. It is a collection, it's not an individual. A family

  240. is a collection of individuals that make up a new unit.

  241. Our church.

  242. Family gives us specific people to love. It gives us

  243. specific people to bear one another's burdens because relationship brings responsibility.

  244. And in a similar way to asking the brick question,

  245. how do you know if someone's in your family or not?

  246. I think it's pretty self evident, and that doesn't mean

  247. that if you don't hang out for long enough, you'll

  248. be like, am I part of the family?

  249. Oh?

  250. Man, Like, you're hanging out and that's super cool, but

  251. you're not.

  252. You would know if you're in the family.

  253. So my question is are you in the family? The

  254. final picture we get from the New Testament is that

  255. of the body. Right, this is the best example. It's

  256. used over and over again, and the best example is

  257. actually in First Corinthians twelve. I want to encourage you.

  258. We don't have time to go into it, but go

  259. to First Corinthians twelve. Read verses fourteen to twenty seven.

  260. This week, take a look at them and see how

  261. the individual.

  262. Parts of the body work together.

  263. See how they are not independent, but they're interdependent. And

  264. how they work together for the common goal of health

  265. for the body. No individual part can do it on

  266. its own. What we need is the body being built

  267. up together. It's no accident even today though, when people

  268. talk about churches, we talk about this body, right, because

  269. the body has responsibility to care for itself. All right,

  270. That was the first piece of evidence. What about looking

  271. at the membership roles for the church and you're like,

  272. what do membership roles have to do? That's not in

  273. the New Testament? Oh, let me stuff you right there.

  274. Let's turn to Acts two. Acts two Peter preaches what

  275. is one of the most amazing sermons ever, and then

  276. we see in verse thirty seven the Holy Spirit is

  277. moving in people's hearts, and people cry out. They say, brothers,

  278. what shall we do? Peter's answer, repent and be baptized.

  279. And then we read this in Acts two forty one.

  280. So those who received his word were baptized, and they

  281. were added that day about three thousand souls. First of all,

  282. that is just an amazing event that I wish I

  283. was there for. But also which just thinking through these deductions,

  284. they kept a record, they kept a record of who

  285. was a member there. He didn't just make up there

  286. were three thousand men. There were for three thousand people

  287. who joined First whatever Church of Jerusalem on that Sunday,

  288. on the Pentecost weekend.

  289. It happened. If you, Filippa had to ask.

  290. Four right, Peter and John are getting arrested for preaching

  291. of Jesus. And then in verse four we see this,

  292. but many of those who had heard the word believed,

  293. and the number of men came to about five thousand. Again,

  294. we can deduce that they kept a record of who

  295. was a member of the church. But it's not just

  296. keeping a record. They're also keeping a record of who's

  297. in and who's out. There's a particularly heartbreaking situation in

  298. First Corinthians five.

  299. Right.

  300. First Corinthians five, a man is living in an unrepentant

  301. sexual sin with someone who is probably his stepmom, and

  302. Paul says that for the sake of his soul, the

  303. local church there needed to stop treating him like a

  304. believer because he was showing otherwise. So he tells us

  305. local church in corinth to remove him from the church body. Now,

  306. if you're skeptical, you say, well, we don't know that

  307. he was a member of First Church of corinth No,

  308. but Paul told him to put him out, and if

  309. there was an out at some point he had to

  310. have been in. From this text we can see that

  311. he was living as a part of the church, and

  312. when his conduct had showed actually, I'm not a believer,

  313. Paul says, well, then we're going to treat him like

  314. he's not a believer and not let him be a

  315. part of this body. In one Corinthians five eleven, he says, now,

  316. I am writing to you to not associate with anyone

  317. who bears the name of Brother, if he is guilty

  318. of sexual immorality or greed, or is idolater, reviler, drunkard,

  319. or swindler, not to even eat with such a one.

