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My Child, How Now Should We Then Live?

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  1. Ecclesiastes.

  2. Ecclesiastes, Chapter eleven and twelve will be in today. It

  3. is if you just open your bibles to the center.

  4. I know that's a hard book to find. Don't be

  5. afraid to use that table of contents. It's all right,

  6. But open up to the center. You go past songs,

  7. go past proverbs. If you hit song of Solomon or Isaiah,

  8. back up, it went too far. And if you're using

  9. your phone, that's just cheating, all right. I think most

  10. of us have found it. And life is very short,

  11. is it not. And in the light of life not

  12. being that long, how are we to live?

  13. Well? You know, it reminds me of Monterey.

  14. I used to live there in the Monterey fog, and

  15. it just rolls in off the bay, blankets.

  16. The hills and it just stays there. It looks like

  17. part of the hill at.

  18. Self, and then it evaporates before the morning's done.

  19. It's a lot like life.

  20. It can be substantial, it seems, it can be so beautiful,

  21. and yet it evaporates before the morning's done. The preacher

  22. of Ecclesiastes is trying to get us to see that

  23. very thing. Look, life, it's short. It can pass in

  24. a vapor. And he's describing this word vanity. It's a

  25. strange word. We don't use it often. Oh, vanity, it's described.

  26. It's not Look, it's not a piece of furniture with

  27. a mirror behind it next to the credenza that I

  28. don't know what that is either.

  29. This is vanity. He's describing it, just like that fog.

  30. The first time we hear this.

  31. It's actually Able's name in Genesis heave heaven.

  32. Is how you say that in Hebrew? Think about his name.

  33. A life lived well, Cain and abel right, a life

  34. lived well. He gave his best to God and poof,

  35. like that, the fog evaporates before the morning's done. So

  36. that's what this preacher is trying to get you to see.

  37. As we get to this, he's saying, look, it's it's short.

  38. You need to act boldly and act boldly now. And

  39. just past that is where our text is, where he's

  40. getting to my favorite part. You need to rejoice boldly

  41. and rejoice boldly now because lasting meaning it's not found here,

  42. it's found in God. He said that as he's gone

  43. through this, he's pursued wisdom. He has pursued riches. He

  44. has pursued hard work and he made that his meaning

  45. in life, and he goes it's poof, It's it's vanity.

  46. It's vanity. Only lasting meaning is in God. It is

  47. wisdom literature. I like to call it parental wisdom. Can

  48. be a little frustrating, but it's also parental wisdom because

  49. in chapter twelve, verse twelve, there's a little key here

  50. that helps us understand it and says, my son, my son,

  51. the preacher is passing on information for the generations and

  52. the generations to come, and he's telling us something. Life

  53. is short and we need to enjoy it. We have

  54. a desperate need to enjoy life now and living it well.

  55. God's word tells us how we can live it well

  56. and tells us how we can enjoy it, and it

  57. also has something to say about indulging. So we're going

  58. to explore what the preacher says through two observations. If

  59. you will living life well will be the first one.

  60. The second one is going to be not living long

  61. first one. Chapter eleven, verse seven, living life well. Let's

  62. make much of them, shall we. Light is sweet and

  63. it is pleasant for the eyes to see the sun.

  64. So if a person lives many years, let him rejoice

  65. in them all, but let them remember that the days

  66. of darkness will be many. All that comes is vanity. Rejoice,

  67. o young man, in your youth, and let your heart

  68. cheer you in the days of your youth. Walk in

  69. the ways of your heart and the sight of your eyes.

  70. But no that for all these things will bring you,

  71. God will.

  72. Bring you into judgment.

  73. Remove vexation from your heart, and put away pain from

  74. your body, For youth and the dawn of life are vanity.

  75. Some of us, I think, have an enjoyment problem, especially

  76. here in America. We want to enjoy, and I identify

  77. with the way in which we enjoy, and how dare

  78. you judge the way in which I identified myself and

  79. enjoyed it?

  80. And yet.

  81. Some of us have a judgment problem. Some of us

  82. have a judgment problem because of our misperception of who

  83. God is, and it keeps us restrained and our enjoyment

  84. actually suffers. So when you get one out of balance

  85. with the other, your enjoyment and who God is, your

  86. view of who God is can suffer.

  87. And so he explores this.

  88. Saying that we can enjoy life because creation can be enjoyed.

  89. Look at that verse seven.

  90. You see it right there, says light is sweet and

  91. is pleasant for the eyes to see the sun. It

  92. is one of the greatest mysteries that this fallen world

  93. with sinners, with people who don't deserve God's grace, and

  94. yet God, with each new day, is giving us opportunity

  95. after opportunity to enjoy. He has given you eyes to

  96. see the sun rise and to see the sun set

  97. as it lights up the beauty of all creation. Life

  98. is created and meant to be enjoyed. In verse seven,

  99. not only that we can live life well knowing that

  100. it's also for other people's enjoyment. And our command is

  101. to let them rejoice in them all.

  102. Verse eight.

  103. So if a person lives many years, and that is

  104. a blessing, is a blessing to live a long life,

  105. let him rejoice in them all. And that could be

  106. rejoicing in the true fullness, but it could also be

  107. just in the year to year, in the day to day,

  108. living life in the ordinary. I wonder, I wonder if

  109. if my life is characterized by someone who allows and

  110. lets and cheers on other people's enjoyments. You know, I

  111. think I am y'all's cheerleader. I want you to enjoy life.

  112. You want to know where I struggle with that. I

  113. struggle with that with my own kids so so quickly

  114. they're like, Daddy, can I have that? Can I have that?

  115. Daddy?

  116. Can I get that popsicle? And I'm like, hang on,

  117. hold up, we need to wait. I don't have all

  118. the information yet because I haven't talked to mom.

  119. I can't just say yes. Yet. Most of the time

  120. it's my own it's better be safe.

  121. About this enjoyment thing. It's uneasy, and yet there are

  122. times when I get it right. I built this jungle

  123. gym out back and my small group, thank you guys,

  124. and my kids. I'm telling them, get out there, go enjoy,

  125. have a childhood. Come back with your fingers dirty, don't

  126. come back until your knees are scuffed.

  127. Enjoy this right now.

  128. And I wonder if that's how the Father looks at

  129. us in this life.

  130. I gave you these things to enjoy.

  131. Show up to Heaven's gates with dirt underneath your nails,

  132. with scuffed knees, but at least enjoy it. When we

  133. follow and emulate our father, we are a allowing others

  134. to enjoy, and we are allowing ourselves to enjoy. We're

  135. also commanded in living life well to pursue enjoyment. Pursue enjoyment.

  136. But there's a framework that the preacher gives us. We

  137. are to keep certain things in our heart, and we

  138. are to remove certain things. So this is an examination

  139. of the heart. And as we know, the heart does

  140. not like being examined. Sure with the things to keep cheerfulness,

  141. Keep cheerfulness, Let your heart cheer you in the days

  142. of your youth. Well, I want to keep that. I

  143. want to be your cheerleader. I want to rejoice with

  144. you when you rejoice.

  145. I love that.

  146. But then he also says, remove these things. We've got

  147. another strange word. It's called vexation.

  148. Oh I'm vexed. I'm so vexed. I don't. I mean,

  149. that's a very strange way.

  150. I haven't heard any of the students say I am

  151. vexed today. But the preacher's been telling us a lot

  152. about vexation. He's been using it within this context. He's

  153. made his life's pursuit about wisdom, and he's chased it

  154. to its bitter end, and he has seen that he

  155. is no different than the cow who doesn't know any wisdom.

  156. They meet their own ends in the same way. It's

  157. not the meaning of life. And so his heart is

  158. troubled and met with vexation.