  320. Now this is built on Matthew eighteen, which is where

  321. Jesus says that if there's someone who is claiming to

  322. be a Christian and yet is living an unrepentant sin,

  323. to tell it to the church and to bring him

  324. out of to bring him out of fellowship. Fortunately, this

  325. doesn't have to be the end of everyone's situation. We

  326. also see in second Corinthians two where there's someone who

  327. has been put out of the church and Paul says,

  328. actually bring him back into the church. He has he

  329. was living in sin. He repented, and now bring him

  330. back into fellowship. There's clearly an inn, there's an out,

  331. and church discipline there accomplished its purpose.

  332. Right.

  333. The guy repented and now he was like, I'm super discouraged.

  334. I want to be back in the church. And Paul says,

  335. we'll get back in here. Church, welcome him back in.

  336. He is repented and he should be treated like a brother.

  337. Church membership is not just a formal process. It's also

  338. the loss of or it's the gain and or loss

  339. if you're put out of these church family relationships as well.

  340. Looking at the accounting from the early church, we can

  341. deduce that there was an inn, there was an out

  342. because they kept records. Now what about the next evidence?

  343. Who are the local church elders accountable for? In Hebrews

  344. thirteen seventeen and near the end of the letter, the

  345. author of Hebrews makes this comment about the church and

  346. how the church is supposed to respond to the leaders.

  347. It says, obey your leaders and submit to them, for

  348. they are keeping watch over your souls. As those who

  349. have to give an account for all the elders in

  350. the room. That is a terrifying verse, that you have

  351. to give an account before God for someone. And combining

  352. this with Paul's warning to the Ephesian elders and Acts

  353. twenty twenty eight, where he says, pay careful attention to

  354. yourself and to all the flock in which the Holy

  355. Spirit has made you overseers, to care for the Church

  356. of God, which he obtained with his own blood. But

  357. my question is who will the leaders in Hebrews thirteen, who.

  358. Will they be accountable for?

  359. Who are the Ephesian elders in Acts twenty who are

  360. they meant to give this special care to? Is it

  361. zip code specific? Is it like anyone who comes in

  362. the doors? We're accountable before God? For do elders have

  363. the same level of accountability for someone who is covenanted

  364. in membership with them as to someone who has never

  365. made that membership commitment. Like a parent who is responsible

  366. for the behavior of their children. The elders of this

  367. church are responsible before God for the members of Crossway

  368. Bible Church, and the members of this church have committed

  369. themselves to follow.

  370. The authority and care of the elders.

  371. That part is clear, but I don't think we can

  372. deduce that this means that anyone who just shows up

  373. here on a Sunday morning has the same accountability, has

  374. the same relationship with the elders. Relationship brings responsibility, and

  375. if if you haven't joined the church, then you haven't

  376. brought yourself into that relationship.

  377. Yet.

  378. The last piece of evidence we're going to look at

  379. is examining the scope of care within the church.

  380. Flip back to Acts two.

  381. We see throughout Acts that even in the earliest days,

  382. the church was caring for herself Acts two, forty four

  383. and forty five. And all who were and all who believed,

  384. were together and had all things in common, and they

  385. were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds

  386. to all as any had need. And then ahead to

  387. Acts four, thirty four and thirty five. There was not

  388. a needy person among them, for as many as were

  389. owners of land or houses sold them and brought the

  390. proceeds of what was sold and laid it at the

  391. apostles feet, and it was distributed to each as any

  392. had need. All right, well, who was this radical generosity

  393. geared toward? Well in the context looks like it was

  394. geared toward this new local church. Right, This is what

  395. we today call mutual ministry. This is the body caring

  396. for the body. The members first of the First Church

  397. of Jerusalem knew who they were responsible for, and when

  398. they saw people in need, they acted to help care

  399. for this.

  400. New church family.

  401. They were selling off lands and giving the proceeds, but

  402. not just to anyone. They were giving them specifically to

  403. the people in their church who they were caring for.