  159. Remove that. He also uses vexation when he's been chasing after.

  160. His riches and his wealth and making that the meaning

  161. of life. He's just gonna have to give it to

  162. the next generation who's gonna squander it anyways. And he's going,

  163. that gives me vexation. There's no lasting meaning here. And

  164. he's also and this one hurts. He's also used vexation

  165. when he's identified with his heart hard work as a veteran.

  166. I feel for that man. I identify as a veteran.

  167. And yet sometimes the way in which we identify ourselves

  168. can cause us a great deal of vexation. Because only lasting,

  169. true lasting meaning is found in God. So he's saying,

  170. remove this vexation because it's getting in the way of

  171. your joy. You are enjoying these things in a sinful way.

  172. Remove that, it's getting in the way of your true enjoyment.

  173. And then he also says, look, remove pain, get pain

  174. out of here, put it away from your body. And

  175. I know some of us are going. Look, I'm told

  176. to deny myself, pick up my cross and follow Jesus.

  177. What are you talking about?

  178. Get this pain away from my body? Well, it's in

  179. light of the vexation. It's in the light of enjoying

  180. things and in a sinful way that causes us pain.

  181. And we know this from the Hebrew. The word is

  182. ra ah, which means evil, means bad. Remove that thing

  183. that you are currently enjoying and it's causing you to

  184. sin in the way in which you're enjoying it. It's

  185. causing you pain, or it's causing others pain. Remove that

  186. and then you can pursue true, lasting enjoyment.

  187. He also gives us this framework that we.

  188. Need to pursue enjoyment humbly and reverently, humbly because.

  189. The days of darkness will be many.

  190. And see that in verse eight, as we were called

  191. to rejoice with those who rejoice, now we're called to

  192. weep with those who weep. And it was here that

  193. cut me to pieces when I was working on this

  194. this week because Mother's Day for some, I want to

  195. honor you and I want to rejoice with you, but

  196. it was heavy on my heart for those or this

  197. is a dark day and this might cause pain, and

  198. I want you to know that you were heard, you

  199. were seen, and you were prayed for. And as Christians,

  200. we are not called to run away from those who

  201. are in pain, but actually pursue them and weep with

  202. those who weep. We worship the God of all mercies,

  203. the Father of all comfort. Run after them, weep with them,

  204. knowing who God is. Because life is short and I

  205. see it, and you see it, and it's there, and

  206. I know it was bothering you, and it's bothering me.

  207. Walk in the ways of your heart and the sight

  208. of your eyes. What are you going to do with that?

  209. We're gonna listen to Kevin Deyong. Don't be true to yourself.

  210. Your heart is deceitful.

  211. What are you talking about.

  212. That's not what the preachers getting at. He's saying something like.

  213. This, go ahead, follow your heart, follow.

  214. Your eyes, and know where it's gonna get you, and

  215. know that God will judge every bit of it. He's

  216. referring back to numbers fifteen, when the spies were taught

  217. to spy out the land, they came back with a

  218. false report. They didn't pursue the way that God had

  219. commanded them to pursue these things, these things that He

  220. wanted them to enjoy, them to enjoy, and not only

  221. did they not enjoy it, but the people of God

  222. did not enjoy it either. We are commanded to enjoy.

  223. But with this looming reminder judgment, how do we live

  224. life with enjoyment and judgment?

  225. And how do we live it well? Well? I think

  226. that is by knowing who God is.

  227. And he's been painting a picture, this preacher throughout Ecclesiastes

  228. on who God is. And I've listed this in order

  229. of dominance as it came up in scripture, as he

  230. has written in the first one is knowing that God

  231. is a sovereign creator. There's not one maverick molecule in existence.

  232. Everything is under his command. We need to enjoy the

  233. days that he is given.

  234. We need to we need to trust him in the

  235. days of darkness.

  236. He is a righteous judge. That's the next one. He

  237. is a righteous judge. We need to pursue after enjoyment

  238. with this in mind, who is God? He is a

  239. righteous judge. I like this one. It comes up a lot.

  240. He's a generous giver. Does that not sound like the

  241. light is sweet and it is pleasant for the eyes

  242. to see the sun. There's so much beauty to behold,

  243. There's so much opportunity to enjoy. He is a generous giver.

  244. Sometimes I wonder, Sometimes I wonder if our own enjoyment,

  245. if we struggle with it being a wasted opportunity.

  246. Versus faithful stewardship.

  247. Reminds me of Matthew twenty five, where the Master is

  248. leaving and he's giving his servants talents. He gives one five,

  249. he gives the other two. He gives another one one

  250. with the understanding that they're gonna be good stewards of

  251. that which the Master has given.

  252. Almost said God, But it's God we know.

  253. And the one with the five and the one with

  254. the two faithfully stewarded that which they were given. And

  255. when the Master came back they had double. What does

  256. he say, Well done, good and faithful servant.

  257. How many of you would like to hear that? Have

  258. you ever considered the next sentence? After? And enter into

  259. the joy of the Master, eternal joy?

  260. And he turns to the one, this one. I think

  261. he was paralyzed by a misperception of who his master was,

  262. and that caused him, that caused him to go and

  263. bury it, to not steward well that which he was given.

  264. For him.

  265. Calls him a wicked and lazy servant, and he takes

  266. his talent and he throws him out. We are judged

  267. by how we enjoy God's gifts through stewarding them well,

  268. and we are judged by wasting God's gifts and not

  269. stewarding them well. God gives us resources, talents, abilities, hobbies

  270. to be interesting and to enjoy. Some of us are

  271. sitting on the sidelines because of misperception of who God is.

  272. We're not getting after it. As the preacher's telling you

  273. to Alistair Beggs, I think sums it up quite nicely,

  274. much more eloquent than I would. He says, of all

  275. people on the face of the earth, the believer ought

  276. to lead the world in enjoyment of life and experience

  277. of happiness AKA, don't be boring, be a little interesting,

  278. continue continue being weird to the world and the way

  279. in which you are enjoying things. Can we be a

  280. little weird? Enjoy the ordinary, enjoy it to its fullest.

  281. Enjoy I gotta work on this one all right. Enjoy

  282. art I gotta enjoy modern art more. You gotta help

  283. me with that one. Enjoy food, Enjoy laughter, Enjoy babies, laughter,

  284. enjoy the noise that your kids are making.

  285. But live life to its fullest, because these things.

  286. They all evaporate before the morning is done. So I

  287. know some of you are a bit uneasy right now,

  288. and you're going that student minister is just telling us

  289. to just enjoy, and he's.

  290. He's getting a little off chain here. How do you

  291. bring me back into this?

  292. How do you walk me away from I have to

  293. enjoy this to the fullest, and yet that could be indulgence. Well,

  294. I think Chapter two points to that. It says there

  295. are limits to these things. There is a time to rejoice,

  296. there is a time to mourn. There are limits to

  297. these things. But I think the Bible's word is clear.

  298. We can receive life as a gift from God. We

  299. can live light, we can live in the light of

  300. His coming judgment, and we can enjoy life on the

  301. way it's paired with the fear of God. It's it's

  302. stewardship that the things that you're enjoying, it's not it's

  303. not owning you.

  304. You understand.

  305. Stewardship good stewardship. We enjoy the gifts in light of

  306. who God is, in light of his character, knowing that

  307. one day he will judge how we have stewarded this

  308. life well.

  309. So enjoy it.

  310. Enjoy now, enjoy because it's fading fast, we are evaporating.

  311. We can live life in light of knowing that we're

  312. not living long. But I think this is actually the key.