  404. Because relationship brings responsibility. Today, we show care at this

  405. church through mutual ministry.

  406. Right.

  407. It's not just the staff or the elders who care,

  408. but we work together as a whole body to care

  409. for every part of it. In addition, we have a

  410. benevolence team that works hard for the long term care

  411. of any of our members who are in need, and

  412. often small group leaders act as kind of a first

  413. line of defense for caring for individuals plugged into community

  414. within the church body.

  415. Now, I know that was a whole lot.

  416. To deduce, but I think we see that church membership

  417. is actually all over the pages of the New Testament,

  418. that this is the standard and it was assumed and

  419. modeled by everyone in the New Testament. All right, So

  420. to our final point this morning, your sanctification. This is

  421. going to be the most personally applicable part of this.

  422. What does church membership look like for me?

  423. Right?

  424. What does it mean in my life? Well, let's start

  425. by defining this sanctification. Right, it's a long word, But

  426. what does it mean? A simple definition for what is

  427. sometimes called sometimes called progressive sanctification. I'll just give you

  428. this one from the New City Catechism, where it says

  429. sanctification means our gradual growing righteousness made possible by the

  430. Holy Spirit's work in us. So although there is a

  431. moment when we are saved and justified before God, the

  432. actual growth in godliness takes a long time to work out.

  433. It actually takes an entire lifetime. And this is the

  434. process of sanctification. This is fighting the flesh, This is

  435. putting to death the sin that is in our hearts

  436. and growing in holiness. Why do I bring up sanctification

  437. in the conversation about the local church because your sanctification

  438. is meant to be centered in local church community. I

  439. mean there are other places where God wants you to

  440. be sanctified as well, right, where God will use things

  441. like your home right with your spouse and your kids,

  442. or your roommates, or at work with your coworkers and

  443. your boss, or on sixteen oh four with seemingly every

  444. other person in San Antonio during the never ending construction.

  445. All of those opportunities are for sanctification, are for growth

  446. and personal holiness. But the local church provides a very

  447. unique way to grow in this way, being a member

  448. of a local church is kind of like rock tumbling.

  449. Can you raise your hand if you've ever heard of

  450. rock down? If you have any idea, this is a

  451. lot more than I anticipated. Guys, maybe I'm just uncultured.

  452. But until my.

  453. Crazy uncle Steve explained to me his new hobby, I

  454. had no idea what rock tumbling was all about. So

  455. in order naturally to get smooth rocks, what you need

  456. is wind, water, sand and other rocks, and like somewhere

  457. between hundreds and thousands of years. It takes a long time.

  458. But with a rock tumbler, if you put these sharp

  459. rocks into a rock tumbler with other sharp rocks and

  460. crank it up, then these rocks hitting each other will

  461. smooth it out. It'll knock off the hard edges and

  462. Suddenly what did take hundreds of years or thousands of

  463. years can now.

  464. Be done in just a couple of weeks.

  465. The tumbler is the mechanism for the acceleration of the growth.

  466. And I'm going to use this analogy a little bit

  467. as we talk about understanding sanctification in the local church.

  468. Here are five ways that God uses local church membership

  469. to grow our sanctification. Number one, you need others in

  470. order to grow. You need others in order to grow.

  471. We all have sharp edges, We all have jagged ends

  472. where we were once broken off a mountainside. None of

  473. us were born sanctified, right, we all need to be

  474. smoothed out, but we don't get polished on our own.

  475. We don't get smoothed out on our own. In fact,

  476. how do you know if you're growing in your selfishness? Well,

  477. you have your selfishness tested, right, Someone comes in and

  478. tests that. How do we know if we are growing

  479. in our pain patience? We have situations that come up

  480. that call for us to be more patient. You know,

  481. we don't have what we want when we want it.

  482. And this is why siblings learn how to how to

  483. work together and compromise. Being a part of this church

  484. community will push your sanctification. People will step on your

  485. toes because every single other member of this church is

  486. also in the sanctification process as well. Becoming a member

  487. of a church means that I am I'm open and

  488. expecting to be a means of that God will use

  489. in the lives of others. And it also means that

  490. I am open and expecting to others being the means

  491. that God uses in my life to grow me. God

  492. is never just working on one of us at a time.

  493. He is working in all of us as we mutually

  494. minister to each other, as we care for each other,

  495. as we grow in sanctification together. And what are these

  496. requirements that Crossway has, Well, it's not anything that you

  497. shouldn't already be doing. In his book called the Church,

  498. Mark Dever said, the responsibilities and duties of members of

  499. a Christian church are simply the responsibilities and duties of Christians.

  500. This week, in the front of your bulletin, we put

  501. the four membership commitments of Crossway members right here. If

  502. you are a member this week, I want you to

  503. read these things. I want you to see, Hey, how

  504. am I doing with these commitments? I have committed to

  505. every member of the church body that I'm going to

  506. be doing these things.

  507. How is that going?

  508. And if you're not a member, I want you to

  509. see this and I want you to read through these

  510. and say, is crossway asking me to do something that

  511. is above and beyond what what I should already be

  512. living out, but what I should already be doing as

  513. a believer, as a Christian. Guys, I don't think that

  514. this is extra. It's just giving direction to all the

  515. one anothers that we have in the Bible. Right, Jesus

  516. has called us to live out these one anothers things

  517. like love one another, forgive one another, bear with one another,

  518. encourage one another, build up, serve, show hospitality, to teach

  519. admonish just to name a few things that we're called

  520. to do as a church body. And church membership provides

  521. the perfect opportunity for growth in living out your faith.

  522. Number two, it can bring sight to blind spots. Right,

  523. we're all convinced that we know ourselves the best. But

  524. what does Jeremiah seventeen say that the heart is deceitful

  525. above all things and desperately sick. Who can understand it?

  526. How many times have I gone into a conversation, thinking, oh,

  527. I'm having a great conversation here, only later to find

  528. out that in my heart was in the wrong place,

  529. that maybe I was claiming to just speak the truth

  530. in love, but maybe I was speaking the truth out

  531. of frustration instead. By definition, we can't see our blind spots.

  532. If we could, they wouldn't be blind spots. We need

  533. others to point those out to us. So when we

  534. have the opportunity to grow, how are you doing in that?

  535. Are you seeing those things and taking a step forward?

  536. When was the last time that you were in close

  537. enough relationship with someone where you pointed out someone else's

  538. blind spot or you asked a friend, brother, sister, what

  539. am I not seeing here? What is an area that

  540. I need to grow in? I just don't know it

  541. yet because I'm blind to it. Number three, you can't

  542. be born into it. You can't be born in to it.

  543. Today is step Up Sunday for kids and students and

  544. the thousands of balloons that we have here. I love

  545. it and I love that every Sunday there are kids

  546. and students who come to this church and want to grow.

  547. Sometimes they want to grow, and sometimes their parents want

  548. them to grow. But whatever the reason I'm glad that

  549. they're here, But your parents faith can't save you. We

  550. have wonderful Crossway Kids leaders and student leaders and they

  551. work in conjunction with parents to help to help try

  552. to disciple kids, and they can give good direction, but

  553. they can't live out your faith for you. If God

  554. has worked in your heart and saved you, then now

  555. is the time to step up and to live it out.

  556. Don't wait to start growing until later. Start patterns of

  557. personal holiness now that will pay dividends for eternity. And

  558. if you don't have a Bible, after the service is done,

  559. go to the Step one table. We'd love to give

  560. you a Bible. We'd love for you to have that

  561. of your own. And if you show up every week,

  562. week after week, but you don't have that relationship with Jesus,

  563. then my words to you are what Peter said in

  564. Acts Too when he said repent and be baptized, turn

  565. from your sins and embrace the free gift of grace

  566. found in Jesus Christ. We would love to help you

  567. walk through what that means. Right, we're at church.