  313. We can live this life well and enjoy it because

  314. life is not long. Let's see that as we face

  315. the second observation. The second observation is we're not living

  316. very divong and that starts in chapter one, Chapter twelve,

  317. Verse one. Remember also, your Creator, in the days of

  318. your youth, before the evil days come and the years

  319. draw near, of which you will say, I have no

  320. pleasure in them, Before the sun and the light, and

  321. the moon and the stars are darkened, and the clouds

  322. return after their rain, In the day when the keepers

  323. of the house tremble, and the strong men are and

  324. the grinders cease because they are few, and those who

  325. look through the windows are dimmed, and the door on

  326. the street is shut, when the sound and the grinding

  327. is low, and one rises at the sound of a

  328. bird and all the daughters of song are brought low.

  329. They are afraid also of what is high, and the

  330. terrors are in the way. The almond tree blossoms, the

  331. grasshopper drags itself along, and desire fails because man is

  332. going to his eternal home, and the mourners go about

  333. in the streets. Before the silver cord is snapped and

  334. the golden bowl is broken, where the picture is shattered

  335. at the fountain, or the wheel broken the cistern, and

  336. the dust returns to the earth as it was, and

  337. the spirit returns to God who gave it. Vanity of vanities,

  338. says the preacher.

  339. All is vanity.

  340. This is God's word, and he is inspiring this preacher

  341. to use some of the most flowery Hebrew to treat

  342. with dignity, the breakdown of the body as it goes

  343. into death, evaborating before the morning is done. Precious in

  344. the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.

  345. But this is an urgent motivator. Death has not knocked

  346. on your door. That death rattle is not roaring, yet

  347. we better get after it. May this motivate you. The

  348. preacher gives us this picture of a house breaking down

  349. and I think we do everything we can to give

  350. this thing some curb appeal, but it's coming down. Will

  351. you remember your creator before it's too late. We're gonna

  352. bring this poetry to life. I think it needs to

  353. happen because Solomon is using some interesting language that he

  354. he uses, just like in the Song of Solomon. He's

  355. saying these things and these are things that I observe,

  356. and this is these are your body parts.

  357. Here it goes. I want to warn you.

  358. That the fog rolls in thick from the bay, blankets

  359. the hills. It evaporates before the morning is done. He's

  360. painting this picture. There are three times he says, remember, remember, Remember,

  361. remember your creator before it's too late. The clouds return

  362. after the rain. Just as one storm passes, another one comes.

  363. The troubles keep coming. You don't have enough time to recover,

  364. and one after another pain and ache and injury, and

  365. you can't recover. I identify that when I go to sleep.

  366. Sometimes I wake up and I'm like, did I what

  367. did I do yesterday? I just slept. That's what caused

  368. that pain, is just sleeping. Did you remember your creator

  369. by enjoying health before it evaporates? The keepers of the

  370. house tremble. This is a picture of your arms as

  371. they weaken, and the strength you once took for granted.

  372. Poof, it's gone.

  373. Did you remember your creator by working hard and resting

  374. well before your hands gave out? The strong men are bent.

  375. It's painting a picture of their legs beginning to stoop

  376. and their back is hunched over. Did you remember your creator?

  377. Did you remember your creator by dancing with your spouse

  378. in the kitchen or chasing your kids in the backyard.

  379. Did you remember your creator while walking with a friend

  380. on the street. The grinders cease because they are few.

  381. Your teeth are falling out and evaporating. Did you remember

  382. your creator by savoring those delicious meals that slow cooked

  383. smoked brisket. Did you remember your creator with those teeth

  384. as you smiled at your loved ones around the table?

  385. Did you remember your creator? Those who look through the

  386. windows are dimmed. There's a picture of your vision evaporating.

  387. Did you remember your creator using those eyes not to

  388. look at the screens that we look at, but to

  389. truly enjoy looking at the faces of whom you love.

  390. Did you remember your creator when you were given vision

  391. to look at sunsets. Did you remember your creator? Opportunity

  392. after opportunity is vanishing, and the doors on the street

  393. are shut. This is the picture of your hearing or

  394. your voice evaporating. Did you remember your creator? When you

  395. heard the songs of your children as they sing? Did

  396. you join them, singing with them? Did you remember your Creator?

  397. And then one rises up the sound of a bird,

  398. and all the daughters of the song are brought low?

  399. This is fanning, a picture of waking up early.

  400. Tired. You feel that right now?

  401. I feel that not being able to enjoy the birds

  402. chirping evaporates. Did you remember your creator in the fresh

  403. hours of the day, when.

  404. Rest truly was RESTful?

  405. Do you remember? And he says, they are afraid of

  406. what is high? The grasshopper drags itself along. Desire fails,

  407. your bravery and your desires evaborating. Did you remember your

  408. creator by stepping out in courage, by moving freely, and

  409. by enjoying the spouse of your youth? Did you remember

  410. your creator? The almond tree blossoms. This one, I like

  411. it's painting a picture of your hair suddenly growing white.

  412. I'm getting it a little bit on the side. Some

  413. of y'all have it a little bit more, and then poof,

  414. it's gone evaborates. Then comes the big poof. The cord snaps,

  415. the picture and the cistern are broken, and life pours out,

  416. and dust returns to the earth, and the spirit returns

  417. to God who gave it. Vanity of vanity, says the preacher,

  418. All is vanity, and the fog rolls in thick from

  419. the bay, blankets the mountains, evaporates before the morning is done.

  420. That you remember your creator before it's too late, the

  421. Preacher's urging us, Look, remember your creator in the days

  422. of your youth.

  423. But who's that creator? Creators Jesus.

  424. Jesus is our creator, for by him all things were created,

  425. and all things through him were made. He's before all things,

  426. and in him all of existence is held together. Have

  427. you remembered your creator, the creator who made it all,

  428. who subjected himself to this fog through his own humanity,

  429. who stewarded this life so well, and used that on

  430. the cross for you so that you might be able

  431. to enter into the Master's enjoyment.

  432. Life is his gift.

  433. Enjoy this while remembering him.

  434. And whatever you do, work hardily for the Lord.

  435. We're serving the Lord Jesus Christ, and I think as

  436. we navigate this, there are times when we fail. There

  437. are times when I enjoy things and properly. There's times

  438. when I'm sitting back and maybe I could have a

  439. little more fun. But it's His righteousness that we are in.

  440. Should you trust in him today? You don't know how

  441. fast this all goes by. You blink and it's gone

  442. in an instant where evaporating. Will you trust and remember

  443. your Creator today? The urgency is to offer God your

  444. very best years. And I know that some of us

  445. are going well, those years are back here. That's not

  446. what the preacher's getting at today. Today is your very

  447. best years. Get at it today. Remember your Creator, because

  448. we're not here very long. So how do we live

  449. well knowing that we're not here very long? By knowing

  450. who he is and knowing that you're his, you can

  451. live life well remembering your Creator. Now, he's the greatest

  452. gift there ever was, there ever will be when he

  453. is worthy of The Preacher's conclusion in verse thirteen, he says,

  454. this is the end of the matter. All has been heard.

  455. Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the

  456. whole duty of man, for God will bring every deed

  457. into judgment, with every secret thing, whether good or evil.

  458. Will you enjoy this life and light of that fear God,

  459. enjoy his gifts, keep his commands. It's his honest cry

  460. the preacher, and it's our joyful confession. Life is short.

  461. It's a fog rolling in thick from the bay, and

  462. it evaporates before the morning is done. How now should

  463. we then live? Would you stand with me and pray,

  464. Lord God, Heavenly Father, We thank you, We thank you

  465. for today, We thank you for the light is sweet,

  466. it is pleasant. There are many things to rejoice, and

  467. may we rejoice in them, knowing who you are. You

  468. are a good God, You are responsible for our judgment.

  469. May we steward this life well. May we glorify you

  470. and enjoy you forever. In your Son's name, we pray

  471. Jesus Christ.

  472. Amen.