  568. This is literally what we're doing. This is what we're here.

  569. For, and you can also come to the Step one

  570. table and get a Bible. We would love for you

  571. to have one of your own. Number four. You can't

  572. do it over live stream. You can't do it over

  573. live stream. Last week I was sick. I'm not like

  574. deathly ill or anything, just not something that I wanted

  575. to share with five hundred to my closest friends. And

  576. so I watched the live stream of the ten forty

  577. five service last Sunday.

  578. I was so grateful for that.

  579. I was grateful that I didn't get anyone else sick,

  580. and I was grateful that I could that I could

  581. do a lot of what I do on Sunday morning

  582. from the comfort of my bed. I filled out a

  583. connection card like.

  584. I do every week.

  585. I prayed right, I listened to the preaching. I was engaged.

  586. I belt it out the last song I Need You Oh.

  587. It was a great closing song, and yet I wasn't

  588. with the church body. After the service ended, I could

  589. see Nate and Liam Weeks standing up here talking and

  590. I was like, yes, I want to talk to them,

  591. but I'm not there. Josh was preaching and I gave

  592. him some ms right, but Josh couldn't hear them, and

  593. no one else could hear them either. I was singing

  594. my guts out, but there was no one else for

  595. me to encourage singing these wonderful, beautiful truths to.

  596. I saw people leave.

  597. And hang out in the lobby, and yet I couldn't

  598. go and meet someone new, or I couldn't go and

  599. pray for a brother who's having a hard day. I

  600. couldn't do any of those things through a screen. We

  601. can't live out our faith through a live stream. The

  602. church needs every member to be here each week in person,

  603. because that's how we grow together. There are amazing preachers

  604. who have their podcasts and their videos each and every week,

  605. and God uses them and I'm grateful for them, but

  606. they have never once preached with you in mind. Whereas

  607. I know for sure the people, the men who stand

  608. on this platform think about you as are writing their

  609. sermon and how.

  610. To apply this to your life.

  611. Here today, Crossway is better than a YouTube church because

  612. we're real.

  613. We can actually care for you. Now.

  614. No church will do this perfectly, but we will grow

  615. together as God grows us in our sanctification number five.

  616. It reminds us what church is really about. In addition

  617. to the Bibles, that we're so happy to give you.

  618. We also have a whole wall of books just outside

  619. these doors, and those books aren't for decoration.

  620. Those books are actually there for you to learn and grow.

  621. So grab a book, grab a friend, read a book together,

  622. and grow. But only grab what you're going to actually read.

  623. Don't just take all the books and then don't read them.

  624. That's selfish, guys. Let's not do that. One of the

  625. books that we have out there is this little pamphlet

  626. called What Should I Look For in a Church? By

  627. Alex Duke. On page forty two, as he is wrapping

  628. up this booklet, he says this. He says, a church

  629. isn't a crowd of Christians who show up at the

  630. same time every week for some music and a message.

  631. A church is a people who have committed themselves to

  632. help each other get to Heaven. This has quickly become

  633. one of my favorite quotes because when I read it,

  634. I see your faces. I think of the brothers and

  635. sisters who are here who have committed themselves to help

  636. me grow in my sanctification to one day cgs his

  637. face to face. I think of the brothers and sisters

  638. that I have committed to to walk alongside of, to

  639. help encourage, so that we can one day make it

  640. there together, standing before our God and King. That is

  641. the most important commitment that we can make to each other.

  642. Church Membership isn't It's not magic. Joining doesn't just change

  643. us overnight, but God uses the normal, everyday means of

  644. church membership to work something beautiful and eternal in us.

  645. One day, all those who follow Jesus will stand together

  646. before him, perfect clothed in his righteousness. Together who else

  647. has committed to see you get there